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Andenogy, s cancel me I'm so
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what's up? Positive bitches? How
are we doing today? If you're

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hearing this episode, then you were
meant to be here. So keep listening

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on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes
we will laugh, other times a baby

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girl, We're gonna cry, but
we will always walk away feeling our most

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empowered positive bitch self. That is
Babe in true connection with herself. On

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this podcast, we unbecome who we
are not so we can fully step into

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exactly who we came here to be. So maybe you've outgrown your old life

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and you're wondering what do I do
now? So many of us cling to

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our familiarity, and trust me,
I get it. We want to go

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back to what we know because it
seems easier, but it's only easier in

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the moment. Staying in stagnant waters
will keep us permanently miser bull You,

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if you've come across this video,
most likely have quantumlyked in the recent weeks

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with the solar eclipse. You most
likely are experiencing changes in your life right

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now that seem pretty scary because you
have never been faced with these circumstances.

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Maybe you're feeling lost or confused,
but you also have this inner knowing of,

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well, if this is happening,
it must be happening for my highest

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good. Let me just tell you
the universe does not happen to us.

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It unfolds for us. And if
we're having trouble understanding that, we need

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to listen to today's episode. Today
we're going to see our circumstance, as

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painful as it may be, from
a higher perspective so we can reclaim our

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power. Let me tell you something, the truth. It might be ugly,

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it might be scary, it might
be frightening. The baby girl,

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the truth will set you free.
So how ugly is your truth? And

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I want you to scream it out
today, because that is what we positive

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bitches are all about. We're not
about this toxic positivity. We're not about

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pretending like everything is okay. Sometimes
we are a beautiful mess. So let

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it be, let it be,
Let it be. Before we get into

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today's episode. It's only right that
I remind you if you have not yet

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gotten your copy of Show Up as
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It comes out April thirtieth, but
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master magnetic energy so you can get
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by holding this book, you're going
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You're going to learn about how to
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of your life you can think about. It's in this book. I really

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Without further ado, let's get into
today's episode. We are going to

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sometimes feel scared, but that cannot
be a red light for us to stop

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living our life it can't be.
Any time we feel scared, I want

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us to pay special attention because that
usually means something really amazing could possibly be

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taking place. You have to understand, we're always going to want to go

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back to the familiar because our ego
wants to organize this unpredictable, non linear

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world into stories. It wants to
know when do I go to work,

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what time do I wake up?
What is the route to get there?

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How do I be this person?
And it wants to repeatedly do that over

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and over and over again. But
life does not work that way, now,

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does it. No, we are
going to go through changes, and

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when there is change in our life, I truly see it as an invitation

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to level up. I see it
as an invitation Nature's way of interrupting the

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known, so that we can go
further than we've ever gone before, further

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we've ever even thought we could go. Change can be scary. Change can

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be overwhelming, but it also can
be the best thing that has ever happened

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to you. If you know you're
not enjoying the life that you've been living,

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most likely you've outgrown it and in
order to take the next step,

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change has to happen. God is
the spirit that calls us to adventure.

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If you're feeling that internal call,
listen to it. Don't let your ego

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lead you with fear. Your ego
will say no, that's not you.

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No, you can't do that.
That's that's not how you live. You're

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not allowed to have more joy,
more fun, more love. You have

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to accept the bare minimum you have
to settle. You have to stay in

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this life. That's what our ego
tells us out of fear. If you

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are making decisions out of fear,
you're not making them from the right place.

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We need to be making decisions from
our intuitive self. We need to

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be making decisions from a place of
even if it's scary, I'm gonna do

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it anyway because I know this is
a bridge to a better life. Sometimes

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we're gonna be scared, but guess
what, we have to move forward any

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way. Our feeling of being scared
is not final, and also it can't

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dictate our whole entire life. We
should listen to our emotions. They are

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the passengers on the plane, and
if a passenger asks for water, we

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would acknowledge that passenger. However,
our feelings are not the pilot. They

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are not the ones steering the plane. Our brain will always want to go

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back to what it has known.
It wants uniformity, it wants direction,

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it wants familiarity. So, if
you're outgrowing your old life and you're feeling

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a lot of pain, a lot
of this is simply a brain game.

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A lot of it is a brain
game. You have to get your brain

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on board with what your new life
is going to look like. Instead of

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your brain telling you who you're going
to be and how to live out a

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fear, we have to start telling
our brain, no, actually, this

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is what I'm choosing out of free
will, free will over fear, Because

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if we're choosing out of fear,
we're actually not using our free will.

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We're letting our monkey brain, our
tribal brain, make all the decisions for

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us. Looking back is not going
to help you. It will cause you

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to trip while trying to move forward. Now, there is a story in

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the Bible, and it doesn't matter
if you read the Bible or not.

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We can learn from anything in any
one. Genesis nineteen tells the story of

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the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah.
Lot, Abraham's nephew lived in Sodom with

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his family. His daughters were engaged
to local men. Lot was sitting at

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the gate of Sodom, the area
where financial and judicial transactions took place.

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When two angels came into town.
Lot invited them to stay with his family.

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After a rather exciting evening, the
angels made sure Lot, his wife,

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and his two daughters left before God
destroyed the city. As they fled,

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the angels warned them, escape for
your life, and do not look

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behind you, and do not stay
anywhere in the valley. Escape to the

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mountains, or you will be swept
away. So these two angels come to

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town and they tell a Lot,
you gotta leave, and don't look back,

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because this place is going to be
destroyed. So what happens is Lot

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runs. His daughters are close behind
him, but his wife, his wife

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from behind him, looks back,
and she became a pillar of salt because

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she turned and watched the flaming soul
fur fall from the sky, consuming everything

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she valued. It then consumed her. The Hebrew term for looked back means

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more than to glance over one shoulder. It means to regard, to consider,

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to pay close attention to the scriptures, don't say whether her death was

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a punishment for valuing her old life
so much that she hesitated in obeying,

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or if it was a simple consequence
of her reluctance to leave her life.

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Either way, she identified too much
with her past, too much with her

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old story, too much with her
old self concept that she neglected to look

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forward. If you don't look forward, this story is telling us you'll be

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so consumed by your past, so
doomed by your past, that you will

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just turn into a pillar of salt. How do we move forward? Let

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me tell you first how you're not
going to be able to move forward.

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This is what not to do.
Stop looking back at your past. It's

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not here right now. It's not
here right now. And if you keep

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looking backwards, that's where your mind's
gonna go, That's where your emotions are

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gonna go, that's where your whole
entire energy is going to go back to.

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And then what happens. We end
up dragging our past into our present

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and then our future, and we
end up repeatedly manifesting the same emotional outcomes

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over and over and over again.
Looking back, We'll turn into a pillar

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of salt, will fall apart because
we're so consumed by what was that we

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don't even have a chance to look
at what can be. We don't even

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have a chance to figure out what
do I want to create? What do

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I want? Because we are so
consumed by who we were dating, the

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old job, the old city,
the old friends, that we completely lose

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sight of the fact that we are
still alive. Baby girl, if you're

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still listening to my podcast, you
are alive and well. You have a

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whole, entire present moment. You
should be paying attention to your past.

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Let it die out. And how
do you let your past die You start

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it of your attention. Don't look
back like Lot's wife, because if something's

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meant to be with you in your
now or in your future, it will

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circle back around and come back so
fast it will come back. But you

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looking back at what was will not
help you bring it into your present moment

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in a positive way. It will
only cause you more hurt. If there's

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someone from your past that you want
to bring back into your life, you

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cannot keep giving them all of your
energy. Why that's energetically chasing them,

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And anything we chase, whether it's
a bugger boy, will run away.

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Also, what would be the point
of being so upset about our past that

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we then also give up our present
moment. Looking back to your past.

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If there's something from your past that
you actually want to bring into your present,

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you want it back. Looking at
your past will not help you do

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it. Why Because you're looking at
it through a lack lens. You're saying,

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I had it, I had it, I had it, and I

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don't have it anymore. So what
are you doing broadcasting lack and attracting more

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lack. All we're doing is taking
the negative emotions from our past and repeatedly

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manifesting similar emotional outcomes. And can
I just say, can I just be

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so for real? If something wants
to leave your life, let it,

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Oh, let it. We cannot
spend all of our time trying to tie

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people back to us. We can't
spend all of our time trying to force

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people or things or situations into our
life. If your old reality wants to

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go, let it go, because
let me just tell you right now,

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something so much better is going to
take take its place. I recently have

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left New York for the time being, and I've been in flow Rida and

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I've made new friends and I'm making
new connections, and I'm allowing myself to

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try new classes, do new activities, just be a new person, and

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oh my god, does it feel
so good to do. But if I

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keep looking back at my past,
I'm gonna get stagnant, I'm gonna get

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stuck. And if I want to
bring things from my past into my future,

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if I want any chance of that
happening, I cannot be harboring on

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past negative emotions. It doesn't get
us anywhere. No one is worth you

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not being true and authentic and alive
in your present moment. No one is

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worth you giving up your present moment. Nothing is worth you giving up your

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present moment. So if we know
that focusing on our past cause us to

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repeatedly manifest negative emotional outcomes, it
energetically chases thing from the past, so

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it doesn't actually help us bring that
person or job back. We know it

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doesn't actually help at all. So
what would help? You have to create

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a new vision to move towards.
Right now, all you know is your

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past, that is what's in your
mind. So what do you keep doing?

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You keep going back to your past. You keep going back to your

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past because that is your structure.
You have to give your mind something to

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work towards. As much as we
are divine, our bodies are very much

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like machines, and you have to
input where you want your mind to go

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and what you want your mind to
start to pay attention to, because that

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is what is going to manifest.
That is what you're going to bring into

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your reality. When you think about
graduating from high school, you might have

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some sadness about it, But what
overpowers the sadness the excitement for going to

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college because you know that there's something
else on the other side. You're moving

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towards something. When you're in a
job and you get promoted, you're not

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so upset that you got promoted.
You're excited that you're now going to be

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with a new title and more money. It's easier to see in certain circumstance

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why having a vision is so important. But when we go through a breakup

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or where you're moving to a new
city, sometimes we're overcome with fear that

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it's so much easier to focus on
what we've known rather than what we can

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create, what we want to move
towards. You have to develop a vision

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so clearly, so beautiful, so
exciting that your brain has a new direction

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and three, three, three on
my clock, like every freaking week that

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your brain has a new direction to
move towards. Why is this important?

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Well, we need to get your
brain on board. But two, if

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you don't give yourself a direction,
baby girl, the devil will. Okay,

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the dark forces of this world will, your insecurities will. If you

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don't give yourself a direction to move
towards, all of this festering negativity will

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take you down. My mom has
always said that idle time is a devil's

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playground, and there's another quote that
says the devil finds work for idle hands.

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Not having a vision for where you
want to go will cause you to

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be so upset about your past,
cause you to ache, ache, ache,

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and not allow you to be excited
for anything. And we need to

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get you excited. So what is
it that you want to create in your

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present moment? What is it that
you want to create in your future?

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What do you want to move towards? The world is quite literally your oyster.

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The universe is constantly twenty four to
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what are you putting out there?
What are you broadcasting? We have to

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become so clear with ourselves, have
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our wine, and the how we'll
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to a podcast and I remember them
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we need some newness so we don't
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certainty. So as we're creating this
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it on this podcast, I said, you need one foot in what you

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know, because you'll be too terrified
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that they referred to as the meaningful
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that we've talked about before. We
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to know that we have a roof
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We need to know that we have
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to breathe and a bed to go
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always the same, we wear the
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have the same conversations, we will
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one foot in the known, in
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in the uncertainty, in the variety. So Let's say you have completely outgrown

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your fish bowl and you are now
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of us have been feeling and doing. I want you, as you're creating

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a new vision, also think to
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can have in my life. What
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my life so I am not completely
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yoga. I need a consistent workout
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of that schedule for me to feel
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something that's body based so that your
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body. Any sort of meditation,
movement, journaling. It will allow you

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to be in your own body instead
of body bouncing into your past or into

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your future. Take space to just
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because if you're in the unknown,
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of emotions, but also a lot
of fear, a lot of fear,

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And if fear is the loudest voice
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going to be making the decisions for
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have a vision for the future,
we not only want to introduce or reintroduce

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familiar habits, whether it's cooking or
doing a workout schedule, but we also

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want to make space to listen,
to get quiet. There are so many

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distractions. The world is moving energetically
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mean that we have to too.
That doesn't mean we need to wreck ourselves

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and follow along with everybody else.
Take your time, breathe it out,

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feel it out, live it out. If you are not sure what to

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do, it's okay, make the
best decision you can possibly make and rely

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on your intuition. That's all.
Understand that the season that you're in right

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now, it's not forever. It
might be painful, it might be chaotic,

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but it's not forever. And one
day you're gonna have so much consistency,

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so much certainty, that you're probably
gonna be bored and say, damn,

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I wish I could go back when
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of me. I really missed that
season when everything was new and everything was

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exciting. Now it's like I'm a
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you know what, sometimes being a
master on the mountain isn't as wonderful as

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being a new beginner, because the
new beginner on the mountain has new insights

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and new ideas and things about things
that maybe the Master would have never even

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went so far to conceive everything that
is happening in your life. I promise

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you it's happening for you. We
have to remember the Book of Job.

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He didn't understand that the devil and
God made a deal. He didn't understand

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that the devil was just playing with
him. He thought, well, his

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friends really thought that he must have
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They thought that he hurt God's feelings, and so God was punishing him.

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But really, God told the devil, you can pick on Job because

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he will never turn against me.
The devil picked Joe because he was such

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an amazing upright man. Instead of
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how about we just get ourselves through
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whatever it may be, this is
happening for me. And I might

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not know why now, but you
know, eventually I will think about the

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past experiences. You didn't know how
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did they Of course they did,
because they always do. We were never

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promised we were always going to know
why things were happening. But what we

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were promised was a human experience where
we could feel range of different emotions,

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happy, sad, mad, glad, surprised, certain, uncertain. Instead

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of looking at this time so fearful, can we look at this as if

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we were a child, Can we
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the world in wonder and awe.
I was with my cousin today and we

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were walking around and we sat down
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this waterfall. And the waterfall is
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of the ground and it hit the
kid right in the eye. And we

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both went ooh because we thought he
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have hurt him. And you know
what he did. He laughed. He

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goes ha ha ha ha ha ha
ha ha ha ha. This kid.

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I was shocked. I almost started
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where water shot into his eye.
It definitely hurt him, and he laughed

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at it. What if we took
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you know what, I'm just gonna
bring some humor to the table. I

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don't know why this is happening.
I am so confused. But you know

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what, I'm just gonna laugh about
this. I will just send my love

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to this or that past person,
and I'm just gonna keep it moving and

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grooving because I really don't know what
exactly is going on right now. And

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you know what, knowing why is
something happening is really not my job.

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Experiencing it that's my job. Feeling
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give yourself some compassion in this season. Just try your best. And what

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are we doing. We are creating
a new vision for the future. We

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are still incorporating habits that allow us
to have certainty, like working out,

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like taking a walk, grounding ourselves. And what are we doing. We're

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taking space to listen, through meditation, through speaking to God. We're taking

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space to allow in miracles, to
allow in divinity. My dad is getting

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a knee surgery and he was so
concerned about anesthesia first because he never had

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it before. And my mom was
telling him, Oh, the anesthesia is

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the easiest part because you don't have
to do anything. You have to get

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yourself there, you have to get
yourself home. You're gonna have to heal

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afterwards. But the anesthesia, you
don't have to do anything. All you

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have to do is receive it.
And that's exactly how this universe works,

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That's how God works. We don't
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We just have to be open to
receiving the blessings and the miracles.

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It is like anesthesia. Yeah,
you have to do some aligned action.

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You gotta heal afterwards, you gotta
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you have to really understand that there
are some things that are your job,

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like knowing your vision and not harping
on the paths. And then the other

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part of this is God's job,
the how, the unfolding of it all,

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the miracle, the mystical, the
mystery. That's God's job. Don't

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worry about that part. In my
book Show Up as Her, I talk

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a lot about seeing things from God's
point of view in the last chapter instead

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of seeing it from our human point
of view, because our human point of

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view has a lot of funky ideas
about planet Earth, it has a lot

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of funky ideas about our self confidence, our self worth, who we are,

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and that can be really damning when
we're going through a breakup or going

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through a transition, and we so
badly just want to go back to what

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was easy and familiar. I want
you, for a second, to raise

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your perspective from your human eyes to
God's eyes or your higher cell's eyes.

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What do you think they would tell
you about this situation? Would they tell

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you that you lost the love of
your life and are never gonna have love

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again. Would they tell you that
you're doomed. Would they tell you that

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you're gonna die alone. Will they
tell you that you're never gonna find another

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job. Would they tell you that
you're gonna be friendless forever? Or would

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they say, actually, this is
unfolding for you so you can get more,

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because you've been asking for more,
so that you can receive what's actually

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in alignment with you, rather than
just accepting and settling things that feel so

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super wrong to you. You've been
asking for more, and now you're getting

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more. Does it look like exactly
how you thought? Maybe not? Does

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it feel we feel like rainbows and
butterflies? Oh definitely not. Oh definitely

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not, because we're human? But
is it working out for your highest good?

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I have no reason to believe anything. Then that is absolutely true.

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Why Because every time I thought something
was the worst thing that ever happened to

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me, it ended up being the
best every time. Every time. Consistently

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prune your mind to find the silver
lining, Consistently massage your neurological pathways to

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find the flowers in the mud.
And if you're having trouble finding the flowers

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in the mud, that is fine. If you don't have the resources,

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that's fine, But you can be
resourceful and plant your own damned seeds.

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Do what you need to do.
Create the new vision, and take it

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day by day by day. Whatever
you're going through, you're gonna get through

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it. You're going to get through
it. You wouldn't be experiencing this if

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you could not. And I refuse
to believe. Well, Number one,

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why do I refuse to believe this? I refuse to believe that everything is

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random and nothing makes sense because that
feels terrible. But also, I have

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too much evidence for the contrary.
I have too much evidence that things do

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happen for our best self or alignment, for aligning ourselves with our true desires.

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I'm not gonna sit here and tell
you to revel in the chaos,

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absolutely not create a vision, have
hobbies and activities that are familiar to ground.

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You create space to listen to your
guides, your intuition, connect with

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God. My mom recently sent me
this novena and it's all about surrendering to

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Jesus. And again, if you're
not a Catholic or a Christian, or

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I don't know what a Protestants believe, I have no idea, it doesn't

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matter. You can talk to Jesus. Jesus is our brother. Oh my

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God, I could cry. I
could cry that Jesus loves us so much

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and he is our brother. I
don't care where you come from or what

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walk of life you are. He
is an ascended master and he loves you,

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and he loves me, and He's
always there for us. Okay,

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And if you're really struggling right now, connect to him. Obviously, I'm

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in the trenches with you, guys. Obviously I'm experiencing this too. And

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I did this prayer last night.
If anybody wants it, just DM me.

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I'll send you the file, the
whole thing. But I did this

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Navina last night, and I just
had a beautiful dream that there was a

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huge wooden cross outside my window,
and I just know that Jesus heard me,

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and he hears you too. You
just have to call on him.

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Just raise your voice and use your
voice. He's listening. God is listening,

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the ascended Masters, Mother Mary,
she's listening. Open yourself to these

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beings and let them help you.
Please if you want. It's the nine

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It's a nine day novena where you
do a little prayer every single day,

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and I'm on day two. But
at the end of each day it says,

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Oh Jesus, I surrender myself to
you, take care of everything.

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Oh Jesus, I surrender myself to
you. Take care of everything. Oh

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Jesus, I surrender myself to you, take care of everything. Oh Jesus,

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I surrender myself to you. Take
care of everything. Oh Jesus,

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I surrender myself to you. Take
care of everything. If you are struggling,

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please DM me. I will send
you this novena. You can also

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just use the exact words I just
said, but there's more in this written

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out pamphlet. I know it can
be so scary. I sometimes feel scared

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too, but that is never ever
a good enough reason to stop moving forward.

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It's never a good enough reason to
go back to our past, because

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we're scared or nervous, or we
fear the unknown. It's not a good

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enough reason. It's just not.
It's not. We can't keep replaying the

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same cycles or rewriting the same stories
because we're scared. You're gonna be scared.

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It's not a good enough reason to
stop. You have to move forward.

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And how do you move forward.
You create a vision, you have

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familiarity, you listen to God,
you open yourself up to Jesus. And

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I'm telling you it will make it
easier. It's not gonna be a cake

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walk all the time. That's not
why we came to this planet. But

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it will help you. It will
help you. And this prayer is a

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gift my mom gave to me,
and I will be happy to give it

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to you as well. Goodness,
I love you so much. Thank you

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for being here with me. If
you enjoyed the podcast, please support the

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launch of Show Up as Her and
I love you and I'm here with you,

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and so is Jesus, so is
God, so is the Blessed Mother.

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And we're gonna get through this together. I will see you in the

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