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Hey, hey, hey, I'm
back with something for you to think about.

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I had to find myself. Let
that sink in. I had to

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find myself. A lot of people
get to that point in life where they've

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gone through so much trauma in their
relationships that they finally think about self.

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Self begin to matter, They realize
the crap that they've been taken, the

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crap they've been allowing, the crap
they've been enduring, and finally they get

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to a point of saying, I
had to find myself. This is the

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reason. And I tell you you
need to find yourself first. You need

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to find yourself first before you get
in a relationship with anyone. You need

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to make sure you know yourself.
Figure you out first. It will save

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you so much trauma in your life. I promise you, I guarantee you,

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and I challenge you, you,
you, and you to find yourself

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first. So many people, so
many are seeking love. They're chasting after

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love, but they don't love self. They don't know what love is.

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So people get into relationships, no
foundations, none. They get into relationships

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chasing sex, looks, money,
material things, people's titles and positions,

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everything but the right thing. You
get into these relationships. You get into

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these situations with individuals who have the
same like mind as yours, are worse

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that person, who is that?
Or worse person? Oh my goodness,

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you have gotten yourself into something.
You've gotten yourself into something bad, very

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very unhealthy, very very just bad, and you will feel the effects.

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People get to the point of I
have to find myself because people give up

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so much trying to satisfy, please, appease they're significant other that they lose

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sight of who they are as an
individual. You lose sight of self because

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you're so focused on trying to make
your significant other happy. I've talked about

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it plenty of times. You get
with someone and you forget about yourself.

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All you want to do is make
him happy or make her happy. You

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do things you don't want to do, You allow and accept things you don't

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want to, allowing yourself all in
the name of what you think is love.

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True love, you wouldn't have to
do all of that foolishness. You

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wouldn't have to go along with some
of the crap people go along with in

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true love. That's why I tell
you people don't know what love is.

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If you don't know what it is
you don't know what it is, and

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therefore you will do anything or almost
anything. Some people will do anything.

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You're out there finding yourself on drugs. You allow your significant other to put

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your own drugs. I've talked about
it before. You think that's love,

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that's not love. It's not love
at all. You allow them to get

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you into criminal situations where you've committed
crimes. I mean, people are doing

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such foolishness in the name of love. Some people finally get to a point

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in life where they can see what
they're doing and they finally real lies.

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Oh my goodness, I can't do
this anymore. Thank god, Thank god.

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People. Some people get to that
point, but most don't. Some

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people they get into relationships, they
stay in those relationships for their friends and

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family because they want everybody happy.
They want people to think that their relationship

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is so great. They don't want
to seem like a failure. It doesn't

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mean you're a failure if your relationship
don't work. It is so very important,

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I mean super uper important. I
know that's not a word before anyone

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says anything, not in this contact
anyway. But people they get to a

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point in life where they can't see
they're blind. But it's so so important

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that you find yourself first. That's
why I talk to you all of the

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time about looking at you, facing
you in the mirror. If you can't

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do that, that's a problem because
because you should be able to do that.

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If you can't face yourself, you
definitely have issues you need to resolve.

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Face yourself, deal with whatever.
Stop blaming other people for whom you

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have chosen to become. You don't
have to choose drugs and alcohol because your

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significant other is doing it. You
don't have to choose to commit a crime

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because they are doing it. You
don't have to choose anything that's wrong or

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bad for you because of a significant
other that's not the right person for you.

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Some of you get into these relationships
and you know, you know,

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you have a sense that it's not
the right person for you. But because

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you want to please your mom's,
your dads, your other family members and

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friends, you don't want to disappoint
anybody while you're disappointing yourself the whole time.

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It don't make sense, But see, you can't. You cannot grasps

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that, you cannot understand that,
you cannot comprehend it because of your mindset.

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You want what you want, you
feel how you feel, you thinking,

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how you're thinking, and it don't
matter what's right in your face.

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You still want what you want and
who you want. Then some of you

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are in high positions. You're struggling
in your relationship, You're not happy.

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Then you get to a point you
don't care who you are, what position

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you're in, celebrity or non celebrity. You get to a point where you

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cannot handle it anymore, and you
know if you don't leave, something really,

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really bad may happen. Because you're
at that point where you just can't

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handle it anymore. It's too much. You've completely lost yourself. Some of

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you have opened yourself up to allowing
your significant other to repeatedly cheat on you

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because you love that person so much. You think that's the way to love

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him or her by giving them that
pass to do it, But it's not.

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That is not the proper way to
love of anyone. Some of you

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are treated like crap behind closed doors. Then you get around people and you

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act as if you have the best
relationship ever, faking and pretending. I've

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told you over and over it does
nothing to help you. It does not

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make your life better. It doesn't. It keeps you right in the same

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state of mind that you're in,
that negative place so many people are in

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these types of relationships. You've totally
lost a sense of who you are.

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You've given everything to your significant other. You've got nothing in return, but

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you kept giving. You kept giving, You kept giving because you was hoping,

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praying and wishing that he or she
would change. The whole time you

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was losing a sense of yourself,
and the whole time, you are the

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one who should have changed for you. You know, it just never ever

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ceased to amaze me. When people
say I left because I had to find

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myself, you act as if,
oh, you're doing something that's wow,

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she has to find herself for he
has to find himself. You should have

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done that before you got into the
relationship. I'm just telling you like it

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is. You should have done that
before you got into the relationship. Granted,

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it's wonderful, thank God that you
did get to that place, but

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don't think you've done something just something
that's just totally unbelievable. You've done what

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you should have done in the beginning. You went backwards. You did it

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backwards, and I'm not putting anyone
down for doing that. I'm just saying

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you could have saved yourself a lot
of headache, a lot of heartaches if

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you do it from the start,
because if you do it from the start,

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it's gonna prevent you from getting into
bad relationships with bad people. It's

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gonna prevent you from putting in all
of your time and effort year after year

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after year for years with the wrong
person if you do it from the start,

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Because if you do it from the
start, you see things that a

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lot of people don't see it because
they refuse to see it because of their

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hearts and minds. As I said, I'm not trying to come down on

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anyone who have gone through and they
finally said I have to find myself or

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I have to find myself. I'm
not getting down on anyone for saying that.

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All I'm saying is you should have
done that from the beginning. I've

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been there. I have been there
myself. That's why I know I can

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say it. A lot of people
have the mindset, well, let me

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experience you know this or that.
I mean to me, that's ignorant,

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that's definitely immaturity, because why would
you want to go through something when people

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telling you a better way, but
some people just want to graduate from the

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school of hard knocks. Then let
me tell you, you will have many,

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many, I'm teen chances of knocking
your head up against that brick wall

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when you get into relationship with the
wrong person or an individual who have a

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like mind. I'm telling you you're
gonna go through some drama when that mindset

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is negative. You and that comfortable
and familiar state, Oh, you're gonna

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go through some drama. You are
guaranteed to go through some drama. Definitely.

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Can people change, Absolutely, I
don't care how far down the rabbit

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hole you are. You can change, but you have to want to.

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People can do whatever they choose used
to do. You just have to want

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to do it. You have to
want to do it. I want it

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for you. Other people want it
for you, but you have to want

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it for yourself. Never stay in
a relationship because of other people. I

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don't care who they are. Never, when you're going through misery, you

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are self inflicting that pain upon yourself. I'm sorry, I have to tell

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you the truth. It's self inflicted. Anytime you take it, you go

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alone. You allow an accept you
are self inflicting pain upon yourself because you're

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the one who's allowing it in your
life. People do it for many reasons,

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a plethora of reasons, but they're
all wrong and they only amount up

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to excuses. People make all types
of excuses because remain where they are,

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even though where they are is a
bad place. You know it's a bad

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place, but you want to stay
there because you want this person to change

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so much. You're believing they are
changed. You love them so much.

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But you don't know what love is. Obviously, you don't know what love

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is if you're taking that, if
you're going through that, you don't know

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anyone who's listening to the sound of
my voice right now, and you're going

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through foolishness, unnecessary drama. You
don't love yourself and you don't know what

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love is. I'm standing on it. I'm standing on it. There is

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no way you love yourself and going
through unnecessary drama. There's no way you

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love yourself and you're inflicting self self. Listen to the word self inflicted pain.

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You do it to yourself when you
allow it and accepted because you know,

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I always talk about creating those musters
in your life. You created it

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when you let your significant other treat
you like crap and you go along with

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it, You allow and accepted.
All you do is cry and complain,

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but you still allow and accepted.
You created that muster. You created him

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to be a muster, You creating
her to be a muster in your life.

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Some of you go and go and
go and go and go until you

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get to that place of needing to
find yourself. And that's wonderful. That's

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wonderful because some people they rather kill
themselves them to remain where they are in

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their relationships. That's crazy, but
that's the mindset of people. Some people

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get to that point instead of getting
out walking away, they're so stressed out

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that they would rather harm self or
kill self. You have people who think

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like that because they're being mistreated.
They love this person so much and he's

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dogging her or she's dogging him.
Please, no one is worth it.

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If people don't love you enough to
treat you right, why shadow tear over

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them? Why want to hurt yourself? Why want to hurt them? No,

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it's not worth it. They are
not worth it. So please,

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please, please, please find yourself. From the beginning, I tell people

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all of the time. Get to
know yourself. Deal with your unresolved hurts

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and pain. Deal with that you
can't change it, deal with it,

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accept that it has happened, and
move on in your life. Let it

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go forgive move on. You're stuck
where you're act mentally because you've given power

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to those memories. You keep forming
those thoughts in your mind, so you've

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given power to those memories. The
more power you give to the memories,

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the more power for the thoughts are
and you develop those feelings that I always

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tell you about. Now you're walking
around still angry, still mad, still

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sad. Then you get into relationships
with people who think like you. They

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have their own unresolved issues. Now
you're in a mess because they're about self

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satisfaction. Although you're about satisfying them. They are about self satisfaction, which

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don't involve satisfying you. Now you're
in a bad situation. But you're trying

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and trying and trying and trying and
trying to make it work. But you

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can't. You cannot make a relationship
work on your own. It takes two

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people. It's a must. But
so many people spend so many years of

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their lives so many years of their
lives in the same mental space. You've

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heard me say. People accomplish great
things. Many people have, They have

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accomplished great things, but internally they
are still in the same place suffering.

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A lot of people are suffering,
but they're putting on that smile, pretending

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everything is okay when it's not.
You're never gonna become better if you continue

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to do that. I don't care
what you accomplish, who you become.

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If you still have that unhealed area
inside of you, it's going to affect

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your life in some kind of way. You're going to have problems in your

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relationships, guaranteed. Guaranteed, many
are going to lose self in their relationships.

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Many, many people right now listening
to the sound of my voice have

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lost self. If you haven't lost
yourself a sense of who you are,

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you know someone who has. You
do it to yourself. You may not

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realize it, but you're doing it
to yourself. Anytime you allow yourself to

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be drained mentally and physically. You're
giving everything, every single thing you can

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to your significant other and what you
get in return is a big nothing.

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But you still trying because you love
him or you love her until you're so

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pushed up against the wall. Now
you can't take it anymore. It's time

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to do something. You have to
find yourself. You went through all of

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that to find yourself. Now you
learn the valuable lesson. People who get

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to that point, they are the
ones who learn. They're the ones who

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learned. People that go relationship ship
hopping. If you jump from one relationship

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to one relationship to another immediately after
break up, you're not learning anything.

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You will undoubtedly find yourself right back
in the situation again because you haven't had

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time to heal and process and none
of that before you write into another relationship

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enduring similar drama. That's just the
nature of the beast on the wheel.

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That's just the way it is.
So finding yourself is absolutely wonderful. But

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I just hope and pray people find
themselves before they get into the relationship,

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before they have to go through all
of the toxicity and the drama and the

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hurt and the pain and the headaches
and the heartaches. Find yourself first,

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deal with you in your unresolved issues. I guarantee you you will never find

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yourself in such relationship. Because your
eyes open, they open, you see

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who people really are and not that
person they pretend to be. You see

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that person, but you definitely see
deeper to who they really are. Because

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all it takes is observation. People
are going to show you who they really

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are in some form or another,
sooner or later. All you have to

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do is just be able to see
it. I guarantee you, I promise

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you. You just have to be
able to see it. Unfortunately, a

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lot of people are in mindset where
they can't because of their hearts, in

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their minds, because of that internal
part of who they are that's unhealed.

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It interferes with how you think.
It interferes with how you see things.

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It interferes with how you perceive things. It interferes with your thought processes,

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it interferes with your feelings. Everything
is distorted because you're seeing it through negative

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eyes. You're seeing it through negativity
of the hearts and minds because it's coming

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from an unhealed place inside of you. So you're getting relationships there's no trust,

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or you just suffering because you're always
on edge and full of anxiety because

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you feel you gotta check his things. It's a check herrent thing. Come

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on, that's not a relationship not
healthy, that's not good. Some of

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you have children together, but one
of you are the ones who the one

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who is always with the child or
children. You're the one who's taking care

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of the child all the time,
even though that the significant other, the

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parent, the other parent is right
there in your drain mentally and physically.

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But you have to do it because
the child can depend on the other parent.

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It's like that because that's what you
allow. And I know some of

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you are saying when you can't make
a grown person do anything, No,

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you can't, but you sure can
have consequences for their actions. You don't

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have to take it. That's what
I'm talking about. So I want you

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to think about it. Whatever you're
ending in your relationship, how did you

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contribute to it? How did you
contribute to even if it's abuse, because

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all of it boards down to abuse. Mistreatment is abuse, regardless of how

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it is, regardless of the nature
of it. How did you contribute?

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And I'm asking that question because I
want you to think about it. How

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did you contribute? If you allow
and accepted anything that's negative from him or

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her, you contribute it to it. And I'm just leaving you with that

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ponder on that because we have to
be accountable and responsible for our decisions,

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our choices, what we allow,
what we'll accept in our lives from all

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people, not just your significant other. But I am specifically talk about significant

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others because people will ignore everyone else
for as a significant other. And that's

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what this episode is about significant others. Finding yourself because you've lost yourself in

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your relationship. I hope I said
enough for someone to get it. I

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sure hope I did. If you
have any questions, please reach out to

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me. Go to my podcast page. My email is there. I will

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respond. Thank you so much for
listening. Much love to each and every

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one of you. Stay safe.
Please share this episode. Also, if

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you have not heard my podcast,
Relabable Life Chronicles, please check it out

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and please share. Thank you again. You know I end every episode the

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same. If it's your first time
here, please come back, listen to

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my other episode, listen to my
upcoming episodes. Thank you again. Please

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share. I end every episode the
same and I hope you do it.

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Thank on it