1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:16,359 Made a decision have Pace's Sunny Sun on Ihdavision Night. What's up, everybody, 2 00:00:16,519 --> 00:00:22,000 Welcome to fugind out loud. It's our show. It's Friday. Yeah, 3 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:27,960 sorry, it's Friday. It's Friday. Frye rye. That's good. 4 00:00:29,079 --> 00:00:31,399 Oh my god, I didn't come up with that. Don't you remember when 5 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:36,679 we used to didn't Rachel Black remember when we used to make fun of It's 6 00:00:36,719 --> 00:00:41,079 Friday, Friday? Yeah? I don't know, Yeah, I don't. 7 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:45,200 I don't know what's happening. This is our last show. Yes, we 8 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:49,000 have a lot to talk about. We still do we do. Let's say, 9 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,640 let's say Hi, we got share Bear and do you want a Hrshey 10 00:00:52,719 --> 00:00:57,399 Bar and Kelly Laddie, Dad Amy, I'm sorry you are a gun. 11 00:00:57,479 --> 00:01:03,479 Everybody knows. And Katie's rolling on e and not Anna Faris and Aaron Hoodas 12 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:08,120 and Nikki call your Girl and Leslie stay away from From Several Loves, Abandon 13 00:01:08,239 --> 00:01:15,680 May Companies, Yes, Jacob Is Growley, Rita Rocks, Elizabeth Williamson's Many 14 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:23,359 many Children in her Beautiful hand Sanded Bassiette and Athena we love your dancing, 15 00:01:23,359 --> 00:01:27,400 and Polly, we love your pancakes. And your syrup Zyrup and Valerie, 16 00:01:27,439 --> 00:01:34,760 Bubba Fenwick and Katerina check your molar Moller, Gabby and Missy. Yeah they're 17 00:01:34,799 --> 00:01:41,040 hungover from the golf. Los're still recovering. Sean Lush Pink Rebecca, No, 18 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,159 when is so cute? Kelly Brand is not your aunt? Alicia? 19 00:01:44,519 --> 00:01:51,040 Ask on, Leslie, she's got COVID again, Sarah Stefano, my Paison, 20 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,840 Aaron Dirty Sanchez, Jennifer get up, Sandra, it's not easy being 21 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:57,200 green. Chris, so you make us want to stop? And Stephanie the 22 00:01:57,239 --> 00:02:04,519 Stinger Ringer Kaal, Hello, how's it going with the kid? Is? 23 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:07,599 Everybody? It's you know what? You're not coughing? I know, Yeah, 24 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,520 it's finally. I think I had this thing that I've heard a lot 25 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:15,199 of people say. It's called like the four month cough, And I guess 26 00:02:15,199 --> 00:02:16,879 that's a thing. And I guess I got it because that was about the 27 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,759 amount of time I was coughing. But yeah, it's finally just about over. 28 00:02:21,199 --> 00:02:23,639 Wow. Well congratulations. Yeah, so it only hit me all through 29 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:27,439 the holidays, So now that the holidays are over, now it can be 30 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:31,719 nice and relaxing. Yeah. Nice, How is it to be? Yes, 31 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:38,000 it's nice. It's very nice. Me and Amy went out to dinner 32 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,599 the other nice just to kind of celebrate. Yeah, we went to Ruth 33 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:44,960 Chris. They have a new one in Long Beach. Yeah. Not not 34 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,360 loud, No not good. Oh yeah, no, well there is a 35 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:51,319 there is a very nice steakhout. I talked about it on the Patreon episode 36 00:02:51,319 --> 00:02:53,120 where I talked about proposing my plans maybe go to dinner, go down to 37 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:57,479 the beach, blah blah. So but then I did it on New Year's 38 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,639 Eve. But you know, we're still going out to dinner. So we 39 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:01,919 were like, and are we gonna go to this really nice steakhouse down there 40 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:06,199 that we love called five five five? But then they just opened up this 41 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:07,439 Ruth Chris and I was like, man, it's been a long time since 42 00:03:07,479 --> 00:03:09,599 I've been to a Ruth Chris. So like, let's do that one. 43 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:13,759 Let's change it up. We always do a lot of the same things, 44 00:03:13,759 --> 00:03:15,599 we go to a lot of the same place, so let's change it up. 45 00:03:16,479 --> 00:03:22,080 So we went there on Saturday, made the reservation for seven. They 46 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,719 didn't see this till like seven forty, so I was already like okay, 47 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:30,439 uh got there and yeah, we're having some drinks, just having wine. 48 00:03:30,479 --> 00:03:34,479 I had a martini and I had I think, like the best crab cakes 49 00:03:34,719 --> 00:03:38,639 I may have ever had. I loves. Yeah, normally crab cakes they 50 00:03:38,639 --> 00:03:40,800 were kind of ready, you know, but these ones like weren't really ready. 51 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:44,800 It was just like all crab and so that set the standard like high. 52 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:46,759 I was like, oh, these are amazing crab cakes. You know, 53 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:52,680 it's a really weird coincidence or sorry, quinkydink, I just say crab 54 00:03:52,759 --> 00:03:57,120 cakes last night. Oh yeah, our John's sister, my sister in law, 55 00:03:57,599 --> 00:04:01,719 for our holiday, our Christmas present sent us crab cakes and scallops I 56 00:04:01,759 --> 00:04:06,520 got from Chesapeake Bay Seafood Company and I made them last night. Coincidence. 57 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:12,240 The sauce with the crabcakes awesome. It was. It was just very buttery. 58 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,280 It was mostly just butter, but whatever. They might have put a 59 00:04:14,319 --> 00:04:15,639 little something else in there, but it was. It was good. I 60 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,959 did not expect them to be that good. Yeah, sometimes you get the 61 00:04:18,959 --> 00:04:23,279 crab cakes, you get the side sauce and it's funky and it kind of 62 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:26,199 ruins the crab cake, at least for me. Mine didn't come with any 63 00:04:26,199 --> 00:04:28,399 sauce. But you know, like when you go to a restaurant. You 64 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,600 get the sauce or whatever, do you get the thing to dip it in, 65 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:33,000 And sometimes it's really good, and then sometimes they put some shit in 66 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,279 it and it's like, what the what is this like seasoning? Am I 67 00:04:36,319 --> 00:04:39,600 tasting? But so it was good. Yeah, I was just butter sauce. 68 00:04:39,639 --> 00:04:44,879 And then I got the lobster bisk. I love lobster, my favorite 69 00:04:44,879 --> 00:04:47,480 foods in and I haven't had it for a long time. I was so 70 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:50,720 excited and I got it and I took a bite and I went, hmm, 71 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:56,000 that wasn't good. That didn't taste good. And then she brought over 72 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:57,959 pepper and put pepper in it. And then I took another bite and I 73 00:04:57,959 --> 00:05:00,759 go, yeah, I don't I don't think this is very good. And 74 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:01,920 then I had three bites and I went, yeah, this is horrible. 75 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:03,879 And I just didn't eat it, and I was like really Yeah. She 76 00:05:03,879 --> 00:05:05,519 came by, She's like, how is it. I'm like, I didn't 77 00:05:05,519 --> 00:05:09,560 care for it. So there's just a full bowl of lobster bisks. No. 78 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,800 Yah. Do you think it was something went bad in it or just 79 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,120 I was kind of worried that it was, especially after that story you told 80 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,120 her the crab get and I was like, there might be something bad in 81 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:21,839 it, But did you tell the server? No? I didn't really. 82 00:05:21,879 --> 00:05:25,439 I didn't want to, like, oh take away. I didn't want to. 83 00:05:25,439 --> 00:05:27,839 Was just like, you know what, I already had an appetizer and 84 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:31,040 I'm getting a steak, so just it's okay, yeah, I'll call this 85 00:05:31,079 --> 00:05:34,879 one. So then we got our steaks. I got a ribby and Amy 86 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:39,360 got a filet. And the last time we went to a steakhouse, which 87 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:43,399 was five five five, which I mentioned, we didn't have the greatest experience 88 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,480 there. It was like they forgot my oysters that I ordered, and they 89 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:50,000 mixed up our how we eat our steaks. I get my medium rare, 90 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:54,360 she gets her medium. They flip flopped them. So we were like, 91 00:05:54,399 --> 00:05:57,480 oh bummer. So we order our steaks this time, same way. They 92 00:05:57,519 --> 00:06:00,480 flip flop them again. At Ruth Chris, I go, what are the 93 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:02,959 chances of that happening? Yeah? And I go, you know what, 94 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,079 Okay, I am going to send him back this time. So I send 95 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:12,079 him back. They came back again. Mine was fine, but I went 96 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,199 through a little phase a couple months ago where I was like making my own 97 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:17,040 steaks where I was like searing them and doing it and I was eating the 98 00:06:17,199 --> 00:06:20,160 ribbi, going like I think like I could make this. I think I 99 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:24,079 could make this for like twenty bucks, whereas this costs like you know, 100 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:29,319 and then the fifty probably more. It was like seventy oh. And then 101 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:31,560 even after they sent it back, they fucked up her cooking. It was 102 00:06:31,639 --> 00:06:34,879 still like more on the like medium, it was still like really red, 103 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:39,639 and so they kind of fucked up her steak again. And at that point 104 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:41,879 we were just like, you know what, we're still having fun because we 105 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,600 get some wine. We were like it was still fun. But yeah, 106 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:46,920 yeah, I was like, we're not coming back to Ruth Chris, and 107 00:06:46,959 --> 00:06:48,399 this is not a good experience. Yeah. But then we did go out, 108 00:06:48,439 --> 00:06:51,600 like I said, to the bar where we first met, sat down 109 00:06:51,639 --> 00:06:56,079 at the same spot where we had our first date, left that bar, 110 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,480 went to the other bar that we went to on our first date. So 111 00:06:58,519 --> 00:07:02,560 we still did that too. Nice. Good, I'm happy for you guys. 112 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,680 It was a nice night. Yeah, maybe don't go to Ruth Chris. 113 00:07:06,079 --> 00:07:12,319 Do we get to be bridesmaids? Yeah? I don't know. And 114 00:07:12,439 --> 00:07:15,120 he's got a lot of friends. I think I'm one of her, like 115 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:20,160 closer friend, I mean in my mind pretty tight, Like I will like 116 00:07:20,199 --> 00:07:25,519 a Facebook post, you know, so I'm sure I'm gonna make the top. 117 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:29,079 Yeah, I don't know about you, Lynette. I don't know liked 118 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:33,480 as many posts as I have. Maybe maybe, I mean, like I 119 00:07:33,519 --> 00:07:38,839 could do like I could plan the you know, the the striplor up exactly, 120 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,839 just the strippers part of it. I don't even know where we go. 121 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:46,560 We don't go anywhere right at your place? But yeah, well that's 122 00:07:46,639 --> 00:07:54,800 nice. Yeah, so let's should we talk about Natalia Grace? Oh my 123 00:07:54,839 --> 00:07:58,720 god? That did you watch it? Kilin? I didn't see. I 124 00:07:58,759 --> 00:08:01,920 was too busy watching anime. Did you watch the did you watch you watched 125 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,079 the first Natalia Grace though? Right? I didn't. No, I didn't 126 00:08:05,079 --> 00:08:07,560 think it was up your alley. Yeah. I saw a couple other movies 127 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,360 too, but I don't think they're going to be up your ally either. 128 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:13,720 Yeah, all right, I don't know how we can talk about it though 129 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,480 without a major spoiler. Well, okay, well we're gonna have. Let's 130 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:20,079 just talk about the fact that what's this Oh what would be a spoil? 131 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:24,040 I mean, the spoiler is how it ends how it I forgot how it 132 00:08:24,199 --> 00:08:28,519 ended. I was falling asleep because I watched it last night because I knew 133 00:08:28,519 --> 00:08:31,439 we were going to talk about it, and I got to the almost bitter 134 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:33,399 end. Okay, you got to get to the bitter end, but I 135 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:39,480 saw it. But I was like that the bitter end changes some things I 136 00:08:39,519 --> 00:08:46,480 can't remember. I say, just do spoiler alert. Okay, yeah, 137 00:08:46,519 --> 00:08:50,840 okay, honestly skip honestly skip ahead, or if you don't care, it's 138 00:08:50,879 --> 00:08:52,399 just it's just a TV show, like, okay, a movie. But 139 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:56,879 I know, but you're going to invest yourself in all these episodes and there 140 00:08:56,960 --> 00:09:01,840 is a major twist at them a spoiler, but just give a spoiler, 141 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:05,799 right. So the twist, the twist at the end is this this family 142 00:09:05,919 --> 00:09:09,360 that she's gone on and on about how much she loves them and how they're 143 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:15,840 so great to her and how they get along beautifully, and the whole premise 144 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:20,960 is that like, yes, she's had these problems with the Barnett's, but 145 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:26,320 now that she's with this other family that loves her, she's defended. And 146 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:31,200 at the very end, these people are like she's psycho and she's like tried 147 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:35,879 to hurt our family and she we kicked her out, like we want nothing 148 00:09:35,919 --> 00:09:41,759 to do with her. Got oh my god. But here's the thing that 149 00:09:43,039 --> 00:09:48,519 I think Warrant's conversation, which is that through the whole thing, I think 150 00:09:48,639 --> 00:09:52,919 they've painted it very black and white. It's like you either now. I 151 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:58,720 think that for sure, Natalia grace Is was obviously and I think this clears 152 00:09:58,759 --> 00:10:03,759 up the fact that she was a child when she was adopted. I think 153 00:10:03,799 --> 00:10:09,440 she had major trauma. Yes, she was adopted and then given away and 154 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:13,240 then used as like a pond to probably you know the couple, the couple 155 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:18,679 with dwarfism that really wanted her. I remember, I think from the first 156 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:22,200 special, I'm pretty sure that they were. They were trying to get them 157 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,360 to they were like extorting them. They were trying to get them to come 158 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:31,519 up with money for her. Who's they do you remember that either the adoption 159 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,879 agency, there was like a thing involved with like who was going to pay 160 00:10:33,919 --> 00:10:39,159 money for her? Which is I think illegal? Oh yeah, they wanted 161 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:43,440 to. I'm pretty sure the couple that really wanted her, that was giving 162 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:48,200 her a home, that was visiting with her, I think they wanted them 163 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:52,080 to pay money. That couple then there was another couple though before that that 164 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:56,799 also had dwarfism. I think you might recall from this is from the first 165 00:10:56,879 --> 00:11:03,080 series where the guy was like a bad feeling about her. Remember they liked 166 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:07,279 her and the mom wanted her, and then the dad was like, something's 167 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:09,440 not right and we don't want her, okay, So then the when the 168 00:11:09,639 --> 00:11:13,480 by the time the Barnett's got her, she'd been in and out of a 169 00:11:13,519 --> 00:11:18,120 bunch of homes. Now, this doesn't take away from the fact that Christine 170 00:11:18,279 --> 00:11:24,879 Barnett is absolutely fucking Nightmara. Yes, bad person, child abuser, like 171 00:11:26,039 --> 00:11:30,480 it was a really bad situation, right, but these things are not mutually 172 00:11:30,519 --> 00:11:33,279 exclusive. That I did think right from the beginning that this girl had that 173 00:11:33,399 --> 00:11:39,440 radical attachment disorder which we have talked about before, which I saw a TV 174 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:43,120 movie about it many years ago. And you know, everything with me comes 175 00:11:43,159 --> 00:11:48,080 back to a TV movie that I've seen after how special. That's how you 176 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:52,519 got your license exactly, Yes, my medical my psychology degree, and they 177 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:56,440 let you go because you watch the TV movies of the week. Yeah, 178 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:58,919 And they asked me, they asked me a bunch of questions about it, 179 00:11:58,279 --> 00:12:01,679 and I remember the pertinent a lot of it. Yeah, and everything he 180 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:07,080 answered the right questions. You know how you study for a permit test, 181 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:11,080 but it doesn't really matter the actual online class you go to. What matters 182 00:12:11,159 --> 00:12:13,559 is doing the quizlets bafterwards to go into the DMV to get your permit. 183 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:18,960 It's like that, right, Okay, So don't I forgot who started in 184 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:24,759 this movie, but it is crazy and it is basically about this little girl 185 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:28,120 who is adopted and then they find her in the bedroom like she's cheat with 186 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:33,799 the knife and she's nice putting pins, she's hurting the dog like it's like 187 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:37,879 a bad, bad situation, and she seems so sweet, but she's like 188 00:12:39,159 --> 00:12:45,080 fucked up from early trauma. Oh okay. So then the mother in this 189 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:50,320 story goes and tries to find out the history of it's a little girl and 190 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:56,279 a little brother, and it turns out that the mother, the biological mother, 191 00:12:56,559 --> 00:13:01,080 had just left the kids for like days on end and for themselves when 192 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:05,080 the little girl was like three and the baby brother was a baby in a 193 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:09,240 playpen, and they when they found these kids, she hadn't been fed, 194 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:15,360 she'd been like fending for herself, and the baby was just like had horrible, 195 00:13:15,399 --> 00:13:20,240 horrible like hardcore diaper rash, like open sores, and the kids had 196 00:13:20,279 --> 00:13:24,879 just been basically like neglected abandoned. So cut to even though these parents are 197 00:13:24,879 --> 00:13:31,039 giving this girl like a nice home, she's got this thing called rad and 198 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:35,759 they and they take her to doctors and psychiatrists and like nothing is helping her. 199 00:13:35,879 --> 00:13:39,120 And then they do this alternative treatment do you remember this, and where 200 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:43,360 they have to hold her called holding therapy, and they and the girl is 201 00:13:43,399 --> 00:13:48,120 so bad, like she's dangerous. The parents they have to put a lock 202 00:13:48,159 --> 00:13:52,240 on the door of the little brother and of the parents. They have to 203 00:13:52,279 --> 00:13:56,480 lock their door at night so she can't get in because she's hiding knives under 204 00:13:56,480 --> 00:14:00,879 her pillow, you know, and she has really bad thoughts she wants to 205 00:14:00,919 --> 00:14:05,519 like she's like higicidal, So the mom has to move out of the house 206 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:09,600 and go stay with like where this where this treatment, it's like this new 207 00:14:09,639 --> 00:14:13,039 treatment, this holding therapy, and they have to she has to hold her 208 00:14:13,159 --> 00:14:16,679 and like the girl screams and has like you know, thrashes around and it 209 00:14:16,759 --> 00:14:20,080 takes you know, like months and months and months and months of doing this 210 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:24,799 holding therapy with her like every day until like something changing in her brain and 211 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:31,320 I think, and that girl is now like a healthy pretty well you know, 212 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:39,519 she's adapted and is living a normal basically a normal life. But it 213 00:14:39,559 --> 00:14:41,879 took like years, like they and I don't think the mom was ever really 214 00:14:41,919 --> 00:14:46,159 able to like bring the girl back into the home. But she's doing okay. 215 00:14:46,399 --> 00:14:50,480 My point is I remember thinking this a lot about in Italian grace, 216 00:14:50,519 --> 00:14:54,360 like some of the ways that when they described the way she acted was like 217 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:58,480 very adult and very and she seemed really smart. I was like, and 218 00:14:58,519 --> 00:15:03,519 they were just describing her as manipulative. I was like, okay, two 219 00:15:03,639 --> 00:15:09,240 things and sexual from sexual abuse. I was like, these two things can 220 00:15:09,279 --> 00:15:13,840 be true. She could be saying all these sexual things, and she could 221 00:15:13,919 --> 00:15:18,600 be being manipulative and pretending and having a knight and showing up in the room 222 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:22,000 with a knife in her hand. She could also be suffering from radical attachment 223 00:15:22,039 --> 00:15:26,600 disorder and nobody's helping her. Nobody, that's the thing this girl had did 224 00:15:26,759 --> 00:15:33,360 not And they're instead of understanding that she has had massive trauma and is not 225 00:15:33,399 --> 00:15:37,159 being cared for and was left to her own devices and like had massive probably 226 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:43,879 chronic pain and was just being told to all of this stuff instead of having 227 00:15:43,919 --> 00:15:46,759 any empathy for her. They were trying to punish it out of her, 228 00:15:48,039 --> 00:15:54,320 and then they abandon her, and then they these Barnetts are insane and she 229 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:58,200 should have ended up with the family that has the dwarf the dwarf ism. 230 00:15:58,679 --> 00:16:02,720 Yeah, and I don't know that they I think they would have been able 231 00:16:02,759 --> 00:16:06,360 to deal with her trauma better. Yeah, she still would have had that 232 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:11,480 early trauma. I think she came to the Barnetts with radical attachment disorder. 233 00:16:11,799 --> 00:16:15,240 They said something about orphans do have a lot of trauma. They do have 234 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:18,240 a lot of but not all of them end up practice. But don't they 235 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:23,000 before they get them like set up for adoption, they don't they have some 236 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:27,600 kind of process where they have to have therapy and you know, be seen 237 00:16:27,639 --> 00:16:33,080 by psychia because because those they don't know, because she's in this Ukraine but 238 00:16:33,159 --> 00:16:36,840 a mentor where they don't even have enough people to deal with it. So 239 00:16:36,919 --> 00:16:40,600 that she gets shipped to the United States, you know, the family wants 240 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:44,000 her. I don't think that there is a lot of money and a lot 241 00:16:44,039 --> 00:16:48,159 of social things in place to go. Okay, this girl probably have a 242 00:16:48,159 --> 00:16:52,960 lot of trauma, so she's just expected to behave and these some of these 243 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:56,759 kids that are adopted, and we have a lot of listeners who have adopted 244 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:07,279 multiple kids, right Rebecca and Elizabeth Williamson, Like some of these kids they 245 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:11,400 need a lot of help and services that they're not getting right, and they 246 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:15,759 come with trauma and they have a lot of special needs. And these moms 247 00:17:15,799 --> 00:17:21,119 like fight the system like it's hard. It is, yes, And I 248 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:26,519 think this this Natalia, she ended up with a family that just I do 249 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:30,519 believe that Christine Barnett is a nut job. Oh my god, out of 250 00:17:30,519 --> 00:17:34,559 her fucking mind. And both, like you said, both and his dad 251 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:38,799 same and you know, like when I was watching that interview their or their 252 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:44,039 their meeting, their second meeting, and it like they really like hashed everything 253 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:48,160 out towards the very end, I felt like she needed a hug from him, 254 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:53,759 Like why I just felt like I wanted to hug her. Like this 255 00:17:53,799 --> 00:17:57,200 guy, he's got his head down, he's like doing all this like he's 256 00:17:57,279 --> 00:18:00,680 like also like oh it's a victim to and blah blah blah, shut the 257 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:03,880 fuck up, like you got to understand half. So he like didn't seem 258 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:08,640 like yet any empathy like she needed, I felt like, And so instead 259 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,400 she got up and was like, can I pray with you? I felt 260 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:15,160 like she was getting just gonna want to. I thought she was gonna try 261 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:18,160 to get a hug. That's what I thought, because I was feeling like, 262 00:18:18,519 --> 00:18:19,839 dude, get up and hug her, like, oh, I'm sorry 263 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:25,079 this like you know, like really come like come with some fucking sympathy, 264 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:29,000 you know, like it just was. It was such that moment just really 265 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,319 bothered me. But you're right, I think you know a lot. And 266 00:18:32,319 --> 00:18:37,240 then because there are reports from hospitals and stuff that were saying the things that 267 00:18:37,279 --> 00:18:40,920 she was doing that was inappropriate and stuff like that. But she was also 268 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:47,119 put in uh like the mental hospital on the adult side, and probably she's 269 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:52,720 probably been molested like many times, yes, you know. But instead of 270 00:18:52,839 --> 00:18:57,279 when when she's seeing these inappropriately sexual comments, these people are putting a judgment 271 00:18:57,319 --> 00:19:02,039 on it like, oh my god, she's terrible, like she's she's so 272 00:19:02,279 --> 00:19:04,519 over overtly sexual type. Well, why the fuck do you think a six 273 00:19:04,599 --> 00:19:08,279 year old is acting that way? Exactly? Why don't you investigate why she's 274 00:19:08,319 --> 00:19:14,319 acting that way instead of being like ew, yeah, she's saying sexual stuff, 275 00:19:14,519 --> 00:19:18,200 like she what the I was just like where's the adults with brains? 276 00:19:18,599 --> 00:19:22,240 Oh my god, didn't you fall in love? And from the first special 277 00:19:22,279 --> 00:19:27,279 two with the Nancy Grace type woman her legal expert, Yes, I was 278 00:19:27,319 --> 00:19:30,200 like obsessed. I would and followed her on Facebook. I love you need 279 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:34,720 to get her on our show. Yeah, she don't forget the first time 280 00:19:34,759 --> 00:19:38,319 we watched this, she was like, the girl has fucking baby teeth. 281 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:42,519 Yeah, what part of it's been established? Like stop being crazy and say 282 00:19:42,599 --> 00:19:45,640 that Harris? Is that her name? Beth? No, it wasn't Harris. 283 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:49,079 It was like, oh my god, will you look up legal expert 284 00:19:49,079 --> 00:19:53,079 from Natalia Grace? Yes, she was great. She was great, very 285 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:56,680 Nancy Grace esque. Yes, but in like a calm way. Yeah. 286 00:19:56,720 --> 00:20:00,640 And like one point where they said that the the mother said like we called 287 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:03,640 her a dwarf for something, and she's like, what's wrong with you? 288 00:20:03,759 --> 00:20:07,000 Who says that? You know? Like, yeah, I loved her, 289 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:11,160 I loved her, And yeah she narrated like she was really good at doing 290 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:15,720 the narration for the throughout the whole. Unfortunately, in the first series she'd 291 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:22,599 they're trying to make you think that it is possible the whole first one was 292 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:26,400 more exploitive because they were trying to let you think that she was an adult 293 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:30,880 and that it was kind of like the movie Orphan, And so if you 294 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:33,359 have any sense, you're like, I don't think what would she be doing 295 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:38,480 that for? Like okay, But then when the finally the legal expert didn't 296 00:20:38,519 --> 00:20:41,920 come in until like episode end of episode two or three, where she was 297 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,240 like, guys, everybody relaxed. She has baby teeth, right like, 298 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,680 and then she's the one who's sort of the voice of reason. But by 299 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:52,640 then some people who are watching it are like, well, no, he 300 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,559 already got no no adult. I don't want to hear anything. Yeah, 301 00:20:55,640 --> 00:21:00,279 yeah, yeah, yeah is it Caros, yes, Beth Cross, Yes, 302 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:04,759 Kars Yes, so oh I thought you said Beth Harris Kars. I 303 00:21:04,799 --> 00:21:08,279 hear it was like a kiss. Yes, yes, So now can we 304 00:21:08,319 --> 00:21:15,640 talk about that, like those the parents that adopted her, I did not 305 00:21:15,839 --> 00:21:19,160 trust them from the first season. Well, let's take a quick break and 306 00:21:19,279 --> 00:21:25,119 talk about Quin's Kayleelyn tell us how much you love Quins. Yeah, so 307 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:26,839 what they right? Well, when they first came on board, they're like, 308 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,319 here to pick out a couple of things and you know, talk about 309 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,279 it on the show. And I did and yeah, I actually legitimately became 310 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:40,839 obsessed with their clothing. It's just it's so comfortable. Uh, it's everything 311 00:21:40,839 --> 00:21:45,519 that I get fits so well, and it's so reasonably priced. I don't 312 00:21:45,599 --> 00:21:51,119 understand how like these materials cost this little. Like it's it's crazy to me. 313 00:21:51,279 --> 00:21:55,839 And I'm on a mission now to just pretty much change my entire wardrobe. 314 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:59,759 Now I got, like I said, I got a pair for Sunny 315 00:22:00,079 --> 00:22:03,839 those those pants and performance sweat Performance sweatpants. He loves them. And they're 316 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,960 so soft, like they're just and they got the deep pockets. They got 317 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:11,000 the deep pockets. Yeah, they they're on top of being just comfortable, 318 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:15,480 they they just fit really well. You know, they're not like big baggy 319 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,359 sweatpants. They're like, you know, they're kind of like tight around the 320 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,200 legs, but you know, nice around the waist. I mean again, 321 00:22:21,279 --> 00:22:22,559 I'm in love with them. I tried to get more for Christmas. They 322 00:22:22,599 --> 00:22:26,880 were sold out, of course they were, so I got the uh the 323 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:30,160 performance zip hoodie instead, and now I'm in love with that now. I 324 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:33,440 haven't taken that one off so well. I love my pink, my bubblegum 325 00:22:33,519 --> 00:22:37,319 pink sweater that is gorgeous. I get cammed me too all the time. 326 00:22:37,759 --> 00:22:41,000 That was these sweaters are less than fifty dollars. Yeah, huh, it's 327 00:22:41,079 --> 00:22:45,480 crazy. You know, makes a great gifts. I got cashmere sweaters for 328 00:22:45,519 --> 00:22:48,680 both Sunny and Italia. They love them for Christmas. Yeah. So here's 329 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:53,720 what you want to do. Give yourself or someone else the luxury you deserve 330 00:22:53,799 --> 00:22:59,079 with Quints. Go to quints dot com slash f col for free shipping on 331 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:03,400 your order and three hundred and sixty five day returns. That's q u i 332 00:23:03,759 --> 00:23:07,880 ncee dot com slash f col to get free shipping and three hundred and sixty 333 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:14,759 five day returns quins dot com slash f col. Nice. Yeah. Those 334 00:23:14,759 --> 00:23:19,839 adoptive parents, yeah, like, well when I saw them in the first 335 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:25,519 season, they kind of teased that she was taking the They didn't show the 336 00:23:25,599 --> 00:23:29,279 dad, but they showed the mom, and I didn't trust her, like 337 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,079 and didn't they say she was using that those parents were using like her money, 338 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:38,359 Yes, yeah, like they were because they she gets don't they get 339 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,680 money from I don't know from the States. Say she was turning it over 340 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:45,079 to them and they were like giving her a place to live though and buying 341 00:23:45,079 --> 00:23:48,440 food, and she was right, so I felt. In the first season 342 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,039 when she said that, I was like, and then they're videotaping them at 343 00:23:52,039 --> 00:23:56,079 like this grocery store buying food and having a good time, and I'm like, 344 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,519 Okay, this is what's in it for this woman to take on another 345 00:23:59,559 --> 00:24:04,759 like this child or whatever. And then yeah, when she said that, 346 00:24:04,799 --> 00:24:07,640 I was like, Okay, chit chang, that makes sense. Then now 347 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:12,480 it's I'm not sure because I do. But then I changed my mind in 348 00:24:12,519 --> 00:24:18,839 season two when I saw the whole family and then listening to them both talk, 349 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,799 the dad and the mom and the kids and blah blah blah, and 350 00:24:22,079 --> 00:24:26,359 you know, then I changed my mind. But I was always a little 351 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:33,559 like, I don't know, like I didn't but then now what you tell 352 00:24:33,599 --> 00:24:37,640 me at the end. Yeah, but also remember that they have another little 353 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:41,720 girl, that they have other kids. Yeah, and remember the Natalia Grace 354 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:45,359 also tried to she bit right a girl, other girl in the home bad 355 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:49,839 enough to send her to the hospital, and they still protected her, right 356 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:52,119 like, they kept her in the home. They didn't like get rid of 357 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:56,160 her or you know, yeah, I just she needs to be in a 358 00:24:56,160 --> 00:25:00,720 place where people understand and can have equipped. It's getting her the correct therapy. 359 00:25:02,599 --> 00:25:07,480 Yeah yeah, so yeah, but so maybe I hope people fast forwarded 360 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,240 a good How long did we talk about that? Okay? Anyway, yeah, 361 00:25:12,279 --> 00:25:15,799 anyway, what else have you been there? So? I did watch 362 00:25:15,839 --> 00:25:18,640 the May December. I thought that was yeah, that was interesting, pretty 363 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,480 good, right, yeah, it ends, it's the Yeah, the ending 364 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:26,119 was kind of like fell off. Yeah. I was like, Okay, 365 00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:27,880 that's that's it. But I felt like it ended in the middle. Do 366 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:33,759 you ever watch movies in your las You're not gonna like wrap things up right, 367 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:37,559 like right, like I know, I know, I hate that when 368 00:25:37,599 --> 00:25:41,599 it just ends. I did watch Mystic River this morning because I woke up 369 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:45,279 so early, like one of those mornings, and I couldn't go back to 370 00:25:45,319 --> 00:25:48,559 sleep. And then every time I turn on Netflix, it's like Mystic and 371 00:25:48,599 --> 00:25:52,519 then they show that scene with Sean Benn it's my daughter, and I was 372 00:25:52,519 --> 00:25:55,839 like, oh, I'm slang here and watch it, maybe fall back asleep. 373 00:25:55,839 --> 00:25:57,799 But I ended up watching the whole thing. I forgot how good it 374 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,799 is. Did you have seen it? Same thing happened to me. I 375 00:26:00,839 --> 00:26:03,799 just kept seeing it on Netflix till eventually I had nothing to watch it. 376 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,599 Go all right, I'm just gonna watch this Mystic River already, and yeah, 377 00:26:06,599 --> 00:26:11,279 it's great. It is from like the early nineties, two thousand, 378 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:15,720 I know. I thought it was earlier too. Yeah, it's like twenty 379 00:26:15,799 --> 00:26:18,359 ten or something, and I was like, oh, I mean so, 380 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,599 yeah, a lot of people are in it. Mystic River is good. 381 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:29,880 I heard the there's a show on Netflix now. Oh god, I can't 382 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:33,200 think of the name of it. It's new and it's like right up there 383 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,880 when it first comes out, but I can't think. And Wendy watch it, 384 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:42,279 said it was really good. Kind at the woman witnesses her husband getting 385 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,559 murdered. I've seen that one on there. You did. Yeah, it's 386 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:52,519 called not the propos It starts with a P. I think the prospect Anyway, 387 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:56,920 this is great podcasting. But I did finish The Ultimate Girls Trip on 388 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,880 fool Me once. Yeah, did you see it? No, I've seen 389 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,480 it on there, and I go, I don't know, he hasn't. 390 00:27:03,599 --> 00:27:08,960 It hasn't got me yet, Wendy said, is really good. Yeah, 391 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:14,240 but uh, I finished The Ultimate Girls Trip. The last episode was so 392 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:18,839 boring. The very end was like, okay, there you go, Luanne. 393 00:27:19,559 --> 00:27:26,079 Remember the very end? What happens it ended well spoiler alert Yeah yeah, 394 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,359 yes, yes, And did you see the guys butt yes, I'm 395 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:34,920 too Ultimate girls trip like you're to Natalia Grace. Oh yeah, like oh 396 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,720 yeah I did see the end right right? Yeah? I thought it was 397 00:27:38,839 --> 00:27:41,599 It was fun. But what is I know? Kelly ben Simone just like 398 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:47,279 rubs me the wrong way. She has something in her teeth like this, 399 00:27:48,759 --> 00:27:52,640 just ramon. It was so irresponsible at the pool, you know, like 400 00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:56,039 she talks like there's something in her mouth, right, but it's wrong? 401 00:27:56,160 --> 00:28:00,839 And why is her tits up so high? And is she like engaged to 402 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:06,079 some guy or not? She got hagy about her relationship, cagey about everything. 403 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:10,039 Yeah, like okay, but when she's talking about how she gets tickets 404 00:28:10,039 --> 00:28:12,400 to the Rangers game, didn't you didn't it imply that she has a she 405 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,799 has a boyfriend, right obviously? I mean, because why else would she's 406 00:28:15,839 --> 00:28:19,400 not on the Rangers? Sokay, what else would it be? Right? 407 00:28:19,519 --> 00:28:22,559 She never comes out and says it, nobody else says it. But then 408 00:28:22,599 --> 00:28:26,920 at one point she's like, didn't she say like that she has a boyfriend 409 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,759 and nobody's asking her about it? But I so she annoyed that. She's 410 00:28:30,799 --> 00:28:33,240 like, well, I have a yes, she got only got annoyed with 411 00:28:33,319 --> 00:28:36,799 Kristin because she had a beef with Kristin. And she's like, well, 412 00:28:36,839 --> 00:28:40,640 how come uh Ramona knows about it? And how come you know, uh 413 00:28:40,799 --> 00:28:42,759 Derenda knows about it. Everybody else knows about it, but you never you 414 00:28:42,759 --> 00:28:45,680 don'tant to ask, right, She's like, you don't want to talk about 415 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:49,400 it. Also, but like I feel like in the first episode or so, 416 00:28:49,519 --> 00:28:53,200 she's like, oh that she's single, right, right, She basically 417 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:56,240 implies that she is not with anybody. So I was like, make up 418 00:28:56,279 --> 00:29:00,920 your mind. Kelly's steading up your mind, and and I know, and 419 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:04,079 she's like, you know, working, and she's always dating older older what's 420 00:29:04,119 --> 00:29:11,200 what these women? And they're old men money? I just like, sonya, 421 00:29:11,319 --> 00:29:15,440 you know. It's like she's talking about the guy she's dating. Wouldn't 422 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,359 she say he was like eighty nine or something or I don't know, like 423 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,720 super old, And and Kristen's like, how old is he? She's like, 424 00:29:22,759 --> 00:29:25,960 oh, but he's got all his hair, Like I don't know, 425 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,440 she's like still kind of young. She doesn't have to go out with I 426 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,240 don't know, know, sometimes I'm like, wow, these didn't like some 427 00:29:33,279 --> 00:29:36,640 of these housewives always seemed old to me. Even from when I first started 428 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,119 watching, it was like, oh, they're kind of like older women, 429 00:29:38,599 --> 00:29:41,720 I mean ten years ago. And now I'm like, oh, they're at 430 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:44,240 the same age as me, right, Like I don't know how where I 431 00:29:44,279 --> 00:29:47,559 get off. Yeah, these older women, I'm like, well, I'm 432 00:29:47,559 --> 00:29:51,720 an older woman, right. It's just funny when you're like they've always been 433 00:29:52,119 --> 00:29:56,359 sort of cougar attitude, Like anytime they're out going, like oh my god, 434 00:29:56,039 --> 00:30:00,799 guys, you're like all right, buland though you know, only like 435 00:30:00,319 --> 00:30:04,359 she's a little much with the guys, it's like relaxed. But she looks 436 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:11,160 amazing. She she her body is like ridiculous and her face like her hair 437 00:30:11,319 --> 00:30:14,839 like she I'm always like, god, she really is so pretty. Yeah, 438 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:17,640 she is aging well, and I don't think I don't know, I 439 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:21,119 don't think she needs o zembag. Right, She's always had that Oh yeah, 440 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:26,200 she's always looked great. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I just wanted 441 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:29,400 to say, yeah, in case any Oh, I have two things. 442 00:30:30,119 --> 00:30:34,480 One my kids have like the best winter break. And I know, I 443 00:30:34,519 --> 00:30:37,599 know we've all been like worried a little bit about like Sadie and Xander and 444 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,559 like do they have friends? And all these years of me going, oh 445 00:30:41,559 --> 00:30:45,599 my god, I need new school and you know, but my gosh, 446 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:49,640 I had like an old school. Well I didn't, but the kids had 447 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:56,720 one of those old school winter breaks where they are friendly or good friends with 448 00:30:56,799 --> 00:31:02,079 a girl who turns out lives like in our neighborhood, Like she's only like 449 00:31:02,119 --> 00:31:06,319 six blocks away. She goes to their school and they're friends with her, 450 00:31:06,839 --> 00:31:11,960 and they've gotten better and better friends with her and her she has a brother 451 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:18,279 who just he was living like out of the country for a long time, 452 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,920 but he is now here and I guess he's staying for a year. I 453 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:25,799 don't really know all the details, obviously, but the point is they were 454 00:31:25,839 --> 00:31:29,480 like a little group. So New Year's Eve, I think I told you 455 00:31:29,519 --> 00:31:33,680 they had friends over New Year's Eve. We've recorded since New Year's Eve, 456 00:31:33,759 --> 00:31:37,960 right, yeah, yeah, he tells, yeah, Okay, So now 457 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:41,680 they're just hanging out like every day. So during this break, it's like, 458 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,599 oh, so and so is coming over and we're gonna they went to 459 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:48,559 go play tennis, and they're like walking everywhere and like Xander will leave at 460 00:31:48,599 --> 00:31:53,119 like noon and then be gone till nine o'clock at night. And then for 461 00:31:53,359 --> 00:31:57,079 sometimes they're at our house, sometimes they're over at her house, they're over 462 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:01,440 at the tennis courts, they're walking down to the Encino Commons and like getting 463 00:32:01,559 --> 00:32:07,920 dinner and he's been having the best time and Sadie two, although Sadie just 464 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:09,920 got a cold so she's been home the last few days. But like just 465 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:14,960 the little gang of them, and I love it. I'm just like, 466 00:32:15,039 --> 00:32:17,440 oh, your voice is in the house, and it's like it's so nice. 467 00:32:17,519 --> 00:32:22,400 Nice. Yeah, because it used to only be Lbie, it had 468 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,160 all the friends, and it used to have to be so specific of like 469 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:30,000 each of my friends having like remember when we would still call it a play 470 00:32:30,079 --> 00:32:32,640 date, but like it was like, oh, Xander has a friend coming 471 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:37,799 over, Okay, Sadie has a friend coming over. Oh, Sadie's going 472 00:32:37,799 --> 00:32:39,680 to a friend's house. It was like more rare, and now it's just 473 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:44,279 like just the friends, like the people like, oh, we're seeing so 474 00:32:44,319 --> 00:32:45,640 and so today, Oh we're seeing so and so today. I love that. 475 00:32:45,799 --> 00:32:50,200 And then Xander told me, I said, so, how are you 476 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:53,079 feeling about going school starting back up? Because three weeks is a long break, 477 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:59,599 you know, And he said not that, I'm like, I'm looking 478 00:32:59,599 --> 00:33:01,799 forward to it. I was like what, And I don't know if you 479 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:07,160 remember, but so this is January. But at the end of the toward 480 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,559 the end of the school year last year or middle of the school year, 481 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:13,480 he had a hard time and was like, I want to change schools. 482 00:33:13,759 --> 00:33:17,039 I don't like it here. I don't I'm having some problems with friends. 483 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:23,359 And we we we tucked it out, we worked it through, and then 484 00:33:23,599 --> 00:33:30,960 like it turned around toward the end, and then a couple of kids that 485 00:33:30,079 --> 00:33:34,920 were problems didn't come back to school this year. And anyway, this whole 486 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,799 first semester has been like so great for both my kids us, and Xander 487 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:42,079 was like, you know what, like I've had such a great break and 488 00:33:42,119 --> 00:33:44,440 I've had so much fun, but like I kind of can't wait to go 489 00:33:44,519 --> 00:33:47,359 back. He's like, school is not bad, Like I like my classes 490 00:33:47,839 --> 00:33:52,480 and I can't wait to like see all my friends and like see people see 491 00:33:52,519 --> 00:33:55,119 people that I wasn't seeing all the time, like on a regular basis again 492 00:33:55,160 --> 00:34:02,359 and like I like, well, yeah, And then Sadie has had a 493 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:08,000 cold the last few days, not COVID, and I was a little bit. 494 00:34:08,199 --> 00:34:10,559 It has. It's not that bad. It hasn't been like a super 495 00:34:10,559 --> 00:34:13,920 bad coffee. And you have a cold? Did she get it from you? 496 00:34:14,119 --> 00:34:15,960 I don't know because mine's been over for a while. But and she 497 00:34:16,039 --> 00:34:20,639 had a flu shot, so it's not the flu. I mean it could 498 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:25,119 be. But he's like a sore throat right now. Yeah. But yesterday 499 00:34:25,159 --> 00:34:30,599 I was like, but Sadie used to like at any chance to stay home. 500 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:34,440 You know how many mental health days I had to give Sadie because she 501 00:34:34,559 --> 00:34:38,000 just hated school so much. Oh my gosh. I was like, Okay, 502 00:34:38,079 --> 00:34:40,880 so how are you feeling? And she goes, I'm fine. I 503 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:44,599 was like, dou She's like, I mean I have a cold, but 504 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,599 like not enough to stay home from school, Like I don't want to miss 505 00:34:47,599 --> 00:34:52,719 the first day back from the break. Wow. Wow, are you That's 506 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:58,199 what I done with my other depressed, hating school child. That's awesome, 507 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:02,519 I know, especially for this role has been really good for her. See 508 00:35:02,559 --> 00:35:07,000 that's nice. Like they found their place. That's so great. Yeah, 509 00:35:07,039 --> 00:35:13,199 And I mean we dealt with in some ways. I'm grateful that I moved 510 00:35:13,199 --> 00:35:19,960 them from so post COVID. Once we went back to school, that school 511 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,239 wasn't as great anymore. I think I remember telling you that the principal and 512 00:35:24,119 --> 00:35:28,840 had changed. The principal and the assistant principal who we loved had changed. 513 00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:32,000 This was their middle school seventh grade. They stayed home all for COVID. 514 00:35:32,519 --> 00:35:36,960 Eighth grade, they started back at that school. They weren't super happy, 515 00:35:37,199 --> 00:35:45,880 and then Lilah Crocodile moved to the big local middle school and so Xander wanted 516 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,599 to follow, and Sadie was like so disaffected that she was like, whatever, 517 00:35:49,639 --> 00:35:52,679 I'll go to I don't want to be back anyway. And that was 518 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:57,480 a total disaster for both of them, except that then Xander made his friend 519 00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,119 with the famous mom, who then ghost to them. We all know the 520 00:36:00,119 --> 00:36:07,440 story, but Sadie, Sadie had such a hard time if you recall that, 521 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,719 that really brought to light. I think some of her mental health issues 522 00:36:12,039 --> 00:36:16,880 Prussian and that's when she saw the psychiatrist and she got on meds and so 523 00:36:19,039 --> 00:36:22,920 toward the end of that year was fine and then but ninth grade has been 524 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:27,480 so different for her. And then now tenth grade, I mean, I 525 00:36:27,519 --> 00:36:30,400 have like different kids. Yeah, it's nice, it's just so good. 526 00:36:30,519 --> 00:36:32,920 Yeah, in case anybody's wondering. Yeah, well, let's take a break 527 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:38,000 and we'll come back and talk more stuff. 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Oh nice, 550 00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:25,360 and she's coming on our show. Okay. We talked for so long 551 00:38:25,639 --> 00:38:31,119 and got like super personal wow, oh yeah, yeah, she's an interview 552 00:38:31,199 --> 00:38:37,280 or she's fun and she also is like no filth. She's like, uh, 553 00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:43,320 like I didn't realize how much not she'll tell she'll tell you, because 554 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,880 later afterwards I was like, wow, you went there, and she was 555 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:47,320 like, oh yeah, I've always like I don't care. Yeah. So 556 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:52,719 she told some really personal stories about like addiction, Like did you know that 557 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,840 she doesn't drink and hasn't for like thirteen years or something or yeah, I 558 00:38:55,920 --> 00:39:00,800 think I remember not a big drinker. Yeah at all. I don't remember 559 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:04,800 her she doesn't drink. But anyway, we talked about a whole lot of 560 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,719 stuff. So that was really fun. And I also did another podcast that 561 00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:14,480 I really liked called Hello Someday, Hello Someday, Hello Someday. Yeah, 562 00:39:14,559 --> 00:39:17,559 Hello Someday. And I'm going to look up this other one that I just 563 00:39:17,639 --> 00:39:21,880 did. But anyway, are you going to the places? Are you doing 564 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:25,000 them from home? Like they've all been on zoom? Okay, so but 565 00:39:25,079 --> 00:39:30,280 this one, so I get I get this email that's like, hey, 566 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:34,480 can you do this? I'm just gonna say his name because it doesn't really 567 00:39:34,559 --> 00:39:43,039 matter. It's like John Cosma, uh huh okay, like Kozma. It's 568 00:39:43,079 --> 00:39:45,960 like three names or whatever. So I get this email and it's like, 569 00:39:45,159 --> 00:39:49,360 hey, do you want to And it's from like a booker. Okay, 570 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:52,039 so it's not from the guy. It's not the guy like reaching out on 571 00:39:52,079 --> 00:39:53,320 Instagram and going hey I have a podcast you want to be on it. 572 00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:59,639 It's like from a production company and you know how sometimes you can sense that 573 00:40:00,159 --> 00:40:04,639 thing is for like that somebody's hired somebody like out of India to do their 574 00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,760 like scheduling. It had a tone of like, Hi, I'm so and 575 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:12,840 so and I work for so and so production. It wasn't like great, 576 00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:17,480 it was the way things were worded sounded a little foreign. And I was 577 00:40:17,559 --> 00:40:22,039 and they're like, we would like to interview you with your book for this 578 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:27,599 for the Unimpressed podcast, And they tell me like how many downloads it gets 579 00:40:27,639 --> 00:40:30,280 or whatever. So at first I'm just like, is this a real podcast? 580 00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:34,079 Even because I don't want to make the same mistake that you guys remember 581 00:40:34,159 --> 00:40:37,320 me yes doing a Patreon about it. So I'm like trying to be a 582 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,880 little more careful about what I go on. So I'm trying to vet it 583 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:45,400 a little bit more so anyway, I would I look it up. It 584 00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:50,280 is a podcast, it's a YouTube, it's a YouTube show. It doesn't 585 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,880 have like a lot of downloads by any stretch of the imagination. But I 586 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:59,440 was like, you know, it's a totally different audience. It's not a 587 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,320 sober po podcast. It's like the guy just interviews like people that are interesting 588 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:06,840 to him. Right, So I'm like I go, all right, I'll 589 00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:09,199 do it, so I have no idea what to expect. Oh, but 590 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:14,119 also there's like a team involved, so, like the guy, I agree 591 00:41:14,119 --> 00:41:16,440 to do it. Then I get another email from like the scheduling person, 592 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:20,239 and it's like back in, like there's a lot of questions, okay, 593 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,239 and can you do this time? And then I say yes. Then they 594 00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:24,880 send me a link, but then I anyway, it's like a lot, 595 00:41:25,119 --> 00:41:30,400 right, it's a lot already, go on to do the podcast, and 596 00:41:30,679 --> 00:41:37,320 uh, it was the most insane podcast I've ever done. Okay the guy, 597 00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:43,400 and if you watch it, you're gonna see a lot because you know, 598 00:41:43,519 --> 00:41:45,199 I can't. I have the rusting bitch face as it is, but 599 00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:49,719 I also have the face where I can't. It's very difficult for me to 600 00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:54,679 be like uh huh. Like this guy is so into himself. Okay, 601 00:41:54,800 --> 00:42:00,199 he's like, oh, I can't wait to contificate about it. Very he 602 00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:07,000 thinks he's just he thinks he's like Joe Rogan like like, and he tells 603 00:42:07,039 --> 00:42:09,840 you like, you know, anybody that knows me knows that I'm a Clara 604 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:16,480 not clairvoyant. But he calls himself like a like a Claar cl look and 605 00:42:16,519 --> 00:42:21,719 I'm like, uh uh uh huh. First of all, I was trying 606 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,480 to funk with him a little bit, see because it was he was so 607 00:42:24,639 --> 00:42:30,159 fucking humorless. So he's like okay, And first of all, you know 608 00:42:30,199 --> 00:42:32,119 he hadn't read the book like he had, so he goes to look at 609 00:42:32,119 --> 00:42:36,079 like, so what you've written other books? I'm like, do a fucking 610 00:42:36,159 --> 00:42:38,159 moment of homework. You don't even know who I am at all? Like, 611 00:42:38,519 --> 00:42:43,679 right, so his show is just interviewing people that he finds interesting or 612 00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:45,559 I don't. There's no like, I don't think that he finds interesting. 613 00:42:45,639 --> 00:42:50,760 I think it's somebody in India that he's hired to look up people. I 614 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,239 think they just go out to. His show is just an inner. It's 615 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,679 not like it's an interview. Okay, okay, so he's straight up interview 616 00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:59,639 show. I don't know who the guy is. I didn't know ahead of 617 00:42:59,639 --> 00:43:01,400 time, but I did look him up ahead of time, and I'm like, 618 00:43:02,079 --> 00:43:06,840 okay, so it's just a show. It's on YouTube. Like like 619 00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,960 I said, I mean, some of them had like a thousand downloads and 620 00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:14,800 some of them had way even fewer. But I was like well, what 621 00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:16,920 could it hurt? You know? A thousand people that I don't know is 622 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:21,000 a thousand people I don't know, And I like want to sell this book, 623 00:43:21,119 --> 00:43:22,400 you know, so and get the word out, you know. So 624 00:43:22,519 --> 00:43:28,239 he's just like, okay, so tell me, like tell me about what's 625 00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,119 your story basically, and how did you decide? He eat like the worst 626 00:43:31,159 --> 00:43:37,760 interviewer. So I'm like okay, So I tell him a little bit. 627 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,880 That's the most I talked for the whole time, because then he was like 628 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:47,920 so, and then he just starts going on about like I'm telling you that 629 00:43:49,159 --> 00:43:52,559 I was getting a lesson in quantum physics and he's like yeah, and then 630 00:43:52,599 --> 00:43:54,440 he would he would stop in the middle and be like do you understand what 631 00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:59,119 I'm saying? And at one point I just I said I do not at 632 00:43:59,159 --> 00:44:02,400 all, because I couldn't even fake it. So at one point I was 633 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,039 like, ah, I think so, and he's like, well, what 634 00:44:05,079 --> 00:44:08,079 does that mean to you? I swear to god, oh, I felt 635 00:44:08,079 --> 00:44:13,679 like I was in the most boring, like like a college class taught by 636 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:17,480 a psychotic professor where he's like yeah, so and he's telling me all of 637 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:21,960 these He's like thinks he's like some kind of a guru. So he's like, 638 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:25,480 well, something that I've learned in my practice of blobbity blah. But 639 00:44:25,559 --> 00:44:29,360 you know, I'm a bit of Anybody that knows me knows that I'm out. 640 00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,039 Let's just say it's a clairvoyant. What is he like, what's his 641 00:44:31,159 --> 00:44:36,719 profession other than podcast hosts? I don't know? Looking up look at John 642 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:40,800 Cosma. So he's like, oh my god, nobody. I guarantee you 643 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:45,280 nobody here knows him because listen spoiler alert, as we like to say. 644 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:51,039 Afterward, I was like, this guy is like ridiculous. He's acting like 645 00:44:51,079 --> 00:44:55,159 he's a big podcaster and he's definitely not. I can't imagine anybody sitting through 646 00:44:55,199 --> 00:44:59,519 this podcast and liking it. So I go look up how long he's been 647 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,679 Yeah, and podcasting for almost four years? Okay he started this like March 648 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:10,360 of twenty twenty. Okay, five reviews, so nobody ain't nobody listening to 649 00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:15,360 this podcast or watching this podcast? And the five reviews that he had seemed 650 00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:21,400 definitely like paid for for people that are like this one fantastic interviewer. You 651 00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,880 bring up a lot of interesting topics, like you know, and then maybe 652 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:28,760 he spent money on trying to get some engagement and then was like that's too 653 00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,920 expensive. I don't need that, right, but like not one I think 654 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:37,440 real person. Ever. Anyway, he talked about himself so much that I 655 00:45:37,519 --> 00:45:39,000 was just kind of like half listening. And then he's like, so, 656 00:45:39,039 --> 00:45:42,559 do you understand what I'm saying? And I said, God, I go, 657 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:45,320 I really don't. I'm gonna be honest with you. And then at 658 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:47,320 one point I was just like yes, and no, I didn't go to 659 00:45:47,519 --> 00:45:51,079 I mean, I didn't go to college. I don't know if a lot 660 00:45:51,119 --> 00:45:52,880 of what you're saying is just kind of over my head. But like and 661 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:57,239 he's like, well, it's you know, it's quantum physics. It's all 662 00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:01,360 blah blah blahics quanta physically do anything to do with my book or me at 663 00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:05,000 all. He was just I swear to god, I was like the founding 664 00:46:05,039 --> 00:46:07,800 board. Yes, he just wanted somebody to talk at. It was the 665 00:46:08,159 --> 00:46:13,880 like that's crazy. The other one that I complained about on Patreon was a 666 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:17,320 very big difference, maybe like politically or socially or like. It was like 667 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:23,480 that was a little bit uncomfortable. But she was like totally nice and like 668 00:46:23,639 --> 00:46:29,079 right, fine, a fine host, like not talking about herself. No, 669 00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:32,039 this guy was. It was the craziest experience because I was started to 670 00:46:32,079 --> 00:46:36,639 have like an out of body you know, I'm like watching the time, 671 00:46:37,079 --> 00:46:42,519 so it's video too, so I can't like I'm on video and I'm being 672 00:46:42,599 --> 00:46:45,559 video so I'm trying to look like you ever try to force yourself to look 673 00:46:46,199 --> 00:46:50,960 interested at all? I was my brain was. I was like, this 674 00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:54,400 guy is freaking using me, Like he's just podcasting with himself. He doesn't 675 00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:58,599 need me here, so I'm sitting there and then every once in a while 676 00:46:58,639 --> 00:47:00,920 he tries to like check in with me, but he's like, I don't 677 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:02,840 feel like you're getting what I'm saying, and I'm like, I'm really not. 678 00:47:04,039 --> 00:47:07,639 I'm not. I'm so sorry, but it's just I'm lost. And 679 00:47:07,639 --> 00:47:09,840 then oh my god. But like I said, the first time he goes, 680 00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:14,000 well, the first time I tried it, I was like, yeah, 681 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,400 I think I know what you're saying, and he's like, well, 682 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:16,679 what is it? What am I saying? Like what does it mean to 683 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:21,679 you? So I was so put on the spot because I'm like, I 684 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:25,679 wasn't listening. I was totally lost. So I try to like you're playing 685 00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:30,679 poker in your brain. I was like, I had a flush, like 686 00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:35,000 you interrupted, like what was about? I was all in? But I 687 00:47:35,159 --> 00:47:38,000 so I go, so it was, I swear to god, I felt 688 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,840 like I was caught in school by the teacher, like not listening. And 689 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:44,360 then I tried to fake my way through. So I go, I think 690 00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,920 what you're saying is blah blah blah, and he goes, no, that's 691 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:50,760 not what I'm saying. And I went, oh, well, I guess 692 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,760 I'm a little lost. So then he blah blah blah goes on again, 693 00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:58,559 and I was like, yeah, that's it's interesting, Like yeah, that's 694 00:47:58,599 --> 00:48:00,880 really interesting, and he's like, yeah, well, I mean and then 695 00:48:00,039 --> 00:48:07,000 everything he says is like people know that I'm like, I'm basically he was 696 00:48:07,039 --> 00:48:09,320 calling himself an m path without using the word m path, like he's like, 697 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:14,719 I feel people's feelings. I can sense what people thinking, what they're 698 00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,519 feeling. Like that's how I work with people, and I coach people, 699 00:48:16,519 --> 00:48:20,719 and I know I can leave. And I was like, I go, 700 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:25,000 what I'm thinking of a number between one and ten. I just decided to 701 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:29,559 have fun with it. I just started fucking with him. Yeah, and 702 00:48:29,599 --> 00:48:30,960 I was like, I believe, like, listen, you you know, 703 00:48:31,079 --> 00:48:36,800 I believe in like psychic and well because at one point I go, I'm 704 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:38,159 sorry, I just don't. I don't believe in like all that wu wu 705 00:48:38,199 --> 00:48:40,800 stuff. I go, but I do believe like psychic you can get on 706 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:45,280 the same wavelength. And I just tried to like steal focused for a minute, 707 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:46,760 and he was like not having this. He was not having it. 708 00:48:47,039 --> 00:48:51,320 He had no sense of humor. He was just like, but like you 709 00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,039 know when people when you're fucking with them a little bit. Now, Oh 710 00:48:53,039 --> 00:48:57,639 it's out. Yeah, I think on his YouTube channel it's not not not 711 00:48:58,119 --> 00:49:01,719 sepisode anyway. Oh bummer, I guess it hasn't aired it No, he 712 00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:07,199 didn't. Okay, oh believe me. When he's gonna air, I'm not 713 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,760 sure. It can't be fast enough. Let me see if the podcast at 714 00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:14,719 least. Oh my god. But it's so It was so funny because when 715 00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:15,840 I was kind of trying to fuck with him a little bit, like have 716 00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:22,800 fun with him, he was like, oh, yeah, that's good. 717 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,920 That's good. You could just see that I kind of that. He was 718 00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:30,239 like not used to that, right, right. It was I want to 719 00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:32,159 say it was uncomfortable, but I was I'm watching the time, and he 720 00:49:32,199 --> 00:49:36,760 had said it had said it was a forty five minute interview, but so 721 00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,559 now it's forty five minutes, and I'm like, oh my god, is 722 00:49:38,599 --> 00:49:44,159 it really bad form? If I just go, I gotta go. I 723 00:49:44,159 --> 00:49:46,119 don't wanted to tell about this so bad. And I was like, okay, 724 00:49:46,119 --> 00:49:49,920 I guess just gotta let him talk. And I couldn't. I couldn't 725 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,719 look at my phone. I couldn't do anything else because I had to. 726 00:49:53,079 --> 00:49:59,199 I was freaking Captiva. I sit there looking at my freaking zoom cam and 727 00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:05,159 go my and then mercifully he was like, okay, well it's been like 728 00:50:05,199 --> 00:50:08,719 a great conversation. That was like absolutely so great. Okay, you for 729 00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:14,599 having me. Your episode is not out yet, okay, or he just 730 00:50:14,639 --> 00:50:16,400 scrapped the whole thing. I don't know. He did not know. Okay, 731 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:21,280 I know he was pretty pleased with himself. Okay, it wasn't I 732 00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:24,480 bet if he started it, he's got He's got like thirty five thousand YouTube 733 00:50:24,519 --> 00:50:30,760 subscribers, almost thirty thousand followers on Instagram. I think it's zy very well. 734 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:34,320 I think it's fake because look at how many views each individual. Yeah, 735 00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:38,199 it's they they vary one that mostly around like twenty nine hundred and thirty 736 00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:43,639 six hundred. That's but then there's a couple that's like one point six thousand, 737 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,719 right, but that's the high end that's after a month. Yeah, 738 00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:51,199 so if you have thirty five thousand subscribers, you got to figure I think 739 00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:53,960 those numbers are inflated. I think he bought subscribers because he could have done 740 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:58,159 that. How are you only getting six hundred. He's a director producer, 741 00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,360 that's what he calls himself, right, and he does have technically have credits 742 00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:05,400 on IMDb, but I didn't I sure didn't recognize anything on there. But 743 00:51:05,639 --> 00:51:10,559 he also calls himself a meta media partner, TikTok partner and the reluctant shaman. 744 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,079 Oh oh. That was one of the things he told me that he's 745 00:51:15,119 --> 00:51:21,880 a worked with celebrity shamans. I'm like, okay, those two words work 746 00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,280 apart from each other, but like, what's a celebrity Shawman? Like, 747 00:51:24,599 --> 00:51:29,000 so much of the stuff he was saying was just like uh huh, yeah, 748 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,679 okay, oh so the celebrity shamans And he's like, yeah, I've 749 00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:37,960 learned the blah blah blah from celebrity and everything had a tangent that was just 750 00:51:37,039 --> 00:51:39,840 something even crazier than the last thing he just said. So I was like, 751 00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:45,239 this is I cannot way cool. I can't come out, I cannot 752 00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:50,000 wait, I can't wait. Oh my god. I was the name of 753 00:51:50,039 --> 00:51:55,719 the show. It's John Cosma. It's called The Unimpressed Podcast. The Unimpressed 754 00:51:55,760 --> 00:52:00,320 Podcast, yeah, which I don't know why that title, but he like, 755 00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:04,519 yeah, he had like a good setup with the like his unimpressed behind 756 00:52:04,559 --> 00:52:07,239 him, and you know, I bet you he started into enjoying probably lost 757 00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,199 a job or whatever and was like, off, screw it, I'm going 758 00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:14,599 to do my own YouTube ding and I'm his picture too for his podcast. 759 00:52:14,639 --> 00:52:16,639 It's like him standing there with his hands down and there's like lights coming out 760 00:52:19,519 --> 00:52:24,760 to his Instagram. Yeah it was. It was just such an experience. 761 00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:28,159 But I was like, either this is going to be paid, this is 762 00:52:28,159 --> 00:52:31,280 going to be a Patreon And then I was like, nah, why this 763 00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:35,199 guy is so self involved. He would never in a million years listen to 764 00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,320 my podcast. Yeah. So yeah, even if he'll probably get this is 765 00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,840 going to get him some views. I think it would be funny if my 766 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:45,880 episode gets like way more views than anybody that YouTube episode does come out, 767 00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:49,119 I'm just gonna throw it into our you have, into our Facebook group, 768 00:52:49,199 --> 00:52:51,960 so you know, oh my god, it was it's probably going to be 769 00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,159 pretty entertaining. I just I ended that call and I just walked into John 770 00:52:55,239 --> 00:53:00,079 and I was like, this is just really worst experience. And right afterwards, 771 00:53:00,119 --> 00:53:02,760 and I want to tell you what the podcast was. But then I 772 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:10,400 had like the best one right after that. It's called Recovery Mom. I 773 00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:13,760 think it's called Recovery Mom. You know what, I'm gonna put it on 774 00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:16,639 our Facebook. But her episode, that episode isn't out yet. But I 775 00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:20,719 get on the air with her and I'm like, oh my god, I 776 00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:23,639 had the weirdest, like worst experience before. And then she was like, 777 00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:27,760 oh god, I hope I'm not like weird. I'm probably weird too, 778 00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:30,000 and it was like the nicest. It's probably my favorite one. Like that's 779 00:53:30,079 --> 00:53:35,920 awesome. Yeah, Recovery Recovery Mom, Sober Mom, Sober Mom. I 780 00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:37,719 let us know when it comes, okay, I will. Yeah, it's 781 00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:40,920 awesome. Yeah, Okay, well that's a good note to end on. 782 00:53:42,159 --> 00:53:46,199 Yeah, so okay, right before we go as always Adam Lerner three one 783 00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:50,639 zero nine nine eight seven zero four eight. He's a car broker. You 784 00:53:50,639 --> 00:53:54,199 can go to Adam's got a car for all of your car buying, car 785 00:53:54,280 --> 00:54:00,440 leasing, whatever needs. I'd say car renting, but obviously not. And 786 00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:04,079 then I think I did everything. Oh, The Family Skeptical. It's a 787 00:54:04,119 --> 00:54:08,199 podcast. It's about raising kids without religion. It's a it's a fellow, 788 00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:13,159 it's a listener of our show who has a podcast. So let's just support 789 00:54:13,159 --> 00:54:16,880 her a download episode The Family Skeptical about like a different way to raise kids, 790 00:54:17,039 --> 00:54:21,679 you know. Yeah, and oh we didn't do Basic Becky. I 791 00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:25,800 love Basic Becky. Yeah, T shirts, mousepads, coffee mugs, and 792 00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:30,840 the holidays are past, so I'm sure her she's less crazed. You can 793 00:54:31,119 --> 00:54:36,360 like go peruse her website just basic Becky dot com or find her on Facebook 794 00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:37,880 at Basic Becky. Yeah. I think I'm gonna get a hold of her. 795 00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:42,639 I have some ideas for T shirts. Oh good, Yeah, all 796 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:46,199 right, thanks Kaylin. Thanks everybody follow us on our socials. Yes, 797 00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:52,199 I'm at fcol podcast across everywhere. Go to our YouTube. Check out our 798 00:54:52,199 --> 00:54:57,440 YouTube channel and check out all the clips that we have put on Instagram that 799 00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:00,480 Kaylin has worked so hard on and yeah, okay you're a parent now, 800 00:55:00,679 --> 00:55:07,840 don't f it up. It's a good let angle.