WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.160 --> 00:00:04.240 It's just me and you, Bailey, Jay's just us doing the Minnesota Goodbye. 2 00:00:04.320 --> 00:00:09.759 Jenny is on vacation. She right now as a Friday morning. She 3 00:00:09.960 --> 00:00:15.119 is in somewhere in Washington or Oregon or somewhere ye Worth, Levenworth, I 4 00:00:15.160 --> 00:00:20.199 guess, yeah, like in a hiking space. Yeah. I'm not sure 5 00:00:20.239 --> 00:00:22.559 if she's hiking right at the moment or what's going on. She did send 6 00:00:22.600 --> 00:00:26.920 me a video of a group of old people playing ukulele in a circle. 7 00:00:27.519 --> 00:00:31.440 It's on her Instagram story, I believe, and you can go check that 8 00:00:31.480 --> 00:00:34.679 out, Jenny KT would you be? But it's funny because I don't know 9 00:00:34.719 --> 00:00:40.079 why it is that mostly old people play ukulele, or maybe that's just the 10 00:00:40.119 --> 00:00:42.359 group that she happened to film. But it was a group of like, 11 00:00:42.439 --> 00:00:46.520 you know, forty fifty people, most of them old. They all sitting 12 00:00:46.520 --> 00:00:51.399 around playing ukulele. So they all have time to do so, I guess, 13 00:00:51.479 --> 00:00:53.880 But what about somebody who is twenty five, It has time to play 14 00:00:53.920 --> 00:00:57.600 the guitar, you know why. Maybe it's just something like, Okay, 15 00:00:57.600 --> 00:01:00.439 I want to play an instrument in my old age, so I'm going to 16 00:01:00.439 --> 00:01:03.959 start playing ukulele. And so anyway, go check her out. Ginny is 17 00:01:04.840 --> 00:01:11.640 hiking and being adventuresome and she'll be back on Monday. We were talking earlier 18 00:01:11.680 --> 00:01:14.319 about the fourth of July and how the fourth of July was. You know, 19 00:01:14.359 --> 00:01:17.159 we really got we get ft in Minnesota this summer. We're really getting 20 00:01:17.280 --> 00:01:19.079 ft out of summer. You know, it's great that the days are longer 21 00:01:19.120 --> 00:01:23.359 and it's not icy and snowy. But you know, I love bright, 22 00:01:23.439 --> 00:01:26.599 sunshiny days, right same, I feel like I get I definitely feel you 23 00:01:26.640 --> 00:01:32.400 there. It does obviously has been raining a lot, but when it's not 24 00:01:32.599 --> 00:01:36.560 raining, it's seventy five and sunny and not like ninety five and sunny. 25 00:01:36.840 --> 00:01:38.640 So I'm just like, okay, I'll take the rain. Also, I've 26 00:01:38.640 --> 00:01:42.480 only had to water my garden two times this summer so far. Let's stop 27 00:01:42.480 --> 00:01:47.000 and talk about your garden for a second. So what are you growing? 28 00:01:47.120 --> 00:01:49.480 Where is your garden? Because you live in an apartment, you wouldn't think 29 00:01:49.519 --> 00:01:52.640 that is there like a common ground outside that you can grow a garden in 30 00:01:52.719 --> 00:01:56.079 a lot, So it's not necessarily common. It's just that last year, 31 00:01:56.359 --> 00:02:00.079 I I don't know, I was kind of like eyeing this like dirt slab 32 00:02:00.200 --> 00:02:01.480 on the side of my building, and I'm garden level, so I have 33 00:02:01.599 --> 00:02:07.239 like view of this dirt slab outside my window, and I just shot my 34 00:02:07.359 --> 00:02:10.199 shoot, my shot and asked my landlord if I could plant a garden there, 35 00:02:10.240 --> 00:02:15.520 and he said yes. And so I have these three tiny little plots 36 00:02:15.520 --> 00:02:21.000 that are just between like the apartment windows that I dug up and planted stuff 37 00:02:21.000 --> 00:02:23.560 in, made like little fences around them. So last year was my first 38 00:02:23.639 --> 00:02:29.560 year having it. This year, obviously, I've replanted everything, but I've 39 00:02:29.599 --> 00:02:31.599 you know, made choices on specifically what to plant. So a lot of 40 00:02:31.639 --> 00:02:39.080 it are either snacking things or root vegetables okay, your turn up, yeah, 41 00:02:39.080 --> 00:02:43.400 exactly, yeah, or things that I can like pick off and eat 42 00:02:43.439 --> 00:02:46.879 right away, like peas and cherry tomatoes. Okay, stuff like that. 43 00:02:46.919 --> 00:02:50.000 Oh nice. Yeah. But I planted a bunch of like wild flowers and 44 00:02:50.080 --> 00:02:53.360 just different kinds of flowers because I put those around the fence to make it 45 00:02:53.520 --> 00:02:57.520 pop and look cuter, and every time it rains, they just all the 46 00:02:57.560 --> 00:03:00.960 seats wash away, so like those don't have enough time to like hold roots 47 00:03:01.000 --> 00:03:06.520 unfortunately. Okay, but yeah, I haven't had to water any of it, 48 00:03:06.560 --> 00:03:07.840 which is nice because they never put the hose on my building, and 49 00:03:07.840 --> 00:03:12.159 I've just been stealing those. Okay, building next door. It's funny when 50 00:03:12.159 --> 00:03:15.719 you talk about gardening. I grew up. Gardening wasn't a fun activity for 51 00:03:15.800 --> 00:03:19.960 us. It was like because we did not we weren't poor. I don't 52 00:03:19.960 --> 00:03:23.199 want to say we were poor. We did find but we saved money by 53 00:03:23.280 --> 00:03:28.719 raising our own chickens and raising two giant gardens. Our garden was the size 54 00:03:28.759 --> 00:03:30.400 if you combine our two gardens. We had the north garden and the South 55 00:03:30.439 --> 00:03:35.840 garden. Wow. And and if you combine the two of them would probably 56 00:03:35.840 --> 00:03:38.919 be bigger than most people's yard all together, like the entire footprint of their 57 00:03:39.039 --> 00:03:45.080 yards. They were speaker or something total, probably half an acre garden's garden 58 00:03:45.240 --> 00:03:46.120 it was. It was huge, it was vast, and it was not 59 00:03:46.159 --> 00:03:50.240 fun. We didn't go, oh, let's go check our garden. It 60 00:03:50.319 --> 00:03:53.240 was like, boys, you gotta go work in the garden today now, 61 00:03:53.400 --> 00:03:59.599 pulling weeds, rototilling, watering, putting, whatever. So it was no 62 00:03:59.639 --> 00:04:01.520 fun to me. And I remember when I first moved here, I lived 63 00:04:01.520 --> 00:04:03.680 in Plymouth, and I thought, oh, there's a spot outside for a 64 00:04:03.719 --> 00:04:06.800 garden. So I went down and I rented a rototiller, because you got 65 00:04:06.879 --> 00:04:11.120 to till up the ground before you can plant. So I went down, 66 00:04:11.159 --> 00:04:15.639 rented a rototiller and did something about the size of the average bedroom and planted 67 00:04:15.680 --> 00:04:19.000 it and then quickly didn't care. And so my crops grew up. I 68 00:04:19.040 --> 00:04:24.160 had radishes, carrots are really easy to grow, peas, beans, whatever, 69 00:04:24.680 --> 00:04:27.959 And I quickly didn't care, and I let it go like i'd let 70 00:04:27.959 --> 00:04:30.720 the weeds take over. And I just quickly, I quickly did not care 71 00:04:31.360 --> 00:04:34.360 because I think I realized that, hey, this reminds me of work back 72 00:04:34.399 --> 00:04:38.120 on summer days when I was a kid. Yeah, I'm going to get 73 00:04:38.160 --> 00:04:43.079 into an email because I have a response to this one they say, please 74 00:04:43.120 --> 00:04:46.199 don't say my name. I love listening to all of you. I listen 75 00:04:46.319 --> 00:04:48.879 in the morning that I listened back to the podcast while I'm at work, 76 00:04:48.879 --> 00:04:51.959 I listened to Jenni in Fallance Podcasts, and I spend the rest of my 77 00:04:53.079 --> 00:04:58.240 morning working hours listening to Dave Ramsey, who I think does finances and true 78 00:04:58.279 --> 00:05:00.600 crime. I need to have background, and you guys are my favorite. 79 00:05:00.800 --> 00:05:04.800 Anyway, my aunt says a lot of dumb shit, and this weekend I 80 00:05:04.879 --> 00:05:08.959 was in awe of her as she told her seventy five year old uncle, 81 00:05:09.519 --> 00:05:13.480 you were just a male carrier in Vietnam. Now, I don't know why 82 00:05:13.519 --> 00:05:17.160 that was insulting, but apparently it was very insulting. Our jaws dropped in 83 00:05:17.319 --> 00:05:20.959 utter disbelief. You can imagine, I'm no stranger to a foot in the 84 00:05:21.000 --> 00:05:25.600 mouth moment, but holy fuck, I could not believe it. The audacity. 85 00:05:26.240 --> 00:05:30.360 Again, I don't know why that comment was so insulting, but apparently 86 00:05:30.399 --> 00:05:32.639 it was. That made me think, what was the time you witnessed an 87 00:05:32.680 --> 00:05:38.079 interaction like this, or a time when you said something completely insensitive, rude, 88 00:05:38.160 --> 00:05:41.319 or inappropriate? Ready go, Well, the first one that comes to 89 00:05:41.360 --> 00:05:46.199 mind, and there have probably been many, was we were doing a Be 90 00:05:46.439 --> 00:05:51.319 the Match video in the big performance room down the hall. So it was 91 00:05:51.439 --> 00:05:57.319 me and Fallon and Steve and the guys from Kfan and maybe the guys from 92 00:05:57.399 --> 00:06:00.360 K one O two, and so I was I had I used to wear 93 00:06:00.399 --> 00:06:05.079 bronzer because I'm not a pale I'm a pale person. So I'm standing there 94 00:06:05.120 --> 00:06:09.120 talking to Chris Hockey and we're doing this video for Be the Match with a 95 00:06:09.240 --> 00:06:15.160 man whose teenage son has like kidney cancer, and so they are looking for 96 00:06:15.199 --> 00:06:18.680 a match for his kidney donor or whatever and something like that. And now 97 00:06:18.720 --> 00:06:25.000 remember this man is organizing this whole video and his son has cancer. Remember 98 00:06:25.000 --> 00:06:28.040 that, got it? So I'm talking to Chris Hockey between takes, and 99 00:06:28.120 --> 00:06:30.680 Chris Hockey goes, man, you look good. You wearing bronzer. I 100 00:06:30.720 --> 00:06:32.519 said, man, you know, loud enough the entire room heard me. 101 00:06:32.879 --> 00:06:35.439 Man, Chris, if I didn't wear bronzer, I'd look like I had 102 00:06:35.519 --> 00:06:43.800 cancer. Oh my god, oh god. And and nobody even made an 103 00:06:43.839 --> 00:06:47.040 effort to be on my side, like, oh, but you know what, 104 00:06:47.079 --> 00:06:49.399 I get it, sorry, you know whatever. Everybody was like, 105 00:06:50.040 --> 00:06:55.079 oh, and I'm like, I'm so sorry. I feel so stupid. 106 00:06:55.120 --> 00:06:58.839 I said, that's totally on me. Nobody said that's okay, that's okay. 107 00:06:58.920 --> 00:07:03.439 Everybody wanted to disassociate themselves from me because I said such a stupid fucking 108 00:07:03.560 --> 00:07:05.879 thing. All right, I didn't wear one, I'd look like I have 109 00:07:06.040 --> 00:07:10.279 cancer in front of a man whose son has cancer. My god, what 110 00:07:10.319 --> 00:07:12.519 about you? Can you think of a foot in mouth moment? I don't 111 00:07:12.560 --> 00:07:15.319 know. I don't really say things that are bad, or if I do, 112 00:07:15.399 --> 00:07:19.199 I apologize for them, so then they are lifted from my conscious though 113 00:07:19.279 --> 00:07:23.920 true. Yeah, I guess. Last the other day before we left for 114 00:07:24.079 --> 00:07:28.319 the fourth of July, we were show planning and I mentioned Juneteenth, and 115 00:07:28.360 --> 00:07:31.639 when I said June teenth, I gestured to Vaunt and I felt and he 116 00:07:31.720 --> 00:07:34.600 was like, why are you gesturing to me? And I didn't even think 117 00:07:35.120 --> 00:07:39.519 that that was like a microaggression that I was just like, yeah, you're 118 00:07:39.600 --> 00:07:44.199 black, June teenth, that matters to you. That felt. I felt 119 00:07:44.240 --> 00:07:46.160 so stupid in that moment, and I felt so bad. I apologized later. 120 00:07:46.240 --> 00:07:50.120 Well, you know, Vaunt is like a funny guy and very van 121 00:07:50.199 --> 00:07:53.879 is also the kind of person who, because he says a lot, he 122 00:07:53.920 --> 00:07:57.720 will also put his foot in his mouth here and there. And so we're 123 00:07:57.839 --> 00:07:59.680 very forgiving, you know. And I think that's one of the things. 124 00:07:59.680 --> 00:08:01.839 If you know somebody, you know they're a good person, and you say 125 00:08:01.839 --> 00:08:07.279 something like, oh, well you like Juneteenth, right right, then we 126 00:08:07.360 --> 00:08:11.279 know you're a good person. You're not a goofball, you know. If 127 00:08:11.279 --> 00:08:13.480 you want to write me back and let me know, I won't say your 128 00:08:13.519 --> 00:08:16.000 name. The woman who wrote in about you were just a male carrier in 129 00:08:16.079 --> 00:08:20.959 Vietnam. Why that was so insulting because clearly it was maybe maybe it said 130 00:08:20.000 --> 00:08:22.959 somewhere that they were a VET and they were like, oh, you're not 131 00:08:22.000 --> 00:08:26.720 a real like you didn't see real action. You were just a male Oh 132 00:08:26.839 --> 00:08:28.639 okay, yeah. Because he's seventy five years old, that would be right 133 00:08:28.680 --> 00:08:31.679 around the age of a Vietnam War veteran, right, So if he's like, 134 00:08:31.759 --> 00:08:33.759 yeah, I was a VET, I saw a lot of action in 135 00:08:33.840 --> 00:08:37.600 Vietnam, and they're like, you were just a male carrier. All good, 136 00:08:37.879 --> 00:08:43.960 good interpretation. Yeah, next one, Hello, Dave, Jenny vont 137 00:08:43.960 --> 00:08:46.759 Bailey. I'm always trying to figure out something I could write in and ask 138 00:08:46.799 --> 00:08:48.480 the show since I love your podcast so much, Well, thank you. 139 00:08:50.240 --> 00:08:52.720 First thing, I love that Bailey's on the show. She adds in the 140 00:08:52.720 --> 00:08:56.759 nerdiness that was missing from the show. I love her. Second thing. 141 00:08:56.799 --> 00:09:01.240 On Friday's show last week, Dave did a little DJ puking. What everybody 142 00:09:01.279 --> 00:09:05.159 tried to do their best DJ puking. I think it would sound hilarious. 143 00:09:05.200 --> 00:09:09.360 Thanks, all right, keep on dart licking from Kristen. Now, when 144 00:09:09.399 --> 00:09:13.600 we say DJ puking, what we mean is like DJs back in the day, 145 00:09:15.200 --> 00:09:16.639 they used to kind of talk like this a little bit and I will 146 00:09:16.639 --> 00:09:20.840 tell you there is one person in our building that they're a little bit old 147 00:09:20.879 --> 00:09:26.120 school and they still do this a little bit because they're a DJ. And 148 00:09:26.360 --> 00:09:31.639 that was kind of like DJ's back in the day, maybe back in the 149 00:09:31.799 --> 00:09:37.080 seventies, eighties whatever, That is kind of what you used to talk like. 150 00:09:37.159 --> 00:09:39.639 It is like, hey, it's Dave Ryan on what a one point 151 00:09:39.679 --> 00:09:45.279 three kd WB And it's kind of because you're puking with your voice, and 152 00:09:45.360 --> 00:09:50.399 we would coach everybody in radio don't do that anymore. That is very passe. 153 00:09:50.759 --> 00:09:54.279 Sure, Like I said, there is somebody in the building who stun 154 00:09:54.399 --> 00:10:00.000 still does it not a lot, but they still say all one point three 155 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:05.440 three a lot of law to point three and so. But now we've learned 156 00:10:05.480 --> 00:10:09.639 talk naturally, and we talk naturally. That is That is so funny because 157 00:10:09.639 --> 00:10:13.200 I sometimes I feel like I've ripped on Vant anytime I've sat in the room 158 00:10:13.240 --> 00:10:16.679 when he has to like record something for like a weekend show or whatever, 159 00:10:16.759 --> 00:10:20.759 and he'd be like, hey, everybody, it's a bunt leak and uh, 160 00:10:20.840 --> 00:10:22.879 I mean having a great day to day or whatever. And he'll always 161 00:10:22.919 --> 00:10:28.720 touch his ear when he does. Oh, like you're like yeah, like 162 00:10:26.519 --> 00:10:31.840 yeah, yeah, and so I pointed it out to him, and then 163 00:10:31.960 --> 00:10:33.559 I think I ruined it for him because then every time he went to take 164 00:10:33.600 --> 00:10:37.080 a do a take, he like touched his ear and he's like, why 165 00:10:37.120 --> 00:10:41.320 did you tell me that? Because now it's super obvious. But I love 166 00:10:41.360 --> 00:10:43.840 that. That's funny to me. I'm glad you've grown out of it. 167 00:10:43.039 --> 00:10:46.559 I don't know why people touch their ear. I think it's because you're supposedly 168 00:10:46.600 --> 00:10:50.960 pushing an ear piece into your ear to hear it better. I'm not sure. 169 00:10:52.080 --> 00:10:56.360 I just always think of Mariah Carey, okay, yeah, And I 170 00:10:56.840 --> 00:11:01.279 give Mariah credit. She probably knows what she's doing. I don't know, 171 00:11:03.360 --> 00:11:07.799 So thank you, Christin. I appreciate that. And peel Oh, I 172 00:11:07.840 --> 00:11:09.080 was going to tell the story people used to say when I first got into 173 00:11:09.159 --> 00:11:13.919 radio. They said, they'd say, do your DJ voice, and I 174 00:11:13.080 --> 00:11:16.279 was kind of like, I used to have. Okay, I'm going to 175 00:11:16.320 --> 00:11:20.080 tell you this is not going to translate well, but when I was new 176 00:11:20.240 --> 00:11:26.720 in radio, we tend to find somebody that we really like on the radio, 177 00:11:26.919 --> 00:11:33.559 and we either consciously or unconsciously mimic the way they sound. And there 178 00:11:33.600 --> 00:11:35.080 was a guy, my first boss and I loved him. I grew up 179 00:11:35.120 --> 00:11:37.879 listening to him, and he had a kind of a voice like this a 180 00:11:37.919 --> 00:11:41.840 little bit, just a little bit, but it sounded really natural, and 181 00:11:43.279 --> 00:11:46.039 so I started talking like that and I was like, hey, it's and 182 00:11:46.080 --> 00:11:52.200 it was on an AM station, fourteen sixty KYSN. Hey it's Dave Ryan 183 00:11:52.240 --> 00:11:58.559 on fourteen sixty kys N. Because I thought I was sounding like this guy 184 00:11:58.600 --> 00:12:01.000 that I really admired. And my girlfriend Cricket, She's like, why do 185 00:12:01.039 --> 00:12:03.879 you sound like you're plugging your nose? And I'm like, I don't know 186 00:12:03.919 --> 00:12:07.960 what you're talking to me out But then I quickly got over that. But 187 00:12:09.279 --> 00:12:11.759 if you go back and listen, it would be mean, what are you 188 00:12:11.799 --> 00:12:13.519 saying? Yeah, people in speech do that all the time too, not 189 00:12:13.679 --> 00:12:18.480 necessarily, not necessarily like the nasal thing, but they I call it speech 190 00:12:18.559 --> 00:12:22.480 voice because they talk in a very specific cadence that they think is the correct 191 00:12:22.480 --> 00:12:28.200 way to do public speaking. And it drives me up the wall because it's 192 00:12:28.200 --> 00:12:31.759 not how real people talk. So I coach my students not to talk that 193 00:12:31.799 --> 00:12:35.840 way, okay, And I'm trying to like find I want to give you 194 00:12:35.840 --> 00:12:39.960 like an example, but I don't know I'll have to find well, if 195 00:12:39.960 --> 00:12:43.679 you can think of one. Yeah, And then there's something that I that 196 00:12:43.799 --> 00:12:50.840 I coach people that I've coached people that work in TV as well, and 197 00:12:50.960 --> 00:12:56.440 TV people. The cliche in TV people is to be like, so we 198 00:12:56.519 --> 00:13:01.480 are here at the courthouse where we just had a converse with the district attorney, 199 00:13:01.559 --> 00:13:07.600 and the district attorney says that she is going to press charges. Everything 200 00:13:07.679 --> 00:13:13.200 is very staccato and kind of weird. And so I've coached TV people to 201 00:13:13.320 --> 00:13:16.399 be like, you know what, watch some of the people in big stations 202 00:13:16.399 --> 00:13:18.320 in big cities, watch people on Channel nine, watch people on Channel five, 203 00:13:18.679 --> 00:13:22.480 and they're just very they're talk they're conversational, you know what I mean. 204 00:13:22.519 --> 00:13:24.879 But the cliche, the TV one, is like, you have to 205 00:13:24.919 --> 00:13:30.840 be very stilted, and you have to be staccato as you talk, and 206 00:13:30.840 --> 00:13:33.759 it's like no, natural works fine, right, And I feel like it's 207 00:13:33.879 --> 00:13:41.120 easier to listen to when you speak more naturally. That absolutely yeah, you're 208 00:13:41.200 --> 00:13:46.159 in like in your DJ voice. Yes, Hello radio besties. I get 209 00:13:46.159 --> 00:13:48.799 a question to comment, Feel free to read one, both or not on 210 00:13:48.840 --> 00:13:52.679 the podcast. This email is purely because I am forty five minutes early to 211 00:13:52.720 --> 00:13:56.080 work, and I can't clock in yet, but if I'm not occupied somewhere 212 00:13:56.080 --> 00:13:58.919 else, I'll start working. And I've been told up by everybody here for 213 00:13:58.000 --> 00:14:03.480 doing free work. Any who question, what are the rules about language on 214 00:14:03.519 --> 00:14:05.720 the radio so arbitrary? Why are they arbitrary? It blows my mind that 215 00:14:05.759 --> 00:14:09.639 you can say things like bitch and jackass but not shit. It feels like 216 00:14:09.679 --> 00:14:13.799 the old laws that made sense in the eighteen hundreds are no longer relevant and 217 00:14:13.840 --> 00:14:18.080 no longer and never get taken off the books. For example, hamburgers may 218 00:14:18.080 --> 00:14:22.559 not be eaten on Sundays law out of Saint Cloud. What more of these 219 00:14:22.600 --> 00:14:28.120 fun nonsense laws are here at this link? But back to the question, 220 00:14:28.320 --> 00:14:31.039 is it as random or it seems? Is there a reason that shit is 221 00:14:31.080 --> 00:14:33.840 more offensive than bitch? Oh? Absolutely, I mean that to me, 222 00:14:33.960 --> 00:14:39.360 it's plain as day. Sure, ass or asshole or ass white. There's 223 00:14:39.360 --> 00:14:43.480 some that seem to blur the lines, like you can legally say goddamn or 224 00:14:43.480 --> 00:14:50.159 goddamn it on the radio, Oh, but it's distasteful, So we don't 225 00:14:50.240 --> 00:14:56.320 sure you can legally say bitch or ass on the radio, but you can't 226 00:14:56.360 --> 00:15:01.840 say shit legally on the radio. You can't even say bullshit, which Jenny 227 00:15:01.840 --> 00:15:03.480 didn't know about five years ago, and she said, well, that's bullshit. 228 00:15:03.519 --> 00:15:07.879 We're like, Jenny, you can't say shit on the radio. So 229 00:15:07.960 --> 00:15:11.639 the rules are so there. Used to be it was seven words you can't 230 00:15:11.679 --> 00:15:15.200 say on the radio, and it was an old comedy routine by an old 231 00:15:15.240 --> 00:15:18.399 school comic who's now gone named George Carlin. You ever heard of George Carlin? 232 00:15:18.480 --> 00:15:22.919 Shit, piss fuck, cunt, cocksucker, motherfucker, and tits, 233 00:15:22.759 --> 00:15:26.919 shit, piss fuck, cunt, cocksucker, motherfucker and tits. Well, 234 00:15:26.960 --> 00:15:31.159 we've said tits on the radio we have, and that one is kind of 235 00:15:31.519 --> 00:15:35.360 you really should not, honestly, I guess it depends if it's like funny, 236 00:15:37.080 --> 00:15:39.159 yeah, like oh, then she went tits up, that's funny, 237 00:15:39.360 --> 00:15:45.200 but it was like, yeah, like sexual or vulgar. Tits up is 238 00:15:45.320 --> 00:15:50.559 like funny but not vulgar. But then yeah, show me your tits is 239 00:15:52.440 --> 00:15:56.960 vulgar and sexual. But shit to me is plain as day. It's just 240 00:15:56.080 --> 00:15:58.679 you wouldn't say it around your three year old, but then again, you 241 00:15:58.679 --> 00:16:03.480 wouldn't say around your career. I guess it's kind of like bitch is sort 242 00:16:03.480 --> 00:16:07.720 of like funny too, like bitch, what are you talking about? Right? 243 00:16:07.840 --> 00:16:11.440 And it's more acceptable now even if you say like you're a bitch, 244 00:16:11.519 --> 00:16:15.600 it's clear that you're like being funny, right, like the sea word. 245 00:16:15.799 --> 00:16:21.279 Like there's no fun context for the sea word. I mean among friends. 246 00:16:21.279 --> 00:16:23.639 If you're there with your friend and let's say it's two women hanging out of 247 00:16:23.679 --> 00:16:26.960 a brewery and one of them keeps buying the beers and the other one won't, 248 00:16:27.000 --> 00:16:30.279 and she's like, you're being a sea word, buy me a beer, 249 00:16:30.879 --> 00:16:33.919 then it's funny. But if like a guy yells out the car window 250 00:16:33.960 --> 00:16:37.919 at some woman like Europe, you know, then it's not like it's not 251 00:16:38.080 --> 00:16:45.080 vulgar and it's insulting and it's disgusting. No, I I totally understand that. 252 00:16:45.159 --> 00:16:49.360 Yeah, you probably rarely use it. No ever, Donald ever spoken 253 00:16:49.360 --> 00:16:55.159 it out loud. Okay, good, I don't want to. So we 254 00:16:55.240 --> 00:16:59.480 got shit piss Like, well now you can kind of say piss me off 255 00:17:00.120 --> 00:17:03.759 or you know, or piss off or whatever. So again it's not as 256 00:17:03.799 --> 00:17:07.680 bad as it used to be. So we got shit piss fuck fuck of 257 00:17:07.680 --> 00:17:11.640 course clearly is the ultimate swhere where everybody knows that one. Then you have 258 00:17:11.680 --> 00:17:15.519 the C word, So is shit, piss, fuck, sea word? 259 00:17:17.440 --> 00:17:22.359 Cocksucker? Okay, cocksucker. Obviously you can't say that one. You know, 260 00:17:22.839 --> 00:17:26.720 friends could say it to each other, like you know, if you're 261 00:17:26.880 --> 00:17:30.559 you know, your best friend, whatever, dent your car, whatever you're 262 00:17:30.599 --> 00:17:33.039 like, you know, I don't know, I can imagine that that being 263 00:17:33.079 --> 00:17:38.079 set on the radio and then just absolute crickets afterwards, like motherfucker. Clearly 264 00:17:38.200 --> 00:17:44.480 can't do that one and tits. So there we go. I don't know. 265 00:17:44.920 --> 00:17:48.359 I personally I think that shit is way more offensive than bitch, but 266 00:17:48.759 --> 00:17:52.160 it might you might not agree. That wasn't in my training, so they 267 00:17:52.160 --> 00:17:56.400 should add that in really on the radio. Well, I think a lot 268 00:17:56.400 --> 00:18:00.440 of it is just kind of common sense. But I hope we answered that 269 00:18:00.519 --> 00:18:04.160 aarin, Thank you very much, appreciate that email. Let's see if we 270 00:18:04.200 --> 00:18:10.599 got another one. Okay, here's one. Nicole writes in I want to 271 00:18:10.599 --> 00:18:15.720 get your opinion. About two months ago, I borrowed five hundred dollars to 272 00:18:15.799 --> 00:18:18.920 my boyfriend of two years on the agreement that he will pay me back. 273 00:18:18.720 --> 00:18:22.119 So it's five hundred dollars two months ago. In the last months, he's 274 00:18:22.160 --> 00:18:26.920 been buying things that he doesn't really need like another lawn chair when he already 275 00:18:26.960 --> 00:18:30.720 has three, but this one has a small table or a water bottle that 276 00:18:30.759 --> 00:18:33.680 adds more oxygen or some kind of shit to it. Why the hell do 277 00:18:33.680 --> 00:18:37.480 you need that while I'm more like Jenny and why do we need more junks? 278 00:18:37.480 --> 00:18:41.359 So I have now been requesting my money that he owes me, and 279 00:18:41.400 --> 00:18:45.720 he is getting pissed and saying that's not how relationships work and how I always 280 00:18:45.720 --> 00:18:48.240 seem to have one foot out the door, when really I'm just trying to 281 00:18:48.279 --> 00:18:52.960 protect myself. I've been burned a lot in the past from ex's so I 282 00:18:52.079 --> 00:18:56.599 don't have that much faith on borrowing money to my boyfriend now. And he 283 00:18:56.720 --> 00:19:00.000 is saying I shouldn't let the past effect what is going on today. Long 284 00:19:00.039 --> 00:19:03.720 story somewhat short. Am I the asshole for asking it back? Thanks for 285 00:19:03.759 --> 00:19:07.079 any input you want to take this one, Bailey, Well, it's your 286 00:19:07.119 --> 00:19:10.400 money. I feel like you shouldn't feel like the asshole if it's You're the 287 00:19:10.400 --> 00:19:12.640 one who did who loaned this money out of the goodness of your heart. 288 00:19:12.759 --> 00:19:17.319 So if you need a back, ask for a back. It's your money. 289 00:19:17.519 --> 00:19:22.640 And he's being the he's being clearly the asshole by not paying you back 290 00:19:22.680 --> 00:19:26.160 and telling you that it's your problem for making a big deal out of it. 291 00:19:26.200 --> 00:19:29.680 Now, five hundred dollars is a lot of money, a lot of 292 00:19:29.720 --> 00:19:32.720 money, and he has not paid any of it back. But he bought 293 00:19:32.720 --> 00:19:36.960 another lawn chair and this one has a small table or water bottle. Okay, 294 00:19:36.960 --> 00:19:40.680 that's funny. I can't imagine what the hell you're talking about it. 295 00:19:40.880 --> 00:19:45.839 But I remember Fallon loaned somebody here that worked at the radio station on the 296 00:19:45.839 --> 00:19:51.039 morning show. Fallon loaned them money. And I think because they needed something 297 00:19:51.079 --> 00:19:59.519 for their car or repair, like three thousands dollars and uh, and this 298 00:19:59.599 --> 00:20:03.000 person was slowly paying them back or not. But then they bought a new 299 00:20:03.480 --> 00:20:08.720 pair of cowboy boots. They went to the Kenny Chesney concert. They went 300 00:20:08.799 --> 00:20:12.559 and they bought like a hoodie from Kitty Chesney and it's like they're wearing it 301 00:20:12.599 --> 00:20:17.920 on social media. And Fallon was pissed because it's like, bitch, that's 302 00:20:18.119 --> 00:20:21.720 my money, that's my money for your tickets and you're not paying me back, 303 00:20:21.759 --> 00:20:23.839 but you went to the Kenny Chesney concert. You gotta be really careful 304 00:20:23.880 --> 00:20:27.359 about loaning anybody money. A lot of people get or either loan out money 305 00:20:27.400 --> 00:20:32.279 or get loaned money on this show or let at least like I've heard of 306 00:20:32.359 --> 00:20:34.240 three separate stories where they're like, I loaned so and so money. What 307 00:20:34.279 --> 00:20:38.000 did you hear well from you? Who you loaned Drake money? Obviously this 308 00:20:38.119 --> 00:20:41.400 Fallon loaned this other person money, yep. And I swear I heard about 309 00:20:41.440 --> 00:20:45.200 somebody else loaning someone else money as well. And it just seems like people 310 00:20:45.200 --> 00:20:48.839 are like, hey, I need money, Oh you do, here's some 311 00:20:48.759 --> 00:20:52.240 and then you just kind of like play musical chairs with all of your money. 312 00:20:52.279 --> 00:20:56.119 Well, I like to be generous and I hate to see people like 313 00:20:56.559 --> 00:21:00.599 need money and not have it, but I do. So I may have 314 00:21:00.759 --> 00:21:03.880 an abundance that I could loan Drake twenty five hundred dollars. Yeah, and 315 00:21:03.920 --> 00:21:07.319 he needed it. I don't remember what he needed it for. But and 316 00:21:07.359 --> 00:21:11.039 I'm not going to sit here and disparage Drake. But I'll he paid back 317 00:21:11.079 --> 00:21:15.400 fifteen hundred dollars and I'll never see it. I'll never I mean he paid 318 00:21:15.880 --> 00:21:18.920 I will never see the last thousands. I wonder if the person who borrowed 319 00:21:18.960 --> 00:21:22.319 the money from Fallon ended up giving any of it back. I don't think 320 00:21:22.400 --> 00:21:29.240 so wild that person got fired and they I don't think have any contact with 321 00:21:29.319 --> 00:21:32.440 Fallon at all. Gosh. And if you don't have any contact with Fallon 322 00:21:32.759 --> 00:21:36.559 or that person that you loan money too, you're probably not going to see 323 00:21:36.599 --> 00:21:40.519 them to say, hey, give that back, where's my money? Yeah, 324 00:21:40.559 --> 00:21:42.119 that's why I said last last week on the show, I said, 325 00:21:42.160 --> 00:21:45.039 never give out money that you expect to get back, because you likely won't 326 00:21:45.039 --> 00:21:48.200 get it back. You likely won't. Yeah, Hey, granted, I 327 00:21:48.200 --> 00:21:51.920 mean it doesn't hurt to ask back. So like our person emailing in about 328 00:21:51.920 --> 00:21:55.480 the five hundred dollars, like, you can still ask for a back, 329 00:21:55.599 --> 00:21:57.720 demand it back. I don't know, start selling his stuff on the side. 330 00:21:57.920 --> 00:22:00.920 Right. Well, I think if you're going to loan anybody money, 331 00:22:02.039 --> 00:22:07.079 you need to put some rules on it. Okay, when are you going 332 00:22:07.160 --> 00:22:08.079 to pay this back? By it, I'm going to loan you twenty five 333 00:22:08.160 --> 00:22:11.640 hundred dollars, When will I see it back? And if they say, 334 00:22:11.640 --> 00:22:15.839 well by next week, then you fucking hold them to next week. Yeah. 335 00:22:15.839 --> 00:22:18.359 And if you and then you have it in writing too, and so 336 00:22:18.039 --> 00:22:22.599 they can't say and even if it's your brother or your friend, but especially 337 00:22:22.599 --> 00:22:27.079 if it's not somebody that you're super close to, then you get it in 338 00:22:27.119 --> 00:22:32.039 writing. So when they say I never said i'd pay it back next week, 339 00:22:32.119 --> 00:22:33.839 you can show them. Look you said here it is by July fifth, 340 00:22:34.000 --> 00:22:38.160 bitch, you would pay it back? So shit right? Would you 341 00:22:38.440 --> 00:22:41.880 look at you? Bitch? And shit in one sentence? Let's work in 342 00:22:41.920 --> 00:22:44.240 the word. Come on, say the sea words. Say it, say 343 00:22:44.240 --> 00:22:48.720 the sea word. Say it. No, you don't have to country a 344 00:22:48.680 --> 00:22:56.079 country music that is so funny. It always surprises me when I hear a 345 00:22:56.079 --> 00:23:00.880 woman say the sea word, because women hate that word. But when and 346 00:23:00.920 --> 00:23:04.000 I've heard women use it, like even women that I can't remember Jenny or 347 00:23:04.039 --> 00:23:07.680 Fallon specifically, but there have been women who've worked on the show and said 348 00:23:07.720 --> 00:23:11.200 I hate her, She's a sea word. And I'm like, WHOA, 349 00:23:11.440 --> 00:23:14.599 that's some powerful speak. I heard Fallon say that one time we went to 350 00:23:14.680 --> 00:23:17.319 lunch. She said it, and I was like, do you remember what 351 00:23:17.359 --> 00:23:18.640 context it was? Was she talking about me? Yeah, she was talking 352 00:23:18.680 --> 00:23:25.039 about specifically. She just went on and on and on it was. But 353 00:23:25.119 --> 00:23:27.799 I think that really you have to have a powerful distaste for another woman to 354 00:23:27.920 --> 00:23:33.599 call a woman a sea word. I think probably in my entire life, 355 00:23:33.599 --> 00:23:37.759 I probably only described two people as a sea word. Unless it's like somebody 356 00:23:37.759 --> 00:23:40.880 who's driving bad, like they're cutting in and out of traffic, or they're 357 00:23:40.880 --> 00:23:41.720 like, you know, on my ass. I'll be like, get up 358 00:23:41.759 --> 00:23:45.759 my ass. You s word? Really yeah, But then I'm not like 359 00:23:45.799 --> 00:23:48.119 directing it to them. They're an anonymous kind of person. A bitch, 360 00:23:48.200 --> 00:23:51.559 that's what I do it, bitch. I'm like, let's go, you 361 00:23:51.799 --> 00:23:53.720 stupid set bets. Well that's a good word. I like that. Then 362 00:23:53.880 --> 00:23:57.519 that's creative. Yeah. We use the word shit ass when I was a 363 00:23:57.599 --> 00:24:00.920 kid. It's in my book because I talk about how when I was about 364 00:24:00.920 --> 00:24:06.519 five years old, my mom was upstairs talking on the phone, and then 365 00:24:06.559 --> 00:24:10.319 I went downstairs picked up the bottom stead the downstairs phone. I picked it 366 00:24:10.400 --> 00:24:15.279 up and I said shit ass. And I got in so much trouble because 367 00:24:15.319 --> 00:24:17.680 as a five year old, you shouldn't know that word, and you certainly 368 00:24:17.680 --> 00:24:19.880 should not pick it up and tell the neighbor lady that my mom was talking 369 00:24:19.920 --> 00:24:23.680 to shit ass. She's talking to like a kind, nice old lady, 370 00:24:23.759 --> 00:24:27.359 or like an insurance provider, like shit ass. Oh, the world, 371 00:24:27.640 --> 00:24:32.000 the world came to a grind it My five year old world came to a 372 00:24:32.039 --> 00:24:37.640 grinding halt because they didn't know what to do. I didn't get spanked for 373 00:24:37.680 --> 00:24:41.640 it, but I remember thinking, oh, I'm in really big trouble. 374 00:24:42.319 --> 00:24:47.519 And they were discussing it like it was like the United Nations gathering to discuss 375 00:24:47.559 --> 00:24:52.200 how should we handle this. They welcome you in like one shining light came 376 00:24:52.319 --> 00:24:56.000 down on you, like, David, why did I don't know? Like 377 00:24:56.039 --> 00:25:00.920 an inquisition? All right, that is it for the Minnesota goodbye. Send 378 00:25:00.920 --> 00:25:03.440 your emails to Ryan Show at KDEWBT on com. I know it's like the 379 00:25:03.440 --> 00:25:07.880 holiday weekend and Bailey and I were talking about how there's no cars on the 380 00:25:07.920 --> 00:25:11.200 road right now as we record this, it is six forty seven in the 381 00:25:11.200 --> 00:25:14.960 morning on Friday. A War of the Roses replay is on the radio, 382 00:25:15.799 --> 00:25:19.119 and we're looking outside and there's really not a lot of traffic. This feels 383 00:25:19.160 --> 00:25:25.599 like a like peak lockdown era. There's no one that was so weird. 384 00:25:25.799 --> 00:25:29.240 Okay, send your emails. Let us know about swearing, what, let 385 00:25:29.279 --> 00:25:32.920 us know about the C word. Anything you want to talk about. Send 386 00:25:32.920 --> 00:25:37.880 that into Ryanshow at KDWB dot com.