1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,559 Yesterday a young woman went viral and opened a debate on the issue of motherhood 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:09,839 and parenthood. I see a lot of things in this young lady' s 3 00:00:09,919 --> 00:00:15,320 video if you saw him eduardo the video of this young woman crying because she 4 00:00:15,439 --> 00:00:17,760 ' s not overwhelmed with her daughter. I see there I see a person 5 00:00:17,879 --> 00:00:24,519 with serious mental health problems, starting because you have to have a very sick 6 00:00:24,519 --> 00:00:30,519 mind, I mean, you have to be very sick of the mind I 7 00:00:30,519 --> 00:00:35,799 did. I don' t know, psychiatrists could give you some kind of 8 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:40,719 idea that behavior can lead someone to film, upload it to Tiktok and that 9 00:00:40,759 --> 00:00:47,679 video of Tiktok you then go viral where you make it clear that you' 10 00:00:47,759 --> 00:00:50,560 re sick of your daughter. I didn' t think my mom would have 11 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:55,079 done it. I have to hide to cry. Let' s listen to 12 00:00:55,159 --> 00:01:02,000 the pathetic that stars this video and let' s eat out of the no 13 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:06,599 in the way, but from the bottom. There is an announcer named Tom 14 00:01:06,799 --> 00:01:15,120 lek Lankees, who is in English the dialogue he has with a listener, 15 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:19,560 but I' m also going to put him for that and I' m 16 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:21,879 going to translate to him a little of what he discusses with the background, 17 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:26,040 of what he discusses with the broad. After we listen to this lady who 18 00:01:26,599 --> 00:01:36,040 has gone viral on social networks where she, then, expresses that grossly what 19 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:41,000 you are about the daughter or misses very much the father of the daughter she 20 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:46,239 has and is the mother of two children. They tell me that she is 21 00:01:46,239 --> 00:01:52,560 from the city of Moca, which is mocana, so she will be able 22 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:57,159 to confirm me to someone and really is from her and that this video also 23 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:01,599 told me a source yesterday, this video came to the school address and that 24 00:02:01,599 --> 00:02:06,400 from the school address they communicated with her as to draw her attention. A 25 00:02:07,159 --> 00:02:09,439 call must also be made to the authorities concerned with the welfare and safeguarding of 26 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:15,360 children in the country, to approach this young woman and explain to her that 27 00:02:15,479 --> 00:02:21,159 what she is doing is not right for her daughter' s health and good 28 00:02:21,199 --> 00:02:29,080 development. Let' s not go with the video at all. Let' 29 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:32,759 s hear what she says to see if we have how she says stomach to 30 00:02:32,759 --> 00:02:38,280 stand her. Let' s listen, let' s listen. I have 31 00:02:38,319 --> 00:02:45,240 to have my room crying the silence look for my daughter to school. Now 32 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:47,080 I' m going to make him some comment, because he doesn' t 33 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:58,879 see me like that anymore. This happens to me almost every day because I 34 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:00,960 don' t know how hard it is to create or maintain. You put 35 00:03:01,039 --> 00:03:04,879 alimony on a man, we' re gonna assume the one who puts it 36 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:12,800 on and we' re gonna assume it' s missing, we' re 37 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,400 gonna assume it' s irresponsible and pay it off. But who makes it 38 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:20,080 up to you that I' m up this morning to raise my anger to 39 00:03:20,159 --> 00:03:24,400 go to the cops, to have breakfast, to eat that ne clan seeks 40 00:03:24,439 --> 00:03:29,000 school. There I have to pay to take care of her or teach her 41 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,360 to take care of herself so I can work, because if I don' 42 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:36,319 t work, I can' t feed her or I can' t support 43 00:03:36,319 --> 00:03:38,560 or support her and my other son. Who compensates me that I am raising 44 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:46,400 the human being, teaching him everything he knows, touching him courage, taking 45 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:53,879 care of her, sacrificing my life very polygrate you that decided to have her, 46 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:58,120 but this was between two. No and here, like nothing does anything, 47 00:03:58,479 --> 00:04:08,639 only you' re going to put up a pension and already the father 48 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:14,879 says I work. I can' t take care of him and now who 49 00:04:14,919 --> 00:04:18,199 makes up for all that to me, oh mother, and if I asked 50 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:24,040 the mom, if the badly changed girl, the mom and I now go 51 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:29,079 out, I pull out the tear that I throw deep and there I have 52 00:04:29,199 --> 00:04:32,079 to be fine for me because I forget about myself and I know that I 53 00:04:32,199 --> 00:04:36,480 get a sability, but this isn' t easy, I don' t 54 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:40,480 know. Me. That is why I admire more and more the women who 55 00:04:40,519 --> 00:04:46,399 have surrounded me, because they never made me feel that what they were doing 56 00:04:46,959 --> 00:04:49,839 for me was a sacrifice. I don' t know. I have a 57 00:04:49,879 --> 00:04:55,680 lot of mixed ideas, but I think she' s all that' s 58 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:59,680 wrong with the idea of being a woman today, I mean, that' 59 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:01,319 s mine, I think, but I don' t think she' s 60 00:05:01,319 --> 00:05:04,120 crying about being a mother anymore. She doesn' t cry because she needs 61 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:09,319 the other key, the child' s dad, she wants other things and 62 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,279 she wants the other thing to sleep. She wants it here, she wants 63 00:05:12,439 --> 00:05:18,600 that street is drinking it. She wants her because if she doesn' t 64 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:26,720 misinterpret, she talks about who makes up for me, then the sacrifice, 65 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:30,560 the sacrifice they raised. It' s a sacrifice. But honestly, that 66 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:34,160 two- eyed idea. I was commenting on a twitter yesterday and I think 67 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:41,120 a lot of people retweeted it. I don' t want to get away 68 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:48,639 from my words because maybe you see, maybe, maybe, maybe one can 69 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:54,720 not know and can fit into the case, that this is a drama of 70 00:05:54,879 --> 00:06:00,199 her to get attention, go viral and invite radio foques. We can' 71 00:06:00,199 --> 00:06:04,680 t let him go. I don' t rule it out and for me 72 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:09,879 what makes the most sense to me is that that' s the possibility that 73 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:13,439 Santiago Matías will invite him there to make them a figure because there' s 74 00:06:13,519 --> 00:06:17,519 Tik Tokker has fifty- four thousand followers on his Twitter account and she posts 75 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:21,800 a lot of it' s his lifestyle and sheath. Then I wrote yesterday 76 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:26,839 reflecting on this I said I did not seem to explain to her about the 77 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:30,839 responsibility of being a mother or father. People raised her in a society that 78 00:06:30,959 --> 00:06:33,839 has eroded the idea and concept of what a family is. That' s 79 00:06:33,879 --> 00:06:38,600 what we' re seeing here. We have these models where you make many 80 00:06:38,639 --> 00:06:46,560 women think wrongly that she alone can with everything and they are overwhelmed when they 81 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:55,879 clash with doubt the harsh reality in mind that they also do not accept the 82 00:06:55,920 --> 00:07:00,000 result of the bad choice that they have made the moment to decide who to 83 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:06,120 give them pregnancy and chachas throw it at me Daddy and the give me the 84 00:07:06,199 --> 00:07:11,319 daddy loves the papers take. You' ve bought spank right there and then 85 00:07:11,399 --> 00:07:15,519 it turns out the guy is, like there' s a lot of ladies 86 00:07:15,519 --> 00:07:16,480 who say, well. I think we saw the debate now that the guy 87 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,319 is good and he' s got it big, the important thing, although 88 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:20,519 Chiquito showed that he has it. Little boy' s got a video going 89 00:07:20,519 --> 00:07:29,000 around. Second you saw what a disappointment, but breast milk. But in 90 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:33,279 the case of this young woman, I don' t know. I wouldn 91 00:07:33,399 --> 00:07:36,399 ' t want to. Let' s hear what she said to a listener. 92 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:44,480 This is an announcer who was quite popular. He had a syndicated program 93 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:53,360 on American radio called Tom Hnks, not Tom Lankees, a very good radio 94 00:07:53,399 --> 00:07:56,879 character. His programs are out there on the Internet, the guy' s 95 00:07:56,879 --> 00:08:00,519 tough. I' m going to translate some of what he' s discussing 96 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:11,319 with this listeners Let' s hear this sheath please her. I don' 97 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:15,319 t know if the Internet here tends to get slow in the morning, but 98 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:18,399 not the rain. Not every day so far it' s super slow. 99 00:08:20,319 --> 00:08:26,680 It makes it impossible to load the page. Let' s hear w who 100 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:31,639 and also The John Fit says why don' t you talk about men who 101 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:39,360 don' t pay maintenance for their children? Aha My brig Light, because 102 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:43,360 women like you open their legs to men like that, says the announcer ay 103 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:48,000 Guagua and c the spacho say we Man a joues Eir Shanks boo Mails. 104 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:56,000 Why don' t you talk about the women who choose irresponsible men. He 105 00:08:56,080 --> 00:09:03,159 keeps telling him or little and there wey to them eter Wan I have not 106 00:09:03,799 --> 00:09:09,279 heard of gender women who decide to understand a night with a bartender or a 107 00:09:09,279 --> 00:09:15,840 guy on a motorcycle museum or a musician. Those are all irresponsible. Listen 108 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:22,320 to your p and j d we go nobody to talk to you. He 109 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:30,360 says read the subject or take you can talk to me all day. It 110 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:35,480 responds to that statement. He does, John Trum and d the ratio shup 111 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:39,080 n on the Jane. Jorge' s there arguing. It tells him what 112 00:09:39,159 --> 00:09:41,639 kind of sheath does your no- bla measure and how does a Radioecho, 113 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:43,639 a radio show. I' m twenty- five in this pod. I 114 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:52,039 can tell you I' m ont to form on, but it' s 115 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:58,000 not Harth chill Getter. I had a married thiema earlier, my husband and 116 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:03,759 I had a son we Beti p chiers I. Before she quit, the 117 00:10:03,879 --> 00:10:11,399 pipe says the guy hit her t h r. He' s telling him 118 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:13,320 he really beat you pretty much for the va. Why did you tolerate it 119 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:22,440 for two years, keep telling the tiger that I have or you can tell 120 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:26,519 me why you tolerated this guy beating you for two years, keep telling these 121 00:10:26,159 --> 00:10:33,840 eva to big ok says my answer is that because I was young and stupid. 122 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:43,200 Stupid, Ay Gray, I remember, you' re stupid, bay 123 00:10:43,279 --> 00:10:48,039 chas bur m you complain to the voice of a guy who doesn' t 124 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,720 pay you maintenance for your son, the guy who beat you for two years. 125 00:10:52,000 --> 00:11:03,960 Or the h no wey am w s observants and hwo less fet learn 126 00:11:03,039 --> 00:11:07,600 sns of fillint the he tuol the prooy we is telling you summarize, that 127 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:11,519 she was the one who chose this irresponsible guy, who beat her, etcetera, 128 00:11:11,159 --> 00:11:15,879 and that it was she who had that decision in which she made that 129 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:26,399 decision. Angel plus you a segi chutsbor I tell you I suck, your 130 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:39,519 old and stupid. He listens to the ma toupet oh my go or not 131 00:11:39,879 --> 00:11:45,480 charlismo says still stupid. You' re waiting for the guy who beat you 132 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:50,080 up before now to be responsible. Or the man changed already after he left 133 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,240 you that he' s going to be responsible. I was giving you the 134 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,399 horn for two years and the guy' s gonna be responsible now. No 135 00:11:54,480 --> 00:12:01,200 better. You me, the st' s crazy. I want to play 136 00:12:01,759 --> 00:12:07,080 watch there on tells you I can' t believe you' re still on 137 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:13,960 the radio and the guy answers her like ra. He tells him I' 138 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,440 m on the radio because I' m right. Other than I have millions 139 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:20,919 of listeners. Tom Lake responds to the Eva shats Wa and I do i 140 00:12:22,159 --> 00:12:30,960 wih b the Ket If you want the demographic target, so it doesn' 141 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:50,480 t matter to me black on up Pike qui chusport snt then those. This 142 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:54,679 cut has gone pretty viral in the last few years in the United States. 143 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:58,080 Wherever this discussion between this woman and this is the announcer who played these issues 144 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,559 on the Los Angeles radio and I think it goes very well with what this 145 00:13:01,639 --> 00:13:07,519 jeva talks about that I repeat, for me it gives me more the impression 146 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:11,679 that she is not upset by being overwhelmed by having to raise a boy. 147 00:13:11,759 --> 00:13:18,200 My aunt, having worked for years, had her home and her own roof 148 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,480 and a steady job, separated from her husband with four boys one year old. 149 00:13:24,759 --> 00:13:31,320 Just turned two teenagers and already an adult and my aunt went on with 150 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:35,960 her life. I' ve never heard her complain about having to raise four 151 00:13:35,039 --> 00:13:39,720 boys alone and have to live like a pool ball until today. Maybe the 152 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:43,919 women of the past were different from today' s. They raised her with 153 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:46,240 the idea that one day they would have to take responsibility for a life that 154 00:13:46,279 --> 00:13:52,879 would depend on them. But since women' s empowerment has made them think 155 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,039 that the children raise it to the nanny, that it is raised by the 156 00:13:56,159 --> 00:14:01,759 domestic mother, your mother. I' ve been to women because when I 157 00:14:01,799 --> 00:14:05,600 was little, Mom helped me not. Today' s grandmothers aren' t 158 00:14:05,639 --> 00:14:09,320 like our grandmothers. I believe that before there was more of a tendency to 159 00:14:09,399 --> 00:14:18,200 create women, to prepare women to be mothers and to know have passed the 160 00:14:18,759 --> 00:14:22,879 global society and Dominican Republic is not exempt from them. They have gone through 161 00:14:22,919 --> 00:14:26,919 a process of social reengineering, which many of the things that previously had you 162 00:14:26,919 --> 00:14:33,679 in society have already disappeared. And one of those things was the idea of 163 00:14:33,799 --> 00:14:41,720 what a family was. There are many solutions to that and I, and 164 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:48,720 most importantly, if today there are unhappy women overwhelmed by the problems that come 165 00:14:48,759 --> 00:14:56,960 upon them, also those empowered and unhappy women must understand that they are the 166 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:01,159 ones who have made the decision and taken the give of everything that has gone 167 00:15:01,159 --> 00:15:05,360 wrong. Makes you responsible for your bad decisions. They don' t make 168 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:11,480 you any less of a person. Why most of the boys are good. 169 00:15:11,039 --> 00:15:16,879 You can easily give your daughter' s parental authority to your father and take 170 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:26,720 that away from you. Then let' s go with some ideas found in 171 00:15:26,799 --> 00:15:28,519 this block without pause. After talking about the Jeva that went viral complaining because 172 00:15:28,639 --> 00:15:33,799 she' s overwhelmed by the fact that she has to raise a dad' 173 00:15:33,919 --> 00:15:37,039 s daughter. Just give her Chile support or, support, pension and or 174 00:15:37,919 --> 00:15:45,360 call it here that she says how she said Peter Vasquez in tears. Not 175 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,879 that the sacrifice that he who recompenses them always compensates for his sacrifice. Good 176 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:54,360 morning, your hand. Good morning, of course, good morning, yes 177 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:56,080 look. In the case of this girl is as you say Alberto, already 178 00:15:56,279 --> 00:16:02,559 trying to attract attention and when she who rewards me they refer to as if 179 00:16:02,639 --> 00:16:07,759 she was looking for a financial compensation. But I' ve raised myself at 180 00:16:07,879 --> 00:16:12,840 one stage of my life, well, you know me the best reward of 181 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:18,440 raising, of being a mother is the human being you form. It' 182 00:16:18,679 --> 00:16:23,159 s not a monetary thing, it' s not something you' re looking 183 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:27,879 for a house that millions, that' s when your children are away from 184 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:30,240 you that people say how much education their children have. Your mom can tell 185 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:36,399 that you had a presence in your life and all that and what she' 186 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:41,720 s doing is like that good can also influence that now she wants to sell 187 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:48,759 you a pink motherhood. And these young girls want to get pregnant, they 188 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,480 want to have children, but they want to keep having a single life. 189 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:57,360 And that' s not like that. Thank you, Manuela hour day or 190 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:02,960 good morning, five, three, ninety and fifty. How well look you 191 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:07,359 know that God was created by a mother who gave up, you know, 192 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:11,839 and you really bought them back who rewarded her. I reward you and I 193 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:15,039 know that I reward her for what she believed, what she did to that 194 00:17:15,039 --> 00:17:19,319 woman. Now that she' s my mother, they' re not missing 195 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:22,799 anything because of the work she did. I am extremely grateful for everything you 196 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:29,279 did for me and that is appreciated then. Like that aside, on the 197 00:17:29,599 --> 00:17:33,000 side that there seems to be a problem on the roof of your roof you 198 00:17:33,279 --> 00:17:36,640 know yes, says here on Twitter a person who is able to record himself 199 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:41,599 crying on social networks, is able to get clear and upload it because you 200 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,720 record yourself, the video is there. You see it and you put it 201 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,279 up. You see, brother, you' re capable of anything. Good 202 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:52,319 morning there, I cried well, good morning. Look at that girl from 203 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:56,319 my point. You may want to draw attention, but I see you with 204 00:17:56,319 --> 00:17:59,799 mental health problems. I also made a 13- year- old child that 205 00:17:59,839 --> 00:18:03,880 I' ve wanted alone since the boy was a year old because he made 206 00:18:03,079 --> 00:18:06,400 a bad choice with his dad but I don' t tell him pension. 207 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:10,119 What I' ve done is I' ve tried every day to make sure 208 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:15,640 that that child doesn' t miss anything, changing jobs, training myself, 209 00:18:17,279 --> 00:18:18,880 looking for the means so that that child doesn' t lack anyone. When 210 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:22,359 I arrive with that child who tells me what educated the child is, what 211 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:26,039 I have measured, I don' t know what more reward than that, 212 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:29,880 lady is true, I agree with you in that sotella the thing is not 213 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:34,160 right. Good morning. Hit it or good morning. Give him a good 214 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:38,880 morning. Look, my nephew' s gonna turn three now because she was 215 00:18:40,519 --> 00:18:44,039 born for the pandemic. He was born on the 22nd and the 30th. 216 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:49,799 Her mother passed away and my brother took that girl out of the way without 217 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:55,319 seeing the other part of the family, or anything, education, food, 218 00:18:55,920 --> 00:19:00,359 all burdened, trouble, home payment, cars and he took her out without 219 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:04,400 having to claim anyone, and no one will think anything of her. Well, 220 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,640 if the girl when she gets big and pretty and beautiful and you dance 221 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:11,599 her in the fifteen, uh, have affection for the kids. I think 222 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:18,960 I repeat with Nani you must go to help this girl, because I think 223 00:19:18,079 --> 00:19:22,079 that the little friends of this girl don' t give you that they have 224 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:26,599 to watch this video and they' re going to start telling her your mom 225 00:19:26,599 --> 00:19:30,640 doesn' t love you? You weigh on your mom, huh, your 226 00:19:32,039 --> 00:19:38,119 mom doesn' t love you? I don' t know, I don 227 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:42,200 ' t have kids, but I feel ugly. It' s you putting 228 00:19:42,319 --> 00:19:48,319 a creature into public scorn knowing your face knows it. A lot of people, 229 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:52,319 that is today in the village where this lady, everyone knows that she 230 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:59,559 ' s sick of her daughter with Ai gave that post like or. Nani 231 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:07,119 gave him the one to grab onsen good morning, well, yeah, uh, 232 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:11,839 good morning. Beautiful baby look alone, boys and girls two hours or 233 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:17,559 I had two daughters. Now they' re twenty- two and twenty- 234 00:20:17,559 --> 00:20:22,359 one. You sound, very young, good young, I am forty years 235 00:20:22,519 --> 00:20:23,799 old, ah young loves. Hey, hey, I look so good, 236 00:20:25,079 --> 00:20:30,559 so rich and you owe beer not much, but a hundred years old you 237 00:20:30,599 --> 00:20:36,160 raised two girls twenty- two, twenty- one and twenty- one, 238 00:20:36,559 --> 00:20:37,480 twenty- two, two thousand two. Feeling and risk left you despired. 239 00:20:40,039 --> 00:20:41,799 Nothing gives my love. Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 240 00:20:41,799 --> 00:20:41,799 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 241 00:20:41,799 --> 00:20:47,240 hey, hey. I' m done with it, but it still 242 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:51,880 follows my compensation. Right now I' ve made two people useful to society. 243 00:20:52,079 --> 00:20:55,839 Or I' ll make up for society. My daughters also make up 244 00:20:56,519 --> 00:21:00,440 for me, and if she, having a little girl, is hard to 245 00:21:00,519 --> 00:21:04,640 imagine when they' re teenagers. For me it' s a compensation to 246 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,160 have some girls who tell me on the street listen to me. But how 247 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:11,440 well your daughters are, how educated they are, they are in college, 248 00:21:11,599 --> 00:21:18,079 they are preparing and they are very applied. This is my compensation, that 249 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:21,880 ' s my satisfaction. And that every woman goes through difficult times. Yeah, 250 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:26,119 ' cause it' s hard for you to raise kids alone, it 251 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:30,599 ' s not easy, it' s not pink, as someone who called 252 00:21:30,599 --> 00:21:33,799 earlier said. It' s hard, but you have to accept, because 253 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:37,960 you decided to be a mother and before you were a woman, you have 254 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:41,119 to be a mother. And if you' re not ready for that, 255 00:21:41,079 --> 00:21:44,440 don' t have it as simple as it is. Oh, I don 256 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:48,319 ' t know, because, well, everybody' s not me, not 257 00:21:48,319 --> 00:21:52,799 because that' s very, very, very personal. But the children, 258 00:21:53,799 --> 00:22:00,559 from the point of view that I see him receive a regulation, the first, 259 00:22:00,599 --> 00:22:02,960 which is a responsibility, no no, but receive a reward. So 260 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,839 because I have a son, looking for a rep for raising him for you 261 00:22:07,039 --> 00:22:11,359 to fulfill something that comes inherent the fact of my study, when you knocked 262 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:15,480 up the woman, yours whatever you wanted or not, you weren' t 263 00:22:15,559 --> 00:22:15,880 going to get a washing machine for you the chaze the inside truth. I 264 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,599 ' m sure and a case was going to go out there There' s 265 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,759 a kid coming out the very moment you introduce him. You are aware that 266 00:22:22,839 --> 00:22:26,559 there may be a consequence that is called a child. So, starting from 267 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:30,920 that fact, you have to be responsible today, because you were an adult, 268 00:22:30,319 --> 00:22:37,960 you have responsibilities to look for that as assuming the consequence of the decisions 269 00:22:37,039 --> 00:22:41,039 that you make and that it is rich, warm in truth, to what 270 00:22:41,079 --> 00:22:44,039 done then the boy goes warm. Yes, I think people who really miss 271 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:48,680 the life they had before they had a boy who might have to leave certain 272 00:22:48,799 --> 00:22:56,240 things, for example, in the economic aspect, the social aspects. That 273 00:22:56,319 --> 00:23:03,799 kind of thing changes a little, because all your energies are focused on other 274 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,599 things, other priorities. Priorities will change and maybe that' s what you 275 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:12,839 miss. But I take it, that' s the logical thing, that 276 00:23:12,839 --> 00:23:15,599 ' s the natural thing. Here' s the pause before the break. 277 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,200 Eduardo Mira says here, our friends, Rolando married and I agree very much 278 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,039 with him, that what happens is that today' s woman, he says. 279 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:26,680 While the man paints more bad, he has tattoos, the bacon wants 280 00:23:26,799 --> 00:23:30,599 him to have the kids and that he likes the bad guys. If the 281 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,240 guy tells him to put the thirty- mom, women get wet right now. 282 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:40,000 What' s cute looks like taking a nasty goat, mostly or living 283 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:45,200 with a ten thousand pofs vapez. If tom X says it well enough, 284 00:23:45,519 --> 00:23:52,640 that' s what you decide to do to an irresponsible man. Then don 285 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:55,559 ' t come to me either with the idea that because the woman should have 286 00:23:55,559 --> 00:23:59,200 in fact, no, no, no, I don' t think that 287 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:03,279 her irresponsibility should pay for it with her life and the consequence of her irresponsibility, 288 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:07,319 because no longer, because abortion does not talk to me about abortion there 289 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:11,759 is a pre all that is called a condom or give it pill the day 290 00:24:11,759 --> 00:24:15,440 after avoiding planning. There are many ways to avoid getting to that point. 291 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:23,799 The responsibility that no one wants to assume is the word after less understood freedom 292 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:30,519 in the world. Well, we' re still talking about the case of 293 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:36,880 this lady, who went viral where she cries and is overwhelmed by the fact 294 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:41,559 that she has to raise a girl who decided to have with a man who 295 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,039 only pays her maintenance and she talks about who rewards her the sacrifice of everything 296 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:49,839 she has to do. She has two children and as someone told me yesterday 297 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:55,759 that she was telling me where she is this lady says she is from the 298 00:24:55,839 --> 00:24:59,839 city of Mosca and was talking to me that, apparently, the video came 299 00:25:00,039 --> 00:25:04,319 to school and you would have claimed the lady because it is not at least 300 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:08,440 a drama or a performance. When she comes to see it' s a 301 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,839 drama and a performance, and it' s not that she really has two 302 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:17,880 guys she' s looking for, and what she' s looking for is 303 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:18,759 a live viu, so they' ll invite her to where the radio fuckers 304 00:25:18,759 --> 00:25:22,279 are. Yes, in addition, the rites givenÑorito per interview and Santiago 305 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:26,119 Paga per interview, opens thousand and two thousand dollars. When he saw it, 306 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,799 they' re good to the fofah yes and how you know we saw 307 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:30,079 it they' re going to be runaway. Okay. For example, this 308 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,799 heva da doesn' t give a million views out there a million and a 309 00:25:33,799 --> 00:25:36,400 half. But he' s got to cry and he' s got to, 310 00:25:36,559 --> 00:25:40,920 he' s got to have the exact same drama, of course, 311 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:47,200 or b good morning. Day after day, good morning, Mom will make 312 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,960 you touch said blessed, for at least the suitcase of the hand you little 313 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:57,240 that give nothing, fear nothing. I don' t know, me being 314 00:25:57,279 --> 00:26:03,799 maybe that boy' s dad. I take it gi good morning, but 315 00:26:04,799 --> 00:26:11,319 Libe Look, I am my baby has right now five months and I have 316 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:15,559 learned many things with him that I didn' t think would happen to me, 317 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:22,759 and that' s keeping an eye on every cry to the color, 318 00:26:22,759 --> 00:26:26,559 from the poop. And I' m a people who work quite a lot. 319 00:26:26,599 --> 00:26:30,160 I work from six months in the morning to nine in the evening from 320 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:36,880 Monday to Friday and I feel tired. Sometimes I get the mom gives it 321 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:41,400 to me. Mom' s a woman See, I thank her for all 322 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:47,680 the sacrifice she' s made for me and him. And sometimes I feel 323 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:52,799 tired, I feel exhausted by the day to day that I have. But 324 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,039 when I get there, I' d like to send a note from Walberto, 325 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:03,119 from that kid that when I get there, that kid opens me up 326 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,599 and that smile and that doesn' t say dad but I mean, I 327 00:27:07,599 --> 00:27:11,839 feel loved by him. That' s worth whatever sacrifice I' m going 328 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:17,119 to make on a day- to- day basis and for the rest of 329 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,839 my life so that that little person I did is okay and has everything I 330 00:27:19,839 --> 00:27:25,000 need. I' m sorry I cut you. If you want to imagine 331 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:30,200 this scenario, what I would dare say that, that, that can happen. 332 00:27:32,279 --> 00:27:36,599 If that girl, the father grabs and goes to justice with this video 333 00:27:36,759 --> 00:27:41,119 and asks for the girl' s guard don' t really give out, 334 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:44,960 then what' s going to happen. I assure you that at three or 335 00:27:45,039 --> 00:27:47,559 four months she' s already going out there behind ticker tor, because that 336 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:52,279 ' s the reward she' s looking for. It' s true that 337 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,440 I think you mean. I' m with you. It' s going 338 00:27:55,559 --> 00:28:00,359 to repeat the same case. I think you' ve got to add it, 339 00:28:00,559 --> 00:28:07,960 run his schedule and he' s got it coming from beer, but 340 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:11,880 I' m always gonna take your vital I' m gonna call the pin 341 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,440 that' s vital, suspiciously. He didn' t have anything very good 342 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:18,400 for grapple. I keep blabbering and getting vital in case you have to avoid 343 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:22,839 it. Good morning, good morning Give him love. I don' t 344 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:26,200 know if I' m thirty- five years old. I don' t 345 00:28:26,319 --> 00:28:30,799 know if I' m in an old- fashioned body. I don' 346 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,960 t know if I was raised differently. Or I don' t know if 347 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:38,279 it' s that, as society has changed and as the parameters have changed 348 00:28:38,359 --> 00:28:45,160 between us women, it' s making the family, the backbone of the 349 00:28:45,279 --> 00:28:51,720 family, which is the woman, not doing their job. I know women 350 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:59,279 who have practically forced them to have children, because that' s something else 351 00:28:59,279 --> 00:29:02,480 too. If you don' t want to have children, don' t 352 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,960 have them. If you want to have your independence, don' t have 353 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:10,359 it. Because, in a particular way, I am thirty- five years 354 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,240 old and sometimes I have so much work that I am. I' d 355 00:29:12,799 --> 00:29:18,119 like to subtract, just like my mom, from her husband' s keeping 356 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,680 her and for her to run your house. My mom knows everything about her 357 00:29:21,799 --> 00:29:26,079 house. There' s nothing missing in place and she' s happy. 358 00:29:26,279 --> 00:29:33,079 Of course I agree. Individually. You also have to look for the things 359 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:41,640 that feed your soul, because we are all individual beings and we have situations 360 00:29:41,839 --> 00:29:48,119 and worries and depressions, obviously as individuals, but that individuality should not be 361 00:29:48,279 --> 00:29:53,400 confused for you to forge the family to your will, as a listener called 362 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,119 it and said that you want to have children, but you want to follow 363 00:29:57,119 --> 00:30:02,839 your life. Ruligh Rula with you at all times gives you the time. 364 00:30:03,039 --> 00:30:04,240 Ah I don' t know anymore, everyone' s me, but if 365 00:30:04,359 --> 00:30:07,440 I just believe it' s my other life. I left woman because I 366 00:30:07,519 --> 00:30:12,119 do enjoy my mother too boy. Me too I do enjoy it and out 367 00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:15,279 for me I don' t work and stay in my house or and it 368 00:30:15,359 --> 00:30:22,440 shows and cooks, hey, I do it by cleaning a lguita and those 369 00:30:22,519 --> 00:30:27,960 good morning things. Good morning, sorcerer Give him love Look. I think 370 00:30:29,079 --> 00:30:33,079 raising isn' t easy, I mean, creating a boy, it' 371 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:37,799 s not easy. You created only it' s even harder now who you 372 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:41,799 mean wants to make it look like parenthood is a sacrifice and it' s 373 00:30:41,799 --> 00:30:48,839 not. I still enjoy being raised in these rivers now. I think particularly 374 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:55,839 of everything that you want to normalize that if the couple divorces, the man 375 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,319 that divo. You can' t keep an eye on your boy, even 376 00:30:59,359 --> 00:31:03,799 if you separate from the wall or the mother from your sedios. Now, 377 00:31:03,039 --> 00:31:07,960 if you all as a person and responsible, you can' t ship that, 378 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:11,599 that is, you had responsibility with partners, You can' t ask 379 00:31:11,599 --> 00:31:17,240 beyond your fegos. Thank you, my love. Seven hundred and forty- 380 00:31:18,359 --> 00:31:21,319 four is the same morning unveinth Arrhythm and six point five. We' re 381 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,680 talking at this hour here at the rhythm of the morning, this video that 382 00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,000 was made. I say to me what really worries me doesn' t spit 383 00:31:26,039 --> 00:31:33,519 so much the mother, the father one has to add the video the yes, 384 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,559 but let' s say I' m going to stick it. I 385 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:40,279 ' m going to have the doubt that this is it, because I honestly 386 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:47,920 don' t know how I hold so many friends who are mothers and who 387 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:51,839 like to play with social networks a lot, but I' ve never seen 388 00:31:52,759 --> 00:31:56,200 them as in the attitude of exposing themselves and exposing the intimate life of their 389 00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:00,200 children. In this way, then I may suspect that I am can do 390 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:09,880 a stage something mounted by this jeva, a false drama draw attention. He 391 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:15,079 ' s done it. She' s looking to know that I know that 392 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,279 they invite the seals or that they put her into one of the unfiltered panelists, 393 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:24,839 because remember that there are goals there are goals in life and I' 394 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:28,480 m not making fun of them. I am saying this with cynicism of the 395 00:32:28,559 --> 00:32:34,279 good friend Santiago Matías or of his projects, but it must be said that 396 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:38,279 it is the project that many people aspire to be part of or the program 397 00:32:38,319 --> 00:32:43,200 that would like to be invicted, because it is referential has a lot of 398 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:46,119 attention. People make famous, fast, etcetera. And maybe it' s 399 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,160 with this intention that I' m already doing it. But I think it 400 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:54,119 ' s a good exercise to have a healthy open conversation on a subject that 401 00:32:54,119 --> 00:32:59,799 ' s misunderstanding. And that' s where the idea is. It' 402 00:33:00,279 --> 00:33:02,759 s a thought- out idea that life is easy first, that things, 403 00:33:04,079 --> 00:33:09,000 the results will never instantly be that your actions and their consequences you can easily 404 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:15,000 evade. I mean, I think the society we' re living in has 405 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,640 to sit down and talk honestly that if you make a mistake, it comes 406 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:22,000 accordingly look at last year' s sentencing case. You want to live an 407 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:28,160 easy life without responsibility, wanting to read everything, but you do an act 408 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:34,359 that brings tragedy and that act brings consequences. I mean, you could see 409 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:38,720 that could happen, but you decided to ignore all that. So, if 410 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:45,359 you choose wrong, the father of your children can' t then say that 411 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:52,759 your unhappy life, because at first you had and had the signs that could 412 00:33:52,839 --> 00:33:58,920 indicate to you that you were making a bad decision in first having a relationship 413 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:05,240 with a man who didn' t have much to offer and then getting pregnant 414 00:34:05,359 --> 00:34:07,799 with that man knowing that it didn' t work. Imagine if she complains 415 00:34:07,799 --> 00:34:12,320 to the one who has good husbands already knows and good parents of her children 416 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:16,039 who are never happy with anything. Imagine when you have, when you have 417 00:34:16,519 --> 00:34:21,920 a husband' s tracker. I' m left with my suspicion, but 418 00:34:22,039 --> 00:34:32,960 I' m still worried that it might be true and that and that then 419 00:34:34,119 --> 00:34:37,000 the intimacy, the quiet life, which must be guaranteed for the development, 420 00:34:37,159 --> 00:34:44,800 the mind of a child, is being disturbed by the indiscretion of a mother 421 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,639 who should have spoken this to a therapist and not with a camera of a 422 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:52,679 cell phone, let alone put it in tiktok. So much time in this 423 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:58,119 stuff on these social networks they give a smell. Thanks to Bethsaida that she 424 00:34:58,159 --> 00:35:02,360 sends us a video where you initially know how about social media companies. Of 425 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:06,800 course, from the beginning I' m saying that it seems to me that 426 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,840 this is all a montage and that the purpose of this is to draw attention 427 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:14,480 so that of some kind I don' t know how to go viral, 428 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:20,480 to win some god that the foques invite you for Radio Luis foques or corporate 429 00:35:20,559 --> 00:35:22,039 for any of those projects, to be part of some panel, etcetera. 430 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:28,440 I don' t know that' s the idea you give me because I 431 00:35:28,679 --> 00:35:34,760 repeat, I can' t get a person, for whatever reason, to 432 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:39,760 decide to record himself and publicly express that she' s tired, that she 433 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,920 ' s overwhelmed by a daughter she decided to have. I don' t 434 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,880 know if I think it' s a script. That' s the idea 435 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:49,920 you' ve given me since yesterday, but let' s not stay in 436 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:55,000 shape. Let us also talk about the fact that this is a very possible 437 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:59,639 reality in the times that are and we have seen it in the past in 438 00:35:59,639 --> 00:36:02,880 other countries many things, with many things and not you. I honestly think 439 00:36:04,039 --> 00:36:07,199 I don' t know. I' d have to be a very, 440 00:36:07,599 --> 00:36:13,880 very bad mother for you to record. Yesterday someone contacted me and told me 441 00:36:14,039 --> 00:36:17,400 that the video was possibly true, I dried up with my doubt. I 442 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:21,519 say my doubts and I continue with her on that day. But she had 443 00:36:21,639 --> 00:36:25,880 given signs. Versaida says she writes it on Twitter. I gave signs that 444 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:32,800 crying seemed like a good idea. And listen to the audio of this family 445 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:38,440 video. Definitely, people are very crazy and this time we can' t 446 00:36:38,519 --> 00:36:45,920 talk about Nani or not who knew, because I don' t know anymore, 447 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:51,760 but it' s trending, because he made this video or if it 448 00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,480 wasn' t really your people. I need someone to support me, and 449 00:36:53,599 --> 00:37:00,440 that' s why not. Then we need someone to support us. She 450 00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:06,000 needs someone to keep me from making videos, crying and saying it, although 451 00:37:06,079 --> 00:37:09,119 it' s a very good idea, because who knows and meets a person 452 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:14,320 who says hey, I want to keep you, and that' s that 453 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:19,760 she' s trending, because she asks that, please, that she called 454 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,119 the solidarity that you miss her, because she already needs someone to keep her 455 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:29,480 what doesn' t, that she doesn' t like to work, that 456 00:37:29,519 --> 00:37:34,280 ' s like too much for her and that and if I understand you to 457 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:34,280 work that and that' s where the idea and the script was born already. 458 00:37:34,559 --> 00:37:39,480 But the networks have crazy people. What it' s called, what 459 00:37:39,639 --> 00:37:45,159 master Albert Meremo calls it, the demon of views, equally the grass equal 460 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:51,000 around this, around all this, what happened with this video. There is 461 00:37:51,079 --> 00:37:55,400 also a conversation that can serve and that is a reality that is attentive out 462 00:37:55,400 --> 00:38:02,519 there. I still think that all of this at first is exactly something assembled. 463 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,280 But it went well, it went well, etcetera. But it is 464 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:12,039 no less true that it is a reality that is latent there and that there 465 00:38:12,079 --> 00:38:19,400 are many ladies, many of us give that they do not assume the responsibility 466 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:22,000 of being a mother or a father. Honestly because of how young you already 467 00:38:22,079 --> 00:38:25,119 look and the face you have. I have no idea he' s got 468 00:38:25,199 --> 00:38:30,480 two guys running around. That was the first thing I didn' t observe, 469 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:39,480 but it did seem to me like a sheath too much that I know 470 00:38:39,519 --> 00:38:45,159 as rules how it is said in English, in Spanish, how it is 471 00:38:45,159 --> 00:38:50,760 neglected as irresponsible. Irresponsible would be if because the word reminds me of the 472 00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:55,480 crazy psychotic to the crazy psychotic that we sent her to delive, because she 473 00:38:55,599 --> 00:39:00,079 lived harassing people on social networks. So it was that crazy bitch who knows 474 00:39:00,199 --> 00:39:02,800 about her or I' ve got her locked up everywhere. I now blankets 475 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:07,039 something makes psychotic, I have it all so crazy. I' d given 476 00:39:07,119 --> 00:39:10,400 you more. You know Alberto, that' s good. I' ll 477 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:15,039 tell you what happened, I' m glad I got here in time to 478 00:39:15,039 --> 00:39:20,000 tell you. I separated from my son' s dad when my son was 479 00:39:20,119 --> 00:39:23,960 eight months old. I know what it' s like to be a single 480 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:28,880 mother, even though the father is responsible, just like in her case, 481 00:39:29,079 --> 00:39:31,719 I imagine, that is, if the case she raises exactly in the case 482 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:39,719 she raises, she gets a support, but the satisfaction of the things you 483 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:46,679 do for your son to see them hatch is priceless. I mean, since 484 00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:51,920 my son was born. I' ve been speaking English to him since day 485 00:39:52,519 --> 00:39:57,800 one and seeing my son have a fluid conversation with me in English, being 486 00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:00,880 just two years old. For me, that' s satis faction watching my 487 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:07,639 son be a good person, a quiet boy who doesn' t give trouble 488 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:12,760 in school just to me. It fills me, I mean, that' 489 00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,920 s the pay I have for all the sacrifices. You know I' ve 490 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:22,000 molded my life for my son or I don' t rest. I work 491 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:25,559 the whole day, but it' s for my son, it' s 492 00:40:25,639 --> 00:40:30,360 for my son, because I have responsibility for my son and all that and 493 00:40:30,519 --> 00:40:35,760 it makes me happy even the fact that my son enjoys my job, that 494 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,119 my son goes my job and goes where my boss alicia I have you in 495 00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:42,440 case my son, that is, those are things that I enjoy. You 496 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:49,280 understand how the work that I do day by day manifests itself in my son. 497 00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,519 I love it. I don' t need another paycheck. I don 498 00:40:52,679 --> 00:40:55,679 ' t need a social life. I don' t need to go out 499 00:40:55,679 --> 00:40:58,960 on Friday. I don' t need anything. I need my son to 500 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:02,960 be happy. Whether it' s true or how I suspect it' s 501 00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:06,960 something to win a two- way Vidal, you' ve made it, 502 00:41:07,079 --> 00:41:12,320 love me, etcetera. I' ve got some news for you. Tomorrow 503 00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,719 you' ll be forgotten and that video stays for the exact one. Don 504 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:19,360 ' t grow up that Twitz is that he has a son, that is, 505 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,239 if you have to say he has a son, because I doubt it. 506 00:41:22,079 --> 00:41:25,800 But maybe tomorrow you' ll be forgotten because this is going too fast 507 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:30,079 or there are some guys who need, for example, the Brny trumpet. 508 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:34,840 Berny' s rebutt covered this up and he then what was talked about yesterday 509 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,960 in the program of Santiago Bata Paeto for tomorrow and tomorrow comes out another pod 510 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:44,519 and covers that and already on Saturday we won' t know nor we won 511 00:41:44,559 --> 00:41:47,400 ' t remember anything about this band. Work another sheath watching beer, n 512 00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:55,079 eight hours, exactly then the volatinity of social networks is too high. You 513 00:41:55,159 --> 00:42:02,000 turn me on fast and it goes off fast too then nothing enjoys this, 514 00:42:02,119 --> 00:42:04,880 but you' re going to be invited for a lot of show. Enjoy 515 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,599 your moment Enjoy the moment of the Vieus practicing her cries fromé because they 516 00:42:07,599 --> 00:42:10,280 will ask you to cry fused you. And I think you should give us 517 00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:15,039 at least one video a week so we can talk about this. Same. 518 00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:21,840 Likewise, I repeat, it is an interesting topic to discuss, because the 519 00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:25,000 idea, or as I said on the tweet I wrote yesterday, is that 520 00:42:25,159 --> 00:42:34,440 we decided to let ourselves be carried away from the supposed modernity of a new 521 00:42:34,599 --> 00:42:37,239 model of society than the things that led to Western society. Well, all 522 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:40,519 the societies that have prospered have done so based on the family, having as 523 00:42:40,599 --> 00:42:45,679 the center of the family, the family model that was that brought us to 524 00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:51,480 this point. So, when a family is not complete or functioning as it 525 00:42:51,559 --> 00:42:55,440 should work, individuals who come out of where it came from are not complete 526 00:42:55,480 --> 00:43:00,920 individuals, happy individuals who are going to find happiness easily. And it' 527 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:02,440 s not because I say so. Science has explained it in a thousand different 528 00:43:02,519 --> 00:43:10,360 ways. It seems to be the position of a Catholic catechumen, but not 529 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:15,960 of a Catholic catechumen. It is a reality that you are proven the new 530 00:43:16,039 --> 00:43:21,599 models of family, what are creating unhappy individuals and unable to adapt to the 531 00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:28,519 society in which we are living and certainly what a perfect formula for you to 532 00:43:29,079 --> 00:43:31,840 be happy or happiness is a destiny to be reached, is a path that 533 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:37,519 is traveled. But when you come from a place where what you have received 534 00:43:37,639 --> 00:43:45,079 are traumas, lack of all kinds, especially emotional indisputably the individual you are 535 00:43:45,119 --> 00:43:47,039 going to be an adult is a very difficult individual to deal with then. 536 00:43:49,199 --> 00:43:53,519 I hope that this issue will be discussed more openly and we understand that following 537 00:43:53,599 --> 00:44:00,960 the models of societies that are now eroded and destroyed by changing or by subjecting 538 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:07,639 society to reengineering, supposedly to being more independent individuals. As you have a 539 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,239 good example of that. There is a documentary called the Swedish model, the 540 00:44:12,159 --> 00:44:15,480 model foci of love. I saw it and you mentioned it here a while 541 00:44:15,519 --> 00:44:19,000 ago and I saw it. See that for you to see that social engineering 542 00:44:19,119 --> 00:44:22,519 looks great. But the changes in society must be progressive and gradual, not 543 00:44:22,559 --> 00:44:28,360 at once. So nothing, let' s go to commercials and we' 544 00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:32,119 re here for the morning red. Eduardo, the Holy One, that' 545 00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:37,079 s not letting you sleep. I missed a brother wire like a wire, 546 00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,800 gentlemen, I missed a wire in a thousand nine hundred sixty- four that 547 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:44,119 I really don' t know and I' ve dreamed of where to look 548 00:44:44,199 --> 00:44:46,840 for my house. Now straight away, I' m leaving that stage. 549 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:52,119 So you buy Avening and Bay is five dollars, because I know you' 550 00:44:52,159 --> 00:44:54,559 re in the house, because when I buy it and get to the house 551 00:44:54,559 --> 00:44:58,559 it' s going to look cursed, because life is like that. To 552 00:44:58,639 --> 00:45:01,760 me what happened to us or the years I was already a bed- and 553 00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,599 - return thing and it was the uncle, my mommy told me to be 554 00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:07,320 old, that they can' t sleep. Age. Age? Age? 555 00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,840 The eda? The eda. That' s why I' m already sleeping 556 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:14,519 very well. Thank God. I bought one from myself which I wasn' 557 00:45:14,559 --> 00:45:16,039 t letting sleep in an allergy and now every time I go to bed, 558 00:45:16,079 --> 00:45:22,000 I put in a loratadine and to sleep I forced and I am. I 559 00:45:22,039 --> 00:45:23,840 ' m leaving all the marditos meds because I' m fine. You get 560 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:28,039 up to see, and over here you get one of those. Professor falls 561 00:45:28,119 --> 00:45:30,880 down, not boy, because they are an allergy that gives me everything. 562 00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:35,280 Five, three, one, nine and six, fifty, ask, Eduardo, 563 00:45:35,519 --> 00:45:37,880 that is not letting you sleep. Says a cordon that on Monday he 564 00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:42,840 got a ticket and he boxed with that and he doesn' t know if 565 00:45:43,519 --> 00:45:45,199 he' s hit or paid or I' ve lawyered up once what' 566 00:45:45,199 --> 00:45:47,880 s best. I had the girl' s faults and yesterday she told me 567 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,840 look at my girl. Ideally, you pay for it and don' t 568 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:53,079 take that fight. He' s been through everything they put me on. 569 00:45:53,199 --> 00:45:55,519 The other day they put one for keying cell phone in my hand and from 570 00:45:55,639 --> 00:46:01,039 it come have it right now for one day of everything near the renewal of 571 00:46:01,079 --> 00:46:07,000 the license, I pogo that pod for the same page of the solicitor' 572 00:46:07,039 --> 00:46:08,920 s gang I Sara was going to lose half day in loved but totally crazy. 573 00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:15,039 Good morning, good morning, Dale, good morning. I lost a 574 00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,559 pair of marte pants and I' m in the days when when I go 575 00:46:17,559 --> 00:46:22,079 to bed, I' m dedicating myself to where those pants are. I 576 00:46:22,159 --> 00:46:24,599 bought a wallet. About four or five years ago. Leave me less. 577 00:46:24,639 --> 00:46:30,360 That was two thousand twenty- one. Wou a perrielis wallet of this one 578 00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,719 that won' t read your card. Yeah, they' re good, 579 00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,719 they' re good, and the wallet didn' t show up. Look 580 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:38,320 right now, I' ll grab it. I' m going to the 581 00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:40,360 store, I' m buying another one, and the fucking boiler. It 582 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:44,119 seems clear that that' s what' s going to happen, that I 583 00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:45,280 ' ve searched everything with my wallet. Done, like love, I' 584 00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:49,039 ve searched everywhere and you can' t find it. How many people do 585 00:46:49,039 --> 00:46:52,519 you hear? Good morning, well, come and see what I' m 586 00:46:52,599 --> 00:47:00,400 worried about. Hey, I' m waiting for a travel process and it 587 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:00,840 ' s still closer and at the same time it' s wrong away. 588 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:05,239 Boy. That' s what you expect from the messages at the embassy. 589 00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,920 That doesn' t let him sleep. Hey, hey, this friend of 590 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:12,119 yours says that his son is asking him for three hundred thousand for a car 591 00:47:12,119 --> 00:47:15,199 and that he' s helping him pay at college. Ah, but one 592 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:19,960 out of two. Who he is or the university works the job. He 593 00:47:20,039 --> 00:47:24,639 works that I told him we spoke in January, December is over. It 594 00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:30,800 ' s good, so don' t you now. I' m on 595 00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:37,239 my way to this House. Arroba de dot alba Mercedes. That' s 596 00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:40,239 all in all geese. Good morning, O Maricate, good morning I realized 597 00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:44,639 that the mother- in- law is better than the daughter. He can 598 00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:49,440 ' t sleep. He can' t sleep. That' s why you 599 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:54,719 have to fall in love with a girl who has a golden mom with a 600 00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:59,239 mustache Go silen well, so that you don' t have that distraction in 601 00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:00,920 life that speaks with your mouth there. When he says" I' m 602 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:01,559 fucking" he' s got a brown man playing. Yeah, yeah, 603 00:48:01,639 --> 00:48:06,559 yeah. It' s good morning. Somata passion. Today a protal trend 604 00:48:06,639 --> 00:48:10,000 moves very good daughter, tell me my love what pulls me stressed that I 605 00:48:10,039 --> 00:48:15,960 don' t find I throw Alberto I have day that I don' t 606 00:48:15,039 --> 00:48:22,800 sleep that rich how the turtle ay there by the head inside, head inside, 607 00:48:23,519 --> 00:48:25,840 not at least mm is rich. You know that I also had a 608 00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:30,880 dildo that they gave me and I never gave it of this pity nothing the 609 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:35,760 cute guy that I have was going to have then the dildo that I ask 610 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:37,679 someone that if I had a dildo for it to be of the gifts, 611 00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,239 I say well, I had one that I don' t find it and 612 00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:44,480 one day I went looking for a pod to give to some people and was 613 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,480 the dildo inside a shoe alberto and how did you put that or how did 614 00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:50,320 that dildo get there? Who put it in that poop It wasn' t 615 00:48:50,599 --> 00:48:54,119 me, who used it and who put it in there to win It' 616 00:48:54,199 --> 00:48:55,360 s safe to hide it from Mommy' s pods. Good morning. So, 617 00:48:55,480 --> 00:49:02,280 man, good morning. Give him the phone that good, which doesn 618 00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:06,840 ' t let me sleep six months ago well, we' re gonna get 619 00:49:07,039 --> 00:49:10,280 him here. There' s a whirlwind sound. After I changed cartre, 620 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:16,159 we avoided support and everything, but one of them keeps screwing around. Old 621 00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:21,639 cars sound at home. We' re going to make a band of whatsapp 622 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:27,440 or there' s sound of cars being solved by changing it ready and it 623 00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,239 ' s going that tone here. She already says a friend won' t 624 00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,400 let me sleep downstairs, because she said she listens to everything I do. 625 00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:36,199 I can' t masturbate now thinking she listens to the vibrator and if I 626 00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,159 don' t, I don' t sleep. Good morning, the neighbor 627 00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:44,559 who attends to his bases will unless he will be leaving Darmen there is manan. 628 00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:49,320 He gave her a menga of us and Madecen already felt the dead one 629 00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:54,000 already, but what less specifically was that they had then. I saw him, 630 00:49:54,519 --> 00:49:59,639 too, no nama, and I gave him the hair. Come on. 631 00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:02,320 Thank God, it wasn' t positive, it came out to you. 632 00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:06,159 That' s always worse, it can always be worse. Bloodsucker' 633 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:09,639 s a lot of time, yeah you know, you know, and make 634 00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:15,159 a revil fadel, a revil fader? Yeah, good morning, Alberto still 635 00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:21,599 misses this depravity that you ask Mommy the rubber egg I had. No, 636 00:50:22,039 --> 00:50:24,639 because Mommy' s a very open broad of mel her. No. It 637 00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,760 doesn' t happen. It' s just that Mommy still gives a lot 638 00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,079 and gets in here, gets in there, still hurts and starts moving things 639 00:50:31,079 --> 00:50:36,440 into her house. But imagine a once- in- a- lifetime question 640 00:50:36,519 --> 00:50:37,039 there' s gramiata and I asked him to call me a bomb. I 641 00:50:37,079 --> 00:50:40,320 had to use it from where it is. I don' t stop that 642 00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:43,840 from looking for him in that box. Squeeze the house. Sometimes I come 643 00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:45,679 to the house and see that it is precisely volatile and bay that already forget 644 00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:50,159 the thing will know. You don' t know where I' m leaving 645 00:50:50,159 --> 00:50:51,760 you hearing TV control. Another day I had him next to you You don 646 00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:53,000 ' t sleep on your butt and you' re after a tickell. Yeah, 647 00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:58,400 yeah, of course that chilly guy who happens to my mom, Mommy, 648 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:00,719 a baby girl, so many years ago he put on a dress and 649 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:04,840 it was like two years ago and Mommy called me about eleven o' clock 650 00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:07,239 at night, my daughter. I give you a dress that doesn' t 651 00:51:08,519 --> 00:51:13,960 serve you where that dress is and I really gil I don' t know 652 00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,039 where it is. Well, I' m going to go good day, 653 00:51:17,559 --> 00:51:21,000 well you see me won' t let me sleep where. I put my 654 00:51:21,159 --> 00:51:24,000 head in gold. All Pa pompeyar and I can' t find it and 655 00:51:24,039 --> 00:51:28,719 I know it' s no point is. The big thing is that those 656 00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:34,039 pods when you need them for truly urgent situations, they don' t show 657 00:51:34,039 --> 00:51:37,079 up, you show up. Yeah, when they find him. We' 658 00:51:37,159 --> 00:51:40,599 ve got someone here who pawns you. I have an aunt that one of 659 00:51:40,639 --> 00:51:45,039 my aunts that she had a gold ring, that that golden boy was the 660 00:51:45,119 --> 00:51:49,400 one who used the whole family in pot whenever you needed urgent money. Yeah, 661 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,800 just so I can borrow the ring to go. You pawn this there 662 00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,199 as much as I don' t weigh forty for just a sheath. When 663 00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:58,679 I get paid, I come and if ring solved the whole family I didn 664 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:04,239 ' t say that' s sara. In the eighties you had to pawn 665 00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:07,719 or there were two paths, you pawned the devil. That wasn' t 666 00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:12,960 two or you pawned or the devil took you. The one who had a 667 00:52:13,039 --> 00:52:15,920 blender didn' t have just that to make juice. I had that for 668 00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:21,920 an emergens and to be given twenty- five or thirty pesos in one at 669 00:52:22,039 --> 00:52:30,320 a sale sale hears and I came out of a rush truth, good morning, 670 00:52:31,519 --> 00:52:34,760 good token, Alberto before all of how many inches was the raffle. 671 00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:42,119 It was like that it was big, like fourteen big, well, fourteen 672 00:52:42,199 --> 00:52:46,679 pulas b for sa eleven, but at the good news, my boy had 673 00:52:47,079 --> 00:52:51,360 a very big belt. No, no, no, I' ve never 674 00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:54,639 put anything in my eye. You know where the net gift that makes me 675 00:52:54,679 --> 00:53:00,719 keep them. So, go ok ok then you go to me. I 676 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:07,719 ' m worried that my boss was fucking you with the manager and now the 677 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:09,199 gebente is pregnant. So, fuck, Mother, you don' t bring 678 00:53:09,199 --> 00:53:15,000 me a question. Oh, my friend, he didn' t leave him 679 00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:17,760 Master Maurice Jaibar, he' s in tune. Always listen to the program, 680 00:53:19,639 --> 00:53:22,760 yes, the voice of the baye. Sometimes you' re not gonna 681 00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:28,760 be the Sabbath Sunday show anymore. If you do, it' s there 682 00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,400 from there, from the dance one that stayed in New York, bread of 683 00:53:31,599 --> 00:53:35,639 everything but or that they shit a New York. It' s terrible. 684 00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,960 The Master, uh, is trying to call not Bamboo. I' m 685 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:43,199 still on my way to Bambú or he moved here. I took the doorbell 686 00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:45,880 off my house so no one would come to see me or visit. I 687 00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:51,679 don' t like pa tiar timbre, ay Dios, Maestro, and still 688 00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:58,360 goes his huao to him in command, the Father, the Master, and 689 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:00,480 we want it so you want it, yes, yes, if not, 690 00:54:00,679 --> 00:54:07,239 that you want to humiliate for the world the last hours days, pussy, 691 00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:12,400 how good not, Alberto, how you are brother, pretty good for little 692 00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:17,440 they say what does not let me sleep in the mornings. I' ve 693 00:54:17,519 --> 00:54:22,199 got a problem, Alberto, and I' m quiet so lately I have 694 00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:25,599 a fixed schedule to get my ticket mate up three in the morning and you 695 00:54:25,639 --> 00:54:30,519 have to put it down. What an edato I have thirty- two. 696 00:54:30,639 --> 00:54:32,400 Ah you' re not given that that happened s are normal, that' 697 00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:36,239 s normal. Look, you' re past pi It depended on the forties. 698 00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:38,239 The wife of mine is the best age of the woman in foursome, 699 00:54:38,599 --> 00:54:44,480 as we like her there, the black one with a minor, the poor 700 00:54:44,519 --> 00:54:47,559 one with a pussy and put two boys in her. Poor girl You have 701 00:54:47,639 --> 00:54:51,800 to try a colage, not adrian and stop suffering me change mate I suffered 702 00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:55,920 you leave it time, leave it You looking for a colagenite. The thing 703 00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:00,760 is, they give trouble every day. Now the pandemic you' re going 704 00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:02,800 to throw bread out of that drug. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 705 00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:05,159 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 706 00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:05,159 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 707 00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:05,159 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 708 00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:05,159 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 709 00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:05,159 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 710 00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:05,159 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 711 00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:05,159 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 712 00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:05,159 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 713 00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:05,159 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 714 00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:05,159 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 715 00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:08,039 I was once on what it was called in a street show. Hey 716 00:55:08,079 --> 00:55:12,480 so that you go to this generation so fucked up in the drug they buy 717 00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:15,440 drago, but pop tequita record that was in the colonial zone. Over there, 718 00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:21,119 down Mercedes Street. I think she' s the same as I go 719 00:55:21,119 --> 00:55:22,719 into the bathroom, she tells me a panita. Hey, you giste go 720 00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:27,239 well, you have you, you have something there I have something that defines 721 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:30,480 something, defines something and then go back to the bathroom. I' ll 722 00:55:30,519 --> 00:55:32,039 meet you there, giving yourself up like a poppel. He' s into 723 00:55:32,119 --> 00:55:36,519 the paltisone, which is a little oppel. It' s a sheath that 724 00:55:36,519 --> 00:55:39,360 relaxes you. All cough holes thin the defter of the relaxes. I' 725 00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:43,320 m gonna stop this one because one, like a poppel solo and see that 726 00:55:43,519 --> 00:55:47,000 I' m the guy with his bottle. There, gua already teaches a 727 00:55:47,079 --> 00:55:52,119 question in the bathroom. I don' t know he' s gonna leave 728 00:55:52,119 --> 00:55:53,360 Eddy, a teacher' s question that for an hour. You relaxed. 729 00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:59,280 Yes ha to the sphincters. If you do it on the street, you 730 00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:00,760 don' t get it. No. No. No. There are people 731 00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:06,000 who get sleepy before they go out on the street and their fleay Reddy for 732 00:56:06,039 --> 00:56:10,000 whatever pagnesios. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, totally until 733 00:56:10,039 --> 00:56:15,400 we' re in line. Not three collates until thirty- five, which 734 00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:19,159 is what the law says that you are young chuga not from thirty- five 735 00:56:19,199 --> 00:56:22,360 you are grown, young young adult your lettuce pass from forty- five I 736 00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:27,400 look to thirty- five you are collage and to be considered collage. The 737 00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:30,559 person I' m with has to take you ten or more different years. 738 00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:32,480 The thirty- five that the ladies don' t just tie it up. 739 00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:43,880 I' m cool You' re a chuga, chupo churr. Petter Bascas 740 00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:52,840 Mira Luis ni Corporan is an announcer working here a long time ago. I 741 00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:57,760 must congratulate the Louine to incorporate is a kind of job and success pussy yes 742 00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:01,639 for your company, which has forged with much effort. Or the guy. 743 00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:08,800 I' m a listener for one of your shows that at five Fogarate Radio 744 00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:15,079 is leaving this team there is the lawyer. Washing is there, too. 745 00:57:15,599 --> 00:57:17,079 Yeah, I heard you. I' m a listener for that show. 746 00:57:17,639 --> 00:57:21,599 Happiness. He has a team that I like, the team that they have 747 00:57:21,639 --> 00:57:27,280 there because they do a job well, well fun, exceptional, if I 748 00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:30,360 don' t really like it, so happiness to the Grate fire boy and 749 00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:36,840 the onlyrporan for his company, his project, his boy project that had here 750 00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:37,719 Mira Luis you know that someone incorporated. It took a lot of hunger from 751 00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,840 me when I was here winning two relaxes. He had the time of holes 752 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:44,960 there was one or already such was here two of that time. If he 753 00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,239 was in the time of Prangana between the two thousand eleven, out there up 754 00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:52,320 to two thousand fifteen. We were all there today. He had a case, 755 00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:53,719 the world, a wave like that and he had at that time. 756 00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:59,159 When I met him, he was in Pasola in his clothes. Of course 757 00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:02,559 now I didn' t know Luine and that' s when I put the 758 00:58:02,719 --> 00:58:07,199 Wing cable that you were Romana TV, and he doesn' t know if 759 00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:07,119 he' ll continue to follow in the Lord' s footsteps. But he 760 00:58:07,159 --> 00:58:13,840 was a Christian, he was a practicing Christian, he went to a Christian 761 00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:16,559 church and I threw him at me on a Sunday show on Romana TV de 762 00:58:16,639 --> 00:58:22,400 lo Michellie through Win and I saw him and then I heard him here working. 763 00:58:22,039 --> 00:58:24,119 When I heard from him again, he was here at the appointed rhythm. 764 00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:28,480 He was here in the named names. Yeah,' cause he comes 765 00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,519 in here like two thousand ten, two thousand eleven. That way excellent. 766 00:58:30,519 --> 00:58:31,559 Before that he works on another station, for him he went on weekends to 767 00:58:31,679 --> 00:58:36,840 work on that program. I see him and I say by the way he 768 00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:40,079 ' s the announcer I' ve heard cheering Reggaetonk and Vaina Lui. I 769 00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:45,079 ' m not very happy about the professional growth he' s had and because 770 00:58:45,079 --> 00:58:47,360 he mostly knew subs he must have been about twenty- two so Luino arrives 771 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:49,679 thirty- five years old. No, no, I don' t think 772 00:58:49,679 --> 00:58:51,079 so, it doesn' t. I don' t think he' s 773 00:58:51,159 --> 00:58:52,719 that old, he doesn' t. He' s hit by life, 774 00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:58,480 but I don' t think he' s hit by utility. So many 775 00:58:59,119 --> 00:59:02,360 felichs run for their projects, especially for that off- radio program. I 776 00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:05,559 like it is the program follow it. So don' t let him down. 777 00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:12,280 It' s good look at this one you know right now talking about 778 00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:15,239 women and all this kind of stuff and the reward the lady was asking for. 779 00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:23,360 There is a question and women don' t understand that evolution has precisely 780 00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:28,840 led men to look for something more than a woman when you decide to establish 781 00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:35,639 a sentimental relationship. But women are still clinging to the man who' s 782 00:59:35,639 --> 00:59:38,760 with me. You have to give me hear this sheath, that you have 783 00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:44,800 to her and even with all these pods that you have invented female overcoming, 784 00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:50,119 that in the rights that the devil who is brother Ahon, you follow in 785 00:59:50,239 --> 00:59:52,840 that the man who is with you has to give him. Now, if 786 00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:58,440 we do a democratic exercise, I know that there are many women who are 787 00:59:58,519 --> 01:00:00,960 called heads of households, heads of arrivals and are women' s in the 788 01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:07,000 economic aspect. Specifically we' re going to stay there, in that, 789 01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:13,519 in that line, this, in your house, in your house that you 790 01:00:13,599 --> 01:00:16,599 live with your husband, with your family, and I imagine you earn a 791 01:00:16,639 --> 01:00:22,360 lot more than your husband. Need to go to a discussion and pass and 792 01:00:22,559 --> 01:00:25,000 pass in headquarters in relationships that when the husband wins more than the woman, 793 01:00:25,119 --> 01:00:29,119 he doesn' t care if they get less accurate, but when she wins 794 01:00:29,239 --> 01:00:32,639 more. That' s the national hinkno. Every day, yes, in 795 01:00:32,719 --> 01:00:36,559 the house, the friends did not place more than ordinary no, because I 796 01:00:36,599 --> 01:00:44,519 win maca fulano and then the guy starts blind, the devil sends you not 797 01:00:44,639 --> 01:00:50,559 complain a room and spinster. Sometimes I stay thinking about the woman who says 798 01:00:50,719 --> 01:00:54,400 and studies what I said. They have said the universities are full of women 799 01:00:54,519 --> 01:01:00,719 studying preparing themselves. In fact, they' re majorities. Fifty- fifty 800 01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:04,119 percent, fifty- three, fifty- seven percent of the tuition is women 801 01:01:04,159 --> 01:01:08,199 at the end and sixty- sixty percent are large. They' re the 802 01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:12,679 ones who graduate. They' re women at last the whole university, at 803 01:01:12,679 --> 01:01:15,119 the end they study. They have a degree, they have but they are 804 01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:20,920 not happy, a good job, a good job. They' ve got 805 01:01:21,679 --> 01:01:25,719 you money, but they always want a man, a man who' ll 806 01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:28,320 give them to take it assume look piter. It' s not that in 807 01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:30,880 the end the woman was born to be maintained. It' s not to 808 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:34,559 assume or keep you, but I' m going to tell you one thing. 809 01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:37,880 When you so much with people who see that you' re up to 810 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:45,960 your neck of responsibilities and you see that person turn a blind eye, you 811 01:01:45,039 --> 01:01:46,960 run away not from your problem. The man likes the woman in trouble. 812 01:01:47,719 --> 01:01:51,239 No. No, no, it' s not your problem. If your 813 01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:53,679 wife has problems, they' re her problems, they' re problems exactly. 814 01:01:53,840 --> 01:02:00,159 No. So, when that woman is super prepared, she makes money, 815 01:02:00,559 --> 01:02:02,079 she' s got a good job, one thing, you see it 816 01:02:02,199 --> 01:02:06,559 with the speech that not that the man who' s with me, that 817 01:02:06,679 --> 01:02:08,679 ' s me solving the problem, that you have to give me the other 818 01:02:08,719 --> 01:02:12,119 one and there' s a man who says to himself to the woman to 819 01:02:12,119 --> 01:02:15,000 stay. No. Just as there is a new woman is feeling a new 820 01:02:15,159 --> 01:02:17,800 man also exactly and you have to accept it. You have to accept. 821 01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:22,960 Now, that new man was stopped by you, I mean, do it 822 01:02:22,519 --> 01:02:30,280 exactly. That empowerment is the uncompromising man, with little responsibility that compromises the 823 01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:34,039 extent to which you give up power, because what happens between men and women 824 01:02:34,119 --> 01:02:38,039 And now what happens And already said an American charlist who is dedicated to the 825 01:02:38,159 --> 01:02:45,599 issue of the couple. The woman became a man and the men are looking 826 01:02:45,639 --> 01:02:49,559 for women are pana, not a tigra just like him. Pa has a 827 01:02:49,639 --> 01:02:52,000 pulse of power in the relationship and you see it so much that women open 828 01:02:52,039 --> 01:02:58,159 up to husbands as if the husband were their property or their son. And 829 01:02:58,239 --> 01:03:01,440 men don' t like it. That sheath. Then here you come. 830 01:03:01,519 --> 01:03:05,239 You had a tiger next to you better grab on, give her the broad, 831 01:03:05,559 --> 01:03:08,280 give her the otah and make no commitment to anyone. Here comes empowerment. 832 01:03:09,039 --> 01:03:12,880 You' ve fucked up all London who tell you, tell women, 833 01:03:13,079 --> 01:03:15,280 say women, say women don' t, because you, if you' 834 01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:19,679 re with me, that you have to offer me and don' t mean, 835 01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:22,880 I didn' t buy it better than you, better than the one 836 01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:25,639 you' re going to give me. I, by weight, don' 837 01:03:25,639 --> 01:03:30,519 t buy and I don' t have any Promiongo that I don' t 838 01:03:30,519 --> 01:03:34,800 have to give you anything. If you want a man to give you up 839 01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:43,119 a lot of things, then you can be right in the relationship. That 840 01:03:43,159 --> 01:03:45,840 ' s the truth. And if you can' t pretend to be given 841 01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:51,119 everything and on top of that, I don' t know how to be 842 01:03:51,119 --> 01:03:52,960 a government. You can' t in this house. There can' t 843 01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:54,400 be two of crotus. No. No, no, no, no, 844 01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:58,960 no, that' s more submissive. I' m not, I' 845 01:03:59,079 --> 01:04:03,119 m very submissive. That would learn how submissive I am in a relationship now 846 01:04:03,719 --> 01:04:08,840 that men are garbage. Today, all right, that' s another five 847 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:13,599 hundred. No. What happens is that you also have it there. What 848 01:04:13,679 --> 01:04:16,239 happens is that today, that we were having a conversation out of the air 849 01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:21,039 Peter, forgive me for that very thing about you know people today is that 850 01:04:21,079 --> 01:04:25,800 I' m not picky yes and year. What I know is that the 851 01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:29,840 women' s asumome speech, if you want my piggy, has to solve 852 01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:34,079 base. And but where to, picochito, how do you buy me for 853 01:04:34,119 --> 01:04:42,000 ten pesos if we saw Dr Peña wolf, as his colleagues tell him? 854 01:04:42,159 --> 01:04:45,760 That' s the schoolmate, but it' s Dr César Rivera who' 855 01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:48,039 s called the people who check them out. One was given all the glaudio, 856 01:04:48,519 --> 01:04:54,320 jurislogist, prologue. And here we also have the lawyer talking to her 857 01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:58,400 about a pill that I eat very often for the stomach and she said the 858 01:04:58,519 --> 01:05:01,760 effects and I stopped pouring and now I' m living demic water, like 859 01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:06,400 she calls me for herself, because it can be taken. And the doctor 860 01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:13,599 explained it, but not continuously. If there are so many pods and you 861 01:05:13,639 --> 01:05:17,599 provoke one to see correct me to me one person told me, a doctor 862 01:05:17,679 --> 01:05:23,719 told me a long time ago that the continuous consumption of that medication, of 863 01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:27,000 that sheath also put a half tutu of the caco with the passage of time 864 01:05:27,119 --> 01:05:31,079 that they begin to forget the thing and the sheath and I say that it 865 01:05:31,679 --> 01:05:34,239 has to be taken, but under supervision and strict medical prescription. Actually, 866 01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:39,519 yes, there are a few days before every doctor laughed in good morning, 867 01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:43,760 the doctor on the plane. There are some studies that talk about how the 868 01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:47,000 prolonged use of these medications can produce some degree of dementia, sini senil, 869 01:05:47,719 --> 01:05:53,360 yes, well, just as other medicines, such as the old carinics, 870 01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:58,079 are also. There are some studies that say that prolonged and indiscriminate use of 871 01:05:58,119 --> 01:06:01,239 these medicines can lead to mentions. The Olympic waters, I' m still 872 01:06:01,239 --> 01:06:03,519 running out of water now to see if I' m getting rid of all 873 01:06:03,519 --> 01:06:06,760 those meds in there. Really the grandfather who' s going to be increasing 874 01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:12,159 the diuresis. If diuresis increases, there will be a lower plasma concentration of 875 01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:15,079 the medicine. I mean, I used to tell her about me a lot 876 01:06:15,519 --> 01:06:24,039 in high- term urine. I' ll take it. Nemos also Juan 877 01:06:24,119 --> 01:06:27,199 Arturo with us here, the doctor wanted to touch on the medical demands that 878 01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:30,000 have been given and made public and that have had as sentences to hospitals and 879 01:06:30,119 --> 01:06:38,840 doctors, and wanted us to invite Juan Arturo to also give a legal perspective 880 01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:46,079 to this issue that they had. Today I saw in the Exsten Diario a 881 01:06:46,559 --> 01:06:50,679 note written by the president of a foundation that has the doctor' s name. 882 01:06:50,719 --> 01:06:55,159 Speak seek the name so as not to stay with him, that he 883 01:06:55,159 --> 01:06:59,400 had been long and it is true that I read him in the two thousand 884 01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:04,199 and fifteen that this kind of sentence would arrive and that the doctors had to 885 01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:08,760 prepare for this which we are seeing now. Well, actually, the medical 886 01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:12,480 lawsuit. From my point of view, I understand that it is a right 887 01:07:12,519 --> 01:07:16,960 that the patient has. If we work from the scientific method. The scientific 888 01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:23,599 method is supposed to allow anyone who undergoes a medical treatment to verify their treatment, 889 01:07:24,119 --> 01:07:33,079 because we also know that not all individuals can work the same. And 890 01:07:33,199 --> 01:07:40,280 so in some countries then there are therapeutic protocols that if you follow those therapeutic 891 01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:46,159 protocols, then the part of the verification is automatically cancelled that happens in countries 892 01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:50,400 like Ours, that the therapeutic protocols are adjusted to the year two thousand, 893 01:07:50,719 --> 01:07:56,519 to the year one thousand ninety- six, and some of the medical treatments 894 01:07:56,880 --> 01:08:01,320 and some of the surgical treatments that are even stipulated in our law, are 895 01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:04,440 subject to the year two thousand, when the law was made forty- two 896 01:08:04,519 --> 01:08:10,760 one. And if we look at any of these treatments today, in the 897 01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:16,239 2, 000 twenty- four, none are standard for the treatment of many 898 01:08:16,319 --> 01:08:21,359 diseases, even at the time of the patient, to seek medication coverage, 899 01:08:23,079 --> 01:08:27,319 procedure coverage, treatment coverage. Many times they receive the negative from insurers because 900 01:08:28,039 --> 01:08:30,600 what is the standard today was not the standard in the year two thousand twenty. 901 01:08:31,800 --> 01:08:38,159 In the year two thousand pardons and right now, many patients are demanding 902 01:08:38,279 --> 01:08:44,079 their right to be verified and given a solution outside the doctors, outside the 903 01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:50,399 technical ones, but a legal solution. What happens also in our country that, 904 01:08:51,159 --> 01:08:57,279 unlike other parts of the world, we also do not have a specialized 905 01:08:57,560 --> 01:09:02,479 stay for this type of problems, of these types of legal problems, and 906 01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:08,199 much of what we as a specialist ask is that it be removed as de 907 01:09:09,159 --> 01:09:12,760 - killing, but it is good. Yes, sue me, sue me 908 01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:17,159 in the civil court, that you can, for example, have an economic 909 01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:24,600 sanction or a sanction, let' s say so, a suspension of the 910 01:09:24,640 --> 01:09:27,760 license, a suspension of the license, which is what is being applied in 911 01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:31,079 other parts of the world. But the penal thing is what I was reading 912 01:09:31,159 --> 01:09:35,680 exactly that and that' s what the Ashley Cowboy, president of the Otor 913 01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:40,479 Cowboy Foundation, was talking about, was the one who wrote and wrote about 914 01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:44,319 this in the year two thousand fifteen backwards, warning that this could happen. 915 01:09:44,319 --> 01:09:46,199 So the criminal issue is what you, as a doctor, understand should be 916 01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:54,399 what should be really discussed. It is the most shameful thing for us to 917 01:09:54,560 --> 01:10:00,159 be treated in a criminal way. We' re all going to be sued 918 01:10:00,279 --> 01:10:06,000 in something a part at some point in our career or for civilian, because 919 01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:10,279 it' s going to be for abuse. I don' t expect it 920 01:10:10,399 --> 01:10:14,920 to be given to me, but we' re all going to be subjected 921 01:10:15,159 --> 01:10:16,439 to some kind of research at some stage of our career. Everyone, I 922 01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:21,199 think we are prepared and some, for example, in private practice we have 923 01:10:21,279 --> 01:10:27,159 American protocols, we follow European protocols to try to have our practice. Let 924 01:10:27,199 --> 01:10:31,720 ' s say the most strictly organized. The problem is that in a Dominican 925 01:10:31,800 --> 01:10:36,039 court, the American protocol to me is of no use to me. The 926 01:10:36,119 --> 01:10:40,560 European protocol is of no use to me. I may have it as an 927 01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:44,720 example, but when I am judged, I will be judged by an obsolete 928 01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:49,720 protocol. I' m not going to offer an obsolete treatment. In the 929 01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:53,279 twenty- four thousand I' m going to try to offer a treatment. 930 01:10:53,279 --> 01:10:56,399 For example, here we already have, thank God, the surgery with Robot, 931 01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:59,960 we already see a group of doctors who are making the effort to prepare 932 01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:05,760 to not certify us and have international certifications to use that device. But if 933 01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:12,239 we have an inconvenience, the Dominican legislation may not contemplate that type of surgery, 934 01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:16,640 and that complicates it. Everything, it complicates everything that goes well, 935 01:11:17,079 --> 01:11:21,239 because maybe we don' t have any problems. When something goes wrong, 936 01:11:21,319 --> 01:11:27,920 then maybe we have that weakness. Although, for example, in eighty- 937 01:11:28,399 --> 01:11:31,359 ninety percent of international medical associations and jubot surgery is accepted, for example, 938 01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:39,399 for the treatment of many diseases. The medical school is right now, I 939 01:11:39,399 --> 01:11:46,479 think it is developing the best strategy, asking the State, asking the Supreme 940 01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:54,399 Court of Justice to design a specialized court to deal with these cases, because 941 01:11:54,439 --> 01:11:57,279 it is not that we do not want it to be dealt with, It 942 01:11:57,319 --> 01:12:01,239 is not that we do not want to be sued, but that we submit 943 01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:08,920 that process of lawsuit within a group of people who understand what are the concepts 944 01:12:08,920 --> 01:12:13,239 that are going to be developed in each type of pathology and that it will 945 01:12:13,399 --> 01:12:18,720 not be understood that a complication or an unwanted result is a bad person, 946 01:12:19,119 --> 01:12:27,520 malpractice lawyer look. The main problem that doctors face today when we go to 947 01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:30,319 both the civil code and the penal code on these issues of liability, both 948 01:12:30,359 --> 01:12:34,279 civil and criminal, is the own wording that brings each of the codifications. 949 01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:40,640 It is good to remember that both the Civil Code and the Penal Code that 950 01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:45,439 we have in force in the Dominican Republic, regardless of all the laws that 951 01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:49,399 have modified it over time. They are 19th- century codifications that came to 952 01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:54,720 Dominican Republic from ninety- nine percent of what today medicine touches did not exist. 953 01:12:55,359 --> 01:13:00,000 There wasn' t, that is, all these specialties, scientific advances, 954 01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:05,920 not even antibiotics still creaquetata had been discovered. This codifications arrive in one 955 01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:12,960 thousand eight hundred twenty- two to the Dominican Republic with the Haitian occupation and 956 01:13:13,079 --> 01:13:16,680 are then translated into Spanish when, therefore, the country becomes independent in one 957 01:13:16,680 --> 01:13:18,960 thousand eight hundred forty- four. When you go to the writing then. 958 01:13:19,039 --> 01:13:24,039 You see that the writing is extremely closed. In the case of civil matters, 959 01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:29,000 it establishes that everyone who causes harm to another has to repair it point. 960 01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:33,279 That is to say, basically that is the basis of civil liability Dominican 961 01:13:33,279 --> 01:13:39,840 Republic, although later, since the code itself and the laws that have arisen 962 01:13:39,960 --> 01:13:44,880 over time are shaping a little bit this topic of civil and criminal responsibility, 963 01:13:45,399 --> 01:13:47,359 which is what affects doctors in most cases, since the crime that is being 964 01:13:47,479 --> 01:13:53,399 prosecuted is manslaughter in almost all of them that is contemplated in the nineteenth three 965 01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:59,960 and establishes to read it textually. Anyone who, by reason of clumsiness and 966 01:14:00,119 --> 01:14:05,680 prudence, inadvertence, negligence or inadmissibility of regulations, commits manslaughter or is an 967 01:14:06,279 --> 01:14:12,119 involuntary cause of manslaughter shall be punished by correctional imprisonment for three months to two 968 01:14:12,239 --> 01:14:17,960 years and a fine. Obviously, there within that group also fall into the 969 01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:25,079 errors the one in observance that is mentioned, but it could be interpreted as 970 01:14:25,159 --> 01:14:30,960 the doctor very well points out that the use of protocols that are outdated so 971 01:14:31,119 --> 01:14:36,560 are those approved by law, as they fall within the realm of manslaughter a 972 01:14:36,600 --> 01:14:43,159 little you are not using in principle the modern guidelines, in force and accepted 973 01:14:43,239 --> 01:14:48,920 internationally in the field of medicine. Then this complicates a defense for the doctor, 974 01:14:49,039 --> 01:14:55,319 because, regardless of whether they can fully verify that they followed the protocols 975 01:14:55,399 --> 01:14:59,640 that are standing and that not only followed those, but followed those that are. 976 01:15:00,239 --> 01:15:05,000 What is established, then, in Dominican legislation, regulations at the time 977 01:15:05,079 --> 01:15:10,439 the argument comes out, but that these are regulations or are guidelines of the 978 01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:15,640 year two thousand. The judge is in criminal proceedings bound by his hands to 979 01:15:15,880 --> 01:15:21,239 decide only on the basis of the evidence submitted to him and the law has 980 01:15:21,439 --> 01:15:26,600 no space in that regard. The judge, in order to maneuver, will 981 01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:30,880 have to convict the doctor. So, the doctor has followed the right protocol 982 01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:36,279 and the result, unfortunately, that adverse result for the doctor now too and 983 01:15:36,399 --> 01:15:42,680 that is one of the criticisms I think should be made and that is that 984 01:15:42,720 --> 01:15:46,359 at all times we have to remember the mistakes. Neglect and hisda observance are 985 01:15:47,039 --> 01:15:53,720 either the cause or the genesis of responsibility. I mean, regardless of whether 986 01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:58,199 you' ve followed the whole protocol. If in that protocol you make a 987 01:15:58,279 --> 01:16:02,399 mistake, you are responsible. It is possible to be persecuted and the discussion 988 01:16:02,439 --> 01:16:08,560 has to be there. I hear that, because the Dominican medical school and 989 01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:12,399 the doctor and you too when we were talking out of the air, they 990 01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:16,159 support the creation of a special jurisdiction to know, because of medical cases. 991 01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:25,079 I am not so sure what kind of judges could make up that special jurisdiction, 992 01:16:25,479 --> 01:16:30,640 because special jurisdiction is sometimes counterproductive. And I bring the example of the 993 01:16:30,720 --> 01:16:36,159 military courts that existed in the Dominican Republic, where the military ended up judging 994 01:16:36,279 --> 01:16:41,640 military and, as Volvis j Adaio says, between firefighters they do not step 995 01:16:41,760 --> 01:16:46,119 on the hose many times because those soldiers did not fulfill the responsibilities that the 996 01:16:46,119 --> 01:16:50,359 law determined those cases. Then I advocate more than the creation of a special 997 01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:57,479 jurisdiction for the preparation of justice agents, that there be agreements between the Dominican 998 01:16:57,520 --> 01:17:01,119 medical school and the National School of the Judiciary to prepare better judges, that 999 01:17:01,319 --> 01:17:10,039 there be agreements between the Dominican medical school and the School of the Public Ministry 1000 01:17:10,119 --> 01:17:16,239 to prepare also prosecutors, that have knowledge of these aspects of medical responsibility and 1001 01:17:16,399 --> 01:17:23,119 thus start creating juris prudential and start to have actors who know what they are 1002 01:17:23,159 --> 01:17:28,439 talking about. In addition, I believe that there needs to be a major 1003 01:17:28,479 --> 01:17:33,760 medical certification campaign so that they can be experts in court. The worst mistake 1004 01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:39,760 doctors can make is to get away from justice and take out the pediments they 1005 01:17:39,800 --> 01:17:43,079 already have there. Obviously, out of the doctors' solidarity, we' 1006 01:17:43,119 --> 01:17:45,600 re not going to help hide other doctors. That would be a mistake, 1007 01:17:45,039 --> 01:17:50,600 because they are losing the only voice that they have in the judicial proceedings then 1008 01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:58,479 and they could prevent the judge from unjustly, for lack of understanding by the 1009 01:17:59,039 --> 01:18:01,920 judge, reaching a conclusion or a sentence that, in case it is, 1010 01:18:02,239 --> 01:18:05,960 that the person is not responsible, ends up saying no to me and complicates 1011 01:18:06,079 --> 01:18:11,479 sometimes condemned bread, not even for lack of the judge does not understand it. 1012 01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:15,359 It' s just that vous I say sometimes times they' re tied 1013 01:18:15,399 --> 01:18:18,920 up with mach Yes, exactly, but you know that judges, like everyone 1014 01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:23,279 and all of us, are clear human beings and can be possible to make 1015 01:18:23,279 --> 01:18:26,680 a mistake. That' s why when the penal persal code that we have 1016 01:18:26,760 --> 01:18:30,960 in force was approved, the judge' s intimate conviction was eliminated for exactly 1017 01:18:30,960 --> 01:18:33,279 that. That is not part of the process and the judge, as I 1018 01:18:33,359 --> 01:18:36,720 said earlier, is obliged to rule on the basis of evidence and is obliged 1019 01:18:38,079 --> 01:18:41,279 to pass judgement on the basis of the arguments that have been presented to the 1020 01:18:41,359 --> 01:18:44,800 Tribunal and what the law establishes on what is being discussed. Dr César Rivera, 1021 01:18:45,720 --> 01:18:47,399 well, right now, what we have is, as you recommend us, 1022 01:18:48,399 --> 01:18:54,920 even set out to create that group of colleagues and colleagues who work on 1023 01:18:55,000 --> 01:18:59,880 medical expertise. I understand that the number of medical experts we have at the 1024 01:19:00,159 --> 01:19:06,279 moment very little certificates to also give an adequate response to many cases. Also 1025 01:19:06,399 --> 01:19:11,880 right now. There is a large line of doctors who have dedicated themselves to 1026 01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:17,279 studying law and I understand that the medical school should also gather these doctors almost 1027 01:19:17,359 --> 01:19:20,840 as we meet the jurislogists, the surgeons meet, the medical lawyers meet and 1028 01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:29,520 also help design the strategy, not only to benefit the doctor, but also 1029 01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:33,239 to protect the patient, because really our raw material, our quarry are the 1030 01:19:33,399 --> 01:19:39,960 patients, and we cannot create a barrier between patients and make us enemies of 1031 01:19:40,079 --> 01:19:44,600 patients, make us enemies of the lawyer, but see how we can these 1032 01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:50,399 three groups of human beings meet, speak the same language, set up review 1033 01:19:50,399 --> 01:19:57,079 mechanisms, because I do not want to do a practice that is irregular nor 1034 01:19:57,199 --> 01:20:00,680 do I want to do a practice that is subject to scrutiny either. Of 1035 01:20:00,800 --> 01:20:06,319 course, I also want it to be understood that I can make a decision. 1036 01:20:06,359 --> 01:20:10,880 Even now the patient is given more participation in choosing certain treatments and starting 1037 01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:15,319 from what the patient chooses, we, as a doctor, then have to 1038 01:20:15,319 --> 01:20:20,079 follow certain guidelines and explain to the patient also each treatment that is chosen what 1039 01:20:20,119 --> 01:20:27,399 its chances of success are, what its chances of failure are. What to 1040 01:20:27,479 --> 01:20:31,319 do if there is a failure, what other alternatives we have, because also 1041 01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:36,199 communication with the patient has been lost. Many of us have lost communication with 1042 01:20:36,319 --> 01:20:42,439 the patient. We have lost communication with relatives and many times perhaps what triggers 1043 01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:46,960 bad taste in the family, which then ends in an act of demand, 1044 01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:55,039 is that we do not have a fluid and adequate communication. And the family 1045 01:20:55,199 --> 01:20:58,119 then, from what it explains to the lawyer, what it' s going 1046 01:20:58,159 --> 01:21:03,479 to be that the lawyer bases or designs a defense strategy for that family that 1047 01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:09,079 was injured. And in many cases, perhaps we, as doctors, do 1048 01:21:09,079 --> 01:21:13,000 lack because we are not, we are human beings, we are going to 1049 01:21:13,000 --> 01:21:15,039 be wrong. But I also understand that in some of the cases, some 1050 01:21:15,079 --> 01:21:23,840 of the compañeros were unfairly judged with situations that even literature is not Dominican literature. 1051 01:21:26,119 --> 01:21:30,640 Of course they will not fail against him, but are situations that are 1052 01:21:30,079 --> 01:21:34,600 favorable to him, that he did what he had to do. I want 1053 01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:38,119 to touch on one aspect of what you mention. Author on this topic of 1054 01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:45,760 communication, informed consents, which, basically because once the patient has already been 1055 01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:50,119 explained to his family all the possible consequences or benefits of following a medical treatment 1056 01:21:50,199 --> 01:21:57,119 to give his consent we accept it, because they have to sign that consent. 1057 01:22:00,760 --> 01:22:03,680 Not in the light of the courts. Only the fact of your signing 1058 01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:09,760 the informed consent is not going. Why. Because in the case of many 1059 01:22:09,840 --> 01:22:15,720 professionals, especially doctors, in the contractual relationship between the physician and the patient, 1060 01:22:15,960 --> 01:22:20,560 there are additional obligations that the doctor, such as the expert in the 1061 01:22:20,680 --> 01:22:27,359 field and has knowledge that the ordinary person will not have about medical aspects. 1062 01:22:30,640 --> 01:22:36,359 Each element that is part of a medical treatment should be not only correctly explained, 1063 01:22:36,880 --> 01:22:42,840 but correctly understood by the patient. That' s very important. It 1064 01:22:42,880 --> 01:22:45,399 ' s not just telling you look, you broke a bone, we' 1065 01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:49,239 re gonna stick a metal plate in, we' re gonna mobilize that arm, 1066 01:22:49,399 --> 01:22:51,680 a treatment, two years, we' re gonna track you, or 1067 01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:53,840 two years we' re gonna go and get the plate out. It' 1068 01:22:53,960 --> 01:22:57,359 s not just that. And if the guy who puts the hi plate on 1069 01:22:57,439 --> 01:23:01,359 it is raining it and pulls lightning and then the doctor is responsible. No, 1070 01:23:01,520 --> 01:23:04,479 because that' s unforeseen. That' s impossible. It' s 1071 01:23:04,560 --> 01:23:13,239 impossible because it' s logical it' s because he' s going to 1072 01:23:13,960 --> 01:23:15,279 die, he' s going to be illegitimate, that the family can say. 1073 01:23:15,319 --> 01:23:16,680 Put that madicardia on what fell. No, no, no, that 1074 01:23:16,840 --> 01:23:21,520 ' s already a cause of force majeure, impossible, exact camula, bad, 1075 01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:30,000 misunderstandings. There if you don' t. But doctor in that case, 1076 01:23:30,039 --> 01:23:33,880 because obviously that completely escapes control the responsibility of the doctors, although you 1077 01:23:33,880 --> 01:23:38,399 have to say the clinic in a bad installation or a suitcase, a tonillo 1078 01:23:38,399 --> 01:23:42,800 outside. No, but that' s out of the doctors' control. 1079 01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:47,199 But yes, it is important to tell them that they are listening to us 1080 01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:51,720 and they are seeing us that in the medical case, it is not just 1081 01:23:53,239 --> 01:23:56,000 the fact of you explaining to the patient what it is, the procedure, 1082 01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:59,880 the treatment that will follow. If you' re not completely sure that that 1083 01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:04,439 patient understands what you' re telling him. There comes into play many issues 1084 01:24:04,560 --> 01:24:10,720 such as the ability of a people to understand, academic preparation, but unfortunately, 1085 01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:15,199 that is the standard against which professionals face people who do not practice that 1086 01:24:15,279 --> 01:24:21,359 profession. The same obligation is required of lawyers in a lot of cai the 1087 01:24:21,399 --> 01:24:26,079 smallest exact detail, not only applied, but you understand me what the procedure 1088 01:24:26,119 --> 01:24:30,920 is, and that is extremely important when it comes to creating a defense when 1089 01:24:30,039 --> 01:24:40,239 you go to court for this kind of patient cases suing lawyers. There' 1090 01:24:40,279 --> 01:24:42,359 s a question for me and it goes for both of us. I mean, 1091 01:24:43,479 --> 01:24:46,479 you got a case and you tell her and you' re as a 1092 01:24:46,479 --> 01:24:49,880 lawyer. You understand this guy' s responsible for what they' re accusing 1093 01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:54,880 him of, and you tell him, look, you' re gonna convict 1094 01:24:54,880 --> 01:24:57,439 yourself that you' re responsible. So your job is to try to get 1095 01:24:57,520 --> 01:24:59,880 him to get the least possible conviction, because they' re going to convict 1096 01:24:59,880 --> 01:25:02,880 him. Then you have a responsibility to tell him that you must say it. 1097 01:25:02,920 --> 01:25:08,199 If you report it, it' s failing your right duty. The 1098 01:25:08,279 --> 01:25:12,199 same happens when you receive a patient and the patient you know that you have 1099 01:25:12,279 --> 01:25:15,119 a disease that doesn' t go out and there that you' re not 1100 01:25:16,039 --> 01:25:19,039 alive or you' re like how people are told to look, you' 1101 01:25:19,039 --> 01:25:21,680 re going to die and that cancer. My job is to alleviate the disease 1102 01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:27,119 process. But you have a disease that there is no way. He really 1103 01:25:27,239 --> 01:25:30,479 has that responsibility, yes, moral and ethical. The doctor informing you or 1104 01:25:30,640 --> 01:25:35,199 you can sell you if you sell life expectancy to that person, knowing that, 1105 01:25:35,359 --> 01:25:40,399 obviously, sometimes there are mysterious things that work and there are people who 1106 01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:45,520 heal themselves, but the doctor has that obligation. We are obliged in culture 1107 01:25:45,600 --> 01:25:48,520 like our own, for example, that is usually spoken to the family. 1108 01:25:49,079 --> 01:25:54,159 The patient is not directly told that it is a mistake for me. It 1109 01:25:54,319 --> 01:25:58,880 ' s a mistake because who' s supposed to know what the problem is. 1110 01:25:59,239 --> 01:26:03,800 It' s the real patient he' s got. But we often 1111 01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:08,720 agree that the children tell us no. Please don' t treat him before 1112 01:26:08,800 --> 01:26:12,880 Dad tells us. He comes to us and if there are patients you have 1113 01:26:12,920 --> 01:26:15,880 to tell him they' re going to die. The issue of death in 1114 01:26:15,239 --> 01:26:20,640 the consultation is perhaps the most difficult one for all doctors, but there are 1115 01:26:20,800 --> 01:26:28,000 some treatments that have high mortality. There is another treatment that has low mortality, 1116 01:26:28,319 --> 01:26:30,279 but because of the fact that they have low Montality you don' t 1117 01:26:30,279 --> 01:26:31,800 want. He said that, for example, in circumcision, three percent of 1118 01:26:31,880 --> 01:26:35,279 what they submit to is going to die, that this is something that is 1119 01:26:35,319 --> 01:26:41,560 not yet misunderstood. I saw someone, you pass people what they cut was 1120 01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:45,960 the foreskin and that' s no less. He died and I saw a 1121 01:26:45,039 --> 01:26:50,239 doctor say it' s a mistake to talk about low risk. They say 1122 01:26:50,960 --> 01:26:55,600 everything, and it has the human body, it' s at risk of 1123 01:26:55,600 --> 01:26:59,720 death. Well, there' s a bigger or smaller cup in another. 1124 01:26:59,920 --> 01:27:03,239 That gives an idea that you' re playing a lottery, but don' 1125 01:27:03,239 --> 01:27:05,520 t sell yourself the idea that I put a lot into it. It' 1126 01:27:05,600 --> 01:27:12,520 s a simple surgery. It came out white savannah up. Is no surgical 1127 01:27:12,600 --> 01:27:16,199 act simple? Is no surgical act simple? And I' m going to 1128 01:27:16,239 --> 01:27:19,920 repeat it three times. Is no surgical act simple? There are surgical acts, 1129 01:27:20,039 --> 01:27:25,439 such as cardiovascular ones, which have a higher mortality rate. There are 1130 01:27:25,520 --> 01:27:30,279 surgical acts, for example, such as dermatological ones, which have a lower 1131 01:27:30,279 --> 01:27:34,319 mortality rate. They have two copies, the endoscopy has its mortality rate. 1132 01:27:34,399 --> 01:27:40,239 I' m not a gastroenterologist, but it has its mortality rate, perforations 1133 01:27:40,359 --> 01:27:45,119 of the intestine. In other words, there are a number of complications leading 1134 01:27:45,119 --> 01:27:48,159 up to the death of the patient that in the scientific method, when that 1135 01:27:48,239 --> 01:27:54,800 study was approved, were identified with the passage of time we have been improving 1136 01:27:54,920 --> 01:27:59,159 the technology, we have applied another type of energies, even to work within 1137 01:27:59,159 --> 01:28:02,960 the body, to reduce the risks and reduce mortality. But every surgical act, 1138 01:28:03,159 --> 01:28:08,840 every medical act, even because there are medications that have side effects that 1139 01:28:08,880 --> 01:28:13,960 we have determined and that can also cause death. We were talking at the 1140 01:28:14,039 --> 01:28:17,399 beginning about what should be done to the stomach and which is not recommended to 1141 01:28:17,439 --> 01:28:24,000 be consumed intensively and not consumed outside medical supervision. And there' s people 1142 01:28:24,159 --> 01:28:27,880 who get all that stuff out of that cute sidekick. For example, about 1143 01:28:28,199 --> 01:28:30,640 four or five years ago, the Ranitydina, which was used more than omeprazo. 1144 01:28:31,119 --> 01:28:35,680 Even in countries such as this one is totally discontinued by side effects no 1145 01:28:35,680 --> 01:28:41,119 longer exist, and perhaps countries such as this still benefit from a cost issue 1146 01:28:41,239 --> 01:28:45,279 to continue to use the range, because if one starts to see the rate 1147 01:28:45,319 --> 01:28:48,479 of complications, since the costs that it might produce, in some parts of 1148 01:28:48,560 --> 01:28:53,399 the PAINE it may not be appropriate to have rank. But the State decided 1149 01:28:53,439 --> 01:28:57,760 to take them out radically, like other medicines, because of the secondary effects. 1150 01:28:58,279 --> 01:29:00,359 But it' s not that anything we' re going to do in 1151 01:29:00,399 --> 01:29:05,039 a patient is harmless. Everything can cause death. How it is determined, 1152 01:29:05,239 --> 01:29:11,920 for example, in a surgical case and to establish legal responsibilities, as is 1153 01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:17,840 being discussed, how it is then determined who was responsible for making a claim 1154 01:29:17,960 --> 01:29:24,279 when it is a case that is unique, an anesthesis. There are several 1155 01:29:24,279 --> 01:29:28,199 doctors, there are several doctors involved in a test I can see that Urgio 1156 01:29:28,199 --> 01:29:32,880 did exactly. So how do you take that responsibility when a patient wants to 1157 01:29:32,920 --> 01:29:39,319 sue a Stalinist. There' s the one who cracks you, the one 1158 01:29:39,520 --> 01:29:45,039 who passes the instruments in the brunette nurse, who dries your sud you go 1159 01:29:45,079 --> 01:29:47,560 exactly to set it up. You don' t see that in the movies 1160 01:29:47,640 --> 01:29:51,880 and in a fatal case, for example, the patient dies. They always 1161 01:29:53,000 --> 01:29:57,960 say average negligence, sometimes medical negligence, but where exactly did the net come 1162 01:29:57,960 --> 01:30:00,399 from? To cite a recent case of an eighteen- year- old boy 1163 01:30:00,520 --> 01:30:09,159 who went to take out some pieces to do an 18- and 19- 1164 01:30:09,520 --> 01:30:13,039 year- old orthodoxy job and died of an anaesthetic heart attack. So there 1165 01:30:13,119 --> 01:30:15,800 ' s a problem there, because the doctor who' s supposed to do 1166 01:30:15,840 --> 01:30:16,760 the surgery is one and the one who' s going to give you the 1167 01:30:16,760 --> 01:30:21,520 test is another. And in that particular case, that' s where we 1168 01:30:21,520 --> 01:30:24,760 talk about dentistry. In your case, a urologist has to operate a prostota, 1169 01:30:25,520 --> 01:30:29,960 for example. By the way, it is the primary physician who bears 1170 01:30:30,039 --> 01:30:35,319 the full responsibility first. I, as a surgeon who brings a patient to 1171 01:30:35,319 --> 01:30:39,680 the O R, have full responsibility for the patient. I' m supposed 1172 01:30:41,159 --> 01:30:44,960 to certify that the anesthesiologist there is certified, that my assistant is certified, 1173 01:30:45,640 --> 01:30:48,399 that the center where I' m going to operate also has all the certifications. 1174 01:30:48,479 --> 01:30:54,319 Me, as a family doctor. I' m the first one responsible 1175 01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:56,159 for what' s going on in that act. So r that are there 1176 01:30:56,159 --> 01:30:59,640 in innno are responsible. Not residents are not responsible that comes as at every 1177 01:30:59,680 --> 01:31:02,880 time you make a submission, you have been, first, then the medical 1178 01:31:03,039 --> 01:31:09,840 center and then the then you will divide as many. Here, in the 1179 01:31:09,880 --> 01:31:15,279 first instance, patient Valli nazif Z makes the first assessment, which is to 1180 01:31:15,520 --> 01:31:19,239 do the autopsy. After that then the medical record is sought, Red Cold 1181 01:31:19,319 --> 01:31:24,880 is also given an optosia doctor. Where the medical school experts then come in 1182 01:31:24,960 --> 01:31:30,000 and between the part that delivers Linazif and what the medical experts do, then 1183 01:31:30,079 --> 01:31:36,600 the responsibilities begin to be established. In our country, residents have no responsibility. 1184 01:31:39,359 --> 01:31:43,640 Residents are in training, they have to depend on me in every act 1185 01:31:43,840 --> 01:31:47,439 that a resident is. For example, I am a resident coordinator and no 1186 01:31:47,560 --> 01:31:55,560 resident of my residence operates alone or does anything, only if he went crazy 1187 01:31:55,680 --> 01:32:02,000 and something good came out. Supervition, my super already, he has to 1188 01:32:02,319 --> 01:32:05,560 something that excited right now. The graduate. It was very good, and 1189 01:32:05,640 --> 01:32:10,479 it' s just that we have to get out of the head that that 1190 01:32:10,560 --> 01:32:13,640 four gives us authority to do everything. In nineteen hundred that four allowed me, 1191 01:32:14,159 --> 01:32:15,439 as a doctor, to give birth, perhaps me for my basic training. 1192 01:32:16,560 --> 01:32:19,880 If there' s an emergency, I can act on the lemeniza, 1193 01:32:20,079 --> 01:32:24,920 but if a gynecologist came in, I have to let that gynecologist do his 1194 01:32:24,920 --> 01:32:28,560 job. If you have an emergency situation and I can diagnose an infant, 1195 01:32:28,960 --> 01:32:33,119 because I know chest pain or its duration, that state of agitation is the 1196 01:32:33,239 --> 01:32:36,479 parrot, the arm removed. I' ve got to know better An arm 1197 01:32:36,840 --> 01:32:40,960 that hurts the left goes through. I have to know it' s a 1198 01:32:40,960 --> 01:32:44,359 heart attack. There was already a nemotemia that was cute, where you had 1199 01:32:44,439 --> 01:32:45,640 it with the monkey, or you didn' t know what the treatment was 1200 01:32:45,680 --> 01:32:50,359 and I can start it. Now I' m going to go out there 1201 01:32:50,359 --> 01:32:56,680 and I' m a long- term doctor, cardiologist, costotra gine, 1202 01:32:56,920 --> 01:33:00,600 pulmonologist and do whatever I understand I can do on the table and we have 1203 01:33:00,680 --> 01:33:02,079 to get that out of my head. And finally, for the question, 1204 01:33:03,960 --> 01:33:09,720 following what the doctor very well indicates after the completion of the processes already of 1205 01:33:09,840 --> 01:33:15,319 the autopsy and the expert that is carried out to determine exactly where the failure 1206 01:33:15,000 --> 01:33:21,640 occurs, the negligence or that that simple person simply had bad luck at that 1207 01:33:21,680 --> 01:33:30,119 time. That' s where we lawyers come in and determine who we' 1208 01:33:30,199 --> 01:33:33,520 re going to sue, because many times in court what you do is a 1209 01:33:33,520 --> 01:33:39,800 discard. Suppose that in the process one cannot directly point out any of the 1210 01:33:39,880 --> 01:33:45,840 doctors or medical personnel who was involved in the surgical procedure. Then my responsibility 1211 01:33:45,840 --> 01:33:51,079 as a lawyer is to sue everyone the devil me, sue the clinician or 1212 01:33:51,119 --> 01:33:56,279 the hospital, send you to the doctor, send you the residents who were 1213 01:33:56,359 --> 01:34:00,800 there under his supervision, sue the anesthesiologist to the nurse, sue even the 1214 01:34:00,960 --> 01:34:03,600 people who clean the room, the one who brought him the breakfast Jedda, 1215 01:34:03,920 --> 01:34:08,439 who could not have breakfast, died with the do and I present them at 1216 01:34:08,520 --> 01:34:14,359 that time, so I present the facts and my proofs of what happened. 1217 01:34:15,600 --> 01:34:19,800 Why I point out that they are all jointly responsible. So they are equally 1218 01:34:19,840 --> 01:34:25,199 responsible and it is up to them then to the technical defense in the courts 1219 01:34:25,279 --> 01:34:31,119 of doctors to determine who is the possible responsibility or to defend that no one 1220 01:34:31,239 --> 01:34:34,239 was responsible in that case. So, there the judges, that there the 1221 01:34:34,319 --> 01:34:38,600 importance of the experts, because they are the experts that will illustrate to the 1222 01:34:38,720 --> 01:34:42,359 judges what the situation is. The expert is going to take the judge to 1223 01:34:42,479 --> 01:34:46,319 be inside that surgical room where he' s doing procedure and he' s 1224 01:34:46,439 --> 01:34:49,479 going to explain, step by step? What is the procedure and where the 1225 01:34:49,520 --> 01:34:54,000 errors might have been or if there was no error. That' s why 1226 01:34:54,079 --> 01:34:57,439 I said right now. It' s a mistake to pretend now that medical 1227 01:34:57,520 --> 01:35:02,159 experts are taking away from the environment in solidarity with doctors because they share that 1228 01:35:02,239 --> 01:35:09,039 criteria, because you' re getting your voice out of the judicial process and 1229 01:35:09,079 --> 01:35:12,600 you' re letting it be the judge, who is not an expert in 1230 01:35:13,119 --> 01:35:16,039 medicine, who makes the decision based on what is being presented to him alone 1231 01:35:16,199 --> 01:35:20,000 and essentially using the law and applying it exactly as it is written. Then. 1232 01:35:20,319 --> 01:35:25,680 That' s why the lawyer' s role has to be there in 1233 01:35:25,760 --> 01:35:28,439 that case. If I' m taking responsibility for the plaintiff, I' 1234 01:35:28,439 --> 01:35:30,720 m going to hold everyone responsible so that it' s the judge who, 1235 01:35:30,760 --> 01:35:36,760 through his decision, says look the head doctor wasn' t responsible, because 1236 01:35:38,159 --> 01:35:41,880 he followed the protocols of the place. The residents weren' t responsible for 1237 01:35:41,880 --> 01:35:45,800 that. They never laid hands on the patient. The anesthesiologist was responsible, 1238 01:35:45,920 --> 01:35:49,560 because he passed to the extent of the anesthesia that he had to inject it. 1239 01:35:49,600 --> 01:35:55,079 Then I release everyone and the anesthesiologist is held responsible and is the possible 1240 01:35:55,239 --> 01:36:00,000 convicted in that case. Or it could be that the doctor who stoops a 1241 01:36:00,079 --> 01:36:03,840 cut deeper than initially thought a mistake or whatever is expensive where the neck is 1242 01:36:03,960 --> 01:36:09,199 happens, that is, mistakes happen, unfortunately, and the judge understands that 1243 01:36:09,560 --> 01:36:15,960 none of us are responsible. He' s responsible. It' s the 1244 01:36:15,039 --> 01:36:20,920 doctor who was, because caring for that person we' re operating on residents 1245 01:36:23,039 --> 01:36:27,920 quickly, as you describe it, between the residents and the doctor who' 1246 01:36:27,960 --> 01:36:31,960 s in charge of them. There is a preposé committee relationship We have talked 1247 01:36:31,960 --> 01:36:35,439 here that this is a relationship that is similar to that of artisans with their 1248 01:36:35,439 --> 01:36:43,680 apprentices. He' s going to be responsible for what residents do based on 1249 01:36:43,840 --> 01:36:49,199 his instructions. If that resident goes out operating people out there and the doctor 1250 01:36:49,279 --> 01:36:53,439 doesn' t know it until a mess explodes, he can' t be 1251 01:36:53,520 --> 01:36:56,960 responsible for that ever or ever, but what happens in that hospital, in 1252 01:36:57,000 --> 01:37:00,000 that clinic, under the supervision of the doctor, the chief of residents, 1253 01:37:00,720 --> 01:37:04,439 who heads them, who determines what their functions are going to be over the 1254 01:37:04,920 --> 01:37:09,600 course of a day, the mistakes they make, He' s going to 1255 01:37:09,600 --> 01:37:14,720 answer that that' s what breaks the criterion that you' re going to 1256 01:37:14,840 --> 01:37:18,279 pay for the responsibility for what you do. That' s one of the 1257 01:37:18,359 --> 01:37:21,640 exceptions we' ve talked about here, some toys, parents with underage children, 1258 01:37:23,000 --> 01:37:26,680 animal owners know animals, they hurt other people. In the case of 1259 01:37:26,760 --> 01:37:32,720 parkers who are employees of restaurants or super treated companies to provide that service, 1260 01:37:33,039 --> 01:37:39,079 which we have mentioned here several times, then that relationship with the chief doctors 1261 01:37:39,159 --> 01:37:45,119 and their residents, because it also falls within those exceptions. There' s 1262 01:37:45,119 --> 01:37:46,399 a slap, there' s a little something and that' s a lot. 1263 01:37:47,039 --> 01:37:51,920 This and it is our daily bread, for example, where medical negligence 1264 01:37:53,000 --> 01:37:59,439 would enter. It' s the question of demand, which is because there 1265 01:37:59,439 --> 01:38:04,439 are people who take a sick patient to an emergency, but then they find 1266 01:38:04,560 --> 01:38:09,359 the picture that always presents to the nurse drinking coffee over there the guy, 1267 01:38:09,840 --> 01:38:13,640 the doctor who doesn' t show up, that you have to make a 1268 01:38:13,720 --> 01:38:17,840 deposit and if not exactly giving it to you, the patient dies in what 1269 01:38:18,000 --> 01:38:23,079 comes. The case that the guy grabs and deposits the money that has to 1270 01:38:23,079 --> 01:38:26,439 be deposited in the box so that you take care of it that the nurse 1271 01:38:27,359 --> 01:38:30,560 finishes seeing that his coffee, that the resident doctor arranges that it is, 1272 01:38:30,800 --> 01:38:34,960 which is that thing that you have to bring him a receipt certifying that you 1273 01:38:34,960 --> 01:38:42,159 deposited that money. The patient dies waiting for attention. Attention then how to 1274 01:38:42,279 --> 01:38:45,640 proceed. There' s medical negligence. That' s where the entire clinic 1275 01:38:45,760 --> 01:38:48,159 is demanded with the entire doctor up to the trucker. How the law says 1276 01:38:49,359 --> 01:38:54,880 good things in that case, for example, there is already nonobservance. That 1277 01:38:54,880 --> 01:38:59,439 is negligence and if that usually happens the times that has happened, the center 1278 01:39:00,039 --> 01:39:04,439 is always sued with all the actors. It' s a practice that I 1279 01:39:04,600 --> 01:39:09,760 understand has declined a lot in the Dominican Republic. Also here so we have 1280 01:39:09,840 --> 01:39:16,239 to understand that bureaucratic procedures also complicate emergency care many times, because we have 1281 01:39:16,359 --> 01:39:24,399 sometimes oversaturated emergencies with patients who don' t want to go to the clinic 1282 01:39:24,520 --> 01:39:29,760 and that oversaturation makes many times when a real emergency arrives. If I' 1283 01:39:29,840 --> 01:39:31,119 m already taking care of you and I see you' re okay there, 1284 01:39:31,279 --> 01:39:32,800 you' re not going to want me to go well. He understands that 1285 01:39:32,920 --> 01:39:38,720 his problem is more serious than the Galician Soltados and that is what happens in 1286 01:39:38,800 --> 01:39:43,760 eighty or ninety percent of the misunderstandings seen in those situations. Many times immenence 1287 01:39:43,840 --> 01:39:46,800 has an internist, they have a pediatrician and a general practitioner. The pia 1288 01:39:46,880 --> 01:39:50,359 deals with children, the internetata with adults. Or the ER. Thank God, 1289 01:39:50,520 --> 01:39:56,560 we already have the mesenciologist in our country and we often waste more time 1290 01:39:56,680 --> 01:40:00,560 on the emergency with non- emergency situations. For example, Dalit has menstrual 1291 01:40:00,920 --> 01:40:04,039 pains. That' s what' s in the emergency. It' s 1292 01:40:04,119 --> 01:40:09,920 here right now and really when a real emergency patient arrives, we have to 1293 01:40:10,039 --> 01:40:13,439 divert all the time. Sometimes in an ambitalidy you will understand proximism has ambita 1294 01:40:13,520 --> 01:40:15,880 Liti and I fever aya of the night I attend. I have a rower 1295 01:40:16,520 --> 01:40:21,640 insurance. I came first, but we have to start making proper use of 1296 01:40:21,800 --> 01:40:25,079 the emergency. For example, in another part of the world, the patient 1297 01:40:25,119 --> 01:40:28,960 pays for the use of emeniza. Here, unfortunately, the use of emelence 1298 01:40:28,960 --> 01:40:35,079 is paid for by insurance and all emergencies are full. The gentleman already finally 1299 01:40:35,680 --> 01:40:43,520 accurate for that will be in case the bureaucratic processes are so unreasonable with regard 1300 01:40:43,920 --> 01:40:48,399 to other hospitals or other clinics in the same situation. That, then, 1301 01:40:48,479 --> 01:40:53,960 creates responsibility for the medical center. I mean, that' s the first 1302 01:40:54,039 --> 01:40:58,800 thing you see if all the bureaucratic processes that you have are exactly the same 1303 01:40:59,000 --> 01:41:02,279 as those of the MEDIA or if they are more complicated, they are longer 1304 01:41:02,319 --> 01:41:09,479 and they are more tedious, because that could create responsibility for the clinic of 1305 01:41:09,920 --> 01:41:13,359 the medical center in general and then, as the doctor said right, the 1306 01:41:13,479 --> 01:41:16,680 case of non- observance of the doctors of the sick God you Boy, 1307 01:41:16,880 --> 01:41:19,840 I' m seeing a coffee or what Mrs Almuhel, Mr Almoho, give 1308 01:41:19,840 --> 01:41:23,520 me a second. I' m going and you twisted a lot of pain 1309 01:41:23,640 --> 01:41:28,119 there until you get women, so that could also generate responsibility. They did 1310 01:41:28,199 --> 01:41:30,800 all that amargency having I went in exchange for a jeck and the one who 1311 01:41:30,880 --> 01:41:33,319 got it went to comey didn' t tell me and he knew that in 1312 01:41:33,479 --> 01:41:38,720 another box and an hour I' m waiting for them to change my check 1313 01:41:38,720 --> 01:41:42,359 had confirmed it. Thank you, Dr César Rivera, thanks to von Arturo, 1314 01:41:42,479 --> 01:41:45,720 you' re going to apologize to Dr Foque They asked for you to 1315 01:41:45,720 --> 01:41:46,399 come with us I came tomorrow to talk about NBA. It' s okay 1316 01:41:46,439 --> 01:41:51,199 to talk about trouble, but we always thank you for the availability. I 1317 01:41:51,279 --> 01:41:56,279 think the audience is pretty clear about what' s going on. I myself 1318 01:41:57,199 --> 01:42:00,239 was in a mistake and a lot of concepts. I' m very edic, 1319 01:42:00,359 --> 01:42:01,239 I' m not a lawyer. I now have a clearer idea of 1320 01:42:01,279 --> 01:42:04,960 this issue. That' s why I haven' t talked about him much, 1321 01:42:04,960 --> 01:42:08,720 because I didn' t. I think that the criteria are enough to 1322 01:42:08,800 --> 01:42:11,840 give me a clear view of what is going on. And I do agree 1323 01:42:11,880 --> 01:42:16,039 with what the doctor is proposing and I fully support that here we have to 1324 01:42:16,359 --> 01:42:24,680 review from the protocols to how we are pursuing and punishing these kinds of actions 1325 01:42:25,399 --> 01:42:29,800 that I think are excessive criminal and I think it should only be admissible in 1326 01:42:30,000 --> 01:42:35,560 exceptions where the intention I know exactly to harm because no doctor. I have 1327 01:42:35,600 --> 01:42:41,239 a lot of medical friends and I drink romo with them and I share and 1328 01:42:41,359 --> 01:42:45,039 I know they' re all good people. No doctor studies this career with 1329 01:42:45,079 --> 01:42:49,760 the intention of taking life, but of giving it and helping to improve it. 1330 01:42:50,279 --> 01:42:55,119 Then be you feel the doctor and for any nonsense you go for hayo. 1331 01:42:55,920 --> 01:42:58,680 I imagine it' s a burden on your back as professionals as well 1332 01:42:58,720 --> 01:43:01,399 and in your conscience that pussy, but I feel like I' m stealing, 1333 01:43:01,680 --> 01:43:04,880 that I feel pussy, that you were potential criminal. And it' 1334 01:43:04,960 --> 01:43:06,159 s not like that. It' s not like that. So, Doctor, 1335 01:43:06,479 --> 01:43:11,079 thank you, Juan Arturo, thank you. We' re gonna put 1336 01:43:11,119 --> 01:43:14,199 this on YouTube. We were discussing the issue of medical demands here at the 1337 01:43:14,279 --> 01:43:16,880 rhythm of the morning with Dr César Rivera, urologist and Juan Arturo of his 1338 01:43:16,960 --> 01:43:20,439 lawyer, who is still a doctor. Again. The doctor' s going 1339 01:43:20,479 --> 01:43:23,399 on a trip again, Povo, you' re going to a doctor. 1340 01:43:23,720 --> 01:43:26,319 We' re going to San Antonio, Texas. Look at me, but 1341 01:43:26,560 --> 01:43:29,119 for God' s sake, my God, this year he' s traveled 1342 01:43:29,119 --> 01:43:30,840 you more than I have. I haven' t gone out twice. We 1343 01:43:30,920 --> 01:43:35,560 ' re coming. We' re still here. Follow the parade of politicians 1344 01:43:35,760 --> 01:43:42,920 and candidates for the rhythm of the morning. We have here a candidate friend 1345 01:43:42,960 --> 01:43:45,079 of a friend and friends of friends are treated well when they are visitors in 1346 01:43:45,119 --> 01:43:48,560 the house. So we welcome the candidate for MP for the PRM in constituency 1347 01:43:48,680 --> 01:43:55,119 number one, José Carabagio, ex- reidor de vida Cara. Welcome to 1348 01:43:55,159 --> 01:43:58,199 the rhythm of the morning. Well, thank you very much because we feel 1349 01:43:58,520 --> 01:44:03,000 the candidate José Caraballo, José carragusta that he does pot after this already happens 1350 01:44:03,600 --> 01:44:06,920 there. Former deputy, former segiadores, but I will always be José Caraballo. 1351 01:44:08,239 --> 01:44:12,239 Well, then tell us about yourself. A little bit I had the 1352 01:44:12,840 --> 01:44:16,479 chance to treat you, before I met you, before coming here to the 1353 01:44:16,560 --> 01:44:23,600 program and you are telling me that you were part of the City Hall, 1354 01:44:24,119 --> 01:44:28,199 of the Chapter Hall, of the City Hall of the National District the past 1355 01:44:28,199 --> 01:44:30,960 four years. Yes, I was elected ruler in two thousand twenty, two 1356 01:44:30,960 --> 01:44:33,279 thousand twenty- four. In the two thousand twenty- two two thousand twenty 1357 01:44:33,600 --> 01:44:38,800 - three he was the nice President of the Council of Regidors, what they 1358 01:44:38,840 --> 01:44:42,640 called the Chapter Hall before is now called Governing Councils and I was president of 1359 01:44:42,720 --> 01:44:45,800 the City of Santo Domingo for a year. I was also now selected by 1360 01:44:45,840 --> 01:44:49,680 the polls process as an official candidate by the Modern Revolutionary Party. Well, 1361 01:44:49,720 --> 01:44:56,560 that was November. Of course it is and we are already a few days, 1362 01:44:56,680 --> 01:44:59,039 eighteen days from the elections. Yeah, that' s right, that 1363 01:44:59,119 --> 01:45:01,399 ' s right, he' s, he' s nervous, I mean, 1364 01:45:01,399 --> 01:45:02,720 he' s not nervous. It' s the day of the call 1365 01:45:02,880 --> 01:45:10,359 of logistics, logistics. It' s already complicated. One is that logistic 1366 01:45:10,720 --> 01:45:15,079 team that is armed with searching, Mrs Maria, how about she is half 1367 01:45:15,199 --> 01:45:17,159 sick and wants to be carried in a car. People don' t know 1368 01:45:17,199 --> 01:45:20,319 that' s really the logistics. Yeah, vote mobilization, so, so 1369 01:45:20,319 --> 01:45:24,760 it' s not. We have a great structure that we have worked on 1370 01:45:24,840 --> 01:45:28,520 for years in this cycle. One remembers that I was the Hector Regidor, 1371 01:45:29,359 --> 01:45:31,960 one of the most voted of the cynuscription in the past and good internal process 1372 01:45:32,119 --> 01:45:36,640 and we have had a long trajectory here Where the political life of you begins, 1373 01:45:38,600 --> 01:45:41,760 that is because one knows that the PRM is almost ten years old founded. 1374 01:45:42,239 --> 01:45:45,439 Yeah, but I guess his story doesn' t start in the PRR. 1375 01:45:45,720 --> 01:45:47,159 Of course not, as long as he mentions seniority in the service. 1376 01:45:47,199 --> 01:45:50,760 It' s true. Of course we come from Dominican revolutionary youth. The 1377 01:45:50,840 --> 01:45:55,960 ones or the other way around. I was part of that youth rededite of 1378 01:45:56,039 --> 01:45:59,319 the wild, or a rational, rational dedist parra, the whole tie. 1379 01:46:00,279 --> 01:46:01,960 No. No, no, no, no, I didn' t get 1380 01:46:02,039 --> 01:46:05,319 in there at the time. No, but I was a furious perridedist. 1381 01:46:05,399 --> 01:46:09,279 Hey, I think I can see the crowds arguing that Peña was the best 1382 01:46:09,319 --> 01:46:13,640 street to the bomb and it' s three of them. Already as a 1383 01:46:13,640 --> 01:46:15,479 hippolyte, I was quieter, but I was as a young man. I 1384 01:46:15,520 --> 01:46:18,560 was very passionate about politics. He still does, but perhaps with more rationality 1385 01:46:18,640 --> 01:46:24,159 and was a follower of peña gomez than I am. Me. What I 1386 01:46:24,279 --> 01:46:26,720 regretted most in my life was that I was sixteen in ninety- six, 1387 01:46:27,199 --> 01:46:29,359 because you couldn' t vote around. I couldn' t vote for PS. 1388 01:46:29,880 --> 01:46:32,640 Then that' s where my TRD somo started. Then I participated in 1389 01:46:32,680 --> 01:46:39,640 youth groups, also as youth, some foundations, looking for insertion, working 1390 01:46:39,680 --> 01:46:44,039 in the public policy part youth and nothing and we made a small journey at 1391 01:46:44,119 --> 01:46:48,479 the level of the JTRDs. Then we occupied different positions within the PRD party. 1392 01:46:48,720 --> 01:46:54,520 Then we were founders of the PRM occupied positions at the level of the 1393 01:46:54,520 --> 01:46:57,039 district cycucription. Again that I, final for you was what you went out 1394 01:46:57,119 --> 01:46:59,520 to enroll in the two thousand eighteen and didn' t fill me all. 1395 01:46:59,680 --> 01:47:01,399 We didn' t all go out and force. You formed the PRM, 1396 01:47:01,479 --> 01:47:05,199 but then I remember that you made a process for everything clear, a process 1397 01:47:05,319 --> 01:47:10,039 of logical incription for internal processes. We also had to enroll people and logic 1398 01:47:10,119 --> 01:47:13,479 with other teams, also everyone who was with us, or the vast majority, 1399 01:47:13,520 --> 01:47:15,439 not to tell you that everyone, 100% went into the PRM stack. 1400 01:47:16,159 --> 01:47:20,520 To brem One can enroll normal or is like a lodge, as was 1401 01:47:20,600 --> 01:47:26,920 the PLD art not when the internal process opens. Of course it was made 1402 01:47:26,960 --> 01:47:29,960 in connection up online, that is, that anyone could sign up for the 1403 01:47:30,000 --> 01:47:33,319 web page liba. I was going to ask you then what seen the story, 1404 01:47:33,479 --> 01:47:36,560 you, then you' re not an office politician, because you' 1405 01:47:36,640 --> 01:47:41,560 re simply not clear that politics changed, office policy. The office policy changed 1406 01:47:41,760 --> 01:47:44,680 and to us what gives us the opportunity to be governors, we were. 1407 01:47:45,920 --> 01:47:47,439 I' m going to I' m not until April 23rd I was regidors. 1408 01:47:47,920 --> 01:47:51,000 Well, it gives us the opportunity to be in the field, to 1409 01:47:51,039 --> 01:47:55,119 be at work, because we have to meet with the community, the neighboring 1410 01:47:55,159 --> 01:47:58,159 board, with all the living strength of the demarcation and the district, because 1411 01:47:58,239 --> 01:48:03,000 the function of the municipal legislator includes a specific geographical demarcation, in this case 1412 01:48:03,279 --> 01:48:09,439 the national district, and that greatly favored us because we had contact, listening 1413 01:48:09,479 --> 01:48:14,720 to the problems of the communities and also looking for possible solutions. So no. 1414 01:48:15,359 --> 01:48:18,000 Politics has changed. Now there is a new generation of politicians on the 1415 01:48:18,079 --> 01:48:21,720 streets. There are no offices anymore. There is a question that I wonder 1416 01:48:21,840 --> 01:48:26,720 because you have received so many deputies here always walk with a file of bills, 1417 01:48:27,520 --> 01:48:31,720 but one is already understanding, obviously, seeing that coming with twenty zero 1418 01:48:31,880 --> 01:48:34,840 proposals to the Chamber of Deputies, that that becomes a draft law is a 1419 01:48:34,920 --> 01:48:42,880 very steep and revalious path. I have the question of whether you are clear 1420 01:48:42,960 --> 01:48:45,920 about the role of a Member of Parliament today. Of course, in the 1421 01:48:45,039 --> 01:48:49,359 minds of the people, of course you do look you have to explain to 1422 01:48:49,520 --> 01:48:55,039 the person, because the concept of a deputy who has the person of assistanceism, 1423 01:48:55,960 --> 01:49:00,560 that is, of exact mues happened to me. I got this. 1424 01:49:00,640 --> 01:49:04,840 I have this problem. I have this problem and it really is that a 1425 01:49:05,159 --> 01:49:11,079 legislator is about one to control, represent and legislate, create regulations that impact 1426 01:49:11,279 --> 01:49:16,880 at the national level or a specific geographical demarcation, create control, or see 1427 01:49:17,000 --> 01:49:23,079 how people' s money is being spent, intemperate officials, visit those institutions 1428 01:49:23,159 --> 01:49:28,079 to channel solutions and also to represent, listen to people' s need and 1429 01:49:28,199 --> 01:49:32,239 seek to raise, channel solutions to people. These are the functions of a 1430 01:49:32,319 --> 01:49:35,920 legislator. Of course, there are one hundred and ninety deputies in Congress, 1431 01:49:36,000 --> 01:49:41,840 in the Chamber of Deputies and, of course, the majority of the work 1432 01:49:41,920 --> 01:49:46,039 of legislators is the work committees. Irrespective of the fact that we have proposals 1433 01:49:46,159 --> 01:49:50,520 that we are going to submit to the project, but most of the work 1434 01:49:50,760 --> 01:49:57,640 is the committees that exist as a ministry and general directorates, there is a 1435 01:49:57,760 --> 01:50:02,760 committee and there are special committees that are also created for a specific topic There 1436 01:50:03,159 --> 01:50:09,239 all the projects that go to the plenary have to go through that sedation and 1437 01:50:09,319 --> 01:50:13,319 Members can make recommendations, they can be modifications to those projects that come up 1438 01:50:13,319 --> 01:50:15,000 with what I am working on. I' m good. One of our 1439 01:50:15,119 --> 01:50:23,039 projects is a national scholarship law. We understand the concern there is because we 1440 01:50:23,119 --> 01:50:27,560 see professional numbers, number of lawyers, number of accountants, number of managers, 1441 01:50:28,399 --> 01:50:32,039 number of graduate companies as they cannot successfully insert the labor market. There 1442 01:50:32,039 --> 01:50:39,119 is business management here, without having companies, without identifying where, without parents, 1443 01:50:40,640 --> 01:50:45,079 neither that they have companies nor who. So we have to plan the 1444 01:50:45,079 --> 01:50:46,880 state, the investment that has been selected based on the need that the country 1445 01:50:46,920 --> 01:50:51,600 has. Recently, the Director of Cenazas says well here we need psychologists and 1446 01:50:51,640 --> 01:50:59,439 psychiatrists. We' re talking that good if there are doctors who are preparing 1447 01:50:59,520 --> 01:51:03,000 for specialties, well there is collaboration job insurance, job insertion, for the 1448 01:51:03,039 --> 01:51:08,520 topic of mental health, for many topics that we are proposing, that knows 1449 01:51:08,640 --> 01:51:12,159 that the country will be based on need, but by a scientific study say 1450 01:51:12,279 --> 01:51:16,760 good the labor market needs here, well, we need medical specialist in this 1451 01:51:16,840 --> 01:51:20,720 area, we need professionals in this area, well, then, and technicians 1452 01:51:20,920 --> 01:51:25,479 also, because not only are professional careers, but technical also, well, 1453 01:51:26,119 --> 01:51:29,640 then we' re not going to focus on these careers in the short- 1454 01:51:30,000 --> 01:51:33,000 term, because they will be able to safely insert themselves into the labor market. 1455 01:51:33,439 --> 01:51:40,720 Testimonies. We have the largest gold mines in the world towards the open, 1456 01:51:41,119 --> 01:51:45,199 the Dominican rosary, its main technicians, who are Chilean, Chilean, 1457 01:51:45,239 --> 01:51:47,880 so Huano there is also very good, but if they are what is known 1458 01:51:47,960 --> 01:51:51,600 about mining, we will send the Dominicans to study mining and that they come 1459 01:51:51,640 --> 01:51:56,760 and can insert themselves to that and occupy the job squares. I was recently 1460 01:51:56,840 --> 01:52:00,600 talking to the rector of Lilas. They have a prosthetic project Ar Méndez a 1461 01:52:00,760 --> 01:52:05,560 greeting from here. They have a prosthetic project for people with disabilities. Now 1462 01:52:05,640 --> 01:52:09,159 they' re going to work on a hand- held prosthesis project. Those 1463 01:52:09,239 --> 01:52:15,960 are legs, because their main technicians are Salvadorans. There are only two Dominican 1464 01:52:15,960 --> 01:52:18,399 technicians. Then let' s specialize, because when the young man finishes, 1465 01:52:19,119 --> 01:52:24,439 the professional finishes or the technician finishes will find safe work ground. It is 1466 01:52:24,520 --> 01:52:29,079 state planning, but that he conep on that council than angel, because they 1467 01:52:29,119 --> 01:52:31,680 are what in the country' s largest employers. It must be the private 1468 01:52:31,760 --> 01:52:38,399 sector, not the public. Of course, then it seems interesting to me 1469 01:52:38,439 --> 01:52:41,359 and they' re asking several questions around here. I have a concern and 1470 01:52:41,399 --> 01:52:44,279 I want it out of her. I want to make a public commitment to 1471 01:52:44,279 --> 01:52:46,039 you well, that' s where I saw a lady' s project to 1472 01:52:46,079 --> 01:52:50,079 ban and you should see on the public road, because I want you to 1473 01:52:50,079 --> 01:52:55,680 be the voice of us, the drunkards, yes, but and of life 1474 01:52:55,760 --> 01:53:00,279 easy to refuse approval of that, because you really hear a lot of things 1475 01:53:00,279 --> 01:53:02,199 and there is now a law and I believe that the Doga Republic has a 1476 01:53:02,359 --> 01:53:06,600 problem over legislation, that is, it legislates on things that are already covered 1477 01:53:06,800 --> 01:53:09,640 by laws, because you have to do it a law of a law, 1478 01:53:09,800 --> 01:53:12,079 of a law. When you come to see we already have five laws that 1479 01:53:12,159 --> 01:53:15,359 regulate the same thing, laws of cops is that they have nothing to do 1480 01:53:15,560 --> 01:53:17,359 with reality or what it demands at the time of the Dominican Republic. I 1481 01:53:17,520 --> 01:53:23,359 ' m joking, but now that you' re talking about scholarships, I 1482 01:53:23,520 --> 01:53:27,600 don' t believe in centralized planning in the state, but I do believe 1483 01:53:27,680 --> 01:53:30,720 that the state has to organize the house on certain issues, and there is 1484 01:53:30,760 --> 01:53:34,039 a mess in the subject of scholarships. I don' t know if beyond 1485 01:53:34,159 --> 01:53:38,760 my request, you make another commitment to us here. No, but the 1486 01:53:38,840 --> 01:53:44,279 audience, the audience is here asking questions, and that' s where I 1487 01:53:44,359 --> 01:53:49,720 came up with this one must not of the laws that the deputies who sit 1488 01:53:49,760 --> 01:53:53,199 there can understand to spend time on that. It' s important. Don 1489 01:53:53,560 --> 01:53:57,359 ' t remember that this is a tourist country and that' s good. 1490 01:53:57,520 --> 01:54:01,359 That' s a beer in the wax, but the question goes that way 1491 01:54:01,439 --> 01:54:06,239 in the legislation. Or totally agree. Within my proposal there are two modifications, 1492 01:54:06,319 --> 01:54:10,720 two types of laws are not even that is the only one I have 1493 01:54:11,000 --> 01:54:13,800 as a lein as bills non. Yes, that' s very interesting, 1494 01:54:14,840 --> 01:54:17,399 but there are modifications that we have to make to other laws that are old 1495 01:54:17,960 --> 01:54:21,920 enough, one example, the social security law that needs to be totally reviewed. 1496 01:54:23,199 --> 01:54:26,279 How is it possible, that it is almost twenty- five that people 1497 01:54:26,399 --> 01:54:30,479 who have seniority are excluded from the collective private health system, which are the 1498 01:54:30,520 --> 01:54:35,199 people who need it the most, then they move you to the subsidized health 1499 01:54:35,199 --> 01:54:38,680 system. So if you used to go to a private clinic to not mention 1500 01:54:38,720 --> 01:54:41,840 a name, it' s a wedge here now you have to go to 1501 01:54:41,840 --> 01:54:45,560 the Molgan, they have to go to the Darío they have to see marcelino 1502 01:54:45,560 --> 01:54:47,960 and they are clinics, that hospitals, we paint them, they are hospitals, 1503 01:54:48,399 --> 01:54:51,159 they are good, but there are a lot of staff and they have 1504 01:54:51,159 --> 01:54:55,800 to be decongested. We cannot send more people to public hospitals because they supply 1505 01:54:55,840 --> 01:55:00,720 us then that we are proposing a modification for people. That social security law, 1506 01:55:01,079 --> 01:55:05,199 apart from reviewing the issue of pensions, the amount people can continue, 1507 01:55:05,600 --> 01:55:09,760 is a collective health insurance that although it is true that you cannot go to 1508 01:55:09,840 --> 01:55:12,680 a high- end clinic, that is so expensive, but that you can 1509 01:55:12,680 --> 01:55:15,359 have a clinic that more than average or this one your doctor has attended for 1510 01:55:15,439 --> 01:55:18,840 twenty- five years. There' s my proposal. You' re done 1511 01:55:18,920 --> 01:55:23,760 telling her the law, not me, my mom, she' s seventy 1512 01:55:25,000 --> 01:55:28,960 - six years old, and the thing I think one of the things I 1513 01:55:29,159 --> 01:55:30,960 care about most is that she' s still taking care of herself with the 1514 01:55:31,000 --> 01:55:33,279 new doctor, always the one with the record and maybe you have the chance. 1515 01:55:33,560 --> 01:55:36,199 My mother moved on to a good pension. This touched me closely today 1516 01:55:36,239 --> 01:55:42,039 last November and I had to add to my private health system. The same 1517 01:55:42,119 --> 01:55:45,680 thing happened to my mom, because not she in salt are automatically excluded and 1518 01:55:45,840 --> 01:55:50,279 that' s unfair. The system is unfair to the people of the third 1519 01:55:50,399 --> 01:55:55,520 gives more than are the health insurance. I think it is important to look 1520 01:55:55,600 --> 01:56:00,039 at this part of continuing to guide people in the role of a Member. 1521 01:56:00,840 --> 01:56:08,439 The main function of a Member is to control, legislate truth and represent exactly 1522 01:56:09,239 --> 01:56:14,560 that although it can serve as a bridge, it can serve as a bridge, 1523 01:56:15,000 --> 01:56:15,920 to solve some problems of the Community as a street arrangement such things. 1524 01:56:19,039 --> 01:56:23,319 I mean, I don' t know one thing. It may be sernalizers, 1525 01:56:23,479 --> 01:56:24,880 but I didn' t tell him to look. I want you to 1526 01:56:24,960 --> 01:56:29,920 win as a deputy so you can fix that street for me to be attacked 1527 01:56:30,039 --> 01:56:34,199 before you can also serve as channellers. Of course, but indeed the Member 1528 01:56:34,319 --> 01:56:39,800 ' s responsibility is directed at another side. So people are very, very 1529 01:56:40,079 --> 01:56:44,520 confused about that and that' s part of the same policy, of the 1530 01:56:44,920 --> 01:56:48,680 function that welfareism, exactly that has gotten used to and has put in people 1531 01:56:48,720 --> 01:56:55,000 that a congressman can solve your personal problem before you answer to remind people who 1532 01:56:55,119 --> 01:56:58,520 were talking to Jose Caraballo, a candidate for psycho- clision, or not 1533 01:56:58,560 --> 01:57:04,119 to dispute for the Modern Revolutionary Party their response or the point that makes pitiful 1534 01:57:04,159 --> 01:57:09,239 even me, for example, there are people who have personal problems, personal 1535 01:57:09,319 --> 01:57:15,680 ones who want it solved. A deputy like that is or a candidate like 1536 01:57:15,680 --> 01:57:18,279 that. I mean, my husband left me. I am seven years old 1537 01:57:18,279 --> 01:57:25,680 to Mona, or we must guide the population well about what is the responsibility 1538 01:57:25,720 --> 01:57:29,479 of this aim. That' s in the representation part. Recently we had 1539 01:57:29,560 --> 01:57:33,439 in the house event with several communities, the sector of the casque exciso, 1540 01:57:33,800 --> 01:57:39,359 on the 30th of May, communities that surround and went there because they have 1541 01:57:39,439 --> 01:57:42,680 a situation of drinking water, and we went with the community, with the 1542 01:57:42,760 --> 01:57:45,319 board of neighbors, with the living force of the sector, and there we 1543 01:57:45,399 --> 01:57:47,000 went in a way that was still ruling. So I also had that pass 1544 01:57:47,039 --> 01:57:54,239 of representativeness and I went with them and we looked for solution and in what 1545 01:57:54,279 --> 01:57:56,960 the chava and comes the solution, because there is to break and we have 1546 01:57:56,960 --> 01:58:00,199 to make a modification to the connection that they receive the water. Well, 1547 01:58:00,199 --> 01:58:04,680 then genial water trucks were managed, at least representativeness was made, but collectively, 1548 01:58:05,520 --> 01:58:12,880 not individually. Well then thank the candidate for deputy for the national district, 1549 01:58:13,479 --> 01:58:15,680 that the only ones who come here for that are the one who really 1550 01:58:15,800 --> 01:58:21,760 cares. It has to be said, please, that I said at the 1551 01:58:23,039 --> 01:58:27,760 beginning of the year that seeing the fences and what ended up being elected candidates 1552 01:58:27,880 --> 01:58:31,920 by the parties that in the one perhaps not only the most contested, but 1553 01:58:32,399 --> 01:58:36,960 the one that is offering the highest quality in terms of the formation of those 1554 01:58:38,039 --> 01:58:44,000 who are running and we can agree, are competing between you as deputies and 1555 01:58:44,119 --> 01:58:46,520 with that of other parties, and the offer that you are making in the 1556 01:58:46,880 --> 01:58:50,039 other parties are also interesting offers. Yes, of course, and I think 1557 01:58:50,680 --> 01:58:54,760 that gives one the hope that this will become the norm in the future. 1558 01:58:55,800 --> 01:58:59,680 Or everyone who meets the requirements of the law has the right to post it. 1559 01:59:00,520 --> 01:59:01,600 I' m not qualified. It' s democracy. That is democracy, 1560 01:59:02,079 --> 01:59:06,640 but the idea is that those who govern us are the best among our 1561 01:59:06,760 --> 01:59:12,119 peers or the most qualified. Cyclocription is one of the most demanding that gives 1562 01:59:12,239 --> 01:59:15,479 more zincucriptions mainly because of the ideology of the people who live in it. 1563 01:59:15,680 --> 01:59:18,239 Nothing to remind people if they give me a clear chance that if we are 1564 01:59:18,279 --> 01:59:24,039 in box two of the PRM ballot and until 19 May they can ride two 1565 01:59:24,159 --> 01:59:29,720 per caraball. I said good prayer. He told me to tell me to 1566 01:59:29,800 --> 01:59:32,680 use caraballs, of course, and I told him the other day they told 1567 01:59:32,720 --> 01:59:35,399 me a little bird that you' re marking very well. Then I wish 1568 01:59:35,439 --> 01:59:39,039 you luck. When it comes to you, it helps others to be Members 1569 01:59:39,079 --> 01:59:43,439 too amen. So it will be, because this is the Homs method that 1570 01:59:44,319 --> 01:59:48,479 already the method helps many people. I wish you success. I know that 1571 01:59:48,640 --> 01:59:54,159 the people who know you and the passing through a public position already, because 1572 01:59:54,239 --> 01:59:58,079 it is a record, because it favors you and more than grateful, because 1573 01:59:58,079 --> 02:00:01,199 you have already passed here thanks to you for the opportunity, not the thanks 1574 02:00:01,279 --> 02:00:08,000 is our PSIQUEA José caraballo candidate for deputy for the six o' clock with 1575 02:00:08,119 --> 02:00:12,920 if that sheath the, he makes one of the district for the offer to 1576 02:00:12,960 --> 02:00:17,119 greet my friends over there. Women are not going to like what I' 1577 02:00:17,119 --> 02:00:20,359 m going to say, but the main structures of the family are you. 1578 02:00:23,159 --> 02:00:27,880 You are the destroyer of homes, and it' s not because I say 1579 02:00:27,960 --> 02:00:30,439 so, but it says a study. Let' s see that you' 1580 02:00:30,800 --> 02:00:35,600 re the ones taking the initiative in seventy percent of divorce cases. If on 1581 02:00:35,640 --> 02:00:39,319 bread you tell us that friar must do me, then decide to divorce you 1582 02:00:39,840 --> 02:00:42,920 perhaps with the idea that if I leave him, he will not be able 1583 02:00:42,920 --> 02:00:45,000 to live without me. I' m going to destroy their lives. If 1584 02:00:45,439 --> 02:00:53,279 legend says women, says a study published about a couple of months ago says 1585 02:00:53,359 --> 02:00:58,600 that women ask for divorce more often and the study says that in the end 1586 02:00:58,680 --> 02:01:01,000 it is the ones that carry the worst part of the decision, especially in 1587 02:01:01,079 --> 02:01:06,279 the psychological burden. And everything, they say that women make the decision to 1588 02:01:06,359 --> 02:01:11,960 leave their husbands or long- term partners have been described as wives who distance 1589 02:01:12,199 --> 02:01:19,399 themselves from popular media and terms completely. And the complementary term for the spouse 1590 02:01:19,439 --> 02:01:27,199 he leaves becomes the one left behind. Splitting it into these two halves can 1591 02:01:27,319 --> 02:01:30,279 make sense, says the author of this article and quoting from that study. 1592 02:01:32,640 --> 02:01:39,079 When a relationship collapses, someone has to be the one who metaphorically abandons the 1593 02:01:39,159 --> 02:01:45,560 relationship and literally leaves the shared home, regardless of who can, of who 1594 02:01:45,600 --> 02:01:50,359 is left in the family home. Research shows that women are more likely to 1595 02:01:50,600 --> 02:01:58,359 start divorce than their husbands. This is a two- thousand- seven- 1596 02:01:58,600 --> 02:02:00,880 year- old Rousson Field studio she' s doing like this. In fact, 1597 02:02:00,880 --> 02:02:04,279 some figures suggest that about seventy percent of divorces are initiated by women. 1598 02:02:06,279 --> 02:02:12,960 So he makes a list of and he' s entitled to walk away with 1599 02:02:12,960 --> 02:02:15,600 heavy baggage. Feeling the need to give up marriage is not the same as 1600 02:02:15,840 --> 02:02:21,159 deciding to move away from the relationship. Not all take action, but these 1601 02:02:21,239 --> 02:02:27,119 are the main rations for which marriages fall apart. Attention my married friends who 1602 02:02:27,159 --> 02:02:34,279 are complaining about their equals and their partners. Number one, relational concerns when 1603 02:02:34,399 --> 02:02:41,840 the relationship ceases to be satisfactory adequately. Two behavioral problems. I somehow seek 1604 02:02:41,960 --> 02:02:48,000 addiction problems, disturbing behaviors at home, excess sex. He hears excess sex. 1605 02:02:48,199 --> 02:02:50,600 Yes, because there are men who call to keep it whenever I ask. 1606 02:02:50,760 --> 02:02:54,039 There are times when you ask for it, you can' t give 1607 02:02:54,079 --> 02:02:56,159 it to them and there are women who say it right I ask you. 1608 02:02:56,279 --> 02:02:58,800 Every time Mario asks me, then Mario asks little, then already so needy. 1609 02:03:00,520 --> 02:03:03,039 That' s the devil' s sheath. Gentlemen, my best decision 1610 02:03:03,079 --> 02:03:09,279 was to stay with my right hand in that very happy relationship to establish you. 1611 02:03:10,119 --> 02:03:15,479 Handcrafted love is what I have number three. Infidelity to this is not 1612 02:03:15,520 --> 02:03:19,439 always a steel problem of that being but it is the breaking point for some 1613 02:03:19,479 --> 02:03:30,119 number four responsibilities that are not shared equally hear this responsibilities that are not shared 1614 02:03:30,239 --> 02:03:33,960 equally can be household tasks, family accounting, child care, pet care or 1615 02:03:34,079 --> 02:03:42,159 some other obligations relevant to the couple. This doesn' t include going to 1616 02:03:42,199 --> 02:03:45,880 Mom' s every Sunday. I' m not used to you I' 1617 02:03:45,880 --> 02:03:49,279 m used to Sundays You have family. You can get out any day, 1618 02:03:49,600 --> 02:03:53,359 but you have family, now, you have a relationship. It changes the 1619 02:03:53,399 --> 02:03:55,920 habit that on Sundays where Mommy, who even Mommy is sick of being taken 1620 02:03:55,920 --> 02:03:59,840 Sunday to be cooked for the house. There he comes every time you go 1621 02:04:00,279 --> 02:04:03,279 brute me and a lady who told him I heard him myself to the son, 1622 02:04:03,479 --> 02:04:10,720 but I think you got married for something total. Yeah, listen to 1623 02:04:10,760 --> 02:04:14,600 me every Sunday in the house and take a trip of trouble. The barropa 1624 02:04:15,000 --> 02:04:18,600 hears yes, a cooker. So everything in mom' s house, the 1625 02:04:18,840 --> 02:04:25,680 famous moms, I go all pros sometimes I go sometimes I' m looking 1626 02:04:27,479 --> 02:04:29,800 to evade pods they make in the house. All this takes the food of 1627 02:04:29,840 --> 02:04:35,279 the week. But I wish that or I was straw. You have to 1628 02:04:35,439 --> 02:04:38,920 cook five pounds of rice. I don' t know he gave a case, 1629 02:04:39,920 --> 02:04:43,239 but that to four free chicken and not free of the bichuela, because 1630 02:04:43,319 --> 02:04:46,479 the son have the meal of the week to cook a cup of it, 1631 02:04:46,760 --> 02:04:51,039 do not smoke the one where it added up, because his mom and who 1632 02:04:51,119 --> 02:04:54,680 knows how to dare and that there is the house of the mother, that 1633 02:04:54,720 --> 02:04:56,640 cook him and that he irons him and wash him. This too, this 1634 02:04:56,680 --> 02:04:59,319 is also important. I think that' s what we talked about once here, 1635 02:04:59,640 --> 02:05:01,319 the values that we share between couples. Different values are often not revealed 1636 02:05:01,359 --> 02:05:06,000 until after the votes are pronounced, but shared values are a key protective factor 1637 02:05:06,439 --> 02:05:11,159 for long- plausion relationships, while different values can create divisions that grow over 1638 02:05:11,279 --> 02:05:19,760 time. And that sheath, that sheath is totally problematic. And that was 1639 02:05:19,800 --> 02:05:24,039 also one of the things you saw, like the people put more. They 1640 02:05:24,119 --> 02:05:27,720 don' t remember the time we put the divorcees of the pandemic, who 1641 02:05:27,760 --> 02:05:30,159 began to realize the attitude, behavior and ideas that the couple had because they 1642 02:05:31,039 --> 02:05:39,960 were five years married, but they hadn' t spent three months together impensive 1643 02:05:39,960 --> 02:05:45,119 of accumulated time. He continues to say that the divorce rate has decreased and 1644 02:05:45,239 --> 02:05:47,039 this could also reflect it in the marriage rate. You have to say, 1645 02:05:47,640 --> 02:05:51,199 you have to be very brave and very determined to get married today and it 1646 02:05:51,239 --> 02:05:56,399 could be the pattern of getting married at more advanced ages than in previous decades. 1647 02:05:56,439 --> 02:06:00,760 However, the author continues to say that instead of the benefits of dissolving 1648 02:06:00,840 --> 02:06:04,720 a marriage tilt the balance and outweigh the reasons for staying in the marriage, 1649 02:06:04,840 --> 02:06:14,119 a decision is made to go well. Yeah. Finally, she says finally 1650 02:06:14,279 --> 02:06:18,680 that when you' re the one leaving to help manester maintain your emotional well 1651 02:06:19,319 --> 02:06:23,800 - being. If you' re the one who' s leaving, it 1652 02:06:23,920 --> 02:06:25,520 ' s important to minimize the frequency with which you meet your ex- partner. 1653 02:06:26,039 --> 02:06:30,039 Post- divorce encounters can be psychologically distressing and, depending on your partner 1654 02:06:30,159 --> 02:06:35,640 ' s behavior, emotionally devastating. A spouse who stays can respond in various 1655 02:06:35,720 --> 02:06:40,960 ways, and she, then, makes a form list of what they respond 1656 02:06:40,960 --> 02:06:46,000 to. So this note published by your holy degre of Jes White, which 1657 02:06:46,000 --> 02:06:50,840 points out that women, on seventy percent of the occasions, are the ones 1658 02:06:51,119 --> 02:06:57,000 who initiate or take the first step for separation and divorce, which leads me 1659 02:06:57,079 --> 02:07:00,439 to the conclusion that you are the one who is seeing fam o. We 1660 02:07:00,560 --> 02:07:05,359 can' t stand it, nobody' s that cariña bye today. We 1661 02:07:05,479 --> 02:07:09,079 can' t take anything. We can' t take anything. I also 1662 02:07:09,159 --> 02:07:14,760 believe that accuracy before you do not remember that divorce is something new, something 1663 02:07:14,840 --> 02:07:18,600 relatively new. I can' t take anything from you. It' s 1664 02:07:18,680 --> 02:07:21,920 the worst you know why, because sometimes, instead of fixing something that has 1665 02:07:23,079 --> 02:07:29,359 a solution. You decide to leave that and in time you regret me whenever 1666 02:07:29,439 --> 02:07:31,079 some friend comes to me that I' m not going to leave Fulana, 1667 02:07:31,239 --> 02:07:34,960 I tell him to love the list of reasons why you want to leave that. 1668 02:07:35,479 --> 02:07:38,920 You' re almost always far from right. Start with a new analga 1669 02:07:39,000 --> 02:07:43,239 that has exactly normal. So when, when you already tell me all the 1670 02:07:43,279 --> 02:07:45,119 problems you have, I bring you in line for this. He' s 1671 02:07:45,199 --> 02:07:49,119 stoned, they last when I don' t stand where I pass you, 1672 02:07:49,119 --> 02:07:50,960 you spend three months. And you, that one, the mother of your 1673 02:07:50,960 --> 02:07:55,720 children, are happy and effective. I didn' t, and indeed, 1674 02:07:56,079 --> 02:07:59,359 after three months we talked again drinking and you say pussy, you were right, 1675 02:07:59,600 --> 02:08:03,119 ah my brother, I' ve never married, but I' m 1676 02:08:03,199 --> 02:08:07,840 a human being that I' ve lived yes and I know how it got 1677 02:08:07,520 --> 02:08:11,640 when I had my relationship the way I used to since I saw a new 1678 02:08:11,640 --> 02:08:16,680 victim. Maybe everyone would get on. Me. I think the problem with 1679 02:08:16,760 --> 02:08:18,960 marriage is that your partner gets uncommunicative, find out he' s with someone 1680 02:08:20,039 --> 02:08:24,079 else on the street. The problem with marriage is that they' ve gotten 1681 02:08:24,119 --> 02:08:28,760 people into whom you have to share. Not everything, you don' t 1682 02:08:28,760 --> 02:08:31,640 have to share. All she has to share is sex. Then everything else 1683 02:08:31,760 --> 02:08:37,439 remains normal, follows his normal life. Get out of your head. We 1684 02:08:37,479 --> 02:08:41,880 only get together to sleep or to procreate. My responsibility remains the same. 1685 02:08:43,640 --> 02:08:46,199 If a child comes, my responsibility to be with that child, to take 1686 02:08:46,239 --> 02:08:50,199 care of that child, to assume that child, to take care of each 1687 02:08:50,319 --> 02:08:56,079 other' s skills as well if I want to, but it' s 1688 02:08:56,199 --> 02:08:58,600 going to happen to take care of you and the boy exactly what' s 1689 02:08:58,720 --> 02:09:03,600 going on, and then, when you get in your head that marriage is 1690 02:09:03,600 --> 02:09:03,600 a sheath for two, no, no, then what the hell about marriage. 1691 02:09:03,840 --> 02:09:05,199 It wasn' t going to be for two, a sheath that you 1692 02:09:05,239 --> 02:09:09,359 invented from people, to fuse humanity and why for what it generates complicates exactly 1693 02:09:09,560 --> 02:09:13,119 you know that I believe that what you get is told that you live alone 1694 02:09:13,119 --> 02:09:16,520 in your house, even if you are with a people. I don' 1695 02:09:16,600 --> 02:09:20,399 t think I' m what you think there is. I agree that anyone 1696 02:09:20,479 --> 02:09:24,560 who wants to join a couple under the law with someone else who does so 1697 02:09:24,720 --> 02:09:28,000 freely. But for me the worst decision is marriage. Ay me am pro 1698 02:09:28,079 --> 02:09:33,119 matrimony Alberto I love for myself, for me because I of all my friends 1699 02:09:33,399 --> 02:09:39,720 who are married are unhappy according to them even love. If he fights, 1700 02:09:39,520 --> 02:09:43,039 we' re in, if I celare, we' re being checked, 1701 02:09:43,039 --> 02:09:46,399 we' re being ortuamente. That' s why I think it' s 1702 02:09:46,479 --> 02:09:50,039 two, it' s not one. I' m me, I' 1703 02:09:50,079 --> 02:09:50,399 m me, I' m me, I' m me, I' 1704 02:09:50,399 --> 02:09:50,399 m me, I' m me, I' m me, I' 1705 02:09:50,399 --> 02:09:50,399 m me, I' m me, I' m me, I' 1706 02:09:50,399 --> 02:09:50,399 m me, I' m me, I' m me, I' 1707 02:09:50,399 --> 02:09:50,399 m me, I' m me, I' m me, I' 1708 02:09:50,399 --> 02:09:50,399 m me, I' m me, I' m me, I' 1709 02:09:50,399 --> 02:09:56,039 m happy. You see, look at an exception. There aha, sir 1710 02:09:56,119 --> 02:10:01,760 the happy bump now because the woman is hearing it and then play But my 1711 02:10:01,800 --> 02:10:07,880 wife says. There is happiness, children, of course, but we are 1712 02:10:07,880 --> 02:10:11,840 happy, blessed, happy couples, blessings and hearing of the clear blessed. 1713 02:10:15,640 --> 02:10:18,960 By the way, mine' s two months old today, a little face, 1714 02:10:20,520 --> 02:10:22,119 yes, two months, gentlemen. Well, then, in the summary, 1715 02:10:22,560 --> 02:10:26,840 we were talking about an artist from this article who highlights that Approximately two 1716 02:10:26,880 --> 02:10:30,720 thirds of divorces are initiated by women, who often face a mixture of positive 1717 02:10:30,760 --> 02:10:35,720 and challenging feelings as they move away from an unsatisfactory relationship. Meanwhile, the 1718 02:10:35,239 --> 02:10:41,359 spouse who is left behind can experience a wide range of emotions. The main 1719 02:10:41,439 --> 02:10:46,159 reasons for divorce include concerns related to behavior problems, infidelity, unequal responsibilities and 1720 02:10:46,199 --> 02:10:52,039 difference in values. After divorce, the initiator often experiences initial psychological relief, 1721 02:10:52,439 --> 02:11:00,439 while the connyug I have left behind can face the emotional impact. Later it 1722 02:11:01,239 --> 02:11:03,760 is advised to have clear plans and a strong support network to deal with divorce 1723 02:11:03,840 --> 02:11:09,079 in a healthier way and say the same author who, usually, even if 1724 02:11:09,079 --> 02:11:13,319 the woman is the one who starts the divorce, almost always in which she 1725 02:11:13,399 --> 02:11:20,119 feels abandoned in the relationship when the divorce ends. Hey, hey, hey, 1726 02:11:20,039 --> 02:11:24,359 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 1727 02:11:24,720 --> 02:11:26,520 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 1728 02:11:26,520 --> 02:11:26,520 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 1729 02:11:26,520 --> 02:11:26,520 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 1730 02:11:26,520 --> 02:11:26,520 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 1731 02:11:26,520 --> 02:11:26,520 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 1732 02:11:26,520 --> 02:11:28,000 hey, hey. No, no, I' m not talking about 1733 02:11:28,000 --> 02:11:30,239 you. I' m talking about the one who takes the demission. He 1734 02:11:30,279 --> 02:11:37,800 ' s responding for me to ok ok okay me and drink ninta. We 1735 02:11:37,840 --> 02:11:39,840 close with a question that today on purpose of what we are talking about, 1736 02:11:39,880 --> 02:11:45,199 that women are the destroyers of the home and the family. According to statistics, 1737 02:11:45,319 --> 02:11:50,680 seventy percent of women start divorce and almost always for nonsense. As you 1738 02:11:50,760 --> 02:11:54,960 were unfaithful to me or hear me say those things that you think I don 1739 02:11:56,760 --> 02:12:00,800 ' t like, but here I say, as Luis says, to turn 1740 02:12:00,840 --> 02:12:05,920 alone from the wife of my friend who left him because he does a stinking 1741 02:12:05,920 --> 02:12:09,399 pun, yes, yes, yes, yes, I sent him, but 1742 02:12:09,479 --> 02:12:11,279 for what it will be yes, yes, he says you know that a 1743 02:12:11,319 --> 02:12:13,920 man works and comes and that I put which of being a son, makes 1744 02:12:15,000 --> 02:12:18,039 in his house that he pays. He writes to me, writes to me 1745 02:12:18,479 --> 02:12:24,000 around here, writes to me around here. A friend tells me he' 1746 02:12:24,199 --> 02:12:26,640 s happy in his marriage. When I said I asked the question I don 1747 02:12:26,640 --> 02:12:28,560 ' t know who he is or whether he' s happy in his marriage. 1748 02:12:30,039 --> 02:12:35,159 I must say that I don' t know if God punished me for 1749 02:12:35,239 --> 02:12:39,840 not having a partner to envy my friends' relationships, because all my friends 1750 02:12:39,920 --> 02:12:43,079 have enviable wives, all of them. What I call my friends you' 1751 02:12:43,079 --> 02:12:46,199 re included too oy. I know what I call my friends are right women, 1752 02:12:46,520 --> 02:12:52,039 good mothers, etcetera. Put down this weave that when they get sick 1753 02:12:52,119 --> 02:12:54,640 they take care of their husband, make him sop paloba, ayunñang, they 1754 02:12:54,720 --> 02:12:54,920 look for him locates one of them. What the fuck I laugh at. 1755 02:12:56,520 --> 02:13:00,920 These tigers are dogs. Most of my friends, but she still has wonderful 1756 02:13:00,960 --> 02:13:05,239 women, but I know they' re happy in their marriage. But here 1757 02:13:05,319 --> 02:13:09,880 comes the question. Everyone has children, all my married and happy friends have 1758 02:13:09,960 --> 02:13:15,000 children of relationships. Now comes the question. The question is coming. The 1759 02:13:15,159 --> 02:13:18,479 question comes to see take the children away from your marriage You' re happy. 1760 02:13:18,159 --> 02:13:22,439 Think carefully before you tell why children become an element that creates union in 1761 02:13:22,520 --> 02:13:28,359 the relationship and bond stronger one of you before you count well, it cannot 1762 02:13:28,399 --> 02:13:33,720 happen that you do not. But the tendency is almost always that you tend 1763 02:13:33,920 --> 02:13:37,359 to be greater, to try to compromise more of the relationship, because you 1764 02:13:37,359 --> 02:13:41,520 try to seek stability for your children. I follow it or for actualists that 1765 02:13:41,520 --> 02:13:48,640 marriage. But before you answer that question, take five seconds to start po. 1766 02:13:48,039 --> 02:13:54,159 Happy to use the children in marriage. You' re happy it' 1767 02:13:56,560 --> 02:13:56,600 s five minutes for yourself, son, let' s go to the list. 1768 02:13:56,760 --> 02:14:01,319 It' ll be the married ones, as many men as women. 1769 02:14:01,520 --> 02:14:05,199 Ny there' s the question. Get the kids out of your marriage, 1770 02:14:05,279 --> 02:14:07,039 okay, put it aside. You don' t have kids anymore. Yeah, 1771 02:14:07,319 --> 02:14:13,159 you' re already happy in your marriage. Good morning, good morning. 1772 02:14:13,720 --> 02:14:20,199 I' ll take the boys off. I would be happiest haja good 1773 02:14:20,319 --> 02:14:24,199 morning, good morning. Yeah, be you felip' cause you' re 1774 02:14:24,199 --> 02:14:28,880 not meyor guys. It is that this is a problem the children of other 1775 02:14:30,479 --> 02:14:35,159 marriages do not start to create the new woman. Good morning. Well let 1776 02:14:35,239 --> 02:14:39,880 ' s go eggs to closing it would have voted five, three, one, 1777 02:14:41,119 --> 02:14:43,319 ninety- six, fifty. We closed the morning cart today with this 1778 02:14:43,399 --> 02:14:48,319 question. If we take the children away from your marriage, you think about 1779 02:14:48,319 --> 02:14:56,920 it You' re happy Good morning Good morning. I' m happy with 1780 02:14:58,079 --> 02:15:01,119 the kids now. It gives you a little more wow ok clear for a 1781 02:15:01,319 --> 02:15:07,199 good che well I like Good morning. So fix no or no one is 1782 02:15:07,279 --> 02:15:11,520 responsible, but when we were stopped, he came back. Hey, what 1783 02:15:11,720 --> 02:15:16,079 Bai was happy? Hey,' cause he tells me you' re happy. 1784 02:15:16,399 --> 02:15:20,199 Good morning, good morning, yes, no, no, no. 1785 02:15:20,560 --> 02:15:24,439 If I took the children out of my relationship it would be worse power than 1786 02:15:24,479 --> 02:15:31,279 this woman fought the family starts, I ate boy and was buying him the 1787 02:15:31,279 --> 02:15:35,119 good morning. He' s after her for the cice. I' ve 1788 02:15:35,199 --> 02:15:39,359 been looking for my side for a while now. Good morning to the question 1789 02:15:39,720 --> 02:15:43,319 day, good morning, became more sixth, so Finsi was happier, I 1790 02:15:43,399 --> 02:15:46,680 was happy. Oh yes, take the children away from marriage. They don 1791 02:15:46,760 --> 02:15:50,199 ' t tell it, don' t tell it, but you can' 1792 02:15:50,239 --> 02:15:52,359 t, but they don' t tell people who draw it for preo. 1793 02:15:52,800 --> 02:15:56,520 Good morning, good morning, good morning. Talk about s leaving more reli 1794 02:15:56,560 --> 02:16:01,840 sister a greeting to all guys more, because I see as that people who 1795 02:16:01,920 --> 02:16:05,199 have children like they are happy with their boy. Well, yes, children, 1796 02:16:05,359 --> 02:16:11,720 but, but, Albert all his life out change, congratulate the boys 1797 02:16:11,800 --> 02:16:18,840 and make it ugly quote Good morning, good morning, good vargas such. 1798 02:16:20,039 --> 02:16:26,720 If the boys didn' t exist, what' s the point of the 1799 02:16:26,119 --> 02:16:30,479 marriage? Look, explain it to me, uh, he said no, 1800 02:16:30,880 --> 02:16:35,000 no, he doesn' t have that guy He' s married for married, 1801 02:16:37,040 --> 02:16:37,680 why people can' t Ehey, look, me, me, oh, 1802 02:16:37,680 --> 02:16:39,120 my God, I can' t. I mean, it' s 1803 02:16:39,200 --> 02:16:43,200 just that I know a case of couples that lasted a few years without having 1804 02:16:43,719 --> 02:16:46,639 children and in the years that lasted like that I had children. He always 1805 02:16:46,719 --> 02:16:48,319 brought him a new son out of the street. No, no, no, 1806 02:16:48,520 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1807 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1808 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1809 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1810 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1811 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1812 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1813 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1814 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1815 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1816 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1817 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1818 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1819 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1820 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1821 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1822 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1823 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1824 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1825 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1826 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1827 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1828 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1829 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1830 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1831 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1832 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1833 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1834 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1835 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1836 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1837 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1838 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:52,760 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1839 02:16:52,760 --> 02:16:54,639 no, no, no, no, no He was born of this boy 1840 02:16:54,719 --> 02:16:58,040 men and that was crisis every two years. But it' s a lapse 1841 02:16:58,079 --> 02:17:03,399 like a diminution, not the devil. At that time it had to have 1842 02:17:03,600 --> 02:17:07,719 taken four or three boys. Being me, I grew up watching this drama. 1843 02:17:07,959 --> 02:17:11,040 That' s why I painted you, but she loved him, because 1844 02:17:11,040 --> 02:17:18,639 I think that women were culturally made before to endure more because of the social 1845 02:17:18,719 --> 02:17:24,399 burden that arose to separate from a man and it was not accepted by society 1846 02:17:24,479 --> 02:17:26,799 that a woman should separate from that because a man has a child on the 1847 02:17:26,799 --> 02:17:31,959 street. Culturally speaking, I' m not defending that. If you had 1848 02:17:31,959 --> 02:17:37,559 children on the street, you think you' d be greeted in your house 1849 02:17:39,760 --> 02:17:43,319 Good morning, people were squeaky. You know that there are children who are 1850 02:17:43,440 --> 02:17:48,760 the reason for marriage. M of course, then, if she doesn' 1851 02:17:48,879 --> 02:17:52,840 t get pregnant necessarily, why do they get married forcibly. There are no 1852 02:17:52,879 --> 02:17:56,760 people who decide not to have children. I have a very close case that 1853 02:17:56,879 --> 02:17:58,399 she doesn' t want son. That' s a freedom he has for 1854 02:17:58,399 --> 02:18:01,440 whom. I don' t believe the decision no one makes is going to 1855 02:18:01,440 --> 02:18:05,079 have a marriage. I also have a lot of acquaintances who have no similar 1856 02:18:05,120 --> 02:18:07,840 relationships. We don' t want kids, which we want company with each 1857 02:18:07,840 --> 02:18:09,799 other. And there' s a point. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1858 02:18:09,920 --> 02:18:13,520 Later, when you get into adulthood, change your mind. It' s 1859 02:18:13,559 --> 02:18:18,600 also your right to change your mind, because decisions, decisions aren' t 1860 02:18:18,639 --> 02:18:20,760 so much to critify many times in stone I look at the end of marriage 1861 02:18:20,760 --> 02:18:26,079 is to create. That' s supposed to be for you begetting and for 1862 02:18:26,200 --> 02:18:28,959 humanity to grow. That' s it, that' s it for that 1863 02:18:28,959 --> 02:18:33,840 vaina. Good morning, because don' t give him the same marriage you 1864 02:18:33,840 --> 02:18:37,319 ' re happy. Not me, first the pre, then we' ll 1865 02:18:37,040 --> 02:18:39,799 see what we' re in the early pregnancy homes. First, how the 1866 02:18:39,920 --> 02:18:43,639 belly does. Yes, if he makes a bad belly, puts faith in 1867 02:18:43,680 --> 02:18:48,079 his nose, thanks the first one. Good morning, well, let' 1868 02:18:48,680 --> 02:18:54,920 s say everyone in the city heart Dale from Santiago Hello, my love looks 1869 02:18:54,959 --> 02:19:01,920 and there was no sign of myocerat not just launched. Children are the stability 1870 02:19:03,040 --> 02:19:07,479 of marriage. They asked me how it was that the men before had to 1871 02:19:07,680 --> 02:19:13,000 three homes. We count it. There are three households with women and girls. 1872 02:19:13,040 --> 02:19:16,639 Yeah, girl boys and three damn. Mother- in- law, 1873 02:19:16,840 --> 02:19:20,920 uh, no, you didn' t lie in the' 80s when I 1874 02:19:20,959 --> 02:19:24,719 was born I was carrying the devil this country. Yes, and at that 1875 02:19:24,879 --> 02:19:28,280 time it was very common. I lived on a street where I grew up, 1876 02:19:30,159 --> 02:19:33,600 on a street that there were four dear ones, but it has one 1877 02:19:33,600 --> 02:19:35,319 thing and you eat and three more streets down. I lived the wife and 1878 02:19:35,399 --> 02:19:37,600 how the chime was in the bar don' t wait. I imagine that 1879 02:19:37,000 --> 02:19:41,959 we buy on the same colmon and cough a question. You who lived him 1880 02:19:41,000 --> 02:19:46,600 in the neighborhood, where he slept. He had a dollero. He slept 1881 02:19:46,760 --> 02:19:50,360 with the wife the golden rules. In this is hear me well, ok 1882 02:19:50,440 --> 02:19:52,079 at least, so I grew up. Seeing. Let' s see if 1883 02:19:52,239 --> 02:19:56,079 you have three houses. You always sleep with the wife, yours that the 1884 02:19:56,159 --> 02:20:01,959 house with the officer. You never sleep outside unless she' s out of 1885 02:20:01,000 --> 02:20:05,840 town, or ispa, out of the country, but you only admit to 1886 02:20:05,879 --> 02:20:09,079 sleeping out, because the man already at a certain age, as a certain 1887 02:20:09,239 --> 02:20:13,600 responsibility, can never sleep alone. But that house he' s got on 1888 02:20:13,719 --> 02:20:18,399 his shoulder, you' re exactly the bath flip- flops. Or also 1889 02:20:18,600 --> 02:20:22,479 in that house, even if you had a bath, because before you had 1890 02:20:22,600 --> 02:20:24,040 a flip- flops for the house and a flip- flops for the bathroom. 1891 02:20:24,719 --> 02:20:28,399 That is, you knew clearly, flip the bathroom, flip the bathroom, 1892 02:20:28,719 --> 02:20:30,680 that is, they bathe in flip- flops, with flip- flops. 1893 02:20:31,239 --> 02:20:33,000 But medically, that' s not recommended. The fact that you have 1894 02:20:33,079 --> 02:20:37,799 several women, because in front of those men who had those women, those 1895 02:20:37,799 --> 02:20:41,159 blankets, you almost always have heart suffering. Almost all the locals and reached 1896 02:20:41,280 --> 02:20:46,319 the age of fifty or suffer or already arrive diabetic hypertensive, they do not 1897 02:20:46,360 --> 02:20:48,959 see that they died in a house if no one knew what a bloody heart 1898 02:20:48,959 --> 02:20:52,399 attack was. They didn' t kill it' s loves fucking all three 1899 02:20:52,559 --> 02:20:56,639 together, three damn play talking. Well, here' s to the kids 1900 02:20:56,680 --> 02:20:58,520 to your marriage. You' re happy to score a good day. One 1901 02:20:58,559 --> 02:21:03,159 day come. I' m married to my children and I respect the sleeping 1902 02:21:03,239 --> 02:21:09,040 lady who takes care of him. There I am happy ha as happened. 1903 02:21:09,959 --> 02:21:16,760 Well, he respects the sleeping lady who takes care of him. I cried 1904 02:21:16,920 --> 02:21:20,760 that it' s gonna be me to the kitchen. They feel unhappy in 1905 02:21:20,799 --> 02:21:24,600 their marriage. Come out every day. Others are not fell or even if 1906 02:21:24,680 --> 02:21:28,479 you are making the sacrifice for the children. Your children are not happy yes, 1907 02:21:28,040 --> 02:21:31,159 yes, they are very easy, they are happy. Children are very 1908 02:21:31,399 --> 02:21:33,760 happy No. No, no, no, no, take Adria day, 1909 02:21:33,920 --> 02:21:37,239 Pa' s mouth grabs you. It happened to me once he heard what 1910 02:21:37,280 --> 02:21:41,760 I did. I said I' m going to wait, I' m 1911 02:21:41,840 --> 02:21:46,479 not going in this wow, I' m not going to the one that 1912 02:21:46,559 --> 02:21:48,639 comes and the one that comes that damage on the way. But look what 1913 02:21:48,719 --> 02:21:50,120 Alberto' s doing. I know a case. That marked what I asked. 1914 02:21:52,000 --> 02:21:54,040 But the last one a lady, once it happens that she told me 1915 02:21:54,159 --> 02:21:58,840 to last I waited for my children to be eighteen years old to divorce me. 1916 02:21:58,959 --> 02:22:01,479 And when I got divorced, my kids asked me why I waited so 1917 02:22:01,600 --> 02:22:05,200 long, I told him that for them. And they told me that for 1918 02:22:05,520 --> 02:22:09,000 them he shouldn' t have, because they weren' t happy. Watching 1919 02:22:09,000 --> 02:22:13,959 his father fight all the time for the secret. They' re not fighting 1920 02:22:13,040 --> 02:22:18,040 in front of the exact children, yes, they' re already prole for 1921 02:22:18,040 --> 02:22:18,959 that That' s all we' ll see tomorrow. Take care of yourself.