Hey, hey, hey, I'm bad with something for you to think about.
Every situation in your life, and I do mean every situation in your
life is determined by the mindset that you have. Every situation people go through
life struggling when they don't have to. You struggle because of the mindset that
you have. You struggle because you're holding onto something that you should have let
go of. You struggle because of that mindset you have that's formed from the
experiences, experiences you've gone through that you have allowed to affect your life.
Those things that you have held in for so long that causes you to be
angry, sad, mad, depressed, resentful, mean, unreach, just
so many negative things that form that mindset that you have. Every situation you're
involved in is determined by your mindset. How you perceive things is determined by
your mindset. How you think determined by your mindset. Your thoughts form your
feelings, and then your actions all determined by your mindset. I don't care
if you're rich. If your mindset isn't right, your heart isn't right,
you have that unresolved inside of you, You're gonna struggle. You're gonna struggle
in your finances. Money is gonna become your god. You're gonna struggle in
your finances. You're afraid to spend a dollar. Rich, but you're still
afraid to spend a dollar. Or you're rich and all you do is work
yourself to death, because it's all about money, money, money, money,
money, money that comes from your mindset. Whether you terrified of losing
a dollar or all you want to do is make a dollar, it comes
from your mindset. And the reason I'm saying that because some people are obsessive
filthy rich, will never spend all of the money as long as they live,
but they still making millions upon millions because money is their god. Some
people will do anything in need things for money. So it's your mindset that
have you thinking the way you think. Fear, insecurities, filthy rich,
but you still have fear and insecurities about so many things. You know,
a lot of people say you pay a price to be rich, and you
pay a price to be poor. You know, it's all about your mindset.
Poor people people make choices, people make choices to live on the streets.
I know things happen in people lives. I know things happen, But
you still make a choice to live on the streets. Yeah, I'm gonna
say it. You make a choice to live on the streets because you can
collect cans, bottles, you can work at fast food places. I mean,
there's a million things to do. You can so many, so many
jobs that people can have, but they don't want, but they would rather
live on the street. So many people choose drugs and alcohol. You don't
have to be poor to do that. Millions of rich people are addicted to
drugs and alcohol, millions. But it's because of the mindset. So being
poor, you're struggling to get things. Some people have money, but they
still live paycheck to paycheck because they have no financial wisdom. Some rich people
don't have financial wisdom because they spend everything. They buy foolishly, things that
they don't need. Who need ten in fifteen and twenty cars? That's stupid,
that's stupid, Yes it is. Who needs five and six houses?
Ridiculous? Who needs a house five million dollars, ten million dollars, twenty
million dollars, that's ridiculous. Who need a house with twelve bedrooms? Stupid?
But that's the mindset of people. Oh, I have to have bigger
than than hers, are bigger than his, a bigger than theirs. That's
in maturity, in maturity, But that's the way people think because of what's
inside of them. I would never, ever, ever, I don't care
if I was a millionaire or billionaire, I would never want a huge mansion
for what. And I know some of you are saying, Oh, you're
just saying that because you're not one. No, I'm not. If I
wanted to mansion, I can afford to mansion, believe you me. But
that's not what I'm about. For what. Most people only use a few
rooms in their houses. So why would you think of mansion? Is what
you mean? That's ridiculous. People do things for show. People live their
lives for other people to see what they have in maturity in maturity, it's
based on the mindset. Oh let me get twenty cars. I want to
show all of my cars, but you can't drive but one at a time.
It's what is most important to people, things, possessions, material stuff,
and that's the rich and the poor. You have poor people who make
it the rich people richer by buying all of their their products three hundred dollars
tennis shoes. When you don't even have three hundred dollars in the bank.
Please tell me what that makes sense. You're buying three hundred dollar purses when
you don't have three hundred dollars in the bank. Come on, So,
it don't matter if you rich or poor or in the middle. It don't
matter when that mindset it's not right when that mindset has not developed into that
mature mindset. And I don't care when anyone says or how you feel about
what I'm saying. I know what I'm saying is the truth. Most people
live, and I talked about this on an episode before. Most people live
for other people to see what they have get out of here. I care
less. I care less. Anybody knows me. No, I care less.
I said a few times. I can live in this world all by
myself. It wouldn't bother me because I stand on my own me and Jesus.
If no one ever support me, it don't make me any difference.
I do what God has me to do. That's all I care about.
If nobody want to listen, no one has to listen. It don't affect
me one way or the other, because I know what God gives me is
the truth. Everything we do is determined by our mindset. Who you choose
to be with determined by your mindset. And I'm telling you if people would
only just take time to think about it, Think about who you've chosen to
be with. Some of you have chosen pedophiles. Some of you have chosen
sex offenders, which is a pedophile. You've chosen people who've been in prison
twenty thirty years for murder. You've chosen to be with these people. You've
chosen to be with people who have gotten out of prison but have not tried
to do anything with their lives. You have chosen other men's wives and other
women's husbands, people, girlfriend and boyfriends. You made those choices to be
with these individuals that you know you shouldn't be with. If they're not doing
right with who they are with, why you think they're gonna do so right
by you? You're not thinking. Because of the mindset you have. You
have chosen to get with abusers. Seeing the signs of red flags you were
warned, you did not take heed. You've chosen to be with people based
on how they look, what they have, But it's all because of your
mindset. You have people who have chosen to have children, no one in
it out of me so much, knowing full well that you are a messed
up individual, but you still chose to bring a child in the world.
Now you're dumping all of your garbage onto your child, in your child's life,
bringing them up just like you broken. We see the products every single
day all around us. The mindset, the mindset. Everything everything is about
the mindset. You have people on jobs, You have bosses having inappropriate relationships,
saying and doing inappropriate things with their employees because of what's inside of them.
You have teachers sleeping with their students because of what's inside of their hearts,
what's in that core. You have police officers, some police officers abusing
and murdering because of what's inside of their hearts. You know it's what's inside
of their hearts because a lot of white officers don't treat white people the same
way they treat black people. So you know it's because of what's inside of
their hearts. I mean, I can go on for days. You have
so called pastors who have made themselves pastors or another man have made them pastors,
who are doing all types of things against God in the church. They
are allowing all types of world and things in the church because of what's inside
of them. You have people sitting in the congregation eating and up because of
what's inside of them. I mean you, you have to understand that we
don't make a move in life. We don't make a move in life without
thinking first. We don't think first. We don't move first and then think.
We think and then moves. But because of so many broken people who
have unresolved issues, and they have unhealed hearts and minds, people are just
moving boom boo boo boo boo boo boo boom all around millions and millions and
millions of people with this brokenness, these mindsets. I'll tell you, I
was at a store yesterday and I come out of the store, got in
the car, and I just happened to look. It was Cali corner in
front of me, and it was a white, older guy just staring at
me. I mean, just mean, mugging me, mean mugging me.
I just looked at him for a moment and I blew him a kiss.
He turned his head. Why why being so mean? Because there's so many
racist people in this world. They have no clue why they're racist. They're
racist because it was a behavior that was, you know, brought down from
generations, and people still adopting that mindset have no clue. You have young
people who are hating, who are acting racists, have no clue. If
they knew the truth, they would just bawl their eyes out if they knew
the truth, If they knew the real history, they will be so ashamed.
But instead of learning the real history, they're going off of what they
think. They're going off of other people thoughts and feelings, and they're acting
out because of what other people think and feel They don't know nothing, not
anything, but it comes from that mindset completely. People are so worried about
the life of other people. I was looking at a recent concert of a
very well known artists, Superpower. She's considered a superpower well known artists,
and I was just blown away at the thousands upon thousands upon thousands upon thousands
of people there at the concert just worshiping this person, but they don't care
anything about self. Some people rob Peter to pay Paul to get to those
concerts, and this person made millions upon millions upon millions upon millions upon millions
upon millions of dollars off of your money, millions up on millions upon millions
of dollars for the tour that this person recently did. I don't get it.
I mean, well, really I do get it, but it's just
oh, it's just oh, my goodness, it's just really, really really
crazy to me that how people make rich people richer without a second thought.
But those people don't even barely want to say anything to you if they saw
you in public, wouldn't give you a dime. Some of them will run
from you, but you'll do anything in the world for them. You'll even
murder for them when you don't even normm that's because of your mindset. When
you worship people, that's because of your mindset. You so worried about people,
because of their status, because of who they are in the spotlight.
But you're not even trying to deal with your own unresolved issues. You still
are broken, but you're not working on that. You're not working on changing
your life. Most of these people that you worship, they're broken too.
They're broken. They're worshiping the devil, their relationship hopping, their drug addicts
and alcoholics. They have all types of problems but that's who you worship because
of your mindset. I mean total worship. People do it all the time.
They worship these teams, just making these people richer and richer, even
their last to buy tickets. It don't make sense to me, It really
don't. I would never, never, ever, ever, It makes no
sense to me. I'm not making rich people richer. I'm just not doing
it. But every decision we all make, it's based on our mindset.
To include myself, I just see things different than most people, much different
than most people. So I just want people to start thinking about what you
contribute to in your own life before you buy that three hundred dollars person when
you know you can't afford it, do you need it? Who are you
trying to show off for? You're walking around with a three hundred dollars person
with no money in it. Who are you trying to show off for?
When you want to buy that multimillion dollar house for what? Who are you
trying to show off for? When you want to buy another car and you
already have fifteen? Why? Who are you trying to show off for?
When you go and buy that one hundred and some thousand dollars car Why who
are you showing off for? When you have to show off for anyone,
it's because of your mindset. When you go to work and do wrong,
when you are a bully, when you talk about people, when you are
envious and jealous, when you're angry and you're hateful and you're mean, it's
all comes from your mindset that's formed from your bad experiences. But people continue
in life the very same, not trying at all to change, not trying
at all to make a difference in their own lives. You have beautiful,
beautiful people who are really beautiful, but they see ugly. Gorgeous people but
they see ugly. That's because of the mindset. You have people that are
gorgeous and they are so full of themselves, that's because of their mindsets.
You have people who are struggling every single day, all day long, wanting
to kill themselves because they've gone through life, they never fix their unresolved issues.
Being a went through life compelling all kinds of stuff in their lives,
their significant others, children, and so forth, got to a point of
a break, and all they think about every day is killing themselves. When
the person that you should want to live for the most itself. People take
on too much. They take on so much unnecessary stress from other people when
they have not dealt with their own brokenness, and you become over just completely
overwhelmed, completely heavy laden. You don't know how to handle it because you
never developed any good coping mechanisms. And all people do think about killing themselves.
Let me tell you, I've been through the fire. I've been through
so much, so much, so much, but not one time did I
want to kill myself. No one has to think like that. It all
depends on what's inside of you. No one is worth me want to kill
myself. Nothing is worth me one to kill myself. And I've gone through
stuff. One time, I purchase a brand new home, smacking brand new
construction, saw it being built in everything, and it was totally shoddy,
shoddy work, horribly built. Found out the builders wasn't license. I mean,
it's a whole big thing. House was falling apart and everything. No
one would help me, so I walked away from it. I've gone through
I've gone through terrible, a terrible relationship, abused on every level, every
every form of abuse. And when I say every form, I mean sexually
physically emotionally, verbally, mentally, every form. I've gone through it.
That's why I can say the things that I say because I've been there.
I'm not just talking after I'm not just talking out the side of my neck.
I had to pause there for a minute because I had to cough,
But I'm not just talking out the side of my neck. I've gone through
it. I know people who've gone through it. I've dealt with so many
people counseling, group sessions, individual couples, and people from all walks of
life just come to me telling me their issues. I don't know why,
but that's just my life. I don't mind. That's just my life.
But I know no one has to go through life miserable, miserable, sad.
You just have to get to a point in life where you want change.
I told you in the episode how people struggle every single month, spend
every time, don't try to save, and they do the same thing again
the next month, and the next month and the next month. How are
you ever gonna get ahead by doing that? But it's what many people are
doing. So everything everything we do in life is because of We make our
choices and decisions based on our mindsets. You know something that's wrong for you,
you still want it based on your mindset. People overeat. They overeat
because they don't have the wheel power to turn something down knowing it's not good
for you, but you still want it, because soon as you say I'm
not going to eat that boom, your mind kick in and then that old
will start turning. I wanted, I wanted, I wanted. Soon as
you say it, I want it. I wanted, I wanted. And
that could be a thing, art could be a person. I want him,
I want her, knowing you shouldn't be with that person, but that
little thing kick in your in your mind, and that's all you can think
about being with that person. You have to have more control. You have
to have more control. If you don't, things will get out of control
because you're not controlling what you're thinking. You're empowering your thoughts because you're just
letting them flow. This is why people end up doing mass killings and murder
suicides and homicides, because people get thoughts in their head and they empower themselves.
They empower them thoughts by just continue to let them flow instead of saying
no, this is negative, I'm not gonna entertain that mess. You know
this is not right. No, people just sign on and just keep thinking
about it. Keep thinking about it. Now you develop these feelings behind it.
Now you're committing the acts because of the hearts and minds. I know
I'm right about it. I know I am. You have parents who are
cursing their children out, who are abusing their children in every single way possible
because of what's inside of them that has formed the mindsets that they have.
Some people are around you right now, got their children chained up in the
homes. People get into situations desperately because they're seeking love, they're seeking fame
and fortune, recognition, validation, all types of things because of what's inside
of them. It all falls on you. It all falls on you.
If you let a person mistreat you, it falls on you. It falls
on you. What you choose in your life falls on you. If you
choose to stay on the same negative path, it falls on you. If
you make no change in your life, it falls on you. Anyone who
don't agree or don't whack what I'm saying and want to talk about it,
reach out to me. Go to my podcast page. It will definitely show
you my email reach out to me. I will always respond, let's have
a conversation about it. Please. You're very welcome to so anytime. Anytime.
I'm leaving it right there. I hope you get something out of it.
Thank you for listening. Much love to each and every one of you.
I hope everyone is well. May God bless you stay safe. I
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