WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.280 --> 00:00:19.640 Andenogy Cancert so high, Ecstasya Sage Cancerge it's not sorry, Andogy what's up? 2 00:00:19.719 --> 00:00:24.239 Positive bitches? How are we doing today? If you're hearing this episode, 3 00:00:24.559 --> 00:00:28.280 then you were meant to be here, So keep listening on That Bitch's 4 00:00:28.359 --> 00:00:33.280 Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, baby Girl, we're 5 00:00:33.359 --> 00:00:38.560 gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch 6 00:00:38.799 --> 00:00:43.640 self. That is Babe in true connection with herself. On this podcast, 7 00:00:43.799 --> 00:00:48.759 we unbecome who we are not so we can fulldy step into exactly who we 8 00:00:48.960 --> 00:00:55.079 came here to be. Amen. Okay, today we're talking about bump bump, 9 00:00:55.119 --> 00:00:59.799 bump bum, twin flames, this spooky season. You know, we're 10 00:00:59.799 --> 00:01:08.159 pad spooky topics for that Witch is Positive and twin flames. Yeah, there's 11 00:01:08.159 --> 00:01:12.000 a dark side. There is a dark side when it comes to twin flames. 12 00:01:12.280 --> 00:01:18.040 What people will do for their twin flame, the internet spaces they may 13 00:01:18.159 --> 00:01:22.040 find themselves in. There's a lot to talk about. If you like CC, 14 00:01:22.519 --> 00:01:27.719 what in the world is a twin flame? Don't worry, do not 15 00:01:29.239 --> 00:01:34.040 fret. I took your questions that you asked me on Instagram, at Vibe 16 00:01:34.159 --> 00:01:38.280 with CC and at that Bitch's positive. Be sure to follow me on Instagram 17 00:01:38.439 --> 00:01:41.879 on those two accounts so you can suggest what you want to hear on this 18 00:01:42.040 --> 00:01:47.040 podcast, and of course get your question featured. I asked you, what 19 00:01:47.159 --> 00:01:51.599 do you want to know about twin flames. I'm gonna be letting you in 20 00:01:52.000 --> 00:01:57.599 on all things twin flames because I am in twin flame universe. I know 21 00:01:57.719 --> 00:02:00.799 what's up. I believe I've aligned with my twin flames, so I'm going 22 00:02:00.879 --> 00:02:06.480 to talk about that. I was told by a shaman. I already knew 23 00:02:06.480 --> 00:02:09.159 it, but I got confirmed through a shaman that I was with my twin 24 00:02:09.240 --> 00:02:13.840 flame without me saying anything. I did not ask. It was just brought 25 00:02:13.919 --> 00:02:17.800 to my attention and I started laughing because I said, you know, I 26 00:02:17.919 --> 00:02:21.879 knew I was with my twin flame, but this is just further confirmation. 27 00:02:22.879 --> 00:02:25.280 But we're going to talk about what twin flames are. If you've aligned with 28 00:02:25.400 --> 00:02:30.520 your twin flame, we're gonna understand how to tell if it's your twin flame. 29 00:02:30.120 --> 00:02:34.120 And last, but not least, we're going to talk about the dark 30 00:02:34.280 --> 00:02:39.319 side of twin flames, because there is a very dark side and if you're 31 00:02:39.360 --> 00:02:45.039 not aware of it, it can suck you in. So if you want 32 00:02:45.080 --> 00:02:47.120 to know if you have a twin flame, if you've aligned with your twin 33 00:02:47.240 --> 00:02:51.680 flame, if your twin flame is in your orbit, and what to watch 34 00:02:51.719 --> 00:02:55.240 out for so you can protect your own energy, keep listening. I don't 35 00:02:55.319 --> 00:03:00.240 have that many announcements today. I just want to say my Magnetic Mass three 36 00:03:00.319 --> 00:03:05.879 program. I officially have three open spots. 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Okay, let's get 51 00:04:17.439 --> 00:04:25.040 into your questions about twin flames and the dark side that nobody likes to talk 52 00:04:25.079 --> 00:04:30.639 about. Here's the thing. Twin flames. What are they? Twin flames 53 00:04:30.800 --> 00:04:39.800 are a concept that is rooted in spiritual beliefs. The idea of twin flames 54 00:04:39.959 --> 00:04:45.240 is that at one time there was this soul, and this soul, for 55 00:04:45.480 --> 00:04:50.399 whatever reason, decided to split into two. One part of this soul leads 56 00:04:50.439 --> 00:04:55.160 with the divine feminine, and one part of this soul leads with the divine 57 00:04:55.240 --> 00:05:01.160 masculine. So this soul that at one time was one entity, decided to 58 00:05:01.240 --> 00:05:05.839 split into two entities, and one of these entities leads with the feminine, 59 00:05:05.879 --> 00:05:11.120 and one of these entities leads with the masculine. Now a lot of people 60 00:05:11.199 --> 00:05:13.680 think, oh, so then it has to be a man and a woman, 61 00:05:13.800 --> 00:05:15.759 because one is leading with the feminine, one is leading with the masculine. 62 00:05:15.920 --> 00:05:21.680 No, when we say masculine and feminine. We all have masculine and 63 00:05:21.800 --> 00:05:28.160 feminine energy within us. I can decide tomorrow to lead with my masculine energy, 64 00:05:28.279 --> 00:05:31.120 but that isn't my truth, so I don't. I have a balance, 65 00:05:31.160 --> 00:05:34.720 and I lead more so with my feminine energy, So it doesn't really 66 00:05:34.879 --> 00:05:40.560 matter. It's not talking about gender per se. It's talking about what that 67 00:05:40.879 --> 00:05:46.160 human leads with. In any twin flame union, one of the humans must 68 00:05:46.279 --> 00:05:49.439 lead with the divine feminine, and one of the humans must lead with the 69 00:05:49.480 --> 00:05:58.560 divine masculine, regardless of their gender that they're currently presenting. Apps twin flames, 70 00:05:58.759 --> 00:06:03.040 the belief is that this soul at one time was one split into two, 71 00:06:03.800 --> 00:06:08.959 and then during an incarnation, these two parts of the soul have to 72 00:06:09.120 --> 00:06:13.680 find their way back to one another so they can once again come into union. 73 00:06:14.800 --> 00:06:19.959 A twin flame journey. It's an intense journey, twin flames. How 74 00:06:20.040 --> 00:06:25.959 do you know it's your twin flame? You'll feel an immediate soul connection. 75 00:06:26.519 --> 00:06:30.079 It's not chemistry. It's not oh my god, I'm obsessed with this person 76 00:06:30.120 --> 00:06:32.240 and I have no idea why, and I feel crazy today. It's not 77 00:06:32.439 --> 00:06:36.000 that it's I feel safe with this person. I feel like I've known this 78 00:06:36.079 --> 00:06:41.240 person my whole entire life. I feel like this person immediately has a deep 79 00:06:41.360 --> 00:06:45.720 understanding of myself, maybe even better than I understand. It's that it's a 80 00:06:45.759 --> 00:06:50.399 feeling of safety, a feeling of understanding. And this connection will go both 81 00:06:50.519 --> 00:06:56.879 ways. It's not like you'll understand someone's your twin flame and they will not 82 00:06:57.120 --> 00:07:00.399 understand any of that. Both entities will feel a deep connection that has to 83 00:07:00.519 --> 00:07:06.399 be there. A huge sign someone is your twin flame is either one of 84 00:07:06.480 --> 00:07:11.600 you or both of you will trigger one another into a spiritual awakening. The 85 00:07:11.759 --> 00:07:15.319 whole entire point of a twin flame journey, right, Okay, listen up 86 00:07:15.360 --> 00:07:20.360 here. It's to come back into union with one another. But the process 87 00:07:20.519 --> 00:07:26.720 is the important part. The process of you coming back together is that each 88 00:07:26.839 --> 00:07:30.959 of you will spiritually awaken, have this self love journey, understand yourself, 89 00:07:31.120 --> 00:07:34.560 gain confidence in yourself. That is the whole entire point of a twin flame 90 00:07:35.160 --> 00:07:41.079 separation and then union. It's this, Wow, this person has triggered my 91 00:07:41.199 --> 00:07:44.759 inner wounds. They've triggered me to go on a spiritual journey. They triggered 92 00:07:44.800 --> 00:07:48.079 me to learn how to love myself. That is a real twin flame connection. 93 00:07:49.480 --> 00:07:56.399 You'll feel a very intense bond to this person, and it will be 94 00:07:56.519 --> 00:07:59.720 so intense that it leads you back home to yourself. That's why it really 95 00:07:59.800 --> 00:08:03.800 leads you on this spiritual awakening, the self love awakening. You'll also notice 96 00:08:03.920 --> 00:08:11.199 this mirror effect where your wounds are mirrored in this other person. So the 97 00:08:11.319 --> 00:08:16.639 difficulties you have, let's say you really deal with an abandonment wound, this 98 00:08:16.839 --> 00:08:20.639 person is going to trigger the hell out of that. Why because the whole 99 00:08:20.839 --> 00:08:26.519 entire point of a twin flame union is to lead you back home to yourself 100 00:08:26.879 --> 00:08:31.279 so you can then connect to that other half of you. My abandonment wounds 101 00:08:31.399 --> 00:08:35.159 were so triggered in my connection to my current partner, and this is a 102 00:08:35.240 --> 00:08:39.480 person I believe is my twin flame. And again the shaman that we went 103 00:08:39.519 --> 00:08:46.360 to confirmed that for us. But it doesn't really matter. Every wound that 104 00:08:46.440 --> 00:08:50.360 I had was mirrored in my partner because he triggered every single one of these. 105 00:08:52.039 --> 00:08:56.240 This actually allowed me because they were triggered. Our triggers are our teachers. 106 00:08:56.639 --> 00:09:01.879 It allowed me to go in and heal those triggers. When you're triggered 107 00:09:01.960 --> 00:09:05.759 on your twin flame journey, it's an invitation for you to heal yourself. 108 00:09:07.159 --> 00:09:09.159 It's not an invitation for you to think that there's something wrong with that other 109 00:09:09.240 --> 00:09:13.120 person or anything else. It's so you can learn to heal yourself, to 110 00:09:13.200 --> 00:09:18.759 go on the spiritual journey, and to learn how to love yourself. Now, 111 00:09:18.080 --> 00:09:24.039 a huge part of the twin flame connection is that it's a challenging journey. 112 00:09:24.039 --> 00:09:28.279 It is not the easiest. There will be a runner and there will 113 00:09:28.320 --> 00:09:33.919 be a chaser, and this might flip flop throughout the connection. So that's 114 00:09:33.960 --> 00:09:39.559 something to look out for. But the number one sign that this person is 115 00:09:39.639 --> 00:09:46.480 your twin flame is that you have a five D connection. Let me explain 116 00:09:46.559 --> 00:09:50.000 what I mean by that. When I met my partner, let me rewind 117 00:09:50.120 --> 00:09:54.559 even further. Before I met my partner, I was on Tinder. I 118 00:09:54.679 --> 00:09:58.120 never met anyone on Tinder before. I kind of used it as a joke 119 00:09:58.159 --> 00:10:03.159 because it was twenty sixteen, so I didn't think much of it. I 120 00:10:03.440 --> 00:10:07.039 was in one of those moods where I was just swiping left on everyone. 121 00:10:07.200 --> 00:10:11.000 I did not care. And when I saw my partner's profile, my thumb 122 00:10:11.200 --> 00:10:15.200 was on it and I was swiping left, and I literally heard a voice 123 00:10:15.240 --> 00:10:18.639 say stop, no, this person is going to be important in your life. 124 00:10:20.639 --> 00:10:22.440 And I first thought, well, who the hell just said that? 125 00:10:24.120 --> 00:10:26.480 And I secondly thought, well, maybe let me just look at this profile, 126 00:10:28.200 --> 00:10:31.679 and I saw it said something about milkshakes, and I was like okay. 127 00:10:31.279 --> 00:10:33.799 And then the other thing it said I was eighteen, mind you. 128 00:10:35.240 --> 00:10:39.360 The other thing it said is we're all gonna make it bruh, Wow inspiring. 129 00:10:39.799 --> 00:10:46.519 I know I didn't have an intellectual reason why I needed to swipe right 130 00:10:46.639 --> 00:10:52.039 on this person, but there was a spiritual connection before I could even understand 131 00:10:52.080 --> 00:10:56.120 what that meant, and I swiped right. We immediately started a conversation. 132 00:10:56.399 --> 00:11:01.720 He facetimed me, and before I knew it, we met up. There 133 00:11:01.919 --> 00:11:07.799 were so many instances of him chasing me and me running, and then him 134 00:11:07.919 --> 00:11:11.399 running and me chasing, but throughout the whole entire connection when he did run, 135 00:11:13.240 --> 00:11:18.320 I felt him so deeply. Every single day when he did run and 136 00:11:18.440 --> 00:11:24.240 we separated and he ended up coming back into my life, I felt him 137 00:11:24.440 --> 00:11:28.120 poking on my bubble before he ever said anything. And I remember telling my 138 00:11:28.200 --> 00:11:31.559 friend Maddie while we were on a trail, I said, I feel his 139 00:11:31.840 --> 00:11:37.879 energy like I'm having intense dreams about him, and that stopped and now they're 140 00:11:37.919 --> 00:11:41.679 starting again, and I can feel his energy just poking on my bubble. 141 00:11:41.759 --> 00:11:45.240 I did a meditation that day, and when I got out of that meditation 142 00:11:45.399 --> 00:11:48.159 and looked on my phone, lo and beholds. He messaged me. It's 143 00:11:48.240 --> 00:11:52.679 a connection that you can't describe. It almost makes not a lot of sense. 144 00:11:54.440 --> 00:12:00.639 And you just know this person on another level that you can't explain. 145 00:12:00.840 --> 00:12:05.080 And it's not chemistry. It's not like Ooh, I immediately felt safety. 146 00:12:05.240 --> 00:12:09.120 I immediately knew this was going to be someone that was going to immensely impact 147 00:12:09.200 --> 00:12:13.960 my life. When we broke up for about a year. He triggered my 148 00:12:15.080 --> 00:12:18.320 spiritual awakening. He's what led me to my purpose. I would have not 149 00:12:18.720 --> 00:12:24.519 understood or even learned about codependency. I wouldn't have become a life coach. 150 00:12:24.639 --> 00:12:31.519 He triggered everything for me, and he led me to myself and he led 151 00:12:31.600 --> 00:12:37.000 me to and it makes me emotional because he really in him leaving, I 152 00:12:37.240 --> 00:12:41.240 had to learn how to be on my own and I had to learn how 153 00:12:41.279 --> 00:12:45.679 to love myself. I had to learn how to love this half of me. 154 00:12:46.440 --> 00:12:50.159 I truly believe Erasthmo is my twin flame. But when we were together, 155 00:12:50.360 --> 00:12:54.639 initially, I could never fully love him because I did not know how 156 00:12:54.679 --> 00:13:01.000 to love myself. And it wasn't until he said I can't do this anymore, 157 00:13:01.720 --> 00:13:05.200 we need to really separate. That I had to learn how to love 158 00:13:05.279 --> 00:13:11.480 my half and it was extremely painful and it was really scary, and I 159 00:13:11.559 --> 00:13:18.559 felt very alone. But that bitch is positive would not exist without that separation 160 00:13:18.879 --> 00:13:24.559 happening. My whole entire journey would not exist without that happening. So I 161 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:31.120 can't ignore twin Flames because I've seen what it's done in my own life. 162 00:13:31.840 --> 00:13:35.360 And another key with twin Flames is that when you do come back together, 163 00:13:35.919 --> 00:13:41.360 you will work together in a way to help other people along their journey. 164 00:13:41.399 --> 00:13:45.200 There's going to be something that you guys do together to help other people, 165 00:13:45.440 --> 00:13:52.679 and that is something that we're now together discovering as a new path. But 166 00:13:52.159 --> 00:13:56.840 I want to talk about twin Flames very lightly because I don't want us to 167 00:13:56.200 --> 00:14:00.759 chase people and I don't want us to go down a dark path. But 168 00:14:00.840 --> 00:14:03.679 I don't want to ignore twin Flames either, and that's why I want to 169 00:14:03.720 --> 00:14:07.200 talk about the beautiful part of twin Flames, which is something I've experienced, 170 00:14:07.240 --> 00:14:11.639 and I know it's real because it's real in my own life. I felt 171 00:14:11.679 --> 00:14:13.120 it, I've seen it. I know it like I know my own name. 172 00:14:13.679 --> 00:14:22.559 But I also want us to be aware of the traps that twin flames 173 00:14:22.679 --> 00:14:28.480 can lay for you and how it can be destructive. We have to keep 174 00:14:28.519 --> 00:14:33.159 our eyes wide open. So let's keep going and we're gonna get to the 175 00:14:33.240 --> 00:14:37.919 dark side of twin flames. I got a question, what is the difference 176 00:14:39.039 --> 00:14:43.720 between a twin flame and a soulmate. A twin flame is your twin So 177 00:14:43.279 --> 00:14:48.679 when it comes to twin there's only two because twins is two people twins twin 178 00:14:48.799 --> 00:14:52.279 flames, there's only you and one other person can be your twin flame. 179 00:14:52.799 --> 00:14:56.799 However, with a soulmate, you can have many soulmates. I may be 180 00:14:56.919 --> 00:15:00.639 one of your soulmates. Your teacher could be a soul mameate, your sibling 181 00:15:00.679 --> 00:15:05.399 can be a soulmate, your significant other can be a soulmate. A soulmate. 182 00:15:05.600 --> 00:15:11.200 Also, you'll have a deep bond, but the ups and down won't 183 00:15:11.279 --> 00:15:15.600 be as intense as a twin flame journey. But it's still a beautiful connection. 184 00:15:15.679 --> 00:15:18.120 And some people say, look, my twin flame isn't ready in this 185 00:15:18.240 --> 00:15:20.320 incarnation. I'm gonna go with my soulmate, ins said, because this shit 186 00:15:20.399 --> 00:15:26.200 isn't worth it, and that's still beautiful and perfectly fine. Another question I 187 00:15:26.279 --> 00:15:31.720 got was does everyone have a twin flame? There's no answer, Like I 188 00:15:33.080 --> 00:15:37.080 am not God, I am God expressed through CC. There is no one 189 00:15:37.200 --> 00:15:39.840 answer, And I don't know like I would tell you if I knew for 190 00:15:39.960 --> 00:15:45.320 sure. I know for sure God exists because I've experienced God in my own 191 00:15:45.399 --> 00:15:48.440 life. I don't know for sure that everyone has a twin flame where everyone 192 00:15:48.519 --> 00:15:52.080 doesn't have a twin flame. And I'm always gonna tell you guys what I 193 00:15:52.200 --> 00:15:56.440 know and when I know it. So this is me just being honest. 194 00:15:56.600 --> 00:16:00.399 But here's my intuitive take, and that's all I can give you. Everyone 195 00:16:00.519 --> 00:16:03.000 have a twin flame? God only knows. Here's what I think. I 196 00:16:03.120 --> 00:16:08.440 think no. And the reason I say that is because every single soul who 197 00:16:08.600 --> 00:16:12.399 incarnates has a little bit of a different purpose for why they're coming here. 198 00:16:12.960 --> 00:16:18.080 Some souls want to learn compassion. Other souls want to learn self love. 199 00:16:18.200 --> 00:16:21.480 Other souls want to learn how to build a career an empire. They want 200 00:16:21.519 --> 00:16:30.080 to master abundance through finances. So if your soul didn't come to planet Earth 201 00:16:30.200 --> 00:16:34.679 this time around wanting to learn self love, then maybe your soul didn't have 202 00:16:34.759 --> 00:16:41.000 to split in two to learn that lesson. So just how everyone has a 203 00:16:41.080 --> 00:16:45.000 little bit of a different plan for their soul. If your soul's plan has 204 00:16:45.080 --> 00:16:49.600 nothing to do with learning self love or having this deep spiritual awakening, then 205 00:16:49.679 --> 00:16:52.320 I don't think you would need a twin flame, because what would be the 206 00:16:52.360 --> 00:16:57.120 purpose then having a twin flame. You're not special. It's not like, 207 00:16:57.240 --> 00:17:00.840 oh, you're better than someone else or you. No, it's just one 208 00:17:00.879 --> 00:17:06.359 of the possible soul lessons that your soul may have chosen. But it doesn't 209 00:17:06.400 --> 00:17:10.000 make you better, or cooler or anything else. It's just a possible option 210 00:17:10.240 --> 00:17:15.799 for learning and evolving during this journey. Now, this is the part I 211 00:17:15.920 --> 00:17:19.400 really want to get into because I have other podcasts about twin flames. I've 212 00:17:19.480 --> 00:17:22.720 had podcasts with my twin flame on the podcast, which is really cool. 213 00:17:23.960 --> 00:17:27.839 But this is the part I need to warn you about. Twin Flames can 214 00:17:27.920 --> 00:17:33.359 be a beautiful journey, it can be life altering. It can lead you 215 00:17:33.519 --> 00:17:41.359 to your purpose. You can learn self love. However, there is a 216 00:17:41.519 --> 00:17:47.440 dark side of twin flames where people get a thing obsessed. When I went 217 00:17:47.559 --> 00:17:51.160 through my breakup with my partner, I didn't know what twin flames were. 218 00:17:51.680 --> 00:17:55.680 I didn't try to manifest him back into my life. I trusted God and 219 00:17:55.759 --> 00:18:00.440 I surrendered. And that's the way to do it. When people go through 220 00:18:00.519 --> 00:18:04.400 breakups, I see them get so hung up on who their twin flame is 221 00:18:04.799 --> 00:18:10.400 that all they do is energetically chase that person and they end up repelling them. 222 00:18:11.799 --> 00:18:15.480 If that is you, you need to listen up to this part of 223 00:18:15.519 --> 00:18:21.480 the podcast. Okay, you are not going through twin flame separations so you 224 00:18:21.559 --> 00:18:26.119 can learn how to energetically chase someone. You're not going through a separation so 225 00:18:26.240 --> 00:18:30.319 you can learn how to abandon yourself and to be hyper focused on someone else. 226 00:18:30.359 --> 00:18:34.559 Whether or not someone is your twin flame, you should not be chasing 227 00:18:34.720 --> 00:18:41.200 them. No one should be more important than you because you incarnated in your 228 00:18:41.279 --> 00:18:47.599 own damn body. There should never be a time where you're betraying yourself for 229 00:18:47.880 --> 00:18:53.920 another person. I don't care if Jesus Christ himself incarnated tomorrow and you thought 230 00:18:53.960 --> 00:18:59.960 that was your twin flame, you do not abandon yourself for that other person. 231 00:19:00.440 --> 00:19:03.319 Why Because all that does is repel that other person further away from you. 232 00:19:03.640 --> 00:19:08.519 And number two, why would you abandon the one person you're supposed to 233 00:19:10.119 --> 00:19:15.480 experience during this incarnation, Akau, That's why you're in this body. Another 234 00:19:15.559 --> 00:19:21.960 thing I want to say is people will discount their twin flame. They'll say 235 00:19:22.160 --> 00:19:23.920 they're verbally abusive, but they're my twin flame, so it's supposed to be 236 00:19:25.039 --> 00:19:30.920 challenging. No no, no, no no no no no no no. 237 00:19:32.000 --> 00:19:34.319 I don't care. Again, I don't care who it is. If Erasmo 238 00:19:34.480 --> 00:19:41.759 Tomorrow, Erasmo is my partner, if Erasmo Tomorrow decided to be abusive to 239 00:19:41.920 --> 00:19:45.319 me, goodbye, Cyanora, see you in the next lifetime, because I'm 240 00:19:45.319 --> 00:19:51.640 not doing this. No, a twin flame is not an excuse for abuse. 241 00:19:52.359 --> 00:19:56.920 It does not matter if they're your twin flame or not. If they 242 00:19:56.000 --> 00:20:00.720 are abusive, if they are unhealthy for you, you get out why because 243 00:20:00.799 --> 00:20:07.240 you incarnated in your own body and you came here for you, not for 244 00:20:07.400 --> 00:20:11.200 them. I don't care who they are. I don't care who they are. 245 00:20:11.640 --> 00:20:15.359 It does not matter. A twin flame is not an umbrella excuse for 246 00:20:15.640 --> 00:20:22.880 you to encounter abuse. Okay, please hear me, when I say that, 247 00:20:22.839 --> 00:20:27.240 I could not care. I believe Erasma's my twin flame. We have 248 00:20:27.519 --> 00:20:30.839 every single possible sign that someone is your twin flame. I have it with 249 00:20:30.960 --> 00:20:34.279 him, every single one the five D connection. I have it when I 250 00:20:34.319 --> 00:20:37.960 talk to God, I understand it when I talk to that shaman. Yes, 251 00:20:37.039 --> 00:20:42.400 it was confirmed. If tomorrow he decided to act out and go little 252 00:20:42.440 --> 00:20:45.920 Craig Cray, goodbye, twin Flame. I'm gonna go for my soulmate. 253 00:20:47.000 --> 00:20:51.039 I'm gonna go for literally anyone else because I'm not doing that. You do 254 00:20:51.279 --> 00:20:55.480 not betray yourself for someone else. I don't care. I don't care. 255 00:20:56.039 --> 00:21:02.920 Abuse is not an excuse for you to try to prove yourself worthy. No, 256 00:21:03.400 --> 00:21:10.680 not doing it. So what I want to highlight even further is how 257 00:21:11.240 --> 00:21:15.119 toxic the twin flame community can be. And this is why I want to 258 00:21:15.119 --> 00:21:18.000 talk about twin flames, because I want there to be a healthy space where 259 00:21:18.039 --> 00:21:22.640 we can talk about it. But we're not gonna just accept abuse. So 260 00:21:22.119 --> 00:21:30.039 there was a docuseriies called Desperately Seeking Soulmate Escaping twin Flames Universe. Watch this. 261 00:21:30.359 --> 00:21:33.920 I think it's on Prime, Okay, you need to watch it. 262 00:21:33.039 --> 00:21:40.640 It's called desperately seeking soulmate escaping twin Flames Universe. Now, there is a 263 00:21:40.720 --> 00:21:45.799 part of the Internet called twin Flames Universe. And let me just explain to 264 00:21:45.880 --> 00:21:49.960 you what happened. I'm gonna read part of an article in Time magazine that 265 00:21:51.119 --> 00:21:55.640 talks about twin flame Universe. There's this man, Jeff and this woman Shalia. 266 00:21:56.079 --> 00:21:59.920 They met online through a mutual friend in twenty twelve and started dating. 267 00:22:00.880 --> 00:22:04.200 Shalia was living in Sedona, Arizona at the time, and Jeff came to 268 00:22:04.319 --> 00:22:10.400 join her there. They started making videos about their relationship. Shalia later joined 269 00:22:10.440 --> 00:22:15.519 Jeff in Hawaii, where they would start a blog called Awakened Intimacy. Eventually 270 00:22:15.640 --> 00:22:19.480 they settled on the twin Flames Universe, which the purpose was to help people 271 00:22:19.599 --> 00:22:25.559 find their one true love. For Shalia, it was an opportunity to share 272 00:22:25.599 --> 00:22:30.079 her spiritual practices with more people. For Jeff, it was an opportunity to 273 00:22:30.240 --> 00:22:33.680 grow a business. So Shalia and Jeff, that's just a little background. 274 00:22:34.119 --> 00:22:37.960 They met, they started dating, and then they started twin Flames Universe. 275 00:22:38.440 --> 00:22:44.960 They ended up starting this online school for helping people find their twin flames. 276 00:22:45.000 --> 00:22:48.480 And I don't want to give everything away because I definitely want you to watch 277 00:22:48.640 --> 00:22:51.839 this docu series if you can, but just in case you don't have Amazon 278 00:22:51.960 --> 00:22:56.480 Prime, I want to detail what happened in a way that doesn't spoil everything. 279 00:22:57.000 --> 00:23:02.279 So Jeff and Shalia start this school online to help you find your twin 280 00:23:02.359 --> 00:23:07.720 flame. Months go by and people are not finding their twin flames. Now, 281 00:23:07.799 --> 00:23:11.680 Jeff and Shalia recorded every single session they had so you can buy their 282 00:23:11.759 --> 00:23:17.160 past sessions and watch it. So they would have group coaching where everyone's talking 283 00:23:17.200 --> 00:23:19.680 about their twin flames, and then that would be recorded and then you could 284 00:23:19.720 --> 00:23:25.880 watch it later if you joined down the line. And in these sessions Jeff 285 00:23:25.920 --> 00:23:29.880 and Shalia, it was mainly Jeff would say, it doesn't matter what you 286 00:23:30.079 --> 00:23:33.319 have to do. Your relationship is up to you. You have to chase 287 00:23:33.400 --> 00:23:36.839 them, you have to stalk them, you have to do everything. It 288 00:23:36.880 --> 00:23:38.960 doesn't matter if they're married, it doesn't matter if they have kids, it 289 00:23:40.000 --> 00:23:41.880 doesn't matter where they live or what they're doing. You have to go after 290 00:23:41.960 --> 00:23:45.599 that person, even if they don't want you. People they were getting the 291 00:23:45.720 --> 00:23:51.000 cops called on them, there was restraining orders going on. This is so 292 00:23:51.440 --> 00:23:56.039 unhealthy, baby girlies, This is so unhealthy. That's not okay. This 293 00:23:56.240 --> 00:24:00.759 is what I'm saying. Just because someone's your twin flame, it doesn't mean 294 00:24:00.839 --> 00:24:04.440 you throw all logic out the window. That no, it doesn't mean you 295 00:24:04.559 --> 00:24:08.559 accept abuse. It doesn't mean you chase someone who's married. It doesn't mean 296 00:24:08.599 --> 00:24:14.559 you stalk someone. What are we doing? This is not okay, This 297 00:24:14.759 --> 00:24:18.759 is not okay. That is that is not okay. That is Craig crag. 298 00:24:19.759 --> 00:24:26.440 It gets even more scary. Okay. Eventually people get pissed off because 299 00:24:26.480 --> 00:24:30.400 they're saying, Jeff sually, we're not finding our twin flames. So Jeff 300 00:24:30.480 --> 00:24:33.599 says, this is so effed up. Jeff says, well, I talk 301 00:24:33.680 --> 00:24:37.920 to God, did you? This is why you need to use discernment, 302 00:24:38.039 --> 00:24:41.880 and you yourself need to talk to God. So you know who are the 303 00:24:41.920 --> 00:24:47.079 phonies out here? Jeff says he talks to God and said that actually he 304 00:24:47.200 --> 00:24:51.519 made a list and people's twin flames are already in the group. Of course 305 00:24:51.599 --> 00:24:53.279 he's gonna tell you your twin flame is already in the group to make his 306 00:24:53.400 --> 00:24:57.240 life easier, and so you get off his back. So he starts telling 307 00:24:57.279 --> 00:25:03.119 people, actually I forget their names now, but let's just say Molly and 308 00:25:03.200 --> 00:25:07.599 Michelle. He said, Molly, your twin flame is actually Michelle, and 309 00:25:07.759 --> 00:25:12.480 Molly says, but I'm a straight woman. I wanna I'm interested in men, 310 00:25:12.960 --> 00:25:22.599 not women. So what happens is Jeff and Saliah convince Michelle or Molly 311 00:25:22.720 --> 00:25:26.359 or whoever, they convince one of the girls to get a sex change, 312 00:25:26.720 --> 00:25:34.000 and they literally bully them into transitioning. This is not okay. I you 313 00:25:34.160 --> 00:25:38.160 know, you think it's obvious, but it's not obvious. What's not okay 314 00:25:38.240 --> 00:25:44.119 because it breaks my heart. People are so vulnerable, and they're so just 315 00:25:44.279 --> 00:25:49.319 wanting to be freaking loved and accepted that they're willing to go to any any 316 00:25:49.519 --> 00:25:56.000 distance to just get their love their love life together. This is not okay. 317 00:25:57.200 --> 00:26:03.480 This is not okay. Someone brading you and bullying you into transitioning when 318 00:26:03.559 --> 00:26:08.240 you didn't even want to, bulling you into a relationship to someone you're not 319 00:26:08.440 --> 00:26:12.240 even attracted to. This is not okay. The reason I bring this up 320 00:26:12.359 --> 00:26:18.039 is because this is how toxic the twin flame narrative can be. I don't 321 00:26:18.079 --> 00:26:21.279 want that for us. I don't want that for us, okay. I 322 00:26:21.400 --> 00:26:25.759 want us to be able to acknowledge twin flames without us going off the f 323 00:26:25.839 --> 00:26:30.240 and cliff of what a twin Flame connection can be. Twin Flames should be 324 00:26:30.279 --> 00:26:33.680 a vehicle to help you grow and learn. They're not a vehicle to make 325 00:26:33.759 --> 00:26:36.759 you feel bullied and completely lose your mind and put it out the window. 326 00:26:37.440 --> 00:26:41.000 That is not okay. So they were bullying people to do things they did 327 00:26:41.119 --> 00:26:45.240 not want to do. And it's not like I'm taking this out of context. 328 00:26:45.359 --> 00:26:51.319 Watch the docuseries. You can literally see the classes where he was convincing 329 00:26:51.400 --> 00:26:55.119 this one girl, Anne to change her name to Dan and she's like, 330 00:26:55.279 --> 00:26:59.160 I don't. I don't want to be Dan. I want to be Anne 331 00:26:59.200 --> 00:27:02.039 because that's how I identify. That's who I am. I'm An. I've 332 00:27:02.039 --> 00:27:04.839 always been An. I don't want to be Dan. And Jeff was like, 333 00:27:06.079 --> 00:27:07.680 well, that's fed up. You're Dan, Like that's who you are. 334 00:27:08.079 --> 00:27:14.279 And also they the insane part is it doesn't matter what gender you are, 335 00:27:14.359 --> 00:27:17.559 because you can still lead with your masculine even if you're a woman. 336 00:27:18.160 --> 00:27:22.359 So I don't know, I guess that went over their heads. Not surprising 337 00:27:22.240 --> 00:27:27.839 anyway. I just want us to highlight the dark part of twin Flame universe, 338 00:27:27.920 --> 00:27:33.200 okay, and please do not engage with Twin Flame Universe because they are 339 00:27:33.319 --> 00:27:37.839 not teaching healthy practices and it's definitely not okay what they're doing. And I 340 00:27:38.039 --> 00:27:42.680 encourage you to watch that docuseries. I'll just say, you know, in 341 00:27:42.839 --> 00:27:48.759 every industry, the spiritual industry, the entertainment industry, the church, there's 342 00:27:48.920 --> 00:27:53.640 always people who are out for the wrong reasons, and there's always people who 343 00:27:56.119 --> 00:27:59.720 are gonna do negative. There's polarity in all things light and dark, good 344 00:27:59.720 --> 00:28:03.400 and beat and unfortunately this is part of that bad And I need you. 345 00:28:04.519 --> 00:28:08.640 I need you to be on lookout for yourself. I need you to protect 346 00:28:08.680 --> 00:28:12.240 yourself even from me. Take everything I say with a grain of salt. 347 00:28:12.599 --> 00:28:15.519 I am just CC. You know. I'm a life and energy coach. 348 00:28:15.640 --> 00:28:18.440 I believe I'm good at what I do. I believe I'm very connected to 349 00:28:18.519 --> 00:28:23.319 God and my angels. But you should not just take everything I say like 350 00:28:23.599 --> 00:28:27.359 I am your brain. I'm not your brain. You have your own brain 351 00:28:27.440 --> 00:28:30.440 for a reason. You have your own heart for a reason, so you 352 00:28:30.519 --> 00:28:33.640 can hear what I say and agree or disagree. That's the whole point of 353 00:28:33.720 --> 00:28:37.119 you being your own person. If you were supposed to be exactly me, 354 00:28:37.200 --> 00:28:44.240 you would have incarnated as me. We have to use discernment. The next 355 00:28:44.359 --> 00:28:48.880 question I got was thoughts on reconnecting with your twin flame. I think that 356 00:28:48.039 --> 00:28:53.240 there are so many different ways that relationships can unfold. You can get together 357 00:28:53.319 --> 00:28:56.160 with someone at twelve years old and stay with them the rest of your life. 358 00:28:56.519 --> 00:29:00.799 You can get with someone at eighteen and date them or three years and 359 00:29:00.880 --> 00:29:03.359 then break up for a year and get back together. That was what I 360 00:29:03.440 --> 00:29:07.440 did, and now we've been together for seven full years. There are so 361 00:29:07.799 --> 00:29:15.200 many different relationship dynamics you can have with someone, and it's not meant to 362 00:29:15.359 --> 00:29:18.680 look all the same. It's not one size fits all because you came here 363 00:29:18.759 --> 00:29:22.200 with certain lessons that you had to learn, and those lessons are going to 364 00:29:22.319 --> 00:29:26.759 be provided for you in different ways. I believe that if you want to 365 00:29:26.799 --> 00:29:30.839 connect to your twin flame, don't make it about your twin flame. Jeff 366 00:29:30.880 --> 00:29:34.119 and Salia make it about your twin flame. They say, all your focus 367 00:29:34.200 --> 00:29:37.960 has to be on them, Be hyper focused about them, chase them, 368 00:29:37.119 --> 00:29:41.039 run them down, energetically, chase them. Everything they say is everything I 369 00:29:41.119 --> 00:29:47.279 say not to do. We are complete opposite, opposite, opposite, opposite 370 00:29:47.799 --> 00:29:52.000 opposites. Okay, if you want to actually reconnect with your twin flame, 371 00:29:52.599 --> 00:29:57.200 reconnect with yourself. Like I said, the whole entire point of the twin 372 00:29:57.319 --> 00:30:03.880 flame journey of re with your other half is for you to learn self love, 373 00:30:03.359 --> 00:30:07.400 is for you to get connected with yourself. How could you love that 374 00:30:07.720 --> 00:30:11.079 half of you if you don't even love the half you incarnated as. That 375 00:30:11.319 --> 00:30:14.920 makes no sense. How could you understand that half of you If you don't 376 00:30:14.920 --> 00:30:19.119 even understand the half you incarnated as. You have to take space for yourself, 377 00:30:19.279 --> 00:30:22.880 learn yourself, love yourself before you can never give that to someone else. 378 00:30:23.920 --> 00:30:29.559 Your twin flame separation, which is something that often happens with twin flames, 379 00:30:29.640 --> 00:30:33.079 is you will separate for the purpose of you learning how to love yourself. 380 00:30:33.799 --> 00:30:37.640 Use it to your advantage. Use it for you to create your own 381 00:30:37.680 --> 00:30:40.880 identity, Use it for you to learn your purpose, use it for you 382 00:30:41.000 --> 00:30:44.960 to find yourself. And if that person is really your twin flame, they'll 383 00:30:45.000 --> 00:30:48.440 come back around. You don't have to worry about it. Never once during 384 00:30:48.599 --> 00:30:52.839 my separation was I manifesting a asthma to come back. Never once was I 385 00:30:52.920 --> 00:30:56.839 praying for him to come back. No, I focused on me. I 386 00:30:56.960 --> 00:31:00.640 did what I needed to do to make myself happy again, and then he 387 00:31:00.799 --> 00:31:03.720 came back around. If they're your twin flame, let them be your twin 388 00:31:03.839 --> 00:31:07.319 flame. They'll come back around on their own. You don't need to orchestrate 389 00:31:07.400 --> 00:31:11.960 everything. You don't need to orchestrate everything. Learn how to surrender, do 390 00:31:12.240 --> 00:31:17.519 literally anything else and try to control other people and everything will be fine. 391 00:31:18.160 --> 00:31:21.920 Do literally anything else, then be hyper focused on them and everything will be 392 00:31:22.000 --> 00:31:27.160 fine. Another question was will you always end up with your twin flame again? 393 00:31:27.240 --> 00:31:30.359 I'm not God, so I don't have every answer in the book, 394 00:31:30.440 --> 00:31:33.920 but I'm gonna say no. And the reason is because I think some people 395 00:31:34.119 --> 00:31:38.720 fall through what Jeff and Shale are saying, and they NonStop energetically chase someone 396 00:31:38.799 --> 00:31:41.640 that they think is their twin flame, and it may or may not be 397 00:31:41.759 --> 00:31:45.319 their twin flame. Who knows. Some people just get obsessed with one person 398 00:31:45.400 --> 00:31:51.240 and label it. If you would just stop with the labels like this is 399 00:31:51.319 --> 00:31:53.799 why I'm bringing this up. It's great if someone is your twin flame, 400 00:31:53.880 --> 00:31:57.359 but it's even better if you almost just forget about twin flames. And I 401 00:31:57.559 --> 00:32:00.880 know that they're like weird to say, because I believe I connected with my 402 00:32:00.960 --> 00:32:05.640 twin flame. But when you get so obsessed about an idea, you end 403 00:32:05.720 --> 00:32:09.079 up losing yourself. And I would so much rather you just focus on you, 404 00:32:09.240 --> 00:32:13.519 loving yourself, focus on you, reconnecting with yourself. And if that 405 00:32:13.799 --> 00:32:16.480 person comes back around and you go through spiritual awakening because of them, let 406 00:32:16.559 --> 00:32:21.240 it be but for you to become more obsessed with twin flames and put that 407 00:32:21.359 --> 00:32:24.240 on a pedestal rather than you learning just how to live your own life. 408 00:32:25.240 --> 00:32:30.000 I feel like you miss out on so many experiences. So will you always 409 00:32:30.079 --> 00:32:31.680 end up with your twin flame? No, if you only chase them and 410 00:32:31.799 --> 00:32:36.160 never focus on you, no, you won't. But if you refocus on 411 00:32:36.279 --> 00:32:39.160 you, And that's why I created the twenty one day Breakup Globe Challenge, 412 00:32:39.559 --> 00:32:43.880 is so you can learn how to love yourself again, refocus on you again. 413 00:32:44.400 --> 00:32:49.359 I give you spiritual practices, psychological tools, I give you everything. 414 00:32:49.440 --> 00:32:52.119 I'm like your big sis and you're a spiritual teacher all in one through this 415 00:32:52.279 --> 00:32:57.799 process. If you are going through a twin flame separation, join the twenty 416 00:32:57.880 --> 00:33:01.079 one day Breakup Globe Challenge. It will you refocus on you, which is 417 00:33:01.200 --> 00:33:05.279 the main course. And the side dish is that they end up coming back 418 00:33:05.480 --> 00:33:08.640 around anyway, once you refocus on you. I think a lot of people 419 00:33:08.680 --> 00:33:14.720 will tell me, Sacy, I've tried everything. Have you tried surrendering. 420 00:33:16.039 --> 00:33:22.759 Have you tried letting go and letting God? Have you tried refocusing on yourself? 421 00:33:23.160 --> 00:33:28.160 Have you tried not to energetically chase them? No? Okay, then 422 00:33:28.200 --> 00:33:31.039 you didn't try everything. You didn't try everything. Did you try the twenty 423 00:33:31.079 --> 00:33:36.160 one day breakup Globe Challenge? No, you didn't try everything, So don't 424 00:33:36.200 --> 00:33:39.279 come at me with that. That's all I'm gonna say. I want you 425 00:33:39.359 --> 00:33:45.079 to know I believe in twin flames. I believe I'm experiencing a twin flame 426 00:33:45.160 --> 00:33:49.920 journey. I believe many people do. I believe it can be beautiful, 427 00:33:51.000 --> 00:33:54.319 but I also believe that nothing can be beautiful when you pedestal a concept or 428 00:33:54.359 --> 00:34:00.440 an idea or an ideology before your own health, safety, and spirit and 429 00:34:00.599 --> 00:34:06.200 body. You have to put yourself first, whether you're on a twin flame 430 00:34:06.279 --> 00:34:12.280 journey or not. And I hope you understand that from this podcast. If 431 00:34:12.320 --> 00:34:15.199 this podcast resonated with you, it would mean the world to me. If 432 00:34:15.199 --> 00:34:17.960 you could leave a positive review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, it helps me 433 00:34:19.159 --> 00:34:23.760 to continue this podcast. It helps us grow larger, and it would mean 434 00:34:24.000 --> 00:34:27.840 just the absolute world to me. It's good karma for you, if not 435 00:34:27.960 --> 00:34:30.920 for me, And do it for you. As always, the sparkle in 436 00:34:30.039 --> 00:34:34.000 me honors the sparkle in you. You can be anywhere in the world, 437 00:34:34.079 --> 00:34:36.159 and you chose to be here, so thank you so much, and I 438 00:34:36.199 --> 00:35:07.039 will see you in the next one. Comeny cancer, I kiss me, 439 00:35:07.440 --> 00:35:13.039 kiss me m hm.