1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:11,160 Made a decision. I'll face Sonny sun On, I have visions. Nice 2 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:19,199 to Rache, what's up, Stephanie? How are you? I'm fine? 3 00:00:19,359 --> 00:00:23,239 How are you? I'm great? You know what, Let's start the show 4 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:27,559 today by saying hi to our our family. Is what I was trying to 5 00:00:27,559 --> 00:00:34,679 say. Kelly Ladi Da Katie uh not Anna Faris, Katie, Aaron land 6 00:00:34,759 --> 00:00:39,359 Ho, Rachel newcomer, Randy may Ames. Too many names, Nikki, 7 00:00:39,439 --> 00:00:43,039 call your girl, Ashley, You're so chic. Leslie, stop accosting people. 8 00:00:43,119 --> 00:00:48,399 You're going to get arrested. Nobody likes somebody following them around the Ikea 9 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:54,439 Jacob your Growley, Rita, Roxabasinett full of heroes, kids who I'll love 10 00:00:54,520 --> 00:01:00,560 him and Elizabeth Williamson's kids. Maybe they don't have too many more Athena. 11 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:03,159 We love your dancing. Probably we love your pancakes. Valerie, Bubba Fenwick 12 00:01:03,359 --> 00:01:06,719 hints it out of the park, yep, Katerina, get to check that 13 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:15,159 Mowler again, Gabby and Missy m mmmm, Rebecca openness, You're killed, 14 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,719 Rebecca. Kelly Brandt, She'll take you anywhere you need to go. Yup, 15 00:01:19,799 --> 00:01:25,879 Alisha, Aaron Sanchez, We're gonna think of well yeah, you think 16 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:30,840 of a funny thing for her name. Okay, Okay, Leslie stop coughing, 17 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:36,319 Sarah Stefano, yep, Jennifer, get up, Sandra. It's not 18 00:01:36,359 --> 00:01:42,159 easy being green, Christa. You make me want but yep, thank you, 19 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:47,079 Thank you guys for supporting us. We love you, guys. Yeah, 20 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:51,200 some of you guys are listening to this without ads, so it's good 21 00:01:51,239 --> 00:01:53,879 for you. Yeah. I hope you're enjoying being at the ten dollars level. 22 00:01:53,959 --> 00:02:00,480 We're enjoying having you. Yeah, thank you. What. Okay, 23 00:02:00,799 --> 00:02:07,159 had a big weekend last weekend? Yeah, Sunday, Okay, We're it's 24 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:12,599 Monday. We're to giving you the show on Monday. We're reporting, right, 25 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:19,080 our doings on a Monday Yesterday. Big block party. Oh really. 26 00:02:19,159 --> 00:02:23,319 I live in the kind of neighborhood that has block parties. That's cool, 27 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:28,439 so cute. A lot of little kids in my neighborhood, which is why, 28 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,639 as I've always told you, it's like a big Halloween neighborhood. Yeah 29 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:38,759 right, So there was a pie eating contest. Oh really, uh huh. 30 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:44,840 And it's so funny. Xander is a really funny kid. He's such 31 00:02:44,879 --> 00:02:47,919 a freaking funny kid. He he gets he's really into stuff that you would 32 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:52,680 be surprised that he's into because for some reason, like all week long it 33 00:02:52,759 --> 00:02:53,800 was like we were like, yeah, we're gonna have fud at the block 34 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:58,240 party. And I couldn't tell if he was being sarcastic, but I kind 35 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:01,919 of do think it's just like something he's he's like us. He's like he 36 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:07,360 kind of does stuff ironically but also enjoys it, you know what I mean, 37 00:03:07,439 --> 00:03:09,719 Like he enjoys having something to do. He thinks the whole thing's funny, 38 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:14,439 right, He's this is what I love about him. He can make 39 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,439 anything, like he can find things to look forward to. He's like an 40 00:03:16,479 --> 00:03:21,000 optimist like me. Like, so he can pretty much figure out a way 41 00:03:21,039 --> 00:03:23,639 to have a good time whatever he's doing. So there was a friend of 42 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:28,759 his from their school. The both the kids invited friends from school to come 43 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:34,719 over and hang out, and uh so they decided to enter the piating contest 44 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:38,960 as a duo. A lot of people end apparently the piating contest was like 45 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:44,240 the biggest event of the block party. So like they kept going on the 46 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,000 loud speaker. My neighbor Josh kept going all right, and you know, 47 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:51,800 just ten minutes until the piating contest. I know that's why you're all here, 48 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:54,680 right, Sander's sending me a text, Mom, I hope you're still 49 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:58,680 here. It's the PI eating contest is starting. I'm like, I'm here. 50 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,319 There's nothing for like adults really to do there. There's a costume contest. 51 00:04:02,599 --> 00:04:06,759 You know, Xander's all about the pie eating contest, right, I 52 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:11,280 mean, I gotta. I think there were like, you know, fifteen 53 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:15,120 or so entries into the pie eating contest. Wow, yeah, all kids, 54 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:20,000 no, like adults too, really yeah? And then I was very 55 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:27,319 unpleasantly surprised to learn that they were having to eat a huge Costco size pumpkin 56 00:04:27,399 --> 00:04:30,879 pie, not just a regular size, not even a Marie Calendar's or you 57 00:04:30,879 --> 00:04:34,600 know, a normal kind you get at the store, like a big ass 58 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:42,800 family size wow pie each person, I guess. I yeah, And what's 59 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:46,319 the what's the prize? Well, we didn't even know what the prize was 60 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:49,399 the first. The prize was just gonna be pride and I guess winning. 61 00:04:49,399 --> 00:04:56,000 I don't know if they knew what the prize was. So I'm like, 62 00:04:56,680 --> 00:05:00,519 this is where you go from being like a kid in your in your mind 63 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,959 to being a parent when you're like, oh, that's a lot of sugar. 64 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:08,160 That is not going to sit well. He's gonna have a stomach ache. 65 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:11,639 Like, however, this turns out like really like couldn't they have done 66 00:05:11,639 --> 00:05:14,800 a smaller pie? I got a lot of notes for these people on how 67 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,680 to run a block party as a pie eating content. In my mind, 68 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:21,519 I'm seriously like, who's freaking idea? Was it to get the biggest pie? 69 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:26,600 Like now, and you know what, the guy who was throwing the 70 00:05:26,639 --> 00:05:29,959 block party only has a baby, so what the fuck does he know? 71 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:32,680 He doesn't now shit? Like I'm like when you have an actual kid who's 72 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,480 like eight or nine, and you're they're gonna have to be sick all night 73 00:05:35,519 --> 00:05:40,040 from doing this, like you know you're going to see the error of your 74 00:05:40,079 --> 00:05:43,240 ways, But like, you have a baby, So now we're a ways 75 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:46,000 off from that. So I probably won't even be living there anymore by the 76 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,199 time where he won't you know what I mean, it's going to be like 77 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,439 by the time his kids, you know, eight or nine, I'm not 78 00:05:51,439 --> 00:05:57,720 gonna be able to go moded. Like when he's throwing up, right, 79 00:05:57,879 --> 00:06:02,199 I remember where and be like what I don't even remember that. Yeah, 80 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,439 fucker, you got the cost coat size pies when you should have gotten the 81 00:06:05,519 --> 00:06:11,079 regular sized pies. Yeah. Anyway, spoiler alert, Xander won the pilting 82 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:15,839 car. Yes, his thing was really funny. Maybe they interviewed everybody who 83 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:18,800 was about to They're like, why are you doing the pie eating contests? 84 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,800 And some people were like, oh, because it's there or whatever, and 85 00:06:21,959 --> 00:06:28,879 Xander said, because a few months ago I won the watermelon eating contests and 86 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,600 I'm here to defend my honor. He was being really funny. He got 87 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:36,079 like a huge laugh. That's yeah. And then he won. That's great. 88 00:06:36,199 --> 00:06:41,319 And then he and his partner, a kid from their school, won 89 00:06:41,439 --> 00:06:46,639 a fifty dollars Target gift card. Wow, that's nice. But swear to 90 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,759 god, he was puking, so is he. He and the and the 91 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:54,600 girl the front of his go running down towards the house. I'm out at 92 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,480 the block party with Peepo. You know, John's with me. I have 93 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,600 a key to the house. I'm like, well, they're in for a 94 00:07:00,639 --> 00:07:03,839 bad surprise when they get home and realize they can't get in the house to 95 00:07:03,879 --> 00:07:06,759 go puke in the bathroom. Oh no, Yeah, So we come home 96 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:13,000 to both of them puking on the front lawn. Oh no, well they 97 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:17,800 ate an entire Costco size pie this in like, you know, seven minutes. 98 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:24,680 Oh my god. No. Yeah, it was funny. You know, 99 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:29,319 it's funny because I was dealing with puking. But Natalia was sick last 100 00:07:29,319 --> 00:07:32,639 week. I know, had like a twenty four hour something. I don't 101 00:07:32,639 --> 00:07:36,040 know. She woke up, she woke up at like six in the morning 102 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:39,959 or four in the morning, was puking. And then she's like, I 103 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:45,040 have a presentation in first period. What am I gonna do? And I 104 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:48,920 was like, well, you're gonna have to like text, And then I 105 00:07:48,959 --> 00:07:54,360 was like, well, you're doing the presentation yourself. She's like, no, 106 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:58,160 I'm in a group. It's a group effort. I was like, 107 00:07:58,199 --> 00:08:01,160 well, you're gonna have to text your friends. And so then the rest 108 00:08:01,199 --> 00:08:03,680 of the day I'm like waiting on her. But I got the mask on, 109 00:08:03,879 --> 00:08:07,079 the gloves on, and she's like, you know, quarantine in her 110 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:11,240 room. But luckily nobody else got it, which was nice, but I 111 00:08:11,279 --> 00:08:16,879 will wasn't she also texting you like mom oh yeah, yeah. She wanted 112 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:18,959 me because she was at the house and I was at the condo and she 113 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,680 was like, can you please come here? It was very nice to feel 114 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:26,000 wanted by Natalia, Like she doesn't want me like that in a lot a 115 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:30,120 lot of times, you know, especially since she's gotten older. But she 116 00:08:30,319 --> 00:08:33,600 was like can you please come home? Please? And of course she wants 117 00:08:33,759 --> 00:08:37,120 a quick fix, like is there anything I could take to stop the nausea? 118 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,240 And I'm like, no, you just have to let it run its 119 00:08:39,279 --> 00:08:41,960 course. Yeah I don't. I'm not a run its course kind of person 120 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:46,879 either. No, she was like anything anything bad feelings, hunger, whatever 121 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:50,720 it is, but like I was yeah. And then so Wendy was like 122 00:08:52,159 --> 00:09:01,159 make her a seltza seltzer with fresh like with lime, squeezed lime and salked 123 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,000 and like mix mix that up, like get a like concentrate it, not 124 00:09:05,159 --> 00:09:07,559 dilute it with the water, but like get it, you know. So 125 00:09:07,639 --> 00:09:13,279 I she barely took a sip of it, like at first she was like, 126 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:16,320 yeah, that sounds She's laying on the floor after she just threw up, 127 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,440 and she's like yeah, that sounds good, all right, And then 128 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:20,960 I get it to her and I'm like this will help, this will help. 129 00:09:22,039 --> 00:09:26,679 Nothing. Then I got her mmatrol at the store and but I don't 130 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:30,559 know if that stopped it or if it would just ran its course by then. 131 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,679 Because I didn't, I was like desperate for something. And then I 132 00:09:33,759 --> 00:09:37,679 call like her pediatrician. They're like, no, we don't prescribe anything unless 133 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:41,120 you want to take her to the urgent care, you know, And of 134 00:09:41,159 --> 00:09:45,200 course she doesn't want to go to urgent care. She's like in bed, 135 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:48,799 doesn't want to move, throwing up every forty five minutes. You know. 136 00:09:50,159 --> 00:09:56,039 Oh it was awful, But but that wasn't the sad part of my week. 137 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:00,759 The sad part was when I got to Denver. Did I tell you 138 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:05,679 that? So we are doing a big push between now and Thanksgiving to sell 139 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:09,559 the house. We lowered the price, more open houses like every weekend, 140 00:10:11,039 --> 00:10:16,840 right, and uh, the realtorn Adam came up with the idea of sending 141 00:10:16,919 --> 00:10:20,200 Phil to a oh right, doggy daycare? Did I talk about this? 142 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:26,639 You did? What happened? So what happened happened was I feel like Phil 143 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:30,200 is inappropriate to go? What happens? I know? So when I got 144 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:35,240 to Denver, Uh, I Olga called and she was like, okay, 145 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,279 so just so you know, I dropped Phil off and I was like what 146 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:41,159 already, Like, wait, I wanted to drop him off. Well, 147 00:10:41,279 --> 00:10:46,399 this week we're getting the house ready because the open house is this weekend. 148 00:10:46,879 --> 00:10:50,399 This was on a Monday that she dropped him off. And apparently it's at 149 00:10:50,399 --> 00:10:54,559 a house up by our house. It's a it's a it's not a facility. 150 00:10:56,039 --> 00:10:58,720 So it's like a bunch of dogs at a home with a husband and 151 00:10:58,759 --> 00:11:03,960 wane that runs the business, okay, which is nice. And they don't 152 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,679 sleep in cages or anything. They sleep on dog beds. They just flop 153 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:11,919 out. Okay, that makes me feel better. Yeah, and it's really 154 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:13,679 close to our house. It's in our neighborhood. It's a house in our 155 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:18,879 neighborhood. But still, I'm like, Phil's gonna think that Olga just like 156 00:11:18,039 --> 00:11:22,840 dropped him off somewhere. Yeah, he doesn't like and now I'm not gonna 157 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:26,000 be back for like two days three, you know. And then I was 158 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,159 like, well, I'm gonna go get him and bring him to my condo 159 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:31,600 when I'm at my condo and OLDA is like, no, don't do that. 160 00:11:31,639 --> 00:11:33,759 You're gonna screeze, don't mess with him like he's gonna I'm like, 161 00:11:33,879 --> 00:11:37,519 I'll be the judge. Of that, well, I'll figure it out. 162 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:43,120 Like so yesterday I went and sprung him for the day because we had to 163 00:11:43,159 --> 00:11:46,440 do open house. So I went and picked him up and brought him to 164 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,879 my condo and I could not wait to see him. I was so excited. 165 00:11:48,879 --> 00:11:52,879 I'm like, he's gonna think like, what the like everybody forgot about 166 00:11:52,919 --> 00:11:56,240 me or who? Like as soon as he saw me, he was like, 167 00:11:56,279 --> 00:12:01,279 wait what He's like, I don't want to eve where are we going? 168 00:12:01,799 --> 00:12:05,120 He was like really, I thought he was gonna be like like so 169 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:11,679 excited, wagging his tail wagon. He was just like he was really tired 170 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:13,919 though, as soon as he got in my car, he starts snoring. 171 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,600 He was out. He was very tired, Like I could tell, like 172 00:12:16,639 --> 00:12:22,679 he probably hasn't slept because he's overstimulated. Overstimulates, not used to that, 173 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:30,039 and he is used to sleeping with me or with Sonny like a human you 174 00:12:30,039 --> 00:12:33,840 know. And so anyway, and then I took him to the conda. 175 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:35,600 I took him for a walk, and he was tired. He did not 176 00:12:35,639 --> 00:12:37,879 want to have a walk, He just wanted to go, and like he 177 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,159 just slept for pretty much the whole but I cuddled with him. And it 178 00:12:41,279 --> 00:12:45,519 was so nice to see him. And he did lose weight, he got 179 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:48,039 skinnier, really, yeah, and it's because I give him a lot of 180 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:54,759 scraps throughout the week and treats, and I don't think that they they do 181 00:12:54,840 --> 00:13:00,279 that there, but but yeah, he's And then when I dropped him back 182 00:13:00,279 --> 00:13:03,759 off, he like ran like as soon as he heard the lady's voice, 183 00:13:03,039 --> 00:13:07,360 he just like started wagging his tail and like ran right at her. And 184 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:11,720 I was like, all right, by Phil, Wow, motherfucker. Yeah 185 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:16,679 interesting. Yeah, so he's having a good time. He's having a good 186 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:22,080 time, but but I do miss him and he's gone and from now until 187 00:13:22,159 --> 00:13:28,480 a week before Thanksgiving. I remember when the first time I dropped Penelope off 188 00:13:28,519 --> 00:13:33,200 and we've had her for a while at this guy who kind of did the 189 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,240 same thing. He like was boarding her. He had like six other dogs 190 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:39,559 on the property that dogs could sleep a similar situation. Yeah, I think 191 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:45,960 we'd gone to maybe that's when we went to Canada. Yeah, and then 192 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:50,240 we came home and I went to go get her and yeah, nothing like 193 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:56,679 didn't you. She was very like underwhelmed day Yeah, oh my god, 194 00:13:56,720 --> 00:14:00,840 I was nervous. He was like seeing an ex boyfriend on the fanc you 195 00:14:00,879 --> 00:14:03,399 know, or you know, being reunited. I was like having butterflies to 196 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:05,919 see her. I was like, and she was like, ugh, hey, 197 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,720 yeah, that's She came over like as if I was any like a 198 00:14:09,759 --> 00:14:13,840 neighbor or somebody, like, she came over for a pat But she wasn't 199 00:14:13,879 --> 00:14:16,000 like freaking out. No. I thought Phil would be freaking out, like 200 00:14:16,519 --> 00:14:20,320 when you see those videos where like the guy comes home from the military has 201 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:24,720 been gone for two years and the dog just like loses her fucking mind. 202 00:14:24,039 --> 00:14:28,919 That's what I was a picture right right, I was like, Phil, 203 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:33,240 where's my parade? I know? Now, wag that tail, here's my 204 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:37,440 You didn't leave me, You're said, no, no, oh, that 205 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:41,440 just goes to show you has more fun over there. But now it's good. 206 00:14:41,519 --> 00:14:45,960 And she sent me a picture the other night of he was laying on 207 00:14:46,159 --> 00:14:48,799 the guy, her husband's feet as he was cooking in the kitchen, which 208 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:52,759 is something that he does when I'm at home, not when Olda is there, 209 00:14:52,759 --> 00:14:54,519 because he's not allowed in the kitchen when she's there, but when I'm 210 00:14:54,559 --> 00:14:58,159 there. That's what he lays on my feet when I'm standing in the kitchen 211 00:14:58,639 --> 00:15:01,039 and just like looks up at you like, are you gonna pet me? 212 00:15:01,279 --> 00:15:05,039 Right? Right? Right? So's are you gonna drop food? Yes? 213 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:09,519 Exactly. I had a similar thing happened to me. The guy that I 214 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:13,320 used to work with that I had to give Ringo to when I gave him 215 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:16,480 up moved up north to San Francisco. Well, he recently moved back and 216 00:15:16,639 --> 00:15:20,000 we both did an episode of Sonny's podcast. We were on the Fantasy Football 217 00:15:20,039 --> 00:15:22,879 podcast together and I was like, oh, bring Ringo, bring him to 218 00:15:22,919 --> 00:15:26,039 the studio. I'm gonna get to see him again. It's gonna be great. 219 00:15:26,039 --> 00:15:28,960 And I bought him a toy and he gets out the car and I 220 00:15:28,039 --> 00:15:31,840 get out and I'm like, Ringo, it's me nothing. Who were you? 221 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:35,639 I don't yeah, I don't know, Yeah, don't care. What's 222 00:15:35,639 --> 00:15:41,519 what these dogs so sad? Oh? Well, I know that is not 223 00:15:41,799 --> 00:15:46,279 the TikTok response that I was helping for. The upload that video and get 224 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:50,320 you know, a huge following from it. 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He got a like a 250 00:17:53,039 --> 00:17:56,720 trophy. Why everything. Yeah, he was there all day long. He 251 00:17:56,759 --> 00:18:02,880 said it was really fun. You watch you didn't watch it. No, 252 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:08,480 parents weren't invited. Apparently he was in a novice category because he'd never done 253 00:18:08,519 --> 00:18:14,000 it before. And sometimes I think when the kids have been doing it a 254 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,799 few times, parents can be judges. But no, there's no like you 255 00:18:17,839 --> 00:18:21,039 can't like, there's no bleachers, you can't sit and watch. Thank god. 256 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:23,440 Yeah right, it's true. I was like, oh I can't come. 257 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:27,960 Oh no, are you sure could you double? Oh? I can't 258 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:34,000 for sure. Oh darn it. Goshall love when that happens. And I 259 00:18:34,039 --> 00:18:37,559 didn't have to drive him or pick him up. Oh I know, I'm 260 00:18:37,599 --> 00:18:42,359 loving life first time ever. Like the he was doing a duo thing and 261 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:45,240 the girl's mom came and got him because he had to be there at eight 262 00:18:45,279 --> 00:18:49,119 am in Santa Clarita. Oh, girl's mom came by, picked him up 263 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:55,640 at seven thirty bye, and then to come home. Another friend that was 264 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:57,880 there, the dad kind of knows him and was like, oh, do 265 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,680 you need to ride home? Nice and he was like, hey, I 266 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:06,480 got a ride home. I was like, oh Christmas, I know, 267 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:10,599 right, I know what are they gonna do for? Are they going to 268 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:17,759 go trick or treating or anything? So every year my kids have kind of 269 00:19:17,839 --> 00:19:22,519 like had people over because we have the neighborhood for trick or treating. It's 270 00:19:22,519 --> 00:19:25,559 not that it's so fancy or the houses are big and people give out full 271 00:19:25,599 --> 00:19:30,079 sized candy bars. It's just that it's a compact, like very sweet, 272 00:19:30,839 --> 00:19:33,039 very neighborhoody neighborhood. You know, I don't know if you've heard, but 273 00:19:33,079 --> 00:19:37,599 we have block parties. Yeah. So They're just having a bunch of school 274 00:19:37,599 --> 00:19:42,000 friends coming over and I'm gonna like order pizza and get them, you know, 275 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:45,359 order some snacks, make them a little dinner, and I have probably 276 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:49,079 like ten kids will come over and maybe they'll go trick or treating. I 277 00:19:49,079 --> 00:19:55,519 think they might take their xanders, you know, Lylela crocodile. Yeah, 278 00:19:55,559 --> 00:19:59,920 his younger sister. So the mom will probably bring her kids over and then 279 00:20:00,039 --> 00:20:03,319 the kids, the older kids will probably take her or chair. That's cute. 280 00:20:03,599 --> 00:20:07,039 Yeah, that's a good excuse to go trick or treating. Yeah, 281 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:11,920 yeah, so what about your kids? And I'm like, no, they 282 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:15,519 went to a party over the weekend. They went to the same party. 283 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:18,720 Sonny was dressed. He was like, I'm so glad I dressed the way 284 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:23,799 I dressed because everybody was freezing. He dressed as a snowboarder, boring like 285 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:30,319 he wore like his big goggles, like a helmet and like a big parka. 286 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:33,519 Okay, that's really original thing. That's what my friend would do every 287 00:20:33,599 --> 00:20:37,559 year, except he would just be like a dead snowboarder. So whatever it 288 00:20:37,599 --> 00:20:41,279 was, he would just put like bullet holes on and or whatever. Yeah, 289 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:44,200 a dead hockey player. He was a sports guy, so you'd be 290 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:48,000 like a dead football player, a dead hockey player. That's what he should 291 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:51,000 have done. Last year. He had a good costume. He was Sonny 292 00:20:51,039 --> 00:20:55,640 Corleone. After he went through the toll booth. Remember he had all the 293 00:20:55,759 --> 00:20:57,799 bullet holes, and I told him I would help him do it again. 294 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:00,519 He's like, nah, I don't need to go through all that Casha again 295 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:07,759 just to go to a party. And then Natalia, Natalia and her friends, 296 00:21:07,039 --> 00:21:12,319 surprise, surprise, were like cute superheroes. She was wonder Woman. 297 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:18,920 Her other friend was I don't know, somebody a superwoman. I don't know 298 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:23,960 whatever. Oh oh Charlotte, No, what's the Carley Quinn? Yeah? 299 00:21:25,039 --> 00:21:30,119 Her and then two girls were like race car drivers, you know, with 300 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:36,319 the boostia and everything, like they're getting ready at my house. I love 301 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:37,640 that, you go, you know race car drivers, you know with the 302 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:44,359 boostia. You know how female race car drivers they don't wear jumpsuits. They 303 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:48,319 were boosting. Everybody knows that exactly, that's what they were wearing. These 304 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:52,400 two girls, Like I was like, what are you guys? You know, 305 00:21:52,559 --> 00:21:56,119 like they did have some kind of zip up jacket but with the red 306 00:21:56,119 --> 00:22:00,160 boostia underneath. It right, and then like the boots and stuff. I 307 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:03,319 was like, okay, yeah, that's how Ari from the Bachelor's dressing just 308 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:07,920 like that, you know. And then they so they went to the same 309 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:12,160 party and then we went. I went to a party Saturday night with my 310 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:19,599 friends from ABC and stuff. Okay, my ABC girls and that party. 311 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:25,400 It was kind of a it was like, uh, the the theme was 312 00:22:25,519 --> 00:22:30,400 college okay, because they had a kid that just left for college. So 313 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:34,319 there was like, you know, cheerleaders, dead cheerleaders. There was uh, 314 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:38,799 my friends. Two of my friends dressed like Animal House, like Belushi 315 00:22:38,799 --> 00:22:44,599 and they had a sweatshirt the sweat There was a lot of like toga, 316 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:48,400 you know, people dressed like you know, you know, Greek life stuff 317 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:52,599 like that. Me Suzanne, we just wore it like a cap and gown 318 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:59,039 we got on Amazon and this freaking hat falls off all the time constantly. 319 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:03,400 But that was fun, and uh, that's all we did, like over 320 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:07,720 the weekend. But it felt like Halloween weekend, you know, because there 321 00:23:07,799 --> 00:23:11,920 was a party to go to. But it's kind of a dud. But 322 00:23:12,039 --> 00:23:15,960 it was fine. But now tomorrow's it's tomorrow, right, It's Halloween. 323 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:21,319 Yeah, yeah, they'll probably like, I'm like Natalia's friend, her boyfriend 324 00:23:21,319 --> 00:23:23,759 will probably come over. They'll watch like a scary movie. Was the Exorcist 325 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:30,680 on TV or on probably stream it now? Or is it making a come? 326 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,799 I see it like billboards for it. There's a new Exorcist of that? 327 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,200 Oh? Is that what that is? Every I feel like every year 328 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:38,799 there's like a new Exorcist. But yeah, they released another new one this 329 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:42,880 year. Oh I thought it was the classic that got released. Maybe it's 330 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:47,000 re released, Like, hey, come to the Hollywood Cemetery and watch the 331 00:23:47,039 --> 00:23:49,440 Exorcist. They do that sometimes. But there's also another Have you seen the 332 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,240 billboards for it? I've seen the billboards for the new one. Oh is 333 00:23:52,279 --> 00:23:55,680 that the new So it's a new one. There's a new one. Yeah. 334 00:23:56,160 --> 00:24:00,559 Oh where there's like there's like two possessed children instead of just one. 335 00:24:00,839 --> 00:24:11,440 Oh jesus, My kid's school starts late on Wednesdays and Fridays, so they 336 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:15,039 don't have to be at school until nine to twenty. So that's better. 337 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,240 That's so, you know. I'm like, oh, yeah, did you 338 00:24:19,319 --> 00:24:23,559 finish watching The Fall of the House of Ushers? Yeah, yes, it 339 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,240 did. Was it good? It was pretty good? Yeah, it was 340 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,559 Yeah. I always say, like when there's horror movies, there's kind of 341 00:24:30,559 --> 00:24:33,759 like different categories of horror movies. Some are scary, some are just violent, 342 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,920 some are disturbing, some are more creepy. This one kind of has 343 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:41,240 a little bit of all of those things. Really. Yeah, it's violent, 344 00:24:41,519 --> 00:24:44,880 there's disturbing parts, there's scary parts, there's creepy parts. So it's 345 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,880 kind of a mix of all of those things. And yeah, I was 346 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:52,160 very skeptical after this director's last couple yeah shows, but I think this is 347 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:56,240 his best one since The Haunting of Hillhouse. Not as good, not nearly 348 00:24:56,279 --> 00:24:57,640 as good, but but I was happy with it. Stephanie, you got 349 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:02,680 to watch The Haunting a Hillhouse so good, so I started watching it, 350 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:07,720 Yeah, and it was fine. I wasn't an it's a little hard to 351 00:25:07,759 --> 00:25:11,599 follow. I can't remember it's a while since I. Yeah, I feel 352 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,519 like there's time jumps, you know how I do it. There are time 353 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,759 jumps, yeah, but that's kind of yeah, I mean there is, 354 00:25:18,839 --> 00:25:22,079 but that's kind of the point of the show too, you know, they 355 00:25:22,079 --> 00:25:26,799 don't tell you everything until you see both of the times kind of play out 356 00:25:26,799 --> 00:25:30,279 a little oh yeah, Yeah, twists and reveals, But you know how 357 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:33,240 I do with stuff where I'm like, wait, am I supposed to know 358 00:25:33,279 --> 00:25:36,920 that? Are we supposed to know what happened here? Like what you know? 359 00:25:37,039 --> 00:25:38,680 I have to watch it with John so he can say like, no, 360 00:25:38,759 --> 00:25:41,319 we're not supposed to know that yet, or so he can say like, 361 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:47,359 yeah, where you are? Did the thing happened? Every time I 362 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:51,079 watched movies it, I might as well be stoned, but I'm not, 363 00:25:51,279 --> 00:25:53,079 but I might as well be because I'm like, did that happen? Do 364 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,960 we know who this guy is? Has this character been introduced? Like where 365 00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:00,920 that gout come from? I used to be I did. My Suzanne and 366 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,640 Wendy would always like hate watching movies with me because I would be like, 367 00:26:04,039 --> 00:26:08,359 you know, because sometimes I zone out, you know right, They'll say 368 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,839 something in the movie and I'll go like, oh shoot, I forgot to 369 00:26:11,839 --> 00:26:15,759 pick up the thing at the for Natalia I was supposed to make the appointment. 370 00:26:15,799 --> 00:26:18,799 And then I start thinking about that and then there and then I'm like, 371 00:26:18,799 --> 00:26:23,000 wait, what what's going on? Like completely same? Yeah, do 372 00:26:23,039 --> 00:26:27,079 you think this is like an attention deficit disorder thing? I think so I 373 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,839 will do that. I this is the same reason I have trouble reading books, 374 00:26:32,039 --> 00:26:37,279 yes, even listening or reading whatever, because I will be reading and 375 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:41,400 the whole page I'll have read two pages, all with my eyes, not 376 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,200 with my brain. You know too, I'm having a whole other thing happening 377 00:26:45,279 --> 00:26:48,680 in my brain. I'm making a grocery shopping list, I'm thinking about things 378 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:52,079 people I have to call, and then all of a sudden, I'm like, 379 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,240 wait, I don't I have no idea what will happen on the last 380 00:26:55,279 --> 00:26:59,200 few pages? Right? And then you gotta go back? Yes, Or 381 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,920 I'll watch something it's an hour and it'll take me like three hours because I 382 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:04,720 have to pause it, I go get something to eat, come back, 383 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:10,039 rewind, rewind, you know. Yeah. Yeah. When I'm listening to 384 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:15,759 podcasts, it's it's hard because the podcasts I like are usually a storytelling format 385 00:27:17,079 --> 00:27:21,359 where you can't miss stuff. But if you're me and I'm listening, I 386 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:25,640 don't care. If I'm doing nothing else but listening, I will somehow go 387 00:27:25,799 --> 00:27:29,000 like, oh my god, I started thinking about something else. And then 388 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:33,119 I'll go I don't know where they are in the story. And sometimes I'll 389 00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,279 think, oh, nothing, probably happened major, But then I won't get 390 00:27:36,279 --> 00:27:37,480 it at the end, so I will go all the way back and I'll 391 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:41,880 be like, oh, I missed a very important plot point, like the 392 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:45,680 person died. And I'll be like, well, what happened to so and 393 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,839 so? And it's like halfway through the person freaking die. That's all what 394 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:52,759 the whole story was about. And I'll be like, oh, God, 395 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,759 okay, I guess I'll listen more careful. I can't. My brain just 396 00:27:56,799 --> 00:28:02,119 doesn't do it. No, I know, there's always something that gets triggered 397 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,799 and I just start thinking about something else. Like and also, I can't 398 00:28:04,839 --> 00:28:08,799 go grocery shopping and listen to something like I have to. I say, 399 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:14,240 I have to like either one or the other. So I'm at the grocery 400 00:28:14,279 --> 00:28:17,400 store. If I'm gonna listen to something, so I have to put it 401 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,359 on pause because you know, I got to read and stuff. I'm gonna 402 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:23,279 get distracted, I know. But then, like, actual grocery shopping is 403 00:28:23,319 --> 00:28:27,200 so boring. Do you ever just go like, how did I do regular 404 00:28:27,279 --> 00:28:33,319 activities before podcasts? Now? Because I'm like I need something else to be 405 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:37,839 going on, right, because I'm like, just oh, here here, 406 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,319 I am picking up peanut butter, putting it in my car, Like how 407 00:28:41,359 --> 00:28:44,720 boring is that? I know? Or like, you know, we had 408 00:28:44,759 --> 00:28:48,039 to clean the house and organize and get ready for the blah blah blah. 409 00:28:48,119 --> 00:28:51,680 Yeah, and then so I'm like, oh, but I got nothing to 410 00:28:51,759 --> 00:28:55,559 listen to, Like what, I gotta find something to listen to otherwise I'm 411 00:28:55,559 --> 00:28:59,359 not I'm just gonna put that chore off unless I have something to listen to. 412 00:28:59,559 --> 00:29:03,079 You know what. The worst thing is trying to vacuum, because vacuuming 413 00:29:03,119 --> 00:29:06,240 it's like, oh, I have to take a break, you can't hear 414 00:29:06,279 --> 00:29:08,240 it, or you have to try it. I'm so loud that it's just 415 00:29:08,799 --> 00:29:12,559 not comfortable right to vacuum at the same time, So you have to pause 416 00:29:12,599 --> 00:29:18,759 the podcast get the vacuuming done. At least it's motivated made because you're like, 417 00:29:18,839 --> 00:29:19,839 oh, as soon as I finish this, I can like clean the 418 00:29:19,839 --> 00:29:23,640 bathroom, right then I can get back to listening, right right. Yeah. 419 00:29:23,759 --> 00:29:26,799 Then the worst is when you're out of podcast, the worst and you're 420 00:29:26,839 --> 00:29:30,880 like, well, I'm not going to live to do anything nothing. I'm 421 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:34,200 not going to be able to organize the garage unless I have something to listen 422 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:38,519 to. So what do you guys want me to do so then you'll find 423 00:29:38,519 --> 00:29:45,039 yourself like you're on your podcast app hitting brows and it's like, oh new 424 00:29:45,079 --> 00:29:48,440 and noteworthy, and then it's stuff that you're like, no, that's not 425 00:29:48,559 --> 00:29:52,519 up. I want there to just be how come like al our buddy al 426 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,880 algorithm, Yes, doesn't just know the stuff that I listen to and show 427 00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:00,119 me only stuff that's Stephanie Wilder tail. I would like to listen to it, 428 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,119 okay, because yes, and I know that. You can go to 429 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:06,519 a podcast and it'll say if you like this, you might like that, 430 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,759 but no, they don't know me that well. Like sometimes they'll be like 431 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,839 I like this, No, I definitely don't like that, right, how 432 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:17,559 dare you? I do that with my TV shows too, Like if you 433 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:23,759 like this, no I don't necessarily like that, then it together nothing? 434 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:30,000 Come on, come on? But uh are you? Are? You see? 435 00:30:30,119 --> 00:30:33,000 I told you I was watching The Bachelor. There was something else, 436 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:38,480 you know. I don't like as missing when people are missing. Uh so 437 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:45,480 I had lunch with Natalia's boyfriend's mom. That is like the best non sequitor. 438 00:30:45,759 --> 00:30:48,400 I don't like it when people are missing. Well, I'll tell you 439 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:52,240 what are we talking about? In podcasts? Because same, I don't like 440 00:30:52,279 --> 00:30:56,279 that either. I'm talking about like true crime. So when I had lunch 441 00:30:56,319 --> 00:31:00,920 with Natalia's boyfriend's mom, she loves true crime like I. So she was 442 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,119 giving me, you know, documentaries to wad from, Like most of them. 443 00:31:03,119 --> 00:31:06,000 I'm like, yeah, I've seen that one, I know that one. 444 00:31:06,039 --> 00:31:10,160 Whatever. And then so she texts me, Oh, she's like, 445 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:15,680 I don't like fires. She's got her a certain certain truth grounds, and 446 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,799 I'm kind of with her, right. I was telling her about us, 447 00:31:18,839 --> 00:31:22,599 like we need like it to be the closer to home, the better, 448 00:31:22,799 --> 00:31:26,359 like in our vicinity, can't be from like this, you know, early 449 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:30,920 century. Now. I don't want to listen about you know, w H 450 00:31:30,079 --> 00:31:34,200 Hill whatever, the guy that had the House of Horrors or whatever. God 451 00:31:34,319 --> 00:31:37,240 Sam right, you know, like it's got to be it's got to be 452 00:31:37,319 --> 00:31:45,640 like nineteen eighty and on forget it if it is. Yeah, I don't 453 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:49,200 want it to seem like something that was not real right at all? Right, 454 00:31:49,279 --> 00:31:52,680 too long ago, that's too long ago. They should at least have 455 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:56,079 had car phones, you know, they kind have been very big and not 456 00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:00,000 like easy to use, but they should still be a way that's on type 457 00:32:00,319 --> 00:32:02,440 yes, yes, and then so she was like, yeah, I don't 458 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:07,680 like fires. So then so she sent me a text she was like, 459 00:32:07,839 --> 00:32:12,200 I have there's one about I think it's on Amazon. I don't even but 460 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:16,599 it's about missing people, people that just like vanished. I'm not into it. 461 00:32:16,839 --> 00:32:22,200 Maybe I was gonna say no because unless they come back suddenly at the 462 00:32:22,359 --> 00:32:28,519 very end, they found them living like the kid that like the Yosemite kid, 463 00:32:28,799 --> 00:32:34,000 Remember the Yosemite murders, Remember the kid Carrie whatever that? What was 464 00:32:34,039 --> 00:32:37,759 this Larry Staer you're talking about, Yes, Stephen Stainer's brother, Carrie Stayner. 465 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,519 How they found him later on like living with the other. Oh, 466 00:32:40,559 --> 00:32:44,119 you're talking about Steven Stainer. I know, my first name is Steven. 467 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,720 Yeah. Miss kid shows back up right there and then meets a lot of 468 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:52,279 and then I like there to be like an epilogue full of twists and turns 469 00:32:52,319 --> 00:32:58,640 and tragedy, like Carrie Staanner being then found out to be the Yosemite murderer. 470 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:05,119 Yeah, and also then poor Stephen Haram like dying in a motorcycle accident. 471 00:33:05,279 --> 00:33:08,079 Oh yeah, right right, Not that I'm not saying I like that, 472 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:14,200 I'm just saying it's compelling when you know if they just come back. 473 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:17,000 Yeah, did you ever see this movie? It was like a lifetime movie. 474 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,559 Oh my god, I can't even remember who was in it, but 475 00:33:21,599 --> 00:33:28,079 you might remember the kid gets stolen the the Oh it might have been called 476 00:33:28,119 --> 00:33:32,000 like Deep End of the They might have was it based on a book Deep 477 00:33:32,079 --> 00:33:37,319 End of the Ocean. I believe there was a movie and it was like 478 00:33:37,359 --> 00:33:44,400 based on a true story where this uh they they the kid gets kidnapped early 479 00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:49,440 on, and then the family like there, everybody's looking for him. It's 480 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,400 like a typical kidnapping case. But then they don't they he's gone, and 481 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:58,599 then they they eventually do the detectives. Jeded Hirsh is in it. If 482 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,519 you look up Jed Hirsh. That's that's my only clue. Jud Hirsh plays 483 00:34:01,519 --> 00:34:05,960 a detective. And then they do find the kid at the end, and 484 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,559 he was like kidnapped, he's like living in some dirty he's like all dirty. 485 00:34:10,079 --> 00:34:15,599 And then it's like a really heartwarming ending without a trace, without a 486 00:34:15,639 --> 00:34:22,679 trace. Okay, yes, yes, so then there's like anyway if there's 487 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:27,360 a heartwarming ending, like you know, the kid gets reunited and like right 488 00:34:27,519 --> 00:34:31,519 sirens and okay, there's another movie though, that's one that I love. 489 00:34:31,559 --> 00:34:35,079 I could watch without a trace over and over because I cry at the end 490 00:34:35,119 --> 00:34:38,000 every time. Then there's another one called I want to say, Deep into 491 00:34:38,079 --> 00:34:45,119 the Ocean about where they the kid gets kidnapped, the mom feels guilty for 492 00:34:45,199 --> 00:34:49,679 years and years and years. They find the kid. He was he was 493 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:53,000 kidnapped and raised by another family. He doesn't know that, he doesn't. 494 00:34:53,119 --> 00:34:59,639 Then they he gets reunited. But now he's like like sixteen, and it's 495 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:06,079 he has trouble like fitting back into his old house. And then the dad 496 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:12,039 of the so now this is a massive spoiler alert, but he was kidnapped 497 00:35:12,039 --> 00:35:15,519 by like kind of a crazy woman, right, but the dad didn't know 498 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:20,239 somehow didn't know that she was kidnapped. Right, that's the dad who took 499 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:23,639 him, who was raised him. Now so he's like, had I get 500 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:27,480 hurt? Like the parents get him back, but he's like, I didn't 501 00:35:27,519 --> 00:35:30,000 know, like, and so then that dad loves his son too, and 502 00:35:30,039 --> 00:35:32,760 the son kind of loves his dad. So it's like, this really weird. 503 00:35:34,039 --> 00:35:37,280 Was that a true story that was based on a true story? Is 504 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,159 as far as I know, I think, So, Okay, anyway, 505 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:47,519 let's take a break, We're back. Okay, I feel like I've been 506 00:35:47,519 --> 00:35:51,840 talking a lot this episode, but I do want to tell you something. 507 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:58,079 So Elbie is in the same boat as your kids, as you know, 508 00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:04,800 reapplying to colleges. And I have to say that I have been struggling with 509 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:09,880 my personality to be controlling like I'm wanting her to be, cause she has 510 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:14,679 to rewrite. So for the UC's. I don't know if your kids are 511 00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:20,119 applying to any ucs, but there's something called Personal Insight Questions. They have 512 00:36:20,159 --> 00:36:22,960 to pick four out of eight topics and they have to write three hundred and 513 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,880 fifty words right, and it has to be good, and it has to 514 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,800 be compelling, and it has to be kind of like a story, Like 515 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:35,360 it can't just be like general like essay. It has to be like start 516 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:38,400 with a situation and how what they learned from it whatever. Anyway, she 517 00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:43,039 already did this. You know. This was last year when John and I 518 00:36:43,159 --> 00:36:45,920 had to like play hardball with her and go like, you're not leaving the 519 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:50,480 house till you've written these things. And we were like trying to go, 520 00:36:51,039 --> 00:36:52,840 you know, not just be her friend, but be her parent and make 521 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,679 boundaries. And as you know, she came in the studio and talked about 522 00:36:55,679 --> 00:37:00,519 how that did help her. Now we're a year later, She's going to 523 00:37:00,559 --> 00:37:07,679 be nineteen in like a week after you hear this episode, and I'm struggling 524 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:10,960 with I know that it's hard for her to do it again because she just 525 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,760 did it last year. But I have already talked to her. I've expressed 526 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:16,760 it to her. I've been like, you need to reach out to your 527 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:21,199 counselor, you need to start picking some topics to write about. Like I've 528 00:37:21,199 --> 00:37:24,039 done all that, and I have to let it be up to her. 529 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,920 I know what I really really want for her, which is to get into 530 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:36,559 UCLA. Yeah, she really wants to go to UCLA or Berkeley to do 531 00:37:36,639 --> 00:37:39,840 that. She has the grades for it now, and she has the you 532 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:45,559 know, she's done what it takes to make herself eligible. She did all 533 00:37:45,639 --> 00:37:49,599 that with a counselor. When she first started going to community college. She 534 00:37:49,679 --> 00:37:52,559 sat down with the counselor. They went through everything that she would have to 535 00:37:52,599 --> 00:37:58,119 do to get guaranteed admission to Santa Barbara, but also to get preferred for 536 00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,960 UCLA or Berkeley. She knows what she needs to do. She's not doing 537 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:07,400 it. She has like thirty days to get this all done, and it 538 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:13,639 has been very hard for me to go. She's an adult. Like, 539 00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,360 she's an adult, and she's capable, Like she will tell me if she 540 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:21,079 needs my help or support. She knows what's on the line, So like, 541 00:38:21,119 --> 00:38:23,280 I have to stop. I have to stop reminding her. I have 542 00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,440 to stop saying like, did you do it? Did you do it? 543 00:38:27,039 --> 00:38:30,639 As recently as last night, I was like, Hey, did the counselor 544 00:38:30,679 --> 00:38:32,840 get back to you. I made her promise to reach out to her to 545 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:37,000 the counselor. This is not the one we paid for, by the way, 546 00:38:37,039 --> 00:38:39,800 this is just the community college counselor who's in charge of transfer students. 547 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,199 Right. I was like, did you And she's like, no, not 548 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,039 yet. But if I don't hear back from her, I can go on. 549 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:50,880 There's like a zoom thing where they and I can just get assigned somebody. 550 00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,760 But in my mind, I'm like, the longer you wait, you're 551 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:57,639 not going to be able to write all these in my mind. Yeah, 552 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,880 not saying it to her, but I'm like, if you don't get into 553 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:05,280 UCLA because you didn't try, I'm going to be so sad. But that's 554 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,559 up to her, right, I mean, well, I mean it is, 555 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:12,280 but it also she's still your daughter, and like I get it, 556 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,239 you know. And if you think about when she came on the show and 557 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:19,880 she was saying, like, you know, she was so appreciative of how 558 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,559 you were on top of her, you might need to that I have been 559 00:39:22,599 --> 00:39:28,000 on top of her. Yeah, and she's still not really doing it. 560 00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:30,440 Yeah, I think I need to give her another like week or two. 561 00:39:30,639 --> 00:39:34,880 And if it gets I mean, I don't know what else I can say 562 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,920 at this point, at nineteen, I cannot just be like you're not coming 563 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:43,000 out of your room until you've done it. It's just something changes. You'll 564 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:49,639 see something changes after eighteen where you're like, they're eighteen, Like they shouldn't 565 00:39:49,679 --> 00:39:57,039 need punishment, right, The punishment will be pretty I mean, look as 566 00:39:57,159 --> 00:39:59,440 John said to me, John and I talked about it, and he was 567 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,599 like, look, worst case scenario is she goes to Santa Barbara, and 568 00:40:02,639 --> 00:40:07,000 that's a pretty good case. That's pretty still a good outcome for her, 569 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,320 Like after the disappointment, Yeah, we would both like her to go to 570 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:15,119 her first or second choice, which is not that, but she can do 571 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:19,199 it, right, And I've told her. I've been like, listen, 572 00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,360 I will hire an essay coach so that I don't have to be the one 573 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,199 involved in it. And they don't help you write the essay, but they 574 00:40:25,199 --> 00:40:29,800 can help you structure it. They can you know, they can look at 575 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:31,559 a draft, they can help you edit it. Like I'm like, I'm 576 00:40:31,599 --> 00:40:35,159 having And she was like, oh, that would be great, but like 577 00:40:35,199 --> 00:40:37,960 I'm like, okay, but you have to come up with some topics first, 578 00:40:37,079 --> 00:40:42,920 Like I'm not gonna, yeah, spend one thousand dollars for you to 579 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,639 be like, I don't know. Well, is she more like she works 580 00:40:45,679 --> 00:40:50,480 better under pressure? Yeah, well there you go. Yeah, I think 581 00:40:50,559 --> 00:40:52,800 maybe give it a little longer. She still has a little bit of time. 582 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:57,239 Yeah, I know. And I'm such a procrastinator too that it's like, 583 00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,519 who am I to be like, don't wait till the last minute? 584 00:41:00,599 --> 00:41:02,679 I mean right right, That's how I've written all my books. Yeah, 585 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:07,840 last minute. Yeah. See, so maybe that's what she's doing, And 586 00:41:07,559 --> 00:41:13,360 yeah, I would give her a little more time. All right. Do 587 00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,000 you have any other any other things you wanted to get off your chest? 588 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:22,639 Kaylin? Any more soccer games? Uh? Yeah, more soccer games. 589 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:27,440 But they've kind of been a little uneventful. Isila doesn't seem to be going 590 00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,760 after the ball quite as much anymore. She's just kind of running around in 591 00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:34,239 circles. She just follows everybody, you know, without trying to get the 592 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:40,079 ball. So you know, that's that's all the updates there. But they 593 00:41:40,119 --> 00:41:45,760 did go to like a Halloween party over the weekend. And Blake, you 594 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:47,000 know, I think I told you I wanted to do like a paw Patrol 595 00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:52,360 family costing right right right, Well, they they asked that one. They 596 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:54,320 didn't want to do that anymore. So Blake ended up being a witch and 597 00:41:54,400 --> 00:42:00,000 Iowa's Rapunzel. And so they went to their party. They got a little 598 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:05,360 school parade they're gonna do tomorrow. We carved pumpkins yesterday. That was fun. 599 00:42:05,679 --> 00:42:09,960 Ye cute. Yeah, are they in their Disney Princess Nightgown phase yet? 600 00:42:12,079 --> 00:42:15,000 Yeah? They are, Isla more so than Blake. I mean they 601 00:42:15,039 --> 00:42:19,119 have a bunch of them. You know. They have like bell I already 602 00:42:19,159 --> 00:42:22,440 had a Rapunzel one, but she needed a new one for Halloween. They 603 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:27,960 got you know, Anna and Elsa. They got them all and they like 604 00:42:28,079 --> 00:42:30,079 to just put them on for a while and run around. But definitely Isla 605 00:42:30,159 --> 00:42:36,360 more so than Blake. So cute. Elbe was had the Ariel nightgown in 606 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:42,639 one Natalia too. Ariel Ariel was the for them. Yeah, that's all 607 00:42:42,639 --> 00:42:45,199 they were all about Ariel. Yeah. You know what's funny is that they 608 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:52,199 got like a pack of princess underwear. So there's like one that's Bell, 609 00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:55,039 there's one there's the Noderella, there's one that's Rapunzel. Blake doesn't even really 610 00:42:55,119 --> 00:42:59,599 like Rapunzel, and she will fight tooth and nail for that Rapunzel underwear. 611 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:02,159 Like, they started fighting over who gets to wear the Rapunzel underwear, and 612 00:43:02,199 --> 00:43:05,360 the other day I had to tell him, like, no one gets it. 613 00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,280 That's it's both done. I had to take the Rapunzel underwear away from 614 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:12,880 him and they were very unhappy with that. Wait, so are they both 615 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:15,760 potty trained now? Then? Yeah, oh that happened. Yeah, Blake's 616 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,760 been potty trained for a while now. She had to be when she started 617 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,000 school this year. So oh, but remember you were worried about how that 618 00:43:22,039 --> 00:43:24,119 was going to happen. If that was going to happen, they wouldn't even 619 00:43:24,119 --> 00:43:29,360 go in the potty. Well, you know, Blake got trained on like 620 00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,480 a little miniature potty, right. I love when she got potty trained. 621 00:43:31,519 --> 00:43:35,400 She trains, she kind of liked the bigger potty anyway, just put put 622 00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,519 a you know, a kid's seat on there. Blake is still going in 623 00:43:37,559 --> 00:43:40,880 the little potty. So she does know how to go. But whenever we're 624 00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:45,079 out and about and she has to go potty. Uh. The other day 625 00:43:45,079 --> 00:43:47,320 I stopped at two places because she had to go potty, And once we 626 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,719 got in there and she sat down, she was like, I'm not going 627 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:55,280 in this. So she still like won't go in a normal potty, but 628 00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:59,599 she'll do it at home. And she doesn't have any accidents at school, 629 00:43:59,679 --> 00:44:04,760 so well, that's good. But I remember having to bring the potty seat 630 00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,800 with me places, and I got one that folds in half, but you'd 631 00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:12,199 have to bring like a big bag and put you literally have a potty seat 632 00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:15,639 in your bag so that if you went to the mall right, put the 633 00:44:15,679 --> 00:44:19,320 potty seat on the potty. Yeah, I wasn't. I didn't even bring 634 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,000 Pirate's Moody to the park so that they could have a snack. I was 635 00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:25,239 didn't bring in the toilet seat, but there was, Yeah, there was 636 00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:30,360 a dummied. Yes, somebody gave us one at some point to take with 637 00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:36,000 us, and I never well, see, I had to because Lbie had 638 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,960 anxiety, oh right, which even from a young age, which I didn't 639 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:45,440 know was anxiety. I just thought she was quirky. Yeah, and she 640 00:44:45,519 --> 00:44:47,760 would freak out. She didn't like bathrooms because they were noisy. They were 641 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:52,760 sometimes loud, which for me, I love a loud bathroom because I get 642 00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:55,840 pea shi so like a lot more fans and the activity the better for me, 643 00:44:57,480 --> 00:45:00,920 not for her. And she and oh my god, I just remembered 644 00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:06,119 this. She was super scared of the toilet flushing. So one time it 645 00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:09,239 was one of those automatic flushing toilets and I had her sitting on the toilet 646 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:14,519 and it flushed, and she lost her mind and started crying. So then 647 00:45:15,039 --> 00:45:19,239 I would bring Oh my god, it was a whole kashaw. I had 648 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,440 to bring a post it note so that I could put the post it note 649 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:27,519 over the That's what I did. Sensor. You did, really blake also, 650 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,880 well, they both are scared of the automatic or just the flushing of 651 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,360 a public toilet, yeah, no matter how loud it is, because they 652 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:35,760 think it's going to be loud, and one of the bathrooms I took Blake 653 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,079 to had the automatic one, so I was staring at it, going like, 654 00:45:37,159 --> 00:45:40,519 uh oh, I gotta do something here. So I tried to just 655 00:45:40,559 --> 00:45:44,199 get some tissue paper and put it in front of the little sensor. Uh 656 00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,039 huh. And she didn't even end up going so I did. It didn't 657 00:45:46,039 --> 00:45:49,480 matter, But yeah, I had to do that because I saw that that 658 00:45:49,559 --> 00:45:52,480 was going to happen and I didn't want to. If that thing had flushed 659 00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,320 while she was sitting on it, she would have freaked out. She would 660 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:58,639 have gone crazy. So yeah, oh yeah, and then and then and 661 00:45:58,639 --> 00:46:01,159 then it would take It would be a whole relearning process to get them to 662 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:06,360 like, you know, slowly, like let's just walk into the bathroom. 663 00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:08,599 Okay, let's walk close to the Okay, let's just look at the potty. 664 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:12,320 You know, I would have had to I would have been totally screwed, 665 00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:15,800 right, Yeah, So I would put the censor over it, the 666 00:46:15,199 --> 00:46:19,800 post it over the sensor, get her potty seat out, and then still 667 00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,159 have to like hold her on there. Yeah, oh my god, it 668 00:46:22,199 --> 00:46:27,920 was a nice because shah yeah yeah, all right, well guess what we 669 00:46:28,079 --> 00:46:31,760 have Gina, Kimmel, Gina Kimmel, Oh, we had her. 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