1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:16,399 I made a decision. Face sunny sum, I had what's up everybody, 2 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:20,879 it's a special Friday. We got hat trick in our studio and his lovely 3 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:26,559 studio our studio. We love it in here. Caitlin's always like, hey, 4 00:00:26,559 --> 00:00:29,679 can I bring my table? Oh? I was gonna bring a bookshelf 5 00:00:29,679 --> 00:00:33,240 of my it's our studio, but no, I got some stuff in storage 6 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:37,119 that might get you a floor mat. Patrick, I gonna get you a 7 00:00:37,119 --> 00:00:42,759 floor mat and some coasters, absolutely and stock up your mini bar. Let's 8 00:00:42,759 --> 00:00:45,039 do it. Yeah, yeah, I'm open to all of it now that 9 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:48,399 Uh yeah, we got fake grass outside. I love it looking good out 10 00:00:48,399 --> 00:00:50,799 there. You on you're on bad TV? Do you have people to get 11 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,039 a shout out? No, we don't do that. You should start doing 12 00:00:54,039 --> 00:00:56,280 that. I agree it will probably help us. Don't these people pay like 13 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,920 one hundred and eighty dollars one hundred and eighty dollars every week? Yeah? 14 00:01:00,399 --> 00:01:06,480 No a month? And yeah like ulysses exclamation point um. And Ashley, 15 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:11,519 she's so chic. And Jacob is Growley. We called Jacob Growley and he 16 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:15,840 changed his name on Facebook to Jacob Growley. He did got the cutest thing. 17 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,760 I love him so much. And Rita who rocks her bassinet um and 18 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:27,879 she rocks all of heroes children and Elizabeth Williamson's children and Athena Ginchurd's lipsticks and 19 00:01:29,079 --> 00:01:36,159 Polly Butterfield love her, love her and her missus Butterworth Si and Valerie hits 20 00:01:36,239 --> 00:01:38,760 out of the park and Katerina she is her last name is Mueller and I 21 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:42,920 always say she's got a check her Muller because I have a two mflats. 22 00:01:42,719 --> 00:01:47,159 You don't want that to get out of control. And gabb and Missy well 23 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,920 Patrick he ran into them the other night. He told me all about it. 24 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:57,159 Oh, I'll hear about it after the show. And Ee and Rebecca 25 00:01:59,519 --> 00:02:04,239 Kelly she'll take you to planned parenthood hook yeap with some birth control and uh 26 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,200 wow, I just said that straight out. That's right. Supposed to be 27 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:14,159 hip hop class Aaron who does Alicia escape from the City of elmante And let's 28 00:02:14,159 --> 00:02:20,159 see subcoffing And Sarah Stafano she's snipies on. Jennifer get up, Christa gets 29 00:02:20,199 --> 00:02:23,560 dropped. And Stephanie is a stinker wrinker. Yes she is. She's my 30 00:02:23,599 --> 00:02:27,520 favorite. I know, I remember, no Stephanie. Yeah, we love 31 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,199 her so much. Do we love all of them like they're our children? 32 00:02:30,319 --> 00:02:34,840 Yep. Yeah, so, um we're gonna. By the way, so 33 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,439 before the we heated up the mics, as they say in the business, 34 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:42,879 before the mics heated up, we were talking about, Um, we got 35 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,719 invited to go to the taping of the reunion for Love is Blind. I 36 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:51,680 just about lost my mind. Yeah we're going. We're going. We're going 37 00:02:51,719 --> 00:02:53,960 on a field track. The way this happened Islan that was talking about we 38 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:57,159 started talking about Love is Blind and she said, oh, I'm going to 39 00:02:57,199 --> 00:03:01,319 the finale and I was like, wait, whoa what back all the way 40 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:06,080 up right now? And then she was like, yeah, I'm bringing Patrick 41 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,199 and Dillon. I was like, and me please, yes, yeah, 42 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:12,919 we're going. We have to make that happen. Oh, it's it's fine. 43 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,360 Yeah. They know they need audience members from what I hear, but 44 00:03:16,039 --> 00:03:22,639 thank god they're not getting audience members that have an audience that they podcast too 45 00:03:22,759 --> 00:03:23,960 all right and could give spoilers, or they could just you know, pay 46 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:28,240 someone twenty five dollars and give them a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and have 47 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:30,919 them just be the face that they cut to with like that, Oh my 48 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:34,240 god, I can't believe you just right. Oh I can't wait. I 49 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:37,159 will sit there for six hours. I want I want all the tea. 50 00:03:37,479 --> 00:03:40,439 Yes, it's gonna be good. It's such great television. I like, 51 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:44,360 this season. Are you enjoying? It's the best season that they've ever had. 52 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,560 I haven't enjoyed reality TV this much, and honestly in years, I 53 00:03:47,639 --> 00:03:51,719 so agree. I'm like excited. I thought. I was like, I 54 00:03:51,759 --> 00:03:53,919 got jipped. I was like, I thought it was gonna go all the 55 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:58,039 way that when they dropped up four five more episodes last Friday, I thought 56 00:03:58,039 --> 00:04:00,199 I was going all the way to the altar and because I didn't look, 57 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,520 and then all of a sudden, it was like, wait, what where's 58 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:10,199 the last season? Before they dropped the the finals, the finales and them 59 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,639 not the finale but and the reunion. But they did show one at the 60 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,360 altar. You got one, So I was so on the fourth episode that 61 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,519 dropped, I was like, oh my god, Okay, who's gonna Who's 62 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:25,920 who are they gonna show? And nobody right, I know, so bummed. 63 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:29,600 But tonight they dropped the other how many more episodes? So there It's 64 00:04:29,639 --> 00:04:33,040 pretty smart of Netflix actually as opposed to just dumping ten episodes and then everybody 65 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,000 talks about it for four days and then we move on. Right, They're 66 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:40,360 stretching it over the course of a month. So it was five episodes, 67 00:04:40,439 --> 00:04:43,480 the next week, three episodes, the following week three episodes, the next 68 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:46,279 week the finale, and then the following week the reunion, in which we 69 00:04:46,319 --> 00:04:48,439 will be attending. And yeah, and at the time of our lives. 70 00:04:48,519 --> 00:04:54,560 Yeah, so I'm podcasting about it. You're Patrick, You are podcasting Cecily 71 00:04:54,600 --> 00:05:00,680 and I over on Rose Pricks just we dropped our first episode, dropped about 72 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,480 We're we're going literally episode by episode, which but what I was going to 73 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:09,680 say is that I like this show so much that I've watched every episode and 74 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,199 then I have to go back and watch it again so that I can take 75 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:15,720 notes. But I'll tell you, Patrick, especially directing this at you, 76 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,680 what I'm finding is that, like when I watched The Bachelor or whatever, 77 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,759 it's kind of torturous TV for me. Yeah, I'm not going to watch 78 00:05:21,759 --> 00:05:26,600 it anymore. I like, I don't mind podcasting about it, but it's 79 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:30,800 so freaking boring and it's two hours. Yeah, Love is Blind. They 80 00:05:30,879 --> 00:05:34,360 cram a lot of stuff it by one hour, and I noticed that when 81 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:39,279 I watched it again to take notes, I was noticing stuff that I didn't 82 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:41,879 even notice the first time. I was like, this has got to be 83 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:45,040 the only reality show ever that I've been like, Oh, watching it twice 84 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:47,240 is even better. Can I tell you what the secret sauce is? First 85 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:53,240 off, fantastic casting. There's something about I think reality TV dating shows in 86 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,319 the past, it's always been like, all we need good looking people with 87 00:05:56,360 --> 00:06:01,279 good bodies and whatnot. And I think the magic sauce here is just regular 88 00:06:01,399 --> 00:06:05,279 good looking people, right, and then you have the time to get to 89 00:06:05,319 --> 00:06:08,680 know them so that they either grow on you and you're like, oh, 90 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,759 well, he's cute, or you're like, oh my god, she's a 91 00:06:11,759 --> 00:06:20,560 horrible person. Oh my god, she's all four like Irena by the way, 92 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:24,480 Oh my god, oh my god, she had sex with every other 93 00:06:24,519 --> 00:06:30,360 contestant. What a horre. Yeah. I feel bad for your audience. 94 00:06:30,399 --> 00:06:32,680 If you're not into Love is Blind, I'd say give it a shot. 95 00:06:32,759 --> 00:06:35,120 If you haven't, or if you're not, you didn't think you'd be into 96 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:40,439 it is. It's fascinating television, Just that concept of yeah, talking to 97 00:06:40,519 --> 00:06:44,240 someone for a week behind the wall, then meeting them and then yeah, 98 00:06:44,319 --> 00:06:49,240 pretending you find them attractive or yeah, son, I mean without being too 99 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:53,800 spoilersh but I guess we have to assume people have seen it by now. 100 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,120 Yeah, can we just talk about like what we think because Lynette, before 101 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:00,480 you came in here, Patrick and I really want your thoughts. Lynette and 102 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:05,120 I were discussing whether we think so when these couples meet, So what happens 103 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:10,959 is for anybody, well happens happens happens when they're in they're in these pods 104 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:14,279 and they can talk to each other behind a screen and they don't see each 105 00:07:14,279 --> 00:07:16,480 other, but they're talking, and so they fall in love, which we've 106 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:20,759 discussed can happen? I felt I fell for my husband without ever had seen 107 00:07:20,839 --> 00:07:26,560 him or even heard his voice on the phone. Okay, yeah, I 108 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:32,959 just met him online on AOL instants up you've got mail? Yeah, so 109 00:07:32,959 --> 00:07:39,240 it was I believe it was. So. Anyway, Um, they always 110 00:07:39,279 --> 00:07:42,759 have these couples when they meet in person, so they propose to each other 111 00:07:42,839 --> 00:07:46,160 and then they come out and they see each other for the first time. 112 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:53,639 Every single time they look at each other like, oh my you are I 113 00:07:53,639 --> 00:07:59,920 am super excited and almost always not actually the case. Prayer that you find 114 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:03,040 out later that they really did find the person attractive at first sight, right, 115 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:07,920 and listen. I feel for these people because it is very shocking having 116 00:08:07,959 --> 00:08:11,839 been through it, having seen somebody that I built up months of talking to 117 00:08:11,879 --> 00:08:16,600 them and really liking them and thinking, building up this fantasy of what our 118 00:08:16,639 --> 00:08:20,040 lives were going to be like and what our wedding invitations were going to look 119 00:08:20,079 --> 00:08:24,839 like. This is really happening for these people, and they've built it up 120 00:08:24,879 --> 00:08:28,279 and then they're seeing the person. It is a shock. Yeah. So 121 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:33,320 there's some acting that it goes into, like being like great, right, 122 00:08:33,519 --> 00:08:35,960 and then later you find out like that person is not really my type. 123 00:08:37,039 --> 00:08:39,320 Yeah, you definitely hide. You have a poker face because you don't want 124 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:45,120 to look like a dickhead coming out of the gate. Famously Shake in season 125 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:48,120 to the worst season by the Want a sophomore Slump Shaking, that beautiful Indian 126 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:54,039 girl embraced her deep deep deep, grabbed a huge ass piece of her ass 127 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:56,600 and said I just love your ass or something like that. Yeah. Then 128 00:08:56,679 --> 00:09:01,200 later it was like the opposite into her at all. By the way, 129 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,159 thank god they did a real good job. So there was like multiple people 130 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:07,120 that season that got in there that just were there for Instagram. And so 131 00:09:07,159 --> 00:09:11,399 that's why season three was so much better because I enjoyed the last year and 132 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:16,039 then this year it is so great. Yeah, right, did you know 133 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,360 that? All? Right? So when they chose Seattle as their casting eric 134 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:22,840 because you know, they all got to be centrally located that they didn't have 135 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:26,000 enough people applying that they could actually put on the show. You know, 136 00:09:26,039 --> 00:09:30,159 they can tell when some girl has, you know, a two hundred thousand 137 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,919 Instagram followers and they're all pictures of a guy, girls showing their their ass 138 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:39,919 or their bodies, like you're already out. They had to also involve Portland 139 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:43,759 in Oregon just to be able to get it was wondering, Yeah, because 140 00:09:43,879 --> 00:09:46,200 Kwami is in Portland. He's in Portland, so and I didn't know this 141 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:52,679 little fun detail. They technically only cast thirty people, fifteen guys, fifteen 142 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,559 girls. So all the little pod roommates that you see running around there, 143 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:58,519 it looks like they got a hundred there, it's really just fifteen and fifteen. 144 00:09:58,639 --> 00:10:01,639 Interesting and so you got, what's what's the percentage on that? I 145 00:10:01,639 --> 00:10:05,879 mean, I guess you got a one in four shot of proposing to somebody, 146 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:09,159 right, Yeah, But it's interesting because some of the I noticed that 147 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:13,799 some of the other people that don't end up hooking up. We're like, 148 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:18,720 well, I some of the people they don't feature not attractive. Dylan and 149 00:10:18,759 --> 00:10:24,879 Patrick call them what we call them barbecue people or seat fillers. So yeah, 150 00:10:24,919 --> 00:10:28,320 they will show up on episode eight and pretend to be best friends with 151 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:31,240 some of the other members that actually got to you know, live in hotel 152 00:10:31,279 --> 00:10:35,360 rooms engaged, and then we see them for like five minutes in the never 153 00:10:35,399 --> 00:10:39,440 to be seen again, Yes, right, like the one like the one 154 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,759 guy that they showed a couple of times. It was just like to the 155 00:10:41,799 --> 00:10:46,919 Asian girls, what are you Japanese? What do you what do you Korean? 156 00:10:46,039 --> 00:10:50,000 What are you know? What do you four feet five feet tall? 157 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:52,799 And see the one with the weird ear is who oh no, that's Josh, 158 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:58,159 the good Josh who came for jack for Jackie. Yes, you know 159 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:03,759 who Stephanie's referring to is just literally that guy was cast as being the racist 160 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:09,399 dumbass right because he gets and he has no game. He's completely inappropriate and 161 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,240 all we have him. Therefore, is for the girls to return to the 162 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:15,519 woman's quarters and talk about what a douchebag is. Right, yeah, but 163 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:18,080 what if somebody like fell for that guy? Okay, I'm all right, 164 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:22,039 so so glad, Yes this again. I apologize to your audience if you're 165 00:11:22,039 --> 00:11:24,600 not gonna love his blood And it's fun to talk about. What front it 166 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:28,759 is? Irena who Even if you're not watching the show, you have, 167 00:11:28,879 --> 00:11:31,639 if you're on Facebook groups, you have to be aware of this girl. 168 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:37,120 She is Satan's great granddaughter. She who does she think she is? Yeah, 169 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:43,840 we have a theory on our podcast bad TV that she was considered cast 170 00:11:43,039 --> 00:11:48,240 as a barbecue person or a seat filler. She was never meant to make 171 00:11:48,279 --> 00:11:52,799 it to the big time, right, but she was so cunning and some 172 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:56,039 of the casts were so dumb, the male cast members, that they fell 173 00:11:56,080 --> 00:12:00,159 prey to her, And somehow she made it to the big time and right 174 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,279 right was there poor Zach. I can't imagine why any guy would have picked 175 00:12:03,279 --> 00:12:09,039 her. She was superficial. She was shout okay one the guy, Zach 176 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:13,120 has a birthday. It's his birthday. All you do all day is talked 177 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,039 to a stranger behind the wall. To get to know them. This girl 178 00:12:16,159 --> 00:12:20,440 knew it was his birthday. She's going to talk to him the next day. 179 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,919 She completely forgot it was his birthday, right right. But the other 180 00:12:24,039 --> 00:12:28,360 girl who also liked him, did remember it was his birthday. No, 181 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,840 she knew. Irina knew it was his birthday because Blizz was making cookies all 182 00:12:31,919 --> 00:12:35,240 day, right right. She was reminded like, hey, what that Sime 183 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:39,120 was pretty good with use, wasn't one of those four there for our boyfriend? 184 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:43,960 You dummy, it is not birthday. I'm making him asked to borrow 185 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,200 a candle She did so dumb. Yeah, so, but this is who 186 00:12:48,279 --> 00:12:52,919 he picked. And then she brabbed to him. She was like, yeah, 187 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:56,720 I found out it was your birthday because Bliss was making some fucking cookies 188 00:12:56,039 --> 00:13:00,879 whatever. Yeah, right, Like sorry, I didn't right, And he's 189 00:13:00,919 --> 00:13:05,159 like, oh, that's okay, and then proposes to her. Yeah, 190 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:07,279 by the way, So there is one person we think snuck in because this 191 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:11,080 was just breaking yesterday, like this is a new story. One of the 192 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:15,000 cast members. We have photos of him trying to be on the television show 193 00:13:15,039 --> 00:13:18,120 Married at First Sight, another show that I loved. I love that show. 194 00:13:18,279 --> 00:13:20,440 Yeah, Oh it was Cormet. Yep, yeah, oh really I 195 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:22,759 read that. Yeah, I think I read that on Reddit. Yeah, 196 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:26,120 he wanted to be on. He was he was, he was on. 197 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:31,679 He was trying to be unmarried at first, say oh, I don't begrudge 198 00:13:31,759 --> 00:13:33,759 him. Though they are both the same, it's kind of almost the same 199 00:13:33,879 --> 00:13:39,519 show. It's like if you thought it was married to be fair but at 200 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:43,559 thirty three. I guess if you're considering that as like, uh, because 201 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:46,559 I always looked at the way that Bachelor used to be is you're working in 202 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:50,639 the office with a you know, a bunch of your friends, and they 203 00:13:50,879 --> 00:13:54,639 go to the website and then before you know it, you sign each other 204 00:13:54,759 --> 00:13:56,080 up for it, and it's just kind of a fun thing. 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Again, that's Attitude dot com slash fcol Happy sleeping. 241 00:16:34,919 --> 00:16:38,480 Can you imagine, like eighteen ninety a guy who've been sleeping on a 242 00:16:38,559 --> 00:16:44,480 wooden beds entire life. They finally some guy walks indoors like we have cotton 243 00:16:44,559 --> 00:16:47,480 and you can sleep on it. And then like a guy from the future 244 00:16:47,519 --> 00:16:51,519 shows somebody's like, in the future, you're going to sleep on sheets made 245 00:16:51,759 --> 00:16:59,039 of wood. That's a good point. It's a good point. They're comfortable. 246 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:00,120 Yeah, yeah, that comed all right. So I don't want to 247 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:04,640 overwhelm people with the with them. But youth love is blind talk. But 248 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:10,079 do you okay? So I don't. I don't like Mica. I don't 249 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:14,079 either, and I can't stand her friend. Oh my god, I want 250 00:17:14,079 --> 00:17:18,720 to I just don't like this for you, Mica, this guy, I 251 00:17:18,799 --> 00:17:23,480 just say no, no to this guy. Just this journey is not okay 252 00:17:23,559 --> 00:17:29,359 for scientist. You know, he's still he's a piece of shit. Like 253 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,319 how like we were saying, I don't she gonna get any better? Like 254 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:36,720 what what is she looking for? You know? I mean this this chick 255 00:17:36,839 --> 00:17:38,839 was not First of all, I don't I was saying this to Lynette. 256 00:17:38,839 --> 00:17:45,720 I don't think Mica likes Kwame or Paul. I think she's just there for 257 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:49,480 She's one of those there for the followers kind of girls. She doesn't I 258 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:55,240 know she doesn't like Kwame because she's playing them both. Because okay, so 259 00:17:55,440 --> 00:18:00,240 for anybody that's if you've seen the show, So Quame does not pick me, 260 00:18:00,319 --> 00:18:04,119 likes Micah tries to pick Micah. Mica is like, UM, I 261 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:08,359 don't know, Like, I just like don't want to leave any stones unturned. 262 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:11,799 And um, I have a lot of like botox in my lips, 263 00:18:11,799 --> 00:18:15,680 so it makes it a little bit hard to move it. But um and 264 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:21,039 fillers, but um, I just want to make sure that I have explored 265 00:18:21,079 --> 00:18:26,000 all of my options before I commit to you. Very next day or hour, 266 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:29,160 she's in a pod with another guy and she's like, yeah, I 267 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:32,200 think I want to let's be together. Ye. Well, and then the 268 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:34,920 sad part is Kwame. I mean he picks Chelsea. I mean for the 269 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:38,559 rest of her life, she's your back up. Yeah, when she sees 270 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:42,920 the show, she's just gonna be like wait what. Yeah, she's gonna 271 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:47,960 get her heart broken and you could see it already. I feel bad for 272 00:18:48,039 --> 00:18:53,920 Chelsea. I'm one note on Shelby. She's a self described relationship destroy her 273 00:18:55,519 --> 00:18:57,559 like that was in quotes like really, yeah, you're supposed to be like 274 00:18:57,559 --> 00:19:03,680 a self described like bird enthusiast or something something so horrible about you, like, 275 00:19:03,759 --> 00:19:07,599 don't be proud of that. That's a bad thing. Yeah, but 276 00:19:07,759 --> 00:19:11,480 oh my god, so so so much fun. So we should definitely do 277 00:19:11,519 --> 00:19:15,440 a podcast, like maybe the last episode all all three of us are four 278 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,400 of us. That'd be fun. Yeah. Yeah, So Patrick, what's 279 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:22,799 happening with life as a dad? You got a pregnant wife. She's getting 280 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:26,519 very pregnant, very pregnant. She's like almost halfway yep, almost halfway. 281 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:30,000 How's she feeling? She doesn't like being pregnant? She really doesn't like it. 282 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:33,680 I'm like, just enjoy this, like, um, you know, 283 00:19:33,799 --> 00:19:34,960 I gotta be sense if one thing I can't say is like, hey, 284 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:37,240 I'm trying to lose weight because my face, you know, we film a 285 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:41,160 lot of the podcast, and I'm like, my face looks really read and 286 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:44,000 fat, you know, I'm a bloated irishman. And so she's like, 287 00:19:44,039 --> 00:19:45,000 I don't want to hear it. I don't want to hear it. Don't 288 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:48,200 talk about losing weight in front of me like it gets it's your trigger for 289 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:53,400 her. Um, but yeah, I have to say this. I was 290 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:56,160 gonna bring it up to one of you and ask you how he felt about 291 00:19:56,160 --> 00:20:00,519 this, not to be dark or morbid. I have had all right. 292 00:20:00,559 --> 00:20:03,519 So I've had anxiety issues, you know. I heard John talk about it 293 00:20:03,559 --> 00:20:08,640 too, you know, talking about your struggles. And it mainly started after 294 00:20:08,759 --> 00:20:11,920 college. I took Zoloft. Felt better than I said. I don't need 295 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:15,519 this anymore. Then in my late twenties, I had a few friends passed 296 00:20:15,519 --> 00:20:18,400 one in nine to eleven and another he was just running in Babboa Park and 297 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:22,279 died of a large heart. I fell into a depression. I got back 298 00:20:22,319 --> 00:20:26,240 on Zoloft, on it for six years and then off by two thousand and 299 00:20:26,279 --> 00:20:32,839 seven. I've been totally fine, no anxiety until the last three months. 300 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:34,759 I've gotten hit with it quite a bit where I wake up in the morning, 301 00:20:34,839 --> 00:20:37,839 wouldn't say it's a panic attack. So I did some research on it 302 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,640 and what it is. I'm having this thing, and I guess it's pretty 303 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:45,880 common. You guys, tell me if you feel it where you feel that 304 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:49,119 you might die, you know, and leave your kids. So you start 305 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:52,599 having this, I forget there's a word for. I should have looked it 306 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:56,160 up before. But you get really stretched out and anxious about getting older, 307 00:20:56,319 --> 00:21:00,160 and then you know, leaving loved ones behind or not leaving enough money, 308 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,880 and I just stress, especially with a I'm an old dad, I should 309 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:07,519 tell the audience. I'm forty eight years old. I have a baby coming 310 00:21:07,559 --> 00:21:11,079 in August. You know, um all a lot of my friends and peers 311 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:15,839 they're grandparents at this point. So I've been um, yeah, I think 312 00:21:15,839 --> 00:21:18,960 I might have to get back on some medication because I'm really stressing the hell 313 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:21,920 out about that. But that's normal, though, Pat, Like, first 314 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,720 of all, you have a toddler and you know, now you've got a 315 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:27,480 baby on the way, you know, and you're the dad, you're the 316 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:32,200 you know, and you're providing and you're out there working and you know, 317 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,440 it's every parent I think feels that. I know what you feel like. 318 00:21:34,519 --> 00:21:37,519 I think about that too, like, oh my god, what happens when 319 00:21:37,559 --> 00:21:41,039 we're gone and it's just sunny in Italian? Like, you know, are 320 00:21:41,039 --> 00:21:44,680 they going to be okay? And like, you know, you think about 321 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:48,160 that stuff. Yeah, it stresses me, it does. It gets stressed 322 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,720 out. Do you exercise, well, I think working with Kalin all day 323 00:21:51,759 --> 00:21:55,640 long, there's a form of that. Our job requires a lot of physical 324 00:21:56,279 --> 00:22:00,000 and being outside, so a lot of things you recommend for kind of your 325 00:22:00,079 --> 00:22:03,240 mental health, I think Kaylin and I do. Yeah, we have that, 326 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:07,559 but well that's a lot of when I started working with you and your 327 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,039 job, which at first you were just like, hey, come come work 328 00:22:10,039 --> 00:22:11,319 with me. I'll pay you for a day. And I was just working 329 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:15,119 in an office for so long, and then I was like, oh, 330 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,079 doing this like physical job out in the sun. I would finish the day 331 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:22,640 tired, but like feeling happy, like right, like I just exercise or 332 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,599 something. And I was like, oh, I like I like this feeling, 333 00:22:25,759 --> 00:22:29,519 which is why I wanted to keep doing it. Working outside is definitely 334 00:22:29,519 --> 00:22:33,000 helpful, except when it's pouring rain on you for two months straight like that. 335 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:34,880 K. Yeah, that was our past two weeks doing it. And 336 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,240 I have to say this and Stephanie, I definitely want to get your thoughts 337 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:41,440 on this if you're willing to share. But with Kaylin, I have to 338 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:45,559 tell you this guy, Kaylin, I've been friends with you for eight years 339 00:22:45,559 --> 00:22:48,119 and I've known you a very long time into you as you know, hard 340 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:52,920 worker for Corolla. I would drop Kaylin off in forty five degree raining weather 341 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:57,319 with his rain boots on and just I'll pick you up in two hours and 342 00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,960 it's literally just raining on him. Yeah, and I pick him up and 343 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:06,039 he doesn't have a complaint. That's awesome. And he always like that. 344 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:07,119 Yeah, I'm like, I told you, didn't you get in the car 345 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:11,119 and I say, you're a tough bastard. Yeah, that's good. That's 346 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:15,279 a good quality. It's I guess it's like what um like what I was 347 00:23:15,319 --> 00:23:18,839 just saying. There's something about like working really hard that it's like exercising. 348 00:23:18,839 --> 00:23:22,160 It's kind of like when I get dropped off at U Pond or I start 349 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:23,240 my day. It's like, oh, I really don't want to do this, 350 00:23:23,279 --> 00:23:26,839 but I know I'm gonna feel better when it's done. And like after 351 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,400 a job is done and you've just done it, it just makes you feel 352 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,599 better. I know I'm gonna feel that way, and uh yeah, I 353 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:34,319 want to make sure you do a good job too, you know what. 354 00:23:36,079 --> 00:23:41,200 Yeah, But it's it's exercise is so like and I shouldn't be talking because 355 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,960 I haven't been exercising and I need it. But once in a while, 356 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:48,799 ago on the hike Freeman, or I'll go around my neighborhood. I haven't 357 00:23:48,839 --> 00:23:52,039 gone to the gym, but it feels so much bad. You feel like 358 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,720 that anxiety, that anxiousness, I get it out, you know, it's 359 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,519 it feels good. You know, you don't think about it. But exercise 360 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:07,960 is so I don't know, and drinking maybe would help. Do Have you 361 00:24:07,079 --> 00:24:11,680 had those feelings? Of course I have, Yeah, But I also think 362 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,440 for you, I have a feeling that this pregnancy is a big trigger and 363 00:24:15,559 --> 00:24:21,039 not just about having another kid, but your wife also went through a miscarriage 364 00:24:21,079 --> 00:24:25,079 that was pretty traumatic and it was really hard on her and on you, 365 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:29,240 And I think that when you are having a pregnancy, there's a probably a 366 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:33,599 part of you that stays that has a background worry the whole time of like 367 00:24:33,039 --> 00:24:37,200 what if this doesn't work out or what if something happens. I don't know 368 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:41,000 how I'm going to deal with that again, right, And so you just 369 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:45,720 stay. It's kind of like a hyper vigilance probably where you're just like And 370 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:49,799 then also I think for men, having a pregnant wife is an extremely vulnerable 371 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:56,160 time because you feel like when a woman's pregnant, even if they're working. 372 00:24:56,319 --> 00:24:59,559 I don't know if she's working, but even when they're working, there's a 373 00:24:59,559 --> 00:25:03,599 time it's coming up where they won't be working and you don't know what's going 374 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,240 to happen, so like it's a lot of extra pressure on I think the 375 00:25:07,319 --> 00:25:11,799 man to like what is what's your plan? What's your income looking like? 376 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,400 And if you're having any kind of like financial insecurity, it feels even louder 377 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:21,400 and bigger, and like, I think it just takes on this thing that 378 00:25:21,839 --> 00:25:23,880 can make you feel anxious all the time. Yeah. I hadn't thought about 379 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,960 that. Yeah, yeah, it's it's normal, a lot of pressure. 380 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:32,160 Yeah, yeah, man, And I mean Caitlin has two kids. Yeah, 381 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,880 I don't say I get those thoughts all the time. I'm not even 382 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:37,119 having you know, like she just said, you have that kind of that 383 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:41,640 pregnancy that we're in the future. I just think to myself all the time, 384 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,519 Oh, what happens if like I don't come home today and that was 385 00:25:44,559 --> 00:25:47,160 the last time that I saw my kids, And I get like, really 386 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,839 anxiously, why why am I think? Why is that thought popping into my 387 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,920 head? It's making me sad? But it does all the time. I'm 388 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,160 constantly thinking like, oh, that could happen, that could happen. I 389 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,359 could have a heart attack. Yeah. I just was like, oh, 390 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,480 this is why am I thinking this, I'd say, overall, I feel 391 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:07,240 like I'm so happy in my life right now with my family and I plays 392 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:15,680 and that is the only Yeah. Yeah, both of you guys are you 393 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:22,640 know, it's nice to have two dads in the studio. It's kind of 394 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,000 nice. Well, Caitlin and I talk all day long as we work, 395 00:26:25,039 --> 00:26:27,160 and you know, we go back and forth with ideas with the kids and 396 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:32,680 stuff, and it's nice to have that because I um got so the doctor 397 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:36,039 that gave birth to Ellie, he passed doctor Goldberg. It's weird in out 398 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,640 Los Angeles when you're watching the news and they say, oh, a bicyclist 399 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:42,359 and the Santa Monica Mountains was a bicycle and had a heart attack and had 400 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,480 to be airlifted out, and you're like, oh, I feel bad for 401 00:26:45,519 --> 00:26:47,559 that guy. And then you like get a tax She's like, hey'd you 402 00:26:47,559 --> 00:26:49,359 hear your doctor died? Oh? That was him? Oh my god. 403 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,839 So but one of the things the last piece of advice he told my wife 404 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,519 and I when we were leaving the hospital, he said, well, your 405 00:26:56,559 --> 00:26:59,119 life's going to be different. You're probably gonna be hanging out with your single 406 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:03,039 friends less and you're gonna have a lot more married friends with children, and 407 00:27:03,039 --> 00:27:06,839 it's gonna be pretty cool. That was it. Um, that was the 408 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:11,440 one constant thing that every single person told me, every parent told me before 409 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:15,119 I had kids. Was your life's gonna change? Yeah, that was the 410 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,240 one thing everybody said. Yeah, yeah, Well I don't. I think 411 00:27:18,279 --> 00:27:22,359 some people think that their life isn't gonna change. I think the oh, 412 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,480 I'm just gonna have a kid, but it'll be it'll be. Yeah, 413 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,799 I know it won't be. Well, I lived my life so selfishly for 414 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,839 the better part of forty years. For me, this is actually a real 415 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:37,200 shock to you know. I remember the first uh, like the first week 416 00:27:37,279 --> 00:27:40,240 after Ellie was born. I was like, hey, honey, um, 417 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:45,880 Greg wants enough and go get beers at Laurel Tavern. No, you can't 418 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:49,839 go out. You're dummy, right right, Yeah, now, I know, 419 00:27:51,079 --> 00:27:53,640 but it's exciting, but it is, you know, it is. 420 00:27:53,759 --> 00:27:57,319 It can be stressful, and it's it's interesting to hear the dad's side of 421 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:03,559 the stress. All right, So what you was your favorite little time period 422 00:28:03,599 --> 00:28:06,720 of age? Like, I'm starting to hear that it's between five and seven. 423 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,440 Oh my god, I was just gonna say five is when I really 424 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:15,559 started liking Elbie. Yeah, I'm not even kidding. I think it's like 425 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:19,839 sixteen months is when I was like, oh, I get it, Like 426 00:28:21,039 --> 00:28:23,640 I don't think I was. I mean I was. I don't think I 427 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:29,519 was super bonded. I was. I had all the primal like, oh 428 00:28:29,519 --> 00:28:30,519 my god, I love my baby. I want to take care of her. 429 00:28:30,559 --> 00:28:33,640 I will guard her with my life. I will stay up all night 430 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:37,240 obsessing about what if something happens to her. But I don't know if I 431 00:28:37,279 --> 00:28:41,640 liked it, like if I felt like And I remember at around sixteen months, 432 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,799 when she was walking and like starting to talk, I was like, 433 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,440 oh my god, I want to eat her face. I want to just 434 00:28:48,599 --> 00:28:53,240 grab I want to just inhale her. She's so fucking cute and so funny 435 00:28:53,319 --> 00:28:56,839 and like already funny, like you know. And that's when I was like, 436 00:28:56,160 --> 00:29:00,480 Okay, I kind of like this. But at five is when I 437 00:29:00,519 --> 00:29:03,640 was like, okay, now we're talking. When they know, when they 438 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,440 know that if they're gonna go into the street, they're gonna get hit by 439 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:11,039 a car, it's that's that when they start becoming more like and they get 440 00:29:11,079 --> 00:29:15,759 easier too, you know, And that's when you can start negotiating with them 441 00:29:15,799 --> 00:29:18,359 and joking with them, and you know, like, yeah, five I 442 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:22,640 have they're like a whole person because they're starting kindergarten and you're like Elbie had 443 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:27,079 all kinds of like very interesting thoughts about things at five. Also, I 444 00:29:27,119 --> 00:29:30,640 just remember it was the moment that I was like, oh, Aaron's are 445 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,079 more fun with her now than without her before. It was it was this 446 00:29:34,359 --> 00:29:38,359 threshold where I was like I will do anything to have somebody else watch her 447 00:29:38,359 --> 00:29:42,359 while I just run to the grocery store because it's it was up until five, 448 00:29:42,559 --> 00:29:47,759 it was more work to have her with the sack and the yeah, 449 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,400 just like you don't know when they're gonna have like a little tantrum and whether 450 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,240 they're gonna be whining at you or whether they need a nap. And then 451 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:57,279 at five, magically it was like oh she's cool. Yeah, like oh 452 00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:02,480 do come And she was like fun, Patrick, do you do things like 453 00:30:02,519 --> 00:30:04,799 that on the weekend with Ellie? You taker? I tried to take Blake 454 00:30:04,839 --> 00:30:07,880 out to do errands with me the other day, thinking like, oh I 455 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,599 was in school, I gotta kill like for come on, Blake, you 456 00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:15,000 can just come with me to go to the car shop, at the home 457 00:30:15,039 --> 00:30:18,000 depot, and about halfway through home depot, she was I go, Okay, 458 00:30:18,039 --> 00:30:22,839 maybe this isn't working. I always hated home deep when I was k 459 00:30:23,079 --> 00:30:26,960 Now I'm there constantly. Yeah. I want both of you to know as 460 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:30,519 parenting podcasters, world class podcasters, you have definitely helped me and set me 461 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:36,160 up because I do there's moments where your wisdom from back in the day we're 462 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,799 talking six years ago, it will hit me in the head. One was 463 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:44,640 Lynette had said you guys were talking, you said the weekends are the work, 464 00:30:44,839 --> 00:30:48,559 not the weekdays, and that could not be true. Thank god you 465 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:52,319 said that, because when we got hit with no nannies or no family helping, 466 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,960 and that Saturday morning at seven thirty starts the day and you're like, 467 00:30:56,000 --> 00:31:02,440 I gotta entertain this little fucker. Two is such an awkward age or like, 468 00:31:02,599 --> 00:31:04,599 because you're like, there's not a lot of stuff that they like to 469 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,759 do and they have a super short attention st So even if you're like you 470 00:31:07,839 --> 00:31:11,640 have to have a whole day of like, all right, we're gonna go 471 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,759 to the ninety nine cents store. I'm gonna let you lose the ninety nine 472 00:31:14,759 --> 00:31:18,240 cent stor is so great. Yeah, go loose in the twist section. 473 00:31:18,319 --> 00:31:22,200 Yeah, and if you travel with them, go to the ninety nine cent 474 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,119 store buy a bunch of shit and then just give it to them like every 475 00:31:25,119 --> 00:31:26,960 hour as a new gift, Like here's a straw. Yeah, yes, 476 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,079 and they're like and they're like wow for two seconds. Right, So, 477 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,119 I think what you guys are breaking down is how the f do I fill 478 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:37,720 a day with these things that just keep them busy so I can get make 479 00:31:37,759 --> 00:31:40,720 it to noon, then make it to the nap. They wake up from 480 00:31:40,759 --> 00:31:41,599 the nap, Let's get them some lunch, all right? How do I 481 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:48,519 kill from five to seven so I can get a glass of goddamn? Yeah? 482 00:31:48,559 --> 00:31:52,559 It's uh, that's been one of the challenges, especially having been able 483 00:31:52,599 --> 00:31:56,799 to live life on my terms for so long. You get into the habits 484 00:31:56,839 --> 00:32:00,559 of being so selfish that you do need to get into that mode of selflessness 485 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,039 and I just go, look, I'm going to be really bored for three 486 00:32:04,039 --> 00:32:06,440 hours, and oh, here's something that you said. Hey, maybe I 487 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:07,960 don't want to go out in the backyard and throw the ball back and forth 488 00:32:08,039 --> 00:32:10,160 for an hour. I don't want to do this. That's something I remember 489 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:15,200 you saying and yeah, all those things are true, and then I also 490 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,960 remember you guys yes talking. Once you get past that, like four or 491 00:32:19,079 --> 00:32:21,720 five, it starts to get kind of kind you get out of the mail 492 00:32:21,799 --> 00:32:24,079 room, and then they start getting invited. Your kids starts getting invited to 493 00:32:24,119 --> 00:32:28,359 do shit, like on the weekends. You're gonna because once they're in school, 494 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,599 elementary school, almost every weekend or every few weekends, you're going to 495 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,839 get invited to your birthday party. And then you have something built in to 496 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,480 do. So one of you guys can take the kid there and there's two 497 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:44,839 hours right there at Chucky Cheese or at whatever, at the indoor playground, 498 00:32:44,839 --> 00:32:47,599 whatever it is. It's something for them to do. It's cake, they're 499 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:52,039 running around, somebody else is watching them. You can chat with other parents. 500 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,640 Have you have you met like any other parents? Like are you it's 501 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,680 hanging out yet? One set of parents and they were just here on Saturday. 502 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,440 It was such a fun day. We went to the to the zoo 503 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:05,279 with the kids and then came back here and had lunch and it killed the 504 00:33:05,279 --> 00:33:07,720 whole Saturday. And I'm like, this is what life on the weekends can 505 00:33:07,799 --> 00:33:10,200 be like. Okay, So My wife and I have had a hard time 506 00:33:10,559 --> 00:33:14,799 bonding with fellow parents, and I think a lot of that has to do 507 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,279 with coming out of you know, the pandemic and stuff, and I think 508 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:22,119 people are still just a theory kind of relaxing and settling into, you know, 509 00:33:22,519 --> 00:33:24,920 hanging out with strange people they don't know or la And you, guys, 510 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:29,119 tell me, if this is your experience, it seems like, I 511 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,240 don't know, people wait so long to have kids that by the time they're 512 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:36,680 in their mid thirties they're not interested in new friends. They already have their 513 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,359 proper friends. So you go to the birthday party at Chuck E Cheese and 514 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:44,720 there's pleasantries and there's small talk, but there's no Hey, let's exchange numbers 515 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,160 and I we're having a pool party on Saturday. We have not experienced that 516 00:33:47,319 --> 00:33:51,720 yet, right, And my wife thinks it's just that people don't like her. 517 00:33:53,039 --> 00:33:59,279 She already got in a fight with Stephanie at school. So my wife 518 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,559 I was there this, Yeah, he was there when Patrick started going email 519 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:09,559 there arguing arguments with other parents are legend, stephan So my wife takes the 520 00:34:09,639 --> 00:34:17,719 job of her my daughter's class, the Grasshoppers, they're doing a fundraiser for 521 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:22,800 for raise money for the tricathon or something. I don't know. So I 522 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,760 was doing tomorrow, That's what I'm going. Yeah, it's like a like 523 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:29,079 a race, you know, they don't know what they're doing. I'm doing 524 00:34:29,119 --> 00:34:31,480 that tomorrow. So my wife's in charge of raising the money for the grasshoppers. 525 00:34:31,519 --> 00:34:36,119 Are competitors are the fireflies, the owls and whatever, the fox the 526 00:34:36,119 --> 00:34:39,519 foxes, lady bugs. So yeah, ladybugs. So we have twelve kids 527 00:34:39,519 --> 00:34:43,320 in the class. My wife is very competitive, and now I'm like, 528 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,519 oh my god, we are those parents. You become those people that used 529 00:34:45,559 --> 00:34:51,400 to mock and laugh like why are you like in the HBO series Big Little 530 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:55,199 Lies, where you're so obsessed on the politics of you know, kindergarten class. 531 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:59,440 And so my wife sends out an email, Hey, guys, we're 532 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:05,199 behind ladybugs and the foxes. We need We're doing okay, but we could 533 00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:08,639 do better. A guy fire A father fires off an email. I just 534 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:13,559 sent five hundred dollars. That's not good enough. Exclamation point explanation for five 535 00:35:13,599 --> 00:35:15,159 hundred dollars is a lot of money. Hey, we matched it. It's 536 00:35:15,199 --> 00:35:17,400 a lot of money. We have to beat the Ladybugs and the Foxes. 537 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:22,519 So, oh my god, they don't play. I donated like six hundred 538 00:35:22,559 --> 00:35:28,000 dollars worth of wine for that fundraiser thing. So and it's all one upmanship. 539 00:35:28,039 --> 00:35:30,119 You know, I'm getting I'm getting totally getting hit. This has got 540 00:35:30,119 --> 00:35:32,280 to be a fancy preschool. I'm not at that fancy. It's first Baptist 541 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:37,719 over on col II hundred dollars. Either way, I can run over there 542 00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,880 if there's ever an emergency when I'm at the conduct can Yah, yeah, 543 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,079 that's right, all right, might call you on that time. You're gonna 544 00:35:44,079 --> 00:35:49,559 regret that. So she uh so, anyway, she's deeply offended by this, 545 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:52,000 and then she fires back, well you know, I didn't mean it 546 00:35:52,079 --> 00:35:53,760 that way, and gets no response from this guy. So we're at the 547 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:59,800 tricathon and we're all standing next to each other. She's just being room, 548 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,599 she's just being in charge. She's just being like, hey, he gotta 549 00:36:02,679 --> 00:36:07,119 like get all right, So why is this guy taking it so personally? 550 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:12,199 He welcome to Los Angeles and people being very sensitive. Oh yeah, brib 551 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:16,880 Yeah it's or Jason John So he's an actor, by the way, And 552 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:21,599 by the way, this guy is on a show. He's in that new 553 00:36:21,639 --> 00:36:25,800 show The Swamp or Swan or something like that. Um, so we're at 554 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:29,920 the tricathon and I go get a slice of pizza or something like that, 555 00:36:30,159 --> 00:36:34,079 and she's all huffy puffy. She just said how you doing to him and 556 00:36:34,159 --> 00:36:37,880 his wife, and the wife said high back, and he ignored her. 557 00:36:37,159 --> 00:36:40,559 And now I'm like, I guess I gotta beat the shit out right, 558 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:46,480 right, I mean, it's the only choice, right. So anyway, 559 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:51,079 but all jokes side, I was like, I see, I do. 560 00:36:51,119 --> 00:36:52,920 I think he's being a little whiny by giving my wife the cold shoulder, 561 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,639 if in fact that's not something that she's seeing, that's not happening. But 562 00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,320 I was like, well, if the guy did donate that and it was 563 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:01,559 his family, that is a lot of money, and for you to send 564 00:37:01,599 --> 00:37:05,360 an email out, come on, we can do better. I wouldn't have 565 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,400 sent the email back to my wife that way, but I can see where 566 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,880 that might have been a little insulting. Perhaps. I try and see both. 567 00:37:10,079 --> 00:37:13,960 Patrick, You're very diplomatic. I try and be. My friends just 568 00:37:14,079 --> 00:37:17,639 called me a great communicator. Oh yeah, that's good. That's a good 569 00:37:17,639 --> 00:37:22,199 title for you. But yeah, well, welcome to the politics of school. 570 00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:27,679 Oh, I feel like if I was that guy and I gave five 571 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:30,679 hundred dollars, maybe I would want the person to be like, oh my 572 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:32,840 gosh, that's huge, thank you so much. So maybe if he had 573 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:37,199 just done it and he was feeling like what the fuck? Like now I'm 574 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,639 hearing like, hey, that's not enough money. But he's all taking it 575 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:44,639 personally because he's an actor, right, that's right. Yes, that he 576 00:37:44,679 --> 00:37:49,519 thinks it's all about him. Narcissists and can't can't handle a rejection, you 577 00:37:49,559 --> 00:37:52,280 know, and feels like why didn't somebody? Why didn't Why wasn't there a 578 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,599 parade in my honor? Right? The five hundred came after the trigathon. 579 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:59,039 But did he send it to everybody or just to her? To everybody? 580 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,440 Oh my god? Oh, by the way, these for these parents. 581 00:38:01,559 --> 00:38:06,559 So it goes through this filter, this email because all the other parents don't 582 00:38:06,559 --> 00:38:09,199 want their emails because there are some famous people in there. But yeah, 583 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:14,239 so there's no just like necessarily a group text. But my wife gets it 584 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,320 back where he sends a response. Yeah, so so you want to know 585 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,519 who my wife' knew was client is? Oh, you guys are fans baseball 586 00:38:19,599 --> 00:38:24,719 Justin Turner, the big Dodger. Oh he's hot. He's very hot. 587 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:28,360 I'm like, wait, wait, why are you over there all day Saturday? 588 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,880 Do you have kids? She's like, no, Okay, he's single. 589 00:38:34,159 --> 00:38:36,159 Now he's married. He loves his wife. I think they're high school 590 00:38:36,159 --> 00:38:38,280 sweethearts. That's cute. Do you remember, do you guys remember? And 591 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:42,360 Patrick you were there, and Kaylin you were there when we did our San 592 00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:46,159 Francisco show on our live show, do you remember I read an email exchange? 593 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:51,280 Oh he's not mine. Oh yes, it was my friend who I 594 00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,679 won't I will I cannot say her name, but my friend who's many years 595 00:38:54,679 --> 00:38:58,119 ago because her kids are the same age as my kids. So this is 596 00:38:58,199 --> 00:39:00,679 when her kid was in preschool, was going to a little bit of a 597 00:39:00,679 --> 00:39:06,800 fancy schmancy preschool. And one of the moms got mad at one of the 598 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:10,880 other moms because do you remember this situation that I read? They I read 599 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:15,639 the email exchange and some of them were famous in there. But because do 600 00:39:15,679 --> 00:39:20,239 you remember this, Kaylin, you played the music underneath it and made it 601 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,719 funnier. I remember you reading the email, but I don't remember. I 602 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:27,159 don't remember what it was. So it was basically this. It was basically 603 00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:31,320 the mom. It was this two moms. They had their daughter and they 604 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:36,000 were going to be moving, and so they were going to be having a 605 00:39:36,039 --> 00:39:39,239 birthday party and they were It was all very la speak. It was like, 606 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:45,639 you know, let's um Melli. Um is very like sad about moving, 607 00:39:45,639 --> 00:39:50,079 and we want to give her some control over her life. So she's 608 00:39:50,119 --> 00:39:53,039 having a birthday party and we're letting her make the guest list. So if 609 00:39:53,039 --> 00:40:00,119 you're receiving this email, you did not get invited to the party, and 610 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:04,360 please don't take it personally, because we just couldn't invite everybody. Yeah. 611 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:08,159 So then so then somebody who got that was like what the fuck? What 612 00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:12,639 do you? What's wrong with you? Like and then and then so then 613 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,400 apparently she got a whole slew of responses. So then she wrote back to 614 00:40:15,519 --> 00:40:21,559 everybody and was like, so, um, quite a few of you emailed 615 00:40:21,599 --> 00:40:24,000 us and told us that you were very upset about this, about finding out 616 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:30,519 that your child was excluded from this party. But so we tried to talk 617 00:40:30,559 --> 00:40:35,559 to our daughter. We tried to talk to I didn't mean to call her 618 00:40:35,639 --> 00:40:37,760 a similar name to Ellie I was calling. I was going from Melissa, 619 00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:42,199 and I was like, that name is really old school. We tried to 620 00:40:42,199 --> 00:40:44,920 talk to Melissa and we explained to her that some of the kids were really 621 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:49,679 upset and some of the parents were really upset, and she didn't really go 622 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:55,280 for it, sticking with our original plan. Sorry not sorry, that's hilarious. 623 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:59,599 I might go one of the moms who was kind of famous, and 624 00:40:59,639 --> 00:41:01,760 I don't I honestly don't remember who it was. She was. She had 625 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:06,199 been married to somebody really famous. You might remember because I said it at 626 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,360 the show and then that person wrote back again and like they had this whole 627 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:15,039 battle and then and then they moved Wow, oh my god. Well, 628 00:41:15,119 --> 00:41:17,800 so tell us what's up for what's up? What's going on with you? 629 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:21,320 Wait, we have to take a quick break first. Let's take a quick 630 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:25,079 break. So, Patrick, So, what's what's going on with you? 631 00:41:25,119 --> 00:41:28,440 And Dylan? Tell us about your podcast. Well, we're gonna do some 632 00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,360 crossovers with you guys, but uh Anne Rose Pricks, but bad TV. 633 00:41:31,519 --> 00:41:34,880 If you want to support us, if I didn't annoy the living hell out 634 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:37,840 of you because I talked too much, everybody loves you, Patrick. Oh 635 00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:42,199 thanks, but we'll see in that Facebook group of yours. Uh, the 636 00:41:42,559 --> 00:41:47,760 we recap Love is Blind, Life after lock Up, Seeking Brother Husband That 637 00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:52,239 is a shit show. Vander Pump Rules, and God, I can't think 638 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:58,840 of what else right now. Thank you're doing too much? Yeah? Yeah, 639 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:02,880 yeah, you guys watch The Ultimate Girls Trip. No, but I'm 640 00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:07,119 sure we would if we had one more hour to watch TV in a week. 641 00:42:07,199 --> 00:42:09,159 Yeah, there's a lot of TV going on. What what shows are 642 00:42:09,199 --> 00:42:14,400 you a recapping? We're just doing vanderput We wanted to do a second show 643 00:42:14,519 --> 00:42:17,280 for our for rose Pricks because it's because we found that just doing Bachelor, 644 00:42:17,599 --> 00:42:22,039 we felt like we were we liked podcasting together, and we felt like, 645 00:42:22,079 --> 00:42:24,079 well, some people don't watch The Bachelor, so what else can we do? 646 00:42:24,159 --> 00:42:30,880 So when all the vander Pump Tom drum stand of all uh dropped, 647 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:35,039 we decided to start covering Vanderpump. So that's our Thursday show and it's fun 648 00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,280 and it's a fun show. I had loved it the first few years, 649 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:42,840 Lena, I think you loved it too, and then right around like they 650 00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,639 tried to like bring in like new, younger people, and I think that 651 00:42:45,679 --> 00:42:47,719 didn't work for me, or it didn't work for a lot of people. 652 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:51,559 I think that's when I stopped watching it too, right, And then it 653 00:42:51,599 --> 00:42:58,960 also got weird that Jack's and um Brittany their their waiters head sir, and 654 00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,079 they live in a two point five million dollar house, and uh, you 655 00:43:01,079 --> 00:43:06,519 know, it was all weird, and that's when I think a lot of 656 00:43:06,519 --> 00:43:09,519 people jumped. But boy, Bravo has a lot of thanking to do for 657 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:14,280 Sandoval. And her name is Rachel. We dead named her. That's her 658 00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,199 real name, Rachel. Um. Yeah, we're having a fun time recappy. 659 00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,880 We do it with Dylan's sister Ruby. And then we had my wife 660 00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,519 on the last episode to fill in, Oh, did you watch the episode 661 00:43:22,519 --> 00:43:25,800 with the tarot cards? Yes, I just watched that one. Yes, 662 00:43:27,599 --> 00:43:30,440 that was last week. So that James DJ James Kennedy and okay, they 663 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:34,840 gotta So I'm watching it with my wife and I'm taking notes because you know, 664 00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:37,239 I gotta talk about it. And my wife jumps out of the bed 665 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:42,280 like like she was like a dead person that just woke up out of a 666 00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,440 casket, and like what the fuck. She's like, he's our neighbor. 667 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:52,239 So our neighbor, Marty has illegal tiny houses. She bought a bunch of 668 00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:55,760 like tool sheds for a home depot and she put them in her backyard and 669 00:43:55,880 --> 00:44:00,599 the tarot card reader rents one. So we see him every morning get into 670 00:44:00,639 --> 00:44:06,400 his little Mini Cooper and drive off and do tarot card. Oh my god, 671 00:44:06,519 --> 00:44:09,679 wow, hilarious. I wonder how much money makes doing that. He's 672 00:44:09,679 --> 00:44:15,039 living in a tool shed in Marty's backyard. Oh my god. We are 673 00:44:15,119 --> 00:44:24,360 so you and I together our brain, my brain like yeah, the illegal 674 00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:30,000 part goes right out the window and I'm just like focused on I am so 675 00:44:30,119 --> 00:44:32,760 nice, my nei neighbor, because I do like Marty a lot that I 676 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:37,599 put up a gigantic thing to block it so when the inspectors here when we 677 00:44:37,599 --> 00:44:42,280 were doing the renovation would not go back there because they would have shut that 678 00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:45,320 down. Yeah, definitely, definitely. Oh that's why you put up that 679 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:50,679 like tarp yep. Oh interesting, Yeah, that was smart. Good for 680 00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,599 you, really nice. I'm a good neighbor. Yeah you are well. 681 00:44:52,599 --> 00:44:55,840 The place looks great, Thank you. I love This is so much fun 682 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:59,400 and hopefully we can do more of this and you guys come on our podcast 683 00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:00,920 and talk reality a TV. This is so, when's your pool going to 684 00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:06,840 be done? Well? Yeah? Working with Pat the last nine months, 685 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,239 almost a year. This guy that he's got doing the pool is a piece 686 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:12,960 of work. A piece of work I get. Basically, I made the 687 00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,840 fatal mistake of giving him all the money up front. And I know you 688 00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:19,960 did not I did. I did. And I haven't seen him in two 689 00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,400 months yet. Oh no, Pat No, I believe it was supposed to 690 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:29,000 be done just before Halloween. That's horrible. He is he avoiding you? 691 00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:31,519 Yeah? He doesn't respond or anything. So the last text I sent to 692 00:45:31,599 --> 00:45:34,400 him was, look, if I don't hear from you in five days, 693 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,639 we're gonna get lawyers involved. I send him a screenshot of his not his 694 00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:39,440 contractor's license, but the one that he's using, and I said, I 695 00:45:39,519 --> 00:45:43,760 can file this. I can file something I don't want to, but it'll 696 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,920 come back. And he never responded. Wow, oh my god. Because 697 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:51,679 my dream is let's do a podcast and then go hit that JACUZI yeah, 698 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:53,920 no, that's gonna be fine. I was thinking that like summertime, that's 699 00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,719 did you pay him all the money? I've just had a curiosity, all 700 00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:00,599 right, So and I should know better, because you know, I'm basically 701 00:46:00,639 --> 00:46:06,000 a contractor myself. The guy who did the renovation for our home was so 702 00:46:06,159 --> 00:46:09,079 nice, and I never hear these stories of people saying their contractor was amazing. 703 00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:12,280 He did the job for what he said it was going to do. 704 00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,119 He had his little payment system and we paid him handshake and a hog. 705 00:46:15,119 --> 00:46:19,880 I'd recommend him to anybody. And so when the pool guy showed up, 706 00:46:20,079 --> 00:46:22,639 he said it's forty three thousand dollars, and then he said he stopped by 707 00:46:22,679 --> 00:46:25,800 three weeks in a row and said he needed a check for ten ten ten, 708 00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:29,840 and then he and then he dug the hole and he said, well, 709 00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:31,440 I can have this by done by Halloween, but I just need the 710 00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:36,360 rest of the money. I gave him the money. Oh jeez, by 711 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,159 the way, sorry, I know this is probably going long. This guy 712 00:46:39,599 --> 00:46:45,039 was recommended by a client that Klin works for. Well he's a very nice 713 00:46:45,079 --> 00:46:49,039 guy. Yeah, I do. Was turtle pond every other week and he 714 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,960 came highly recommended. Another reason why I wasn't asking questions. I got this 715 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,800 guy who said, this guy's done all these projects for me. So now 716 00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:59,920 this pool guy put me in the position of having to go to this guy 717 00:47:00,199 --> 00:47:02,599 and the guy you recommend it has not shown up in a month and half 718 00:47:02,639 --> 00:47:06,800 I hate to come back and ask you this, but you recommended him, 719 00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,679 and it was it's one of those like be careful when you recommend people because 720 00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:13,960 now it's your problem, right, And so I put him in that position. 721 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,239 Now that's weird. So that's why I don't want to see him. 722 00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:20,639 Yeah, I don't blame you. That's uncomfortable. But we're gonna get it 723 00:47:20,639 --> 00:47:22,000 done so we can in the you know, the kids can come over and 724 00:47:22,039 --> 00:47:25,639 we'll do podcasting and make pizzas and the Yeah, have fun. Well I'm 725 00:47:25,639 --> 00:47:30,199 gonna have a great Summer'm really looking for excited. Oh man, Yeah, 726 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:36,320 I'm so sorry. When we are contractor, I did a lot of homework 727 00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:39,159 on that. But I've been in this situation. The first contractor we ever 728 00:47:39,199 --> 00:47:43,559 had that we did some stuff to our house. Yeah, it was like 729 00:47:43,639 --> 00:47:46,360 we constantly had an issue with like the painter just stopped showing up halfway through 730 00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,840 the job, just never came back. And we were like, uh, 731 00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:53,320 well, what's gonna just not gonna be painted? And he was like, 732 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,239 wow, I don't know. I was kind of waiting for him to come 733 00:47:55,280 --> 00:48:00,239 back to the contractor because the contractor wouldn't come every day. So like I 734 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,440 had to contact the contractor and go, yeah, so this painter just like 735 00:48:02,559 --> 00:48:06,360 never came back and he was like, oh, that's weird. He's always 736 00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,400 been pretty reliable. So we had to hire another painter to come into There 737 00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:12,920 were little things like that, but I had a contractor. And then on 738 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:16,719 our new job, Yeah, they never asked for the money upfront. We 739 00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:22,480 paid everything like as it went, and I waited until I think everything that 740 00:48:22,639 --> 00:48:24,880 was done. Then I paid for it right after it was done. The 741 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:30,639 text thing. We had inspectors the whole time. Um, but when we 742 00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:36,519 and then when we did our outside painting of our house, that guy who 743 00:48:36,639 --> 00:48:39,159 was who was good, but remember letting these stories. I had some some 744 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:43,679 arguments with him. Yes, he was a little bit like that, like 745 00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:46,280 a little shade, a little shady acting. And then when he would ask 746 00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:51,000 me for money, I was like no that. I was like, no, 747 00:48:51,079 --> 00:48:52,360 I'm not going to pay you. I'll pay you when you do the 748 00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,480 next part of it. Then I pay you. And he'd be like, 749 00:48:54,519 --> 00:48:58,960 oh okay, but I can't afford to go get the paint. And I 750 00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:00,559 was like, why don't you to tell you? And then he's like okay, 751 00:49:00,559 --> 00:49:04,599 it's okay, it's Okay, this one. I want to explain to 752 00:49:04,639 --> 00:49:08,320 them, Um, what restaurant do you show up to and the restaurant makes 753 00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:13,199 sure you pay them first and then they'll bring out your taco I'm saying, 754 00:49:13,199 --> 00:49:17,440 I'm sorry, that's what you're saying. Yeah, it's like I can't imagine. 755 00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:21,880 Like Klin shows up to a job, sometimes we don't get paid for 756 00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:23,519 like two months after we did the work. Oh. I have a client 757 00:49:23,599 --> 00:49:28,280 that still hasn't paid me after two months. I have to message him every 758 00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:31,119 week, O hey, uh you still owe me that hundred dollars and each 759 00:49:31,159 --> 00:49:35,159 time it's all caps. Oh my god. Oh I'm so sorry. I'm 760 00:49:35,159 --> 00:49:37,760 gonna get the person on it right away. I'm gonna have yeah, okay, 761 00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:44,639 then pay me. I don't care. Just wow, so sorry over 762 00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:46,599 emails and then it's like, Okay, I guess I'll just hit you up 763 00:49:46,599 --> 00:49:51,960 again next week. I know. I think maybe it's because it's not a 764 00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:55,880 lot of money. I mean, this is different with the pool guy. 765 00:49:55,920 --> 00:50:00,639 But I'm just saying some people are just bad about paying their bills because they're 766 00:50:00,679 --> 00:50:01,639 just like, oh, well, whatever, it's only one hundred bucks, 767 00:50:01,679 --> 00:50:05,400 or it's only this, or it's only that sure, but I mean, 768 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,880 Kaylin and I would never show up and go, hey, we need seventy 769 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,719 five dollars before we do anything. You know. It's that's trade of services. 770 00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:14,000 You know. We're gonna start doing that with our podcast though, Hey 771 00:50:14,639 --> 00:50:20,440 needs and then we'll release the episode. Yeah, yeah, that's what we 772 00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:23,440 should do. Forget the arret comd of business. I'm gonna say this, 773 00:50:23,519 --> 00:50:31,000 you guys are my favorite podcast podcast with oh Patri thank you, well, 774 00:50:31,159 --> 00:50:37,960 you're our favorite. Yeah. Well it's Joe KOI. But you know what's 775 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:42,480 that guy up to these days? Is he working over at aunt JOKOI? 776 00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,519 Yeah, well we're working on getting him on the show. Yeah. I 777 00:50:45,519 --> 00:50:49,519 mean I think you only sold out the forum three nights. Yeah right, 778 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:53,519 I know. Yeah, but all right, thank you so Patrick, book 779 00:50:53,559 --> 00:50:59,239 and find you on Bad TV Podcast. Bad TV Podcast on Spotify, Facebook 780 00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:02,239 group face we group. That's fun. A couple for crying out louders are 781 00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:07,280 in there. Nice. Nice, Maybe get more now so that'll be good, 782 00:51:07,679 --> 00:51:10,840 all right, Chris Patty, Thanks Kayl Thanks kay you're a parent. 783 00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:19,559 Now, don't suck it up. Letting go