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And, well, maybe for this family. 27 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:55,519 I do not know in what environment, in what way, the values that 28 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:59,680 were inculcated in the bosom of this home to these boys. I can see 29 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:04,560 him and well the news that of the elderly there is one who is a 30 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,759 transport entrepreneur and does quite well. That is, I have no doubt that 31 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:14,280 it is a family where the value of work was taught possibly discipline, but 32 00:02:14,319 --> 00:02:17,080 there is also an environment beyond which you can control, in which sometimes your 33 00:02:17,159 --> 00:02:22,800 children, for as they said in him when they said when I was little, 34 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:29,080 because they are stubborn get involved and sometimes mistakes are made by raising. 35 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:34,639 There is no perfect formula, but I don' t know if people understand 36 00:02:34,719 --> 00:02:38,879 that nowadays you say things that have to do with what is considered good parenting 37 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:49,680 and how there is one. I sometimes feel like she' s insurgent. 38 00:02:50,199 --> 00:02:55,599 The unenlightened scoundrel is the one who is possibly most encouraged to comment on this 39 00:02:55,639 --> 00:03:02,159 and always ends up holding the stars responsible for the horoscope. The day Kindel 40 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:15,560 Garden' s partner was born to a domestic who hired a cousin who came 41 00:03:15,599 --> 00:03:20,400 from the United States of America to be a porter, who misbehaved and sent 42 00:03:20,479 --> 00:03:25,439 him here. I mean, it' s never about them. I mean. 43 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:30,599 It' s a society that, when you touch on this subject for 44 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:35,439 a while, this part always comes out to say you can' t talk 45 00:03:35,719 --> 00:03:36,879 about parenting, because you don' t have children. If you don' 46 00:03:36,919 --> 00:03:39,199 t know how hard it is to raise him well, I know how hard 47 00:03:39,199 --> 00:03:43,120 it is to raise him. I am the son of a couple of men 48 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:50,840 and women who passed everything and I lived in the worst neighborhoods and grew up 49 00:03:50,879 --> 00:03:53,960 in the worst neighborhoods of me. I was born in a neighborhood in the 50 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:59,360 Simón Bolívar, I lived in the canisters as a child. When I was 51 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:03,560 three years old, I went to live with my mom and my brothers at 52 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:09,319 my lost aunt Sabana' s house. Then we went back to Fantino and 53 00:04:09,319 --> 00:04:13,759 I came back at seven years old to live in farm villas, between the 54 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:17,519 obando and thirty- two street, on the same mocha street, surrounded by 55 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:23,480 the worst you can imagine, going barefoot to the market of Duarte Avenue, 56 00:04:25,399 --> 00:04:29,600 we went hungry, we lay down without dinner. I never had my dad, 57 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:36,040 mom, stealing starting out there I saw them always work, both my 58 00:04:36,079 --> 00:04:43,279 mom and my dad. Then the environment definitely where one first has the greatest 59 00:04:43,399 --> 00:04:47,639 impact for you to do or not do certain things at home. Totally teu 60 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:53,040 don' t tell me that raising children is a lottery. Of course I 61 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:56,639 do. The lottery has to be for those who play all the numbers, 62 00:04:56,639 --> 00:05:01,040 for that prize to go out almost passes that prize or say, not because 63 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:04,879 they come raise it you because you know how terrible a boy that I give 64 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:10,120 the ipa and calms down and they fight you for that and you tell him 65 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,720 look. There are five studies that say that when you put an ipa on 66 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:15,920 a child at six months old, you' re hurting him, that when 67 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:19,360 you put a child at a certain age more than a certain amount of time 68 00:05:19,439 --> 00:05:24,040 in front of a screen, you' re hurting him. When you, 69 00:05:24,199 --> 00:05:29,279 your son, don' t grow up, maybe the way he doesn' 70 00:05:29,319 --> 00:05:33,120 t socialize, the way we' ve evolved as a species, when you 71 00:05:33,439 --> 00:05:36,800 think you' re hurting him and they tell you what you know about a 72 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:38,600 maid and when you tell him, look, yeah, there' s one. 73 00:05:38,959 --> 00:05:42,040 Children must be disciplined, hierarchies must be established in the house, parents 74 00:05:42,079 --> 00:05:48,399 are not friends with children. They tell you what you know about it. 75 00:05:48,399 --> 00:05:54,079 No, you haven' t raised children, because they confuse trust with children 76 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:59,879 with being equal to your child. But look, I don' t know 77 00:06:00,199 --> 00:06:04,920 or that argument that kids are a lottery, etcetera. Look at my brother. 78 00:06:05,079 --> 00:06:10,279 That' s an irresponsible argument. Certainly woe to children who do what 79 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:13,839 they want because they are adults or before they become adults. But we humans 80 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:19,720 certainly give surprises. But it turns out that these are exceptions that are not 81 00:06:19,879 --> 00:06:25,480 the rules. It is that everyone who raises in the right way gets the 82 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:29,680 result that waits at a ninety- nine point. Ninety- nine percent of 83 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,959 the cases and in fact, I always take my dad as an example. 84 00:06:32,519 --> 00:06:41,120 My dad raised seven boys, seven boys. We' ve gone out with 85 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:45,759 terrible spoiled mouths, but no one' s gone out to rob anyone or 86 00:06:45,759 --> 00:06:46,439 make it wrong. We don' t have a problem. I do, 87 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:50,519 that argument. I am not convinced that children are a lottery, because it 88 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:57,160 is as if you said, there are certainly people who raise well and told 89 00:06:57,199 --> 00:07:00,879 you a scum is coming out. But that' s the point. One 90 00:07:00,959 --> 00:07:04,639 percent. The rule is quite the opposite. I don' t know that 91 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:10,560 the law is individualistic. You are responsible for your own exactly and then that 92 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:15,920 ' s why you, for example, if you were, then we should 93 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:19,959 punish whoever created that boy. I agree with Tito. It' s just 94 00:07:20,079 --> 00:07:25,240 that he' s very old, that is not that if this should be 95 00:07:25,279 --> 00:07:29,160 on the same record, then he pays his his his lo. The mistake 96 00:07:29,319 --> 00:07:32,120 or whatever that boy did is going to pay for it as an adult. 97 00:07:32,279 --> 00:07:36,920 I totally agree. With you, ulto, but it is also a feeling 98 00:07:36,959 --> 00:07:41,839 of failure on the part of a father, of a mother who has made, 99 00:07:42,079 --> 00:07:45,920 who knows what kind of effort and along the way are taking place. 100 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,480 Gentlemen, the human being, after a certain age, goes out into the 101 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:56,000 world and provides himself with his own tools and begins to make his own decisions, 102 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:01,920 regardless of whether you are a son of the pope, ye or yew 103 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,800 neda, you do what you want and the father has nothing but disappointment. 104 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,160 And a son who understood that he raised him the right way, the right 105 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:15,079 way, and chose to be a damn lagger, chose to be a scumbag. 106 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,560 He agreed with Pettle, because if he did, we would have the 107 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:24,040 prisons full of fathers and mothers whose children have been scum in this life. 108 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:26,959 What I am talking about is that when it comes to this situation, every 109 00:08:28,079 --> 00:08:31,600 time it comes to the subject of parenting and it gives a be comes justification. 110 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:35,080 No, life is a lottery, but it turns out the lottery gets 111 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:39,080 very little out of it. People look at that parenting thing. If you 112 00:08:39,159 --> 00:08:45,879 go well I spoke right now, the parents you' re boys for them 113 00:08:45,879 --> 00:08:48,480 were they told him good beliefs. And when I ben open those people they 114 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:50,480 didn' t even know exactly what I was doing. You how they defend 115 00:08:50,519 --> 00:08:56,360 their usually. And that' s the right thing to do. That I 116 00:08:56,480 --> 00:09:01,279 told a friend with a case, regardless of whether your children do things that 117 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:07,120 embarrass you with the responsibility that you have spiritual and moral as a father, 118 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:13,240 is to accompany him and is to be responsible, because somehow, somehow, 119 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:18,679 that is a consequence of turning your back, leaving a child alone in a 120 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:26,120 terrible situation. It does not seem to me to be an indication of responsibility 121 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:28,279 and I do not condemn any father who goes out and says, or any 122 00:09:28,279 --> 00:09:33,399 mother. My son wasn' t like that. Maybe it' s like 123 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:37,159 you said, Peter right now from the denial stage, but they' re 124 00:09:37,159 --> 00:09:41,320 still unconscious, because I' ve seen him that his children have done it 125 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:43,840 wrong. You' re wrong, but my duty as a father, as 126 00:09:43,879 --> 00:09:46,679 the sauce says, is to accompany you. It' s being with you. 127 00:09:48,039 --> 00:09:50,960 It' s being with you, but if you' re my son, 128 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:56,000 that doesn' t mean I support you or what you' re totally 129 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,240 doing are different things, because there' s where the problem is. But 130 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:03,919 if that' s the person, they' ve already studied it by all 131 00:10:03,919 --> 00:10:09,120 the soldiers. That starts from the houses. Yeah, from the beginning, 132 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:13,399 since gestations he' s been creating a boy. All that kind of stuff 133 00:10:13,399 --> 00:10:18,039 starts from the house. That' s it. Now, everything was talking 134 00:10:18,759 --> 00:10:22,600 about the right way to educate and to be believed by boys. What is 135 00:10:22,639 --> 00:10:30,320 the right way there is now, there are formulas that have worked for generations 136 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:33,399 and there is a combination of issues that allow you in the end, because 137 00:10:33,399 --> 00:10:39,000 it is also there. We are not going to come to say now that 138 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:43,279 establishing habits of discipline, of responsibility, making you responsible for the things you 139 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:48,440 do wrong, but also punishing regime as a consequence. They are things that 140 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:52,559 do not work to forge an individual' s character and personality, because it 141 00:10:54,639 --> 00:10:58,480 would deny thousands of years of evolution. Don' t come to me custom 142 00:10:58,799 --> 00:11:00,000 - made with the story. Not that it' s harder today than it 143 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:03,240 isn' t. And it was for my grandmother when she was born, 144 00:11:03,399 --> 00:11:05,960 and it was for her when she raised hers, and it was for my 145 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:07,799 uncles when they had to raise theirs. Why have the tools, because today, 146 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:13,080 exactly because each generation well accompanied by challenges totally different from the previous generation, 147 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:20,320 because society carries a progressive and constant pressure of change and substitution of paradigms, 148 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:28,279 then we cannot deny that reality either. I know today is harder than 149 00:11:28,279 --> 00:11:33,120 ever to raise a child, but as you say Adriana, today perhaps easier 150 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:39,679 than ever. You as a parent, provide you with tools that will allow 151 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:43,320 you to make better decisions. Don' t evade that responsibility. Do not 152 00:11:43,399 --> 00:11:48,320 leave the raising of your children to the excuse that these media or these artists, 153 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:54,080 because I, in a stage of my adolescence, consumed a kind of 154 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:58,519 music that the videos were tiger drinking blood, and I the only blood sa 155 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:03,360 I was seen when I bite my tongue or even not woman with the no 156 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:11,480 no no no no before it is na dracula. What' s pita, 157 00:12:13,399 --> 00:12:18,080 of course, but there' s the reality. Gentlemen, that is a 158 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:24,679 painful case and for the family it is involved, very painful. Of course, 159 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:28,519 they too are suffering from those issues. But that' s the case 160 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:35,240 you' re looking at. Certainly, as we go, as we go 161 00:12:35,279 --> 00:12:41,679 and demand more and more the police don' t last and it was something 162 00:12:41,879 --> 00:12:46,799 I was telling you. When the police act, there are always two or 163 00:12:46,879 --> 00:12:52,000 three mouths of water that begin to say hello, police abuse the other. 164 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:56,240 Gentlemen, look, we have the only way. I have time to say. 165 00:12:56,279 --> 00:12:58,720 We don' t have to agree, which is what we want. 166 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:05,279 Agree, because we' re wrong and he wants you to be told honestly. 167 00:13:05,399 --> 00:13:07,240 When I saw myself, the one who wrote to me was a friend 168 00:13:07,279 --> 00:13:11,440 and sent me the report before the whole rush started. Neu was still here 169 00:13:11,519 --> 00:13:15,519 in the booth and we had talked about what he had said until the time 170 00:13:15,519 --> 00:13:18,720 of the police, and when it was about ten and twenty o' clock, 171 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:24,200 I sat with eduardo in a place here near the station and wrote to 172 00:13:24,279 --> 00:13:30,240 me and I was talking to this friend and I honestly wished that what my 173 00:13:30,279 --> 00:13:37,279 friend was telling me was not true, because that boy who established that he 174 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:41,200 is the leader of the band one was in the middle wherever he wanted and 175 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:45,559 participated in a contest in which I was a jury in the program that h 176 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,679 is spoken is Spanish channel in the two thousand fourteen and won that contest and 177 00:13:50,399 --> 00:13:56,120 began a life within the modeling. She was a model. He worked with 178 00:13:56,240 --> 00:14:01,600 BTL companies as a promoter. I found it an activity in which it was 179 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:05,440 done in a shopping center here in Beverage about five or six years ago, 180 00:14:05,399 --> 00:14:09,320 working with a liquor house and promoting the drink, and I remember that even 181 00:14:09,399 --> 00:14:13,679 a bottle of hoik and I bought him on that occasion in the Stanque he 182 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:20,080 was and I found him wherever I wanted, because he was very active participating 183 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:24,600 in activities. He met a lot of people and I see many people who 184 00:14:24,639 --> 00:14:28,879 at once rush to what they call the gringos guilt by association. Not my 185 00:14:28,919 --> 00:14:31,600 love, I' m useless. You' re in a picture with a 186 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:33,320 guy. Ah, you' re a suspect. You knew, you, 187 00:14:35,039 --> 00:14:37,120 oh, that' s not like that, that' s not like that. 188 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:43,000 Tolentino is getting a cover because a video appears that this boy who worked 189 00:14:43,879 --> 00:14:48,240 in a sheath of treatment, of shooting and of sheath, gentlemen, but 190 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:50,559 I know a lot of people and you don' t know how much mardita 191 00:14:50,559 --> 00:14:52,279 photo. I don' t spend the week with people I don' t 192 00:14:52,279 --> 00:15:00,519 know. But I' m already guilty because that person has a picture with 193 00:15:00,519 --> 00:15:03,679 me. It' s not worth a chinga The social media cs happened to 194 00:15:03,879 --> 00:15:07,039 me. Let' s get him down. In another case. In another 195 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:11,519 case that I won' t mention, I had a group photo in which 196 00:15:11,639 --> 00:15:16,080 in the group a defendant of X came out and wrote to me to remove 197 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:20,600 it, that that hurts someone else in the group, who is an official. 198 00:15:22,519 --> 00:15:24,960 Take it off, don' t hurt your reputation. And I, 199 00:15:26,039 --> 00:15:28,759 because none of us who were there knew what he was at. What you 200 00:15:28,799 --> 00:15:31,919 do is dedicated doesn' t take care of me, I don' t 201 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:33,039 care, I don' t care, I' m not responsible. I 202 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:37,559 ' m responsible for Ricker Adames by singing Gómez until I was eighteen and nineteen 203 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:41,919 to my son and he can and Enrique makes his decision. Henry tells me 204 00:15:41,039 --> 00:15:46,320 Mommy, you don' t understand. End if that' s my responsibility, 205 00:15:46,639 --> 00:15:48,440 what do I know about some people who wanted other people. I' 206 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:52,240 m not responsible, well, let' s pause. We' re coming.