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We are talking about the case of
Garcia, a stalker who has gone viral

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on the stories of women, who
this woman has harassed and persecuted for more

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than seven years in Venezuela, specifically
in atillo, in the State of now

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forgot the name Cursed State, not
the State that is next to Caracas.

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Well, I' ll remember then
let' s talk about that fat woman

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who was harassing me about the trend
now on the subject of harassment by the

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show. Well, what happens is
that the series has created a stereotype.

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Yeah, I said hello to Don
Frank Chaplain who' s on his way

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to his momentum insurance program. If
you' re tuning in to the five

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- tais program, one, ninety- six- fifty has had your bullying

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stories. Thank you too, friend
Jonathan Dominguez, who sent me this one.

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I had days to talk about this
and if I had forgotten every day

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Jonathan Janderson, the case of these
good girls their stories of harassment with Rebecca

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Garcia in Venezuela. Good morning,
very good morning, Tal has been Miranda,

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good morning. Yes, something happened
to me with a person when I

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was in high school, which was
that I made the mistake to help me

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with a homework and then that time
I went out in the bathroom when I

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was going to buy something in the
cafeteria. I even got into trouble with

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the girlfriend I had and found out
where I lived. Yesterday, I lived

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in the Kilometers and I in Naima
and it appeared to me there in Aime

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and I had to live a little
fair and to tame the place. That

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happened to me real wow. Good
morning. The fat one that day the

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fucking Rago, Carlo Carlos day.
I had a pipe that I grabbed is

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kidnapping me in his own house.
She had noticed. I was with another

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broad and I was giving it to
her. With it he locked the door,

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broke my chain and broke my head
with one other viewfinders. That'

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s not harassment, it' s
called harassment violence. It' s a

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systematic compulsive follow- up on the
part of a person to you What they

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pulled was a sure hit for offering
what you weren' t going to do

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and the broad did well. In
fact, he had all that bad blood.

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Good morning. It' s good
for us that it doesn' t

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happen, because when we have a
hot head, it doesn' t have

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to see blackberries in the fat one. Nothing. I have one. I

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had a fat woman who' d
fuck him good. I had to have

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with her boy the girl lasted three
years with my girlfriend, the girl appeared

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to me at my house. It' s been a day that when I

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was eating in the house and got
there my mom had to take it out.

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Ah, you can tell her they
love her. Good morning for the

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love of my life. Either I
take it or I don' t take

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it all. Aside from your squawking
off your mother. You know there'

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s a woman in the world who
thinks you' re dead, who looks

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good at the whole thing. You
knowing yourself that that' s not my

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wife or things. She thinks I' m good, because I tell her,

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Women, God, let me breathe
that fat one who harassed me.

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We talked here at the rhythm of
the morning. Good morning, good team,

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good morning, fat, dear listen
to the rhythm. If the fat

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one at work. He offered you
a fellatio and you' re desperate and

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don' t fall tell him he
doesn' t talk. Not from the

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Baby Rendier series is a miniseries of
psychological suspenses hailed by critics David Rendiger,

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also known as my reindeer from Peluche
in Spain and the reindeer baby in Hispanoamerica.

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It is a British mini series of
drama and psychological suspense, created,

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written, produced and starred by Richard
Gad based on his own personal experience.

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The series tells the story of Tony
To, a struggling comedian who experiences a

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series of disturbing events after offering an
act of kindness to a fat woman named

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Mars Scott. As Marta becomes increasingly
obsessive and possessive, Donne is dragging herself

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into a spiral of danger and paranoia. End of danger and paranoia. Well

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vermi irendía has been hailed by criticism
and has generated some controversies. It has

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generated some controversy because of its representation
of violence and sexual abuse. Some critics

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have pointed out that the series can
be triggering for people who have experienced similar

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traumas. But despite this, drinking
in dier is a series that deserves to

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be seen, says in some,
and is a powerful and disturbing work of

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art that will make you reflect on
the nature of good and evil. It

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says Jeminie. How you end up
with a stalker looks is difficult. It

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' s hard. I know of
a case of a person who has had

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stalkers and has had stalkers, that
our already deceased co- worker, Marta

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Sanchez, had a madman who harassed
her here and that lasted that guy years

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coming here, years the listener of
marty Peter live began as in the two

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thousand two out there listening to the
program and good and the same thing,

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that is, Mars was a very
kind woman, very decent and very friendly

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to everyone. And this guy came
in one day and he hears me and

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that was still here in the two
thousand seven, guy came here no longer

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was Marta on the show, there
was no longer the program and had to

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be offered a hit. And that
man had not hit that offered him.

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It was that man coming down there
or before it was easier to get up

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here. Sometimes I' d sit
here in the lobi. But Tino is

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a witness to that. Tino knows
that he' s a madman here who

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' s hard to bathe in tigers. That was like systematic, one of

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the things he has. But we
spend the year struggling with that crazy fuck

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the stalkers that the more you keep
them away, the more they get,

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the more they get, the more
obsessed they get. A part of what

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they like is working, but it' s precisely taking him out like not

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listening to him and taking him away
from me in every way, so I

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haven' t seen a good-
for- nothing. There isn' t

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one. As a rule, stalkers
have everything in common. They' re

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all losers in life for some reason
and a lot of trauma that develops into

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a series of obsessions. This is
work for psychologists. But really, I

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mean, you find yourself the same
pattern in the whole world, because you

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can fall in love with someone and
what do I know? I free chat

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Facebook and try to match in places
that person. Those are normal issues.

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Now he calls the house, he
picks up the phone, he makes friends

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with friends, then, and all
the places the same honey you send gifts.

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That' s crazy. But there' s a very fine line.

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When you want to conquer a muj
for example, that you use certain techniques

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for you to approach it and fall
in love with it, for example,

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many times we approach the crumb of
the broad that interests us truth and through

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it, then we make a series
of approaches and things and also make possible

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certain encounters that can be interpreted as
harassment cua. It' s not,

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because that comes to that has a
limit, because, for example, when

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a woman looks to me like good, because I' m going out and

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out they get you footed out and
there' s no problem, but in

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the case of the thing, he
goes on, he appears to places.

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Even I think that. If there' s no compulsion, there' s

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no harassment. If it is not
compulsive, obsessive, obsessive, continuous,

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drowning human being, because there may
be people who are persistent, because there

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is a small line between you to
be persistent. Let' s say something.

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I think it' s one thing
for you to show yourself and create

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a bond, and it' s
another thing for you to impose yourself lower

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than in the stalker' s world, that person already belongs to him exactly

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in his mind. I' m
reading around here the personality characteristics of the

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abusers in cases of harassment influence their
actions, motivations. Although each person is

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unique says an article, there are
common patterns that can help detect an adrian

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care stalker. To see if you
are going to tell me if coincident lowers

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your inheritance to rejection and contrary opinions
with feelings of superiority, few tools to

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manage stress in situations of conflict related
to threats and guilt, use of the

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sensation of power to reduce feelings of
inferiority and exact insecurity, obsessive personality,

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with need of control and resistance to
accept from another way of thinking, ur

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narcissism, lack of empathy and skills
to manipulate and seduce exact features of paranoia,

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distrust and justified and abrupt changes of
states of mind, compulsive and systematic

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lie to achieve their objectives, provocation
of guilt feelings of the victims, exact

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moralistic and abstract discourse to give positive
image of self self self deteriorated self-

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esteem with envy towards those who have
what they want. I' m all

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set. The motives behind the thing
are usually personal deficiencies and the desperate quest

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to raise self- esteem through the
humiliation of the victim. Bullying prevention and

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management involves seeking support, learning to
manage stress, using social networks safely,

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reporting inappropriate behaviors, developing emotional skills, and seeking professional help, not giving

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up, and acting to stop harassment. When you see this article, we

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' re talking here stories of that
embarrass I was harassing you write here to

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me harass me by me you tell
me my wife' s lover. That

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' s how I heard about her. She' s a trinket, and

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her self- esteem went up and
she thought I' d take my husband

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away for your variatric forgiveness and you
see and trinket that' s that,

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no matter what she' s variable. Good morning. I' ll put

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you on the brain. Good morning, good morning here how is love I

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show and really describes everything you said, everything you read. And it was

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out of pity that he began to
enter his life. He took such pity

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on her, and she went crazy
behind him. Hey, hey, hey,

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hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,

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hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,

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hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,

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hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. There are moments

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of despair of the man who is
when he is in his recura, who,

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sire titúa Good morning, made me
or remembered the stalker I was in

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the Republic of Colombia School as the
third room bass, well the sane and

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that girl grabbed me by the shirt. Sol knows with the public and told

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me you' re going to be
my boyfriend and me, but the girl

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doubled my size and you' re
going to make my name myself. But

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no, you know, I'
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the day and because I' ve
already passed. You know, I deserve

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to have honey pussy sa Good morning, sobr the reality of the ten brothers.

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Give him a good morning. Differing
to take Aquardo, I met a

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crazy woman who went to everyone twice
a week there was comfort there looking for

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medicine that girl made with very low
self- esteem brother. We lasted once

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two hours ago from a guy because
I did what the back- size service

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of an albelt guy and the guy
put in a walled- up woman when

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he came out of there went out
to his house another one in case and

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said how good he took to his
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the woman, she was a darling. I would have known what madness,

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but if not good morning, good
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very well. Oh, me for
loving him to the choir some panas that

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had a climb three. I got
the crazy one then nothing like we left.

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It was a beach thing, how
much I slept and good stuff.

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He was given a strong conscience.
After that, you know how it'

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s going to be and hear letters, letters, let' s say that

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you don' t use letters,
I think diamon and in the end,

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telling me if you and I can' t go on, then I'

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ll look the way I mean that
I was going to happiness and all that

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stuff. I finally had to tell
him look, I know where you work

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and I' m going to go
look for you or an iscal and I

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' m going to take you for
the application, so that then I put

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one or lens to fecto. And
that' s how he calmed down.

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You know that the case of the
attempted murder of Ronald Reagan' s president

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at the beginning of the decade of
his term, in the 1980s in the

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United States, had to do with
a stalker who had actress Jodie Foster,

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being very young. Jodie Foster was
about eighteen years old. She lived the

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siege of this madman and this guy
for drawing their attention perpetrated this action.

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It was impressive, but John Lennon' s death also had to do with

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a stalker who chased him for days, and this kind guy signed him moments

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before riding his car, changed into
a recording studio, an autograph, and

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as he was arriving at the apartment
where he lived, near Central Park in

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New York City, this guy shot
John Lennon in the back and ended up

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taking his life. I mean,
the stalkers, the people who chase,

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these people who develop this obsession with
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they' re people who pure and
just compulsion to chase them. Sometimes that

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becomes the head of those crazy people
into something much more sick, much more

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dangerous, and they end up carrying
out actions that are terrible. And what

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to talk about the cases of stalkers
and stalkers who end up taking their lives

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and carrying on their victim. The
excuse for them, their great last act

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is to make them wear the guilt
of death that they have decided, therefore,

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to choose as a way out or
as an instrument to torment and persecute

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for all eternity, the mind and
the mental tranquility of those who have made

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life impossible for them in life.
The subject of the thing may sound funny,

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but look it' s not.
And in the case of these women

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in Venezuela who have had to live
this. The big problem that all these

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women have had as a denominator is
that when they have filed the complaint.

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What they have found in response is
the n of them from the authorities say

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that because there are women, we
cannot put them in jail, because that

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is not a danger to you this
question of perspective, of gender and of

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justice. Seeing from the sieve that
women are not violent or are not a

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danger, it is also problematic for
the same women, because women, if

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they are dangerous, women, if
they are violent, women, if they

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can do harm, have the same
abilities to harm as men. So,

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in the case of Rebecca Garcia in
Venezuela, who has been talking a lot

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in networks these days and the Baby
Rendier series, they can give an idea

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of what a fucking stalker is,
what a crazy person is chasing you and

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it seems that this is a sheath
that repeats itself over time and becomes media

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cases, like the case of Rebecca, or treated as a serial, like

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the case of Baby in Dier
