All right, Well we're in Windsor. It is Second Date Update time and
we've got Derek on the line. Good morning, Derek, welcome to Second
Date Update. Hey, good morning, Thanks so much for taking my call.
Oh yeah, well listen obviously, you know second date Update is when
you go on a first date, you have a great time, but then
you get ghosted. We get the answers, So you need to tell me
about this great first date. Yeah. I had an amazing time. I
think she did too. Awesome chick Jessica. We went to the fair,
you know, we walked around, we enjoyed all this stuff. We had
some beer and some food, some good fried stuff, funnel cake. Oh
yeah, we really hit it off. She's just cool. You know,
she kind of understood everything I was talking about. We I don't know,
we just really got each other's vibes. And I don't know, I thought
she was super, super attractive. But I just haven't heard from her since,
and I'm I'm wondering what happened, because I don't think I'm misread it.
I feel like we were into each other, but now, you know,
I haven't heard a thing from her. Well here's the thing, Derek,
I think fair dates are fab Listen. The only thing I could think
of is, I know, like years and years ago, somebody took me
on a first date to affair, but they didn't tell me we were going
to the fair. And I wasn't dressed properly, Like I froze and my
feet hurt. It was like horrible. Was she like dressed to go to
the fair? Yeah? I think so. It was a perfect day.
It was only in seventy degrees, and I think she didn't complain at all.
She looked comfortable. So all right, Derek, now don't take this
wrong way. I'm just asking, because this happened to a friend of mine,
do you like aggressively eat fair foods? Because like, she went on
a date and the guy was like going in ham on these chicken wings and
it like made her on comfy. I actually thought about this. I was
like, all right, don't eat anything too messy. I avoided the cheese
fries. I only had stuff that I could eat without getting all over my
shirt, So I think I avoided that. What a gem. Yeah,
you sound like a great guy. It sounds like a great date. So
we're gonna call her up. We'll call Jessica up, you're gonna be listening
in, Derek. We're just gonna ask her how she thought the date went.
I'll just be blunt with her and ask her why she's ghosting you.
But if you're ready to find out and get her answer, we're gonna call
her. Yes, please, thank you so much. I also can ciarette
that he thought about not eating the messy food, especially since but most men
don't think. I know we're of a mind. A great point A patch
him through, though, don't forget. Hello. Hello, is Jessica there?
Yeah, Hi, this is Jessica. Hi, Jessica's Courtney, and
what's up. It's Walmart, Jeff, Hey, it's Savannah. We're calling.
Hey, Hey, we're calling from Kiss ninety five seven. I gotta
let you know you're on the air this morning. M hm, okay,
okay, you're on second date updates. So when somebody goes on a first
date, if they get ghosted, they call us. And that's why we're
calling you this morning because Derek called us. Derek told us, Jessica,
he took you to the fair and you guys had a great time. He
thought you had a fantastic time, and he's reached out. But you're ghosting
him. Yeah, okay, yeah, we we did go on a date.
Okay, it was It was okay in the beginning. We went to
a fair and we just like walked around ate had a beer. It was
totally normal. But the reason why I didn't reach out to him again was
when the when the demolition derby started, he just went absolutely nuts. But
he was yelling, he was jumping up and down. At one point he
like took his shirt off and started waving it around his head. Jessica,
really, yes, I'm serious. He was drinking beer and he was spilling
it on himself. Okay, embarrassing, All right, Derek's there, go
ahead, Derek. Derek heard everything. What do you want to say,
Derek? I just want to say, first of all, it's the derby,
and that's what you do. I would have looked crazy if I didn't
take my shirt off. Everyone there was going up and having a good time,
like what do you expect someone to do with the derby? And I
spilled like a tiny bit of beer, but it's beard, it wipes off.
I don't understand what the issue was. I know, I know you
were just having a good time, but I'm sorry. I was looking around,
and you were definitely like going more crazy than everyone else there, Like
there were like there was maybe one other guy that had his shirt off,
but you were screaming, like screaming at the top of your life. Oh
no, it's the Derby. Don't you want someone who's gonna have a good
time at the Derby? I feel like it. If you don't, then
you're kind of a lame person, right, am I crazy? It was
our first date. We could have had like a cotton candy, we could
have gone on the ferris wheel. But that's true. We did a ton
of that kind of stuff and then the Derby was there, so obviously we're
going to enjoy the Derby. Are you serious? Right now? I think
I'm probright. I think we're just maybe not a good match. It was.
It was embarrassing. I think maybe it's safe to say like a Derby's
maybe like a fifth or sixth state kind of activity. What's embarrassing is someone
who doesn't know how to have a good time at something like the Derby.
It's the Derby. Come on, yeah, hey, Derek, you know
what, Derek, I agree with you. I mean, this one's on,
Jessica. I mean you're going to a fair, you should know like
the ins and outs of like the demolition Derby and all that stuff derby etiquette.
I'm sorry, Jeff, he's spilled beer on her. He was screaming
and yell and waving his shirt. Listen, it's just sounds like it's not
a good match, you know what. I think you're right because someone who
doesn't get the Derby, then it's probably not gonna get me. Well,
listen, would you guys like to go on a second day because I will
pick up the tap and we could just keep it low key, like there
doesn't have to be like a like cars crashing or anything. We could do
something low key. I don't know about Derek, but I'm gonna say no,
thank you. Okay, you beat me to it. I was gonna
also say no because I'm going to be good nat with someone who enjoys things
I enjoy. Okay. Yeah, Well, maybe you guys can go watch
the motorcycles in the cage next time because that's always fun. All right.
Well, listen, Jessica, Derek, I'm sorry we didn't make a love
match, but I'm glad we got down to business and got the answers.
You needed. Thank you guys so much for being open and honest on second
date update, thank you for having me EXPI