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All right, Well we're in Windsor. It is Second Date Update time and

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we've got Derek on the line.
Good morning, Derek, welcome to Second

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Date Update. Hey, good morning, Thanks so much for taking my call.

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Oh yeah, well listen obviously,
you know second date Update is when

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you go on a first date,
you have a great time, but then

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you get ghosted. We get the
answers, So you need to tell me

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about this great first date. Yeah. I had an amazing time. I

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think she did too. Awesome chick
Jessica. We went to the fair,

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you know, we walked around,
we enjoyed all this stuff. We had

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some beer and some food, some
good fried stuff, funnel cake. Oh

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yeah, we really hit it off. She's just cool. You know,

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she kind of understood everything I was
talking about. We I don't know,

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we just really got each other's vibes. And I don't know, I thought

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she was super, super attractive.
But I just haven't heard from her since,

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and I'm I'm wondering what happened,
because I don't think I'm misread it.

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I feel like we were into each
other, but now, you know,

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I haven't heard a thing from her. Well here's the thing, Derek,

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I think fair dates are fab Listen. The only thing I could think

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of is, I know, like
years and years ago, somebody took me

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on a first date to affair,
but they didn't tell me we were going

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to the fair. And I wasn't
dressed properly, Like I froze and my

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feet hurt. It was like horrible. Was she like dressed to go to

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the fair? Yeah? I think
so. It was a perfect day.

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It was only in seventy degrees,
and I think she didn't complain at all.

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She looked comfortable. So all right, Derek, now don't take this

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wrong way. I'm just asking,
because this happened to a friend of mine,

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do you like aggressively eat fair foods? Because like, she went on

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a date and the guy was like
going in ham on these chicken wings and

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it like made her on comfy.
I actually thought about this. I was

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like, all right, don't eat
anything too messy. I avoided the cheese

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fries. I only had stuff that
I could eat without getting all over my

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shirt, So I think I avoided
that. What a gem. Yeah,

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you sound like a great guy.
It sounds like a great date. So

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we're gonna call her up. We'll
call Jessica up, you're gonna be listening

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in, Derek. We're just gonna
ask her how she thought the date went.

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I'll just be blunt with her and
ask her why she's ghosting you.

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But if you're ready to find out
and get her answer, we're gonna call

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her. Yes, please, thank
you so much. I also can ciarette

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that he thought about not eating the
messy food, especially since but most men

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don't think. I know we're of
a mind. A great point A patch

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him through, though, don't forget. Hello. Hello, is Jessica there?

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Yeah, Hi, this is Jessica. Hi, Jessica's Courtney, and

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what's up. It's Walmart, Jeff, Hey, it's Savannah. We're calling.

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Hey, Hey, we're calling from
Kiss ninety five seven. I gotta

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let you know you're on the air
this morning. M hm, okay,

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okay, you're on second date updates. So when somebody goes on a first

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date, if they get ghosted,
they call us. And that's why we're

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calling you this morning because Derek called
us. Derek told us, Jessica,

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he took you to the fair and
you guys had a great time. He

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thought you had a fantastic time,
and he's reached out. But you're ghosting

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him. Yeah, okay, yeah, we we did go on a date.

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Okay, it was It was okay
in the beginning. We went to

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a fair and we just like walked
around ate had a beer. It was

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totally normal. But the reason why
I didn't reach out to him again was

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when the when the demolition derby started, he just went absolutely nuts. But

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he was yelling, he was jumping
up and down. At one point he

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like took his shirt off and started
waving it around his head. Jessica,

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really, yes, I'm serious.
He was drinking beer and he was spilling

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it on himself. Okay, embarrassing, All right, Derek's there, go

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ahead, Derek. Derek heard everything. What do you want to say,

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Derek? I just want to say, first of all, it's the derby,

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and that's what you do. I
would have looked crazy if I didn't

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take my shirt off. Everyone there
was going up and having a good time,

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like what do you expect someone to
do with the derby? And I

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spilled like a tiny bit of beer, but it's beard, it wipes off.

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I don't understand what the issue was. I know, I know you

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were just having a good time,
but I'm sorry. I was looking around,

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and you were definitely like going more
crazy than everyone else there, Like

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there were like there was maybe one
other guy that had his shirt off,

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but you were screaming, like screaming
at the top of your life. Oh

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no, it's the Derby. Don't
you want someone who's gonna have a good

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time at the Derby? I feel
like it. If you don't, then

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you're kind of a lame person,
right, am I crazy? It was

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our first date. We could have
had like a cotton candy, we could

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have gone on the ferris wheel.
But that's true. We did a ton

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of that kind of stuff and then
the Derby was there, so obviously we're

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going to enjoy the Derby. Are
you serious? Right now? I think

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I'm probright. I think we're just
maybe not a good match. It was.

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It was embarrassing. I think maybe
it's safe to say like a Derby's

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maybe like a fifth or sixth state
kind of activity. What's embarrassing is someone

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who doesn't know how to have a
good time at something like the Derby.

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It's the Derby. Come on,
yeah, hey, Derek, you know

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what, Derek, I agree with
you. I mean, this one's on,

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Jessica. I mean you're going to
a fair, you should know like

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the ins and outs of like the
demolition Derby and all that stuff derby etiquette.

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I'm sorry, Jeff, he's spilled
beer on her. He was screaming

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and yell and waving his shirt.
Listen, it's just sounds like it's not

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a good match, you know what. I think you're right because someone who

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doesn't get the Derby, then it's
probably not gonna get me. Well,

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listen, would you guys like to
go on a second day because I will

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pick up the tap and we could
just keep it low key, like there

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doesn't have to be like a like
cars crashing or anything. We could do

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something low key. I don't know
about Derek, but I'm gonna say no,

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thank you. Okay, you beat
me to it. I was gonna

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also say no because I'm going to
be good nat with someone who enjoys things

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I enjoy. Okay. Yeah,
Well, maybe you guys can go watch

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the motorcycles in the cage next time
because that's always fun. All right.

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Well, listen, Jessica, Derek, I'm sorry we didn't make a love

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match, but I'm glad we got
down to business and got the answers.

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You needed. Thank you guys so
much for being open and honest on second

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date update, thank you for having
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