WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.040 --> 00:00:16.079 Take your imagination to another level of hot stories. Today we present legacy part 2 00:00:16.079 --> 00:00:23.000 fifty. Don' t forget to subscribe so you don' t miss any 3 00:00:23.000 --> 00:00:31.920 of the stories. Maro had a closed silk robe that reached half a leg. 4 00:00:33.880 --> 00:00:37.640 I made room for her in bed, lifted the duvet. She sat 5 00:00:37.640 --> 00:00:42.840 down and, turning her back on me, lay beside me with a certain 6 00:00:42.920 --> 00:00:47.479 shyness, hugged her and she intertwined my hands with hers over her abdomen. 7 00:00:48.240 --> 00:00:51.960 I didn' t stick the rest of my body, and she didn' 8 00:00:52.399 --> 00:00:56.840 t stick to mine just my chest against her back. Pedro, I don 9 00:00:56.880 --> 00:01:00.960 ' t know how to thank you for everything you' ve done for me 10 00:01:00.960 --> 00:01:04.079 and you don' t have to. Maro, at some point I came 11 00:01:04.120 --> 00:01:10.079 to think that my concern for you had something to do with some lingering feeling 12 00:01:10.200 --> 00:01:15.400 of what we once had. Now it has become very clear to me that 13 00:01:15.400 --> 00:01:19.040 it has more to do with what we really are to each other. But 14 00:01:21.599 --> 00:01:26.120 if we hadn' t known, you' d have kept worrying. Of 15 00:01:26.200 --> 00:01:30.599 course, sea I have always loved you for what you once meant in my 16 00:01:30.719 --> 00:01:36.159 life and also for being the mother of our daughter, but above all for 17 00:01:36.239 --> 00:01:41.680 the damage I caused you and the one we now know we have always been 18 00:01:41.680 --> 00:01:44.840 brothers. It' s not gonna change at all. I think that even 19 00:01:44.840 --> 00:01:49.480 now I' m a little more worried. All right, you don' 20 00:01:49.560 --> 00:01:53.319 t need to worry anymore. That' s enough with everything you' ve 21 00:01:53.319 --> 00:02:00.840 done. Thank you. What did you think about Alberto? I don' 22 00:02:00.840 --> 00:02:04.120 t know what to think. If I' m honest with you, I 23 00:02:04.159 --> 00:02:07.239 can' t help but feel disappointed and very angry. Every time I think 24 00:02:07.280 --> 00:02:13.280 of him, I never expected him to do anything like that. Compared to 25 00:02:13.280 --> 00:02:21.919 you, he was a real saint I' m so naive, we didn 26 00:02:21.960 --> 00:02:25.000 ' t all think he was a saint, he was the right person for 27 00:02:25.000 --> 00:02:30.120 you. But in December we saw a human being like any other. You 28 00:02:30.199 --> 00:02:35.840 weren' t naive, you just trusted yourself. It was so obvious, 29 00:02:37.680 --> 00:02:39.479 she said, and this time she turned and we stood face to face. 30 00:02:42.120 --> 00:02:46.479 Yes, we thought he was a person who conformed to your righteous, to 31 00:02:46.599 --> 00:02:53.680 your precepts, morally correct, reserved and with your very beliefs. We thought 32 00:02:53.759 --> 00:02:58.599 it was your soul mate or half an orange and you took it for granted. 33 00:03:00.360 --> 00:03:04.879 “ I also thought the same,” he said with a certain reluctance. 34 00:03:05.039 --> 00:03:08.039 But in December we saw someone I don' t know if they were 35 00:03:08.080 --> 00:03:14.319 repressing or rediscovering. He is a person susceptible, like any mortal, to 36 00:03:14.439 --> 00:03:19.360 the provocations of sex. Opposite, don' t bother about what I' 37 00:03:19.439 --> 00:03:23.680 m going to tell you, but we enjoyed seeing him react like a teenager 38 00:03:23.719 --> 00:03:30.120 to women' s nudity and provocations. It was intentional and we had fun 39 00:03:30.159 --> 00:03:35.800 at his ribs and we even took it out. We made him drink more 40 00:03:35.879 --> 00:03:38.639 of the bill and provoked them both for the purpose of having sex and we 41 00:03:38.680 --> 00:03:46.319 were free to be the sexual beings we are. Yeah, I noticed that 42 00:03:46.400 --> 00:03:51.360 part. Don' t think I didn' t notice. I enjoyed your 43 00:03:51.400 --> 00:03:55.240 daring, too, and I liked it that way. I just thought I 44 00:03:55.360 --> 00:03:58.960 ' d have limits and I saw that I didn' t. I think 45 00:03:59.120 --> 00:04:04.599 we were rather motivated. It' s possible that that happened, or maybe 46 00:04:04.719 --> 00:04:10.599 it just came out of the shell. Sometimes we never really get to know 47 00:04:10.680 --> 00:04:16.600 people. For example, I never thought you could accumulate so much resentment for 48 00:04:16.720 --> 00:04:20.839 so long. I have to accept it. It' s not something I 49 00:04:20.920 --> 00:04:25.800 ' m proud of, Pedro, but I can' t help it. 50 00:04:27.360 --> 00:04:31.680 Don' t worry about that tingling who it is, but if there' 51 00:04:31.800 --> 00:04:36.720 s something you can do with it, sea the moment things happen to you, 52 00:04:38.120 --> 00:04:43.160 you must drain it at once, because that accumulates, corrodes you and 53 00:04:43.240 --> 00:04:47.160 fills you with resentment. After you do it the way you think best, 54 00:04:47.600 --> 00:04:55.079 then think things over with your head cold. Don' t act accordingly, 55 00:04:55.439 --> 00:05:00.600 with anger on you. Yeah, I guess you' re right Look. 56 00:05:00.680 --> 00:05:04.920 The best example I can give about that is that you immediately talked to Andrea 57 00:05:05.000 --> 00:05:13.319 about what happened to Alberto. You did catharsis with the slap you gave her 58 00:05:13.360 --> 00:05:18.000 and that served her as a punishment. They spoke as a mother and daughter, 59 00:05:18.319 --> 00:05:23.959 they spoke as two adults and there you drained everything you felt and she 60 00:05:24.079 --> 00:05:27.680 too took a big weight off her. Just as I took it off when 61 00:05:27.759 --> 00:05:31.240 I talked to you, I can' t deny it. Talking to Andrea 62 00:05:31.360 --> 00:05:38.079 was very liberating. I' m even surprised at how she turned out and 63 00:05:38.199 --> 00:05:42.680 more surprised at how I feel. It' s something you can deal with 64 00:05:42.759 --> 00:05:46.199 with the psychologist these days. How long are these sessions going to last? 65 00:05:47.920 --> 00:05:51.160 I don' t know, but I paid for the exclusivity of your time. 66 00:05:51.240 --> 00:05:57.319 As long as I' ve slept, we may have a few full 67 00:05:57.319 --> 00:06:00.360 days with her. I really don' t know how you' re going 68 00:06:00.360 --> 00:06:05.040 to do this dynamic. So take advantage of the sea That' s what 69 00:06:05.040 --> 00:06:11.480 I' ll do. I promise. Well, little sister, let' 70 00:06:12.160 --> 00:06:15.920 s go to sleep how weird that sounds don' t sound like a date. 71 00:06:16.480 --> 00:06:23.600 You think he' s a caller, though I don' t even 72 00:06:23.600 --> 00:06:27.319 know why I' m asking him. The answer is yes, no wonder 73 00:06:27.360 --> 00:06:30.040 you think so, but I don' t think it' s a quote. 74 00:06:31.519 --> 00:06:35.639 Good evening, Brother, you said very seriously emphasizing the last word. 75 00:06:38.600 --> 00:06:42.600 We stared at her for a second, and I came up to give her 76 00:06:42.720 --> 00:06:46.560 a short, chaste beak that she didn' t turn down. Finally, 77 00:06:46.680 --> 00:06:49.279 we smiled in the dark of the night and, turning around, he stood 78 00:06:49.319 --> 00:06:55.920 up and left my room towards the other. The next day I stood up 79 00:06:56.040 --> 00:06:59.959 early and made breakfast for both of us. I had to go to the 80 00:07:00.240 --> 00:07:03.879 Naviera, where I' d meet Conny, catch up and then go on 81 00:07:03.959 --> 00:07:08.959 a date with Dr Coro. He informs me that the new yachts had just 82 00:07:09.000 --> 00:07:13.480 crossed the Panama Canal the day before and that in about four days they would 83 00:07:13.519 --> 00:07:17.839 be arriving in Miami. I left the order to leave them in Miami and 84 00:07:17.879 --> 00:07:23.040 prepare them well before putting them on the humptens. It was possible that I 85 00:07:23.199 --> 00:07:28.800 saw them before I left half way. Tomorrow we left for the Psychological Center, 86 00:07:29.240 --> 00:07:34.000 where we would be attended and know the dynamics. We were to be 87 00:07:34.000 --> 00:07:40.160 treated simultaneously by a couple of middle- aged doctors, Dr Amo de Rosschao 88 00:07:40.160 --> 00:07:45.480 and Dr Obre Mauser. Both specialized in family psychology, couple psychology, sexuality 89 00:07:45.920 --> 00:07:51.079 and development. We would have with them three daily sessions of two hours, 90 00:07:51.839 --> 00:07:58.639 each with an hour of rest. That day we' d start at eleven, 91 00:07:58.920 --> 00:08:00.360 and at one o' clock we' d go out for lunch. 92 00:08:00.560 --> 00:08:01.839 Then we' d go in at 2: 00 and 4: 00. 93 00:08:03.000 --> 00:08:07.439 We' d go out for a snack and come back at 5: 00 94 00:08:07.439 --> 00:08:11.519 and finally get out at 7: 00. The first two hours I talked 95 00:08:11.639 --> 00:08:16.920 about how it all started almost twenty- four years ago. I had to 96 00:08:16.040 --> 00:08:22.439 start with how all the events developed. At one o' clock I saw 97 00:08:22.519 --> 00:08:26.759 myself with sea and we went to lunch at a small pizzeria that I knew 98 00:08:26.759 --> 00:08:30.560 was very close. You' re gonna like them. These pizzas are a 99 00:08:30.680 --> 00:08:35.399 vice. I told you when we got here I feel weird, Pedro. 100 00:08:35.879 --> 00:08:41.840 This reminds me when we went to therapy, he said we barely asked after 101 00:08:41.840 --> 00:08:48.039 we sat down. Yeah. Okay. I also started by telling how we 102 00:08:48.039 --> 00:08:52.159 met until our wedding, as I have so vivid memories of the wedding. 103 00:08:54.120 --> 00:09:01.879 Yes, and that asked strangely you remember that I asked you for the name 104 00:09:01.960 --> 00:09:07.039 of our wedding photographer was to look in the photos for the image of the 105 00:09:07.159 --> 00:09:11.720 woman I saw in the videos of the safe and that they were key to 106 00:09:11.799 --> 00:09:18.559 what I was investigating. Yeah, well. I had all the pictures printed 107 00:09:18.600 --> 00:09:22.720 out and in one afternoon I saw about a thousand and five hundred photos of 108 00:09:22.840 --> 00:09:28.639 our wedding. I burned down our wedding album and everything else, the video 109 00:09:28.759 --> 00:09:35.120 and the photos that were in the house. He said something surprised to remember 110 00:09:35.120 --> 00:09:41.600 yes. Your mom told me. That' s why I asked you for 111 00:09:41.600 --> 00:09:43.279 the photographer' s details. I' d like to see them again. 112 00:09:43.759 --> 00:09:48.519 Sure, then I' ll pass them to you, that' s right, 113 00:09:48.840 --> 00:09:52.120 don' t burn them again. I told her in a sane way 114 00:09:52.360 --> 00:09:56.759 You can' t be calm. Maybe I' ll arm an album again. 115 00:09:58.279 --> 00:10:03.480 That was a nice memory and he wanted it back now. After lunch 116 00:10:03.519 --> 00:10:09.120 we went back to the center to continue the sessions until rest. I told 117 00:10:09.159 --> 00:10:13.960 how my faithful marriage life had been and part of what it was like to 118 00:10:13.960 --> 00:10:18.600 arrive at the house and the beginning of the motherhood. In the third part, 119 00:10:18.720 --> 00:10:22.799 I already counted the motherhood thoroughly and everything until the birth of Andrea on 120 00:10:22.840 --> 00:10:28.000 the way out. At night, Maru and I went to eat at a 121 00:10:28.039 --> 00:10:33.200 restaurant and talked a little bit about what we had told the doctors. We 122 00:10:33.240 --> 00:10:39.559 laughed a lot, remembering each other moments that we shared together and with reproaches 123 00:10:39.639 --> 00:10:45.679 for some things or details that again told him about the literal limp that was 124 00:10:45.720 --> 00:10:52.279 built in the house. We had a few drinks and went home. When 125 00:10:52.360 --> 00:10:56.240 we arrived we made video calls with everyone, also Marito and in were at 126 00:10:56.279 --> 00:10:58.879 the mother- in- law' s house without the mother- in- 127 00:10:58.879 --> 00:11:01.879 law. Obviously, sea talked to the kids and I talked to Mano and 128 00:11:03.279 --> 00:11:07.480 Carola and then we all told each other more or less what we talked to 129 00:11:07.480 --> 00:11:11.919 the doctors. And for now all right, the talk was pleasant and after 130 00:11:13.000 --> 00:11:16.440 a while, we said goodbye and went to sleep everyone in their room. 131 00:11:18.759 --> 00:11:22.639 The next day, after breakfast, I would spend a moment at the Naviera 132 00:11:22.679 --> 00:11:28.279 and we would go to the sessions this time they would start at ten in 133 00:11:28.360 --> 00:11:33.480 the morning and at twelve we would have lunch out until two and the rest 134 00:11:33.519 --> 00:11:37.440 would remain the same as the day before. Maru and I were almost on 135 00:11:37.519 --> 00:11:43.600 par with the story. When we went out for lunch, we went back 136 00:11:43.639 --> 00:11:48.519 to the little pizzeria. Maru had loved the food there He wanted to try 137 00:11:48.600 --> 00:11:54.799 other things. You know that during our separation I had a girlfriend in Panama 138 00:11:54.919 --> 00:11:58.200 who I offered to go with me to the Bahamas before entering the United States. 139 00:12:00.879 --> 00:12:05.960 I didn' t know what to do with her. Well, the 140 00:12:05.039 --> 00:12:09.080 doctor told me it was very possible that if she had left with me, 141 00:12:09.159 --> 00:12:15.000 I was still with her and I hadn' t started thinking about it. 142 00:12:16.440 --> 00:12:20.600 She stayed in Panama because she was studying medicine and didn' t want to 143 00:12:20.600 --> 00:12:26.679 leave college. I remember that during my trip to the Bahamas I missed her 144 00:12:26.759 --> 00:12:31.200 very much and if it hadn' t been because in the Bahamas I started 145 00:12:31.200 --> 00:12:33.759 to have a lot of work, I would have returned to Panama. It 146 00:12:33.840 --> 00:12:39.360 ' s more than a day before they gave me the news that I had 147 00:12:39.399 --> 00:12:43.799 several events in Miami. I had thought about going back to Panama and looking 148 00:12:43.840 --> 00:12:48.000 for her and you' d still have been with her. Who knows about 149 00:12:48.039 --> 00:12:52.039 the women I' ve had since we split up until before your dad died. 150 00:12:54.799 --> 00:12:58.240 She was the only one I came to think of would have any future, 151 00:12:58.759 --> 00:13:03.720 even though she was more like a cloth of tears. It was with 152 00:13:03.799 --> 00:13:07.360 her that I was able to overcome the separation, even if you don' 153 00:13:07.440 --> 00:13:13.799 t believe it It was very painful for me and with the others they never 154 00:13:13.919 --> 00:13:16.399 awakened in me that desire to make a long- term life. The one 155 00:13:16.480 --> 00:13:20.440 that lasted the longest was two years. It lasted because she forced herself to 156 00:13:20.480 --> 00:13:26.000 be there, but I didn' t feel that desire to make life together. 157 00:13:26.559 --> 00:13:31.960 I never saw myself married or engaged to her. He lived on top 158 00:13:33.039 --> 00:13:37.240 of his head at work until one day I got home and he was gone 159 00:13:37.639 --> 00:13:41.759 You think if he had gone on with the girl from Panama, nothing would 160 00:13:41.799 --> 00:13:48.679 have happened after Dad died. I don' t know, but it' 161 00:13:48.759 --> 00:13:52.600 s possible for several reasons. First, because my contacts with you would have 162 00:13:52.720 --> 00:13:56.919 been less the trip I made with the girls, during which she started out 163 00:13:58.000 --> 00:14:01.840 with the drive of her madness and I wouldn' t have been alone with 164 00:14:01.919 --> 00:14:07.799 the girls for sure, I wouldn' t have made the trip with bad 165 00:14:07.919 --> 00:14:11.159 pussy and in segramente and if it had been done, it would have been 166 00:14:11.159 --> 00:14:16.120 in other terms. Maybe I was also in conflict with myself, so I 167 00:14:16.159 --> 00:14:22.799 always felt bad. How they kept that feeling for so long without being together, 168 00:14:24.159 --> 00:14:28.879 because there was something that was never missing. We talked almost every week 169 00:14:28.879 --> 00:14:35.799 about the promise of getting back together at some point, but I never dared 170 00:14:35.840 --> 00:14:41.679 being Mario alive. I was very ashamed of what happened in the house and 171 00:14:41.799 --> 00:14:46.240 I was always afraid of his reproach. I was indebted to him and I 172 00:14:46.320 --> 00:14:50.600 didn' t want to be the cause of something happening to him. Dad 173 00:14:50.679 --> 00:14:54.120 would have avoided a lot of things if he hadn' t kept us that 174 00:14:54.120 --> 00:14:58.960 far away. I' m absolutely right, but now we' re only 175 00:15:00.039 --> 00:15:03.000 grateful to do everything he did, even if it wasn' t the right 176 00:15:03.000 --> 00:15:07.200 thing to do. I appreciate everything I have and where I am now. 177 00:15:07.720 --> 00:15:15.000 I think I finally think the same thing too. It sounded slightly resigned at 178 00:15:15.080 --> 00:15:20.879 the hour of mid- afternoon rest. Maro was a little irritable. I 179 00:15:20.919 --> 00:15:26.919 guess this time she told the tragic part, so I didn' t want 180 00:15:26.919 --> 00:15:30.840 to bother her much. We had a coffee in silence, we only talked 181 00:15:30.919 --> 00:15:37.039 what was necessary and sent messages to the house while we did time at night. 182 00:15:37.080 --> 00:15:43.240 The story was worse. Maru was very dismayed how little we could talk 183 00:15:43.240 --> 00:15:48.720 about. She was counting her life with Alberto and I assumed that remembering him 184 00:15:48.759 --> 00:15:54.159 affected him a little more than normal at home. In daily communication with others, 185 00:15:54.399 --> 00:15:58.759 she was a little encouraged by talking to her children. The ending of 186 00:15:58.960 --> 00:16:04.879 the r conversation, we had a couple of drinks to relax. I can 187 00:16:04.879 --> 00:16:08.759 ' t help but feel anger with Alberto Pedro. I' m not in 188 00:16:08.799 --> 00:16:14.360 the mood to keep drinking. He said after the second drink, excuse me, 189 00:16:14.559 --> 00:16:18.039 but I' m going to sleep. No problem. Maru good night 190 00:16:18.440 --> 00:16:22.840 and I saw her go to her room. I had another drink and then 191 00:16:22.919 --> 00:16:27.840 I went for a bath. When I came out of the shower, I 192 00:16:27.879 --> 00:16:33.120 went to the kitchen to drink some water and in the darkness and silence of 193 00:16:33.120 --> 00:16:37.720 the room, as I passed through his room, I heard a sob. 194 00:16:37.720 --> 00:16:44.720 I was crying. I wanted to come in and I can' t give 195 00:16:44.759 --> 00:16:47.879 her any comfort, but I' d rather leave her alone. On the 196 00:16:47.960 --> 00:16:52.399 third day, in renewed spirits, we went to the sessions. I expected 197 00:16:52.440 --> 00:16:56.639 Maru to have a better look at noon, but it was quite the opposite. 198 00:16:59.200 --> 00:17:03.440 He was irritated. This time I took her to a good restaurant, 199 00:17:03.079 --> 00:17:11.440 where she at least relaxed enjoying the food. Seeing this, in the last 200 00:17:11.519 --> 00:17:15.240 session, I talked to the doctor about something other than what we had to 201 00:17:15.240 --> 00:17:19.359 talk about. At the end of the day, I ended up counting in 202 00:17:19.359 --> 00:17:23.480 the session until the trip in December. Maru came out with a change in 203 00:17:23.599 --> 00:17:30.799 his spirit of entry. She was very quiet and the sadness dominated the dinner 204 00:17:30.880 --> 00:17:33.640 more than once her eyes were watered and as much as I wanted to know 205 00:17:33.680 --> 00:17:40.559 what was wrong with her she refused to tell me. I didn' t 206 00:17:40.559 --> 00:17:42.160 want to push her either. What she talks to the doctor and what she 207 00:17:42.200 --> 00:17:48.400 tells her is something that only she has to do with. That night we 208 00:17:48.440 --> 00:17:53.240 didn' t talk to anyone, I just crossed messages with Malo and Carola, 209 00:17:53.640 --> 00:17:57.240 where we gave ourselves brief reports of the day. I talked to Conn 210 00:17:57.279 --> 00:18:02.519 and he told me that the boats were coming to Lno tomorrow afternoon and that 211 00:18:02.680 --> 00:18:07.920 she was going to wait to travel to the Hamptens. On one of them. 212 00:18:07.920 --> 00:18:11.160 On the fourth day, I began to tell the doctor everything that happened 213 00:18:11.279 --> 00:18:18.079 this year and my conflict with Malo and Carola. During the midday break we 214 00:18:18.599 --> 00:18:23.920 returned to the pizzeria, where a taciturna sea barely ate and barely spoke In 215 00:18:23.960 --> 00:18:27.400 the afternoon he did not want to go for coffee. He rested in the 216 00:18:27.440 --> 00:18:34.000 anteroom of the office. During the break I received several messages, including information 217 00:18:34.079 --> 00:18:37.920 that I had asked for the day before and the arrival of the ships. 218 00:18:40.440 --> 00:18:45.079 I turned specific Aconi instructions to keep me up to date. At night, 219 00:18:45.359 --> 00:18:52.880 Maro reluctantly agreed to have some drinks. After a slow start, she relaxed 220 00:18:52.000 --> 00:18:57.559 slightly her anger with Alberto was stronger than ever and was hitting him more as 221 00:18:57.640 --> 00:19:07.160 time passed. That day' s therapy had been difficult for her. Remembering 222 00:19:07.200 --> 00:19:11.720 the hard year he lived with Alberto, it was to be expected. I 223 00:19:11.839 --> 00:19:18.319 ended up counting right before I found out who the money recipient was. I 224 00:19:18.359 --> 00:19:23.119 counted my conflicts with Maru, the fight with Alberto, what happened with Andrea 225 00:19:23.200 --> 00:19:30.519 and the girls on their birthday and the subsequent denunciation and negotiation with Maro after 226 00:19:30.559 --> 00:19:33.480 we went to bed. I couldn' t stop thinking about Maru and how 227 00:19:33.519 --> 00:19:40.400 she was feeling. After a lot of fighting with my nosy mind, he 228 00:19:40.440 --> 00:19:41.880 stopped me to see how I was already. As I approached her door, 229 00:19:41.960 --> 00:19:48.680 I heard her crying this time I was trying to drown the grief- stricken 230 00:19:49.160 --> 00:19:52.759 cry against the pillow I breathed deep trying to go to my room, but 231 00:19:52.759 --> 00:19:57.240 I couldn' t. I opened the door carefully. I was hoping she 232 00:19:57.319 --> 00:20:02.960 ' d hear me come in, but in her so heartbroken I sounded worse 233 00:20:03.000 --> 00:20:04.480 now that I was in the room and she didn' t hear me come 234 00:20:04.480 --> 00:20:10.799 in. I closed the door carefully and went to bed. I thought about 235 00:20:10.920 --> 00:20:15.119 it for a moment. I put a knee in bed and lay next to 236 00:20:15.160 --> 00:20:19.759 her holding her with one of my arms. She didn' t stop crying 237 00:20:19.839 --> 00:20:26.000 or be surprised at my arrival. She just turned to me and I got 238 00:20:26.079 --> 00:20:30.880 her in my arms. She plunged her head into my neck crying discomfortously and 239 00:20:30.920 --> 00:20:36.599 hugging me tightly. I don' t know how long he cried. He 240 00:20:36.640 --> 00:20:42.119 didn' t let me say anything, he didn' t want to hear 241 00:20:42.200 --> 00:20:45.319 anything, to tell him just a strong arm while he was crying. I 242 00:20:45.400 --> 00:20:52.680 don' t know how long he was crying among his jimoteos that made me 243 00:20:52.680 --> 00:20:57.000 startle. Sometimes that' s how we got to sleep. The next day, 244 00:20:57.079 --> 00:21:00.920 when I woke up to a hugger with her, I said I had 245 00:21:02.000 --> 00:21:07.839 to do something about it. I can' t stand seeing a woman suffer 246 00:21:07.839 --> 00:21:11.839 or cry, and not because I' m the cause. It always has 247 00:21:11.839 --> 00:21:15.160 an effect on me and forces me to do something about it to avoid such 248 00:21:15.160 --> 00:21:21.079 suffering. That is perhaps what has made me permissive with girls many times after 249 00:21:21.160 --> 00:21:26.599 she woke up and apologized many times for what happened the night before, which 250 00:21:26.680 --> 00:21:33.160 I did not accept. We set out to go to what might be the 251 00:21:33.279 --> 00:21:38.720 last day of doctor sessions. I didn' t let her go on apologizing. 252 00:21:40.359 --> 00:21:42.920 I told him it was nothing bad and I was just giving him a 253 00:21:44.039 --> 00:21:48.400 comforting hug. What do friends and family do when needed and that was there 254 00:21:48.480 --> 00:21:56.519 for that we went through the shipping company. First we went to the port 255 00:21:56.559 --> 00:22:02.519 to see the new yachts that had already arrived and r that he liked very 256 00:22:02.519 --> 00:22:07.880 much. I explained to him how he had acquired them and that they would 257 00:22:07.880 --> 00:22:11.519 be destined for the Hamptens. We talked about what we can possibly do when 258 00:22:11.559 --> 00:22:15.680 traveling and going around the world. After turning some instructions to Conni for that 259 00:22:15.839 --> 00:22:23.079 day we went to the psychologists. This time it was my turn to tell 260 00:22:23.160 --> 00:22:27.559 everything I learned, after finding out who was the recipient of Mario' s 261 00:22:27.559 --> 00:22:33.640 money, what I talked to my mother, how I took the news of 262 00:22:33.759 --> 00:22:38.200 knowing us brothers, what happened during and after the wedding, what happened to 263 00:22:38.319 --> 00:22:42.039 my daughter Carina and how my aunt, mother- in- law, took 264 00:22:42.119 --> 00:22:48.400 it, and how I decided to continue my relationship with my now sisters until 265 00:22:48.519 --> 00:22:52.880 the time when everyone found out at noon. When I came out bad, 266 00:22:53.319 --> 00:22:57.039 I was serious. We went to eat at a different place, food from 267 00:22:57.039 --> 00:23:02.720 the sea, in a place close to the center, yes, logically it 268 00:23:03.119 --> 00:23:07.400 was sad, already she had told what happened with Alberto and what happened with 269 00:23:07.559 --> 00:23:11.400 Andrea and what they talked about until they came to test us for DNA. 270 00:23:11.440 --> 00:23:15.079 The doctor is now going to give you her conclusions, which she has done 271 00:23:15.079 --> 00:23:18.480 to the extent that she has required at the different stages of her life. 272 00:23:21.119 --> 00:23:26.240 She was calm, but she felt grief in her shadowy countenance and barely tasted 273 00:23:26.279 --> 00:23:33.920 the food back to the office. I told the events of the last week 274 00:23:33.000 --> 00:23:40.160 to get to your office and good Doctor, that' s all up to 275 00:23:40.200 --> 00:23:48.240 what happened last night with the sea What a story worthy of a series of 276 00:23:48.319 --> 00:23:56.039 HBO, Big Love and game of throne are short and sorry to mention it 277 00:23:56.039 --> 00:23:57.680 that way. Don' t worry. My friend and partner has told me 278 00:23:57.759 --> 00:24:04.359 several times. Tell me something why you came to consult. I know you 279 00:24:04.440 --> 00:24:08.519 told me you did it out of solidarity with your sister, but I think 280 00:24:08.519 --> 00:24:15.279 there' s something better. Before I had another reason to come, only 281 00:24:15.359 --> 00:24:21.160 then I realized that I didn' t care what was going on. I 282 00:24:21.200 --> 00:24:26.279 mean, it' s not that I didn' t care, I just 283 00:24:26.359 --> 00:24:32.160 didn' t agree with the conflict between what I felt and what was going 284 00:24:32.200 --> 00:24:36.559 on at first, I felt a lot of guilt for what the girls wanted 285 00:24:36.599 --> 00:24:37.920 to do, and I recognized that that excited me and let me go to 286 00:24:37.920 --> 00:24:42.039 a certain point. It stopped me. At some point I came to think 287 00:24:42.079 --> 00:24:45.039 he was a sex addict and that' s why everything was going on. 288 00:24:45.559 --> 00:24:49.440 But my doubt was because that happened to me only with them, with the 289 00:24:49.480 --> 00:24:56.319 women of the house, outside the house. My life was normal. There 290 00:24:56.359 --> 00:25:00.680 was no such desire to have sex at all times with the first one that 291 00:25:00.720 --> 00:25:04.559 came through my forehead outside of them, my lifelong friend or someone from time 292 00:25:04.680 --> 00:25:08.920 to time, i e, the opportunity arises and I take it before the 293 00:25:11.480 --> 00:25:15.160 incest that they did wrong with Carola and Marito. I found it very exciting, 294 00:25:15.880 --> 00:25:19.640 but it was because then I was a spectator what happened with my daughters. 295 00:25:19.680 --> 00:25:26.400 I questioned it enormously and was permissive to a certain extent, always avoiding 296 00:25:26.480 --> 00:25:33.920 committing the act itself only if I allowed the touchy caresses and touching. Beyond 297 00:25:33.920 --> 00:25:37.559 that. No, and what happened until before Marito' s wedding was without 298 00:25:37.000 --> 00:25:44.119 my consent. The night we had oral sex with my daughter Carina, I 299 00:25:44.519 --> 00:25:48.960 was pushed by Malo. I got carried away by her trying to convince me 300 00:25:49.039 --> 00:25:55.880 that she forced me also after already being aware of having committed incest with Malo 301 00:25:55.920 --> 00:26:00.839 and Carola, knowing that we are brothers and perhaps also ur with the drinks 302 00:26:00.920 --> 00:26:06.920 on which my resistance diminished. However, I must admit the degree of excitement 303 00:26:07.039 --> 00:26:11.160 I felt about it was very high. What surprised me the next day was 304 00:26:11.240 --> 00:26:19.680 not feeling bad or guilty. That' s what I was questioning myself the 305 00:26:19.759 --> 00:26:25.079 night the three of us were with the three daughters of mine. Nor did 306 00:26:25.119 --> 00:26:30.039 I feel that degree of guilt and I am not concerned now because I do 307 00:26:30.039 --> 00:26:34.119 not wish my daughters. They may need me and maybe have sex from now 308 00:26:34.160 --> 00:26:38.119 on, but it' s not something I' m going to try to 309 00:26:38.240 --> 00:26:41.960 do every single time just because I don' t feel that guilt anymore. 310 00:26:42.359 --> 00:26:48.240 I can see them two or three together having sex and not wanting to get 311 00:26:48.319 --> 00:26:52.519 in between them to do it. I' m glad you can love each 312 00:26:52.559 --> 00:26:56.160 other freely in front of me and not see them as something morbid. It 313 00:26:56.279 --> 00:27:00.480 ' s something I can decide to do or not do without a problem. 314 00:27:02.079 --> 00:27:07.039 I fully understand what you mean. He is making it clear what he feels 315 00:27:07.079 --> 00:27:11.960 and what he will do even knowing the moral, social and biological causes that 316 00:27:11.960 --> 00:27:17.839 condemn him. I would have liked to speak with their daughters, but they 317 00:27:17.960 --> 00:27:22.960 were the first to show what they did and tried to do in their own 318 00:27:23.039 --> 00:27:26.960 will and, as he explained to me, were encouraged by their grandfather, 319 00:27:27.400 --> 00:27:30.640 who supposedly told them all the good and the bad. Of this I can 320 00:27:30.720 --> 00:27:34.960 certainly tell you that there is little I could accomplish in them. The seventeen 321 00:27:36.720 --> 00:27:41.000 - year- olds are already in a stage of sexual rebellion, disguised as 322 00:27:41.000 --> 00:27:45.240 sexual maturity. As young people, they cannot be prohibited from having sex easily, 323 00:27:45.920 --> 00:27:51.920 but there are laws condemning what you have done. My profession forces me 324 00:27:52.000 --> 00:27:56.319 to a certain extent to make a complaint. That made me uncomfortable and she 325 00:27:56.400 --> 00:28:03.119 noticed it. But stay calm being a family psychologist, a developmental partner, 326 00:28:03.759 --> 00:28:07.599 as well as a psychologist and sex therapist. Cases like yours are more frequent 327 00:28:07.640 --> 00:28:12.720 than you think, not the magnitude that involves as many members as your family. 328 00:28:15.599 --> 00:28:19.880 But if cases of incest, where it is mostly the parents who want 329 00:28:21.000 --> 00:28:26.839 to change the attitude of the children to this fact, some because they surprised 330 00:28:26.920 --> 00:28:32.079 their children by having relations with each other because they want the parents, and 331 00:28:33.640 --> 00:28:38.200 vice versa, also among adults who have been confused by discovering feelings for their 332 00:28:38.240 --> 00:28:44.279 relatives, most of the time in the first degree, and I cannot hide 333 00:28:44.359 --> 00:28:48.960 from them minors who have been traumatized by having been abused to some degree by 334 00:28:48.000 --> 00:28:53.440 adults in their family circle. Of the various cases like that. Only on 335 00:28:53.559 --> 00:28:59.440 a few occasions have I had to file a complaint in the face of the 336 00:28:59.519 --> 00:29:03.039 greater danger that the victims would continue to be abused. But for this I 337 00:29:03.079 --> 00:29:08.599 must be absolutely sure that the abuse is real. Usually, some just want 338 00:29:08.680 --> 00:29:14.160 to overcome the traumas by turning the page and they can' t do it. 339 00:29:15.640 --> 00:29:19.160 Some cases, the victims have been confused about not knowing what to feel 340 00:29:19.200 --> 00:29:26.559 about it. Some have suffered from Stockholm syndrome and develop feelings towards their abusers 341 00:29:26.599 --> 00:29:33.200 and cannot accept it or have not noticed it. Others feel rejected to any 342 00:29:33.240 --> 00:29:38.440 sexual relationship and complicate their romantic life with their partners. Many of the cases, 343 00:29:38.880 --> 00:29:44.359 the people affected have feelings of guilt for what they think. They did 344 00:29:44.440 --> 00:29:49.039 not make them believe that they were the ones who provoked such actions. Others 345 00:29:49.079 --> 00:29:53.799 simply cannot or do not want to feel emotions. In other words, they 346 00:29:53.880 --> 00:30:00.359 block. In many of these cases there is confusion because they feel how mens 347 00:30:00.400 --> 00:30:04.359 they felt in the conflictive relationship and that leads them to question or confuse that 348 00:30:04.400 --> 00:30:11.160 with fear or fear when someone approaches them with romantic or sexual intentions. Some 349 00:30:11.200 --> 00:30:15.799 do not want to accept that they have desires toward those people. Other cases 350 00:30:15.880 --> 00:30:21.079 are somewhat more complex and a lot of work needs to be done to achieve 351 00:30:21.079 --> 00:30:23.599 relief. There are cases in which people close down and cannot or do not 352 00:30:23.720 --> 00:30:30.799 want to cooperate, as there are those who have simply passed the page letting 353 00:30:30.839 --> 00:30:37.240 bad memories be less important and frequent filling with good memories with other people. 354 00:30:37.279 --> 00:30:41.759 In short, the different ways of covering these types of cases are very broad. 355 00:30:44.400 --> 00:30:48.279 As for the GS, if we understand very well what it is about, 356 00:30:49.759 --> 00:30:55.279 it is still a theory in psychology that data is still being collected by 357 00:30:55.400 --> 00:31:00.119 the cases that come to us. The data that you provided provided was great 358 00:31:00.160 --> 00:31:07.480 for this study. Anonymously, there have been many cases of GS with the 359 00:31:07.559 --> 00:31:14.400 tendency to want to know their ancestors and provenance. Some people have discovered, 360 00:31:14.440 --> 00:31:18.599 through DNA tests, that their partner is a relative consanguineum in the first, 361 00:31:18.160 --> 00:31:25.400 second, and until the third degree. Genetic sexual attraction is a phenomenon that 362 00:31:25.440 --> 00:31:30.079 is rarely talked about between the adopted and their lost parents. Long ago in 363 00:31:30.119 --> 00:31:37.240 most known cases he describes feelings of intense intimacy between two relatives who have been 364 00:31:37.319 --> 00:31:42.279 separated during the critical years of development and union and then first found as adults. 365 00:31:47.079 --> 00:31:52.319 When an adult child and his biological father finally find themselves the brain struggles 366 00:31:52.400 --> 00:31:57.000 to associate as a family. On the other hand, they are captivated by 367 00:31:57.079 --> 00:32:04.000 each other, sharing similar physical characteristics, tastes and dislikes, which is combined 368 00:32:04.079 --> 00:32:09.920 with complex feelings of intimacy. This can lead both parties to express their emotions 369 00:32:09.960 --> 00:32:17.480 sexually. Your case is different, having a person who knew everything and allowed 370 00:32:17.599 --> 00:32:22.519 everything that happened and, if it' s true, as they say, 371 00:32:22.920 --> 00:32:25.000 didn' t have to do with how you and your sister met and joined. 372 00:32:25.039 --> 00:32:31.279 So it is valid to say that there is GS, as well as 373 00:32:31.319 --> 00:32:35.880 valid to say that your father did with you an experiment based on GS. 374 00:32:37.720 --> 00:32:40.920 We are at a time when the gap of sexual freedom and variety is widening. 375 00:32:43.279 --> 00:32:46.039 Every day a new sex genre is created that, in turn, generates 376 00:32:46.240 --> 00:32:52.960 a new wave and sexual diversity. The flag of sexual diversity is going to 377 00:32:52.039 --> 00:32:57.319 reach a point where it will have so many nuances and colors that they will 378 00:32:57.359 --> 00:33:01.480 fall into the category of abstract impressionism to derail it and incest will enter it. 379 00:33:04.000 --> 00:33:07.680 This type of relationship is still one of the most questioned by society, 380 00:33:07.160 --> 00:33:14.440 but as time goes by they are also becoming more frequent. More and more 381 00:33:14.519 --> 00:33:20.079 countries decriminalize this type of relationship when adults decide to do so, because it 382 00:33:20.160 --> 00:33:28.319 is their right to decide. Moreover, the problem with our prohibitive and moral 383 00:33:28.400 --> 00:33:32.839 attitudes towards sexuality that we find apprehensive or immoral, such as incest or sexual 384 00:33:34.279 --> 00:33:39.279 attitudes that are illegal, is that it prevents us from objectively seeking, rather 385 00:33:39.400 --> 00:33:45.440 than accepting that it is there, that it is happening and, instead of 386 00:33:45.519 --> 00:33:51.720 trying to work with it and understand the best, we treat these people as 387 00:33:51.799 --> 00:33:57.319 pariahs and expel them with literal and metaphorical gallows, as we did in the 388 00:33:57.400 --> 00:34:04.799 Middle Ages. People are having sex with close people, relatives, with blood, 389 00:34:05.880 --> 00:34:10.840 and sometimes they are much more nuanced than we might feel comfortable. Our 390 00:34:12.000 --> 00:34:15.679 job is to guide people who need help to overcome problems in this type of 391 00:34:15.719 --> 00:34:22.760 relationship. And this is not your case or your daughters' case. Apparently, 392 00:34:22.239 --> 00:34:29.440 they are aware of all that this kind of relationship implies. It must 393 00:34:29.480 --> 00:34:34.639 be on its own initiative to leave it when the time comes. They must 394 00:34:34.719 --> 00:34:38.920 bear in mind that the fraternal relationship is paramount and that this type of relationship 395 00:34:39.000 --> 00:34:45.239 has the same risks as normal relations, with the obligatory addition that they must 396 00:34:45.360 --> 00:34:51.320 hide it from society, and that it brings consequences in daily life and, 397 00:34:51.360 --> 00:34:57.800 worse, consequences of the fraternal bond being damaged in a bad break. On 398 00:34:57.920 --> 00:35:02.960 the other hand, I understand your concern for your sister sea but it is 399 00:35:02.960 --> 00:35:07.679 she who should in this case, talk to her husband and seek together a 400 00:35:07.760 --> 00:35:13.519 solution that satisfies both, either for good or for bad when she is ready 401 00:35:13.519 --> 00:35:16.519 will. She' s a person who' s suffered a lot for everything 402 00:35:16.639 --> 00:35:21.320 you' ve told me. However, I see in it an extremely strong 403 00:35:21.360 --> 00:35:28.360 person. Not everyone would have gotten here like she did. With everything that 404 00:35:28.400 --> 00:35:32.679 ' s happened to him. All I have left is to recommend that you 405 00:35:32.719 --> 00:35:37.519 keep the decision not to do it with the girls again, as you told 406 00:35:37.519 --> 00:35:42.480 me. If it is as you have shown me, you do not want 407 00:35:42.480 --> 00:35:45.480 this to continue in the next generations. They' ll have to understand it. 408 00:35:46.960 --> 00:35:55.079 They should encourage normal relationships at all times and not normalize incest. The 409 00:35:55.159 --> 00:36:00.880 relationship you three intend to maintain is only your decision. If at their age 410 00:36:00.000 --> 00:36:07.760 no one can accuse them of anything. Of course, avoid spreading it openly 411 00:36:07.840 --> 00:36:12.199 if you do not want to be pointed out by society. As much as 412 00:36:12.280 --> 00:36:15.920 polylove is booming, these kinds of relationships are not yet well seen in society. 413 00:36:19.199 --> 00:36:22.159 We talked a little bit more about what I was thinking about as a 414 00:36:22.159 --> 00:36:28.039 relationship and the decisions made and the risks to come. He told me of 415 00:36:28.039 --> 00:36:31.199 some signs to take into account as regards my daughters and their future relationships and 416 00:36:31.239 --> 00:36:36.039 that, in case of seeing these signs, it was indicative that something was 417 00:36:36.159 --> 00:36:43.920 happening. What was better to prevent than to regret, what to encourage open 418 00:36:44.000 --> 00:36:49.360 communication as a primordial habit. I left there with a broader perspective regarding everything 419 00:36:49.400 --> 00:36:53.840 that was going on and that if I had done something right all this time, 420 00:36:54.280 --> 00:37:00.519 it was to have seen everything from different points of view having been so 421 00:37:00.639 --> 00:37:07.360 analytical, it had helped me avoid making hasty decisions. I waited for Maro 422 00:37:07.400 --> 00:37:14.039 at the office anteroom. During the wait, I entertained myself by receiving and 423 00:37:14.039 --> 00:37:19.760 sending messages. It was just over an hour before he left. It wasn 424 00:37:19.840 --> 00:37:23.400 ' t the same Maru who had come in the afternoon. She was calm, 425 00:37:24.079 --> 00:37:30.280 but also off. The doctor gave me a fixed look and said goodbye 426 00:37:30.360 --> 00:37:37.400 with a slight head movement and we withdrew from there. Please take me for 427 00:37:37.400 --> 00:37:40.400 a drink. I don' t want to go to the apartment yet. 428 00:37:42.920 --> 00:37:49.840 Of course, we went to a par restaurant near my apartment for mal maru 429 00:37:49.840 --> 00:37:54.119 was Friday and the place was crowded, so I preferred to go to a 430 00:37:54.199 --> 00:38:00.639 small bar near the pier where the yachts are all the way. Maro was 431 00:38:00.679 --> 00:38:06.239 silent the times I looked at her. I had a look missing somewhere outside 432 00:38:06.320 --> 00:38:13.800 the car. When Scottish orders arrive and something to bite her. He didn 433 00:38:13.880 --> 00:38:16.960 ' t want to eat. If you don' t eat anything, then 434 00:38:17.039 --> 00:38:21.039 we won' t drink more than a single drink. I told him firmly 435 00:38:22.679 --> 00:38:27.639 I don' t feel like eating, but you have to. Only then 436 00:38:27.760 --> 00:38:34.400 did he agree and between tapas and snacks, he ate enough. He didn 437 00:38:34.440 --> 00:38:39.199 ' t want to talk. I barely answered with monosyllables and that was making 438 00:38:39.239 --> 00:38:45.280 the matter more complicated for me. I had to insist more. Well, 439 00:38:45.320 --> 00:38:50.559 Maru, then what do you intend to do from now on. You can 440 00:38:50.639 --> 00:38:54.280 at least tell me if this served you any purpose. Yeah, it was 441 00:38:54.320 --> 00:38:59.760 worth at least telling me if I was wrong to bring you in. She 442 00:38:59.800 --> 00:39:04.559 stared at me. I was hesitant to answer myself better. Don' t 443 00:39:04.679 --> 00:39:09.239 tell me anything. When you want to talk, I' ll listen to 444 00:39:09.320 --> 00:39:14.559 you, no matter when I' m okay, Pedro, I felt better 445 00:39:14.559 --> 00:39:16.480 doubting said no, I' m not okay. The doctor was hard on 446 00:39:16.480 --> 00:39:21.719 me. He told me that if I should be happy, I should make 447 00:39:21.760 --> 00:39:28.280 radical changes in my life, but I should be the one to initiate those 448 00:39:28.400 --> 00:39:30.480 changes, that I knew very well what was right and what was wrong, 449 00:39:30.679 --> 00:39:36.760 and it was up to me to make the decisions and that under no circumstances 450 00:39:36.840 --> 00:39:39.679 should I let others take them for me. He told me many things that 451 00:39:39.760 --> 00:39:45.880 are true and that at some point he should leave the past behind. That 452 00:39:45.880 --> 00:39:49.880 was gross, Peter, but it also confused me by telling me that if 453 00:39:49.960 --> 00:39:54.880 I didn' t feel comfortable with changing, then I shouldn' t do 454 00:39:54.920 --> 00:40:00.519 it and that if I want to be accepted as I am, I have 455 00:40:00.599 --> 00:40:05.519 to accept others as they are and I guess you still don' t have 456 00:40:05.519 --> 00:40:07.559 a place to start something like that. I don' t want to think 457 00:40:08.920 --> 00:40:13.800 about it today, maybe tomorrow I' ll worry. I want for a 458 00:40:13.920 --> 00:40:19.400 moment to forget everything and everyone else. I want for one night not to 459 00:40:19.519 --> 00:40:24.519 think of anyone or anything, not even tomorrow. She told me staring at 460 00:40:27.159 --> 00:40:31.519 me, I couldn' t interpret her gaze for a moment and much less 461 00:40:31.559 --> 00:40:37.320 than telling her we kept drinking a few more quietly until she told me to 462 00:40:37.400 --> 00:40:42.880 go quietly now in the taxi to the apartment, she had her gaze fixed 463 00:40:42.920 --> 00:40:47.320 on the road. As soon as I imagined going into the apartment, the 464 00:40:47.320 --> 00:40:54.440 one that was going to arm myself had my heart shaking during the elevator climb, 465 00:40:54.440 --> 00:40:59.079 we looked at each other. Of course, she had sadness in her 466 00:40:59.159 --> 00:41:04.920 eyes, but there was determination. Before I opened the apartment door, I 467 00:41:05.440 --> 00:41:10.960 gave her one more look and she barely smiled. I opened the door and 468 00:41:12.039 --> 00:41:17.159 stood aside and let her in. She was petrified by looking inside the apartment 469 00:41:17.239 --> 00:41:25.480 and quickly looked at me. He wanted to go back and get out of 470 00:41:25.559 --> 00:41:30.920 the apartment, but I winked and quickly closed the door to his face and 471 00:41:30.920 --> 00:41:34.559 past the lock, left the key stuck, locked it inside with Alberto. 472 00:41:37.880 --> 00:41:40.920 So much for today' s chapter until the next one.