Hey, what' s up? Girls and guys again welcome to your infidel
podcast infidel podcasts already long enough not to upload one, but we will be
a little more frequent to see if we can get this up again. And
so, the dynamic is if you' re Alice, because it' s
the one who got his ass kicked. And if you' re the guest,
it' s Leticia, because she' s the one who cheats the
pechh but for this occasion we have Hello how about? I' m Alicia,
oh You you yu Yu, Alicia welcome, how you are. Thank
you very much, very well prepared to tell you my story tell me who
the sous is said the cockroach in question, for look already blessed, God
is my ex- partner ok El, for I was five years and we
start with that I met him about eight years ago, if I remember correctly,
in the two thousand seventeen seven years, ok I entered into work in
a company where he was a partner. That' s where I met him,
obviously, because I didn' t turn myself in with the idea of
having a partner. I had come out of a relationship that I had another
story for telling it what, because I was two years old without dating anyone.
Ok I have a daughter, a product of that previous relationship, so,
well, that too as a woman. Well, or in my case
you just want to find another partner, because you give yourself as an edge,
not in other words, of course and apart, because what happened with
my daughter' s dad, because and still happens not yet this does not
leave you, it leaves marks if it leaves you many insecurities, of course
that is both in your person and in the person that is your care then
when I entered the company. Well, obviously, I had no idea of
having a relationship with anyone again. But obviously, I still had a lot
of problems. Maybe that I hadn' t resolved and that I didn'
t want to accept no insecurity is that my ex- partner left me,
also because he knew this person, started a relationship, because of friends like
everyone else. No yes, because I am really very friendly and I am
very clown and I am this, because I like to have contact with my
colleagues. Not so as I talked to him, talked to other people,
okay, but because he started getting closer and closer until you never noticed at
first that he wanted me. No. I never, ever gave me a
sign like that because, besides, he was with someone there in the company.
So, then they did limit themselves. No, but little by little,
yes, I began to feel a little more the approach even when I
was with him, with that person, yes, but that person was married.
Okay, so already in advance, as well as that, I mean,
already knew where. Eighty went, I mean, I already knew them.
No And yet, I mean, between kale and you already knew no,
I mean, a lot of scen ah I already knew. But the
net one, when it' s hitting you, because I' ve thought
sometimes you don' t even notice. No, yeah, well, you
' re not right, I mean, you' re not so aware of
that. Not here in this case, because I wanted to justify it with
that, because to bring her out unfaithful and the cockroach, because it was
with the one she walked, because yesterday she was the one who was married,
ok and since he was separated from the mother, from her daughters.
Ah ok, then he and already had daughters, had three daughters, has
forgiveness, but because they come in another state. Ok So, then,
when I started to treat him, because he told me that he was also
two years separated from her, then you see that he had not had any
relationship either. And so, in a way, with genearion so to speak,
yes, in fact, yes, then I have good something in common.
No, then, because he was a very nice person, I mean,
he had Labia. What they say. That way,' cause he
' s not handsome and I can' t see him more than ever.
Well now, right now, no, at the moment, not really us
two shields I' ve never really noticed or ever been important to me the
physicist, not to me and said well, because it makes me feel good,
makes me laugh. I had a good time, because when you fall
in love that happens. No, yeah, well, yeah, sure,
yeah, you clearly have to like it. No. But then, but
the more you see the deal, the more you kind of get stuck in
that, then, but that was my problem that I got, okay,
because obviously we went out about a month and already we became boyfriends. He
started introducing me to his family, as his girlfriend, to his whole family.
Oh, I didn' t know, but ever since he broke up,
no one had shown up. No, because I felt super important.
I didn' t say don' t try or I mean he really wants
something serious with me. Yeah, sure, I' m really important to
him, not because his whole family was telling me the same thing about this,
but like four months or so from walking in there, I mean,
he ended that relationship. It' s the one I was with, because
I walked with the married woman, so to speak, ah, yes,
I left her aside. Yeah, obviously, she got upset with me,
stopped talking to me. But even though he worked there with her too and
worked. But at the end of the day, she found her half orange
and forgot another story. Ah yes, this is another story, because,
at the end of the day, we started to walk. After about four
months of leenamo I would say this, we started working on a play together.
I worked in the office, but at that time I was given to
supervise work. Then I was completely unaware of the subject. But still I
ventured and said well, we started working together, but suddenly I started to
feel very distant, rude bleeder. He was talking super bad to me in
front of the boys. He treated me super bad. From this I say
that my problem was that I get stuck with everything I saw with all the
illusion that I made myself, not everything that I built myself in the head
that maybe, because it' s stressed, maybe this is the other one
wanting to justify. No yes, of course, we always justify his actions
and once one of the good fellows and my mom fills that time, like
the two months we started that play, he told me, daughter told me,
that boy doesn' t love you. Okay, and I' m
just saying that the other thing and I' m just justifying it not and
I don' t know what and I don' t know how much you
realize, Amiga Ahá, I know how the month my mom told me,
one of my friends comes up and they don' t forget me, because
you realize that people also come to appreciate you. Yeah, of course not,
and one of the comrades came up. In fact, you know,
it was up to us to go to that play alone, and then we
went to eat, and she told me that you love it very much,
right, and I told her. Yeah, he says, but I'
m gonna say something. Yeah, he told me he doesn' t even
love her. She told me, because a man who loves a woman doesn
' t treat her the way he treats her. He treats you with a
few countable legs, okay I' m in vidios. Obviously, my mom
' s words came to me in the head, but she could have more
of my blindness than the warnings that other people came to tell me, too,
that is, you didn' t spin, that is, you didn
' t. I know that at that moment it is one, because as
you say, it becomes blind, well, but in a way you did
not ilast, that is, as you say, that is, or at
least the benefit of the doubt. I didn' t mean to, but
if you felt that way, of course, okay, yeah, sure,
I didn' t mean to. It made me more father to think about
what happened at first, than what was already happening at that time, not
after we finished the play, a little bit before we finished the play and
I was already trupulo, I was tired of his deal. If I got
to a point where I said don' t stain, I' m sick
of it and I need to be treated. So, I remember yelling at
you, yeah, yelling at me in front of the boys. Then even
I gave them an order and he came and with them and so, with
these words, what an asshole. He told them to do this like this,
and the boys would tell me to listen when they already started to have
respect for the boys because I had a hard time earning them. Yeah,
of course they told me to listen to this one because this cockroach told us
what a asshole he told us to do this. You know that' s
it, I said, don' t make it up. This one'
s gone, that' s because he knew that asshole was you. Yes,
if she was referring to me, because by myself, I was the
one who was the supervisor, that is, I was the one who gave
the boys the orders. Hey, I did, and I faced it.
I told him and you know what? The right thing to do is you,
you, as well as supervisor, your obligation is to come with me,
because I' m what' s doing the work and tell me what
' s wrong or this or why you did it. That' s what
I' m telling you, but you come here like boys and you fuck
me no more, ah, because everybody told me that like that. You
told me. Oh, so you' re believing them, because I'
m brainwashing. I said ay. No yes, it' s true that
I believe them. No, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no. I said don' t stain,
because I don' t do it here. Until one of the supervisors
of the construction company approached me and said to me, I felt alone because
of the way they treated me in the company where they worked, but those
of the company, of the construction company approached me and told me this the
boss and that everyone feared and could not speak to him, he approached me
and told me this ARQUII says what good work you did here, as a
woman and as a supervisor, as a construction manager. I wish, women
like you would come here to the builder to lead them, to lead the
boys all the time brought them to me in Chinga. I didn' t
have a problem with you. I congratulate her and I congratulate her that good.
Inventive, that is to say, feeling on the floor with the people
I worked with and other recognized outsiders and not my job, I said no
inventive, that is, these are too macho to accept that a woman did
her job well and it was better to denigrate me or make me feel bad
instead of making me grow up. Not obviously, yes, it lasted a
long time there, but if I realized, because they were very macho,
for even because that was what gave him power maybe the cocoon also over me,
Not because it is that also, that is if he realized, because
since as he, as supervisor and as you say, as a partner,
at the end of the day, is therefore a kind of pattern, no
yes, of course, but then he there knew how to separate the relationship
with the love relationship and the exact working relationship, that is, because it
is, as you say, the orent of hierarchies. No, that is
to say, you have a güey complaint, for so look at the one
who follows, no, yes, of course, not because it makes you
look bad exactly and apart, because you do say, because you are also
your partner. I mean, no, don' t suck, I mean,
I don' t even respect myself. That is, there you realize,
then, that is, how they are, then, or as he
as a person. Then, exactly, and that' s what, because
my head didn' t want to see, because from there it was when
I said you know what comes out by no. No, no, because
I don' t deserve this treatment, because I didn' t almost finish
that work either, yes, I was about to finish it, also because
he told me to do a job. I went along with a partner.
I had never done that which he commanded us to do, for I said,
well, I did not wind it. Yes, of course, because
I started organizing with him. We had two hours at the play. On
that one, because now he did tell me he spoke to me and said,
" You know how urgent it is for you to come here to the
office" I need you to get some blueprints, but then he grabbed the
truck. He brought me back to the office. That' s where the
East Cockroach comes in and they' re done. I told him you sent
us to do a job of over two hundred records. I went two hours
because the linge spoke to us and told me that I had to come and
print some plans. A can' t be possible. I have to do
it all. If things don' t work out. I said oh no
there it was already like the drop that spilled the glass I said you know
what to run me to shit. Just like that, you bastard. I
told him I' m sick of everything I do to you, and I
stressed to him what the engineer told me about a manager. I mean,
I can' t believe other people recognize my job and for you it'
s always the worst and you know what your job is. I got out
of the groundl deven where he was coming, because I just looked up,
because I climbed up to sar the step to tell me what I had to
tell myself that nothing else yelled neo at me. I went down and said
to the scrub. I told him I' m not gonna grab my things
at once and watch them. Well, yeah, he' s coming back
behind me and he' s telling me no if you' re leaving that
I' m gonna tell my brother, because that' s what you'
re doing to me. I told myself you don' t want to treat
me like that, let alone something I' ve never done before. I
told him I' m not justifying myself, I told him, but I
wasn' t going to finish painting two hundred records in two hours. But
is it that there, that is how you were dealing with him, either
as a worker or as his partner or as both, not or already as
both? That' s how I' m sick of it all, I
' m sick of your deal, I' m sick of you not even
recognizing my job. I am already tired and you know that already this notes
that not why you put yourself like this and I, then, how why
then see how you are talking to me, how you are treating me.
I' m tired and she said no. No, don' t go,
I' m gonna tell my sister I don' t know, she
told her, because I don' t know, don' t forgive me
that I don' t know what. Daughter, you know what I'
m selling. I don' t want to see you and he left and
I stayed in the office. Obviously, I cried and cried and my friend
and ended up comforting me. You know, friend, that' s pretty
much the way it is, right, after that, he started to change
a little bit. I don' t know how she started getting out of
her eggs, and she started doing like she was loving again. Again we
were starting to get out a little bit more, I already took more into
account. We ended and gave that hour and, according to him, super
proud of me because wherever I wanted to recognize me, in that faith,
there in the builder where we work too, that is always highlighted my name.
Yes, of course, then he began to change his perspective, because
towards me they told me that I am super proud that they always recognize you
and in CFe they know you, that is, they know who you are
here in the builder, because also, that is, they know who you
are and what hell you don' t and I said again what a pity
that the company worked me. They' re worth a damn, that'
s where you went as an employee. Nothing more. Then, I tell
you what father, that other people recognize the total work. Things began to
calm down a little bit The years began to pass. Yeah, we last
three years of OK boyfriends like two years of boyfriends. There goes the first
flag network not OK. Here comes the aha or the ones I wanted to
see, because I think there were many not. When I wanted to start
noticing. The first was I don' t know how to unload the shoulders
when the men who are unfaithful are unfaithful because of that, well, when
they are unfaithful, that' s why I tell you, I don'
t know or those who are unfaithful realize that the same thing happened to my
daughter' s dad, not talking to the other in front of me that
is, in my nose. Yeah, it was like we were outside my
house where I lived. We were on the side, not inventing to answer
messages until, because red I saw that I sent hearts and that I said
no mames manches net. Yeah. So, then he went to the bathroom
and left his phone. When you start to suspect, you start looking for
passwords. Obviously, as I had already seen, it was crazy, yes,
clear mad eye. He' s never wrong. No. So,
he goes into the bathroom, he forgot his phone. Strange that always,
always came in with the phone. So I said I' m from here
and I don' t mean, because the first little girl I was practicing
with didn' t mean, it seemed like I was with her too because
yesterday' s messages were from you I love. I want to see you,
I want to know that I, Mames, yes, yes, what
a fart to throw at all the little talk I had because I obviously erased
them. But it was what he had recently. It' s not all
me to my guide anywhere, yes, I know and I didn' t
tell him anything That night I didn' t tell him anything about jesus.
The next day we had an event, but why not, I mean more
of one is happening, Right now, why didn' t you tell him
today or more some are asking you no, Mames, why didn' t
you claim him for the trauma of my previous relationship, okay, how did
I react when I found out too then it was like this time I wanted
to take it easy so I didn' t overreact. Okay And then,
obviously, he left that day. I was crying all night and I said
no, because I also accompanied him to the event. But then we went
back and it' s there and we just went to the event and I
decided to determine it. The truth man as soon as he left me,
we got to my house. He told me ah I told him this I
have something to tell you what happened. I told him. You noticed I
checked your phone. It does not seem then that he put on a train,
his tense and his gaze only flinched to the front. I told him
the truth to be fighting for someone. I told him you' re already
with that person. I told him you' re not trying to deny anything.
I told him how they talk and I even love you he tells you
how many times they' ve gone out. I told him here to be
stupid, thinking that poor thing to come to see me if, well,
he' s tired, to go home while you wave with someone else.
I told him I' m not there for that. I said I'
m sorry, but I' m not. I told him I' m
not going to fight for you. No, you don' t like this
one. I don' t wish you any harm. I waited until today
to tell you, to tell you you can be calm. I don'
t know how to react. And so I leave you the free way.
I quit, but I don' t want this. Thank you very much.
He didn' t tell me anything and what maturity on your part,
so react that way. So, because of what I had already been through,
I am already going through it. I' ll tell you the other
story because, well, yes, the other one because with my daughter'
s dad, yes, yes. It was bad for me, because I
reacted. How I reacted when I gave up not that it' s normal,
I don' t say, because it' s that you' re
upset or disappointed, you' re given a lot of mixed feelings. But
then, obviously, that time too, I realized that even then, the
only one that gets the most damaged is you, the other person. It
doesn' t matter, because of course, because his head is in something
else. He didn' t care exactly. So I said, well,
you know what I' m doing. He didn' t tell me anything.
So I said good luck and we went and got out of the truck
and went into my house. He said since I know what I have to
go through. Not at two hours, he sent me a message to forgive
him, which wasn' t what I thought, which I know what,
but what he wanted me and blah, blah, blah, blah. I
don' t remember much what to say anymore. Not the message, but
she' s a cousin. She' s the one who' s good.
Later I will tell you about it, because I totally fell back into
their nets to see, to see, to see. Most likely many are
asking why, that is, what caused you to fall, why it is
that I wanted it and he told me that he loved me, that is,
but in the whole because of the message or it was the next day
or not from the middle. I didn' t answer that message, but
if it came to me with your message, it wasn' t what I
thought he didn' t want to me that was the best thing that ever
happened to him and blah, blah, blah? Bla? Bla? No,
or a lot of things. I didn' t know you didn'
t. It was very expressive and his way of doing it was through the
total message he looked for me, because I didn' t see him all
weekend until we got to work and he looked for me and told me that
because it wasn' t what I thought, that I was a friend,
that being that me as a friend, he' s going to tell you
I love you, because obviously, yes. It was an argument for a
while until it was over. It' s not like he' s looking,
you know, he started getting his family very involved. My own family
has told you that I no longer introduce myself to anyone but YOU, that
is, emulation manipulation. Yes, this one then, you must know with
nothing more important to me. Bla blay, redo. I know all of
a sudden, well, a lot is the same. I let it go
and since at the end of that year he had to leave no, his
daughters came along with his mom or X with Lix and this me because you
always have a little spin, not like when something is left with ok the
ex I noticed it weird. Then he started telling me you know what.
Well, these two aren' t gonna see you because I' m gonna
hang out with my kids, and I' m gonna, well, yeah,
I think it' s got to do with it I mean, I
can meet them. We can live together, because you' re supposed to
know, yes, I' ve known them a year before and I'
ve done everything right with them, but this time it started to put limits
on me, obstacles, yes, all that. So I told him ay,
you don' t know what. That' s another one I told
her you know what if you want. So far we let him sort things
out with you and your daughter' s mom. I told him at the
end of the day, you suffer a lot for them. I mean,
it did touch me to see that what wept at them and suffered and missed
them, that is, I always felt sincere when I talked about his children,
that I told him, so what you told me about why he ended
his relationship, because the truth to me is not made enough to end.
There' s a relationship of so many years my me just told me that
in a moment of startup already told you that I didn' t believe you
and now, but then he regretted it and he was looking for you.
I mean, I don' t know, I don' t see any
point in it, so, I mean, if you really love each other
yet, okay, well, you sort out your stuff. Yes, of
course and apart, see the benefit you' re going to have. There
' s your daughters in between, go back to them. He returns with
them and, in the end, anyway, because he complained that always,
because it was super money, it was the only thing that interested him.
And yes, he always treated him with the legs of that. If he
could not deposit him one day, the daughters would block him, he could
not talk to her until he deposited him. Hey, but I just deposited
you. Yeah, but they take this, this, this. Ah,
on the day he was deposited with him, he could now have access to
his daughters again, alas friends, but manipulated that he had, do not
be so. Ah, I know, so, I said anyway, forgive
me, but it does you how it wants. I mean, it'
s the same thing, if it' s far away, it' s
close. If that' s your downside, I' m not saying.
At the end of the day, I think it' s okay, that
they try, that they don' t understand about their daughters, and that
they care about their family. And I' m telling him because apparently,
you' ve never forgotten. Not even she to you for a few messages
that find them to see in contrast to them the pess by how they were
spoken, for that is, some sexes do not speak like this And I
do not speak like that to my daughter' s father, for it is
clear where I told her that I congratulated her not know if it was her
saint. I don' t know what kids congratulated her and what happiness she
' s a beautiful girl and I don' t know what and I don
' t know how much. I said they were yes so they expressed with
her one thing like that and the other. Thank you very much. So
you' re gonna give me clothes or what? I don' t know
what? I mean, one thing is you say well, it would hurt
your respect, you know, your children' s mom, well, but
what are you going to do as my princess or girl, even since that
beautiful girl I already said good ana. That' s something else. Not
then too, for me, it was precisely for that message that I reacted.
So you know what, then, to try what is still going on
and something between you two. Yeah, of course he didn' t tell
me again, he didn' t tell me anything, just his look at
the front, because accepting what, at the end of the day, what
I was telling him, no matter what the truth is, it' s
true, yes I told him, you know what I told him, well,
there we see each other, because I got out of the truck and
when I' m going to get in my house, he told me I
' m going to come back and I' m going to get back and
I' m going to fuck you, aha aha and no more. I
stared at him and went into my house. I didn' t tell him
anything. Whether I cry or I don' t cry that something' s
totally aha. I heard that he took her to the praz, so they
had already planned their trip from the guy took her to the playe and that
they didn' t come like the happy family, they walked in the places
that we were going out and everything and that' s not it. But
how did you find out? He told you or it was bullshit up states.
Not until that is lui da doso because intelligent not not careful so they
did say careful if it came up states. Obviously, I was blocked so
I wouldn' t notice. But at the end of the day, I
learned yes clearly by people very close to him and who esteemed me too.
Okay, hey, you know what, because we saw them like that,
so they went away together. Yeah, hello, classic friend. You'
re okay, I heard, yeah something like that, yeah, you'
re talking. Yeah, actually, you do feel. You' re okay,
you know they have our support accounts with us. I know my son
' s not good. I already said who. I know it' s
doing us good, but you know we really appreciate you. That' s
what you' re offered. Here we are for you and everything. Then
I gained the affection, for of many of famis notice, yes, of
course, without intention, for no, because they simply accepted me and already
passed. I don' t remember how many went up like a week,
I think, and on the last day he told me to come with me
to take them to the airport and I stayed just like I said that bastard
then wasn' t what I imagined. It was a good one right now.
It' s like it was a move on his part. Not like
this. Aha ok ok, so you can see there' s nothing here.
Uh- huh, yeah, but you don' t go with the
hexa to Bato Beach. I would call myself my sons or my daughters.
In this case I don' t know, but because the ex for clear
nex I mean, you know what excuse me, but I have you I
' m with someone exactly. Yeah, no, they didn' t give
me in my place more videl grabbed like ah it' s over. I
' m free to do whatever you want. Bastard, that' s how
I saw it later. Not because she is and she' s coming with
me and I' m friends, because I' m safer than the wife,
well, to the ex- wife I say no. I' m
done. Don' t look at me. Hey, okay, he told
me this one. Let' s go, obviously, we left in the
morning and we got to her ex where she was staying. Don' t
touch me as soon as the old man saw me, for of course he
arrived and threw his bags at the door, and the other thing, well,
it' s very bed. Girls, get him down and help him
get things down and get things up and I' ll be right there.
But what do I ask with this güey, that is, I lose with
his little head. I know what you mean by" güey", because
I' ve been with my ex and my daughters all week, because we
' ve already had them in the harbour. Güey, I' m coming
back with you, not that I mean, what I' m sending you
to the airport for, that is, exactly to tell me that, well,
or to make me understand, for there was nothing, because between them.
But to me the reaction of the ex was the one that caught my
attention exactly, because if she hadn' t reacted, well hello, how
nice. And so I don' t know, for yes, because now
I do have a relationship that ends well, that is, between them,
I don' t say, well, you' re going to see my
daughters, because then, I try to know you not who I' m
going to have to deal with my daughters, but not all the time it
was super tense I grabbed his head. I, too, have been picturing
the caste in the back, because I well knew, that is, I
also felt the attention. I don' t know who I don' t
know, I don' t know how much I was grabbing him and talking
to him from the rest and I kind of don' t care about you,
like you guys love it, I know, no man, the doña
got a fucking yes to the airport, but it was very busy and it
felt. I don' t know, that diabetic was Mesoy well, I
don' t know, but now I had nothing to do with it for
me. They were done and I don' t know what happened on that
trip. Yeah, I don' t know what happened on that trip so
that aya rebred like that. Ok interesting, then, because already total that
so far I' m thinking about it notice, I friend, I know,
but because already total are gone the girls and have said goodbye to me.
For the same reason, the same manipulation of his mother and yes,
his mother started after there, his mother began to shake the girls a lot
and told him that, then. Not that or the girls would tell him
that, then. He didn' t listen to them because he was distracted
with me that everything was spent on me and I ay daughter. If they
knew he didn' t spend even a few scots on me, I swear
to you, even that' s what he was starting to spend on me
for. No. And besides, they' re words that usually girls wouldn
' t say, because exactly I said there, those aren' t your
daughters' words. For God' s sake, I did say no to
him several times. But if they realize nothing, they' re going to
realize that already, because he also told me no, that it is that
he says that, because he took several old women from you and told them
that I paid my old women. Okay, so you always paid for all
the trips we went out, which, in fact, was on the part
of the company. The company supported us with fifty percent and the other fifty
percent. We paid for it all year. Okay, so how about then,
you know, you know, you know, you know, you know,
you know, you know, you know Also yes, of course,
but because he never hears how you get it, you' re looking black
or I shake hands with you at no time. Not him. He always
said he had no money. Then, according to that, his daughters claimed
that he was taking me away and I and the girls how they know.
No, I was telling him to watch tell the girls how they know.
Well, on Facebook to see woe to God so aha i e, doesn
' t realize that I had it super brainwashed. No, I mean,
oh friends, if you' re listening to this podcast, then, then
you' re coming son not for him would be lethal. Then we let
this one pass. That incident happened another year, but I said no in
20. It' s three years, already boyfriends. You' re gonna
want something serious. Not because he didn' t see something in him like
he didn' t see that he wanted to sit with me. I mean,
it was like that ay, because as long as you' re not
alone I' m okay, okay try, I didn' t know being
alone rather that' s not then, because until I told him I heard
him hear you know what we' re going to do right, yeah,
that goes on, and his answer will be that he won' t let
the time pass, don' t rush and I rushed him I said we
' re three years old. What' s the matter with you? Listen
to this, friends, it' s not three years ago. No.
No, no, no, no, and aside, in your situation,
no, not your age, because I' m also going to say your
age. But rather, in your situation that you come for good experience.
And then, then, you have a daughter. No and then you say,
well, yes, that is where it goes or that you get to
a point where it does put you to think yes, of course, because
in this case, just that you mention my daughter, I say well,
what stability I am giving her that I am teaching her. No, yeah,
sure, I mean, you' re gonna love him or not,
and if you want to, well, if you don' t, I
' ll cry what you have to cry and he comes out, but you
don' t waste my time either. I want something serious and if you
don' t want it, you better tell me, well, yes,
but you' re personating me. I' m not pushing you. How
difficult, I mean, whether I want to or not. I want to
hear and more of one here, some male, here from the audience.
Excuse me, mate, but if you' re thinking, that' s
not pushing. No, Güey, no, actually, Neta, I mean,
not here, it' s more like getting into reality, because you
say Güey to Chile, that is, three years. I think it'
s already a considerable thing. Look at me, because I once heard something
they say. There are people who give you something wonderful in five months that
someone in five years can not give you you know then here, because also
if you reach a point, because in which you say, well, yes,
that is, everything, very nice, everything, well, but then,
then, where this goes, because exactly above all that does not,
that is, it gives me a hand, a direction. We' re
not 15 years old. Yeah, sure, like to say oh I don
' t know, you have to give time, you still have to finish
the bla bla bla race. I don' t know, not typical of
having him is being a kid. No, but of course we were no
longer of that age. We were supposed to be more mature people. He
was supposed to, he was supposed to, because he told me he was
going to think about it, so that' s not what you think.
I mean, if you realize that, because that action you know that I
mean, that' s right, of course, but at that time my
daughter was already more involved with a being too it' s like more difficult,
because everything. That' s why he also encouraged you to ask that
question. Not cohabitation, of course, also heals everything and you say güey,
that is, also tell me what it is, but to sacrifice a
little bit this and continue is not with someone else, but to move on
then, because neither. Okay, the illusion is so much, because to
my daughter and then the fall is stronger. You know exactly yes, because
obviously, because she doesn' t have her father figure present the biological one.
Okay, so he was her father figure. Don' t want to.
Then it was more for me. I said I can' t keep
letting this move on like this, not see what. No. Then they
put it last atom. At the end of the day, he decided that
yes, he almost sent me the taxi, came by taxi to my house.
I said no, no mother, I was to see the truth,
the truth, what ha ha that, what did you want us to send
by taxi to your house? I mean, he' s not even picking
us up, or anything. And it' s still bad. And so,
I mean, it wasn' t for you, not for it was
but scolding, to see, to see, to see, to see,
friend, nor that gave you an indicility. I mean, that' s
what I want to ask you. I mean, you didn' t realize,
because there were already many things involved, because I mean already the time,
already it was, it was already my daughter, already it was to
want to justify all that is not to say good, because already, at
the end of the day, he told me yes no and because he is
already doing it in his own way, in his own way. No,
that' s what he told me so many times. I want my way
and how it' s fucked up. Dudes, if you tell them it
' s my way, don' t listen to them, it' s
not true. Don' t get out of there anymore, get out there.
She' s definitely not a friend. At the end of the day,
because we started living together, ok yes, I know, obviously,
because in what we were busy and all that, then, but adapting this
obviously seemed more roomis than nothing, because if I paid for my things and
because in theirs there was a time that almost I also paid for their food,
and that because I had no money, because I sent her daughters and
blah blah. So, there are a lot of things that I foolishly accepted
not at the end of buying, end of the day, having a partner
or ok then and keeping the father figure that my daughter didn' t have,
not with her biological dad, because at that time it does weigh that,
that is if it gets to put you, for that is, maybe
you who are listening to me best as a third person and say don'
t mom or it' s not me, then yes, but also at
that time the variables the situations are other, for yes, of course you
put so on the table if you say no, yes, being inside is
really very difficult, already being very nailed or yourself, very manipulated by yourself,
unfortunately, not that you need to be there and that you can'
t get out of there because it' s not just you, because it
' s also your daughter. Then it becomes super complicated. No, of
course, obviously, because he stopped being a bastard, not the typical suspicions
of when someone is unfaithful to you. I did not begin to suspect him
again, because now he was not so brazen to talk with me with his
dear things. Yes, of course, in itself, you form, as
men, senseis s clear, yes, because yes, yes, I taught
him many things. I showed him how I realized it. Yes, of
course, because it was even that I was in the cell and then I
lowered it. And so woe. Yeah, I mean, I grow stupid.
And so until I guessed his contras again, because I changed them every
week, it was or a different password every week I recapped that' s
an indication. Yeah, that' s another clue, too. Not then,
for another day I also grabbed his cell while asleep. There' s
nothing,' cause I don' t have a texting bug with an old
lady' s chingo to a chingo. Yes, yes, obviously, because
she was already holding on to deleting messages and everything, because they did send
her pictures and everything, but she appeared as deleted photos, yes, of
course and then, yes, obviously, the last time she was disappointed.
No, but I' m already here, not Mames, yes, I
think to see then sadly, Ok I think it' s not for blaming
someone, but I did realize that my mom, by enduring so many infidelities
of my dad, Ok they record you in the head that you just have
to bear, so it' s normal. Yes, of course, then,
you start saying no yourself, because it' s here with you.
No. At the end of the day, if you face him, he
' s still here, he' s not gone. You' re not
looking for a lot of justifications for that. Not or if my mom was
always there. Well, in spite of everything, then, because he still
faced it. But because the same thing with them is that it is nothing,
is that they are friends, is that this is that the other way
they are sending you pictures, your breasts, güey already, of those,
buttocks and everything, and he saying that, because it was nothing. But
I' m telling you, all of a sudden, traumas also win everyone,
of course, the insecurities you have. What happened to my daughter'
s dad was also kind of like that, well, it' s not
okay and it' s still here. He didn' t leave. You
didn' t come to think, for example, that' s how all
men are, that' s how we all are. In fact, notice
a cousin told me badly because from there I think I started to accept all
the infidelities to everything that happened, because he told me this cousin there is
no man here on Earth who is faithful. All men are bastards, all
without exception, and whoever tells you otherwise is lying to you. Listen to
me. I know what I' m saying to you, you bastard,
I mean, I kept that, just like I did. Well, then
if they' re all unfaithful, but he' s with me, which
was at the end, what he told me look. I' m a
bastard, but I' m still with ro, so I mean, it
' s like saying ah I' m still with my cathedral. The little
chaplains, for they are separate, no yes, just as they stole more.
Then I said no stains. But look, how those thoughts get to
you, not exactly, how they kidnap you. Yeah, and you manipulate
yourself, and you let it go, you let it all go and you
say good. Okay, no, yeah, sure. Obviously, several infidelities
passed until a time came. We live two years together. Okay, so
it was three boyfriends, two years together, five years sorry about the year
and a half we were already living together. He started to calm down with
that, notice, he even checked his phone and nothing, nothing, nothing,
I mean with insecurity, I come back to the phone all the time,
it doesn' t wave the bear. But the last few months we
' ve been together, nothing, nothing. I said Bastard, I'
m already very traumatized, because everything doesn' t make you think. It
was the truth. Yeah, little bit before I' m sorry about that.
The last messages I ran into him were with a contact. This is
important. It was with her kept as Rossi Rossi and I kept the number.
I don' t know why anything, because something made me eyelet or
not pink. That' s how I approached him who this old prick is,
because he didn' t have a profile picture or anything. But if
this one was sent out of pears, then I kept it altogether. Then
it starts to pass this time, this quiet season, so to speak,
we didn' t get along better. He was more affectionate, this interesting.
Yeah, he stopped texting her like that. Anywhere you want. She
said yes to me and I' m going to marry her. And this
one I love and so for things. So, in front of his family,
I always talk super good about me what you said Ah look at finally
Uh- huh. That year, he went to visit his daughters because I
turned fifteen. Ok, but since the planning of the trip, because it
seemed to me all very suspicious, because I always took care of looking for
the flights, where he was going to stay and all he was going to
do with his daughters is his itinerary, not to say that he was silks
or employees, his assistants or his roomi, his partner, his lover.
I don' t know, I don' t know what that relationship was
yesterday, but that time he told me not only to keep me on the
flights, I just don' t know where I' m going to take
them yet and it was done to me that way there' s, like,
no alert. It wasn' t like that one I know, but
it was so weird. Well, as soon as you' re there,
you tell me to find you a hotel where they' re staying. Simon,
he didn' t get there and I never heard from him again.
Okay, I mean, she didn' t call me. But by that
time I had already registered one of her daughters had passed me her number.
From time to time he sees me and those states walk away that I see
in one of their States, that one of their daughters published a photo.
Well, she' s sorry about the one where they go back, you
don' t see the copilot. But obviously, his mom and he were
driving. I said fuck your father, I said bastard, you stayed with
her at your house. Yeah, no scrubbing, yeah, he stayed with
her. And don' t invent, because I was already on the lookout
for the girl' s States. If the sugar was worked, your image
feels good, assholes, I said no stains, you said cafrones. No.
I don' t know. That' s how they' re going
to go back to ok I got that focus and I gave these to go
back or how they are. I know without talking to myself or texting.
He sent me one of the other week' s messages that he was there.
Not obviously, I was angry mans yes so lodged is. Obviously it
blocks me from their states, because again their family told me or hears how
you' re saying it' s worth it, I don' t know
what it' s going to be, I don' t know what it
' s going to be, that everyone noticed less me, I mean,
what an asshole. No, ah yes yet, because I think you don
' t think so. Well, I don' t know what was going
on in his head, so nothing. No, actually, no, and
then it didn' t suit him, because the next month we had a
trip here in Coún U S A and obviously he was coming back from the
east trip. Well, obviously I started it. Listen, we need to
talk No, it' s not like I' ve come from seeing my
daughters and it hurts so much that I don' t know what to leave
them. You know it hurts and I said well, I' m gonna
give you this space and I left it for a week. Oh hey,
we need to talk no, so what did I tell you? Why didn
' t you tell me that you were going to stay with her, because
I didn' t know when I was there, but I didn' t
stay with her and I stayed with a friend who turned around and I don
' t know what I said to him or because I stayed with the compadre,
you had a chance to talk to me on the phone, send me
a message. You go to the bathroom with the phone all the time.
You couldn' t even text me there. Or they wouldn' t let
you text me. Yeah, of course I told him because it' s
weird. No, no, no, I stayed with the compadre. I
swear, but I swear no, I didn' t stay there with her.
Oh. We didn' t go on the trip to Cancun. We
had several discussions, but since we were in a group and I really enjoyed
it, not with the people we were going with. We go out everywhere
with about ten people that he' s all about. I' m very
fond of everyone. Then it wasn' t so much to have enjoyed the
trip with him. Yes, it was a clearing for me, yes clear
for how I lived it, but with all the people we were going,
not for him we returned from the trip. Not what the hell the trip
is and who knows what. I don' t know how much. Not
that we did have a lot of fun to organize another blah blah. In
that, like the week of that trip, we went to the little town
where he' s got a house already resting, okay and in that I
start to see states of Rosí ok that I told Cabron this person knows me.
I didn' t even remember that I had it registered, in other
words, in fact, I' m sorry. A few days earlier I
was about to erase the contact because I was debugging lists and I said why
I want them. Someone spoke to me. There was like a divine sign.
No one spoke to me and I stopped deleting this contact. I said
right now, I follow him and I never followed him. So that number
stayed ok that week he started to see those, those States and I fuck
it is that yes you have recorded to her and vice versa. It'
s because you already had my number. You said this bitch knows me okay
so she gets my number. And worst of all, I' m beginning
to see the States appear. On the work phone, on my work phone
and on my personal phone I said what the fuck it is. I didn
' t want to open the States. I don' t want to see
who you are? I don' t want to see who you are?
I don' t want to see? I don' t want this because
I totally left the phone in a room and went to the pool. When
he came back from the Pool he saw so- called dew losses ah fucker,
I said ay fucker for something you marked me, because what I want
to return the call pinche led him to see what fuck you' re going
to tell me. He didn' t answer me and I told your mother
and I said you' d already dialed me or said yes, yes,
and then I was curious. I said, well, let' s see
who you are, okay, and I open up the state and the mom
of your daughters, not stains when I saw that, I said what I
said, I mean, everything started spinning to dance, not say, don
' t stain, that' s all I told her all this time that
she hadn' t outdone her ex because she always talked about her, that
is, she' d never gotten over it, that she never accepted it.
You always denied it yes, always the arguments no yes, of course
this, because I am crazy, not typical, not that this is how
men get out. I' m crazy. You' re crazy, you
' re making things up. I said no stains, it can' t
be, obviously, I didn' t sleep that night I didn' t
tell him anything. Mmm. I waited until the next day, as we
went back to the ranch and told her you stayed with her. Truth told
me nothing, I mean I already knew what I was talking about. Yeah,
already the top of the line, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no. And when it' s over I said don' t anch
already I told her you stayed with her. That' s why no calls
or messages, because they didn' t give you a chance. I can
' t believe you did this. Your daughter uploaded photos up States where they
were nothing else. You guys can' t possibly have done this without saying
anything to me. It' s not what you think and I know what
wasn' t. But I was already more disappointed than anything. I had
already cried a lot anyway during the time we were together. No, of
course, and it didn' t fall as easily as before, well,
you' re right, because it' s here. That' s how
it was that you didn' t stain me, that' s how it
marked me. Tell me why you marked something You better tell me I mean,
I don' t know what I' m marking you for, because
it has my numbers. Where did you get my numbers? He took it
out when on the pinche trip from there, of course, and all three
of them were three. Yeah, sorry. Were there three numbers? They
weren' t? Wasn' t there two of them? It had three
numbers. At that time there were three numbers. And all three numbers,
I couldn' t pretend why you had three friendly numbers. And, well,
one did, it was work and two was personal. One because I
was switching phones and keeping contacts, I had the other phone. Yeah,
but the three of you saved there exactly. I mean, she saved me
about three phones and it was still as obvious, no, or rather it
was like that look at me, look at me who I am and I
mean, and like to what end she saved me too. No yes,
I am the cathedral and not even the idea of stains, but it was
good, because already the total said no, because it is not what you
think blah, blah, but I had already noticed it strange since it came
back from that trip. Yeah, it feels like enjoyment, if it feels
like you' re already looking for any excuse to argue, not to be
away from the person you' re about a week before everything finally ended.
Yeah, we were just gonna meet, we were gonna be two years old
from living together. And I must therefore celebrate it now, for the other
thing has happened here as well. Well, then, nothing happened. Andale,
nothing happened. Well, let' s hear it, then let'
s go to dinner. And all this told me that yes, then that
Saturday that we were going to go out to celebrate, comes early, comes
to breakfast and tells me hey you know that my boss just sent me to
Guadalajara to pick up a crane, that is, his brother, his brother
in that case, because so I told my boss yes, because there in
a company. No, yes, this one sent me to pick up a
tow truck and it got unt over there. And that says no tomorrow today
and because you' re going to leave from today if we already had plans,
because come tomorrow and this one was going to come out another thing.
This one didn' t, because he told me that I have to leave
today that I don' t know what. Obviously, in good water he
forgives where he had to pick up up up two hours where we lived,
not inventes, he didn' t have to leave a day before then,
because he leaves, he left, yes, he went, obviously, because
I was very busy and I didn' t talk to him, because yes,
you know light I was upset. I know an anniversary, I didn
' t text him and he texted me on the night that you' re
already sleeping. I didn' t answer or say good night. I don
' t remember you saying good night to me. Baby. The next day
I returned and I, without speaking to him, was very upset, very
upset, of course, like the two of us. We lasted about three
days without talking to each other for like three days and I got really bad.
It gives me a lot of trintipsycholites. It gave me such intense pain,
but I don' t swear. He couldn' t stand it and
he noticed and approached his friend. Yeah, he also came up and he
was looking after me and look, so if he' s right now,
we' re gonna sort things out. Hey 20, Baby, this is
your male waiting for my pain to drop and I said hey we need to
talk and she' ll come to the room later. No more. She
slept with my daughter and we started talking. He told me you know what,
because I can' t go on with this. This one my daughter
is going to come, to live here with me because she wants to study
it here and because they don' t want you here, I told her
and I bastard. Then I want her home. I' m telling you,
I don' t want your house. I don' t want your
house, so let' s look for a house and rent and whether that
' s the problem and your house stays here. No, but he wants
to be with me and I don' t know what. Oh, what
do I hear? But I' m lost in the shame, for here
the daughter has good, not the daughter' s forgiveness. More like him,
like the adult and the dad you know what daughter you like or not
I' m with avien. Yeah, you take it perfect. I'
d like you to accept it. Yeah, sure, yeah, we'
re gonna fart you, because better than sorry, yeah, sorry part,
and I' m dad is me with the kids, that' s to
say, son, it' s gonna tie this person into my life.
I' d like you to accept him. Well, I don' t
think you' re going to do it, so you' re getting ready.
That' s exactly the word, that I, too, need to
redo my life, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
But he didn' t know exactly how to do that. Then nothing
' s for me. I was looking for an excuse about myself. He
' s just looking for a pretext for that. I don' t,
but it' s that as you look we can, I mean, looking
for you now yes, that the solution of any other, one way or
another. He doesn' t hear why my daughter was in the middle of
it but stop me, that is to say, don' t wait for
me today you do, first I finished, he said to the girl and
then he told me not to stay here all the time you need in what
they get where you move and I told him, so it was already yes,
so it was like that already go or no longer. Bastard I told
him, you know what I told him not. I' m waiting to
see what' s going on, and I' ll take care of your
house tomorrow. It is not necessary, because in fact and fact, the
next day I spoke to my father, I spoke to my brother Ve,
to a friend who esteems him very much this I say hey, you know
what this I need you to shake hands with me. This, this and
the other didn' t happen. No, right now, I' m
going to get his truck cleaned up and in what I was fixing clothes and
all that stuff that was what I could pull out for the moment, because
his house was modeled by me. Oh, look at this guy with exactly
the right guy. Then at least he helped me get all my clothes out.
My brother was this one too. And so, my friend tells me
then you tell me to come for your things. Don' t let him
score. No, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no. And I didn' t, not really And
since I left in the afternoon, I waited for him nothing more. I
think we' ve already picked up our things, and then I' ve
come for the furniture. Yes, of course, I gave you told me,
I told you to wait for you that, because in what I got
I told him no, don' t worry the faster I fix it the
better and now, to make it cool we' re playing. Yeah,
of course not Just pretend I told him. You' re free, do
whatever you want, no yes, by the way, like the two days
of that, I mean, you were still talking. In the same week.
My friend from the office told me it hurts to see you. So,
but I have to tell you something or what happened. And if you
remember that this weekend he went to Guadalajara. And so, he didn'
t just go away with me and the fucker and me thinking he was with
his daughter' s mom and I don' t know what they' re
saying. He didn' t go to see, I mean, the bills
I get. I say asshole. Yes, so the bill came, so
that two people had stayed. And I don' t say that, he
says no more. I' m telling you, because here in confidence,
it' s my job. Promise I know, he says, I want
you to realize. Open your eyes are over, not if she already knew,
because obviously, I was devastated, I was from the office, but
I was poorly heard, but that she is your wife was not anywhere else.
Or yes, and she was, because she was still there. That
' s why I said I was someone else. Yeah, it was someone
else. That' s why I told you that I thought, that I
said I said thinking, I said ay me thinking bad about his daughter'
s mom and it turns out that they don' t hang out with someone
else. What a bastard, I mean, for me, the idea of
his daughter' s mother was blown out of my mind. I said don
' t make up,' cause he' s already hanging out with someone
else or what. And just that weekend, this one was taken by her,
because she was with him at home. I realized, if you knew
who it was or I still didn' t know, or until the next
day I went to pick up some hearing stuff, I forgot things. I
had already brought you from his house. Oh, okay, but there were
two beers. There were plates, two plates. It was before the cast
the bed made a mess of that one in the bed. You realize when
something else happens that I just fell asleep and you go by smelling smug sex,
you said asshole. I' m sorry to roll with this broad.
As soon as he sent you the cuo, I got out of the way,
not a bit of respect or a lot of respect. Say good,
for what you gave me, for let me respect you so little, qa
mamiga, I never catch you no. In fact, you don' t
know, because of the courage that my friend told her come right now I
told her if you can I' m going to take you already to the
living room, the dining room, what' s left in bed up to
the two plates the bed, that is, everything to the bed where not
to the bed where they made, because it was my daughter' s.
Not like that, even more courage. I was coeded. He didn'
t know I sent things. Yes, in fact, yes, then,
because I know I got what I could out of the fridge and it was
there the washing machine, but I took away the dining room and the living
room and it was what hit me the most, because it still tells me
if or how you would have said you were going to take things, because
I had already told you that I am going to take my things. I
told him I don' t know about him I already left you and your
keys, so you' re going to be claimed. Yeah, I still
told him I still lack the refining. Sell me what you know what and
I said well, because I have no place to put it to And,
at the end of the day, if I sold them to you, yes,
well, if I sold them to you and for me it was a
benefit, my friend told me why I blessed them is that I, for
what I want them. And that' s where I' m paying them
so ten months, and months ago nothing, but it didn' t take
so long to pay me too, and then we realize that the one she
' s with is a cousin of him. Nothing more than I don'
t know how close it is, but it was so brazen, that is,
it started, it started to take her there with her family and they
went out and everything, that is, took her there where her people and
everyone saw her, saw him with her. And so and I kept going,
I kept thinking, I was thinking wrong about the ex a little bit
to believe, that is, still justifying her I said and this bastard walks
with another person for good reason he went out so much he started to hit
him to get out to Guadalajara. So much for it was for her.
Your dad apologized to me. His father told me that he did not justify
his son' s actions, that I did not deserve to be done that,
therefore, that he had helped him, that they recognized everything she had
done for his son. It' s your brother also spoke to me for
forgiveness. I didn' t know. I told you, oh, you
guys are filthy nuñez, you all tell each other, you' re just
as bastard. He said no. I didn' t know. I didn
' t know what was going on I told him that, but I said
to him that if he had the nerve to do so, he wouldn'
t wait a week and walk around with the other one wherever he wanted.
I was wrong. It was really bad. I was offered a trip to
the United States, some aunts that I appreciate very much. In May we
left for like a month or super therapy. Yeah, I told my boss,
and he knows what. The truth. I don' t know if
I' m coming back, as long as God wants me to. This
one tells me. No. You know here' s your door open.
You know you' re a pillar of business here, you' re a
very important person here more than one company. We' re part of the
family And, well, it was family, that' s how he hears
it as patroness. No, then I realized that they both valued me as
an employee. Yes, of course, but I said the same. I
appreciate it. I said then just as I have given my hand to train
the person who is going to stay right now, covering you ah if there
is no problem this and since I already warn him, yes, train the
person and he saw me before leaving and she told me not to stay back,
don' t stay there. And me and what did the cockroach tell
you that until I didn' t want to, don' t go.
I won' t stand the idea of losing you that knowing that I the
monster has feeling aha I what total? I didn' t say anything.
I left. In fact, he offered to take us to the airport.
He got us to the airport, but then he said you want to stay
and see your old lady, not so much for taking me to the airport.
Yes, of course, obviously, he did stay in Guadalajara. We
left. Obviously, I remember that trip a lot because if I left with
one face I came back with another that well, it really served me a
lot, even marked me and my aunts scolded me and it was a soup
therapy. They told me to stop wanting. Sure, you' re not
allowing that. I mean, they talked a lot to me until I started
leaving the phone. Oh, you were like the earring. Yes, of
course, because I was still sort of not dealing with that much. But
then, I started to put it aside, I started to enjoy the trip,
I saw that my daughter was enjoying it. Not what, well,
yeah, yeah, well, it either started clearing up a lot. And
Mommy, and I want to stay here, Mom, we have to stay,
we don' t have to leave, because nothing else. We'
re talking about your story. But, then, exactly or my daughter,
my daughter also wept at him. And my daughter suffered me, too.
And one, as a mother, suffers double, that is, you suffer
the loss of the couple and you suffer the father figure. No, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no. And the process
that children go through, because the process that children go through is not anything,
especially her, because because she really never had the father image and for
her it was your dad. Yeah, sure, well, life since I
was five. So, I' m threesome, yes, for half of
his life. Not exactly then, yes it was It was difficult, because
to carry out the two processes, but to see her as well as to
get ahead, also helped me very much how good, what father. Then,
yes, we return with the idea of making formalities and returning. But
now they are others. Exactly one puts and God disposes definitely not that he
let us go there because believe me all the time. I' ve been
asking God but touch us there to clear us, because obviously I' ve
never crossed for her I' ve had the visa since seven years before and
I' ve never used it some negative relatives. Now they' re gonna
let you through and you know what. Even my boss' s wife doesn
' t say that if after five years you don' t use it,
that they won' t let you pass and I don' t to mother,
so I read with the fear that maybe, no, yes, of
course, but I asked my God a lot if I didn' t touch
us there. It was a hindrance from before to not do all the expense,
so if you don' t give me the passport that if the dad
doesn' t give me the permission to take her out of the country,
that this thing that the other, anything doesn' t look like I'
m going to aha tells him that he told me look right, out there
was follow him like that as good as all the negativitys that told me they
were going to happen. Nothing happened, that' s all. We had
a great time. We had a great time. We' ve seen relatives
who haven' t been here for a long time. I came back much
more clear than good, my friend. So this one came back to the
company and I told him you know this one already came back Yeah, I
came back to talk to my boss. I told him that the truth was
going to make arrangements for me to go to the United States. And she
told me no, because whatever it is for your good, but I'
d rather you stay here. Look more, I offer you to work here
half a day, nothing more with your same salary from no to Friday and
so I all my life had worked all day. Then I almost didn'
t see my daughter and it was also something that hit me a lot and
I said ay fucker, I' d be with my daughter longer and had
left him so long alone. He hit me with that, too. Yeah,
it got me thinking. Obviously, he told me to think about it.
When I start looking for the paperwork to do this work legally there in
America, I said no stains. If you get an eye out of your
face and I' m not even sure they' ll give it to you.
Yeah, of course it was a blow and I said no stains.
I' ll take the debt this what I do. What do I do,
because obviously I got the good job. Less time. I' m
here with my family. I am not leaving, so after all, I
accepted the boss' s proposal. No, but that' s how to
go back and see the cockroach. Yes, of course, but I came
back more changed more entrance, more this, because already a little bit with
the idea of what had happened. Not all of us are coming back I
' ve heard a lot of things. He didn' t come and see
me He came and hugged me, so that you don' t touch what
you missed from my aha and that' s what you came back and said
that I' m so good for you, and then I let it go.
But for me already x and y said no stains. When I hugged
myself, it was like this that you finally don' t smudge. I
didn' t feel anything He hears if all that good- looking yes no
longer crumbs, my friend asked me the same thing, you' re already
seeing it as it is I told her the net. If it' s
okay, ugly güey don' t and let me turn you on and say
that the ex came along with her daughters, because they' re already pretending
that they did come back or that' s not all the vellana is what,
that' s where they lived in another state. That' s where
they' re gonna come back, okay, so it wasn' t just
the daughter, so they' re really gonna get you all back from the
house. Oh, what the fuck or what the fuck or the cousin or
this or what the fuck goes through this asshole' s head. Yes,
of course I said no stains and I' m still here. He tells
me he misses me and he knows what ay. I didn' t say
it couldn' t be possible. What a person there. If you'
ve already done it, they count, yes, that' s how you
know what the truth is. Yeah, I said it can' t be
possible. What' s going on in your head? How bad you are,
how rotten it is to get to that point. No, of course,
it can' t be possible. Not that I too, of so
many signs, have not realized until today how manipulative it is, of how
convenient it is not, because, because all that it did was simply to
protect itself and to be able to do what they wanted during that time.
No yes, of course, yes, obviously, it was tense the time
I was there, working because, then, I worked with what was treated
like any other companion. Now yes and now yes, not anymore. I
even remember I had to go out with one of the partners and he already
told me about those who never talk, but when they talk, you tell
them no fantasies, what a fart you and güey already talk. I know,
he told me proto aha told me and I never imagined to see her
smile again which father, Look, son, noticed your change. S said
you left with one face and came back with another. How good, he
says, because you already, even walking with this person, for I mean,
you didn' t see yourself as lost with I don' t know
this one as a horse, so nothing else looked forward and I couldn'
t turn back to look anywhere else that' s where he said. He
says, but his face changed a lot, he says, I' m
really glad to see him like that, you bastard, that' s good,
yeah, I said look, that' s nice, obviously, when
I already had to see him with his family, because if it was something
that hurt me, it was obviously like closing the cycle. For me it
was rather not, so it was as if I closed the cycle if I
cried, if I do it hurt to see it. At the end of
the day, already live and live, yes, of course, but if
I said, this is the last time I shed a tear for you and
not said and done no, because already this one because I started to relax
more, I started to smile again to my friends and my coworkers. Yes,
of course, listen, good that we have a laugh again, we
see another one, already we see you well, good that you are overcoming
one another, because already told me no, because it is that he is
a bastard and this one is not worth, because you were, doing less
for him. So, hey, no new one came in. There,
hey, look, the partner' s talking nice to me, he ate
me and yeah. In fact, yes, if they' ve noticed that
I' m coming back between them and I' m not, what eggs
you' ll be, as I explained to you and what I' m
going to be like that with someone who doesn' t even know what he
wants. Obviously, look at that, too. They already came to me
for comments after their friends, of whom they spoke the most. Mira told
me, everyone was telling me about you. I' ll be very honest
with you. She told me the truth is that the cockroach didn' t
want this one and I say because whenever you talked to her on the phone,
she was here and that I didn' t talk about it. It
was because I had it super warned. I couldn' t talk about it,
and if I told my love, honey, whatever it was, it
was super forbidden. I couldn' t talk to him like that. I
couldn' t talk to him with love. Yeah, of course this one
then if I spoke to him, it was for work matters, or it
was rarely for something he was occupying in the house, I don' t
know something, but I couldn' t talk to him for anything else.
Hey, love, how it is. No. No. No, no,
no, no, you could have been super banned. He tells me,
but since when he spoke to the others even the voice changed him Hello
how good that you retired, how good that you could do, that is,
his friends, his friends. It will end badly, I say,
I do not wish him any evil, but it says but because what he
is doing is not right. History has proved this many times. Yeah,
another engineer. Then he came also to me who was in supervision of me
now jor, who does not deserve a tear any more from you, he
and walks with someone else, that is, apart from that of his daughters,
for he was still with the cousin and he is already with someone else.
Then I realized, because with many people, because I really appreciated myself,
because yes, of course, because I started to overcome that altogether,
I began to try, because, as companions, yes, of course,
then, all of a sudden I feel that he misinterpreted, I say because
I have always been as very resounding, much ji ji Ji, and I
feel that suddenly, as Gamali interpreted if I laughed at some of his jokes,
just say ay this one already fell again, no, i mean,
I felt it and got close, because suddenly he would approach or hug you
or not. Or because that didn' t allow it. Okay this one,
if anyone who hugged me again was because he grabbed me unsuspectingly or but
I did, I bothered. Then he left me, wrote me things,
which I never did during our relationship. He started doing it later and I
love you and I don' t know what. And you' re the
best woman and I don' t know what' s wrong with her.
You look like your lover, not exactly. I didn' t say no,
Chiquita, you' re too bad and I said no. I'
m not going. I' m so sorry, not safo. Thank you.
He began to pass the time, his daughters began to go to the
company. But as if to investigate me, as it was obviously there was
the insecurity of the mother. Yeah, sure. Then I was struck by
a comment from one of her daughters, leaving them to me, I don
' t know why not. I left them to you because you don'
t hear, because we' re in confidence. Not so, yes,
yes, obviously, and I let them ahir with me and this one hears
for help you to something that will put them to do. This one saying
no, because help me with this file of exel this and that one that
stayed told me I don' t know why Chinto came up the subject and
I don' t understand it yet I don' t know at what time
this one told me no, because he hears that because those who do witchcraft
for this to have a man and that I don' t know what knowing
that they don' t want them, because it is not right. I
said," Oh, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no He doesn
' t want you, so let him hear you need to be forcing them.
Yeah, right, and I do, but I got weird about the
comment. Ah thought I was doing witchcraft and George and I realized because then
the cockroach asked me. Hey, you know what, because my daughter'
s mom found a black bottle with black liquid. It' s up there
at dinner and I know or America. I told him I got out of
your house Uh- huh. I said no, because I don' t
know, I have no idea what you' re talking about. I told
him if you' re thinking I' m making you crappy. I told
her the net. I' m not a hooker or you didn' t
know me apart, no, I' m not saying that. Oh,
well, I don' t know why you' re saying that. I
told him, because, because I have no idea, because total this one
stopped going the daughters, that is, because we continue to work. I
met someone and I started dating that person and because I kind of jealous in
the way they bloomed, I don' t know what happened. Of course,
he began to claim to me that I had forgotten it very soon and
what he knows, ok that my daughter' s father in the afternoon two
years and with him nothing ay amigo. Yeah, I mean, you were
pointless. I don' t fart. In fact, if I said no
invent, I told him you' re making your life what you' re
talking about. I mean, what in Spanish, I don' t know,
I don' t know, I don' t know what the truth
was in my head that shit, because yes, like to have demanded those
things, not even because already at the company inn, because I took my
partner to the inn, I took him to the inn and that night he
sent me a litany of messages that I had disappointed him. What a shame
that he pretended he was the woman of his life and I was already with
someone else and I didn' t stain your face where you saw me against
the cousin, you came back with your ex- fucker or you claiming me.
This is a good case for a psychiatry. I know, man,
you need a good psych to the planet. Yeah, actually. Yeah,
I don' t know, because at the end of the day, he
even sent his brother. I remember asking myself. Yeah, he sent,
he said hey. It' s just, well, why do you tell
us right now that I forgot you so soon ago about my brother of mine
so soon what you' re talking about? Before we were family, we
were very close. I told you I trusted some things and I trust others
and in one of those it was just to overcome the people who hurt you.
Yes, of course I did. I' m sure, I'
m sure sorry your first wife had a hard time getting over it, I
tell you. But surely if you end up with what even right now,
it' s going to be easier than what it was with the beginning,
because what I learned from my first breakup is ok I' m not going
to die, yeah, they' re going to read me rather you survived.
Yes, I mean, because it hurt and I cried at him what
I had to cry, but at the end of the day, he got
away with it. Yeah, but that' s what he' s telling
you exactly, I don' t know, and he' s gonna define
the explanations. First of all, it was, because we were getting along.
Yeah, sure, there was that mature relationship. No, and I
' m clear, and then I told him to go ahead and tell him.
Obviously, I tell him if I, ex or, my daughter'
s dad, took a year to get over it I with his brother was
going to be easier, I was going to cry what I had to cry
to him and from now on and I told him I wasn' t going
to spend my whole life. I mean, why he left you, why
don' t I go and he didn' t send it. No yes,
because I still wonder listen you don' t feel anything when he tells
you I love you and I stayed not the same aha I told him the
truth. Maalitos, it doesn' t make me feel anything, because when
I wanted to hear it never happened. And that was when we were together
right now, separated. What' s the point of months already, that
is, me, for what? After months, why do I want to
hear a fear when we don' t even know each other anymore, we
don' t even live together anymore. He' s already made a mess
of it, that is, I' m out of it I mean,
I mean, why do I want to hear a love you that sounds super
empty to me the clearing and says no. Obviously, it got super serious.
I told him to see I told him not to justify myself. I
mean, you' re telling me that either I' m claiming that I
' ve overtaken it and it was the week and I' ve been around
since before, I' ve been hanging out with the cousin and you knew
it. I told him and he' s back with his ex I also
told me what that kind of thing is coming to tell me. Not what
the fuck is the net. No yes, in fact, yes, because
he can still tell you that even three years ago it happened. I don
' t remember that, not three years to put it, because it kept
trying to look for me and I was still trying to cocoon still, to
have contact with me. I think he noticed. No, I think I
started comparing how he was doing. He is with the mother of his daughters
and with you and, therefore, what a difference it was, not,
for it is, but it is the bad thing to come to comparison,
for it is. Of course, I mean, you should have valued the
person when he was by your side, not when he left then, because
no, I didn' t see any less of him, I mean,
I got to the point of blocking him, but still trying to get messages
from you and from other people. So the truth is, yes. It
is uncomfortable, because apart I already had one, a stable relationship, no,
and what became of him already to finish, what became of him,
for as far as I am, he is still with his mother of his
daughters, as far as I know I continued there to suffer him according to
him. Yes, because, according to him, it is not life that
he chose. At the end of the day, tell me what you like.
I also learned that she complained a lot, as it was also not
what I expected to have returned with him. I say look no more,
because there they are like Karl Mallos. At the end of the day,
how ugly I also found out that he' s still with the cousin,
because don' t let Neta be the cousin and I saw them the wife.
Then they never, ever were their daughters ever more and were used as
a pretext. Yes, because, now that you have them there, now,
what' s the pretext. No, but yes, there was his
story. What would you say to her, friend now, as well as
to women, or men, the most in women, to what they are
going on, that is, to you how you realized, that is,
when you realized what you were saying. It wasn' t good enough,
what would you recommend, what would you tell them, because look is rather
everything from the beginning, no, that it was already what I had to
live with my current partner, that you set your game from the beginning.
Yeah, no, I mean I want this You want the same thing in
front of you. If he doesn' t go out bye, yeah,
we' re not old anymore. Nor does it say ah let him calm
down to see what happens not in the age, rather as they have already
matured, not so mature. But also yes, yes, yes, it
also has to do not or is suddenly, because obviously, if there are
immature people, it is of one example, it is the cockroach. But
it is good that you establish from the beginning what you want if you have
such a common dream or not, that is, if you really have the
same dreams. I don' t know I want to marry, not because
I also hear I don' t want to marry, not because you know
what, because it' s going well, because, well, I don
' t, I mean, I want to find someone with whom to have
stability, not just for me, but for my daughter too. So yes,
it was always to make that point clear, because I do not come
alone, i e I am also with a child that if something happens between
us, i e she, also suffers. No. Then I didn'
t want to go through that anymore. No. So I think yes,
yes, it' s important that we set everything up from the beginning and
not be expecting what' s going to happen to someone else, not what
' s going to happen today, if you want another day. No,
no, not then, because it doesn' t cause you much insecurity,
much stability as soon as you start feeling that. No. Get out of
there, buddy, yeah, don' t take that from me I want
you my way. No, that' s no good, I mean,
they don' t really know what they want from those people. So,
then, for you to be suffering and at the end of the day,
they send you through a tube, because no, because obviously they' re
never going to have the security, that is, they don' t even
love each other, because they don' t know they really define what they
do, of course, what they want, because really, when you want
to be with a person, because you don' t. And that'
s it, that' s always nothing else, it' s a day
yes and one day no, because I think that, at the end of
the day, God was the one who got me out of there, too,
of course or not. Speaking also of your daughter, because obviously,
everything that has happened to her has affected her. And yet, I have
noticed, for a better hand already today with her also many things have changed
and you always learn from all these experiences. So what good friend, that
you were able to go out, blessed God, and what good, for
you realized? At the end of the day, don' t let me
know that you realized that everything has gone well for you, because unfortunately you
have to go through this, but the good thing is that you had a
learning experience and that you are already better. You always learn. Yeah,
well, it' s really important to look at yourself or see the lesson
you got in that period, not to be able to go ahead and try
not to make the same mistakes that yes, yes, it' s complicated
to come out of the hole again and value you and love you. And
so they are many things, for they involve coming out of a depression,
from a rupture, from a break, from a disappointment, from a betrayal.
After all, it' s what infidelity is. That' s the
way you mention it. There' s something very important, you can go
on a super therapy trip. Yeah, actually, yeah, they have a
chance to do it. Yeah, I' ve always said, I mean,
meet people, know new ways of thinking, try new things, try
I don' t know, I mean, I even think about it that
fast, because learning even a new language. No, but I think that
better to have pity, you have to travel and that involves forgiveness, which
means, well, to clear the mind how good, then to see that
you can finally breathe well and be well. And so, well, radio
podcasters listen. This has been today' s story a little bit long,
but I owe it, after so long, we' re going to kick
this project out again and I ask you to share this show, this podcast
picen a and the share button you find us on all our social networks as
infidel podcasts. Here we ask for a small recommendation from your colleagues and,
if you have a story, to tell us also by them, by the
same social networks. If you are from here, from Guadalajara, because we
are here from Guadalajara, from Guadajara, Jalisco, Mexico, because there we
are not realizing that they listen to us in several countries, especially in all
of America, from Alaska to Argentina. That little life is out there and
oh wow. Thank you very much, thank you very much for listening to
this podcast. If not, out there we even make a call as well
as not feeling a video call and we also make the podcast out there.
Thank you very much that this project is still there from Australia also to Era
and Spain also to live the statistics. Thank you very much and, well,
we see each other, we listen to each other for the next podcast.
Sorry about the background noises. It' s raining a lot here in
Guadalajara, Blessed God, and the heat is already disappearing, but it'
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