WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.160 --> 00:00:05.360 Hey, what' s up? Girls and guys again welcome to your infidel 2 00:00:05.400 --> 00:00:12.359 podcast infidel podcasts already long enough not to upload one, but we will be 3 00:00:12.400 --> 00:00:18.120 a little more frequent to see if we can get this up again. And 4 00:00:18.160 --> 00:00:22.600 so, the dynamic is if you' re Alice, because it' s 5 00:00:22.640 --> 00:00:26.839 the one who got his ass kicked. And if you' re the guest, 6 00:00:27.679 --> 00:00:32.960 it' s Leticia, because she' s the one who cheats the 7 00:00:33.079 --> 00:00:36.240 pechh but for this occasion we have Hello how about? I' m Alicia, 8 00:00:36.799 --> 00:00:42.280 oh You you yu Yu, Alicia welcome, how you are. Thank 9 00:00:42.359 --> 00:00:50.799 you very much, very well prepared to tell you my story tell me who 10 00:00:50.840 --> 00:00:57.920 the sous is said the cockroach in question, for look already blessed, God 11 00:00:58.280 --> 00:01:10.959 is my ex- partner ok El, for I was five years and we 12 00:01:11.719 --> 00:01:17.640 start with that I met him about eight years ago, if I remember correctly, 13 00:01:18.000 --> 00:01:26.959 in the two thousand seventeen seven years, ok I entered into work in 14 00:01:26.959 --> 00:01:30.079 a company where he was a partner. That' s where I met him, 15 00:01:33.959 --> 00:01:41.519 obviously, because I didn' t turn myself in with the idea of 16 00:01:41.519 --> 00:01:44.799 having a partner. I had come out of a relationship that I had another 17 00:01:44.920 --> 00:01:52.680 story for telling it what, because I was two years old without dating anyone. 18 00:01:53.200 --> 00:01:57.120 Ok I have a daughter, a product of that previous relationship, so, 19 00:01:57.439 --> 00:02:02.680 well, that too as a woman. Well, or in my case 20 00:02:02.799 --> 00:02:09.120 you just want to find another partner, because you give yourself as an edge, 21 00:02:09.280 --> 00:02:13.879 not in other words, of course and apart, because what happened with 22 00:02:13.919 --> 00:02:20.120 my daughter' s dad, because and still happens not yet this does not 23 00:02:21.639 --> 00:02:25.360 leave you, it leaves marks if it leaves you many insecurities, of course 24 00:02:25.439 --> 00:02:35.879 that is both in your person and in the person that is your care then 25 00:02:35.879 --> 00:02:38.439 when I entered the company. Well, obviously, I had no idea of 26 00:02:38.560 --> 00:02:46.520 having a relationship with anyone again. But obviously, I still had a lot 27 00:02:46.639 --> 00:02:51.240 of problems. Maybe that I hadn' t resolved and that I didn' 28 00:02:51.319 --> 00:02:59.639 t want to accept no insecurity is that my ex- partner left me, 29 00:03:00.240 --> 00:03:06.280 also because he knew this person, started a relationship, because of friends like 30 00:03:06.280 --> 00:03:10.639 everyone else. No yes, because I am really very friendly and I am 31 00:03:10.680 --> 00:03:15.759 very clown and I am this, because I like to have contact with my 32 00:03:15.759 --> 00:03:19.520 colleagues. Not so as I talked to him, talked to other people, 33 00:03:19.960 --> 00:03:23.319 okay, but because he started getting closer and closer until you never noticed at 34 00:03:23.439 --> 00:03:32.360 first that he wanted me. No. I never, ever gave me a 35 00:03:32.560 --> 00:03:36.639 sign like that because, besides, he was with someone there in the company. 36 00:03:37.199 --> 00:03:43.000 So, then they did limit themselves. No, but little by little, 37 00:03:43.080 --> 00:03:46.280 yes, I began to feel a little more the approach even when I 38 00:03:46.280 --> 00:03:50.120 was with him, with that person, yes, but that person was married. 39 00:03:50.560 --> 00:03:53.080 Okay, so already in advance, as well as that, I mean, 40 00:03:53.240 --> 00:03:57.879 already knew where. Eighty went, I mean, I already knew them. 41 00:03:58.080 --> 00:04:00.960 No And yet, I mean, between kale and you already knew no, 42 00:04:00.199 --> 00:04:02.960 I mean, a lot of scen ah I already knew. But the 43 00:04:03.039 --> 00:04:08.639 net one, when it' s hitting you, because I' ve thought 44 00:04:08.719 --> 00:04:10.919 sometimes you don' t even notice. No, yeah, well, you 45 00:04:11.000 --> 00:04:14.639 ' re not right, I mean, you' re not so aware of 46 00:04:14.639 --> 00:04:18.480 that. Not here in this case, because I wanted to justify it with 47 00:04:18.959 --> 00:04:23.120 that, because to bring her out unfaithful and the cockroach, because it was 48 00:04:23.240 --> 00:04:29.959 with the one she walked, because yesterday she was the one who was married, 49 00:04:30.360 --> 00:04:30.879 ok and since he was separated from the mother, from her daughters. 50 00:04:30.920 --> 00:04:35.959 Ah ok, then he and already had daughters, had three daughters, has 51 00:04:36.279 --> 00:04:43.480 forgiveness, but because they come in another state. Ok So, then, 52 00:04:44.399 --> 00:04:46.759 when I started to treat him, because he told me that he was also 53 00:04:46.839 --> 00:04:51.519 two years separated from her, then you see that he had not had any 54 00:04:51.519 --> 00:04:55.399 relationship either. And so, in a way, with genearion so to speak, 55 00:04:55.639 --> 00:05:00.480 yes, in fact, yes, then I have good something in common. 56 00:05:01.040 --> 00:05:06.800 No, then, because he was a very nice person, I mean, 57 00:05:06.920 --> 00:05:11.319 he had Labia. What they say. That way,' cause he 58 00:05:11.439 --> 00:05:14.279 ' s not handsome and I can' t see him more than ever. 59 00:05:14.439 --> 00:05:18.560 Well now, right now, no, at the moment, not really us 60 00:05:18.560 --> 00:05:23.480 two shields I' ve never really noticed or ever been important to me the 61 00:05:23.480 --> 00:05:27.279 physicist, not to me and said well, because it makes me feel good, 62 00:05:27.600 --> 00:05:30.360 makes me laugh. I had a good time, because when you fall 63 00:05:30.519 --> 00:05:31.759 in love that happens. No, yeah, well, yeah, sure, 64 00:05:32.199 --> 00:05:35.319 yeah, you clearly have to like it. No. But then, but 65 00:05:35.439 --> 00:05:40.800 the more you see the deal, the more you kind of get stuck in 66 00:05:40.839 --> 00:05:44.480 that, then, but that was my problem that I got, okay, 67 00:05:44.879 --> 00:05:55.000 because obviously we went out about a month and already we became boyfriends. He 68 00:05:55.000 --> 00:05:57.879 started introducing me to his family, as his girlfriend, to his whole family. 69 00:05:58.439 --> 00:06:00.800 Oh, I didn' t know, but ever since he broke up, 70 00:06:00.959 --> 00:06:02.160 no one had shown up. No, because I felt super important. 71 00:06:02.800 --> 00:06:08.480 I didn' t say don' t try or I mean he really wants 72 00:06:08.480 --> 00:06:11.360 something serious with me. Yeah, sure, I' m really important to 73 00:06:11.439 --> 00:06:17.800 him, not because his whole family was telling me the same thing about this, 74 00:06:19.879 --> 00:06:24.879 but like four months or so from walking in there, I mean, 75 00:06:25.319 --> 00:06:29.959 he ended that relationship. It' s the one I was with, because 76 00:06:29.959 --> 00:06:31.120 I walked with the married woman, so to speak, ah, yes, 77 00:06:31.120 --> 00:06:33.279 I left her aside. Yeah, obviously, she got upset with me, 78 00:06:33.720 --> 00:06:36.879 stopped talking to me. But even though he worked there with her too and 79 00:06:38.160 --> 00:06:43.160 worked. But at the end of the day, she found her half orange 80 00:06:43.279 --> 00:06:49.879 and forgot another story. Ah yes, this is another story, because, 81 00:06:49.920 --> 00:06:57.079 at the end of the day, we started to walk. After about four 82 00:06:57.560 --> 00:07:04.720 months of leenamo I would say this, we started working on a play together. 83 00:07:05.199 --> 00:07:10.920 I worked in the office, but at that time I was given to 84 00:07:11.000 --> 00:07:19.920 supervise work. Then I was completely unaware of the subject. But still I 85 00:07:19.959 --> 00:07:29.040 ventured and said well, we started working together, but suddenly I started to 86 00:07:29.079 --> 00:07:36.040 feel very distant, rude bleeder. He was talking super bad to me in 87 00:07:36.040 --> 00:07:40.079 front of the boys. He treated me super bad. From this I say 88 00:07:40.279 --> 00:07:44.839 that my problem was that I get stuck with everything I saw with all the 89 00:07:44.920 --> 00:07:49.079 illusion that I made myself, not everything that I built myself in the head 90 00:07:49.120 --> 00:07:54.600 that maybe, because it' s stressed, maybe this is the other one 91 00:07:54.639 --> 00:08:03.079 wanting to justify. No yes, of course, we always justify his actions 92 00:08:03.160 --> 00:08:09.240 and once one of the good fellows and my mom fills that time, like 93 00:08:09.319 --> 00:08:13.480 the two months we started that play, he told me, daughter told me, 94 00:08:13.959 --> 00:08:16.720 that boy doesn' t love you. Okay, and I' m 95 00:08:16.879 --> 00:08:20.920 just saying that the other thing and I' m just justifying it not and 96 00:08:20.040 --> 00:08:24.959 I don' t know what and I don' t know how much you 97 00:08:26.000 --> 00:08:28.920 realize, Amiga Ahá, I know how the month my mom told me, 98 00:08:28.120 --> 00:08:33.519 one of my friends comes up and they don' t forget me, because 99 00:08:33.600 --> 00:08:35.399 you realize that people also come to appreciate you. Yeah, of course not, 100 00:08:37.320 --> 00:08:39.519 and one of the comrades came up. In fact, you know, 101 00:08:39.919 --> 00:08:46.080 it was up to us to go to that play alone, and then we 102 00:08:46.919 --> 00:08:50.080 went to eat, and she told me that you love it very much, 103 00:08:50.080 --> 00:08:52.440 right, and I told her. Yeah, he says, but I' 104 00:08:52.440 --> 00:08:58.960 m gonna say something. Yeah, he told me he doesn' t even 105 00:08:58.960 --> 00:09:01.679 love her. She told me, because a man who loves a woman doesn 106 00:09:01.759 --> 00:09:05.360 ' t treat her the way he treats her. He treats you with a 107 00:09:05.559 --> 00:09:18.080 few countable legs, okay I' m in vidios. Obviously, my mom 108 00:09:18.159 --> 00:09:24.399 ' s words came to me in the head, but she could have more 109 00:09:24.519 --> 00:09:31.519 of my blindness than the warnings that other people came to tell me, too, 110 00:09:31.600 --> 00:09:33.919 that is, you didn' t spin, that is, you didn 111 00:09:33.919 --> 00:09:37.240 ' t. I know that at that moment it is one, because as 112 00:09:37.240 --> 00:09:39.919 you say, it becomes blind, well, but in a way you did 113 00:09:41.159 --> 00:09:43.879 not ilast, that is, as you say, that is, or at 114 00:09:43.919 --> 00:09:50.399 least the benefit of the doubt. I didn' t mean to, but 115 00:09:50.639 --> 00:09:52.399 if you felt that way, of course, okay, yeah, sure, 116 00:09:52.399 --> 00:09:56.960 I didn' t mean to. It made me more father to think about 117 00:09:56.120 --> 00:10:01.440 what happened at first, than what was already happening at that time, not 118 00:10:01.519 --> 00:10:09.159 after we finished the play, a little bit before we finished the play and 119 00:10:09.200 --> 00:10:15.679 I was already trupulo, I was tired of his deal. If I got 120 00:10:15.679 --> 00:10:18.600 to a point where I said don' t stain, I' m sick 121 00:10:18.639 --> 00:10:24.320 of it and I need to be treated. So, I remember yelling at 122 00:10:24.320 --> 00:10:28.960 you, yeah, yelling at me in front of the boys. Then even 123 00:10:28.000 --> 00:10:33.039 I gave them an order and he came and with them and so, with 124 00:10:33.159 --> 00:10:37.840 these words, what an asshole. He told them to do this like this, 125 00:10:39.039 --> 00:10:43.039 and the boys would tell me to listen when they already started to have 126 00:10:43.120 --> 00:10:43.759 respect for the boys because I had a hard time earning them. Yeah, 127 00:10:43.799 --> 00:10:52.080 of course they told me to listen to this one because this cockroach told us 128 00:10:52.120 --> 00:10:56.200 what a asshole he told us to do this. You know that' s 129 00:10:56.200 --> 00:10:58.279 it, I said, don' t make it up. This one' 130 00:10:58.440 --> 00:11:03.240 s gone, that' s because he knew that asshole was you. Yes, 131 00:11:03.399 --> 00:11:05.799 if she was referring to me, because by myself, I was the 132 00:11:05.799 --> 00:11:09.039 one who was the supervisor, that is, I was the one who gave 133 00:11:09.120 --> 00:11:15.000 the boys the orders. Hey, I did, and I faced it. 134 00:11:15.519 --> 00:11:20.240 I told him and you know what? The right thing to do is you, 135 00:11:20.320 --> 00:11:28.720 you, as well as supervisor, your obligation is to come with me, 136 00:11:28.879 --> 00:11:31.240 because I' m what' s doing the work and tell me what 137 00:11:31.480 --> 00:11:35.039 ' s wrong or this or why you did it. That' s what 138 00:11:35.159 --> 00:11:39.200 I' m telling you, but you come here like boys and you fuck 139 00:11:39.360 --> 00:11:39.559 me no more, ah, because everybody told me that like that. You 140 00:11:39.600 --> 00:11:43.279 told me. Oh, so you' re believing them, because I' 141 00:11:43.360 --> 00:11:46.440 m brainwashing. I said ay. No yes, it' s true that 142 00:11:46.559 --> 00:11:54.240 I believe them. No, no, no, no, no, no, 143 00:11:56.600 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 144 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 145 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 146 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 147 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 148 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 149 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 150 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 151 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 152 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 153 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 154 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 155 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 156 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:00.799 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 157 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:01.840 no, no, no, no. I said don' t stain, 158 00:12:01.960 --> 00:12:03.600 because I don' t do it here. Until one of the supervisors 159 00:12:03.679 --> 00:12:11.279 of the construction company approached me and said to me, I felt alone because 160 00:12:11.320 --> 00:12:16.000 of the way they treated me in the company where they worked, but those 161 00:12:16.159 --> 00:12:20.840 of the company, of the construction company approached me and told me this the 162 00:12:20.960 --> 00:12:24.000 boss and that everyone feared and could not speak to him, he approached me 163 00:12:24.039 --> 00:12:31.080 and told me this ARQUII says what good work you did here, as a 164 00:12:31.159 --> 00:12:37.879 woman and as a supervisor, as a construction manager. I wish, women 165 00:12:37.960 --> 00:12:43.639 like you would come here to the builder to lead them, to lead the 166 00:12:43.679 --> 00:12:46.240 boys all the time brought them to me in Chinga. I didn' t 167 00:12:46.399 --> 00:12:50.840 have a problem with you. I congratulate her and I congratulate her that good. 168 00:12:50.039 --> 00:12:54.480 Inventive, that is to say, feeling on the floor with the people 169 00:12:54.600 --> 00:13:01.919 I worked with and other recognized outsiders and not my job, I said no 170 00:13:01.000 --> 00:13:07.799 inventive, that is, these are too macho to accept that a woman did 171 00:13:07.840 --> 00:13:15.480 her job well and it was better to denigrate me or make me feel bad 172 00:13:15.480 --> 00:13:16.720 instead of making me grow up. Not obviously, yes, it lasted a 173 00:13:16.720 --> 00:13:22.000 long time there, but if I realized, because they were very macho, 174 00:13:22.399 --> 00:13:26.600 for even because that was what gave him power maybe the cocoon also over me, 175 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:30.519 Not because it is that also, that is if he realized, because 176 00:13:30.600 --> 00:13:37.120 since as he, as supervisor and as you say, as a partner, 177 00:13:37.200 --> 00:13:39.320 at the end of the day, is therefore a kind of pattern, no 178 00:13:39.320 --> 00:13:45.559 yes, of course, but then he there knew how to separate the relationship 179 00:13:46.679 --> 00:13:52.720 with the love relationship and the exact working relationship, that is, because it 180 00:13:52.840 --> 00:13:56.600 is, as you say, the orent of hierarchies. No, that is 181 00:13:56.600 --> 00:14:01.000 to say, you have a güey complaint, for so look at the one 182 00:14:01.120 --> 00:14:03.679 who follows, no, yes, of course, not because it makes you 183 00:14:03.960 --> 00:14:07.360 look bad exactly and apart, because you do say, because you are also 184 00:14:07.360 --> 00:14:09.440 your partner. I mean, no, don' t suck, I mean, 185 00:14:09.960 --> 00:14:11.440 I don' t even respect myself. That is, there you realize, 186 00:14:11.720 --> 00:14:15.120 then, that is, how they are, then, or as he 187 00:14:15.200 --> 00:14:20.000 as a person. Then, exactly, and that' s what, because 188 00:14:20.080 --> 00:14:22.519 my head didn' t want to see, because from there it was when 189 00:14:22.639 --> 00:14:28.320 I said you know what comes out by no. No, no, because 190 00:14:28.360 --> 00:14:33.960 I don' t deserve this treatment, because I didn' t almost finish 191 00:14:35.039 --> 00:14:39.679 that work either, yes, I was about to finish it, also because 192 00:14:39.679 --> 00:14:43.960 he told me to do a job. I went along with a partner. 193 00:14:43.639 --> 00:14:46.720 I had never done that which he commanded us to do, for I said, 194 00:14:46.759 --> 00:14:52.399 well, I did not wind it. Yes, of course, because 195 00:14:52.559 --> 00:14:56.879 I started organizing with him. We had two hours at the play. On 196 00:14:56.960 --> 00:15:01.080 that one, because now he did tell me he spoke to me and said, 197 00:15:01.799 --> 00:15:03.320 " You know how urgent it is for you to come here to the 198 00:15:03.320 --> 00:15:07.799 office" I need you to get some blueprints, but then he grabbed the 199 00:15:07.799 --> 00:15:11.960 truck. He brought me back to the office. That' s where the 200 00:15:13.279 --> 00:15:20.600 East Cockroach comes in and they' re done. I told him you sent 201 00:15:20.600 --> 00:15:26.159 us to do a job of over two hundred records. I went two hours 202 00:15:26.279 --> 00:15:28.279 because the linge spoke to us and told me that I had to come and 203 00:15:28.360 --> 00:15:33.000 print some plans. A can' t be possible. I have to do 204 00:15:33.159 --> 00:15:35.960 it all. If things don' t work out. I said oh no 205 00:15:35.960 --> 00:15:41.279 there it was already like the drop that spilled the glass I said you know 206 00:15:41.320 --> 00:15:45.960 what to run me to shit. Just like that, you bastard. I 207 00:15:46.039 --> 00:15:50.799 told him I' m sick of everything I do to you, and I 208 00:15:52.320 --> 00:15:56.159 stressed to him what the engineer told me about a manager. I mean, 209 00:15:56.559 --> 00:16:02.240 I can' t believe other people recognize my job and for you it' 210 00:16:02.360 --> 00:16:04.519 s always the worst and you know what your job is. I got out 211 00:16:04.600 --> 00:16:08.879 of the groundl deven where he was coming, because I just looked up, 212 00:16:10.039 --> 00:16:14.200 because I climbed up to sar the step to tell me what I had to 213 00:16:14.240 --> 00:16:15.960 tell myself that nothing else yelled neo at me. I went down and said 214 00:16:15.960 --> 00:16:18.320 to the scrub. I told him I' m not gonna grab my things 215 00:16:18.360 --> 00:16:22.480 at once and watch them. Well, yeah, he' s coming back 216 00:16:22.559 --> 00:16:26.879 behind me and he' s telling me no if you' re leaving that 217 00:16:26.919 --> 00:16:27.600 I' m gonna tell my brother, because that' s what you' 218 00:16:27.600 --> 00:16:33.240 re doing to me. I told myself you don' t want to treat 219 00:16:33.360 --> 00:16:34.799 me like that, let alone something I' ve never done before. I 220 00:16:34.840 --> 00:16:40.080 told him I' m not justifying myself, I told him, but I 221 00:16:40.159 --> 00:16:44.320 wasn' t going to finish painting two hundred records in two hours. But 222 00:16:44.360 --> 00:16:48.120 is it that there, that is how you were dealing with him, either 223 00:16:48.200 --> 00:16:52.799 as a worker or as his partner or as both, not or already as 224 00:16:52.879 --> 00:16:56.279 both? That' s how I' m sick of it all, I 225 00:16:56.320 --> 00:17:00.360 ' m sick of your deal, I' m sick of you not even 226 00:17:00.480 --> 00:17:08.480 recognizing my job. I am already tired and you know that already this notes 227 00:17:08.960 --> 00:17:11.400 that not why you put yourself like this and I, then, how why 228 00:17:11.480 --> 00:17:14.880 then see how you are talking to me, how you are treating me. 229 00:17:14.960 --> 00:17:18.920 I' m tired and she said no. No, don' t go, 230 00:17:19.160 --> 00:17:22.160 I' m gonna tell my sister I don' t know, she 231 00:17:22.200 --> 00:17:25.920 told her, because I don' t know, don' t forgive me 232 00:17:25.920 --> 00:17:26.799 that I don' t know what. Daughter, you know what I' 233 00:17:26.799 --> 00:17:30.359 m selling. I don' t want to see you and he left and 234 00:17:30.400 --> 00:17:32.440 I stayed in the office. Obviously, I cried and cried and my friend 235 00:17:32.480 --> 00:17:37.279 and ended up comforting me. You know, friend, that' s pretty 236 00:17:37.400 --> 00:17:42.160 much the way it is, right, after that, he started to change 237 00:17:42.160 --> 00:17:47.519 a little bit. I don' t know how she started getting out of 238 00:17:47.559 --> 00:17:52.759 her eggs, and she started doing like she was loving again. Again we 239 00:17:52.799 --> 00:17:56.359 were starting to get out a little bit more, I already took more into 240 00:17:56.359 --> 00:18:00.880 account. We ended and gave that hour and, according to him, super 241 00:18:00.960 --> 00:18:06.920 proud of me because wherever I wanted to recognize me, in that faith, 242 00:18:07.119 --> 00:18:11.920 there in the builder where we work too, that is always highlighted my name. 243 00:18:11.720 --> 00:18:15.680 Yes, of course, then he began to change his perspective, because 244 00:18:15.759 --> 00:18:22.960 towards me they told me that I am super proud that they always recognize you 245 00:18:22.039 --> 00:18:30.279 and in CFe they know you, that is, they know who you are 246 00:18:30.319 --> 00:18:37.279 here in the builder, because also, that is, they know who you 247 00:18:37.880 --> 00:18:41.559 are and what hell you don' t and I said again what a pity 248 00:18:41.559 --> 00:18:44.519 that the company worked me. They' re worth a damn, that' 249 00:18:44.519 --> 00:18:47.599 s where you went as an employee. Nothing more. Then, I tell 250 00:18:47.640 --> 00:18:53.000 you what father, that other people recognize the total work. Things began to 251 00:18:53.039 --> 00:19:02.920 calm down a little bit The years began to pass. Yeah, we last 252 00:19:02.960 --> 00:19:14.039 three years of OK boyfriends like two years of boyfriends. There goes the first 253 00:19:14.519 --> 00:19:18.920 flag network not OK. Here comes the aha or the ones I wanted to 254 00:19:19.039 --> 00:19:22.240 see, because I think there were many not. When I wanted to start 255 00:19:22.319 --> 00:19:30.359 noticing. The first was I don' t know how to unload the shoulders 256 00:19:30.440 --> 00:19:33.920 when the men who are unfaithful are unfaithful because of that, well, when 257 00:19:34.000 --> 00:19:38.279 they are unfaithful, that' s why I tell you, I don' 258 00:19:41.119 --> 00:19:42.880 t know or those who are unfaithful realize that the same thing happened to my 259 00:19:42.920 --> 00:19:47.160 daughter' s dad, not talking to the other in front of me that 260 00:19:47.160 --> 00:19:52.480 is, in my nose. Yeah, it was like we were outside my 261 00:19:52.559 --> 00:19:59.559 house where I lived. We were on the side, not inventing to answer 262 00:20:00.079 --> 00:20:03.640 messages until, because red I saw that I sent hearts and that I said 263 00:20:03.880 --> 00:20:14.880 no mames manches net. Yeah. So, then he went to the bathroom 264 00:20:14.880 --> 00:20:22.799 and left his phone. When you start to suspect, you start looking for 265 00:20:22.799 --> 00:20:26.880 passwords. Obviously, as I had already seen, it was crazy, yes, 266 00:20:26.480 --> 00:20:32.559 clear mad eye. He' s never wrong. No. So, 267 00:20:32.599 --> 00:20:37.400 he goes into the bathroom, he forgot his phone. Strange that always, 268 00:20:37.960 --> 00:20:45.000 always came in with the phone. So I said I' m from here 269 00:20:45.000 --> 00:20:48.640 and I don' t mean, because the first little girl I was practicing 270 00:20:48.680 --> 00:20:52.160 with didn' t mean, it seemed like I was with her too because 271 00:20:52.160 --> 00:20:53.559 yesterday' s messages were from you I love. I want to see you, 272 00:20:53.839 --> 00:21:03.240 I want to know that I, Mames, yes, yes, what 273 00:21:03.279 --> 00:21:07.200 a fart to throw at all the little talk I had because I obviously erased 274 00:21:07.200 --> 00:21:12.000 them. But it was what he had recently. It' s not all 275 00:21:12.079 --> 00:21:18.640 me to my guide anywhere, yes, I know and I didn' t 276 00:21:18.680 --> 00:21:21.279 tell him anything That night I didn' t tell him anything about jesus. 277 00:21:21.359 --> 00:21:25.279 The next day we had an event, but why not, I mean more 278 00:21:25.279 --> 00:21:30.079 of one is happening, Right now, why didn' t you tell him 279 00:21:30.240 --> 00:21:32.720 today or more some are asking you no, Mames, why didn' t 280 00:21:33.039 --> 00:21:37.720 you claim him for the trauma of my previous relationship, okay, how did 281 00:21:37.759 --> 00:21:45.559 I react when I found out too then it was like this time I wanted 282 00:21:45.640 --> 00:21:48.960 to take it easy so I didn' t overreact. Okay And then, 283 00:21:49.440 --> 00:21:55.880 obviously, he left that day. I was crying all night and I said 284 00:21:55.880 --> 00:21:59.880 no, because I also accompanied him to the event. But then we went 285 00:22:00.000 --> 00:22:07.640 back and it' s there and we just went to the event and I 286 00:22:07.640 --> 00:22:11.279 decided to determine it. The truth man as soon as he left me, 287 00:22:11.519 --> 00:22:18.400 we got to my house. He told me ah I told him this I 288 00:22:18.480 --> 00:22:23.440 have something to tell you what happened. I told him. You noticed I 289 00:22:23.559 --> 00:22:30.599 checked your phone. It does not seem then that he put on a train, 290 00:22:32.119 --> 00:22:36.079 his tense and his gaze only flinched to the front. I told him 291 00:22:36.200 --> 00:22:41.079 the truth to be fighting for someone. I told him you' re already 292 00:22:41.200 --> 00:22:45.880 with that person. I told him you' re not trying to deny anything. 293 00:22:45.160 --> 00:22:48.920 I told him how they talk and I even love you he tells you 294 00:22:48.960 --> 00:22:52.839 how many times they' ve gone out. I told him here to be 295 00:22:52.839 --> 00:22:56.680 stupid, thinking that poor thing to come to see me if, well, 296 00:22:56.839 --> 00:23:00.200 he' s tired, to go home while you wave with someone else. 297 00:23:00.480 --> 00:23:03.200 I told him I' m not there for that. I said I' 298 00:23:03.279 --> 00:23:07.079 m sorry, but I' m not. I told him I' m 299 00:23:07.079 --> 00:23:10.960 not going to fight for you. No, you don' t like this 300 00:23:11.640 --> 00:23:15.400 one. I don' t wish you any harm. I waited until today 301 00:23:15.440 --> 00:23:21.519 to tell you, to tell you you can be calm. I don' 302 00:23:21.519 --> 00:23:26.079 t know how to react. And so I leave you the free way. 303 00:23:26.799 --> 00:23:30.359 I quit, but I don' t want this. Thank you very much. 304 00:23:30.039 --> 00:23:37.680 He didn' t tell me anything and what maturity on your part, 305 00:23:37.799 --> 00:23:41.039 so react that way. So, because of what I had already been through, 306 00:23:41.240 --> 00:23:45.519 I am already going through it. I' ll tell you the other 307 00:23:45.680 --> 00:23:48.759 story because, well, yes, the other one because with my daughter' 308 00:23:48.799 --> 00:23:49.839 s dad, yes, yes. It was bad for me, because I 309 00:23:49.839 --> 00:23:55.480 reacted. How I reacted when I gave up not that it' s normal, 310 00:23:56.119 --> 00:24:00.680 I don' t say, because it' s that you' re 311 00:24:00.759 --> 00:24:02.720 upset or disappointed, you' re given a lot of mixed feelings. But 312 00:24:03.720 --> 00:24:07.599 then, obviously, that time too, I realized that even then, the 313 00:24:07.400 --> 00:24:11.160 only one that gets the most damaged is you, the other person. It 314 00:24:11.160 --> 00:24:14.839 doesn' t matter, because of course, because his head is in something 315 00:24:14.839 --> 00:24:19.799 else. He didn' t care exactly. So I said, well, 316 00:24:21.000 --> 00:24:22.720 you know what I' m doing. He didn' t tell me anything. 317 00:24:23.200 --> 00:24:26.000 So I said good luck and we went and got out of the truck 318 00:24:26.039 --> 00:24:33.119 and went into my house. He said since I know what I have to 319 00:24:33.200 --> 00:24:37.240 go through. Not at two hours, he sent me a message to forgive 320 00:24:37.359 --> 00:24:42.759 him, which wasn' t what I thought, which I know what, 321 00:24:44.160 --> 00:24:47.279 but what he wanted me and blah, blah, blah, blah. I 322 00:24:47.319 --> 00:24:48.640 don' t remember much what to say anymore. Not the message, but 323 00:24:48.759 --> 00:24:55.519 she' s a cousin. She' s the one who' s good. 324 00:24:55.599 --> 00:25:06.599 Later I will tell you about it, because I totally fell back into 325 00:25:06.599 --> 00:25:08.480 their nets to see, to see, to see. Most likely many are 326 00:25:08.480 --> 00:25:15.480 asking why, that is, what caused you to fall, why it is 327 00:25:15.519 --> 00:25:18.200 that I wanted it and he told me that he loved me, that is, 328 00:25:18.440 --> 00:25:21.720 but in the whole because of the message or it was the next day 329 00:25:21.720 --> 00:25:26.400 or not from the middle. I didn' t answer that message, but 330 00:25:26.519 --> 00:25:30.000 if it came to me with your message, it wasn' t what I 331 00:25:30.000 --> 00:25:34.279 thought he didn' t want to me that was the best thing that ever 332 00:25:34.400 --> 00:25:36.960 happened to him and blah, blah, blah? Bla? Bla? No, 333 00:25:37.359 --> 00:25:38.599 or a lot of things. I didn' t know you didn' 334 00:25:38.599 --> 00:25:45.000 t. It was very expressive and his way of doing it was through the 335 00:25:45.240 --> 00:25:48.920 total message he looked for me, because I didn' t see him all 336 00:25:48.720 --> 00:25:53.759 weekend until we got to work and he looked for me and told me that 337 00:25:53.759 --> 00:25:56.680 because it wasn' t what I thought, that I was a friend, 338 00:25:56.839 --> 00:26:00.279 that being that me as a friend, he' s going to tell you 339 00:26:00.279 --> 00:26:00.880 I love you, because obviously, yes. It was an argument for a 340 00:26:00.960 --> 00:26:06.240 while until it was over. It' s not like he' s looking, 341 00:26:06.799 --> 00:26:07.119 you know, he started getting his family very involved. My own family 342 00:26:07.200 --> 00:26:10.880 has told you that I no longer introduce myself to anyone but YOU, that 343 00:26:11.279 --> 00:26:17.920 is, emulation manipulation. Yes, this one then, you must know with 344 00:26:18.119 --> 00:26:32.039 nothing more important to me. Bla blay, redo. I know all of 345 00:26:32.039 --> 00:26:34.920 a sudden, well, a lot is the same. I let it go 346 00:26:34.920 --> 00:26:42.319 and since at the end of that year he had to leave no, his 347 00:26:42.400 --> 00:26:53.839 daughters came along with his mom or X with Lix and this me because you 348 00:26:53.920 --> 00:27:00.559 always have a little spin, not like when something is left with ok the 349 00:27:02.880 --> 00:27:04.519 ex I noticed it weird. Then he started telling me you know what. 350 00:27:04.599 --> 00:27:08.759 Well, these two aren' t gonna see you because I' m gonna 351 00:27:10.319 --> 00:27:11.440 hang out with my kids, and I' m gonna, well, yeah, 352 00:27:11.720 --> 00:27:12.640 I think it' s got to do with it I mean, I 353 00:27:12.640 --> 00:27:17.680 can meet them. We can live together, because you' re supposed to 354 00:27:17.680 --> 00:27:25.039 know, yes, I' ve known them a year before and I' 355 00:27:25.119 --> 00:27:30.400 ve done everything right with them, but this time it started to put limits 356 00:27:30.759 --> 00:27:34.640 on me, obstacles, yes, all that. So I told him ay, 357 00:27:34.680 --> 00:27:37.960 you don' t know what. That' s another one I told 358 00:27:37.440 --> 00:27:42.279 her you know what if you want. So far we let him sort things 359 00:27:42.400 --> 00:27:47.960 out with you and your daughter' s mom. I told him at the 360 00:27:47.960 --> 00:27:48.759 end of the day, you suffer a lot for them. I mean, 361 00:27:48.799 --> 00:27:55.880 it did touch me to see that what wept at them and suffered and missed 362 00:27:55.880 --> 00:28:00.759 them, that is, I always felt sincere when I talked about his children, 363 00:28:02.960 --> 00:28:06.279 that I told him, so what you told me about why he ended 364 00:28:07.000 --> 00:28:08.480 his relationship, because the truth to me is not made enough to end. 365 00:28:11.200 --> 00:28:14.279 There' s a relationship of so many years my me just told me that 366 00:28:14.359 --> 00:28:18.200 in a moment of startup already told you that I didn' t believe you 367 00:28:18.240 --> 00:28:18.799 and now, but then he regretted it and he was looking for you. 368 00:28:19.000 --> 00:28:26.000 I mean, I don' t know, I don' t see any 369 00:28:26.000 --> 00:28:32.480 point in it, so, I mean, if you really love each other 370 00:28:32.480 --> 00:28:33.759 yet, okay, well, you sort out your stuff. Yes, of 371 00:28:33.000 --> 00:28:37.240 course and apart, see the benefit you' re going to have. There 372 00:28:37.319 --> 00:28:42.359 ' s your daughters in between, go back to them. He returns with 373 00:28:42.440 --> 00:28:45.720 them and, in the end, anyway, because he complained that always, 374 00:28:45.640 --> 00:28:49.319 because it was super money, it was the only thing that interested him. 375 00:28:49.359 --> 00:28:53.920 And yes, he always treated him with the legs of that. If he 376 00:28:55.000 --> 00:28:59.839 could not deposit him one day, the daughters would block him, he could 377 00:29:00.079 --> 00:29:03.240 not talk to her until he deposited him. Hey, but I just deposited 378 00:29:03.240 --> 00:29:07.359 you. Yeah, but they take this, this, this. Ah, 379 00:29:07.559 --> 00:29:11.640 on the day he was deposited with him, he could now have access to 380 00:29:11.720 --> 00:29:15.599 his daughters again, alas friends, but manipulated that he had, do not 381 00:29:15.599 --> 00:29:21.960 be so. Ah, I know, so, I said anyway, forgive 382 00:29:22.920 --> 00:29:26.000 me, but it does you how it wants. I mean, it' 383 00:29:26.039 --> 00:29:26.680 s the same thing, if it' s far away, it' s 384 00:29:26.680 --> 00:29:32.960 close. If that' s your downside, I' m not saying. 385 00:29:33.000 --> 00:29:36.400 At the end of the day, I think it' s okay, that 386 00:29:37.200 --> 00:29:38.559 they try, that they don' t understand about their daughters, and that 387 00:29:38.559 --> 00:29:40.680 they care about their family. And I' m telling him because apparently, 388 00:29:40.960 --> 00:29:44.319 you' ve never forgotten. Not even she to you for a few messages 389 00:29:44.519 --> 00:29:51.440 that find them to see in contrast to them the pess by how they were 390 00:29:51.599 --> 00:29:53.160 spoken, for that is, some sexes do not speak like this And I 391 00:29:53.200 --> 00:29:59.960 do not speak like that to my daughter' s father, for it is 392 00:30:00.119 --> 00:30:03.240 clear where I told her that I congratulated her not know if it was her 393 00:30:03.240 --> 00:30:08.640 saint. I don' t know what kids congratulated her and what happiness she 394 00:30:08.680 --> 00:30:11.400 ' s a beautiful girl and I don' t know what and I don 395 00:30:11.400 --> 00:30:14.000 ' t know how much. I said they were yes so they expressed with 396 00:30:14.160 --> 00:30:17.359 her one thing like that and the other. Thank you very much. So 397 00:30:17.400 --> 00:30:19.079 you' re gonna give me clothes or what? I don' t know 398 00:30:19.079 --> 00:30:25.480 what? I mean, one thing is you say well, it would hurt 399 00:30:25.480 --> 00:30:27.240 your respect, you know, your children' s mom, well, but 400 00:30:29.039 --> 00:30:33.200 what are you going to do as my princess or girl, even since that 401 00:30:33.240 --> 00:30:37.160 beautiful girl I already said good ana. That' s something else. Not 402 00:30:37.279 --> 00:30:42.799 then too, for me, it was precisely for that message that I reacted. 403 00:30:42.839 --> 00:30:47.599 So you know what, then, to try what is still going on 404 00:30:47.720 --> 00:30:52.240 and something between you two. Yeah, of course he didn' t tell 405 00:30:53.079 --> 00:30:57.000 me again, he didn' t tell me anything, just his look at 406 00:30:57.039 --> 00:31:00.079 the front, because accepting what, at the end of the day, what 407 00:31:00.119 --> 00:31:03.319 I was telling him, no matter what the truth is, it' s 408 00:31:03.319 --> 00:31:14.160 true, yes I told him, you know what I told him, well, 409 00:31:14.359 --> 00:31:18.480 there we see each other, because I got out of the truck and 410 00:31:19.200 --> 00:31:27.960 when I' m going to get in my house, he told me I 411 00:31:27.960 --> 00:31:27.960 ' m going to come back and I' m going to get back and 412 00:31:27.960 --> 00:31:29.039 I' m going to fuck you, aha aha and no more. I 413 00:31:29.119 --> 00:31:30.519 stared at him and went into my house. I didn' t tell him 414 00:31:30.519 --> 00:31:37.599 anything. Whether I cry or I don' t cry that something' s 415 00:31:37.599 --> 00:31:38.920 totally aha. I heard that he took her to the praz, so they 416 00:31:38.960 --> 00:31:45.519 had already planned their trip from the guy took her to the playe and that 417 00:31:45.680 --> 00:31:51.000 they didn' t come like the happy family, they walked in the places 418 00:31:51.000 --> 00:31:52.640 that we were going out and everything and that' s not it. But 419 00:31:52.680 --> 00:31:56.759 how did you find out? He told you or it was bullshit up states. 420 00:31:57.279 --> 00:32:06.440 Not until that is lui da doso because intelligent not not careful so they 421 00:32:06.519 --> 00:32:12.079 did say careful if it came up states. Obviously, I was blocked so 422 00:32:14.000 --> 00:32:16.160 I wouldn' t notice. But at the end of the day, I 423 00:32:16.240 --> 00:32:21.599 learned yes clearly by people very close to him and who esteemed me too. 424 00:32:22.400 --> 00:32:25.079 Okay, hey, you know what, because we saw them like that, 425 00:32:25.440 --> 00:32:30.519 so they went away together. Yeah, hello, classic friend. You' 426 00:32:30.519 --> 00:32:34.000 re okay, I heard, yeah something like that, yeah, you' 427 00:32:34.000 --> 00:32:37.920 re talking. Yeah, actually, you do feel. You' re okay, 428 00:32:37.480 --> 00:32:40.720 you know they have our support accounts with us. I know my son 429 00:32:40.759 --> 00:32:45.359 ' s not good. I already said who. I know it' s 430 00:32:45.400 --> 00:32:52.279 doing us good, but you know we really appreciate you. That' s 431 00:32:52.319 --> 00:32:55.039 what you' re offered. Here we are for you and everything. Then 432 00:32:55.039 --> 00:33:00.519 I gained the affection, for of many of famis notice, yes, of 433 00:33:00.519 --> 00:33:06.279 course, without intention, for no, because they simply accepted me and already 434 00:33:06.359 --> 00:33:15.839 passed. I don' t remember how many went up like a week, 435 00:33:16.000 --> 00:33:23.359 I think, and on the last day he told me to come with me 436 00:33:23.359 --> 00:33:29.039 to take them to the airport and I stayed just like I said that bastard 437 00:33:29.039 --> 00:33:31.720 then wasn' t what I imagined. It was a good one right now. 438 00:33:31.799 --> 00:33:35.359 It' s like it was a move on his part. Not like 439 00:33:35.359 --> 00:33:38.039 this. Aha ok ok, so you can see there' s nothing here. 440 00:33:38.200 --> 00:33:42.960 Uh- huh, yeah, but you don' t go with the 441 00:33:43.079 --> 00:33:46.119 hexa to Bato Beach. I would call myself my sons or my daughters. 442 00:33:46.519 --> 00:33:50.319 In this case I don' t know, but because the ex for clear 443 00:33:50.319 --> 00:33:53.240 nex I mean, you know what excuse me, but I have you I 444 00:33:53.240 --> 00:33:57.240 ' m with someone exactly. Yeah, no, they didn' t give 445 00:33:57.279 --> 00:34:00.920 me in my place more videl grabbed like ah it' s over. I 446 00:34:01.000 --> 00:34:05.279 ' m free to do whatever you want. Bastard, that' s how 447 00:34:05.359 --> 00:34:07.880 I saw it later. Not because she is and she' s coming with 448 00:34:07.960 --> 00:34:13.440 me and I' m friends, because I' m safer than the wife, 449 00:34:13.559 --> 00:34:15.079 well, to the ex- wife I say no. I' m 450 00:34:15.079 --> 00:34:22.760 done. Don' t look at me. Hey, okay, he told 451 00:34:22.760 --> 00:34:27.280 me this one. Let' s go, obviously, we left in the 452 00:34:27.400 --> 00:34:32.119 morning and we got to her ex where she was staying. Don' t 453 00:34:32.159 --> 00:34:39.239 touch me as soon as the old man saw me, for of course he 454 00:34:39.280 --> 00:34:42.920 arrived and threw his bags at the door, and the other thing, well, 455 00:34:42.920 --> 00:34:45.079 it' s very bed. Girls, get him down and help him 456 00:34:45.159 --> 00:34:46.519 get things down and get things up and I' ll be right there. 457 00:34:46.639 --> 00:34:50.800 But what do I ask with this güey, that is, I lose with 458 00:34:50.800 --> 00:34:53.119 his little head. I know what you mean by" güey", because 459 00:34:53.119 --> 00:34:59.039 I' ve been with my ex and my daughters all week, because we 460 00:34:59.119 --> 00:35:02.320 ' ve already had them in the harbour. Güey, I' m coming 461 00:35:02.480 --> 00:35:06.840 back with you, not that I mean, what I' m sending you 462 00:35:06.960 --> 00:35:10.760 to the airport for, that is, exactly to tell me that, well, 463 00:35:12.159 --> 00:35:14.000 or to make me understand, for there was nothing, because between them. 464 00:35:14.320 --> 00:35:15.559 But to me the reaction of the ex was the one that caught my 465 00:35:15.639 --> 00:35:22.159 attention exactly, because if she hadn' t reacted, well hello, how 466 00:35:22.159 --> 00:35:28.159 nice. And so I don' t know, for yes, because now 467 00:35:28.639 --> 00:35:30.920 I do have a relationship that ends well, that is, between them, 468 00:35:30.960 --> 00:35:35.280 I don' t say, well, you' re going to see my 469 00:35:35.360 --> 00:35:39.960 daughters, because then, I try to know you not who I' m 470 00:35:40.039 --> 00:35:45.559 going to have to deal with my daughters, but not all the time it 471 00:35:45.559 --> 00:35:46.119 was super tense I grabbed his head. I, too, have been picturing 472 00:35:46.119 --> 00:35:51.760 the caste in the back, because I well knew, that is, I 473 00:35:51.760 --> 00:35:53.880 also felt the attention. I don' t know who I don' t 474 00:35:53.960 --> 00:35:59.480 know, I don' t know how much I was grabbing him and talking 475 00:36:00.159 --> 00:36:06.880 to him from the rest and I kind of don' t care about you, 476 00:36:07.400 --> 00:36:10.360 like you guys love it, I know, no man, the doña 477 00:36:10.360 --> 00:36:10.360 got a fucking yes to the airport, but it was very busy and it 478 00:36:10.360 --> 00:36:15.559 felt. I don' t know, that diabetic was Mesoy well, I 479 00:36:15.599 --> 00:36:17.239 don' t know, but now I had nothing to do with it for 480 00:36:17.239 --> 00:36:21.480 me. They were done and I don' t know what happened on that 481 00:36:21.480 --> 00:36:23.599 trip. Yeah, I don' t know what happened on that trip so 482 00:36:24.000 --> 00:36:31.119 that aya rebred like that. Ok interesting, then, because already total that 483 00:36:31.159 --> 00:36:37.800 so far I' m thinking about it notice, I friend, I know, 484 00:36:38.079 --> 00:36:42.400 but because already total are gone the girls and have said goodbye to me. 485 00:36:43.480 --> 00:36:45.280 For the same reason, the same manipulation of his mother and yes, 486 00:36:45.480 --> 00:36:51.320 his mother started after there, his mother began to shake the girls a lot 487 00:36:51.519 --> 00:36:54.280 and told him that, then. Not that or the girls would tell him 488 00:36:54.360 --> 00:37:01.480 that, then. He didn' t listen to them because he was distracted 489 00:37:01.559 --> 00:37:06.119 with me that everything was spent on me and I ay daughter. If they 490 00:37:07.119 --> 00:37:09.599 knew he didn' t spend even a few scots on me, I swear 491 00:37:09.639 --> 00:37:12.360 to you, even that' s what he was starting to spend on me 492 00:37:12.360 --> 00:37:15.360 for. No. And besides, they' re words that usually girls wouldn 493 00:37:15.360 --> 00:37:19.800 ' t say, because exactly I said there, those aren' t your 494 00:37:19.800 --> 00:37:22.920 daughters' words. For God' s sake, I did say no to 495 00:37:22.920 --> 00:37:24.800 him several times. But if they realize nothing, they' re going to 496 00:37:25.000 --> 00:37:29.800 realize that already, because he also told me no, that it is that 497 00:37:29.920 --> 00:37:31.719 he says that, because he took several old women from you and told them 498 00:37:31.800 --> 00:37:37.920 that I paid my old women. Okay, so you always paid for all 499 00:37:37.960 --> 00:37:40.360 the trips we went out, which, in fact, was on the part 500 00:37:40.440 --> 00:37:45.239 of the company. The company supported us with fifty percent and the other fifty 501 00:37:45.320 --> 00:37:50.000 percent. We paid for it all year. Okay, so how about then, 502 00:37:50.039 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 503 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 504 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 505 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 506 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 507 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 508 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 509 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 510 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 511 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 512 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 513 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 514 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 515 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 516 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 517 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 518 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 519 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 520 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 521 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 522 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 523 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 524 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 525 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 526 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 527 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 528 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 529 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 530 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 531 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 532 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 533 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 534 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:51.880 you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, 535 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:52.880 you know, you know, you know Also yes, of course, 536 00:37:52.440 --> 00:37:55.880 but because he never hears how you get it, you' re looking black 537 00:37:55.920 --> 00:38:00.480 or I shake hands with you at no time. Not him. He always 538 00:38:00.599 --> 00:38:07.280 said he had no money. Then, according to that, his daughters claimed 539 00:38:07.360 --> 00:38:13.039 that he was taking me away and I and the girls how they know. 540 00:38:15.719 --> 00:38:17.199 No, I was telling him to watch tell the girls how they know. 541 00:38:17.880 --> 00:38:23.599 Well, on Facebook to see woe to God so aha i e, doesn 542 00:38:23.760 --> 00:38:28.760 ' t realize that I had it super brainwashed. No, I mean, 543 00:38:28.840 --> 00:38:31.360 oh friends, if you' re listening to this podcast, then, then 544 00:38:35.440 --> 00:38:43.760 you' re coming son not for him would be lethal. Then we let 545 00:38:45.679 --> 00:38:57.000 this one pass. That incident happened another year, but I said no in 546 00:38:57.039 --> 00:38:59.519 20. It' s three years, already boyfriends. You' re gonna 547 00:38:59.639 --> 00:39:05.039 want something serious. Not because he didn' t see something in him like 548 00:39:05.199 --> 00:39:07.880 he didn' t see that he wanted to sit with me. I mean, 549 00:39:07.920 --> 00:39:10.519 it was like that ay, because as long as you' re not 550 00:39:12.840 --> 00:39:19.360 alone I' m okay, okay try, I didn' t know being 551 00:39:19.400 --> 00:39:22.800 alone rather that' s not then, because until I told him I heard 552 00:39:23.039 --> 00:39:28.480 him hear you know what we' re going to do right, yeah, 553 00:39:29.519 --> 00:39:34.960 that goes on, and his answer will be that he won' t let 554 00:39:35.119 --> 00:39:35.400 the time pass, don' t rush and I rushed him I said we 555 00:39:35.400 --> 00:39:37.639 ' re three years old. What' s the matter with you? Listen 556 00:39:37.760 --> 00:39:42.320 to this, friends, it' s not three years ago. No. 557 00:39:42.400 --> 00:39:45.400 No, no, no, no, and aside, in your situation, 558 00:39:45.679 --> 00:39:50.440 no, not your age, because I' m also going to say your 559 00:39:50.440 --> 00:39:52.719 age. But rather, in your situation that you come for good experience. 560 00:39:54.320 --> 00:39:58.760 And then, then, you have a daughter. No and then you say, 561 00:39:59.360 --> 00:40:01.199 well, yes, that is where it goes or that you get to 562 00:40:01.239 --> 00:40:05.639 a point where it does put you to think yes, of course, because 563 00:40:05.719 --> 00:40:07.280 in this case, just that you mention my daughter, I say well, 564 00:40:07.559 --> 00:40:10.519 what stability I am giving her that I am teaching her. No, yeah, 565 00:40:10.599 --> 00:40:15.760 sure, I mean, you' re gonna love him or not, 566 00:40:15.199 --> 00:40:20.559 and if you want to, well, if you don' t, I 567 00:40:20.639 --> 00:40:22.320 ' ll cry what you have to cry and he comes out, but you 568 00:40:22.320 --> 00:40:25.119 don' t waste my time either. I want something serious and if you 569 00:40:25.199 --> 00:40:29.400 don' t want it, you better tell me, well, yes, 570 00:40:29.960 --> 00:40:31.920 but you' re personating me. I' m not pushing you. How 571 00:40:32.039 --> 00:40:37.760 difficult, I mean, whether I want to or not. I want to 572 00:40:37.920 --> 00:40:42.519 hear and more of one here, some male, here from the audience. 573 00:40:43.519 --> 00:40:45.599 Excuse me, mate, but if you' re thinking, that' s 574 00:40:45.599 --> 00:40:47.880 not pushing. No, Güey, no, actually, Neta, I mean, 575 00:40:49.360 --> 00:40:52.960 not here, it' s more like getting into reality, because you 576 00:40:53.119 --> 00:40:58.000 say Güey to Chile, that is, three years. I think it' 577 00:40:58.079 --> 00:41:00.480 s already a considerable thing. Look at me, because I once heard something 578 00:41:00.559 --> 00:41:06.639 they say. There are people who give you something wonderful in five months that 579 00:41:06.639 --> 00:41:12.280 someone in five years can not give you you know then here, because also 580 00:41:12.280 --> 00:41:14.679 if you reach a point, because in which you say, well, yes, 581 00:41:14.840 --> 00:41:16.679 that is, everything, very nice, everything, well, but then, 582 00:41:17.199 --> 00:41:22.039 then, where this goes, because exactly above all that does not, 583 00:41:22.760 --> 00:41:24.239 that is, it gives me a hand, a direction. We' re 584 00:41:24.400 --> 00:41:28.880 not 15 years old. Yeah, sure, like to say oh I don 585 00:41:28.880 --> 00:41:31.360 ' t know, you have to give time, you still have to finish 586 00:41:31.360 --> 00:41:35.599 the bla bla bla race. I don' t know, not typical of 587 00:41:35.719 --> 00:41:37.760 having him is being a kid. No, but of course we were no 588 00:41:37.880 --> 00:41:40.239 longer of that age. We were supposed to be more mature people. He 589 00:41:40.400 --> 00:41:47.800 was supposed to, he was supposed to, because he told me he was 590 00:41:51.440 --> 00:41:52.920 going to think about it, so that' s not what you think. 591 00:41:52.880 --> 00:41:55.840 I mean, if you realize that, because that action you know that I 592 00:41:55.960 --> 00:42:02.599 mean, that' s right, of course, but at that time my 593 00:42:02.599 --> 00:42:07.519 daughter was already more involved with a being too it' s like more difficult, 594 00:42:07.840 --> 00:42:12.000 because everything. That' s why he also encouraged you to ask that 595 00:42:12.000 --> 00:42:15.159 question. Not cohabitation, of course, also heals everything and you say güey, 596 00:42:15.360 --> 00:42:19.639 that is, also tell me what it is, but to sacrifice a 597 00:42:19.800 --> 00:42:25.119 little bit this and continue is not with someone else, but to move on 598 00:42:25.639 --> 00:42:29.519 then, because neither. Okay, the illusion is so much, because to 599 00:42:29.599 --> 00:42:34.639 my daughter and then the fall is stronger. You know exactly yes, because 600 00:42:34.760 --> 00:42:38.840 obviously, because she doesn' t have her father figure present the biological one. 601 00:42:39.679 --> 00:42:44.239 Okay, so he was her father figure. Don' t want to. 602 00:42:44.480 --> 00:42:50.079 Then it was more for me. I said I can' t keep 603 00:42:50.280 --> 00:43:00.239 letting this move on like this, not see what. No. Then they 604 00:43:00.320 --> 00:43:05.480 put it last atom. At the end of the day, he decided that 605 00:43:05.639 --> 00:43:07.199 yes, he almost sent me the taxi, came by taxi to my house. 606 00:43:07.360 --> 00:43:09.360 I said no, no mother, I was to see the truth, 607 00:43:09.599 --> 00:43:14.760 the truth, what ha ha that, what did you want us to send 608 00:43:14.880 --> 00:43:15.880 by taxi to your house? I mean, he' s not even picking 609 00:43:16.000 --> 00:43:21.480 us up, or anything. And it' s still bad. And so, 610 00:43:22.320 --> 00:43:25.800 I mean, it wasn' t for you, not for it was 611 00:43:25.800 --> 00:43:28.280 but scolding, to see, to see, to see, to see, 612 00:43:28.599 --> 00:43:32.719 friend, nor that gave you an indicility. I mean, that' s 613 00:43:32.760 --> 00:43:35.960 what I want to ask you. I mean, you didn' t realize, 614 00:43:37.159 --> 00:43:40.519 because there were already many things involved, because I mean already the time, 615 00:43:42.000 --> 00:43:45.079 already it was, it was already my daughter, already it was to 616 00:43:45.239 --> 00:43:47.719 want to justify all that is not to say good, because already, at 617 00:43:47.840 --> 00:43:53.800 the end of the day, he told me yes no and because he is 618 00:43:53.960 --> 00:43:55.280 already doing it in his own way, in his own way. No, 619 00:43:55.920 --> 00:44:00.519 that' s what he told me so many times. I want my way 620 00:44:00.639 --> 00:44:06.400 and how it' s fucked up. Dudes, if you tell them it 621 00:44:06.480 --> 00:44:08.760 ' s my way, don' t listen to them, it' s 622 00:44:08.760 --> 00:44:12.599 not true. Don' t get out of there anymore, get out there. 623 00:44:12.679 --> 00:44:20.119 She' s definitely not a friend. At the end of the day, 624 00:44:20.679 --> 00:44:29.320 because we started living together, ok yes, I know, obviously, 625 00:44:29.599 --> 00:44:37.840 because in what we were busy and all that, then, but adapting this 626 00:44:37.039 --> 00:44:43.559 obviously seemed more roomis than nothing, because if I paid for my things and 627 00:44:43.599 --> 00:44:46.840 because in theirs there was a time that almost I also paid for their food, 628 00:44:47.239 --> 00:44:51.800 and that because I had no money, because I sent her daughters and 629 00:44:51.800 --> 00:44:59.239 blah blah. So, there are a lot of things that I foolishly accepted 630 00:44:59.360 --> 00:45:06.360 not at the end of buying, end of the day, having a partner 631 00:45:06.519 --> 00:45:12.119 or ok then and keeping the father figure that my daughter didn' t have, 632 00:45:12.719 --> 00:45:15.360 not with her biological dad, because at that time it does weigh that, 633 00:45:15.880 --> 00:45:21.000 that is if it gets to put you, for that is, maybe 634 00:45:21.119 --> 00:45:25.239 you who are listening to me best as a third person and say don' 635 00:45:25.360 --> 00:45:30.440 t mom or it' s not me, then yes, but also at 636 00:45:30.320 --> 00:45:36.079 that time the variables the situations are other, for yes, of course you 637 00:45:36.119 --> 00:45:40.199 put so on the table if you say no, yes, being inside is 638 00:45:42.280 --> 00:45:49.880 really very difficult, already being very nailed or yourself, very manipulated by yourself, 639 00:45:51.119 --> 00:45:54.039 unfortunately, not that you need to be there and that you can' 640 00:45:54.280 --> 00:45:58.239 t get out of there because it' s not just you, because it 641 00:45:58.360 --> 00:46:04.639 ' s also your daughter. Then it becomes super complicated. No, of 642 00:46:04.760 --> 00:46:13.000 course, obviously, because he stopped being a bastard, not the typical suspicions 643 00:46:13.559 --> 00:46:17.440 of when someone is unfaithful to you. I did not begin to suspect him 644 00:46:17.519 --> 00:46:24.920 again, because now he was not so brazen to talk with me with his 645 00:46:25.119 --> 00:46:30.719 dear things. Yes, of course, in itself, you form, as 646 00:46:30.840 --> 00:46:35.159 men, senseis s clear, yes, because yes, yes, I taught 647 00:46:35.320 --> 00:46:39.000 him many things. I showed him how I realized it. Yes, of 648 00:46:39.000 --> 00:46:44.920 course, because it was even that I was in the cell and then I 649 00:46:45.000 --> 00:46:47.840 lowered it. And so woe. Yeah, I mean, I grow stupid. 650 00:46:50.760 --> 00:46:53.440 And so until I guessed his contras again, because I changed them every 651 00:46:53.800 --> 00:47:00.960 week, it was or a different password every week I recapped that' s 652 00:47:00.960 --> 00:47:05.400 an indication. Yeah, that' s another clue, too. Not then, 653 00:47:07.320 --> 00:47:13.039 for another day I also grabbed his cell while asleep. There' s 654 00:47:13.320 --> 00:47:16.400 nothing,' cause I don' t have a texting bug with an old 655 00:47:16.400 --> 00:47:20.599 lady' s chingo to a chingo. Yes, yes, obviously, because 656 00:47:20.639 --> 00:47:23.480 she was already holding on to deleting messages and everything, because they did send 657 00:47:23.480 --> 00:47:30.760 her pictures and everything, but she appeared as deleted photos, yes, of 658 00:47:30.760 --> 00:47:34.559 course and then, yes, obviously, the last time she was disappointed. 659 00:47:34.679 --> 00:47:38.920 No, but I' m already here, not Mames, yes, I 660 00:47:38.960 --> 00:47:49.000 think to see then sadly, Ok I think it' s not for blaming 661 00:47:49.000 --> 00:47:57.599 someone, but I did realize that my mom, by enduring so many infidelities 662 00:47:57.679 --> 00:48:02.159 of my dad, Ok they record you in the head that you just have 663 00:48:02.239 --> 00:48:07.039 to bear, so it' s normal. Yes, of course, then, 664 00:48:10.079 --> 00:48:14.920 you start saying no yourself, because it' s here with you. 665 00:48:15.719 --> 00:48:20.119 No. At the end of the day, if you face him, he 666 00:48:22.639 --> 00:48:24.119 ' s still here, he' s not gone. You' re not 667 00:48:24.199 --> 00:48:30.880 looking for a lot of justifications for that. Not or if my mom was 668 00:48:30.440 --> 00:48:37.239 always there. Well, in spite of everything, then, because he still 669 00:48:37.280 --> 00:48:42.639 faced it. But because the same thing with them is that it is nothing, 670 00:48:42.960 --> 00:48:45.239 is that they are friends, is that this is that the other way 671 00:48:45.280 --> 00:48:50.039 they are sending you pictures, your breasts, güey already, of those, 672 00:48:50.639 --> 00:48:55.960 buttocks and everything, and he saying that, because it was nothing. But 673 00:48:57.159 --> 00:49:00.199 I' m telling you, all of a sudden, traumas also win everyone, 674 00:49:01.119 --> 00:49:06.679 of course, the insecurities you have. What happened to my daughter' 675 00:49:06.760 --> 00:49:09.840 s dad was also kind of like that, well, it' s not 676 00:49:09.840 --> 00:49:14.119 okay and it' s still here. He didn' t leave. You 677 00:49:14.239 --> 00:49:16.400 didn' t come to think, for example, that' s how all 678 00:49:16.480 --> 00:49:19.400 men are, that' s how we all are. In fact, notice 679 00:49:19.880 --> 00:49:25.639 a cousin told me badly because from there I think I started to accept all 680 00:49:25.719 --> 00:49:30.679 the infidelities to everything that happened, because he told me this cousin there is 681 00:49:31.000 --> 00:49:40.760 no man here on Earth who is faithful. All men are bastards, all 682 00:49:42.480 --> 00:49:49.960 without exception, and whoever tells you otherwise is lying to you. Listen to 683 00:49:49.960 --> 00:49:53.920 me. I know what I' m saying to you, you bastard, 684 00:49:54.079 --> 00:49:57.360 I mean, I kept that, just like I did. Well, then 685 00:49:57.440 --> 00:50:00.280 if they' re all unfaithful, but he' s with me, which 686 00:50:00.320 --> 00:50:01.880 was at the end, what he told me look. I' m a 687 00:50:01.880 --> 00:50:04.880 bastard, but I' m still with ro, so I mean, it 688 00:50:04.960 --> 00:50:06.320 ' s like saying ah I' m still with my cathedral. The little 689 00:50:06.320 --> 00:50:08.960 chaplains, for they are separate, no yes, just as they stole more. 690 00:50:12.159 --> 00:50:15.559 Then I said no stains. But look, how those thoughts get to 691 00:50:16.519 --> 00:50:22.920 you, not exactly, how they kidnap you. Yeah, and you manipulate 692 00:50:22.960 --> 00:50:27.800 yourself, and you let it go, you let it all go and you 693 00:50:27.800 --> 00:50:32.159 say good. Okay, no, yeah, sure. Obviously, several infidelities 694 00:50:32.400 --> 00:50:40.679 passed until a time came. We live two years together. Okay, so 695 00:50:40.679 --> 00:50:46.239 it was three boyfriends, two years together, five years sorry about the year 696 00:50:49.519 --> 00:50:57.400 and a half we were already living together. He started to calm down with 697 00:50:57.519 --> 00:51:01.960 that, notice, he even checked his phone and nothing, nothing, nothing, 698 00:51:02.159 --> 00:51:06.239 I mean with insecurity, I come back to the phone all the time, 699 00:51:06.480 --> 00:51:08.159 it doesn' t wave the bear. But the last few months we 700 00:51:08.679 --> 00:51:14.519 ' ve been together, nothing, nothing. I said Bastard, I' 701 00:51:14.559 --> 00:51:17.119 m already very traumatized, because everything doesn' t make you think. It 702 00:51:17.760 --> 00:51:22.400 was the truth. Yeah, little bit before I' m sorry about that. 703 00:51:22.599 --> 00:51:27.679 The last messages I ran into him were with a contact. This is 704 00:51:27.800 --> 00:51:35.679 important. It was with her kept as Rossi Rossi and I kept the number. 705 00:51:37.960 --> 00:51:44.199 I don' t know why anything, because something made me eyelet or 706 00:51:44.880 --> 00:51:50.119 not pink. That' s how I approached him who this old prick is, 707 00:51:50.360 --> 00:51:52.920 because he didn' t have a profile picture or anything. But if 708 00:51:52.000 --> 00:52:02.840 this one was sent out of pears, then I kept it altogether. Then 709 00:52:02.880 --> 00:52:07.360 it starts to pass this time, this quiet season, so to speak, 710 00:52:08.519 --> 00:52:14.840 we didn' t get along better. He was more affectionate, this interesting. 711 00:52:15.239 --> 00:52:17.960 Yeah, he stopped texting her like that. Anywhere you want. She 712 00:52:19.039 --> 00:52:22.480 said yes to me and I' m going to marry her. And this 713 00:52:22.840 --> 00:52:25.800 one I love and so for things. So, in front of his family, 714 00:52:27.119 --> 00:52:31.440 I always talk super good about me what you said Ah look at finally 715 00:52:31.519 --> 00:52:51.000 Uh- huh. That year, he went to visit his daughters because I 716 00:52:52.039 --> 00:53:00.719 turned fifteen. Ok, but since the planning of the trip, because it 717 00:53:00.840 --> 00:53:05.079 seemed to me all very suspicious, because I always took care of looking for 718 00:53:05.239 --> 00:53:07.559 the flights, where he was going to stay and all he was going to 719 00:53:07.920 --> 00:53:12.039 do with his daughters is his itinerary, not to say that he was silks 720 00:53:12.119 --> 00:53:19.360 or employees, his assistants or his roomi, his partner, his lover. 721 00:53:19.599 --> 00:53:25.280 I don' t know, I don' t know what that relationship was 722 00:53:25.360 --> 00:53:30.000 yesterday, but that time he told me not only to keep me on the 723 00:53:30.039 --> 00:53:32.639 flights, I just don' t know where I' m going to take 724 00:53:32.679 --> 00:53:36.199 them yet and it was done to me that way there' s, like, 725 00:53:36.199 --> 00:53:39.360 no alert. It wasn' t like that one I know, but 726 00:53:39.400 --> 00:53:43.079 it was so weird. Well, as soon as you' re there, 727 00:53:43.360 --> 00:53:45.360 you tell me to find you a hotel where they' re staying. Simon, 728 00:53:46.159 --> 00:53:50.000 he didn' t get there and I never heard from him again. 729 00:53:51.440 --> 00:53:53.960 Okay, I mean, she didn' t call me. But by that 730 00:53:54.000 --> 00:53:58.320 time I had already registered one of her daughters had passed me her number. 731 00:53:59.000 --> 00:54:04.320 From time to time he sees me and those states walk away that I see 732 00:54:04.400 --> 00:54:07.800 in one of their States, that one of their daughters published a photo. 733 00:54:07.079 --> 00:54:13.239 Well, she' s sorry about the one where they go back, you 734 00:54:13.360 --> 00:54:16.360 don' t see the copilot. But obviously, his mom and he were 735 00:54:16.480 --> 00:54:27.239 driving. I said fuck your father, I said bastard, you stayed with 736 00:54:28.360 --> 00:54:32.000 her at your house. Yeah, no scrubbing, yeah, he stayed with 737 00:54:32.239 --> 00:54:39.480 her. And don' t invent, because I was already on the lookout 738 00:54:39.639 --> 00:54:45.320 for the girl' s States. If the sugar was worked, your image 739 00:54:45.400 --> 00:54:52.239 feels good, assholes, I said no stains, you said cafrones. No. 740 00:54:52.480 --> 00:54:54.039 I don' t know. That' s how they' re going 741 00:54:54.119 --> 00:55:00.119 to go back to ok I got that focus and I gave these to go 742 00:55:00.800 --> 00:55:05.639 back or how they are. I know without talking to myself or texting. 743 00:55:05.800 --> 00:55:07.920 He sent me one of the other week' s messages that he was there. 744 00:55:13.679 --> 00:55:20.320 Not obviously, I was angry mans yes so lodged is. Obviously it 745 00:55:20.440 --> 00:55:23.239 blocks me from their states, because again their family told me or hears how 746 00:55:23.360 --> 00:55:29.519 you' re saying it' s worth it, I don' t know 747 00:55:29.639 --> 00:55:31.679 what it' s going to be, I don' t know what it 748 00:55:32.199 --> 00:55:34.480 ' s going to be, that everyone noticed less me, I mean, 749 00:55:34.480 --> 00:55:37.719 what an asshole. No, ah yes yet, because I think you don 750 00:55:37.840 --> 00:55:40.519 ' t think so. Well, I don' t know what was going 751 00:55:40.840 --> 00:55:43.719 on in his head, so nothing. No, actually, no, and 752 00:55:44.199 --> 00:55:46.880 then it didn' t suit him, because the next month we had a 753 00:55:46.920 --> 00:55:57.159 trip here in Coún U S A and obviously he was coming back from the 754 00:55:57.159 --> 00:55:59.280 east trip. Well, obviously I started it. Listen, we need to 755 00:55:59.320 --> 00:56:02.559 talk No, it' s not like I' ve come from seeing my 756 00:56:02.639 --> 00:56:05.320 daughters and it hurts so much that I don' t know what to leave 757 00:56:05.320 --> 00:56:08.199 them. You know it hurts and I said well, I' m gonna 758 00:56:08.239 --> 00:56:14.840 give you this space and I left it for a week. Oh hey, 759 00:56:14.960 --> 00:56:16.000 we need to talk no, so what did I tell you? Why didn 760 00:56:16.039 --> 00:56:19.159 ' t you tell me that you were going to stay with her, because 761 00:56:19.159 --> 00:56:21.920 I didn' t know when I was there, but I didn' t 762 00:56:22.000 --> 00:56:24.400 stay with her and I stayed with a friend who turned around and I don 763 00:56:24.840 --> 00:56:30.079 ' t know what I said to him or because I stayed with the compadre, 764 00:56:30.840 --> 00:56:30.760 you had a chance to talk to me on the phone, send me 765 00:56:30.760 --> 00:56:34.119 a message. You go to the bathroom with the phone all the time. 766 00:56:35.480 --> 00:56:38.599 You couldn' t even text me there. Or they wouldn' t let 767 00:56:38.599 --> 00:56:42.800 you text me. Yeah, of course I told him because it' s 768 00:56:42.800 --> 00:56:45.480 weird. No, no, no, I stayed with the compadre. I 769 00:56:45.559 --> 00:56:47.440 swear, but I swear no, I didn' t stay there with her. 770 00:56:49.079 --> 00:56:54.480 Oh. We didn' t go on the trip to Cancun. We 771 00:56:54.599 --> 00:57:00.039 had several discussions, but since we were in a group and I really enjoyed 772 00:57:00.239 --> 00:57:02.039 it, not with the people we were going with. We go out everywhere 773 00:57:02.159 --> 00:57:06.559 with about ten people that he' s all about. I' m very 774 00:57:06.599 --> 00:57:09.400 fond of everyone. Then it wasn' t so much to have enjoyed the 775 00:57:09.400 --> 00:57:13.559 trip with him. Yes, it was a clearing for me, yes clear 776 00:57:13.679 --> 00:57:15.679 for how I lived it, but with all the people we were going, 777 00:57:20.960 --> 00:57:23.000 not for him we returned from the trip. Not what the hell the trip 778 00:57:23.039 --> 00:57:24.639 is and who knows what. I don' t know how much. Not 779 00:57:24.800 --> 00:57:30.440 that we did have a lot of fun to organize another blah blah. In 780 00:57:30.559 --> 00:57:37.920 that, like the week of that trip, we went to the little town 781 00:57:38.000 --> 00:57:47.239 where he' s got a house already resting, okay and in that I 782 00:57:47.239 --> 00:58:01.320 start to see states of Rosí ok that I told Cabron this person knows me. 783 00:58:01.920 --> 00:58:06.840 I didn' t even remember that I had it registered, in other 784 00:58:06.880 --> 00:58:07.800 words, in fact, I' m sorry. A few days earlier I 785 00:58:07.880 --> 00:58:12.519 was about to erase the contact because I was debugging lists and I said why 786 00:58:12.599 --> 00:58:15.679 I want them. Someone spoke to me. There was like a divine sign. 787 00:58:15.760 --> 00:58:21.079 No one spoke to me and I stopped deleting this contact. I said 788 00:58:21.079 --> 00:58:22.679 right now, I follow him and I never followed him. So that number 789 00:58:22.800 --> 00:58:30.519 stayed ok that week he started to see those, those States and I fuck 790 00:58:30.599 --> 00:58:36.519 it is that yes you have recorded to her and vice versa. It' 791 00:58:36.639 --> 00:58:40.519 s because you already had my number. You said this bitch knows me okay 792 00:58:40.559 --> 00:58:45.800 so she gets my number. And worst of all, I' m beginning 793 00:58:45.920 --> 00:58:51.159 to see the States appear. On the work phone, on my work phone 794 00:58:51.239 --> 00:58:57.639 and on my personal phone I said what the fuck it is. I didn 795 00:58:57.760 --> 00:59:00.159 ' t want to open the States. I don' t want to see 796 00:59:00.159 --> 00:59:01.360 who you are? I don' t want to see who you are? 797 00:59:01.800 --> 00:59:13.159 I don' t want to see? I don' t want this because 798 00:59:13.239 --> 00:59:16.840 I totally left the phone in a room and went to the pool. When 799 00:59:16.960 --> 00:59:24.400 he came back from the Pool he saw so- called dew losses ah fucker, 800 00:59:24.840 --> 00:59:32.400 I said ay fucker for something you marked me, because what I want 801 00:59:32.519 --> 00:59:35.199 to return the call pinche led him to see what fuck you' re going 802 00:59:35.199 --> 00:59:40.719 to tell me. He didn' t answer me and I told your mother 803 00:59:40.760 --> 00:59:47.000 and I said you' d already dialed me or said yes, yes, 804 00:59:47.159 --> 00:59:52.199 and then I was curious. I said, well, let' s see 805 00:59:52.360 --> 01:00:01.280 who you are, okay, and I open up the state and the mom 806 01:00:01.599 --> 01:00:07.480 of your daughters, not stains when I saw that, I said what I 807 01:00:07.599 --> 01:00:10.360 said, I mean, everything started spinning to dance, not say, don 808 01:00:10.519 --> 01:00:14.559 ' t stain, that' s all I told her all this time that 809 01:00:15.480 --> 01:00:17.519 she hadn' t outdone her ex because she always talked about her, that 810 01:00:17.519 --> 01:00:17.519 is, she' d never gotten over it, that she never accepted it. 811 01:00:17.599 --> 01:00:22.840 You always denied it yes, always the arguments no yes, of course 812 01:00:23.079 --> 01:00:29.239 this, because I am crazy, not typical, not that this is how 813 01:00:29.320 --> 01:00:31.480 men get out. I' m crazy. You' re crazy, you 814 01:00:31.599 --> 01:00:39.119 ' re making things up. I said no stains, it can' t 815 01:00:39.119 --> 01:00:42.800 be, obviously, I didn' t sleep that night I didn' t 816 01:00:42.800 --> 01:00:45.480 tell him anything. Mmm. I waited until the next day, as we 817 01:00:45.519 --> 01:01:00.159 went back to the ranch and told her you stayed with her. Truth told 818 01:01:00.280 --> 01:01:05.400 me nothing, I mean I already knew what I was talking about. Yeah, 819 01:01:05.480 --> 01:01:07.360 already the top of the line, no, no, no, no, 820 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:07.360 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 821 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:07.360 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 822 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:07.360 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 823 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:07.360 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 824 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:07.360 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 825 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:07.360 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 826 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:07.360 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 827 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:07.360 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 828 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:07.360 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 829 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:07.360 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 830 01:01:07.360 --> 01:01:12.880 no. And when it' s over I said don' t anch 831 01:01:13.079 --> 01:01:15.599 already I told her you stayed with her. That' s why no calls 832 01:01:15.719 --> 01:01:19.400 or messages, because they didn' t give you a chance. I can 833 01:01:19.559 --> 01:01:22.599 ' t believe you did this. Your daughter uploaded photos up States where they 834 01:01:22.760 --> 01:01:27.360 were nothing else. You guys can' t possibly have done this without saying 835 01:01:27.400 --> 01:01:34.760 anything to me. It' s not what you think and I know what 836 01:01:34.960 --> 01:01:39.800 wasn' t. But I was already more disappointed than anything. I had 837 01:01:39.880 --> 01:01:45.039 already cried a lot anyway during the time we were together. No, of 838 01:01:45.159 --> 01:01:51.400 course, and it didn' t fall as easily as before, well, 839 01:01:51.840 --> 01:01:53.159 you' re right, because it' s here. That' s how 840 01:01:53.199 --> 01:01:55.400 it was that you didn' t stain me, that' s how it 841 01:01:55.400 --> 01:02:02.840 marked me. Tell me why you marked something You better tell me I mean, 842 01:02:04.039 --> 01:02:07.199 I don' t know what I' m marking you for, because 843 01:02:07.239 --> 01:02:12.360 it has my numbers. Where did you get my numbers? He took it 844 01:02:12.559 --> 01:02:15.960 out when on the pinche trip from there, of course, and all three 845 01:02:15.960 --> 01:02:17.679 of them were three. Yeah, sorry. Were there three numbers? They 846 01:02:17.760 --> 01:02:21.199 weren' t? Wasn' t there two of them? It had three 847 01:02:21.199 --> 01:02:23.559 numbers. At that time there were three numbers. And all three numbers, 848 01:02:24.840 --> 01:02:34.039 I couldn' t pretend why you had three friendly numbers. And, well, 849 01:02:34.280 --> 01:02:37.400 one did, it was work and two was personal. One because I 850 01:02:37.519 --> 01:02:42.000 was switching phones and keeping contacts, I had the other phone. Yeah, 851 01:02:42.119 --> 01:02:45.199 but the three of you saved there exactly. I mean, she saved me 852 01:02:45.280 --> 01:02:47.840 about three phones and it was still as obvious, no, or rather it 853 01:02:47.840 --> 01:02:52.079 was like that look at me, look at me who I am and I 854 01:02:52.440 --> 01:02:54.840 mean, and like to what end she saved me too. No yes, 855 01:02:54.880 --> 01:03:00.840 I am the cathedral and not even the idea of stains, but it was 856 01:03:00.840 --> 01:03:04.320 good, because already the total said no, because it is not what you 857 01:03:04.519 --> 01:03:09.000 think blah, blah, but I had already noticed it strange since it came 858 01:03:09.079 --> 01:03:15.719 back from that trip. Yeah, it feels like enjoyment, if it feels 859 01:03:15.840 --> 01:03:22.480 like you' re already looking for any excuse to argue, not to be 860 01:03:22.559 --> 01:03:29.679 away from the person you' re about a week before everything finally ended. 861 01:03:34.119 --> 01:03:39.480 Yeah, we were just gonna meet, we were gonna be two years old 862 01:03:40.119 --> 01:03:43.760 from living together. And I must therefore celebrate it now, for the other 863 01:03:44.000 --> 01:03:47.400 thing has happened here as well. Well, then, nothing happened. Andale, 864 01:03:47.639 --> 01:03:51.280 nothing happened. Well, let' s hear it, then let' 865 01:03:51.280 --> 01:03:58.000 s go to dinner. And all this told me that yes, then that 866 01:03:58.159 --> 01:04:01.840 Saturday that we were going to go out to celebrate, comes early, comes 867 01:04:01.920 --> 01:04:08.639 to breakfast and tells me hey you know that my boss just sent me to 868 01:04:08.719 --> 01:04:13.599 Guadalajara to pick up a crane, that is, his brother, his brother 869 01:04:13.599 --> 01:04:15.840 in that case, because so I told my boss yes, because there in 870 01:04:15.840 --> 01:04:20.760 a company. No, yes, this one sent me to pick up a 871 01:04:20.880 --> 01:04:23.559 tow truck and it got unt over there. And that says no tomorrow today 872 01:04:23.599 --> 01:04:28.519 and because you' re going to leave from today if we already had plans, 873 01:04:30.559 --> 01:04:34.639 because come tomorrow and this one was going to come out another thing. 874 01:04:40.760 --> 01:04:43.440 This one didn' t, because he told me that I have to leave 875 01:04:43.599 --> 01:04:45.639 today that I don' t know what. Obviously, in good water he 876 01:04:45.639 --> 01:04:49.360 forgives where he had to pick up up up two hours where we lived, 877 01:04:49.400 --> 01:04:56.280 not inventes, he didn' t have to leave a day before then, 878 01:04:56.719 --> 01:05:00.159 because he leaves, he left, yes, he went, obviously, because 879 01:05:00.199 --> 01:05:02.000 I was very busy and I didn' t talk to him, because yes, 880 01:05:02.000 --> 01:05:03.519 you know light I was upset. I know an anniversary, I didn 881 01:05:03.599 --> 01:05:08.440 ' t text him and he texted me on the night that you' re 882 01:05:08.480 --> 01:05:11.400 already sleeping. I didn' t answer or say good night. I don 883 01:05:11.440 --> 01:05:16.000 ' t remember you saying good night to me. Baby. The next day 884 01:05:16.079 --> 01:05:21.440 I returned and I, without speaking to him, was very upset, very 885 01:05:21.440 --> 01:05:30.199 upset, of course, like the two of us. We lasted about three 886 01:05:30.280 --> 01:05:38.679 days without talking to each other for like three days and I got really bad. 887 01:05:39.199 --> 01:05:44.480 It gives me a lot of trintipsycholites. It gave me such intense pain, 888 01:05:44.639 --> 01:05:47.000 but I don' t swear. He couldn' t stand it and 889 01:05:47.559 --> 01:05:53.000 he noticed and approached his friend. Yeah, he also came up and he 890 01:05:53.039 --> 01:05:55.159 was looking after me and look, so if he' s right now, 891 01:05:55.159 --> 01:05:57.920 we' re gonna sort things out. Hey 20, Baby, this is 892 01:05:58.000 --> 01:06:02.280 your male waiting for my pain to drop and I said hey we need to 893 01:06:02.320 --> 01:06:08.880 talk and she' ll come to the room later. No more. She 894 01:06:09.000 --> 01:06:12.639 slept with my daughter and we started talking. He told me you know what, 895 01:06:12.840 --> 01:06:15.800 because I can' t go on with this. This one my daughter 896 01:06:15.960 --> 01:06:20.119 is going to come, to live here with me because she wants to study 897 01:06:20.239 --> 01:06:24.880 it here and because they don' t want you here, I told her 898 01:06:24.880 --> 01:06:26.800 and I bastard. Then I want her home. I' m telling you, 899 01:06:27.039 --> 01:06:28.239 I don' t want your house. I don' t want your 900 01:06:29.280 --> 01:06:31.760 house, so let' s look for a house and rent and whether that 901 01:06:31.840 --> 01:06:33.239 ' s the problem and your house stays here. No, but he wants 902 01:06:33.360 --> 01:06:36.280 to be with me and I don' t know what. Oh, what 903 01:06:36.440 --> 01:06:42.519 do I hear? But I' m lost in the shame, for here 904 01:06:42.800 --> 01:06:45.679 the daughter has good, not the daughter' s forgiveness. More like him, 905 01:06:45.920 --> 01:06:50.519 like the adult and the dad you know what daughter you like or not 906 01:06:50.599 --> 01:06:55.000 I' m with avien. Yeah, you take it perfect. I' 907 01:06:55.000 --> 01:06:57.599 d like you to accept it. Yeah, sure, yeah, we' 908 01:06:57.639 --> 01:07:01.360 re gonna fart you, because better than sorry, yeah, sorry part, 909 01:07:02.440 --> 01:07:05.400 and I' m dad is me with the kids, that' s to 910 01:07:05.440 --> 01:07:09.840 say, son, it' s gonna tie this person into my life. 911 01:07:10.280 --> 01:07:12.440 I' d like you to accept him. Well, I don' t 912 01:07:13.559 --> 01:07:15.960 think you' re going to do it, so you' re getting ready. 913 01:07:16.159 --> 01:07:19.719 That' s exactly the word, that I, too, need to 914 01:07:19.880 --> 01:07:23.079 redo my life, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. 915 01:07:23.239 --> 01:07:27.079 But he didn' t know exactly how to do that. Then nothing 916 01:07:27.239 --> 01:07:30.639 ' s for me. I was looking for an excuse about myself. He 917 01:07:30.800 --> 01:07:33.360 ' s just looking for a pretext for that. I don' t, 918 01:07:33.559 --> 01:07:38.079 but it' s that as you look we can, I mean, looking 919 01:07:38.079 --> 01:07:40.920 for you now yes, that the solution of any other, one way or 920 01:07:40.920 --> 01:07:43.960 another. He doesn' t hear why my daughter was in the middle of 921 01:07:43.960 --> 01:07:48.440 it but stop me, that is to say, don' t wait for 922 01:07:48.440 --> 01:07:57.679 me today you do, first I finished, he said to the girl and 923 01:07:57.800 --> 01:08:01.480 then he told me not to stay here all the time you need in what 924 01:08:01.599 --> 01:08:05.519 they get where you move and I told him, so it was already yes, 925 01:08:05.840 --> 01:08:11.679 so it was like that already go or no longer. Bastard I told 926 01:08:11.679 --> 01:08:15.800 him, you know what I told him not. I' m waiting to 927 01:08:15.880 --> 01:08:18.239 see what' s going on, and I' ll take care of your 928 01:08:18.239 --> 01:08:21.439 house tomorrow. It is not necessary, because in fact and fact, the 929 01:08:21.560 --> 01:08:26.479 next day I spoke to my father, I spoke to my brother Ve, 930 01:08:26.680 --> 01:08:33.279 to a friend who esteems him very much this I say hey, you know 931 01:08:33.319 --> 01:08:34.279 what this I need you to shake hands with me. This, this and 932 01:08:34.359 --> 01:08:39.439 the other didn' t happen. No, right now, I' m 933 01:08:39.880 --> 01:08:43.359 going to get his truck cleaned up and in what I was fixing clothes and 934 01:08:43.479 --> 01:08:46.760 all that stuff that was what I could pull out for the moment, because 935 01:08:46.760 --> 01:08:51.279 his house was modeled by me. Oh, look at this guy with exactly 936 01:08:51.279 --> 01:08:57.800 the right guy. Then at least he helped me get all my clothes out. 937 01:08:58.840 --> 01:09:04.399 My brother was this one too. And so, my friend tells me 938 01:09:04.479 --> 01:09:08.520 then you tell me to come for your things. Don' t let him 939 01:09:08.600 --> 01:09:10.039 score. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, 940 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 941 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 942 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 943 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 944 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 945 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 946 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 947 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 948 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 949 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 950 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 951 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 952 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:10.039 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 953 01:09:10.039 --> 01:09:12.359 no, no, no. And I didn' t, not really And 954 01:09:12.520 --> 01:09:15.279 since I left in the afternoon, I waited for him nothing more. I 955 01:09:15.319 --> 01:09:18.960 think we' ve already picked up our things, and then I' ve 956 01:09:19.119 --> 01:09:23.760 come for the furniture. Yes, of course, I gave you told me, 957 01:09:24.359 --> 01:09:30.760 I told you to wait for you that, because in what I got 958 01:09:30.760 --> 01:09:33.800 I told him no, don' t worry the faster I fix it the 959 01:09:33.840 --> 01:09:35.760 better and now, to make it cool we' re playing. Yeah, 960 01:09:35.880 --> 01:09:42.159 of course not Just pretend I told him. You' re free, do 961 01:09:42.279 --> 01:09:46.159 whatever you want, no yes, by the way, like the two days 962 01:09:46.159 --> 01:09:47.960 of that, I mean, you were still talking. In the same week. 963 01:09:50.479 --> 01:09:56.239 My friend from the office told me it hurts to see you. So, 964 01:09:57.199 --> 01:10:01.640 but I have to tell you something or what happened. And if you 965 01:10:01.680 --> 01:10:06.680 remember that this weekend he went to Guadalajara. And so, he didn' 966 01:10:06.800 --> 01:10:14.159 t just go away with me and the fucker and me thinking he was with 967 01:10:14.239 --> 01:10:15.479 his daughter' s mom and I don' t know what they' re 968 01:10:15.479 --> 01:10:19.680 saying. He didn' t go to see, I mean, the bills 969 01:10:19.720 --> 01:10:26.520 I get. I say asshole. Yes, so the bill came, so 970 01:10:26.520 --> 01:10:33.600 that two people had stayed. And I don' t say that, he 971 01:10:33.720 --> 01:10:35.439 says no more. I' m telling you, because here in confidence, 972 01:10:35.760 --> 01:10:42.000 it' s my job. Promise I know, he says, I want 973 01:10:42.119 --> 01:10:47.199 you to realize. Open your eyes are over, not if she already knew, 974 01:10:47.840 --> 01:10:50.479 because obviously, I was devastated, I was from the office, but 975 01:10:50.520 --> 01:10:55.479 I was poorly heard, but that she is your wife was not anywhere else. 976 01:10:55.640 --> 01:10:59.359 Or yes, and she was, because she was still there. That 977 01:10:59.439 --> 01:11:01.560 ' s why I said I was someone else. Yeah, it was someone 978 01:11:01.560 --> 01:11:06.079 else. That' s why I told you that I thought, that I 979 01:11:06.800 --> 01:11:11.960 said I said thinking, I said ay me thinking bad about his daughter' 980 01:11:12.079 --> 01:11:13.720 s mom and it turns out that they don' t hang out with someone 981 01:11:13.720 --> 01:11:15.880 else. What a bastard, I mean, for me, the idea of 982 01:11:15.960 --> 01:11:19.279 his daughter' s mother was blown out of my mind. I said don 983 01:11:19.279 --> 01:11:21.840 ' t make up,' cause he' s already hanging out with someone 984 01:11:21.840 --> 01:11:29.920 else or what. And just that weekend, this one was taken by her, 985 01:11:30.399 --> 01:11:34.760 because she was with him at home. I realized, if you knew 986 01:11:34.840 --> 01:11:40.359 who it was or I still didn' t know, or until the next 987 01:11:41.920 --> 01:11:44.600 day I went to pick up some hearing stuff, I forgot things. I 988 01:11:44.640 --> 01:11:47.880 had already brought you from his house. Oh, okay, but there were 989 01:11:48.000 --> 01:11:54.079 two beers. There were plates, two plates. It was before the cast 990 01:11:54.279 --> 01:11:57.680 the bed made a mess of that one in the bed. You realize when 991 01:11:57.800 --> 01:12:03.720 something else happens that I just fell asleep and you go by smelling smug sex, 992 01:12:03.880 --> 01:12:09.199 you said asshole. I' m sorry to roll with this broad. 993 01:12:09.680 --> 01:12:14.119 As soon as he sent you the cuo, I got out of the way, 994 01:12:14.720 --> 01:12:16.119 not a bit of respect or a lot of respect. Say good, 995 01:12:16.359 --> 01:12:21.279 for what you gave me, for let me respect you so little, qa 996 01:12:21.279 --> 01:12:25.800 mamiga, I never catch you no. In fact, you don' t 997 01:12:25.880 --> 01:12:30.359 know, because of the courage that my friend told her come right now I 998 01:12:30.399 --> 01:12:34.520 told her if you can I' m going to take you already to the 999 01:12:34.680 --> 01:12:40.359 living room, the dining room, what' s left in bed up to 1000 01:12:40.359 --> 01:12:45.439 the two plates the bed, that is, everything to the bed where not 1001 01:12:45.520 --> 01:12:45.159 to the bed where they made, because it was my daughter' s. 1002 01:12:45.560 --> 01:12:51.359 Not like that, even more courage. I was coeded. He didn' 1003 01:12:51.640 --> 01:12:55.359 t know I sent things. Yes, in fact, yes, then, 1004 01:12:56.119 --> 01:13:00.439 because I know I got what I could out of the fridge and it was 1005 01:13:00.479 --> 01:13:04.000 there the washing machine, but I took away the dining room and the living 1006 01:13:04.159 --> 01:13:09.520 room and it was what hit me the most, because it still tells me 1007 01:13:10.039 --> 01:13:12.720 if or how you would have said you were going to take things, because 1008 01:13:12.760 --> 01:13:15.560 I had already told you that I am going to take my things. I 1009 01:13:15.600 --> 01:13:18.560 told him I don' t know about him I already left you and your 1010 01:13:18.640 --> 01:13:20.960 keys, so you' re going to be claimed. Yeah, I still 1011 01:13:21.000 --> 01:13:26.479 told him I still lack the refining. Sell me what you know what and 1012 01:13:26.520 --> 01:13:30.159 I said well, because I have no place to put it to And, 1013 01:13:30.279 --> 01:13:32.600 at the end of the day, if I sold them to you, yes, 1014 01:13:33.039 --> 01:13:35.520 well, if I sold them to you and for me it was a 1015 01:13:35.560 --> 01:13:36.479 benefit, my friend told me why I blessed them is that I, for 1016 01:13:36.479 --> 01:13:41.239 what I want them. And that' s where I' m paying them 1017 01:13:41.279 --> 01:13:45.920 so ten months, and months ago nothing, but it didn' t take 1018 01:13:47.359 --> 01:13:54.239 so long to pay me too, and then we realize that the one she 1019 01:13:54.439 --> 01:13:57.479 ' s with is a cousin of him. Nothing more than I don' 1020 01:13:57.600 --> 01:14:00.720 t know how close it is, but it was so brazen, that is, 1021 01:14:01.119 --> 01:14:05.720 it started, it started to take her there with her family and they 1022 01:14:05.840 --> 01:14:10.479 went out and everything, that is, took her there where her people and 1023 01:14:10.760 --> 01:14:13.600 everyone saw her, saw him with her. And so and I kept going, 1024 01:14:14.119 --> 01:14:17.359 I kept thinking, I was thinking wrong about the ex a little bit 1025 01:14:17.359 --> 01:14:26.159 to believe, that is, still justifying her I said and this bastard walks 1026 01:14:26.319 --> 01:14:28.439 with another person for good reason he went out so much he started to hit 1027 01:14:28.439 --> 01:14:31.199 him to get out to Guadalajara. So much for it was for her. 1028 01:14:33.239 --> 01:14:38.880 Your dad apologized to me. His father told me that he did not justify 1029 01:14:38.960 --> 01:14:44.560 his son' s actions, that I did not deserve to be done that, 1030 01:14:44.920 --> 01:14:46.800 therefore, that he had helped him, that they recognized everything she had 1031 01:14:46.800 --> 01:14:53.119 done for his son. It' s your brother also spoke to me for 1032 01:14:53.119 --> 01:14:56.600 forgiveness. I didn' t know. I told you, oh, you 1033 01:14:56.680 --> 01:14:59.800 guys are filthy nuñez, you all tell each other, you' re just 1034 01:14:59.800 --> 01:15:04.000 as bastard. He said no. I didn' t know. I didn 1035 01:15:04.159 --> 01:15:10.640 ' t know what was going on I told him that, but I said 1036 01:15:10.800 --> 01:15:15.880 to him that if he had the nerve to do so, he wouldn' 1037 01:15:15.960 --> 01:15:16.199 t wait a week and walk around with the other one wherever he wanted. 1038 01:15:18.760 --> 01:15:24.960 I was wrong. It was really bad. I was offered a trip to 1039 01:15:25.039 --> 01:15:30.439 the United States, some aunts that I appreciate very much. In May we 1040 01:15:30.479 --> 01:15:36.800 left for like a month or super therapy. Yeah, I told my boss, 1041 01:15:38.119 --> 01:15:40.720 and he knows what. The truth. I don' t know if 1042 01:15:40.720 --> 01:15:44.760 I' m coming back, as long as God wants me to. This 1043 01:15:45.680 --> 01:15:49.239 one tells me. No. You know here' s your door open. 1044 01:15:53.079 --> 01:15:56.760 You know you' re a pillar of business here, you' re a 1045 01:15:56.880 --> 01:16:00.119 very important person here more than one company. We' re part of the 1046 01:16:00.159 --> 01:16:05.880 family And, well, it was family, that' s how he hears 1047 01:16:06.000 --> 01:16:13.119 it as patroness. No, then I realized that they both valued me as 1048 01:16:13.239 --> 01:16:16.319 an employee. Yes, of course, but I said the same. I 1049 01:16:16.359 --> 01:16:19.760 appreciate it. I said then just as I have given my hand to train 1050 01:16:19.840 --> 01:16:25.600 the person who is going to stay right now, covering you ah if there 1051 01:16:25.720 --> 01:16:29.760 is no problem this and since I already warn him, yes, train the 1052 01:16:30.319 --> 01:16:33.880 person and he saw me before leaving and she told me not to stay back, 1053 01:16:34.920 --> 01:16:39.680 don' t stay there. And me and what did the cockroach tell 1054 01:16:40.279 --> 01:16:44.760 you that until I didn' t want to, don' t go. 1055 01:16:44.840 --> 01:16:49.000 I won' t stand the idea of losing you that knowing that I the 1056 01:16:49.520 --> 01:16:53.159 monster has feeling aha I what total? I didn' t say anything. 1057 01:16:53.600 --> 01:16:57.159 I left. In fact, he offered to take us to the airport. 1058 01:16:57.279 --> 01:17:00.960 He got us to the airport, but then he said you want to stay 1059 01:17:00.119 --> 01:17:03.119 and see your old lady, not so much for taking me to the airport. 1060 01:17:03.319 --> 01:17:09.760 Yes, of course, obviously, he did stay in Guadalajara. We 1061 01:17:09.840 --> 01:17:14.479 left. Obviously, I remember that trip a lot because if I left with 1062 01:17:14.560 --> 01:17:19.319 one face I came back with another that well, it really served me a 1063 01:17:19.399 --> 01:17:23.600 lot, even marked me and my aunts scolded me and it was a soup 1064 01:17:23.600 --> 01:17:27.800 therapy. They told me to stop wanting. Sure, you' re not 1065 01:17:27.800 --> 01:17:30.520 allowing that. I mean, they talked a lot to me until I started 1066 01:17:30.640 --> 01:17:34.279 leaving the phone. Oh, you were like the earring. Yes, of 1067 01:17:34.279 --> 01:17:41.319 course, because I was still sort of not dealing with that much. But 1068 01:17:41.319 --> 01:17:45.880 then, I started to put it aside, I started to enjoy the trip, 1069 01:17:45.880 --> 01:17:48.119 I saw that my daughter was enjoying it. Not what, well, 1070 01:17:48.399 --> 01:17:51.960 yeah, yeah, well, it either started clearing up a lot. And 1071 01:17:53.079 --> 01:17:55.840 Mommy, and I want to stay here, Mom, we have to stay, 1072 01:17:56.600 --> 01:17:59.119 we don' t have to leave, because nothing else. We' 1073 01:17:59.119 --> 01:18:01.920 re talking about your story. But, then, exactly or my daughter, 1074 01:18:02.000 --> 01:18:04.920 my daughter also wept at him. And my daughter suffered me, too. 1075 01:18:05.640 --> 01:18:09.840 And one, as a mother, suffers double, that is, you suffer 1076 01:18:10.000 --> 01:18:15.640 the loss of the couple and you suffer the father figure. No, no, 1077 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:15.640 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1078 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:15.640 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1079 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:15.640 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1080 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:15.640 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1081 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:15.640 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1082 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:15.640 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1083 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:15.640 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1084 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:15.640 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1085 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:15.640 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1086 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:16.199 no, no, no, no, no, no. And the process 1087 01:18:16.239 --> 01:18:19.760 that children go through, because the process that children go through is not anything, 1088 01:18:20.039 --> 01:18:26.680 especially her, because because she really never had the father image and for 1089 01:18:26.760 --> 01:18:30.640 her it was your dad. Yeah, sure, well, life since I 1090 01:18:30.720 --> 01:18:39.119 was five. So, I' m threesome, yes, for half of 1091 01:18:39.199 --> 01:18:46.199 his life. Not exactly then, yes it was It was difficult, because 1092 01:18:46.279 --> 01:18:50.399 to carry out the two processes, but to see her as well as to 1093 01:18:51.199 --> 01:18:53.800 get ahead, also helped me very much how good, what father. Then, 1094 01:18:54.560 --> 01:18:58.239 yes, we return with the idea of making formalities and returning. But 1095 01:19:00.000 --> 01:19:09.159 now they are others. Exactly one puts and God disposes definitely not that he 1096 01:19:09.479 --> 01:19:13.600 let us go there because believe me all the time. I' ve been 1097 01:19:13.640 --> 01:19:16.920 asking God but touch us there to clear us, because obviously I' ve 1098 01:19:17.000 --> 01:19:25.439 never crossed for her I' ve had the visa since seven years before and 1099 01:19:26.479 --> 01:19:28.159 I' ve never used it some negative relatives. Now they' re gonna 1100 01:19:28.239 --> 01:19:31.359 let you through and you know what. Even my boss' s wife doesn 1101 01:19:31.439 --> 01:19:34.520 ' t say that if after five years you don' t use it, 1102 01:19:34.760 --> 01:19:39.760 that they won' t let you pass and I don' t to mother, 1103 01:19:40.000 --> 01:19:43.399 so I read with the fear that maybe, no, yes, of 1104 01:19:43.439 --> 01:19:46.319 course, but I asked my God a lot if I didn' t touch 1105 01:19:46.319 --> 01:19:50.039 us there. It was a hindrance from before to not do all the expense, 1106 01:19:50.520 --> 01:19:54.840 so if you don' t give me the passport that if the dad 1107 01:19:54.920 --> 01:19:57.800 doesn' t give me the permission to take her out of the country, 1108 01:19:57.920 --> 01:20:02.560 that this thing that the other, anything doesn' t look like I' 1109 01:20:02.720 --> 01:20:10.840 m going to aha tells him that he told me look right, out there 1110 01:20:10.920 --> 01:20:12.920 was follow him like that as good as all the negativitys that told me they 1111 01:20:12.920 --> 01:20:15.159 were going to happen. Nothing happened, that' s all. We had 1112 01:20:15.319 --> 01:20:17.880 a great time. We had a great time. We' ve seen relatives 1113 01:20:18.199 --> 01:20:21.000 who haven' t been here for a long time. I came back much 1114 01:20:21.039 --> 01:20:27.359 more clear than good, my friend. So this one came back to the 1115 01:20:27.439 --> 01:20:32.760 company and I told him you know this one already came back Yeah, I 1116 01:20:32.760 --> 01:20:40.840 came back to talk to my boss. I told him that the truth was 1117 01:20:40.840 --> 01:20:45.000 going to make arrangements for me to go to the United States. And she 1118 01:20:45.119 --> 01:20:48.000 told me no, because whatever it is for your good, but I' 1119 01:20:48.039 --> 01:20:53.199 d rather you stay here. Look more, I offer you to work here 1120 01:20:53.279 --> 01:20:56.800 half a day, nothing more with your same salary from no to Friday and 1121 01:20:56.840 --> 01:21:03.840 so I all my life had worked all day. Then I almost didn' 1122 01:21:03.920 --> 01:21:06.880 t see my daughter and it was also something that hit me a lot and 1123 01:21:06.880 --> 01:21:12.680 I said ay fucker, I' d be with my daughter longer and had 1124 01:21:12.680 --> 01:21:14.479 left him so long alone. He hit me with that, too. Yeah, 1125 01:21:14.520 --> 01:21:15.800 it got me thinking. Obviously, he told me to think about it. 1126 01:21:18.039 --> 01:21:23.920 When I start looking for the paperwork to do this work legally there in 1127 01:21:23.960 --> 01:21:26.920 America, I said no stains. If you get an eye out of your 1128 01:21:26.920 --> 01:21:28.439 face and I' m not even sure they' ll give it to you. 1129 01:21:28.680 --> 01:21:31.039 Yeah, of course it was a blow and I said no stains. 1130 01:21:31.119 --> 01:21:36.960 I' ll take the debt this what I do. What do I do, 1131 01:21:38.520 --> 01:21:41.840 because obviously I got the good job. Less time. I' m 1132 01:21:41.920 --> 01:21:45.479 here with my family. I am not leaving, so after all, I 1133 01:21:45.479 --> 01:21:49.279 accepted the boss' s proposal. No, but that' s how to 1134 01:21:49.319 --> 01:21:54.319 go back and see the cockroach. Yes, of course, but I came 1135 01:21:55.159 --> 01:22:00.439 back more changed more entrance, more this, because already a little bit with 1136 01:22:00.520 --> 01:22:05.079 the idea of what had happened. Not all of us are coming back I 1137 01:22:05.159 --> 01:22:10.479 ' ve heard a lot of things. He didn' t come and see 1138 01:22:11.760 --> 01:22:14.520 me He came and hugged me, so that you don' t touch what 1139 01:22:14.880 --> 01:22:18.680 you missed from my aha and that' s what you came back and said 1140 01:22:18.760 --> 01:22:25.640 that I' m so good for you, and then I let it go. 1141 01:22:25.760 --> 01:22:28.119 But for me already x and y said no stains. When I hugged 1142 01:22:28.159 --> 01:22:30.119 myself, it was like this that you finally don' t smudge. I 1143 01:22:30.199 --> 01:22:39.239 didn' t feel anything He hears if all that good- looking yes no 1144 01:22:39.399 --> 01:22:45.000 longer crumbs, my friend asked me the same thing, you' re already 1145 01:22:45.000 --> 01:22:45.840 seeing it as it is I told her the net. If it' s 1146 01:22:46.039 --> 01:22:53.159 okay, ugly güey don' t and let me turn you on and say 1147 01:22:53.319 --> 01:22:58.800 that the ex came along with her daughters, because they' re already pretending 1148 01:22:58.840 --> 01:23:03.920 that they did come back or that' s not all the vellana is what, 1149 01:23:04.279 --> 01:23:06.319 that' s where they lived in another state. That' s where 1150 01:23:06.800 --> 01:23:12.359 they' re gonna come back, okay, so it wasn' t just 1151 01:23:12.479 --> 01:23:14.720 the daughter, so they' re really gonna get you all back from the 1152 01:23:14.720 --> 01:23:19.000 house. Oh, what the fuck or what the fuck or the cousin or 1153 01:23:19.319 --> 01:23:26.039 this or what the fuck goes through this asshole' s head. Yes, 1154 01:23:26.159 --> 01:23:29.279 of course I said no stains and I' m still here. He tells 1155 01:23:29.399 --> 01:23:31.560 me he misses me and he knows what ay. I didn' t say 1156 01:23:31.680 --> 01:23:34.720 it couldn' t be possible. What a person there. If you' 1157 01:23:34.800 --> 01:23:40.000 ve already done it, they count, yes, that' s how you 1158 01:23:40.199 --> 01:23:44.119 know what the truth is. Yeah, I said it can' t be 1159 01:23:44.119 --> 01:23:45.920 possible. What' s going on in your head? How bad you are, 1160 01:23:46.880 --> 01:23:53.279 how rotten it is to get to that point. No, of course, 1161 01:23:54.119 --> 01:23:57.399 it can' t be possible. Not that I too, of so 1162 01:23:57.479 --> 01:24:00.960 many signs, have not realized until today how manipulative it is, of how 1163 01:24:00.960 --> 01:24:08.800 convenient it is not, because, because all that it did was simply to 1164 01:24:08.920 --> 01:24:14.079 protect itself and to be able to do what they wanted during that time. 1165 01:24:14.279 --> 01:24:21.000 No yes, of course, yes, obviously, it was tense the time 1166 01:24:21.079 --> 01:24:26.920 I was there, working because, then, I worked with what was treated 1167 01:24:27.000 --> 01:24:30.079 like any other companion. Now yes and now yes, not anymore. I 1168 01:24:30.399 --> 01:24:34.800 even remember I had to go out with one of the partners and he already 1169 01:24:34.920 --> 01:24:39.159 told me about those who never talk, but when they talk, you tell 1170 01:24:39.319 --> 01:24:42.880 them no fantasies, what a fart you and güey already talk. I know, 1171 01:24:43.119 --> 01:24:54.479 he told me proto aha told me and I never imagined to see her 1172 01:24:54.600 --> 01:25:00.199 smile again which father, Look, son, noticed your change. S said 1173 01:25:00.279 --> 01:25:03.439 you left with one face and came back with another. How good, he 1174 01:25:03.439 --> 01:25:09.600 says, because you already, even walking with this person, for I mean, 1175 01:25:10.239 --> 01:25:15.520 you didn' t see yourself as lost with I don' t know 1176 01:25:15.640 --> 01:25:18.840 this one as a horse, so nothing else looked forward and I couldn' 1177 01:25:18.920 --> 01:25:24.760 t turn back to look anywhere else that' s where he said. He 1178 01:25:24.760 --> 01:25:30.880 says, but his face changed a lot, he says, I' m 1179 01:25:30.880 --> 01:25:34.960 really glad to see him like that, you bastard, that' s good, 1180 01:25:39.600 --> 01:25:43.960 yeah, I said look, that' s nice, obviously, when 1181 01:25:44.000 --> 01:25:46.800 I already had to see him with his family, because if it was something 1182 01:25:46.800 --> 01:25:47.520 that hurt me, it was obviously like closing the cycle. For me it 1183 01:25:47.600 --> 01:25:50.520 was rather not, so it was as if I closed the cycle if I 1184 01:25:50.680 --> 01:25:56.760 cried, if I do it hurt to see it. At the end of 1185 01:25:56.760 --> 01:26:00.600 the day, already live and live, yes, of course, but if 1186 01:26:00.600 --> 01:26:05.640 I said, this is the last time I shed a tear for you and 1187 01:26:06.119 --> 01:26:14.279 not said and done no, because already this one because I started to relax 1188 01:26:14.279 --> 01:26:18.680 more, I started to smile again to my friends and my coworkers. Yes, 1189 01:26:18.800 --> 01:26:23.680 of course, listen, good that we have a laugh again, we 1190 01:26:23.760 --> 01:26:28.840 see another one, already we see you well, good that you are overcoming 1191 01:26:28.920 --> 01:26:31.239 one another, because already told me no, because it is that he is 1192 01:26:31.359 --> 01:26:39.359 a bastard and this one is not worth, because you were, doing less 1193 01:26:39.439 --> 01:26:45.680 for him. So, hey, no new one came in. There, 1194 01:26:45.439 --> 01:26:50.159 hey, look, the partner' s talking nice to me, he ate 1195 01:26:50.159 --> 01:26:56.239 me and yeah. In fact, yes, if they' ve noticed that 1196 01:26:56.359 --> 01:26:59.880 I' m coming back between them and I' m not, what eggs 1197 01:27:00.000 --> 01:27:02.800 you' ll be, as I explained to you and what I' m 1198 01:27:02.880 --> 01:27:04.039 going to be like that with someone who doesn' t even know what he 1199 01:27:04.039 --> 01:27:09.640 wants. Obviously, look at that, too. They already came to me 1200 01:27:09.720 --> 01:27:15.039 for comments after their friends, of whom they spoke the most. Mira told 1201 01:27:16.680 --> 01:27:21.840 me, everyone was telling me about you. I' ll be very honest 1202 01:27:21.960 --> 01:27:29.319 with you. She told me the truth is that the cockroach didn' t 1203 01:27:30.079 --> 01:27:35.199 want this one and I say because whenever you talked to her on the phone, 1204 01:27:35.600 --> 01:27:38.279 she was here and that I didn' t talk about it. It 1205 01:27:38.399 --> 01:27:41.960 was because I had it super warned. I couldn' t talk about it, 1206 01:27:43.199 --> 01:27:46.079 and if I told my love, honey, whatever it was, it 1207 01:27:46.079 --> 01:27:48.479 was super forbidden. I couldn' t talk to him like that. I 1208 01:27:48.600 --> 01:27:55.039 couldn' t talk to him with love. Yeah, of course this one 1209 01:27:55.119 --> 01:27:58.840 then if I spoke to him, it was for work matters, or it 1210 01:27:58.960 --> 01:28:01.680 was rarely for something he was occupying in the house, I don' t 1211 01:28:01.720 --> 01:28:02.560 know something, but I couldn' t talk to him for anything else. 1212 01:28:02.720 --> 01:28:08.359 Hey, love, how it is. No. No. No, no, 1213 01:28:08.399 --> 01:28:12.239 no, no, you could have been super banned. He tells me, 1214 01:28:12.439 --> 01:28:16.000 but since when he spoke to the others even the voice changed him Hello 1215 01:28:16.239 --> 01:28:20.279 how good that you retired, how good that you could do, that is, 1216 01:28:20.600 --> 01:28:28.600 his friends, his friends. It will end badly, I say, 1217 01:28:28.640 --> 01:28:32.119 I do not wish him any evil, but it says but because what he 1218 01:28:32.119 --> 01:28:35.600 is doing is not right. History has proved this many times. Yeah, 1219 01:28:36.680 --> 01:28:43.960 another engineer. Then he came also to me who was in supervision of me 1220 01:28:44.119 --> 01:28:48.000 now jor, who does not deserve a tear any more from you, he 1221 01:28:48.159 --> 01:28:53.680 and walks with someone else, that is, apart from that of his daughters, 1222 01:28:53.800 --> 01:28:55.760 for he was still with the cousin and he is already with someone else. 1223 01:28:58.359 --> 01:29:00.960 Then I realized, because with many people, because I really appreciated myself, 1224 01:29:00.600 --> 01:29:08.000 because yes, of course, because I started to overcome that altogether, 1225 01:29:10.800 --> 01:29:15.800 I began to try, because, as companions, yes, of course, 1226 01:29:16.239 --> 01:29:20.800 then, all of a sudden I feel that he misinterpreted, I say because 1227 01:29:20.840 --> 01:29:25.439 I have always been as very resounding, much ji ji Ji, and I 1228 01:29:25.439 --> 01:29:29.159 feel that suddenly, as Gamali interpreted if I laughed at some of his jokes, 1229 01:29:29.439 --> 01:29:30.520 just say ay this one already fell again, no, i mean, 1230 01:29:30.640 --> 01:29:34.239 I felt it and got close, because suddenly he would approach or hug you 1231 01:29:34.319 --> 01:29:43.600 or not. Or because that didn' t allow it. Okay this one, 1232 01:29:44.359 --> 01:29:46.800 if anyone who hugged me again was because he grabbed me unsuspectingly or but 1233 01:29:46.840 --> 01:29:58.000 I did, I bothered. Then he left me, wrote me things, 1234 01:29:58.199 --> 01:30:04.520 which I never did during our relationship. He started doing it later and I 1235 01:30:04.680 --> 01:30:08.159 love you and I don' t know what. And you' re the 1236 01:30:08.359 --> 01:30:10.279 best woman and I don' t know what' s wrong with her. 1237 01:30:10.760 --> 01:30:14.720 You look like your lover, not exactly. I didn' t say no, 1238 01:30:15.159 --> 01:30:17.199 Chiquita, you' re too bad and I said no. I' 1239 01:30:17.279 --> 01:30:23.319 m not going. I' m so sorry, not safo. Thank you. 1240 01:30:24.880 --> 01:30:30.039 He began to pass the time, his daughters began to go to the 1241 01:30:30.039 --> 01:30:36.720 company. But as if to investigate me, as it was obviously there was 1242 01:30:36.800 --> 01:30:43.039 the insecurity of the mother. Yeah, sure. Then I was struck by 1243 01:30:43.159 --> 01:30:46.560 a comment from one of her daughters, leaving them to me, I don 1244 01:30:46.680 --> 01:30:51.239 ' t know why not. I left them to you because you don' 1245 01:30:51.319 --> 01:30:55.640 t hear, because we' re in confidence. Not so, yes, 1246 01:30:56.359 --> 01:31:00.119 yes, obviously, and I let them ahir with me and this one hears 1247 01:31:00.239 --> 01:31:04.159 for help you to something that will put them to do. This one saying 1248 01:31:04.199 --> 01:31:10.920 no, because help me with this file of exel this and that one that 1249 01:31:11.039 --> 01:31:15.319 stayed told me I don' t know why Chinto came up the subject and 1250 01:31:15.479 --> 01:31:24.600 I don' t understand it yet I don' t know at what time 1251 01:31:24.680 --> 01:31:29.880 this one told me no, because he hears that because those who do witchcraft 1252 01:31:29.960 --> 01:31:31.079 for this to have a man and that I don' t know what knowing 1253 01:31:31.079 --> 01:31:32.000 that they don' t want them, because it is not right. I 1254 01:31:32.000 --> 01:31:33.680 said," Oh, no, no, no, no, no, 1255 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1256 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1257 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1258 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1259 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1260 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1261 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1262 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1263 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1264 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1265 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1266 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1267 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1268 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1269 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1270 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1271 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1272 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1273 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1274 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1275 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1276 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1277 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1278 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1279 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1280 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1281 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1282 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1283 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1284 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1285 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1286 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.680 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1287 01:31:33.680 --> 01:31:33.960 no, no, no, no, no, no, no He doesn 1288 01:31:34.039 --> 01:31:36.640 ' t want you, so let him hear you need to be forcing them. 1289 01:31:36.760 --> 01:31:41.159 Yeah, right, and I do, but I got weird about the 1290 01:31:41.159 --> 01:31:46.039 comment. Ah thought I was doing witchcraft and George and I realized because then 1291 01:31:46.199 --> 01:31:53.880 the cockroach asked me. Hey, you know what, because my daughter' 1292 01:31:53.960 --> 01:31:58.159 s mom found a black bottle with black liquid. It' s up there 1293 01:31:58.279 --> 01:32:01.560 at dinner and I know or America. I told him I got out of 1294 01:32:01.640 --> 01:32:03.560 your house Uh- huh. I said no, because I don' t 1295 01:32:04.239 --> 01:32:06.680 know, I have no idea what you' re talking about. I told 1296 01:32:06.720 --> 01:32:10.520 him if you' re thinking I' m making you crappy. I told 1297 01:32:11.079 --> 01:32:13.880 her the net. I' m not a hooker or you didn' t 1298 01:32:13.880 --> 01:32:15.520 know me apart, no, I' m not saying that. Oh, 1299 01:32:15.720 --> 01:32:17.119 well, I don' t know why you' re saying that. I 1300 01:32:17.199 --> 01:32:24.000 told him, because, because I have no idea, because total this one 1301 01:32:24.079 --> 01:32:30.680 stopped going the daughters, that is, because we continue to work. I 1302 01:32:30.760 --> 01:32:34.880 met someone and I started dating that person and because I kind of jealous in 1303 01:32:35.000 --> 01:32:42.479 the way they bloomed, I don' t know what happened. Of course, 1304 01:32:42.760 --> 01:32:45.840 he began to claim to me that I had forgotten it very soon and 1305 01:32:46.119 --> 01:32:53.119 what he knows, ok that my daughter' s father in the afternoon two 1306 01:32:55.079 --> 01:32:57.920 years and with him nothing ay amigo. Yeah, I mean, you were 1307 01:32:58.039 --> 01:33:01.359 pointless. I don' t fart. In fact, if I said no 1308 01:33:01.359 --> 01:33:05.239 invent, I told him you' re making your life what you' re 1309 01:33:05.239 --> 01:33:10.680 talking about. I mean, what in Spanish, I don' t know, 1310 01:33:11.000 --> 01:33:14.520 I don' t know, I don' t know what the truth 1311 01:33:14.520 --> 01:33:19.520 was in my head that shit, because yes, like to have demanded those 1312 01:33:19.560 --> 01:33:23.520 things, not even because already at the company inn, because I took my 1313 01:33:23.600 --> 01:33:27.239 partner to the inn, I took him to the inn and that night he 1314 01:33:27.319 --> 01:33:32.000 sent me a litany of messages that I had disappointed him. What a shame 1315 01:33:33.119 --> 01:33:38.239 that he pretended he was the woman of his life and I was already with 1316 01:33:38.319 --> 01:33:42.279 someone else and I didn' t stain your face where you saw me against 1317 01:33:42.279 --> 01:33:46.039 the cousin, you came back with your ex- fucker or you claiming me. 1318 01:33:47.000 --> 01:33:53.520 This is a good case for a psychiatry. I know, man, 1319 01:33:54.199 --> 01:33:57.479 you need a good psych to the planet. Yeah, actually. Yeah, 1320 01:33:58.039 --> 01:34:00.800 I don' t know, because at the end of the day, he 1321 01:34:00.800 --> 01:34:04.560 even sent his brother. I remember asking myself. Yeah, he sent, 1322 01:34:05.239 --> 01:34:10.840 he said hey. It' s just, well, why do you tell 1323 01:34:10.920 --> 01:34:15.119 us right now that I forgot you so soon ago about my brother of mine 1324 01:34:15.199 --> 01:34:18.359 so soon what you' re talking about? Before we were family, we 1325 01:34:18.439 --> 01:34:23.439 were very close. I told you I trusted some things and I trust others 1326 01:34:23.520 --> 01:34:28.880 and in one of those it was just to overcome the people who hurt you. 1327 01:34:30.279 --> 01:34:35.560 Yes, of course I did. I' m sure, I' 1328 01:34:35.720 --> 01:34:40.279 m sure sorry your first wife had a hard time getting over it, I 1329 01:34:40.279 --> 01:34:43.760 tell you. But surely if you end up with what even right now, 1330 01:34:43.880 --> 01:34:46.920 it' s going to be easier than what it was with the beginning, 1331 01:34:47.119 --> 01:34:53.359 because what I learned from my first breakup is ok I' m not going 1332 01:34:54.319 --> 01:34:57.600 to die, yeah, they' re going to read me rather you survived. 1333 01:34:57.880 --> 01:35:01.239 Yes, I mean, because it hurt and I cried at him what 1334 01:35:01.279 --> 01:35:04.840 I had to cry, but at the end of the day, he got 1335 01:35:04.840 --> 01:35:09.720 away with it. Yeah, but that' s what he' s telling 1336 01:35:09.800 --> 01:35:12.680 you exactly, I don' t know, and he' s gonna define 1337 01:35:12.800 --> 01:35:15.279 the explanations. First of all, it was, because we were getting along. 1338 01:35:16.399 --> 01:35:20.640 Yeah, sure, there was that mature relationship. No, and I 1339 01:35:20.840 --> 01:35:24.239 ' m clear, and then I told him to go ahead and tell him. 1340 01:35:24.319 --> 01:35:29.720 Obviously, I tell him if I, ex or, my daughter' 1341 01:35:29.800 --> 01:35:32.720 s dad, took a year to get over it I with his brother was 1342 01:35:32.760 --> 01:35:36.399 going to be easier, I was going to cry what I had to cry 1343 01:35:36.439 --> 01:35:40.000 to him and from now on and I told him I wasn' t going 1344 01:35:40.000 --> 01:35:42.800 to spend my whole life. I mean, why he left you, why 1345 01:35:42.880 --> 01:35:45.720 don' t I go and he didn' t send it. No yes, 1346 01:35:45.439 --> 01:35:49.600 because I still wonder listen you don' t feel anything when he tells 1347 01:35:49.720 --> 01:35:56.760 you I love you and I stayed not the same aha I told him the 1348 01:35:56.760 --> 01:36:01.600 truth. Maalitos, it doesn' t make me feel anything, because when 1349 01:36:01.680 --> 01:36:08.000 I wanted to hear it never happened. And that was when we were together 1350 01:36:08.079 --> 01:36:14.039 right now, separated. What' s the point of months already, that 1351 01:36:14.039 --> 01:36:15.399 is, me, for what? After months, why do I want to 1352 01:36:15.439 --> 01:36:18.760 hear a fear when we don' t even know each other anymore, we 1353 01:36:18.760 --> 01:36:21.119 don' t even live together anymore. He' s already made a mess 1354 01:36:21.119 --> 01:36:25.600 of it, that is, I' m out of it I mean, 1355 01:36:25.840 --> 01:36:29.479 I mean, why do I want to hear a love you that sounds super 1356 01:36:29.640 --> 01:36:30.880 empty to me the clearing and says no. Obviously, it got super serious. 1357 01:36:32.079 --> 01:36:36.840 I told him to see I told him not to justify myself. I 1358 01:36:38.000 --> 01:36:42.039 mean, you' re telling me that either I' m claiming that I 1359 01:36:42.159 --> 01:36:45.319 ' ve overtaken it and it was the week and I' ve been around 1360 01:36:45.439 --> 01:36:45.119 since before, I' ve been hanging out with the cousin and you knew 1361 01:36:45.119 --> 01:36:49.359 it. I told him and he' s back with his ex I also 1362 01:36:49.439 --> 01:36:51.439 told me what that kind of thing is coming to tell me. Not what 1363 01:36:51.600 --> 01:36:55.920 the fuck is the net. No yes, in fact, yes, because 1364 01:36:56.159 --> 01:37:03.640 he can still tell you that even three years ago it happened. I don 1365 01:37:03.680 --> 01:37:12.399 ' t remember that, not three years to put it, because it kept 1366 01:37:12.399 --> 01:37:15.840 trying to look for me and I was still trying to cocoon still, to 1367 01:37:15.840 --> 01:37:18.039 have contact with me. I think he noticed. No, I think I 1368 01:37:18.600 --> 01:37:24.279 started comparing how he was doing. He is with the mother of his daughters 1369 01:37:24.319 --> 01:37:26.920 and with you and, therefore, what a difference it was, not, 1370 01:37:27.600 --> 01:37:30.439 for it is, but it is the bad thing to come to comparison, 1371 01:37:30.439 --> 01:37:31.960 for it is. Of course, I mean, you should have valued the 1372 01:37:32.000 --> 01:37:36.119 person when he was by your side, not when he left then, because 1373 01:37:38.199 --> 01:37:41.119 no, I didn' t see any less of him, I mean, 1374 01:37:41.560 --> 01:37:47.920 I got to the point of blocking him, but still trying to get messages 1375 01:37:48.039 --> 01:37:51.880 from you and from other people. So the truth is, yes. It 1376 01:37:51.960 --> 01:37:57.800 is uncomfortable, because apart I already had one, a stable relationship, no, 1377 01:37:57.880 --> 01:38:00.479 and what became of him already to finish, what became of him, 1378 01:38:00.720 --> 01:38:05.520 for as far as I am, he is still with his mother of his 1379 01:38:05.600 --> 01:38:13.960 daughters, as far as I know I continued there to suffer him according to 1380 01:38:13.960 --> 01:38:18.439 him. Yes, because, according to him, it is not life that 1381 01:38:18.520 --> 01:38:21.319 he chose. At the end of the day, tell me what you like. 1382 01:38:21.399 --> 01:38:25.079 I also learned that she complained a lot, as it was also not 1383 01:38:25.439 --> 01:38:28.439 what I expected to have returned with him. I say look no more, 1384 01:38:29.279 --> 01:38:32.560 because there they are like Karl Mallos. At the end of the day, 1385 01:38:32.920 --> 01:38:35.960 how ugly I also found out that he' s still with the cousin, 1386 01:38:36.600 --> 01:38:39.039 because don' t let Neta be the cousin and I saw them the wife. 1387 01:38:41.159 --> 01:38:45.239 Then they never, ever were their daughters ever more and were used as 1388 01:38:45.359 --> 01:38:47.359 a pretext. Yes, because, now that you have them there, now, 1389 01:38:47.399 --> 01:38:51.800 what' s the pretext. No, but yes, there was his 1390 01:38:51.880 --> 01:38:59.439 story. What would you say to her, friend now, as well as 1391 01:38:59.760 --> 01:39:02.720 to women, or men, the most in women, to what they are 1392 01:39:02.720 --> 01:39:05.760 going on, that is, to you how you realized, that is, 1393 01:39:06.039 --> 01:39:10.560 when you realized what you were saying. It wasn' t good enough, 1394 01:39:11.119 --> 01:39:14.760 what would you recommend, what would you tell them, because look is rather 1395 01:39:14.960 --> 01:39:18.880 everything from the beginning, no, that it was already what I had to 1396 01:39:19.039 --> 01:39:24.199 live with my current partner, that you set your game from the beginning. 1397 01:39:25.000 --> 01:39:30.000 Yeah, no, I mean I want this You want the same thing in 1398 01:39:30.000 --> 01:39:33.520 front of you. If he doesn' t go out bye, yeah, 1399 01:39:33.680 --> 01:39:36.920 we' re not old anymore. Nor does it say ah let him calm 1400 01:39:38.000 --> 01:39:41.359 down to see what happens not in the age, rather as they have already 1401 01:39:41.399 --> 01:39:43.720 matured, not so mature. But also yes, yes, yes, it 1402 01:39:43.760 --> 01:39:46.479 also has to do not or is suddenly, because obviously, if there are 1403 01:39:46.600 --> 01:39:54.000 immature people, it is of one example, it is the cockroach. But 1404 01:39:55.520 --> 01:39:59.319 it is good that you establish from the beginning what you want if you have 1405 01:39:59.439 --> 01:40:01.800 such a common dream or not, that is, if you really have the 1406 01:40:01.880 --> 01:40:05.199 same dreams. I don' t know I want to marry, not because 1407 01:40:05.239 --> 01:40:09.079 I also hear I don' t want to marry, not because you know 1408 01:40:09.239 --> 01:40:13.840 what, because it' s going well, because, well, I don 1409 01:40:14.159 --> 01:40:18.079 ' t, I mean, I want to find someone with whom to have 1410 01:40:18.079 --> 01:40:19.479 stability, not just for me, but for my daughter too. So yes, 1411 01:40:19.560 --> 01:40:27.640 it was always to make that point clear, because I do not come 1412 01:40:27.640 --> 01:40:30.960 alone, i e I am also with a child that if something happens between 1413 01:40:31.079 --> 01:40:34.720 us, i e she, also suffers. No. Then I didn' 1414 01:40:34.800 --> 01:40:38.079 t want to go through that anymore. No. So I think yes, 1415 01:40:39.039 --> 01:40:43.760 yes, it' s important that we set everything up from the beginning and 1416 01:40:43.760 --> 01:40:46.159 not be expecting what' s going to happen to someone else, not what 1417 01:40:46.279 --> 01:40:48.560 ' s going to happen today, if you want another day. No, 1418 01:40:49.520 --> 01:40:53.920 no, not then, because it doesn' t cause you much insecurity, 1419 01:40:54.000 --> 01:40:57.399 much stability as soon as you start feeling that. No. Get out of 1420 01:40:57.399 --> 01:41:01.640 there, buddy, yeah, don' t take that from me I want 1421 01:41:01.640 --> 01:41:05.119 you my way. No, that' s no good, I mean, 1422 01:41:05.880 --> 01:41:09.840 they don' t really know what they want from those people. So, 1423 01:41:10.000 --> 01:41:13.159 then, for you to be suffering and at the end of the day, 1424 01:41:14.560 --> 01:41:17.119 they send you through a tube, because no, because obviously they' re 1425 01:41:18.840 --> 01:41:24.439 never going to have the security, that is, they don' t even 1426 01:41:26.560 --> 01:41:30.159 love each other, because they don' t know they really define what they 1427 01:41:30.239 --> 01:41:33.279 do, of course, what they want, because really, when you want 1428 01:41:33.279 --> 01:41:34.119 to be with a person, because you don' t. And that' 1429 01:41:34.119 --> 01:41:39.640 s it, that' s always nothing else, it' s a day 1430 01:41:39.640 --> 01:41:45.720 yes and one day no, because I think that, at the end of 1431 01:41:45.800 --> 01:41:48.479 the day, God was the one who got me out of there, too, 1432 01:41:48.479 --> 01:41:51.039 of course or not. Speaking also of your daughter, because obviously, 1433 01:41:51.319 --> 01:41:58.920 everything that has happened to her has affected her. And yet, I have 1434 01:41:59.000 --> 01:42:03.199 noticed, for a better hand already today with her also many things have changed 1435 01:42:03.279 --> 01:42:13.079 and you always learn from all these experiences. So what good friend, that 1436 01:42:13.119 --> 01:42:17.479 you were able to go out, blessed God, and what good, for 1437 01:42:17.640 --> 01:42:25.720 you realized? At the end of the day, don' t let me 1438 01:42:25.840 --> 01:42:30.680 know that you realized that everything has gone well for you, because unfortunately you 1439 01:42:30.680 --> 01:42:34.960 have to go through this, but the good thing is that you had a 1440 01:42:34.960 --> 01:42:43.159 learning experience and that you are already better. You always learn. Yeah, 1441 01:42:44.680 --> 01:42:51.840 well, it' s really important to look at yourself or see the lesson 1442 01:42:51.960 --> 01:42:58.039 you got in that period, not to be able to go ahead and try 1443 01:42:59.039 --> 01:43:04.039 not to make the same mistakes that yes, yes, it' s complicated 1444 01:43:04.119 --> 01:43:05.760 to come out of the hole again and value you and love you. And 1445 01:43:08.119 --> 01:43:11.880 so they are many things, for they involve coming out of a depression, 1446 01:43:13.359 --> 01:43:17.119 from a rupture, from a break, from a disappointment, from a betrayal. 1447 01:43:18.119 --> 01:43:23.159 After all, it' s what infidelity is. That' s the 1448 01:43:23.159 --> 01:43:25.880 way you mention it. There' s something very important, you can go 1449 01:43:26.039 --> 01:43:29.039 on a super therapy trip. Yeah, actually, yeah, they have a 1450 01:43:29.119 --> 01:43:30.479 chance to do it. Yeah, I' ve always said, I mean, 1451 01:43:31.039 --> 01:43:36.960 meet people, know new ways of thinking, try new things, try 1452 01:43:38.279 --> 01:43:40.960 I don' t know, I mean, I even think about it that 1453 01:43:41.000 --> 01:43:45.439 fast, because learning even a new language. No, but I think that 1454 01:43:45.520 --> 01:43:49.640 better to have pity, you have to travel and that involves forgiveness, which 1455 01:43:49.640 --> 01:43:55.560 means, well, to clear the mind how good, then to see that 1456 01:43:56.119 --> 01:44:03.560 you can finally breathe well and be well. And so, well, radio 1457 01:44:04.439 --> 01:44:08.319 podcasters listen. This has been today' s story a little bit long, 1458 01:44:08.560 --> 01:44:13.479 but I owe it, after so long, we' re going to kick 1459 01:44:13.520 --> 01:44:19.479 this project out again and I ask you to share this show, this podcast 1460 01:44:20.479 --> 01:44:25.600 picen a and the share button you find us on all our social networks as 1461 01:44:25.720 --> 01:44:30.920 infidel podcasts. Here we ask for a small recommendation from your colleagues and, 1462 01:44:30.159 --> 01:44:39.199 if you have a story, to tell us also by them, by the 1463 01:44:39.279 --> 01:44:45.279 same social networks. If you are from here, from Guadalajara, because we 1464 01:44:45.359 --> 01:44:48.960 are here from Guadalajara, from Guadajara, Jalisco, Mexico, because there we 1465 01:44:49.079 --> 01:44:56.039 are not realizing that they listen to us in several countries, especially in all 1466 01:44:56.119 --> 01:45:00.560 of America, from Alaska to Argentina. That little life is out there and 1467 01:45:00.800 --> 01:45:03.920 oh wow. Thank you very much, thank you very much for listening to 1468 01:45:03.920 --> 01:45:11.159 this podcast. If not, out there we even make a call as well 1469 01:45:11.439 --> 01:45:15.880 as not feeling a video call and we also make the podcast out there. 1470 01:45:15.960 --> 01:45:24.399 Thank you very much that this project is still there from Australia also to Era 1471 01:45:24.600 --> 01:45:28.479 and Spain also to live the statistics. Thank you very much and, well, 1472 01:45:29.600 --> 01:45:31.439 we see each other, we listen to each other for the next podcast. 1473 01:45:31.479 --> 01:45:36.159 Sorry about the background noises. It' s raining a lot here in 1474 01:45:36.279 --> 01:45:41.720 Guadalajara, Blessed God, and the heat is already disappearing, but it' 1475 01:45:41.840 --> 01:45:45.720 s raining and it' s raining pretty good here, because thank you so 1476 01:45:45.720 --> 01:45:46.960 much for the next podcast. Infidels Podcast