Just test tests perfect. What's up? Guess who's Vizzac? Back back back
again. Our last episode was October twentieth. Boo, wow, it's it
called a New Year's break. But twenty twenty four, we're here, We're
back. I'm Angelina. If you forgot my name, this is for the
record. We have some special guest with this. Well, Chris isn't special?
Is special? Hey? Everyone? But you know him? This is
Chris. You have two new movies. What's going on? Everybody? It's
JD what everybody is? Sleek the freak? Angel what's you might know me?
If you've ever seen Angelina's TikTok lives, Oh love that. They're big
fans of Angelique when she comes down there like Angelina, who the freak?
Though it's looking like her Instagram name, it's my TikTok name. Okay okay,
okay, okay, wow. My fig DJ name is also like the
freak. My mom calls you like the freak. My mom said stas with
Angelique every time she My Mom's like, I just love Angela. She's just
always living her best life. We message on Instagram DM all the time.
Oh she likes my stories. I like her stories. Like we're tight.
They're like this, if you don't see you can't see my fingers, but
like they're crossed. Yes, okay, And this week's episode and for the
culture, we're talking about Oscar nominations and Oscar snubs, and let's talk TV
the Iron Claw and the Gypsy Army, and in bitch Oh, we're talking
about a sensitive topic, ghosting. So by all means, let's get to
it. This is for the culture, for the culture, for the culture.
This is where we pick a headline and ask if the A, she
or he did it for the culture, if you guys missed it. Oscar
nominations are out right, and the Oscars do you call them? The Academy?
Yes, yes, the Academy selected, right, the Academy picked Yes,
the Academy decided we're going to do the funniest thing. And he's like,
there's this really popular movie that damn near single handedly saved movie theaters last
year, broke box office records and was all about the patriarchy. How about
we have nominations to the only veil in the movie. I didn't know that.
You want to hear a hot take everybody? Yes? Oh yeah,
hold on, so well, let me just if you don't know. We're
talking about Greta Gerwig and Margot Robbie got zero nominations America for ever did though
she did? Oh yes, Best Porting Actor? And Ryan Gosling he got
one. What is it for Best Supporting Actor, Best Actor? Yes?
Yes, yes? What's your hot take? Angela can tear it? Because
I have a few t o. I haven't seen it, That's okay.
I just feel like I have not say it's trash or something. Okay,
she hasn't seen it, It's okay, it's okay. Nor do I want
to read a bow? Wow? Why don't you want to see it?
Isn't that I don't want to. It's like when it came out in theaters,
I was like, okay, I'll just wait for when it's streaming.
Okay, And now that is every time a long HBO it's like, don't
you want to watch Barbie? I'm like, I don't really know. I
don't know why. Okay, Okay, watching the movie. You gotta be
in the mood to watch a new movie, you know. Like I'm someone
I watched comfort movies all day. I watch the same movie over and over
again. I'll be honest, I saw it in theaters. I was like,
wow, amazing, and then I did try to watch it again at
home and I was like, this is kind of long. That's kind of
long, but it is still great movie. There's I haven't watched the movie.
I'll start off with that. But there was only one time that I
almost did, and it was when I was on a plane because it was
on the there were showing Barbie on the plane Southwest. You can log into
the thing, and that's the best time to catch up on a movie.
I see some fire movies. My first time on a plane, I did
watch a couple of movies, but I did not watch that. But I'm
not gonna lie, and it was it was out of embarrassment. I don't
want to wow, you know, because it would have been time to land.
He would been clipping up his stairs, like right, I was just
watching. No, I was watching Barbie Bitch. I heard people was crying.
Yeah, it was really beautiful. Yeah, the end made me cry.
Maybe I should want Oh, yeah, maybe you should. No,
but we've be cussing all day on this podcast. Sorry, it's good.
Yeah, it's good. That's the last segment. Okay, So in the
beginning, when the headlines came out, like obviously that's super ironic. It
is fucked up. What the fuck are you guys doing? The Academy get
it together? But I feel like the discourse now like people are a little
overdoing it. Yeah, like why feminists touch some grass or something something funny
that I saw Woody Goldberg come out and say. She was like about them
not getting it. She said, okay, well white women don't shouldn't get
everything they want. And I was like, okay, we'll be hot,
motherfucking take on the view. It was kind of funny. But and then
okay, I need to see the list of the other like actors. I
guess I'm in the Okay, we'll say for Margo's. I didn't watch any
of those other fucking movies. It was like Emma Stone, hold up up,
poor thing, I do you want to see? I do want to
see poor things. I do want to see poor things? Is that that
amaztone one? Yeah? Yeah? See. I don't you pull it up
because I don't even know what's type in what was a nomination like best Actress,
yes, best actress, oscar no another thing. I feel like the
discourse is starting to go we Ryan been Gossling. We need to put some
respect on him because people are trying to act like like he doesn't deserve like
he is a beloved actor since nineteen ninety seven. And when Barbie came out,
we did a review on it and I even said, I hate to
say this because I know the movie is about you know, all women fucked
the patriarchy, But I will say, like, Ryan Gosling totally stole the
show for me, Like I was waiting for him to pop up. He's
had me dying laughing, Like I would say he was a best supporting actor.
Margo definitely. I mean Margo not only like led like I heard she
like damn near help put this whole shit together. So like she I think
she should have for sure got something. But it's not the end of the
world. And I feel like people it's to the point where like America Fair
won't even get like her flowers for it because if she gets interviewed, they
just want to bring up how Brenda and take away from her. Yeah,
it is really extremely ironic that Ryan Gosling is the only person to get nominated,
but at least Billie Eilish did for Yeah, there you go. Billy
and Phineas for best song in the movie. Yeah, a movie. I
love that song. It's so sad. No, it is a beautiful as
song. Yeah. I was gonna say one more thing, but I forgot.
Oh wait, shout out Steven Vendez, Ryan Gosling's wife and baby mama.
He's really winning. Wait you didn't know that? No? Okay,
I just had another friend who just found that out. Also, I guess
a lot of people don't know that Ryan's really winning. Did Ryan Gosling and
Ava Mendez? I thought that one skinny white girl actress. No, no,
a different actor whoa holy ship? They have like two kids together?
Whoa Anyway, she posted with the receipts like I don't think I didn't forget
you guys hated on my man when it was announced that he was gonna be
ken and she put like a photo dump of all the critics talking ship and
she's like this, Barbie is proud of her. Can let's go yeah put
some period, but yeah, overall, Oscars are not doing it for the
culture. Would leads us to our next segment, Let's talk TV, because
you know who did get snubbed? Zach? Did you guys see the iron
Claw. No, I'm still a ressed, you guys. This past week,
I keep saying the white Claw of the movie conversations, I accidentally said
the white clothes so good. I thought we were talking about on the radio
like on air. No, No, at least I don't think I did.
Sometimes I feel like he's like out on air. It's a warm drinking.
I love the cherry. Iron Claw was so good. I watched a
lot of wrestling growing up, but that's actually what is it on Eric's way
before my time, So I actually did not know about it other than like
what other people have told me. But I took my little sister, who
also used to be really into wrestling, and she knew nothing about the story
at all, and I already knew what it was going to be about.
So like ten minutes in, she like leans to me and she's like,
Angelina, I love this movie so much already, And I said, oh,
you just wait, sister. In my head, honey, And honestly,
I was aug the whole movie, I thought, because in my head,
like leading up, I was like, I'm ready to cry my eyes
so I'm gonna be crying right away. It was like Daniel the end of
the movie. I'm like, bitch, I'm a thug. Like the first
brother dead. I was like, okay, one down, second one,
two down, Okay, spoiler everyone hold on if no one has this podcast,
though, we always so everybody for you, you guys, sorry,
sorry for you, Sorry for your true story. I looked them up.
Yeah, it's about these wrestling legends and uh there's a saying that they're cursed
because they just keep dying in their family, like all the brothers literally died.
First of all, there are actually six brothers, but in the movie
they only show five because the sixth death was too gruesome or horrifying or traumatic.
Let the whole out. Honestly, though, I was when I was
watching the movie, I was like, Okay, I don't know if it
was a great movie, but my only like little cons I had like two.
I was like, I can't tell if there was pacing issues or if
that's just a hard thing, Like how do you make a movie of like
six people dying back to back, you know what I mean? Yeah.
Yeah, So it's like the first half of the movie and then it happened
for the rest of the second half of the movie was like boom, boom
boom, boom boom. Have you guys seen the Last Dance documentary Michael Jordan,
someone put the brother Chris how he didn't make it in the movie,
with Isaiah Thomas saying I met the criteria, like the fifth brother I should
have been in the movie. What was the sixth brother? Why wasn't he
in it? He committed Well, we also committed suicide, like three of
them did. Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, So I don't I don't
really know. But but when we were coming out of the movie theater,
like literally the lady who was like gave us the popcorn, we were like
talking to her about it. She was like, yeah, and there was
a six brother, Like, I don't know. We first of all,
like at the end of the movie you could all hear everybody sniffling in the
fucking theater and just one girl kind of like kind of let it out.
And then we once won, we all. I was like, I have
never cried so hard in a movie, and like we was looking at my
friend like this is fucked up, this is not okay, this is story,
Like how do you wrap your mind around that? So I didn't know
about the missing brother until like right when we got home. My sister watched
the Dark Side of the Ring watch but it's all so streaming on Netflix.
Yes, so they have an episode so it's like a little more true story.
But I don't know. I feel like the documentary made the dad look
like a good person, and I don't know if he's that great of a
person. Wait the documentary of the movie. The documentary, Oh yeah,
because the movie he's a jackass, fuck that Dade pushing his kids to do
ship and then they all die and kill himselves and he's still like, Okay,
that's the definition of toxic Maxillately, they just suck it up a little.
So there's a scene where, like the funeral, they're at the funeral
like just wrapped up, and he's like, all right, so who's gonna
step up the final goal against bites. The dad's acting it was a little
cheesy, a little corny. I feel like he was just kind of like
so, I thought it's a good I think it was his his his role
was to like be the narrator. I don't know, he was like sewing
the pieces together. I don't know. He seemed a little cheesy for me,
but just Jeremy Allen white too. Just started watching The Man. He's
in it. He played with one of the brothers and he does really good.
Yeah, he really does a good job of dying. The one that
who dies, I don't know his name. That's trivia questions. I don't
know. The kid that played David to the younger brother did really good.
All of the brothers did really good. My only complaint of who was not
great was the guy that played Rig Flair. He was not Ric Flaren and
I feel like it was like a Mexican dude. Uh that's that's the no.
I don't know. I mean, he's the opponent, right, he's
like the really kind of kind of First of all, wrestling is so gay.
I just have to say, I'm like sorry, like the outfits man
literally men wanting to like touch other men and like put like like jump on
each other. It was like okay. Also though, also though, something
I was thinking of was like this is this is a chance for men to
like come out and create it's drag like to create a character and put on
a costume and uh like perform, you know, like I'm saying it's gay,
like I'm being funny. I'm being and being funny but their performers sling
is not gay. That's good. I'm gay. I can say, oh
my goodness, it is not. But yeah, that's my only complaint is
Rick Flair was not Rick Flaring, and then like maybe the pacing a little
bit, but yeah, I will say I was a thug. I didn't
cry the whole time until the very last scene. Zachn you bitch, he
got no no, but he just his acting is just really good. And
there's the end scene like he really speaking of he just got his star on
the Hollywood Walk of Fames. What someone told me that better fact check that
ship out? Yeah, because well, I don't know, like I heard,
it's like not as big as it used to be like before. Yeah,
like Michael Jackson sure didn't pay for his, but Macaulay Culkin just got
his, Like he's been famous since. Do you think he paid for his?
I need to know he hasn't done anything since. I don't know.
Yeah, check that one. Yeah when it was a talk back and put
it in the comments if people do or do not pay for their stars on
the Walk Fame, will Hall of Fames, Hall of Fame, Hall of
Fame, and walk Wait did you guys Okay, I know it's a little
late, but like Gypsy Rose, she could watched the act I did.
That was fucked. What happened? Oh my god, I didn't see it.
It's a documentary about her. It's literally just short story version, short
version. First of all, they made an eight series reenact eight episode series
reenactment, and it's an hour episode was eight hours. I literally watched the
first four episodes, went to bed, woke up and watched the second.
So it was a bad little Girl and the little girl was told that she
was sick. Okay, this is called it's called Munchausen by proxy. And
her mom told her that she was sick, that she had cancer, that
she had leukemia, so she would shave her head and she was a biscuit
in the wheelchair. You can't walk, and the little girl was kind of
like, yeah, I can, and she was like, no, you
can't. And she was like, okay, we're gonna put a feeding tube
in you, and then we're gonna like put drugs in that feeding tube and
make you feel like you're actually sick, bitch, and basically just like made
this little girl crippled even though she wasn't. And at the end of the
day, she meets this guy online has a boyfriend, and the boyfriend comes
and murders the mom. Yep. And this is like in twenty fifteen,
and they made a fucking series about it on Hulu. Yes. Yeah,
familiar with the story because like I had a you know, all the means
and stuff, because she recently came out of jail. She so right,
yeah, she's free. And now there's a new documentary on Lifetime. It's
like a six part series. I bought it on Amazon Prime. It's called
Gypsy Rose The Prison Confessions, and it's like her, you're so invested,
Oh my god. No. I first watched there's a there's an Amazon Prime
documentary. I bought that shit for three dollars and once I watched that,
it was like that was like an hour and a half. I'm like,
okay, I can invest an hour and a half. And I was like,
okay, funk, I gotta watch the eight episode eight hour whatever.
And then and then recently January fifth was when The Prison Confessions came out,
and like, yeah, I guess she was like their document documentary. People
were coming in and I don't know, getting her story, getting her side
of the story and while she's in prison and anyway that she was motherfucking crazy
and because you know why, I was so annoy sing that little bitches name
on my phone like on every single I don't care. She was turning for
like a minute, Guess who cares? Guess who cares? Now, I'm
like no, it comes like Gypsy Army. I cannot like, oh she's
but like she's not. She's walking. She talks in like TikTok language.
It was long term damage she did to get addicted to like prescription drugs.
So she's like whom like joined the club, baby girl. But you know,
I think I don't know if she's sober. Now I'm sure she is,
but literally just followed her, following her on Instagram at Gypsy ros Blanchard,
and you know she just like she like goes to like she's like it's
the little thing. She's like, I really want to go to Times Square
and buy an iHeart n Y T shirt Like that's the thing, Like she
love it. She literally she was locked away in her house for like nineteen
years and then and then when the girl turned eighteen, when the girl turned
those shirt, her mom changed her birth certificate to be like four years younger.
So she's like, happy birthday, you're fourteen, and she was like,
Hoda, that don't sound right. She was like, no, bitch,
you're fourteen, but she was actually like eighteen or something. Yeah,
her lies to be honest. Yeah, I feel like she got to point
where it's the longest gaslight ever yet literally didn't like she didn't know about the
Yes, yes, okay, what if plotswis she didn't? Is there like
any conspiracy theories that like they actually wait, what do you mean? Like
what if she just killed her mom and it is a bad person, you
know, her boyfriend her boyfriend killed them. Oh yeah, like and that
was the whole thing too. No, he no, he's going to he's
going to prison for life. He went to prison for life. So this
and she went to prison for eight years. She's like, I just said
the word. I was just a messenger. Yeah, yeah, I said
he didn't have to do it. Yeah. I met this guy on Christian
Mingle dot com. And then the boyfriend he had like multiple personalities and his
like five hundred year old murderer vampire personality was the one who was going to
murder them all. Yeah, so he was. She was like, honey,
can you have She was like, it's just an idea. Yeah,
I forgot what I need to talk to him literally, and he was like,
yeah, fucking murder her mom. Oh and them she fell a bad
murdering her mom. She's like, so I want I want someone to find
her. So then they put on her shared Facebook page with her mom and
said we killed the bitch. And the post is still up. You can
you can google it. It's still up. You can see the post we
killed the bitch. So Gypsy Rose and the boyfriend want a day or two
later because she felt bad about murdering the mosse. How we're going to get
someone to find her dead body because I feel bad and I don't want her
just like dying in the house. Okay, well like pretend like maybe this.
Yeah, we'll pretend we're the murder and it's not us. But we'll
just go on the facebook page and say we murder killed that base. Yeah
yeah. And then they tracked the ship to the boyfriend's house and the swat
team came in. He addresses everyone, everything is tracked. Do not do
anything crazy if you don't want to get caught. Literally, said bitch if
you wanted to go to Tailor's, just tell a brother you want to go
to Taylor's. You said that. Oh hell yeah, man, I laid
it out right, I said, I said, I says, I said,
bitch, bitch. A quick reminder, because it's been a little break.
If you ever helped change my diaper or know me when I was in
diapers, mothers, fathers, aunts, uncles, it's time to turn the
podcast off. You're not you're not allowed to listen to the segment. Ever.
I'm not gonna warn you every single time I want you hear that,
bitch, it's time to go, go away, go away. Let's you
want to hear some things you don't want to hear. Okay, little story
timing, guys. Okay, I'm not gonna say all details, but okay
say it. Yeah. So, me and my good friend Christina, we
went to this little bar that's nearby both of our play cases, and we
sat at the bar. No, absolutely not. But it's in between Hayward
and San Francisco CIEs. No, I don't think you do. It's not
what you're thinking. It's not one that we usually go to at least anyways.
Yes, okay, we went and sat at the bar, and there
was two really cute bartenders, but one of my thought was like super super
cute. They were kind of talking to us, but I think the one
that I thought was like extra cute kind of did mention eventually that he had
a girlfriend or something. Yeah, that means stop, I'm just saying terrible,
terrible, terrible stop that time. I'm not. I don't think he
the first time. I don't think I knew about his girlfriend. But anyways,
just that guy's tell a fine whatever. Cared all live in our lives.
A couple of weeks maybe months go by, and my friend Christina,
her friend ended up getting a second job at that place, and I was
a sudden I was like, oh, tell we gotta give him a nickname.
That's his name, gonna be Bob because I do have a nickname.
And then it kind of gives away what the restaurant is, sports sports bar.
I call him, we call him they. Okay, let's just stick
to that for the record. I don't know the bar. I'm just okay,
great, something that's not think of it. So I was telling the
friend, I said, oh girl, tell him my son was up,
but like kind of joking kind of serious, just being funny. No,
this bitch. Basically she told this man, oh, Angelina thinks you're her
man? What kind of call? When I said, say, no,
that's not a board mission. Now next time, like I don't even know
that he exists. I don't know who this man is, because like,
okay, I think you're cute, but not to be like, oh,
Angelina is obsessed with you. She's writing about you and her diary every night.
Like that was so, I know. I was like, I was
such a cog block. Respectfully ill girl, I'm sorry. Yeah, that
was so not a girl girl like cling a stage five clinger was not cute.
So I was like, uh so immediately in my head, I'm like,
okay, we're throwing that away. They no more because now next time
I say I'm gonna awake, I'm not even interested. Sounds like the name
of a bars. Did you not hear my morning? What I said?
But that's like literally gives it away. When I go edit, I'm just
gonna bleep it every time. It's gonna be like, yeah, we'll just
bleep it out a lot of time. Yeah, I know, Well,
I'm gonna look back. We got to give it a new nickname right now.
That means, oh, you know what, I'll call him Edgar Bank
because he kind of has the Edgar Banks. I know, no, when
I tell you, he really gets so fine Edgars. I swear he doesn't
dress like an Edgar. It's just the Bays are giving Edgar work at and
so I'm gonna split the rest of that. He wears. He wears a
puffer jackie, I know the patches, and he's got a wall full of
like backwards that he saves up. I'm just describing my little brother love Fava.
Anyways, so he has some Edgar features. Was him Edgar Bay?
And I'm gonna bleeve out everything else? I said, uh so where was
I? Okay? She said that okay, and I have to forget he
exists. And then another time I was meeting a friend there and I met
her at the bar and whila, there goes Edgar Bay and he's talking to
me. But I'm really acting like I don't know him. And I'll say,
all the partender is cute too, so I'm just like, you know,
I'm paying attention. So non Edgar Bay, he's three feet taller,
and they're both talking to us and give us three shots when you and I
think In that conversation, we started talking about something like waking up early,
and he was like, yeah, sometimes I had to wake up early to
walk my girlfriend's dog. So it was like a hint that he has a
girlfriend. So I'm like, okay, I noted because right now you already
think I'm in love with you and you got a girlfriend. No, you're
really dead to me, actually, sir, Okay, So whatever, keep
a cute leave right. That was it. It was a good time.
We had good conversation with them. They gave us free drinks. We leave
a couple more months past, and I mean my freend Cocina. Mind you,
Christina does not like being outside, like it's rare where she like wants
to go ww She's such a home body or she wants to be home at
a certain time, you know. But today she was just feel a little
risque. We went to go get dinner a wa and she's like, you
know what, I could go for one more beer, a little you know,
a little nightcap. She's like, let's go to Madoak and we have
not been to Madoak in years. Both and her used to work at Lake
Sheley so we would go to medic all the time because it's right across the
street. And you guys know, I'm blind as hell, so I don't
I have my glasses on me, but I don't have them on, so
I can't really see if I put my glasses on. I see one of
my old friends from like Elementary, and I was like, oh my god,
that's blah blah blah. I'm gonna go say hi to him real quick.
And she's like, okay, just wait here. So I go say
hi to him and he's like in a circle. Which why is Edgar Bay
right in the circle? Did you just see my friend? She's like like
like he literally like it's like a movie turned around the slow motion, like,
oh, you're an Elementary friend knowing Edgar Base and with him No,
no, he's no hold on. So and he introduced me to Bay.
He's like Angelina Edgar Angelina. No right, no I do. Like I
was like, oh my god from the Edgar restaurant. No, you guys,
he wants me tissy because he is like flirting with me. He's like,
you haven't stopped by. I haven't seen you. He's like, oh,
now that I know, you know, this guy, like, I'm
gonna give him free drinks. He's come by. He's like, look you
gt me up and down. He's giving me the eyes. I go back
to my Frank and I'm like, is she her jaws jop? She's like,
bitch, did I see that coming? Said, oh my god.
Edgar Bay Like So eventually we like migrate over there and we're talking. And
then now I've had a lot of drinks, we go downstairs the mattole area.
There's like upstairs downstairs, and me and Edgarbay are talking like about our
whole lives. At this point, I'm pretty drunk, so I at this
point I have tunnelvision. I'm like, I'm going home with this man tonight,
Like this is what's happening. This is this is what's happening. It's
in my head. Christina two three hut, you know this is a drill
that's gonna happen. And it's two am. It's time to go. And
my friend's like, oh, we're all going back to Edgar Bay's house.
You guys should come through, dumb coming through. Oh but I will see
what I will say, just so you guys get a fill of this man.
He definitely was on he was on some single ship because he was just
hopping around the room like kind of talking to everyone. And there's this other
girl that was there that had his jacket on. Okay, it was all
that he is an edgar at the restaurant and or bar that he works at.
He said he had a girlfriend. Yeah, but he definitely I can
tell he was very single. One is the span of time between It's been
like months between every single talking and we're back. That's I'm like, oh,
shore edgar by, like what months a girlfriend? Because the hater ship
the girl said to the saying, oh yeah, maybe like shut up.
You hear somebody say, oh she thinks you're her man, Like that's no,
that is crazy to say that is crazy. You know. I hate
to like dig up someone's head, like yeah, like I'm not like a
cocky person. But then it's like, okay, bitch, relaxed, Like
you should be honored if I'm thinking you're my imagination, imaginating man. Okay,
yeah. On his on his end, I see what you're saying.
Yeah, size months later that he forgot he lied, so he's like yeah,
yeah, anyway, super on me. I'm like I'm sleeping this last
night, we go back, We're all having drinks, having good time,
television again. If I'm goes, I can stand his room and we hook
up. But it was I definitely drink too much. It was like a
sex scene in a movie. You know, you remember the good parts.
So that was a hugs okay and leaving It doesn't even matter anymore. But
before, when me and him were having like our whole deep conversation, he
had gave me his number or he texts my number with his name. He's
like Edgar Bay. I was like, gotcha. So when I was leaving
his apartment, I text him like Angelina, like dash Angelina, just in
case I don't know if people got too drunk, Like who did I text?
You know. So a couple of days go by and I'm talking with
my coworkers and I'm just like, should I hit this guy up? And
they're like, well, what do you want from this? And I'm like,
I don't know. I don't really know him like that, Like I'm
not saying I want a boyfriend, like but you know I would like to
do that again. Yes, So I was like, okay, I'm gonna
text him round two with laughing emojis, and that's what I did. I
think that's so thirty. It's cute. Works every time I do it all
the time, but when I do pull it out, it works, Yes,
exactly the question mark yes on the way. Yes. No, he
didn't text me back, and my text like maybe like five ish, and
then you know, an hour goes by. I'm like, you know what,
it's probably at work. He's probably closing because he is the manager at
that restaurant, so you know, I was I guess who. Yeah,
like, I'm I got my guess who card out, Like, okay,
Edgar, it was professors in the library with the candles stick. Okay,
that's a different game. Yeah, I can't. I'm like, okay,
he's closing, So I'm not gonna be I'm not gonna swim, I'm not
gonna stress. Nine pm rolls by, then I rolls by, the next
day rolls by. You guys, this man never texts me back ever.
So tonight and bitch, we're going to talk about ghosting. That is the
topic of the nights. Okay, yeah, yeah, a stinger also really
okay, I'm definitely not approved of you guys know that of stories, But
I will say I've never truly had a one night stand. Like every person
that I've hooked up with, even it's not like on Fursday whatever, I've
always like continued hooking up with them for a certain amount of time and then
it just doesn't work out whatever. Like I never just hooked up with someone
like never talk to them again. So that's why my ego was definitely hurt.
And I think a lot of people are hurt by ghosting because it is
ego thing. Like no one likes to be rejected, no one likes to
feel like they're not wanted. A lot of people will say it's like I
don't know, I guess the coward whale, like you should use your words
and stuff. I see both sides because I've been in situations I've ever but
there are times where I'm like, I don't need to explain myself to you.
There's one people who are not that special. Are levels to it.
There are like there are levels. It is very situational. That's like a
whole encompassing like word and phrase and like definition, but there are it's a
great area right now you have to I feel like ghost is not considered ghosting.
There's like a certain level of depth into whatever relationship quote unquote. You
can't see the air quotes right now, but right you have to get a
certain depth into whatever relationship you guys have before it's gonna be considered ghosting.
Oh, I totally agree that. I was gonna say that for the end,
but let's get into it. I was gonna say there's levels of ghosting,
and that's where I was. I literally was gonna say, I'm contradicting
myself in this story because one I think, Yeah, if it's one I
stand some see you back, that's not fuing ghosting. I just use that
story to get Actually I never actually got I don't have a story to get
into this topic, but I was about as close it came. Okay,
No, absolutely, like beating on dating apps, like if you match with
someone on tender or on Instagram dms and then like they don't beat up or
they don't hit you up, bitch, they didn't ghost you, right exactly.
I also agree with that if you never met it's not ghosting, like
no harm, no foul, like I've never seen you exactly. If you
do not know this person exactly, he or she is a stranger to you
right, right. If we exchange news and then I don't see what I
like, then I'm not going to text you about and that's okay, and
that's not ghosting. Yeah bad, Yeah, I would hurt my feeling so
a lot more. Well, I gave you why you gave me yours,
and I was like, but I never say it, but but I always
like, that's hot, and then and then and then I did foul oh
cute, and then I'm like, at least you do that. I thought
you were just like, oh, never mind, delete my pictures please.
Definitely no, definitely not. You never talked down on people's pigs. I
always like, hey, good shit. But then if I'm not into it,
then I just back away. You know, I'm not evil. Yeah,
absolutely, there's levels of ghosting. If you never fucking met this person
or you just had a one night stand, they're not ghosting. You get
the fuck over it. You'll be okay. If they're your husband of five
years and they stop talking to you, that's ghosting. Or if you're a
relationship that sucks, okay, what do you do and how to get over
ghosting? Because you know, there's not really a manual book for it,
so that's what we're here for. So one thing about me, guys,
you angelicque you know, Chris knows, Jady might not know. But I
obsess over shit, Okay, I run it to the ground. So mind
you. When this happened, it's like next week, I'm at dinner with
friends and I'm like, okay, guys, what if maybe he was an
ocean and his phone dropped. I'm looking out my local obrituaries and I'm just
like, what happened to this man? Honestly, I feel that that is
actually what you need to do. Though, if you want to get over
someone that ghosted you, that actually goes to you. You guys were in
relationship or you guys were talking for a long time. You don't hear for
them you And this is what I did. I said. Someone asked me
shout out to Josie because she was the one that helped me originally text he.
She's like, hey, whatever happened to Edgar Bay? I said,
Oh, I think he died. That's the only thing. And that is
really what you do have to tell yourself. I know it's like cliche saying
like if you wanted to, he would, but it's true. If someone
is that into you, even on the lowest level of Oh, I'm just
trying to fuck you like, they will hit you back. They will do
that. So you should not want to hang out with someone that doesn't want
to stick. They're p in your B or your B or your m okay,
like they don't like you. They do not like you. And a
lot of the times it's all for a reason. Like with this person,
I overanalyze it again, not ghosting because I don't know. Anything could happen.
He could be dead right now. He give me sixty under it as
we speak. From what I know, he is all right. He edgar
bab baby. Questions when you texted him, was it first of all?
Was he green or blue bubbles? No, he didn't block me, it
was okay, okay, okay, okay, yes. And do you have
any social media of him or no? Any? Was about to go I've
seen his Instagram because my friend posted to him. I'm not going to go
follow him like that's doing That's that's crazy. Okay, Well that's I mean
if I got ghosted and I kind of like the guy or something, then
I would probably stop him. Yeah, yeah, I wouldn't follow. That's
stage. No no, no, no is my middle yes, me same,
but no, I was like I already talked it to the ground and
was like obsessing over it and had all the reasons of what could have happened,
many ways he could have died, and what happened, like the reasons
of him not texting me back. So between that and just being like,
Okay, we're gonna get over it. Everything happens for a reason. It
could just be as this man just doesn't like you, that's it. But
like I was just thinking more into it, like, you know, if
he did just get out of relationship. When I met him, very was
much I'm single and he just got this new apartment, and it was very
batter of pad vibes, like he's probably like I'm inviting bitch just here every
weekend, Right, that was the vibe I'm getting. He's also younger than
me, He's like three years younger than me. So just all around,
I'm like, I don't know, I don't know this man's life. He's
in a different space. Look at you. This one we called growth.
I'm leaving out details too, but I also may or may not have made
out with his friend the day before, so that kind came back to it.
Also, speaking of growth, I just want to say of self sabtage
is my middle name, but like I'm growing a little bit from it,
like baby stops not fully self sabtage anymore. That's good. That's good out
there. Thank you so much. We're growing. We love this four sure
at all. Yes, but that's I think that is the healthiest thing.
If you want to get over someone goes new, they truly need to be
dead to you. Yeah, how do you guys deal with ghosting? Okay,
so the last time I was the one and only time I would say,
guess what on my freaking birthday, March ninth birthday, I always my
randling's birthday because it's the same as bot wows. I was number one.
On my birthday, I texted thisws and birth I texted this man and that
it went to green basically what why? What happened? Deleted on the deleted
He's now right? And it was so sad because it was like years of
like situations. I was like, I was like, Okay, maybe I
saw it coming, but on my birthday to day, I don't like that.
That is not a good person. That's not someone you want to be
with, like exactly, he's not a good person. So in the beginning
I was like self sabotage talking seeing what was up already, was like,
this person is probably seeing somebody else. Yeah, I enter based pagees private.
So that kept me from the self sabotage. But if it wasn't I
probably wouldn't on that bitch. But it took a like I had to really
be like I don't know him, like move on, to be honest for
having to me dead to me? And what was what did you say?
No? No, no, I don't stop? Did She was like it
was a really good song, but it was basically to get over someone else,
get under someone else. Oh yeah, I love that. I love
that. So did you get under someone eventually? But not to get over
it. I feel like sex needs to be enjoyed and a lot of times,
I'm not saying for everyone, but a lot of times when you are
just looking up with someone to get over someone else, it makes it worse
because you'll go hook up, especially if the sex ends up being bad,
You're gonna go back home, like, oh my god, I'm really more
sad about the situation. I really wanted to because I'm like, you know
what, that will really like, I will forget this man's forever if I
distract. Yeah, distraction. But it didn't happen, and I think the
universe was like, girl, you don't need that. You need to like
yes, solidarity, solidary. Yes. So really just had it was like
a mental daily battle. I'm like, this guy is shitty. Like I
had to repeat that. I had to repeat that to myself. Yeah,
every single day. Remember who you are, bitch exactly, that bitch exactly.
It's a whole situational But like if you've been talking for someone a while,
like I'm very big on like letting yourself feel things like if you're sad,
I can be sad. Don't be like, oh I'm not sad because
the it's gonna bite you in the ass. But when someone goes to they're
dead, any ghost the ghosting or the end of any relationship. But I
feel like you cannot exist to me, like how being someone being private?
Like I've been blocked. And at first I was so sad. Nor was
I was hurt. I was hurt, but the month, no more more
than a month, I was hurt. After a while, though, I
was like, man, I'm them. Blocking me was like the best thing,
because yeah, I can't, I can't to separate yourself, you will
walk through that door, yes, I think, especially more so I guess
with relationships. But it's easier with the ghosting because like usually I will say,
ghosting happens when it's like a shorter period of time. Hopefully it's some
shit that happens in the beginning. He step, it's a relationships territory.
Then that's just like a terrible fucking person, you know what I mean.
But one day, like we've all been down bad before, and then there's
that one magical day you just wake up and you're like, oh shit,
I don't care anymore. And it's so like when you truly don't, when
you're like downline yourself and you're like, oh shit, and then like you
laugh about it, like damn, I was really dawn bad about that looking
back at yourself, like crying, looking back reading my journal entries on it,
I'm like crame, like, okay, you're crazy, babes. Okay,
not your journal entries. I love that. That's a little fitness bag.
I was like these feeling because I don't even have them anymore. Exactly
like this poor ass man good It's like what, yeah, yes, feel
those feelings. Yeah I felt it, felt it, felt it, over
it, and now I'm in a better place. Yes, you will get
there, just they are dead to you. But I would like to say,
if you are thinking about ghosting, like ghosting someone, just why why
don't people just be like it was a fun time, Thank you so much.
I'm onto the next. Yeah, obviously, like in nicer terms,
but like I've been pretty good at that too, someone like if we've been
hooking up for when I am over you, I'm like I was just like,
hey, I don't think we should see each anymore. Yeah, it's
that simple. It's so freaking simple, like shout, but right, isn't
that so much better? Like it'll hurt to hear, but I feel like
it's better than being ghosted. Well, and for me, I feel like
it's easier on my end because it's like I really don't want to hear from
you anymore. So like I hope I make myself so clear in a nice
way because I want to be an asshole, like you should stop texting me.
Can I ask a question about differently different types of ghosting? Because I've
been trying to think if I'm a guilty ghost or like, so that's what
I want to know. That's what I want to know because a lot not
a lot, this is all the past life. I'd just like to say,
yeah, their goals, but she's everything. I love her, but
this is a past life. And I was just like, I know things
aren't going to keep going, so start backing out a little bit slowly and
slowly, and then it's like when I do stop responding, it's like this
was coming right? Is that is that considered a ghost? Like maybe my
responses start getting a little bit drier and maybe it starts taking a little bit
longer to respond. It's like a slow go I guess because I feel like
that's very natural in a like relate it's like, oh yeah, like he
stopped tech. Like you know when those Good Morning Tech stop. I will
say that I felt felt on the other end, like they could tell felt
I see I see what's going on, and like they see what's going on,
so they like are antiusipating it. It's kind of like when you run
over a bunny and you see him slowly dying and it's like, should I
just put the bullet in this money and to stop it from dying this terrible
death, or should You're not running over the bunny. You're leaving him there
to suffer and die a terrible death. That's what you're doing. You're not
taking me out of my misery. I guess you're like you're kind of prolonging
it, right because because I guess it leaves the other person to hope that
you're gonna get it together. I'm not that's good to hear though. On
the other end, it's just feel like there's it's a great area, Like
yeah, a lot of I feel like, I don't know, I don't
want to speak for all girls in general, but like I feel like there
is room for like the mind to like roam to places like what if this?
What if that's true? It could go there, but I don't know,
like maybe I should wait, maybe not, And that's where it like
goes crazy in your mind. In a perfect world, we're open and we
communicate and we like voice our needs, but we're all kind of scared to
tell everybody what we want, like the honest truth of what we want.
So I think that's where it was coming from. But you probably should have
been like, actually, this is not what I want. But then but
we all kind of I feel like we all kind of do like, Okay,
we're just a little bit dryer. We're a little bit drier, and
so we're the fucking hear does Yeah, now, I I'll think about it.
I think it is better just to be more drag. I guess it
depends on how much you respect that person honestly when it comes down to right,
because I feel like I've been the shitty person I guess in that situation.
But I feel like I don't owe that person and explanation because our relationship
was never I've never shown that person signs of it being anywhere near serious,
Like I've never agreed to go on dates with you when you've asked. I
don't text you. We don't really talk like that. I'm not sure if
I even really like you, you know. So when that situation, it
truly comes to a place of I don't want to speak with you like at
all at all. I just feel like I don't need to explain myself because
there's nothing to explain, Like I showed you all signs. We both know
this was literally nothing, So what is the point of me even sending this
text to like and nicely like it's like I could I just kind of scattleway
and not hit you up to hook up, like if it's truly like just
sex and like we don't really have that connection. But I think if you
do have some kind of connection with someone and they're texting you and like now
you're just like, oh, I'm gonna be dry with my text, I
think it's just better to be direct because exactly like how girls sinc like,
if we really like you and we're not used to you being distant when that
does come, maybe we are in a place where we're ready to give you
one hundred excuses. And sometimes the person it really is not that like people
go through shit like oh, actually it's not because I wasn't texting because I
might into you, like I don't know, someone just died, or like
I have that I'm dealing with depression, or if I can lost my job,
like I don't know, it could be anything, or maybe I am
talking to someone, but I still want to keep you around because I'm going
to come back to you. Don't you worry anything. So we run that
through our head, like I guess you're putting me in a position where I
need to decide if I need to cut you off, and maybe I'm not
ready to do that, you know what I mean, Like it's just it's
putting too much out there. I think if there is connection, he said,
you should, I need facts. But sometimes every once in a while
we're putting positions where it's not that easy. So I feel like it's best
to be direct. But if you weren't giving them anything to begin with you,
they don't really you don't we all just like fucking or was it like,
uh, we were went on dates, you took her out, you
dining with the GM smiley face, we lost He's an I would also like
to say that I like prefaced, we were nothing serious. We didn't go
on like official dates necessarily okay, not public, but we kicked what do
you mean we kicked it and like yeah, like you know, we'll go
smoke or something. But but yeah that hey you got a last time,
let's go half so no no public? Like do you feel bad a little
bit? Yeah? I think I've always kind of felt bad though. I
think I've always just been trying to like tell myself, like no, I
mean, let's let's call her, let's get her a ring ghost, come
fly ghost like friendly. So yeah, circling back to just like if you
expect the person enough, like just be direct. The best thing I told
myself to try to get over my guilt and make not even get over my
guilt, to push away my guilt and hide from it altogether. You tell
yourself that I may not have been open at the end, but I was
very clear and open at the beginning, like I did go into it.
I was like, hey, this isn't a relationship. I'm not looking for
that. I don't want it to go past this. Yeah, that's that.
And then so does that make me told her? So you told her
at the beginning. Yeah, I guess that's no, that's totally fair.
And I think, like I think you girls and guys, No, girls,
guys, I think you do need to believe people when they say that.
I think a lot of times the other person will be like, oh
why I can change that, yeah, or like this might go somewhere else.
Yeah, so that's hard. But I will say, when you start
doing shit that is not a little more serious, like that's not cool either.
Don't tell me we're not doing anything. And now you got me if
I did meet a family barbecues, you know what I mean, Like there's
people who do that too, and then be like, well, I told
you, remember three months ago, I told you before put that ring on
your finger, I told you it's not the serious And now I'm the bad
guy. Like yeah, you are the bad guy. You set the proper
expectation. So yeah, I guess that's fine. Set the expectations at the
beginning, you know. See, that's that's another topic. Let me tell
you another quick story while we're on that. My trainer she had a boyfriend
and they were like manet us at this bar, like we want to go
out, you should come by, And I was like, okay, I'll
stop by. I had a long day it work, and he had a
friend, but I was not into his friend. And he was like you
know that, me was the guy like screaming out the girl in the club.
It was given those ve like we're at the Dirt Bird and the music's
blasting and you're trying to have a conversation with me, Like no, I
can't hear you. This is not the time I just got off work.
Like they're like drunkard than me. Too. It's like I'm not even there.
But then I had a couple more drinks, music went down, We're
in a little loungeery and I'm talking to him. We end up vibing my
CM on a couple more occasions. We're hooking up and I have his number.
Okay, we only hooked up one time, and I want to continue
hooking up with him. So I text him just like hey, what's up,
blah blah blah. I'm trying get him the pop for the next weekend.
And he did text me right away. Well, first he was texting
me whatever whatever, and then he did message me something about like yeah,
like, hey, just want to let you know I just got a long
relationship. We do not like it for anything serious. I don't know.
Maybe I'm crazy, because now that I'm explaining it, explaining it to you
guys, it doesn't sound that bad. But originally when I read that,
I was just a little confused, like I can't be rude and be like
can we still fuck? Though? Like like I was like, what are
you saying here? I okay, and men are simple. Yes, you
could say that and it would be like, yes, that's the end of
that. Okay, So I am a very big fan of early the talks,
Like what are we talks? I'm like, yeah, no, I'm
saying that straight right now. Yeah, there is no way you could get
this far down the road because I told you that this was over here from
the very beginning. So okay, want to have sex without feeling guilty too,
Like he's like sex two weekends in a row is okay, it wasn't
the very next weekend. I don't know. I just hate the rules and
having that what are we conversation? Right away? Can we not talk about
wanting relationships? Not wanting relationships? What do you like? Even if if
he would ask me, like what are you looking for? Like but I
don't know, Like I just don't want to have sex with you a busy
Saturday night, yeah literally, and like I just don't want to. I
don't know. I guess I'm very like go with the flow. So like
when we start talking about I guess to me, it's like it's making it
not fun right away, right, But I feel like you no, I
get it, Like yeah, I'm just thinking like with the guys, it's
like you on the top or bottom, Like it's like straight to it and
straight to it and the relationship just kind of happens near the end anyways.
Yeah, I mean ideally, I just feel like there's other ways to let
someone know where you stand or where you're at without having to like verbally talk
about it, Like your actions are gonna show in the beginning at least if
we're if you're not asking me on dates exactly, if I'm only hitting you
up on Saturdays or on weeknights or past a certain hour, like we already
know what it is in the beginning. I don't know. I just feel
like it takes the fun out of it. I feel like after the first
time, like it's a little like too like after the next time, maybe,
like maybe like I don't care that you just got a relationship. I
guess that's the other part I was annoyed with too, Like I didn't ask
you and you didn't ask me, bitch, Like did I did? I
ask you what you're going through? You did? And I hear your side
it's like I'm just trying to be noble. But I guess for me,
it's also like I feel like when you say that, you're assuming that I
want that. Yeah, right, so now I feel like you're oversharing and
you need to get over yourself, you know what I mean? All my
bases here. Yeah, you want to like see what if you guys want
to Maybe it's like you want to see if you guys are on the same
page. You know, like maybe it should have been an approach a different
way, like, hey, I just want sex? Do you just want
sex? O? Way cool? Because I don't want a relationship right now,
you know, like maybe sometime later on. But but even that,
even though maybe they he had like a hard opinion like I don't want a
relationship, but I just want to fuck because she's pretty, you know what
I mean. Yeah, it's kind of a little bit of dog behavior but
fun. Also, it may take away a little bit from the fun,
but if y'all both are on the same page, then it's guaranteed fun with
guaranteed no drama. Oh I'm into that. Yeah. So it's like,
you know, let's just let's and if it doesn't work for you and that
you do take it the wrong way, then hey, that's what that is.
Then at least we figured that out now and not from now when you're
knocking at my door right right, you don't want to we don't want to
read between the line. Yeah, I guess crazy me in the back of
head, I'm just like, well, let's not take off you fall in
love with me off the table completely? Yeah, you with me or not?
Yeah? Like yeah, but maybe you don't. You just want it
to be purely physical. And that's okay too. How do you know saying
it's not really your sualtmate and you don't know that's your saltmate, but right
away you're like, hey, but I want nothing to do with you.
Okay, that's aggress that's an aggressive example, and that's not always going to
be the case. But I'm just saying I feel like at the very beginning,
like first hookup or first high by name, either of us, neither
of us don't know shit. So can we just wait to have that conversation?
No, now that conversation has feelings. If we have this conversation,
now, there's no feelings in this conversation, m that's my thing. No,
that's that's a good point. Gotta be there. There's some crazy bitches
out there, there's some crazy guys too, and like I might hate you
tomorrow, like I might. I don't know anything about you, so I
just have my little Dululu head a little person I like thought up so I
could like continue sleeping with you. I convince myself you're a good person enough
for me to hook up with you and like share my body with you.
And then, like you know, once you start talking to someone a little
bit too much, just like oftentimes if you're just tucking up with someone or
just talking to someone, eventually you get to know this person and you decide
if you like them or not. Okay, But like I feel like if
somebody were to approach me and be like after the first time, second time,
whatever, like what like this is what it is, Like, it's
just what it is, I would red flag. No, I feel the
moment, I would agree because that's what it is in that moment down the
line. But down the line gets to be okay else in the culture,
then we have to revisit. Sure we are cross my figures. Yeah,
thanks for you winked, right, what I'm okay, that's what it is.
And if something happens in the future, then that's like another thing to
conquer. Yeah, first comes love, then comes marriage, baby Carris,
that's what you said, right, stupid? How many Yeah, I guess
it's good to be open. I just feel like, be honest and open.
Do you know what you want? Yeah, in the end, at
that moment, that's what okay, person, I'm saying that because even on
the other end, I don't like when people right away like I mean,
I guess it's good to know if you're looking for a relationship, But at
the same time, like say I am and you ask me on date and
you're not even someone that just looking hook out, but you do ask me,
Hey, what are you looking to be in a relationship? And I'm
like, yeah, Like I feel like that's even a trap question because it's
like, well, that doesn't mean with you though, And like sometimes people
get scared You're like, oh, she's looking at relationship, but it's like
I don't even know if I like you, like we're on this date.
I think it's a good question. I think it's a good question. You
are you do want a relationship and you could say that it doesn't have to
necessarily be with you, but I know in the future, like I do
want to be with someone. I want to like, you know, plant
my seed or whatever, like I want to be you know, put my
roots in the ground with someone Yes, yeah, that's a good question,
you know, or just like I actually do I want to be an absolute
horror right now for the next two years because I just got a relationship and
no, I'm gonna like just be the biggest slut ever. Are you cool
with that? Because I'm gonna be You're gonna get tested. I'm gonna tested,
and we're gonna be like fucking looking like rabbits. I do feel like
people get scared though, like, yeah, people will totally get scared or
like beat on the chest. Yeah, I mean, I guess it's fair
to like let someone know if you're emotionally unavailable. Wow, there we go,
Yeah, wrap it up, wrap this up. That was it.
I feel like emotions is like the topic, like yeah, it boils down
to like the emotions of it. Yes, and yeah, you can let
me know where you're at in the moment. But for me, I'm just
like the universe and us this is so much bigger. But you don't know
what's gonna happen tomorrow, So don't tell me your little plans because you don't
know and I don't know. Okay, That's all I'm saying. And also
that could just be like they're being like putting their poker face on, like,
h yeah, you know, I'm just trying to fuck but you know,
you know, men are sensitive. Boys girls are sensitive too, you
know. Either way, you could say that like, oh, that's not
what I want, but deep down everyone wants to be loved, right,
yeah, I don't want loved loved. It's good to hear the guys want
to be yellow more boys in the podcast. I don't know what you're talking.
Is one of my only guy friends who gives me sound advice. And
you're pretty sound, you're pretty well accept the offer to be on the podcast
again. Okay, every way back to the city then yeah, beautiful.
Let them know. And at the end that I think that's what we've all.
Yes, every day, I got a temperature. Every day's next morning,
tophone out, Yeah, yeah have Actually should I say this? Yes?
Say it? Say yeah, face it's a family member close to me.
Okay, we got it. But they just got out of a long
relationship and they just got into a new relationship and they're kind of like,
I'm just not ready to like get married again or whatever. And the partner
rolls over and says, babe to my family and They said, babe,
babe, do you want to get married? And my family member says,
Mary had a little lamb that's like in my or something like the worst movie,
like baby, you want to get married? Mary had a little to
me like myself get up red flag or red poster or red ball, Oh
my little did you recite nurseries to me? Did your family member tell you
this or did the family member together remember yes, and we love them?
I love her, love her? Oh her sin is just a jokester,
just a real jokes Did you feel that like he was just married to though?
Yeah, he just marriage a long time. Did the partner want clarification?
Honestly, I just got the funny joke of the story, and that
was This wasn't though, like a proposal though, This wasn't like a down
on my knee? Will you marry me? You want to? I like
was always asking and stuff. I don't want to get too deep into it
because it's a little personal. And my family member does listen to the podcast.
Oh my god. They they told me O the days they're like,
you're you're talking about me the other day on the podcast or not really?
But I said, but I said, because I was saying, like,
oh, this person when whenever they go on trips they bring me a t
shirts of like here's my here's my can coon. But that you didn't go
shirt. I heard you talking about that on the podcast. I was like,
oh, yeah, give me better guests, like so much shot glass
or something. Anyways, honestly, I want to know, like where did
it go after that, because I don't know, funny, that is hilarious,
it's hilarious. I need to know the rest of the story. My
family member is just a super funny guy, and I don't know, but
they're still together and I love her. Maybe she probably understood his exactly.
I think it was just that it was because if somebody said that to me,
yeah, I think they will eventually one day get married get married.
But like I said, like, my family member just got out really like
a ten years something like that. But yeah, so that's just a nice
funny story of today. Mary had a little Yeah. I guess o'ver all.
It's just important to know what you want, and I think I'm someone
who totally doesn't like I know, I want to be single right now.
I love the space I created for myself mentally, physically, I look at
my apartment, that is a woman's apartment. I don't want no man a
living or touching anything in there. Yeah, and like, I love not
checking in with someone, and I feel like that's something that just comes natural.
There's nothing wrong with it. I think it's a beautiful thing. You
want to know what they're doing. But I feel like when I got out
my first relationship, I really fell in love with the freedom part, Like
wow, I'm at the sushi restaurant and no one knows I'm here, or
like you may you ask me for plans, I'm gonna check in to see
if this person, Like I really fell in love with that and never really
fell out of love with it. I mean, I even get mad when
my friends do it. I'm not a relationship because of those reasons. I'm
not gonna take it from my buddy all pal. So there is a lot
that I love about being single and what comes with it. But on the
other hand, I don't like the streets. I'm over the streets, and
I hope I have the courage to like not turn away my soulmate if that
is ever in front of me. I don't know, I don't know what
I want I'm a mess. I actually don't know what I want. I'm
down to being fall in love. I'm also down to be single for the
rest of my life. So I feel like that being down to be single
for the rest of your life is the best way to find a relationship.
Yeah, because you gotta you have to be able to find that piece and
like know that piece that you could bring yourself and be like that means you
have to beat this because this right over here a great time and if you
come down here and lower this, then it's not going to work for you.
Exactly perfectly said. So if you're single, stay single forever as long
as you can hold on to it. Love it. Don't tell someone what
you want on the first date. Okay to say that, I'm in a
happy relationship right now. So yeah, cou up to Carmel. We love
you too, Carmel on the podcast now. Yes, And if you are
being ghosted and you're feeling really down about it, bitch, what I need
you to do right now is dead go. Yeah, he's dead to you.
Go to your local supermarket, hit up aisle three, pick up some
self esteem for free ninety nine. That person is dead to you. Cremated
and we're not bringing them back to life. There will be no reincarnation,
not here. You're dead forever, wipe off the face of the planet.
No social security, no nothing, no record of him, like, there's
no record, like he's gone. Alrightp you's got no one knows him,
No one knows him. That's what you gotta do. He doesn't exist.
Yeah, and you will see the light down the tunnel and you will be
oh, okay, surround yourself with you like just the free Yeah, And
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