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Just test tests perfect. What's up? Guess who's Vizzac? Back back back

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again. Our last episode was October
twentieth. Boo, wow, it's it

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called a New Year's break. But
twenty twenty four, we're here, We're

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back. I'm Angelina. If you
forgot my name, this is for the

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record. We have some special guest
with this. Well, Chris isn't special?

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Is special? Hey? Everyone?
But you know him? This is

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Chris. You have two new movies. What's going on? Everybody? It's

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JD what everybody is? Sleek the
freak? Angel what's you might know me?

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If you've ever seen Angelina's TikTok lives, Oh love that. They're big

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fans of Angelique when she comes down
there like Angelina, who the freak?

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Though it's looking like her Instagram name, it's my TikTok name. Okay okay,

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okay, okay, wow. My
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freak. My mom calls you like
the freak. My mom said stas with

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Angelique every time she My Mom's like, I just love Angela. She's just

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always living her best life. We
message on Instagram DM all the time.

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Oh she likes my stories. I
like her stories. Like we're tight.

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They're like this, if you don't
see you can't see my fingers, but

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like they're crossed. Yes, okay, And this week's episode and for the

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culture, we're talking about Oscar nominations
and Oscar snubs, and let's talk TV

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the Iron Claw and the Gypsy Army, and in bitch Oh, we're talking

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about a sensitive topic, ghosting.
So by all means, let's get to

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it. This is for the culture, for the culture, for the culture.

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This is where we pick a headline
and ask if the A, she

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or he did it for the culture, if you guys missed it. Oscar

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nominations are out right, and the
Oscars do you call them? The Academy?

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Yes, yes, the Academy selected, right, the Academy picked Yes,

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the Academy decided we're going to do
the funniest thing. And he's like,

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there's this really popular movie that damn
near single handedly saved movie theaters last

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year, broke box office records and
was all about the patriarchy. How about

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we have nominations to the only veil
in the movie. I didn't know that.

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You want to hear a hot take
everybody? Yes? Oh yeah,

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hold on, so well, let
me just if you don't know. We're

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talking about Greta Gerwig and Margot Robbie
got zero nominations America for ever did though

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she did? Oh yes, Best
Porting Actor? And Ryan Gosling he got

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one. What is it for Best
Supporting Actor, Best Actor? Yes?

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Yes, yes? What's your hot
take? Angela can tear it? Because

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I have a few t o.
I haven't seen it, That's okay.

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I just feel like I have not
say it's trash or something. Okay,

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she hasn't seen it, It's okay, it's okay. Nor do I want

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to read a bow? Wow?
Why don't you want to see it?

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Isn't that I don't want to.
It's like when it came out in theaters,

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I was like, okay, I'll
just wait for when it's streaming.

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Okay, And now that is every
time a long HBO it's like, don't

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you want to watch Barbie? I'm
like, I don't really know. I

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don't know why. Okay, Okay, watching the movie. You gotta be

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in the mood to watch a new
movie, you know. Like I'm someone

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I watched comfort movies all day.
I watch the same movie over and over

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again. I'll be honest, I
saw it in theaters. I was like,

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wow, amazing, and then I
did try to watch it again at

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home and I was like, this
is kind of long. That's kind of

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long, but it is still great
movie. There's I haven't watched the movie.

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I'll start off with that. But
there was only one time that I

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almost did, and it was when
I was on a plane because it was

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on the there were showing Barbie on
the plane Southwest. You can log into

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the thing, and that's the best
time to catch up on a movie.

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I see some fire movies. My
first time on a plane, I did

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watch a couple of movies, but
I did not watch that. But I'm

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not gonna lie, and it was
it was out of embarrassment. I don't

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want to wow, you know,
because it would have been time to land.

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He would been clipping up his stairs, like right, I was just

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watching. No, I was watching
Barbie Bitch. I heard people was crying.

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Yeah, it was really beautiful.
Yeah, the end made me cry.

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Maybe I should want Oh, yeah, maybe you should. No,

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but we've be cussing all day on
this podcast. Sorry, it's good.

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Yeah, it's good. That's the
last segment. Okay, So in the

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beginning, when the headlines came out, like obviously that's super ironic. It

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is fucked up. What the fuck
are you guys doing? The Academy get

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it together? But I feel like
the discourse now like people are a little

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overdoing it. Yeah, like why
feminists touch some grass or something something funny

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that I saw Woody Goldberg come out
and say. She was like about them

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not getting it. She said,
okay, well white women don't shouldn't get

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everything they want. And I was
like, okay, we'll be hot,

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motherfucking take on the view. It
was kind of funny. But and then

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okay, I need to see the
list of the other like actors. I

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guess I'm in the Okay, we'll
say for Margo's. I didn't watch any

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of those other fucking movies. It
was like Emma Stone, hold up up,

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poor thing, I do you want
to see? I do want to

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see poor things. I do want
to see poor things? Is that that

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amaztone one? Yeah? Yeah?
See. I don't you pull it up

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because I don't even know what's type
in what was a nomination like best Actress,

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yes, best actress, oscar no
another thing. I feel like the

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discourse is starting to go we Ryan
been Gossling. We need to put some

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respect on him because people are trying
to act like like he doesn't deserve like

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he is a beloved actor since nineteen
ninety seven. And when Barbie came out,

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we did a review on it and
I even said, I hate to

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say this because I know the movie
is about you know, all women fucked

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the patriarchy, But I will say, like, Ryan Gosling totally stole the

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show for me, Like I was
waiting for him to pop up. He's

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had me dying laughing, Like I
would say he was a best supporting actor.

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Margo definitely. I mean Margo not
only like led like I heard she

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like damn near help put this whole
shit together. So like she I think

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she should have for sure got something. But it's not the end of the

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world. And I feel like people
it's to the point where like America Fair

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won't even get like her flowers for
it because if she gets interviewed, they

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just want to bring up how Brenda
and take away from her. Yeah,

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it is really extremely ironic that Ryan
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but at least Billie Eilish did for
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and Phineas for best song in the
movie. Yeah, a movie. I

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love that song. It's so sad. No, it is a beautiful as

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song. Yeah. I was gonna
say one more thing, but I forgot.

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Oh wait, shout out Steven Vendez, Ryan Gosling's wife and baby mama.

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He's really winning. Wait you didn't
know that? No? Okay,

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I just had another friend who just
found that out. Also, I guess

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a lot of people don't know that
Ryan's really winning. Did Ryan Gosling and

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Ava Mendez? I thought that one
skinny white girl actress. No, no,

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a different actor whoa holy ship?
They have like two kids together?

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Whoa Anyway, she posted with the
receipts like I don't think I didn't forget

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you guys hated on my man when
it was announced that he was gonna be

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ken and she put like a photo
dump of all the critics talking ship and

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she's like this, Barbie is proud
of her. Can let's go yeah put

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some period, but yeah, overall, Oscars are not doing it for the

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culture. Would leads us to our
next segment, Let's talk TV, because

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you know who did get snubbed?
Zach? Did you guys see the iron

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Claw. No, I'm still a
ressed, you guys. This past week,

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I keep saying the white Claw of
the movie conversations, I accidentally said

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the white clothes so good. I
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like on air. No, No, at least I don't think I did.

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Sometimes I feel like he's like out
on air. It's a warm drinking.

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I love the cherry. Iron Claw
was so good. I watched a

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lot of wrestling growing up, but
that's actually what is it on Eric's way

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before my time, So I actually
did not know about it other than like

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what other people have told me.
But I took my little sister, who

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also used to be really into wrestling, and she knew nothing about the story

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at all, and I already knew
what it was going to be about.

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So like ten minutes in, she
like leans to me and she's like,

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Angelina, I love this movie so
much already, And I said, oh,

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you just wait, sister. In
my head, honey, And honestly,

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I was aug the whole movie,
I thought, because in my head,

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like leading up, I was like, I'm ready to cry my eyes

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so I'm gonna be crying right away. It was like Daniel the end of

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the movie. I'm like, bitch, I'm a thug. Like the first

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brother dead. I was like,
okay, one down, second one,

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two down, Okay, spoiler everyone
hold on if no one has this podcast,

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though, we always so everybody for
you, you guys, sorry,

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sorry for you, Sorry for your
true story. I looked them up.

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Yeah, it's about these wrestling legends
and uh there's a saying that they're cursed

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because they just keep dying in their
family, like all the brothers literally died.

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First of all, there are actually
six brothers, but in the movie

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they only show five because the sixth
death was too gruesome or horrifying or traumatic.

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Let the whole out. Honestly,
though, I was when I was

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watching the movie, I was like, Okay, I don't know if it

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was a great movie, but my
only like little cons I had like two.

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I was like, I can't tell
if there was pacing issues or if

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that's just a hard thing, Like
how do you make a movie of like

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six people dying back to back,
you know what I mean? Yeah.

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Yeah, So it's like the first
half of the movie and then it happened

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for the rest of the second half
of the movie was like boom, boom

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boom, boom boom. Have you
guys seen the Last Dance documentary Michael Jordan,

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someone put the brother Chris how he
didn't make it in the movie,

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with Isaiah Thomas saying I met the
criteria, like the fifth brother I should

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have been in the movie. What
was the sixth brother? Why wasn't he

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in it? He committed Well,
we also committed suicide, like three of

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them did. Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, So I don't I don't

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really know. But but when we
were coming out of the movie theater,

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like literally the lady who was like
gave us the popcorn, we were like

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talking to her about it. She
was like, yeah, and there was

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a six brother, Like, I
don't know. We first of all,

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like at the end of the movie
you could all hear everybody sniffling in the

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fucking theater and just one girl kind
of like kind of let it out.

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And then we once won, we
all. I was like, I have

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never cried so hard in a movie, and like we was looking at my

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friend like this is fucked up,
this is not okay, this is story,

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Like how do you wrap your mind
around that? So I didn't know

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about the missing brother until like right
when we got home. My sister watched

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the Dark Side of the Ring watch
but it's all so streaming on Netflix.

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Yes, so they have an episode
so it's like a little more true story.

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But I don't know. I feel
like the documentary made the dad look

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like a good person, and I
don't know if he's that great of a

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person. Wait the documentary of the
movie. The documentary, Oh yeah,

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because the movie he's a jackass,
fuck that Dade pushing his kids to do

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ship and then they all die and
kill himselves and he's still like, Okay,

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that's the definition of toxic Maxillately,
they just suck it up a little.

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So there's a scene where, like
the funeral, they're at the funeral

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like just wrapped up, and he's
like, all right, so who's gonna

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step up the final goal against bites. The dad's acting it was a little

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cheesy, a little corny. I
feel like he was just kind of like

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so, I thought it's a good
I think it was his his his role

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was to like be the narrator.
I don't know, he was like sewing

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the pieces together. I don't know. He seemed a little cheesy for me,

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but just Jeremy Allen white too.
Just started watching The Man. He's

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in it. He played with one
of the brothers and he does really good.

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Yeah, he really does a good
job of dying. The one that

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who dies, I don't know his
name. That's trivia questions. I don't

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know. The kid that played David
to the younger brother did really good.

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All of the brothers did really good. My only complaint of who was not

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great was the guy that played Rig
Flair. He was not Ric Flaren and

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I feel like it was like a
Mexican dude. Uh that's that's the no.

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I don't know. I mean,
he's the opponent, right, he's

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like the really kind of kind of
First of all, wrestling is so gay.

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I just have to say, I'm
like sorry, like the outfits man

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literally men wanting to like touch other
men and like put like like jump on

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each other. It was like okay. Also though, also though, something

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I was thinking of was like this
is this is a chance for men to

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like come out and create it's drag
like to create a character and put on

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a costume and uh like perform,
you know, like I'm saying it's gay,

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like I'm being funny. I'm being
and being funny but their performers sling

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is not gay. That's good.
I'm gay. I can say, oh

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my goodness, it is not.
But yeah, that's my only complaint is

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Rick Flair was not Rick Flaring,
and then like maybe the pacing a little

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bit, but yeah, I will
say I was a thug. I didn't

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cry the whole time until the very
last scene. Zachn you bitch, he

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got no no, but he just
his acting is just really good. And

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there's the end scene like he really
speaking of he just got his star on

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the Hollywood Walk of Fames. What
someone told me that better fact check that

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ship out? Yeah, because well, I don't know, like I heard,

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it's like not as big as it
used to be like before. Yeah,

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like Michael Jackson sure didn't pay for
his, but Macaulay Culkin just got

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his, Like he's been famous since. Do you think he paid for his?

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I need to know he hasn't done
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Yeah, check that one. Yeah
when it was a talk back and put

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it in the comments if people do
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the Walk Fame, will Hall of
Fames, Hall of Fame, Hall of

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Fame, and walk Wait did you
guys Okay, I know it's a little

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late, but like Gypsy Rose,
she could watched the act I did.

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That was fucked. What happened?
Oh my god, I didn't see it.

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It's a documentary about her. It's
literally just short story version, short

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version. First of all, they
made an eight series reenact eight episode series

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reenactment, and it's an hour episode
was eight hours. I literally watched the

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first four episodes, went to bed, woke up and watched the second.

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So it was a bad little Girl
and the little girl was told that she

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was sick. Okay, this is
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her mom told her that she was
sick, that she had cancer, that

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she had leukemia, so she would
shave her head and she was a biscuit

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in the wheelchair. You can't walk, and the little girl was kind of

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like, yeah, I can,
and she was like, no, you

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can't. And she was like,
okay, we're gonna put a feeding tube

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in you, and then we're gonna
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make you feel like you're actually sick, bitch, and basically just like made

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this little girl crippled even though she
wasn't. And at the end of the

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day, she meets this guy online
has a boyfriend, and the boyfriend comes

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and murders the mom. Yep.
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and they made a fucking series about
it on Hulu. Yes. Yeah,

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familiar with the story because like I
had a you know, all the means

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and stuff, because she recently came
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yeah, she's free. And now
there's a new documentary on Lifetime. It's

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like a six part series. I
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Gypsy Rose The Prison Confessions, and
it's like her, you're so invested,

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Oh my god. No. I
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documentary. I bought that shit for
three dollars and once I watched that,

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it was like that was like an
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okay, I can invest an hour
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okay, funk, I gotta watch
the eight episode eight hour whatever.

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and like, yeah, I guess
she was like their document documentary. People

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were coming in and I don't know, getting her story, getting her side

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of the story and while she's in
prison and anyway that she was motherfucking crazy

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and because you know why, I
was so annoy sing that little bitches name

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on my phone like on every single
I don't care. She was turning for

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like a minute, Guess who cares? Guess who cares? Now, I'm

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like no, it comes like Gypsy
Army. I cannot like, oh she's

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but like she's not. She's walking. She talks in like TikTok language.

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It was long term damage she did
to get addicted to like prescription drugs.

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So she's like whom like joined the
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I think I don't know if she's
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but literally just followed her, following
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and you know she just like she
like goes to like she's like it's

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the little thing. She's like,
I really want to go to Times Square

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and buy an iHeart n Y T
shirt Like that's the thing, Like she

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love it. She literally she was
locked away in her house for like nineteen

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years and then and then when the
girl turned eighteen, when the girl turned

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those shirt, her mom changed her
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So she's like, happy birthday,
you're fourteen, and she was like,

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Hoda, that don't sound right.
She was like, no, bitch,

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you're fourteen, but she was actually
like eighteen or something. Yeah,

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her lies to be honest. Yeah, I feel like she got to point

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where it's the longest gaslight ever yet
literally didn't like she didn't know about the

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Yes, yes, okay, what
if plotswis she didn't? Is there like

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any conspiracy theories that like they actually
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what if she just killed her mom
and it is a bad person, you

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know, her boyfriend her boyfriend killed
them. Oh yeah, like and that

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was the whole thing too. No, he no, he's going to he's

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going to prison for life. He
went to prison for life. So this

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and she went to prison for eight
years. She's like, I just said

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the word. I was just a
messenger. Yeah, yeah, I said

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he didn't have to do it.
Yeah. I met this guy on Christian

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Mingle dot com. And then the
boyfriend he had like multiple personalities and his

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like five hundred year old murderer vampire
personality was the one who was going to

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murder them all. Yeah, so
he was. She was like, honey,

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can you have She was like,
it's just an idea. Yeah,

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I forgot what I need to talk
to him literally, and he was like,

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yeah, fucking murder her mom.
Oh and them she fell a bad

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murdering her mom. She's like,
so I want I want someone to find

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her. So then they put on
her shared Facebook page with her mom and

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said we killed the bitch. And
the post is still up. You can

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you can google it. It's still
up. You can see the post we

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killed the bitch. So Gypsy Rose
and the boyfriend want a day or two

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later because she felt bad about murdering
the mosse. How we're going to get

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someone to find her dead body because
I feel bad and I don't want her

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just like dying in the house.
Okay, well like pretend like maybe this.

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Yeah, we'll pretend we're the murder
and it's not us. But we'll

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just go on the facebook page and
say we murder killed that base. Yeah

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yeah. And then they tracked the
ship to the boyfriend's house and the swat

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team came in. He addresses everyone, everything is tracked. Do not do

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anything crazy if you don't want to
get caught. Literally, said bitch if

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you wanted to go to Tailor's,
just tell a brother you want to go

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to Taylor's. You said that.
Oh hell yeah, man, I laid

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it out right, I said,
I said, I says, I said,

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bitch, bitch. A quick reminder, because it's been a little break.

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If you ever helped change my diaper
or know me when I was in

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diapers, mothers, fathers, aunts, uncles, it's time to turn the

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podcast off. You're not you're not
allowed to listen to the segment. Ever.

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I'm not gonna warn you every single
time I want you hear that,

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bitch, it's time to go,
go away, go away. Let's you

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want to hear some things you don't
want to hear. Okay, little story

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timing, guys. Okay, I'm
not gonna say all details, but okay

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say it. Yeah. So,
me and my good friend Christina, we

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went to this little bar that's nearby
both of our play cases, and we

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sat at the bar. No,
absolutely not. But it's in between Hayward

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and San Francisco CIEs. No,
I don't think you do. It's not

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what you're thinking. It's not one
that we usually go to at least anyways.

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Yes, okay, we went and
sat at the bar, and there

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was two really cute bartenders, but
one of my thought was like super super

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cute. They were kind of talking
to us, but I think the one

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that I thought was like extra cute
kind of did mention eventually that he had

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a girlfriend or something. Yeah,
that means stop, I'm just saying terrible,

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terrible, terrible stop that time.
I'm not. I don't think he

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the first time. I don't think
I knew about his girlfriend. But anyways,

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just that guy's tell a fine whatever. Cared all live in our lives.

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A couple of weeks maybe months go
by, and my friend Christina,

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her friend ended up getting a second
job at that place, and I was

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a sudden I was like, oh, tell we gotta give him a nickname.

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That's his name, gonna be Bob
because I do have a nickname.

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And then it kind of gives away
what the restaurant is, sports sports bar.

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I call him, we call him
they. Okay, let's just stick

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to that for the record. I
don't know the bar. I'm just okay,

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great, something that's not think of
it. So I was telling the

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friend, I said, oh girl, tell him my son was up,

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but like kind of joking kind of
serious, just being funny. No,

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this bitch. Basically she told this
man, oh, Angelina thinks you're her

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man? What kind of call?
When I said, say, no,

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that's not a board mission. Now
next time, like I don't even know

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that he exists. I don't know
who this man is, because like,

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okay, I think you're cute,
but not to be like, oh,

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Angelina is obsessed with you. She's
writing about you and her diary every night.

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Like that was so, I know. I was like, I was

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such a cog block. Respectfully ill
girl, I'm sorry. Yeah, that

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was so not a girl girl like
cling a stage five clinger was not cute.

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So I was like, uh so
immediately in my head, I'm like,

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okay, we're throwing that away.
They no more because now next time

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I say I'm gonna awake, I'm
not even interested. Sounds like the name

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of a bars. Did you not
hear my morning? What I said?

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But that's like literally gives it away. When I go edit, I'm just

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gonna bleep it every time. It's
gonna be like, yeah, we'll just

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bleep it out a lot of time. Yeah, I know, Well,

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I'm gonna look back. We got
to give it a new nickname right now.

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That means, oh, you know
what, I'll call him Edgar Bank

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because he kind of has the Edgar
Banks. I know, no, when

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I tell you, he really gets
so fine Edgars. I swear he doesn't

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dress like an Edgar. It's just
the Bays are giving Edgar work at and

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so I'm gonna split the rest of
that. He wears. He wears a

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puffer jackie, I know the patches, and he's got a wall full of

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like backwards that he saves up.
I'm just describing my little brother love Fava.

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Anyways, so he has some Edgar
features. Was him Edgar Bay?

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And I'm gonna bleeve out everything else? I said, uh so where was

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I? Okay? She said that
okay, and I have to forget he

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exists. And then another time I
was meeting a friend there and I met

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her at the bar and whila,
there goes Edgar Bay and he's talking to

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me. But I'm really acting like
I don't know him. And I'll say,

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all the partender is cute too,
so I'm just like, you know,

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I'm paying attention. So non Edgar
Bay, he's three feet taller,

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and they're both talking to us and
give us three shots when you and I

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think In that conversation, we started
talking about something like waking up early,

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and he was like, yeah,
sometimes I had to wake up early to

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walk my girlfriend's dog. So it
was like a hint that he has a

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girlfriend. So I'm like, okay, I noted because right now you already

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think I'm in love with you and
you got a girlfriend. No, you're

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really dead to me, actually,
sir, Okay, So whatever, keep

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a cute leave right. That was
it. It was a good time.

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We had good conversation with them.
They gave us free drinks. We leave

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a couple more months past, and
I mean my freend Cocina. Mind you,

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Christina does not like being outside,
like it's rare where she like wants

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to go ww She's such a home
body or she wants to be home at

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a certain time, you know.
But today she was just feel a little

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risque. We went to go get
dinner a wa and she's like, you

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know what, I could go for
one more beer, a little you know,

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a little nightcap. She's like,
let's go to Madoak and we have

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not been to Madoak in years.
Both and her used to work at Lake

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Sheley so we would go to medic
all the time because it's right across the

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street. And you guys know,
I'm blind as hell, so I don't

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I have my glasses on me,
but I don't have them on, so

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I can't really see if I put
my glasses on. I see one of

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my old friends from like Elementary,
and I was like, oh my god,

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that's blah blah blah. I'm gonna
go say hi to him real quick.

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And she's like, okay, just
wait here. So I go say

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hi to him and he's like in
a circle. Which why is Edgar Bay

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right in the circle? Did you
just see my friend? She's like like

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like he literally like it's like a
movie turned around the slow motion, like,

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oh, you're an Elementary friend knowing
Edgar Base and with him No,

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no, he's no hold on.
So and he introduced me to Bay.

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He's like Angelina Edgar Angelina. No
right, no I do. Like I

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was like, oh my god from
the Edgar restaurant. No, you guys,

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he wants me tissy because he is
like flirting with me. He's like,

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you haven't stopped by. I haven't
seen you. He's like, oh,

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now that I know, you know, this guy, like, I'm

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gonna give him free drinks. He's
come by. He's like, look you

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gt me up and down. He's
giving me the eyes. I go back

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to my Frank and I'm like,
is she her jaws jop? She's like,

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bitch, did I see that coming? Said, oh my god.

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Edgar Bay Like So eventually we like
migrate over there and we're talking. And

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then now I've had a lot of
drinks, we go downstairs the mattole area.

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There's like upstairs downstairs, and me
and Edgarbay are talking like about our

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whole lives. At this point,
I'm pretty drunk, so I at this

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point I have tunnelvision. I'm like, I'm going home with this man tonight,

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Like this is what's happening. This
is this is what's happening. It's

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in my head. Christina two three
hut, you know this is a drill

406
00:28:21.359 --> 00:28:26.759
that's gonna happen. And it's two
am. It's time to go. And

407
00:28:26.400 --> 00:28:29.839
my friend's like, oh, we're
all going back to Edgar Bay's house.

408
00:28:30.319 --> 00:28:33.119
You guys should come through, dumb
coming through. Oh but I will see

409
00:28:33.119 --> 00:28:36.079
what I will say, just so
you guys get a fill of this man.

410
00:28:36.440 --> 00:28:38.079
He definitely was on he was on
some single ship because he was just

411
00:28:38.119 --> 00:28:41.319
hopping around the room like kind of
talking to everyone. And there's this other

412
00:28:41.359 --> 00:28:45.319
girl that was there that had his
jacket on. Okay, it was all

413
00:28:47.079 --> 00:28:53.240
that he is an edgar at the
restaurant and or bar that he works at.

414
00:28:53.400 --> 00:28:57.720
He said he had a girlfriend.
Yeah, but he definitely I can

415
00:28:57.799 --> 00:29:00.759
tell he was very single. One
is the span of time between It's been

416
00:29:00.799 --> 00:29:07.319
like months between every single talking and
we're back. That's I'm like, oh,

417
00:29:07.440 --> 00:29:12.799
shore edgar by, like what months
a girlfriend? Because the hater ship

418
00:29:12.839 --> 00:29:21.359
the girl said to the saying,
oh yeah, maybe like shut up.

419
00:29:25.519 --> 00:29:29.119
You hear somebody say, oh she
thinks you're her man, Like that's no,

420
00:29:29.279 --> 00:29:33.160
that is crazy to say that is
crazy. You know. I hate

421
00:29:33.160 --> 00:29:36.599
to like dig up someone's head,
like yeah, like I'm not like a

422
00:29:36.680 --> 00:29:37.880
cocky person. But then it's like, okay, bitch, relaxed, Like

423
00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:42.119
you should be honored if I'm thinking
you're my imagination, imaginating man. Okay,

424
00:29:42.279 --> 00:29:45.160
yeah. On his on his end, I see what you're saying.

425
00:29:45.400 --> 00:29:51.400
Yeah, size months later that he
forgot he lied, so he's like yeah,

426
00:29:52.319 --> 00:29:53.960
yeah, anyway, super on me. I'm like I'm sleeping this last

427
00:29:55.039 --> 00:29:56.839
night, we go back, We're
all having drinks, having good time,

428
00:29:57.920 --> 00:30:02.960
television again. If I'm goes,
I can stand his room and we hook

429
00:30:03.039 --> 00:30:04.759
up. But it was I definitely
drink too much. It was like a

430
00:30:04.799 --> 00:30:07.759
sex scene in a movie. You
know, you remember the good parts.

431
00:30:11.519 --> 00:30:17.039
So that was a hugs okay and
leaving It doesn't even matter anymore. But

432
00:30:17.640 --> 00:30:19.400
before, when me and him were
having like our whole deep conversation, he

433
00:30:19.519 --> 00:30:22.559
had gave me his number or he
texts my number with his name. He's

434
00:30:22.599 --> 00:30:26.960
like Edgar Bay. I was like, gotcha. So when I was leaving

435
00:30:26.039 --> 00:30:32.400
his apartment, I text him like
Angelina, like dash Angelina, just in

436
00:30:32.480 --> 00:30:33.839
case I don't know if people got
too drunk, Like who did I text?

437
00:30:33.880 --> 00:30:38.680
You know. So a couple of
days go by and I'm talking with

438
00:30:38.759 --> 00:30:42.960
my coworkers and I'm just like,
should I hit this guy up? And

439
00:30:44.039 --> 00:30:45.640
they're like, well, what do
you want from this? And I'm like,

440
00:30:45.920 --> 00:30:47.680
I don't know. I don't really
know him like that, Like I'm

441
00:30:47.680 --> 00:30:49.759
not saying I want a boyfriend,
like but you know I would like to

442
00:30:49.839 --> 00:30:53.319
do that again. Yes, So
I was like, okay, I'm gonna

443
00:30:53.359 --> 00:30:56.880
text him round two with laughing emojis, and that's what I did. I

444
00:30:56.920 --> 00:31:00.359
think that's so thirty. It's cute. Works every time I do it all

445
00:31:00.359 --> 00:31:03.839
the time, but when I do
pull it out, it works, Yes,

446
00:31:06.359 --> 00:31:11.920
exactly the question mark yes on the
way. Yes. No, he

447
00:31:11.960 --> 00:31:15.279
didn't text me back, and my
text like maybe like five ish, and

448
00:31:15.359 --> 00:31:17.200
then you know, an hour goes
by. I'm like, you know what,

449
00:31:17.559 --> 00:31:19.359
it's probably at work. He's probably
closing because he is the manager at

450
00:31:19.359 --> 00:31:23.440
that restaurant, so you know,
I was I guess who. Yeah,

451
00:31:26.200 --> 00:31:30.319
like, I'm I got my guess
who card out, Like, okay,

452
00:31:32.680 --> 00:31:38.640
Edgar, it was professors in the
library with the candles stick. Okay,

453
00:31:38.640 --> 00:31:45.000
that's a different game. Yeah,
I can't. I'm like, okay,

454
00:31:45.039 --> 00:31:47.240
he's closing, So I'm not gonna
be I'm not gonna swim, I'm not

455
00:31:47.279 --> 00:31:52.599
gonna stress. Nine pm rolls by, then I rolls by, the next

456
00:31:52.680 --> 00:31:56.839
day rolls by. You guys,
this man never texts me back ever.

457
00:31:59.400 --> 00:32:04.279
So tonight and bitch, we're going
to talk about ghosting. That is the

458
00:32:04.400 --> 00:32:16.359
topic of the nights. Okay,
yeah, yeah, a stinger also really

459
00:32:16.559 --> 00:32:22.599
okay, I'm definitely not approved of
you guys know that of stories, But

460
00:32:22.720 --> 00:32:24.400
I will say I've never truly had
a one night stand. Like every person

461
00:32:24.480 --> 00:32:27.920
that I've hooked up with, even
it's not like on Fursday whatever, I've

462
00:32:27.960 --> 00:32:30.599
always like continued hooking up with them
for a certain amount of time and then

463
00:32:30.599 --> 00:32:32.440
it just doesn't work out whatever.
Like I never just hooked up with someone

464
00:32:32.519 --> 00:32:36.720
like never talk to them again.
So that's why my ego was definitely hurt.

465
00:32:37.240 --> 00:32:39.480
And I think a lot of people
are hurt by ghosting because it is

466
00:32:39.599 --> 00:32:43.960
ego thing. Like no one likes
to be rejected, no one likes to

467
00:32:44.079 --> 00:32:47.440
feel like they're not wanted. A
lot of people will say it's like I

468
00:32:47.480 --> 00:32:51.599
don't know, I guess the coward
whale, like you should use your words

469
00:32:51.680 --> 00:33:00.400
and stuff. I see both sides
because I've been in situations I've ever but

470
00:33:00.519 --> 00:33:01.680
there are times where I'm like,
I don't need to explain myself to you.

471
00:33:02.319 --> 00:33:05.960
There's one people who are not that
special. Are levels to it.

472
00:33:06.319 --> 00:33:09.960
There are like there are levels.
It is very situational. That's like a

473
00:33:10.680 --> 00:33:16.720
whole encompassing like word and phrase and
like definition, but there are it's a

474
00:33:16.799 --> 00:33:23.720
great area right now you have to
I feel like ghost is not considered ghosting.

475
00:33:25.200 --> 00:33:30.400
There's like a certain level of depth
into whatever relationship quote unquote. You

476
00:33:30.400 --> 00:33:34.240
can't see the air quotes right now, but right you have to get a

477
00:33:34.319 --> 00:33:37.960
certain depth into whatever relationship you guys
have before it's gonna be considered ghosting.

478
00:33:37.000 --> 00:33:39.119
Oh, I totally agree that.
I was gonna say that for the end,

479
00:33:39.160 --> 00:33:42.480
but let's get into it. I
was gonna say there's levels of ghosting,

480
00:33:42.880 --> 00:33:45.799
and that's where I was. I
literally was gonna say, I'm contradicting

481
00:33:45.839 --> 00:33:47.400
myself in this story because one I
think, Yeah, if it's one I

482
00:33:47.519 --> 00:33:51.799
stand some see you back, that's
not fuing ghosting. I just use that

483
00:33:51.880 --> 00:33:57.920
story to get Actually I never actually
got I don't have a story to get

484
00:33:57.960 --> 00:34:00.599
into this topic, but I was
about as close it came. Okay,

485
00:34:00.799 --> 00:34:05.319
No, absolutely, like beating on
dating apps, like if you match with

486
00:34:05.400 --> 00:34:08.760
someone on tender or on Instagram dms
and then like they don't beat up or

487
00:34:08.760 --> 00:34:13.519
they don't hit you up, bitch, they didn't ghost you, right exactly.

488
00:34:13.880 --> 00:34:17.119
I also agree with that if you
never met it's not ghosting, like

489
00:34:17.760 --> 00:34:21.760
no harm, no foul, like
I've never seen you exactly. If you

490
00:34:21.840 --> 00:34:23.840
do not know this person exactly,
he or she is a stranger to you

491
00:34:24.039 --> 00:34:28.599
right, right. If we exchange
news and then I don't see what I

492
00:34:28.840 --> 00:34:30.840
like, then I'm not going to
text you about and that's okay, and

493
00:34:31.000 --> 00:34:36.719
that's not ghosting. Yeah bad,
Yeah, I would hurt my feeling so

494
00:34:36.840 --> 00:34:43.159
a lot more. Well, I
gave you why you gave me yours,

495
00:34:43.199 --> 00:34:45.840
and I was like, but I
never say it, but but I always

496
00:34:45.880 --> 00:34:50.440
like, that's hot, and then
and then and then I did foul oh

497
00:34:50.639 --> 00:34:54.519
cute, and then I'm like,
at least you do that. I thought

498
00:34:54.559 --> 00:34:58.239
you were just like, oh,
never mind, delete my pictures please.

499
00:34:58.440 --> 00:35:01.119
Definitely no, definitely not. You
never talked down on people's pigs. I

500
00:35:01.159 --> 00:35:05.679
always like, hey, good shit. But then if I'm not into it,

501
00:35:05.760 --> 00:35:07.679
then I just back away. You
know, I'm not evil. Yeah,

502
00:35:07.679 --> 00:35:10.639
absolutely, there's levels of ghosting.
If you never fucking met this person

503
00:35:10.800 --> 00:35:14.119
or you just had a one night
stand, they're not ghosting. You get

504
00:35:14.159 --> 00:35:16.960
the fuck over it. You'll be
okay. If they're your husband of five

505
00:35:17.039 --> 00:35:21.400
years and they stop talking to you, that's ghosting. Or if you're a

506
00:35:21.440 --> 00:35:24.239
relationship that sucks, okay, what
do you do and how to get over

507
00:35:24.239 --> 00:35:27.159
ghosting? Because you know, there's
not really a manual book for it,

508
00:35:27.239 --> 00:35:29.920
so that's what we're here for.
So one thing about me, guys,

509
00:35:30.280 --> 00:35:31.840
you angelicque you know, Chris knows, Jady might not know. But I

510
00:35:32.000 --> 00:35:35.480
obsess over shit, Okay, I
run it to the ground. So mind

511
00:35:35.480 --> 00:35:37.719
you. When this happened, it's
like next week, I'm at dinner with

512
00:35:37.880 --> 00:35:42.599
friends and I'm like, okay,
guys, what if maybe he was an

513
00:35:42.599 --> 00:35:46.280
ocean and his phone dropped. I'm
looking out my local obrituaries and I'm just

514
00:35:46.360 --> 00:35:52.519
like, what happened to this man? Honestly, I feel that that is

515
00:35:52.599 --> 00:35:54.280
actually what you need to do.
Though, if you want to get over

516
00:35:54.360 --> 00:35:57.800
someone that ghosted you, that actually
goes to you. You guys were in

517
00:35:57.880 --> 00:36:00.159
relationship or you guys were talking for
a long time. You don't hear for

518
00:36:00.239 --> 00:36:02.960
them you And this is what I
did. I said. Someone asked me

519
00:36:04.239 --> 00:36:07.679
shout out to Josie because she was
the one that helped me originally text he.

520
00:36:07.079 --> 00:36:09.159
She's like, hey, whatever happened
to Edgar Bay? I said,

521
00:36:09.199 --> 00:36:15.480
Oh, I think he died.
That's the only thing. And that is

522
00:36:15.679 --> 00:36:19.679
really what you do have to tell
yourself. I know it's like cliche saying

523
00:36:19.920 --> 00:36:22.119
like if you wanted to, he
would, but it's true. If someone

524
00:36:22.199 --> 00:36:25.440
is that into you, even on
the lowest level of Oh, I'm just

525
00:36:25.480 --> 00:36:28.719
trying to fuck you like, they
will hit you back. They will do

526
00:36:28.880 --> 00:36:31.639
that. So you should not want
to hang out with someone that doesn't want

527
00:36:31.760 --> 00:36:37.000
to stick. They're p in your
B or your B or your m okay,

528
00:36:37.320 --> 00:36:39.760
like they don't like you. They
do not like you. And a

529
00:36:39.800 --> 00:36:44.360
lot of the times it's all for
a reason. Like with this person,

530
00:36:44.480 --> 00:36:47.840
I overanalyze it again, not ghosting
because I don't know. Anything could happen.

531
00:36:47.920 --> 00:36:51.119
He could be dead right now.
He give me sixty under it as

532
00:36:51.199 --> 00:36:53.719
we speak. From what I know, he is all right. He edgar

533
00:36:53.840 --> 00:37:02.960
bab baby. Questions when you texted
him, was it first of all?

534
00:37:04.039 --> 00:37:06.719
Was he green or blue bubbles?
No, he didn't block me, it

535
00:37:06.800 --> 00:37:12.920
was okay, okay, okay,
okay, yes. And do you have

536
00:37:13.159 --> 00:37:19.360
any social media of him or no? Any? Was about to go I've

537
00:37:19.440 --> 00:37:21.679
seen his Instagram because my friend posted
to him. I'm not going to go

538
00:37:21.760 --> 00:37:24.519
follow him like that's doing That's that's
crazy. Okay, Well that's I mean

539
00:37:24.559 --> 00:37:27.719
if I got ghosted and I kind
of like the guy or something, then

540
00:37:27.719 --> 00:37:32.719
I would probably stop him. Yeah, yeah, I wouldn't follow. That's

541
00:37:34.199 --> 00:37:42.880
stage. No no, no,
no is my middle yes, me same,

542
00:37:43.320 --> 00:37:45.159
but no, I was like I
already talked it to the ground and

543
00:37:45.280 --> 00:37:49.239
was like obsessing over it and had
all the reasons of what could have happened,

544
00:37:49.960 --> 00:37:52.119
many ways he could have died,
and what happened, like the reasons

545
00:37:52.159 --> 00:37:55.920
of him not texting me back.
So between that and just being like,

546
00:37:57.000 --> 00:37:59.280
Okay, we're gonna get over it. Everything happens for a reason. It

547
00:37:59.320 --> 00:38:01.199
could just be as this man just
doesn't like you, that's it. But

548
00:38:01.280 --> 00:38:04.880
like I was just thinking more into
it, like, you know, if

549
00:38:04.920 --> 00:38:07.000
he did just get out of relationship. When I met him, very was

550
00:38:07.119 --> 00:38:08.639
much I'm single and he just got
this new apartment, and it was very

551
00:38:08.679 --> 00:38:12.039
batter of pad vibes, like he's
probably like I'm inviting bitch just here every

552
00:38:12.079 --> 00:38:15.079
weekend, Right, that was the
vibe I'm getting. He's also younger than

553
00:38:15.119 --> 00:38:16.960
me, He's like three years younger
than me. So just all around,

554
00:38:16.960 --> 00:38:19.880
I'm like, I don't know,
I don't know this man's life. He's

555
00:38:19.920 --> 00:38:22.840
in a different space. Look at
you. This one we called growth.

556
00:38:23.480 --> 00:38:27.239
I'm leaving out details too, but
I also may or may not have made

557
00:38:27.239 --> 00:38:30.199
out with his friend the day before, so that kind came back to it.

558
00:38:30.239 --> 00:38:34.599
Also, speaking of growth, I
just want to say of self sabtage

559
00:38:34.920 --> 00:38:37.719
is my middle name, but like
I'm growing a little bit from it,

560
00:38:37.920 --> 00:38:44.880
like baby stops not fully self sabtage
anymore. That's good. That's good out

561
00:38:44.920 --> 00:38:49.159
there. Thank you so much.
We're growing. We love this four sure

562
00:38:49.960 --> 00:38:52.719
at all. Yes, but that's
I think that is the healthiest thing.

563
00:38:52.760 --> 00:38:55.559
If you want to get over someone
goes new, they truly need to be

564
00:38:55.639 --> 00:39:00.679
dead to you. Yeah, how
do you guys deal with ghosting? Okay,

565
00:39:00.760 --> 00:39:02.920
so the last time I was the
one and only time I would say,

566
00:39:06.039 --> 00:39:12.719
guess what on my freaking birthday,
March ninth birthday, I always my

567
00:39:12.800 --> 00:39:19.719
randling's birthday because it's the same as
bot wows. I was number one.

568
00:39:22.360 --> 00:39:30.320
On my birthday, I texted thisws
and birth I texted this man and that

569
00:39:30.760 --> 00:39:39.440
it went to green basically what why? What happened? Deleted on the deleted

570
00:39:39.719 --> 00:39:49.519
He's now right? And it was
so sad because it was like years of

571
00:39:49.880 --> 00:39:55.239
like situations. I was like,
I was like, Okay, maybe I

572
00:39:55.280 --> 00:40:05.280
saw it coming, but on my
birthday to day, I don't like that.

573
00:40:06.320 --> 00:40:08.119
That is not a good person.
That's not someone you want to be

574
00:40:08.239 --> 00:40:12.039
with, like exactly, he's not
a good person. So in the beginning

575
00:40:12.360 --> 00:40:15.840
I was like self sabotage talking seeing
what was up already, was like,

576
00:40:16.280 --> 00:40:22.039
this person is probably seeing somebody else. Yeah, I enter based pagees private.

577
00:40:22.119 --> 00:40:23.480
So that kept me from the self
sabotage. But if it wasn't I

578
00:40:23.480 --> 00:40:30.000
probably wouldn't on that bitch. But
it took a like I had to really

579
00:40:30.719 --> 00:40:36.239
be like I don't know him,
like move on, to be honest for

580
00:40:36.440 --> 00:40:43.639
having to me dead to me?
And what was what did you say?

581
00:40:45.159 --> 00:40:55.039
No? No, no, I
don't stop? Did She was like it

582
00:40:55.159 --> 00:40:59.960
was a really good song, but
it was basically to get over someone else,

583
00:41:00.440 --> 00:41:05.239
get under someone else. Oh yeah, I love that. I love

584
00:41:05.280 --> 00:41:09.119
that. So did you get under
someone eventually? But not to get over

585
00:41:09.199 --> 00:41:12.760
it. I feel like sex needs
to be enjoyed and a lot of times,

586
00:41:13.000 --> 00:41:15.159
I'm not saying for everyone, but
a lot of times when you are

587
00:41:15.239 --> 00:41:16.920
just looking up with someone to get
over someone else, it makes it worse

588
00:41:16.920 --> 00:41:21.079
because you'll go hook up, especially
if the sex ends up being bad,

589
00:41:21.079 --> 00:41:28.719
You're gonna go back home, like, oh my god, I'm really more

590
00:41:28.800 --> 00:41:30.800
sad about the situation. I really
wanted to because I'm like, you know

591
00:41:30.880 --> 00:41:36.800
what, that will really like,
I will forget this man's forever if I

592
00:41:37.679 --> 00:41:40.119
distract. Yeah, distraction. But
it didn't happen, and I think the

593
00:41:40.239 --> 00:41:44.199
universe was like, girl, you
don't need that. You need to like

594
00:41:44.360 --> 00:41:50.239
yes, solidarity, solidary. Yes. So really just had it was like

595
00:41:50.280 --> 00:41:52.159
a mental daily battle. I'm like, this guy is shitty. Like I

596
00:41:52.239 --> 00:41:55.239
had to repeat that. I had
to repeat that to myself. Yeah,

597
00:41:55.320 --> 00:42:00.360
every single day. Remember who you
are, bitch exactly, that bitch exactly.

598
00:42:00.400 --> 00:42:04.039
It's a whole situational But like if
you've been talking for someone a while,

599
00:42:04.159 --> 00:42:06.920
like I'm very big on like letting
yourself feel things like if you're sad,

600
00:42:06.920 --> 00:42:08.079
I can be sad. Don't be
like, oh I'm not sad because

601
00:42:08.079 --> 00:42:12.280
the it's gonna bite you in the
ass. But when someone goes to they're

602
00:42:12.400 --> 00:42:15.840
dead, any ghost the ghosting or
the end of any relationship. But I

603
00:42:15.880 --> 00:42:21.880
feel like you cannot exist to me, like how being someone being private?

604
00:42:22.960 --> 00:42:37.159
Like I've been blocked. And at
first I was so sad. Nor was

605
00:42:37.440 --> 00:42:40.719
I was hurt. I was hurt, but the month, no more more

606
00:42:40.800 --> 00:42:46.239
than a month, I was hurt. After a while, though, I

607
00:42:46.360 --> 00:42:50.320
was like, man, I'm them. Blocking me was like the best thing,

608
00:42:50.360 --> 00:42:54.719
because yeah, I can't, I
can't to separate yourself, you will

609
00:42:55.159 --> 00:42:59.039
walk through that door, yes,
I think, especially more so I guess

610
00:42:59.079 --> 00:43:01.760
with relationships. But it's easier with
the ghosting because like usually I will say,

611
00:43:01.800 --> 00:43:05.960
ghosting happens when it's like a shorter
period of time. Hopefully it's some

612
00:43:06.039 --> 00:43:08.159
shit that happens in the beginning.
He step, it's a relationships territory.

613
00:43:08.199 --> 00:43:10.320
Then that's just like a terrible fucking
person, you know what I mean.

614
00:43:10.400 --> 00:43:15.440
But one day, like we've all
been down bad before, and then there's

615
00:43:15.440 --> 00:43:16.559
that one magical day you just wake
up and you're like, oh shit,

616
00:43:16.639 --> 00:43:22.199
I don't care anymore. And it's
so like when you truly don't, when

617
00:43:22.239 --> 00:43:24.000
you're like downline yourself and you're like, oh shit, and then like you

618
00:43:24.079 --> 00:43:29.039
laugh about it, like damn,
I was really dawn bad about that looking

619
00:43:29.119 --> 00:43:31.960
back at yourself, like crying,
looking back reading my journal entries on it,

620
00:43:32.079 --> 00:43:37.280
I'm like crame, like, okay, you're crazy, babes. Okay,

621
00:43:37.360 --> 00:43:42.639
not your journal entries. I love
that. That's a little fitness bag.

622
00:43:44.559 --> 00:43:46.920
I was like these feeling because I
don't even have them anymore. Exactly

623
00:43:47.840 --> 00:43:53.599
like this poor ass man good It's
like what, yeah, yes, feel

624
00:43:53.639 --> 00:43:59.800
those feelings. Yeah I felt it, felt it, felt it, over

625
00:43:59.880 --> 00:44:04.239
it, and now I'm in a
better place. Yes, you will get

626
00:44:04.320 --> 00:44:07.960
there, just they are dead to
you. But I would like to say,

627
00:44:07.320 --> 00:44:12.960
if you are thinking about ghosting,
like ghosting someone, just why why

628
00:44:13.119 --> 00:44:15.800
don't people just be like it was
a fun time, Thank you so much.

629
00:44:17.039 --> 00:44:21.239
I'm onto the next. Yeah,
obviously, like in nicer terms,

630
00:44:21.320 --> 00:44:22.440
but like I've been pretty good at
that too, someone like if we've been

631
00:44:22.480 --> 00:44:25.519
hooking up for when I am over
you, I'm like I was just like,

632
00:44:25.599 --> 00:44:29.199
hey, I don't think we should
see each anymore. Yeah, it's

633
00:44:29.280 --> 00:44:39.039
that simple. It's so freaking simple, like shout, but right, isn't

634
00:44:39.079 --> 00:44:43.559
that so much better? Like it'll
hurt to hear, but I feel like

635
00:44:43.599 --> 00:44:45.039
it's better than being ghosted. Well, and for me, I feel like

636
00:44:45.039 --> 00:44:47.840
it's easier on my end because it's
like I really don't want to hear from

637
00:44:47.840 --> 00:44:52.000
you anymore. So like I hope
I make myself so clear in a nice

638
00:44:52.000 --> 00:44:54.079
way because I want to be an
asshole, like you should stop texting me.

639
00:44:55.320 --> 00:45:00.760
Can I ask a question about differently
different types of ghosting? Because I've

640
00:45:00.800 --> 00:45:08.880
been trying to think if I'm a
guilty ghost or like, so that's what

641
00:45:08.960 --> 00:45:12.360
I want to know. That's what
I want to know because a lot not

642
00:45:12.440 --> 00:45:21.599
a lot, this is all the
past life. I'd just like to say,

643
00:45:22.159 --> 00:45:25.880
yeah, their goals, but she's
everything. I love her, but

644
00:45:27.039 --> 00:45:32.199
this is a past life. And
I was just like, I know things

645
00:45:32.320 --> 00:45:39.480
aren't going to keep going, so
start backing out a little bit slowly and

646
00:45:39.920 --> 00:45:45.519
slowly, and then it's like when
I do stop responding, it's like this

647
00:45:45.840 --> 00:45:54.159
was coming right? Is that is
that considered a ghost? Like maybe my

648
00:45:54.280 --> 00:45:59.639
responses start getting a little bit drier
and maybe it starts taking a little bit

649
00:45:59.679 --> 00:46:04.480
longer to respond. It's like a
slow go I guess because I feel like

650
00:46:04.559 --> 00:46:07.079
that's very natural in a like relate
it's like, oh yeah, like he

651
00:46:07.079 --> 00:46:13.400
stopped tech. Like you know when
those Good Morning Tech stop. I will

652
00:46:13.519 --> 00:46:17.239
say that I felt felt on the
other end, like they could tell felt

653
00:46:19.079 --> 00:46:22.960
I see I see what's going on, and like they see what's going on,

654
00:46:23.280 --> 00:46:28.800
so they like are antiusipating it.
It's kind of like when you run

655
00:46:28.840 --> 00:46:30.480
over a bunny and you see him
slowly dying and it's like, should I

656
00:46:30.719 --> 00:46:36.960
just put the bullet in this money
and to stop it from dying this terrible

657
00:46:37.159 --> 00:46:40.039
death, or should You're not running
over the bunny. You're leaving him there

658
00:46:40.119 --> 00:46:44.719
to suffer and die a terrible death. That's what you're doing. You're not

659
00:46:44.800 --> 00:46:46.960
taking me out of my misery.
I guess you're like you're kind of prolonging

660
00:46:47.039 --> 00:46:51.400
it, right because because I guess
it leaves the other person to hope that

661
00:46:51.480 --> 00:46:58.000
you're gonna get it together. I'm
not that's good to hear though. On

662
00:46:58.119 --> 00:47:01.760
the other end, it's just feel
like there's it's a great area, Like

663
00:47:02.000 --> 00:47:06.480
yeah, a lot of I feel
like, I don't know, I don't

664
00:47:06.519 --> 00:47:07.960
want to speak for all girls in
general, but like I feel like there

665
00:47:08.119 --> 00:47:13.760
is room for like the mind to
like roam to places like what if this?

666
00:47:14.119 --> 00:47:16.960
What if that's true? It could
go there, but I don't know,

667
00:47:17.360 --> 00:47:21.440
like maybe I should wait, maybe
not, And that's where it like

668
00:47:21.559 --> 00:47:25.159
goes crazy in your mind. In
a perfect world, we're open and we

669
00:47:25.280 --> 00:47:30.119
communicate and we like voice our needs, but we're all kind of scared to

670
00:47:30.199 --> 00:47:31.840
tell everybody what we want, like
the honest truth of what we want.

671
00:47:31.880 --> 00:47:35.400
So I think that's where it was
coming from. But you probably should have

672
00:47:35.480 --> 00:47:38.440
been like, actually, this is
not what I want. But then but

673
00:47:38.639 --> 00:47:40.920
we all kind of I feel like
we all kind of do like, Okay,

674
00:47:42.000 --> 00:47:43.920
we're just a little bit dryer.
We're a little bit drier, and

675
00:47:44.000 --> 00:47:45.320
so we're the fucking hear does Yeah, now, I I'll think about it.

676
00:47:45.360 --> 00:47:47.400
I think it is better just to
be more drag. I guess it

677
00:47:47.480 --> 00:47:52.119
depends on how much you respect that
person honestly when it comes down to right,

678
00:47:52.159 --> 00:47:54.760
because I feel like I've been the
shitty person I guess in that situation.

679
00:47:55.519 --> 00:48:01.320
But I feel like I don't owe
that person and explanation because our relationship

680
00:48:01.480 --> 00:48:07.199
was never I've never shown that person
signs of it being anywhere near serious,

681
00:48:07.480 --> 00:48:12.039
Like I've never agreed to go on
dates with you when you've asked. I

682
00:48:12.159 --> 00:48:15.239
don't text you. We don't really
talk like that. I'm not sure if

683
00:48:15.239 --> 00:48:20.000
I even really like you, you
know. So when that situation, it

684
00:48:20.159 --> 00:48:23.960
truly comes to a place of I
don't want to speak with you like at

685
00:48:24.000 --> 00:48:28.039
all at all. I just feel
like I don't need to explain myself because

686
00:48:28.920 --> 00:48:31.960
there's nothing to explain, Like I
showed you all signs. We both know

687
00:48:32.119 --> 00:48:36.440
this was literally nothing, So what
is the point of me even sending this

688
00:48:36.599 --> 00:48:39.519
text to like and nicely like it's
like I could I just kind of scattleway

689
00:48:39.519 --> 00:48:42.800
and not hit you up to hook
up, like if it's truly like just

690
00:48:42.920 --> 00:48:45.559
sex and like we don't really have
that connection. But I think if you

691
00:48:45.599 --> 00:48:47.519
do have some kind of connection with
someone and they're texting you and like now

692
00:48:47.559 --> 00:48:50.599
you're just like, oh, I'm
gonna be dry with my text, I

693
00:48:50.639 --> 00:48:52.760
think it's just better to be direct
because exactly like how girls sinc like,

694
00:48:52.920 --> 00:48:57.280
if we really like you and we're
not used to you being distant when that

695
00:48:57.440 --> 00:49:00.840
does come, maybe we are in
a place where we're ready to give you

696
00:49:00.079 --> 00:49:05.559
one hundred excuses. And sometimes the
person it really is not that like people

697
00:49:05.599 --> 00:49:07.639
go through shit like oh, actually
it's not because I wasn't texting because I

698
00:49:07.719 --> 00:49:10.360
might into you, like I don't
know, someone just died, or like

699
00:49:10.440 --> 00:49:14.360
I have that I'm dealing with depression, or if I can lost my job,

700
00:49:14.480 --> 00:49:15.800
like I don't know, it could
be anything, or maybe I am

701
00:49:15.840 --> 00:49:17.800
talking to someone, but I still
want to keep you around because I'm going

702
00:49:17.840 --> 00:49:23.199
to come back to you. Don't
you worry anything. So we run that

703
00:49:23.239 --> 00:49:27.400
through our head, like I guess
you're putting me in a position where I

704
00:49:27.480 --> 00:49:29.840
need to decide if I need to
cut you off, and maybe I'm not

705
00:49:29.880 --> 00:49:32.360
ready to do that, you know
what I mean, Like it's just it's

706
00:49:32.360 --> 00:49:37.239
putting too much out there. I
think if there is connection, he said,

707
00:49:37.280 --> 00:49:42.000
you should, I need facts.
But sometimes every once in a while

708
00:49:42.000 --> 00:49:44.840
we're putting positions where it's not that
easy. So I feel like it's best

709
00:49:44.880 --> 00:49:47.480
to be direct. But if you
weren't giving them anything to begin with you,

710
00:49:47.599 --> 00:49:52.079
they don't really you don't we all
just like fucking or was it like,

711
00:49:52.639 --> 00:49:54.559
uh, we were went on dates, you took her out, you

712
00:49:54.639 --> 00:50:02.920
dining with the GM smiley face,
we lost He's an I would also like

713
00:50:04.039 --> 00:50:08.440
to say that I like prefaced,
we were nothing serious. We didn't go

714
00:50:08.559 --> 00:50:14.920
on like official dates necessarily okay,
not public, but we kicked what do

715
00:50:15.000 --> 00:50:20.440
you mean we kicked it and like
yeah, like you know, we'll go

716
00:50:20.559 --> 00:50:35.599
smoke or something. But but yeah
that hey you got a last time,

717
00:50:35.679 --> 00:50:46.480
let's go half so no no public? Like do you feel bad a little

718
00:50:46.480 --> 00:50:49.920
bit? Yeah? I think I've
always kind of felt bad though. I

719
00:50:50.039 --> 00:50:53.199
think I've always just been trying to
like tell myself, like no, I

720
00:50:53.280 --> 00:51:07.360
mean, let's let's call her,
let's get her a ring ghost, come

721
00:51:12.360 --> 00:51:17.239
fly ghost like friendly. So yeah, circling back to just like if you

722
00:51:17.280 --> 00:51:22.639
expect the person enough, like just
be direct. The best thing I told

723
00:51:22.679 --> 00:51:25.760
myself to try to get over my
guilt and make not even get over my

724
00:51:25.800 --> 00:51:32.760
guilt, to push away my guilt
and hide from it altogether. You tell

725
00:51:32.760 --> 00:51:37.360
yourself that I may not have been
open at the end, but I was

726
00:51:37.639 --> 00:51:43.360
very clear and open at the beginning, like I did go into it.

727
00:51:43.400 --> 00:51:46.920
I was like, hey, this
isn't a relationship. I'm not looking for

728
00:51:47.039 --> 00:51:52.320
that. I don't want it to
go past this. Yeah, that's that.

729
00:51:53.159 --> 00:51:58.400
And then so does that make me
told her? So you told her

730
00:51:58.440 --> 00:52:00.519
at the beginning. Yeah, I
guess that's no, that's totally fair.

731
00:52:00.559 --> 00:52:06.000
And I think, like I think
you girls and guys, No, girls,

732
00:52:06.039 --> 00:52:07.000
guys, I think you do need
to believe people when they say that.

733
00:52:07.039 --> 00:52:09.519
I think a lot of times the
other person will be like, oh

734
00:52:09.599 --> 00:52:13.599
why I can change that, yeah, or like this might go somewhere else.

735
00:52:13.960 --> 00:52:15.960
Yeah, so that's hard. But
I will say, when you start

736
00:52:16.000 --> 00:52:20.679
doing shit that is not a little
more serious, like that's not cool either.

737
00:52:20.719 --> 00:52:22.519
Don't tell me we're not doing anything. And now you got me if

738
00:52:22.559 --> 00:52:25.800
I did meet a family barbecues,
you know what I mean, Like there's

739
00:52:25.800 --> 00:52:29.400
people who do that too, and
then be like, well, I told

740
00:52:29.440 --> 00:52:30.679
you, remember three months ago,
I told you before put that ring on

741
00:52:30.719 --> 00:52:34.440
your finger, I told you it's
not the serious And now I'm the bad

742
00:52:34.480 --> 00:52:38.480
guy. Like yeah, you are
the bad guy. You set the proper

743
00:52:38.559 --> 00:52:44.800
expectation. So yeah, I guess
that's fine. Set the expectations at the

744
00:52:44.840 --> 00:52:49.920
beginning, you know. See,
that's that's another topic. Let me tell

745
00:52:49.920 --> 00:52:52.840
you another quick story while we're on
that. My trainer she had a boyfriend

746
00:52:53.079 --> 00:52:55.559
and they were like manet us at
this bar, like we want to go

747
00:52:55.639 --> 00:52:58.280
out, you should come by,
And I was like, okay, I'll

748
00:52:58.280 --> 00:52:59.760
stop by. I had a long
day it work, and he had a

749
00:52:59.800 --> 00:53:00.880
friend, but I was not into
his friend. And he was like you

750
00:53:00.920 --> 00:53:02.800
know that, me was the guy
like screaming out the girl in the club.

751
00:53:02.840 --> 00:53:06.719
It was given those ve like we're
at the Dirt Bird and the music's

752
00:53:06.719 --> 00:53:08.480
blasting and you're trying to have a
conversation with me, Like no, I

753
00:53:08.559 --> 00:53:12.519
can't hear you. This is not
the time I just got off work.

754
00:53:12.559 --> 00:53:14.599
Like they're like drunkard than me.
Too. It's like I'm not even there.

755
00:53:14.719 --> 00:53:15.880
But then I had a couple more
drinks, music went down, We're

756
00:53:15.880 --> 00:53:19.559
in a little loungeery and I'm talking
to him. We end up vibing my

757
00:53:19.679 --> 00:53:23.679
CM on a couple more occasions.
We're hooking up and I have his number.

758
00:53:23.880 --> 00:53:27.280
Okay, we only hooked up one
time, and I want to continue

759
00:53:27.320 --> 00:53:30.760
hooking up with him. So I
text him just like hey, what's up,

760
00:53:30.760 --> 00:53:31.800
blah blah blah. I'm trying get
him the pop for the next weekend.

761
00:53:32.079 --> 00:53:36.159
And he did text me right away. Well, first he was texting

762
00:53:36.159 --> 00:53:38.320
me whatever whatever, and then he
did message me something about like yeah,

763
00:53:38.440 --> 00:53:40.400
like, hey, just want to
let you know I just got a long

764
00:53:40.480 --> 00:53:44.880
relationship. We do not like it
for anything serious. I don't know.

765
00:53:44.920 --> 00:53:46.639
Maybe I'm crazy, because now that
I'm explaining it, explaining it to you

766
00:53:46.719 --> 00:53:51.400
guys, it doesn't sound that bad. But originally when I read that,

767
00:53:51.519 --> 00:53:54.599
I was just a little confused,
like I can't be rude and be like

768
00:53:54.599 --> 00:53:58.039
can we still fuck? Though?
Like like I was like, what are

769
00:53:58.079 --> 00:54:02.280
you saying here? I okay,
and men are simple. Yes, you

770
00:54:02.360 --> 00:54:07.000
could say that and it would be
like, yes, that's the end of

771
00:54:07.079 --> 00:54:14.599
that. Okay, So I am
a very big fan of early the talks,

772
00:54:15.079 --> 00:54:16.480
Like what are we talks? I'm
like, yeah, no, I'm

773
00:54:16.480 --> 00:54:21.800
saying that straight right now. Yeah, there is no way you could get

774
00:54:21.840 --> 00:54:24.559
this far down the road because I
told you that this was over here from

775
00:54:24.599 --> 00:54:31.239
the very beginning. So okay,
want to have sex without feeling guilty too,

776
00:54:31.519 --> 00:54:39.639
Like he's like sex two weekends in
a row is okay, it wasn't

777
00:54:39.760 --> 00:54:45.400
the very next weekend. I don't
know. I just hate the rules and

778
00:54:45.639 --> 00:54:50.400
having that what are we conversation?
Right away? Can we not talk about

779
00:54:50.519 --> 00:54:52.199
wanting relationships? Not wanting relationships?
What do you like? Even if if

780
00:54:52.320 --> 00:54:54.159
he would ask me, like what
are you looking for? Like but I

781
00:54:54.159 --> 00:54:58.000
don't know, Like I just don't
want to have sex with you a busy

782
00:54:58.039 --> 00:55:01.000
Saturday night, yeah literally, and
like I just don't want to. I

783
00:55:01.039 --> 00:55:05.280
don't know. I guess I'm very
like go with the flow. So like

784
00:55:05.639 --> 00:55:07.920
when we start talking about I guess
to me, it's like it's making it

785
00:55:07.000 --> 00:55:10.360
not fun right away, right,
But I feel like you no, I

786
00:55:10.519 --> 00:55:14.000
get it, Like yeah, I'm
just thinking like with the guys, it's

787
00:55:14.119 --> 00:55:17.400
like you on the top or bottom, Like it's like straight to it and

788
00:55:17.480 --> 00:55:22.320
straight to it and the relationship just
kind of happens near the end anyways.

789
00:55:22.599 --> 00:55:25.599
Yeah, I mean ideally, I
just feel like there's other ways to let

790
00:55:25.679 --> 00:55:31.840
someone know where you stand or where
you're at without having to like verbally talk

791
00:55:31.920 --> 00:55:37.159
about it, Like your actions are
gonna show in the beginning at least if

792
00:55:37.159 --> 00:55:38.760
we're if you're not asking me on
dates exactly, if I'm only hitting you

793
00:55:38.880 --> 00:55:43.840
up on Saturdays or on weeknights or
past a certain hour, like we already

794
00:55:43.880 --> 00:55:45.559
know what it is in the beginning. I don't know. I just feel

795
00:55:45.559 --> 00:55:50.079
like it takes the fun out of
it. I feel like after the first

796
00:55:50.159 --> 00:55:54.599
time, like it's a little like
too like after the next time, maybe,

797
00:55:55.119 --> 00:56:00.639
like maybe like I don't care that
you just got a relationship. I

798
00:56:00.679 --> 00:56:04.360
guess that's the other part I was
annoyed with too, Like I didn't ask

799
00:56:04.400 --> 00:56:07.159
you and you didn't ask me,
bitch, Like did I did? I

800
00:56:07.239 --> 00:56:12.119
ask you what you're going through?
You did? And I hear your side

801
00:56:12.119 --> 00:56:13.719
it's like I'm just trying to be
noble. But I guess for me,

802
00:56:13.800 --> 00:56:15.239
it's also like I feel like when
you say that, you're assuming that I

803
00:56:15.320 --> 00:56:19.159
want that. Yeah, right,
so now I feel like you're oversharing and

804
00:56:19.760 --> 00:56:22.440
you need to get over yourself,
you know what I mean? All my

805
00:56:22.559 --> 00:56:24.880
bases here. Yeah, you want
to like see what if you guys want

806
00:56:24.920 --> 00:56:28.519
to Maybe it's like you want to
see if you guys are on the same

807
00:56:28.679 --> 00:56:30.679
page. You know, like maybe
it should have been an approach a different

808
00:56:30.719 --> 00:56:34.000
way, like, hey, I
just want sex? Do you just want

809
00:56:34.079 --> 00:56:36.159
sex? O? Way cool?
Because I don't want a relationship right now,

810
00:56:36.280 --> 00:56:39.199
you know, like maybe sometime later
on. But but even that,

811
00:56:39.480 --> 00:56:44.800
even though maybe they he had like
a hard opinion like I don't want a

812
00:56:44.840 --> 00:56:46.400
relationship, but I just want to
fuck because she's pretty, you know what

813
00:56:46.480 --> 00:56:51.039
I mean. Yeah, it's kind
of a little bit of dog behavior but

814
00:56:52.239 --> 00:56:58.840
fun. Also, it may take
away a little bit from the fun,

815
00:56:59.440 --> 00:57:05.039
but if y'all both are on the
same page, then it's guaranteed fun with

816
00:57:05.199 --> 00:57:09.280
guaranteed no drama. Oh I'm into
that. Yeah. So it's like,

817
00:57:09.480 --> 00:57:13.320
you know, let's just let's and
if it doesn't work for you and that

818
00:57:13.639 --> 00:57:15.039
you do take it the wrong way, then hey, that's what that is.

819
00:57:15.280 --> 00:57:20.800
Then at least we figured that out
now and not from now when you're

820
00:57:21.039 --> 00:57:23.239
knocking at my door right right,
you don't want to we don't want to

821
00:57:23.320 --> 00:57:25.320
read between the line. Yeah,
I guess crazy me in the back of

822
00:57:25.360 --> 00:57:28.239
head, I'm just like, well, let's not take off you fall in

823
00:57:28.280 --> 00:57:31.440
love with me off the table completely? Yeah, you with me or not?

824
00:57:32.400 --> 00:57:37.280
Yeah? Like yeah, but maybe
you don't. You just want it

825
00:57:37.320 --> 00:57:44.920
to be purely physical. And that's
okay too. How do you know saying

826
00:57:44.920 --> 00:57:47.440
it's not really your sualtmate and you
don't know that's your saltmate, but right

827
00:57:47.480 --> 00:57:50.880
away you're like, hey, but
I want nothing to do with you.

828
00:57:51.679 --> 00:57:53.639
Okay, that's aggress that's an aggressive
example, and that's not always going to

829
00:57:53.719 --> 00:57:57.599
be the case. But I'm just
saying I feel like at the very beginning,

830
00:57:57.800 --> 00:58:01.000
like first hookup or first high by
name, either of us, neither

831
00:58:01.039 --> 00:58:05.440
of us don't know shit. So
can we just wait to have that conversation?

832
00:58:06.639 --> 00:58:10.199
No, now that conversation has feelings. If we have this conversation,

833
00:58:10.320 --> 00:58:15.559
now, there's no feelings in this
conversation, m that's my thing. No,

834
00:58:15.719 --> 00:58:20.159
that's that's a good point. Gotta
be there. There's some crazy bitches

835
00:58:20.199 --> 00:58:24.800
out there, there's some crazy guys
too, and like I might hate you

836
00:58:24.920 --> 00:58:28.840
tomorrow, like I might. I
don't know anything about you, so I

837
00:58:28.960 --> 00:58:32.440
just have my little Dululu head a
little person I like thought up so I

838
00:58:32.519 --> 00:58:37.000
could like continue sleeping with you.
I convince myself you're a good person enough

839
00:58:37.039 --> 00:58:39.119
for me to hook up with you
and like share my body with you.

840
00:58:39.400 --> 00:58:42.559
And then, like you know,
once you start talking to someone a little

841
00:58:42.559 --> 00:58:45.320
bit too much, just like oftentimes
if you're just tucking up with someone or

842
00:58:45.400 --> 00:58:51.400
just talking to someone, eventually you
get to know this person and you decide

843
00:58:52.360 --> 00:58:55.079
if you like them or not.
Okay, But like I feel like if

844
00:58:55.119 --> 00:58:59.679
somebody were to approach me and be
like after the first time, second time,

845
00:58:59.719 --> 00:59:01.760
whatever, like what like this is
what it is, Like, it's

846
00:59:01.840 --> 00:59:08.880
just what it is, I would
red flag. No, I feel the

847
00:59:08.960 --> 00:59:15.440
moment, I would agree because that's
what it is in that moment down the

848
00:59:15.679 --> 00:59:24.039
line. But down the line gets
to be okay else in the culture,

849
00:59:24.639 --> 00:59:30.760
then we have to revisit. Sure
we are cross my figures. Yeah,

850
00:59:31.280 --> 00:59:38.559
thanks for you winked, right,
what I'm okay, that's what it is.

851
00:59:38.840 --> 00:59:45.199
And if something happens in the future, then that's like another thing to

852
00:59:45.599 --> 00:59:50.679
conquer. Yeah, first comes love, then comes marriage, baby Carris,

853
00:59:50.719 --> 00:59:57.480
that's what you said, right,
stupid? How many Yeah, I guess

854
00:59:57.519 --> 01:00:00.559
it's good to be open. I
just feel like, be honest and open.

855
01:00:00.719 --> 01:00:05.159
Do you know what you want?
Yeah, in the end, at

856
01:00:05.159 --> 01:00:07.840
that moment, that's what okay,
person, I'm saying that because even on

857
01:00:07.880 --> 01:00:09.639
the other end, I don't like
when people right away like I mean,

858
01:00:09.639 --> 01:00:12.639
I guess it's good to know if
you're looking for a relationship, But at

859
01:00:12.679 --> 01:00:15.440
the same time, like say I
am and you ask me on date and

860
01:00:15.519 --> 01:00:17.960
you're not even someone that just looking
hook out, but you do ask me,

861
01:00:19.360 --> 01:00:21.199
Hey, what are you looking to
be in a relationship? And I'm

862
01:00:21.239 --> 01:00:22.920
like, yeah, Like I feel
like that's even a trap question because it's

863
01:00:22.960 --> 01:00:27.320
like, well, that doesn't mean
with you though, And like sometimes people

864
01:00:27.400 --> 01:00:29.719
get scared You're like, oh,
she's looking at relationship, but it's like

865
01:00:29.920 --> 01:00:31.039
I don't even know if I like
you, like we're on this date.

866
01:00:31.440 --> 01:00:35.599
I think it's a good question.
I think it's a good question. You

867
01:00:35.719 --> 01:00:38.320
are you do want a relationship and
you could say that it doesn't have to

868
01:00:38.360 --> 01:00:40.760
necessarily be with you, but I
know in the future, like I do

869
01:00:42.039 --> 01:00:44.800
want to be with someone. I
want to like, you know, plant

870
01:00:44.880 --> 01:00:46.960
my seed or whatever, like I
want to be you know, put my

871
01:00:47.079 --> 01:00:50.559
roots in the ground with someone Yes, yeah, that's a good question,

872
01:00:50.719 --> 01:00:52.360
you know, or just like I
actually do I want to be an absolute

873
01:00:52.400 --> 01:00:55.159
horror right now for the next two
years because I just got a relationship and

874
01:00:55.360 --> 01:00:59.239
no, I'm gonna like just be
the biggest slut ever. Are you cool

875
01:00:59.280 --> 01:01:01.679
with that? Because I'm gonna be
You're gonna get tested. I'm gonna tested,

876
01:01:01.760 --> 01:01:07.360
and we're gonna be like fucking looking
like rabbits. I do feel like

877
01:01:07.440 --> 01:01:09.440
people get scared though, like,
yeah, people will totally get scared or

878
01:01:09.599 --> 01:01:13.920
like beat on the chest. Yeah, I mean, I guess it's fair

879
01:01:14.039 --> 01:01:16.679
to like let someone know if you're
emotionally unavailable. Wow, there we go,

880
01:01:17.159 --> 01:01:22.039
Yeah, wrap it up, wrap
this up. That was it.

881
01:01:22.320 --> 01:01:29.639
I feel like emotions is like the
topic, like yeah, it boils down

882
01:01:29.719 --> 01:01:31.360
to like the emotions of it.
Yes, and yeah, you can let

883
01:01:31.400 --> 01:01:34.280
me know where you're at in the
moment. But for me, I'm just

884
01:01:34.440 --> 01:01:37.360
like the universe and us this is
so much bigger. But you don't know

885
01:01:37.360 --> 01:01:39.559
what's gonna happen tomorrow, So don't
tell me your little plans because you don't

886
01:01:39.599 --> 01:01:43.360
know and I don't know. Okay, That's all I'm saying. And also

887
01:01:43.400 --> 01:01:45.800
that could just be like they're being
like putting their poker face on, like,

888
01:01:45.079 --> 01:01:47.000
h yeah, you know, I'm
just trying to fuck but you know,

889
01:01:47.159 --> 01:01:51.400
you know, men are sensitive.
Boys girls are sensitive too, you

890
01:01:51.480 --> 01:01:52.719
know. Either way, you could
say that like, oh, that's not

891
01:01:52.800 --> 01:01:55.480
what I want, but deep down
everyone wants to be loved, right,

892
01:01:55.760 --> 01:02:05.119
yeah, I don't want loved loved. It's good to hear the guys want

893
01:02:05.159 --> 01:02:08.079
to be yellow more boys in the
podcast. I don't know what you're talking.

894
01:02:09.719 --> 01:02:15.039
Is one of my only guy friends
who gives me sound advice. And

895
01:02:15.360 --> 01:02:22.400
you're pretty sound, you're pretty well
accept the offer to be on the podcast

896
01:02:22.440 --> 01:02:29.280
again. Okay, every way back
to the city then yeah, beautiful.

897
01:02:29.719 --> 01:02:34.559
Let them know. And at the
end that I think that's what we've all.

898
01:02:35.320 --> 01:02:43.920
Yes, every day, I got
a temperature. Every day's next morning,

899
01:02:43.960 --> 01:02:50.000
tophone out, Yeah, yeah have
Actually should I say this? Yes?

900
01:02:50.519 --> 01:02:54.119
Say it? Say yeah, face
it's a family member close to me.

901
01:02:57.360 --> 01:03:04.119
Okay, we got it. But
they just got out of a long

902
01:03:04.199 --> 01:03:07.159
relationship and they just got into a
new relationship and they're kind of like,

903
01:03:07.679 --> 01:03:15.440
I'm just not ready to like get
married again or whatever. And the partner

904
01:03:15.639 --> 01:03:22.559
rolls over and says, babe to
my family and They said, babe,

905
01:03:22.719 --> 01:03:25.360
babe, do you want to get
married? And my family member says,

906
01:03:27.119 --> 01:03:37.599
Mary had a little lamb that's like
in my or something like the worst movie,

907
01:03:37.679 --> 01:03:45.440
like baby, you want to get
married? Mary had a little to

908
01:03:45.599 --> 01:03:58.599
me like myself get up red flag
or red poster or red ball, Oh

909
01:03:58.960 --> 01:04:05.079
my little did you recite nurseries to
me? Did your family member tell you

910
01:04:05.159 --> 01:04:10.760
this or did the family member together
remember yes, and we love them?

911
01:04:11.079 --> 01:04:17.559
I love her, love her?
Oh her sin is just a jokester,

912
01:04:18.400 --> 01:04:27.559
just a real jokes Did you feel
that like he was just married to though?

913
01:04:28.000 --> 01:04:31.000
Yeah, he just marriage a long
time. Did the partner want clarification?

914
01:04:31.639 --> 01:04:34.719
Honestly, I just got the funny
joke of the story, and that

915
01:04:34.920 --> 01:04:39.280
was This wasn't though, like a
proposal though, This wasn't like a down

916
01:04:39.320 --> 01:04:47.039
on my knee? Will you marry
me? You want to? I like

917
01:04:47.360 --> 01:04:51.039
was always asking and stuff. I
don't want to get too deep into it

918
01:04:51.039 --> 01:04:55.280
because it's a little personal. And
my family member does listen to the podcast.

919
01:04:55.559 --> 01:04:59.079
Oh my god. They they told
me O the days they're like,

920
01:04:59.280 --> 01:05:01.400
you're you're talking about me the other
day on the podcast or not really?

921
01:05:01.760 --> 01:05:04.760
But I said, but I said, because I was saying, like,

922
01:05:05.119 --> 01:05:08.920
oh, this person when whenever they
go on trips they bring me a t

923
01:05:09.079 --> 01:05:13.800
shirts of like here's my here's my
can coon. But that you didn't go

924
01:05:16.519 --> 01:05:20.559
shirt. I heard you talking about
that on the podcast. I was like,

925
01:05:20.679 --> 01:05:27.079
oh, yeah, give me better
guests, like so much shot glass

926
01:05:27.199 --> 01:05:31.400
or something. Anyways, honestly,
I want to know, like where did

927
01:05:31.440 --> 01:05:34.639
it go after that, because I
don't know, funny, that is hilarious,

928
01:05:34.760 --> 01:05:36.960
it's hilarious. I need to know
the rest of the story. My

929
01:05:38.039 --> 01:05:40.920
family member is just a super funny
guy, and I don't know, but

930
01:05:41.079 --> 01:05:45.440
they're still together and I love her. Maybe she probably understood his exactly.

931
01:05:45.559 --> 01:05:48.039
I think it was just that it
was because if somebody said that to me,

932
01:05:48.519 --> 01:05:53.960
yeah, I think they will eventually
one day get married get married.

933
01:05:54.039 --> 01:05:58.280
But like I said, like,
my family member just got out really like

934
01:05:58.360 --> 01:06:03.440
a ten years something like that.
But yeah, so that's just a nice

935
01:06:03.440 --> 01:06:11.079
funny story of today. Mary had
a little Yeah. I guess o'ver all.

936
01:06:11.079 --> 01:06:13.480
It's just important to know what you
want, and I think I'm someone

937
01:06:13.519 --> 01:06:15.960
who totally doesn't like I know,
I want to be single right now.

938
01:06:16.599 --> 01:06:20.679
I love the space I created for
myself mentally, physically, I look at

939
01:06:20.719 --> 01:06:25.480
my apartment, that is a woman's
apartment. I don't want no man a

940
01:06:25.559 --> 01:06:29.199
living or touching anything in there.
Yeah, and like, I love not

941
01:06:29.320 --> 01:06:30.719
checking in with someone, and I
feel like that's something that just comes natural.

942
01:06:30.760 --> 01:06:33.199
There's nothing wrong with it. I
think it's a beautiful thing. You

943
01:06:33.280 --> 01:06:36.320
want to know what they're doing.
But I feel like when I got out

944
01:06:36.320 --> 01:06:39.719
my first relationship, I really fell
in love with the freedom part, Like

945
01:06:39.960 --> 01:06:42.880
wow, I'm at the sushi restaurant
and no one knows I'm here, or

946
01:06:43.000 --> 01:06:45.800
like you may you ask me for
plans, I'm gonna check in to see

947
01:06:45.800 --> 01:06:47.199
if this person, Like I really
fell in love with that and never really

948
01:06:47.239 --> 01:06:49.880
fell out of love with it.
I mean, I even get mad when

949
01:06:49.920 --> 01:06:53.280
my friends do it. I'm not
a relationship because of those reasons. I'm

950
01:06:53.320 --> 01:06:58.320
not gonna take it from my buddy
all pal. So there is a lot

951
01:06:58.360 --> 01:07:01.920
that I love about being single and
what comes with it. But on the

952
01:07:01.960 --> 01:07:06.639
other hand, I don't like the
streets. I'm over the streets, and

953
01:07:08.519 --> 01:07:12.880
I hope I have the courage to
like not turn away my soulmate if that

954
01:07:13.079 --> 01:07:15.440
is ever in front of me.
I don't know, I don't know what

955
01:07:15.480 --> 01:07:17.639
I want I'm a mess. I
actually don't know what I want. I'm

956
01:07:17.679 --> 01:07:19.719
down to being fall in love.
I'm also down to be single for the

957
01:07:19.800 --> 01:07:24.079
rest of my life. So I
feel like that being down to be single

958
01:07:24.119 --> 01:07:27.440
for the rest of your life is
the best way to find a relationship.

959
01:07:27.559 --> 01:07:31.000
Yeah, because you gotta you have
to be able to find that piece and

960
01:07:31.159 --> 01:07:34.559
like know that piece that you could
bring yourself and be like that means you

961
01:07:34.679 --> 01:07:40.719
have to beat this because this right
over here a great time and if you

962
01:07:40.840 --> 01:07:43.880
come down here and lower this,
then it's not going to work for you.

963
01:07:44.239 --> 01:07:47.320
Exactly perfectly said. So if you're
single, stay single forever as long

964
01:07:47.360 --> 01:07:54.119
as you can hold on to it. Love it. Don't tell someone what

965
01:07:54.159 --> 01:07:57.119
you want on the first date.
Okay to say that, I'm in a

966
01:07:57.159 --> 01:08:01.519
happy relationship right now. So yeah, cou up to Carmel. We love

967
01:08:01.679 --> 01:08:10.000
you too, Carmel on the podcast
now. Yes, And if you are

968
01:08:10.639 --> 01:08:13.480
being ghosted and you're feeling really down
about it, bitch, what I need

969
01:08:13.519 --> 01:08:15.960
you to do right now is dead
go. Yeah, he's dead to you.

970
01:08:15.239 --> 01:08:18.199
Go to your local supermarket, hit
up aisle three, pick up some

971
01:08:18.279 --> 01:08:23.199
self esteem for free ninety nine.
That person is dead to you. Cremated

972
01:08:23.279 --> 01:08:25.920
and we're not bringing them back to
life. There will be no reincarnation,

973
01:08:26.359 --> 01:08:29.560
not here. You're dead forever,
wipe off the face of the planet.

974
01:08:29.720 --> 01:08:32.279
No social security, no nothing,
no record of him, like, there's

975
01:08:32.359 --> 01:08:35.760
no record, like he's gone.
Alrightp you's got no one knows him,

976
01:08:38.279 --> 01:08:42.720
No one knows him. That's what
you gotta do. He doesn't exist.

977
01:08:43.039 --> 01:08:45.640
Yeah, and you will see the
light down the tunnel and you will be

978
01:08:45.880 --> 01:08:50.880
oh, okay, surround yourself with
you like just the free Yeah, And

979
01:08:51.000 --> 01:08:55.479
that's what it is. And that
concludes this week's episode. So nice to

980
01:08:55.560 --> 01:08:58.920
be back. If you like us, if you love us, please I'm

981
01:08:58.960 --> 01:09:00.920
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982
01:09:00.920 --> 01:09:04.319
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983
01:09:04.439 --> 01:09:09.720
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984
01:09:10.199 --> 01:09:12.800
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985
01:09:12.840 --> 01:09:15.520
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986
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01:09:20.119 --> 01:09:28.199
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01:09:28.359 --> 01:09:33.680
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989
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990
01:09:39.520 --> 01:09:43.720
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993
01:09:49.840 --> 01:09:51.800
Love you, I'll talk to you
next week. All right, I

994
01:09:51.920 --> 01:09:56.520
love you. By bye. Can't
bring me in. I'm on the high

995
01:09:56.640 --> 01:09:59.840
right now. I'm living my best
bye. And y'all can't take that.

996
01:10:00.880 --> 01:10:16.800
And the d is rick it if
you live for brick, brick, just

997
01:10:16.920 --> 01:10:30.960
all the sack, just all the
sack. It just all wack. It

998
01:10:35.239 --> 01:10:49.880
just all wack, It just all
wack it. Bring record