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Adventist Radio London inspiration for the song
Welcome the Talking Point with Ray Angeler discussing

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the hot topics and answering your questions. Saturday's five to seven pm on Adventist

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Radio London. It's Talking Point,
It's Talking Point, It's Talking Point,

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it's Talking Point conversations. You need
to have good afternoon. Good afternoon,

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and welcome to Talking Point. I
hope you are keeping well and I've been

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looked into Adventure Radio London for the
last hour. I want to thank you

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the u see Y Children for their
program celebrating Mother's Day and the wonderful stories

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and inspiration that mothers and mother figures
can provide. So my name is Angela

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and you are listening to Talking Point
now. Usually it's three of us today,

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however, lots of things have got
not gone to plan today, so

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because's currently just myself with the studio. Unfortunately, my co hosts Zenya and

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Pedro. Yeah, I need to
see what's happening. Pedro isn't feeling too

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well today, so Pedro, I
hope you have a speedy you get better

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soon, a speedy recovery. And
Zenya hopefully he's going to join me.

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Shortly. I'm just trying to work
out whether she is come to come online

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with me on Zoom. But until
then, we'll keep the program going and

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see how we get on. So
I want to welcome you to Talking Point.

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It's been a lovely Sabbath day today, the tenth of March. How

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are we almost three week or so
gone through March already? But thank you

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for joining us, and hopefully you're
going to be inspired by what I'm going

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to be talking about and sharing,
and hopefully it's only will come on I

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have a bit of conversation, but
what we're going to look at today and

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the month of March is traditionally our
Women's month, and it's traditionally around the

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world Women's month as well. So
we're going to be throughout this month talking

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about women and special women in our
lives, special women who are making a

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difference in the community, and also
just getting some inspiration from characters in the

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Bible, the role that women played
and the women that have inspired us.

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And mixed in that we'll have some
music and some spoken word, et cetera.

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So today I really want to touch
a little bit about International Women's Day,

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which was on Friday, yesterday,
So Happy International Women's Day everyone around

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the world, wherever you're listening from. And then there's also a special day

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tomorrow, judicially in the UK it's
Mother's Day, so we really want to

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kind of I want to celebrate and
say thank you to our mothers. Now

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I'm saying mother and I'm using that
as to use that as my umbrella term

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to talk about mothers, mother figures, aunts, grandmothers, sisters, anybody

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who possibly has a mothering role.
So that's going to be our topic for

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today. So I'm gonna start with
a piece of music and I just want

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to say, yeah, I just
want to praise you by Maurette Brown Clark.

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We want to praise our people that
make a big difference in our lives.

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And if you would like to do
a shout out to any of those

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mother figures or those women who are
inspirational to you, please do share your

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thoughts with us. You can get
in contact with us at studio at Adventist

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Radio dot London, or you can
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number is zero seven four five nine
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do if you've got a thought,
want to especially put a setup dedication out

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to your mother's or mother figures,
or want to share something a quote or

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a thought from an inspirational woman in
your life, please do join in the

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conversation. Talk to me today.
I'd love to hear from you. So

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that studio at Adventage Radio Dot London. Textus on eight triple two eight write

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seven four five ninety six four two
eight nine eight. So we're going to

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play. I just want to praise
you by Maurett Brown Clark. I just

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want forever. Come on ever you
done, Fummy the same time listen and

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Donna Hey below be below, thank
you Jesus day see me. We just

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come to forevermen for reverend Yeah,
yeah for all that. Chip don fummy

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put your hand on your chest and
say fummy, pully can nobody tell it

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like you can tell it? And
Donna Hey billow to you to Jesus,

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get some growded out about my son. Thank you Jesus, Thank you,

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jee speed come on and clap your
hands. You've got some phrase up in

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here. I'm gonna phrase up forever
and never and never and table for everything

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that you turn from me, everything
that you tell. Pumpy pumpy, pumpy

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pummy, you just saved the glory. You're just somebody on the cheese.

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Everything to you, to you too, je. So we say thank you,

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mama, as said momma. See, they just want to thank you,

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cheese rever devil. We've got to
right to have We've gone right to

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praise you. We've gotta right to
bless you because we're been thinking about everything

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that you're done for us. Some
of us rays our hands, some of

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us cut my hands. Some of
us sleep, some of us sleep because

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he brought us some money. The
head and tefer thing but looks to your

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cheat. Everything belongs to your cheat. We come to let the world done

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now with nothing without your hat,
we ain't talk to bless your day.

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We've come to bless Sunday. Go
on and help me lift got up fine,

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he deserves it to be ahead.
Come on, les Sy today,

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come on and let's bless his day. We've come together, and we come

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together, and good head we come
to give. We have come together.

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Don't get tired yet. This God
doesn't get tired of here, go do

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some some of bloring. Do just
so so me, wyn't you make me

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to bless you? You've created me
a blessing, So I b a raiser.

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I'm gotta ride write to bless him. Oh no, bless your HOLI

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name. I wanna bless your holding
name. I don't know him. He

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came, not giving your name,
praise, not giving your neck? Brain?

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Why because he's worthing? Why because
he's holy? Why because he's right?

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Just? Why because he's just God? We bless him, We bless

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him, We bless him, We
bless him, bos big grains be raising,

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praise we you, we are you, where are you will miss us?

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Towns bout pray blesser par bless you, pray blesser pe blessings. We

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bless you. Pray, bless your
love, impressure love can your name glory?

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Yeah, colorre thank your cheese mother, please halloo jam, thank you

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cheeser. Okay, I just want
to praise you, Maret Brown Clark.

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And yes, dear heaven Father,
we want to praise you and for blessing

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us with another sabbath, dear Lord, and blessing us with special people in

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our life. And before we get
started and we go deep into our discussion,

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and let's have a word of prayer, Father God, Well, I

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thank you for blessing us. Dear
Lord. We want to praise and we

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want to thank you for all the
things that you have done for us,

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bringing us safety through another week,
Dear Lord, and blessing earth with a

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Sabbath day of rest. As we're
going to talk now about special people that

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you've created and have been inspirations for
our lives, Dear Lord, and played

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a big part in our lives.
Dear Lord, I want to pray that

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you will bless our conversation, bless
what we're sharing with our listeners today,

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and that people ended will be will
be blessed from that. I thank you

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for hearing and answering to my prayer. Amen. Amen. So it is

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no longer just me in the student
on the show today. Zenya has joined

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me. How are you doing,
Xenya, I am good. Hello to

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all our listeners. Anthologies if I
have to dip in an out. There's

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a lot going on on my side, including my neighbor doing repairs, oh,

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drilling, hammering. I've been a
bragging I'm not sure if its coming

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through on your end. But if
it is, just let me know.

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Okay, I can't I can't hear
anything at the moment. Hopefully people can

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hear you, Laddin clearly from off
at the beginning. But yes, so

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good to I say see you.
I can't actually see you, but good

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to hear your voice as always my
partners. Well. And as I say

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that, I remember the early days
and the past away was here. He

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would be sort of teasing to no
end the six months he didn't see me,

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It's true. And we saw a
lovely picture of you and we were

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like, is this what Zenya really
looks like? You know how sometimes you

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can kind of create those pictures.
And as I'm talking about that, my

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sister has found whatever app it is, I don't even know what it's called,

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but she's one of those kinds of
AI type apps where you can put

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your face and merge into something else. So she's been changing her age,

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you know, what she looks like, even her skin color, hair color,

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everything, which has been quite interesting
work had they And I tell you

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she's she's yeah, we need to
keep her on too much. I mean

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it's really quite interesting. I mean, you know, there's something really interested

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about it and quite fascinating, but
also really scary as well, because you

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just think, you know, where
does how far does all this all this

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kind of go? And we,
you know, we hear these horror stories

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of all these things that may have
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fair, it's how far will it? Will it go? Can it go?

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And you know what what damage can
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Exactly exactly, but yes, but
you know, further bit of fun sometimes

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it can be interested. Changed our
director to a woman with long hair and

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long blonde here dancing some tune and
sent it about and yeah, it started

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a bit of chaos, but in
the name of fun, indeed, And

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how was your week? Being a
busy one is always, yes, busy,

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dealing up a lot of things on
my end. I went away and

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true to form, I've come back
to a bit of Mayhem and Madden,

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but really glad that I went.
Enjoyed the trip and just trying to settle

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back into some sort of a routine
at the minute. Yeah, so yes,

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so here we are. Enough a
week is gone, and you know,

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I'm kind of my marvel. I
mean, we we always mentioned this

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about, you know, the month, the years the days, the weeks,

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and the months are going past very
quickly, and we are here in

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March already, so we're a quarter
of we're kind of almost a quarter of

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a way through the year of twenty
twenty four already, which you know is

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just amazing. But I guess,
you know, sometimes I think, you

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know, sometimes time is flying past. You know, we're always talking about

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God is coming soon. So hopefully
that's bringing us a little step closer to

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when he may be returning. We
never know when, but you know,

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i'd like to think sometime soon.
So yeah, but what look on my

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friends my friend's status I just saw
a few minutes ago. She's got two

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hundred and something sleep still Christmas,
No, no, no, don't do

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that. Oh Christmas about that.
Let's not even let's not ever go there.

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But that's you know, but one
thing that does look like it's hopefully

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getting a bit closer. It's spring. Oh yeah, I can see the

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flowers. Yes, I drove in
and I just saw a whole bank of

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daffodils, and I'm just like,
oh, you know, it's a bit

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it's not The sky is not that
blue where I am today, there's no

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bit gray and dull, but that
sort of flash of yellow against the green

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is just beautiful. And I'm sort
of thinking, you know, see lots

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of flowers out and about starting to
peek through the blossoms on the trees.

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So spring is hopefully on its way
here in the UK. So hopefully that's

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gonna It's been a mild winter.
It has, I think we can complain.

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It really has been on the milder
side. So yes, we count

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ourselves blessed. Yes, indeed,
indeed, so today, see how you

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are? I think delay I've been
okay, it's the beginning of the Yeah.

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Last week I wasn't well actually,
you know, and so i'd come

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down with a bit of a cold, which you know, unfortunately seems to

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kind of linger. Last week I
didn't really have much of a voice.

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So definitely much better from that.
But again, you know, quite a

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busy week. Yeah, but you
know, got through it. I had

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a team day with my team at
work yesterday, and actually it was really

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nice to kind of see people sometimes
this whole I don't mind working from home,

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but actually being amongst there's something to
be said about being amongst people,

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amongst your colleagues and being able to
kind of share ideas and talk to people.

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You know, God didn't design us
to be on our own, you

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know, so schellarship connections, you
know, meeting people. So it was

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a really nice day and actually for
once the whole team were you know,

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we often have you know, in
a couple of days a week, but

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not everybody's always in the same place, so it was really nice to do

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that. So yeah, definitely see
the value in connections. You know,

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sometimes I'm able to get to church
in the way that I'd like to,

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but so you kind of miss out
on that. But yeah, definitely from

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a fellowship perspective, Yeah, definitely
good. But yeah, but all good.

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Yeah, just trying to shift this
cold, which hopefully won't. Then

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we just went I'm talking about spring
and all the flowers whatever. I just

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hope it's not going to transfer into
hay fever because that'll be the next thing,

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you know. But indeed, indeed, I'm going to repeat that and

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you're the same as they say.
So yeah, So, as I started

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off by saying at the top of
the show that wanted us talk a little

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bit. We're celebrating Women's Month and
month of March traditionally there and international Women's

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Day was yesterday, and it really
is a time to recognize sort of the

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achievements and maybe even highlights of the
struggles that women having from more different kinds

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of walks of life. And I
think it's really one of the theme of

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it this year was inspiring inclusion.
And you know, again sometimes we hear

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these sort of buzzwords and we think, oh, you know, inclusion,

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what does that mean and what have
you? But this one is that,

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you know, and last year,
and I think the show that we played

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last week talked about equality and equity. Now again there's slightly two different things,

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but the idea is that you know, we are but people have the

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opportune we have opportunities to do the
things that they need to do, and

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that should be equal all round whatever
that's and equity kind of means that you've

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got the relative things to people where
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year is the inspiring inclusion. So
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that was kind of an interesting and
really interesting one. Now, International Women's

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Day has been going for other holmost
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in March nineteen eleven, and really
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activism and celebration for those who are
committed to forging women's equality, a sort

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of well known feminist journalist and activist
Gloria Steinem apparently once said the story of

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women's struggle for equality belongs to no
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but it's a collective effort of all
who care about human rights, which I

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thought was quite an interesting an interesting
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we think about these awareness days,
it's just centered on the people that it's

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focusing on. So it's just women
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actually it's really not. It's going
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can play a part, should play
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mind a text actually from by Where's
a Paul? In Galatians Galatians three twenty

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twenty eight, there is neither jew
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nor is there male and female,
For you are all one in Christ Jesus.

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So again you know the idea that
whilst we have our differences, we

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are still a collective, and as
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So the idea that everybody can be
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to play. Is an interesting one. But when you hear the word inclusion,

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what does that mean for you?
Zenya? And I think you've said

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it just that you know everyone can
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There should be no discrimination, there
should be no stereotypes, there should

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be no biases, and I think
that's the aim. That's what we're heading

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forward. We're making progress, but
we're not exactly there. When you spoke

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about the collective, I remember we
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had last time and the program you
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We spoke about doing a men's version
of this woman. Yes, I'm sorry

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that sounds confusing, but what we
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about what international women's they means to
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came to that conclusion when we had
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it's not just a woman's issue,
it's everybody's issue, and the men have

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to pay a play rather equal or
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the ones at the table. Perhaps
they're the ones that are had in the

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conversation. Is that need to move
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like I think that's something we're working
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it may not, but definitely it
is no bias, no stereotypes, no

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discrimination. We're all in this together, indeed. And can you imagine a

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world if it was like that?
I mean, I kind of, you

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know, I mean, it feels
quite hard to understand that. And yes,

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and the only place I can think
of, okay, which is where

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we're aspiring to be, is heaven
when God comes. But you know,

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I wonder kind of you know,
and I guess when those questions they have

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to say that if you ever wanted
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I really would want to know how
his version of the world, what

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it would have looked like. You
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did you want it to be like? Now we've got indications of that when

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we know we read our stories in
the Bible and what that first that first

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few I don't know the timeframe of
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when he went creation and when he
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you. But yeah, you kind
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I I, you know, there's
a lot to be said about we talk

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about equality, and sometimes I wonder
whether for some people equality means we have

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to be exactly the same everything said, but we have to celebrate our differences

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within that. Yeah, And that's
where the word equity comes to play,

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isn't it. It's making sure that
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No, we have different needs,
different responsibilities, et cetera, et

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cetera. But wherever we are and
whatever our needs and all of that are,

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we should be able to make the
same sort of progress. We deserve

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the same treatment we deserve, you
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rights. Yeah, definitely, And
I guess think that's where they tried to

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focus last time. Equity. Yes, where we're at, we're providing you

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whatever you need to to be successful
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I guess it's you know, when
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and you know often on you know, awareness days like International Women's Day,

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you know, you think of it
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It's a global movement, it's a
global awareness day. You know,

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people are doing different things around the
world, and sometimes you think, well,

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what can I do? You know, I'm in in my little corner

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here. But again, when we're
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you know, it's thinking about what
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and I guess you know, we're
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important to understand and value and seek
how what the inclusion of women and young

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girls and you know will look like. You know, if people aren't included,

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you go somewhere. If women aren't, there is maybe stopping and asking

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well why not. And you know, if you work in a company and

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you see things that sen you work
in HR so you you know, I'm

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sure involved in recruitment, and I
wonder and I guess there's levels of this

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you can do. How much you
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of has that kind of a word
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was gonna say positive discrimination, but
that's not what I mean. But in

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the sense of, you know,
you have an agenda in terms of the

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way you're recruiting and having X matter
people in particular roles and what have you

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maybe kind of actively recruiting for specific
positions sure everybody is represented. Yes,

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for calling out bad behavior, I
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things or props lots of these,
but that's one of the things that we

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can do call out, as you
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look right, don't seem right,
I'm not right, particularly as it pertends

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to women and them being represented and
their voices. We heard, yeah,

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and I guess the question as well. And I guess we were talking about

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this the other days in Yeah.
You know, in terms of when we

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think about the roles that women play
and things that we sometimes there are people

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who might think, oh, you
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be in different spaces, we want
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mean, sometimes that messaging doesn't always
doesn't always play out in certain environments.

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So we're talking about children, if
they're at school, are they kinds of

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encouraged to seek out maybe non traditionally
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kind of thing. I wonder if
that messaging happens right across the board.

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I suspect it maybe, But do
you think it's important that those that kind

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of messaging that you know, you
were able to do things no matter of

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who you are, and you know
you can get into those spaces if you

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work hard or try to place yourself
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course, and you're right, it
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It starts, you know, when
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boys. You know, if we're
ever going to change the narrative, we've

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got to change generation by generation,
you know. So we can't wait till

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we're in the boardroom. We've got
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No. Yeah, and I guess
it is. I'm certain that it is,

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but perhaps not as much as it
should be. And again, this

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is where I say, everybody has
an opportunity to calling these things out to

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make a difference, whatever sphere they're
in. If you're a teacher, if

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you're a head teacher, if you're
you know, wherever you are, wherever

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you're positioned, you can sort of
let your voice be bad and try to

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make or initiate change. I think
that's possible. Yeah, I mean I

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kind of. I mean for yourself. I mean, I'm trying to think

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when I was younger, was that
what I was hearing? I mean,

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if I'm gonna be honest, I
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but I kind of do. I
do remember my parents saying, you

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know, pushing me and encourage pushing, but encouraging me to try different things,

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get involved in things. I don't
think I was ever told, oh,

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you can't do that because you're a
girl. I don't ever remember hearing

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messaging like that. But for some
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I was. I know, I
was always encouraged to try and do you

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know, to try and do my
best, to excel, to try different

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things, get involved in different activities
that you know, and some I know,

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I did lots of things as a
child that maybe, you know,

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maybe because of my background or culture, may not have been expected, but

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I did them any way. So
I'd like to think, you know,

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my parents weren't necessarily saying, okay, you have to do certain things because

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you're a woman and you're a young
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Would you say? We don't remember
even having the conversation, to be

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honest, and that's not to say
it didn't happen, but I remember.

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But what I do know is that
there are certain things I just never thought

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of doing. And again that's the
mindset. I never thought of becoming a

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mechanic. I never thought of becoming
a firefighter. It just didn't it didn't

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cross my mind. I thought teacher, doctor, lawyer, you know,

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nurse whatever. But and I think
that's what I'm saying. We need to

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change the culture, maybe the thinking, maybe having these conversations very early and

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saying, you know what the world
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If you're a guy and you want
to go into the salon, you can.

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If you're a woman and you want
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you can. And again on me
saying that, it sounds like,

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you know, for me to say
that, it's like I'm feeding right into

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it. Well, that's that's how
I thought. Very you know, I

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didn't think of anything else. And
I don't know that there was a conversation

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about it. It was just how
it was. Yeah, yeah, that's

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true. I mean, yeah,
it'd be interesting. It'd be interesting.

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I mean, maybe it is.
Maybe it's something that we could we could

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maybe collaborate with the uc Y crew
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you hear that. I mean you
hear you hear them and sometimes you

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know, I marvel, like you
know, listen to them speaking and the

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insights that you can provide. And
sometimes when you hear young people, children,

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young people speaking, you're just like, wow, it's a it is

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a whole new world. They have
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of wonder what's surrounding them encouraging them
to kind of get into different things.

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But also, you know, as
much as we don't necessarily think of some

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of those professions maybe to go in
and what have you, I also and

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it's very sad to even think that, you know, as advances we are

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where we are, you know,
society unfortunately doesn't necessarily often support that.

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Either some of these organizations or these
professions they are not kind of they're not

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built to support women. And I
say built maybe not quite the right word,

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but they kind of don't necessarily meet
the needs of women. Unfortunately,

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we hear all too often in the
news, and I remember hearing something this

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week that you know, some of
these places don't appear to be very safe

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places for women. You know,
it can be very misogynistic, it can

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be very often very male dominated.
But the attitudes towards women, and you

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know, the way women are treated
in some of those spaces unfortunately cause a

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lot of women you know, a
lot of heartache, and often they're almost

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forced to leave professions and jobs that
they really love doing. You know.

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So again this is kind of having
to feed from top down to say,

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Okay, we need to try and
change the culture of some of these these

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organization than these professions and really sort
of think. But you know, it's

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a bit of a catchually too.
You need women in some places to do

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some of that. You need the
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of all of this in the first
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You've gone right back to the point
at the top. It's a collective.

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It's everybody's business and it's going to
take everyone being involved to make the

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change. And it does a change
in culture and thinking. Yeah, and

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that's often the hardest change is to
make. Yeah. And ultimately, you

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know, when we think about when
we think about as Christians and the kind

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of difference we want to make in
the world. You know, again,

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Jesus and God has created all of
us, He's created us equal, you

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know, he would we have to
think about how we would want to be

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treated and how we should we be
treating other people. So, you know,

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how can we inspire, whether it's
in our small corner or within our

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workplace or the jobs that we do
on a larger scale, how can we

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impact the community so that we are
demonstrating these kinds of values and quality that

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we can do so again, you
know, with as much as International Women's

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Days one day March March the eighth, you know, this is something that

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we can be doing year round.
This is not just a day one day

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to recognize some of these things.
It's got to be an ongoing thing.

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It's got to be something that we
are supporting every day, you know,

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and celebrating the achievements and the impact
that women have within our lives. I

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want to play a piece of spoken
word now. This was a poem that

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was written specifically for International Women's Day. It's by a lady called Sharena Lee.

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Now I can't find her surname now
now and she is it's a really

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quite a beautiful piece, Serena Lee
Sati. So she's a company spoken word

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poet and she's run with her community
to inspire inclusion. She supports out themes

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and basically, you know, it's
the idea of kind of it's quite interesting

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imagery and what have you and it
kind of made me think about the starting

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point of where women are. So
I'm going to play this piece now and

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then come back and continue our discussion. So this is inspiring inclusion a sisterhood

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riot for our sisters who refuse to
stay quiet for the world. Can we

409
00:32:30.480 --> 00:32:36.000
open the iris of our eyes and
the eyelids to our soul? Can we

410
00:32:36.119 --> 00:32:39.319
be seen for the souls that we
shure, for the she that she is

411
00:32:39.559 --> 00:32:45.359
the human being. Can we breathe
in just one breath and not have to

412
00:32:45.440 --> 00:32:51.359
worry it's un less away from you. Can we be seen as an equal

413
00:32:52.519 --> 00:32:57.279
as this is my right to breathe
here too, not having to distinguish the

414
00:32:57.359 --> 00:33:05.839
difference between people, she between her, between females. Can we be sisters

415
00:33:06.000 --> 00:33:12.960
of sisterhood with hearts that cluster together
like shiny stars in the sky, Some

416
00:33:13.240 --> 00:33:17.960
shine brighter in yellow than her majestic
color of her red. Together they stand

417
00:33:19.559 --> 00:33:24.599
no differences between their breath, where
the language of love radiates from under the

418
00:33:24.720 --> 00:33:31.400
layers of their chest, where the
heart meets words and words meet friends with

419
00:33:31.519 --> 00:33:37.079
the worry rest who cradles one breast, and sisters share stories of a life's

420
00:33:37.160 --> 00:33:46.079
hardship and test in spaces where inclusivity
thrives, sisters feel empowered sharing the stories

421
00:33:46.279 --> 00:33:53.519
of their lives from one world division
ocean eyes and autumn leaves, swirls of

422
00:33:53.559 --> 00:34:00.759
indifference. Their togetherness speaks of injustice, of ignorance, that in one branch

423
00:34:00.880 --> 00:34:07.079
they weave together, In one leaf
they breathe together, belonging as a whole,

424
00:34:07.239 --> 00:34:13.760
with each circular groove linked to the
bark of the tree. For we

425
00:34:13.880 --> 00:34:21.599
are sisters of the mothers born here
and that of across the sea. Our

426
00:34:21.679 --> 00:34:28.079
bodies are linked through the ear's universal
energy, carried through its rimed, through

427
00:34:28.119 --> 00:34:32.320
the salt in its sea, through
the soil and the deep rooted trees.

428
00:34:34.960 --> 00:34:42.320
They are women of different beliefs,
of empathy, of poetry, of trauma,

429
00:34:42.599 --> 00:34:46.480
of hope. Through togetherness, there
is always a sister who binds the

430
00:34:46.599 --> 00:34:54.559
rope for all sisters to feel included
and not shadow band the ghost. We

431
00:34:54.639 --> 00:35:00.800
will continue to create spaces, taking
spaces, making waves of pure light,

432
00:35:02.239 --> 00:35:07.880
for togetherness starts here, and freedom
to exist, to live, to be

433
00:35:08.039 --> 00:35:28.000
accepted is our birthright. Yes,
there's some wonderful piece of spoken word.

434
00:35:28.039 --> 00:35:32.280
They're piant. It's some really sort
of interesting imagery there. There's the bit

435
00:35:32.400 --> 00:35:37.199
I loved actually in that that sort
of says belonging as a whole. Basically,

436
00:35:37.199 --> 00:35:42.280
it kind of uses almost the analogy
of trees that are kind of you

437
00:35:42.360 --> 00:35:45.360
know how we kind of come together
in one brunch, they weave together,

438
00:35:45.440 --> 00:35:49.880
in one leave, they breathe together, belonging as a whole, with each

439
00:35:50.000 --> 00:35:52.920
circular groove linked to the bark of
the tree. For you are sisters of

440
00:35:53.000 --> 00:35:58.000
the mothers born here and that of
across the sea. Yeah, so you

441
00:35:58.039 --> 00:36:00.280
know, and I like the idea
that yes, there is again and as

442
00:36:00.360 --> 00:36:04.440
we share, we share so many
similar experiences no matter where we're from,

443
00:36:05.519 --> 00:36:09.360
and I guess you know, when
we come together and that we can make

444
00:36:09.400 --> 00:36:15.599
those experiences positive ones. So once
again, a happy International Women's Day,

445
00:36:15.719 --> 00:36:22.159
whilst it was yesterday, but let's
continue the idea of inspiring inclusion throughout the

446
00:36:22.679 --> 00:36:27.880
year and as we're going forward to
try and make a difference, and with

447
00:36:28.079 --> 00:36:34.440
that that will say, going nicely
into our celebration of our months actually before

448
00:36:34.440 --> 00:36:37.000
I go onto that, so you
know, is there any particular I'm forgetting

449
00:36:37.000 --> 00:36:40.119
about this sticking with that International Women's
theme? Is there any women that you

450
00:36:42.440 --> 00:36:46.360
in the Bible, any Bible cat
female biblical characters that have been quite inspirational

451
00:36:46.559 --> 00:36:53.320
for you. Oh now she's put
me on the I am and I've forgotten

452
00:36:53.360 --> 00:37:05.199
about that one. Too many?
Too many Esther Ruth, the widow of

453
00:37:05.320 --> 00:37:10.400
Serve Mary, Oh goodness, too
many. Was there anything anyone in particularly

454
00:37:10.480 --> 00:37:15.400
that you thought, actually, you
know who? Anybody in particular, what

455
00:37:15.480 --> 00:37:25.239
particular, anything particular about them?
I think for me, Esther really stands

456
00:37:25.280 --> 00:37:30.159
out for her bravery, for her
beauty, for her tenacity. You know,

457
00:37:30.400 --> 00:37:36.719
she's she's really done. I think
for her nation. She saved her

458
00:37:36.800 --> 00:37:42.440
nation, really and she did so
with grace. You know, she could

459
00:37:42.480 --> 00:37:49.039
have done so so much. I
mean, she could have been I guess

460
00:37:49.159 --> 00:37:52.400
she could have cowered, is what
I'm saying. She could have sort of

461
00:37:52.559 --> 00:37:55.199
backed down and ran away from the
from the role and the responsibility. But

462
00:37:55.320 --> 00:38:00.239
she she showed up. And I
think for me that that's a great example

463
00:38:00.360 --> 00:38:07.440
to us women to just trust God
and try not putpose in him and know

464
00:38:07.559 --> 00:38:13.199
that he will help us to deliver
to fulfill our purpose. I love that

465
00:38:13.360 --> 00:38:17.559
story. I love Esther, and
I hope that I can be called upan

466
00:38:17.599 --> 00:38:22.280
and I hope I have stood up
for what is right and made the right

467
00:38:22.320 --> 00:38:25.119
decisions, no matter the consequence.
And I kind of, you know that

468
00:38:25.559 --> 00:38:29.119
she's an interesting one because I kind
of think if you're thinking about this in

469
00:38:29.239 --> 00:38:34.000
modern times, you know, I
wonder whether you know, women would still

470
00:38:34.079 --> 00:38:37.119
do those, would do something like
that, considering the consequences that she potentially

471
00:38:37.199 --> 00:38:44.519
faced. I sure some have,
and I'm sure I'm sure there are women

472
00:38:44.559 --> 00:38:47.119
all over the world who are standing
up for what is right and standing up

473
00:38:47.199 --> 00:38:52.599
for God and you know, facing
consequences such as those. I mean,

474
00:38:52.639 --> 00:38:55.199
I think we live on the very
privileged side of the world, but we

475
00:38:55.400 --> 00:39:00.639
understand that people are prosecuted really,
you know, for their decisions, and

476
00:39:00.880 --> 00:39:05.280
maybe one day that will be us, and we have to be willing and

477
00:39:05.679 --> 00:39:09.400
ready to make that poice. But
thankfully God came through and it was not

478
00:39:10.000 --> 00:39:15.280
It was not death as she had
thought. Rather she saved the nation.

479
00:39:15.519 --> 00:39:20.320
Yeah, And actually that kind of
brings to mind someone like Deborah being a

480
00:39:20.519 --> 00:39:22.880
you know, a prophet and a
judge and the kind of you know,

481
00:39:23.639 --> 00:39:27.119
she was kind of in a position
where she was, again, as she

482
00:39:27.159 --> 00:39:30.000
said, standing up for what the
right thing to do, and at the

483
00:39:30.079 --> 00:39:32.280
time, you know, these are
lights weren't really following God's commands at the

484
00:39:32.320 --> 00:39:37.119
time, so she was helping them
to kind of lead them back to Him

485
00:39:37.559 --> 00:39:42.320
and again showing her strength, her
courage and her bravery and complete trusting God,

486
00:39:42.480 --> 00:39:46.039
because I guess she could have been
overthrown quite easily. And I kind

487
00:39:46.039 --> 00:39:51.280
of wonder, you know, when
we think about women's women in the Bible

488
00:39:51.559 --> 00:39:57.000
and how you know, the I
guess the kind of culture often meant that,

489
00:39:57.039 --> 00:39:59.920
you know, women weren't necessary in
these kind of positions as much as

490
00:40:00.559 --> 00:40:05.079
they say women in similar things today, they often were, you know,

491
00:40:05.440 --> 00:40:07.440
often in the background and what have
you. But there were these great leaders,

492
00:40:07.800 --> 00:40:12.239
these women who actually did all these
things and were able to do through

493
00:40:12.320 --> 00:40:17.719
God's grace and God's strength and mighty. Yeah. So it's interesting, really

494
00:40:17.800 --> 00:40:22.400
interesting. There are death there's so
many. There are so many women in

495
00:40:22.440 --> 00:40:27.320
the Bible that we can take our
lessons from and be inspired by. Each

496
00:40:27.800 --> 00:40:30.880
story unique. But there is a
lesson there to be lad, you know,

497
00:40:30.360 --> 00:40:36.599
whether it's one of faithful commitment to
bravery and courage, you know,

498
00:40:37.960 --> 00:40:43.360
there is there is a story.
Yeah, I will encourage you to our

499
00:40:43.400 --> 00:40:49.280
listeners find those those women in the
Bible and have a read about their stories.

500
00:40:49.760 --> 00:40:52.079
You know they and you know,
it's funny because I was reading one

501
00:40:52.199 --> 00:40:54.920
article and it was kind of saying, you know, from heroines and Harlot's

502
00:40:55.239 --> 00:41:00.039
you know, so women who weren't
always you know, at the top as

503
00:41:00.079 --> 00:41:04.000
it were, some of them were
kind of all miss and sometimes unfortunately in

504
00:41:04.079 --> 00:41:07.159
society women are often seen at the
bottom of the parlors it were. You

505
00:41:07.239 --> 00:41:09.719
know, some things may not have
changed over the years, but even some

506
00:41:09.840 --> 00:41:15.440
of those women were used by God
to make a difference, save a nation,

507
00:41:15.239 --> 00:41:21.599
spread the word and everything else.
So yeah, definitely to be led

508
00:41:21.639 --> 00:41:27.159
there. So that still just now
was seg nicely into who is celebrating,

509
00:41:27.280 --> 00:41:29.079
So before you do, I even
want to say, you know what,

510
00:41:29.239 --> 00:41:31.039
look around you, look in the
Bible, but look around you. There

511
00:41:31.079 --> 00:41:36.719
are several women who have you know, stood out and been courageous and made

512
00:41:36.760 --> 00:41:44.360
a different you know, from Harriet
to you know. Yes, it's true,

513
00:41:44.559 --> 00:41:47.599
it is there are you can find
stories there too, Yes, which

514
00:41:47.639 --> 00:41:52.480
brings to my little poem that I
found called Women of Valor. In the

515
00:41:52.559 --> 00:41:57.320
depths of adversity, they rise with
courage and grace, They defy the skies,

516
00:41:57.840 --> 00:42:01.559
their voices a symphony of hope,
their actions a testament to their scope

517
00:42:02.119 --> 00:42:08.239
through trials and tribulations, they stand
with unwavering faith they command are women of

518
00:42:08.360 --> 00:42:14.239
valor, so strong and wise in
their present, the world presence the world

519
00:42:14.440 --> 00:42:17.360
mesberrized. So that kind of sums
up nicely just what we were saying.

520
00:42:17.480 --> 00:42:22.719
So again, find these inspirational women
within our Bible, find those inspirational women

521
00:42:22.800 --> 00:42:28.159
within your own world's, your own
community, and you know or be that

522
00:42:28.320 --> 00:42:34.119
inspirational woman yourself. You know,
you two can make a difference wherever you

523
00:42:34.280 --> 00:42:40.280
are. So tomorrow is a special
day here in the UK. Now,

524
00:42:40.320 --> 00:42:45.000
often with these awareness days, whilst
they're just focused on one day, doesn't

525
00:42:45.000 --> 00:42:47.760
necessarily have to mean this is the
only time that you celebrate look out,

526
00:42:49.239 --> 00:42:54.760
gift share etc. But here in
the UK it is Mother's Day. So

527
00:42:54.880 --> 00:43:00.760
I'm going to say happy Mother's Day
in advance to ours and our mother figures

528
00:43:00.760 --> 00:43:04.519
as well. And I'm kind of
using the word mother as a bit of

529
00:43:04.559 --> 00:43:10.679
an umbrella term because I was speaking
to Paul actually just earlier, and sometimes

530
00:43:10.719 --> 00:43:16.920
you know, everybody's in very different
situations and whilst there may be many women

531
00:43:17.239 --> 00:43:22.159
who are mothers, there are many
women who aren't for various different reasons.

532
00:43:23.199 --> 00:43:27.760
And there are many people who sadly
have lost their mothers, whose mothers aren't

533
00:43:27.760 --> 00:43:30.840
with them any more. But we
want to celebrate those women who have those

534
00:43:31.880 --> 00:43:37.840
mother titleizing they've given birth to children, or mothers who are there or mother

535
00:43:37.000 --> 00:43:45.199
figures or people who do mother ring
as well. So definitely want to celebrate

536
00:43:45.280 --> 00:43:52.239
those today. So if you do
have any thoughts that you'd want to say

537
00:43:52.400 --> 00:43:55.679
thank you to sort of share your
thoughts about those women in your life who

538
00:43:55.800 --> 00:44:00.280
have played a mother role or are
your mothers. Do you get in contact

539
00:44:00.320 --> 00:44:05.840
with us? You can reach us
at studio at Advantage Radio dot London,

540
00:44:06.519 --> 00:44:09.039
or you can text us on eight
triple two eight write hope and then your

541
00:44:09.079 --> 00:44:14.960
message, or you can send us
a WhatsApp on zero seven four five nine

542
00:44:15.119 --> 00:44:20.960
six four two eight nine eight So
zeid, Yeah, did we have anybody

543
00:44:21.039 --> 00:44:22.360
that had come in? I know
you were looking at our social media,

544
00:44:22.760 --> 00:44:28.039
our Instagram page, if I remember
brightly, Have we had anybody that's come

545
00:44:28.079 --> 00:44:32.920
in with anything with us today?
Yes, we have, and I have

546
00:44:34.320 --> 00:44:43.639
lost my phone. So we shared
on our page a couple questions regarding my

547
00:44:43.880 --> 00:44:49.719
th'sday or mothering or mothers, and
we had a few responses not as many

548
00:44:49.840 --> 00:44:53.280
as I would have liked, but
you did get a few. We were

549
00:44:53.440 --> 00:45:00.159
asking for favorite songs and the favorite
hymns, so I'll start there, and

550
00:45:01.480 --> 00:45:08.159
I don't know if you've got it
lined up, but we had I think

551
00:45:08.400 --> 00:45:15.360
the El's Bell's Forbid me. I've
done that wrong, El's Bell's forty four,

552
00:45:16.119 --> 00:45:22.480
saying that their favorite song or him
was until then. Okay, you

553
00:45:22.719 --> 00:45:27.719
got another choice, the old Rugged
Cross. Thank you very much for responding,

554
00:45:28.000 --> 00:45:30.719
and I believe you've got that song
lined up as well, yes,

555
00:45:31.280 --> 00:45:35.159
so if you do have the other
song, we can play them both back

556
00:45:35.239 --> 00:45:42.760
to back. We had Wonderful SLC
responding, saying that their favorite song was

557
00:45:42.800 --> 00:45:49.239
A Blessed Jesus hold My Hand by
sameon out. Okay, So thank you

558
00:45:49.360 --> 00:45:52.320
so much for sharing those and we
will definitely, I definitely have those lined

559
00:45:52.400 --> 00:45:58.079
up, so we will definitely play
those at a moment. So when I

560
00:45:58.159 --> 00:46:06.800
was thinking about this show today and
I was sort of thinking about mother's a

561
00:46:06.880 --> 00:46:09.079
text did come to mind as I
was kind of researching, and this is

562
00:46:10.079 --> 00:46:16.760
Proverbs thirty one, verse twenty five
to twenty eight, and it says she's

563
00:46:16.840 --> 00:46:21.679
closed with strength and dignity and she
laughs without fear of the future. When

564
00:46:21.760 --> 00:46:24.079
she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness.

565
00:46:24.599 --> 00:46:30.440
She carefully watches everything in her household
and suffers nothing from laziness her children,

566
00:46:30.679 --> 00:46:34.280
her children stand and bless her,
and her husband praises her. And I

567
00:46:34.440 --> 00:46:37.960
thought that was a really powerful testament
to the role of mothers in our lives,

568
00:46:38.320 --> 00:46:45.360
of whatever they do. So that
kind of came to mind, and

569
00:46:45.440 --> 00:46:47.239
there's so much we can talk about
with that. But when you hear the

570
00:46:47.280 --> 00:46:52.760
word mother, zigna, what comes
to mind for you? And this could

571
00:46:52.760 --> 00:46:55.719
be twofold, because you are indeed
one, But what comes to mind for

572
00:46:55.800 --> 00:47:04.639
you? Jay day Uh? Sacrifice, Yeah, sacrifice comes to mind,

573
00:47:05.639 --> 00:47:14.599
patient comes to mind. And love
mm hmmm. Yeah, that is a

574
00:47:14.679 --> 00:47:21.840
word that is synonymous with being a
mother, mothering, motherhood. It is

575
00:47:22.159 --> 00:47:28.119
that kind of love that can't even
be explained. It's and I'm not going

576
00:47:28.159 --> 00:47:31.000
to attempt to. I think I've
read some maybe shaped it before. It's

577
00:47:31.119 --> 00:47:37.039
like having your heart running around on
legs. I've heard the analogy and I

578
00:47:37.079 --> 00:47:42.440
thought that was so true. But
yeah, those are the words. But

579
00:47:42.679 --> 00:47:46.280
I think of when I think of
mothering, and it's the lifetime. It

580
00:47:46.480 --> 00:47:51.840
is. It's not one that you
can reline from or retire from. It

581
00:47:52.000 --> 00:47:57.360
is. It is life long.
Yeah, and that's kind of very indicative

582
00:47:57.440 --> 00:48:02.079
of you know, the sort of
say the sort of as a popular scripture

583
00:48:02.119 --> 00:48:06.360
about love, you know, one
Corinthians thirteen, what love is all about.

584
00:48:07.719 --> 00:48:09.920
And you know that's what I guess
so many people. That's people want

585
00:48:09.920 --> 00:48:13.239
from my mother's And as you're saying
about that, love is patient, love

586
00:48:13.360 --> 00:48:15.960
is kind, Envy doesn't boast,
it's not proud, it doesn't dishonor others.

587
00:48:15.960 --> 00:48:21.400
It's not self seeking, it's not
easily angered, although as you said,

588
00:48:21.559 --> 00:48:24.519
it can be very challenging, very
very hard. It keeps no record

589
00:48:24.599 --> 00:48:28.280
of wrongs. At the end of
the day, you're gonna love your love

590
00:48:28.840 --> 00:48:32.440
unconditionally, and hope that's a reflection
of just how God is loving us unconditionally.

591
00:48:32.599 --> 00:48:36.800
And you try to. I mean
it's not always easy, as you've

592
00:48:36.800 --> 00:48:39.400
said, and we make mistakes with
parents. I certainly put my hand up.

593
00:48:39.880 --> 00:48:44.960
I think I made a mistake every
day, but I think the love

594
00:48:45.079 --> 00:48:49.880
is there and that's what he sees
overall, and I love him and I

595
00:48:49.960 --> 00:48:54.199
want the best for him, and
so yes, that's the goal stand.

596
00:48:54.880 --> 00:49:00.639
Let's put it yeah. And with
that mind, before we play first piece

597
00:49:00.719 --> 00:49:05.039
of music, I have another poem
that I'd liked to share to our mothers

598
00:49:05.079 --> 00:49:07.719
out there, which follows on nice
of what you were just saying there.

599
00:49:07.159 --> 00:49:12.559
A mother's love is something that no
one can explain. It is made of

600
00:49:12.719 --> 00:49:19.000
deep devotion and of sacrifice and pain. It is endless and unselfish and enduring,

601
00:49:19.079 --> 00:49:22.960
come what may, for nothing can
destroy it or take that love away.

602
00:49:22.760 --> 00:49:29.000
It is patient and forgiving when all
others are forsaking, and it never

603
00:49:29.119 --> 00:49:36.039
fails or falters even though the heart
is breaking. It believes beyond believing when

604
00:49:36.119 --> 00:49:40.239
the world around condemns, and it
glows with all the beauty of the rarest,

605
00:49:40.480 --> 00:49:45.760
brightest gems. It is far beyond
defining. It defies all explanation,

606
00:49:46.679 --> 00:49:52.519
and it still remains a secret like
their mysteries of creation and many splendid miracle

607
00:49:53.280 --> 00:50:01.880
man cannot understand. And another wondrous
evidence of God's tender guiding hand Our mother's

608
00:50:01.960 --> 00:50:07.920
love by Helen Steiner Rice. And
with that, we're going to play our

609
00:50:07.960 --> 00:50:13.239
first piece of music and dedication to
our mother's And this is until then.

610
00:50:13.400 --> 00:50:35.559
And I picked a version by David
Phelps, my heart can see when I

611
00:50:36.079 --> 00:50:52.599
passed to remember our hardy key is
bad, a stepping star, all the

612
00:50:52.800 --> 00:51:07.039
tree that's winding, always on word. This trouble world is not my final.

613
00:51:10.360 --> 00:51:24.840
But until the my heart will go
on suit until her with joy,

614
00:51:25.559 --> 00:51:42.760
I'll carry on unto the day my
eyes behold that city, onto the day

615
00:51:45.000 --> 00:52:08.320
God calls me ing of with bill
timon and lose their value if we recall

616
00:52:09.679 --> 00:52:22.480
the borrows for a walk, and
things of that cause my heart to trim,

617
00:52:25.400 --> 00:52:46.679
remember, bring a small but on
until my war will call hanib we

618
00:52:47.360 --> 00:53:34.920
joy carry on unh the lies before
the city onto go call on Will went

619
00:53:35.280 --> 00:54:44.760
to the city on the on the
day he called me. Until then,

620
00:54:45.599 --> 00:54:49.280
David Phelps, Oh, beautiful voice, beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, and

621
00:54:49.320 --> 00:54:53.000
a lovely beautiful song. And until
then, Yes, and so that's and

622
00:54:53.079 --> 00:54:57.920
who was that biogains? I knew
you did say. That was from el

623
00:54:58.039 --> 00:55:04.480
Spell. Okay, thank you you. And that then we had do you

624
00:55:04.639 --> 00:55:12.000
have blessed Jesus hold my hand?
Yes? I do so, quest and

625
00:55:12.119 --> 00:55:15.199
that was from wonderful SLC. Okay, so we'll play we'll play that.

626
00:55:15.280 --> 00:55:20.679
In one moment, you had a
text text for us any favorite text,

627
00:55:22.719 --> 00:55:28.480
Yes, but I wanted to pull
it up. I do not have it

628
00:55:28.559 --> 00:55:31.280
pulled up yet. Can we jump
to the song and then come back to

629
00:55:31.679 --> 00:55:37.880
sure? Okay, So we're going
to play another another beautiful song. Blessed

630
00:55:38.000 --> 00:55:44.519
Jesus, hold my hand. And
this is by Simeon Autoon. So ho

631
00:55:44.679 --> 00:55:47.400
pronounced that started that? So if
you'd like to, like I said,

632
00:55:47.400 --> 00:55:52.480
if you'd like to share with us
any favorite text or favorite piece of music

633
00:55:52.719 --> 00:55:55.360
that you maybe as a mother.
Do you like all mothers in your life?

634
00:55:57.280 --> 00:56:01.559
Favorites of theirs? Do gain in
contact with us? So, Blessed

635
00:56:01.719 --> 00:56:09.800
Jesus hold my hand. Ready for
some old time gospel. As I traveled

636
00:56:09.880 --> 00:56:17.360
through this pilbram la, there is
a friend who walks with me, lead

637
00:56:17.559 --> 00:56:23.119
me safely through the same thing.
And it is the Christ had the as

638
00:56:25.880 --> 00:56:35.360
this would be my praier Lord to
help me do the best idea for I

639
00:56:35.599 --> 00:56:40.199
need. I lie to guy mean
day and night. Blessed Jesus, all

640
00:56:40.440 --> 00:57:00.159
my Helllivia too, I need every
through this for the same potex p a

641
00:57:01.599 --> 00:57:13.880
hear my felee ooo loo non When
I knee in bra to meet you there,

642
00:57:14.280 --> 00:57:22.559
Blessed Jesus, spool let me travel
in the light, fee bye,

643
00:57:22.760 --> 00:57:30.559
that I may see the blessed way. Kid me that I may be youly

644
00:57:30.960 --> 00:57:38.360
night and say redemption song. Someday
I will be a soldier. Breathe and

645
00:57:39.000 --> 00:57:47.440
I'll never family. Take a slam
as I ah what go candly meet the

646
00:57:47.599 --> 00:58:01.199
foot blesser Jesus spool by have the
l Yes, I need you entry through

647
00:58:01.320 --> 00:58:12.760
this stream, through this pis of
meland, protect me five by help my

648
00:58:12.960 --> 00:58:22.360
feverel be would look down on me
when I kneel and pile to meet you.

649
00:58:22.559 --> 00:58:36.000
That the Citjesus fool of my hand
by that. Oh don't I need

650
00:58:36.119 --> 00:59:12.519
you to whom? I said?
But he again everybody saying I need through

651
00:59:13.039 --> 00:59:22.800
this so the steland, Oh my
God, pay my fee, pay my

652
00:59:22.960 --> 00:59:30.280
feeble feed blow. I need to
live down on and then when I need,

653
00:59:30.719 --> 00:59:39.039
when I need and pay. That's
the Jesus fool man say. I

654
00:59:39.199 --> 00:59:44.840
need to know who you. I
need to know whose I I need to

655
00:59:44.960 --> 00:59:50.000
go, hold my hands. I
need to did I want to be William.

656
00:59:50.920 --> 01:00:02.239
I need to love me hear my
feet. Oh don't look, don't

657
01:00:02.320 --> 01:00:22.519
know me when I when I wow, I want yeah, wow, holl

658
01:00:22.599 --> 01:00:34.079
me morter hone need, Hold my
husband when I need, when I need

659
01:00:35.440 --> 01:00:52.719
somebody when I hid. Who sees
a storm my house? This lord,

660
01:00:53.599 --> 01:01:02.239
honey, you old me in the
persons hold me. Happy Mother's Day to

661
01:01:02.320 --> 01:01:06.199
the woman who has given her all
to give me everything she never had.

662
01:01:07.039 --> 01:01:09.280
To the woman with strong hands and
a fierce soul who raised me to be

663
01:01:09.320 --> 01:01:15.159
the person that I am. Their
day is filled with stress, nights filled

664
01:01:15.199 --> 01:01:19.480
with tears, dreams filled with faith, and the mind ready to take on

665
01:01:19.639 --> 01:01:24.079
any fears. Every day she made
sure I ate dressed well as she faced

666
01:01:24.119 --> 01:01:29.960
hard work hours in order to come
home. She is the embodiment of courage

667
01:01:30.039 --> 01:01:35.199
and strength, a person who deserves
the best, who deserves respect from the

668
01:01:35.280 --> 01:01:39.039
rest who come her way. She
has walked through thorns in order to guide

669
01:01:39.079 --> 01:01:44.760
me to the meadows, has given
me unconditional love and protected me day after

670
01:01:45.000 --> 01:01:50.280
day. To the mother who has
warned me with her embrace, wiped away

671
01:01:50.400 --> 01:01:52.280
my tears, and prayed for me
during the tough times in my life.

672
01:01:53.039 --> 01:01:58.559
I love you more than words can
describe. You are my will and strife

673
01:01:59.400 --> 01:02:02.400
and a person and who I can
confide. Always know that you have a

674
01:02:02.599 --> 01:02:09.559
very special place in my heart.
Mom. Thank you for everything, thank

675
01:02:09.639 --> 01:02:21.760
you for saving me from the dark. Yes we are saying happy Mother's Day

676
01:02:22.400 --> 01:02:28.360
and saying thank you to our mothers
and our mother figures. That was a

677
01:02:28.400 --> 01:02:35.119
piece of a poem there by mel
pays so say yes, thank you and

678
01:02:35.280 --> 01:02:40.320
mothers. And before that we heard
a very up tempo version of Blessed Jesus

679
01:02:40.360 --> 01:02:45.039
hold my hand. I love that
by seeing me in outon and that was

680
01:02:45.079 --> 01:02:47.559
a request that came through for us. So having over to u Zenya,

681
01:02:47.719 --> 01:02:52.239
I know you've got a couple of
other people have contacted us as well and

682
01:02:52.320 --> 01:02:58.440
sent in yes. I also shared
it on my own page and got a

683
01:02:58.480 --> 01:03:02.920
few responses, so very much for
those. I asked as well about favorite

684
01:03:04.000 --> 01:03:12.840
texts, and my friend sure She
responded saying her favorite text is from Psalms

685
01:03:13.119 --> 01:03:20.199
one thirty nine that make sure r
right one thirty nine fourteen. I will

686
01:03:20.280 --> 01:03:25.519
praise THEE for I am faithfully and
wonderfully made, marvelous and thy marvelous are

687
01:03:25.599 --> 01:03:31.320
thy words? Sorry, and that
my soul knoweth right well, beautiful text,

688
01:03:31.559 --> 01:03:38.559
not maybe as popular, but certainly
as powerful. I am fearfully and

689
01:03:38.800 --> 01:03:45.000
wonderfully made. And that's that,
I hope is the anthem of our mothers

690
01:03:45.320 --> 01:03:53.960
who are listening today. She also
shared her favorite song and rested Assurance.

691
01:03:54.000 --> 01:04:01.000
Do you have that lined up and
play that one? Okay? So we're

692
01:04:01.000 --> 01:04:03.920
going to do Blessed Assurance And that's
kind of one of my favorite hymns as

693
01:04:04.000 --> 01:04:09.039
well. I've chosen a version by
the Bill Gaithera trio, so I hope

694
01:04:09.079 --> 01:04:39.119
you enjoy and thank you for sharing
that with us. Blessed of shoe Jesuses

695
01:04:39.960 --> 01:04:59.360
my oh wild for change of glory, Divi, heir of salvation, se

696
01:05:00.599 --> 01:05:21.079
purchase, how worn of his speaks, washed in his blood. This he

697
01:05:21.840 --> 01:05:44.239
is my story. This he is
my soul, craising my say your day.

698
01:05:48.599 --> 01:06:11.559
They is my stone. This is
smile so crazy, my say you,

699
01:06:14.719 --> 01:06:38.480
oh thoty, oh perfect of me
John all his arist I and my

700
01:06:39.119 --> 01:07:00.559
say you. I'm happy and blamest
watching and wait tame looking a b filled

701
01:07:00.760 --> 01:07:18.159
with his schools, lost in his
low. This is my school bad.

702
01:07:20.880 --> 01:07:55.039
This is my song raising my say
day. This is not it's my son

703
01:07:59.320 --> 01:08:39.600
ray my suit. Oh oh well, a lovely version of that song Blessed

704
01:08:39.680 --> 01:08:45.319
Assurance, And that was for Remimey
again, Senya Bie Hodge, Okay,

705
01:08:45.520 --> 01:08:49.199
thank you so much.'s saying
that was one of four favorites. You

706
01:08:49.479 --> 01:08:54.279
really pulled out the archives there.
I did was have a version as well.

707
01:08:54.359 --> 01:08:58.479
I mean, I'm a great lover
of our hymns actually, so that's

708
01:08:58.520 --> 01:09:02.359
definitely on one of my favorites as
well. So you had another one for

709
01:09:02.439 --> 01:09:05.479
us Anya, Yes, bj one, thank you very much as well for

710
01:09:05.640 --> 01:09:13.319
sending in your response. First King
three fifteen. But sanctify the Lord God

711
01:09:13.439 --> 01:09:16.159
in your hearts, and be ready
always to give an answer to every man

712
01:09:16.239 --> 01:09:20.800
who asketh you a reason for the
pope that is in you, with meekness

713
01:09:21.079 --> 01:09:26.439
and fear, love beautiful text.
But scientify the Lord God in your hearts.

714
01:09:26.640 --> 01:09:30.479
Be ready always to give an answer
to every man who asked gets you

715
01:09:30.239 --> 01:09:33.840
a reason for the pope that is
in you. It's meekness and fear,

716
01:09:34.680 --> 01:09:41.600
and the song is I can only
imagine. And the version you've done there

717
01:09:42.000 --> 01:09:47.399
is by me, yes, so
I can only imagine. Thank you,

718
01:09:47.479 --> 01:10:06.960
and I hope you enjoy. I
can only imagine what it will be like

719
01:10:09.560 --> 01:10:18.760
when I walk by your side.
I can only imagine what my eyes will

720
01:10:18.840 --> 01:10:32.880
see when your face is before me. I can only imagine, yes,

721
01:10:40.159 --> 01:10:46.159
surrounded by your glory. One will
my heart feel? Will I dance for

722
01:10:46.439 --> 01:10:53.479
you Jesus, or in all of
you be still, will lasting in your

723
01:10:53.720 --> 01:11:00.039
presence, but you might needs when
love will Lastee Holly Loot, Will I

724
01:11:00.159 --> 01:11:10.720
be able to speak and all I
can only imagine. I can only imagine.

725
01:11:15.199 --> 01:11:25.039
I can only imagine when that day
comes, in that fan myself standing

726
01:11:25.199 --> 01:11:35.840
in the sun. I can only
imagine when on live doy is forever forever

727
01:11:36.199 --> 01:11:53.439
worship you. I can only imagine. I can only imagine surrounded by your

728
01:11:53.560 --> 01:12:00.239
glory one with my heart feel when
lattance for you, Geejesus, all in

729
01:12:00.439 --> 01:12:06.720
off you be still, will lasting
in your presence, what you my days

730
01:12:06.960 --> 01:12:15.000
will laugh, all lasting, halleluia. Will love being able to speaking all

731
01:12:15.279 --> 01:12:30.119
I can only imagine. Yeah,
I can only imagine surrounded by your Lauren

732
01:12:30.960 --> 01:12:38.399
wan away about unel Will I dance
boy yes? Or in off you be

733
01:12:38.640 --> 01:12:45.319
still when lasting in your presence?
What's you my day's aw laugh when lasting,

734
01:12:46.199 --> 01:12:57.119
halleluia. I will love being able
speaking Aline you only imagine. I

735
01:12:57.399 --> 01:13:15.239
get only imagion. I can only
imagine. I can only imagine. I

736
01:13:15.399 --> 01:13:33.479
can only imagine. I can only
image. I can only imagine when online

737
01:13:33.560 --> 01:13:55.920
would do It's forever forever worship you
I can only imagine, and I have

738
01:13:56.079 --> 01:14:00.920
the beautiful song I can only imagine
shared with us there with from mercy me.

739
01:14:00.920 --> 01:14:08.319
So thank you for that? Oh
what am I saying? Thank you

740
01:14:08.439 --> 01:14:15.680
for that suggestion, sharing that thought
with you with us? So yes,

741
01:14:15.880 --> 01:14:19.239
thank you. So Mother's Day now, I said, yeah, it's just

742
01:14:19.279 --> 01:14:23.920
as alluded to this. I'm a
studio today, not actually I said I

743
01:14:24.000 --> 01:14:26.960
was on my own. I'm actually
not on my own because I've actually got

744
01:14:27.000 --> 01:14:30.760
my mum with me here today.
She often accompanies me to the studio to

745
01:14:30.840 --> 01:14:34.720
do my show, sitting quietly in
the corner. I think she's a little

746
01:14:34.720 --> 01:14:39.439
shy actually, so I'm not sure
she wants to come on and say anything,

747
01:14:39.479 --> 01:14:43.159
although she may. You may hear
a commented on the background. But

748
01:14:43.319 --> 01:14:46.159
yes, but I want to say
thank you to my mum for being such

749
01:14:46.159 --> 01:14:50.439
a wonderful person. She has some
health challenges at the moment, which has

750
01:14:50.640 --> 01:14:56.479
you know, changed things over the
last few years, and it's really changed

751
01:14:56.479 --> 01:14:59.640
a lot of things for me as
well. But you know, when we

752
01:14:59.720 --> 01:15:02.479
kind of think about our mother's and
it's quite interesting as I've been living with

753
01:15:02.600 --> 01:15:08.000
her and caring for her, and
often people will say you know, sometimes

754
01:15:08.039 --> 01:15:10.359
we think and oh, we like
our parents, so we like them.

755
01:15:10.399 --> 01:15:13.399
And as there's so many things,
I realize I'm so like my mum,

756
01:15:14.720 --> 01:15:16.880
which you know, not a terrible
thing at all, but I can kind

757
01:15:16.920 --> 01:15:20.520
of see the things that I'm doing
and I think, oh, so on

758
01:15:20.640 --> 01:15:24.000
my mum. I mean often people, if you to see us, would

759
01:15:24.000 --> 01:15:28.560
say that I look like my mom. But I definitely have some of her

760
01:15:28.640 --> 01:15:31.880
characteristics. I'm sure, she says, smiling now at me in the background,

761
01:15:32.680 --> 01:15:35.119
But I want to say thank you
to my mum. And it's been

762
01:15:35.119 --> 01:15:38.840
a real privilege, you know,
a challenge that it can be to be

763
01:15:38.920 --> 01:15:43.720
able to be looking after her,
staying with her, helping her doing things,

764
01:15:43.800 --> 01:15:45.680
because you know, I'm giving back
to what she has done for me

765
01:15:46.760 --> 01:15:54.159
over these many years as well.
So Happy Mother's Day, Mom. She's

766
01:15:54.279 --> 01:15:59.199
laughing. Oh, hold on,
she might actually want to come on,

767
01:15:59.319 --> 01:16:02.920
hold on, hold on, hold
on speaking to this one. Have you

768
01:16:02.960 --> 01:16:10.399
want to say hello to everybody?
Just say hello to our listeners anyway,

769
01:16:11.399 --> 01:16:16.880
just say hello. I think she's
playing shy now likes to be the voice

770
01:16:16.880 --> 01:16:21.359
in the background. You are any
human and a beautiful one at that as

771
01:16:21.399 --> 01:16:24.479
well. So they're going to say
hello, and how are we Mom?

772
01:16:24.800 --> 01:16:27.640
Well, I'm going to but I've
got to get to make sure that yes,

773
01:16:28.159 --> 01:16:31.520
you have you have, but you
have just started. Oh okay,

774
01:16:31.600 --> 01:16:38.239
how are you? How are you
mom? I'm fine talking to this myself.

775
01:16:38.399 --> 01:16:43.960
But then again, I just forget
that that's okay. How are you

776
01:16:44.039 --> 01:16:48.399
today? What were you supposed to
do? No, she's being shay.

777
01:16:48.560 --> 01:16:54.600
So anyway, a little little little
chat for my mom there, so I

778
01:16:54.680 --> 01:16:57.000
want to thank you. I'm going
to say Happy Mother's Day to her as

779
01:16:57.079 --> 01:17:01.199
well. And it's funny. I'd
bought a flowers yesterday for mum and it's

780
01:17:01.239 --> 01:17:03.279
kind of interested. The lady was
like, oh, do you want a

781
01:17:03.279 --> 01:17:05.079
bag for your flowers? And you
said, oh, I've got some bother

782
01:17:05.159 --> 01:17:09.600
till because it's Mother's Day and lots
of people are gonna be coming in buying

783
01:17:09.680 --> 01:17:14.439
flowers. And it's interesting. That's
one thing that I do all the time.

784
01:17:14.479 --> 01:17:17.680
Actually, I think there's such beauty
in fresh flowers in the house,

785
01:17:17.760 --> 01:17:21.119
and you know, I really do
buy my mum flowers by myself. Flowers.

786
01:17:21.840 --> 01:17:25.840
So she's definitely got a big bunch
for tomorrow. But that's kind of

787
01:17:25.840 --> 01:17:30.039
a regular thing in our house.
So my encouragement is people up there,

788
01:17:30.039 --> 01:17:32.159
if you love plants and flowers,
you know, share and give those to

789
01:17:32.720 --> 01:17:36.840
those special women, mothers, mother
figures in your lives and to bring a

790
01:17:36.880 --> 01:17:40.800
bit of a nice, nice smile
day't just necessarily keep it for one day.

791
01:17:41.439 --> 01:17:45.199
I'm sure the florists are going to
do a wonderful trade tomorrow with their

792
01:17:45.800 --> 01:17:49.920
contributions there as well. But one
of the things I picked a song,

793
01:17:50.239 --> 01:17:55.039
one of mum's song favorite songs actually
to play and it kind of really sums

794
01:17:55.119 --> 01:17:58.880
up with some of the sort of
challenges maybe that she's going through at the

795
01:17:58.960 --> 01:18:01.359
moment, and they're kind of sentiments
in terms of, you know, what

796
01:18:01.479 --> 01:18:05.680
she's trying to do. You know, things aren't as easier as easy as

797
01:18:05.960 --> 01:18:09.840
she would have you know, she's
would have hoped. Maybe she's got older,

798
01:18:10.840 --> 01:18:13.199
but she's one of her favorite songs, and I know she does love

799
01:18:13.279 --> 01:18:17.119
this is Can't Give Up Now by
Mary Mary. I know she does love

800
01:18:17.159 --> 01:18:19.880
her traditional songs on her hymns,
but actually my mum likes a lot of

801
01:18:19.920 --> 01:18:26.680
these contemporary music choices as well.
So I'm going to play Can't Give Up

802
01:18:26.720 --> 01:18:30.560
Now by Mary Mary because I know
for my mum, despite the challenges.

803
01:18:30.520 --> 01:18:36.399
She's still remaining faithful. You know
when we are when we are doing our

804
01:18:36.479 --> 01:18:40.479
worship and we're praying together, you
know, she's always asking for the strength

805
01:18:40.520 --> 01:18:45.279
and the courage to kind of keep
going despite the challenges. I'm praying for

806
01:18:45.359 --> 01:18:47.600
that strength and courage to kind and
the patience to kind of keep going as

807
01:18:47.640 --> 01:18:53.319
well, because it is a struggle
to kind of see somebody else struggling and

808
01:18:53.359 --> 01:18:56.600
there's I think you can do about
that. But yeah, so I want

809
01:18:56.640 --> 01:19:00.159
to share that, and I'm going
to encourage those people who are maybe listen

810
01:19:00.159 --> 01:19:04.159
in a position to myself, who
are caring, who are looking after mothers,

811
01:19:05.479 --> 01:19:09.039
that it's not about just staying where
you are. You can't give up

812
01:19:09.079 --> 01:19:13.520
now God has got you and it's
encouraging you to keep going. So this

813
01:19:13.680 --> 01:19:17.960
is for you, Mum, Olivia. This is Mary, Mary. I

814
01:19:18.079 --> 01:19:42.359
can't give up. Now. There
will be mounted. Then I will have

815
01:19:43.000 --> 01:19:53.359
to club and there will be there
told that I will have fun, But

816
01:19:53.600 --> 01:20:03.560
did be or it's up to me
to fine? But how can I expect

817
01:20:03.960 --> 01:20:19.279
to win? Did they ever tried? I just case up time, come

818
01:20:19.479 --> 01:20:32.039
to far time where I start fall. Nobody told me the good would be

819
01:20:33.119 --> 01:20:45.119
it and I don't. He's taught
me this far to never said that would

820
01:20:45.399 --> 01:20:55.039
be trial, never said I would
fall, never said that everything would go

821
01:20:56.319 --> 01:21:03.319
we wanted to go. But when
my back is against the wall and I

822
01:21:03.560 --> 01:21:11.439
feel a hole is gone, I'll
just get my head up to the sky

823
01:21:12.319 --> 01:21:21.399
and say, help me to be
strong. Hold. I just can't up

824
01:21:26.279 --> 01:21:36.479
come to the far from where I
start and from nobody has told me the

825
01:21:36.760 --> 01:21:47.720
road one Besy, I don't believe
he's talking this far to deep. Hold,

826
01:21:49.119 --> 01:22:02.439
show your head lead even when I
can't clearly, I told that you

827
01:22:03.399 --> 01:22:23.720
wading it up? Yeah, just
to ba from where nobody told me.

828
01:22:25.079 --> 01:22:33.079
It's another rod want me Dad,
I don't believe you don't real plea no,

829
01:22:33.319 --> 01:22:49.720
no, no no to me know
that I can't be about them to

830
01:22:50.760 --> 01:23:26.920
us to so I'm no a bad
did the FOD looking at my ca wow?

831
01:23:38.920 --> 01:24:19.920
Tell me? Don't med will be? All the words in the universe,

832
01:24:20.199 --> 01:24:26.760
collectively joint together couldn't come close to
defining you. Your beauty is unmatched.

833
01:24:26.960 --> 01:24:30.840
The strength you possessed shows no lack. The unselfishness you portray from day

834
01:24:30.920 --> 01:24:35.960
today, it's just another characteristic that
leads me to say you are one of

835
01:24:36.119 --> 01:24:42.039
God's most prized possession. There is
no questioning the depth of your love,

836
01:24:42.439 --> 01:24:45.079
the depth of the measures you would
take to make sure home is taken care

837
01:24:45.199 --> 01:24:49.720
of. Through sleepless nights with tear
filled eyes, the reflection of your face

838
01:24:49.760 --> 01:24:57.079
still stained the brightest smile that assured
everyone in your world it will be all

839
01:24:57.159 --> 01:25:00.479
right. How you do it,
how you get it will forever be a

840
01:25:00.680 --> 01:25:04.399
notion that can never be fathomed.
From the stride and your walk, to

841
01:25:04.479 --> 01:25:09.520
the dominance of your talk, to
the resilience in your eyes and the determination

842
01:25:09.760 --> 01:25:13.520
of your mind, with the pureness
of your heart and the motions of your

843
01:25:13.600 --> 01:25:16.640
hands, like a potter mold than
clay, you are a work of art.

844
01:25:16.840 --> 01:25:21.600
You are a treasure. You are
a mother, God's chosen vessel.

845
01:25:23.239 --> 01:25:28.479
See obstacles deemed powerless in your presence, the essence of the warrior deep down

846
01:25:28.600 --> 01:25:32.479
inside of you always finds a way
to push through. Despite the weight of

847
01:25:32.560 --> 01:25:38.000
the world on your shoulders. You'll
still find enough power to conquer anything you

848
01:25:38.279 --> 01:25:43.960
encounter that agitates the well being of
your child, any day or any time.

849
01:25:45.680 --> 01:25:49.840
And while we appreciate the gesture of
a mother's day, but as if

850
01:25:50.039 --> 01:25:57.039
one day it's sufficient enough to commemorate
two hundred and seventy three days of aches

851
01:25:57.159 --> 01:26:00.880
and pain and excessive weight gain with
Wabbo walks and emotional talks, with a

852
01:26:01.000 --> 01:26:05.840
little memory loss and everlasting stretch marks, and giving up your normal routine for

853
01:26:06.000 --> 01:26:11.800
a baby boss, and experiencing all
these changes in your body you never even

854
01:26:11.880 --> 01:26:16.479
knew existed. All three hundred and
sixty five days are deserved. It is

855
01:26:16.760 --> 01:26:24.039
respect well earned. Mothers. The
roles you play in this life is very

856
01:26:24.119 --> 01:26:27.560
much needed. So with every chance
we get to breathe this breath, we

857
01:26:27.720 --> 01:26:31.960
need you to know you are appreciated
for the sacrifices you had to make for

858
01:26:32.079 --> 01:26:36.680
the leaf of faith. Time after
time after time you had to take.

859
01:26:38.199 --> 01:26:42.960
You did and are doing great.
So enjoy each moment you get to make

860
01:26:43.079 --> 01:26:46.560
special memories with the ones you assisted
God to create, and know the love

861
01:26:46.720 --> 01:26:53.960
you share will never fade. Keep
enhancing this world with your love. And

862
01:26:54.119 --> 01:26:59.199
if you ever feel like no one
sees you, please know that God does.

863
01:26:59.720 --> 01:27:04.640
You are love, You are needed, You are also appreciated. Now

864
01:27:04.760 --> 01:27:10.479
are the words collectively put together in
this poem still doesn't come close to defining

865
01:27:10.560 --> 01:27:15.039
you. At this point, I'm
starting to believe you are indescribable. So

866
01:27:15.199 --> 01:27:19.119
with a gratitude phil pastured heart,
I just want to say Happy Mother's Day

867
01:27:19.520 --> 01:27:27.960
today, end every day. Indeed, Happy Mother's Day today and every day.

868
01:27:28.119 --> 01:27:30.680
And I'm saying happy birthday to my
mom and Lvia Robinson, who is

869
01:27:30.680 --> 01:27:34.560
sitting in the studio with me.
I know she was singing along to one

870
01:27:34.600 --> 01:27:39.000
of her favorite songs, Mary Mary. I can't give up now, and

871
01:27:39.079 --> 01:27:42.399
I just want to thank her for
not giving up and for keep pressing on

872
01:27:43.039 --> 01:27:46.239
and for those mothers out there,
and you know, Weded, we see

873
01:27:46.279 --> 01:27:49.760
you in the As the poem says, if you feel that you're not appreciated,

874
01:27:49.920 --> 01:27:53.640
that you don't feel that you're seen
or your loved, know that God

875
01:27:54.000 --> 01:27:58.239
appreciates what you do, He sees
you, he loves you, He's there

876
01:27:58.319 --> 01:28:08.319
for you. So zeb yeah,
let's talk a little bit about your mother

877
01:28:09.039 --> 01:28:19.560
and your mothering experience. Gracious to
see it's fun today. To my mom,

878
01:28:20.640 --> 01:28:27.760
I want to say, I love
you, I thank you for being

879
01:28:27.880 --> 01:28:36.399
there always. Our relationship is strained
at best because like you, I am

880
01:28:36.520 --> 01:28:45.800
caring for her. She struggles with
mental ill health and they're right in the

881
01:28:45.920 --> 01:28:49.039
midst I think of a crisis at
the moment. So sometimes when I'm in

882
01:28:49.159 --> 01:28:56.399
the midst of a cristis, it
sort of colors my glasses and it doesn't

883
01:28:56.439 --> 01:29:00.600
quite look how I know it is
and how it should be. It's frustrating,

884
01:29:00.760 --> 01:29:06.640
it's difficult, it's hard, but
I don't know that I would want

885
01:29:06.680 --> 01:29:11.800
it any other way. She has
made me the way and made me the

886
01:29:11.840 --> 01:29:15.880
woman that I am. It's because
of these responsibilities and because I have had

887
01:29:15.960 --> 01:29:19.920
to love her and look out for
her that I feel like I have maybe

888
01:29:19.960 --> 01:29:26.279
in this extra compassion, this extra
care, so it's molded me into the

889
01:29:26.359 --> 01:29:30.680
person I am today, and I
would like to think that that you know,

890
01:29:30.039 --> 01:29:36.359
I am a decent enough human being. So you know, I am

891
01:29:36.399 --> 01:29:41.039
grateful to her for her love and
for her prayers, for her prayers,

892
01:29:41.399 --> 01:29:46.920
you know. And yes, she's
not with me. Unfortunately I'm a bit

893
01:29:47.039 --> 01:29:55.960
jealous, but I know she is
and will be listening. And yeah,

894
01:29:56.079 --> 01:29:59.000
happy mothers say to her, and
happy mothers say to all our mothers.

895
01:29:59.039 --> 01:30:03.800
Our mothers insion our mothers to be
And Pedro is listening, and it's going

896
01:30:03.880 --> 01:30:09.399
to have a go at me because
I always say I say every year to

897
01:30:09.560 --> 01:30:13.920
the fathers and the sisters and brothers
and friends and neighbors who try to step

898
01:30:14.000 --> 01:30:18.439
in and bridge the gap from mothers
who are absent or from mothers who you

899
01:30:18.520 --> 01:30:24.159
know have sadly passed on. So
I say Happy Mother's Day to you all.

900
01:30:24.239 --> 01:30:27.199
And like Angelas said, you know, it is not about one day,

901
01:30:27.520 --> 01:30:31.520
like the poem said so so eloquently
with the poyete, it's not about

902
01:30:31.520 --> 01:30:36.960
one day. And words really can't
describe a mother's loves. So yes,

903
01:30:38.439 --> 01:30:43.239
thank you, okay, and yeah, I think we'll talk about my perspective

904
01:30:43.279 --> 01:30:46.880
a little later because we got some
messages as well coming in from our listeners

905
01:30:47.319 --> 01:30:53.439
about what are the difficulties of mothering. Yes, and yeah, I'd like

906
01:30:53.520 --> 01:30:58.399
to throw my two pens in there. Well okay, well but yes,

907
01:30:59.600 --> 01:31:00.720
okay, And with that in mind, as you just kind of b to

908
01:31:00.760 --> 01:31:02.760
mind, I mean, I kind
of want to pause for a moment just

909
01:31:02.840 --> 01:31:06.600
to kind of share a prayer for
those who may be hurting on Mother's Day.

910
01:31:06.600 --> 01:31:11.760
As you mentioned, you know,
sometimes being in this role can be

911
01:31:11.840 --> 01:31:15.560
a challenging one. The day can
be a challenging one for those who maybe

912
01:31:15.720 --> 01:31:19.760
have got difficult relationships with their mothers
or no relationship or their mothers, and

913
01:31:19.800 --> 01:31:24.399
along with us, so someone to
share a prayer for those who may be

914
01:31:24.520 --> 01:31:28.359
hurting on Mother's Day. Diar God, some days it feels too hard.

915
01:31:28.520 --> 01:31:31.079
We're hurting, we're struggling, We're
fighting fear and worry at every turn.

916
01:31:31.800 --> 01:31:34.560
Thank you, in the midst of
it all, you haven't left us to

917
01:31:34.680 --> 01:31:40.000
fend for ourselves. Forgive us for
doubting who you are, and forgive us

918
01:31:40.039 --> 01:31:43.840
for thinking you may have forgotten us. Forgive us for believing we somehow know

919
01:31:44.000 --> 01:31:46.399
the better way. You are fully
trustworthy, You are all powerful, You

920
01:31:46.479 --> 01:31:50.359
were able. You are lord of
every situation, no matter how difficult it

921
01:31:50.439 --> 01:31:55.359
may seem. You are a healer
and will never waste a grief we may

922
01:31:55.439 --> 01:31:58.840
carry on this day. You will
use all things for good in some way.

923
01:31:59.279 --> 01:32:03.239
Anything is nothing is too difficult for
you. We pray for those who

924
01:32:03.279 --> 01:32:06.880
may be grieving today. We ask
for your comfort to surround those who weep.

925
01:32:08.359 --> 01:32:11.520
We pray for the peace of your
presence to cover our minds and thoughts.

926
01:32:11.680 --> 01:32:15.520
As you remind us that the enemy
can never steal us out of your

927
01:32:15.640 --> 01:32:18.720
hands. He never has a final
say over our lives. We are kept

928
01:32:18.800 --> 01:32:24.239
safe in your presence, whether in
life or in death. We thank you

929
01:32:24.359 --> 01:32:27.560
that your ways are higher than our
ways, and your thoughts are bigger than

930
01:32:27.560 --> 01:32:30.760
our thoughts. We lay it all
down at your feet, dear Lord,

931
01:32:30.880 --> 01:32:33.800
every burden, every care, believing
that that is the safest place for it

932
01:32:33.960 --> 01:32:38.880
to be. We love you,
Lord, We need your fresh grace every

933
01:32:39.000 --> 01:32:45.079
day in the powerful gename of Jesus. Amen. So I to want to

934
01:32:45.119 --> 01:32:48.880
pray for those who. Whatever your
if you don't have the most positive relationship,

935
01:32:49.119 --> 01:32:54.079
or you may be grieving, or
may have lost a mother, we

936
01:32:54.239 --> 01:33:00.239
pray for you and know that God
is watching and keeping over you. I

937
01:33:00.399 --> 01:33:08.960
am. I think watching one of
the four fall sort of lyrics for the

938
01:33:09.039 --> 01:33:14.920
song, but I think it applies
my mom's favorite or one of her favorites.

939
01:33:15.159 --> 01:33:17.199
She has many, some of them. I think don't apply for a

940
01:33:17.239 --> 01:33:23.920
Saturday. Used a bit of a
rebel. Don't know where I got that

941
01:33:24.079 --> 01:33:32.039
from the song I think I told
you was one day at a time,

942
01:33:32.359 --> 01:33:36.399
Yes, Alan Davis, and I
think it fits in nicely here. Yeah

943
01:33:36.520 --> 01:33:41.399
cool, Okay, so one day
at a time Colin Davis, and this

944
01:33:41.560 --> 01:34:08.720
is for your mama's end. Yeah, just a moment kill me? Who

945
01:34:09.239 --> 01:34:29.439
I should be? All the show
me show me that i'ld r informa say

946
01:34:30.760 --> 01:34:48.039
get me the check for a usus. That's all love misky from you.

947
01:34:51.359 --> 01:34:59.840
Just give me the strain to do
it. Pree take what I should you.

948
01:35:02.399 --> 01:35:13.760
It is said, he's not jes
Jesus tomorrow may never be mine.

949
01:35:15.840 --> 01:35:34.359
Lord, help me today, show
me thoy what when you more to love

950
01:35:34.600 --> 01:35:45.239
me? Jesus snow if you love
now below, it's worth a smell that

951
01:35:45.600 --> 01:36:38.680
day. Cheating your scheming by so
from the say just the ta want segs

952
01:36:40.560 --> 01:36:53.399
a skin from us. Just give
me the stred to do every day what

953
01:36:53.720 --> 01:37:13.720
I had to do. Yes,
Jesus tomorrow the devil man kill me today,

954
01:37:15.079 --> 01:37:27.760
show me away way, Lord,
help me today to show me away

955
01:37:30.279 --> 01:37:45.680
share. Lord, help me today, chollyday. Lord, heal me today.

956
01:37:50.159 --> 01:37:55.479
Happen me today, one day at
a time. Colin Davis. And

957
01:37:55.600 --> 01:38:01.079
that's for Senior and her mom.
Thank you for that, Senya all right.

958
01:38:01.640 --> 01:38:06.880
I was just we were talking offline
whilst the song was playing about Celine

959
01:38:06.920 --> 01:38:12.840
Dion's song A Mother's Prayer, and
I, in preparing for this program,

960
01:38:12.920 --> 01:38:17.159
came across so came across some really
lovely ones when I wanted to share.

961
01:38:18.439 --> 01:38:24.720
Dear Lord, it's such a hectic
day with little time to stop and pray

962
01:38:25.479 --> 01:38:29.760
for life's been anything but calm since
you called me to be a mom,

963
01:38:30.720 --> 01:38:35.039
running errands, matching socks, building
dreams with building blocks, cooking, cleaning,

964
01:38:35.279 --> 01:38:41.880
finding shoes and other stuff that children
lose. Fitting lids on bottled bugs,

965
01:38:42.079 --> 01:38:45.680
wiping tears and giving hugs, a
stack of last week's mail to read.

966
01:38:46.159 --> 01:38:50.079
So where's the quiet time I need? Yet? When I steal a

967
01:38:50.199 --> 01:38:55.800
moment, Lord, just at the
sink or at the iron board, to

968
01:38:56.039 --> 01:39:01.199
ask the blessings of your grace,
I see them in their small face that

969
01:39:01.399 --> 01:39:06.640
you have blessed me all the while. When I stop and see their smile,

970
01:39:08.960 --> 01:39:14.600
I thought that was beautiful. It
just echoes. I mean, every

971
01:39:14.680 --> 01:39:20.880
mother everywhere. It's juggling this,
and carpools here and meetings there, and

972
01:39:21.439 --> 01:39:27.960
it's always so much, it feels, but we just have to look at

973
01:39:28.000 --> 01:39:30.840
their faces or maybe it's a hug
or you know, whatever it is that

974
01:39:30.920 --> 01:39:34.359
will just melt us and remind us
that it's all it's all worth it.

975
01:39:35.520 --> 01:39:43.520
So I really loved that one.
And here's another author of creation. Wilt

976
01:39:43.560 --> 01:39:47.680
thou hear my humble please guide my
children's footsteps, Lord, and keep them

977
01:39:47.760 --> 01:39:53.800
safe for me. Steer them from
temptations, door and light their darkened way.

978
01:39:54.640 --> 01:39:59.359
When their Lord seems heavy, let
them not forget to pray. Give

979
01:39:59.439 --> 01:40:03.760
them st and courage so they'll stand
for what is right, and help them

980
01:40:04.359 --> 01:40:11.319
sidestep trouble when they're out too late
at night. Grant to them great wisdom

981
01:40:11.399 --> 01:40:15.840
Lord in all they do and see, And when they need a loving friend,

982
01:40:15.840 --> 01:40:20.439
bring them home to me. I
thought those two were quite good.

983
01:40:20.760 --> 01:40:26.359
One maybe for the younger set,
and the other of the older young adults

984
01:40:26.479 --> 01:40:30.800
teenagers that we have and we worry
about as they come and go. I

985
01:40:30.880 --> 01:40:36.000
really I thought, wasn't BLI good? Yes? Yeah, wonderful sentiments,

986
01:40:36.039 --> 01:40:40.720
the wonderful sentiments there. Do you
have another song that we want to play

987
01:40:40.840 --> 01:40:46.600
for? Why don't we got?
Do you have celenion Mother's prayer? Do

988
01:40:46.640 --> 01:40:51.039
you have that one? We do? I do believe we do? Is

989
01:40:51.079 --> 01:40:57.399
an'tything in particular about that song in
the lyrics? I think it is a

990
01:40:57.680 --> 01:41:03.039
version of the prayer that she does
us with andreall Ah. Yes, I

991
01:41:03.159 --> 01:41:09.199
think it's just a claye on the
words where she's praying for the same but

992
01:41:09.359 --> 01:41:12.239
for her children or her child.
I don't even know how many does she

993
01:41:12.319 --> 01:41:18.840
have. Kids'll take We'll take the
lyrics for ourselves. Okay, So our

994
01:41:18.880 --> 01:42:03.159
mother's prayer by Celine Dion, I
pray been and watch how she good and

995
01:42:03.520 --> 01:42:24.760
tend how to be hand me to
lay God, every mother's spray, every

996
01:42:25.119 --> 01:42:42.760
change need how to upplace God,
hallowey your crowd to a place where s

997
01:42:44.079 --> 01:43:44.800
peece sa fray she fought short love
and whole city stop less false each now

998
01:43:47.399 --> 01:44:12.439
remind how where you are, every
spread every child need to find the glass,

999
01:44:14.199 --> 01:44:26.239
get how with the old creases give
him makes so ship said he talks

1000
01:44:26.359 --> 01:45:01.479
to get help with the old grass
place s ok. Mother's prayer Selein Dion

1001
01:45:01.920 --> 01:45:06.319
from Selindion. And as it says
in Onest Tessalonians five seventeen, pray without

1002
01:45:06.399 --> 01:45:14.079
ceasing. Prayer is our lifeline to
the father. So as a mother,

1003
01:45:14.760 --> 01:45:17.600
do pray. Pray for our mothers, Pray for our mother figures. Pray

1004
01:45:17.680 --> 01:45:20.680
for those women in your love who
I'm doing something in your lives and the

1005
01:45:20.760 --> 01:45:27.520
lives of others in our community.
Because yeah, and I say pray without

1006
01:45:27.560 --> 01:45:31.199
ceasing, because sometimes prayer is what's
really going to take us through. Because

1007
01:45:31.239 --> 01:45:38.800
those roles can be tough, so
I know you'd answer the question. You

1008
01:45:38.880 --> 01:45:43.840
put that question out there to see
whether what people would saying, you know,

1009
01:45:43.920 --> 01:45:48.159
what can be challenging about mothering and
having a mother role. Any thoughts

1010
01:45:48.199 --> 01:45:53.439
on that. Yeah, we got
a few responses, again, not as

1011
01:45:53.520 --> 01:45:57.159
many as I would have Glie to
please let us encourage. Well, I

1012
01:45:57.279 --> 01:46:00.960
am encouraging. I know you have
as well our listeners to chime in to

1013
01:46:01.720 --> 01:46:05.159
contribute. It's just it makes for
a better program when we hear from you,

1014
01:46:05.279 --> 01:46:14.640
and we delight in hearing from you. So we heard from two persons

1015
01:46:14.680 --> 01:46:20.680
again, VJ one, and she
said, and the responses came, you

1016
01:46:20.760 --> 01:46:28.680
know, from very lighthearted, lighthearted
ones to no serious issues. And VJ

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01:46:28.920 --> 01:46:32.920
said that she struggles with getting her
children to go to bed all the time.

1018
01:46:33.199 --> 01:46:36.560
And I know that the struggle is
real, and I'm not sure it

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01:46:36.640 --> 01:46:43.920
ever goes away until they leave the
house. If you've got a if you've

1020
01:46:44.000 --> 01:46:46.920
got a time in mind for your
kids to go to bed, they're always

1021
01:46:47.119 --> 01:46:49.720
they always want to be up a
little later. If it's nine o'clock,

1022
01:46:49.720 --> 01:46:51.880
they want to be up till ten. If it's ten, they want to

1023
01:46:51.880 --> 01:46:55.439
be up till eleven. If it's
eleven, you know, they want to

1024
01:46:55.439 --> 01:46:59.840
be up till midnight. So that's
a battle. We're always fighty, especially

1025
01:47:00.079 --> 01:47:02.800
my home. So she said that
and I smiled. Another one of our

1026
01:47:02.840 --> 01:47:10.239
listeners respondents saying she struggles because she's
trying to teach her kids the love of

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01:47:10.319 --> 01:47:15.199
God, and she's not sure she's
done a good job teaching them to trust

1028
01:47:15.279 --> 01:47:19.399
God and to depend on God.
And it started a conversation, an interesting

1029
01:47:19.439 --> 01:47:24.000
conversation between ourselves because I said to
her, you know what, you've raised

1030
01:47:24.039 --> 01:47:27.079
them up in church. I mean, I don't know of any many other

1031
01:47:27.199 --> 01:47:30.439
mothers who have been consistent in taking
their children to church. You know,

1032
01:47:30.600 --> 01:47:36.640
they're part of the youth clubs and
youth groups in the church, and in

1033
01:47:36.760 --> 01:47:43.119
fact, you know, they were
in church now. So I wondered why

1034
01:47:43.199 --> 01:47:45.439
she thought she hadn't done a good
job, and she reminded me that that's

1035
01:47:45.600 --> 01:47:50.359
not enough, and that's not all. It's definitely the place to start.

1036
01:47:50.600 --> 01:48:00.399
What children have to build that relationship
for themselves. And you know, if

1037
01:48:00.399 --> 01:48:02.920
you you've kind of you know,
you give that child a foundation. There

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01:48:02.960 --> 01:48:05.600
are often many things that you know, as you said, you have to

1039
01:48:05.640 --> 01:48:08.840
they have to be able to make
their choice themselves. But if you're sewing

1040
01:48:08.880 --> 01:48:12.680
those seeds, laying that foundation,
that will never really leave them because they'll

1041
01:48:12.680 --> 01:48:16.119
always be there. You know,
you hear many stories of you know how

1042
01:48:16.640 --> 01:48:20.119
you know, things may go a
different path, but they often find their

1043
01:48:20.159 --> 01:48:28.840
way back exactly you know, God
can God can you know change the way

1044
01:48:28.920 --> 01:48:32.880
things can be for that person if
they can find that find that relationship with

1045
01:48:33.000 --> 01:48:35.600
them themselves. You know along the
way, you hope that they won't have

1046
01:48:35.640 --> 01:48:40.800
to go and think too drastic to
find their way back. But if you

1047
01:48:40.840 --> 01:48:44.840
set that foundation track, I mean
problems trying to two success. They train

1048
01:48:44.960 --> 01:48:46.119
up a child and the way he
should go and he is old, he

1049
01:48:46.199 --> 01:48:50.439
will like it. And that's really
the reassurance I could offer her that you

1050
01:48:50.640 --> 01:48:54.680
just have to do what you can
and you've belated, as you said,

1051
01:48:55.199 --> 01:48:59.479
book foundation and trust God to do
the rest. And you know, I

1052
01:48:59.560 --> 01:49:02.520
always to friends and family, and
I can rest easy and I will,

1053
01:49:03.520 --> 01:49:06.359
you know, be able to put
my head on the pillow and fall asleep

1054
01:49:06.640 --> 01:49:10.960
no matter what decisions he makes,
if I know that I have done all

1055
01:49:11.039 --> 01:49:15.279
I could do. Ultimately, decisions
he makes, you know, the choices

1056
01:49:15.359 --> 01:49:18.720
he makes are his. I will
love him anyway, but ultimately they're his.

1057
01:49:19.600 --> 01:49:25.000
And that's the reassurance I gave to
her, and she knows. But

1058
01:49:25.720 --> 01:49:28.600
it just tells of a mother's struggle. You know, you really want and

1059
01:49:28.720 --> 01:49:31.319
any mother who loves the Lord wants
their kids to do the same and to

1060
01:49:31.439 --> 01:49:39.039
make it into the kingdom. So
I appreciated that response. And then we

1061
01:49:39.159 --> 01:49:48.720
got another response from our Instagram page
erl and this one came from Wonderful SLC.

1062
01:49:49.439 --> 01:49:55.960
She offered Blessed Jesus hold my Hand
as the song of choice, and

1063
01:49:56.159 --> 01:50:00.039
she just said having children was to
struggle, and that made Realiz, Yeah,

1064
01:50:02.720 --> 01:50:10.359
that's the that shell. The struggle
is realself. Indeed, indeed,

1065
01:50:11.199 --> 01:50:14.319
you know, I guess it was
to watch the list. So she's just

1066
01:50:14.600 --> 01:50:18.479
sort of captioned it having children,
and yeah, it's it is a struggle.

1067
01:50:19.319 --> 01:50:28.760
I speak personally. I struggle with
having the patience I need. I

1068
01:50:28.840 --> 01:50:31.680
listen to some parents speak, and
you know, they talk everything through and

1069
01:50:31.840 --> 01:50:34.199
talk everything out. I don't.
I don't know. I don't have that

1070
01:50:34.359 --> 01:50:40.960
gene. I don't have. I
should have it, and I pray for

1071
01:50:41.119 --> 01:50:44.840
it because I know in many cases
it's the best. It's the best approach

1072
01:50:45.560 --> 01:50:48.680
some would say in all cases,
but when I say not to do something,

1073
01:50:48.720 --> 01:50:53.840
I just expect you not to do
it. When I've said it's seventeen

1074
01:50:53.920 --> 01:50:56.800
million times, I don't want to
have to say it again. I just

1075
01:50:56.840 --> 01:51:00.199
don't have the patience to go.
Well. The reason I said that you

1076
01:51:00.239 --> 01:51:03.319
shouldn't touch the fire was because I
think that the fire is hot, and

1077
01:51:03.520 --> 01:51:06.560
if you touch the fire and you
get bad, and I will have to

1078
01:51:06.640 --> 01:51:16.800
take you to the hospital. Yeah, I don't have any so I hear

1079
01:51:16.880 --> 01:51:20.680
that. You know. I remember
Pastory used to ask me to bring him

1080
01:51:20.720 --> 01:51:24.760
on and I was like, I
don't know. I don't know the stories

1081
01:51:24.800 --> 01:51:29.000
he will tell. But you know, I do my best. I know

1082
01:51:29.119 --> 01:51:30.720
he knows that I'm doing my best, and I love him. And just

1083
01:51:30.800 --> 01:51:35.840
as I discipline and I admonish,
I shower him with love and I,

1084
01:51:36.399 --> 01:51:41.960
you know, I try to make
sure that he sees the balance, he

1085
01:51:42.079 --> 01:51:45.720
sees the love, and he knows
that I love him, and hopefully,

1086
01:51:46.399 --> 01:51:50.560
hopefully that is what he will take
away. And like my friend said,

1087
01:51:51.159 --> 01:51:55.880
you know, it's trying to teach
him the ways of the Lord and teaching

1088
01:51:56.000 --> 01:52:00.439
him to to love God and to
have to build his own relationship with God

1089
01:52:00.479 --> 01:52:03.640
that he will take out of this
house and into his own. You know.

1090
01:52:03.760 --> 01:52:10.600
Adulthood, I think for me is
one of the most important responsibilities that

1091
01:52:10.680 --> 01:52:15.239
I have, and I hope in
some ways I'm doing I'm doing that.

1092
01:52:15.800 --> 01:52:17.680
Yeah. Yeah. And as you're
taking about responsibility, I mean, I

1093
01:52:18.079 --> 01:52:20.399
don't have children, so I'm not
a mother in that respect, but I

1094
01:52:20.520 --> 01:52:24.840
know I would. I've played a
mother ring role and been a mother figure

1095
01:52:25.560 --> 01:52:28.560
in the sense of I remember when
I worked as a youth worker, and

1096
01:52:28.680 --> 01:52:33.560
I would take groups of children out
on sort of residential trips, you know,

1097
01:52:33.760 --> 01:52:36.840
so for a week I was their
their mum as it were, and

1098
01:52:36.920 --> 01:52:41.439
then their mothers, their children,
mothers and fathers had entrusted their children to

1099
01:52:41.600 --> 01:52:45.359
me and my team to look after
their children. And the sense of responsibility.

1100
01:52:46.319 --> 01:52:48.920
I just been like, oh wow, so it's not just about you

1101
01:52:48.960 --> 01:52:51.880
know, I'm sure you were happy
to hand them. I mean, I

1102
01:52:51.920 --> 01:52:54.680
mean I enjoyed it. I mean, yes, but you're just like,

1103
01:52:54.800 --> 01:52:56.600
you know, I used to sort
of thing. I mean, I mean

1104
01:52:56.640 --> 01:52:59.119
that's where we talk about prayer.
Prayer used to be the thing. You

1105
01:52:59.159 --> 01:53:01.840
know, I'm driving minibus full of
people's children, you know, bless me

1106
01:53:01.880 --> 01:53:05.720
as I drive bless as other drivers
keep us safe. But also those kinds

1107
01:53:05.720 --> 01:53:10.079
of the things that you are trying
to teach them, as you said,

1108
01:53:10.600 --> 01:53:13.399
the example that you're trying to show
with them, and you know, those

1109
01:53:13.479 --> 01:53:15.680
kind of trips were often really tiring, you know, when you talk about

1110
01:53:15.720 --> 01:53:20.279
sort of patients and everything else.
Then it tested my own patience and sometimes

1111
01:53:20.319 --> 01:53:23.600
I was just like, I'm so
tired, I can't do this, but

1112
01:53:23.680 --> 01:53:28.800
I still need to be that example
to them. You know, I'm cooking,

1113
01:53:28.960 --> 01:53:30.159
I'm looking after them, I'm doing
all these things, you know,

1114
01:53:30.239 --> 01:53:35.399
playing that role and that sense of
responsibility was a great one, you know,

1115
01:53:35.560 --> 01:53:39.680
and it's kind of sometimes especially when
you don't necess something comes up,

1116
01:53:39.760 --> 01:53:43.439
you don't really know what the best
solution is or the best way, and

1117
01:53:43.520 --> 01:53:45.399
as you said, you're doing the
best that you can. But you know,

1118
01:53:45.640 --> 01:53:47.880
I have seem to worry am I
getting this right? Am I doing

1119
01:53:47.960 --> 01:53:51.399
the right thing? Because you know, those children could go home and put

1120
01:53:51.439 --> 01:53:55.640
in a complaint and this happened,
and that happened. You're like, ah,

1121
01:53:56.239 --> 01:54:00.199
so that lets sense of responsibility would
be definitely something that I would struggle

1122
01:54:00.279 --> 01:54:03.960
with. You know, Am I
doing it right? You know? But

1123
01:54:04.279 --> 01:54:08.800
at the same time, you know, when you realize that you can play

1124
01:54:08.880 --> 01:54:12.520
that role and the importance of that
and the kind of own lessons that it

1125
01:54:12.600 --> 01:54:15.319
teaches you, you know, you
know, there are so many experiences where

1126
01:54:15.319 --> 01:54:18.119
I think, you know, the
struggle has been real, but when you

1127
01:54:18.279 --> 01:54:23.800
see the look of joy on a
child's face because they've discovered something new for

1128
01:54:23.920 --> 01:54:27.560
the first time, or they've learnt
something, or they've seen the sea after

1129
01:54:28.079 --> 01:54:30.399
a mile long hike as it were, you're just like, this is all

1130
01:54:30.479 --> 01:54:34.800
worth it. So despite the struggle
of motherhood, mother ing, et cetera,

1131
01:54:35.319 --> 01:54:38.640
you know, there can be joy
amongst all of that as well.

1132
01:54:41.000 --> 01:54:46.640
So yeah, it can all be
worth it. On that So, on

1133
01:54:46.880 --> 01:54:51.199
that note, I wanted it.
Sorry, I wanted to just say Happy

1134
01:54:51.279 --> 01:54:58.680
Mother's Day to the mothers and zion
that have sort of been very instrumental in

1135
01:54:58.800 --> 01:55:03.920
my life and my own walk with
God. Sister Duscian Jones, Anti Margaret,

1136
01:55:04.199 --> 01:55:12.800
Sister Donna, just wonderful women elders
who have embraced me and sort of

1137
01:55:12.840 --> 01:55:16.560
allowed me to sit at their feet. I really couldn't close the program without

1138
01:55:16.600 --> 01:55:23.079
saying, have the modesty to yes
having Mother's Day. So all of those

1139
01:55:23.119 --> 01:55:27.680
women that play an instrumental part in
our lives. And thank you for sharing

1140
01:55:27.720 --> 01:55:32.560
that. It takes the village.
Let us not forget it does. It's

1141
01:55:32.600 --> 01:55:38.119
not just me, it's it's everybody
that says, you know, something to

1142
01:55:38.279 --> 01:55:42.640
him and encourages him and directs him. And you know, it's all of

1143
01:55:42.760 --> 01:55:49.520
us that helped to make to parents. And I don't I think we've stepped

1144
01:55:49.520 --> 01:55:55.399
away from that and that's unfortunate.
Indeed, and said it's so important and

1145
01:55:55.479 --> 01:55:59.520
this is you know, also a
sensitive you know, the sentiments when we

1146
01:55:59.560 --> 01:56:01.880
think about you know, we talked
start off by talking about International Women's Day

1147
01:56:02.039 --> 01:56:05.319
and how we can support as women, how we can support each other.

1148
01:56:06.119 --> 01:56:12.600
You know, that's so important to
be those role models, to be those

1149
01:56:13.199 --> 01:56:16.680
sisters, aunties, those listeners,
those supporters, the words that we can

1150
01:56:16.760 --> 01:56:20.600
kind of you know, we can
share with them and share with others that

1151
01:56:20.720 --> 01:56:25.439
really make a difference, you know, whatever roles people play. So it's

1152
01:56:25.439 --> 01:56:28.159
so important that we can try and
do that. And you know because sometimes

1153
01:56:28.920 --> 01:56:30.720
and you know, I remember when
I was at university doing a bit of

1154
01:56:30.760 --> 01:56:35.560
a study in terms of the you
know, girls and women's relationships, and

1155
01:56:35.640 --> 01:56:40.239
they could almost I mean obviously all
relationships can be very different. But sometimes

1156
01:56:41.199 --> 01:56:45.600
you sometimes see women pitting themselves against
each other. Oh and you know,

1157
01:56:45.039 --> 01:56:49.000
and that sort of starts right from
the school ground right up to whatever.

1158
01:56:49.119 --> 01:56:51.560
And you're just like, you know, we want to try and break that

1159
01:56:51.840 --> 01:56:57.000
because we don't do ourselves any favor
when we're working against each other. But

1160
01:56:57.119 --> 01:57:00.600
how much stronger we can be when
we do work together, when we do

1161
01:57:00.680 --> 01:57:06.720
support each other. Yeah. Different
it is, which will segreate nicely into

1162
01:57:06.760 --> 01:57:10.840
probably another show. There's always going
to be a part two of something and

1163
01:57:10.960 --> 01:57:15.079
a part three. But I guess
you're saying that I do like the idea

1164
01:57:15.119 --> 01:57:18.680
and hopefully we can you know,
we're putting a shout out to any gentleman

1165
01:57:18.680 --> 01:57:23.000
who would like to come onto our
show and talk about, you know,

1166
01:57:23.239 --> 01:57:30.560
how they can be a part of
enhancing and including more women into different spaces

1167
01:57:30.680 --> 01:57:34.000
and how they support and what those
women special women in their lives and what

1168
01:57:34.119 --> 01:57:39.359
that's meant to them as well.
So you do get in contact with us,

1169
01:57:40.319 --> 01:57:43.520
and you can as in I'll give
out addressage. You can contact at

1170
01:57:43.560 --> 01:57:46.880
studio at Advantage Radio dot London,
or you can text us Huble two eight

1171
01:57:47.000 --> 01:57:51.840
but hope and your message or Whatsapper's
on zero seven four five nine six four

1172
01:57:53.319 --> 01:57:59.119
two eight nine eights or connect with
us on Instagram Advantage Radio London or the

1173
01:57:59.199 --> 01:58:05.920
Talking Point Instagram page as well.
So our time is fus spent. I've

1174
01:58:05.960 --> 01:58:11.600
had I had looked around and here
we are at seven o'clock already have you

1175
01:58:11.640 --> 01:58:15.000
got here, Zenya? But we've
got here because we have been talking and

1176
01:58:15.119 --> 01:58:21.159
sharing our thoughts and our music.
In celebration of Intentional Women's Day and Mother's

1177
01:58:21.279 --> 01:58:27.079
Day. I'd like to say,
you know, thank you to those women

1178
01:58:27.119 --> 01:58:30.800
who are making a difference in our
worlds, in our lives, and thank

1179
01:58:30.840 --> 01:58:35.520
you for those mothers and mother figures
who are looking after a sharing and caring

1180
01:58:35.800 --> 01:58:42.880
for us. All any of last
thoughts on that, Senya, just echoing

1181
01:58:42.960 --> 01:58:47.319
your sentiments. It is an important, rather important responsibility and gift the blessing,

1182
01:58:48.119 --> 01:58:56.880
and I just pray that though it
continues to appold and to cover you

1183
01:58:57.359 --> 01:59:01.279
as you do what you do for
us. Even indeed, and I'm going

1184
01:59:01.319 --> 01:59:08.239
to share to close our show a
prayer blessing for all mothers. Let us

1185
01:59:08.279 --> 01:59:14.039
pray, Dear Lord, bless every
mother and mother figure with the fineness of

1186
01:59:14.079 --> 01:59:17.560
your spiritual blessings confirm in her heart
and spirit. The work of her hands

1187
01:59:17.600 --> 01:59:23.720
and the love that she has so
freely given to those children under your care,

1188
01:59:24.359 --> 01:59:27.680
validate her worth daily, so she
has no reason to doubt whether she

1189
01:59:27.800 --> 01:59:30.600
is loved, valued, and cherished, and cherished in the eyes of her

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01:59:30.640 --> 01:59:34.920
heavenly Father, creating her a deep
sense of your protection and trust, so

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01:59:35.039 --> 01:59:39.439
that worry and fear will disappear.
She places her loved ones into your care.

1192
01:59:40.119 --> 01:59:43.720
Let her know that every prayer she
has prayed, and every encouraging word

1193
01:59:43.760 --> 01:59:49.159
she has spoken of her children,
grandchildren, children of God, Dear Lord,

1194
01:59:49.239 --> 01:59:55.479
has been transformed into sweet, fragrant
offerings before your throne, whisper deep

1195
01:59:55.520 --> 01:59:58.840
within her spirit, the sweet words
she longs to hear from you, that

1196
01:59:59.000 --> 02:00:01.920
nothing can ever separate rate her from
your love. Help her to nestle daily

1197
02:00:02.000 --> 02:00:05.760
into the promises of your word,
standing with faith on the things you declare

1198
02:00:05.840 --> 02:00:11.279
are true. Let her know that
you reward faithfulness, but that true success

1199
02:00:11.399 --> 02:00:15.439
doesn't lie in her accomplishments or accolades. Let her resten the knowledge that she

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02:00:15.520 --> 02:00:18.439
has done all she can, and
that she and those she loves truly belong

1201
02:00:18.520 --> 02:00:21.960
to you. Bless her with a
servant's spirit, so she can teach her

1202
02:00:23.079 --> 02:00:28.119
own the joy of hearing one day
well done. Let her joy be contagious,

1203
02:00:28.199 --> 02:00:31.119
Heavenly Father, let her passion be
pure, and let her life overflow

1204
02:00:31.199 --> 02:00:35.960
with the blessings she deserves on special
days like Mother's Day, but not only

1205
02:00:36.079 --> 02:00:39.880
those days, but on every day
of her life. We thank you,

1206
02:00:40.000 --> 02:00:44.760
Dear Lord, for blessing and keeping
every one of our mothers in Jesus' name.

1207
02:00:45.000 --> 02:00:50.960
Amen. Oh to thank you for
your time with us on Talking Points

1208
02:00:50.960 --> 02:00:58.520
as we're celebrating Mother's Day. Happy
Mother's Day for tomorrow and for those who

1209
02:00:58.560 --> 02:01:02.039
are listening, please yeah, celebrate
those women, especially in your lives.

1210
02:01:03.079 --> 02:01:08.800
And I hope you will join us
again next week for another Talking Points show.

1211
02:01:09.560 --> 02:01:13.119
We are continuing with our theme around
we're celebrating women throughout this month of

1212
02:01:13.239 --> 02:01:15.399
March. Like I said, do
get in contact gentlemen if you'd like to

1213
02:01:15.479 --> 02:01:18.640
contribute. We'd love to hear your
voices on the show. We always want

1214
02:01:18.680 --> 02:01:23.720
to hear new voices, new people
speaking to us. So I thank you

1215
02:01:23.760 --> 02:01:28.239
for joining us. Do you continue
to listen to Adventage Radio London Live programming.

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02:01:28.279 --> 02:01:31.720
We'll be back tomorrow morning and I'm
sure Mother's Day will be a theme

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running through those shows as well.
So that's good night for myself, Angela,

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02:01:39.800 --> 02:01:44.600
and thank you for joining us and
Pedro, hope see you back well,

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02:01:44.720 --> 02:01:47.159
get bell soon and I'm want to
leave you with a song for Mama.

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02:01:47.560 --> 02:01:50.239
Bye boys to men, Thank you
for joining us, and have a

1221
02:01:50.560 --> 02:01:55.960
good evening the rest of the weekend
and a blessed week as well. Thank

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02:01:56.000 --> 02:02:29.039
you for joining us by telling me
everything and everything you've given me, I

1223
02:02:29.159 --> 02:02:39.920
always keep it inside you then driving
crushing my line. There isn't anything or

1224
02:02:40.039 --> 02:02:45.920
anyone that I could be, and
it just wouldn't feel right. I didn't

1225
02:02:45.079 --> 02:02:51.520
have you by my side. O. You was there for me to love

1226
02:02:51.600 --> 02:02:58.800
and care for me, some sky's
worker anything even never I was telling you

1227
02:02:58.960 --> 02:03:04.720
were always there to comproment and no
one else can be what you have been

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to me. He will always be. You will always be the girl and

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my h for all time, My
mother, my mother know I hell you

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02:03:26.520 --> 02:03:34.199
fool even who had held my bother
my mony order, little queen of my

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02:03:35.079 --> 02:03:44.960
love. Your love is like just
from the start, let's he said,

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my mind, just one shoot you
know, loving you is like footure my

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02:03:54.720 --> 02:04:00.039
soul. Yes it is yes it
is. Oh ooh ooh, yes he

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02:04:00.239 --> 02:04:09.039
did, Yes he did. Guess
he did. Oh you always got for

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02:04:09.159 --> 02:04:14.560
me, have always been around for
me. You can be out woodsbad and

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02:04:14.760 --> 02:04:20.159
you show me right from my ground. Cats you get. And when you

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02:04:20.279 --> 02:04:24.920
took up from me when maybe one's
down at meeting, you always did.

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I understand you gave me strength to
the door. D was so many times

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02:04:33.720 --> 02:04:40.560
looking back when I was sober.
Friend and then you come to me,

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02:04:41.079 --> 02:04:46.560
say me, I can fancy anything
and no one else can do to you

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God for me get it always be
you well, always be the girl in

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02:04:55.159 --> 02:05:05.840
my life. Lie ooh, my
mother, my love you. You know

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02:05:06.039 --> 02:05:20.800
I love you. You know what
I'm gonna queen my you. You don't

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02:05:20.920 --> 02:05:29.239
love his ideation, the story his
life tis for this time. I just

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02:05:29.439 --> 02:05:35.159
want you to love. I don't
want you to know. Is like food

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02:05:35.239 --> 02:05:46.880
too my soul. You're gonna go
by dig with you. Fills me up

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02:05:47.359 --> 02:06:00.359
just thinking about and getting deep.
No, Mama, you know, no,

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02:06:00.800 --> 02:06:20.520
you know love. I'm my the
queen of love. Anything it's the

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02:06:20.720 --> 02:06:32.199
storm's come my love. Shoot,
I'm my mom loving you. It's like

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02:06:32.439 --> 02:06:38.479
food to my soul. Loving you, it's like food to my soul,

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Oh you other food to my soul. Adventist Radio London inspiration for the song

