WEBVTT 1 00:00:38.479 --> 00:01:34.439 Expert. She just left. Why would you know? That? Was on 2 00:01:34.560 --> 00:01:38.760 the hostel awkward in his I as young fresh and as I mistone death off 3 00:01:38.799 --> 00:01:44.959 camera. I will be here all night on the ones and twos, but 4 00:01:45.840 --> 00:01:52.359 sus me and me out there take care of business. Uh fuck, Keisha, 5 00:01:53.079 --> 00:01:57.439 I got a brick. Fuck you ain't got no random brick playing around 6 00:01:57.879 --> 00:02:14.360 Actually a Hawaii bricks bricks bricks man. Pretty interesting today well today now so 7 00:02:14.479 --> 00:02:28.560 much, but it was cool my bad y'all. You did all that run 8 00:02:28.560 --> 00:02:31.120 around and came back shorter person. I said, ken upstairs to go get 9 00:02:31.120 --> 00:02:34.120 her. I was trying to find him a charger while he was doing that. 10 00:02:35.879 --> 00:02:40.120 Say it yay, I say, how do you do all that running 11 00:02:40.120 --> 00:02:46.360 around to come back short? Shortly? Human? Well? I want to 12 00:02:46.360 --> 00:02:51.280 thank everybody for tuning into this week's episode of Hopetually Awkward. If this is 13 00:02:51.319 --> 00:02:54.240 your first time joining us, I'm your host and favorite motivational speaker, Memi, 14 00:02:54.400 --> 00:02:59.199 MEMI so one hundred or come a walker. It's your nasty and most 15 00:03:00.360 --> 00:03:06.199 Now usually you know I introduced everybody else, but I got to introduce my 16 00:03:06.280 --> 00:03:09.919 babe first. Like MS did the poetry pushes in the building. Well, 17 00:03:09.960 --> 00:03:15.400 well, well, overdue, Tay they get my beet, push your beef 18 00:03:15.719 --> 00:03:23.680 from beat. Yes, I saw her out last night. Shout out to 19 00:03:23.199 --> 00:03:29.240 britt Nicole. We went to her show for knocks on her Butterfly and it 20 00:03:29.360 --> 00:03:34.879 was fucking amazing. She is so dope as a spoken word artist, human, 21 00:03:35.159 --> 00:03:38.719 just everything. I love her. If she is not, you know, 22 00:03:42.080 --> 00:03:46.599 under the influence, she will be joining us in the comments at some 23 00:03:46.680 --> 00:03:50.039 point tonight, or she might just wake up from a little weed nap and 24 00:03:50.080 --> 00:03:52.759 then poppy and like she usually do and say, hey, we're we talking 25 00:03:52.759 --> 00:03:59.599 about tonight, but I am joined by my co host. We got Pie 26 00:03:59.639 --> 00:04:05.879 God one aka the Narcissists and the new mister Bitches. Really you really, 27 00:04:05.919 --> 00:04:12.120 you just peel it down real slow and ship God pulled this down seductive as 28 00:04:12.159 --> 00:04:16.800 a bitch. You know. He started getting more and more toxic as we 29 00:04:16.839 --> 00:04:20.560 You're closer and closer the summer, right uh. And then of course we 30 00:04:20.639 --> 00:04:25.519 got the classic man, mister tone deaf in the building, always making sure 31 00:04:25.560 --> 00:04:28.439 we got the magic on the screen for y'all. Because I don't be feeling 32 00:04:28.519 --> 00:04:32.480 like going through a life crisis. What's up? Dev Dev says good evening 33 00:04:32.519 --> 00:04:40.920 to my favorite host, absolutely absolutely. We discussed this crisis. Yeah, 34 00:04:41.639 --> 00:04:45.399 me and mom are talking before the show about how because I've said this to 35 00:04:45.399 --> 00:04:47.199 my cousin with fathers, like, have you noticed like as niggas are getting 36 00:04:47.199 --> 00:04:51.160 older now, they're trying to grow they hair out. And I'm like, 37 00:04:51.199 --> 00:04:56.079 it's either mid life crisis or it's a big fuck you because a lot of 38 00:04:56.079 --> 00:04:58.959 their peers is actually losing their hair and they like, how hot a niggas. 39 00:04:58.959 --> 00:05:01.399 I'm able to grow line and your ship thing and out on the top. 40 00:05:05.480 --> 00:05:12.680 Yeah. But I had a very very very fun weekend, Like I 41 00:05:12.720 --> 00:05:16.319 actually got outside, y'all, and I don't do that often. But like, 42 00:05:16.600 --> 00:05:21.600 having kids does not stop them being needy, you know, once they 43 00:05:21.600 --> 00:05:27.800 turn eighteen. I really need y'all to understand this. I was out, 44 00:05:27.959 --> 00:05:30.040 you know, after Brittainy Cole, like you know, we decided we went 45 00:05:30.120 --> 00:05:38.160 down to h we went to the Trade and Hi tiya uh. We ended 46 00:05:38.199 --> 00:05:43.639 up going down to the Trade and we were setting up there. Now. 47 00:05:43.680 --> 00:05:48.040 At first we went upstairs ninth floor and Bro, none of us knew what 48 00:05:48.040 --> 00:05:51.839 the fuck that menu was talking about. Like it was some shit. It 49 00:05:51.879 --> 00:05:55.319 was you know, Shane Marie type shit. I'm like, Bro, I 50 00:05:55.319 --> 00:05:57.240 don't know what None of this ship. I don't know what none of these 51 00:05:57.360 --> 00:06:02.399 ingredients is, like even likes like even the nine dollars potatoes and ship that 52 00:06:02.439 --> 00:06:04.480 they had. Now those I was gonna fuck with, but it was like 53 00:06:04.519 --> 00:06:06.519 a little ingredient. I'm like, bro, I don't know what that is. 54 00:06:06.800 --> 00:06:12.000 And we know that I have I have no little Fingerland potatoes. I 55 00:06:12.040 --> 00:06:15.519 love those. I fuck with them down at the neck. But y'all know 56 00:06:15.560 --> 00:06:19.360 I can't take risks like that, having like a full dish of shit that 57 00:06:19.439 --> 00:06:25.759 I don't know what the fuck it is. So Kayla actually she was like, 58 00:06:25.800 --> 00:06:28.800 well, when we came in, it was a little bar restaurant like 59 00:06:28.839 --> 00:06:30.759 downstairs. That one is called the Craft. So she looked up the menu 60 00:06:30.800 --> 00:06:32.279 on her phone. She's like, oh, yeah, this is Mars b 61 00:06:32.439 --> 00:06:35.199 They got wings and burgers and nigga. We got our shit and went downstairs 62 00:06:35.199 --> 00:06:42.279 so fast, so party of twelve except that we we definitely got we have 63 00:06:42.399 --> 00:06:47.120 to go there because you know how much we love wings and shit. They 64 00:06:47.319 --> 00:06:54.199 there, they're wings, No there. Their wings were so good. I 65 00:06:54.199 --> 00:06:58.600 think it was like fifteen dollars, but you get so many, so many 66 00:06:58.680 --> 00:07:01.319 wings, like I wasn't expecting that at all, but I beg one wing 67 00:07:02.360 --> 00:07:06.199 and then I had my child calling me and crying, and she's forensic and 68 00:07:06.600 --> 00:07:12.279 panicing and shit, because no, when she got off of work, the 69 00:07:12.319 --> 00:07:15.480 bus that she normally catches, you know, the weekday schedule and weekend schedule 70 00:07:15.480 --> 00:07:18.759 are different. So when she got off of work, she like, she 71 00:07:19.000 --> 00:07:24.360 just started catching the bus by herself last week. She's always had us driving 72 00:07:24.399 --> 00:07:28.839 her, so she's been catching a bus for the last week, and the 73 00:07:29.000 --> 00:07:31.199 bus wasn't running when she got off of work. So she's like, all 74 00:07:31.319 --> 00:07:33.720 right, well, you know, I know it's alternative bus that I can 75 00:07:34.360 --> 00:07:40.560 take, but she couldn't find where to catch it at. So at this 76 00:07:40.680 --> 00:07:43.399 point, her phone is dead and her iPad is on two percent, so 77 00:07:43.439 --> 00:07:47.240 she's she's calling me on my iPhone from her iPad with two percent left and 78 00:07:47.319 --> 00:07:50.519 don't know where the fuck she's at. So I'm like, calm down, 79 00:07:51.240 --> 00:07:57.680 walk to the corner. What did the street sign say? So you know 80 00:07:57.759 --> 00:08:01.639 I get that information from my mom. Look, just send me ocation walk 81 00:08:01.680 --> 00:08:07.240 the Planet Fitness uh down there, like where the grant is, I'll send 82 00:08:07.279 --> 00:08:09.759 you a lift. Go in there, plug up your phone, charge it 83 00:08:09.839 --> 00:08:11.160 up or whatever. Get some juice. I didn't know the fucking gyms ain't 84 00:08:11.199 --> 00:08:15.399 twenty four hours no more. So I have her walk the Planet Fitness and 85 00:08:15.439 --> 00:08:18.759 she can't even get in because the fucking gym is closed. So Uber was 86 00:08:18.759 --> 00:08:22.560 on bullshit. They was busy as fuck. I was like, well, 87 00:08:22.560 --> 00:08:26.000 we'll find a driver between two and fifteen minutes, and then it's like the 88 00:08:26.120 --> 00:08:28.279 riots was fucking forty five dollars. I'm like, at this point, just 89 00:08:28.360 --> 00:08:31.399 packed my shit up to go, and we went and we picked her up. 90 00:08:31.440 --> 00:08:35.399 So my you know, girls' night out turned into mommy saved the day 91 00:08:35.440 --> 00:08:39.200 again. So that motherfucker definitely giving me back massages or some shit for a 92 00:08:39.240 --> 00:08:45.080 week because I finally had some time out the house away from your motherfuckers. 93 00:08:45.120 --> 00:08:48.200 And he was like, you need to saving and shit. So but yeah, 94 00:08:48.240 --> 00:08:54.200 outside of that, but that's what I'm saying. They don't stop being 95 00:08:54.200 --> 00:08:56.480 a paint in the ash just because they turned eighteen. Shit, she'll be 96 00:08:56.480 --> 00:09:01.480 twenty this year. God damn. Yeah yeah, jelly bean, she'ld be 97 00:09:01.480 --> 00:09:09.159 fifteen. But after that, I went home and uh, we're going to 98 00:09:09.240 --> 00:09:15.080 give a happy birthday to bait that's not bae, So yeah, happy birthday 99 00:09:15.080 --> 00:09:18.879 to bed it's not Bay and we ended up I ended up going out with 100 00:09:18.960 --> 00:09:22.159 him, like you know. We went had some drinks and shit, ended 101 00:09:22.200 --> 00:09:24.480 up going to strip club or whatever, and then it was fun. But 102 00:09:24.519 --> 00:09:28.559 we went to uh to Texas Jays down on the South Side. As soon 103 00:09:28.600 --> 00:09:35.799 as we walk in, badass black girl right instantly, I'm like, well, 104 00:09:35.799 --> 00:09:37.799 I already know who we tipping all night. She's the black one in 105 00:09:37.840 --> 00:09:41.080 here. And she act like she's pretty. She got her makeup and shit 106 00:09:41.200 --> 00:09:45.720 done, her hair was nice, body was. She talked herself right on 107 00:09:45.759 --> 00:09:50.039 out them tips. Man. She was so aggressive. She's so aggressive. 108 00:09:50.080 --> 00:09:56.320 Why you come to the mic like that? He don't know. See, 109 00:09:56.360 --> 00:09:58.360 look, you don't even know, said, why do you come to the 110 00:09:58.399 --> 00:10:03.759 mic like that? What I thought I had a thought. I thought I 111 00:10:03.759 --> 00:10:09.840 had a thought thought yeah, But uh yeah, she she definitely talked herself 112 00:10:09.919 --> 00:10:18.080 right on like I feel like she was trying. I don't know if she 113 00:10:18.200 --> 00:10:26.519 was trying to like recruit what what I thought stripper? I thought, no, 114 00:10:26.600 --> 00:10:33.320 we're now at the strip club, okay, but no, but she 115 00:10:33.360 --> 00:10:35.759 actually she was. She was like you dance. I was like, sweet 116 00:10:35.840 --> 00:10:37.840 sweetheart. That was over twenty years ago. She was like yeah she was. 117 00:10:37.840 --> 00:10:41.080 She was like, she was like, you look like like you smart 118 00:10:41.120 --> 00:10:43.679 and you like got your ship together, and you like you got some wisdom, 119 00:10:43.720 --> 00:10:46.000 like some gems you can drop. And I was like that man like 120 00:10:48.159 --> 00:10:50.879 no, and he thought he thought she knew me, like the way she 121 00:10:50.960 --> 00:10:54.840 kept like stroking and caressing me, and like she was like like she was 122 00:10:54.960 --> 00:11:01.000 just she he SHA's what she was telling. I'm like, bro, she 123 00:11:01.080 --> 00:11:05.200 finished this niggas already y'all know that he get emotional and shit. So I 124 00:11:05.320 --> 00:11:09.080 was like, this motherfucker is gonna get me in trouble because she's saying the 125 00:11:09.120 --> 00:11:11.639 wrong ship. She was like, man, you better hold on her, 126 00:11:11.720 --> 00:11:15.639 like I can tell she a boss, like she like you do some ship. 127 00:11:15.720 --> 00:11:16.919 Like she was like, fuck that, I go find me another nigga, 128 00:11:16.960 --> 00:11:20.960 Like, bro, please don't put that ship broad. I don't feel 129 00:11:20.000 --> 00:11:24.279 like arguing tonight. It has been a good night. And then all of 130 00:11:24.320 --> 00:11:28.000 a sudden it's gonna it's gonna come to that options conversation. Man, way 131 00:11:28.039 --> 00:11:30.159 you want me anywhere? I know you've got options, Bro, I'm not 132 00:11:30.200 --> 00:11:33.639 having this conversation with you tonight. But no, it got to a point 133 00:11:33.679 --> 00:11:35.720 like and she was yelling and shit, and he was like, sweetheart, 134 00:11:35.759 --> 00:11:37.960 why are you so loud? She was like, I'm not. He was 135 00:11:37.960 --> 00:11:41.159 like, yes, you were very like cause she was fucking yelling and it 136 00:11:41.200 --> 00:11:46.639 ain't like she was yelling over the music. Yeah, and that was like 137 00:11:46.720 --> 00:11:50.919 she was real, just obnoxious and just and I'm like, I was, 138 00:11:52.039 --> 00:11:54.200 I'm hearing him there, and I don't be yelling at motherfuckers unless they make 139 00:11:54.240 --> 00:12:01.360 me. Could y'all make me? I had to use it, not today 140 00:12:03.000 --> 00:12:09.679 today. I'm trying to behave today. That's the point. But no, 141 00:12:11.960 --> 00:12:18.600 you know, it's so funny because tone has been out for man, it's 142 00:12:18.639 --> 00:12:24.960 been a minute because like vacation and then he just wasn't here, Like yeah, 143 00:12:26.120 --> 00:12:28.960 so Tona hasn't been hearing it because we actually had to keep postponing my 144 00:12:30.039 --> 00:12:33.320 trial that at this point I've been acquitted of all charges. No, no, 145 00:12:33.440 --> 00:12:39.320 no, no, no, tie their trials pushed back. We're still 146 00:12:39.320 --> 00:12:41.840 picking the jury. Oh they have been there, he said, I love 147 00:12:41.879 --> 00:12:45.879 that place. The chairs are so comfortable. Wait, you're talking about the 148 00:12:45.919 --> 00:12:56.159 crafter. You're talking about Texas Jays. No, that's the club. Yeah, 149 00:12:56.200 --> 00:13:01.480 it's it's right off for First and National. The restaurant was called the 150 00:13:01.480 --> 00:13:05.360 Craft. It's inside the Trade hotel right across the street from five Shirt. 151 00:13:05.919 --> 00:13:15.320 Yeah. But yeah, we have been having a conversationshere. No, I 152 00:13:15.480 --> 00:13:20.519 wasn't at the hotel with him. Where haven't you had sex in this city? 153 00:13:22.919 --> 00:13:24.200 Oh? Yeah? He said he liked the chairs at Texas Jairs. 154 00:13:24.360 --> 00:13:30.519 That the same as the chairs at Heartbreakers. Hey, Kayla, you've been 155 00:13:30.559 --> 00:13:33.799 to enough strip club to know when Script club's got the same chairs. It's 156 00:13:33.960 --> 00:13:37.279 wild. I always take him the strip clubs on his birthday every year. 157 00:13:37.360 --> 00:13:43.120 That's our think, Heartbreakers. You know what's funny when out when I when 158 00:13:43.159 --> 00:13:48.320 I was digging in my purse to get kid my keys, I was like, 159 00:13:48.320 --> 00:13:58.200 bro, I got like so many fresh from the bank at a time. 160 00:14:00.000 --> 00:14:03.519 All right, he probably did, I think when he's a bar, 161 00:14:03.639 --> 00:14:07.279 I give sluts paper cuts. Why not thinking that when I was wrapping, 162 00:14:07.720 --> 00:14:13.559 I don't know, you still doing gun bars? Got so many singles and 163 00:14:13.639 --> 00:14:20.120 my goddamn purse. But no, we've been having conversation for the past couple 164 00:14:20.159 --> 00:14:26.759 of weeks, like and they've they've been they've been sounding real like relationship. 165 00:14:26.960 --> 00:14:37.960 I won't see I told her we got to go back there. Call us 166 00:14:37.000 --> 00:14:43.919 at that salad was fire. He ready to crawl like Casey he hey, 167 00:14:43.960 --> 00:14:48.679 hey, welcome to the show. Yeah, but I think we're at a 168 00:14:48.720 --> 00:14:56.360 point where we're realizing that as as much as I think what it is, 169 00:14:56.519 --> 00:14:58.759 indeed, maybe you can understand. It's like you can have somebody that you 170 00:14:58.799 --> 00:15:03.080 really really with, but it's like that relationship element seemed like it's gonna kind 171 00:15:03.080 --> 00:15:13.080 of change all by absolutely. Yeah, see this thing on, I don't 172 00:15:13.080 --> 00:15:20.240 hear no echoes now got good quality here. We don't echo around here. 173 00:15:20.960 --> 00:15:22.559 You know, you know me long enough to know that I don't. It's 174 00:15:22.639 --> 00:15:31.000 not good quality. So I've been told that's what if you if you knew 175 00:15:31.039 --> 00:15:35.799 who said it, you would lie more than making that face because it was 176 00:15:35.919 --> 00:15:41.840 not It was not the appropriate thing to be said at that moment. What's 177 00:15:41.919 --> 00:15:50.240 up? Glow word? What we do? She looked like a glow word. 178 00:15:50.200 --> 00:15:52.919 I always call her that because she's just so pale and ship But no, 179 00:15:54.159 --> 00:15:58.320 did was talking about you knowing what, just like you've been lying. 180 00:15:58.360 --> 00:16:03.279 But listen, listen, you know what. And I and As we're both 181 00:16:03.320 --> 00:16:10.720 cancers, right, and so we don't like the feeling of not being wanted. 182 00:16:11.480 --> 00:16:17.159 And that's that's something that uh, I think is as far as I 183 00:16:17.240 --> 00:16:22.080 go. Why I decide that sometimes putting a title on something and just mess 184 00:16:22.120 --> 00:16:26.600 it up because the minute sometimes it's that chase that make it feel good, 185 00:16:27.080 --> 00:16:34.600 and some people just stop, maybe unintentionally, maybe intentionally, but the chase 186 00:16:34.639 --> 00:16:37.960 don't be the same once they feel like they got you. And I don't 187 00:16:37.960 --> 00:16:45.080 feel like feeling like creating because I gotta make sense and cancers don't know, 188 00:16:45.240 --> 00:16:48.480 go ahead and disagree with your fellow cancer because I know because we are we 189 00:16:48.519 --> 00:16:55.039 are, we are secret weapon unleashed, we are emotional, we are emotionally 190 00:16:55.440 --> 00:16:59.919 beans right as because I had to, I had to relate to you first, 191 00:17:00.039 --> 00:17:07.000 to open your your your ears up, you know, sometimes going but 192 00:17:07.160 --> 00:17:15.480 a lot of a lot of men I'm not saying, hey, they are 193 00:17:15.559 --> 00:17:21.960 taken back by women that place these standards on relationship. Man, be like 194 00:17:21.960 --> 00:17:25.440 hold on, wait, wait, yeah, you don't want you don't want 195 00:17:25.480 --> 00:17:30.519 me to no stupid see. And that's been my problem for a long time 196 00:17:30.559 --> 00:17:36.400 and why it's been such a long running joke that they're like, dude, 197 00:17:36.440 --> 00:17:41.559 you just you a nigga with titties. You are a nigga with like that. 198 00:17:41.559 --> 00:17:45.119 That has been a joke for so long because it's like I don't have 199 00:17:45.799 --> 00:17:51.359 those types of expectations, like if we vibing, we vibing, and when 200 00:17:51.359 --> 00:17:56.599 we vibing, it's like I'm not vibing with some bum ass nigga, Like 201 00:17:56.680 --> 00:18:00.920 I'm vibing with somebody who actually like, if I'm sick, you need something, 202 00:18:00.920 --> 00:18:03.359 you need me to drop you off. Like I have niggas who I 203 00:18:03.400 --> 00:18:07.519 haven't fucked with in years. They find out you good, you want me 204 00:18:07.559 --> 00:18:10.480 to drop something off, like you need some medicine and sup and whatever. 205 00:18:10.920 --> 00:18:12.759 Yeah, I do need that, and they'll do it and they don't be 206 00:18:12.880 --> 00:18:17.920 they don't be tripping about ship. So it's like with him that we've been 207 00:18:17.960 --> 00:18:26.559 doing this dance for six years, Well yeah so, but since you know, 208 00:18:27.279 --> 00:18:40.839 reunited. But but in doing that, it's like we do every fucking 209 00:18:41.480 --> 00:18:45.440 thing like we like we damn or act like we married sometimes, but that's 210 00:18:45.519 --> 00:18:48.759 just that's our vibe, that's our connection, like we've always had that. 211 00:18:49.079 --> 00:18:52.640 So even though we had like that little eight year gap in between, like 212 00:18:52.759 --> 00:18:56.720 of us not even like communicating at all, the very first night that we 213 00:18:57.079 --> 00:19:02.519 met up to sit down and chop it up and shit, like it felt 214 00:19:02.559 --> 00:19:11.200 like no time had passed, like none eight years Jesus silent years when dog 215 00:19:11.359 --> 00:19:14.279 was out doing bullshit? You know what it felt like. It was like 216 00:19:14.680 --> 00:19:18.720 in Infinity War, like niggas blipped out, but when they came back, 217 00:19:18.799 --> 00:19:25.640 they still recognized that. It basically basically like niggas blipped out, and then 218 00:19:25.680 --> 00:19:29.319 when they come back after that eight years and shit, just like it ain't 219 00:19:29.440 --> 00:19:32.640 like you forgot nothing. You still got all your same feelings and shit, 220 00:19:32.759 --> 00:19:34.319 is just the world around you was changed. And that's really what it was 221 00:19:34.359 --> 00:19:40.279 like. So we were having that conversation today and he was like, on 222 00:19:40.359 --> 00:19:44.160 one hand, like, you know how I feel about like, you know, 223 00:19:44.240 --> 00:19:47.799 like getting into relationships, like just relationships period, like it's not just 224 00:19:47.880 --> 00:19:49.839 you. And I was like, yeah, we we both agreed on that. 225 00:19:51.200 --> 00:19:52.079 But he was like, but then on the other hand, it's like 226 00:19:53.039 --> 00:19:57.160 I'm feeling like we need to just go ahead, just do it, get 227 00:19:57.200 --> 00:20:02.319 it over it, like whatever, because clearly we were not stopping fucking with 228 00:20:02.359 --> 00:20:07.599 each other. And I'm like, if I were to do the relationship thing 229 00:20:07.680 --> 00:20:10.640 again, he would be the only person that I feel like I would be 230 00:20:10.680 --> 00:20:15.759 able to do that with. But I'm scared because like we are so so 231 00:20:17.720 --> 00:20:22.240 like we're equally yoked in so any ways, it's just I don't want shit 232 00:20:22.480 --> 00:20:27.559 to get weird. If we agree like we're gonna do the relationship thing, 233 00:20:27.880 --> 00:20:33.599 the dynamics change, like the expectations. It ain't even just the expectation because 234 00:20:34.279 --> 00:20:37.559 if you what's understood, don't even explain it. And if you are already 235 00:20:37.720 --> 00:20:42.640 kind of in a sink, anything that steps outside of that sink gonna feel 236 00:20:42.680 --> 00:20:48.599 like something's going on. But what I meant by dynamics change, like if 237 00:20:48.720 --> 00:20:52.000 y'all get into a relationship and really do the thing, then it's like, 238 00:20:52.440 --> 00:20:56.279 now you got to share your space. You know. It's the little things 239 00:20:56.279 --> 00:21:00.480 that people don't think about until they in the middle of it. You know 240 00:21:00.480 --> 00:21:03.440 what I'm saying, Like I want to, I want to, I want 241 00:21:03.440 --> 00:21:06.799 a relationship. Right, let's say that you don't you don't want niggas to 242 00:21:06.839 --> 00:21:12.119 go home exactly, But I'm so used to my space that yeah, it's 243 00:21:12.160 --> 00:21:17.240 like okay, like I don't even like, like, don't break nothing that 244 00:21:17.319 --> 00:21:21.960 indicates that you might be staying here all night, because if I invite you 245 00:21:22.000 --> 00:21:29.519 over, I want so you don't you don't you gotta get up early. 246 00:21:29.599 --> 00:21:32.880 In the morning. So you have a partner, Yes, I do, 247 00:21:32.920 --> 00:21:37.039 but not like that. I want to meet a party. There are people 248 00:21:37.039 --> 00:21:40.640 who are married living in separate houses, but at some point they started living 249 00:21:40.680 --> 00:21:44.599 together. No, that was the that was the arrangement going in. They 250 00:21:44.640 --> 00:21:48.279 want to be married living separately. That's the part that will make me want 251 00:21:48.279 --> 00:21:52.400 to share that space, is what I'm saying. I just and you like 252 00:21:52.720 --> 00:21:56.200 you got to get somebody chance. Well, no, that's that's well, 253 00:21:56.279 --> 00:22:00.960 me and him we have that. We love our space. But we are 254 00:22:00.000 --> 00:22:04.279 also people who like we are probably the only like he's the only one for 255 00:22:04.319 --> 00:22:07.960 me and I'm the only one for him, who like we can be around 256 00:22:07.000 --> 00:22:12.400 each other and not get irritated, or we are perfectly fine being in the 257 00:22:12.480 --> 00:22:17.079 same spaces separately. So it's like if we both in the crib, but 258 00:22:17.160 --> 00:22:19.079 like I'm in the bedroom and he in the in the living room or whatever, 259 00:22:19.160 --> 00:22:22.920 like we're cool with that. We don't have to be up under each 260 00:22:22.920 --> 00:22:27.119 other to share space. So for us, that's not even an issue. 261 00:22:27.200 --> 00:22:33.319 It's really just I think both of us are paranoid. Like for him, 262 00:22:33.359 --> 00:22:36.359 he explained his issue because like we did have, you know, a bad 263 00:22:36.400 --> 00:22:42.039 breakup I'm like, that's true. But at the same time, like the 264 00:22:42.119 --> 00:22:47.440 person who I was then and the person you were, like those issues that 265 00:22:47.839 --> 00:22:52.319 created everything back then, we've both of allD from those people now, so 266 00:22:52.359 --> 00:22:56.240 I don't feel like we would have those same problems. Like you was a 267 00:22:56.359 --> 00:23:00.000 hot boy then you was out in these screeps, like you don't do shit 268 00:23:00.240 --> 00:23:03.319 work, take care of your son, go home, kick it with me, 269 00:23:03.440 --> 00:23:06.559 like and try to get sleep when you can, Like you don't. 270 00:23:06.720 --> 00:23:10.279 You're not into the party scene and shit no more. Like things are just 271 00:23:10.319 --> 00:23:12.160 different and it's like me, I'm not a high head like I used to 272 00:23:12.240 --> 00:23:15.359 be, So I ain't out here hitting niggas with cars and you know what 273 00:23:15.400 --> 00:23:18.400 I'm saying and flying off and flying off the handling shit. So it's like, 274 00:23:18.920 --> 00:23:23.160 yeah, you be like, damn did we fu around? Listen man, 275 00:23:23.359 --> 00:23:29.960 listen Like Kicky Palmer, I'm sorry to that man. Sorry to that 276 00:23:30.039 --> 00:23:40.000 man at Kaitlyn the comments she said hashtag dick and dash. So I've had 277 00:23:40.119 --> 00:23:42.759 I've had a situation that I had to let go off and I had to 278 00:23:42.759 --> 00:23:49.400 realize that part of the ambiyonce of that situation was the familiarity, you know 279 00:23:49.400 --> 00:23:53.160 what I mean? I got used to it, and it's like I adapted 280 00:23:53.200 --> 00:23:57.200 the idea I prescribed to the idea that if I'm a deal with anybody bullshit, 281 00:23:57.200 --> 00:24:00.880 I rap to deal with some bullshit that I'm already right yep. And 282 00:24:00.920 --> 00:24:04.599 so then you know, we had a little bit of separation and he came 283 00:24:04.680 --> 00:24:10.160 back being the perfect dude for the person I used to be. So now 284 00:24:10.160 --> 00:24:15.640 what do we do with that? Because the person I am now don't click 285 00:24:15.680 --> 00:24:18.200 with that person now, So you know, I had to figure it out, 286 00:24:18.240 --> 00:24:21.440 like, yeah, let me go. That timing is off. I'm 287 00:24:21.440 --> 00:24:25.920 the most single that I've ever been, and it's a weird little space because 288 00:24:25.960 --> 00:24:30.400 most people they killed for this type of just freedom. But it's just like 289 00:24:30.599 --> 00:24:33.319 I don't know what to do with it. And I get what you're saying, 290 00:24:33.880 --> 00:24:37.759 like somebody down there have to just break into my house for me to 291 00:24:37.759 --> 00:24:40.240 meet somebody at this point, because I don't pop out and be going I 292 00:24:40.279 --> 00:24:45.680 don't know where. Yeah, And I'm like I'm in this horrible space where 293 00:24:45.720 --> 00:24:52.440 it's like, even when I do have the opportunities, because you know, 294 00:24:52.599 --> 00:24:57.160 people shoot, they shot, it's like I instantly rejected because I'm in a 295 00:24:57.200 --> 00:25:06.440 place where this per person checks all of my boxes and we've always had like 296 00:25:06.559 --> 00:25:10.640 this insane connection. It's it's literally like like they'll tell you, it's like 297 00:25:10.759 --> 00:25:12.400 we are the male and female versions of each other, damn near. Like 298 00:25:12.720 --> 00:25:18.680 we have our differences, but at the same time, it's like it's like 299 00:25:18.680 --> 00:25:22.559 I'm dealing with myself so I don't have to worry about certain things because it's 300 00:25:22.599 --> 00:25:26.160 like, nig I know you're not gonna judge me for this, Like we 301 00:25:26.599 --> 00:25:32.119 you know, we're on the same type of time, damn near. I 302 00:25:32.119 --> 00:25:34.119 gotta be tip though I feel like I'm still kind of the wild when a 303 00:25:34.160 --> 00:25:41.799 little bit, but yeah, I just I'm I feel like I'm open to 304 00:25:41.839 --> 00:25:47.279 the idea, like I wouldn't one hundred percent reject it, but I feel 305 00:25:47.279 --> 00:25:49.720 like we do also have to do a little bit more, you know, 306 00:25:51.200 --> 00:25:56.640 in depth work before we would fully agree to move forward in an actual relationship, 307 00:25:56.720 --> 00:26:00.920 because even though we're not the same people that we used to be, 308 00:26:02.519 --> 00:26:07.279 he's still carrying some of that hurt from the person that he was back then 309 00:26:07.119 --> 00:26:12.440 because of how things ended. And it's like I've done my work to get 310 00:26:12.440 --> 00:26:15.000 through that, like I've been in therapy, I've done all of that kind 311 00:26:15.000 --> 00:26:18.920 of shit. And it's like, there are some things that I feel like 312 00:26:18.960 --> 00:26:22.799 he needs to work through individually, and then there's some things that we need 313 00:26:22.839 --> 00:26:26.319 to work through together because I don't want to. I don't want us to 314 00:26:26.319 --> 00:26:30.000 build shit on a cracked foundation. It's like it ain't completely broken, but 315 00:26:30.039 --> 00:26:33.680 it's still some cracks in it. Let me ask you this one of my 316 00:26:33.720 --> 00:26:37.440 favorite quotes. How do you feel about the quote you can't heal where you 317 00:26:37.519 --> 00:26:48.640 hurt? Damn? Cause I mean, like you no, no, she 318 00:26:48.759 --> 00:26:51.200 asked me that. Now, I've never heard it before. It's real. 319 00:26:51.319 --> 00:26:56.519 It's a real thing that you really don't think about in hindsight. Is twenty 320 00:26:56.559 --> 00:27:00.839 twenty. I can't say that I just was this profound in the middle of 321 00:27:00.119 --> 00:27:04.319 what I perceive as my own mess. It's just some things that I thought 322 00:27:04.319 --> 00:27:10.599 about afterwards that I was trying to heal in the same spaces you know that 323 00:27:11.160 --> 00:27:14.440 I had hurt at and I didn't even know I was hurting there. Like 324 00:27:15.079 --> 00:27:25.279 because of this disattachment and this not really too big on names and labels and 325 00:27:25.279 --> 00:27:30.119 stuff like that, it allowed the men that I've dealt with a whole lot 326 00:27:30.119 --> 00:27:36.799 of freedom. And because none of my friends mirror my relationships. I don't 327 00:27:36.839 --> 00:27:40.960 have a lot of people that I bounced it off of, so I do, 328 00:27:41.279 --> 00:27:45.079 you know, without having back and ground noise in my decision making, 329 00:27:45.680 --> 00:27:48.359 I do what's best for my situations, you know, and I don't just 330 00:27:49.200 --> 00:27:53.920 you know, I don't be. It comes off like I don't get, 331 00:27:53.960 --> 00:27:56.519 I don't care, I don't get no fuck know what I mean, And 332 00:27:56.559 --> 00:28:00.799 I really don't, or maybe I feel like I can't. I don't know. 333 00:28:00.880 --> 00:28:03.079 I ain't figured that part out yet, but it's something about it's something 334 00:28:03.119 --> 00:28:10.000 about it that just anyway. Dealing with dude though, because I was gonna 335 00:28:10.039 --> 00:28:11.640 go somewhere else with it, but dealing with dude, I had to. 336 00:28:11.839 --> 00:28:17.519 I had to, you know. I was trying to to not only force 337 00:28:17.599 --> 00:28:21.119 the issue on how I wanted him to be, but then I had this 338 00:28:21.279 --> 00:28:25.480 idea of Okay, well one version of me didn't work, let me throw 339 00:28:25.480 --> 00:28:27.839 out another version of me and see if this worked. Because I know it's 340 00:28:27.920 --> 00:28:36.160 something you know, I know it's there, but man, you listen, 341 00:28:36.359 --> 00:28:38.359 I just you know, Hey, you want to day five different people. 342 00:28:38.400 --> 00:28:42.480 I could be five different people, but I don't know about Hey, listen, 343 00:28:42.519 --> 00:28:51.279 that's some cancer ship because you because because you instantly turned into a whole 344 00:28:51.359 --> 00:29:00.400 different dude when you slid that hood down, you might you might have to 345 00:29:00.440 --> 00:29:06.720 that It just is we we love hard and we love people past their bullshit, 346 00:29:06.799 --> 00:29:17.000 and that's that's my problem. Let let me listen. Because cancers are 347 00:29:18.119 --> 00:29:22.160 cancers by nature are in are in shells where there's never two crabs in the 348 00:29:22.200 --> 00:29:26.559 same shells. So we're used to being by ourselves. So when we get 349 00:29:26.559 --> 00:29:30.640 a little, a little taste of that togetherness, it's like we try to 350 00:29:32.759 --> 00:29:37.160 it's fasty work, listen because don't let us really get our pictures into you. 351 00:29:37.200 --> 00:29:41.319 Guess what it's hard. I think it's it's fucked up for me because 352 00:29:41.440 --> 00:29:48.400 like we ended on like horrible terms. It was more it was more pros 353 00:29:48.440 --> 00:29:53.559 than cons, but the con was a big one. But in my relationships 354 00:29:53.599 --> 00:30:00.000 after that, I found myself making comparisons a lot because there was so much 355 00:30:00.039 --> 00:30:04.720 any pros and trying to like match those and I never got them or like 356 00:30:06.079 --> 00:30:11.119 never got as many or as close to that. So having a person who 357 00:30:11.640 --> 00:30:18.519 does check off all your boxes is it's hard because you don't, like, 358 00:30:18.599 --> 00:30:19.880 what the fuck am I gonna try to go date somebody else for it, 359 00:30:19.920 --> 00:30:23.519 and like, nigg this has been how many years in the making and I 360 00:30:23.559 --> 00:30:26.200 still ain't found nobody close to us? What the make me think I'm gonna 361 00:30:26.200 --> 00:30:29.680 go out and find that ship tomorrow? In a crazy way, It's like, 362 00:30:29.960 --> 00:30:40.559 y'all are your own rebounds. Man. No, that's an interesting concept 363 00:30:40.599 --> 00:30:45.720 though, because what if you can, hey, hey, date somebody to 364 00:30:45.200 --> 00:30:55.119 you know, to feel that that void? All is say? Is he 365 00:30:55.240 --> 00:30:59.160 you think he's your placeholder? No? No, not at all, not 366 00:30:59.279 --> 00:31:03.599 at all places you know what. I don't know if we got any wrestling 367 00:31:03.599 --> 00:31:08.759 fans in the comments, but it's so funny. I have I have no. 368 00:31:10.000 --> 00:31:11.960 I have been calling him the Final Boss before The Rock did so. 369 00:31:12.000 --> 00:31:17.200 When The Rock came out and started that ship, I was like, that 370 00:31:17.319 --> 00:31:18.599 was the song. I was like, cause, y'all know how BRO feel 371 00:31:18.640 --> 00:31:22.440 about that. I was like, because I didn't know. I thought he 372 00:31:22.559 --> 00:31:26.240 was joking when he said that. I didn't see when Rock did it. 373 00:31:27.119 --> 00:31:30.519 And then I was like, wait, this nigga really called himself the Final 374 00:31:30.559 --> 00:31:37.400 Boss. I was like, Yo, yeah, that was that was wild. 375 00:31:37.400 --> 00:31:41.680 But no, I don't feel like we are each other's placeholders. I 376 00:31:41.720 --> 00:31:48.960 actually feel like everybody who we've dealt with in between where the place? Yeah, 377 00:31:49.119 --> 00:32:00.839 so I don't mm hmm oh from Mad TV, the white one and 378 00:32:00.880 --> 00:32:09.400 the black one. He not really white all. But no, I don't 379 00:32:09.400 --> 00:32:13.599 know. We well, we'll see how how things work and maybe we just 380 00:32:13.680 --> 00:32:16.599 maybe we just got to do a trial run. Was because I because I 381 00:32:16.640 --> 00:32:21.000 proposed that today. I'm like, you know, we'll we'll go into details, 382 00:32:21.200 --> 00:32:25.319 you know, I want you to go off and enjoy, enjoy your 383 00:32:25.319 --> 00:32:30.960 birthday and ship, but well we'll revisit the conversation and maybe maybe we just 384 00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:37.240 need to see, you know, not a character. He actually is a 385 00:32:37.319 --> 00:32:42.519 character witness for me. He signed a notarized affidavit for me to get my 386 00:32:42.599 --> 00:32:55.839 partner lifted for what so. Yeah, but dude, I love Patrice man. 387 00:32:57.039 --> 00:32:59.279 That's I think. The last time I saw her, I was dying 388 00:32:59.400 --> 00:33:05.400 in her bar. Yes, yes it was, yeah, but it ended 389 00:33:05.440 --> 00:33:12.920 up in emergency surgery and ship. Yeah, I was fucked up. I 390 00:33:12.960 --> 00:33:15.960 did not like that ship at all. But I know a lot of you 391 00:33:16.000 --> 00:33:20.519 that are here, y'all, y'all have been wondering, you know, y'all 392 00:33:20.519 --> 00:33:24.920 here for the bus going up and down. Yeah, y'all here, y'all, 393 00:33:24.920 --> 00:33:35.920 here for the bulls ship. But listen, howd on you want to 394 00:33:35.920 --> 00:33:42.400 meet it? M Oh that damp or nothing? Because he got the bag 395 00:33:42.480 --> 00:33:45.440 with him. You wanted to sit there on the soft guy not no, 396 00:33:45.480 --> 00:33:51.000 that's what does this relate to him? Is he a soft guy? All 397 00:33:51.079 --> 00:33:52.440 right? All right? All right, she said she live us too. 398 00:33:52.960 --> 00:33:57.039 But yeah, so we we definitely got to get into the soft guy air 399 00:33:57.079 --> 00:34:01.079 ship. Now a lot of people, to my surprise, do not not 400 00:34:01.400 --> 00:34:12.760 They don't know what the soft guy area is. They were thinking that it 401 00:34:12.880 --> 00:34:17.280 was something that I created. Now it was something that I've been seeing across 402 00:34:17.280 --> 00:34:23.280 social media in different videos and posts. Or no, I did not create 403 00:34:24.039 --> 00:34:30.119 the soft guy era. Okay, that is not me. I just flipped 404 00:34:30.119 --> 00:34:35.000 it. So we're going to go ahead. You don't come in here being 405 00:34:35.039 --> 00:34:44.559 loud, sit drys down. So we're you said you was gonna sit down 406 00:34:44.599 --> 00:34:47.119 and shut up. You ain't say nothing about talking. You want to speak 407 00:34:47.119 --> 00:34:54.440 for the soft guys posts. You the one that said you want to speak 408 00:34:54.480 --> 00:34:55.960 for him, So we asked, what was you a soft guy? And 409 00:34:57.000 --> 00:35:01.679 that's what you want to speak on community in DC. So anyway, we 410 00:35:02.400 --> 00:35:07.840 so, so we are going to play this video to kick the topic off 411 00:35:07.880 --> 00:35:13.239 and then we'll be back. Go ahead and uh play a time. Actual, 412 00:35:13.599 --> 00:35:17.679 it's kind of I am on a whole other level. Really only fuck 413 00:35:17.719 --> 00:35:21.480 you over because you let him. Fucking girl, I guess you didn't know 414 00:35:21.639 --> 00:35:24.519 any better. Girl, that man didn't show any others. Do all I 415 00:35:24.639 --> 00:35:29.119 can, just to show you your special certain and show love that holds me 416 00:35:29.199 --> 00:35:32.239 together. Hey, you say he's been killing the bight. Gotta be sitting 417 00:35:32.360 --> 00:35:37.239 up this guy, pull up skirts, get in the right left hand is 418 00:35:37.320 --> 00:35:40.440 stepping the other and skipping your dyke. Light up with spiffing and hide and 419 00:35:40.679 --> 00:35:58.800 shouty that you will ride for aga trying to get fluid out from Briefly, 420 00:35:58.840 --> 00:36:00.559 I didn't see the whole poem. You know how when you see something and 421 00:36:00.599 --> 00:36:14.760 then Facebook just flick your ship and ship disappears. Yeah no, But so, 422 00:36:14.840 --> 00:36:20.519 in a very brief and concise explanation, the soft guy era is nothing 423 00:36:20.599 --> 00:36:24.280 but a bunch of men who are posting trying to flip things on women, 424 00:36:25.119 --> 00:36:29.559 and they're talking like bad babies out here. That's really all it is. 425 00:36:29.719 --> 00:36:38.360 Niggas in a bad bitch era. Let me see. Uh he just said 426 00:36:38.480 --> 00:36:42.920 we just wanted to save space to be feminine. All hair broke loose from 427 00:36:42.960 --> 00:37:00.400 the fellas. Yes, yes, go ahead, just your stop. I'm 428 00:37:01.400 --> 00:37:07.079 yeah. So as a result of that, I had like a series of 429 00:37:07.159 --> 00:37:12.400 posts while I was hacked for forty eight hours. What is wrong with it? 430 00:37:13.280 --> 00:37:16.039 Like I get it, but like, what's wrong with it? Is? 431 00:37:16.079 --> 00:37:19.960 It? Is? It? Is it the manner in which they asked 432 00:37:20.000 --> 00:37:23.920 for it. It's like, why are you asking for it? Like because 433 00:37:23.920 --> 00:37:28.360 some niggas come from a life of bees, don't treat them well, well, 434 00:37:28.400 --> 00:37:31.599 that's that's called therapy. If it feels weird to me because it seems 435 00:37:31.639 --> 00:37:37.239 like the men are competing with the women in the situation and it's hard perfect. 436 00:37:37.559 --> 00:37:40.320 It puts me in the mind of Joel. Remember when Joe he was 437 00:37:40.360 --> 00:37:44.239 like, you will never be as pretty as me? Remember that ship and 438 00:37:44.239 --> 00:37:51.360 flip his ponytail and ship, that's what it's given. That's what it's given. 439 00:37:51.039 --> 00:37:54.760 That's nasty when you're trying to be with women. But like if you 440 00:37:55.199 --> 00:37:59.519 dude, that's just like you ain't gonna take no ship like a woman ain't 441 00:37:59.519 --> 00:38:01.960 gonna take no Just that on what you will and won't do, that's not 442 00:38:01.960 --> 00:38:09.039 what it is about. That business is disgusting, right, But that's the 443 00:38:09.079 --> 00:38:15.480 whole point, riz, because that was nat that that's the whole thing. 444 00:38:16.360 --> 00:38:22.360 Yeah, and so I made a post that like I made a Okay, 445 00:38:22.239 --> 00:38:28.199 it's just so me is the reason why me is one of my favorite artists. 446 00:38:28.239 --> 00:38:31.719 I want to buy the sam Son ultraphones. I feel like, if 447 00:38:31.760 --> 00:38:37.719 you put your drawings on T shirts, I will wear them. Really, 448 00:38:37.199 --> 00:38:40.840 I will wear your drawings on T shirts. You would wear Yeah, I 449 00:38:40.880 --> 00:38:46.800 wish whatever the brightest color is, I probably got a shirt. What are 450 00:38:46.800 --> 00:38:50.880 you saying because it keeps sounding like you're saying my draws, right, No, 451 00:38:51.519 --> 00:38:54.639 that's not what you're saying. I know, I knew you wasn't saying 452 00:38:54.920 --> 00:38:59.280 my drawers. I said what it sounds like. That's why I needed you 453 00:38:59.320 --> 00:39:07.360 to say clear what you were saying for anybody to put them on. Everybody 454 00:39:07.360 --> 00:39:16.800 called it doodles. It's not you're doodling. That's what it is. You're 455 00:39:16.840 --> 00:39:23.039 thinking of diddling. And you know what, what's interested I reading some of 456 00:39:23.079 --> 00:39:29.199 the comments just from like men reposting and asking questions like what the hell is 457 00:39:29.280 --> 00:39:34.599 soft guy air? Right, And it's amazing how many men interpreted that as 458 00:39:34.679 --> 00:39:40.639 something that we were imposing on them. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they 459 00:39:40.639 --> 00:39:45.039 thought it was us, Like, man, that's these new niggas wearing skinny 460 00:39:45.079 --> 00:39:47.039 jeans and purses. And I'm like, bro, we didn't start this. 461 00:39:47.400 --> 00:39:51.679 They did. I did not. I have never went into the store and 462 00:39:51.719 --> 00:39:57.639 be like, oh purse. Never, that's not the soft Guy era we 463 00:39:57.719 --> 00:40:05.920 talking about. What I'm talking about? No, man, No, I 464 00:40:05.960 --> 00:40:13.880 explained it. It's niggas don't have to talk like that having soft Guy era 465 00:40:14.119 --> 00:40:19.000 expectations. You said they don't got two bitches together and they have soft Guy 466 00:40:19.039 --> 00:40:22.320 era expectations. I think that it's okay for a woman, you know, 467 00:40:22.440 --> 00:40:27.440 to spoil her. Man, This is not that like there's there's some soft 468 00:40:27.480 --> 00:40:34.400 Guy era stuff that expectations on roll switching per se for Oh, so they're 469 00:40:34.440 --> 00:40:38.800 trying to usher it again. They want to trade place because that's that's nasty. 470 00:40:38.840 --> 00:40:42.760 Listen, that's no. That's why you ain't got no mic sit there 471 00:40:42.760 --> 00:40:52.039 and shut up trade places. So the didn't I sure have a song called 472 00:40:52.079 --> 00:40:54.159 traded Place. Yeah, that was in one of my drawings. That was 473 00:40:54.239 --> 00:40:58.039 that it had come up. I do believe I saw that. Yeah. 474 00:40:58.679 --> 00:41:01.320 So my very first the first post and said listen, I keep saying all 475 00:41:01.360 --> 00:41:06.639 the soft Guy air posts then I quote it where they said, we just 476 00:41:06.679 --> 00:41:08.519 want y'all to know how y'all sound, how stupid yall sound. I said, 477 00:41:08.519 --> 00:41:10.559 no, I'm not mad at y'all. You can be in your soft 478 00:41:10.559 --> 00:41:16.480 air baby, just know over here you're getting pecked. I want to pause 479 00:41:16.519 --> 00:41:21.320 on that because I want you to hear me. You can be on your 480 00:41:21.440 --> 00:41:25.559 soft guy air ship, but you are getting pecked, all right. So 481 00:41:25.639 --> 00:41:31.119 no one comes with that over here. So then I said, so since 482 00:41:31.159 --> 00:41:37.400 they want to s So since they felt like, okay, well we're finna 483 00:41:37.440 --> 00:41:40.119 talk like bad bitches and ship. We're finna say ship. They say, 484 00:41:40.199 --> 00:41:43.599 so, I said what they said, I said, I look like spending 485 00:41:43.639 --> 00:41:45.159 money on the nigga that's not giving up, No ass, we don't got 486 00:41:45.159 --> 00:41:53.360 to literally, we don't like they don't have a rep because who is these 487 00:41:53.440 --> 00:42:00.800 niggas speaking for all of us? Every since the Internet I came a thing 488 00:42:00.840 --> 00:42:05.199 that anybody can get a hold on. Everybody the wrong niggas get on there 489 00:42:05.199 --> 00:42:07.800 and say ship. Because as the Union repped myself, I would have paused 490 00:42:07.840 --> 00:42:10.679 it, like, first of all, we're not even gonna call this soft 491 00:42:10.679 --> 00:42:15.559 guy because that's nasty. Nast's nasty right there in itself. Why do you 492 00:42:15.639 --> 00:42:20.599 want to be referred to as a soft guy? Pause? You just out 493 00:42:20.639 --> 00:42:24.039 here like, see what happened is the aldermen of the black I just want 494 00:42:24.079 --> 00:42:28.000 you to know we definitely celebrated you at the beginning of the show. He 495 00:42:28.119 --> 00:42:34.559 was gonna be late though. It's how I'm sharp to show up when anything 496 00:42:34.599 --> 00:42:37.679 tragic happened in the black community. Who is the alpha male? That just 497 00:42:37.840 --> 00:42:40.119 is a brock lancer because if it's him, he peed on the brinch. 498 00:42:40.159 --> 00:42:44.440 So he's out. But now I want to bring you back to let you 499 00:42:44.480 --> 00:42:45.599 know that I wasn't doing reading the stad. Remember how you said that you're 500 00:42:45.599 --> 00:42:49.079 gonna be cutting me off the ship? I told you, I just I 501 00:42:49.960 --> 00:42:54.960 just wanted to know. No. But yeah, So like I said the 502 00:42:55.000 --> 00:42:59.639 same way, how they they've been trying to flip things. I decided, 503 00:42:59.679 --> 00:43:01.440 Okay, you know, y'all, y'all want to know reverse, I'm gonna 504 00:43:01.440 --> 00:43:05.960 watch us slide reverse reverse. So that's what. So that's what we're doing. 505 00:43:06.280 --> 00:43:08.920 So so everything that y'all feel like y'all doing it and y'all making this 506 00:43:09.000 --> 00:43:15.519 big movement, in this big statement, I've been just dismantling that ship for 507 00:43:15.599 --> 00:43:19.519 the past couple of days. It's times you got to show people how they 508 00:43:19.559 --> 00:43:22.679 sign and how they act. Now we know how we signed, we know 509 00:43:22.719 --> 00:43:25.360 how we act, which is why we try to take their phones from them. 510 00:43:27.039 --> 00:43:30.000 Ex app So, I said, funk, I look like spending money 511 00:43:30.000 --> 00:43:34.360 on the nigga. That's not giving up any ass literally. So if you 512 00:43:34.400 --> 00:43:37.360 want my role so bad, I'll gladly give it to you. But you're 513 00:43:37.400 --> 00:43:40.360 taking everything that comes with it, including a strap. I'm pushing your back 514 00:43:40.400 --> 00:43:45.280 in and clapping them cheeks like a black family at a graduation. Oh and 515 00:43:45.320 --> 00:43:46.960 when I take you out to dinner, I wouldn't order anything spicy. You 516 00:43:47.039 --> 00:43:52.239 might have a rough couple of days when I'm done Gorilla hashtag soft got era. 517 00:43:52.320 --> 00:43:57.920 That is sounding not soft at all, man, nothing about that a 518 00:43:58.079 --> 00:44:07.920 pro like key family. I need to report you all screams wild. We're 519 00:44:07.920 --> 00:44:15.800 talking to women like that. It's not agreement. You want me to take 520 00:44:15.840 --> 00:44:23.360 care of you. I got you, but I'm finna dig that ass out. 521 00:44:23.760 --> 00:44:27.920 See look, patri said, I'm gonna treat you like a whole bitch. 522 00:44:28.000 --> 00:44:30.760 Trust down to the detail of me fucking you in all the capacity. 523 00:44:30.960 --> 00:44:36.840 You did that though, like I know what happened you Like I am grabbing 524 00:44:36.880 --> 00:44:38.800 you by the ankles, nigga, I'm grabbing you by the and you were 525 00:44:38.840 --> 00:44:46.639 here to Jesus with your ankles, like give me a fee? This is 526 00:44:46.679 --> 00:44:50.840 why are you here? And while I'm digging your ship out, I'm hitting 527 00:44:50.880 --> 00:44:57.000 you with the pretty ricky hipro. Yeah, you put some thought into this. 528 00:44:58.800 --> 00:45:04.599 You put some thought? Why are you? Why is he letting you 529 00:45:04.679 --> 00:45:08.119 do this? He ain't got no choice, You got choices. No, 530 00:45:08.239 --> 00:45:13.239 he wanted to be taken care of. He can say no, you'll tell 531 00:45:13.320 --> 00:45:22.119 er. I don't need I mean, I mean, niggas tell us if 532 00:45:22.119 --> 00:45:24.480 we want to be taking care of, then we're gonna have to shut up 533 00:45:24.519 --> 00:45:29.280 and let them cheat in peace. So everybody got their stipulations to be taken 534 00:45:29.320 --> 00:45:32.239 care of, right, I don't want to cheat. I just want to 535 00:45:32.280 --> 00:45:39.360 knock that ass back. So you better not go outside smoking black. You 536 00:45:39.440 --> 00:45:51.119 better not go back. Okay, I'm packing some men. I'm packing some 537 00:45:51.320 --> 00:46:00.800 men. Don't don't be whispering in his ear? Sweet nothing doing it either. 538 00:46:00.400 --> 00:46:06.559 So I also think rather MEI intentionally did it or not. Look, 539 00:46:06.679 --> 00:46:08.719 I don't know if Mimi intentionally did it. Did this or not with that 540 00:46:08.840 --> 00:46:15.280 whole status. But it also kind of set a little bit of a standard 541 00:46:16.000 --> 00:46:21.599 for I'm not a standard, but it just it made a way, like 542 00:46:21.679 --> 00:46:25.719 going back to the mirror concept, it made a way for men to also 543 00:46:25.840 --> 00:46:31.639 see how y'all group us together a lot. So when so even though me 544 00:46:31.719 --> 00:46:42.440 me speaking to a certain demographic of men, all men felt attacked, y'all 545 00:46:42.440 --> 00:46:44.880 also felt attacked, like, no, that ain't me, that ain't me. 546 00:46:45.000 --> 00:46:47.760 We didn't speak for all men. So that was like another lesson that 547 00:46:47.800 --> 00:46:52.239 could have been learned too, because every time a female a woman is in 548 00:46:52.320 --> 00:46:55.679 the news for some bullshit, then all of a sudden, all of us 549 00:46:57.000 --> 00:47:02.000 are bitches and holes and whatever other colorboys. But most of y'all are just 550 00:47:01.199 --> 00:47:06.559 on you. I'm talking about what should just say about lump And that's the 551 00:47:06.639 --> 00:47:12.440 problem. So so when we you don't have bitchy moments. You a man 552 00:47:12.480 --> 00:47:15.599 and you have bitchy moments. I was just what I'm saying, As humans, 553 00:47:15.639 --> 00:47:20.800 we have bitchy moments, So that that's that's not the gender thing. 554 00:47:22.960 --> 00:47:27.440 I'm just I'm here right now, I'm in the moment. We're having a 555 00:47:27.480 --> 00:47:35.000 conversation. It's all fun and games. Until the rabbit got the that's a 556 00:47:35.079 --> 00:47:39.239 that's a great double on time right there. Who got me right? And 557 00:47:39.320 --> 00:47:43.960 I was trying to have it done before me. Mimi made you right. 558 00:47:44.960 --> 00:47:47.639 Oh yeah, I got a whole poem cross of Air that's dedicated to her. 559 00:47:49.039 --> 00:47:57.840 So super inspired I had, so I will be you know you can, 560 00:47:58.360 --> 00:48:01.159 you can put up the net Flix one. So then after that I've 561 00:48:01.159 --> 00:48:08.360 begun to do. Uh, if you are not familiar with socially, aqua 562 00:48:08.400 --> 00:48:15.400 comics is what they recalled, I tend to. I tend to. That's 563 00:48:15.400 --> 00:48:25.239 what this is. So I said, so and so now if you are, 564 00:48:25.559 --> 00:48:29.239 you know, listening to the audio drop on a Tuesday or later, 565 00:48:29.320 --> 00:48:31.719 this is why you need to tune into the lives because you are not able 566 00:48:31.760 --> 00:48:37.320 to see what is on the screen right now. But yeah, so then 567 00:48:37.400 --> 00:48:38.880 after that, I decided, like I said, you know, oh, 568 00:48:39.000 --> 00:48:43.079 so so we're playing that you know that that that flippy game? Okay, 569 00:48:43.159 --> 00:48:52.719 got it. Challenge accepted. So so then you know I looked that way. 570 00:48:52.320 --> 00:48:58.159 So so my post said, picture us watching Netflix and you're pushing your 571 00:48:58.159 --> 00:49:00.360 head towards my lap, waving the strap like just kisses a little bit. 572 00:49:00.760 --> 00:49:13.880 Hashtag soft guy era and then yeah, thatsty that nobody agrees at least you 573 00:49:13.960 --> 00:49:22.119 hear his face. Yeah, you got the the wall because you're not there. 574 00:49:22.480 --> 00:49:27.760 No, that's the mirror on the wall behind us. So that's why 575 00:49:27.840 --> 00:49:30.480 after you Yeah, so after you said that, I was like, you 576 00:49:30.519 --> 00:49:35.400 know what, now I got Now I'll know I'll make detail in my mirror. 577 00:49:35.440 --> 00:49:37.639 So then by the time I got to the last dude you was, 578 00:49:37.719 --> 00:49:42.039 you will see the upgrade on the mirror and the reflection I evolved during my 579 00:49:42.159 --> 00:49:47.440 drawings, which one which one was next to me? Hold on? So 580 00:49:50.280 --> 00:49:59.119 there is no Now that's just a random it's actually a couple. It's usually 581 00:49:59.119 --> 00:50:01.599 what it's easiest for me to draw, honestly, like depending on like what 582 00:50:01.679 --> 00:50:14.199 it is or what I'm what I'm trying to see, so ask question it 583 00:50:14.400 --> 00:50:17.159 just those are the primary colors that I use for drawing people. And obviously 584 00:50:17.400 --> 00:50:22.239 I'm not the dark skinning. It goes with primary colors. That's terrible. 585 00:50:23.639 --> 00:50:28.599 No, I'm saying those are the no, because then I know what I 586 00:50:28.599 --> 00:50:30.639 have to draw, pink meat, not you want to do it, but 587 00:50:30.719 --> 00:50:34.800 no. So the next post said picture you fast to sleep in your do 588 00:50:35.000 --> 00:50:37.159 rag when I come in late and drunk its buck from Potter, kissing on 589 00:50:37.159 --> 00:50:40.119 your neck and rubbing my strap on them, strap on them boy buns, 590 00:50:40.199 --> 00:50:45.079 sliding your ethicals down while you're lifting your hips talking about move No, that's 591 00:50:45.079 --> 00:50:51.239 not, that's not. There's no drawing for this one. There's no drawing 592 00:50:51.239 --> 00:50:52.800 for this one. This is just a post. I'll let you know. 593 00:50:52.800 --> 00:50:58.320 I want to put the next one up. Yeah, I guess we're going 594 00:50:58.320 --> 00:51:05.079 back to that is fucking insane, all right, So now my next one. 595 00:51:05.840 --> 00:51:08.000 Uh, now, this one is the one with with ghosts Omar Harvey. 596 00:51:10.840 --> 00:51:15.519 Yep, so he bored here too. I'm doing the bending. If 597 00:51:15.519 --> 00:51:22.199 you know anything about this movie, you know exactly what the scene is. 598 00:51:22.639 --> 00:51:25.840 Oh oh oh, so you're the one doing the bending, but he ain't 599 00:51:25.880 --> 00:51:30.239 doing the bending. I'm doing the bending. If we're doing the soft Guy 600 00:51:30.280 --> 00:51:34.800 Era, I'm doing the bending. You know what. No disrespect to him, 601 00:51:35.159 --> 00:51:39.800 but he's done a lot of questionable roles. Yeah, before Ghost he 602 00:51:39.840 --> 00:51:43.920 did a lot of questionable roles. I don't even know that because he was 603 00:51:44.039 --> 00:51:46.480 like loving a man and a Tony Braxton video or some ship like that one 604 00:51:46.639 --> 00:51:52.719 ken in the comments, he said, uh, soft guy Era for the 605 00:51:52.760 --> 00:52:00.079 win for the wind. Why do women hate the soft guys? And and 606 00:52:00.119 --> 00:52:06.960 why is y'all soft guy era definition automatically gain Well, I already said that, 607 00:52:07.000 --> 00:52:12.480 because it's like their responses and how they're going about even how the soft 608 00:52:12.519 --> 00:52:16.599 guy era even became a thing for them. It's all them trying to do 609 00:52:16.679 --> 00:52:21.039 ship that women are doing. So since you want to do all the ship 610 00:52:21.119 --> 00:52:23.000 that women are doing, that's what I'm going to treat you like the woman 611 00:52:23.039 --> 00:52:30.480 in this relationship. You ain't gotta take that brea. He don't. But 612 00:52:30.599 --> 00:52:34.199 over here, That's why I said over here, I was very specific. 613 00:52:34.719 --> 00:52:37.360 Somebody else might like that shit. You might. You might catch you a 614 00:52:37.440 --> 00:52:39.480 share out here and she cool with the soft guy ara, But over here 615 00:52:40.400 --> 00:52:46.519 you can pipe down. Stop talking to me, nigga. We we we 616 00:52:46.559 --> 00:52:51.199 are in a permanent three way relationship, me, you and Doc Johnson, 617 00:52:51.760 --> 00:53:06.719 God Johnson, Jesus Christ. Damn. How you gonna marry a woman and 618 00:53:06.760 --> 00:53:12.719 then let some men ben you over to be young? But the colored girls 619 00:53:13.559 --> 00:53:15.719 I see, I've never seen the movie. I just I know this part. 620 00:53:16.000 --> 00:53:22.719 A lot of people refuse because of one particular part that folks can't get 621 00:53:22.719 --> 00:53:23.880 past. I can't say, But what if I'm the bread winner, and 622 00:53:23.920 --> 00:53:27.440 I'm like, when you rub my nigga, you being a bread winner, 623 00:53:27.480 --> 00:53:30.039 You're not gonna be the bread winner in this situation. That's the hope. 624 00:53:30.239 --> 00:53:34.199 Do you know what niggas are posting for the soft guy air or just that 625 00:53:34.360 --> 00:53:39.760 that's the problem. I think a lot of people I should I think somebody 626 00:53:39.800 --> 00:53:51.039 tagging with your girlfriend or your versus, no, because I don't. I 627 00:53:51.119 --> 00:53:57.039 don't have a problem catering to and us doing it for. I'm not the 628 00:53:57.119 --> 00:54:00.920 type who doesn't like to do ship for her nigga. I just posted something 629 00:54:00.960 --> 00:54:05.320 a couple of weeks ago when I said I ain't got ship to say about 630 00:54:05.679 --> 00:54:09.039 y'all paying for a nigga dinner because I just sent Baita's not bait five hundred 631 00:54:09.039 --> 00:54:13.199 dollars and he was joking about it because I had That was when I was 632 00:54:13.239 --> 00:54:16.119 on my hot little my hot little pillow Street. This man has done so 633 00:54:16.239 --> 00:54:19.599 much and put so much money in my pocket. I don't have to ask 634 00:54:19.719 --> 00:54:22.239 him twice whether it's for me, jelly bean. Like last night when I 635 00:54:22.320 --> 00:54:30.559 just told y'all that re restranded yeah and that that that's that's not what we're 636 00:54:30.679 --> 00:54:37.320 talking we did not start the soft guy airship. If you just scroll, 637 00:54:37.840 --> 00:54:40.519 if you search soft guy air on Facebook and just look at some of the 638 00:54:40.599 --> 00:54:45.519 men's interpretation of what soft guy air is, they're feminizing them more than we 639 00:54:45.559 --> 00:54:52.719 are. Yeah, because because they're literally taking things that women say yeah and 640 00:54:52.800 --> 00:55:00.039 saying it like so, so that's the thing, that's their thing. So 641 00:55:00.320 --> 00:55:02.559 no, that's yeah. I'm I'm I'm gonna see if what I can find 642 00:55:02.559 --> 00:55:14.119 on TikTok Wait, what who said catering to my man and my man wanting 643 00:55:14.280 --> 00:55:19.280 to be subbing our relationship is not the same. Absolutely, being subbed is 644 00:55:19.320 --> 00:55:23.079 a wild thing to say. And I guess how much is maintenance of life 645 00:55:23.199 --> 00:55:28.599 costs? And it's it was weird because you can be a soft you can 646 00:55:28.639 --> 00:55:31.360 be a softie, like you be soft on me, you know what I'm 647 00:55:31.360 --> 00:55:43.039 saying. You can be like like trying to get something that type of soft. 648 00:55:43.760 --> 00:55:51.880 Okay, so I've made this jos out this This would be the type 649 00:55:51.880 --> 00:55:53.960 of this would be the type of example of like a soft guy air post 650 00:55:54.039 --> 00:55:58.119 of a nigga trying to say ship just because he's seen a woman say it. 651 00:55:59.039 --> 00:56:01.000 I don't need I don't need a woman for ship except for them to 652 00:56:01.039 --> 00:56:06.519 reach the top shelf and kill bugs, like like that's the kind of ship. 653 00:56:06.519 --> 00:56:08.760 And then they'll put hashtags off got air but those are the type of 654 00:56:08.760 --> 00:56:13.960 posts that they making ship. And it's like, but now you're wondering why 655 00:56:13.960 --> 00:56:22.840 I'm telling you that I'm gonna bend you over and fuck you so harsh. 656 00:56:24.280 --> 00:56:30.360 Maybe I'm just asking I'm trying to interpret. I was asking question. Okay, 657 00:56:30.400 --> 00:56:34.400 that's that, But that's what that's what we're saying, like it's not 658 00:56:35.159 --> 00:56:38.320 an attack, saying that, Well, a man in a relationship should never 659 00:56:38.400 --> 00:56:44.039 get anything. No. Reciprocity is a big deal. Somebody actually just asked 660 00:56:44.039 --> 00:56:47.039 a question on face I think it was earlier last week, and it was 661 00:56:47.079 --> 00:56:52.880 like, well, if you could name one thing and you know, your 662 00:56:52.039 --> 00:56:55.679 your man or you know a future partner or whatever, what would that be? 663 00:56:55.800 --> 00:56:59.480 And you had people naming all of these things like oh, well, 664 00:56:59.800 --> 00:57:01.159 you know, I would want them to be honest, or I would want 665 00:57:01.159 --> 00:57:05.159 this, and I will want that, And I'm like, I want reciprocity 666 00:57:05.199 --> 00:57:08.519 because I feel like everything falls under that umbrella. All I need is somebody 667 00:57:08.599 --> 00:57:14.639 who is giving back what I'm putting into them. That reciprocity. That is 668 00:57:14.719 --> 00:57:21.239 one thing to name that covers everything my girlfriend. So yeah, men and 669 00:57:21.320 --> 00:57:23.480 women that have a problem doing for each other, that's a tip. That's 670 00:57:23.519 --> 00:57:30.440 like a trauma response that ain't you know definitely, that's just a trauma response 671 00:57:30.719 --> 00:57:34.480 that didn't love them back, so they don't want to love nobody, right. 672 00:57:34.639 --> 00:57:37.760 So, and it's it's like I said, it's the niggas that don't 673 00:57:37.800 --> 00:57:40.840 have two visits to rub together that bark the loudest on these type of topics 674 00:57:42.199 --> 00:57:45.119 like relaxed, Bro, you ain't even got worried about it? Yes, 675 00:57:45.280 --> 00:57:50.719 and and and that's why they always that's why they're always so angry. So 676 00:57:50.719 --> 00:57:54.079 it's you. It's you impose these things when you have nobody to impose them, 677 00:57:54.320 --> 00:58:00.199 right or you just ain't never and and and and Another thing is the 678 00:58:00.239 --> 00:58:04.320 reason why they be so angry and sory about that ship is because they don't 679 00:58:04.360 --> 00:58:07.760 have it. So they are trying to shame bitches down to their level so 680 00:58:07.840 --> 00:58:14.920 that they can get it because it is always the most undesirable, facially challenged, 681 00:58:15.920 --> 00:58:21.760 habitually single niggas who chirp the fucking loudest. It's like, bro, 682 00:58:21.880 --> 00:58:25.159 we ain't never seen you with no bitch, I'm currently looking for two bitches 683 00:58:25.159 --> 00:58:30.960 to rub together. To be honest with your looking, rubbing two bitches together 684 00:58:31.079 --> 00:58:38.480 sound like it's fire. So when you said rubbing two bitches together and fire, 685 00:58:38.559 --> 00:58:51.920 I instantly thought about you. While that was just brush fire ship. 686 00:58:53.519 --> 00:59:02.280 That was the era's not against it, you know, embrace the nappy dug 687 00:59:02.280 --> 00:59:09.239 out bro against it, That's all I said. So it's there the trading 688 00:59:09.280 --> 00:59:19.440 places. The trading places, yeah, oh god, going to that's the 689 00:59:19.480 --> 00:59:25.239 one where we stepping into the strap. Jesus no, out of order. 690 00:59:25.320 --> 00:59:34.440 That's why you stepped into a like some jam. Yeah that was and so 691 00:59:35.639 --> 00:59:38.760 say me strapping up to beat some cheeks, Alexa play usher, trading places, 692 00:59:38.840 --> 00:59:44.039 hashtags soft got air maybe you got them tuned it up, tune it 693 00:59:44.079 --> 00:59:51.519 in booted and we're gonna do things a little different to nine. But honestly, 694 00:59:51.639 --> 00:59:54.159 it's really like they soft got air ship. It's basically it sounds like 695 00:59:54.199 --> 01:00:05.920 the lyrics trading places away. That's really what it sounds possible. While you 696 01:00:05.960 --> 01:00:14.719 got mult on the table though, Buh, that's not necessary because whatever diversity 697 01:00:14.760 --> 01:00:21.519 dick downs, that's what I'm giving diversity dick downs, hold on, because 698 01:00:21.559 --> 01:00:30.679 we're finna diversity. I'm just gonna start calling you for my my topics and 699 01:00:30.760 --> 01:00:34.760 titles to write about, like me, just give me a line, Hey, 700 01:00:34.800 --> 01:00:37.440 give me something to get it to get an ear for it, and 701 01:00:37.480 --> 01:00:40.159 then I'll put the title on it. So the lyrics. Now, we're 702 01:00:40.199 --> 01:00:44.239 gonna do this thing a little different. You go come over and pick me 703 01:00:44.360 --> 01:00:46.159 up in your ride. You're gonna knock, then you go, wait, 704 01:00:46.679 --> 01:00:51.400 oh, you're gonna take me on a day. You go open my door 705 01:00:51.400 --> 01:00:53.519 and I'm gonna reach over and open yours. Gonna pay for dinner, take 706 01:00:53.559 --> 01:00:57.400 me to see a movie. Whisper in my ear? How bad you really 707 01:00:57.440 --> 01:01:00.360 want to do me? Girl? Now take me home. You wanted to 708 01:01:00.360 --> 01:01:06.199 get up in my pants? Yeah, pour me up a shot and forced 709 01:01:06.239 --> 01:01:14.360 me to the bed like it really just soft? Yeah, but terrible again. 710 01:01:14.480 --> 01:01:21.239 I feel like he's speaking in like reciproses and niggas just niggas is taking 711 01:01:21.239 --> 01:01:23.400 one thing and they take it too far and this is what they get. 712 01:01:23.840 --> 01:01:30.920 You don't think niggas is taking it too far. Let's be fair, though, 713 01:01:30.440 --> 01:01:37.039 Let's just say somebody one of these men's was smart enough to make it 714 01:01:37.079 --> 01:01:43.199 a mirror thing like, you know, maybe it sounds ridiculous to a man 715 01:01:43.840 --> 01:01:47.719 for some of the things that women ask for and wont in their relationship, 716 01:01:47.840 --> 01:01:51.800 right, but we know that's not the case. We know that's not why 717 01:01:52.119 --> 01:01:57.320 some of that wow, like what name one you're talking about, like a 718 01:01:57.400 --> 01:02:00.960 regular president or some of the ship people should say regular? Just say some 719 01:02:01.079 --> 01:02:05.920 of the ship people say that, I just don't know you from a campaign, 720 01:02:05.960 --> 01:02:07.400 but feel like you deserve a three hundred dollars a day. You just 721 01:02:07.400 --> 01:02:10.039 told me you don't like small talk. I don't even know what the fuck 722 01:02:10.079 --> 01:02:13.440 you like, but you want me to take you out. Some weren't spend 723 01:02:13.440 --> 01:02:16.599 three hundred dollars just so I can get no conversation and you can take a 724 01:02:16.599 --> 01:02:21.719 picture of what the fuck is on this plate. But it depends on all 725 01:02:21.800 --> 01:02:27.639 you mean. Mostly most women, Most women sit back and observe and observe 726 01:02:27.920 --> 01:02:30.920 before they approach. Right. And if I'm sitting at the bar and I'm 727 01:02:30.920 --> 01:02:34.519 not this type of woman, but I can, I can step into the 728 01:02:34.559 --> 01:02:37.199 shoes. Right if I'm sitting at the bar and I'm watching them on. 729 01:02:37.320 --> 01:02:40.599 Fuckers spend like three hundred on a bunch of strangers. They don't even know, 730 01:02:40.920 --> 01:02:44.199 they're just feeling good, like, Hey, I'm fin the by rounds 731 01:02:44.199 --> 01:02:46.239 for everybody sitting at the bar right now. So now they got a three 732 01:02:46.320 --> 01:02:52.000 hundred dollars tab right What where's the lie? Where are we not prone to 733 01:02:52.119 --> 01:02:57.119 believe that, nigga, you have no problem with spending dropping three hundred dollars 734 01:02:57.159 --> 01:03:00.280 on the motherfucker you don't even know. Wasn't that a good day? You? 735 01:03:00.480 --> 01:03:04.920 I already disclaimed me by saying that that ain't had nothing. But what 736 01:03:04.960 --> 01:03:08.840 I'm saying, what that's just like the videos I see on Facebook when you 737 01:03:08.880 --> 01:03:13.280 see the people and they be out and she be mad that he didn't spend 738 01:03:13.320 --> 01:03:15.960 three hundred dollars. But then the first thing she says, but you got 739 01:03:15.960 --> 01:03:17.960 on a pair of Jordan's and I know how much Jordans cost. What do 740 01:03:19.119 --> 01:03:22.960 my Jordan's got to do with me not paying for this three? You just 741 01:03:23.000 --> 01:03:29.239 said the different stuff. You said your Jordans, those are your shoes, 742 01:03:29.320 --> 01:03:32.599 money you spent on you, compared to her saying you just dropped three hundred 743 01:03:32.599 --> 01:03:37.360 dollars on some strangers and then making it seem like I'm a reasonable for a 744 01:03:37.400 --> 01:03:40.679 feeling that way, feeling good, and I want to buy everybody around. 745 01:03:42.360 --> 01:03:49.119 I don't got a niggas want to do impressive ship until the bitch is impressive. 746 01:03:49.400 --> 01:03:52.320 I'm impressed there. You know, It's like, what are y'all doing 747 01:03:52.440 --> 01:03:57.559 for when you come out shining and looking like money? Like you spending a 748 01:03:57.679 --> 01:04:01.559 bad don't I ask me for my bag? I get it. Some women 749 01:04:01.679 --> 01:04:08.480 are very classless and tasteless, right, but so what you what you're saying 750 01:04:08.639 --> 01:04:13.159 is we should be a little bit more finessing, but the job is still 751 01:04:13.199 --> 01:04:15.000 gonna get done. It's a way. It's a way to handle your business, 752 01:04:15.159 --> 01:04:18.480 okay, and it's a way that not handle I also feel like my 753 01:04:18.599 --> 01:04:21.239 business is gonna get done regardless, but you don't got to be egregious on 754 01:04:21.280 --> 01:04:27.199 how you do it. I also feel like a lot of niggas don't understand 755 01:04:27.320 --> 01:04:30.039 that we are abrasive on purpose because we want you to fuck out our face. 756 01:04:30.800 --> 01:04:34.119 So if I know that you, you don't seem like the type of 757 01:04:34.199 --> 01:04:38.000 niggas who go drop some bread. Guess what I'm gonna bring up some bread 758 01:04:38.559 --> 01:04:41.760 because you're not gonna waste my time. I don't even I don't even plan 759 01:04:41.880 --> 01:04:45.119 on you giving it to me. I plan on you getting offended and getting 760 01:04:45.119 --> 01:04:50.519 the fuck away from me, and now I don't have to deal with you. 761 01:04:50.519 --> 01:04:56.119 No, I want to snation because we are like women trying to be 762 01:04:56.159 --> 01:04:59.039 abrasive on purpose. What you're gonna do when you pull out the bankrupt, 763 01:04:59.280 --> 01:05:03.480 I don't do any I've never been in a situation where I haven't been able 764 01:05:03.480 --> 01:05:06.280 to read a guy like that because they have a certain type of energy. 765 01:05:08.199 --> 01:05:11.679 They have a certain type of energy, and I don't know if it's because 766 01:05:11.719 --> 01:05:15.239 you know so many years of being a woman. You just they have a 767 01:05:15.400 --> 01:05:20.000 completely different type of energy, like what they approach and everything else. It's 768 01:05:21.239 --> 01:05:28.039 oh, Johns, can you take this big draw the screen? It's don't 769 01:05:28.079 --> 01:05:31.000 get words. Had a song like that too, like a boy mm hmm, 770 01:05:31.440 --> 01:05:36.400 and she she flipped the rolls of ship. Beyonce had a what was 771 01:05:36.400 --> 01:05:39.199 her lyrics? Though? I don't know. I just don't say. If 772 01:05:39.239 --> 01:05:49.719 I were a boy, but yeah, it's just I'm really you want him 773 01:05:49.719 --> 01:05:54.239 to be on the show every week, you could easily leave him at home. 774 01:05:55.519 --> 01:05:59.800 I don't the top. Yeah, I mean if they were boys, 775 01:05:59.920 --> 01:06:03.719 he was like if I was a girl reverse and and then like just on 776 01:06:03.760 --> 01:06:08.320 some petty ship, I was like, you know me, no, move 777 01:06:08.360 --> 01:06:15.760 that motherfucking hand. You know he take that ship. That's aggressive. Take 778 01:06:15.800 --> 01:06:20.039 that ship. You wanted this stick and you take this stick. That's not 779 01:06:20.079 --> 01:06:28.719 what you asked. He asked to not go to work for you to pay 780 01:06:28.719 --> 01:06:34.639 his bills, to ask you to fucking murder his boy. Butdons so his 781 01:06:34.800 --> 01:06:44.960 spincter. Uh give a spin, he says. Rita said, somebody in 782 01:06:45.000 --> 01:06:53.199 the background sleep. I can't my news. Drunk ass, get him shut 783 01:06:53.280 --> 01:07:00.079 up? Shut up? Said he was observing because he can't want to he 784 01:07:00.199 --> 01:07:05.519 does. That's money. I don't know if he wants his boy tempered with. 785 01:07:05.800 --> 01:07:10.960 I hope now now you can go to the one where him like laying 786 01:07:11.159 --> 01:07:17.360 like this with the you know he is seeing punk pole sleep. He just 787 01:07:17.360 --> 01:07:26.480 talking to him. Are you talking this sleep? Wait? What's the what's 788 01:07:26.480 --> 01:07:30.440 the pink thing? Is that? So me looking on proudly after I put 789 01:07:30.519 --> 01:07:34.039 him to sleep with the strap in the rolls hashtag soft got air. That's 790 01:07:34.039 --> 01:07:41.039 the rose. Now we have to open this full picture. See he knocked 791 01:07:41.039 --> 01:07:58.199 and I'm just man got him slid and though Grid it's just hilarious. That's 792 01:07:58.239 --> 01:08:04.239 that what's wrong. I can't put that ship that's that a king size or 793 01:08:04.239 --> 01:08:10.280 a queen size bed look like a clean because only he can yo, so 794 01:08:10.320 --> 01:08:19.239 it's probably bed. Ain't no face in his bed. I can't strap down 795 01:08:19.279 --> 01:08:23.199 that full side strap on his full sized bed. Nothing to go home, 796 01:08:24.800 --> 01:08:31.359 he said, not to Dick, mentioning his feet. Sweet dreams, nigga, 797 01:08:32.319 --> 01:08:36.079 where are we going next? And it's crazy mixed up from now we're 798 01:08:36.119 --> 01:08:45.720 going to the nigga dropping like somebody said, that's a couch. That's so. 799 01:08:45.039 --> 01:08:49.119 Then I asked where my soft got air fellas at because I'm trying to 800 01:08:49.119 --> 01:08:53.399 throw this money while y'all throw that ass. And then we have a gentlemen 801 01:08:53.960 --> 01:08:59.840 helicopter in his peen right here on the stage. He is on thee. 802 01:09:00.079 --> 01:09:06.520 Yeah, that's the pole in the background. Yep. No he uh he 803 01:09:08.000 --> 01:09:17.560 out here doing a don't want to be challenged. Oh my god, I 804 01:09:17.640 --> 01:09:25.319 want to not be here. What I mean, hey, y y'all talking 805 01:09:25.359 --> 01:09:27.600 about the size that it was bad. I mean I could really only hit 806 01:09:27.600 --> 01:09:30.119 the nigga and doggy styles, so it ain't like we got much we need 807 01:09:30.159 --> 01:09:33.520 to do in a big motherfucker. I ain't doing shit for breaking his back. 808 01:09:39.640 --> 01:09:43.640 Yeah, so now we can go to the gentleman actually on the pole 809 01:09:43.680 --> 01:09:51.159 here, why do you get my man's dreads? And now coming to the 810 01:09:51.199 --> 01:10:14.319 stage representing the bussy bus. Nobody we quit? Am I cricket letter? 811 01:10:14.319 --> 01:10:16.439 Cricket letter? I look, when is p Valley coming back? I don't 812 01:10:16.439 --> 01:10:20.840 know, I don't know. I feel I feel like I'm just saying the 813 01:10:20.840 --> 01:10:26.720 white, the hair and the peen is hanging gravity. You gotta show the 814 01:10:26.800 --> 01:10:29.600 gravity. Why he gotta b b L though. Yeah, he's strong, 815 01:10:29.640 --> 01:10:31.920 and what do you think you need? You need upper body strength to hold 816 01:10:31.920 --> 01:10:39.359 onto that motherfucker. Pope got a BBL though, just legs. Either. 817 01:10:41.279 --> 01:10:44.000 They want to be us, don't they? They want to be us? 818 01:10:44.079 --> 01:10:50.840 Right? So now he looked like the if you ain't tipping, he ain't 819 01:10:50.840 --> 01:10:58.840 stripping, he give it up for boucie man. And it's like thirty dollars 820 01:10:58.880 --> 01:11:14.239 on the stage to pay that before you know what you're about. But I 821 01:11:14.279 --> 01:11:21.279 gotta pretend like I don't know what what what? What you see? Yeah? 822 01:11:23.000 --> 01:11:29.880 You to get that one? People like read this telephone. I feel 823 01:11:29.880 --> 01:11:32.399 you keppers all right, you can go ahead and post the one with the 824 01:11:32.479 --> 01:11:40.039 rip jeans. This one, no, now, this is me paper, 825 01:11:41.000 --> 01:11:45.079 This is patiently waiting on my shorty to come about those ripped jeans and ethicas. 826 01:11:45.119 --> 01:11:48.399 After another day of providing him with a soft life hashtag soft air, 827 01:11:49.880 --> 01:11:53.960 they have to open the full see now see the difference. Now, now 828 01:11:54.000 --> 01:11:58.199 you can see the mirror on the dresser and the reflection of the of the 829 01:11:58.199 --> 01:12:01.800 silicon. You caused me to elevate my art. Bro your I want you 830 01:12:01.880 --> 01:12:05.880 to stop your fault. And that's definitely a queen because you can't fit two 831 01:12:05.880 --> 01:12:15.560 pillows on Why because he made her She made him come to her house, 832 01:12:15.600 --> 01:12:18.159 That's why. Oh yeah, because that's the house to handle selling fan and 833 01:12:18.199 --> 01:12:24.000 I think it had a six drawer. No, they had a six house. 834 01:12:24.520 --> 01:12:27.439 I mean, if you want to be a soft guy, you definitely 835 01:12:27.439 --> 01:12:33.039 a brokeast bro. I have look, she bought the bed. The way 836 01:12:33.079 --> 01:12:36.920 that I draw the beds is not an indication of like the actual bed size. 837 01:12:38.079 --> 01:12:42.239 It is an indication of I only have a phone screen to draw on 838 01:12:42.439 --> 01:12:45.039 and I have to make sure that I have room to drop what I need. 839 01:12:45.039 --> 01:12:51.319 This it's that you got you got a brokeast bed. We get why 840 01:12:51.439 --> 01:12:57.239 you do because because because my bed is way my bed wouldn't even fit on 841 01:12:57.279 --> 01:13:03.479 here. I don't got no room. But you gotta look at it up 842 01:13:03.479 --> 01:13:10.359 close, look at spots on you know, they be having a little designs 843 01:13:10.359 --> 01:13:15.119 and ship had little spots. That's hilarious. What generic ass loove you using? 844 01:13:18.680 --> 01:13:25.199 Say lo that if we know that's the ship, you put on your 845 01:13:25.199 --> 01:13:30.439 brakes, don't nigga would break oil fan. That's I can tell. But 846 01:13:30.680 --> 01:13:34.760 like, because because y'all know, you'll know I got ship, like and 847 01:13:34.880 --> 01:13:36.760 we lay on our back. They go to the side. I tried. 848 01:13:36.840 --> 01:13:40.920 I tried to like put them like sideway should give herself a belly, but 849 01:13:43.680 --> 01:13:46.680 you don't know why the fact that yourew a belly. But meanwhile he's looking 850 01:13:46.720 --> 01:13:55.039 like a giraffe. Bb he really has a b b A. This is 851 01:13:55.039 --> 01:14:02.279 what niggas wanted. They wanted. Are we done? Please say we're done 852 01:14:02.279 --> 01:14:05.760 here. Hey, I'll give I'm proud of my selling fan reflection. Niggas, 853 01:14:05.840 --> 01:14:12.159 we're not saying your your cow utters on the roof to this to this 854 01:14:12.279 --> 01:14:17.079 show and these freaky ass sketches like a freaky in the version of the Chappelle 855 01:14:17.079 --> 01:14:29.279 show, Wow, bring your kids. You know, Facebook sends her a 856 01:14:29.319 --> 01:14:33.960 message saying thank you for making Facebook a better place. This is the fuckery 857 01:14:34.159 --> 01:14:45.119 she does, and Facebook congratulates her. Facebook said horrible friend. Now. 858 01:14:47.199 --> 01:14:51.960 The next day was followed up like a lot of niggas are like really really 859 01:14:53.359 --> 01:15:06.279 really in their vikis VIIs pink Ship whatever brand about you know my post because 860 01:15:08.520 --> 01:15:14.439 I was talking about how a lot of guys tend to like how the whole 861 01:15:14.520 --> 01:15:19.359 soft guy era shit even came up, but then feeling a way because you 862 01:15:19.399 --> 01:15:26.399 know, women don't want to deal with some broke ass niggas. So I'm 863 01:15:26.399 --> 01:15:29.640 going to scroll and I'm going to read a couple of about now, the 864 01:15:29.720 --> 01:15:34.760 main one that like really got the people going as wild because I didn't. 865 01:15:35.439 --> 01:15:39.840 I didn't realize that because this motherfucker has been shared like five hundred and ninety 866 01:15:39.840 --> 01:15:44.520 four times, I'm just not seeing it. One hundred and forty eight comments, 867 01:15:44.560 --> 01:15:47.800 four hundred and twenty seven reactions. But I said, as a woman 868 01:15:47.840 --> 01:15:51.520 who was dated niggas that didn't have shit, as a woman who was dated 869 01:15:51.560 --> 01:15:56.600 man for their potential, as a woman who was self sacrificed by trying to 870 01:15:56.600 --> 01:16:00.560 motivate and encourage a grown ass man to get his shit together, because I 871 01:16:00.600 --> 01:16:03.039 believed in them, as a woman who was dated someone who didn't want for 872 01:16:03.119 --> 01:16:06.279 himself as much as I wanted for him. I can tell you I am 873 01:16:06.359 --> 01:16:10.840 not the only one. I think. Y'all see us now in our thirties 874 01:16:10.840 --> 01:16:15.000 and forties, after we've done these things that got us absolutely nowhere, and 875 01:16:15.119 --> 01:16:17.279 have the audacity to be upset because at our big ast age, we don't 876 01:16:17.279 --> 01:16:20.880 want to deal with that shit now. So after years of paying dues and 877 01:16:20.960 --> 01:16:27.239 probably paying for everything else too, we gotta be entitled gold diggers, money 878 01:16:27.319 --> 01:16:30.199 hungry, et cetera. Motherfucker, I ain't shit but tired. So keep 879 01:16:30.199 --> 01:16:33.119 in mind that a lot of the women y'all judging for not wanting struggle love 880 01:16:33.319 --> 01:16:36.760 don't want that shit because they already dealt with it. Y'all will not shame 881 01:16:36.800 --> 01:16:40.479 me into the poor house with a nigga, y'all will not shame me into 882 01:16:40.520 --> 01:16:43.159 a struggle love. You want to know what I bring to the table at 883 01:16:43.199 --> 01:16:47.159 this stage, I gotta watch you build that motherfucker first, because Nope and 884 01:16:48.079 --> 01:16:55.000 men are up set. And then it's like I already knew what they like, 885 01:16:55.039 --> 01:16:59.760 what they what they rebuttal would be So I actually made a post about 886 01:16:59.760 --> 01:17:02.960 that without before even seeing they fucking reactions because I know them. So the 887 01:17:03.000 --> 01:17:06.079 next post said, folks will say when you know better, you do better. 888 01:17:06.359 --> 01:17:11.079 Yet somehow, whenever we decide to do better because we now know better 889 01:17:11.199 --> 01:17:14.720 and we actually apply what we've learned, y'all throw a fit. Then you 890 01:17:14.760 --> 01:17:17.439 want to downplay our growth as trauma when that growth doesn't benefit you. You 891 01:17:17.520 --> 01:17:23.439 want to downplay growth of hypocrisy because how dare they improve and evolved their mindset? 892 01:17:23.800 --> 01:17:26.800 Meanwhile, if we kept making the same choices and mistakes, y'all will 893 01:17:26.800 --> 01:17:30.079 talk shit about that too. I'm convinced some of you just want people to 894 01:17:30.079 --> 01:17:32.720 remain stagnant because you don't want them to elevate to a level you can't reach 895 01:17:32.760 --> 01:17:35.960 them all, And it shows you want us to do better and choose better 896 01:17:36.000 --> 01:17:40.239 until you realize that means your ass is no longer a choice. Then your 897 01:17:40.319 --> 01:17:45.680 leap press on claws come out. You know what, man, that some 898 01:17:45.880 --> 01:17:56.920 ball headed eyes on the internet. I told you them bullshit. It definite 899 01:17:57.720 --> 01:18:00.159 headpop. That's why Ken gonna have a nice line when you start podcasting, 900 01:18:00.199 --> 01:18:03.920 because that ball head rhetoric be crazy. And it's crazy because it's like I 901 01:18:04.000 --> 01:18:10.319 was very clear and what I said, and because me and would at the 902 01:18:10.399 --> 01:18:14.880 moment they see anything from us, they be so ready to be so combative 903 01:18:15.359 --> 01:18:17.760 and so angry and ready to try to humble us and try to shot on 904 01:18:17.880 --> 01:18:21.800 us, that they don't pay attention to what was said. So it's like 905 01:18:23.319 --> 01:18:27.279 me saying, y'all be calling women in title goldniggers and money hungry for not 906 01:18:27.319 --> 01:18:30.159 wanting struggle love, not knowing that they've already paid their dues and been through 907 01:18:30.159 --> 01:18:34.239 the trenches with niggas, so no, they no longer want that from themselves 908 01:18:34.279 --> 01:18:38.760 at this stage in life. The comprehension impair, Well, that's why y'all 909 01:18:38.840 --> 01:18:42.359 single and no provider go deal with their trauma because uh that's why you single, 910 01:18:42.479 --> 01:18:45.039 and uh, younger women better anyway, because they look better with less 911 01:18:45.039 --> 01:18:56.399 trauma. Like niggas a stupid again, we don't have them, We don't 912 01:18:56.439 --> 01:19:00.600 got an all them accounsel that we don't got no do. But these niggas, 913 01:19:01.039 --> 01:19:04.159 these niggas jump out the window while they ain't meet and it's trying to 914 01:19:04.199 --> 01:19:09.479 get us a better wage off. While we out here talking about what we 915 01:19:09.600 --> 01:19:14.000 need to have to be better men, these dumb fucks out here running to 916 01:19:14.039 --> 01:19:24.960 the internet saying whatever. Some other bald headed nigga on the podcast said they 917 01:19:25.000 --> 01:19:30.439 get to drinking and just say whatever, Hey, why just see Tommy Common 918 01:19:30.479 --> 01:19:33.279 and said new Bob coming soon. Ball head rhetoric with your whole fana bod 919 01:19:33.359 --> 01:19:44.960 gott and can't beat already would be saying Doug podcast. Every time I seen 920 01:19:45.000 --> 01:19:48.359 niggas speaking bad on females on the internet, he's usually but but it's crazy 921 01:19:48.399 --> 01:19:55.319 because it's like they love to and and that brings us to like the name 922 01:19:55.680 --> 01:20:02.680 you have white women too, don't they usually have white girlfriends? Yeah, 923 01:20:02.720 --> 01:20:10.760 but talking about they love to like on on these type of posts, they 924 01:20:10.800 --> 01:20:13.239 love to comment and tell us like, well, that's why you're single. 925 01:20:13.239 --> 01:20:15.680 That's why you're single. That's why you're single. It's like, one, 926 01:20:15.039 --> 01:20:17.960 I'm the only person calling myself single. You niggas have been telling me that 927 01:20:18.000 --> 01:20:23.880 I've been in a relationship for the past god knows how many years it so 928 01:20:24.239 --> 01:20:29.680 they have this thing and they feel like we don't have anybody, and it's 929 01:20:29.720 --> 01:20:33.079 like, I have a nigga that does more for me than a lot of 930 01:20:33.319 --> 01:20:36.680 like chicks that are in actual relationships. There's something wrong with him for that 931 01:20:36.720 --> 01:20:43.039 too. Yeah, because they don't want to do it. So yeah, 932 01:20:43.199 --> 01:20:45.439 so my so my next post is said, niggas really be calling women single, 933 01:20:45.560 --> 01:20:48.119 using it like it's a slur, and we don't be giving a single 934 01:20:48.159 --> 01:20:51.600 fuck. That's really what's toasting a lot of you niggas bums. Y'all want 935 01:20:51.680 --> 01:20:55.800 us to be scared of being single. Don't you take your ass in the 936 01:20:55.800 --> 01:21:01.760 hardway snoring ship Are you doing the snoring and talking in your goddamn sleeping? 937 01:21:01.800 --> 01:21:04.000 You know we live, so if you say the wrong shit, that's on 938 01:21:04.079 --> 01:21:14.680 you, not us. Next I'm sorry, y'all, I apologize. Um 939 01:21:14.960 --> 01:21:17.119 No, if he's loud enough for motherfuckers in the comments to be like brof 940 01:21:17.119 --> 01:21:23.600 somebody in the background sleeping, they can hear him. I said, y'all 941 01:21:23.640 --> 01:21:26.199 want us to be scared of being single, because when women are scared of 942 01:21:26.199 --> 01:21:28.760 being single, they're desperate. When women are desperate, they set up for 943 01:21:28.800 --> 01:21:30.560 the bullshit just to have a man around. So when you see we ain't 944 01:21:30.560 --> 01:21:33.520 going, you tell us that's why we're single, like it's supposed to evoke 945 01:21:33.600 --> 01:21:39.840 shame and make us feel undesirable. Get luck with that, mister, niggas. 946 01:21:38.000 --> 01:21:45.640 Shame desperate girl, the party nobody wants a desperate girl, because if 947 01:21:45.640 --> 01:21:48.960 you're desperate, then you clean it looks sad. And if you cling you 948 01:21:48.960 --> 01:21:54.039 you probably fucking crazy. And if you fucking crazy, she's probably gonna fucking 949 01:21:54.159 --> 01:21:57.199 kill you. And if you're trying to kill me, I'm gonna splitch your 950 01:21:57.239 --> 01:22:00.039 ship. And now you're doing a lot I don't even want to have to 951 01:22:00.079 --> 01:22:04.960 go there with. So just keep that ship to yourself. Yeah, a 952 01:22:05.000 --> 01:22:10.720 lot of flower bringing, I mean, And it's crazy because the motherfuckers who 953 01:22:10.760 --> 01:22:14.079 don't have people and that nobody won't like you said, those are the ones 954 01:22:14.119 --> 01:22:16.159 that's making it tricky. They're the ones throwing all the bullshit out. And 955 01:22:16.159 --> 01:22:19.880 I feel like that's why they creating the ruckers. They want everybody pissed off 956 01:22:19.880 --> 01:22:21.640 at each other because they're like, well, if I ain't got no bitch, 957 01:22:21.680 --> 01:22:29.680 ain't nobody getting more right? Market? Yeah, I'm trying to find 958 01:22:29.680 --> 01:22:33.000 two bitches I can rub together. That's the same time, what I think 959 01:22:33.039 --> 01:22:38.119 about a campfire niggas with two sticks, Like nah, when I think about 960 01:22:38.520 --> 01:22:42.039 rubbing together, I think about that one photo. But that one that one 961 01:22:42.359 --> 01:22:45.479 X video that was in the comments, you know, the ones where you 962 01:22:45.479 --> 01:22:49.279 gotta go absolutely That's that's what I think if you pull that off, my 963 01:22:49.399 --> 01:22:56.680 guy. Man, you know what I'm saying. I want I need percent 964 01:22:56.880 --> 01:23:01.119 just for the title, for the title and two bitches, because that's gonna 965 01:23:01.119 --> 01:23:05.079 be the title of it, rubbing two bitches together. That's gonna be the 966 01:23:05.119 --> 01:23:11.119 freak you write a poem on that. No, it's just that makes me 967 01:23:11.199 --> 01:23:15.079 the executive producer. Yeah, when we need a poem about Rebb and two 968 01:23:15.079 --> 01:23:18.720 bitches together, Yeah, you gotta be the you know, like when everybody 969 01:23:18.760 --> 01:23:23.119 starts to play Maxwell before they're getting ready to get it on the movie, 970 01:23:23.600 --> 01:23:25.960 when the two bitches are getting ready to reb together. Your post, I'm 971 01:23:25.960 --> 01:23:27.720 a rte it, but it ain't gonna be. It ain't gonna be what 972 01:23:27.760 --> 01:23:30.319 you think. I gotta I got a fun way to twist that I don't. 973 01:23:30.680 --> 01:23:34.119 I wanted to do what I wanted to. You know what, Mae, 974 01:23:34.279 --> 01:23:39.039 whan we're asking the wrong pole. We gotta go to Britain call Brittain. 975 01:23:39.079 --> 01:23:42.600 Cole would make it that way, the one you went right down the 976 01:23:42.640 --> 01:23:51.119 rabbit hole come back about. She said, Single is no longer a threat 977 01:23:51.159 --> 01:23:56.760 for us and the fellas are offended in the shambles exactly They used to be 978 01:23:56.880 --> 01:24:00.600 able to threaten women with, you know, the idea of never being married 979 01:24:00.600 --> 01:24:01.159 and all that shit. Now a lot of people just like, Bro, 980 01:24:01.199 --> 01:24:06.119 I don't want to get married because where's the benefit to me? What is 981 01:24:06.159 --> 01:24:10.640 the benefit of me marrying a nigga that is already telling me like, oh, 982 01:24:10.800 --> 01:24:13.359 I'm not finna take care of shit, Bro, We're finna go halp, 983 01:24:13.479 --> 01:24:16.359 why are we here, nigga? I can go. Look if you 984 01:24:16.520 --> 01:24:21.520 were a person in college with a college roommate and you basically like just repeating 985 01:24:21.560 --> 01:24:25.680 that with a motherfucker who you are now fucking, That's what it sounded like 986 01:24:25.720 --> 01:24:30.119 to me, at least the college ones. When you were fucking somebody, 987 01:24:30.359 --> 01:24:32.359 you got benefits out of it. You get to use the food card and 988 01:24:32.399 --> 01:24:36.079 ship like that. We just gotta learn to let go of people that's not 989 01:24:36.560 --> 01:24:42.479 meeting our standards. Oftentimes we get with somebody and want we like I think 990 01:24:42.479 --> 01:24:46.439 you pointed out earlier, without wanting to be single or you know, for 991 01:24:46.479 --> 01:24:50.319 too long. We try to make things force and work for the sake of 992 01:24:50.479 --> 01:24:55.960 just not want to be by yourself. People just need to start, and 993 01:24:56.239 --> 01:24:59.239 a lot of us are not doing that anymore, and that's what got niggas 994 01:24:59.239 --> 01:25:03.039 so fucking pressed about it because they're so used to motherfucker just like, just 995 01:25:03.880 --> 01:25:06.920 like, And that's what a lot of ship, a lot of ship that 996 01:25:06.960 --> 01:25:11.800 we get accused of we didn't. We like, y'all need to start talking 997 01:25:11.840 --> 01:25:14.960 to each other because we didn't start doing that to us. For us, 998 01:25:15.960 --> 01:25:21.960 some niggas somewhere started spoiling a female if you got it concept this episode that 999 01:25:23.079 --> 01:25:26.119 says, man, we clearly don't have good representation. We don't talk to 1000 01:25:26.159 --> 01:25:29.680 each other. Yeah, because I don't know who's in charge around I don't 1001 01:25:29.760 --> 01:25:32.920 know. Oh yeah the union where bro? It's like, where is upper 1002 01:25:33.000 --> 01:25:40.920 management? Where is the organization with charging this motherfucker? When we stop asking 1003 01:25:41.119 --> 01:25:46.640 Jah what to do, ship went down here And that is why we are 1004 01:25:46.720 --> 01:25:50.000 the way we are, because if we gave a funk about what Yoah has 1005 01:25:50.079 --> 01:25:55.520 to say, we might be able to get somewhere. Tommy said, being 1006 01:25:55.560 --> 01:25:58.680 single is where it's that a little meat delivery here and there is acceptable, 1007 01:25:58.720 --> 01:26:01.800 and there are women who received it delivery with no obligation. I think the 1008 01:26:01.920 --> 01:26:11.359 problem is came from him a lot of times. The problem is women express 1009 01:26:11.920 --> 01:26:15.760 what they want, what their desires are, and instead of men saying, 1010 01:26:17.159 --> 01:26:21.760 damn, you know what, I'm not the guy for her. Let me 1011 01:26:21.960 --> 01:26:27.960 you know, mama business going over here, it becomes well, let me 1012 01:26:28.039 --> 01:26:31.279 go tell her why I don't think she deserves that when he wasn't even in 1013 01:26:31.319 --> 01:26:35.039 the fucking running to begin with. So now I got some ugly ass nigga 1014 01:26:35.039 --> 01:26:39.119 with his eyes faced too, fucking fire apart in mouth, crooking and shit, 1015 01:26:39.359 --> 01:26:42.560 trying to tell me why another nigga ain't gonna do something, not knowing 1016 01:26:42.600 --> 01:26:45.359 that I have a nigga that are doing those things that you were telling me 1017 01:26:45.439 --> 01:26:47.199 that I won't be able to fucking get you want. Those are niggas who 1018 01:26:47.279 --> 01:26:55.560 cuff their genes. Absolutely definitely niggas who cuff and like a fish, not 1019 01:26:55.560 --> 01:27:00.520 a fish should be on the side of their head like this, damn near 1020 01:27:03.680 --> 01:27:08.239 let me see, uh Kayla says, And a lot of women have rediscovered 1021 01:27:08.239 --> 01:27:11.680 things that feel better than relationships to them. Who wants to keep healing from 1022 01:27:11.680 --> 01:27:15.479 a motherfucker over and over? Traveling, good food, sleep, shopping, 1023 01:27:15.520 --> 01:27:17.039 et cetera. Once you reach that level of piece, you are not willing 1024 01:27:17.079 --> 01:27:23.920 to jeopardize that. And meanwhile, niggas is telling y'all said till you fall 1025 01:27:24.000 --> 01:27:26.319 illiny the banners. You know what, And that is a big thing. 1026 01:27:26.399 --> 01:27:30.159 Niggas are always trying to threaten us with being single. I know a lot 1027 01:27:30.199 --> 01:27:32.399 of people, a lot of people who are in the health care industry, 1028 01:27:32.600 --> 01:27:36.199 and guess who be dying fucking alone with not even family wanting to visit? 1029 01:27:36.239 --> 01:27:43.880 They ass me and I I hear that so much from people who work in 1030 01:27:43.920 --> 01:27:49.079 the health care industry. They like, let me see hospice wife. What 1031 01:27:49.560 --> 01:27:54.000 I just want to chick to be single? He just said, didn't be 1032 01:27:54.479 --> 01:27:59.359 where my hug at. Niggas, where the chicks with no pre existing connections 1033 01:28:00.039 --> 01:28:06.399 play, ain't nothing. I mean, I gotta I gotta remember how old 1034 01:28:06.399 --> 01:28:10.800 are you again? Okay, so at our big old age. You gotta 1035 01:28:10.880 --> 01:28:15.239 assume that people have experience at this point. And I think, honestly, 1036 01:28:15.159 --> 01:28:20.159 you know, like it's a fine line between these pedos, but a lot 1037 01:28:20.199 --> 01:28:25.279 of no, for real, I think a lot of men that's some of 1038 01:28:25.319 --> 01:28:29.680 the charm of dating a younger woman. I'm not gonna say like, I'm 1039 01:28:29.720 --> 01:28:33.119 not saying that I don't want to check that don't have life experience. It's 1040 01:28:33.239 --> 01:28:36.399 just like I want to catch you in between that phase where there is no 1041 01:28:36.479 --> 01:28:41.039 nigga. But see, that's the thing, there is no very hard there 1042 01:28:41.079 --> 01:28:45.760 is. There is no such phase as long as as long as there is 1043 01:28:45.800 --> 01:28:49.960 an X that will accept your once a month phone call, there is no 1044 01:28:50.039 --> 01:28:55.800 such thing. Even now. If a woman chooses not to deal with her 1045 01:28:55.880 --> 01:29:00.720 options, that's that's another thing. But there's always as a nigga in the 1046 01:29:00.760 --> 01:29:04.079 inbox that's ready to be up next. I also don't feel like it's really 1047 01:29:04.119 --> 01:29:09.319 reasonable, especially when we encourage people like, if you are dating, to 1048 01:29:09.680 --> 01:29:14.239 date multiple people, don't waste all of your time on one person, not 1049 01:29:14.319 --> 01:29:17.359 really knowing where y'all at, And people always well, I can't date multiple 1050 01:29:17.399 --> 01:29:20.520 people, because, Bro, if you got more than one friend and you 1051 01:29:20.520 --> 01:29:25.319 can remember multiple things about each one of your friends, you can date multiple 1052 01:29:25.319 --> 01:29:28.479 people. They're that fucking hard. Anybody saying that you gotta fuck them all 1053 01:29:28.800 --> 01:29:30.960 and nobody saying that you got to do all this extravagant shit with them all. 1054 01:29:31.000 --> 01:29:35.239 But you can definitely date and get to know multiple people to weigh your 1055 01:29:35.279 --> 01:29:42.359 options and see which option is better for you. Bro, I don't know, 1056 01:29:42.399 --> 01:29:45.439 but I'm finna dout. I've told you living together I want to smother 1057 01:29:45.479 --> 01:29:47.760 them a couple of times. I feel like I'm justified at this point. 1058 01:29:49.039 --> 01:29:57.039 But so the next post said, certain men shame women for their past choices 1059 01:29:57.079 --> 01:30:00.000 and men and tell them to choose better partners. And when you have women 1060 01:30:00.000 --> 01:30:04.680 who are actually taking accountability for their past choices and are now enforced, get 1061 01:30:04.720 --> 01:30:12.199 your ass out of here, go sleep in that goddamn chair outside in the 1062 01:30:12.199 --> 01:30:20.359 hallway. Got man says, so certain me and shame women for their past 1063 01:30:20.399 --> 01:30:24.159 choices and men and tell them to choose better partners. Okay, cool. 1064 01:30:24.600 --> 01:30:28.199 So then when you get women who are actually taking accountability for their past poor 1065 01:30:28.279 --> 01:30:31.920 choices and are now enforcing requirements to make better choices than men, those same 1066 01:30:32.039 --> 01:30:35.640 men, in a pathetic attempt to humble them, are now telling those women 1067 01:30:35.680 --> 01:30:40.000 how they don't have the right to choose better after telling them to choose better. 1068 01:30:40.000 --> 01:30:42.359 I'm telling you then, when your old post, because I feel like 1069 01:30:42.399 --> 01:30:48.760 you wrote that before, Yeah, we don't have none. That's the problem 1070 01:30:49.159 --> 01:30:55.880 everybody, If every man wants to be an entrepreneur, because it's because nobody, 1071 01:30:57.000 --> 01:31:01.960 because because like I said before I even saw Nigga's comments. See look, 1072 01:31:02.159 --> 01:31:04.640 I told you he was talking about someone. You didn't even that loud? 1073 01:31:04.800 --> 01:31:08.800 Tommy said, who is that bear roaring in the background? He wasn't 1074 01:31:08.800 --> 01:31:15.800 at first, he got louder, okay loud. So I knew that this 1075 01:31:15.960 --> 01:31:18.520 was coming because I know men, and I know what their rebuttal is every 1076 01:31:18.520 --> 01:31:26.560 single time. So next post said, certain men complained about how these women 1077 01:31:27.439 --> 01:31:30.439 these days are only out to date for money. Okay, but then you 1078 01:31:30.560 --> 01:31:34.359 have women who are previously dated men with nothing explained that they've been there and 1079 01:31:34.399 --> 01:31:39.319 done that and are just no longer in that chapter of life. Then those 1080 01:31:39.359 --> 01:31:44.159 same men come tell him or you should have chosen better. So you complain 1081 01:31:45.199 --> 01:31:47.439 when a woman doesn't want a broke man, calling us gold niggers and shit 1082 01:31:47.479 --> 01:31:51.720 talking about we money hungry and we out of pocket for saying I don't want 1083 01:31:51.720 --> 01:31:55.880 no broke ass niggas. But then when you find out that we use dated 1084 01:31:55.920 --> 01:31:58.680 broke ass nigga, now you are, well, that was your fault for 1085 01:31:58.720 --> 01:32:01.520 choosing a broke ass nigga. You just told me that I wasn't ship because 1086 01:32:01.520 --> 01:32:06.760 I didn't want to broke ass niggas. I don't. That's the thing they 1087 01:32:06.800 --> 01:32:11.359 don't get to me. But it's just I be wanting to put out there 1088 01:32:11.359 --> 01:32:18.840 how stupid sh it is. I I always give examples on why I don't 1089 01:32:18.880 --> 01:32:23.880 listen to me, and this is why, because they are walking fucking contradictions. 1090 01:32:24.039 --> 01:32:28.279 They are double lad swords whose whole agendas out to cut a bitch anyway 1091 01:32:28.399 --> 01:32:30.239 again, and you got one that you stuck with, and I shut the 1092 01:32:30.239 --> 01:32:34.520 funk up. I don't have to he different. He's still a niggas at 1093 01:32:34.520 --> 01:32:42.279 the end of the day, you think about every nigga got bullshit. Just 1094 01:32:42.319 --> 01:32:46.279 because your brand of bullshit is different does not mean it it's not bullsh bullshit, 1095 01:32:46.359 --> 01:32:51.199 Kyle shit, horseshit. So then it says last but not least. 1096 01:32:51.600 --> 01:32:56.119 If you date someone and their red flags, you were expected to learn from 1097 01:32:56.159 --> 01:33:00.560 those red flags and apply that knowledge to future relationships. If you make mistakes 1098 01:33:00.560 --> 01:33:03.720 in that relationship, you're expected to learn from those mistakes and apply that knowledge 1099 01:33:03.720 --> 01:33:09.880 to future relationships. So why wouldn't past partners be relevant to new relationships? 1100 01:33:10.039 --> 01:33:14.760 Y'all assume growth from one relationship is punishment for someone new just because they aren't 1101 01:33:14.760 --> 01:33:18.960 allowed to do the same things in them. Because I hate when you have 1102 01:33:19.279 --> 01:33:28.039 somebody whether it's okay, perfect example for you right, you know, no, 1103 01:33:28.359 --> 01:33:30.840 just perfect example for you. You know who you've dated, right, 1104 01:33:31.439 --> 01:33:35.319 so you can say, you know what, in hindsight, I recognize where 1105 01:33:35.359 --> 01:33:39.640 I went wrong. I don't want to date this type of person anymore. 1106 01:33:40.600 --> 01:33:45.319 So you saying you know what I've I'm not in that stage of life no 1107 01:33:45.399 --> 01:33:47.199 more. So on instead of going for this like this, this is what 1108 01:33:47.239 --> 01:33:49.960 I'm on now, this is what I would prefer to date moving forward. 1109 01:33:50.840 --> 01:33:55.359 They will try to use your growth against you, like, well, what 1110 01:33:55.439 --> 01:33:59.359 that what they got to do with the next girl? The fuck you mean 1111 01:33:59.439 --> 01:34:05.119 nigga doing her exactly? So accept that ship. You are a horrible person 1112 01:34:05.159 --> 01:34:10.560 by not giving everybody a fair chance, So why would I give everybody? 1113 01:34:12.279 --> 01:34:14.960 You hear? This is what they say on the internet though, to the 1114 01:34:15.000 --> 01:34:16.880 women folks, right, They tell us to choose better, But then they 1115 01:34:16.920 --> 01:34:25.199 expect us to give everybody a chance. And the thing about that is niggas 1116 01:34:25.199 --> 01:34:29.000 we don't know because they are not good enough to be in our mid crust 1117 01:34:29.159 --> 01:34:33.800 circle. You got these are lower crust, bottom of the pie ass niggas, 1118 01:34:34.880 --> 01:34:39.640 No they don't. They don't because they got time to be on the 1119 01:34:39.640 --> 01:34:45.359 internet. Meanwhile, I don't got too bitches to rub again. That's all 1120 01:34:45.439 --> 01:34:48.760 I was right, I'm trying to. I'm trying to get too. I 1121 01:34:48.760 --> 01:34:55.840 should just I should get one her bring another. So we got We got 1122 01:34:55.880 --> 01:35:00.720 a comment from YouTube. It says, oh wait, Tommy's no. Tommy's 1123 01:35:00.760 --> 01:35:03.239 came in right as I was clicking. So it says, for real, 1124 01:35:03.279 --> 01:35:06.199 people just want to control other people lives. Get that money, but except 1125 01:35:06.239 --> 01:35:12.279 motherfuckers will be salty. Uh, Tommy, you know I'm right, needs 1126 01:35:12.359 --> 01:35:15.840 be wanting to be met. Many black women don't date or understand dating. 1127 01:35:15.119 --> 01:35:18.479 Many go out on dates with men and determine that they're exclusive before it was 1128 01:35:18.520 --> 01:35:23.199 even discussed. See. And when y'all be trying to make me say that 1129 01:35:23.239 --> 01:35:25.840 we exclusive and I know we not, That's what I'll be trying to tell 1130 01:35:25.880 --> 01:35:33.119 y'all. Y'all too, it's complete. Y'all be doing this dance, y'all 1131 01:35:34.319 --> 01:35:42.560 that'll make us fifteen years dan y'all was doing before the blip. So you 1132 01:35:42.680 --> 01:35:45.920 know what I don't see, patriceaid, which is dumb as fuck giving everybody 1133 01:35:45.960 --> 01:35:50.800 a chance as asking Yeah. See so, And the thing is men love 1134 01:35:50.920 --> 01:35:55.319 to tell us well, you were the one who picked them, right, 1135 01:35:56.760 --> 01:36:01.760 and they use this to try to make us accountable for shitty people. Now 1136 01:36:02.079 --> 01:36:08.800 are there times when weird, like damn, you know what every like from 1137 01:36:08.840 --> 01:36:12.079 the very first date like this nigga was always talking about he left his wallert 1138 01:36:12.119 --> 01:36:14.840 at home and like all this kind of shit in all situations. Yeah, 1139 01:36:15.119 --> 01:36:18.880 you can be like that was a bread flag out the gate, but that 1140 01:36:19.079 --> 01:36:25.279 is not always the case. Sometimes you have people who how how many times 1141 01:36:25.359 --> 01:36:28.640 do we say a motherfucker will show you what they want you to see, 1142 01:36:31.199 --> 01:36:36.439 bro every single time. No, I'm a person. I'm like, I'm 1143 01:36:36.520 --> 01:36:44.920 just about to say it's too many tapping options. I get hot. See 1144 01:36:44.960 --> 01:36:46.640 you say that, But look how angry you was after we had our off 1145 01:36:46.720 --> 01:36:53.600 air conversation after the pot because you know what just happened to me yet? 1146 01:36:53.680 --> 01:36:57.680 See yeah, now it ain't well what if he just no? See see 1147 01:36:57.760 --> 01:37:03.199 how it's different. Yeah you forgetting my shut up, forgetting like that, 1148 01:37:04.039 --> 01:37:10.920 crazy na. But it's funny because when it comes to us, because I'm 1149 01:37:10.920 --> 01:37:15.560 about to actually read exchange between me and a guy on one of my posts, 1150 01:37:16.159 --> 01:37:20.039 It's funny how when it comes to us, they expect us to have 1151 01:37:20.720 --> 01:37:27.279 X ray fucking goggles and be able to read a motherfucker one hundred percent before 1152 01:37:27.399 --> 01:37:30.359 we even actually deal with them. So we're supposed to know that somebody is 1153 01:37:30.399 --> 01:37:35.840 a shitty person right out of the gate. Though, So where's that where's 1154 01:37:35.840 --> 01:37:41.760 all that woman's intuition? Ship, y'all be strangling ones like if I got 1155 01:37:41.800 --> 01:37:45.239 an opinion about my baby daddy, well, third I at it. Beat 1156 01:37:45.359 --> 01:37:48.279 No, it be them ones that are common to say some goofy shit like 1157 01:37:48.439 --> 01:37:54.439 you picked them, Like, yeah, like I really knew motherfucker wasn't gonna 1158 01:37:54.439 --> 01:37:59.319 do this thing, like you said, like at the time you met him, 1159 01:37:59.359 --> 01:38:02.479 and everything was in the beginning, stand up, dude. And then 1160 01:38:03.439 --> 01:38:09.960 yeah, especially because both both of my daughter's fathers they didn't have kids before 1161 01:38:10.039 --> 01:38:13.119 mom, so it ain't like I had a fucking blueprint to go off of 1162 01:38:13.239 --> 01:38:15.560 and say, well, how does he treat his other kids? And even 1163 01:38:15.680 --> 01:38:19.520 that's not a fucking indicator because we've seen them treat kids based off of how 1164 01:38:19.560 --> 01:38:25.039 they feel about the mothers, So that's not even the thing. All I 1165 01:38:25.159 --> 01:38:29.640 know is sometimes red flags be looking like six flags and shit, yeah, 1166 01:38:30.760 --> 01:38:34.680 and then sometimes motherfuckers are just really good at burying the flags in the backyard. 1167 01:38:36.479 --> 01:38:42.680 So this guy commenting he said, men still have to pick up the 1168 01:38:42.760 --> 01:38:46.239 pieces from a traumatic experience that you've previously had. So my response was, 1169 01:38:46.359 --> 01:38:49.359 then y'all need to pick better, Like y'all tell us pick a woman who 1170 01:38:49.399 --> 01:38:53.800 has done to work to grow from those experiences, versus choosing one with pieces 1171 01:38:53.880 --> 01:38:56.960 to pick up, just like we're choosing not to pick someone we need to 1172 01:38:57.000 --> 01:39:00.279 build up. You can't tell people to learn from their past and mistake then 1173 01:39:00.359 --> 01:39:02.920 turn around and make it seem like the lessons they're applying are holding them back, 1174 01:39:03.199 --> 01:39:06.159 because we hear that all the time. Like I just said, the 1175 01:39:06.199 --> 01:39:10.079 motherfucker be like, well, what they got to do with the next person? 1176 01:39:10.159 --> 01:39:13.039 You punishing the next man? How am I punishing the next man? 1177 01:39:13.119 --> 01:39:16.359 Because I'm applying knowledge from a past relationship. That's not a punishment, that's 1178 01:39:16.439 --> 01:39:20.119 growth on my part. Because if I choose the exact same nigga all over 1179 01:39:20.239 --> 01:39:29.239 again, you gonna tell me, well, you picked them. So his 1180 01:39:29.479 --> 01:39:31.760 response was, but there's no way to know those type of things without a 1181 01:39:31.800 --> 01:39:36.680 person being triggered. So you don't know if a person got pieces and shit 1182 01:39:36.760 --> 01:39:41.680 to pick up until you get to know them and see them in a triggered 1183 01:39:41.760 --> 01:39:44.279 state. I said, oh, well, the fellow short act like we're 1184 01:39:44.279 --> 01:39:46.119 supposed to know everything about y'all from just looking at you to know you the 1185 01:39:46.159 --> 01:39:48.680 wrong one. So I seen y'all could do it too. I didn't get 1186 01:39:48.680 --> 01:39:55.640 a response after that one. But it's just funny how niggas have all of 1187 01:39:55.760 --> 01:40:00.760 this logic when it comes to trying to tell us some shit. But I 1188 01:40:00.079 --> 01:40:05.000 never see other men telling them when this man is bitching about his baby, 1189 01:40:05.079 --> 01:40:09.520 mama won't let him see the kids, or she just greedy for more child 1190 01:40:09.600 --> 01:40:12.680 support. I don't never hear niggas saying, well, bro, you picked 1191 01:40:12.680 --> 01:40:15.880 her. It be man, These whole scanless, So we're to blame when 1192 01:40:16.199 --> 01:40:24.279 y'all fuck up, and also to blame when we fuck up absolutely phone, 1193 01:40:26.520 --> 01:40:33.640 but are always preaching fucking accountability and and and and and it kills me because 1194 01:40:33.840 --> 01:40:43.000 I've said there's several an you know that's my sound man, But it kills 1195 01:40:43.079 --> 01:40:48.199 me because we are always told women never want to be accountable, women never 1196 01:40:48.239 --> 01:40:53.560 want to be accountable, And it's like bruh. Society literally tries to hold 1197 01:40:53.680 --> 01:40:57.920 us accountable for our actions. And y'all as soon as as soon as somebody's 1198 01:40:57.960 --> 01:41:01.159 in, like a child is in the news. For some reckless the first 1199 01:41:01.199 --> 01:41:08.560 thing they say is where that boy mam mat? For real, it's where 1200 01:41:08.640 --> 01:41:11.319 that boy mama at? And see, this is what happens when it's a 1201 01:41:11.399 --> 01:41:15.239 single, single mother house. They immediately know there's no man in the house 1202 01:41:15.960 --> 01:41:21.479 supposedly, and sometimes certain decisions come from mirroring the men in their lives. 1203 01:41:23.239 --> 01:41:25.840 Yeah, or you get the men that say, oh, a woman can't 1204 01:41:25.960 --> 01:41:29.640 raise a man, right, but he'll raise his own kids based off of 1205 01:41:29.640 --> 01:41:40.640 all this shit is mama thardi. I'm just gonna these nigga on the internet 1206 01:41:40.920 --> 01:41:45.520 with this free range of motion. This is see town. And this is 1207 01:41:45.560 --> 01:41:48.560 why when I share certain videos in the group capturing it with this is why 1208 01:41:48.880 --> 01:41:56.199 men shouldn't have podcasts because you let out your unfiltered thoughts and when and nobody 1209 01:41:56.319 --> 01:42:01.359 need to hear what you're thinking unless it's shits and giggles. That's true, 1210 01:42:02.239 --> 01:42:08.800 but some ship niggas just don't share with the world. But men are not 1211 01:42:09.039 --> 01:42:15.039 taught to really process their thoughts, so it comes out without thinking about it 1212 01:42:15.159 --> 01:42:18.439 as far as podcasting go. No, no, no, I know, 1213 01:42:18.640 --> 01:42:25.000 but that's because we are. It's an emphasis on women uh being able to 1214 01:42:25.399 --> 01:42:30.359 process how they feel. We are taught to feel. Men are generally not 1215 01:42:30.560 --> 01:42:33.760 taught to feel. So when y'all feel something, it's a scramble to put 1216 01:42:34.439 --> 01:42:39.079 words to that feeling. Women, we can cry it out and you know 1217 01:42:39.239 --> 01:42:50.680 something wrong with us. Men have to verbalize, and y'all not. You 1218 01:42:50.800 --> 01:42:56.359 are scaring that there's a whole episode of the death fresh shutter. I could 1219 01:42:56.399 --> 01:43:00.479 pull up well, I just let you on the mic and you you would 1220 01:43:00.520 --> 01:43:12.720 fun all these those was been in the know your VIE episode. Sometimes, 1221 01:43:13.880 --> 01:43:17.479 don't act like you. It ain't out there for you either. You said 1222 01:43:17.680 --> 01:43:24.520 like emotional intelligence completely, I'm a cancer. I'm allowed no. Now what 1223 01:43:24.560 --> 01:43:28.279 you're gonna do is stop hiding behind your side accountability, nigga. We literally 1224 01:43:28.439 --> 01:43:30.319 just said that five minutes ago. Oh and and and as far as like 1225 01:43:30.399 --> 01:43:33.680 the accountability conversation, what I said, like for those who may have listened 1226 01:43:33.720 --> 01:43:38.520 to that and not really understood what I meant, look at it this way. 1227 01:43:39.199 --> 01:43:43.760 If well, I I am a single mother, right, so it's 1228 01:43:43.840 --> 01:43:49.319 just me and my fucking brats. Now, no one is going to question 1229 01:43:49.680 --> 01:43:55.880 why he wasn't mad enough to take care of his kid, But they're going 1230 01:43:55.960 --> 01:44:01.720 to question my choice of their father, Like I knew that this nigga was 1231 01:44:01.760 --> 01:44:05.920 gonna be a fucking deadbeat. This is the exact same man who was having 1232 01:44:05.960 --> 01:44:12.159 a full fucking mental breakdown and shit because I was having a threatened miscarriage with 1233 01:44:12.319 --> 01:44:15.439 his first child. Did I think that this nigga was gonna end up being 1234 01:44:15.479 --> 01:44:18.920 a fucking deadbeat? No? You see these niggas, both of them have 1235 01:44:19.159 --> 01:44:23.680 my daughter, like, they both have their daughter's names tattooed on them. 1236 01:44:23.960 --> 01:44:27.840 Re Daddy, he got a full I mean from shoulder to fucking shoulder, 1237 01:44:27.920 --> 01:44:31.319 this fucking high across his chest, her full fucking name. I don't got 1238 01:44:31.399 --> 01:44:35.119 her name tattooed at all, but guess who've been fucking taking care of him 1239 01:44:35.159 --> 01:44:40.560 for almost twenty years. Jellybean Dad got her name tattooed on the fucking neck. 1240 01:44:41.319 --> 01:44:45.720 He don't do shit. So it's like, you can't. You don't 1241 01:44:45.800 --> 01:44:48.680 know how a motherfucker's gonna parent, because I always say I don't think a 1242 01:44:48.800 --> 01:44:53.479 person knows how they're going to parent until they become a parent. You know 1243 01:44:53.560 --> 01:44:56.560 how many motherfuckers I saw that say they couldn't stand kids and didn't want no 1244 01:44:56.640 --> 01:45:00.920 motherfucking kids, And when they actually had kids, all of that ship. 1245 01:45:00.039 --> 01:45:03.920 They will turn all of this ship upside down about their fucking kids. Yeah, 1246 01:45:04.279 --> 01:45:08.560 And when I had my boys, I made the decision that I can't 1247 01:45:08.640 --> 01:45:15.520 date men that don't have a relationship with some male some o g mail in 1248 01:45:15.640 --> 01:45:19.680 their life. Like, I don't date men that grew up around their grandmama's 1249 01:45:19.720 --> 01:45:25.399 and they auntie slut like solely anymore, because I feel like I just saw 1250 01:45:25.439 --> 01:45:30.319 that somewhere. I know, I feel like I just saw somebody. I 1251 01:45:30.359 --> 01:45:32.479 don't men that say, oh yeah, I was raised by my granny and 1252 01:45:32.560 --> 01:45:35.960 my mama and my anties and my sisters have a good day, ma'am. 1253 01:45:36.079 --> 01:45:44.760 I mean, sir, I don't date, don't you uncle Charles, y'all 1254 01:45:44.840 --> 01:45:50.399 or not? Because I am I was raised by a lot of I was 1255 01:45:50.560 --> 01:45:54.239 raised by my brother. I mean, my dad. Don't get grown. 1256 01:45:54.560 --> 01:45:58.800 My mom was around and now I'm over. It's so many women in our 1257 01:45:58.840 --> 01:46:02.479 family and I can't relate to because she was no. Well, yeah, 1258 01:46:02.560 --> 01:46:05.560 but I have all boys. I have one girl cousin that grew up with 1259 01:46:05.680 --> 01:46:10.479 and the rest are boys. And then of course their friends became my brothers. 1260 01:46:10.560 --> 01:46:14.840 And then I got a brother, and then my dad Wasn't you know 1261 01:46:14.880 --> 01:46:18.560 what I'm saying. So my mannerisms are very I have very male mannerisms. 1262 01:46:18.640 --> 01:46:23.800 But I mean I don't want to be a stud. I think somebody a 1263 01:46:23.840 --> 01:46:26.720 few comments up said me, me wanted to be a stud. I just 1264 01:46:26.800 --> 01:46:42.840 think that No, no, no, he's an Honestly, I feel like 1265 01:46:43.039 --> 01:46:47.079 a lot of people I've said this on the I think she's direct. I 1266 01:46:47.199 --> 01:46:53.159 think she got a Tommy said, I have one trash friend. He been 1267 01:46:53.680 --> 01:46:59.760 in high school. He was Zach Morris bro. We call that nigga out 1268 01:46:59.800 --> 01:47:02.479 on it trash behavior constantly. My ex wife called him out on his traship. 1269 01:47:02.560 --> 01:47:05.039 He stopped coming around, but guess what, he went somewhere else and 1270 01:47:05.159 --> 01:47:12.439 remained trash. And of course that's why she is the poetry push it said, 1271 01:47:12.520 --> 01:47:14.880 the special guest has a super voice. Thank you, thank you, 1272 01:47:14.960 --> 01:47:18.479 thank you. What you said? I just got it from me. She 1273 01:47:18.560 --> 01:47:21.560 stopped my home style. Yeah, but and that was the thing, like 1274 01:47:21.720 --> 01:47:29.520 this nuts, that's true. I thought we pieced it up. Guy. 1275 01:47:29.600 --> 01:47:34.079 He's a big guy. It's a big guy. I don't want the little 1276 01:47:34.079 --> 01:47:39.640 one got a mean right hook. I'm good on that too, any bite 1277 01:47:39.720 --> 01:47:45.439 still, Yeah, because little so you know that's he get about that. 1278 01:47:45.600 --> 01:47:51.520 Jam Listen, listen, you said ship is stior to get us out. 1279 01:47:54.239 --> 01:48:02.880 It's in us. I'm mad that you can't come. Kela said, hmm. 1280 01:48:03.000 --> 01:48:05.880 I don't agree with this, but of course I respect people's preferences. 1281 01:48:05.920 --> 01:48:09.560 For sure. I get what's being said, but I don't think it should 1282 01:48:09.560 --> 01:48:12.920 be in an automatic mark against a person. And see, and that's like 1283 01:48:13.000 --> 01:48:17.600 for me. So I think it's when she says she doesn't want to date 1284 01:48:17.720 --> 01:48:25.079 a guy who has only been around women with like no male like you know, 1285 01:48:25.239 --> 01:48:29.239 and it's nothing against the like. I don't prejudge. I just from 1286 01:48:29.319 --> 01:48:32.640 my experience. That's just like if you've been in if you've ever been in 1287 01:48:32.720 --> 01:48:36.359 an abusive relationship, right, And let's say you give a guy a chance 1288 01:48:36.439 --> 01:48:40.159 and he just he played too much. He play a little bit too rough. 1289 01:48:43.199 --> 01:48:49.199 So the man that I've dealt with have have ideals that stem from being 1290 01:48:49.319 --> 01:48:54.399 raised by too many women. So I'm at my big old age, I 1291 01:48:54.560 --> 01:48:57.680 just got to cut him out where I just gotta cut certain things out my 1292 01:48:58.279 --> 01:49:01.760 diet of men and that and that's how I feel. How I've said that 1293 01:49:02.279 --> 01:49:06.000 I will not date a man who has issues with his mom and no more 1294 01:49:06.920 --> 01:49:15.239 because I've noticed a pattern of relationship. When they don't have healthy relationships with 1295 01:49:15.800 --> 01:49:19.920 their mom, it tends to trickle down into how they feel about other women. 1296 01:49:20.279 --> 01:49:25.159 It's like, because they don't have a level of respect for their mom, 1297 01:49:25.279 --> 01:49:29.520 nigga, you're not gonna give a fuck Like like bro, I heard 1298 01:49:29.680 --> 01:49:31.920 I dad, bruh thought you was finna put your mom through the door. 1299 01:49:32.000 --> 01:49:36.520 You're finna go home and try to fucking tie me in a basement. It's 1300 01:49:36.600 --> 01:49:41.560 only a matter of time before and this is our thing, like the same 1301 01:49:41.640 --> 01:49:43.920 thing as far as you feel like, all right, well I can't fuck 1302 01:49:43.960 --> 01:49:45.279 with you know, a nigga that don't take care of his kids? Why 1303 01:49:45.479 --> 01:49:47.960 is that? Because you like if you can turn your back on your seat, 1304 01:49:48.640 --> 01:49:50.439 ain't no telling them what the fuck you would do to me? And 1305 01:49:50.520 --> 01:49:56.319 that goes for relationships, friendships and everything else. So it's just that may 1306 01:49:56.439 --> 01:50:00.520 not be the case. They may not do anything to you. They may 1307 01:50:00.680 --> 01:50:03.119 just be one of the motherfuckers who's more loyal to their friends than their kids. 1308 01:50:03.279 --> 01:50:06.920 But that doesn't mean you want to take the chance based off of the 1309 01:50:08.039 --> 01:50:12.600 things that you've seen, Because I don't say that as advice. I'm not 1310 01:50:12.680 --> 01:50:15.479 advising other women not to deal. Now I knew exactly why you was doing. 1311 01:50:15.600 --> 01:50:19.920 I say it out of just you know, being aware. If you're 1312 01:50:19.960 --> 01:50:26.199 not aware of yourself, your triggers, and what you want, then how 1313 01:50:26.239 --> 01:50:30.439 do you even start and begin today? You know what I'm saying. Okay, 1314 01:50:30.520 --> 01:50:32.399 let's say I also realize I'm hearing this as a single mom raising the 1315 01:50:32.439 --> 01:50:35.920 son alone with no men present. I hate for someone to judge him or 1316 01:50:35.960 --> 01:50:40.279 look at him. And you know what, let me just let me respond. 1317 01:50:40.720 --> 01:50:43.960 I'm a single mother of two boys. Matter of fact, I got 1318 01:50:44.039 --> 01:50:48.000 two boys and I got another a young man who's like my godson. So 1319 01:50:48.199 --> 01:50:56.600 I'm surrounded by boys, but I'm very much like I find men. I 1320 01:50:56.720 --> 01:51:00.960 have a support system of men that I put in my son's life so he 1321 01:51:01.279 --> 01:51:06.800 doesn't only get a female narrative of whatever he goes through. So I'm not 1322 01:51:06.960 --> 01:51:13.000 only aware of that for my choice and for myself. Those are actions that 1323 01:51:13.079 --> 01:51:15.239 I put in place for my boys as well, so they don't become, 1324 01:51:15.800 --> 01:51:19.640 you know, the type of man that I feel just maybe just needed some 1325 01:51:19.800 --> 01:51:24.920 more male guidance and if I could put some positive male role models in their 1326 01:51:25.000 --> 01:51:29.039 lives. You know, that's the goal, you know, but definitely to 1327 01:51:29.119 --> 01:51:34.880 give them something different than what I bring to the opinion table. I've actually 1328 01:51:34.960 --> 01:51:38.920 touched on this before timing. He said. It's also not always good for 1329 01:51:39.000 --> 01:51:42.359 a nigga to have a weirdly crosse relationship with a mama either. I've touched 1330 01:51:42.399 --> 01:51:46.319 on that. I've said that I have had to let a nigga go because 1331 01:51:47.279 --> 01:51:54.279 everything came down to his mom. So there are levels to being a mama's 1332 01:51:54.319 --> 01:52:01.760 boy. Absolutely not everything is always just you know at the tit at forty. 1333 01:52:01.960 --> 01:52:06.600 You know what I'm saying. There are healthy mama's boys where they have 1334 01:52:06.800 --> 01:52:11.800 a love and admiration for their mother, but they are also able to stand 1335 01:52:11.880 --> 01:52:15.399 on their own two feet. I fuxed with that. The ones who feel 1336 01:52:15.479 --> 01:52:19.840 like they can't turn and wipe they ass or like look at Scrappy and Mama 1337 01:52:19.920 --> 01:52:26.760 d She is always in that man business and he do not check her. 1338 01:52:27.000 --> 01:52:32.439 I can't deal with no nigga like that. I can't One man who should 1339 01:52:32.520 --> 01:52:39.399 have actually been my motherfucking daddy like my mom. He was like the perfect 1340 01:52:40.279 --> 01:52:44.960 dude. The only difference was like his relationship with his mom. She meddled 1341 01:52:44.960 --> 01:52:47.760 too much. She was doing too much. She didn't approve because she had 1342 01:52:48.039 --> 01:52:51.680 a kid already. He didn't have any kids. So it's like as good 1343 01:52:51.680 --> 01:52:56.600 as they relationship was, it's like his mom is constantly inserting herself, and 1344 01:52:56.680 --> 01:53:00.960 it's like there's a difference in disres expecting your mom and then just kind of 1345 01:53:01.039 --> 01:53:04.000 letting her know that, bro, your place is outside this little box here. 1346 01:53:04.880 --> 01:53:06.960 You know you you always gonna be moms. I love you and I 1347 01:53:08.039 --> 01:53:12.159 respect you, but this this here, this is the box out zone, 1348 01:53:13.680 --> 01:53:15.960 the little you know, the little moll photo. You are here. You 1349 01:53:15.000 --> 01:53:20.680 got to jar a little circle. You are here, So I get it. 1350 01:53:24.840 --> 01:53:27.479 She said, what she's saying, it's a male voice in her circle, 1351 01:53:27.560 --> 01:53:30.880 Kayla, and not completely women around. Well, and I asked, 1352 01:53:31.600 --> 01:53:35.279 well, I think Kayla felt that way because, like Kayla has expressed, 1353 01:53:35.359 --> 01:53:40.199 like when I had the episode a couple of weeks ago, asking like about 1354 01:53:40.239 --> 01:53:44.439 the mentors and stuff, like Kayla has tried to find like male mentors and 1355 01:53:44.479 --> 01:53:46.079 all of that stuff, and it's like it's been kind of just falling on 1356 01:53:46.199 --> 01:53:50.159 deaf ears. So she's been trying to get those male influences for her son. 1357 01:53:50.239 --> 01:53:54.640 It's just it ain't been working out for and it ain't easy. It's 1358 01:53:54.640 --> 01:53:59.000 scary because you got a lot of men that get into these positions to prey 1359 01:53:59.159 --> 01:54:02.720 on boys. And that's the sad part about it, like these organizations and 1360 01:54:02.760 --> 01:54:10.039 stuff like that. By me being a little maybe a little like I navigate, 1361 01:54:10.479 --> 01:54:15.960 not navigate. I what's the word I'm looking for? Hell? I 1362 01:54:15.039 --> 01:54:17.359 mean, I keep a squad, you know, a man around me, 1363 01:54:17.479 --> 01:54:20.680 so I didn't have to look far, you know what I mean, Like 1364 01:54:21.199 --> 01:54:26.039 it was already men that I trusted. I didn't have to seek outside. 1365 01:54:26.079 --> 01:54:29.960 And then kind of, you know, hope that I'm putting my son around 1366 01:54:30.039 --> 01:54:32.800 some good dudes. And then it's some dudes that I I know that they're 1367 01:54:32.840 --> 01:54:35.079 good in some areas, but they ain't shit in others. And I'll be 1368 01:54:35.159 --> 01:54:39.399 like, look, don't don't teach that to my boy. You know what 1369 01:54:39.439 --> 01:54:42.119 I'm saying. Give them this part of you, but not that part of 1370 01:54:42.159 --> 01:54:45.920 you. So it's it's men like that that I kind of you know, 1371 01:54:46.800 --> 01:54:54.840 Yeah, And I'm gonna easy to come compartmentalize that. Yeah, it's like 1372 01:54:54.920 --> 01:55:00.760 picking onions up a burger bro what I make Burger's fire? Well, I 1373 01:55:00.840 --> 01:55:05.159 been't eat him lately, only on the cousins though, baby steps, baby 1374 01:55:05.479 --> 01:55:09.319 just go what are we talking about? No, when you were saying like 1375 01:55:09.680 --> 01:55:12.479 you want them to like pick and choose which parts, I said, it's 1376 01:55:12.520 --> 01:55:17.319 like picking burgers off on him, I mean on zer Berker. Yeah, 1377 01:55:17.359 --> 01:55:20.239 almost as crazy as you saying, can you get a cheeseburger with no cheese? 1378 01:55:23.199 --> 01:55:26.000 And you know, just just not in the fact you used to try 1379 01:55:26.039 --> 01:55:30.680 to defend that. That's the part that bothered us. It wasn't the fact 1380 01:55:30.720 --> 01:55:33.479 that all it was just easier to say that and but no you'd be like, 1381 01:55:33.600 --> 01:55:36.119 but this is what I want and I just don't. All right, 1382 01:55:36.119 --> 01:55:40.680 We're not going down that rabbit hole. Rida said, I feel you kla 1383 01:55:40.760 --> 01:55:45.640 my current situation as well. I had one, but he passed. Yeah, 1384 01:55:45.680 --> 01:55:48.399 because because my stepdad, Like you can tell that he was raised by 1385 01:55:48.479 --> 01:55:53.319 primarily women. Like you know what, now that you say that, I 1386 01:55:53.399 --> 01:56:00.520 can see that, y'all can see that real nigga. No no, no, 1387 01:56:00.560 --> 01:56:04.359 no no no no no, you're you're mistaken a Southern nigga. Yeah, 1388 01:56:06.119 --> 01:56:13.239 like like like he he was a real Southern Yeah, like he was 1389 01:56:13.399 --> 01:56:17.520 able to do ship, like he learned how to you know, like work, 1390 01:56:18.119 --> 01:56:23.039 but outside of that, like his men arhysms and ship that he do 1391 01:56:23.199 --> 01:56:26.359 and like little attitudes and ship like you can tell that he was like because 1392 01:56:26.359 --> 01:56:29.720 he got all like he doesn't have any brothers. He was the only boy. 1393 01:56:30.000 --> 01:56:33.760 You got all brothers and then your mom and then his mom was like 1394 01:56:35.399 --> 01:56:46.640 a fucking bitch. I just yeah, like but fast mind. He just 1395 01:56:46.640 --> 01:56:49.000 said, you did your thing with dial though, for real, for real, 1396 01:56:49.039 --> 01:56:51.520 And I fight little girls because they're not about to corrupt him on my 1397 01:56:51.640 --> 01:56:59.600 watch. But what she said, he's uh uh, he's a sasparal. 1398 01:57:00.319 --> 01:57:04.720 No. But I but I do. I I one hundred percent gated because 1399 01:57:04.760 --> 01:57:09.960 like and a lot of people say that as far as like with me, 1400 01:57:10.159 --> 01:57:12.479 like like I said, they joke like, oh man, you a nigga 1401 01:57:12.520 --> 01:57:16.159 with titties. But like my primary influence, like did I have women around? 1402 01:57:16.239 --> 01:57:19.520 Yes, I was raised by my mom, but my mom worked a 1403 01:57:19.560 --> 01:57:23.880 lot, so my primary influence, Like I was around all my male cousins, 1404 01:57:25.760 --> 01:57:29.840 like all of yeah, almost all of you know, my friends from 1405 01:57:29.880 --> 01:57:32.720 the neighborhood. Like there were girls around, but it's like I had I 1406 01:57:32.880 --> 01:57:35.000 was, I already was who I was, so I wasn't on the shit 1407 01:57:35.039 --> 01:57:39.720 thatday was on shit, did watch wet grow Like That's how I know her, 1408 01:57:39.840 --> 01:57:44.680 like from my childhood. So seeing me out at rufus king, who 1409 01:57:44.800 --> 01:57:47.680 is I with the boys? That that was just that that was my thing. 1410 01:57:47.840 --> 01:57:50.960 So that's, you know, the element that I became comfortable in. 1411 01:57:51.159 --> 01:57:57.920 So it's like I have my feminine side, that's just not my dominant side. 1412 01:57:58.840 --> 01:58:00.800 Like yesterday I had. Hey, I told y'all before, look I 1413 01:58:00.880 --> 01:58:04.079 might have my titties out one day and just like somebody nigga the next, 1414 01:58:04.119 --> 01:58:10.159 I have my tittes out yesterday when she saw me and now look, so 1415 01:58:10.520 --> 01:58:24.760 look you that's what Martin said yesterday. No, it's it's not missing any 1416 01:58:24.880 --> 01:58:28.279 at all. No talking about some this episode is missing some random singing, 1417 01:58:29.119 --> 01:58:34.000 but no, this is what we were talking about. As far as like 1418 01:58:34.039 --> 01:58:40.920 when niggas just being contradictory. She was walking business down for sport. Walk 1419 01:58:40.960 --> 01:58:43.920 them down, you said, we did, was around for your fighting. 1420 01:58:45.279 --> 01:58:48.239 Don't let don't let you fool you. She was a rough little time boys 1421 01:58:48.880 --> 01:58:57.760 too. This this version of her is not this version. I grew up 1422 01:58:57.800 --> 01:59:03.680 on seventeenth Capital between Capital and it just wasn't all my life. I have 1423 01:59:03.840 --> 01:59:08.079 to fight. No, it wasn't like that. I just like I said, 1424 01:59:08.239 --> 01:59:11.239 like I would, I grew up rapping. You know, there was 1425 01:59:11.560 --> 01:59:17.800 a persona and then my idols soft. Oh lord, you know like granny 1426 01:59:17.960 --> 01:59:21.760 was. She was about that mess, like my granny was about that life, 1427 01:59:23.800 --> 01:59:27.960 I think. And then it's like my mom, like mom was cool, 1428 01:59:28.039 --> 01:59:30.399 but then it was that point like matter Okay, So the funny part 1429 01:59:30.600 --> 01:59:36.000 is like who did was dating at the time. We would have our like 1430 01:59:36.199 --> 01:59:39.760 family wars, and she's like, you know how like when houses on the 1431 01:59:39.800 --> 01:59:44.079 black is beefing, so she was on the OIP side. We didn't have 1432 01:59:44.560 --> 01:59:46.800 you on that. But it was just you know, sometimes I had my 1433 01:59:46.920 --> 01:59:54.079 own beef like at that house. I couldn't even indulge in because I never 1434 01:59:54.159 --> 01:59:58.439 knew because this was my dude speaking of a dating and ship. I never 1435 01:59:58.560 --> 02:00:00.319 knew. It was times where I would come in the house and be like 1436 02:00:00.439 --> 02:00:05.359 downstairs and it'd be somebody upstairs, you know, so she's a whole lot 1437 02:00:05.439 --> 02:00:10.239 going on over there. No, but even then, this is what happens 1438 02:00:10.239 --> 02:00:15.279 when niggas want to rub two bitches together. You sure you want to try 1439 02:00:15.319 --> 02:00:19.680 that because there was one upstairs and one downstairs. But yeah, no, 1440 02:00:19.920 --> 02:00:23.880 but it's cool as mommy, Like, mom, don't be on that. 1441 02:00:24.079 --> 02:00:28.800 But like even they mom they ship, they had moms outside like bring up 1442 02:00:28.840 --> 02:00:30.479 because I'm sick of this ship, like and I'm like, damn bro, 1443 02:00:30.800 --> 02:00:34.800 even mom getting active and my and mommy chill like she don't fuck with no 1444 02:00:35.920 --> 02:00:43.880 nobody, So yeah I do, but no. So this is an example 1445 02:00:44.079 --> 02:00:46.319 of like what we were talking about as far as with ship being a double 1446 02:00:46.399 --> 02:00:49.239 edged sword and like my figgers never happy no matter what side we on. 1447 02:00:50.279 --> 02:00:54.479 I want to save myself until marriage. You're never going to fund a man. 1448 02:00:54.720 --> 02:00:57.239 Why not. You're never gonna fund a man. A man that actually 1449 02:00:57.319 --> 02:01:00.359 cares about me will wait for me. You think men want to wait? 1450 02:01:00.520 --> 02:01:02.279 Are you crazy? I thought that's what was going to wait for you. 1451 02:01:02.359 --> 02:01:04.800 You never, You're never going to find a man the way I see it, 1452 02:01:05.640 --> 02:01:09.199 with whoever I want, the right man will show up. You're never 1453 02:01:09.239 --> 02:01:11.960 gonna find a man. Why never. You'll never find a man. You're 1454 02:01:12.079 --> 02:01:15.560 never going to find a man. Tell me, why do you think a 1455 02:01:15.800 --> 02:01:20.359 man that's gonna be with everybody? I never said everybody and men do the 1456 02:01:20.439 --> 02:01:25.239 same. You're hopeless. You're hopeless. Go by cats? What go by? 1457 02:01:25.359 --> 02:01:28.439 Cats. I can't hear you go by cats, so just focus on 1458 02:01:28.479 --> 02:01:31.159 myself. I think both are extreme. I personally just wouldn't sleep with them 1459 02:01:31.199 --> 02:01:34.439 on the first date. You're never gonna find a man. What why You're 1460 02:01:35.000 --> 02:01:39.239 you're an adult? And what you're an adult? And what what are you 1461 02:01:39.479 --> 02:01:42.800 talking about? I just want to make sure he respects me because I'm looking 1462 02:01:42.840 --> 02:01:45.960 for a husband and not a boy. He's not going to respect you because 1463 02:01:45.119 --> 02:01:49.600 you can't even be an adult sleeping on the first day. I personally don't 1464 02:01:49.640 --> 02:01:53.880 have problems with sleeping on the first date. We are adults, after all. 1465 02:01:54.800 --> 02:01:59.159 You are never going to find a man. What why? Men like 1466 02:01:59.279 --> 02:02:02.239 women that were effect themselves and that's clearly not you are. You're going to 1467 02:02:02.319 --> 02:02:09.720 be alone. You will never find a man. You're never going to find 1468 02:02:14.439 --> 02:02:18.359 But this is really how it is. Like this is one of the most 1469 02:02:18.479 --> 02:02:24.560 accurate videos on the Internet right now because that is literally how it is. 1470 02:02:24.840 --> 02:02:30.039 It doesn't matter what we say. There is a nigga there, and it's 1471 02:02:30.159 --> 02:02:33.239 usually the same nigga. That's the craziest part, the same nigga. It's 1472 02:02:33.319 --> 02:02:38.119 like he forgets why he told you that ain't no man go want you? 1473 02:02:38.199 --> 02:02:44.600 The first time you say on Tuesday, oh, well, I do things 1474 02:02:44.640 --> 02:02:49.000 this way. See this why you single. You can have the exact opposite 1475 02:02:49.560 --> 02:02:55.119 for Wednesday. See this why you single? And this is why you don't 1476 02:02:55.159 --> 02:03:00.399 listen to niggas. Lady. You do what you feel like one if it 1477 02:03:00.520 --> 02:03:04.680 makes you happy and you are not imposing on the health and happiness of other 1478 02:03:04.760 --> 02:03:10.479 people, as long as you were not harming anybody while you were seeking your 1479 02:03:10.520 --> 02:03:15.520 happiness, do you and people who are you know, meant to be in 1480 02:03:15.600 --> 02:03:18.039 your space, that's who you will attract. And that's my biggest thing. 1481 02:03:18.199 --> 02:03:24.680 Like people talk to me all the time like I'm supposed to switch things up 1482 02:03:24.840 --> 02:03:30.039 to attract people that they are attracted to. That's not my bad. I 1483 02:03:30.079 --> 02:03:31.640 don't want to attract that. I don't want to attract that type of person 1484 02:03:31.680 --> 02:03:36.399 because that's not what I'm attracted to. He said, okay, with the 1485 02:03:36.439 --> 02:03:45.039 frank Mitchell look he just said, Now he looked like the men he was 1486 02:03:45.079 --> 02:03:48.520 talking about. Britt said me, me, look the fuck good. Thank 1487 02:03:48.600 --> 02:03:55.359 you girl. I felt good. Oh she gotta be high because I looked 1488 02:03:55.399 --> 02:04:03.039 good last night. Nigga. Yeah, he really did have the frank mental 1489 02:04:03.079 --> 02:04:12.279 hair though. That's wold. That's crazy, yeah, because it's like when 1490 02:04:12.359 --> 02:04:21.000 it goes to having sex for money, niggas are always shaming women for saying, 1491 02:04:21.199 --> 02:04:24.319 well, I'm not fucking with nobody, who ain't you know, who 1492 02:04:24.359 --> 02:04:28.119 ain't spending nothing, who ain't got nothing, And y'all will, oh, 1493 02:04:28.239 --> 02:04:30.720 you horror, you prostitute, you this, you ain't worth whatever. But 1494 02:04:30.800 --> 02:04:34.119 ain't y'all the same niggas who say you ain't spending money on somebody that you 1495 02:04:34.159 --> 02:04:41.199 ain't fucking How was that not the same thing? There? There are so 1496 02:04:41.399 --> 02:04:53.439 many There are so many. Uh yep, Yeah, I trust dear because 1497 02:04:54.399 --> 02:05:00.800 I trust her these other niggas. Did you in charge? What ship? 1498 02:05:00.880 --> 02:05:10.520 That was a bru? Okay, so I mean to touch bases back. 1499 02:05:11.079 --> 02:05:14.000 Let's scale back to what we were talking about. What you want to talk 1500 02:05:14.039 --> 02:05:19.720 about. I want to talk about what Tom said about hiding behind the zodiac, 1501 02:05:20.720 --> 02:05:24.840 right, yeah, I did. I just actually checked that. Let's 1502 02:05:24.880 --> 02:05:27.800 go back to that right quick, because I don't I don't think like what 1503 02:05:27.920 --> 02:05:30.640 people put out in the world, Like people will be like you're a cancer. 1504 02:05:30.760 --> 02:05:34.279 Then they just get the labeling all this ship that they assume, yeah, 1505 02:05:35.039 --> 02:05:39.800 or things that cancers do, and they just assume that you be on 1506 02:05:39.960 --> 02:05:43.760 that kind of shit because you but on what as a cancer though we see 1507 02:05:43.840 --> 02:05:45.880 memes that be like, damn, all of us is like that some ship 1508 02:05:46.079 --> 02:05:50.680 some shit. Do be like yeah that's usum be like so i'thing I'm taking 1509 02:05:50.720 --> 02:05:54.680 this somewhere, so just stay with me, right. So that's kind of 1510 02:05:54.760 --> 02:05:58.279 like grouping though, right, right, So now we're grouping all cancers being 1511 02:05:58.399 --> 02:06:03.159 like what we in tourist season? The mean as tourists. We're in tourist 1512 02:06:03.199 --> 02:06:09.960 season now, So I wonder how we could be so spot on sometimes in 1513 02:06:10.079 --> 02:06:14.359 the group and with our zodiac, but we could be so dead ass off 1514 02:06:14.760 --> 02:06:21.880 when we group these male and women topics. Okay, at what point though 1515 02:06:21.960 --> 02:06:26.119 that some of that gotta be? Right though? I feel like most of 1516 02:06:26.239 --> 02:06:30.039 it? Do you think so? Because even as a man, or like 1517 02:06:30.319 --> 02:06:33.560 on my end as a woman, rather we agree with her or now we 1518 02:06:33.640 --> 02:06:40.159 can see that sure it's like public house. Do I even want to know? 1519 02:06:40.359 --> 02:06:45.239 Why? Is it like public? Okay, maybe not public houses? 1520 02:06:45.319 --> 02:06:51.720 But the gender wars ain't nothing but a big ass gangle. So it's like, 1521 02:06:53.319 --> 02:06:58.960 so it's men and it's women. Right then, that's that's the overarching 1522 02:06:59.520 --> 02:07:02.079 concept as men and women. Then when you start breaking it down, it's 1523 02:07:02.199 --> 02:07:06.479 like, so you got GDS, you got BDS, you got vice lords, 1524 02:07:06.520 --> 02:07:11.640 you got bloods, you got crips. Then when you talk about then 1525 02:07:11.680 --> 02:07:14.600 when you talk I said, he woke up to the bear coming. And 1526 02:07:14.720 --> 02:07:18.159 then even when you get to crips, now it's different. Crips. You 1527 02:07:18.239 --> 02:07:26.119 got rolling sixties, roll the twenties. Like it's all these subdivisions of things. 1528 02:07:26.560 --> 02:07:30.680 So like there's all these subdivisions of people's thought process. So like you 1529 02:07:30.840 --> 02:07:36.039 might got a group of people that has one overarching point, but then you 1530 02:07:36.159 --> 02:07:41.319 may have like a subdivision who like, well, at that point relates to 1531 02:07:41.439 --> 02:07:45.520 this point and that we all believe in this. So it's an exasperating cycle 1532 02:07:45.600 --> 02:07:48.720 that we just not gonna ever get over because we'll never we'll never agree on 1533 02:07:48.920 --> 02:08:03.680 anything like that agrees, right, you wouldn't want you did something you just 1534 02:08:03.760 --> 02:08:09.760 could like and somebody says that you're gonna jump in and everything you say you're 1535 02:08:09.760 --> 02:08:16.000 gonna say generalize making other people who have nothing to do with y'all too agree 1536 02:08:16.039 --> 02:08:22.479 with you because it's triggering something. Let's just bringing me back up to where 1537 02:08:22.560 --> 02:08:26.239 we how we got talking about game banging and zodiacs. I brought it back 1538 02:08:26.279 --> 02:08:30.920 to the I brought it around the corner about how zodiacs can be spot on 1539 02:08:31.279 --> 02:08:35.199 and that's like a form of grouping people together. But when we talk men 1540 02:08:35.199 --> 02:08:39.840 and women relationships, it's the grouping that's really making it difficult for us to 1541 02:08:39.920 --> 02:08:43.319 come to a balance. And just looking at what Rita said, she said, 1542 02:08:43.319 --> 02:08:48.199 if zodiacs are inaccurate, why do scorpios act like that? Listen and 1543 02:08:48.279 --> 02:08:50.720 she said, I trust in zodiacs. I definitely do. Somebody can tell 1544 02:08:50.760 --> 02:08:56.359 me they are certain zodiac But it also goes back to experience. So if 1545 02:08:56.399 --> 02:09:00.399 I had a bad experience like tour season, I'm hiding because cancers and tourists 1546 02:09:00.560 --> 02:09:03.760 and taurus Is are supposed to be like you know, and I don't want 1547 02:09:03.840 --> 02:09:07.039 no part. It's not a tourist. Second, you want to know what's 1548 02:09:07.079 --> 02:09:11.399 funny. I was just about to ask, like any women who've had experience 1549 02:09:11.439 --> 02:09:16.439 with tourists. I wanted to ask y'all assessment because I gave one, and 1550 02:09:16.600 --> 02:09:20.199 Kayla was like, dude, that is fucking spot on. And it's all 1551 02:09:20.439 --> 02:09:24.479 of the tourists men that I have encountered, whether I've dated them, or 1552 02:09:24.560 --> 02:09:31.039 not. But we also know, like, well, people who actually like 1553 02:09:31.119 --> 02:09:35.039 follow ZODIAX, they know that it's not just the sign itself, like placement 1554 02:09:35.159 --> 02:09:39.199 and all of that stuff matters. So it's like me being born at a 1555 02:09:39.319 --> 02:09:43.359 certain point in the day or at the like, like, there's a lot 1556 02:09:45.039 --> 02:09:48.640 yeah like that that factors into it. It's not just the oh, well 1557 02:09:48.720 --> 02:09:52.800 you're a Gemini so this it's like no, like you got your son's sign 1558 02:09:52.880 --> 02:09:54.960 and like and all of this other kind of shit that factors into it. 1559 02:09:56.159 --> 02:10:00.359 So but if you don't you know, really follow zodiacs, then you don't 1560 02:10:00.399 --> 02:10:03.520 know that and you just hear oh man scorpios, y'all think we all this, 1561 02:10:03.279 --> 02:10:07.119 No, it really depends. Show me a birth chart, nigga. 1562 02:10:07.319 --> 02:10:09.840 Don't just tell me your sign. I want to see your full birth nigga, 1563 02:10:09.880 --> 02:10:13.279 What time was you born? Because your moaning your rise and make a 1564 02:10:13.319 --> 02:10:20.960 big difference on the type of you know what you We gotta stop that too. 1565 02:10:22.760 --> 02:10:26.239 Now when you get talk to me on some Johnny A ship like that, 1566 02:10:26.520 --> 02:10:30.840 cool because it sounds like you understand what the fuck be going on with 1567 02:10:30.960 --> 02:10:33.600 the moon and the stars. But if you just be like, well, 1568 02:10:33.640 --> 02:10:39.520 what's y'all sign cancer. Yeah, see they don't know. Sometimes we got 1569 02:10:39.720 --> 02:10:43.840 cry before we tell this ship like that, because if I don't cry and 1570 02:10:43.960 --> 02:10:46.960 I let this anchor out in another way, I'm going to jail and I 1571 02:10:46.079 --> 02:10:50.800 just don't have I might not have the bail money that week. Like we 1572 02:10:52.000 --> 02:10:54.960 got such great people, but soon as you say cancer, they were like, 1573 02:10:54.199 --> 02:10:58.680 y'all cry babies. But I mean, well, people look at geminis 1574 02:10:58.720 --> 02:11:03.520 and say we two faced. And the reason why they think that we're two 1575 02:11:03.560 --> 02:11:07.359 faces because we operate in a duality. So I can look at things from 1576 02:11:07.800 --> 02:11:11.720 multiple angles. So say I'm sitting right here, I'm literally in the middle 1577 02:11:11.840 --> 02:11:18.960 of YouTube. You can tell me your perspective. You can tell me your 1578 02:11:18.039 --> 02:11:22.720 perspective, and I can agree with both of them because I understand why you 1579 02:11:22.920 --> 02:11:26.039 feel the way that you feel through your lens, just like I can understand. 1580 02:11:26.560 --> 02:11:30.840 I don't have to feel like something is right or wrong in order to 1581 02:11:31.039 --> 02:11:35.399 understand it, because if I'm looking. This is the example I like to 1582 02:11:35.520 --> 02:11:43.159 use. So if I'm covering this eye, everything on this side completely blacked 1583 02:11:43.199 --> 02:11:46.800 out. Same thing. If I switch it over here, uncover both my 1584 02:11:46.880 --> 02:11:50.720 eyes. Now I can see the full picture of my perspective changes based on 1585 02:11:50.840 --> 02:12:05.279 which eyes are covered, so that was accurate, though it was not. 1586 02:12:07.600 --> 02:12:11.279 I'm only half to you all the way blind, like we take your glasses 1587 02:12:11.279 --> 02:12:20.279 off, you just gone gang gang, Gang Gang. I burned all this 1588 02:12:20.359 --> 02:12:24.600 ship down with tears in my eyes, I promise like a old girl on 1589 02:12:24.920 --> 02:12:28.039 uh oh, what's the one with? I don't know. I feel like 1590 02:12:28.079 --> 02:12:31.079 you're lying, well, he said. I am not a cry baby, 1591 02:12:31.159 --> 02:12:33.880 but I will tell you how I feel and how you're making me feel. 1592 02:12:35.159 --> 02:12:37.520 I can also understand and empathize with how you feel, especially when you tell 1593 02:12:37.560 --> 02:12:41.880 me I don't know. I don't think so, because I've heard ship Tommy 1594 02:12:41.920 --> 02:12:45.800 has said, and it sounds like he shuts people down, like he don't 1595 02:12:45.800 --> 02:12:48.720 want to deal with people talking about how they feel. Because we we've had 1596 02:12:48.800 --> 02:12:58.199 conversations in here now sound accurate. I can see how being over I'm looking 1597 02:12:58.239 --> 02:13:03.399 for the need being over communicator. I see somebody look at that. You'd 1598 02:13:03.439 --> 02:13:07.720 be like, why you bitching? But I'm not bitching. I need to 1599 02:13:07.800 --> 02:13:11.199 tell you how I feel or you're never gonna get it like, because if 1600 02:13:11.239 --> 02:13:13.960 I don't get it out when it should come out, then I'm gonna shut 1601 02:13:13.000 --> 02:13:18.359 down I'm not. I also feel like people like to categorize shit is bitching 1602 02:13:18.520 --> 02:13:22.920 when they don't make corrections to the behavior. So of course, if I 1603 02:13:22.000 --> 02:13:24.520 have to say something to you more than one time, it's going to sound 1604 02:13:24.560 --> 02:13:28.479 like I am fucking bitching because I have to constantly tell you what needs to 1605 02:13:28.560 --> 02:13:31.640 be corrected and how you're treating me. But then when I just say, 1606 02:13:31.640 --> 02:13:35.720 okay, but you don't want to deuces, now, I'm a sudden. 1607 02:13:35.760 --> 02:13:37.880 I'm overreacting. You get mad when I correct it for you. I'm saying, 1608 02:13:37.920 --> 02:13:46.359 oh my god, don't hit me no more. Shut up, Oh 1609 02:13:46.439 --> 02:13:50.680 my god, why don't swing again? Tell me said I have no idea 1610 02:13:50.720 --> 02:13:52.960 what you mean? No, because I will sit next to you one day. 1611 02:13:52.960 --> 02:13:56.960 And I was like, I said, should fade timing on GP because 1612 02:13:56.960 --> 02:14:01.439 he sounds the sound real bait? That's not bash now, because that nigga 1613 02:14:01.720 --> 02:14:07.199 has it like he will express ship. But it's like motherfuckers don't want to 1614 02:14:07.239 --> 02:14:09.119 hear ship. Yah, y'all want to tell the motherfucker on the f n 1615 02:14:09.159 --> 02:14:11.159 J. But when it's time for a motherfucker to tell you, then you 1616 02:14:11.279 --> 02:14:13.640 don't want to deal with it until you want to deal with it. No, 1617 02:14:13.800 --> 02:14:20.680 motherfucker. This is my issue. I don't know. He just said. 1618 02:14:20.680 --> 02:14:22.119 I remember I started crying while arguing with this chick. I said, 1619 02:14:22.119 --> 02:14:30.239 I'm crying because I'm about to hurt her. My voice, my voice get 1620 02:14:30.279 --> 02:14:37.560 the quiver. Yeah, you better run like a mug because if my voice 1621 02:14:37.640 --> 02:14:39.960 get the quivering. And he said, okay, okay, that may be 1622 02:14:41.039 --> 02:14:43.159 true. Yeah I know because I because I I remember you was talking. 1623 02:14:43.199 --> 02:14:46.600 I was just looking. I said, R should just socked this nigga for 1624 02:14:46.720 --> 02:14:52.039 sounding so much like it. You you almost caught a third party fade. 1625 02:14:52.119 --> 02:15:00.960 Bro, you ain't even do it to me. You hating, but you're 1626 02:15:01.000 --> 02:15:07.840 not living in it. No, he hate that one person. Oh. 1627 02:15:07.920 --> 02:15:13.680 We actually just celebrated uh our five year anniversary last year. We did mushrooms 1628 02:15:13.720 --> 02:15:18.479 on airy. Yeah. I think you're talking about how long the show go 1629 02:15:18.359 --> 02:15:22.319 the episode? Oh? I thought she was talking about like how long we've 1630 02:15:22.319 --> 02:15:24.840 been doing it. Oh, you're talking about overall? Okay, because I 1631 02:15:26.000 --> 02:15:28.560 was with that's what I was reading, because i'd have been crazy. She's 1632 02:15:28.600 --> 02:15:31.720 like, yeah, how long did this goes like that? Five years? 1633 02:15:33.600 --> 02:15:39.840 No, I gotta get come outside. Well no, it's just even just 1634 02:15:39.960 --> 02:15:43.359 scrolling like it's hard to focus and watch you know, a lot of the 1635 02:15:43.479 --> 02:15:48.960 podcast because Aiden Aiden takes up a lot of my uh my attention and stuff. 1636 02:15:50.000 --> 02:15:52.840 So I'm just like, damn, like, y'all be lit on this 1637 02:15:54.000 --> 02:15:56.000 show, like I might have to start trying to tune in and and and 1638 02:15:56.119 --> 02:16:01.000 it's funny because it's like caught a lot of shows don't give me, oh 1639 02:16:01.159 --> 02:16:03.520 no, I listen, this is this is my ship, and I don't 1640 02:16:03.560 --> 02:16:09.800 go back and listen like that's how a lot a lot a lot of fuck 1641 02:16:09.880 --> 02:16:13.359 ups that would happen. Tone was like sliding with it because I wasn't going 1642 02:16:13.439 --> 02:16:18.279 back to do quality checks, and listeners would have to tell me I still 1643 02:16:18.359 --> 02:16:24.239 listen to No, it wasn't a random phrase me talking about how that ship 1644 02:16:24.239 --> 02:16:28.560 would come the mask because I wasn't going back to listen to the episodes for 1645 02:16:28.640 --> 02:16:33.840 like quality check, like because my attention span is asked so the way that 1646 02:16:35.079 --> 02:16:39.200 we do it now. Because and and that's why I don't listen to podcasts. 1647 02:16:39.479 --> 02:16:41.440 It's not because I don't feel like, you know, somebody's interesting. 1648 02:16:41.520 --> 02:16:45.319 I'm like, oh, ain't nobody podcasts look like mine? No, what 1649 02:16:45.479 --> 02:16:50.920 it is is I like to engage. So the structure of how we do 1650 02:16:50.079 --> 02:16:52.920 my pot now, you see, we we put comments on the screen, 1651 02:16:52.959 --> 02:16:56.760 we talking back, and we engaging with people. That's how I'm able to 1652 02:16:58.399 --> 02:17:01.280 do this and be cool with it. It's like time is going and it 1653 02:17:01.319 --> 02:17:05.120 don't like because it don't seem like we've been sitting here in no two hours 1654 02:17:05.440 --> 02:17:09.280 because it's a full conversation. Everybody's engaging and I actually talk to my listeners. 1655 02:17:09.479 --> 02:17:16.440 So I a podcast, a talk show. She's a late night talk 1656 02:17:16.520 --> 02:17:24.399 show. I've been I've been bothering about, like bring so let me get 1657 02:17:24.479 --> 02:17:26.959 up. Let me get an unair public opinion right quick. Though. What 1658 02:17:26.040 --> 02:17:31.159 do you think about me coming back and doing an erotic poetry show? Though? 1659 02:17:33.120 --> 02:17:37.840 Yeah, because I think that'll be like a good blend sometime. You 1660 02:17:37.920 --> 02:17:41.559 know what I mean, and you know what and listen even if you feel 1661 02:17:41.639 --> 02:17:46.120 like you know what damn, Even if you feel like to know what damn, 1662 02:17:46.159 --> 02:17:48.600 that's a little bit of pressure. I don't I don't want to commit 1663 02:17:48.719 --> 02:17:52.040 to, like, you know, doing like a full show, even if 1664 02:17:52.079 --> 02:17:54.879 you want to just record blue ship and I slide you into the segment and 1665 02:17:56.120 --> 02:18:00.120 I'll do that with no fucking problem at all. So look, whatever you 1666 02:18:00.159 --> 02:18:05.920 want to do. We need Dea on the waves. We need Dia back. 1667 02:18:07.520 --> 02:18:09.559 So that's that's I was so excited when I saw her yesterday. I'm 1668 02:18:09.639 --> 02:18:15.559 like, look us puzzle, yep, and I saw you. If I 1669 02:18:15.719 --> 02:18:20.319 saw you tomorrow, i'd have been too late, you know. She was 1670 02:18:20.399 --> 02:18:24.159 like, when you'll I was like tomorrow. On Sunday, she was like, 1671 02:18:24.239 --> 02:18:30.000 I'm near because I was so lost to this. On my car, 1672 02:18:30.440 --> 02:18:31.879 she was like, I'm gonna see you. I'm in the same boat and 1673 02:18:33.159 --> 02:18:35.639 they had to come pick me up. I'm yeah, they don't even know 1674 02:18:35.719 --> 02:18:46.079 they're taking me home yet. I think we my ride was drunk so out 1675 02:18:46.120 --> 02:18:52.079 here sleeping right, I ain't gonna lie. I love Bradie like as a 1676 02:18:52.159 --> 02:19:00.479 home, but it's liquor tolerance, like dealing with your friends when they be 1677 02:19:00.680 --> 02:19:03.319 lit. It gives you your gauge on like just how I feel like I 1678 02:19:03.399 --> 02:19:09.200 would interact with other people when you hit a certain level. Because I felt 1679 02:19:09.200 --> 02:19:11.840 when we was upstairs, I felt like I wanted to punch you. So 1680 02:19:11.959 --> 02:19:16.079 I'm like, you was a nigga that I didn't know. This is a 1681 02:19:16.200 --> 02:19:18.040 full on fight because you irritated the ship out of me. Right now, 1682 02:19:18.520 --> 02:19:24.040 I don't drink. I irritate myself and he just want to have like this 1683 02:19:24.319 --> 02:19:28.840 deep philosophical conversation about why you like to smoke weed, bro, because I 1684 02:19:28.959 --> 02:19:33.319 smoke weed. Family, I've just gotten talking to me while you were intoxicated. 1685 02:19:33.360 --> 02:19:37.559 I ain't asking you why you like to hit the bottle I want to 1686 02:19:37.760 --> 02:19:39.799 say. I wasn't gonna say nothing. But there's another reason I like drinking 1687 02:19:39.840 --> 02:19:43.120 because I used to be one of them. Let me freestyle in your ear 1688 02:19:43.200 --> 02:19:54.680 at the club. Ask you don't wrap in my ear fan, that's Nicety 1689 02:19:56.159 --> 02:20:01.840 Week sixteen for you. Yeah, and don't let the DJ be playing like 1690 02:20:01.239 --> 02:20:05.600 a little bit of the instrumental before the song. Come on, I'm gone. 1691 02:20:05.799 --> 02:20:11.239 I'm yeah, no alcohol, We're gonna We're gonna step out back on 1692 02:20:11.319 --> 02:20:22.520 the patio for my drink. Well. Look, it's funny because I'm not 1693 02:20:22.639 --> 02:20:26.399 sure if we have any b m F watchers, but I was. I 1694 02:20:26.680 --> 02:20:33.680 was catching up on a couple of episodes and uh Sweetie was in one of 1695 02:20:33.719 --> 02:20:41.079 the episodes as a guest star, and I kept seeing people on my Facebook 1696 02:20:41.159 --> 02:20:43.920 news feed talking about Chris Brown. I was like, what the fuck you 1697 02:20:45.000 --> 02:20:46.360 do now? So I'm like, all right, so I pause it, 1698 02:20:46.760 --> 02:20:52.040 and it just so happens that I paused it on her like she was in 1699 02:20:52.120 --> 02:20:56.159 the scene. And then I go and I investigate on Twitter, because you 1700 02:20:56.200 --> 02:21:00.280 know, Twitter got all the answers. I'm not gonna sit here and ask 1701 02:21:00.360 --> 02:21:03.360 on Facebook like what's going on if it's something of some celebrity shit, because 1702 02:21:03.360 --> 02:21:05.559 I already know Twitter got all the teeth. So I head over there, 1703 02:21:05.840 --> 02:21:11.440 and Bro Chris Brown is cutting the fuck up. So we go go ahead 1704 02:21:11.479 --> 02:21:16.360 and play this little video first. What handles like? You got some players 1705 02:21:16.639 --> 02:21:22.680 so we can get into some yanks. Okay, Chris, I don't want 1706 02:21:22.680 --> 02:21:24.399 to know as brou I don't want no smoke, I don't want biting. 1707 02:21:24.479 --> 02:21:33.319 I don't want to do nothing brouh on smoking me, on smoking me, 1708 02:21:33.959 --> 02:21:41.159 on smoking me? Want to smoke with seed or on smoking me? Ony? 1709 02:21:41.680 --> 02:21:45.360 Okay, let's get down to the facts. Let's see I'm dripping red. 1710 02:21:45.600 --> 02:21:48.959 Don't let this one beat ship fool your niggas get ripped the shreds quay 1711 02:21:48.000 --> 02:21:50.959 Bo talking like here does nigga you a bitch with dread? They can't wait 1712 02:21:52.040 --> 02:21:54.239 to see today that you back of ball of that ship. You said, 1713 02:21:54.559 --> 02:21:56.479 what's all this bass ship? You talking. You ain't no honeo nigga to 1714 02:21:56.600 --> 02:22:00.520 the weakest SLINKs. Got it your quick Let's keep it a hone on you 1715 02:22:00.600 --> 02:22:01.879 fuck my ex hole, that's cool. I don't give them no fuck little 1716 02:22:01.959 --> 02:22:05.399 niggas because I fucked your ex when you were still with a bitch. I'm 1717 02:22:05.479 --> 02:22:09.000 up, little nigga. They say revenge is sweets. Now think about that 1718 02:22:09.120 --> 02:22:11.520 shit. Don't let that lie go over your head. I might just sing 1719 02:22:11.639 --> 02:22:13.559 about this ship. I had a feeling about that date. Just something sweet 1720 02:22:13.600 --> 02:22:16.120 about that ship. I got some tears about this set, but I ain't 1721 02:22:16.120 --> 02:22:20.479 gonna speak about that ship. I ain't playing chess with the CHECKI player. 1722 02:22:20.520 --> 02:22:22.959 I'm a chicken bone on the detonator. I shit on niggas. I'm a 1723 02:22:24.000 --> 02:22:26.479 deprecator. I'll put a meg on a ventilator. Stop talking about beating girls. 1724 02:22:26.520 --> 02:22:28.879 You was beating bitches on the elevator. We've seen the taste. That's 1725 02:22:28.920 --> 02:22:33.239 devastating you doing bad. You a bitch and your music trash. That should 1726 02:22:33.440 --> 02:22:35.000 they set me next to your laying mass. I was truly mad all I 1727 02:22:35.079 --> 02:22:39.040 kept thinking I was breaking your face, but I gave you a passhit lucky. 1728 02:22:39.079 --> 02:22:39.799 I ain't want to fuck the money up, boy, I would have 1729 02:22:39.840 --> 02:22:43.840 broke you in half trying to be tough. You ain't like that white you 1730 02:22:43.000 --> 02:22:46.280 showing up witch talk about drugs. You the only pack that I been smoking 1731 02:22:46.319 --> 02:22:48.760 on. I just hit my plug, tell them come back. I'm gonna 1732 02:22:48.760 --> 02:22:52.079 need more than one. Your last album was a weed trade. That some 1733 02:22:52.159 --> 02:22:54.479 bullshit that we roll up on. You know what? So on put you 1734 02:22:54.559 --> 02:22:56.639 to bed night night. That's to the fed. Show me that I'm tender 1735 02:22:56.680 --> 02:23:00.479 bitch, trying to prove what you to say? Or peace? Take off? 1736 02:23:00.559 --> 02:23:03.200 He the only rail one that got your respect. Crazy how when he 1737 02:23:03.319 --> 02:23:07.200 died everybody really wished it was you instead. You tripper Chris, don't say 1738 02:23:07.280 --> 02:23:09.639 that. Don't lose your head. You just turn the big bad woof. 1739 02:23:09.639 --> 02:23:11.879 When these fuck niggas never knew revenge. It happens when a fuck nigga puts 1740 02:23:11.879 --> 02:23:15.879 a real nigga out to the edge. It happens when a dumb nigga gets 1741 02:23:15.879 --> 02:23:18.639 fame and to get to his head. You gonna catch this ring niggas. 1742 02:23:18.680 --> 02:23:20.719 Big fuck you from my middle finger. I tattoo my trigger fingers. Bring 1743 02:23:20.840 --> 02:23:24.840 real beef to your genterator. My mental state ain't never stayed Oh I know 1744 02:23:24.920 --> 02:23:26.479 this ship gonna sing nigga, I ran your ass through the ring a nigga. 1745 02:23:26.520 --> 02:23:31.840 You just got body by singing nigga on smoking me, on smoking me, 1746 02:23:31.479 --> 02:23:37.639 on smoking me, I want to smoke with see or I wanna smoking 1747 02:23:37.760 --> 02:23:45.280 me? Or Hey Tommy, he said, bring real beef to your dinner 1748 02:23:45.360 --> 02:23:50.319 table on. All I thought was, I just want to know where he 1749 02:23:50.440 --> 02:23:56.479 got that picture of him with that glizzy in his mouth? How what screen? 1750 02:23:56.559 --> 02:23:58.920 I mean, think about it, Chris Brown, what are you doing 1751 02:24:00.040 --> 02:24:07.639 with that? Oh? The internet is under its under on it there no 1752 02:24:07.760 --> 02:24:13.120 matter what you delete, somebody kept the files. I mean, I've heard 1753 02:24:13.200 --> 02:24:18.799 Chris Brown like rap before, but I think in the height of of of 1754 02:24:20.000 --> 02:24:24.680 the hip hop competitions that have been going on with the Big Three and all 1755 02:24:24.760 --> 02:24:28.879 of that, I think that added a little razzle dazzle because real Chris Brown 1756 02:24:30.000 --> 02:24:35.079 fans know that he can rap. Yeah, Yeah, we knew and I 1757 02:24:35.120 --> 02:24:37.399 don't even know. Yeah, And I don't know why every well, I 1758 02:24:37.479 --> 02:24:41.600 don't know why. I was surprised because when I listen, I had to 1759 02:24:41.680 --> 02:24:46.360 listen to it three times. I think it wasn't a surprise of him being 1760 02:24:46.440 --> 02:24:50.280 able to wrap. I think it was the content of it. Yeah, 1761 02:24:50.799 --> 02:24:54.559 it was a like bro was like because because they've had b for a while. 1762 02:24:54.719 --> 02:24:58.200 So I think he just got caught up in the spirit of just battling 1763 02:24:58.280 --> 02:25:03.520 on wax because why not. I don't I don't think it's wax though, 1764 02:25:03.639 --> 02:25:07.680 Like I feel like if he was like like a safe way he beat dog 1765 02:25:07.760 --> 02:25:15.280 guys. I mean, because when when did Quevo say put out like the 1766 02:25:15.399 --> 02:25:18.879 disc like the ship calling Chris Brown tender? When was that? Was that 1767 02:25:18.079 --> 02:25:24.920 more recently? Yeah? Okay, so then that's because he said something about, 1768 02:25:24.159 --> 02:25:26.920 you know, show me tender nigga, Like, because I saw that 1769 02:25:28.120 --> 02:25:33.239 Quevo he did have something basketball was Chris Brown associated with it? Was? 1770 02:25:33.840 --> 02:25:37.159 I got I got that video to two years in the row he was talking 1771 02:25:37.239 --> 02:25:39.360 ship. So I mean, this has been going on for a while. 1772 02:25:39.399 --> 02:25:43.879 But you know what, if you think about it, it's really good promotional 1773 02:25:43.399 --> 02:25:48.159 tactic because one everybody's thirsty for a good rat beef right now and he's about 1774 02:25:48.200 --> 02:25:54.879 to go on tour. That was actually perfect time. That was perfect. 1775 02:25:54.040 --> 02:25:58.399 I feel like Chris Brown the only real beef. Like I feel I feel 1776 02:25:58.440 --> 02:26:03.399 like Chris Brown he should have picked on somebody's own side. I Chris Brown. 1777 02:26:05.120 --> 02:26:11.280 Oh yeah, listen, but look, I have seen this opinion so 1778 02:26:11.399 --> 02:26:13.280 many times and I believe they said. And it's crazy how out of all 1779 02:26:13.360 --> 02:26:16.760 of this ship, Chris the only nigga who I feel like go swinging this 1780 02:26:16.799 --> 02:26:24.159 ship? Absolutely? Uh, just so he said, dog begging Chris not 1781 02:26:24.280 --> 02:26:28.479 to put the paws on him is nasty work. Why he thinks leaving that 1782 02:26:28.600 --> 02:26:31.600 message was gonna fly? Which is funny because like I said, back when, 1783 02:26:31.879 --> 02:26:37.000 uh, I had issues with the bitch Ironita, with the two baby 1784 02:26:37.079 --> 02:26:43.239 daddies, with the the twins, she was in my inbox like, I 1785 02:26:43.319 --> 02:26:46.680 don't even think we should be beefing. We got the same birthday, birthday, 1786 02:26:46.719 --> 02:26:50.000 we geminized. We can't be like that, bitch. I'm smashing your 1787 02:26:50.000 --> 02:26:56.719 ship when I see them my inbox with that ship. No, because it's 1788 02:26:56.799 --> 02:26:58.399 just it ain't no coming back from the ship. She was saying, you 1789 02:26:58.520 --> 02:27:01.959 gotta you gotta see me. So at this point one of them niggas got 1790 02:27:03.040 --> 02:27:07.959 to see each other. And then peoples like, well, uh but that's 1791 02:27:07.000 --> 02:27:11.079 weak because why why Chris wouldn't fight him at the thing when he sat next 1792 02:27:11.079 --> 02:27:11.959 to him, He's like, bro, he told you like he ain't want 1793 02:27:13.000 --> 02:27:16.399 to fuck up his bad that's your problem now, like that, that's your 1794 02:27:16.520 --> 02:27:22.000 problem now, nigga. You remember when Dave Chappelle had to when Keeping the 1795 02:27:22.079 --> 02:27:26.000 Real goes wrong. That was the epitome of that them comments right there. 1796 02:27:26.680 --> 02:27:31.360 It's like it's like when you see like gang members kill each other, they 1797 02:27:31.479 --> 02:27:35.440 be like, oh my god, we need to stop the violence. Dott 1798 02:27:35.559 --> 02:27:37.479 die Yo, Dirk, why you ain't slide for vine? You just said 1799 02:27:37.680 --> 02:27:41.719 we should stop killing people. Then you was like, why you ain't gonna 1800 02:27:41.719 --> 02:27:43.639 get your get back? They killed your brother? Yeah, y'all niggas are 1801 02:27:43.639 --> 02:27:48.879 stupid. Or it's like when when niggas make it like Bro, you are 1802 02:27:50.040 --> 02:27:52.799 out of the hood. You don't have to do this shit anymore. You 1803 02:27:52.840 --> 02:27:56.319 don't even have to go back and fucking visit that place. You can do 1804 02:27:56.520 --> 02:28:00.319 like a conference call or a zoom or some shit, and like bro, 1805 02:28:00.520 --> 02:28:03.360 pay a local restaurant to get one of them inflatable movie screens and do a 1806 02:28:03.440 --> 02:28:07.760 zoom call and say what's up to the hood. Since the cent of money, 1807 02:28:07.879 --> 02:28:09.479 order for some free hot dogs and chips and ship for the kids. 1808 02:28:11.440 --> 02:28:15.399 You do not have to go back there. But niggas want to prove that 1809 02:28:15.520 --> 02:28:18.200 they still got that dog in them even after they make and then what happened. 1810 02:28:18.479 --> 02:28:22.399 Niggas get popped off and everybody be like, oh man, niggas just 1811 02:28:22.479 --> 02:28:26.920 be hating, Like bro, that nigga was still actively dealing drugs and committing 1812 02:28:26.000 --> 02:28:35.879 murders as a celebrity. Why are you surprised? Look at this like this 1813 02:28:35.040 --> 02:28:39.600 old wire sess like, Bro, you made it and you was out here 1814 02:28:39.840 --> 02:28:46.360 order organized or organizing murders and ship like, Bro, you didn't have to. 1815 02:28:50.600 --> 02:28:56.440 Yeah, so I don't. I'm not even. I don't got no 1816 02:28:56.600 --> 02:29:00.239 times, nothing, I get famous, I'm never coming back. You just 1817 02:29:00.280 --> 02:29:03.399 said, imagine making breakfast and you catch a straight from a past relationship. 1818 02:29:05.239 --> 02:29:09.079 You just got body by seeking. Kayler said, Sweetie was minding her business 1819 02:29:09.120 --> 02:29:13.920 and called it straight. Let's talk about why niggas talk so damn much because 1820 02:29:13.959 --> 02:29:18.040 why she in it? Well, I mean, hey, you should have 1821 02:29:18.120 --> 02:29:22.000 not. You gotta know that when you fucking famous people and then they start 1822 02:29:22.040 --> 02:29:26.639 beefing, you're gonna be a casualty of war. Just it's all about who 1823 02:29:26.680 --> 02:29:31.479 gonna say it first, because it's there. There's no off limits. Look, 1824 02:29:31.520 --> 02:29:33.280 you fucked both of them, so somebody gotta mention it because at this 1825 02:29:33.399 --> 02:29:37.040 point, I feel like, like anybody I fuck with, like I gotta 1826 02:29:37.079 --> 02:29:39.040 write. I gotta write some bars about you just in case you go. 1827 02:29:39.159 --> 02:29:46.120 So said a master writer that was like work. In my opinion, there's 1828 02:29:46.159 --> 02:29:48.680 no beef. I don't got no beef with you. But you know it's 1829 02:29:48.719 --> 02:29:54.079 fucked done. So you know you said a money order though you oh, 1830 02:29:54.280 --> 02:29:56.799 you can't get some cash to the man. Man, Yeah, you really 1831 02:29:56.879 --> 02:30:03.799 can't be no with me saying like paying, you know, send the money 1832 02:30:03.879 --> 02:30:05.280 order to pay for the kids lunch and ship. Yeah, man, I 1833 02:30:05.360 --> 02:30:09.520 need to actual withdrawal. I need this as a tax, right right. 1834 02:30:09.600 --> 02:30:13.079 You can't send them through cash app. They trace back to your account. 1835 02:30:13.680 --> 02:30:18.719 Chris Brown, You're the only one that can take Drake down. Why they 1836 02:30:18.840 --> 02:30:24.040 on the same side. They've already squashed the beef. Chris Brown's the only 1837 02:30:24.079 --> 02:30:28.000 one that can take Drake down because he's the only one that like Drake might 1838 02:30:28.079 --> 02:30:31.319 actually fear Chris Brown because again, Chris Brown too powder, so he might 1839 02:30:31.840 --> 02:30:35.639 like actually chuck the ship out of Drake. Everybody else is playing the ain't 1840 02:30:35.639 --> 02:30:39.520 not gonna touch the white boy time said these niggas holds. I don't talk 1841 02:30:39.559 --> 02:30:41.760 about who I'm fucking It ain't nobody business. I ain't asking no nigga who 1842 02:30:41.799 --> 02:30:50.600 he fucking. Yeah, that ship is is definitely crazy, So I'm curious 1843 02:30:50.680 --> 02:30:58.440 to see where the fuck this is going. Yeah, jail the way these 1844 02:30:58.079 --> 02:31:07.959 go. Now this is this is unrelated, but it was just fucking hilarious 1845 02:31:07.040 --> 02:31:13.239 to me because this is not the first time we've had a story similar to 1846 02:31:13.360 --> 02:31:20.000 this or hostually awkward opening up your marriage so you can around then get mad 1847 02:31:20.040 --> 02:31:26.600 because your wife is getting slammed while you severely overestimate your market value. AMANDAM 1848 02:31:26.879 --> 02:31:33.159 thinks so selfishly when they free up the open relationship relationship because there's there's just 1849 02:31:33.319 --> 02:31:35.879 not a reality where it works for me. Yeah, facts, it will 1850 02:31:35.920 --> 02:31:41.920 turn into a shanking match, bro, because she will twist the tables on 1851 02:31:43.079 --> 02:31:46.920 me. Is this what you want it? This is your idea? I 1852 02:31:46.079 --> 02:31:50.040 haven't sucked at all. My dam has been quiet since since I've said this 1853 02:31:50.159 --> 02:31:54.360 out loud that God says yes. Since he said yes, nothing's been fruitful. 1854 02:31:56.639 --> 02:32:01.760 Nothing's been fruitful. I don't want you out in the close the whole 1855 02:32:01.840 --> 02:32:09.239 relationship like you was trying to get all the bitches and now she getting all 1856 02:32:09.319 --> 02:32:11.479 the penis and and that that was so funny to me because I'm like, 1857 02:32:11.680 --> 02:32:15.639 I don't think like they said, they don't think that a lot of dudes 1858 02:32:15.719 --> 02:32:20.520 think about that portion. And then it's like, well, now your wife 1859 02:32:20.600 --> 02:32:24.079 got all the motion, but none of these bitches want you. So then 1860 02:32:24.559 --> 02:32:26.799 it begs the question when you're like, all right, I want the relationship 1861 02:32:26.879 --> 02:32:31.879 closes now. Now what if she's like, damn, ain't no bitches want 1862 02:32:31.959 --> 02:32:33.319 you now? I got a question why I want you. I don't think 1863 02:32:33.360 --> 02:32:37.639 I want you now because if you're not desirable to nobody but me, then 1864 02:32:37.719 --> 02:32:39.319 that's the problem. I ain't gonna lie. I used to say that all 1865 02:32:39.360 --> 02:32:45.399 the time, like, dude, you open it up. Don't don't let 1866 02:32:45.479 --> 02:32:48.440 me be kissed off. That's the first thing, Like, man, I 1867 02:32:48.120 --> 02:32:54.920 boosted your bitch right, and you know many motherfuckers what come on? Because 1868 02:32:56.040 --> 02:33:03.280 I'd be bad and no better as a man. Do you know what kind 1869 02:33:03.319 --> 02:33:05.799 of blow that is your ego? Where your girl be like, I'm the 1870 02:33:05.879 --> 02:33:09.639 reason you get bitches when nobody looking at you before I was looking at your 1871 02:33:09.760 --> 02:33:15.319 ugly as I think Meg has actually said that in one of her songs, 1872 02:33:15.440 --> 02:33:18.120 but it's actually true, though I think Meg said, Okay, when a 1873 02:33:18.200 --> 02:33:22.000 nigga is single and taking just doing for himself, there's a lot of ship 1874 02:33:22.200 --> 02:33:26.360 you don't give a fuck about. But the minute you get a woman, 1875 02:33:26.920 --> 02:33:30.559 she cares about how you look, how you dress, what you got on, 1876 02:33:30.799 --> 02:33:33.360 what you smell good. Basically, a woman will give a man everything 1877 02:33:33.479 --> 02:33:37.760 he needs to make other bitches appreciate him and let me, let me, 1878 02:33:37.920 --> 02:33:43.319 let me take it one step further like that you're a representation of her. 1879 02:33:43.559 --> 02:33:46.719 But I'm gonna take it one stand further though. It ain't even just intimate 1880 02:33:46.840 --> 02:33:54.959 relationships. My older brother when I was younger, Oh the bitch magnet. 1881 02:33:54.159 --> 02:33:58.719 He'll ma Mama do my hair in the morning. He'll take that ship down. 1882 02:33:58.120 --> 02:34:03.000 And then that's how you know, some little girl he likes, could 1883 02:34:03.040 --> 02:34:07.559 you do my sister hair? And now that's like time for him to try 1884 02:34:07.600 --> 02:34:13.399 to pull some charm out older cousins. You know what I'm saying. They 1885 02:34:13.040 --> 02:34:22.639 Tupac said it best listen the cute friends around you know, Yeah, someone 1886 02:34:22.760 --> 02:34:28.200 don't open your relationship. If you get two bitches, close the doors immediately. 1887 02:34:31.520 --> 02:34:33.079 You're gonna rub them together, You're gonna put them in separate rooms. 1888 02:34:37.319 --> 02:34:39.440 He gonna get a customer, but it's just one room, nobody else. 1889 02:34:41.479 --> 02:34:45.200 And then it's like, I think that's good for a cancer to have two 1890 02:34:45.319 --> 02:34:52.639 to rub two bitches together, because the way can well yeah that's but the 1891 02:34:52.959 --> 02:34:56.360 but the way cancers are set up. At some point you're gonna wonder do 1892 02:34:56.479 --> 02:35:05.840 they like rubbing each other together better than rubbing you? She just helped me. 1893 02:35:05.000 --> 02:35:09.719 See see how a woman just made you better. I'm just I'm just 1894 02:35:11.200 --> 02:35:16.440 I'm just fast forward. But we know everything like that in my in my 1895 02:35:16.520 --> 02:35:18.159 every day. You're gonna be at work like I bet you. But then 1896 02:35:18.159 --> 02:35:24.120 it's like, okay, on social media you are ship. You're not a 1897 02:35:24.200 --> 02:35:28.319 true piece of ship on social media. I just you a true piece of 1898 02:35:31.040 --> 02:35:37.319 brother more and more. But you speaking from a truthful place with a little 1899 02:35:37.360 --> 02:35:43.360 hot this is truth in every joke. But I feel like this. But 1900 02:35:43.600 --> 02:35:48.520 when you look at it, it's like people aren't used to really seeing you 1901 02:35:48.840 --> 02:35:52.120 in a relationship, right, So not seeing you in a relationship, they 1902 02:35:52.159 --> 02:35:56.840 don't really see how you operate while you were with somebody. So they they 1903 02:35:56.920 --> 02:36:00.840 see the ship that you talk all the time, but they don't see how 1904 02:36:00.959 --> 02:36:03.440 caring you are, how compassionate, you are to take care of who you're 1905 02:36:03.479 --> 02:36:07.799 with. They don't see those things, but then you have a woman now 1906 02:36:07.040 --> 02:36:11.479 and they see those things now. But shit, I want that and and 1907 02:36:13.200 --> 02:36:15.879 and I feel like that was kind of that was kind of like another thing 1908 02:36:16.079 --> 02:36:18.680 like with the chick that was like at the strip club and shit, like 1909 02:36:20.079 --> 02:36:22.600 she kept commenting on I love how he is with you, Like he's paying 1910 02:36:22.639 --> 02:36:26.600 attention, like he protective, he not, you know, letting this and 1911 02:36:26.639 --> 02:36:28.159 he not. Like she kept naming all of these things, and it's like 1912 02:36:30.200 --> 02:36:33.799 that's how women are. I wasn't worried about it, but it's still like 1913 02:36:33.520 --> 02:36:37.079 they do. They see those kind of things and they're like, I want 1914 02:36:37.200 --> 02:36:41.799 that. I see him doing that, you know, for her. I 1915 02:36:41.920 --> 02:36:46.399 want him to do that for me instead of trying to find a guy who 1916 02:36:46.719 --> 02:36:48.920 I don't know if he knows how to do those things. I see he 1917 02:36:50.040 --> 02:36:52.920 knows how to do those things. Now I need to figure out how to 1918 02:36:52.040 --> 02:36:54.559 get him to do those things for me. And that's why there's a lot 1919 02:36:54.600 --> 02:36:58.440 of women that are comfortable with be in side chicks. They just want you 1920 02:36:58.520 --> 02:37:01.719 to do those things for them, but keep all that over there. But 1921 02:37:01.840 --> 02:37:05.319 that brings the drama too, because when when a dude move on and get 1922 02:37:05.360 --> 02:37:09.799 to do and all the ship that you've been bitching at him to do, 1923 02:37:09.920 --> 02:37:15.799 and then it seemed like he's effortlessly doing that for somebody else, he ain't 1924 02:37:15.879 --> 02:37:20.799 lucky because I think I would I would have I would have pulled one of 1925 02:37:20.840 --> 02:37:24.799 these and I just would have hardened. Know what, what irritates me about 1926 02:37:24.840 --> 02:37:28.840 that? Well, this is only speaking out of doing a whole lot of 1927 02:37:28.879 --> 02:37:35.360 shadow work and shadow boxing, but uh, it irritates me because you know, 1928 02:37:35.760 --> 02:37:41.440 I had to deal with the possibility that I'm not the type of woman 1929 02:37:41.559 --> 02:37:46.079 that brought out those things I'm you know, I mean, that's that's when 1930 02:37:46.120 --> 02:37:50.600 you really deal with self. You gotta deal with some of that stuff because 1931 02:37:50.639 --> 02:37:54.360 it ain't always the other person fault. When you point the fingers, you 1932 02:37:54.440 --> 02:37:56.319 gotta look at the fingers point back at you. Or what if it's just 1933 02:37:56.399 --> 02:38:01.000 one of those things where it's like he's just as he finally grew into what 1934 02:38:01.680 --> 02:38:05.600 I knew he could be. He just wasn't that with me and me, 1935 02:38:05.680 --> 02:38:09.760 And when you watch him and his growth with the next person, you're like, 1936 02:38:09.959 --> 02:38:13.840 damn, you fuck asked, nigga, if only you would have just 1937 02:38:13.200 --> 02:38:16.920 it still got a lot to do with with some women to give the dude 1938 02:38:18.120 --> 02:38:22.479 all the game to make that that change and that growth sometimes, but also 1939 02:38:22.559 --> 02:38:28.360 at the same time, sometimes he couldn't change to be that person while with 1940 02:38:28.559 --> 02:38:31.479 you, Yeah, because there are things that you were doing that was making 1941 02:38:31.559 --> 02:38:33.639 him unhappy, which made him not even want to give you half of that. 1942 02:38:35.040 --> 02:38:37.840 So it's a fifty to fifty and it's accountability on both sides. In 1943 02:38:37.920 --> 02:38:41.959 regards to that, it's easier. He actually we got an episode about that, 1944 02:38:41.159 --> 02:38:45.520 like about me and Ken like when we were dating. It's called X 1945 02:38:45.600 --> 02:38:48.280 factors. So if you go back, you had to go back ways is 1946 02:38:48.319 --> 02:38:52.000 one of my bonus episodes. Always it's always easier for me to perform in 1947 02:38:52.040 --> 02:38:56.639 front of a lot of strangers than it is to perform in front of people 1948 02:38:56.719 --> 02:39:00.440 that I felt influence how I do poetry. And when I say that, 1949 02:39:00.600 --> 02:39:03.360 to say that when you're dealing with when you're dealing with when you're dealing with 1950 02:39:03.959 --> 02:39:09.239 a man sometimes and I mean when let's said that backwards, when a man 1951 02:39:09.360 --> 02:39:15.799 sometimes are learning from a woman, and he recognized that. Sometimes it's a 1952 02:39:15.879 --> 02:39:18.639 little hard, I think in my opinion because I ain't no, man, 1953 02:39:18.719 --> 02:39:22.520 but I think it. It's like, Okay, I don't want to perform 1954 02:39:22.559 --> 02:39:26.399 in front of the person that taught me how to do this, because you're 1955 02:39:26.479 --> 02:39:30.239 just gonna critique me on what I'm doing wrong. So let me go take 1956 02:39:30.280 --> 02:39:35.360 this newfound knowledge in this free game and see how another motherfucker respond to it 1957 02:39:35.959 --> 02:39:39.239 fresh out the box, you know what I'm saying. So I think that's 1958 02:39:39.280 --> 02:39:43.159 where a lot of that drifting off goes, because then if she gets there 1959 02:39:43.200 --> 02:39:48.000 appreciating that shit, it might not even be as polished or as well as 1960 02:39:48.079 --> 02:39:50.280 that other woman taught him to be. But if it's good enough to her, 1961 02:39:50.399 --> 02:39:56.280 oh I'm going where I'm impressive at because she's already she's already showed me 1962 02:39:56.360 --> 02:39:58.840 that I'm inadequate because now she's teaching me this shit, So I don't feel 1963 02:39:58.879 --> 02:40:03.799 it pressive around her. Let me go take this ship and be impressive in 1964 02:40:03.879 --> 02:40:13.399 front of somebody else, little bit. I don't disagree. Yeah, and 1965 02:40:13.639 --> 02:40:16.840 and and that's absolutely true. And it's like it's it's just weird because it's 1966 02:40:16.920 --> 02:40:26.000 like you have the same type of situation that can produce so many different outcomes 1967 02:40:26.639 --> 02:40:31.040 based on the people who were involved in that scenario. See, I was 1968 02:40:31.120 --> 02:40:35.120 lucky. My baby daddy wasn't ship for all of us, but we all 1969 02:40:35.239 --> 02:40:39.000 cool so it worked. Yeah, And I ain't talking about baby Mama's I'm 1970 02:40:39.000 --> 02:40:43.559 talking about the women that he dealt with outside of me. It's weird, 1971 02:40:43.280 --> 02:40:46.600 except for the last one. I'm cool with every last one of em, 1972 02:40:46.600 --> 02:40:52.120 except for the last one. Because she thought she would difficult. Oh no, 1973 02:40:52.200 --> 02:40:54.920 I had already tapped out by the time she came to the picture. 1974 02:40:56.159 --> 02:40:58.399 It was a lot of giving a fuck on my part that made those others 1975 02:40:58.479 --> 02:41:03.319 my girl on my side. Bitches cannot be okay with each other at any 1976 02:41:03.399 --> 02:41:07.000 point in life. Future said he had his baby mama inside bitch kissed himself. 1977 02:41:07.799 --> 02:41:11.920 And when I had that king, when I had that's not my king, 1978 02:41:11.559 --> 02:41:18.239 when I had missing dress, okay, and they blind and he don't 1979 02:41:18.280 --> 02:41:22.399 even know what he don't know what year it is. I'm almost sure he 1980 02:41:22.600 --> 02:41:24.639 don't know what to day is. That's because he was ahead of his time. 1981 02:41:24.680 --> 02:41:30.520 You know. Somebody said in this whole Drake Beef ship, they said, 1982 02:41:30.559 --> 02:41:33.040 bro a little probably don't even know what's going on. That niggas a 1983 02:41:33.360 --> 02:41:39.159 highest skateboarder I had, do you do you know, Drake is into it. 1984 02:41:39.799 --> 02:41:45.079 He'd be like, what who have future? Future? We just didn't 1985 02:41:45.959 --> 02:41:54.440 yeah somewhere Bro when he realized that he didn't know his own lyric, whin 1986 02:41:54.559 --> 02:41:56.680 a run out of words, he can't respond, you know, ain't else 1987 02:41:56.760 --> 02:42:01.319 fantasy. That might have been the funniest video I've ever seen, Like these 1988 02:42:01.399 --> 02:42:07.000 niggas sitting in the studio and he's doing an interview and Bro starts rapping legs 1989 02:42:07.120 --> 02:42:09.879 and Wayne like he Bob was like that shit, nice one said that, 1990 02:42:09.120 --> 02:42:11.360 and dude looking it was like, you said that? He said, I 1991 02:42:11.520 --> 02:42:16.040 said that. That's so funny because I was just gonna I was, I 1992 02:42:16.200 --> 02:42:18.959 swear I was just gonna ask, like, I wonder if, as a 1993 02:42:18.079 --> 02:42:24.639 person who doesn't write ship down, if he ever says ship and think it's 1994 02:42:24.959 --> 02:42:26.479 him saying it for the first time, like damn this ship fire, not 1995 02:42:26.639 --> 02:42:31.760 realizing that that's some ship that he said before. Is that what happened at 1996 02:42:31.799 --> 02:42:37.159 WrestleMania the like when he was doing Millie, he really thought he was going 1997 02:42:37.280 --> 02:42:41.559 to start some new ship and then halfway through his like first few bars, 1998 02:42:41.600 --> 02:42:45.760 he was like, oh, this old and just stop, which is why 1999 02:42:45.879 --> 02:42:48.360 we got that cad of I feel like they played the wrong song. He 2000 02:42:48.479 --> 02:42:52.440 went out there expecting this mother ship and they was like what this got? 2001 02:42:52.719 --> 02:42:58.600 His music didn't come in time for his new song. His sample didn't clear. 2002 02:43:00.000 --> 02:43:05.000 I'm annoyed that Facebook won't let us like have certain music in our background. 2003 02:43:05.040 --> 02:43:11.799 But fad I try to be cool to Yeah no, these a and 2004 02:43:11.879 --> 02:43:18.239 these weren't even bms. These are just like miss llaneyous chicks that were just 2005 02:43:18.760 --> 02:43:24.040 giving roles. Would you want to be cool with your boyfriends like female friends? 2006 02:43:26.239 --> 02:43:31.719 Would I want to be cool? I mean cool like her? My 2007 02:43:31.799 --> 02:43:37.399 trust issues definition of cool cool, I'm saying you mean like like cool with 2008 02:43:39.079 --> 02:43:41.959 say, we we've been together for about six months and he's still making female 2009 02:43:43.040 --> 02:43:46.600 friends or you mean the ones that they sisters, and they called sisters and 2010 02:43:48.239 --> 02:43:54.280 ship understanding that everyone has a life before you. These are true to the 2011 02:43:54.639 --> 02:43:58.959 true to the heart plutonic friends. So if he's saying I go today, 2012 02:44:00.040 --> 02:44:03.239 even busters you coming, And then when you say who are gonna be there? 2013 02:44:03.680 --> 02:44:07.000 He named two of the homeboys, But then it's them to plutiny friends 2014 02:44:07.239 --> 02:44:11.559 and we all just ain't here. If I'm already made and I already know 2015 02:44:11.719 --> 02:44:16.040 them, so you start naming broad's ain't I ain't never heard of before? 2016 02:44:16.479 --> 02:44:20.200 You've heard of these people? Yeah? Yeah? I mean then yeah, 2017 02:44:20.479 --> 02:44:22.239 because I know how some women could be. They don't want to be friends 2018 02:44:22.280 --> 02:44:26.479 with everybody, and then when they come around and make sure it's awkward and 2019 02:44:26.559 --> 02:44:33.440 stupid, because that's if you don't like the friends of the opposite sex. 2020 02:44:33.559 --> 02:44:35.559 But I read the room, though, so you know, I'm gonna know. 2021 02:44:35.799 --> 02:44:41.520 I'm gonna know what's really going on with this quote unquote friend. And 2022 02:44:41.559 --> 02:44:46.399 the only way here with just you don't trust that that's a friend, you 2023 02:44:46.559 --> 02:44:52.040 know, men and women? Yeah, absolutely, because most of I don't 2024 02:44:52.040 --> 02:44:54.360 have too many female friends, so a dude would have to come into a 2025 02:44:54.440 --> 02:45:03.559 situation with me kind of being cool with like, you know, yeah, 2026 02:45:03.799 --> 02:45:09.040 my problem has been but a lot of my male friends because I have I've 2027 02:45:09.200 --> 02:45:16.120 always primarily had male friends. I don't know what it is about me that 2028 02:45:16.600 --> 02:45:22.520 makes certain women feel like I am a potential problem for their man, and 2029 02:45:22.639 --> 02:45:26.079 I be offended because I'll be like, bitch, I be the one telling 2030 02:45:26.120 --> 02:45:31.239 that nigga to stop cheating on you. You need to be fucking thanking me, 2031 02:45:31.319 --> 02:45:33.879 bitch, give me a fucking edible arrangement or something, because like, 2032 02:45:35.600 --> 02:45:39.280 I know all the reasons why you shouldn't even want him, and you need 2033 02:45:39.399 --> 02:45:41.959 to do better. I don't want him. I don't want you to want 2034 02:45:43.040 --> 02:45:48.079 him. I just mind, girlfriends, you should do better. Nasty work 2035 02:45:48.159 --> 02:45:52.440 telling my woman, Look, you can do better. You really, I 2036 02:45:52.600 --> 02:46:01.200 know that's my cousin, that's my brother. But I've done it. I've 2037 02:46:01.239 --> 02:46:03.719 done it. I said, look, baby, take care of you with 2038 02:46:05.040 --> 02:46:09.120 like you you still fan regardless cause dog on that bullsh I don't condone it. 2039 02:46:09.000 --> 02:46:11.520 I'm not and I might not be so blunt, but I'm definitely gonna 2040 02:46:11.520 --> 02:46:15.639 talk a girl called like they get to calling me crying. I was like, 2041 02:46:15.719 --> 02:46:18.600 girl, you better find you something else to do. And if you 2042 02:46:18.680 --> 02:46:22.040 don't catch them vapors, then you know, yeah, because I've done I've 2043 02:46:22.079 --> 02:46:26.200 definitely done that to like with my homegirl, like because at this point, 2044 02:46:26.319 --> 02:46:28.879 like what my cousins are, like, she had already decided she was out. 2045 02:46:28.920 --> 02:46:31.440 She was already divorcing them, and I think she thought that we was 2046 02:46:31.479 --> 02:46:33.879 gonna be weird with her, like no, we understand, like, fuck, 2047 02:46:33.959 --> 02:46:37.920 dog you you held this nigga down when he literally had nobody, all 2048 02:46:39.000 --> 02:46:41.760 them so called friends and all that shit, like you basically did a bed 2049 02:46:41.879 --> 02:46:46.680 with this nigga. This nigga should be kissing every video toes when you come 2050 02:46:46.760 --> 02:46:50.719 home and you still want to come home on bullshit. So the fact that 2051 02:46:50.879 --> 02:46:54.360 you were like you over it pace me with your sister, well, I 2052 02:46:54.639 --> 02:46:56.319 feel like you wasted too many years as it is, so go reclaim with 2053 02:46:56.399 --> 02:47:01.040 your kids. Ship. I had an understanding though with lot of like my 2054 02:47:01.360 --> 02:47:05.360 my cousins, and you know, don't bring me around no female you're not 2055 02:47:05.520 --> 02:47:09.280 serious about, you know, because then don't you don't put me in that 2056 02:47:09.440 --> 02:47:13.959 position that really have to give a fuck about none of that because I'm gonna 2057 02:47:15.040 --> 02:47:16.680 keep it real. And if you don't want me to keep it real, 2058 02:47:16.760 --> 02:47:20.719 then was what you put these these you don't ask those don't answer questions that 2059 02:47:20.799 --> 02:47:24.520 ain't asked. Oh yeah, I'm not gonna just come home and be like, 2060 02:47:26.319 --> 02:47:28.479 see somebody sitting on the couch with my cousin, Be like, girl, 2061 02:47:28.559 --> 02:47:31.280 you stupid. You know I ain't gonna do that. But you know 2062 02:47:31.399 --> 02:47:35.840 you're gonna bring somebody in and you're gonna get us close. Then I'm gonna 2063 02:47:35.879 --> 02:47:39.760 treat them like I treat my friends. And I might not I might not 2064 02:47:39.879 --> 02:47:43.040 say to win, what where's and why? Who telling you to be friends? 2065 02:47:43.879 --> 02:47:48.040 Now? I mean I've dealt with that where it's like, especially like 2066 02:47:48.639 --> 02:47:54.159 dealing with a nigga who got a sister, and sometimes I be on the 2067 02:47:54.479 --> 02:47:58.959 yeah, listen, no, don't be on her side. I think sometimes 2068 02:47:58.399 --> 02:48:03.040 y'all fa to realize that, yes, y'all family, y'all are niggas, 2069 02:48:03.079 --> 02:48:09.760 but we are also women who have been in certain situations. And to see 2070 02:48:09.440 --> 02:48:15.479 exactly that's the whole point. We are niggas who've been in certain situations. 2071 02:48:16.280 --> 02:48:20.360 Okay, who side that we're supposed to take the right side? All right? 2072 02:48:20.440 --> 02:48:22.040 Then? So who sides you're supposed to be on the right side? 2073 02:48:22.159 --> 02:48:30.760 So what side is that? You've been on dude side before before? It's 2074 02:48:30.879 --> 02:48:33.959 not different, you've been on dou side. We want you all to be 2075 02:48:35.040 --> 02:48:37.799 together, no woman, though, I'm gonna keep it real with my bro 2076 02:48:39.719 --> 02:48:43.639 to be honest before I even really get into any right, if you want 2077 02:48:43.680 --> 02:48:50.200 to estize me and your spare time, do it as you will everything from 2078 02:48:50.280 --> 02:48:56.319 this bitch when she go home. Yes, by all means yell at wine, 2079 02:48:56.399 --> 02:48:58.520 win you buggers while you got her out here, Look at band like 2080 02:48:58.639 --> 02:49:01.719 that. She's stupid, juice stupid, say whatever you want, but when 2081 02:49:01.760 --> 02:49:05.440 she and the presidence of you, you are like Switzerland. And that is 2082 02:49:05.559 --> 02:49:11.840 why a lot of women don't like niggas mamas, because that's exactly what they 2083 02:49:11.959 --> 02:49:16.799 do. Know in a whole hole. Was just over here walking out the 2084 02:49:16.879 --> 02:49:20.559 back door while you pulling up to the front door to get food brought to 2085 02:49:20.639 --> 02:49:24.719 you. And she know her son ain't ship. I remember what you worried 2086 02:49:24.719 --> 02:49:26.319 about the wrong thing you worried about the holes we bring it in and out. 2087 02:49:26.360 --> 02:49:30.440 You know, my mama, This beitch don't know my mama. Apparently 2088 02:49:30.479 --> 02:49:33.319 your mama let her walk out the back door. My mama said, who 2089 02:49:33.440 --> 02:49:41.600 is My mama is still asking me which one was that one? Exactly. 2090 02:49:45.879 --> 02:49:48.360 I used to have a boyfriend. His mama used to take me to paddle 2091 02:49:48.440 --> 02:49:58.600 to give her son time to ye activity while we got niggas now did what 2092 02:49:58.799 --> 02:50:03.440 we complaining about? Hey, family ain't always family, like Burdo. This 2093 02:50:03.719 --> 02:50:07.799 nigga practically begged me to give his homeboy a chance because I don't you know, 2094 02:50:07.879 --> 02:50:13.879 I don't like they also beat up your boyfriend. This nigga that would 2095 02:50:13.920 --> 02:50:22.600 see Rizzie started that that was direct he started. But this nigga practically begged 2096 02:50:22.639 --> 02:50:24.920 me to give his homeboys just like no man cool, like you really feeling 2097 02:50:24.920 --> 02:50:30.959 you blah blah blah blah blah blah. So I ended up actually dating Dog 2098 02:50:31.520 --> 02:50:35.239 only for this same nigga who talked me, my cousin who talked me and 2099 02:50:35.360 --> 02:50:41.879 is giving his homeboy a chance. These two niggas is going off together. 2100 02:50:43.520 --> 02:50:50.559 Mm hmmm, Like, Bro, you are the one who pitched this ship 2101 02:50:52.360 --> 02:50:58.959 and then was riding shotgun. Now, I don't remember when I told you 2102 02:51:00.079 --> 02:51:03.520 earlier I cut that nigga thumb off. I think subconsciously my mom was like, 2103 02:51:03.559 --> 02:51:05.319 fuck this nigga, and that's what happened. Maybe I did see a 2104 02:51:05.399 --> 02:51:09.879 movie his thumb and I just didn't give a fuck before it was after, 2105 02:51:09.520 --> 02:51:15.040 So you cut this thumb after this happened, Yeah, I said, subconsciously, 2106 02:51:15.079 --> 02:51:16.920 it might have been. It might have been a trigger like yeah, 2107 02:51:16.920 --> 02:51:24.479 fuck that nigga. He ain't for you anywhere whatever, nigga. But yeah, 2108 02:51:24.799 --> 02:51:28.760 I forget we didn't. You didn't listen. We are going to go 2109 02:51:28.920 --> 02:51:35.159 ahead and get out of here because you know it's getting late, yes, 2110 02:51:35.239 --> 02:51:39.000 and I have to run all over the city. Now. Yeah, my 2111 02:51:39.239 --> 02:51:45.079 ride be texting me for like an hour and just oh ship where she at? 2112 02:51:45.360 --> 02:51:46.760 See now, jelly I'm now jelly Bean. We were talking about she 2113 02:51:46.879 --> 02:51:50.239 just got on the bus from where she didn't I didn't say she had to 2114 02:51:50.280 --> 02:51:56.120 work today? So where she at? Because she doesn't want to pay for 2115 02:51:56.200 --> 02:52:00.280 when I was why she got the motherfuckers all the time. But then does 2116 02:52:00.360 --> 02:52:03.520 she responsible for being bro owned? She because I cut it off now it's 2117 02:52:03.719 --> 02:52:05.920 m C T. Yes, I should be having to write upers off on 2118 02:52:05.000 --> 02:52:11.440 my tax public. That's a whole nother podcast I got. I got the 2119 02:52:11.520 --> 02:52:18.760 best story and pictures to prove it. I feel like old people. Listen, 2120 02:52:20.719 --> 02:52:22.479 listen though I've been on I've been on the bus. I've been riding 2121 02:52:22.520 --> 02:52:28.959 the bus for for a while now, right, and I really could do 2122 02:52:28.639 --> 02:52:33.440 I should do a podcast from the back of the bus because listen, you 2123 02:52:33.639 --> 02:52:39.600 see bro like just the little time that I was doing it free so people 2124 02:52:39.639 --> 02:52:41.799 can just get on it and just ride back and forth up and down Wisconsin. 2125 02:52:43.200 --> 02:52:48.879 Wisconsin, y'all, Wisconsin is already wisconsinant okay, and baby Wisconsin was 2126 02:52:48.920 --> 02:52:56.799 a wild pleaser. It's ten degrees outside of this is a nigga with the 2127 02:52:56.920 --> 02:53:03.639 shorts passes sty he got it on the new balances. He got the ship 2128 02:53:03.760 --> 02:53:07.600 with the holes in the sleeve for your thumb. I don't get why there's 2129 02:53:07.639 --> 02:53:11.879 a thumb hole in your sleeve hole, but he got those on as some 2130 02:53:11.959 --> 02:53:18.399 gloves and they run. You ain't never did, so somebody did this today's 2131 02:53:18.399 --> 02:53:20.000 sleeve. It was like, damn, this would be dope if my fucking 2132 02:53:20.079 --> 02:53:26.680 thumbs was out, And like, hey man, you put your rollo, 2133 02:53:26.879 --> 02:53:31.159 put it on backwards a snuggie. I got something. Hey listen, they 2134 02:53:31.280 --> 02:53:35.920 made a lot of or when niggas took shower caps and put them over bowls 2135 02:53:37.680 --> 02:53:43.200 mmmm to cover leftover. I still say, somebody owe my mama some money, 2136 02:53:43.200 --> 02:53:48.879 because my mama used to hand make these these holders that you hang from 2137 02:53:48.920 --> 02:53:52.159 the doorknob, and you stuffed the bags in there so you can pull them 2138 02:53:52.159 --> 02:53:54.680 out one by one. And now that's like a whole product. And and 2139 02:53:54.799 --> 02:53:58.799 it's it's so many ideas that I have that I never said because I know 2140 02:53:58.920 --> 02:54:01.440 Google and should be listening, and they got the capital that I don't got, 2141 02:54:01.559 --> 02:54:03.920 and I know motherfuckers will get rich off my ship. So I just 2142 02:54:03.959 --> 02:54:07.680 be sitting on so many ideas. If I had like investment, shit, 2143 02:54:09.719 --> 02:54:11.799 yeah I need some capital right now or something I want to do this summer. 2144 02:54:13.000 --> 02:54:16.360 But we are going to go ahead and close out. I want to 2145 02:54:16.399 --> 02:54:22.280 thank you guys for tuning into this week's episode. Thank you Toda for coming 2146 02:54:22.399 --> 02:54:26.680 through. You are welcome any time, literally anytime. We are here every 2147 02:54:26.959 --> 02:54:28.920 single week. So if you ever got a free mumber, like you know 2148 02:54:28.959 --> 02:54:31.840 what, I want to go, get some shit off my chest, come 2149 02:54:31.879 --> 02:54:35.000 on down. You will never if I'm in the house, I'll be in 2150 02:54:35.120 --> 02:54:43.120 the comments. You will never ever be turned away. So if you weren't 2151 02:54:43.200 --> 02:54:46.920 able to tune in for the full live, it's all good. You know, 2152 02:54:46.000 --> 02:54:50.000 you always gets to replay or wait for the audio episodes to drop on 2153 02:54:50.040 --> 02:54:54.239 all your favorite streaming platforms on Tuesday at ten am. Fuck Ken for snowing 2154 02:54:54.280 --> 02:54:58.399 in the background. So you know, if you didn't see the full live, 2155 02:54:58.479 --> 02:55:01.840 maybe you miss that part. But that that Nigga is terrible and he 2156 02:55:03.000 --> 02:55:07.079 is not invited back while he is intoxicated. Under any circumstances that Nigga will 2157 02:55:07.120 --> 02:55:11.239 be outside in the parking lott So yeah, until next time, we got a ho