WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.160 --> 00:00:03.279 I've had too much coffee this morning. I got the jitters. I needed 2 00:00:03.319 --> 00:00:05.879 clonupin. You ever take klonopin, No, I don't know what it is. 3 00:00:06.400 --> 00:00:13.240 Klonopin is an anti anxiety drug and yeah, and it is powerful. 4 00:00:14.759 --> 00:00:20.280 I took it years ago for a very short time and my doctor said, 5 00:00:20.320 --> 00:00:22.000 you know what, you don't have to take a whole tablet. This is 6 00:00:22.000 --> 00:00:27.359 a little green tablet, average tablet size, and they said, break it 7 00:00:27.399 --> 00:00:29.879 into quarters. Take a quarter. If that doesn't do anything, then take 8 00:00:29.879 --> 00:00:34.799 another quarter. But and I did it. But you could feel the klonopin 9 00:00:36.000 --> 00:00:40.479 work. You could feel the moment that it started working because there was something 10 00:00:40.479 --> 00:00:46.000 that it shut off in your brain. And it was surreal. And it's 11 00:00:46.039 --> 00:00:50.320 funny because I know that you can become addicted to klonopin, and I took 12 00:00:50.359 --> 00:00:54.359 it as needed and I'm so I'm not afraid of getting addicted to anything because 13 00:00:54.359 --> 00:00:58.399 I don't take anything that's addictive. But I was very careful, like I 14 00:00:58.399 --> 00:01:02.000 didn't want to take klonopin because I didn't want to get addicted. But the 15 00:01:02.119 --> 00:01:04.319 sensation and I'm not endorsing it, don't get me wrong. I'm just saying, 16 00:01:04.359 --> 00:01:07.920 hey, it works if you got anxiety, talked to your doctor about 17 00:01:07.920 --> 00:01:11.239 clon Upon. Possibly, But at the same time, it's addictive because it 18 00:01:11.319 --> 00:01:17.519 takes your anxiety and makes that part of your brain that is anxious go bye 19 00:01:17.560 --> 00:01:21.959 bye. Yeah, I've still got clon Upon home in my drawer that's probably 20 00:01:22.000 --> 00:01:26.439 ten years old, and I save it in case I need it, But 21 00:01:26.519 --> 00:01:29.959 I've never I've been taking it in ten years. Yeah. I had been 22 00:01:30.079 --> 00:01:34.519 prescribed something when I was in college also, and it wasn't that. And 23 00:01:34.640 --> 00:01:37.519 honestly it was the same where it was like, take it when you're feeling 24 00:01:37.560 --> 00:01:40.120 super anxious, and it did nothing for me. Really, it had no 25 00:01:40.159 --> 00:01:42.560 effect. No, But I really don't think it was anything strong, Like 26 00:01:42.599 --> 00:01:46.400 I don't think my doctor at the time realized how bad my anxiety was, 27 00:01:46.560 --> 00:01:49.680 Okay, super bad my senior year of college. So was it the fact, 28 00:01:49.719 --> 00:01:53.359 I don't want to interrupt, was it was it based on a situation 29 00:01:53.480 --> 00:01:57.560 or was it unexplainable? It was unexplainable anxiety. So, I mean, 30 00:01:57.599 --> 00:02:00.239 I'm sure there were like multiple things happening in my life, but it was 31 00:02:00.280 --> 00:02:04.719 a very unexplainable anxiety, which is like the worst kind for for the way 32 00:02:04.760 --> 00:02:07.439 that my brain works like, I can't understand why I'll feel that way when 33 00:02:07.439 --> 00:02:10.599 it comes out of nowhere. So yeah, I took a couple of them 34 00:02:10.599 --> 00:02:14.159 here and there hoping that they would work, and it never did anything for 35 00:02:14.199 --> 00:02:17.199 me. So for the longest time, I was always like kind of for 36 00:02:17.240 --> 00:02:22.719 me, anti taking any kind of medicine for anxiety. But like that, 37 00:02:22.840 --> 00:02:25.759 my mind has changed about that so drastically since then, because I still don't 38 00:02:25.800 --> 00:02:30.400 take any medication for it. But I have had so many friends who have 39 00:02:30.479 --> 00:02:32.719 gotten on different kinds of medication and it's done wonders for them. So I 40 00:02:32.719 --> 00:02:36.599 think if I ever experienced really bad anxiety again in the future, I would 41 00:02:36.759 --> 00:02:39.199 definitely consider going on something. Hey, there's something to write in about them. 42 00:02:39.240 --> 00:02:45.879 And if you're on an anti anxiety medication, let us know we're a 43 00:02:45.919 --> 00:02:50.800 little short on emails today, but if you want to write something tomorrow about 44 00:02:50.919 --> 00:02:53.759 anti anxiety medication, there's short term stuff like klonopin that I think you're on 45 00:02:53.960 --> 00:02:58.240 kind of as needed, and then there's stuff that you take I'm going to 46 00:02:58.360 --> 00:03:02.280 guess daily the just kind of stays in your system that helps with anxiety. 47 00:03:02.840 --> 00:03:09.879 Mine was based on a real situation that was very anxiety inducing, But after 48 00:03:10.120 --> 00:03:15.360 that kind of got better. I'd be just standing in the kitchen and I'd 49 00:03:15.360 --> 00:03:21.159 be like, oh huh man, and not panic attack for sure, but 50 00:03:21.240 --> 00:03:27.639 just like an anxiety feeling that just would pop up and you try to walk 51 00:03:27.680 --> 00:03:30.960 your way. I'd pace around the house in circles and I would like breathe, 52 00:03:30.000 --> 00:03:34.639 and it was just it would get better after time. But I never 53 00:03:34.680 --> 00:03:38.639 wanted to go back to the clonupin and be reliant on clonupin. How many 54 00:03:38.639 --> 00:03:40.639 times can I say clonapin in one podcast? As many as you want. 55 00:03:40.800 --> 00:03:44.759 We're talking about mental health, to go for it. So if you know 56 00:03:44.800 --> 00:03:46.439 anything about that, maybe there's something that works for you. Or maybe can 57 00:03:46.520 --> 00:03:51.800 I tell you something I heard that was really profound and I saw it either 58 00:03:51.879 --> 00:03:54.439 on TikTok or I saw it. This is gonna stick with you. I 59 00:03:54.520 --> 00:03:59.680 want you to remember this part of the podcast if nothing else. It was 60 00:03:59.680 --> 00:04:02.759 something on Instagram and it was a doctor who said, here's what you do 61 00:04:02.840 --> 00:04:09.319 to calm your mind. You're ready, Yeah, think what will my next 62 00:04:09.360 --> 00:04:13.639 thought be? So while you're laying there in bed thinking about all this shit 63 00:04:13.719 --> 00:04:17.879 at work and a relationship and finances and kids, and whatever, think what 64 00:04:18.000 --> 00:04:24.319 will my next thought be? Okay, and as you think that, you 65 00:04:24.360 --> 00:04:27.920 will notice And it said in all the comments on this instagram if it was 66 00:04:27.959 --> 00:04:30.639 an Instagram, it's like, Wow, for the first time in a long 67 00:04:30.680 --> 00:04:36.519 time, my mind shut down and I didn't think about stuff because I followed 68 00:04:36.600 --> 00:04:42.199 the loop of what will my next thought be? And you can try it 69 00:04:42.279 --> 00:04:46.079 right now if you want to. Probably not the best for us to try 70 00:04:46.079 --> 00:04:47.439 it right now, but I tried it the other night going to sleep, 71 00:04:47.519 --> 00:04:50.879 and before I knew it, I was asleep. And I don't know that 72 00:04:50.920 --> 00:04:55.319 it's one of those things that works for a little while, or works for 73 00:04:55.360 --> 00:04:58.920 some people and not others. But try that if you're trying to go to 74 00:04:58.920 --> 00:05:00.240 sleep, or you're trying to call him your mind and you're sitting in traffic, 75 00:05:00.279 --> 00:05:03.040 or you're sitting there and you know your cube or whatever, think what 76 00:05:03.079 --> 00:05:06.199 will my next thought be? And as you think that, then think what 77 00:05:06.279 --> 00:05:10.319 will my next thought be? And it turns out to put your mind on 78 00:05:10.360 --> 00:05:13.920 a loop of thinking about nothing except what your next thought will be. Yeah, 79 00:05:14.040 --> 00:05:16.319 I feel like I've done something similar when I haven't been able to sleep 80 00:05:16.360 --> 00:05:23.240 at night, where I'm like trying to think about thinking that I'm sleeping or 81 00:05:23.240 --> 00:05:25.720 something like that. I don't know. It is like a thing where I'm 82 00:05:25.720 --> 00:05:28.360 like to turn your brain off stop thinking about you're thinking, now think about 83 00:05:28.399 --> 00:05:30.920 sleeping. Stead So I am thinking about another thought. But then aren't you 84 00:05:30.959 --> 00:05:34.560 in a constant circle of thinking of another thought in your brain's not turning off 85 00:05:34.600 --> 00:05:38.720 on it. It didn't work that way for me. I mean, try 86 00:05:38.720 --> 00:05:42.079 it when you're like not being stimulated by work and lights and me talking and 87 00:05:42.079 --> 00:05:44.519 the radio and that type of thing, and let me know if it works 88 00:05:44.560 --> 00:05:50.160 for you. I had heard for a long time concentrate on your breathing shut 89 00:05:50.160 --> 00:05:54.680 your thoughts off by concentrated on your breathing. My problem with that was now 90 00:05:54.720 --> 00:05:58.240 I concentrate on my throat, my nose, and I feel like itchy, 91 00:05:58.399 --> 00:06:00.879 tingly, and then I'm like, then I need a drink of water. 92 00:06:01.199 --> 00:06:04.000 Then I lay back down. Now I'm stimulated by the drink of water. 93 00:06:04.279 --> 00:06:08.720 So then I think about my breathing. And so that sometimes works, but 94 00:06:08.800 --> 00:06:12.439 sometimes doesn't. But anyway, what will my next thought be? Here is 95 00:06:12.480 --> 00:06:15.879 an email from somebody I will keep their anonymous the anonymous. It's an interesting 96 00:06:16.000 --> 00:06:20.639 question, they say, I've been dating my girlfriend since July of twenty twenty 97 00:06:20.680 --> 00:06:25.680 two. We moved in together in May of twenty twenty three, so three 98 00:06:25.800 --> 00:06:28.879 or four months ago. Over the last several months, I've been gotten in 99 00:06:28.920 --> 00:06:31.519 a lot of heat that I need to propose to her, first from my 100 00:06:31.639 --> 00:06:33.959 family, now from her. Don't get me wrong, I do want to 101 00:06:34.040 --> 00:06:36.959 marry her, but buying an engagement ring is not a quick purchase. I 102 00:06:38.000 --> 00:06:41.720 want to save up for a decent ring. I'm thirty, my girlfriend's thirty 103 00:06:41.720 --> 00:06:45.160 six. I think the biggest reason that she wants to get engaged is because 104 00:06:45.160 --> 00:06:47.480 of her age. She's thirty six. She says she wants to get married 105 00:06:47.519 --> 00:06:51.120 before forty. She's also thinking of her parents, who have some minor health 106 00:06:51.160 --> 00:06:56.079 issues but are relatively healthy in their mid sixties. I do know I tend 107 00:06:56.079 --> 00:07:00.600 to procrastinate out on big decisions. My thoughts are, it doesn't really matter 108 00:07:00.680 --> 00:07:04.079 what age we are engaged or married. We have the rest of our lives 109 00:07:04.079 --> 00:07:08.879 to spend together. This year and last year, we've taken a trip with 110 00:07:08.920 --> 00:07:13.040 friends to the Black Hills during Labor Day weekend. My plan would be I 111 00:07:13.079 --> 00:07:17.040 hope she doesn't hear this to propose during our trip Labor Day twenty twenty four. 112 00:07:17.360 --> 00:07:20.160 It's a special place for us, and we would be surrounded by friends 113 00:07:20.199 --> 00:07:25.560 too. Do you think that is too long to wait? By the way, 114 00:07:25.720 --> 00:07:28.319 PS, I'm a relatively new listener of your show. I've been a 115 00:07:28.360 --> 00:07:30.399 diehard Kathan listener for years, but I've started listening to your show about a 116 00:07:30.399 --> 00:07:33.199 month ago. Thank you. Now, I don't miss a day of listening 117 00:07:33.240 --> 00:07:38.399 to your show, whether live or podcasted. Okay, let's back up. 118 00:07:39.319 --> 00:07:42.879 You only have been dating for a year and then you moved in together three 119 00:07:42.920 --> 00:07:46.240 months ago. Yes, I think that what you might be hearing is some 120 00:07:46.399 --> 00:07:49.959 yes and pressure from her. But I think one thing that happens when you're 121 00:07:50.079 --> 00:07:55.680 dating, people make done dumb conversational comments like hey, when you two gonna 122 00:07:55.720 --> 00:07:58.319 get married? When you two gonna get married? When you get married, 123 00:07:58.319 --> 00:08:01.360 they go, when you're gonna have a baby? Okay, when are you 124 00:08:01.360 --> 00:08:03.680 you have a baby? When are you two going to have another baby? 125 00:08:03.079 --> 00:08:07.519 So I think that is that people's awkward way of starting the conversation. Like 126 00:08:07.560 --> 00:08:11.319 when you meet a third grader, you go how old are you now? 127 00:08:13.160 --> 00:08:15.519 What year you're going to go into school? Like I'll meet kids at the 128 00:08:15.519 --> 00:08:16.560 state fair this year, and I'll say, like, what year you're going 129 00:08:16.600 --> 00:08:20.560 into school? Because I don't know what else to say. Sometimes who I'm 130 00:08:20.560 --> 00:08:26.160 going into fourth grade? So I think it's just people making conversation. Maybe 131 00:08:26.199 --> 00:08:28.600 not, because that's short of a dating history. A year just over a 132 00:08:28.680 --> 00:08:33.519 year is short. Yeah, it is. And maybe she's giving you the 133 00:08:33.559 --> 00:08:39.080 pressure. I think that you could even tell her, Hey, we've been 134 00:08:39.080 --> 00:08:41.639 seeing each other for a year. I love you, it's great. I 135 00:08:41.679 --> 00:08:46.759 do want to marry you. I do want to propose, but not right 136 00:08:46.799 --> 00:08:50.240 now. What do you think, Jenny, No, I think that's perfect 137 00:08:50.360 --> 00:08:54.840 what you just said. I mean, I know girls who have kind of 138 00:08:54.879 --> 00:08:58.519 getting given guys like ultimatums where it's like, come on, you got to 139 00:08:58.559 --> 00:09:01.360 propose within the year, like I'm not going to waste my time anymore. 140 00:09:01.440 --> 00:09:05.080 Because so many girls do think about their biological clock, and especially since your 141 00:09:05.120 --> 00:09:09.600 girlfriend is thirty six years old, that's probably so important to her if you 142 00:09:09.639 --> 00:09:13.279 guys are planning on having kids. Ye, So I can understand where she 143 00:09:13.360 --> 00:09:16.720 might be putting that pressure on at this point, because you guys seem to 144 00:09:16.759 --> 00:09:18.559 like each other enough to move in with each other within a year, So 145 00:09:18.600 --> 00:09:22.240 at that point she probably thinks like we're good, We've we've picked each other, 146 00:09:22.320 --> 00:09:26.559 we're gonna be together, like let's get engaged and stuff. But other 147 00:09:26.559 --> 00:09:28.279 people see it as a much bigger thing and want to do it on their 148 00:09:28.320 --> 00:09:33.240 own time. So I think you stick to the fact that you're going to 149 00:09:33.320 --> 00:09:35.240 do it next year, next labor day. Should he let her know, 150 00:09:35.480 --> 00:09:39.960 like so she's not like, you know, like upset or sad or angry. 151 00:09:41.279 --> 00:09:43.840 I mean, I'm sure he has let her know that, but I 152 00:09:43.879 --> 00:09:46.879 would say, yeah, you know, make sure you're reassuring her that you 153 00:09:46.960 --> 00:09:50.200 also want to be engaged and it's going to happen, just like you give 154 00:09:50.240 --> 00:09:54.639 me some time, you know, Like, but then there's always the fear 155 00:09:54.679 --> 00:09:56.480 and the other person's head like but how long is that going to be? 156 00:09:56.600 --> 00:10:00.919 And what if you don't propose? And then I just wasted like however many 157 00:10:00.960 --> 00:10:03.879 years? Because I really do think at thirty six years old that your girlfriend 158 00:10:05.000 --> 00:10:07.519 is thinking that, like, I'm scared, I'm gonna waste three years in 159 00:10:07.519 --> 00:10:09.080 my life. You're not going to propose, I'm going to break up with 160 00:10:09.120 --> 00:10:13.399 you. And now I'm thirty nine and I'm really getting out of the age 161 00:10:13.399 --> 00:10:16.399 of being able to have kids at that point, Yeah, your own kids. 162 00:10:16.399 --> 00:10:18.200 I should say that's true. And you know what, I didn't think 163 00:10:18.200 --> 00:10:20.360 about the kids thing. That didn't occur to me. But if she wants 164 00:10:20.440 --> 00:10:24.639 kids, then yeah, that's a factor for sure. I will say that 165 00:10:24.799 --> 00:10:28.759 you are younger than you think. It's like, no matter what age you 166 00:10:28.759 --> 00:10:31.240 are, it's like I'm getting old. I'm twenty five, I'm getting old. 167 00:10:31.240 --> 00:10:35.720 I'm forty, I'm getting old. It's all perspective. Next one says, 168 00:10:35.759 --> 00:10:37.279 thank you for the podcast. My weekly binge on the wet days I 169 00:10:37.320 --> 00:10:43.480 work from home, makes the day more fun. I've heard a few EPs. 170 00:10:43.679 --> 00:10:45.960 I don't know that a few apps. So we'll see with the contact 171 00:10:46.039 --> 00:10:50.240 is talking about kids being lied to about how college will get you a great 172 00:10:50.320 --> 00:10:52.600 job. Oh, episodes, I'll bet that's what it is. Episodes talking 173 00:10:52.600 --> 00:10:56.480 about how kids being lied to about how college will get you a great job 174 00:10:56.519 --> 00:10:58.679 that you'll love and pay you big bucks. It made me think about a 175 00:10:58.720 --> 00:11:03.919 re sent conversation vent session with my sister and some friends. My siblings and 176 00:11:03.960 --> 00:11:07.720 I were very lucky. Our parents paid for college. I got an associate's 177 00:11:07.720 --> 00:11:11.159 degree and she got her bachelor's. I went on to work at a few 178 00:11:11.240 --> 00:11:13.159 jobs, and a few years later she went back for her masters, which 179 00:11:13.159 --> 00:11:18.600 she paid for forty is now we are still paying student loans. She is 180 00:11:18.600 --> 00:11:22.600 still paying student loans. She worked awhile and then decided to get her PhD. 181 00:11:22.639 --> 00:11:26.320 She and her friends were venting because they're paying student loans yet don't own 182 00:11:26.399 --> 00:11:30.960 houses and don't have the great careers they figured they would. I didn't say 183 00:11:31.000 --> 00:11:33.200 a whole lot because I don't have the loans. Remember, her parents paid. 184 00:11:35.360 --> 00:11:37.759 I've been in my current company for a while, working myself up the 185 00:11:37.799 --> 00:11:39.919 ladder to where I can be comfortable and happy. I certainly could be making 186 00:11:39.919 --> 00:11:43.879 more money in my current position if I had a bachelor's degree, but I'm 187 00:11:43.919 --> 00:11:48.440 happy with what it is. I feel bad they're shocked and broke, but 188 00:11:48.480 --> 00:11:54.120 I was also hiding my eye roll and smirk. Thanks for lass love evil 189 00:11:54.360 --> 00:11:58.120 Enjie. Any thoughts on that, Jenny at all? I mean, I 190 00:11:58.200 --> 00:12:03.000 guess if she said her sister right she's talking about so, I guess if 191 00:12:03.000 --> 00:12:05.279 your sister was looking to do some kind of job that did involve having to 192 00:12:05.279 --> 00:12:09.519 get a master's in a PhD, then that's what you do. And then 193 00:12:09.559 --> 00:12:13.200 sometimes you are shocked when you get out of all of the schooling and realize 194 00:12:13.240 --> 00:12:18.519 that your salary is not compensating for all the student loans you just got yourself 195 00:12:18.559 --> 00:12:22.720 in. Because I know a lot of teachers who went and got like a 196 00:12:22.840 --> 00:12:26.720 master's because they have an opportunity to make more money and stuff. But in 197 00:12:26.759 --> 00:12:30.720 the end, getting that extra schooling put them in so much more yet, 198 00:12:31.200 --> 00:12:35.159 but then also you need that degree to be paid higher as a teacher and 199 00:12:35.200 --> 00:12:37.879 stuff. So I don't know, I mean, I get it. I 200 00:12:37.879 --> 00:12:43.120 mean I have I have friends who went to trade schools, and they went 201 00:12:43.159 --> 00:12:45.720 to school for a year, started making so much money right off the bat, 202 00:12:45.799 --> 00:12:48.799 have like no student loans, and then just consistently have made money. 203 00:12:48.799 --> 00:12:52.440 But they aren't able to advance too much more in their career than where they 204 00:12:52.480 --> 00:12:56.240 might be at this point. So hopefully your sister will be able to and 205 00:12:56.279 --> 00:13:01.120 her friends will be able to just keep working up and eventually they can afford 206 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:03.039 a house and stuff. But I don't know, I mean, I paid 207 00:13:03.039 --> 00:13:07.320 for my college tuition. I remember that life. I worked all the time 208 00:13:07.399 --> 00:13:11.200 throughout my entire twenties, and I never did anything fun because I was always 209 00:13:11.279 --> 00:13:16.720 just putting any money I made towards my student loans because I just never want 210 00:13:16.759 --> 00:13:20.559 to have debts. So I paid my student loans off before I was thirty 211 00:13:20.799 --> 00:13:24.240 and it felt great. But I also did not do a lot of fun 212 00:13:24.279 --> 00:13:26.320 things in my twenties because I had to pay for all these loans. That 213 00:13:26.440 --> 00:13:30.720 is so you though, Jenny, You're such a responsible kind of a person. 214 00:13:31.440 --> 00:13:37.279 I do hear people complain about student loans a lot, and especially when 215 00:13:37.320 --> 00:13:39.960 they're not making the money that they expected to and maybe they're not even the 216 00:13:41.000 --> 00:13:45.720 career field that they got their degree. And I went to a community college 217 00:13:45.720 --> 00:13:48.759 and back then tuition was so cheap. I mean it was like five hundred 218 00:13:48.759 --> 00:13:52.879 dollars for a semester, and my dad paid for it. That was his 219 00:13:52.000 --> 00:13:54.799 rule. He said, if you want to go to college, I will 220 00:13:54.840 --> 00:14:00.200 pay for it, and so I did and it worked out well. The 221 00:14:00.200 --> 00:14:03.919 career field that I did radio and TV shout out Pike's Peak community college. 222 00:14:05.320 --> 00:14:07.799 And but I do feel bad for people who are going through something that I 223 00:14:07.879 --> 00:14:11.320 didn't go through. I never had student loans, I'll be flat out honest. 224 00:14:11.639 --> 00:14:16.440 My kids didn't have student loans. Beth had some, but we had 225 00:14:16.440 --> 00:14:18.480 said we looked at it a few years ago, we said, Beth, 226 00:14:18.720 --> 00:14:20.519 how much is it. We're going to finish paying it off for you, 227 00:14:20.720 --> 00:14:24.279 And it was like ten thousand dollars. So we paid off beths Chase. 228 00:14:24.480 --> 00:14:28.559 His mama was rich, so his mama paid for chass schooling. We paid 229 00:14:28.559 --> 00:14:33.120 for Carson and Allison's. I think the rule was you gotta get good grades. 230 00:14:33.159 --> 00:14:35.200 If you're slacking off, then we're not going to pay for it. 231 00:14:35.240 --> 00:14:41.679 But they all got good grades. Yeah, so next one for mary Anne. 232 00:14:41.759 --> 00:14:43.159 She says, thanks for reading the poopy plane story. I don't care 233 00:14:43.200 --> 00:14:48.799 if it's true or not. It's funnier than shit, no pun intended. 234 00:14:48.879 --> 00:14:54.519 Maybe. Basically the poopy plane story was a story that you can actually look 235 00:14:54.600 --> 00:14:56.559 up online. We read it the other day a couple of weeks ago or 236 00:14:56.559 --> 00:15:00.879 a week ago, about how there was like a Gulf Stream jet and they 237 00:15:01.000 --> 00:15:03.240 run a business trip with a bunch of powerful clients and the person they didn't 238 00:15:03.240 --> 00:15:07.320 say it as a male or female, felt their belly rumbling and they had 239 00:15:07.320 --> 00:15:11.600 to poop at thirty two thousand feet and they said there's no bathroom on the 240 00:15:11.639 --> 00:15:13.759 plane. So they asked the flight attendant, is there a bathroom? And 241 00:15:13.799 --> 00:15:18.600 they said well, not really. There's an emergency toilet and you lifted up 242 00:15:18.600 --> 00:15:22.000 a leather cushion and underneath it was a stainless steel bowl that had never been 243 00:15:22.039 --> 00:15:26.799 pooped on, with a small privacy screen that pooled pulled up about two neck 244 00:15:26.919 --> 00:15:30.440 level, so your head is still poking out, but you can't see your 245 00:15:30.919 --> 00:15:37.960 like body. And they said they had too noisily while making eye contact poop 246 00:15:37.080 --> 00:15:41.600 on the airplane, and we doubted whether it was true because it just sounded 247 00:15:41.600 --> 00:15:46.399 crazy. We did find out that there are airplanes with emergency toilets, because 248 00:15:46.440 --> 00:15:48.919 if you're at thirty thousand feet and you got to go, you ain't going 249 00:15:50.000 --> 00:15:54.039 anytime soon, and so we think it's true. It is funny. They 250 00:15:54.080 --> 00:15:58.440 say Faloni's is probably the best name ever, But how about Jenny's Junkyard for 251 00:15:58.600 --> 00:16:02.799 fallon? Okay? I like that. I actually did put up a poll 252 00:16:02.879 --> 00:16:06.840 on my Instagram. You did good some of the top choices that we're coming 253 00:16:06.919 --> 00:16:10.519 in, So I don't think Jenny's Junkyard was one of the ones. What 254 00:16:10.600 --> 00:16:15.080 is on the poll? Because the background on this one was years ago. 255 00:16:15.120 --> 00:16:17.720 We said, well, let's do stupid criminal stories. And a friend of 256 00:16:17.759 --> 00:16:21.759 mine, Paige Page, said he's like a radio consultant. Page said, 257 00:16:21.799 --> 00:16:26.080 how about falonies, like felonies, but falonies, we said, all brilliant, 258 00:16:26.080 --> 00:16:29.919 perfect, Well, Falon's on the afternoon show, and I don't know 259 00:16:29.960 --> 00:16:32.559 that she even does falonies anymore. I kind of doubt it. Yeah, 260 00:16:32.559 --> 00:16:34.799 I don't think, but we don't have a new name for it. And 261 00:16:34.799 --> 00:16:37.799 people do like the stupid criminal story. So what were your options? Okay, 262 00:16:37.879 --> 00:16:41.720 so there were quite a few, with the top four that I chose 263 00:16:41.759 --> 00:16:47.240 were Jenny's Jail Junkies, Jenny's Jail Birds, Jenny's Jokers, and Jenny's Jurisdiction, 264 00:16:47.360 --> 00:16:48.679 And a lot of people message and they're like, Judge Jenny, why 265 00:16:48.679 --> 00:16:51.440 wouldn't you do Judge Jenny? And I was like, well, we already 266 00:16:51.440 --> 00:16:52.960 do a segment. Yeah, that's called that, like not super often, 267 00:16:53.320 --> 00:16:56.960 so we're not doing that. But I was like from the get go leaning 268 00:16:56.960 --> 00:17:00.480 towards Jenny's Jail Birds. And that is the top percent. It has fifty 269 00:17:00.519 --> 00:17:04.839 eight percent and the next one has like twenty three percent for votes, So 270 00:17:04.880 --> 00:17:07.880 I feel like I like that one the best, and that one, but 271 00:17:07.960 --> 00:17:11.799 that one is pretty good too that they emailed. But I don't know Jenny's 272 00:17:11.839 --> 00:17:15.480 jail burs has always been the one since people sent in suggestions, that was 273 00:17:15.480 --> 00:17:18.279 my top choice. I'll be honest with you, it's totally your choice. 274 00:17:18.359 --> 00:17:21.559 I'm not going to even tell you what I want because I don't I don't 275 00:17:21.599 --> 00:17:23.799 want to influence your vote, but there is definitely one that I like in 276 00:17:23.839 --> 00:17:26.880 there. So whatever you come with, what I'm not telling you and not 277 00:17:27.039 --> 00:17:32.119 tell me no no, not telling you no no. We'll go vote on 278 00:17:32.200 --> 00:17:34.160 my poll, vote on your poll thing you know, and see that what 279 00:17:34.200 --> 00:17:37.720 you vote for right then, I'm not going to do it all right, 280 00:17:37.759 --> 00:17:41.359 go vote. Let us know the Seriously, we need emails, So if 281 00:17:41.359 --> 00:17:45.759 you send emails in either that or we're going to talk about I don't know, 282 00:17:45.839 --> 00:17:48.119 clon upon again tomorrow. So seriously, I would love to hear about 283 00:17:48.119 --> 00:17:52.839 your experience with any kind of like anti anxiety or depression drugs or something that 284 00:17:52.880 --> 00:17:55.960 works or something that doesn't work, or a technique or if you use the 285 00:17:56.079 --> 00:17:57.319 what's my next thought going to be? What's my thanks not going to be 286 00:17:57.359 --> 00:18:00.079 loop? Let me know if that works too, because I'm always curious to 287 00:18:00.079 --> 00:18:06.480 hear what if anything that we say or do on the show resonates with you 288 00:18:06.720 --> 00:18:12.839 so let us know. Send that email to Ryan Show at KDWB dot com.