WEBVTT 1 00:00:05.759 --> 00:00:10.519 Welcome to Buns and Banter, a podcast by work Busties for work Busties. 2 00:00:10.960 --> 00:00:15.519 Hey, I'm Lauren and I'm Ali. We're both borning show hosts for iHeartMedia. 3 00:00:15.839 --> 00:00:20.480 We're both millennials, and we're both trying to figure out how to build 4 00:00:20.519 --> 00:00:25.440 the lives we dream about, dating, marriage, career, career and being 5 00:00:25.440 --> 00:00:28.640 a mom. How to get through a week without crying. Welcome to Buns 6 00:00:28.640 --> 00:00:33.280 and Banter. We're glad you're here. Two houses, one house that stuff, 7 00:00:33.320 --> 00:00:38.200 one house does some stuff. I hate that limbo. Yeah, but 8 00:00:38.479 --> 00:00:43.560 I hate change. Yeah, it's probably been a while since you've moved ten 9 00:00:43.880 --> 00:00:51.960 years almost ten years. Whoa happy new Year? Like New Year's same year? 10 00:00:52.240 --> 00:00:56.359 Stressful shit, Oh my gosh. Yeah, I feel like we really 11 00:00:56.399 --> 00:01:02.600 need to reset and just like let our dear viewers and our dear listeners know 12 00:01:02.679 --> 00:01:07.519 what has transpired over the last two months. We closed out twenty twenty three. 13 00:01:07.799 --> 00:01:12.319 Yeah with a freaking bang, that's a word for it. Yeah, 14 00:01:12.400 --> 00:01:17.000 so much has happened. So let's talk about the last two months. Okay, 15 00:01:18.319 --> 00:01:22.400 elephant in the room. The podcast isn't over. We just took the 16 00:01:22.400 --> 00:01:26.079 holidays off. Yeah, well, just from the podcast, which is actually 17 00:01:26.079 --> 00:01:27.920 really unfortunate, because I think it is, for both of us, our 18 00:01:27.920 --> 00:01:33.319 most favorite thing and unfortunately the thing that tends to fall down that priority list. 19 00:01:33.480 --> 00:01:36.599 Yeah, and our two months were just so absolutely insane. We could 20 00:01:36.640 --> 00:01:40.439 not find a single day any week where we could both sit down and do 21 00:01:40.640 --> 00:01:46.959 this. Truly, truly, it was wild but big news, big, 22 00:01:47.040 --> 00:01:53.200 Oh my gosh, we bought a new house. It is very exciting and 23 00:01:53.400 --> 00:01:57.159 I am very blessed. I understand that because I know there's a lot of 24 00:01:57.200 --> 00:02:00.000 people that are still house hunting that are just like, wow, it's absolutely 25 00:02:00.200 --> 00:02:02.760 the most demoralizing thing I could imagine. And there there were a few. 26 00:02:04.239 --> 00:02:07.000 There was a few, a few instances. There was a few. And 27 00:02:07.080 --> 00:02:10.400 here's how it started real quick, just to give you the idea of the 28 00:02:10.439 --> 00:02:16.039 stark difference between myself and my husband. So in October one of so, 29 00:02:16.039 --> 00:02:19.840 my husband's a realtor, and then one of his coworkers came to him and 30 00:02:19.879 --> 00:02:23.199 said, Hey, I was talking about your house one day, and I 31 00:02:23.240 --> 00:02:27.120 have clients that are kind of interested in maybe looking at it. We we 32 00:02:27.120 --> 00:02:30.439 were not listed, we were not on the market. We were not even 33 00:02:30.479 --> 00:02:34.000 going like I thought, I'd still have another summer there before we really started 34 00:02:34.000 --> 00:02:37.479 to look that's why you should be nice to your colleagues, So I should 35 00:02:37.479 --> 00:02:42.479 be nice to your colleagues. And we like sped clean to the house in 36 00:02:42.560 --> 00:02:44.560 two hours on a Friday. They came and looked at it and they were 37 00:02:44.599 --> 00:02:46.439 like, yeah, we want to buy it, and then gave us five 38 00:02:46.520 --> 00:02:51.439 more than we were even thinking of listing it at. I go, oh 39 00:02:51.479 --> 00:02:53.159 my gosh, okay, like buying it off market. Let's pump the brakes. 40 00:02:53.159 --> 00:02:58.000 We have nowhere to go. Chris goes absolutely, let's sign on the 41 00:02:58.039 --> 00:03:01.479 dotted line. So the end of I even know you sometime? How long 42 00:03:01.520 --> 00:03:06.319 have we been together? How long have you known me? Like I remember 43 00:03:06.479 --> 00:03:08.800 somebody asked me last night because I've just been having so much anxiety. I 44 00:03:08.800 --> 00:03:15.479 don't do well with change. This house is very different financially than the house 45 00:03:15.479 --> 00:03:21.240 we bought in twenty fourteen, and so my friend was like, it's really 46 00:03:21.280 --> 00:03:23.120 exciting, though, why are you anxious? And I'm like, do none 47 00:03:23.159 --> 00:03:27.479 of you know me? I would like shit turns of anxiety for fun, 48 00:03:28.439 --> 00:03:32.919 Like I'm just everything blessed that's blessed, like some of us could be so 49 00:03:34.080 --> 00:03:38.400 lucky. So that was a big part of the end of our twenty twenty 50 00:03:38.400 --> 00:03:39.919 three and we finally found a place. And so now we are in the 51 00:03:40.000 --> 00:03:44.800 process of we're in that limbo where we're going between two houses and then middle 52 00:03:44.800 --> 00:03:46.639 of the month we'll be out of the other one. And I'm having all 53 00:03:46.639 --> 00:03:51.800 these feels because I'm a woman and it's like, there were so many firsts 54 00:03:51.840 --> 00:03:54.159 in this house. That's where we like brought our babies home. But at 55 00:03:54.159 --> 00:04:00.439 the same time, God, we need more space. I love my kids 56 00:04:00.479 --> 00:04:03.960 so much, but I am so tired of living literally on top of them. 57 00:04:04.080 --> 00:04:06.759 So it'll be good. It'll be good, and we're like, we're 58 00:04:06.759 --> 00:04:12.680 into neighborhood life. I am so excited for you, but I'm so curious 59 00:04:12.680 --> 00:04:15.959 as to how this journey will go. My sister and her husband and they're 60 00:04:16.560 --> 00:04:21.439 like they had a baby and moved in the same week. Oh my god, 61 00:04:21.439 --> 00:04:25.480 bless your sister, or like the same month. No, all feels 62 00:04:25.560 --> 00:04:29.480 the same, And I tell you it has just bet they like hit the 63 00:04:29.480 --> 00:04:31.519 ground running, and that was she went from two to three in that instant. 64 00:04:31.680 --> 00:04:34.319 Kids and then they had like a new house and they moved like a 65 00:04:34.319 --> 00:04:38.240 half an hour away. They're so much closer to my parents now nice, 66 00:04:38.759 --> 00:04:43.879 but the adjustment with the kids was, in my opinion, hilarious. They 67 00:04:43.879 --> 00:04:49.959 didn't think so, but I just kids don't know that they can be such 68 00:04:50.639 --> 00:04:57.839 savages and like just completely destroy you in the span of six words. So 69 00:04:58.000 --> 00:05:01.120 unaware they and why should be aware? Like it's not their responsibility. It's 70 00:05:01.160 --> 00:05:06.600 like tiny humans to manage our like adult emotions. But I'm just so still 71 00:05:06.680 --> 00:05:12.000 hurtful. I'm so ready for all the stories and like Sophia and Will just 72 00:05:12.040 --> 00:05:15.560 like knowing their personalities, I'm like, I can't wait for all the moving 73 00:05:15.600 --> 00:05:18.480 stories and all the new house stories. I I don't. People have asked 74 00:05:18.519 --> 00:05:20.879 me that they're like, well, do the are the kids excited? I'm 75 00:05:20.879 --> 00:05:24.480 like, I don't know if they get it yet. Yeah, they're like 76 00:05:24.560 --> 00:05:28.480 excited about this new space. But they also were super stoked when they went. 77 00:05:28.519 --> 00:05:31.279 We took them house hunting with us. Would buy a sitter, Okay, 78 00:05:31.399 --> 00:05:34.240 get a sitter? Yeah that was that's good. Oh and then every 79 00:05:34.240 --> 00:05:36.920 time we go to kindergarten the next days like yep, move to a new 80 00:05:36.959 --> 00:05:40.360 place. And I was like, we're not living in seventeen different houses, 81 00:05:40.399 --> 00:05:43.399 bro, Like we don't. So I don't know if they fully get it. 82 00:05:43.720 --> 00:05:47.519 I will tell you that we closed earlier in the week and the first 83 00:05:47.519 --> 00:05:53.720 time we went in the house as ours, uh huh, will beefed it, 84 00:05:53.800 --> 00:05:58.000 I mean Yard sailed it on the hardwood floor, smashed his face, 85 00:05:58.120 --> 00:06:00.920 started crying. At the same time, my dog Bulah took a giant poop 86 00:06:01.000 --> 00:06:04.759 on the other side of the hard white floor. So I was just like, 87 00:06:04.839 --> 00:06:09.319 oh my god, hello everyone, We're super excited to be here. 88 00:06:09.519 --> 00:06:15.399 What a great start. Yeah, what just a poetic start to a fresh, 89 00:06:15.000 --> 00:06:18.040 brand, new beginning. I'm so glad you put it that way because 90 00:06:18.040 --> 00:06:21.120 I was about to say a great start to a fresh new health gape. 91 00:06:21.439 --> 00:06:28.839 Yeah on brand, but on brand, so on brand, Yes, but 92 00:06:28.920 --> 00:06:31.600 I'm also throwed them feeling better. That was another lovely part of my twenty 93 00:06:31.600 --> 00:06:34.839 twenty three. Yeah, you were sick for like two months, two months, 94 00:06:35.439 --> 00:06:41.319 like, go to your PCP because I had an antibiotic resistant respiratory infection 95 00:06:42.319 --> 00:06:45.480 like the dogs. Yeah, it was insane. Well I don't think no, 96 00:06:45.720 --> 00:06:47.639 was the dog's respiratory. Yeah, remember all those Yes, I'm sorry, 97 00:06:47.680 --> 00:06:51.120 I'm not carrying you to a dog. But there was that mystery like 98 00:06:51.199 --> 00:06:56.079 kennel cough thing going around, but it was like antibiotic resistant and they didn't 99 00:06:56.120 --> 00:06:59.000 know how these dogs were getting it, and like a lot of people didn't 100 00:06:59.000 --> 00:07:02.439 even know dog could cough, and I do. I saw the videos too, 101 00:07:02.800 --> 00:07:05.800 so I had kennel cough. And now I'm over that and I'm like 102 00:07:05.920 --> 00:07:09.680 just so thrilled to be here with you. I'm so glad you're feeling better 103 00:07:09.720 --> 00:07:13.800 than That's so insane because there's nothing that will drive you to the brink, 104 00:07:15.000 --> 00:07:20.120 like moving and the end of the year and the holidays and being and feeling 105 00:07:20.160 --> 00:07:24.720 shitty on top of all of that. Yeah, it was. My patience 106 00:07:24.720 --> 00:07:28.800 has been tested. But we've made it through and here we are good because 107 00:07:28.839 --> 00:07:35.560 I need you. How about you wild ride the last two months of the 108 00:07:35.639 --> 00:07:40.160 year, just you know, nothing, nothing crazy, a little bit of 109 00:07:40.240 --> 00:07:42.800 dating, a little bit of this, a little bit of that. At 110 00:07:43.519 --> 00:07:46.800 you know, we're in a good space. We're in a good, good 111 00:07:46.879 --> 00:07:48.839 space. We are. I was excited. I love you whenever you come 112 00:07:48.839 --> 00:07:51.759 back from the Dude Ranch and you got to do that again. Yes, 113 00:07:53.120 --> 00:07:57.240 you're so happy there. I love it there. Yeah. Well it's also 114 00:07:57.319 --> 00:08:01.759 the time of the year that we go. There's so shine there. It's 115 00:08:01.800 --> 00:08:05.560 like a little bit warm and no, horses are just very I am not 116 00:08:05.959 --> 00:08:09.399 a horse girly like I wasn't growing up. I didn't ride horses. I 117 00:08:09.439 --> 00:08:13.319 didn't like we used to go horseback riding, like maybe once every blue moon 118 00:08:13.360 --> 00:08:18.160 when I was a kid, like just the you know, yeah, yeah, 119 00:08:18.279 --> 00:08:22.120 but I don't. I just love all animals and the horses, and 120 00:08:22.160 --> 00:08:22.920 they like take you out and you ride with them, and you have the 121 00:08:22.959 --> 00:08:26.040 same horse all week at the dude ranch that we go to, and it's 122 00:08:26.120 --> 00:08:30.000 just like I love it. They're like big dogs. I just want to 123 00:08:30.079 --> 00:08:33.399 lay down with one of them and have them put their head like in my 124 00:08:33.600 --> 00:08:37.840 lap. I know that that's super unrealistic, but it's on my bucket list. 125 00:08:39.919 --> 00:08:43.759 I see a brand new year to start a new bucket list. Yeah, 126 00:08:43.799 --> 00:08:46.000 can I ask, are you a resolution person? I didn't mean to 127 00:08:46.000 --> 00:08:52.320 say it with that face yes and no, yes and no, Like god, 128 00:08:52.360 --> 00:08:54.679 I can't stand them. Right. I didn't make I didn't make anything 129 00:08:54.720 --> 00:08:58.720 this year. I'm not going to one year tried to give up gossip. 130 00:09:00.080 --> 00:09:05.639 It's not a resolution, of course, sacrifice, thank you, because I 131 00:09:05.639 --> 00:09:09.200 don't really have. I'm not going into this not to sound pessimistic. But 132 00:09:09.240 --> 00:09:13.759 I'm just not going into this new year like, let's get it. Let's 133 00:09:13.840 --> 00:09:16.960 I liked the meme I saw where it's like, you're not supposed to start 134 00:09:16.000 --> 00:09:20.320 over in the dark, bleak winter months, like I love that, say 135 00:09:20.399 --> 00:09:26.480 that for the springtime and just kind of get through and we're good. Yeah, 136 00:09:26.960 --> 00:09:33.120 Mother Nature's rebirth is also our rebirth. I did. I did find 137 00:09:33.679 --> 00:09:35.240 I don't ever have resolutions at the beginning of the year. I kind of 138 00:09:35.240 --> 00:09:37.679 find them throughout the year, and then at the end of the year I 139 00:09:37.679 --> 00:09:41.240 can look back and be like, so I just posted this on my social 140 00:09:41.279 --> 00:09:46.879 media, like five things I failed at in twenty eighty three, which you 141 00:09:46.919 --> 00:09:52.279 know, not a complete failure, just I didn't do as well as I 142 00:09:52.320 --> 00:09:54.440 could have. So I wanted to like, yeah, I wanted to hit 143 00:09:54.720 --> 00:10:00.360 ten k on Instagram, which you did. I didn't know that until the 144 00:10:00.360 --> 00:10:01.559 other day. I don't look at my numbers. You did. I'm so 145 00:10:01.639 --> 00:10:05.480 proud of you. I'm so proud of you. A lot more cleavage in 146 00:10:05.519 --> 00:10:09.919 the new year. So it's in. It's the only way, which it's 147 00:10:09.960 --> 00:10:15.000 in. We're going to do our ins and outs here in a second. 148 00:10:13.840 --> 00:10:18.000 Did didn't even come close to that I wanted to work out like more consistently, 149 00:10:18.200 --> 00:10:22.120 which I did, but I didn't. I wanted to drink more water, 150 00:10:22.320 --> 00:10:24.039 did but I didn't. As much as I feel like I should have 151 00:10:24.480 --> 00:10:28.039 wanted to finish all of my house projects, like I wanted to finish my 152 00:10:28.120 --> 00:10:35.799 house in twenty twenty three delusion. That was an absolute delusion. And I 153 00:10:35.840 --> 00:10:41.559 wanted to read one book a month, which I felt was a safe number, 154 00:10:41.360 --> 00:10:45.440 Like one book a month, that's not hard. I didn't do it. 155 00:10:46.639 --> 00:10:50.279 Those are very good for solutions, though. I actually don't mind any 156 00:10:50.320 --> 00:10:54.200 of those. And I would fight you on the working out in the water. 157 00:10:54.960 --> 00:10:56.960 I think you, I think you did a great job, and I 158 00:10:56.960 --> 00:11:01.440 think you look fantastic and hopefully feel fantastic. Thank you. I mean right 159 00:11:01.480 --> 00:11:05.759 now, I feel really effing tired. Me too. I had, you 160 00:11:05.840 --> 00:11:07.960 know, when you take time off from this place. Yeah, I had 161 00:11:09.000 --> 00:11:11.799 like twelve days off at the end of the year over Christmas, And that's 162 00:11:13.200 --> 00:11:16.120 just enough time to get you on like normal people time. You know, 163 00:11:16.480 --> 00:11:20.879 like you're staying up till ten or eleven, you're waking up at like seven 164 00:11:20.960 --> 00:11:24.200 thirty eight o'clock. You notice your skin getting better. Yeah, under eyes 165 00:11:24.279 --> 00:11:31.679 look wonderful. So that like stress puffiness yep, like relinquishes and you can 166 00:11:31.720 --> 00:11:35.440 like see your face again. And I'm like, I just set my alarm 167 00:11:35.480 --> 00:11:39.320 for three forty five and I had an existential crisis, Like what am I 168 00:11:39.440 --> 00:11:46.000 doing with my life that that will remain consistent in our twenty twenty four? 169 00:11:46.159 --> 00:11:50.639 What are we doing with our lives? Oh my god? Yeah. So 170 00:11:50.679 --> 00:11:56.840 while I don't love a resolution, I am very into this trend on social 171 00:11:56.879 --> 00:12:01.000 media right now, the ins and outs. Yeah, me too, me 172 00:12:01.080 --> 00:12:05.159 too. It's like a take on it, but it's not so militant. 173 00:12:05.720 --> 00:12:09.679 Oh, good word for it. Yeah. I like that they felt more 174 00:12:09.759 --> 00:12:13.759 like guidelines than rules. But it was a nice I was looking through a 175 00:12:13.759 --> 00:12:15.919 bunch of different ones. I'm like, that's a good idea. That that's 176 00:12:15.919 --> 00:12:20.679 a good idea I could do that. So let's I love. I'm excited 177 00:12:20.679 --> 00:12:22.480 to hear your ins and outs. Oh I'm obsessed with you. So that's 178 00:12:22.600 --> 00:12:28.120 why, well, you know, my like my big in for the year 179 00:12:28.639 --> 00:12:35.200 is reclaiming my time. Oh yes, I am reclaiming my time. That's 180 00:12:35.279 --> 00:12:46.360 in m m out is. This is like very specific, but staying in 181 00:12:46.519 --> 00:12:52.519 social situations that are a complete waste of my time. Good one that like, 182 00:12:52.720 --> 00:13:00.759 I like, I'm gonna still be polite. Obviously I'm polite Midwestern lady. 183 00:13:00.919 --> 00:13:03.639 But I'm like, I'm gonna let you go. Yes, I'm gonna 184 00:13:03.720 --> 00:13:07.360 let you go. That's a really good one. I actually don't care what 185 00:13:07.399 --> 00:13:11.240 you had to eat on Christmas Eve? Do you know what's so awful? 186 00:13:11.320 --> 00:13:13.799 Like at the end of a year. They did it again. Last year. 187 00:13:13.799 --> 00:13:16.879 They had a report that's like, this is how much time you waste 188 00:13:16.960 --> 00:13:20.960 saying goodbye in a year, and it's it rounds out to be like an 189 00:13:20.960 --> 00:13:24.159 hour and a half. You're not even joking, Like, I'm like what 190 00:13:24.759 --> 00:13:28.200 and I I do that? I do that? Ash me too, I 191 00:13:28.240 --> 00:13:33.440 have to like let whoever. I was at a baby shower over the holiday 192 00:13:33.600 --> 00:13:37.200 for a college friend and I carpooled with another friend who like lives kind of 193 00:13:37.240 --> 00:13:39.759 close to where the baby shower was, and she was like, Okay, 194 00:13:39.759 --> 00:13:43.240 are you ready to go? Like my ride was leaving and I was like, 195 00:13:43.240 --> 00:13:46.279 oh, let me just say goodbye. Forty five minutes later, I 196 00:13:46.360 --> 00:13:52.120 shit, you not Like I I'd love to be the Irish goodbye person. 197 00:13:52.240 --> 00:13:56.480 I just don't have it in me. It is in Irish good bye in 198 00:13:58.000 --> 00:14:00.720 I mean the Irish Gobye has always been in. I'm a big fan, 199 00:14:00.879 --> 00:14:05.679 but more like more on like a night out. Oh yes, oh, 200 00:14:05.759 --> 00:14:09.799 especially when there's a lot of people wherever you are, so you're not even 201 00:14:09.879 --> 00:14:16.200 noticed and you're like this boop ooops, uber's here, gotta go lift just 202 00:14:16.240 --> 00:14:22.200 pulled up. Wonderful. I like that. Yeah, so my out is 203 00:14:24.360 --> 00:14:28.120 your hustle grind a. I don't want to hear the words. I haven't 204 00:14:28.120 --> 00:14:30.679 wanted to hear those words in a very long time. But also like stop 205 00:14:31.279 --> 00:14:33.399 if you're hustling towards something that is actually a dream or a passion, all 206 00:14:33.440 --> 00:14:37.039 for it, love you, hype you up from the side, if it 207 00:14:37.120 --> 00:14:39.559 is for anything other than that, if it is for a company that clearly 208 00:14:39.559 --> 00:14:43.320 does not care about you, if you are not getting paid what you should 209 00:14:43.320 --> 00:14:48.080 be getting, like stop my end naps, stop the hustle for a minute, 210 00:14:48.559 --> 00:14:52.519 take a breather, take some rest however that looks for you, and 211 00:14:52.639 --> 00:14:56.240 just do it that way. There's a lot of angry people, especially in 212 00:14:56.279 --> 00:14:58.879 the winter time. I think that's why mm hm, you got it. 213 00:15:00.200 --> 00:15:01.759 Carry yourself first, don't hustle it. No, but we're not doing that 214 00:15:01.799 --> 00:15:05.720 anymore. Yeah. Sorry, Yeah, And I'm not a lazy millennial. 215 00:15:05.759 --> 00:15:09.080 I just want to take care of my body and my mind more than a 216 00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:13.759 bottom line. Yeah, that's a great it's my in and out that's such 217 00:15:13.759 --> 00:15:18.240 a great one. Yeah, slow living, slow living, living, very 218 00:15:18.279 --> 00:15:22.039 much in for twenty twenty four. I saw a Vanity article the other day 219 00:15:22.039 --> 00:15:28.039 that called it soft ambition, soft ambition. I gave me Tingles and Milady 220 00:15:28.080 --> 00:15:31.720 parts. I like that. I like soft ambition like I want it. 221 00:15:31.080 --> 00:15:35.399 I want it, but I'm not going to like lose sleep over it. 222 00:15:35.600 --> 00:15:39.559 I'm gonna work for it. I'm not gonna kill myself for it. Right, 223 00:15:39.399 --> 00:15:46.559 So, I think my other in and out in polite shopping out. 224 00:15:46.360 --> 00:15:50.960 I don't want to see anyone charging into a target to buy Gallantine Stanley cups 225 00:15:50.960 --> 00:15:54.480 while they push little children over to get six or seven of them in their 226 00:15:54.519 --> 00:15:58.600 bag. You're kidding, did you see the video? No, So they've 227 00:15:58.600 --> 00:16:03.120 got these limited editions Stanley's that are out now. They're like a reddish pink 228 00:16:03.159 --> 00:16:07.799 and they're for Galantine's Day. And like the target I read about, I 229 00:16:07.799 --> 00:16:11.759 think was in Arizona, sold out in four minutes. People were lined up 230 00:16:11.759 --> 00:16:17.000 before three am. I mean, I'm bitches, I would never have made 231 00:16:17.039 --> 00:16:18.240 it to the Stanleys. By the way, I get so distracted by that 232 00:16:18.279 --> 00:16:22.080 dollar ben, I was like, why is that pillow for only a dollar? 233 00:16:22.200 --> 00:16:26.759 Targe? People were lined up before three o'clock in the morning for this 234 00:16:26.360 --> 00:16:32.919 doors flew open. It was like og black Friday, sprinting in, pushing 235 00:16:32.960 --> 00:16:37.320 people down to grab as much of these mugs as they could and like leave. 236 00:16:37.440 --> 00:16:41.080 People were shouting like employees were shouting like limit tuber customary. Just nobody 237 00:16:41.120 --> 00:16:45.960 gave an f and it was just the worst of humanity. M let's be 238 00:16:47.000 --> 00:16:52.720 polite, in polite obnoxious out in blinkers. Oh man, when are they 239 00:16:52.759 --> 00:16:56.720 ever going to be in? When are we going to get on the same 240 00:16:56.799 --> 00:17:04.720 page about blinkers. I was following a woman yesterday and man, like multiple 241 00:17:04.759 --> 00:17:07.599 lane changes, she like cut me off at one point. So you know, 242 00:17:07.640 --> 00:17:11.240 when you like drive past those people, I always look. I'm like, 243 00:17:11.599 --> 00:17:12.640 I said, get what I'm working with here, I gotta see this 244 00:17:12.640 --> 00:17:18.359 piece afraid. She's on the phone. She's also I legal in the phone. 245 00:17:18.400 --> 00:17:21.759 She wasn't texting, she was talking on the phone. She's supporting it 246 00:17:21.799 --> 00:17:25.720 with a body part. Yes, Michigan law. She was holding it with 247 00:17:26.200 --> 00:17:30.759 her hand, but she was also driving like a medical transport vehicle supplies. 248 00:17:30.960 --> 00:17:33.279 That's even more supplies, and she was turning into the hospital. So I 249 00:17:33.319 --> 00:17:37.480 think that I just in my head, I made up a little story like 250 00:17:37.599 --> 00:17:41.279 it's life for death. It's life for death. Everyone got there in one 251 00:17:41.319 --> 00:17:49.480 piece. Slight for dad. She yeah, mmm, blinkers in, but 252 00:17:49.640 --> 00:17:53.920 also polite excuses in. Yeah, that was very nice of you to think 253 00:17:53.960 --> 00:17:57.720 those things. Yeah, that's one thing that's out for me in twenty twenty 254 00:17:57.720 --> 00:18:03.480 four. I gotta get a hold in my road rage. Like I'm let 255 00:18:03.480 --> 00:18:07.279 me know how you do it. I'm not like a dangerous driver, but 256 00:18:07.400 --> 00:18:08.920 like I will yell at you, yeah, and like you can't hear me. 257 00:18:08.960 --> 00:18:14.759 So I think that's okay. We're so brave, hey with the windows 258 00:18:14.799 --> 00:18:18.319 up. But there's a lot that's being said. There's a lot that's being 259 00:18:18.359 --> 00:18:21.599 said, and I won't do it when other people are in the car with 260 00:18:21.680 --> 00:18:26.200 me, which just like digging a little deeper and exploring that. Obviously, 261 00:18:26.240 --> 00:18:30.079 I know it's like not a nice thing. So maybe we're maybe we'll work 262 00:18:30.119 --> 00:18:34.839 on that. Maybe that's out for me this year. I'll tell you if 263 00:18:34.839 --> 00:18:40.400 you want to borrow my son, he will cut down on the road rage 264 00:18:40.480 --> 00:18:44.960 because boy does he call you out on his little Jesus love and heart. 265 00:18:45.480 --> 00:18:48.960 I gotta be so careful when I'm driving around with them, because I'll just 266 00:18:48.279 --> 00:18:51.480 I'll start to and he'll go, mom, what's wrong? And I'll be 267 00:18:51.480 --> 00:18:56.480 like, well, that man is just that man's just not driving very well. 268 00:18:56.519 --> 00:18:59.319 And he'll be like, I know, but ass is a bad word. 269 00:19:00.480 --> 00:19:03.119 So there you go. Give you like two rides with him and you'll 270 00:19:03.160 --> 00:19:08.519 really you'll find all of the really okay naughty words like well, this guy's 271 00:19:08.640 --> 00:19:15.720 just being a little jerk and name well, because I owe in the same 272 00:19:15.720 --> 00:19:18.119 way, I can't do it. Yeah. Oh, it's just got to 273 00:19:18.200 --> 00:19:25.119 a point. This is what this was a little bit controversial out TV shows 274 00:19:26.279 --> 00:19:34.160 in absolutely insane wild ass movies. I do you know where I'm going with 275 00:19:34.200 --> 00:19:41.279 this? I do, and I'm nervous. Have you watched Saltburn. I've 276 00:19:41.319 --> 00:19:45.079 watched it twice two times. I watched it. That is so unlike me. 277 00:19:45.160 --> 00:19:47.559 I watched it one time and then I was like I gotta watch it 278 00:19:47.599 --> 00:19:52.559 again. So okay, So why because I think you have a very similar 279 00:19:52.599 --> 00:19:57.519 I posted about this on my Instagram to ask the question is it scary like 280 00:19:59.039 --> 00:20:04.039 Haunting of Hillhouse Witch scar literally scarred me? Or is it like it's very 281 00:20:04.039 --> 00:20:08.759 misleading because a lot of the feedback and a lot of the messaging online is 282 00:20:08.759 --> 00:20:12.039 that it's a thriller. Yeah, and it sounds scary from all the like 283 00:20:12.160 --> 00:20:19.160 plot things. It's not. It's very much not a thriller. Thriller to 284 00:20:19.240 --> 00:20:29.359 me is like like American Psycho or yeah, okay, or even like Nightmare 285 00:20:29.359 --> 00:20:33.440 on Elm Street, Like that's a thriller to me. Also like scary. 286 00:20:33.839 --> 00:20:36.799 I don't want scary scary, it's not. Okay, it's not. You 287 00:20:36.839 --> 00:20:40.400 will not have oh well, you'll have dreams about it, but not scary 288 00:20:40.480 --> 00:20:47.920 dreams. Oh not scary. I will say you and your husband should watch 289 00:20:47.960 --> 00:20:49.920 it together because I know you guys, and like, you guys will be 290 00:20:49.960 --> 00:20:59.920 fine. I was uncomfy watching it, like at multiple points. Yeah, 291 00:21:00.039 --> 00:21:07.160 yes, yes, and the second time, the one time I watched it 292 00:21:07.200 --> 00:21:15.279 alone, one time I was with company, and oh watching it alone like 293 00:21:15.720 --> 00:21:22.319 it was just as uncomfortable the second time. But worth seeing, so worth 294 00:21:22.359 --> 00:21:26.480 it, so worth it. It's a brilliant film. It's a brilliant film. 295 00:21:26.519 --> 00:21:32.039 And if you are into movies that don't make sense up until the very 296 00:21:32.119 --> 00:21:37.480 end, oh god, Okayen, you get to see the genius of the 297 00:21:37.519 --> 00:21:42.160 screenplay and how it just It's always been very fascinating to me, the way 298 00:21:42.200 --> 00:21:48.480 people can write books and write movies that are so full of suspense and like, 299 00:21:49.039 --> 00:21:56.119 write these things and weave these foreshadowing and these little hints in, and 300 00:21:56.160 --> 00:22:00.200 then later it comes back and you're like, holy shit, that you will 301 00:22:00.279 --> 00:22:07.079 like it. Okay. And also Jacob a LOORDI, oh okay, not 302 00:22:07.160 --> 00:22:11.319 your type. I wasn't totally sure. I only know the name. I 303 00:22:11.359 --> 00:22:12.400 don't know a ton about him. I only know the name because he's also 304 00:22:12.440 --> 00:22:17.160 being rumored for the new Twilight series. Oh yeah, that's the okay. 305 00:22:17.200 --> 00:22:19.240 So he said that, yeah, boy, because I have heard so many 306 00:22:19.240 --> 00:22:22.400 people are like, you have to see Saltburn. So I post about that, 307 00:22:22.400 --> 00:22:26.359 and one of my friends messaged and said, exactly what you just did. 308 00:22:26.920 --> 00:22:30.480 So that makes me feel I was just nervous. It was gonna be 309 00:22:30.480 --> 00:22:32.920 one of those that gives me nightmares about scary stuff. You know what, 310 00:22:33.000 --> 00:22:37.200 Watch it with E. Watch it with E. Yeah, yeah, okay, 311 00:22:37.319 --> 00:22:41.519 you guys should have a midnight Margarita Saltburn night. Make sure the kids 312 00:22:41.559 --> 00:22:47.559 are like a sleep asleep, like lock their doors because you don't want you 313 00:22:47.599 --> 00:22:49.559 don't want. This isn't one where you want them like creeping halfway down the 314 00:22:49.599 --> 00:22:52.799 stairs and like watching a little bit of it. I don't think that that 315 00:22:52.839 --> 00:22:55.039 would be good. Oh, oh my god, good, Okay, I 316 00:22:55.039 --> 00:22:56.720 don't think that would be good for any anybody. Trust me. You do 317 00:22:56.839 --> 00:23:00.359 not want to explain this, and you don't want them to. Oh my 318 00:23:00.400 --> 00:23:03.559 god. I don't feel like I am mature enough as a thirty two year 319 00:23:03.559 --> 00:23:07.119 old woman to have seen some of the things that I saw. I mean, 320 00:23:07.160 --> 00:23:10.240 like, don't get me wrong, I loved every second of it. 321 00:23:10.240 --> 00:23:14.519 It unleashed something in me that I did not know was there. Oh my 322 00:23:14.599 --> 00:23:17.480 god, I cannot So I'm supposed to be moving stuff tonight, and I 323 00:23:17.480 --> 00:23:19.759 think I'm gonna be like you have me until seven o'clock and then I'm gonna 324 00:23:19.799 --> 00:23:26.440 need to have the TV to myself there in my room. Feral, feral, 325 00:23:26.720 --> 00:23:32.240 it is. It's wild. It's wild. I'm glad that that's that's 326 00:23:32.240 --> 00:23:37.599 how I closed out my twenty twenty three was strong Old saw Saltburn right before 327 00:23:37.839 --> 00:23:41.160 the new year, and it really just puts you into a headspace to go 328 00:23:41.319 --> 00:23:47.559 into the new year. Oh wow, yeah, okay, you gotta watch 329 00:23:47.599 --> 00:23:52.759 it. You have me like tingling with excitement to see this. I wish 330 00:23:52.799 --> 00:23:55.160 I could go home, like right now and watch it instead of having to 331 00:23:55.160 --> 00:24:00.559 do like adult stuff. There are three like major in that I will be 332 00:24:00.880 --> 00:24:03.960 dying to talk about with you. And I don't even know if we can 333 00:24:03.960 --> 00:24:10.680 talk about him on the podcast. Oh wow, you'll know. You'll know 334 00:24:10.839 --> 00:24:15.400 if you've if you've seen Saltburne, you know exactly which three the three big 335 00:24:15.799 --> 00:24:19.119 things. It's like two hours two and a half or is it like it's 336 00:24:19.119 --> 00:24:25.200 like two hours. It's two hours two hours of you for a eye opening 337 00:24:26.519 --> 00:24:30.160 I wish, like, if you're listening to the pod right now, thank 338 00:24:30.200 --> 00:24:34.559 you. But we also put this on YouTube, and you need to watch 339 00:24:34.640 --> 00:24:41.440 this one because Allie's face every time you've been talking about it like a little 340 00:24:41.480 --> 00:24:45.839 bit, Yes, this is You've got to see her talking about it. 341 00:24:45.880 --> 00:24:49.319 This is making me very, very very excited. Yeah, what is it? 342 00:24:49.400 --> 00:24:56.440 Netflix Prime? It is on Amazon Prime streaming, which I thought was 343 00:24:56.480 --> 00:24:59.920 an interesting choice. But I also think that's part of the reason why more 344 00:25:00.039 --> 00:25:04.079 people haven't seen it. Yeah, good point, because it's been out for 345 00:25:04.359 --> 00:25:07.440 over a month. Yep. Yeah. I think it came out like right 346 00:25:07.480 --> 00:25:11.880 after Thanksgiving. Yeah, but I saw it like premiered at one of the 347 00:25:11.880 --> 00:25:15.640 film festivals late August and then was out late November. Yeah. But I 348 00:25:15.640 --> 00:25:18.880 will say I do think they've done kind of a terrible job of selling this 349 00:25:18.000 --> 00:25:23.759 as like a thriller, like a it is suspenseful, like there are moments, 350 00:25:23.759 --> 00:25:29.359 but I there was never any It's not like gory. Yeah, you're 351 00:25:29.400 --> 00:25:33.799 not gonna okay, okay, good, You're not gonna be like I mean 352 00:25:33.640 --> 00:25:40.920 maybe with like some of the more it's very sexual. Okay, it's very 353 00:25:41.400 --> 00:25:45.519 That's why I say, like there are some parts that are like like you 354 00:25:45.640 --> 00:25:52.359 clutch your pearls. Even I was like, holy shit, how did you 355 00:25:52.400 --> 00:25:55.119 come to watch it? Had you heard about it or you just saw it? 356 00:25:55.119 --> 00:25:56.440 And you were like, let's cause I've had it served to me on 357 00:25:56.559 --> 00:26:00.279 Prime. I've like watched a lot over the and I was like, oh, 358 00:26:00.319 --> 00:26:04.880 I don't I thought it looks like a cooking show, so I didn't 359 00:26:04.880 --> 00:26:07.079 click on it. I was like, oh, is that like the Great 360 00:26:07.079 --> 00:26:10.519 British Bake Off? For like Prime? No, thanks, I'm not really 361 00:26:10.519 --> 00:26:15.839 into that. No, it's a I would say it's a comedy drama. 362 00:26:15.079 --> 00:26:19.920 Yeah, a comedy drama. I love that we've like given our first podcast 363 00:26:19.920 --> 00:26:23.359 homework assignment. M like, you all need to go watch Saltburn please, 364 00:26:23.559 --> 00:26:27.480 same time as me, and then we're gonna like reconvene please for whatever we 365 00:26:27.599 --> 00:26:32.799 can. I asked on my Instagram how many people had seen Saltburn, and 366 00:26:32.920 --> 00:26:34.880 the overwhelming majority have not seen it. But there were a few people who 367 00:26:34.880 --> 00:26:38.200 were like, they did not respond to the poll, but they messaged me 368 00:26:38.319 --> 00:26:41.839 separately and they were like, I saw it, like you little freak. 369 00:26:41.960 --> 00:26:49.000 I totally got it though. I love that welcoming our fellow freaks into twenty 370 00:26:49.000 --> 00:26:52.599 twenty four. Yeah, but we're doing that.