WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.640 --> 00:00:04.679 Bottle That Bitches is hosted by a horny married couple. Content may include adult 2 00:00:04.759 --> 00:00:08.919 language and themes. Check the description for more details. Your discretion is advised. 3 00:00:14.119 --> 00:00:18.760 Its season four. Welcome to Bottle Up Bitches, your favorite sex podcast, 4 00:00:18.920 --> 00:00:23.160 hosted by a horny married couple with me Rihanna Campbell and me producer Man 5 00:00:23.359 --> 00:00:27.480 Adam. Sex shouldn't be taboo or embarrassing, so let's talk about it. 6 00:00:31.839 --> 00:00:38.240 Mut School Jova, no goda for you. I got grace in my head. 7 00:00:38.600 --> 00:00:43.799 Yeah that's fair, because you know I've been spending all day just erupted. 8 00:00:44.280 --> 00:00:56.079 Roland can't well good send it? What is the rocketed? What General 9 00:00:56.159 --> 00:01:00.359 Rolson used to be so sexy? Yeah, before the scientology, he's had 10 00:01:00.399 --> 00:01:03.079 a tough life. Well because your wife died. You were listening to this 11 00:01:03.239 --> 00:01:07.799 and this blew my mind. This episode is starting off wild. I don't 12 00:01:07.840 --> 00:01:11.719 care, but I'm gonna give a podcast recommendation. Oh don't do that, 13 00:01:12.400 --> 00:01:17.159 just kidding. Um. People should go listen to like. They're a bit 14 00:01:17.200 --> 00:01:21.280 intense there. They're definitely a specific taste. But last Podcast on the Left 15 00:01:21.719 --> 00:01:26.480 did a series on David Muscavic and they real reveal some stuff in there. 16 00:01:26.480 --> 00:01:29.239 That was pretty That blew my mind because yes, there's always that rumor that 17 00:01:29.400 --> 00:01:34.879 John Travolta is gay, but apparently there's like evidence that has been found that 18 00:01:34.000 --> 00:01:41.840 David Muscavich like blackmeiled John Travolta with the gay thing. Jesus, like you, 19 00:01:42.239 --> 00:01:45.319 you may have not been paying attention, yeah, but but yeah, 20 00:01:45.359 --> 00:01:48.599 it's pretty wild. So you know, my heart goes out to John Travolta. 21 00:01:48.640 --> 00:01:51.439 I think he kind of got in. I feel like he accidentally got 22 00:01:51.480 --> 00:01:53.599 into the wrong crowd and has kind of been paying for it. Scientology is 23 00:01:53.719 --> 00:02:00.000 notoriously difficult and almost impossible to get out of the rest, and then they'll 24 00:02:00.040 --> 00:02:02.760 ruin your life if edily. So I mean, if you're in the public 25 00:02:02.760 --> 00:02:05.959 guy, I can only imagine how terrifying that is. So I do have 26 00:02:05.959 --> 00:02:07.400 a little bit of empathy, and I think people and that he does. 27 00:02:07.439 --> 00:02:12.120 He's not like Tom Cruise where he's running around, yeah, promoting it, 28 00:02:12.319 --> 00:02:16.319 because I think also people forget how how genuinely easy it is to accidentally get 29 00:02:16.360 --> 00:02:21.159 into a cult. I think, I agree, Oh, I agree, 30 00:02:21.240 --> 00:02:25.520 And I am so susceptible, like I could easily like when I watched Swarm 31 00:02:25.599 --> 00:02:30.039 without you, I apologize you watch I watched that one episode and I was 32 00:02:30.080 --> 00:02:31.039 like, I was like, I give it props, but this ain't for 33 00:02:31.080 --> 00:02:35.319 me. Well, you watched the episode Billie Eilish, which I thought was 34 00:02:35.319 --> 00:02:38.280 actually that was a cult I thought, and it was, and I was 35 00:02:38.319 --> 00:02:40.240 like, oh, I would easily be in that tomorrow. No, it's 36 00:02:40.280 --> 00:02:45.039 true. It's so seductive. It's absolutely true. Now it's very it's very 37 00:02:45.080 --> 00:02:51.400 easy for people to accidentally fall into it. But I moving along. Sorry, 38 00:02:51.520 --> 00:02:53.520 this is gonna be a wild episode. I think it is that. 39 00:02:53.560 --> 00:02:55.280 I'm so excited to talk about it and elaborate with you, but I also 40 00:02:55.319 --> 00:03:00.520 want to move past, like the announcement of it. Like I want to, 41 00:03:00.719 --> 00:03:01.599 I really want to talk about it, but I also don't want it 42 00:03:01.599 --> 00:03:06.280 to be the main because I have main things I wanted sum So you and 43 00:03:06.319 --> 00:03:08.840 I had a heart to heart conversation about the future of Bottle Deep Bitches and 44 00:03:08.879 --> 00:03:14.759 what it means. You and I have had a really good time interviewing. 45 00:03:14.879 --> 00:03:19.719 We decided, you know, after our rebrand. You know, for those 46 00:03:19.719 --> 00:03:22.960 of you who are new and understanding or those of you who have been on 47 00:03:22.960 --> 00:03:28.199 this ride with us, Season one was not guest based. Season two we 48 00:03:28.319 --> 00:03:34.840 decided to make guest Base and we were kind of learning finding people wanting you 49 00:03:34.840 --> 00:03:40.280 to talk about their sex lives. It went over decently well. Season three 50 00:03:40.360 --> 00:03:46.520 happened. We decided to invest more time in finding guests, like more professionals, 51 00:03:46.520 --> 00:03:47.639 and we have a lot of people reaching out to us. A lot 52 00:03:47.680 --> 00:03:52.560 of the our guests from season three reached out to us. And now that 53 00:03:52.599 --> 00:04:00.560 we're on season four, trucking along you and I had the realization that guest 54 00:04:00.840 --> 00:04:08.240 Based is incredible, but it isn't where our inspiration. It's not for us. 55 00:04:08.360 --> 00:04:11.400 So well, no, no, no, let me okay, fair 56 00:04:11.479 --> 00:04:15.400 fair that was that was poor phrasing. It's not where the focus is. 57 00:04:15.680 --> 00:04:18.480 Yes, So I think, in an effort of true of full transparency, 58 00:04:18.639 --> 00:04:23.959 let's do it. Um Rihanna and I have struggled a little bit this season 59 00:04:24.199 --> 00:04:28.160 of feeling inspired with the show filling all this stuff, and so we kind 60 00:04:28.199 --> 00:04:30.839 of had a heart to heart today and kind of figuring out, like, 61 00:04:30.879 --> 00:04:38.040 why are we struggling so much with doing this show? And I think that's 62 00:04:38.279 --> 00:04:42.759 what we kind of deter you know, the original concept of the show, 63 00:04:42.759 --> 00:04:46.360 and I think it still holds true an our idea for what we want the 64 00:04:46.360 --> 00:04:51.040 show to be is we want to make the conversation about sex to be a 65 00:04:51.399 --> 00:04:56.839 less taboo, to be more casual. You know, the the whole concept 66 00:04:56.839 --> 00:04:59.720 of the show started because you were like, why can I not talk about 67 00:04:59.759 --> 00:05:02.639 sex with my friends and talk about our sexual journeys with each other? And 68 00:05:02.680 --> 00:05:06.639 so that was kind of the whole concept. And I think we talked about 69 00:05:06.680 --> 00:05:10.439 you know, we've had a lot of great guests. This is not to 70 00:05:10.879 --> 00:05:15.360 like discredit or anywhere, and we have some incredible guests that are going to 71 00:05:15.439 --> 00:05:18.560 be on this season. Absolutely, we are not saying that guests are going 72 00:05:18.600 --> 00:05:24.240 away, correct, but guests are now going to be a treaty. Guests 73 00:05:24.240 --> 00:05:29.439 are now my thumb in your mouthay accident. Guests are going to be um 74 00:05:29.480 --> 00:05:31.879 not the vocal. Yeah, the guests, the idea of being guest base 75 00:05:32.000 --> 00:05:35.680 is going to take a bit more of a back seat because I do think 76 00:05:35.720 --> 00:05:42.600 with the guests, with with the guests, we have kind of lost that 77 00:05:43.120 --> 00:05:46.639 initial intention. Yeah, I mean I want to I do want to have 78 00:05:46.720 --> 00:05:48.439 guests on where I can talk to them about their sex life. Correct, 79 00:05:48.600 --> 00:05:51.480 Right, We've had We've had we talked about this today, like we've had 80 00:05:51.519 --> 00:05:58.399 a lot of Anna's um. People loved it. People loved it because we've 81 00:05:58.399 --> 00:06:02.959 had a lot of professional professionals and we've had a lot of like coaches, 82 00:06:03.279 --> 00:06:06.199 sex and sex therapists and all this, and I think those are great interviews 83 00:06:06.199 --> 00:06:09.759 and I think those are we've learned so much. I think we've learned so 84 00:06:09.839 --> 00:06:15.959 much. Yeah, but I do think that that was that kind of separated 85 00:06:15.040 --> 00:06:19.319 from what the show was trying to get, was trying to be UM so 86 00:06:19.319 --> 00:06:24.439 so yeah, so the get where we talked about it, and I think 87 00:06:25.040 --> 00:06:28.639 we think what how we can get back on track and really make it the 88 00:06:28.680 --> 00:06:32.319 show we want to make is having the guests take a backseat a little bit 89 00:06:33.199 --> 00:06:38.600 and then also being a little more selective. And I've loved all of our 90 00:06:38.639 --> 00:06:44.360 guests, so yes, we will be a little more selective. I truly 91 00:06:44.399 --> 00:06:47.560 want to have guests and it be the precursor that if you are going to 92 00:06:47.600 --> 00:06:54.199 be a guest on this show, you will be prepared and ready to have 93 00:06:54.319 --> 00:06:58.800 conversations about your sex life. I want that to be a precursor in a 94 00:06:58.800 --> 00:07:01.759 confirm understanding, people that come on this show, we will talk about yourself's 95 00:07:01.759 --> 00:07:06.079 life and in a boundary way, you know, I'm not here to get 96 00:07:06.079 --> 00:07:10.920 anyone uncomfortable, but the people who agree to be on the show are ready 97 00:07:10.959 --> 00:07:14.480 for that. They know that that's what that's what we're here to do is 98 00:07:15.360 --> 00:07:19.720 two friends, two BFFs, two acquaintances to whoever's opening up about each other 99 00:07:19.920 --> 00:07:23.959 and then coming to me with questions as much as I come to them with 100 00:07:24.040 --> 00:07:30.199 questions and understanding things and giving advice to each other. So and to the 101 00:07:30.199 --> 00:07:32.319 people that are like, Okay, another show update, I roll. You 102 00:07:32.399 --> 00:07:36.879 have to remember, guys, the rebrand of Adam and I taking over the 103 00:07:38.279 --> 00:07:42.680 ownership and the hosting ship of this show has not even been a year. 104 00:07:43.160 --> 00:07:46.680 I know, being on season four makes it sound like we've been doing this 105 00:07:46.720 --> 00:07:49.560 for so long. But our first episode with Esther, which shout out to 106 00:07:49.720 --> 00:07:54.240 Esther, love Esther so much, that was Season two had more of that. 107 00:07:54.319 --> 00:07:58.399 Season two was incredible, talking about each other's sexualizes and having that having 108 00:07:58.439 --> 00:08:01.600 that friendship. I just think that as we grew on social media and we 109 00:08:01.639 --> 00:08:05.600 grew in new notoriety, we had more professionals reaching out to us, you 110 00:08:05.639 --> 00:08:07.839 know, because they want to, you know, talk about their business, 111 00:08:07.879 --> 00:08:13.560 talk about what they offer. And I've appreciated We've learned so much from every 112 00:08:13.600 --> 00:08:16.120 single guest. We've been so appreciative, and we're still going to have guests. 113 00:08:18.560 --> 00:08:20.120 We just don't want that to be the focal point anymore, just to 114 00:08:20.160 --> 00:08:26.360 get back contract and having a focus on us. So yeah, yeah, 115 00:08:26.480 --> 00:08:31.279 I think, like you know, I think this show is what we want 116 00:08:31.319 --> 00:08:37.919 this show to be, is more of the journey of our sexual experiences and 117 00:08:37.960 --> 00:08:41.159 growth and other people. You know, when we do have guests, like 118 00:08:41.159 --> 00:08:43.440 you said, we wanted to be about that sex life. We wanted to 119 00:08:43.480 --> 00:08:48.559 be about their their specific journey. And you know, there's so many shows 120 00:08:48.600 --> 00:08:54.399 out there in the sexual category that is professionals. Professionals. Hey, we're 121 00:08:54.399 --> 00:08:58.679 having this person come on to talk about the psychology of sex and that's like 122 00:08:58.759 --> 00:09:03.320 fantastic, And all of these coaches having their own show. Yeah, and 123 00:09:03.360 --> 00:09:07.039 all these coaches have their own So there's so many professional, professional things out 124 00:09:07.039 --> 00:09:11.000 there. And it's funny because we talked about this when we first started, 125 00:09:11.000 --> 00:09:13.919 when we first did this rebrand, how you know, we specifically said, 126 00:09:13.919 --> 00:09:18.120 there there's so many professional based shows out there. We don't want to do 127 00:09:18.159 --> 00:09:22.639 that. I will never become a sexologist. I will never get a degree 128 00:09:22.679 --> 00:09:26.000 in something I always want to educate myself and learn new things, but I 129 00:09:26.039 --> 00:09:30.440 am not here to become an educator. Correct, That's not where my past 130 00:09:30.480 --> 00:09:33.600 Our show kind of ended up turning into that a little more than we wanted. 131 00:09:33.559 --> 00:09:35.960 So I think we're just kind of pulling back and getting back to what 132 00:09:37.039 --> 00:09:39.159 the bones of the show is, and that is just like, let's just 133 00:09:39.240 --> 00:09:43.440 talk about fucking, fucking, fucking let's just talk about our sex and our 134 00:09:43.480 --> 00:09:48.279 journeys and other people's journeys, and our sex life has taken a backseat because 135 00:09:48.320 --> 00:09:52.240 of that. Correct, Yeah, So I think so many of our solo 136 00:09:52.360 --> 00:09:56.799 episodes, like a whole lot of ass and masks making love in Mexico when 137 00:09:56.840 --> 00:10:01.879 we granted we're traveling in all those but our travel logs and us talking about 138 00:10:01.919 --> 00:10:07.279 our sex life is those are our top episodes. People are invested in you 139 00:10:07.360 --> 00:10:11.320 and I as people. I think we've created a really great foundation of people 140 00:10:11.360 --> 00:10:13.960 wanting to learn who we are. And because we are now guest base and 141 00:10:15.039 --> 00:10:18.679 we have lives and all these things are happening, our sex life has definitely 142 00:10:18.720 --> 00:10:22.039 taken a backseat. And so you and I had a long conversation. You're 143 00:10:22.080 --> 00:10:24.399 hearing it now. You whole. I'm saying it out loud so it holds 144 00:10:24.440 --> 00:10:28.080 us accountable. It's not going to be the It's going to be a transition, 145 00:10:28.080 --> 00:10:30.799 but it's not going to be the biggest one that I'm hoping for. 146 00:10:31.039 --> 00:10:31.840 You know, off the bat. We're in the middle of season four, 147 00:10:31.919 --> 00:10:35.960 right, so when we've already done so many interviews, you are going to 148 00:10:37.039 --> 00:10:41.960 now see that Adam and I are making our sex life a priority and trying 149 00:10:41.000 --> 00:10:48.320 new things a priority, b having a sex journey a priority. You and 150 00:10:48.360 --> 00:10:50.320 I are gonna I'm gonna, I'm We're gonna go. I already have an 151 00:10:50.320 --> 00:10:54.080 idea. I already have a fucking idea. You know how I gave you. 152 00:10:54.240 --> 00:10:58.039 I don't think I talked about this, but on your birthday, I 153 00:10:58.080 --> 00:11:03.600 wanted to give you um a high school experience because you didn't go on dates 154 00:11:03.600 --> 00:11:07.960 in high school and that breaks me up inside because they're so fun. So 155 00:11:09.159 --> 00:11:11.159 what I did was I took you to top notch Burger. We got a 156 00:11:11.279 --> 00:11:15.279 drive in Burger that's the burger place that's also featured in Days and Confusing. 157 00:11:15.480 --> 00:11:18.559 I go and we got a delicious burger at the drive through. It was 158 00:11:18.679 --> 00:11:20.159 very good. It was really good. And then we went to Sonic to 159 00:11:20.159 --> 00:11:24.799 get dessert, to get a blunder very queen dairy queen days. Yeah, 160 00:11:26.159 --> 00:11:28.720 to get ice cream, because it's always you want to go get ice cream. 161 00:11:28.759 --> 00:11:33.320 Sure, and be careful, fellows and women people, if you go 162 00:11:33.399 --> 00:11:37.159 to a dairy queen, be careful in their sizing because they will get you 163 00:11:37.200 --> 00:11:41.279 on that um. And then we went to a drive in movie. Why 164 00:11:41.320 --> 00:11:43.480 I didn't give you a hand job, I don't know, but I want 165 00:11:43.480 --> 00:11:48.519 to do that. I think you and I need to do those things you 166 00:11:48.559 --> 00:11:50.399 didn't get to do. I want to give you a hand job in a 167 00:11:50.440 --> 00:11:54.799 movie theater. Yeah, we'll be careful. Don't worry. We're gonna having 168 00:11:54.799 --> 00:11:58.440 a whole episode about how we get arrested for like lud conduct um. But 169 00:11:58.519 --> 00:12:01.559 like you have an experience those things. I want to give those things to 170 00:12:01.600 --> 00:12:05.360 you. So we are making it a priority, not just not just for 171 00:12:05.399 --> 00:12:11.039 the content of the show, but because our sex life is very important to 172 00:12:11.080 --> 00:12:13.360 us. I think I've always been like it's important, and you're like okay, 173 00:12:13.440 --> 00:12:16.320 but you've been very much like okay. It is very important to branch 174 00:12:16.399 --> 00:12:18.440 out and try new things. We have a long life ahead with each other 175 00:12:20.200 --> 00:12:22.480 that we need to do new things, try new things, and I want 176 00:12:22.519 --> 00:12:26.000 that to be a big piece of this show. I want our audience. 177 00:12:26.000 --> 00:12:30.039 I want you guys listening to know that we are trying new things and we're 178 00:12:30.080 --> 00:12:33.159 gonna talk about it, and maybe that'll inspire you to try new things with 179 00:12:33.320 --> 00:12:37.000 your partner, for our partners, or by yourself. So, yeah, 180 00:12:37.039 --> 00:12:41.360 we did a lot. We already have like so many things jotted down and 181 00:12:41.480 --> 00:12:45.639 segments and things we're gonna do. I told him, I want to get 182 00:12:45.639 --> 00:12:48.200 to the point where we do get to go to the Mustang ranch and have 183 00:12:48.279 --> 00:12:50.919 a professional threesome because that's important to us to have a threesome of the professional 184 00:12:50.960 --> 00:12:54.960 that can lead us through it because we both have never had one. So 185 00:12:54.039 --> 00:12:58.440 we're gonna get there. We're gonna try new things. I think we're gonna 186 00:12:58.440 --> 00:13:05.440 have anal like it's gonna happen. We've been teasing that for years. Um, 187 00:13:05.960 --> 00:13:09.960 so I'm very excited, and I think having the show holds as accountable 188 00:13:09.000 --> 00:13:13.879 that we have to make sex a priority. And yeah, I hope you 189 00:13:13.879 --> 00:13:16.240 guys love it. I hope you all are along for the ride. Um, 190 00:13:16.799 --> 00:13:20.279 it's going to be a good time. I think it has taken having 191 00:13:20.320 --> 00:13:24.919 all of those guests to learn how to better communicate to establish our needs. 192 00:13:26.519 --> 00:13:31.559 We went through a really big we went through such a big relationship change last 193 00:13:31.679 --> 00:13:35.200 year that has helped us learn how to communicate and communicate our needs. And 194 00:13:35.320 --> 00:13:39.519 once you're learning to be more open minded, I'm learning to be more patient. 195 00:13:39.759 --> 00:13:43.159 Like I just think I am ready. Yeah, I think I don't 196 00:13:43.320 --> 00:13:48.200 it tell everything to get here. I don't regret no what the showed, 197 00:13:48.279 --> 00:13:50.360 what we did with the show, I don't at all. I think, 198 00:13:50.399 --> 00:13:52.559 like like you said, I think it took that to get here, and 199 00:13:52.600 --> 00:13:58.000 I think I'm just excited for this, like new, this next evolution of 200 00:13:58.360 --> 00:14:03.360 the show. And guys, yeah, it's like the shit's a learning process, 201 00:14:03.919 --> 00:14:07.799 us figuring out like how what you know, what the show is going 202 00:14:07.879 --> 00:14:11.639 to be in our journey. So yeah, I'm just and respectfully with you 203 00:14:11.679 --> 00:14:15.679 guys that have of us having um I don't want to say large, but 204 00:14:15.759 --> 00:14:18.879 we do have a really good size audience. We picked up speed very quickly, 205 00:14:20.200 --> 00:14:22.559 Yeah, especially an indie podcasts. Yeah, terms, you know, 206 00:14:22.879 --> 00:14:26.759 we went from oh my god, I'm so excited we have thirty listens in 207 00:14:26.759 --> 00:14:28.879 a week to oh my god, I'm so excited. We have a few 208 00:14:28.000 --> 00:14:33.200 hundred in a week, you know, like we have a rapid audience. 209 00:14:33.320 --> 00:14:35.759 In less than a year, our growth has been tremendous and the amount of 210 00:14:35.799 --> 00:14:41.159 people listening. So I feel like the pressure to get it right was a 211 00:14:41.159 --> 00:14:43.279 little more there. I agree. I think like that we didn't have like 212 00:14:43.399 --> 00:14:48.279 a year or two to figure it out. Our feet kind of got lifted 213 00:14:48.360 --> 00:14:50.559 up from under us, I think a little bit. But like, thank 214 00:14:50.559 --> 00:14:54.960 you so much for that audience. Yeah, no, absolutely, it's it's 215 00:14:54.000 --> 00:14:58.440 it's a it's because we're in like the top five percent of indie podcasts. 216 00:14:58.559 --> 00:15:01.519 Yeah, it's a great thing. It's a great thing to happen. But 217 00:15:01.600 --> 00:15:03.960 it did. You're right. It put like this kind of pressure, and 218 00:15:03.399 --> 00:15:07.279 especially with the change from season one to season two of like what are we 219 00:15:07.279 --> 00:15:09.840 gonna do? How? What's what's? What's the system? Here? Is? 220 00:15:09.919 --> 00:15:15.519 The biggest album wasn't until like album three or four. Absolutely, Matt's 221 00:15:15.519 --> 00:15:18.480 biggest album wasn't until like albums three or four. Absolutely, not to say 222 00:15:18.559 --> 00:15:22.960 like other bands are better, but Russia's big album was their first album. 223 00:15:22.360 --> 00:15:26.159 Um yeah, so yeah, no, I think it's gonna be fun. 224 00:15:26.200 --> 00:15:28.679 I joked, earlier that and this isn't gonna be the whole show. There's 225 00:15:28.679 --> 00:15:33.519 gonna be all kinds of different stuff we do. Um, but I did 226 00:15:33.639 --> 00:15:35.360 joke earlier that a part of this show is going to be like old school 227 00:15:35.480 --> 00:15:41.879 vice. Maybe yeah, yeah, yeah, but I'm excited. I think 228 00:15:41.879 --> 00:15:45.519 it's gonna be good. I think it's gonna like, I think it's gonna 229 00:15:45.519 --> 00:15:52.919 be nice because we're obviously gonna like explore our sexual lives together and be able. 230 00:15:52.000 --> 00:15:56.919 Like you said, hopefully people hear that and they get expired or my 231 00:15:58.000 --> 00:16:02.399 favorite thing is people going, oh my god, I'm not the only one, 232 00:16:02.639 --> 00:16:06.639 or you know, I'm not feeling so alone. And also I think 233 00:16:06.679 --> 00:16:11.240 the show will help keep us accountable, to make sure we're constantly evolving evolving 234 00:16:11.320 --> 00:16:14.960 interests. Yeah. Yeah, So with that being said, don't be free 235 00:16:15.000 --> 00:16:18.519 to email us at Bottle the Talk at Gmail if there are things you want 236 00:16:18.559 --> 00:16:22.399 us to try. Yeah, if you have suggestions, send them over. 237 00:16:22.519 --> 00:16:26.720 There's a probably a good amount of them that we have not tried. Like 238 00:16:26.799 --> 00:16:30.720 I we try and keep things spicy, but I think we're still like you 239 00:16:30.759 --> 00:16:33.000 know, like level two on the spice level. Sure, if you have 240 00:16:33.159 --> 00:16:37.000 suggestions something you've tried that. You're like, I didn't know. It's gonna 241 00:16:37.000 --> 00:16:38.720 love this so much. Send us an email bottle talk at gmail dot com, 242 00:16:38.840 --> 00:16:41.559 or you can give us a call if you have a suggestion, Yeah, 243 00:16:41.600 --> 00:16:44.919 you can. You can call our hotline. You can call our highline 244 00:16:44.919 --> 00:16:48.519 and give us suggestions too, which for everyone that number is five one two 245 00:16:48.759 --> 00:16:51.919 nine, one zero five seven ninety six. So give us an email, 246 00:16:51.919 --> 00:16:55.879 give us a call, slide into our d MS. Yeah, whatever whatever 247 00:16:56.080 --> 00:17:08.440 floats your boat. 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Join our Patreon, join the 254 00:17:32.759 --> 00:17:36.799 fun, and enjoy all the exclusive benefits to become a very important bitch. 255 00:17:47.519 --> 00:17:51.079 But speaking of guests in session our experience, I wanted to talk a little 256 00:17:51.119 --> 00:17:56.920 bit about it's kind of like a BTS behind the scenes situation of someone that 257 00:17:56.160 --> 00:18:00.960 wanted to be a guest on our show that we it didn't work out. 258 00:18:00.319 --> 00:18:04.519 Yeah, respectfully, So I'm not going to name names. Yeah, yeah, 259 00:18:04.799 --> 00:18:07.440 it's not a bad thing. It just didn't work out. But yeah, 260 00:18:07.640 --> 00:18:11.039 it's not like they were like fuck you. I think it just kind 261 00:18:11.079 --> 00:18:14.240 of sizzled. Yeah, you and I were very nervous about it. It 262 00:18:14.319 --> 00:18:18.799 just didn't happen. Yeah, we had someone reach out who has an entire 263 00:18:18.920 --> 00:18:26.119 blog and dedicated career to being a professional cheater. Yeah. Yeah, and 264 00:18:26.400 --> 00:18:33.559 naturally, so I was intrigued. You were nervous. This person literally is 265 00:18:33.640 --> 00:18:38.039 married and cheats on their wife and has an entire blog dedicated on like how 266 00:18:38.039 --> 00:18:44.200 to not get caught and the kind of rhyme and reason I kind of asked. 267 00:18:44.200 --> 00:18:45.079 I was like, why do you want to be on this show? 268 00:18:47.000 --> 00:18:51.599 Like we don't want to promote being unfaithful. Yeah, And it was like 269 00:18:51.799 --> 00:18:55.519 they responded with, like, no, I just want to provide insight and 270 00:18:55.519 --> 00:19:02.079 clarity, like sometimes cheating is necessary. And I wanted to go, Okay, 271 00:19:02.119 --> 00:19:03.519 you can say to you to say, but my reasoning is I want 272 00:19:03.559 --> 00:19:07.039 to go over some of those things that you and I had decent stations about 273 00:19:08.119 --> 00:19:15.640 is there ever a good time to cheat? Absolutely? So this person you 274 00:19:15.759 --> 00:19:18.960 had a conversation that I didn't have with them. Yeah, so they may 275 00:19:18.960 --> 00:19:21.960 have said things to you. But but when I kind of looked at did 276 00:19:21.960 --> 00:19:26.519 some research on this person, you know it, everything about this person did 277 00:19:26.519 --> 00:19:30.200 not come off as like what you're about to talk about, like these necessary 278 00:19:30.279 --> 00:19:37.920 times quote unquote. My whole thing with that was like and with cheating in 279 00:19:37.960 --> 00:19:42.440 general, and this guy promoting that kind of thing, is that it is 280 00:19:42.559 --> 00:19:47.440 not a victim list thing. It's kind of my whole thing. I think 281 00:19:47.920 --> 00:19:52.359 a lot of this person's stuff almost tried to spread this idea that it's a 282 00:19:52.480 --> 00:19:56.799 kick, right, like this is my kink and this is what gets me 283 00:19:56.920 --> 00:20:00.400 off. The problem is I didn't take it that way. I did, 284 00:20:00.559 --> 00:20:04.119 Okay, Um, the problem is, like, you know, if you're 285 00:20:04.119 --> 00:20:10.359 gonna live have some kind of kinky sexual thing, you know, consent is 286 00:20:10.400 --> 00:20:14.039 always the thing. And even if that person isn't physically involved, they are 287 00:20:14.119 --> 00:20:17.240 involved and they are not giving someone is not giving consent to that kind of 288 00:20:17.279 --> 00:20:18.799 thing. That's that was just all I wanted to say about that, and 289 00:20:19.160 --> 00:20:22.559 something that you have their whole session. Yeah, something you had brought up 290 00:20:22.599 --> 00:20:27.519 that really resignated with me, is how disgusting for their partner to find out 291 00:20:27.599 --> 00:20:33.160 absolutely that not only is their partner cheating, but has an entire dedicated blog 292 00:20:33.240 --> 00:20:37.359 and like a following on Twitter and a following a website a domain. Whether 293 00:20:37.400 --> 00:20:41.799 this person was meaning to do this or not, at the end of the 294 00:20:41.880 --> 00:20:48.039 day, this person and this person was not only you know, doing this 295 00:20:48.160 --> 00:20:53.920 very this, this very hurtful thing to their partner, but also making their 296 00:20:53.920 --> 00:20:59.119 partner a laughing stock on the internet. Yeah, you know what I mean, 297 00:20:59.559 --> 00:21:02.680 it's very it's very tough to think about it is it is. Yeah, 298 00:21:02.759 --> 00:21:04.559 no so, And I think that was with the interview that was kind 299 00:21:04.559 --> 00:21:07.200 of our intention, was I know, I was, I was not going 300 00:21:07.240 --> 00:21:11.720 to be rude, but very much kind of have this conversation and and hold 301 00:21:11.759 --> 00:21:15.839 this person accountable, accountable and put their feet to the fire. Yeah. 302 00:21:15.119 --> 00:21:18.759 Um, something they had brought up to me when they mentioned I also want 303 00:21:18.759 --> 00:21:22.119 to say sorry real quick, I also want to say I'm still not one 304 00:21:22.160 --> 00:21:26.640 hundred percent sure this person isn't complete fucking fool of shit and that they just 305 00:21:26.720 --> 00:21:29.759 they go, they just went, what's something that can get attention, and 306 00:21:30.039 --> 00:21:33.960 you hate that. You hate people. I hate people trying to be the 307 00:21:34.000 --> 00:21:37.839 bad guy because they want to get attention. Yeah. Yeah, And so 308 00:21:37.960 --> 00:21:44.039 I'm still not one hundred percent sure that this guy even has a wife or 309 00:21:44.720 --> 00:21:48.519 was cheating on their wife. Yeah, and the whole thing wasn't made up 310 00:21:48.519 --> 00:21:51.200 just so he can try to get some kind of following and a sure, 311 00:21:52.359 --> 00:21:56.000 but something that they brought up to me about sometimes cheating is necessary, and 312 00:21:56.039 --> 00:22:00.680 I asked for elaboration on that. They mentioned that they had a friend whose 313 00:22:00.000 --> 00:22:04.680 wife has been ill for years, and I'm like, lad, doesn't sound 314 00:22:06.400 --> 00:22:10.400 like a good thing to do to your dying partner, mind you, but 315 00:22:10.559 --> 00:22:12.279 I was like, that is something worth talking about? Is I wanted to 316 00:22:12.319 --> 00:22:18.799 bring that up to you of like, let's say I was in a coma. 317 00:22:18.240 --> 00:22:22.599 What if I was in a coma for like years, sure, or 318 00:22:22.839 --> 00:22:26.519 bedridden for years, like barely able to speak, or I was in a 319 00:22:26.559 --> 00:22:30.480 coma, and you know, at what point is it? Well, if 320 00:22:30.519 --> 00:22:34.119 do you think it'll ever be okay to have companionship? Because I do empathize 321 00:22:34.160 --> 00:22:38.039 with that, sure, I do too. I totally get that because there 322 00:22:38.119 --> 00:22:45.119 is like that kind of extreme, extreme situation and I don't know. That's 323 00:22:45.240 --> 00:22:48.559 very it's very tough, and I you know, this probably isn't fun, 324 00:22:48.599 --> 00:22:53.079 but I don't know if I can give a solid answer. Yeah, it's 325 00:22:53.119 --> 00:22:56.480 one of It's one of those tough things where it's like, I don't know, 326 00:22:56.799 --> 00:23:00.839 you don't know until you're in that situation. I just don't. I 327 00:23:00.839 --> 00:23:04.359 think there's two pieces of that. There are people, and there's people on 328 00:23:04.359 --> 00:23:07.880 a side that are like, Wow, if your spouse is dying or in 329 00:23:07.920 --> 00:23:12.000 a coma or going through something terrible, like how fucking gross are you to 330 00:23:12.119 --> 00:23:15.680 go and be unfaithful? Like, I do understand that there are people on 331 00:23:15.759 --> 00:23:18.920 that end, and then I do understand the other meat. I'm a libra, 332 00:23:19.559 --> 00:23:22.119 and I do understand the opposite of that of like, well, no, 333 00:23:22.400 --> 00:23:27.319 like if it's been months or years, there's a point of that person's 334 00:23:27.359 --> 00:23:32.079 not coming back, Like this person is not going to come out of this. 335 00:23:33.759 --> 00:23:37.079 You know, there is going to be a point where companionships looked for. 336 00:23:37.440 --> 00:23:40.960 You know, I do have empathy for that. Absolutely, you're gonna 337 00:23:41.039 --> 00:23:42.440 laugh at this, but and I think I brought this up in the last 338 00:23:42.440 --> 00:23:45.640 episode, but I've been rewatching scrubs recently. Yeah, that's gonna be a 339 00:23:45.640 --> 00:23:49.720 big vocal point of your life for a while at least. But they there 340 00:23:51.160 --> 00:23:55.279 it's very relevant. They had a whole thing where the main character, j 341 00:23:55.440 --> 00:24:02.240 D, starts dating a woman whose husband has been in a coma for years, 342 00:24:02.920 --> 00:24:07.400 and the husband dies, and then at their funeral they have sex to 343 00:24:07.599 --> 00:24:11.960 make JD and this and this wife. Um, now that's done for comedy 344 00:24:11.960 --> 00:24:15.519 purpose whatever. The debate of whether maybe just out of respect, she should 345 00:24:15.519 --> 00:24:18.359 have waited, but they kind of talk, They kind of go back and 346 00:24:18.400 --> 00:24:22.240 forth of like is she a bad person, is whatever, and they kind 347 00:24:22.240 --> 00:24:25.200 of present it as like, well, my partner's been in a coma for 348 00:24:25.240 --> 00:24:29.880 years. I've been I've already grieved. Just because they just now died, 349 00:24:30.000 --> 00:24:34.319 I've been grieving for years, so I can see like it's a lot easier, 350 00:24:34.359 --> 00:24:37.400 you know, in that instance of like, Okay, they're dead, 351 00:24:37.480 --> 00:24:41.839 Like I've already done the grieving, I've already accepted this. Next day after 352 00:24:41.880 --> 00:24:45.960 the funeral, like you know, I've been alone for years, I'm ready 353 00:24:45.960 --> 00:24:48.359 to start dating. And I think on the outside that can look very harsh, 354 00:24:48.359 --> 00:24:55.759 but I do think I think that's a very valid situation. So yeah, 355 00:24:56.480 --> 00:25:00.640 but it's tough it's tough. It is tough when the persons still alive. 356 00:25:00.599 --> 00:25:03.720 Yeah, I don't know how how because because I think you, I 357 00:25:03.759 --> 00:25:07.440 think you. It's a very strong point of like, well I'm alone. 358 00:25:08.160 --> 00:25:11.200 I've been alone for so many, so many, you know, so long. 359 00:25:11.880 --> 00:25:15.240 Um, I don't know. It's very tough. It is. It's 360 00:25:15.240 --> 00:25:19.400 a it's a it's not a black and white kind and that's just what I 361 00:25:19.480 --> 00:25:22.319 want to and that's just what I want to get at. Yeah, is 362 00:25:22.480 --> 00:25:26.279 especially specifically for you because you are very much like a writer or die. 363 00:25:26.279 --> 00:25:30.079 If you cheat, you're dead to me, sure, because like you and 364 00:25:30.119 --> 00:25:32.680 I have had that conversation where I've asked you, you know, if I 365 00:25:32.759 --> 00:25:36.359 ever cheated with is that something we could get over? And you're like no, 366 00:25:36.759 --> 00:25:40.279 Yeah, So you've always been a very black and white person when it 367 00:25:40.319 --> 00:25:42.359 comes to that subject. So, and I think a lot of people are. 368 00:25:44.160 --> 00:25:45.559 So I don't know. Sometimes I just like to play Devil's advocate of 369 00:25:45.640 --> 00:25:49.359 Sure, it's not always that easy or that's simple. Absolutely, No, 370 00:25:49.440 --> 00:25:55.480 I mean there are definitely, you know, there's always exceptions to the rule 371 00:25:55.839 --> 00:26:00.359 whatever that is. Um. So No, I do think that there are 372 00:26:00.880 --> 00:26:06.039 very complicated situations. Yeah, with that kind of thing. And speaking of 373 00:26:06.119 --> 00:26:08.200 cheating, I saw a video recently and I wanted to get your thoughts on 374 00:26:08.240 --> 00:26:15.279 it, and it was about cheating and it was a woman saying like, 375 00:26:18.920 --> 00:26:21.440 I don't want to I wish I saved the video. I saw it on 376 00:26:21.480 --> 00:26:26.759 the internets and they were saying that porn is one thing. If you're a 377 00:26:26.880 --> 00:26:33.599 porn cub masturbating, doing your thing whatever. As soon as you describe subscribe 378 00:26:33.680 --> 00:26:37.200 to a woman's only fans, that is cheating, okay. And their reasoning 379 00:26:37.240 --> 00:26:42.039 behind that is you're not just watching a masturbate or doing what you want to 380 00:26:42.079 --> 00:26:45.160 do, and looking at this person, you are now supporting their livelihood. 381 00:26:45.160 --> 00:26:48.400 You were now paying their bills. And I was like, that is so 382 00:26:48.519 --> 00:26:52.000 fucked. I was very I'm very black and white on this. I was 383 00:26:52.039 --> 00:26:55.000 really pissed off because I'm like, well, no, what's the difference between 384 00:26:55.000 --> 00:26:56.759 that and a strip club? And maybe they're like, I don't support strip 385 00:26:56.759 --> 00:27:00.880 clubs either, but no, I'm like, well no, if anything, 386 00:27:00.880 --> 00:27:03.039 if I am going to masturbate to this person, at least let me support 387 00:27:03.039 --> 00:27:07.240 their work. Like either way, either way, they're putting themselves out there. 388 00:27:07.680 --> 00:27:11.920 This is clearly their job why am I like, why are we going 389 00:27:11.960 --> 00:27:17.000 to take a dig at this sex worker? Yeah? For some like okay, 390 00:27:17.160 --> 00:27:19.240 like you're fine with them masturbating. They're doing that either way, whether 391 00:27:19.240 --> 00:27:23.160 they're subscribed or not. Like, why are we going to punish your partner 392 00:27:23.200 --> 00:27:26.720 and say that they're fucking cheating? Because I think part of it that they 393 00:27:26.759 --> 00:27:32.440 mentioned was on only fans you can like DM the person yes, So I 394 00:27:32.440 --> 00:27:33.880 think that was brought up is like, well, now you want to talk 395 00:27:33.920 --> 00:27:40.559 to them, you want to subscribe, you want to look at exclusive things, 396 00:27:40.559 --> 00:27:45.000 like I feel very torn about it. I don't feel very torn about 397 00:27:45.000 --> 00:27:49.119 it. I don't know how do you feel about this? I think for 398 00:27:49.160 --> 00:27:53.839 the most part, I agree with you. You know, I think, 399 00:27:56.480 --> 00:28:02.759 yeah, if you're going to especially an only fans kind of thing, where 400 00:28:03.759 --> 00:28:07.559 you know, the only way they make money is by people, I don't 401 00:28:07.559 --> 00:28:10.200 know how it works if people subscribe or I don't know, if it's like 402 00:28:10.200 --> 00:28:12.119 a twitch thing, I don't it's like a monthly membership. Okay, So 403 00:28:12.240 --> 00:28:15.799 that's the only way they make money. So if you're going to watch this 404 00:28:15.920 --> 00:28:22.079 person, you should support that because we support sex work on the show absolutely. 405 00:28:22.559 --> 00:28:29.920 And I don't know if I would say, whether it's you know a 406 00:28:30.000 --> 00:28:32.880 lot of that kind of bonus to pay these people, is getting a more 407 00:28:32.880 --> 00:28:37.640 personal experience? Just pay you pay to like DM DM correct. I don't 408 00:28:37.759 --> 00:28:45.799 know if I would say that subscribing and having that more person dming or whatever 409 00:28:45.839 --> 00:28:52.559 that looks like would be cheating. But I can also see how that could 410 00:28:52.720 --> 00:28:57.000 make someone uncomfortable that their partner is doing that. You know, I look 411 00:28:57.039 --> 00:29:03.160 at dming and sexting and stuff almost as a form of masturbation. I don't 412 00:29:03.160 --> 00:29:06.359 think we've ever really spoken about this, but like, I think it's because 413 00:29:07.359 --> 00:29:11.519 by the tend this comes out potentially maybe not. We have had an interview 414 00:29:11.559 --> 00:29:19.079 with a m a phone sex operator, and I don't think that's cheating. 415 00:29:21.119 --> 00:29:23.480 So here's to me, I'm like, well, what's the difference between calling 416 00:29:23.640 --> 00:29:29.400 and paying or dming and paying. Here's the difference. And it sounds like 417 00:29:29.960 --> 00:29:33.839 here's the difference, okay, and that the difference to you? The difference, 418 00:29:33.200 --> 00:29:38.000 well is that it depends to me, Nick. Granted, I don't 419 00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:41.559 think I would consider that cheating. Once again, I don't think any of 420 00:29:41.559 --> 00:29:45.319 this. I think if anyone messages and is like you want to meet up, 421 00:29:45.400 --> 00:29:48.200 like obviously that's not great. But but no, I don't think. 422 00:29:48.319 --> 00:29:51.920 I don't think in any regards, I don't think someone calling a sex line 423 00:29:52.319 --> 00:29:59.480 or dming an only fans person is cheating. Um. But I think the 424 00:29:59.599 --> 00:30:04.720 other partner has a right to be upset if this was not done with the 425 00:30:04.759 --> 00:30:08.880 partner's knowledge. I think that's the big difference. Like it, like you 426 00:30:08.960 --> 00:30:14.119 know, you in the episode something, people will hear the interview with this 427 00:30:14.160 --> 00:30:18.440 person you talk about like wanting me. We're saying this person because I don't 428 00:30:18.480 --> 00:30:21.200 think we know if it's going to be out or not. But it might 429 00:30:21.200 --> 00:30:22.039 be out already, it might not. Yeah, yeah, we don't know 430 00:30:22.359 --> 00:30:27.680 the order the order here. You know, you talked about me calling a 431 00:30:27.720 --> 00:30:33.559 sex line. But that's like the conversation we've had of hey me, Rihanna 432 00:30:33.599 --> 00:30:37.319 wants you Adam to do this or you know whatever. That looks like. 433 00:30:37.759 --> 00:30:41.079 I think if it's done without the other person's knowledge, I can see where 434 00:30:41.119 --> 00:30:45.960 that person might get upset. Sure, sure, having that more personal and 435 00:30:47.279 --> 00:30:52.319 personal back and forth. I'm not saying it's cheating. I'm not saying it's 436 00:30:52.359 --> 00:30:56.119 right or wrong. I'm saying I understand where someone could be upset by that. 437 00:30:56.599 --> 00:31:00.839 Sure, sure, Sure, Sure, I don't know. I'm just 438 00:31:00.960 --> 00:31:03.599 kind of like, to me, that's the equivalent of like, you into 439 00:31:03.640 --> 00:31:07.599 a strip club and didn't tell me. I still don't consider that cheating, 440 00:31:07.680 --> 00:31:11.480 Absolutely, that's what I'm saying. But other but you may not be upset, 441 00:31:11.559 --> 00:31:14.680 but other people might. That might make them upset. And I don't 442 00:31:14.680 --> 00:31:18.960 think they're wrong for that, for being upset by that. That's that's conversations, 443 00:31:18.960 --> 00:31:22.599 and that's understanding of what are my dies? It always boiled down a 444 00:31:22.640 --> 00:31:26.119 communication, I think it does. It always was, and like understanding what 445 00:31:26.160 --> 00:31:29.880 are the boundaries that I have to be with it? Yeah, And if 446 00:31:29.920 --> 00:31:33.480 this person's boundary is that they want to know if I'm going to go to 447 00:31:33.519 --> 00:31:37.279 a strip club and I cross that, then I am in the wrong. 448 00:31:37.559 --> 00:31:42.799 Sure for sure? Yeah, So yeah, that's it is. I think 449 00:31:42.799 --> 00:31:48.000 as long as like, and you know, in this case, if you 450 00:31:48.039 --> 00:31:51.680 don't know what that boundary is, then you should probably figure that out before 451 00:31:51.720 --> 00:31:56.480 you cross it without knowing. Sure, Yeah, that's fair. And if 452 00:31:56.519 --> 00:32:00.559 you think you may be crossing a boundary, have that conversation before you do 453 00:32:00.640 --> 00:32:05.920 it. Sure, But I think that that is all that is all fair. 454 00:32:07.279 --> 00:32:08.839 But I do think we have are on the same consensus though, that 455 00:32:09.039 --> 00:32:12.880 subscribing to someone's only fans it's not cheating. I would agree with that. 456 00:32:13.240 --> 00:32:16.079 Yeah, that was really insecure. I don't like that. That's also that's 457 00:32:16.200 --> 00:32:19.720 like, well, okay, so you're If you don't agree that, then 458 00:32:19.759 --> 00:32:22.039 you're a person. I think sex work isn't real work. That's not something 459 00:32:22.079 --> 00:32:24.480 I stand behind. I don't think it would be a respectful thing to think. 460 00:32:24.960 --> 00:32:29.599 I agree that that is, And I don't know if this person may 461 00:32:29.640 --> 00:32:35.720 have just been hurt and lashing out. You're so empathetic to I try. 462 00:32:35.920 --> 00:32:40.960 I try to understand where people come from. I always have um in actual 463 00:32:42.000 --> 00:32:45.119 conversations when I'm out driving around and acting with people. Help thou Yeah, 464 00:32:45.160 --> 00:32:54.160 okay, that should stop being a fucking dumbass. You're so cute. Well 465 00:32:54.359 --> 00:32:59.039 okay, then, you know, before we wrap up here, do you 466 00:32:59.079 --> 00:33:00.799 want to do a fifteen more minute? Do you want to do a confessional? 467 00:33:01.079 --> 00:33:05.000 Yeah? Yeah, okay, look at that. Oh well no, 468 00:33:05.039 --> 00:33:07.000 it's just the thing before we wrap out. I'm like, rep, I'm 469 00:33:07.000 --> 00:33:10.519 like, it's solid fifteen minutes. We have another segment before we do Okay, 470 00:33:10.640 --> 00:33:14.720 Yes, I would love to listen to a sex confession, so okay, 471 00:33:15.240 --> 00:33:17.079 and I got one ready okay. So yeah, so we're gonna listen 472 00:33:17.079 --> 00:33:22.640 to another confessional. If you yourself want to leave some kind of confession, 473 00:33:22.279 --> 00:33:31.240 advice, fantasy, fun story, fun story, you can do that as 474 00:33:31.279 --> 00:33:35.160 well. You can call us. We'll read it. It's completely anonymous, 475 00:33:35.160 --> 00:33:37.319 as anonymous as you want it to be, and we'll read on the show 476 00:33:37.359 --> 00:33:39.400 and talk about it and you can call us at five one two nine one 477 00:33:39.519 --> 00:33:45.839 zero five seven nine six Love that. Um so yeah, so we're gonna 478 00:33:45.960 --> 00:33:49.039 all and and for anyone who hasn't heard us, do these these are all 479 00:33:49.119 --> 00:33:53.480 heard, unheard, unheard, we're hearing them unheard. Hi. So, 480 00:33:53.680 --> 00:33:59.480 when I was eighteen and I was new to the sex world, how we 481 00:33:59.519 --> 00:34:02.160 had like a year and a half at this point. My boyfriend at the 482 00:34:02.160 --> 00:34:06.440 time, I thought he was really really good at that, but he wasn't 483 00:34:06.480 --> 00:34:13.039 because who actually is from their eighteen And I didn't have the heart to tell 484 00:34:13.119 --> 00:34:15.639 him that he was really bad because after like we would have the sex, 485 00:34:15.679 --> 00:34:19.559 something would come and I wouldn't, but I'd let him think that I did. 486 00:34:19.800 --> 00:34:22.599 He would do like all these karate tops like he was Bruce Lee because 487 00:34:22.599 --> 00:34:24.719 he was so proud himself. You know, it's actually really funny to watch. 488 00:34:24.880 --> 00:34:29.719 But I had to do something like I couldn't just sit there and like 489 00:34:30.440 --> 00:34:34.000 keep having this really not great sex, Like I had to have tick something 490 00:34:34.039 --> 00:34:37.360 out of it. But I didn't want him to know that I wasn't enjoying 491 00:34:37.440 --> 00:34:42.199 it, and so I would like, gosh, this is so embarrassing, 492 00:34:42.239 --> 00:34:47.639 and I would basically I would play like mental games of Solitaire while we were 493 00:34:47.679 --> 00:34:55.199 having sex, and I would contugate Spanish firms so like I was every pump, 494 00:34:55.320 --> 00:34:59.599 Like let's say the verb was sad, which is to be with every 495 00:34:59.639 --> 00:35:04.440 pump. I'd be like, just soy do edis or no. See, 496 00:35:04.800 --> 00:35:07.079 clearly I wasn't having to get sex. I can't remember it anymore. I 497 00:35:07.079 --> 00:35:14.119 would basically conjugate verbs, um. So i'd be like estoy edris, yes, 498 00:35:14.719 --> 00:35:19.920 it was horrible, um. And I would act this mass functions um, 499 00:35:20.000 --> 00:35:23.199 like why equals m expati, lope halian is right over run and all 500 00:35:23.239 --> 00:35:27.239 these things. It was so bad um. And then he would get down 501 00:35:27.280 --> 00:35:29.840 and I'd be like, oh was this great? So good? If he 502 00:35:29.840 --> 00:35:32.880 would do all his karate tops who kicks and it was awful. So basically 503 00:35:34.199 --> 00:35:36.840 if there's anyone listening to this and they're having a really bad sex, when 504 00:35:36.880 --> 00:35:38.400 time to figure out, like how to get through it. Just conjugate some 505 00:35:38.519 --> 00:35:43.360 verbs and the language that you're studying, or go were some mass equations. 506 00:35:43.519 --> 00:35:50.079 It works, It really works. I have so many thoughts. I won't 507 00:35:50.119 --> 00:35:54.960 do you this terrible advice. If you true, I was gonna be like 508 00:35:55.119 --> 00:35:57.840 I thought you be like, so, if you're having bad sex, just 509 00:35:57.880 --> 00:36:04.239 communicate and tell them I thought so too. Yeah, coping skills, she 510 00:36:04.320 --> 00:36:07.920 wasn't coming. No, I get as an eighteen year old or yeah, 511 00:36:08.239 --> 00:36:13.159 round that, I get where she does not have the tools to appropriately deal 512 00:36:13.159 --> 00:36:16.599 with that situation. Um, but yeah, she didn't help herself. She's 513 00:36:16.599 --> 00:36:21.320 out there doing dual lingo in her head. Yeah, how funny. I 514 00:36:21.360 --> 00:36:24.280 also, nothing has been sounded more like the idea of an eighteen year old 515 00:36:24.360 --> 00:36:28.760 guy than getting done with sex and doing karate chops. What the fuck is 516 00:36:28.760 --> 00:36:32.159 it? If you're doing karate chops you're too young for sex? For one, 517 00:36:32.760 --> 00:36:36.840 Yeah, that's very interesting. I really want to see what that's like. 518 00:36:37.039 --> 00:36:42.159 That's very Yeah. Yeah, imagice is fully naked. Imagine I'm gonna 519 00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:44.679 stand up for this, Okay, stand up. This is a visual eight 520 00:36:44.679 --> 00:36:51.000 people imagine, hold on, are you take dick out live in this studio. 521 00:36:51.159 --> 00:36:53.880 Adam's got his orders on and he's uh, he's pandless. We just 522 00:36:54.039 --> 00:36:57.559 have sex. Oh my god, hold on, I just want to describe 523 00:36:57.559 --> 00:37:00.440 how lot of people understand what we're looking at. This looks like a grown 524 00:37:00.480 --> 00:37:07.119 man taking a weird p at a urinal. His underpants and pants are at 525 00:37:07.159 --> 00:37:10.679 his knees. He's holding his shirt up by like his chin. I'm trying 526 00:37:10.719 --> 00:37:14.000 to Yeah, I'm trying to get the full fairness. So you're like, 527 00:37:15.199 --> 00:37:17.760 so you're like middle naked, middle naked. Okay, here I go. 528 00:37:17.840 --> 00:37:25.599 I'm watching the wit swing okay, and see that's what i'd be like. 529 00:37:28.119 --> 00:37:31.800 You're so cute. Um, what a vibe Adam's feeling. It's nice. 530 00:37:31.800 --> 00:37:36.119 He's got his all, he's got his whole peep out. Oh boy, 531 00:37:37.079 --> 00:37:42.440 Um, interesting story. I wouldn't know other people think of during sex when 532 00:37:42.480 --> 00:37:45.239 it's not going well. Yeah, what do you think about during sex when 533 00:37:45.239 --> 00:37:50.320 it's not well? I've never had bad sex with you, baby, Just 534 00:37:50.400 --> 00:37:59.880 be real with me. Usually it's just a full on panic attack because if 535 00:38:00.039 --> 00:38:04.519 we've ever had sex and I'm not like feeling or vibing with It's usually in 536 00:38:04.559 --> 00:38:07.199 my head, no matter what, it's my fault. I can usually tell 537 00:38:07.199 --> 00:38:10.239 when you're not enjoying yourself during sex and I am like yeah, and I 538 00:38:10.440 --> 00:38:14.280 freak out, yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't. I don't hide 539 00:38:14.360 --> 00:38:20.840 my um no, you don't hide ship's very well. Try well. When 540 00:38:20.920 --> 00:38:23.079 I have bad sex with you, I think when I'm just kidding, No, 541 00:38:23.280 --> 00:38:27.960 I think I just naturally wander during sex sometimes, yeah, every once 542 00:38:28.000 --> 00:38:30.559 in a while, and it's usually about like what all I have to do? 543 00:38:30.639 --> 00:38:34.960 But yeah, you have generally, yeah you have. You just in 544 00:38:35.000 --> 00:38:38.239 life, you have a really hard time. I'm plugging. I'm plugging. 545 00:38:39.159 --> 00:38:42.840 Yeah. I always have a lengthy list of two dos, whether it's for 546 00:38:42.960 --> 00:38:47.880 work or the house or life. And it's just hamster cage in a wheel, 547 00:38:49.159 --> 00:38:52.320 hamster wheel in a cage in my head at all times. That is 548 00:38:52.360 --> 00:38:54.519 my brain. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can't let that hamster get 549 00:38:54.559 --> 00:38:58.280 off the fucking wheel, and that that hamsters hanging on by a thread. 550 00:38:58.920 --> 00:39:01.760 I'll tell you what. But never have I've done mental solitaire, And that 551 00:39:01.920 --> 00:39:07.639 makes me think about how much I enjoyed solitaire. She played solitaire? How 552 00:39:07.159 --> 00:39:09.719 how do you play Solitaire in your head? Can you ever use your imagination? 553 00:39:10.239 --> 00:39:15.280 Yeah? Yeah, I recommend it. You know what's really impressed that 554 00:39:15.320 --> 00:39:17.559 would be a play Solitaire with actual cards. I'm like, how like, 555 00:39:17.960 --> 00:39:22.719 I don't understand solitaire enough to understand how to play with physical cards just on 556 00:39:22.760 --> 00:39:27.239 the computer. I love it on the computer. It's the same thing. 557 00:39:27.280 --> 00:39:29.039 I don't know how. I don't know. I don't know how to set 558 00:39:29.079 --> 00:39:32.559 up go. So if you play Solitaire manually, you're a god. Did 559 00:39:32.599 --> 00:39:37.519 you get you a little Solitaire app on your phone? Oh? I don't 560 00:39:37.559 --> 00:39:38.840 know if I could. I don't do a lot of games on my phone. 561 00:39:39.039 --> 00:39:43.119 I should play words. You play something I do like it. It's 562 00:39:43.119 --> 00:39:45.719 not wordle, but it is like it's called wordscape. I do like doing 563 00:39:45.760 --> 00:39:50.639 that sometimes, um or Yeah. They give me all the letters to have 564 00:39:50.679 --> 00:39:52.960 to make as many words as them as possible. But I also get mad 565 00:39:52.960 --> 00:39:55.239 at that game because I'll think of a word and it's a word, and 566 00:39:55.280 --> 00:39:59.079 I'll just be like, bonus word, not the one in the across sticks, 567 00:39:59.119 --> 00:40:00.760 So it doesn't count. Why would that no account? Yeah, it's 568 00:40:00.760 --> 00:40:05.719 not. It's not like truly make as many words as you can with the 569 00:40:05.800 --> 00:40:08.440 letters. It's like you're looking for specific Yeah, and that makes me mad 570 00:40:08.440 --> 00:40:12.559 inside it really do. This is why I stick to mind sweep. I 571 00:40:12.639 --> 00:40:15.960 used to have so much fun playing games on my iPod anyway, that was 572 00:40:15.000 --> 00:40:20.239 a good time. The thing beats like that middle two thousands getting your first 573 00:40:20.280 --> 00:40:23.679 iPod touch. Yeah, when everyone had the lighter app for no fucking reason. 574 00:40:23.800 --> 00:40:27.559 Oh absolutely, the bubble wrap thing where you just pop bubble wrap on 575 00:40:27.599 --> 00:40:30.840 your phone. The big one was the guy the gun. Yeah. I 576 00:40:30.960 --> 00:40:34.719 constly think that we should download that so someone breaks in, we can just 577 00:40:34.760 --> 00:40:37.920 make that sound. Oh sure, so they think that we're fully loaded. 578 00:40:38.000 --> 00:40:42.760 Well, I've said this before. I've always thought, like or Sandra Bullock, 579 00:40:42.840 --> 00:40:46.440 part two of Miss Geniality, Armed in Fabulous, I thought we should 580 00:40:46.440 --> 00:40:50.480 buy like a shotgun, but no, bullet's just have a shotgun to cock 581 00:40:50.559 --> 00:40:52.760 it, to cock it because I tell you what you like, that's a 582 00:40:52.920 --> 00:40:57.800 that's an intense weapon, and it's a loud weapon. You ever shot or 583 00:40:57.840 --> 00:41:00.199 heard a shotgun cock in real life? No, I don't want to. 584 00:41:00.400 --> 00:41:05.480 It's allowed, and that'll I'd get the fuck out if I broke into something 585 00:41:05.480 --> 00:41:07.000 and heard that. Well, Well, to tell the story another time about 586 00:41:07.039 --> 00:41:12.119 your friend who was robbed at knife point and they were like trying to steal 587 00:41:12.119 --> 00:41:14.199 his phone and he was like, don't take my phone and need it for 588 00:41:14.239 --> 00:41:16.000 work, and they're like, oh okay, they put his phone back down 589 00:41:16.280 --> 00:41:20.480 and he was just butt naked getting robbed. I don't know this story. 590 00:41:20.599 --> 00:41:25.159 I don't remember this story. Oh yes, they broke into his Yeah, 591 00:41:25.159 --> 00:41:30.679 they broke into his apartment. Yeah we yeah, yeah, I don't remember 592 00:41:30.679 --> 00:41:32.480 the specifics of it. But yeah, essentially, to be fair with that 593 00:41:32.519 --> 00:41:36.880 whole crazy ordeal, is it sounded like one person really wanted to rob in 594 00:41:36.960 --> 00:41:38.960 the other one guy was at the wrong place at the wrong time. He 595 00:41:39.000 --> 00:41:43.159 got dragged it or something. Yeah, so don't be afraid to negotiate your 596 00:41:43.199 --> 00:41:49.280 robberies. Yeah, I mean we're taking taste. No, Yeah, Adam, 597 00:41:49.320 --> 00:41:52.800 is there anything he wanted to add before we wrap up this incredible eye 598 00:41:52.800 --> 00:41:57.119 opening episode of Bottle de Bitches. I don't think so. I'm just very 599 00:41:57.119 --> 00:42:00.679 excited for this new journey in this new life. I don't know. I 600 00:42:00.679 --> 00:42:05.159 don't want to say new show, because it's more just a slight alteration and 601 00:42:05.360 --> 00:42:07.840 a new journeys, a new journey chapter. Yeah, sex is ever changing 602 00:42:07.840 --> 00:42:10.760 and so is this show? Yeah, so, don't be a free to 603 00:42:10.760 --> 00:42:15.000 write us in or give us a call. We've already love into your ballots 604 00:42:15.039 --> 00:42:19.199 as you're voting. Put us in the ridings and it'll be in the show 605 00:42:19.239 --> 00:42:21.239 description as well. If you haven't put that in there, you need to 606 00:42:21.440 --> 00:42:25.159 phone number. Yeah, um, the Adams to do list. Um. 607 00:42:25.199 --> 00:42:29.000 But we want to hear from you things that we should try. I definitely 608 00:42:29.000 --> 00:42:34.760 won't think we should do a whole segment on some public sex. Yeah yeah, 609 00:42:34.559 --> 00:42:36.920 yeah, yeah. It took me. I don't know why my brand 610 00:42:37.079 --> 00:42:39.719 didn't want to register what you meant by that, but it's a very You 611 00:42:39.800 --> 00:42:44.239 figured it out eventually. But we have so much to learn and so much 612 00:42:44.239 --> 00:42:53.639 to do, and I can't wait to hear from you all. Stay horny, 613 00:42:53.639 --> 00:43:01.559 bitches. There was this key. 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