WEBVTT 1 00:00:06.000 --> 00:00:09.240 Whoa. What's up, beautiful people. It is your baby mama, favorite 2 00:00:09.279 --> 00:00:13.560 baby Mama, Stormy P. And welcome to another episode of Chocolate Chip and 3 00:00:13.800 --> 00:00:19.000 Sip the modern day female perspective. Damson back at it again, boom and 4 00:00:19.079 --> 00:00:22.120 back at it again is my favorite co host, seventh the Dog. You're 5 00:00:22.120 --> 00:00:25.280 gonna hear him panting in their background because this is his home. He can 6 00:00:25.320 --> 00:00:28.160 do whatever you wanna do. Okay, when he's at his studio, he 7 00:00:28.199 --> 00:00:32.479 can pant wherever he wants to pant. All right, All that aside, 8 00:00:32.719 --> 00:00:36.079 listen, before we get too far into it, don't forget Philly. I 9 00:00:36.079 --> 00:00:40.880 am coming to you all right September fifteenth at World Cafe Live. 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Don't be 18 00:01:07.040 --> 00:01:10.519 like last time, because every time I have a show, especially in Philadelphia, 19 00:01:10.599 --> 00:01:14.359 y'all like to wait till the day before and then text me talking about, 20 00:01:14.560 --> 00:01:17.799 Oh, you you still got some more tickets left. You think you 21 00:01:17.799 --> 00:01:19.400 could squeeze out one more thing. No, I can't, and I can't 22 00:01:19.519 --> 00:01:23.799 and I don't, Okay, So to avoid all that, get your tickets 23 00:01:23.879 --> 00:01:26.560 right now. All right, I can't wait to see y'all. So, 24 00:01:26.920 --> 00:01:34.400 y'all, the theme of this episode, it's gonna be dating sucks, but 25 00:01:34.480 --> 00:01:40.239 so does my vibrator. Yeah, I'm gonna say that again. Dating sucks, 26 00:01:40.840 --> 00:01:44.680 but so does my vibrator. And this is just a realization that I've 27 00:01:44.719 --> 00:01:47.159 come to within the last week. Y'all. I'm tired, I'm frustrated, 28 00:01:47.200 --> 00:01:51.439 I'm tired. I hate it, okay, But I don't hate it from 29 00:01:51.439 --> 00:01:55.439 the standpoint of, oh, it's so trash'all here the dating pool has 30 00:01:55.519 --> 00:01:57.599 p in it. I'm not. I'm not. I don't hate it from 31 00:01:57.640 --> 00:02:01.400 that aspect. I have a different perspective. I hate it because if I've 32 00:02:01.400 --> 00:02:07.599 done the work on myself and I'm genuinely a good person. It shouldn't be 33 00:02:07.799 --> 00:02:13.599 this freaking hard. Am I tripping? Am I tripping? If I've done 34 00:02:13.680 --> 00:02:19.919 the work on myself and I'm genuinely a good person, ain't I'm a little 35 00:02:19.960 --> 00:02:23.280 cute, y'all? And I've been in a gym. The body is bought 36 00:02:23.360 --> 00:02:29.400 in like it really shouldn't be this heart It is mind boggling. And before 37 00:02:29.439 --> 00:02:35.719 y'all hating with the oh you attract what you are and no, no, 38 00:02:35.719 --> 00:02:39.639 none of that. I think that my problem is I have those traits for 39 00:02:39.719 --> 00:02:43.479 myself. I have done the work. I'm genuinely good person. I'll be 40 00:02:43.520 --> 00:02:46.919 in a gym, my body's body and I'm a little cute. Finding that 41 00:02:47.960 --> 00:02:53.159 isn't as easy as one would think, regardless if you're talking about in a 42 00:02:53.159 --> 00:02:57.479 male or female, finding somebody who's able to reciprocate all of that is not 43 00:02:57.639 --> 00:03:01.439 as easy as one would think. Like, and then I'm not gonna lie 44 00:03:01.560 --> 00:03:05.680 on. I'll be getting into my feelings and I'm like, oh, man, 45 00:03:06.199 --> 00:03:07.599 all these people out here in relationships, it should have been me, 46 00:03:07.719 --> 00:03:15.639 Lord, it should have been me. But then I have to remember a 47 00:03:15.639 --> 00:03:20.439 lot of those same people aren't happy in their relationships, and a lot of 48 00:03:20.479 --> 00:03:23.560 those same people are people that I wouldn't even want to be in a relationship 49 00:03:23.639 --> 00:03:28.360 with. So we're just gonna go through a few things. I know it's 50 00:03:28.360 --> 00:03:30.840 been a few weeks since we've dropped the episode, so I'm just gonna take 51 00:03:30.879 --> 00:03:35.400 you on a journey what I've been doing this past few weeks, and you 52 00:03:35.439 --> 00:03:38.479 know, come along. Laugh. It's okay, you're gonna laugh because I'll 53 00:03:38.479 --> 00:03:40.520 be laughing at my damnsuf. You're gonna laugh. We're gonna laugh together. 54 00:03:40.759 --> 00:03:46.960 We're gonna figure this shit out, y'all. I don't care what y'all think 55 00:03:46.039 --> 00:03:51.879 or what y'all say. I am determined to be in matching pajamas this Christmas. 56 00:03:52.280 --> 00:03:54.199 That's what I want. I want that for me. I need that 57 00:03:54.280 --> 00:04:00.360 for me. I am claiming that for me. I will be in matching 58 00:04:00.520 --> 00:04:05.400 pajamas and be happy with the person that you know I'm in matching pajamas with. 59 00:04:05.960 --> 00:04:09.039 And it's fucked up because I know, like you know, me and 60 00:04:09.080 --> 00:04:11.800 God we locked in right like Jesus is my home boy. I know he's 61 00:04:11.800 --> 00:04:13.800 gonna hear this and be like, all right, I got you, bet, 62 00:04:14.199 --> 00:04:15.399 And I'm be in matching pajamas with my son, and he would be 63 00:04:15.399 --> 00:04:19.480 like, hey, bitch, you wasn't specific enough. You ain't say you 64 00:04:19.480 --> 00:04:21.959 wanted to be in match pajamas with your man. You just say you want 65 00:04:23.000 --> 00:04:26.319 to be in MATCHI pajamas. So here you go. Here's the same size 66 00:04:26.360 --> 00:04:32.079 for you and your son. Go what what I feel like? It's it's 67 00:04:32.120 --> 00:04:35.720 all gets right now. That's five months. I can find somebody in five 68 00:04:35.720 --> 00:04:40.720 months to be in match your pajamas with you, don't think so? Tapping 69 00:04:40.800 --> 00:04:43.480 on alive, let me know, I think five months is more than enough 70 00:04:43.480 --> 00:04:48.920 time to be uh in matching pajamas. Being single is a really weird place 71 00:04:48.959 --> 00:04:54.600 to be, as I take that back, being single and being attractive, 72 00:04:55.000 --> 00:04:59.160 it's like everyone's always like, oh my god, so many people be in 73 00:04:59.199 --> 00:05:01.160 your dms, Like, I know, you just have your your pickings. 74 00:05:01.279 --> 00:05:05.439 Like being single and being attractive, it's hard. Everyone always thinks, oh, 75 00:05:05.480 --> 00:05:08.920 I know, you got a lot of people in your DMS. I 76 00:05:08.959 --> 00:05:12.120 got a lot of people in my DMS trying to fuck me, not trying 77 00:05:12.160 --> 00:05:15.519 to marry me. Like it's a difference. A lot of people out here 78 00:05:15.600 --> 00:05:19.399 aren't really actively trying to be married and being relationships. So like before you 79 00:05:19.439 --> 00:05:24.439 go judging, somebody, take a break. Okay, take a break and 80 00:05:24.480 --> 00:05:27.480 think about why are you in my DMS? Why are why are you in 81 00:05:27.560 --> 00:05:29.839 my DMS? What's the last thing you said to me in my DMS? 82 00:05:30.199 --> 00:05:32.360 Was it, oh my god, I think you will make a wonderful wife, 83 00:05:32.800 --> 00:05:35.120 or was it damn, I just want to be a sweat between your 84 00:05:35.120 --> 00:05:43.720 titties exactly exactly which one was it? Which one was it? So yeah, 85 00:05:44.079 --> 00:05:48.920 think about that. I say all that to say I've been seven stopped 86 00:05:48.959 --> 00:05:57.759 licking your nuts. I say all that to say, I'm trying to be 87 00:05:57.879 --> 00:06:03.839 into seven. You gotta go, seven, you gotta go, let's go. 88 00:06:05.199 --> 00:06:11.600 I say all that to say I can't hear them over there. Okay. 89 00:06:14.600 --> 00:06:17.519 I say all that to say, right, you know, I say 90 00:06:17.560 --> 00:06:23.079 all that to say I was trying to I'm not gonna lie, y'all be 91 00:06:23.079 --> 00:06:26.399 honest, we family, i'mna be honest. I was taking part in practices 92 00:06:26.439 --> 00:06:30.920 that I don't condone, meaning I allowed a few people to spend the block. 93 00:06:31.199 --> 00:06:35.199 I know, I know, I hate that for me too. I 94 00:06:35.240 --> 00:06:39.839 hate that for me too, But I believe in second chances. So you 95 00:06:39.879 --> 00:06:42.720 know what I said, I'm working on myself. Maybe they don't work on 96 00:06:42.800 --> 00:06:47.360 themselves. Like, you know, things could have happened, right spoiler alert, 97 00:06:47.399 --> 00:06:51.600 they didn't happen. Spoiler alert, nothing happened, nothing changed. Waste 98 00:06:51.600 --> 00:06:57.879 my fucking time. So one of my little dips, I'll just spend the 99 00:06:57.879 --> 00:07:02.040 block. I realized this nigga he getting old. Like I allowed one of 100 00:07:02.040 --> 00:07:04.160 my dips to spend the block, and when he came back, I was 101 00:07:04.199 --> 00:07:06.920 like, oh my god, he's getting old. Now. Before you say, 102 00:07:08.040 --> 00:07:10.360 oh, just because he got a gray hair, Oh, just cause 103 00:07:10.399 --> 00:07:13.959 some time it's passed. Oh you want to go to bed early? No, 104 00:07:13.959 --> 00:07:16.519 none of that. We go out to a restaurant, have a nice 105 00:07:16.519 --> 00:07:21.600 smell, having a great time, and so the waitress acts if we want 106 00:07:21.600 --> 00:07:27.160 dessert, and he says yes, and can you bring us two mugs of 107 00:07:27.199 --> 00:07:35.360 hot water? Okay, okay. So she brings the mugs and this nigga 108 00:07:35.439 --> 00:07:46.399 pulls out two packs of probiotic tea. What this man pulls out his pocket 109 00:07:46.839 --> 00:07:51.319 two packs of probiotic tea. I said, wow, bro, you you're 110 00:07:51.360 --> 00:07:55.360 getting old now. This man is genuinely older than me. He got me 111 00:07:55.399 --> 00:07:58.480 by like six or seven years, so he is older than me he is 112 00:07:58.560 --> 00:08:03.240 genuinely getting old, but it's like, I don't want no fucking probiotic d 113 00:08:03.519 --> 00:08:07.879 okay after my meal, and he's now trying to sell me like, well, 114 00:08:07.879 --> 00:08:11.240 it's good for your gut health and it's gonna do blah blah blah blah 115 00:08:11.240 --> 00:08:16.040 blah, and I'm like, I just wanted my crim roulet to go like 116 00:08:16.439 --> 00:08:20.639 I didn't ask for no probiotic take, and then like the same for the 117 00:08:20.680 --> 00:08:24.879 record, though, I'm probably never gonna see him again, as you gonna 118 00:08:24.920 --> 00:08:26.800 start there, and it's not because of the probiotic take. I'm probably never 119 00:08:26.800 --> 00:08:33.440 gonna see him again because while we were at this same outing, I had 120 00:08:33.559 --> 00:08:39.279 a lemon to like put on my seafood right, and the lemon dropped on 121 00:08:39.320 --> 00:08:41.200 the table, So I asked, await your excuse me? Can you raring 122 00:08:41.240 --> 00:08:46.679 me some more lemons? And he was like, oh, so you can 123 00:08:46.679 --> 00:08:48.840 suck a dick, but you can't suck a lemon that has been fellow on 124 00:08:48.840 --> 00:08:50.240 the table. No, I can't, No, I can't. I don't 125 00:08:50.279 --> 00:08:54.120 even understand how you got those two together. I don't even understand the correlation 126 00:08:54.200 --> 00:09:00.080 between those two. So as if as if, nah, I told you 127 00:09:00.120 --> 00:09:03.960 get a fucking mic shot. I told you, I was confused because I'm 128 00:09:03.960 --> 00:09:07.159 like, I don't get the correlation between dropping the lemon on the table and 129 00:09:07.679 --> 00:09:13.159 sucking it. But I'm never gonna see you again, I you know what. 130 00:09:13.279 --> 00:09:18.759 And I wasn't mad at him. I didn't take it out no type 131 00:09:18.799 --> 00:09:20.720 of way because in my mind, I was like, girl, you already 132 00:09:20.720 --> 00:09:24.639 know you don't let people spend a block, So whenever you have coming to 133 00:09:24.720 --> 00:09:26.720 you is just what you have coming to you, because you know not the 134 00:09:26.840 --> 00:09:31.240 letting nigga spend a block. So that was it. That was it. 135 00:09:31.200 --> 00:09:37.159 I try to let someone else spend a block. And this one went a 136 00:09:37.159 --> 00:09:43.159 little differently because it wasn't that it was a bad thing. It just was 137 00:09:43.559 --> 00:09:48.039 okay. What they don't tell you about like healing, is that once you're 138 00:09:48.120 --> 00:09:52.440 healed, and once you've done the work you it makes it more easy to 139 00:09:52.679 --> 00:09:58.159 spot the red flags and other people like you pick up on it so fast 140 00:09:58.559 --> 00:10:01.679 and what there's a reflection of your past self or reflection of something that you 141 00:10:01.799 --> 00:10:05.320 already worked through. Like it's real easy, Like it's it's harder for someone 142 00:10:05.360 --> 00:10:09.919 to play in your face. It should be anyway, So I realize A, 143 00:10:11.039 --> 00:10:13.440 I really still have a crush on this person, which is weird because 144 00:10:13.480 --> 00:10:16.200 I know I do not be liking people. That was the first thing took 145 00:10:16.200 --> 00:10:22.000 me by surprise. B I realized, is it a crush or am I 146 00:10:22.039 --> 00:10:24.639 just infastuated with this person? Cause I have been since I was a fucking 147 00:10:24.679 --> 00:10:28.200 teenager. Right then, see, I realize, okay, you're just trying 148 00:10:28.200 --> 00:10:33.879 to use me as a rebound respectfully, respectfully. This person had just got 149 00:10:33.879 --> 00:10:39.519 out of relationship with his child's mother, and I don't think he realizes that 150 00:10:39.559 --> 00:10:43.080 he's trying to use me as a rebound yet. But because I was infastuated 151 00:10:43.120 --> 00:10:43.759 when I'm was like, oh, yeah, you know, fine, what's 152 00:10:43.840 --> 00:10:48.039 up? That's cool, Like I'll take what I can get. And then 153 00:10:48.159 --> 00:10:52.679 y'all, I had to snap back out of it because we're not doing that. 154 00:10:52.080 --> 00:10:54.919 We're not doing that. We're not doing that. We're not we're not 155 00:10:56.159 --> 00:10:58.159 allowing people to spend the block just to be a seat holder, Like what 156 00:10:58.240 --> 00:11:03.480 the fuck you want me to be a fucking place spiller? Like, yes, 157 00:11:03.559 --> 00:11:05.559 I enjoyed the treats and the dates and everything that I can get while 158 00:11:05.559 --> 00:11:09.799 you're potentially using me as a rebound. But it's like, I don't want 159 00:11:09.799 --> 00:11:11.879 that shit. I want a husband, and I gotta keep that mindset in 160 00:11:11.879 --> 00:11:15.799 my rand, Like y'all, I want a husband. I want a husband. 161 00:11:16.519 --> 00:11:18.200 I want a husband. Yeah, not just matched with Jama as a 162 00:11:18.240 --> 00:11:24.440 whole husband. I needs that. I needs that. More of the story 163 00:11:24.559 --> 00:11:26.639 is fuck that anybody spending block ever again. They ruined it for both of 164 00:11:26.679 --> 00:11:31.720 y'all. These two people ruined it for everyone. You know. I think, 165 00:11:31.879 --> 00:11:35.759 like, uh, once every three years, I'll allow someone to spend 166 00:11:35.759 --> 00:11:41.080 a block, and these two just ruined it for all y'allself, I hate 167 00:11:41.080 --> 00:11:48.759 that for y'all. Every three years, yeah like a like a I was 168 00:11:48.799 --> 00:11:52.159 gonna say, like, what happens every three years? Don't cicadas come out 169 00:11:52.200 --> 00:11:56.200 every so often? Like I'm treat these niggas spending a block like cicadas. 170 00:11:56.679 --> 00:11:58.480 I feel like they come out like once every so many years. From underground, 171 00:11:58.759 --> 00:12:03.320 I might have made that up too. I don't know another thing they 172 00:12:03.360 --> 00:12:07.360 popped up on my head from this past few weeks since we've been out and 173 00:12:07.399 --> 00:12:16.519 about men who practice self care is top tier. Men who practice self care's 174 00:12:16.679 --> 00:12:22.960 top tier. I love that for you, like you you book a spot 175 00:12:22.039 --> 00:12:26.799 day every once in a while. Moist, you get manicures. Moist. 176 00:12:28.159 --> 00:12:35.399 Okay, you get facials, moist, moist like baby, you like to 177 00:12:35.399 --> 00:12:37.720 turn the lights off, light a candle and read a book. Moist. 178 00:12:39.480 --> 00:12:43.240 You like to take baths every once in a while, moist like Men who 179 00:12:43.279 --> 00:12:48.320 practice self care whatever it is, whether it's picking up a good book, 180 00:12:48.639 --> 00:12:52.200 you know, setting inside me time for yourself, you know, get in 181 00:12:52.240 --> 00:12:54.159 your car detailed every so often. Because self care comes in many ways. 182 00:12:54.480 --> 00:13:03.799 Men who practice self care make me moist. I'm talking about pound cake moist. 183 00:13:03.039 --> 00:13:07.759 Okay, Shott said, But be a nigga about it. I don't. 184 00:13:07.120 --> 00:13:11.759 I don't think you have to be a man when you're practicing self care. 185 00:13:13.399 --> 00:13:16.039 Okay, okay, but that's something different. I don't. I don't 186 00:13:16.039 --> 00:13:18.480 think that. I don't. I don't. I don't think that you have 187 00:13:18.559 --> 00:13:22.879 to be a man or be manly to practice self care, because that a 188 00:13:22.960 --> 00:13:24.679 part of your self care could be yo, Like, I can take off 189 00:13:24.759 --> 00:13:30.279 this cloak or this cosplay that I have to put on for the world all 190 00:13:30.320 --> 00:13:31.559 the time, so I can just be me. I can just have that 191 00:13:33.159 --> 00:13:37.000 space to be vulnerable. Yeah, I can't have that space to have peace 192 00:13:37.039 --> 00:13:39.320 and be vulnerable right, but whatever it is, if you practice self care, 193 00:13:39.320 --> 00:13:41.240 I think that's it. Hey, y'all, I just wanted to remind 194 00:13:41.320 --> 00:13:45.679 y'all. Philly, September fifteenth, I'll be at World Cafe Live with East 195 00:13:45.720 --> 00:13:48.240 from the East Your Heart Out Podcast. Don't forget get your tickets now, 196 00:13:48.279 --> 00:13:50.399 don't wait till the last minute, ask me, because I ain't got shipped 197 00:13:50.399 --> 00:13:56.200 for you. Okay, So I don't want to talk about like some things 198 00:13:56.240 --> 00:14:01.279 that I couldn't really put together in my head. You know, these past 199 00:14:01.360 --> 00:14:03.879 few weeks, I've been trying to be reflective and certain things just weren't making 200 00:14:03.879 --> 00:14:07.440 sense to me. For example, right, And I want y'all if you're 201 00:14:07.440 --> 00:14:11.879 watching on live, to answer in the comments. Right when a man says 202 00:14:13.360 --> 00:14:18.320 I want you to slapt me out? What do that mean? And I'm 203 00:14:18.320 --> 00:14:20.399 gonna repeat this. I'm gonna repeat it. I'm gonna repeat it. When 204 00:14:20.399 --> 00:14:24.600 a man says I want you to slapt me out? What do that mean? 205 00:14:26.120 --> 00:14:31.600 When a man says I want you to slapt me out? What does 206 00:14:31.639 --> 00:14:33.919 that mean? Like? Cause in my mind right, because y'all know, 207 00:14:35.919 --> 00:14:39.840 in my mind, oh you want me eat your ass? Because like, 208 00:14:39.919 --> 00:14:45.039 what does a man getting splat it out mean two men? Two men? 209 00:14:45.120 --> 00:14:48.080 Like, this is an honest question. What does I want you to slapt 210 00:14:48.080 --> 00:14:52.200 me out? Mean to you? Like? Cause in my mind, you 211 00:14:52.240 --> 00:14:56.080 want me to eat your ass. You want me to disrespect you? Like, 212 00:14:56.440 --> 00:14:58.919 is that what it is? You want me to disrespect you? Baby? 213 00:14:58.440 --> 00:15:03.960 What is it it? Like? What's the man version of saying that? 214 00:15:03.960 --> 00:15:07.000 That's what men say? I don't think it's I don't think it's it's 215 00:15:07.039 --> 00:15:09.399 it's gender specific. It's just like, Yo, what do y'all mean when 216 00:15:09.440 --> 00:15:13.159 y'all say y'all want us to slut you out? Like you want me to 217 00:15:13.200 --> 00:15:16.399 eat your ass, You want me disrespect you want to put my finger in 218 00:15:16.440 --> 00:15:18.159 you? But it's a rim job, oh, rusty trump bone? Like, 219 00:15:18.240 --> 00:15:22.600 what is it? What do you want? Because? Like when women 220 00:15:22.679 --> 00:15:26.360 say that, like, we want that like intense, you know, Like 221 00:15:26.399 --> 00:15:28.759 if I say I want you to sut me out, I want to be 222 00:15:28.879 --> 00:15:33.039 fucked, I want you to give me four head kisses after risk though, 223 00:15:33.519 --> 00:15:35.039 but I want you, I want I want you to fuck me like real 224 00:15:35.080 --> 00:15:39.399 bad. So I was thinking, like, what does that mean when men 225 00:15:39.559 --> 00:15:43.559 say I want you to sut me out? Do y'all want fourhead kisses to 226 00:15:43.159 --> 00:15:48.320 like is that a thing? Like after the sledding out has taken place, 227 00:15:48.320 --> 00:15:52.799 do I have to you know, re re re recuperate, like help you 228 00:15:52.840 --> 00:15:56.480 recuperate? Like what? Well? Then, I mean, shit, it 229 00:15:56.480 --> 00:15:58.559 depends on what we're doing to slut you out, because you you might need 230 00:15:58.600 --> 00:16:00.919 to sit on the donut for a bit. You might need to ice that 231 00:16:02.080 --> 00:16:04.440 thing. We don't know, we don't know. Oh oh, yeah, 232 00:16:04.480 --> 00:16:07.679 my bad. I forgot who was on Facebook? Y'all? I forgot. 233 00:16:07.919 --> 00:16:14.279 I got a dial it back of it. But yeah, that was That 234 00:16:14.440 --> 00:16:17.440 was the long story. Sure. The only thing I got from it is 235 00:16:17.440 --> 00:16:22.120 disrespect, Like please d and me or email me and tell me. What 236 00:16:22.639 --> 00:16:23.440 does it mean when a man says I want you to let me out. 237 00:16:23.879 --> 00:16:29.320 M only comment I've gotten on Facebook other than you with someone saying, oh 238 00:16:29.360 --> 00:16:37.120 my work. Yeah, I should have put a not safe for work drawing 239 00:16:37.200 --> 00:16:41.399 up here, but so what I cursed by? Now? You you should 240 00:16:41.399 --> 00:16:48.080 have known put your earphones on your Yeah, but I'm on Facebook. If 241 00:16:48.080 --> 00:16:49.639 you're listening on audio, I'm on Facebook live today. I usually go alive 242 00:16:49.720 --> 00:16:55.320 on Instagram and yeah, so I'm gonna try to get better at it, 243 00:16:55.399 --> 00:17:02.720 y'all. I'm just get my life together next, if I come to your 244 00:17:02.759 --> 00:17:07.039 house on some late night tip, right, If you invite me to your 245 00:17:07.039 --> 00:17:11.880 house on a late night tip and I show up with a bonnet on and 246 00:17:12.200 --> 00:17:18.119 crocks, you know why I'm here. Okay. If you invite me to 247 00:17:18.279 --> 00:17:22.319 your house on a late night tip and I show up with a bonnet on 248 00:17:22.519 --> 00:17:26.480 and crocks, you know why I'm here. Stop playing, Stop playing. 249 00:17:27.359 --> 00:17:32.720 Don't be trying to get all into me and asks, oh have you seen 250 00:17:32.839 --> 00:17:36.720 day clone Tyrone? No, I'm trying to see yo tyrone. Pull it 251 00:17:36.720 --> 00:17:41.480 out. Stop playing with me. Stop playing with me. You know why 252 00:17:41.519 --> 00:17:47.680 I came here. Okay, my body already arm bro, My bondy is 253 00:17:47.680 --> 00:17:52.160 already arm bro. I'm gonna put these crocks in sports mode and wear that 254 00:17:52.359 --> 00:17:56.440 ass out. Stop playing with me. Stop playing with me, and I 255 00:17:56.440 --> 00:17:59.480 get it. I'll be trying to be respectful. I love that, But 256 00:17:59.519 --> 00:18:00.759 baby, I can came with the bonnet already going now at the time. 257 00:18:00.960 --> 00:18:03.720 Okay. If I would have came like with my spinning night bag. If 258 00:18:03.759 --> 00:18:07.160 I would have came with my spinning night bag and like you know, my 259 00:18:07.240 --> 00:18:10.960 bonnet and like you know, my big T shirt and my toothbrush, Okay, 260 00:18:11.000 --> 00:18:14.400 cool, we got some time the chilling relax. But I already came 261 00:18:14.440 --> 00:18:18.200 suited up. I already came from my uniform. Bro, Like wait, 262 00:18:18.279 --> 00:18:19.519 wait, what are we doing here? Why are we wasting the time? 263 00:18:21.000 --> 00:18:26.440 Like? And I think the part that really gets me is don't try to 264 00:18:26.440 --> 00:18:30.279 put on like no, no, no, no good ass show or documentary 265 00:18:30.279 --> 00:18:33.359 on Netflix or something like that, Like, don't put on nothing that like 266 00:18:33.880 --> 00:18:37.039 I'm low key gonna be trying to pay attention to while you clapping the cheeks. 267 00:18:37.119 --> 00:18:40.880 Put on to the background music, stop playing with me? Put on 268 00:18:41.119 --> 00:18:45.960 put on Family Guy. Put on Family Guy, or like what's good like 269 00:18:45.920 --> 00:18:51.559 background shows, the office is good, or like other stuff that you can 270 00:18:51.559 --> 00:18:53.240 fall asleep too. You're not gonna be invested in, you know, like 271 00:18:53.680 --> 00:19:00.440 clapping cheeks shows yea, reruns of anything, reruns of anything last sic. 272 00:19:00.839 --> 00:19:03.359 Put on something that you can clap these cheeks too, And I'm not gonna 273 00:19:03.359 --> 00:19:08.880 be invested in, respectfully, Like I I think that, especially if you 274 00:19:08.920 --> 00:19:11.079 have a connection with somebody, you should be able to be honest and be 275 00:19:11.160 --> 00:19:15.519 like, yo, I'm what's up? You know why I'm here? What's 276 00:19:15.519 --> 00:19:21.480 his name? Marshall Lednche who says that is that, Marshall Ledge, you 277 00:19:21.519 --> 00:19:26.480 know why I'm here? Like, yo, come on Jesus, when Facebook 278 00:19:26.519 --> 00:19:30.640 said, oh you're still getting at work? Okay, yeah, but can 279 00:19:30.680 --> 00:19:34.720 we get to it faster? Can we not like pretend and play games? 280 00:19:36.359 --> 00:19:42.519 It's a respect thing. Well okay, well, well, well we'll add 281 00:19:42.559 --> 00:19:45.839 this to the previous conversation. When you say you want me to slut you 282 00:19:45.880 --> 00:19:49.960 out, you're saying you want to show up to my house, have me 283 00:19:51.000 --> 00:19:55.519 put on the office and have you clap my cheeks and go that's slutting out? 284 00:19:55.960 --> 00:19:57.279 Like is that? Is that included? And now I want you to 285 00:19:57.319 --> 00:20:00.319 slupt me out? Fellas, I'm still waiting on answer. What does it 286 00:20:00.359 --> 00:20:04.039 mean? Listen, I don't know. I think that I think I don't 287 00:20:04.039 --> 00:20:12.920 know. No, shot, you don't got Mike my last thing. We'll 288 00:20:12.960 --> 00:20:17.359 not my last thing, but something else that just popped in my mind. 289 00:20:18.759 --> 00:20:23.440 I am never going to propose to a man. Never. Never. I 290 00:20:23.480 --> 00:20:29.680 would rather drag my bare coucie across the sidewalk on the fourth of July than 291 00:20:29.759 --> 00:20:36.640 proposed to a man respectfully. Yeah. Yeah, I'm spreading hot tune or 292 00:20:36.640 --> 00:20:41.160 tartar all down the goddamn street because I would never. I would never. 293 00:20:41.640 --> 00:20:44.680 I would never, I would never. Now let me tell you why y'all 294 00:20:44.680 --> 00:20:48.839 would never though, right, And ladies, y'all get me mad. I 295 00:20:48.880 --> 00:20:49.880 know y'all be mad. You're not gonna like what I'm about to say. 296 00:20:49.880 --> 00:20:53.000 But just listen, just listen, Just listen. Okay, don't talk, 297 00:20:53.359 --> 00:21:00.440 just listen, all right, There is almost no benefit for a man to 298 00:21:00.640 --> 00:21:07.680 get married respectfully. Right, So when we have situations where women out number 299 00:21:07.720 --> 00:21:15.599 men already, and then from that number you have to account for, if 300 00:21:15.640 --> 00:21:18.519 you're someone like me, those that are black. From that number, we 301 00:21:18.599 --> 00:21:25.119 then have to account for those that are heterosexual. From that number, you 302 00:21:25.160 --> 00:21:29.359 then have to account for the ones that aren't incarcerated. Right. So, 303 00:21:29.440 --> 00:21:37.559 now we went from like a bajillion men to twelve. Right now, if 304 00:21:37.680 --> 00:21:44.440 I'm a man and I know that like a bajillion women now want me, 305 00:21:45.759 --> 00:21:48.039 I know it's like, you know, whatever I want for me to propose 306 00:21:48.119 --> 00:21:52.440 to a man doesn't make sense because he's already isn't getting any perks of this. 307 00:21:53.680 --> 00:21:57.200 So like I would rather just be chosen. Now, don't get it 308 00:21:57.279 --> 00:22:02.400 twisted. I'm gonna shoot my mother, fuck shot. I'm going to I'm 309 00:22:02.440 --> 00:22:03.640 always going to approach you. Man, I'm always gonna side in DMS. 310 00:22:03.680 --> 00:22:06.920 If I see you, I like you, I won't chuck. I'm gonna 311 00:22:06.960 --> 00:22:11.200 let it be now right. But as far as going to the extreme of 312 00:22:11.880 --> 00:22:18.240 dirtying up my knee, I can't do it. I can't do it. 313 00:22:18.400 --> 00:22:21.960 That's not for me. That's not for me. Someone said, God, 314 00:22:22.039 --> 00:22:23.880 damn all that, Yes, yes, all that, all that and more, 315 00:22:25.279 --> 00:22:26.119 it's just not for me. I don't want to do that. I 316 00:22:26.160 --> 00:22:32.920 have no desire to propose to a man because, like he, I don't 317 00:22:32.960 --> 00:22:34.559 know, fella's tepping you. Would you would you want a girl to propose 318 00:22:34.640 --> 00:22:38.759 to you? Would you want a girl to propose to you? Would you 319 00:22:38.799 --> 00:22:44.000 want your girl to get down on one knee and be like, Yo, 320 00:22:44.440 --> 00:22:47.680 I love you and I want to love you forever. Let's get married. 321 00:22:48.799 --> 00:22:52.559 I don't know. I don't know. I can't do it. It's not 322 00:22:52.640 --> 00:22:56.759 for me. I'm not saying I got anything against women who do it. 323 00:22:56.000 --> 00:23:00.319 I'm just saying, God, ain't bless me with that ministry. That's not 324 00:23:00.680 --> 00:23:03.599 that's not for me. It's not for me. It's not for me. 325 00:23:04.000 --> 00:23:11.359 Someone on Facebook lives said, fuck no, I don't know, and then 326 00:23:11.680 --> 00:23:15.599 here's the character though, right, fellas, I need you to really think 327 00:23:15.599 --> 00:23:18.000 about it in here, especially if you're in a relationship. What would you 328 00:23:18.039 --> 00:23:21.599 do if you went out to dinner you took your girl? Oh my god, 329 00:23:21.759 --> 00:23:23.720 fellas, what would you do your girl? Says y'all, Going out 330 00:23:23.759 --> 00:23:30.240 to dinner, get dressed. It's a fancy restaurant. You get there and 331 00:23:30.519 --> 00:23:36.680 all your family and friends and loved ones are there, and you turn around 332 00:23:37.000 --> 00:23:40.839 and it's Hussy is on the floor on one knee proposing to you in front 333 00:23:40.839 --> 00:23:48.640 of everybody. Oh my god. I am cringing thinking about it. And 334 00:23:48.720 --> 00:23:52.720 not because it's not a disk towards women. That's not what this is in 335 00:23:52.759 --> 00:23:56.960 my mind. Respectfully, I really feel like the man would feel like you're 336 00:23:57.000 --> 00:24:03.000 disrespecting him. I think as a man. If I was a man, 337 00:24:03.079 --> 00:24:07.279 I would feel disrespected, like you're taking a piece of my manhood await from 338 00:24:07.279 --> 00:24:11.880 me? Do that make sense? Like you're stealing something from me that's not 339 00:24:11.920 --> 00:24:17.359 for you to do. Like I would feel so disrespect I would bop her. 340 00:24:17.319 --> 00:24:19.359 And I wouldn't bop her. I wouldn't boper. I I wouldn't boper. 341 00:24:19.680 --> 00:24:23.039 But y'all, I don't know I don't know. What would y'all do? 342 00:24:23.920 --> 00:24:27.079 I don't know. I don't know. As a if I was a 343 00:24:27.079 --> 00:24:33.519 man, I would immediately try to pull her up, like, immediately try 344 00:24:33.519 --> 00:24:37.359 to pull her up. Please don't, please don't. And then like is 345 00:24:37.359 --> 00:24:41.400 she proposing with like a wedding band? Is it an engagement ring? But 346 00:24:41.559 --> 00:24:48.279 niggas, like what is happening? I don't know. I don't know when 347 00:24:48.279 --> 00:24:52.160 women propose, do they have like a ring? Or is it a wedding 348 00:24:52.160 --> 00:24:57.960 band? Like? What is it? Chance saying all my three friends would 349 00:24:59.000 --> 00:25:00.880 tell her? An Now what if she don't tell your friends? Were they 350 00:25:00.960 --> 00:25:04.039 doing? Like y'all, I'm just throwing them a surprise party? Oh my 351 00:25:04.119 --> 00:25:10.400 god, I don't know. Okay, Now what if she uses it? 352 00:25:10.480 --> 00:25:12.559 Like yo, you just gotta promotion at work, everybody's celebrating. You don't 353 00:25:12.599 --> 00:25:19.039 know, like she can use many things to get you there? Seven God, 354 00:25:19.119 --> 00:25:25.160 Lee, my boy is tearing his nuts up this week. Oh my 355 00:25:25.240 --> 00:25:27.920 god, I cannot And you know what's crazy? Seven is like a big, 356 00:25:27.920 --> 00:25:33.960 big big dog. So he's just be get getting it in, getting 357 00:25:33.960 --> 00:25:42.519 it in, getting it in, getting in. So as we keep going 358 00:25:42.559 --> 00:25:48.279 here more things that have just popped across my mind within these past few weeks. 359 00:25:48.279 --> 00:25:53.359 I don't know who needs to hear this, but these niggas got favorites. 360 00:25:55.160 --> 00:25:59.400 Yeah, yeah, men have favorites. And if your man isn't doing 361 00:25:59.440 --> 00:26:03.079 what you want him to do, you're not one of his favorites. Respectfully, 362 00:26:03.240 --> 00:26:08.759 Respectfully, like men have favorites. And if the guy you're dating isn't 363 00:26:08.799 --> 00:26:11.960 doing what you want him to do, you're just not one of his favorites. 364 00:26:12.279 --> 00:26:17.160 Like when they when they when they be feeling them and they like him, 365 00:26:17.720 --> 00:26:19.200 they be doing it, all of it. And I know you're like, 366 00:26:19.240 --> 00:26:22.880 what what do you mean everything? You keep begging you on, nigga, 367 00:26:22.039 --> 00:26:25.359 do they be doing it? You don't gotta ask some twice. You 368 00:26:25.400 --> 00:26:29.799 don't gotta do nothing. They'd be doing it. So instead of complaining, 369 00:26:29.839 --> 00:26:32.319 and I feel like we talked about this a few weeks ago, instead of 370 00:26:32.359 --> 00:26:37.640 complaining that your guy isn't doing something, recognize the game. Acknowledge that you're 371 00:26:37.680 --> 00:26:41.559 just not one of his favorites. That's it, respectfully, And I want 372 00:26:41.640 --> 00:26:47.720 y'all to know that sometimes when we be having these conversations, it really come 373 00:26:47.839 --> 00:26:51.839 from a lot of the stuff I see y'all complaining about on Facebook. I 374 00:26:51.920 --> 00:26:55.680 know. Oh, I know, y'all gonna be mad. I know I 375 00:26:55.720 --> 00:27:00.119 hate that for us. I hate that for us, But in all actuality, 376 00:27:00.160 --> 00:27:04.039 I hate that for you because I literally see the same three or four 377 00:27:04.160 --> 00:27:08.880 topics continuously pop up on my timeline from different women, and it's like, 378 00:27:10.599 --> 00:27:14.960 how how long before we get into a space of them niggas don't like you? 379 00:27:17.480 --> 00:27:19.480 It keeps chating on you. Okay, you keep asking him, do 380 00:27:19.559 --> 00:27:22.200 simple things, show some interest, take some of the ship. Is blah 381 00:27:22.200 --> 00:27:26.400 blah blah blah. He ain't doing it. Like, at what point do 382 00:27:26.440 --> 00:27:30.279 we acknowledge he don't like me? Hey, don't like me. But in 383 00:27:30.319 --> 00:27:34.359 the same token, I think that's the more important point. We need to 384 00:27:34.400 --> 00:27:41.359 stop dating people we don't like we do. It's it's trash. It's trash, 385 00:27:41.440 --> 00:27:45.680 and it's not healthy. Okay, Oh my god, y'all that guy 386 00:27:48.640 --> 00:27:55.519 I'm laughing because the guy on Live he just said, help me push my 387 00:27:55.599 --> 00:28:06.720 van. But it was a guy who I helped pushes. Ah. I 388 00:28:06.759 --> 00:28:11.519 just wanted to say, it's like certain things that people do when they're dating. 389 00:28:11.039 --> 00:28:14.960 It's like, I can tell you never had a serious girlfriend, and 390 00:28:15.400 --> 00:28:18.559 I don't know if that makes sense, Like there are certain things that men 391 00:28:18.720 --> 00:28:22.440 do when dating, Like I can tell you just never had a serious girlfriend. 392 00:28:22.759 --> 00:28:26.319 For example, if you don't know how to take good pictures of me, 393 00:28:29.119 --> 00:28:32.359 I can tell you never had serious girlfriend. Okay, you've never been 394 00:28:32.359 --> 00:28:37.799 trained properly. You would have not been trained properly on how to take pictures. 395 00:28:38.119 --> 00:28:41.000 Do you even know about lighting? Bro, the sun should be in 396 00:28:41.000 --> 00:28:45.319 front of me? Okay? Do you even know about angles? Get down 397 00:28:45.400 --> 00:28:52.200 on a squat? Squat tilted up? Okay, thank you? Like tell 398 00:28:52.240 --> 00:28:55.359 me that my hair needs to be smushed on one side. Tell me that 399 00:28:55.400 --> 00:28:57.319 you know I need to straighten up, suck it in, help me, 400 00:28:57.680 --> 00:29:00.319 like you acting you don't even wanna do this. That's how I know you 401 00:29:00.359 --> 00:29:04.519 never had a serious girlfriend, because if you did, you would be trained, 402 00:29:04.599 --> 00:29:08.359 and you wouldn't know, you would know, you wouldn't know. I 403 00:29:08.400 --> 00:29:14.400 feel like, if you had a serious girlfriend, she's gotten on your nerves 404 00:29:14.519 --> 00:29:18.039 enough to make you be aware of Like, there are certain things you need 405 00:29:18.079 --> 00:29:19.759 to do when I do. Like, I don't know if y'all saw Damson 406 00:29:21.400 --> 00:29:26.440 Adris who's Lorie Harvey's boyfriend, Dampson? Right? Yeah, what's not? 407 00:29:26.640 --> 00:29:33.160 Oh my god? Anyway, So Damson uh commedy on Lorie Harvey's photos. 408 00:29:33.240 --> 00:29:36.960 Like now, stop saying I don't take good pictures, because it's a thing. 409 00:29:37.200 --> 00:29:41.519 It is a thing like this this, and you know what, I 410 00:29:41.519 --> 00:29:45.359 don't know if you're heard shot say he don't have no patience, which oh 411 00:29:45.400 --> 00:29:48.599 I was gonna say. That pissed me off, because you're literally a photographer. 412 00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:51.599 You should be taking the best pictures of your girlfriend. She should never 413 00:29:51.640 --> 00:29:56.920 complain. I don't think it's that we don't have patience. I acknowledge that 414 00:29:56.960 --> 00:30:02.559 men don't have patience. Yall the pictures, It doesn't matter. It doesn't 415 00:30:02.599 --> 00:30:08.559 matter if I take fifty here's the thing, here's the thing. I don't 416 00:30:08.640 --> 00:30:12.000 give a fuck if I make you take three hundred and fifty nine pictures and 417 00:30:12.039 --> 00:30:17.119 I only post two of them. Just do what I'm asking you to do. 418 00:30:17.519 --> 00:30:21.680 Okay, I'm gonna take fifty pictures to get one good picture because I 419 00:30:21.759 --> 00:30:23.920 have to work my angles. I have to do this, this, this, 420 00:30:23.920 --> 00:30:27.119 this, this, which one. I need to know. I have 421 00:30:27.160 --> 00:30:32.079 to have options. Nothing wrong with having options. Men love having options when 422 00:30:32.079 --> 00:30:34.240 it come to women. Okay, so let me tilt my head in each 423 00:30:34.240 --> 00:30:37.559 corner of this room until I find an angle that I like, thank you. 424 00:30:38.640 --> 00:30:41.160 Long story short, if you're over a certain age, you should know 425 00:30:41.160 --> 00:30:45.200 how to take good pictures men, and if you don't, it's probably because 426 00:30:45.559 --> 00:30:56.279 you never had a serious girlfriend. So the lib says, best pics look 427 00:30:56.319 --> 00:31:02.039 spontaneous. Oh, I love me some fake off guard jewels. They're not 428 00:31:02.160 --> 00:31:06.759 really off guard, but they look like it's off guard. Like some spontaneous 429 00:31:06.839 --> 00:31:07.880 jewels. Like, yeah, I like those. I like those a lot. 430 00:31:07.920 --> 00:31:12.359 Those are my favorite. And you know what I like. I like 431 00:31:12.519 --> 00:31:18.880 when uh, okay, I do what I don't with people that I'm actually 432 00:31:18.960 --> 00:31:22.519 dating seriously and tapped in with. I like when they send me pictures that 433 00:31:22.519 --> 00:31:26.720 they took of me when work together but I didn't know, like, oh 434 00:31:26.759 --> 00:31:29.759 I look cute, thank you. That's what i'd be looking like. Okay, 435 00:31:29.920 --> 00:31:32.960 yeah, like I like that, like, but only if we're tapped 436 00:31:32.960 --> 00:31:34.400 in. If I'm like in the midst of cutting you off, where I 437 00:31:34.519 --> 00:31:38.759 mentally already cut you off. Now you're stalking me. Now I need a 438 00:31:38.759 --> 00:31:44.319 PFA because come on, I don't care. I don't care because I'm already 439 00:31:44.319 --> 00:31:45.559 trying to cut you off in my mind. But if if I like you, 440 00:31:45.599 --> 00:31:48.839 like you, oh, that means you like me. Bag. Like, 441 00:31:49.079 --> 00:31:52.680 if I like you, like you and you'd be sneaking pictures of me, 442 00:31:52.000 --> 00:31:56.400 they like affirms that you like me. Bag No, I think so 443 00:31:57.119 --> 00:32:04.119 it's sweet if I like you. If I don't, Hello police, that's 444 00:32:04.160 --> 00:32:09.440 it, that's it. Oh okay, it is a double standard for like, 445 00:32:10.640 --> 00:32:15.559 Man, I don't get fucked. I'm real, I'm be real, 446 00:32:15.599 --> 00:32:19.240 Jaed, I'm gonna tell you why I don't care, all right, because 447 00:32:19.720 --> 00:32:22.279 it's not a gender thing. Men and women know exactly what I'm talking about. 448 00:32:22.480 --> 00:32:28.880 When you like someone, actions are completely different than when they're coming from 449 00:32:28.880 --> 00:32:34.160 someone that you don't like. Like, if you're interested or invested in somebody, 450 00:32:34.599 --> 00:32:37.799 you you're taking off guard pictures of me. It's sweet, okay, 451 00:32:37.000 --> 00:32:43.359 you you texting me every night is sweet? Okay. If I'm not interested 452 00:32:43.400 --> 00:32:46.359 in you, you're taking off guard pictures of me, it's harassment. Oh 453 00:32:46.440 --> 00:32:54.039 that's something that you can qualify somebody like you to know, Like shot said, 454 00:32:54.240 --> 00:32:58.799 is there a way for you to know that? But that's not something 455 00:32:58.759 --> 00:33:00.839 that you know. No oh no, no, no, no no, 456 00:33:00.839 --> 00:33:10.440 no, I don't think it's I don't think let me start over. Yeah, 457 00:33:10.480 --> 00:33:15.160 I think that that is something that you should know, like we are 458 00:33:15.359 --> 00:33:17.160 or we aren't on that level where you should be taking pictures of me, 459 00:33:17.640 --> 00:33:23.440 like unless I ask you too, of course. But yeah, boundies, 460 00:33:23.640 --> 00:33:30.279 boundaries, boundaries, next thing, And once again, ladies, don't be 461 00:33:30.319 --> 00:33:31.400 mad. This is a safe space. But sometimes I'll be having to tell 462 00:33:31.400 --> 00:33:34.480 you about yourself, and it's the last thing I'm gonna say. All right, 463 00:33:37.079 --> 00:33:43.559 men don't mind spending money. Men don't like spending money on broke women. 464 00:33:44.640 --> 00:33:49.319 And that's just what it is. Men don't mind spending money. They 465 00:33:49.359 --> 00:33:53.000 just don't like spending money on broke women. Like if you're giving the energy 466 00:33:53.119 --> 00:33:57.839 of you're asking him to do all the things that you can't do for yourself, 467 00:33:58.559 --> 00:34:00.160 He's not gonna want to do them. It's a turn off. It's 468 00:34:00.200 --> 00:34:02.839 a it's a fucking turn off. It's a big turn off. And I 469 00:34:02.839 --> 00:34:10.119 don't think that women have acknowledged or have acknowledged are willing to accept that. 470 00:34:10.199 --> 00:34:15.800 Like it's nothing wrong with saying, like, yo, if you want to 471 00:34:15.880 --> 00:34:19.840 date me, you you have to take me to a certain type of restaurant. 472 00:34:19.840 --> 00:34:22.280 I'm gonna go get steak forty eight or whatever the case may be. 473 00:34:23.599 --> 00:34:25.079 You know, I'm gonna take that back. I'm gonna take that, man, 474 00:34:25.119 --> 00:34:29.039 I'm gonna take that. It's nothing wrong with you asking a man to 475 00:34:29.079 --> 00:34:34.079 take you to Steak forty eight or to some famous steakhouse. The problem comes 476 00:34:34.079 --> 00:34:36.960 in is when you go out with your girlfriends, y'all go to Friday's. 477 00:34:37.039 --> 00:34:43.719 That's where the skinneck is happening. Like yeah, Like if you are requiring 478 00:34:43.719 --> 00:34:45.719 a man to do something for you that you can't do for yourself or you 479 00:34:45.760 --> 00:34:51.239 don't do when you're out by yourself, that's crazy. They don't like that, 480 00:34:51.280 --> 00:34:53.800 and they can sense it too. They can sense it like, Hm, 481 00:34:54.920 --> 00:34:58.079 this isn't gonna last long. They're probably still gonna hit. For the 482 00:34:58.119 --> 00:35:00.880 record, I don't want to give I don't want y'all to think that like 483 00:35:00.920 --> 00:35:02.519 I'm giving too much credit. But they're probably still going to hit, but 484 00:35:02.760 --> 00:35:07.079 they don't like it. I met a girl with the live says, I 485 00:35:07.119 --> 00:35:12.400 met a girl with the craziest double standard. She says that she just wants 486 00:35:12.400 --> 00:35:15.679 the f around, but the guys that she f around with are not the 487 00:35:15.719 --> 00:35:19.519 type of guys she would take serious. However, the type of guy she 488 00:35:19.639 --> 00:35:22.599 likes, qualities, interests, et cetera. Are the type that want long 489 00:35:22.719 --> 00:35:27.960 term relationships, but she don't want a long term relationship. She complains that 490 00:35:28.079 --> 00:35:31.480 dudes who are down to f around have boring personalities and have no common interest. 491 00:35:32.320 --> 00:35:39.280 Oh that's interesting, that's interesting. Let me read that again. Yeah, 492 00:35:40.039 --> 00:35:43.599 she says that she just wants to f around, but the guys that 493 00:35:43.639 --> 00:35:46.159 she f around with are not the type of guy she would take serious because 494 00:35:46.239 --> 00:35:54.679 there have boring personalities, no common interest. H Hm, that's interesting. 495 00:35:57.760 --> 00:36:06.599 You don't if I'm like, I'm gonna punch him. Okay, I M 496 00:36:07.360 --> 00:36:08.360 first of all, yes, that is I don't. I don't know if 497 00:36:08.400 --> 00:36:13.119 that would be a double standard. I think she needs to acknowledge that, 498 00:36:13.239 --> 00:36:15.800 uh, this is not going to end well for her, Like, I 499 00:36:15.840 --> 00:36:19.599 had to think about this a few times before I wrote this last for my 500 00:36:19.639 --> 00:36:24.440 ass off, the guys that she likes to f around with are boring. 501 00:36:25.320 --> 00:36:30.039 I've honestly never heard that. I'm not gonna lie like I've heard the standpoint 502 00:36:30.119 --> 00:36:32.800 of oh, I want a relationship, but the guys who I like relationships 503 00:36:34.159 --> 00:36:37.840 or who I like for the relationships are boring. Like that is a new 504 00:36:37.159 --> 00:36:40.760 standpoint for me. I've never heard that. First of all, it's usually 505 00:36:40.760 --> 00:36:45.880 the guys and relationships are boring or they know how to manage their anger, 506 00:36:45.239 --> 00:36:52.039 so it's unexciting, Like that's what I hear, right, But that's what 507 00:36:52.159 --> 00:36:54.599 I hear. Like, and it's like, so I choose to deal with 508 00:36:54.800 --> 00:36:59.159 these F boys because they're more fun. That is that is what I see. 509 00:36:59.199 --> 00:37:00.960 That is what I hear. That's that I received from women. Right, 510 00:37:01.000 --> 00:37:06.320 So the fact that she's saying that the F boys are boring is crazy. 511 00:37:06.760 --> 00:37:09.519 So he says, My thing is, why are F guys are boring? 512 00:37:09.599 --> 00:37:14.760 I mean, he boring? Under uninteresting? How long? How does 513 00:37:14.800 --> 00:37:17.039 it even turn you on? I was gonna say that too, like, 514 00:37:17.400 --> 00:37:22.320 if the guys you're choosing to just like play around with are boring, why 515 00:37:22.320 --> 00:37:27.599 are you doing that? Like respectfully, that doesn't sound like something that I 516 00:37:27.639 --> 00:37:30.320 will be interested in because I'm not going to join my time here. If 517 00:37:30.360 --> 00:37:34.239 he's boring, my cat is bored. So I don't want to give it 518 00:37:34.280 --> 00:37:37.000 to you. I don't understand that. Like, I think she need to 519 00:37:37.039 --> 00:37:40.440 go talk to the lady for sure. For sure? Does that count as 520 00:37:40.480 --> 00:37:43.719 our edible for today? That can be our edible for today? Right? 521 00:37:44.440 --> 00:37:47.440 Yeah? That could be our question? Yeah, okay, whatever, let's 522 00:37:47.440 --> 00:37:52.000 do it. Man, Listen, I just wanted to say before I get 523 00:37:52.000 --> 00:37:57.400 out of here. September fifteenth, World Cafe Live, don't forget feeling. 524 00:37:57.519 --> 00:38:00.480 I'm going to be with you. You're gonna be with me. We're gonna 525 00:38:00.519 --> 00:38:05.840 have a thing. Okay, Billy is going down. September fifteenth, World 526 00:38:05.880 --> 00:38:08.880 Cafe Live. Me and East from the East Your Heart Out Podcasts are coming 527 00:38:08.960 --> 00:38:12.480 to Philly, and we can't wait to see y'all. All right, it's 528 00:38:12.480 --> 00:38:15.199 gonna be prizes, giveaways, special guests, all at and we want to 529 00:38:15.239 --> 00:38:17.639 try to bring all that energy that y'all be having in the comments, because 530 00:38:17.679 --> 00:38:20.960 y'all be having an energy in the comments. All right. 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