WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.680 --> 00:00:04.679 Bottle That Bitches is hosted by a horny Mary couple. Content may include adult 2 00:00:04.759 --> 00:00:08.919 language and themes. Check the description for more details. Your discretion is advised. 3 00:00:13.599 --> 00:00:18.559 It's season three. Welcome to Bottles Up Bitches, your favorite sex podcast 4 00:00:18.640 --> 00:00:23.000 with Me Rihanna Campbell and me producer Man Adam Rihanna. Are you ready for 5 00:00:23.079 --> 00:00:25.839 some hot topics and even hotter guests? Well, you know I am. 6 00:00:25.960 --> 00:00:34.840 Let's bucky do this? Say horny bitches? Kind I was waiting till you're 7 00:00:34.840 --> 00:00:38.280 ready. Okay, you know, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. You go 8 00:00:38.280 --> 00:00:41.679 ahead, you quit. I'm not even here. I don't want to do 9 00:00:41.679 --> 00:00:45.000 it anymore. I don't want to. You can give the intro this time, 10 00:00:45.039 --> 00:00:48.399 Adam. I don't want you to pout. Okay, okay anymore. 11 00:00:48.520 --> 00:00:56.399 Well, you're not gonna get any ice cream tonight. I don't like that. 12 00:00:57.320 --> 00:01:03.359 Finally, duty do my neighborhood. How you doing? I'm doing great. 13 00:01:03.600 --> 00:01:07.280 I'm having a nice little night. I'm covered in. Well, we 14 00:01:07.319 --> 00:01:10.200 have a lot of pets. I don't know if you know this. Sure, 15 00:01:10.879 --> 00:01:14.000 if you're living, if you're from our apartment complex, it's just two. 16 00:01:15.760 --> 00:01:19.799 Um No, I'm having a good night covered in fuzz more, you 17 00:01:19.840 --> 00:01:23.760 know or not. I'm having a good time. Yeah, it's a nice 18 00:01:23.879 --> 00:01:27.959 night. It's been a crisp November evening. It is. It's like, 19 00:01:29.120 --> 00:01:32.799 yeah, it's getting cool. But it felt good today. I walked for 20 00:01:32.920 --> 00:01:34.599 a little puppy and I felt like, actually pretty decent. It's in the 21 00:01:34.599 --> 00:01:40.719 fifties now. Yeah. Well, I as always am excited because we had 22 00:01:40.760 --> 00:01:46.200 such a great conversation with a little Delight, a little Delight Um. I 23 00:01:46.400 --> 00:01:51.879 was so much fun speaking with Elsie from Aroused. Elsie is the CEO and 24 00:01:51.920 --> 00:02:00.359 founder of Aroused, which is a sexual wellness brand for Volva owners, and 25 00:02:00.799 --> 00:02:05.280 we learned so much about her and her background. She's originally from Honduras and 26 00:02:05.920 --> 00:02:09.680 has a religious upbringing, so it was really fun hearing all of her insights 27 00:02:09.800 --> 00:02:17.439 and her relationship with her faith but also having a sexual wellness brand because those 28 00:02:17.520 --> 00:02:23.520 two don't typically correlate. Yeah, and even like her being queer, yeah, 29 00:02:23.599 --> 00:02:28.719 and like dealing with that as with the religious aspect of her life. 30 00:02:28.800 --> 00:02:31.639 Yeah, she had a lot of great insights and how to balance all these 31 00:02:31.639 --> 00:02:37.479 different things. So it was an awesome conversation to have. Yeah, and 32 00:02:37.520 --> 00:02:42.319 she was just such a lovely She's just like so positive and just happy. 33 00:02:42.520 --> 00:02:45.639 It was really nice to like, not that it's not nice, you know, 34 00:02:45.680 --> 00:02:47.120 not like any of our other guests have not been nice, but like 35 00:02:47.639 --> 00:02:51.560 she just like she just had this like it fun. She just had this 36 00:02:51.719 --> 00:02:54.599 energy of just being excited. She brings the funk. And this I know 37 00:02:54.639 --> 00:03:00.159 we record. We do video record all of these interviews naturally through our recording 38 00:03:00.240 --> 00:03:04.240 provider. It just kind of happens, but we don't put those out. 39 00:03:04.319 --> 00:03:07.520 This is the one that I wish we did do that because she was so 40 00:03:07.560 --> 00:03:10.520 animated. Yeah, I wish people can see her the way she was doing 41 00:03:10.560 --> 00:03:15.400 close ups on our own camera, like putting her eyeball like to the camera, 42 00:03:15.520 --> 00:03:22.280 like reacting to things and pantomiming smoking a blunt and fun things. So 43 00:03:23.280 --> 00:03:25.240 she's so much fun. I would love. That's someone that I would enjoy 44 00:03:25.280 --> 00:03:28.919 meeting in person, for sure. So we got to make our little way 45 00:03:29.000 --> 00:03:36.159 up to New Mexico to go and visit her and her girlfriend. Absolutely well, 46 00:03:36.159 --> 00:03:40.439 without further ado, I hope you enjoy this very intriguing episode with Elsie 47 00:03:40.560 --> 00:03:55.800 from Aroused Feather. Let the nerves roll off and then when it makes sense, 48 00:03:55.840 --> 00:04:00.240 that's where when we edit it. We'll start the episode from there. 49 00:04:00.719 --> 00:04:04.120 Perfect. I think that's the best way because I'm like, oh my god, 50 00:04:04.120 --> 00:04:09.000 like what am I supposed to do? It's okay, Yeah, we 51 00:04:09.039 --> 00:04:13.439 want it to be very authentic. So we find doing it this way and 52 00:04:13.840 --> 00:04:17.680 you're not listening to like ten minutes of us like bantered introduce you, you 53 00:04:17.720 --> 00:04:23.199 know, introducing someone makes it so nerve wracking. Yes, he does, 54 00:04:23.439 --> 00:04:26.040 he does. I'm always like, oh my gosh, dude, Like, 55 00:04:26.720 --> 00:04:30.959 first of all, I don't I don't know what to do, like can 56 00:04:30.000 --> 00:04:35.639 I be myself you know like this? But thank you so much for having 57 00:04:35.680 --> 00:04:41.199 me. I'm so grateful and I've been looking forward to this, so I'm 58 00:04:41.199 --> 00:04:44.720 really excited. Thank you so much. Guys. Absolutely have you done a 59 00:04:44.759 --> 00:04:49.279 podcast or any type of speaking event yet? Um? Not yet, but 60 00:04:50.000 --> 00:04:55.480 I mean no, okay, I haven't. Well, you know, there's 61 00:04:55.480 --> 00:05:00.439 our first time for everything. So we're happy to be the first to be 62 00:05:00.439 --> 00:05:05.759 your first. Always excited to be your first. Thank you. Thank you 63 00:05:05.800 --> 00:05:13.959 for taking my podcast Virginity away. Of course really might as well, so 64 00:05:14.279 --> 00:05:17.120 tell us a little bit about you. You're originally from Honduras, is that 65 00:05:17.160 --> 00:05:25.040 correct? Yes? And I'm partaking is it a twisted tea. Oh I 66 00:05:27.879 --> 00:05:31.839 don't know what that is. It's a vodka seltzer with real juice. Oh 67 00:05:31.959 --> 00:05:38.519 no, gonna fake juice. Okay, okay, this is the real juice. 68 00:05:38.639 --> 00:05:43.160 Okay. My friend my birthday was a month like a little bit over 69 00:05:43.199 --> 00:05:45.879 a month ago, and he brought these for my birthday and is still in 70 00:05:45.920 --> 00:05:48.839 the fridge. So I'm like, if they're partaking, I gotta partake, 71 00:05:49.000 --> 00:05:51.519 you know what I mean? Absolutely? I love it. Well, happy 72 00:05:51.560 --> 00:05:57.199 belated birthday. Thank you, thank you so much. I did hear your 73 00:05:57.240 --> 00:06:00.920 birth You were a Libra. I'm a September libra. You in October libra? 74 00:06:00.360 --> 00:06:05.399 Or you a scorpio. I'm a scorpio. I love that. We 75 00:06:05.519 --> 00:06:11.879 love scorpios. Thank you, thank you. I'm glad. I'm not getting 76 00:06:11.879 --> 00:06:14.600 all that hey that I usually get when I tell people I'm a scorpio. 77 00:06:14.639 --> 00:06:17.920 They're like, oh my god, what And I'm like, it's fine, 78 00:06:18.360 --> 00:06:21.160 I'm good. It's not that serious. I learned. Um. We have 79 00:06:21.199 --> 00:06:28.680 an episode coming out on Monday, and we did a sextrology reading with a 80 00:06:28.759 --> 00:06:33.399 sex wellness educator and astrologer and she breaks down, like all of our houses 81 00:06:33.480 --> 00:06:39.439 and my mars is in scorpio, and your mars is like your sex personality 82 00:06:39.560 --> 00:06:44.079 essentially. So I learned that I have some scorpio in me. Oh, 83 00:06:44.519 --> 00:06:46.519 I know, I know. I'm excited for that. Do you follow any 84 00:06:46.519 --> 00:06:48.879 astrology? Do you believe in any of that or is it just me? 85 00:06:50.759 --> 00:06:56.399 No? I well, I believe in astrology. But the thing is, 86 00:06:56.480 --> 00:07:00.800 I haven't educated myself as as I should, but I do know. It's 87 00:07:00.839 --> 00:07:03.199 related to the cycles of life. You know, everything is a cycle. 88 00:07:03.279 --> 00:07:08.560 So the way the moon rotates, the way the starts rotate, everything is 89 00:07:08.560 --> 00:07:12.959 a cycle. So there is some truth in astrology. I just haven't educated 90 00:07:13.040 --> 00:07:15.399 myself as much, but I do. I love, you know, reading 91 00:07:15.439 --> 00:07:20.040 my song, my moon, my ri scene. I love learning about it. 92 00:07:20.160 --> 00:07:24.720 So I'm always open. I don't know a smart though. That's kind 93 00:07:24.720 --> 00:07:27.560 of where I'm at. I don't know everything, but I try it to 94 00:07:27.560 --> 00:07:30.040 me. It helps me learn about myself and how I can process things better. 95 00:07:31.480 --> 00:07:34.079 Yes, yes, as it should, I say, should you know? 96 00:07:34.160 --> 00:07:39.519 Because I don't know? Let me stop. We feel fine. Feel 97 00:07:39.560 --> 00:07:45.000 free to elaborate as much as you want. But I did interrupt you. 98 00:07:45.199 --> 00:07:49.920 So tell me what you're originally from? Honduras? Yes, yes, yes, 99 00:07:50.000 --> 00:07:55.759 so um, a little background about myself. How much background do you 100 00:07:55.759 --> 00:07:59.560 want? Because you know I can go all the ways? Do you do 101 00:07:59.639 --> 00:08:03.519 you you let us know we're here. We're here to learn about who you 102 00:08:03.560 --> 00:08:07.240 are. Yeah, thank you, Thank you guys, thank you. I 103 00:08:07.279 --> 00:08:11.519 already feel very special. Um. Well, my name is Elsie. I 104 00:08:11.560 --> 00:08:16.600 was born and raising Honduras. Um. But I move out here to the 105 00:08:16.680 --> 00:08:22.399 United States to pursue a college degree. And I grew up in a really 106 00:08:22.079 --> 00:08:26.920 not really, but I grew up in I went to a Christian school from 107 00:08:26.959 --> 00:08:30.319 pre K to twelfth. My first language in Spanish, but you know, 108 00:08:30.399 --> 00:08:33.279 I learned English a bi lingual school, and then I went to an Episcopal 109 00:08:33.399 --> 00:08:37.840 church growing up. So it was a lot of you know, Jesus everywhere 110 00:08:39.120 --> 00:08:43.080 in my house, which you know, it's cool because I've always I've always 111 00:08:43.080 --> 00:08:46.279 had a relationship with God. I've always put God as the fourth front, 112 00:08:46.360 --> 00:08:54.519 like at the front for fende of my life, you know, So it 113 00:08:54.559 --> 00:09:03.840 was cool or whatever. But I always struggle with the fear based Christianity that 114 00:09:03.039 --> 00:09:09.559 was pushed into us in my college or in my high school, and you 115 00:09:09.600 --> 00:09:11.919 know, and then at my church and stuff. So that was always like 116 00:09:13.279 --> 00:09:18.759 kind of weird for me, I didn't really have I learned about sex at 117 00:09:18.799 --> 00:09:24.720 my sex education class in school, and I also learned not by choice. 118 00:09:24.840 --> 00:09:28.759 I was sexually abused at a young age, so I had to learn the 119 00:09:28.799 --> 00:09:33.879 wrong way, you know, which sucks. But that's how I learned about 120 00:09:33.960 --> 00:09:37.519 sex growing off, and I had a lot of trauma around the topic, 121 00:09:37.600 --> 00:09:41.559 a lot of sexual trauma when it comes you know, a lot of sexual 122 00:09:41.559 --> 00:09:46.679 trauma due to what happened to me as a as a kid. And I 123 00:09:46.679 --> 00:09:50.399 don't know if you guys are aware of this, but I think seven out 124 00:09:50.440 --> 00:09:56.200 of ten people have had some type of sexual trauma. Interesting. So when 125 00:09:56.240 --> 00:10:01.679 I learned that, I was like, what, dude, it's crazy that. 126 00:10:01.960 --> 00:10:03.080 Of course we don't talk about it, you know, because we are 127 00:10:03.120 --> 00:10:07.320 ashamed and we don't really want to talk about what happened to us as kids. 128 00:10:07.360 --> 00:10:11.559 But I think once you heal that part of yourself, it's really important. 129 00:10:11.600 --> 00:10:16.120 If you're comfortable with sharing, it's important to share that with other people 130 00:10:16.200 --> 00:10:20.759 so people can find their voice and feel empower So that's why I always like 131 00:10:20.879 --> 00:10:24.879 to start by that. Um. I went to New Mexico State, Go 132 00:10:26.039 --> 00:10:28.200 Aggies. I don't know you guys, know that school, but that's where 133 00:10:28.200 --> 00:10:33.320 I went to school, and I started exploring my sexuality, you know, 134 00:10:33.360 --> 00:10:37.840 when I was in school because I realized I was popping you feel me like 135 00:10:37.879 --> 00:10:39.480 I will get attention. And I was like, oh shit, okay, 136 00:10:39.559 --> 00:10:43.360 I guess this is what it is to be in college, you know. 137 00:10:43.440 --> 00:10:48.360 So I became the president of the Pro Ho Club. Pro Ho. I 138 00:10:48.399 --> 00:10:52.879 love that it is what it sounds like. Is it like a sex empowerment 139 00:10:52.960 --> 00:11:00.200 club. It's not a club. I kind of make it. I was 140 00:11:00.200 --> 00:11:03.480 like, yeah, she's got people, she's got a group. I thought 141 00:11:03.519 --> 00:11:07.519 y'all were out there putting flyers up. Come join the Come join the club. 142 00:11:07.639 --> 00:11:11.799 That's so funny. No, I always say that. I'm like, 143 00:11:11.840 --> 00:11:13.360 you know, I was the president of the Pro Bowl Club. That was 144 00:11:13.440 --> 00:11:16.039 never a thing. It was just in my head. And you know, 145 00:11:16.120 --> 00:11:20.000 me and my friends were kind of out there just holding around thloughting and plotting 146 00:11:20.120 --> 00:11:28.200 me kind o things. Yes, yes, um, And I was just 147 00:11:28.720 --> 00:11:31.159 I was just out there, honestly, just fucking if I'm being honest. 148 00:11:31.240 --> 00:11:37.960 But I would always be very insecure about you know, my not my body, 149 00:11:37.960 --> 00:11:39.799 but I was really insecure about my skills because I didn't have practice, 150 00:11:39.840 --> 00:11:43.200 and I always, honestly, I would never really enjoy it. I was 151 00:11:43.240 --> 00:11:48.120 like, this is supposed to feel good, but it doesn't feel good. 152 00:11:48.600 --> 00:11:54.679 Come to find out, I was queer, you know, And but I 153 00:11:54.720 --> 00:11:58.559 was just having sex with all these men because of you know, compulsitory header 154 00:11:58.759 --> 00:12:03.600 s tuality. You know. I was pushed to like men, but I 155 00:12:03.639 --> 00:12:07.600 was never enjoying sex with men because I was never attracted to And I was 156 00:12:07.639 --> 00:12:11.200 like, oh my god, that's why that whole thing was a whole mess. 157 00:12:11.240 --> 00:12:13.639 Man. I'm like, dude, I was so unhinged, like why 158 00:12:13.679 --> 00:12:18.480 would I do that? You know? But I had to learn that, 159 00:12:18.000 --> 00:12:24.000 and I learned that by being by self awareness. And this is where the 160 00:12:24.080 --> 00:12:30.639 actual story of my brand begins, because throughout my life, I've experienced a 161 00:12:30.679 --> 00:12:37.679 lot of like chronic mental mental not illness. But I was really really I 162 00:12:37.799 --> 00:12:41.320 was. I was going through a really severe case of depression. I could 163 00:12:41.360 --> 00:12:46.080 not I could diagnosed with a heart condition at a like seven years ago, 164 00:12:46.440 --> 00:12:50.039 I think eight years ago. I'm twenty eight now. But when I was 165 00:12:50.200 --> 00:12:54.240 twenty, I got diagnosed with a heart condition that had me I was really 166 00:12:54.279 --> 00:12:58.759 depressed because I had to switch my life. I had to adjust to medication. 167 00:12:58.399 --> 00:13:03.879 I kind of I lost my volleyball scholarship. I forgot to tell you 168 00:13:03.879 --> 00:13:07.039 guys, I move out here because I had an athletic scholarship. But I 169 00:13:07.080 --> 00:13:11.799 lost my scholarship. So that really it took all over my life, my 170 00:13:11.840 --> 00:13:18.200 body. I was really depressed. I got so depressed that I tried to 171 00:13:18.240 --> 00:13:22.759 commit suicide in a way, yes, yes, but I didn't do it. 172 00:13:22.960 --> 00:13:28.840 I didn't do that. I didn't. It was more indirectly, Like 173 00:13:28.039 --> 00:13:33.159 indirectly, I stopped taking my medication because some voice in my head was telling 174 00:13:33.159 --> 00:13:37.159 me that I was healthy, I was good to go, I was good. 175 00:13:37.159 --> 00:13:39.759 But come to find out, I was just depressed. I was just 176 00:13:39.799 --> 00:13:45.360 really unhinged. So after that, I decided to seek therapy and to seek 177 00:13:45.360 --> 00:13:48.960 help because I was like, dude, I need I need to fix whatever 178 00:13:48.000 --> 00:13:52.360 it's going on in this head. So I went through therapy really young, 179 00:13:54.240 --> 00:13:56.679 but as a new being therapy. I don't know if you guys are from 180 00:13:56.679 --> 00:14:01.039 melee with therapy, but when you go for the first time, you aren't 181 00:14:01.039 --> 00:14:05.679 scared of being yourself because you don't want to feel jaws about your Sure, 182 00:14:05.759 --> 00:14:09.639 it definitely takes time to open up to a complete stranger about things you literally 183 00:14:09.639 --> 00:14:16.600 don't want to talk about exactly exactly, Like like I was going to therapy 184 00:14:16.600 --> 00:14:20.679 and I was like, damn dude, like should I be myself? You 185 00:14:20.720 --> 00:14:24.000 know? I was like like can I tell you my secrets? Like are 186 00:14:24.039 --> 00:14:26.080 you gonna think I'm crazy? So that was my first time, Like I 187 00:14:26.120 --> 00:14:30.000 think it was like over eight years ago. That was my first time in 188 00:14:30.080 --> 00:14:33.399 therapy. It was cool, but I kind of quit. I was like, 189 00:14:33.480 --> 00:14:35.000 no, I don't need this shit. You know, I'm good man, 190 00:14:35.159 --> 00:14:41.919 Like, let me just do this thing. Three years ago actually today, 191 00:14:41.159 --> 00:14:46.440 and I just had a little ceremony my grandma passed away. So I 192 00:14:46.480 --> 00:14:52.759 was I was going through another depression, you know episode. And not only 193 00:14:52.799 --> 00:14:56.399 that, I was also dealing with my sexuality. I'm like I don't know 194 00:14:56.440 --> 00:15:00.879 what to do, Like I'm having these feelings towards women, but I'm also 195 00:15:00.960 --> 00:15:05.200 a shame. I'm also embarrassed. I'm also this is not me, you 196 00:15:05.240 --> 00:15:09.639 know what I mean. Once again, going back to all those that like, 197 00:15:11.480 --> 00:15:18.200 I want to say that like mental brainwash, that growing up in a 198 00:15:18.360 --> 00:15:24.000 religion right you know us to you and yes, in no shape to any 199 00:15:24.240 --> 00:15:28.840 to Christianity because I always I always say, I love God, you know, 200 00:15:28.919 --> 00:15:33.039 like I always I my relationship with God is extremely important. But I 201 00:15:33.200 --> 00:15:39.480 realize that the way they do religion is very, very dangerous because they brainwash 202 00:15:39.519 --> 00:15:43.919 your brain. They brainwash your mind by telling you you're a sinner, you're 203 00:15:43.919 --> 00:15:48.360 a sinner, you're a sinner, and you start believing those things. As 204 00:15:48.440 --> 00:15:50.200 humans, we don't know what to believe. As kids, we don't know 205 00:15:50.200 --> 00:15:54.440 what to believe. So when somebody's telling us you're a sinner, you're a 206 00:15:54.440 --> 00:15:58.159 sinner, we literally believe we're sinners. So that's when I have a problem 207 00:15:58.200 --> 00:16:02.159 with religion. But you know, hey, I digress. That's organized religion. 208 00:16:02.519 --> 00:16:04.200 It's tough, and we've talked a little bit about it, and we're 209 00:16:04.240 --> 00:16:08.600 not afraid to get political or religious in any way because it all boils down 210 00:16:08.679 --> 00:16:14.039 and it all still relates to sex and sexuality because we're taught to, like 211 00:16:14.039 --> 00:16:18.799 you said, be ashamed of our bodies. The way they approach sex can 212 00:16:18.879 --> 00:16:22.840 be very negative because it is very much like you're only allowed to you know, 213 00:16:22.879 --> 00:16:26.320 whether it's having sex after marriage or even that. It's like almost Catholicism. 214 00:16:26.399 --> 00:16:30.759 Catholicism is traditionally you're not allowed to use protection because sex is only used 215 00:16:32.360 --> 00:16:36.320 to have babies. So like there's just all these different things that people are 216 00:16:36.399 --> 00:16:38.480 raised with and it could be so damaging, and especially if you're part of 217 00:16:38.960 --> 00:16:44.519 the LGBTQ community, like and then it's even more confusing and it gets even 218 00:16:44.559 --> 00:16:48.720 more shameful, and it's it's tough. So having any type of spiral or 219 00:16:49.480 --> 00:16:53.399 a tough mental capacity for it is completely understandable. Yeah, I mean there's 220 00:16:53.440 --> 00:17:00.519 definitely like a separate a difference between faith and church for sure, and they're 221 00:17:00.600 --> 00:17:03.480 great like I also, you know, they're for sure great churches out there 222 00:17:03.519 --> 00:17:06.880 that are like we love everyone and we don't want to shame and like there 223 00:17:06.880 --> 00:17:11.240 are all those but but for sure like yeah, stealing, fear ism and 224 00:17:11.279 --> 00:17:17.680 tactic. And we're from Texas, so we completely understand. Uh, you 225 00:17:17.720 --> 00:17:21.880 know the religious aspect, you know, having no rights, you know, 226 00:17:21.920 --> 00:17:26.759 all those cute things, cute girly things. Know what part of Texas? 227 00:17:26.799 --> 00:17:33.039 Do you guys live in Austin? Oh? Oh yes, my godparents live 228 00:17:33.119 --> 00:17:36.240 in Texas. So I was there for well, I was there last year 229 00:17:36.279 --> 00:17:38.119 for like a month and a half and I was just there in September, 230 00:17:38.559 --> 00:17:42.279 and I was just very because I I'm based in New Mexico for now and 231 00:17:42.400 --> 00:17:47.519 here, um, whit is legal, you know. I was trying to 232 00:17:47.559 --> 00:17:53.920 go to like a dispensary in Texas and then my girl, we're girl girls, 233 00:17:55.279 --> 00:18:02.880 No, we're in Texas. Did you go Houston? That's where I'm 234 00:18:02.920 --> 00:18:06.640 from. I'm from Houston. And then Adams from the Dallas area, so 235 00:18:06.680 --> 00:18:11.039 we're we're And then like I have family in El Paso, and then um, 236 00:18:11.160 --> 00:18:15.279 so we're we We've lived in lots of different Texas areas where Native Texans, 237 00:18:15.279 --> 00:18:21.519 so we understand the being repressed for sure. Yeah. I was like, 238 00:18:21.640 --> 00:18:25.440 you an got weird. I gotta go. I have to go. 239 00:18:25.519 --> 00:18:30.039 Oh you, I can't be here, like physically, my body wouldn't allow 240 00:18:30.119 --> 00:18:33.799 me to live here, you know. But I love I love Houston though, 241 00:18:33.839 --> 00:18:37.319 I really really like Houston. But we'll see why we love Houston. 242 00:18:37.400 --> 00:18:41.720 We're hoping big proponents of Houston. We love Houston. Um, this is 243 00:18:41.720 --> 00:18:45.519 so much fun. I'm learning so much about you because I now I have 244 00:18:45.559 --> 00:18:49.759 all these questions around, like so you had this religious upbringing and then you 245 00:18:49.759 --> 00:18:52.319 find out you're queer, and I'm like, well, where does where does 246 00:18:52.559 --> 00:18:59.319 uh aroused fit into all? This, what was the inspiration? And you 247 00:18:59.319 --> 00:19:02.319 know what, we're well, how has your family feel about it? That's 248 00:19:02.319 --> 00:19:06.640 only spiraling questions. So tell our listeners about arouse, what it is and 249 00:19:07.079 --> 00:19:11.640 what you do. Yeah, most definitely, most definitely, and once again, 250 00:19:11.680 --> 00:19:15.200 thank you so much for the invite. I am so grateful. So 251 00:19:15.519 --> 00:19:21.359 how did I How did I? How did I start aroused? So going 252 00:19:21.400 --> 00:19:27.000 back to my mental health and my mental health journey, UM, I decided 253 00:19:27.039 --> 00:19:30.359 to go back to therapy. But this time around, I was like, 254 00:19:30.359 --> 00:19:33.599 okay, you know why, let me show up as my full authentic self. 255 00:19:33.640 --> 00:19:36.240 You know. So when I went to therapy the second time, I 256 00:19:36.279 --> 00:19:40.599 was there just to write my wrongs, you know, accept my faults and 257 00:19:40.680 --> 00:19:45.960 just kind of free my mind from the delusions of the world and to heal 258 00:19:45.119 --> 00:19:51.440 and to stop suffering. Okay, So my therapists advised me. She said, 259 00:19:51.480 --> 00:19:53.960 oh, maybe you should start meditating. And I was like, girl, 260 00:19:55.200 --> 00:19:56.240 what is that? You know? And then she's like, just start 261 00:19:56.319 --> 00:20:00.559 meditating, just focus on your breathing and I and this was three years ago, 262 00:20:00.960 --> 00:20:02.880 and I was like, sure, you know, let me try it. 263 00:20:03.200 --> 00:20:07.240 So whenever I started meditating three years ago, I would always have a 264 00:20:07.319 --> 00:20:11.319 mantra of whatever comes to my brain, it has to go, it has 265 00:20:11.359 --> 00:20:14.480 to go. So I would always be like, Okay, everything that comes, 266 00:20:14.880 --> 00:20:17.880 Oh I'm hungry, it's a thought. Oh I'm horny, it's a 267 00:20:17.920 --> 00:20:21.400 thought. Oh I'm gay, it's a thought. Oh my mama, my 268 00:20:21.440 --> 00:20:22.440 mom is gonna get mad at me. It's a thought. Everything was a 269 00:20:22.519 --> 00:20:26.839 thought. That's how I started meditating. And then as I started growing in 270 00:20:26.880 --> 00:20:32.319 my meditation practice, she would I started reading more about like mindfulness, what 271 00:20:32.519 --> 00:20:36.240 comes with like meditating, what comes with being mindful? And then I found 272 00:20:36.240 --> 00:20:41.960 out about affirmations, and I started reading about I found out about affirmations on 273 00:20:41.079 --> 00:20:42.920 you know, social media, and I was like, oh, what are 274 00:20:42.960 --> 00:20:47.599 affirmations. I thought it was just like a trending topic from the internet, 275 00:20:47.640 --> 00:20:48.960 you know. I was like, okay, this is trending, what's up? 276 00:20:49.039 --> 00:20:52.119 You know? So I started reading about affirmations and then I did my 277 00:20:52.200 --> 00:20:57.480 own in depth research and come to find out affirmations are related to neuroscience, 278 00:20:57.559 --> 00:21:04.720 and neuroscience is the start of the brain, the spinal cord and your peripheral 279 00:21:06.000 --> 00:21:11.960 nervous system, and how you repeating positive things can actually reprogram Like there's chemicals 280 00:21:11.960 --> 00:21:18.240 in your brain. That can reprogram your brain to think positively by repeating positive 281 00:21:18.279 --> 00:21:22.240 things. That's when I say religion can be very dangerous because if you repeat 282 00:21:22.279 --> 00:21:26.359 positive things to yourself, then you start thinking positive. And that's how I 283 00:21:26.519 --> 00:21:33.000 started my affirmations journey. And I say this because an important part of my 284 00:21:33.119 --> 00:21:37.799 brand, my sexual work wellness brand, is we try to implement and teach 285 00:21:37.839 --> 00:21:45.759 people about affirmations, especially especially and we focus on sexual sexual healing affirmations. 286 00:21:45.960 --> 00:21:48.960 What does that mean? That means repeating that you are a sexual person, 287 00:21:49.039 --> 00:21:55.039 I am a sexual person, I am healed from sexual trauma. We try 288 00:21:55.039 --> 00:21:59.480 to implement these even on our boxes. If you look on our packaging, 289 00:21:59.559 --> 00:22:03.920 we do have sexual healing affirmations all around because I do want to teach people 290 00:22:03.960 --> 00:22:08.079 about affirmations because a lot of people don't know that everything they need to heal 291 00:22:10.039 --> 00:22:14.960 and to unfund themselves from all these polluted air is just your rain, right. 292 00:22:15.920 --> 00:22:19.200 That's how a Rouse started because I wanted to implement affirmations and I also 293 00:22:19.240 --> 00:22:26.559 wanted to implement female focus sexual education. And I also of course wanted to 294 00:22:26.599 --> 00:22:33.119 implement clitorial products because my brand and just a disclaimer my brand, I support 295 00:22:33.160 --> 00:22:37.720 all the different I want to say, all the different sexualities, and I 296 00:22:38.200 --> 00:22:45.359 support all the different genders, non binary, you know, if you identify 297 00:22:45.440 --> 00:22:51.039 as women, if you're identified whatever you identify as. I supported my brand, 298 00:22:51.039 --> 00:22:55.799 though it is focused on people with vaginas and or people that identify as 299 00:22:55.839 --> 00:23:00.279 women, because we only sell clittorial products. Because yes, yes, I 300 00:23:00.319 --> 00:23:04.519 had, I had. I have a lot of religious friends, like really 301 00:23:04.559 --> 00:23:07.599 religious. I'm not gonna say yes, you know. I'm like, look, 302 00:23:08.079 --> 00:23:12.599 if any name slipped out, he bleeps them out. Please, okay. 303 00:23:12.759 --> 00:23:17.079 I don't want to want to protect everyone's privacy. Yeah, we're out 304 00:23:17.119 --> 00:23:21.119 anyone, Thank you, thank you, thank you. I appreciate it. 305 00:23:21.519 --> 00:23:26.160 Um Jokingly, I texted her and I was like, oh, happy orgasm 306 00:23:26.240 --> 00:23:30.720 day. Come to find out a year later, she was like, girl, 307 00:23:30.200 --> 00:23:33.079 I had my first orgasm. My god at toy And I was like, 308 00:23:33.119 --> 00:23:37.200 what the fuck? Haven't you been married for four years? My girl? 309 00:23:37.559 --> 00:23:40.440 And she's like, yeah, you know, but I just had my 310 00:23:40.480 --> 00:23:42.279 first orgasm. And that's when I lost my mind. Right, I'm like, 311 00:23:44.079 --> 00:23:47.799 how haven't you been married for four years? But oftentimes, as gracy 312 00:23:47.839 --> 00:23:52.440 as this sounds, this happens more often in hetero sexual relationship and I have 313 00:23:52.559 --> 00:24:00.359 a study that shows that it's more common to see that in heterosexual relationships, 314 00:24:00.359 --> 00:24:07.160 where women cannot really assert and express their sexual needs because they're kind of like 315 00:24:07.200 --> 00:24:11.440 afraid to hurt their men's ego or whatever their partner's ego. So that's that 316 00:24:11.599 --> 00:24:15.200 was one of the roots that was, like my muse, I was motivated 317 00:24:15.240 --> 00:24:22.000 by my friends ability to not express what she wanted in bed. I was 318 00:24:22.039 --> 00:24:26.359 like, what the fuck? Yeah, you know what's shame, it's that 319 00:24:26.480 --> 00:24:30.160 shame. And then like you said, like you don't want to hurt someone's 320 00:24:30.160 --> 00:24:33.079 feelings. And it's not like we're ever taught how to orgasm. I mean, 321 00:24:33.160 --> 00:24:36.079 boys are taught. It's depicted, whether it's in movies, it's depicted 322 00:24:36.119 --> 00:24:40.559 everywhere. Guys know how to stroke it. But like we're not taught. 323 00:24:40.640 --> 00:24:45.200 We're not taught shit, Like I don't you know even if you're watching like 324 00:24:45.279 --> 00:24:48.279 shitty poor and it's all about penetration, and what is it. I think 325 00:24:48.319 --> 00:24:53.480 only like twenty percent of women. It's like super low that women achieve orgasm 326 00:24:53.519 --> 00:24:59.240 through penetration and U I mean, and I'm very similar. We were together 327 00:24:59.279 --> 00:25:03.480 for four years and we were already married, and I had my orgasm after 328 00:25:03.519 --> 00:25:07.039 we were married. So I was like, I put a lot of faith 329 00:25:07.039 --> 00:25:11.680 in him. I was like, it'll happen eventually, we'll figure it out. 330 00:25:11.799 --> 00:25:15.079 But I had to get a toy. I figured out I need to 331 00:25:15.119 --> 00:25:19.000 get a toy. I figured out how to use it and yeah, and 332 00:25:19.039 --> 00:25:22.319 then that's when I was like, Okay, now I know what I mean. 333 00:25:22.440 --> 00:25:26.039 Now I know I'm a clotoral comer, and now he knows this, 334 00:25:26.119 --> 00:25:30.839 and now he is able to even you know, you can perform and help 335 00:25:30.880 --> 00:25:33.960 me achieve an orgasm without a toy because you know what I need. Now 336 00:25:34.599 --> 00:25:38.279 if I don't know how am I going to tell him? You know? 337 00:25:41.359 --> 00:25:44.319 I think everyone should just go down on each other more often and be like 338 00:25:44.440 --> 00:25:48.079 is this good? It's not good? Like y'all just everyone should just feel 339 00:25:48.079 --> 00:25:52.440 around everyone, whether you are a vola owner owner or you have a sack. 340 00:25:52.480 --> 00:25:53.480 I think we should all just go down on each other more and just 341 00:25:53.480 --> 00:25:59.119 be like, is this good? Is it's nice? Like for science or 342 00:25:59.160 --> 00:26:04.599 ahead for scy for science, please please just try it. Just try it. 343 00:26:04.640 --> 00:26:11.799 And it's crazy because a lot of people don't know that the clittering is 344 00:26:11.920 --> 00:26:15.759 is so powerful, right, Like you know, a lot of people don't 345 00:26:15.799 --> 00:26:18.599 know that stroke that click for five seconds and you'll see what happened. Yeah 346 00:26:18.720 --> 00:26:22.680 you know, you don't even got to put in work baby, Okay, 347 00:26:22.759 --> 00:26:26.319 yeah. Absolutely. And then I also read something recently and it was and 348 00:26:26.319 --> 00:26:30.440 I'm paraphrasing every every statistic I read, I'm like paraphrasing. Uh. It 349 00:26:30.519 --> 00:26:37.680 was something along the lines of women need like fifteen minutes of poor play typically 350 00:26:37.680 --> 00:26:40.960 as well. So there's just a lot of warming up. You got to 351 00:26:40.960 --> 00:26:45.880 preheat the oven, you know. Facts. That's it. That's it. 352 00:26:47.119 --> 00:26:51.480 I love that. I love that. So starting your business, so starting 353 00:26:51.519 --> 00:26:56.160 aroused if you're learning all these things like what what was the light bulb moment 354 00:26:56.200 --> 00:27:00.880 of like, Okay, I'm going to start a brand and focus on clatorial 355 00:27:02.039 --> 00:27:11.119 toys. Um so I was high, Yes, we support where to be 356 00:27:11.119 --> 00:27:14.920 signed. That's that's it. That's all. So me and my friend were 357 00:27:14.960 --> 00:27:19.680 smoking weed and then I was like, I want to help people somehow and 358 00:27:19.720 --> 00:27:23.480 I want to serve people, but I don't know how I want to start 359 00:27:23.480 --> 00:27:26.920 a business. You know, for our listeners, I do. I do 360 00:27:26.960 --> 00:27:30.920 want to make it clear that Elsie, while telling this story, is that 361 00:27:30.279 --> 00:27:37.599 is bunt is mining a blunt imaginary mining blunt that's happening right now and it's 362 00:27:37.599 --> 00:27:44.359 cool, white fun. Listen, listen. I I whenever I before coming 363 00:27:45.160 --> 00:27:48.000 into the podcast, I was meditating and praying, and I was like, 364 00:27:48.039 --> 00:27:51.319 I just want to be myself because I just that's all I can be, 365 00:27:51.440 --> 00:27:53.039 you know, and this is what I will perfect. I love it. 366 00:27:53.680 --> 00:27:57.079 You're really setting the scene for us. It's like we were there. We're 367 00:27:57.079 --> 00:28:03.119 practically co founders at this point. Thank you, guys, thank you. 368 00:28:03.279 --> 00:28:07.839 But yeah, I was just, you know, just doing my thing with 369 00:28:07.880 --> 00:28:11.200 my friend and then, um, Originally the name of our brand, or 370 00:28:11.240 --> 00:28:17.119 the name of my brand was gonna be succulents, succulents, and I was 371 00:28:17.240 --> 00:28:25.480 gonna sell toys that had the shape of a succulent growth. Yes, yes, 372 00:28:26.279 --> 00:28:30.160 But then when I was doing I was contacting manufacturers and suppliers. I 373 00:28:30.200 --> 00:28:34.440 couldn't find any toys that had the shape of a succulent okay. So I 374 00:28:34.480 --> 00:28:37.720 was like, Okay, well let's see, let's see. Let's let's just 375 00:28:37.759 --> 00:28:41.559 go back to the throwing board. So I went back and I was like 376 00:28:41.079 --> 00:28:45.599 and then she told me what about a rouse? And I'm like, oh, 377 00:28:45.599 --> 00:28:48.240 tell me more. And then we looked up the definition of a rouse 378 00:28:48.319 --> 00:28:52.359 to awaken and to stimulate, and I'm like, oh, tell me more, 379 00:28:52.559 --> 00:28:59.119 girl. And then then then she was like yeah, a rouse and 380 00:28:59.160 --> 00:29:03.640 I'm like okay. And then I hired a Bronco sultan and then he helped 381 00:29:03.680 --> 00:29:07.200 me with the branding and then that's how everything. Everything just came out very 382 00:29:07.319 --> 00:29:22.680 naturally, and that's how everything started. Hey, beautiful bitches, have you 383 00:29:22.720 --> 00:29:26.119 heard of our Patreon yet? This is a really great exclusive place where you 384 00:29:26.119 --> 00:29:30.759 can get two bonus odes a month, monthly live streams, a private discord 385 00:29:30.799 --> 00:29:33.319 to chat with us, and all kinds of bonuses and extras. You don't 386 00:29:33.359 --> 00:29:36.839 want to miss it, so head over to Patreon, or you can click 387 00:29:36.880 --> 00:29:41.319 the link in a description. You can even head to our website at www 388 00:29:41.400 --> 00:29:45.960 dot cricket bunnymedia dot com and click the Bottled Up Bitches icon. Join our 389 00:29:45.000 --> 00:29:48.920 Patreon, join the fun, and enjoy all the exclusive benefits to become a 390 00:29:49.039 --> 00:30:03.039 very important bitch. I know one of your questions was does your family Yeah, 391 00:30:03.200 --> 00:30:08.680 you know what I mean. My mom does not know, my dad 392 00:30:08.720 --> 00:30:12.920 knows to have an adult business. My brother is full on board. He's 393 00:30:12.960 --> 00:30:15.720 like, you should hit up this person. You should hit up this person, 394 00:30:15.799 --> 00:30:21.160 you should hit up this other person. And then like my cousins and 395 00:30:21.240 --> 00:30:25.000 my aunts and my uncle's they're like, honestly, they don't care. They're 396 00:30:25.039 --> 00:30:27.559 like, girl, you're always doing your thing. The only question they ask 397 00:30:27.799 --> 00:30:30.079 is how are you going to tell your mom? Because they know how my 398 00:30:30.119 --> 00:30:33.839 mom is. And I'm like, boy, I don't know how I'm gonna 399 00:30:33.839 --> 00:30:36.480 tell my mom. She'll find out, Okay, I don't know, Like 400 00:30:36.559 --> 00:30:40.640 I don't think about that, you know. Yeah, good for you because 401 00:30:41.279 --> 00:30:45.640 you know doing this show. My parents both know what we do, like 402 00:30:45.680 --> 00:30:51.359 what this show is, and they're very like supportive, but they're also like, 403 00:30:51.440 --> 00:30:55.599 we're not gonna tell any of your family about it. Yes, a 404 00:30:55.640 --> 00:30:57.200 lot of his family thinks he still has a job that he hasn't worked out 405 00:30:57.240 --> 00:31:02.640 for over a year. Yeah, so I'm very like he lost his job 406 00:31:02.680 --> 00:31:10.920 because of this pod. Yes, So like, good for you for at 407 00:31:11.000 --> 00:31:14.400 least from what that last bit of the sentence, it seems like you're able 408 00:31:14.440 --> 00:31:17.519 to kind of like let it roll off your back a little, that you're 409 00:31:17.559 --> 00:31:22.079 like not too worried about your parents like knowing what you do. Yeah, 410 00:31:22.279 --> 00:31:26.160 honestly, I am. I don't know why. I'm just not worried about 411 00:31:26.200 --> 00:31:30.960 it. I'm like, dude, that's like the last last thing I'm worried 412 00:31:30.960 --> 00:31:33.680 about, you know, Like what they're gonna do? You know? Are 413 00:31:33.720 --> 00:31:36.759 they gonna mooove my ass? Like I'm grow you know, And this is 414 00:31:36.799 --> 00:31:38.839 me being sassy. I'm like, what are you gonna do? You're gonna 415 00:31:38.839 --> 00:31:42.119 get a phone call after this gets released from from a family member like, 416 00:31:42.920 --> 00:31:47.880 little do you know? We will whip your ass. But the thing is 417 00:31:47.880 --> 00:31:52.240 is, it's so you did an incredible job with your team, because you 418 00:31:52.279 --> 00:31:56.319 know, there's I don't think there's necessarily a wrong way to have um an 419 00:31:56.359 --> 00:32:00.960 adult business, but there are ways to do it in a very tasteful way, 420 00:32:00.079 --> 00:32:05.599 and that is what you're doing. So your website is gorgeous, That's 421 00:32:05.640 --> 00:32:08.240 what would really may be excited. When I found your brand, was like, 422 00:32:08.359 --> 00:32:13.359 I just love how empowering it is. When I told Adam who you 423 00:32:13.400 --> 00:32:15.359 were, he was like, oh, okay, so we're having someone who 424 00:32:15.440 --> 00:32:17.079 like owns a toy brand. I'm like, it's not just that, Like 425 00:32:17.480 --> 00:32:22.599 it's very women focused. It's really pretty. I pulled up the website. 426 00:32:22.599 --> 00:32:27.000 I was like, she's got fucking stats on here. This is a wellness, 427 00:32:27.079 --> 00:32:30.119 like it's it's wellness. It's more than just selling a sex toy. 428 00:32:30.160 --> 00:32:31.519 This is this is this is sexual wellness. Well I was gonna say, 429 00:32:31.599 --> 00:32:35.599 yeah, it's and I love it. And I know obviously, like you 430 00:32:35.640 --> 00:32:37.960 got to pay your bills. So like, selling the product is an important 431 00:32:37.960 --> 00:32:44.279 part, but the website itself, almost in a very good way, almost 432 00:32:44.319 --> 00:32:49.720 feels like the product is the second aspect, where like you go to the 433 00:32:49.720 --> 00:32:52.759 website, it's like we're here for women, and we're here for like educating 434 00:32:52.759 --> 00:32:55.240 about women empowerment of winning, and then we also sell toys for them, 435 00:32:55.319 --> 00:33:00.160 Like which is it means that in the highest compliment, Yeah, I think, 436 00:33:00.240 --> 00:33:04.359 and that's what I want. That's what I want. That's why it 437 00:33:04.480 --> 00:33:07.920 feels so good. And he's so reassuring to me that I mean the right 438 00:33:07.000 --> 00:33:12.400 path because I already told everybody I am gonna be or I am not gonna 439 00:33:12.400 --> 00:33:15.359 be. I am a successful entrepreneur. You guys invited me to this. 440 00:33:15.559 --> 00:33:20.119 I'm already I am already stepping into my power or being like you know what, 441 00:33:21.799 --> 00:33:22.880 let's get this. Okay, let's get it, let's do it. 442 00:33:22.920 --> 00:33:27.279 Okay, I'm nervous, but let's get it. So I'm so grateful, 443 00:33:27.319 --> 00:33:29.720 Thank you so much, guys. And that's what I wanted to transmit to 444 00:33:29.759 --> 00:33:34.240 people. I'm like, listen, like we're here to empower women unapologetically. 445 00:33:34.440 --> 00:33:37.400 Okay, like stop, like we're done with whatever we used to do back 446 00:33:37.440 --> 00:33:45.400 in the day. Like if you want to fox this fuck yes, get 447 00:33:45.480 --> 00:33:51.400 it. Yes. I like how surprised you are by that, Like you're 448 00:33:51.400 --> 00:34:00.079 stepping into your power, but you should because it is it is a You 449 00:34:00.160 --> 00:34:02.160 are creating a brand. You're not a product. You're a brand. And 450 00:34:02.200 --> 00:34:06.640 that is what I see and everything that you do, and that's what made 451 00:34:06.680 --> 00:34:08.440 me super excited to talk to you. And then when I did go on 452 00:34:08.519 --> 00:34:12.480 the website and I this is the thing. I have a rose. We're 453 00:34:12.519 --> 00:34:16.199 talking at Amazon, you know road the big trend was like what twenty twenty, 454 00:34:16.400 --> 00:34:20.320 you know, COVID times where everyone was wanting a rose. So I 455 00:34:20.360 --> 00:34:22.320 got one on Amazon and I hate it. I was like, this is 456 00:34:22.760 --> 00:34:27.559 awful. So when I looked at yours, I realized what was different about 457 00:34:27.599 --> 00:34:32.000 it in regards to just like how shitty mine is. Mine is flat. 458 00:34:32.039 --> 00:34:36.840 The top of it is entirely flat. So I was like who, and 459 00:34:36.880 --> 00:34:40.000 I'm all let's be clear. I'm all labia, So I'm like, I'm 460 00:34:40.000 --> 00:34:46.320 gonna have my lips have to like straddle this entire thing to get to micheltorus. 461 00:34:46.840 --> 00:34:51.000 Like. I was like, this is ridiculous. It does nothing for 462 00:34:51.079 --> 00:34:53.519 me. I feel like, yeah, it is a chore using that thing. 463 00:34:53.679 --> 00:34:57.440 But I looked at yours and I was like, oh. I was 464 00:34:57.480 --> 00:35:00.719 like, mine sucks, So mine's cheap and suck, so yours is like 465 00:35:01.119 --> 00:35:04.679 it has like layers and divots. So I'm like, oh, you don't 466 00:35:04.719 --> 00:35:09.519 have to spread eagle all your genitals to get to the sucker incredible, so 467 00:35:09.639 --> 00:35:13.159 yours is quality. I was like, Okay, I was like, this 468 00:35:13.280 --> 00:35:15.239 has made really well. I can see the difference. I'm zooming in on 469 00:35:15.280 --> 00:35:19.079 the website and I'm like, m this is what I need. So I 470 00:35:19.119 --> 00:35:22.960 will replacing my order because now I see, like what is different about because 471 00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:23.800 I'm like, I have a rose, i don't need another one. But 472 00:35:23.840 --> 00:35:25.440 I'm like, and I don't like it, but I'm like, oh no, 473 00:35:25.519 --> 00:35:30.119 this one's completely different. It is very detailed and the way it's made 474 00:35:30.199 --> 00:35:36.559 and it looks comfortable, like let's sit on that. You know, thank 475 00:35:36.559 --> 00:35:39.280 you so much for that means a lot. And I'm not saying these because 476 00:35:39.320 --> 00:35:43.880 it's my business, but the people that buy from me, they really like 477 00:35:44.000 --> 00:35:49.760 it. Like all my customers and all my ambassadors are so hype, like 478 00:35:50.719 --> 00:35:53.119 I know it's gonna be a successful business, and I know it's successful when 479 00:35:53.159 --> 00:35:57.880 somebody reaches out to me to become an ambassador, like I had these. 480 00:35:58.079 --> 00:36:02.360 Lady she's coach from I want to say, why Yoming, I don't remember, 481 00:36:02.400 --> 00:36:05.840 and she's like, dude, let's do it, let's do it, 482 00:36:05.920 --> 00:36:07.960 let's do it. And I feel like another thing that is very special on 483 00:36:08.239 --> 00:36:14.519 my brand that there's not a lot of black owned, women owned sexual wellness 484 00:36:14.559 --> 00:36:17.679 brand, so a lot of black women that I'm reaching out are really they're 485 00:36:17.679 --> 00:36:21.599 really supportive. They're like, oh, Sis, let's go Sis, And 486 00:36:21.639 --> 00:36:23.079 I'm like, let's go, Sis, Like what's up? You know? 487 00:36:24.760 --> 00:36:28.960 I feel that. So it's really really I get this. I get the 488 00:36:29.000 --> 00:36:35.039 same way because I'm Latina, So anytime I see anything that is ladin owned, 489 00:36:35.320 --> 00:36:37.800 Yeah, any type of BIPOC community, any type of BIPOC community, 490 00:36:37.800 --> 00:36:40.639 I'm like, absolutely, let's get this, let's go, Like we need 491 00:36:40.679 --> 00:36:44.360 to rise up, we need to do more things. So I feel it. 492 00:36:44.559 --> 00:36:45.760 Yes, I feel it. I'm like, we need to be empowering 493 00:36:45.800 --> 00:36:51.639 each other, but especially in this community where things are just in general tougher 494 00:36:51.920 --> 00:36:55.159 and there are just so many different aspects that other people don't have to consider. 495 00:36:55.239 --> 00:36:58.800 I'm all on board and all for it. So I get it. 496 00:37:00.199 --> 00:37:02.840 Thank you, thank you. And that's another market that I'm also trying to 497 00:37:02.880 --> 00:37:07.119 reach, like you know, as a Latina women, you know, I 498 00:37:07.159 --> 00:37:12.400 also want to reach my Latino my Latino brothers and sisters. Um. It's 499 00:37:12.440 --> 00:37:15.639 just since I'm you know, in the face of like getting started, I'm 500 00:37:15.679 --> 00:37:21.000 still not able to ship internationally, but I want to ship internationally, like 501 00:37:21.280 --> 00:37:22.920 that's like a thing for sure. I'm like, I have to ship back 502 00:37:22.920 --> 00:37:25.960 to my country. Like this sounds crazy, you know. So thank you 503 00:37:25.960 --> 00:37:30.679 so much for your support and I'm so excited we are connecting. I'm a 504 00:37:30.719 --> 00:37:34.519 cloud now right now. I'm like, oh my gosh, dude, Like 505 00:37:34.760 --> 00:37:37.719 it's all it's all networking and this industry it's so much fun. It's it's 506 00:37:37.760 --> 00:37:45.199 really like the sex community and industry is so niche and everyone is out here 507 00:37:45.480 --> 00:37:50.119 trying to speak and be seen and be heard. And so when you can 508 00:37:50.119 --> 00:37:53.639 do that amongst people like minded people in such a almost like shrowned upon kind 509 00:37:53.679 --> 00:37:59.800 of shamed way. It's just like there's no negativity. There's no negativity in 510 00:37:59.800 --> 00:38:04.480 this kind of industry because we're all out here fighting for our lives. Okay, 511 00:38:05.039 --> 00:38:07.239 okay, we're all out here trying to make it okay, yeah, 512 00:38:07.239 --> 00:38:10.360 and we can all win. I think that's something that people don't understand, 513 00:38:10.480 --> 00:38:14.199 is like we can all win, we can all uplift each other, we 514 00:38:14.239 --> 00:38:17.119 can all be part of something. We don't have to work against each other. 515 00:38:17.159 --> 00:38:22.039 We can all be successful exactly exactly. And I'm so glad you have 516 00:38:22.119 --> 00:38:25.480 that mindset, because the little people don't. But I'm so glad you have 517 00:38:25.599 --> 00:38:29.000 this mindset off. You know, we can all share the law baby, 518 00:38:29.039 --> 00:38:31.639 Okay, like we can all be here together. So that makes me really 519 00:38:31.719 --> 00:38:36.400 exciting business and networking. I'm polyamorous. You know, we can all share. 520 00:38:37.199 --> 00:38:40.400 I'm here for it. I love that. I love that I was 521 00:38:40.480 --> 00:38:46.239 able to read your blog and he was so so interesting. I love first 522 00:38:46.239 --> 00:38:50.400 of all, I love how you ride. You know, it was very 523 00:38:50.440 --> 00:38:52.239 engaging. I'm like, oh wait, why so she used to sneak around. 524 00:38:52.360 --> 00:38:58.000 Oh, her parents were at work, Okay, she was holding around. 525 00:38:58.760 --> 00:39:00.800 What was it the hope that the pro Ho? I was also a 526 00:39:00.840 --> 00:39:05.599 part of the pro Ho club. Little did I know in my high school 527 00:39:05.679 --> 00:39:07.239 days. Thank you for reading the blog. It's super new. I'm very 528 00:39:07.239 --> 00:39:10.559 excited because, yeah that's only been out for like two weeks. Thank you 529 00:39:10.599 --> 00:39:15.039 for reading it. Oh, I love it. I am a fan, 530 00:39:15.440 --> 00:39:19.039 trust me. Like. One another thing I wanted to compliment you on is 531 00:39:19.159 --> 00:39:24.679 your voice. You have a podcast voice. Okay, I've been getting that 532 00:39:24.840 --> 00:39:28.440 a lot lately, and I was like, I always think of my voice 533 00:39:28.440 --> 00:39:32.000 as very high pitch and can be kind of screechy. So I remember one 534 00:39:32.039 --> 00:39:37.079 time someone at a place we used to work, they met me one time. 535 00:39:37.440 --> 00:39:39.679 Oh I'm talking you know, I'm talking about It's funny. The place 536 00:39:39.679 --> 00:39:43.559 that he got fired from. I got fired first a few months prior, 537 00:39:43.599 --> 00:39:46.199 and we worked together. We've been together for almost eight years, and probably 538 00:39:46.519 --> 00:39:52.880 four out of the eight years we've worked together, he's the most reliable and 539 00:39:52.960 --> 00:39:55.199 credible, hard working person. So you know, when you work somewhere they're 540 00:39:55.199 --> 00:39:58.519 like, who do you know that can do this? I'm like, I 541 00:39:58.559 --> 00:40:00.960 know someone, but it's my husband or my boyfriend. UM. So that's 542 00:40:01.000 --> 00:40:06.199 how we are with each other. But uh yeah, someone met me and 543 00:40:06.679 --> 00:40:09.800 that I left, and so they complained about me to someone of his employees, 544 00:40:09.880 --> 00:40:13.360 being like, she has an annoying voice, and I was like, 545 00:40:13.480 --> 00:40:17.960 okay, cool this person you got, you got the runoff for her hatred 546 00:40:17.960 --> 00:40:22.880 of me. But so I appreciate you enjoying my podcast voice. Thank you. 547 00:40:22.800 --> 00:40:24.679 I love it. I love it. I'm like, oh, yes, 548 00:40:24.920 --> 00:40:29.440 this is her baby, Okay, this is her So I love it, 549 00:40:29.639 --> 00:40:31.400 and yeah, thank you for reading the blog. I'm very excited to 550 00:40:31.440 --> 00:40:37.599 share more stories about my hoeing years because it keeps going. There's there's so 551 00:40:37.679 --> 00:40:42.559 much to it. High school. High school was my entire free flag time 552 00:40:42.599 --> 00:40:46.360 period. I started dating him when I was nineteen, so got so gotcha, 553 00:40:46.519 --> 00:40:51.199 Oh you had your college years and now I don't know, are you 554 00:40:51.199 --> 00:40:59.679 in a relationship. Yes, I have a go with um. Yeah, 555 00:40:59.760 --> 00:41:04.519 she's she's all on board, like one hundred percent. Ever since we've been 556 00:41:04.599 --> 00:41:13.440 dating for a year and a month. Oh, anniversary a year and a 557 00:41:13.559 --> 00:41:16.119 month. And the day we met, I told her I have a business 558 00:41:20.320 --> 00:41:22.599 coming in. I'm Elsie. I'm a Scorpio and I have a business. 559 00:41:23.719 --> 00:41:28.559 I'm Elsie. I'm a scorpio and I don't play about my business. Hey 560 00:41:29.079 --> 00:41:34.000 period, okay. And ever since then, she's been super supportive. She 561 00:41:34.400 --> 00:41:37.880 is always listening to how busy I get, how stress I get. You 562 00:41:37.960 --> 00:41:44.320 know, she is the most beautiful, nicest. I'm in love with her, 563 00:41:44.440 --> 00:41:46.880 so I can't just go off. Oh good, well, if you 564 00:41:46.920 --> 00:41:52.800 don't mind me asking, how's the sex. Oh, it's really good, 565 00:41:52.920 --> 00:41:57.119 It's really good. She We do struggle sometimes because I'll be tired, you 566 00:41:57.239 --> 00:42:00.960 know. So she I think she's more, she won to have more sex 567 00:42:00.039 --> 00:42:04.360 than me, and I'm just like, baby, I'm tired. Do you 568 00:42:04.440 --> 00:42:07.760 not see me? I'm stress girl, Like I'm always like I told her 569 00:42:08.639 --> 00:42:14.400 as a since you're dating a CEO, like we gotta plan sex babes like 570 00:42:14.559 --> 00:42:19.239 we have to. And she's not for that. But I'm oh, I 571 00:42:19.320 --> 00:42:22.159 like the kittie, the bag. He's part of the conversation. He's very 572 00:42:22.440 --> 00:42:27.679 he's very excited to hear about your love life, invested. Oh my, 573 00:42:28.599 --> 00:42:32.960 oh my god. He's good. Okay, okay, but he's so cute 574 00:42:34.960 --> 00:42:44.119 is Banjo. He's here at the party, very Texas. I love that. 575 00:42:44.519 --> 00:42:46.360 I love that. I love you guys as kitty. But um, 576 00:42:46.559 --> 00:42:50.159 so when he comes to sex, she wants to have sex more often. 577 00:42:50.960 --> 00:42:55.840 She'll probably send to these podcasts. Sorry, but I love having sex with 578 00:42:55.920 --> 00:43:00.280 her. I love making love too. But the thing is I and I 579 00:43:00.400 --> 00:43:02.559 am not a night person. I go to bed early, you know, 580 00:43:02.639 --> 00:43:07.400 And she's trying to have She's trying to fuck like during the weekdays, and 581 00:43:07.480 --> 00:43:08.800 I'm like, girl, I gotta work tomorrow. Like, I'm not trying 582 00:43:08.840 --> 00:43:12.119 to do this. Let's do it. Not the weakest. Let's plan sex. 583 00:43:12.440 --> 00:43:14.599 And she's like, who wants to plan sex? And I'm like, 584 00:43:14.719 --> 00:43:16.159 we can make it spontaneous, we can make it cute, we can make 585 00:43:16.199 --> 00:43:21.079 it kinky, we can send each other text messages, and then they the 586 00:43:21.239 --> 00:43:23.079 night we're having sex, boom, let's let's do it, you know. 587 00:43:23.840 --> 00:43:29.119 So yeah, that's that's something we struggle sometimes because I'm tired and she's like, 588 00:43:29.239 --> 00:43:31.239 oh, let's get it, let's get it. But sex is really 589 00:43:31.320 --> 00:43:37.480 good, like when we make love, like we're going to concooning January January 590 00:43:38.280 --> 00:43:51.199 January VIARDA, Oh my god, that is so exciting. Vacations in January 591 00:43:51.360 --> 00:43:55.639 is the time. Okay, Oh, I'm so excited. I'm like, 592 00:43:57.239 --> 00:44:00.400 I got some gifts for her. I'm like, oh, you're gonna love 593 00:44:00.519 --> 00:44:05.119 this, Okay. I love a good vacation the toys. It's always a 594 00:44:05.199 --> 00:44:07.920 nice vacation when you can bring your toys along. You're like, we're gonna 595 00:44:07.920 --> 00:44:10.079 have dedicated time. But planning sex is good. I know, Yeah, 596 00:44:10.480 --> 00:44:15.400 go ahead. I was just gonna say, I have, like I heard 597 00:44:15.719 --> 00:44:20.559 at this point, multiple couples have been married or together for years that swear 598 00:44:20.679 --> 00:44:25.880 by planning sex. And I think planning sex is completely underrated because we're very 599 00:44:27.039 --> 00:44:31.639 similar where I think Rihanna wants to have sex more often than me for like 600 00:44:31.719 --> 00:44:36.920 a very similar reason. Like I think we've talked about it on this show, 601 00:44:37.039 --> 00:44:39.159 like we're good at like daytime sex. I'm good at Like I enjoyed 602 00:44:39.280 --> 00:44:43.719 daytime sex. But man, once it HiT's nine o'clock, I'm like, 603 00:44:43.880 --> 00:44:49.880 you want to do what I'm sleepy love. I love sleepy sex. Though. 604 00:44:50.079 --> 00:44:52.440 When I do edibles and I smoke weed and I get sleepy, I'm 605 00:44:52.440 --> 00:44:54.199 like, touched me everywhere, and he's like, I don't want you near 606 00:44:54.320 --> 00:44:57.920 me. I don't want you near me when I'm high, and I'm like, 607 00:44:58.079 --> 00:45:00.519 I need you on top of me and I want to smother a little 608 00:45:00.559 --> 00:45:05.320 bit. Um So I love, sleepy time, sex. I take that 609 00:45:05.400 --> 00:45:10.639 melotonin. My melotonin got me and I'll like give it to me. That's 610 00:45:10.920 --> 00:45:15.199 so I can no way for my girlfriend to listen. I'm so for it. 611 00:45:15.519 --> 00:45:19.599 She's gonna be like, babe, you need what and I'm I'm sorry. 612 00:45:20.840 --> 00:45:23.280 Yeah, y'all should schedule sex. Schedule sex, you know, and 613 00:45:23.559 --> 00:45:27.360 you know what in case you know, close your I don't know her name, 614 00:45:27.400 --> 00:45:30.480 but close your ears. Maybe you should schedule the sex and her not 615 00:45:30.599 --> 00:45:35.960 no make I think you know, put it in your calendar, have it 616 00:45:36.039 --> 00:45:38.000 in your mindset. Okay, today it's happening. We're gonna have sex. 617 00:45:38.800 --> 00:45:43.480 She doesn't like I'll initiate, so she thinks that this is spontaneous. But 618 00:45:43.559 --> 00:45:45.880 like, I've made it out. You know, I ate right, I 619 00:45:46.000 --> 00:45:50.400 feel good I had it. Or we had an early dinner so we have 620 00:45:50.440 --> 00:45:52.400 lots of night time, you know whatever that looks like, you know, 621 00:45:52.559 --> 00:45:54.960 but you mentally knowing, Okay, I'm gonna plan it. It's gonna happen 622 00:45:55.000 --> 00:46:00.280 on Thursday, you know, just so you're mentally like, not there, 623 00:46:00.480 --> 00:46:04.320 you're not tired. You've you've done that planning for yourself, since you're the 624 00:46:04.400 --> 00:46:08.559 one that needs that time. Scheduled out. Just don't tell her I love 625 00:46:09.079 --> 00:46:14.719 too. It's not lying when it's omitting. Your relationship should be built on 626 00:46:14.880 --> 00:46:22.880 lies. I've been planning it for years. You had no idea. I 627 00:46:22.199 --> 00:46:27.320 love that. I will definitely implement that from that one, I promise. 628 00:46:27.639 --> 00:46:30.719 I actually will email you when that Yeah, I want to hear about it. 629 00:46:30.800 --> 00:46:32.280 Yeah, just then a follow up email telling us all about the good 630 00:46:32.320 --> 00:46:36.920 time of it. But it is, gosh, eight years together, and 631 00:46:37.079 --> 00:46:38.920 yeah, we have to plan that out. And he's been on some crazy 632 00:46:39.000 --> 00:46:44.559 schedules working like what he used to work ten hour days, four days a 633 00:46:44.639 --> 00:46:47.119 week, and our work ten hour days, four days a week. Now 634 00:46:47.199 --> 00:46:52.639 you that hasn't changed. Yeah, but you have to kind of schedule it 635 00:46:52.719 --> 00:46:57.360 out, and it kind of it does suck a little bit of intimacy out 636 00:46:57.400 --> 00:46:59.599 in the beginning, but you just kind of get used to it and learn. 637 00:46:59.639 --> 00:47:02.159 I don't like you said, it's a mindset thing, and my mindset 638 00:47:02.239 --> 00:47:06.360 was really negative about it, and I was like, this is not spontaneous, 639 00:47:06.440 --> 00:47:08.320 it's not romantic. I don't want to you know, it feels like 640 00:47:08.360 --> 00:47:14.199 an obligation. But I just kind of changed my mindset of like, no, 641 00:47:14.519 --> 00:47:17.119 like this is great that we're prioritizing it by putting it on the calendars 642 00:47:17.159 --> 00:47:22.079 and on the books, and we're making the time and investing in ourselves by 643 00:47:22.159 --> 00:47:25.559 planning it out. I love that, and I love how you said that, 644 00:47:25.760 --> 00:47:30.440 because that's how I, you know, how I failed. I'm like, 645 00:47:30.519 --> 00:47:32.280 I feel like, if you want this to happen, I think we 646 00:47:32.320 --> 00:47:36.039 should put it on the calendar. You know. Yeah, next time she 647 00:47:36.079 --> 00:47:40.639 says something about it, say check your attitude, then get slapped, yeah, 648 00:47:40.800 --> 00:47:47.760 and then have makeup sex. You know, I haven't had makeup sex 649 00:47:47.880 --> 00:47:52.599 just yet because for the I don't know. I just and she can tell 650 00:47:52.679 --> 00:47:57.480 you, like for me, she gets mad at me a lot. I 651 00:47:57.679 --> 00:47:59.920 know why. I don't know why, you know, Like I wonder why 652 00:48:00.000 --> 00:48:04.679 you know, and I'm like, being, why are you mad? I'll 653 00:48:04.719 --> 00:48:07.119 see us you and I'm like, don't be mad. I'm not mad, 654 00:48:07.400 --> 00:48:10.719 you know, it's just it's funny. It's not funny dynamic because she'd be 655 00:48:10.840 --> 00:48:14.840 mad and I'm like, why are you mad at me? You know? 656 00:48:15.159 --> 00:48:19.199 So we haven't had makeup sex deals yet, but I'm hoping one day, 657 00:48:19.400 --> 00:48:22.639 you know, maybe I'll just be that toxic girlfriend make her mad and then 658 00:48:22.719 --> 00:48:30.639 we can fuck. I'm just kidding. I'm kidding, mad No, I 659 00:48:30.880 --> 00:48:34.960 I completely understand. But I'm excited for you guys though, to you know, 660 00:48:35.079 --> 00:48:37.840 a year is really exciting, especially in this day and age, and 661 00:48:38.360 --> 00:48:42.239 to have a business. Not sure, she's really busy too, Like, 662 00:48:42.719 --> 00:48:45.800 so there's a lot of work into being the CEO. There's a lot of 663 00:48:45.840 --> 00:48:49.559 work in being the CEO's girlfriend. Like that is. It's a balance when 664 00:48:49.599 --> 00:48:52.880 you are with someone that's constantly going and you're also going, and you have 665 00:48:52.960 --> 00:48:55.719 to balance the two. So it's a lot of work that y'a are both 666 00:48:55.760 --> 00:48:59.960 putting in and prioritizing. So it's really important. So I'm proud of y'all. 667 00:49:00.440 --> 00:49:02.920 Thank you, Rianna, thank you. I appreciate it, guys, 668 00:49:04.119 --> 00:49:07.320 seriously, I do. Yeah, of course, So New Mexico. His 669 00:49:07.800 --> 00:49:12.559 family's going to New Mexico today, so yeah, there might be on their 670 00:49:12.599 --> 00:49:14.719 way, though I don't know they're on the way to your house right now, 671 00:49:15.079 --> 00:49:22.960 what part they're they're going to know, they're going to Roswell tonight. 672 00:49:22.239 --> 00:49:25.760 They're driving to Roswell tonight and then they'll eventually make their way to Santa Fe. 673 00:49:28.480 --> 00:49:31.480 Oh okay. I live in Albuquerque in the like the big girl city. 674 00:49:31.559 --> 00:49:35.920 But it's not that big. Sure, I've never been to New Mexico. 675 00:49:36.079 --> 00:49:39.280 Now, I've always wanted to go. Oh it's beautiful. That's if 676 00:49:39.360 --> 00:49:44.639 you love it's so beauty, if you love nature, if you love hiking, 677 00:49:44.679 --> 00:49:47.559 if you love being outdoors, this is the place where you k it 678 00:49:47.719 --> 00:49:51.599 is cold. You just talked to me out of this with that entire description. 679 00:49:52.360 --> 00:49:58.079 Just kidding. No, it sounds beautiful, And I've always wanted to 680 00:49:58.440 --> 00:50:01.639 h always wanted to visit and see. We've done like the forest, We've 681 00:50:01.639 --> 00:50:05.199 done, like the Pacific Northwest, We've done, the oceans. We've done 682 00:50:05.239 --> 00:50:08.679 all that. We've never done like a arid desert style environment. We've been 683 00:50:08.760 --> 00:50:14.639 to Nevada, but that was just Vegas. That sucked. Yeah, yeah, 684 00:50:14.840 --> 00:50:19.199 it wasn't fun. Uh oh yeah, we'll have Well, you guys 685 00:50:19.239 --> 00:50:23.559 are more than welcome to Yeah. Sure, uh huh. We'll have to 686 00:50:23.679 --> 00:50:27.199 check it out. And I'll ask you for the list of the sites to 687 00:50:27.360 --> 00:50:30.719 check out. But just to follow back up on some one thing you brought 688 00:50:30.840 --> 00:50:32.719 up, you absolutely, at some point in time you to get an investor 689 00:50:32.800 --> 00:50:37.880 for succulent succulents by aroused. I am here for it. Make that shit, 690 00:50:37.280 --> 00:50:40.239 make that ship, be the first, be the mold. Like you 691 00:50:40.320 --> 00:50:45.559 can be the manufacturer, you can be the wholesaler. Succulents by Aroused. 692 00:50:45.639 --> 00:50:49.679 I can see it in lights. It's in green sponsored by bottled up by. 693 00:50:52.880 --> 00:50:57.000 I don't know you're giving these ideas out for free in this economy, 694 00:50:57.119 --> 00:50:59.719 Like you need to pattent that ship. You need to go go copyright. 695 00:50:59.760 --> 00:51:05.400 That ain't real quick after this episode, you right, you right, I'm 696 00:51:05.440 --> 00:51:07.440 like, but you know what, I've found out A lot of people have 697 00:51:07.599 --> 00:51:10.599 ideas, but they never followed through. So that's why I'm worried. But 698 00:51:10.679 --> 00:51:15.400 I'm not that worried because it's hard. It takes courage to follow your joy, 699 00:51:15.719 --> 00:51:17.559 and a lot of people don't do it, you know. So I'm 700 00:51:17.599 --> 00:51:22.159 so proud of you guys for pursuing your podcast. Seriously, a lot of 701 00:51:22.199 --> 00:51:23.960 people want a podcast, but they're like, oh, it's a lot of 702 00:51:24.039 --> 00:51:28.559 work, la la about you guys are doing the work. You're doing the 703 00:51:28.679 --> 00:51:35.760 lord's work. That's a crazy yeah. Usually people say we're doing the devil's 704 00:51:35.760 --> 00:51:38.119 work, the devil's work. No, no, no, no, no 705 00:51:39.199 --> 00:51:43.239 oh. I appreciate that. That's a little more positive. I love it. 706 00:51:43.599 --> 00:51:45.280 We're having a good time. We're approaching our one year anniversary, so 707 00:51:45.360 --> 00:51:50.239 it'll be a year in December, so that's really fun. And uh, 708 00:51:50.920 --> 00:51:53.280 we got our I checked all of our stats today. The Spotify rapped came 709 00:51:53.320 --> 00:51:59.480 out, so like every podcasters posting their Spotify wrapped right now. Um, 710 00:52:00.079 --> 00:52:04.519 yeah, lots of fun stuff. Our top five countries are the US, 711 00:52:05.039 --> 00:52:08.199 India because it's like twenty five percent twenty or twenty five percent of our listener 712 00:52:08.679 --> 00:52:14.719 basis in India, Canada, Australia, New Zealand. Those are our top 713 00:52:14.800 --> 00:52:20.880 five countries. So oh cool. I love I love India and culture when 714 00:52:20.920 --> 00:52:25.000 it comes to like Hinduism. I love learning about Eastern religious like Buddhism and 715 00:52:25.079 --> 00:52:29.239 Hinduism. In my roommate for two years, she's from She was born in 716 00:52:29.320 --> 00:52:31.239 India and then she moved here when she was I think three, and I 717 00:52:31.440 --> 00:52:35.920 was able to learn a lot about her culture. I'm actually reading a book 718 00:52:36.320 --> 00:52:42.079 it's called The Science of Self Realization by this profit not profit but like a 719 00:52:42.159 --> 00:52:45.960 monk from the Hinduism religion. So I love everything about India in the food 720 00:52:46.000 --> 00:52:51.400 too. Oh yeah, we're having a good time. Well, we're gonna 721 00:52:51.440 --> 00:52:54.840 put all the all your information in our description. But where would you like 722 00:52:55.039 --> 00:53:04.199 people to find you? Oh, okay, find me only fans. Don't 723 00:53:04.280 --> 00:53:07.199 find me an only fans. Okay, do not not not yet, just 724 00:53:07.360 --> 00:53:13.280 kidding um. Find me on a rousecode on Instagram, and then if you 725 00:53:13.320 --> 00:53:15.280 want to check out my website, you can find me on a rousecode dot 726 00:53:15.360 --> 00:53:19.960 com. And if you want to find me on TikTok, find me on 727 00:53:20.039 --> 00:53:22.199 a rouse company. Oh fine, we love a tiki talk. We started 728 00:53:22.280 --> 00:53:30.039 one. I think I posted two video so hard. It's scary and hard. 729 00:53:30.119 --> 00:53:36.360 I'm not out here trying to like, like, I can't, it's 730 00:53:36.480 --> 00:53:38.199 so much. I posted a video and it was a trailer of one of 731 00:53:38.239 --> 00:53:43.320 our episodes, and I drew stick figures of us because I didn't want to 732 00:53:43.360 --> 00:53:47.280 be on camera. Oh my god. Honestly, tiktoki is hard. But 733 00:53:47.840 --> 00:53:52.039 that's where's that. Like my my digital marketer, she's been asking me to 734 00:53:52.119 --> 00:53:57.079 create content and I'm like, oh I will, I just I just can't. 735 00:53:57.679 --> 00:54:00.639 But I'm trying. That's vulnerable, starting a business, having a podcast, 736 00:54:00.679 --> 00:54:05.119 these things are things. But like being frequent on a TikTok, I 737 00:54:05.159 --> 00:54:07.480 don't know how people do it. That is a different type of confidence that 738 00:54:07.639 --> 00:54:12.679 I don't have, Like I'm not here for that. I just I cannot. 739 00:54:12.760 --> 00:54:15.519 I can barely post a photo of myself, let alone videos with me 740 00:54:15.119 --> 00:54:22.119 dancing with sounds and trends and captions and such. It's hard. It's hard, 741 00:54:22.239 --> 00:54:25.519 honestly, Like whenever she asked me to create some videos like using the 742 00:54:25.639 --> 00:54:32.039 toys or not, we want that only fans only, fans only. Okay, 743 00:54:32.360 --> 00:54:38.239 okay, here, your digital marker is gonna call you like, great 744 00:54:38.280 --> 00:54:43.920 idea. I loved it, go for it right now. I'm like, 745 00:54:44.039 --> 00:54:47.840 Okay, maybe I can't. We'll see what happens. Confidence confidence, key, 746 00:54:51.119 --> 00:54:52.960 No, I swear, Like there's some videos of me, like, 747 00:54:53.199 --> 00:54:55.760 you know, showing the toys, and I get so nervous. Like my 748 00:54:55.840 --> 00:54:59.599 girlfriend's like, she's like, because I was telling her, I'm a little 749 00:54:59.639 --> 00:55:02.559 nervous about the podcast today tonight, like I just don't want to sound like, 750 00:55:02.760 --> 00:55:06.599 you know, like silly or anything. And she's like, oh, 751 00:55:06.679 --> 00:55:08.480 baby, you'll be fine, Like don't you see those videos of you on 752 00:55:08.599 --> 00:55:15.320 your page? And I'm like, it's my fours. You don't see the 753 00:55:15.360 --> 00:55:19.039 gun to my head on the other side of the camera. Yeah, I'm 754 00:55:19.079 --> 00:55:22.440 freaking now like I am not doing okay, Like I'm doing that because I 755 00:55:22.559 --> 00:55:25.119 have a business. But trust me, nobody would like even on my personal 756 00:55:25.199 --> 00:55:29.400 Instagram, I don't post. I haven't post. I haven't posted on my 757 00:55:29.480 --> 00:55:32.000 personal Instagram for like a year. Like I don't post, I don't do 758 00:55:32.079 --> 00:55:36.000 anything because I don't like being on social media like that. But I'm like, 759 00:55:36.480 --> 00:55:37.559 I have to do it. Man. I'm proud of you, one 760 00:55:37.559 --> 00:55:43.360 step at a time. Thank you well, Elsie. Thank you for talking 761 00:55:43.559 --> 00:55:46.679 and gabbing away with us. I have thoroughly enjoyed talking to you. I 762 00:55:46.719 --> 00:55:52.599 will be placing my order to get to retry out a Row situation now that 763 00:55:52.679 --> 00:55:57.599 I see how differently it's made. It's she built different out here in New 764 00:55:57.679 --> 00:56:00.719 Mexico. Anything you like to add, Adam, No, thank you, 765 00:56:00.800 --> 00:56:04.239 just thank you so much. You're such a pleasure. You're so easy to 766 00:56:04.320 --> 00:56:07.599 talk to. You have such like a bubbly personality. I just enjoy joy 767 00:56:07.679 --> 00:56:12.639 speaking with you. Delight so fun. Thank you so much, guys, 768 00:56:12.679 --> 00:56:15.679 thank you for allowing space for me to share a little bit of my story, 769 00:56:15.800 --> 00:56:17.559 share a little bit about my brand, and just you know, just 770 00:56:17.679 --> 00:56:22.719 chumping it out talking. You know, I enjoy myself, absolute thoughting and 771 00:56:22.800 --> 00:56:30.000 plotting. Okay. If you enjoy today's episode of Balled Up Bitches, be 772 00:56:30.159 --> 00:56:35.079 sure to rate and subscribe wherever you listen to your podcast to join in on 773 00:56:35.199 --> 00:56:38.320 more of our conversations and fun. You can follow us on social media at 774 00:56:38.360 --> 00:56:44.199 bottled up Bitches on Instagram and bottled up Talk on Twitter and write in your 775 00:56:44.280 --> 00:56:46.639 sex capas and ifn you want to share with the team at bottled up Talk 776 00:56:46.719 --> 00:56:52.039 at gmail dot com. 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