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So sit up, perk up, and get ready to be blown away.
Now Here is your host, Deborah Drummond. Well, you are important
treat today, welcome and accepted that you know by her here I always say
that you know. I think half of you just show up to have a
good chuckle. I think that you're like, no way would I want to
be an entrepreneur. Do you hear what these guys go through? We might
be your inspiration for not taking the risk. No all stories aside. It
has been an incredible journey and I get to you know what, really,
I get to get up and I get to interview the coolest people doing the
coolest thing. And I know that there's a lot of you out there doing
super cool stuff, so you know what you probably need to be where Aaron's
sitting, and you know what to do if you want to do that.
But I'm super happy today because not only have me and Aaron connected on many
different levels. One, she's in my hood. We've got a Canadian girl
in the house today and she's BC Canadian, so we're like, I was
just telling her that I was heading to the Cure concert tonight. She's like
what, I like, I'm sorry, I should have got you over here
because she lives on the island. Anyways, this woman, since I met
her, has been transforming. So I got introduced to her through another cool,
groovy couple. And that's how works, right, That's how it works.
Cool people hang with cool people. It's just how it works. And
it's interesting because you know there's those people in your life that and particularly in
your business, when they're like you need to meet this person. You need
to hear what this person has to say that you take it to heart and
you're like, okay, that feels like the right thing to do. Because
you get bombarded with all sorts of you, listen to me here, listen
to me there? What does that look like? Here? But there,
truly is nothing better than a handshake. I know we live in a digital
world, and a lot of times we do digital handshakes. We put people
together in texts, we put them together in LinkedIn, we put together But
there's nothing better than someone reaching out and going, look at I think this
woman has something that you might be interested in, or there's something that you
guys need to do together. And here we are doing stuff together right,
So very very very cool. I want to let's see you guys are like
the best audience. I know that you're tired of hearing that, but you
know what I think you are. I think you're kind of the transformiation type
of people. Well today, I think you're a transformative audience today. I
think that's what's going to happen. And if you're not now, you will
be by the time that you get off. Because Aaron is in this incredible
I'm calling her the holistic lentrepreneur because here's someone who's got verse of business that
really strong linear digital marketing. This is what you do, lead generation whole
world. The woman also made Jury, had a business and Jury. I
find out more about her every time we talk. But she has gone into
and has been in the program your business for leads. D program your brain
for things that aren't serving you. It's really interesting, right, It's really
interesting because the more you d program than you kind of program differently. But
I'm really looking forward to it because this woman is in the deep dive of
transforming her own business and coming up with some pretty cool things that I knew
that you guys would want to hear about. And never mind that it is
an interesting journey as an entrepreneur to keep evolving and being brave enough to evolve,
because look, you know, you hear like she used to do jewelry.
I used to do jewelry, And you're like, oh my gosh,
why don't you anymore? Because there's an evolvement now, you might come back
to it, you might re meet it. You know, nothing's ever gone
forever, right. Sometimes people date their company like a teenage sweetheart. And
they marryat for the rest of their life, and then sometimes you do the
dance. So Aaron, welcome to mission accepted, where we kind of chat
and laugh about the journey. Thank you for having me. I'm so thrilled
to be here. Absolutely so. Look at that was kind of a multiplex
introduction. I don't tend to do those too often. But so, you've
been an entrepreneur for how long now and where did you first start? Well,
really, I've been an entrepreneur for the last like twenty five years.
When I was pregnant with my first child twenty five years ago, I knew
I didn't want to go back to my job was a floral designer, and
I was making eleven dollars an hour, like just over minimum wage. And
I'm like, now, why would I put my baby in daycare have someone
else, you know, spending all day with them for what I would make.
I would be making like two bucks an hour, right, So,
and plus something happens when you actually have the baby. You're like, no
way, I am moving off at Daycarey before you have the baby, you
might think you'll be able to baby arise and you're like, no way,
I'm not dressed in my baby to no one right right right right. So
an economic heartstring decision forces you. And so did you start doing flowers?
Like were you doing floral work at home or what did you do? Now?
I actually decided to look for a way to make money from home,
living in an apartment in North Vancouver at the time. And you'll you'll get
a chuckle out of this. One of the first things I did was I
bought a whole bunch of wax. I was going to make candles, all
right, we are sisters. Almost burnt the apartment down the kitchen anyway,
lit a, you know, a bunch of whax on fire and everything.
And then I walked into a beat store one day and I went, whoa,
this looks like fun. And I spent like two hundred dollars on beads.
I fell in love with making jewelry, and then I took the silver
smith class, gold all that kind of stuff. So you know, I
evolved over time as my skills evolved and improved, and I just fell in
love with it. So I was designing the jewelry, making it and selling
it. But it allowed me. I wasn't making a lot of money because
I had no marketing skills, right, So I was doing like the low
pots and that kind of thing, making enough money to help out with groceries.
But I was at home with my kids right right, right, right
one when I started, and then we had another. But that was the
most important thing, you know, make a little bit of extra money,
get home with the kids. But also, I'm a big believer. Maybe
this isn't true for every woman, but for me, I knew that being
a mom was fulfilling, but it wasn't enough. I needed my own thing,
another outlet, a where I could make some of my own money and
be where I could go out and be around other adults and that kind of
thing. So it filled that that need, that desire perfectly. And I
think we hear a lot about that. I know for me, when I
first started doing massage, I mean, when you talk to people that a
creative, that's I mean, that's why I called you this holistic entrepreneur,
right because it's creative. And I actually just finished answering a question in a
magazine for LA and it's like, why are you in the creative? And
I'm like, building a business in its own essence, even if it's an
accounting firm has a creative aspect to it. It's right, it's the evolvement,
it's building, it's designing. And I think that there's many of us,
myself included. When I first started my massage practice, I would go
to Kinko's, remember, and if it was a good week with massage,
I would do color flyers. And if I didn't make any money, it
was black and white. And I had a nanny that would take my daughter
for two hours, which was justifiable in my mind, and I would go
do a massage and then she'd bring her back and you know, we'd play
and you know, nurse and each lunch and all the and that was how
I did my business, like two hours on, two hours off, and
that's how we built. And it was very cottage industry. But I think
you have a very industrious mind. And when you talk about needing to have
that, I think that's instrumental in kind of how you have just continued to
do that. So okay, so you don't burn the house down, yea
for you. You start making jewelry, YEA for you, and you're rock
in your world as a mom and a I guess cottage industry woman and then
where'd you go from there? Well, everything kind of moved along that path
until the day I woke up on my forty fourth birthday. So I did
the math. I did the math. I realized if I was going to
live till I was eighty eight, then my life was half over. My
life was half lived. At this point, I'm now middle aged. Now.
I call this the midlife realization. Everybody has a realization around this time
or whatever age. Certain things happen in your life which start this realization.
For me, it was also the fact that my boys were at that time
twelve and fifty, and they're like, oh, they're in high school.
They're way more independent now, they're hanging out with their friends and have their
own lives. They're soon going to graduate and go on to whatever is next
for them. Right, So I was looking at the second stage of my
life, like the next season of my life was staring me in the face.
Now, it naturally happens. In case you haven't gone through this yet,
love everyone, male, female, Whatever you ask yourself these questions,
how happy am I am? I? Fulfilled? Am I living a life
of joy and passion? Am I having enough fun and adventure? You know,
am I living my purpose? What is my purpose? Who am I?
I don't even know anymore because I've been Jack and White's mom for all
these years? Who am I? Right? And you also ask yourself,
am I where I thought I would be at this time in my life?
So to most of those questions, I answered no. So then what popped
into my head was if not now, then when are you going to just
kind of fake it the second half of your life? Or are you going
to do what you need to do to make yourself happy? Because happiness is
an internal job. It's not up to anyone else but you. So I
decided to make some changes in my life, big changes. I changed everything
except my kids. I kept my kids, everything else changed. I split
up the marriage. I became single. And then my next thought was,
you know, splitting up is expensive, and I didn't want to take any
money from him because I was the one splitting it up, splitting up the
marriage. So I kind of, you know, I went, Okay,
I need to start making a lot more money here. You know, I
know what kind of life I want for the second half. I want to
more adventure, more fun. Like I've always been a free spirit, so
it was kind of a normal, you know, thought process. But I
wanted to be able to like pick up and travel if my kids were going
to be off living on their own, I'm not going to sit here in
the house all day long kind of thing, you know, just making my
jewelry. I wanted more adventure. I wanted more out of life. I
wanted more excitement. So then I went, Okay, I need to make
more money. And it didn't really occur to me at the time to maybe
do something like learn marketing so I could continue making my money but just sell
more of it, like maybe online didn't even occur to me. I had
no computer skills. I didn't even know how to copy and paste at the
time. Yeah, so I was on Facebook one day and I fell into
the world of online marketing, network marketing, affiliate marketing. And my first
four months it was terrible. I made a grand total of three hundred years
after blowing six grand on my business. But it was a blessing. It
was a blessing because it forced me to realize I didn't know what I was
doing right, you know, So I was you know, I heard that
most people never make a dime online, and I'm like, Okay, so
there's ninety seven percent of people working online not making any money. There's three
percent making a lot of money. So I need to figure out what the
three percent are doing and do that. So that's when I was introduced to
the whole world of attraction marketing, you know, personal branding, building an
audience, attracting people to you, providing value to your audience, and then
you make offers to your audience. So I jumped into the world of learning
how to do this whole online business thing, and I had myself a six
figure business within nine months. And of course, what happens to most people
when they step into the online business space, personal development comes into play.
And I always I had always thought like, all this personal development, so
oh woo woo, what a money grab, what a load of crab,
until I was kind of pushed into it. And what really happened was I
realized that if I was going to be successful building my online business, I
would have to become the person capable of doing it, and the person I
was was not capable because deep down I had all these limiting beliefs. I
had baggage. I believed I was dumb, I believed I was stupid.
So I did not believe I had the intelligence to be able to do something
like that. So I knew I had to work on myself. So that's
what I did. I dove in, completely reprogrammed my own brain, became
a completely different person. I transformed my mindset. I mastered my own psychology.
One I'm still always mastering it. Yes, of course, So let's
take a little breath there, because that's that's quite a journey. And I
also think that quite a level of awareness. I think it takes a lot
to admit. I mean, it's one thing to admit to yourself. I'm
not good at tech. I'm not good at this, I'm not good at
that. I'm not good at marketing. I'm not good. And you know,
we all see people. We're entrepreneurs, so we see people struggle in
different areas, and there seems to be this facade of pretend you've got it
all together, particularly in the online world. Right, Pretend you have it
all together, Pretend you know what you're doing, even if you don't.
This whole around, fake it till you make it. It's another thing to
stop and say, I don't really know what I'm doing, and I need
to divert because that's a financial fear right there. It's like you've only made
three hundred bucks or whatever that you made and you spent you know, let's
just say you're ROI was a little off ratio, but not really when you
take a look at the fact that starting a new business has expense and either
you learn before or you learn you earn and you learn right. You know,
I'm a big I'm a big fan of that whole sector, in that
whole industry, um mostly because of the personal development. But it takes a
lot of bravery to divert and go, Okay, whoa. It's not the
company. It's not the products, it's not the platform. It's not the
lack of training, it's not the upline. It's not people below me not
doing anything. It's not it's not it's not in go you know what it
could be me. I mean, seriously, how many people do we know?
I tried it. It didn't work for me, Dodd. And when
I'm talking with people and I do a little jams jumping on them, I'm
like, there's five reasons why a company doesn't doesn't work for you, and
one of them is you. One of them is you, and that's that
you're talking about. So I just wanted to take a breath there because there's
lots of people that are struggling at different aspects and whatever business, whether it's
online. Are you sell surfboards or you're a coach or you're an accountant.
I mean really honestly stopping and pulling back and not just thinking what is it
that I'm not doing right in my marketing? What is it that I'm not
doing right in my finances? But what's going on in here that's driving that
lack of success. That's a step of bravery that you know. Good on
you, really good on you. So talk about so you've done you did
some personal growth work. I mean, I don't know how it came to
you, what you did, who you chose to hang out with, or
what have you. But tell us a little bit about that, and then
how did you flip it? I mean you went from I mean six hundred
bucks too, I went to six figures. Well it really, I mean
the first step in self awareness, and my opinion, is becoming aware of
your own thoughts, what you say to yourself, because the truth is your
thoughts, your thoughts and emotions and behaviors are not who you are. They
are not who you are. So you have to know that because this is
when people label themselves and really develop these horrible beliefs in themselves because they think
they are that right, Like I truly believe my identity was a stupid person?
Right? Not helpful? Right again? Nothing and so well yeah,
so first step really is becoming aware of your own thoughts, what you say
to yourself about your self, because that's how you're identifying. So if you
think you're you know, oh too fat, too thin, too tall,
too too young, too old, not were they you're a victim. All
these things that you're saying to yourself are creating you to self sabotage, right,
I mean, what you say to yourself about yourself becomes a self fulfilling
prophecy. So that's very powerful. That's a mic drop in. So how
did you go about? Because I know that you had a transformative life.
I know that you are continuing on the path. But let's face it,
you've got a pretty good handle. I mean, you've moved some pretty pretty
strong internal mountains. Now I think you're just kind of working on the snow
peaks, right, You're pretty verse. You're you're downloading with other people.
So if someone's noticing what exactly what you're saying, If someone's listening out there
and they're like, I say that to myself, I say I'm not educated
enough, or I'm not smart enough, or I can never walk across that
stage or look at them in their business. I had a woman yesterday.
I had a woman yesterday say she's like, I just heard a woman.
You know, she's on Instagram and you know she's got these challenges and she's
been in business two years and she made two hunter and eighty seven thousand,
and I haven't made that in three years. And I'm like, not your
story, not your journeys. Don't compare yourself to your insights of the people's
outside. But what do you say when someone's saying to themselves how come they
can do it and I can't? Something must be wrong with not that A
You have to know there's nothing wrong with you. As long as you keep
telling yourself there's something wrong with you, you will create things. Did you
know that you can take someone who's got like a symptom of something and they'll
go google it and they'll come across I don't know Parkinson's right, and then
they'll check out all the symptoms and suddenly they manifest all those symptoms. The
mind is that powerful. So A, you have to recognize that you're not
your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and then b you have to recognize
the negative crap that you're saying to yourself itself that is holding you back from
going after the business and the life that you want. You have to recognize
it's a bullet shit, it's a story that you've been telling yourself from before
the age of seven. Atlas and ourself are imprinted into our subconscious minds before
the age of seven. And then what happens. Something in your life happens
where it's like boom, You now think this about yourself, I'm not good
enough, I'm not worthy, and then other things. You continue living your
life and all these little events happen that reinforce that belief. Right, So
that thought that I'm not good enough becomes a belief. Then it's reinforced even
more and it becomes a conviction. Now that's your identity, right, So
you have to recognize that this is your story, that that's all it is,
is a BS story. Once you begin to see that, to recognize
that you can self correct, you start calling yourself out on your own stuff,
and you will you will begin to reprogram your brain. So anytime I
was doing something, I used to tell myself I was stupid. I don't
know, three or four hundred times a day. Oh wow, oh yeah.
I guess when you start to become aware of it, then you start
to hear it. Right. Other than that, you're just walking around your
house dusting or doing laundry, or making dinner, or doing work or singing
or whatever, and in this background, there's just tape going, Wow,
that's powerful. Yeah. A lot of times, let's say, I don't
know, spilled my coffee, Oh you stupid idiot, that was stupid.
Or you know, I'm not techy, that's just not my area of expertise.
So how many times did I call myself stupid when I couldn't even turn
on my own TV? I've a member about electronics and all that stuff.
It's just not where my gift. Now I accept that and I kind of
celebrate it, right, But so I managed to find areas, like like
times all day long where I thought I was stupid. And here's the thing
too. The reticular activation system picks in and your brain will actually look for
things in your life where you can now call yourself stupid and bring back that
feeling that you're actually addicted to. Right, So you'll look for things in
your life to reaffirm that belief in yourself. It's crazy, that is crazy.
That's crazy stuff, but it's real stuff, and when you think about
it, it's actually quite logical. And so you're talking about being able to
call yourself out and I mean, I look, I know that you take
people through this whole whole process, but for those that are listening, it's
like just stopping and saying, that's not true. That's the story, it's
not my story. It sounds like wow, yeah, you notice the thoughts
and then your self correct. So for me, it was like, stop
saying that it's not even true. That's a load of crap, you know,
and you don't want to change it to You're brilliant, You're one of
the most brilliant people on the planet. No, you don't need to do
that. A your subconscious mind is going to fight you on that. So
it could just be you're plenty smart enough. I don't care what my IQ
is I don't care. I'm plenty smart enough to go and accomplish the things
that I want to accomplish. A also because I now believe I can right
right. So it's self correcting, not going ridiculously far into the other direction,
but recognizing that it's just your story you've been telling yourself and you no
longer speak to yourself that way. Girlfriend, we don't speak to ourself that
way anymore. You're plenty smart enough, you're plenty good enough, you're plenty
thin enough, you're plenty tall enough, you're plenty plaid enough, plad all
right, and you need to go yourself something enough times you will believe it
true, true, true, and then true. So reconditioning the mind,
reconditioning the mind. So you've shared with us one of the ways, and
I know that we can't dig into it or we'd be doing a full on
session. And what you do, right, So, just listening to your
story on how you became an entrepreneur and why you became an entrepreneur, very
functional reason why you became an entrepreneur, you start to love it and then
you started to really see that this could be a part of what you want
a part of what you wanted to do, and it also satisfied other things
inside of you other than being a parent. Right, So here you are,
take us all the way up to today. Take us all the way
up to today. So you've had this journey and you've had an incredible life
in the world of digital marketing and online marketing and all of that good stuff.
So where do things sit for Aaron today? Beautiful place, beautiful place.
You know, with the whole midlife realization that had led to the awakening
that led to the transformation, I've realized that everyone I want to help people
with the knowledge and the skills to be able to reprogram their own brains.
I've done it for myself. I can help other people do it, and
we can do it fast. Can do it fast. You don't need twenty
five years of therapy. You can do it really really quickly when you know
how to do it. They're shortcuts. So it's you know, I feel
that this is why I'm here. This has become my passion. I never
thought I would have any impact in this life, right because I thought I
was stupid. Right, I'll never be anything, I'll never be able to
help anyone and create impact, And now I'm realizing, Holy shit, girlfriend,
a lot of impact. Help a lot of people who are going through,
you know, all this mental stuff, and help people reinvent themselves and
transform so that they can live their best life. I mean, let's be
real. Money may not bring you happiness. What brings you happiness? Like?
What do? What does every single human being really really want? When
you break it down, everybody wants the same thing. A lot of people
think it's money, Oh, I just need money. When you break it
down, everybody wants happiness. People just want to be happy. And when
you get such good control over your own psychology, your own thoughts, your
own emotions, and then your behaviors, you get to be as happy as
you want, you know, being able to master your psychology so much to
the point where, like my kids think I'm nuts sometimes because I can bring
about a state of such pure joy, pure bliss at the drop of a
hat that all just burst into tears. And of course people always assume things
wrong, right Like I was on a flight one time and I was bawling
by I was quietly bawling my eyes out, and Stewart has obviously assumed that
I was afraid of flying and I was like panicking or something happened, maybe
I lost a left one or something. Right, She's like, oh my
god. I'm like, well I'm good. I'm just really really freaking it
happy. She's like, Oh, it's kind of weird for me because yeah,
it's not the normal response to happiness, right, But we all know
when you're so happy that you cried, right, we all know those feelings.
And so I think you've really nailed it when you talk about mastering your
own psychology. And I don't think you can do that alone. I mean,
I know you can't do that alone. We need people in that process
to shine those mirrors of where we want to go before we get there,
and reflect back and be that cheerleading school, you know, squad for ourselves
that we can't yet be. And even still, I mean, look at
I've been doing this game for a long time, Aaron, so of you,
and every time, even when you want to go to that next level,
when you try to break to that next level in your business, or
that next pay level in your business, or that next depth level in your
relationships or whatever, by nature, you're going to get tested because you've neronally
wired yourself for here. Now you're trying to rewire yourself for there, and
you're going to come up against yourself even on a might be a smaller scale.
You might be able to recognize it, but it's sure heck is helpful
when someone else like dials in with you right at you almost become stagnant,
even no matter what your success level is, Like I don't care if you're
making a million dollars a year. You become stagnant and you really hit on
something there, debb Like, it's my belief that when you become stagnant,
and you're stagnant for a reason, recognize your stagnant, not going on go
into the whole victim mode pity party thing. That's actually a sign for you
to level up. These are all steps of leveling up. They're all steps
to your own personal evolution, the evolution of your business, the evolution of
who you are as a human being. So recognizing that is like, oh,
I'm supposed to level up right now. This is what happened to me
back in like December January. It's like, I'm supposed to level up again
here right, So I kind of looked for where I was supposed to go,
and I started paying attention to signs, you know, and had all
these little epiphanies, and then things just start lining up like that's when we
connected. When I was going through that, and like wait, you do
what? Oh, we totally need to be connected. And people start showing
up in your life and opportunities and signs, and it becomes crazy, Yes,
is going on here in a good way? Well, and I think
it's really important to say that, and you get pushed to level up that
no matter how far you've gone. I mean, I always said I was
coaching someone out yesterday, and I'm like, I would want to know that
the persons that's coaching me is coaching or learning or continuing to better themselves,
because that is It's just how it works, right, It literally literally is
how it works. And you talk about the people showing up and the books
or this indication, it's like, you know, the signs whenever you say
I wonder if that's a sign good chance, because you see things all the
time. I see things all the time. I see commercials all the time.
Well, in the last three days there's been a commercial for Ireland dot
Com. I was like, huh. First of all, I thought,
I was like, huh, that's interesting. By the third time, I'm
like, all right, now we all know that I'm going to Ireland next
year, but I'm like, really I need to get there little sooner.
Let's just see what I just see what gets revealed to me? Right,
It's like having the same book thrown at your feet three times. You'd start
to go maybe, yeah, maybe maybe I'm supposed to read this. Oh,
look what came in the mail today. Look, we could talk forever
and ever and and honestly, if you want to hear Aaron's share again,
we'll just listen to this recording over and over. But no, she is
going to be a keynote speaker at the Stand Up, Speak Up and Show
Up. Yes, you, that means that you show up if you want
to speak, That means you show up if you want to be inspired and
motivated. And it is this kind of methodology that she's going to do a
deep dive into alongside of numerous other women talking about their area of expertise,
whatever that is, whether it's music, whether it's finance, whether it's forgiveness,
whatever it is. Right, and so we've all come together and guess
what guys, there's three hundred and seventy five women. So sometimes when the
calling comes, you might not want to pick up the phone. No,
I'm kidding. The calling comes, it all rolls out the way it's supposed
to. And so Aaron is speaking, We're super excited. If you you
want to reach out to us and ask for her special classes. She's going
to be teaching. Absolutely, she's going to be in the Book of two
sixty two. You guys know that book and it's going to be everywhere.
But you can also reach her, you know, reach her beforehand. You
can reach out to her beforehand and ask whatever it is that you can't ask
while you're listening to this driving or what have you. So Aaron, where
can people reach you and what should they reach out to you for? Ooh
ooh ooh. I wasn't prepared for that one. Yeah. Well, if
you if you if you're wanting to make money online, build your you know,
if you start a business, build it faster. If you are looking
to reinvent yourself and level up and master your own psychology, I can help
you do that and do it quickly. I actually have a workshop coming up
probably at the end of June beginning of July, where I'm going to help
people be doing this. Okay, and you may not be listening to this
in June or July, but here's what we know that Aaron runs her classes.
This just happens to be the next one that she's running. So whether
you hear this, she's always running these classes. They're fantastic. I love
that midlife realization that you had. Let's take it back, that midlife realization.
And look, you guys, you may not be at midlife or you
maybe what you consider past midlife. It is that realization whenever it comes,
and you're right, it tends to come around that chunk of time between you
know, forty to sixty where you're like where and what and how? And
Quicker, I love how you said that you can kind of, you know,
hack that because the self discovery process takes a while, because you discover
it, you vary it, you discover it, you work a little bit,
you go back, you got things to do. But when you're working
with somebody and they've got you know, it's kind of like getting healthier.
Quicker. I mean, there's lots of ways to do that, right,
but when you're fighting against your own brain. That's a tough one. So
if there's if there's ways to says quicker, and it's not about like you
said, it's not about like getting to one hundred thousand dollars or a million
dollars a month or whatever. Quicker, even though that's not a bad thing,
it actually allows you to what do you want that money for? What
do you want that next level in your relationship for? What do you it's
just getting it's just getting to that place of completeness or happiness or state of
joy or state of peace much quicker and why not? Like? Why not?
So I'm super excited. I'm super looking forward to what it is you're
putting out in the world. And with that, I have a question for
you. I have well, I have two questions. One's going to be
pertinent to this and the other one's going to be not. So you've talked
a lot about, you know, everything that you've talked about, and you've
talked about getting to things quicker and I, as you know, I'm a
top performance junkie. You know, I love being able to share or optimize
what people are doing. What are one of the things that you do for
your life or your business that you feel as kind of a hack that you
really are able to optimize top results. I look for the lessons in everything.
So if something isn't going my way, whatever it may be, I
will go I will ask myself the question why I co created it to happen
for me? What am I meant to get from this? What am I
meant to learn? And when you get really good at that, hey,
you grow as a human way faster because you're you're open to the lessons.
But also you can take something that like would have you know, years ago,
taken me out mentally for a while, and I can deal with that.
I can nip it in the bud within thirty seconds and be grateful for
whatever. You know, crappy thing just happened, right, So it's reframing
the way you look at things. You're not You're you're you're not. You
know, your vibration isn't spiraling downward and going, oh poor me, and
you know, joining the pity party and slipping into victor the mode. You're
thinking, like a creator, why did I co create this to happen?
What am I meant to learn? And when you find something good about it,
what you can learn. You just become that much strong, You become
invincible when you can think this way. I love that co creating, you
know, the acknowledgement of co creation. Okay, so now there's a completely
different question. And so it's you and you girl, and you are on
your way to a desert island, and you are packing your little suitcase and
that's it. You're there, and that's it. You're staying there, and
you've got room for one album to slide into your suitcase to take with you.
What album could you not imagine not being able to listen to for the
rest of your days. I would have to say, Pink, Floyd,
every song is pretty different. Yeah, that's a good one, feeling.
It's a very transform one, that's for sure. Lots of stories you get
to transform, dark side of the movie you can, Floyd, Oh my
gosh, my friend. Well, as always, it's a pleasure to get
to know you a little better. And this will not be the last time
your O mission accepted. And look, listeners, you guys know what to
do. So I told you that you were going to transform today, and
hopefully that you did, and hopefully you walk away with a couple of really
cool tips that you can use in your life. We will see you at
the Stand Up, Speak Up, Show Up event my gotsh They are on
the eighth day of every month all the way up to International Women's Day.
You must join us on International Women's Day. This is an open, free
event globally for women and men, so please come along. We want to
see you, and we expect to see you and until we meet again,
as we always will be you well and stay moody and thanks again Aaron for
drying yesterday. Good