1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:11,679 Made a decision out face sunnysome head on, I had a vision, ny. 2 00:00:14,679 --> 00:00:23,879 So what's up everybody? Heyse listen you guys. We're about to record 3 00:00:24,039 --> 00:00:30,719 the we're recording for Tuesday, yes, but we already recorded Patreon and our 4 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:36,280 Thursday interview show and our Friday show. Right so, right off the bat, 5 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:40,280 I just want to tell everybody the Thursday Interview show with our friend Laura 6 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:44,280 House is going to be here on Thursday. And she's so funny, she's 7 00:00:44,359 --> 00:00:48,479 great and so interesting. Could have talked to her all night. She had 8 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:52,039 so many great story You guys are gonna love our stories. Yes, so 9 00:00:52,079 --> 00:00:55,600 you got to tune in on Thursday for sure, because you're not going to 10 00:00:55,679 --> 00:00:59,439 understand the Friday show unless you listen to the Thursday show. Right, I 11 00:00:59,479 --> 00:01:02,240 know, we'll give you guys a lot of work. Sorry, sorry, 12 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:07,079 very sorry. Let's say how to some people such as Sandra Green it's not 13 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:11,400 easy being Green and Stephanie Stinker Wrinker. Stephanie was there, she was on 14 00:01:11,439 --> 00:01:14,879 the Zoom. We had our Zoom get together, Krista, you make me 15 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:18,280 want to stoop, But she wasn't there. No, Jennifer get up, 16 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:23,959 wasn't there Sarah's the fun O the fun. She might buison Leslie? Why 17 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:30,680 why stop with the coughing? Although COVID is kind of back, it is 18 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,840 coming back. Yeah, it's come back. I know a lot of people 19 00:01:34,879 --> 00:01:38,840 who come right now, Me too, Gosh, Alicia, I mean, 20 00:01:38,719 --> 00:01:44,000 I mean Leslie. I hope you're okay. Kelly Brandt, she'll take it 21 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:49,840 as a COVID clinic initial cut. She was there, Yeah, she was 22 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:57,040 Shvashpe not there, miss that ass, missing Gabby not there now, missing 23 00:01:57,079 --> 00:02:00,480 in action, you know, Katarina, check your mother and she was there, 24 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:06,599 yay. And Valerie Bubba Fenwick was there. She was there. Polly 25 00:02:06,599 --> 00:02:10,719 pancakes, No, she's making pancakes. Athena Gin shared he missed you. 26 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:15,919 Yep. Elizabeth Williams and she a fucking with her husband in the kitchen. 27 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:20,840 No, that was Angelie. Oh that was Angela. Elizabeth was was needing 28 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,120 to put the kids to bed because there's so many of them. There's like 29 00:02:23,159 --> 00:02:29,319 an eighteen did she say something around yeah, close to twenty. Yeah, 30 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:32,919 Hero, your kids love you, but you don't come to our zooms. 31 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,000 Rita rocks that Bassinett, but she doesn't rock our zoom. Jacob is so 32 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:45,319 growlly and he was there. Loved seeing Jacob, Yes, he was shared 33 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:51,599 with us, did Yeah, I love you Jacob. Leslie she accosted somebody 34 00:02:51,599 --> 00:02:55,159 outside of Ikea and then she got arrested and she couldn't missed it, right 35 00:02:55,400 --> 00:03:01,280 yeah, Ashley's so chic. Nick, you call your girl Lorie Sagory. 36 00:03:01,599 --> 00:03:06,520 Laurie was there, right, yeah, yeah, Laurie was there. Hi, 37 00:03:06,599 --> 00:03:08,479 Laurie. And Randy may Aimes not there. No, No, I 38 00:03:08,479 --> 00:03:13,439 guess she has too many names. It's just cool for us. Rachel newcomer. 39 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,960 She wasn't there, but I see her all the time on my writing 40 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:24,240 class. And Aaron, who is not there. So I saw on Facebook 41 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:35,000 that you went somewhere. Yes I did so okay. So, as you 42 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:43,919 might remember Xander's friend Lyla Crocodile, friend of the show, loves Queen, 43 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,759 big queen fan, big queen fan, and this band, Queen Nation, 44 00:03:47,879 --> 00:03:53,919 is like an amazing queen. They do they basically perform like their queen. 45 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:57,919 I want to see them. I was driving down the one on one and 46 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,240 saw that they're playing at the Canyon Club and I was like, oh shit, 47 00:04:01,159 --> 00:04:04,199 And then I look on Facebook and now are you guys on so that's 48 00:04:04,199 --> 00:04:09,560 where we saw them last time, and that was Lyle's first concert ever and 49 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:15,919 Xander's first concert. But now they were playing at the Starlight Bowl in Burbank, 50 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,639 which is a kind of a big concert venue. It's not small, 51 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:23,680 it's kind of like the Hollywood Bowl, but in Burbank, and they were 52 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:30,720 playing there and opening for them was not Yati Crew and not Yati by Nature, 53 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:34,240 but k Tell called the k Tell Band, which they play all like 54 00:04:34,399 --> 00:04:39,399 hits of the seventies. Oh my gosh, so like that's my sweet spot, 55 00:04:39,519 --> 00:04:42,199 as you know. And so Robin and I were like, we have 56 00:04:42,319 --> 00:04:46,279 to get tickets, and I was like, we should bring Xander and Lyla 57 00:04:46,399 --> 00:04:54,439 Crocodile so little last Harrah Saturday night because school started on Monday. And so 58 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:58,399 we went out there and it was so hilarious because when we get there, 59 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:03,480 it is like old people and their parents, you know, old people. 60 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:08,079 It's like how I imagine like a cruise ship to be. It's just like 61 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:12,120 everybody is so old. But we're laughing because it's like, but they're seeing 62 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:15,079 Queen basically, yes, But a lot of them were there to see the 63 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:20,240 k Tell Band go first, and they did not disappoint the kid, the 64 00:05:20,319 --> 00:05:23,839 kids. So the kids were just like, oh god, like this is 65 00:05:23,879 --> 00:05:29,000 embarrassing. Like they're like, please, I hope nobody recognizes us, you 66 00:05:29,079 --> 00:05:31,319 know, and they're laughing at me. And Xander finds it amusing that I 67 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:34,160 love seventies music, and you know, I make him listen to yacht rock 68 00:05:34,199 --> 00:05:38,000 in the car all the time, so he knows a lot of the song 69 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:41,399 of songs. So what songs were? What are some of the song they 70 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:49,040 sing like Captain and tnil Ye keep Us Together, And they did Brandy, 71 00:05:48,959 --> 00:05:54,519 You're a fine girl, What a good wife? You would be such a 72 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:58,720 good Yeah, it's about a cruise ship. It's about a ship. Yeah. 73 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:03,319 They did jaw to the World, all the busy Girls. It was 74 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:08,000 they were. They were so good. I mean, way more songs that 75 00:06:08,079 --> 00:06:11,600 I can't think about my head, but like every song was just like, 76 00:06:11,639 --> 00:06:17,279 oh, they did Carrie on o waywood Son, and they did Lady, 77 00:06:18,399 --> 00:06:23,920 let Me take a look at You, you know, yeah sticks oh oh 78 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:29,199 yeah, la lady. Yeah. I think it's only I should say to 79 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:33,920 you. Don't be thinking that I don't love you. They sang one song 80 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,959 that I knew, but that Robin was like this is the one song I 81 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:43,959 haven't heard of. But she's kind of stupid anyway, so dumb Robin, 82 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,199 so stupid. And then we met this woman. There was a woman that 83 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:51,480 was wearing this like a k Tell shirt, and I got really obsessed with 84 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:56,360 it. I was like, I need a k Tell shirt. Yeah. 85 00:06:56,399 --> 00:07:00,720 So unfortunately and so anyway that I was, so we kind of tapped her 86 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,800 on the shoulder, were like, how do we get your shirt? How 87 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:06,319 do you have that shirt? And she was friends with the band. So 88 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:10,480 then they said they were going to have shirts at the merch table. So 89 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:15,079 there they made this thing total seventies fun. They were shooting T shirts out 90 00:07:15,079 --> 00:07:19,120 of a cannon. They put beach balls into the crowd. Really really fun, 91 00:07:19,199 --> 00:07:24,800 and I know that Xander and Lyle Lyle Crocodile were into it. Then 92 00:07:24,879 --> 00:07:28,279 Robin and I go down and we try to get some merch, but they 93 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:32,079 only have the Queen Nation merch, no kay Tell stuff. So then the 94 00:07:32,199 --> 00:07:36,399 lady that we met says, oh, I'm gonna get I'll get you some 95 00:07:36,879 --> 00:07:42,759 they have merch. She leaves. Anyway, then it starts to finally get 96 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:48,360 dark out and then Queen comes on. Now meanwhile it's this place totally filled 97 00:07:48,439 --> 00:07:51,480 up. It was started to be packed with people, and now it's like 98 00:07:53,199 --> 00:07:57,279 I think it was mostly old people for the early part because now it was 99 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:01,199 really like kind of all ages and younger people. This Sonny would have loved 100 00:08:01,199 --> 00:08:05,959 it. Oh my god. Yeah, let me tell you. This band 101 00:08:05,199 --> 00:08:11,160 is so freaking amazing. And the guy who plays his name is Greg. 102 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:16,319 Greg Finley is the So this is not just like some guys that got together 103 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,399 and they're like, we kind of sound like Queen. This is one of 104 00:08:18,439 --> 00:08:26,560 those like a production company found people did probably in auditions from all over all 105 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:30,040 over the country, probably all over the world. I think the lead singer 106 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:35,799 guy might be British, right he if you he's they sound exactly like Queen, 107 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:41,159 right, And he comes out and is so like Freddie Mercury, like 108 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:45,279 it's you if you just close your eyes or if you open your eyes, 109 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,519 you might as well be at a full on Queen concert, except that it 110 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:54,120 was like eighteen dollars, right. But like they come out and they're doing 111 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,799 it's not like they just performed the hits, right. This is not the 112 00:08:56,879 --> 00:09:01,240 same as like going to see like a tribute, like a seventies tribute. 113 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:05,039 It's like this is a show where they have certain songs that they open with 114 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:11,080 and there's dancing, and there's like there and every and he's playing the keyboards 115 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:15,279 and he it's like it's like if Freddie Mercury's came back and performed. And 116 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:18,679 the whole concert was so good and it was so cute to see Lyle Like 117 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:22,799 he's very low key because you know, kid's been through a lot, right, 118 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,879 takes a lot to get him to like look like he's even having fun. 119 00:09:28,159 --> 00:09:31,200 But it was like he just he'd never been to a concert like that 120 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,840 before. And later when we asked him, he was like, yeah, 121 00:09:33,879 --> 00:09:37,720 I mean it was really fun, like when we went to the club, 122 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:41,080 but this was different. This was like being never I've never seen anything like 123 00:09:41,159 --> 00:09:46,720 this, Like it was a concert, like we had goods outdoors, but 124 00:09:46,759 --> 00:09:48,159 like if you look behind, you know, it's a whole like like a 125 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:56,080 stadium with people light with like lights and their lighters their phones, but also 126 00:09:56,200 --> 00:10:00,639 like you know, they had those like you know, like glow ones and 127 00:10:00,759 --> 00:10:05,000 so glow sticks and glow ones and like just everybody was so into it and 128 00:10:05,039 --> 00:10:09,759 everybody's singing and dancing and like on their feet that I was amazing and I'm 129 00:10:09,799 --> 00:10:16,120 amazing thing to take this and you know, I think Xander just felt really 130 00:10:16,159 --> 00:10:20,120 excited to be able to show Lyle like a really good time, right, 131 00:10:20,279 --> 00:10:22,440 and it was so sweet. It is sweet. I went like when I 132 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:28,879 took Sunny to see lad Zepp again at the Roxy, they are like they 133 00:10:28,919 --> 00:10:33,559 travel all over the world. Yeah, and they're British and they look like 134 00:10:33,639 --> 00:10:35,720 them, you know, and they do. It's a whole production. And 135 00:10:35,759 --> 00:10:39,120 it was like, but it's inside a club, you know. Yeah, 136 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:43,159 it's different to go and see a band that you love, even if it's 137 00:10:43,159 --> 00:10:46,320 not the real band right in the outdoor set it, you know what I 138 00:10:46,399 --> 00:10:50,399 mean. Like that's awesome, especially at summertime. That's great. That's so 139 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:54,840 it's an incredible show. And it was long and it was like they did 140 00:10:54,600 --> 00:11:00,399 so many hits and they also did like some deep cuts where you're like, 141 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,360 it's not just a band that kind of looks like Queen, you know. 142 00:11:03,519 --> 00:11:07,279 Yeah, And did did you see any like other bands coming up that are 143 00:11:07,279 --> 00:11:11,200 going to play there, like sometimes when you go like coming, so I 144 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:16,320 didn't see that. And also they were I guess they did a summer series 145 00:11:16,639 --> 00:11:20,440 of bands and this was the last show in their series, but I feel 146 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:24,960 like they probably have shows there at other times. Yeah, I don't know. 147 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:26,879 We'll have to look at We'll have to look it up. Yeah. 148 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:33,840 Yeah, it's super fun. That's awesome. Yeah, that's great. 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And it's tough because 173 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:39,000 I'm I'm there some days a week, but not there some days a week, 174 00:13:39,039 --> 00:13:41,120 so I don't get to be with them all the time, you know, 175 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:46,759 And it's tough, but it is what it is. But you know, 176 00:13:46,879 --> 00:13:50,240 it'll be different, I don't know once we sell the house maybe, 177 00:13:50,279 --> 00:13:56,360 but anyway, but so it is, it's just it's it's a sad feeling, 178 00:13:56,399 --> 00:13:58,360 you know. And also Sunny in Italy have two different schedules, so 179 00:13:58,759 --> 00:14:03,919 they're now Sunny he's got his driver's license, he can he's ensured on my 180 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:11,120 car for now and then he's gonna Adam's gonna have to get him another get 181 00:14:11,159 --> 00:14:13,679 him a car until then, so he can use my car when I'm there, 182 00:14:15,639 --> 00:14:18,200 but after, I mean most of the time when I'm there, but 183 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:22,360 then Natalia is going on. Natalia's getting to school early on time. He's 184 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:26,399 on the late, you know, he can miss I don't know. They 185 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:30,279 got a different schedule in senior year, so they're gonna be on different schedules. 186 00:14:30,279 --> 00:14:33,240 So Sunny's gonna have to walk sometimes sometimes he can take my car. 187 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:37,200 I don't know, but we'll see. But it's just it's sad. It's 188 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:41,000 like it's bumming me out. And then but it's really cute though. Over 189 00:14:41,039 --> 00:14:46,559 the weekend there was parties like Friday night Saturday, so Sunny in Italia they 190 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:50,240 go to a party to get like I'm looking at them like find you know, 191 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:54,120 on my Find my Kids app and they're both somewhere in Glendale, and 192 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,399 I'm like, what are you two doing in Glendale? Like we're at a 193 00:14:56,440 --> 00:15:00,200 party and Italia. The next day, She's like, oh, oh my 194 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:01,240 god, it's so much fun with Sunny. I was like, Sunny, 195 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:05,519 come dance with me. She's like, I was twirling around on the dance 196 00:15:05,519 --> 00:15:07,480 floor and I was like, Sunny, did you have Funny goes? Yeah, 197 00:15:07,519 --> 00:15:09,879 ad a good time. So like they're going to parties together. Then 198 00:15:09,919 --> 00:15:13,960 there was a party last night, which I talked a little bit about on 199 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:22,279 our zoom but it was a white trash themed and like a fake wedding. 200 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:24,840 I guess, like seniors were pretending to get married, but it was like 201 00:15:24,879 --> 00:15:31,240 a white trash wedding and Tally went dressed as Snooky because she loves I'm like, 202 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:35,879 Mitch, Snooky's a guidet. But anyway, because she loves Jersey Shore 203 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:41,679 now and she loves and all her friends love it in fact, so so 204 00:15:41,919 --> 00:15:45,759 when we have Vinny on our show, she should come. Oh my god, 205 00:15:45,919 --> 00:15:48,440 I told Vinny when I reached out to him, I said, my 206 00:15:48,559 --> 00:15:52,720 daughter has gotten all her friends hooked on Jersey Shore. They're watching the whole 207 00:15:54,039 --> 00:15:58,360 early seasons and she's a huge fan and you know what he wrote back. 208 00:15:58,399 --> 00:16:00,320 He goes, I'm a huge, a huge fan in Italius. Tell her 209 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:04,240 and she's like screen shotting that and sending it to all her friend She's like 210 00:16:04,399 --> 00:16:08,519 dying, but yeah, because we're gonna get Yeah, we're gonna get Vitty 211 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:12,960 soon on our show. By the way, quick interjection, I talked to 212 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:19,240 Mark Wahlberg, not not Marky Mark. I know you were this this many 213 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:22,960 years old when you found out that there's two Mark Wahlberg's right. Mark Wahlberg, 214 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:26,639 who hosts Temptation Island, said absolutely, he'd love to come on our 215 00:16:26,639 --> 00:16:30,279 show. I love it. I can't wait. Yeah, I can't really 216 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:33,240 have some good guests coming. Yes, we are, we are. Thursdays 217 00:16:33,279 --> 00:16:37,960 are lit. That's right, They're litty titty, litty titty Thursdays. That's 218 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:42,799 our new slogan. Yeah so okay, yeah, so uh yeah, so 219 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:48,480 they did that. She dressed as Snooky Sunny dresses a vinny. No, 220 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:52,799 Sunny just went as himself. The situation. Yeah, there's a situation, 221 00:16:52,879 --> 00:17:00,879 A situation. He I it's great now because I can say those sayings at 222 00:17:00,879 --> 00:17:03,600 home and they know what I'm talking about. And then she cringes and goes 223 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:07,279 mom, please stop because her friends getting to the door. I opened the 224 00:17:07,319 --> 00:17:11,319 door. I go parties here, that's all He's like, Mom, please, 225 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:15,839 I can we get it? You like jerseys and the other. Okay. 226 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,839 So the other night I think it was it was okay, it was 227 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:25,240 the night after we did our podcast last week. So uh, one of 228 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:32,039 Italia's friends, her best friend's mom decides to get all the her like four 229 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:37,359 good friends together and the moms together to go have a dinner one last like 230 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:41,440 hurrah, I guess before school starts. Which was nice and it was fun 231 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:45,599 and I met something. I mean, I know I knew the other the 232 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,200 other two moms, but there was one I never met, sat with her, 233 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:56,160 had a great time. They were really sweet. Okay, but there's 234 00:17:56,200 --> 00:18:02,160 one there's always one person in the group that knows everybody. Oh you know 235 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,960 the Thompson's right, Did you know that I went to school with them? 236 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:11,559 Did you know that my son is in the defense the group where they travel 237 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:15,119 around on bikes, the bicycle group, Like and then did you did you 238 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:21,359 ever meet the Razzi ears? Like like like you know? And I've I've 239 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:25,559 experienced it many times in the past. And when I sat down at dinner. 240 00:18:25,599 --> 00:18:30,359 I was like ten as in my head, counting down until how soon 241 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,480 is she going to start talking about everybody, name dropping all the people in 242 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:37,039 our neighborhood. Why? Like, I don't get it? Anyway, the 243 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:41,599 lovely dinner. We had a great time. It was nice. You know, 244 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:45,920 Natalia loves that shit. She loves that shit. But I'd be like, 245 00:18:47,079 --> 00:18:51,240 for me, that kind of thing would be very restaurant dependent, yes, 246 00:18:51,519 --> 00:18:53,599 like is there something that I love to eat at that place? Right? 247 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:57,079 If there's not, no, no, I'm gonna pass. Right. 248 00:18:57,279 --> 00:19:00,880 But I could not pass because she said she sent a group text to all 249 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:06,000 the girls and the moms, right, and Natalia was the first one like, 250 00:19:06,079 --> 00:19:08,480 hey, that sounds great. And I know Natalia, she always wants 251 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,960 me to be hanging out with the parents and Tana. But I'd be like, 252 00:19:12,039 --> 00:19:15,640 but can we go to cheesecake Factory because they have really good bread? 253 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,400 Right? Well? You know what? The first place she picked was Houston's, 254 00:19:18,839 --> 00:19:22,160 Okay, which I haven't thought. I know, I haven't been. 255 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:25,720 I didn't even know it still was around. There's there's one in Pasadena. 256 00:19:25,799 --> 00:19:30,640 They wouldn't take a big party of eight, so since you eat a huge 257 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:34,200 part, right, now they're a freaking chain restaurant. I guess in that 258 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:38,680 time maybe I don't know. So we had to go to some Italian unknown 259 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:42,240 restaurant in Pasadena. All right, well Italian was good. Yeah, and 260 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:45,920 it was great garlic role. Yeah, I got the risotto. Though it's 261 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:49,279 like a little too much, you know, by the way, Okay, 262 00:19:49,319 --> 00:19:56,319 hold on a second, I'm gonna say something pretty controversial. Okay, I 263 00:19:56,359 --> 00:20:02,359 could get canceled, especially by you two. By embracing yourself. Yeah, 264 00:20:02,519 --> 00:20:07,160 don't don't get too mad. The TV show The Bear, Uh huh. 265 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:11,279 Season two huh, don't like it? The hell's going on? Listen. 266 00:20:11,319 --> 00:20:15,559 It's not for every If you love it, you're just love it. And 267 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,000 if you don't like it, I know a lot of people that it leaves. 268 00:20:18,039 --> 00:20:19,759 They're like, I don't it's not doing anything for me. Well, 269 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:25,960 all right, I'll be that. I love the characters. But I'm on 270 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:32,240 season two and it started off strong, and then there's like season episode like 271 00:20:32,519 --> 00:20:37,720 three and four. I love the girl that had the chef. She's they've 272 00:20:37,759 --> 00:20:42,240 had chef that works under KARMI. I love him. I love his cousin. 273 00:20:42,519 --> 00:20:47,480 There's a nut job. He's hilarious. Love, the nat his sister. 274 00:20:47,599 --> 00:20:49,920 I like all the characters, the woman in the kitchen, the other 275 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:55,839 guy that went off to Norway to study love all at Yeah, but there 276 00:20:55,920 --> 00:21:02,079 was like episode three is all about her just going around town trying. All 277 00:21:02,079 --> 00:21:03,759 I want to do is eat at ten o'clock at night. Yeah, that 278 00:21:03,839 --> 00:21:07,920 episode was like a little bit boring, back to back with the episode of 279 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:11,799 the guy going to Norway or wherever he went. Yeah, but then it 280 00:21:11,839 --> 00:21:15,599 gets really good. Okay, because that's the last episode I saw, so 281 00:21:17,079 --> 00:21:22,920 you see Forks No now, so those two episodes are definitely the weakest of 282 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:26,799 the season. But once you get to Forks, yeah, and the Christmas 283 00:21:26,799 --> 00:21:30,240 episode, Christmas, that's what everybody's telling me this Christmas gotta keep going. 284 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:34,839 He got a slog, all right, But like again, I I it 285 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,640 took me a little bit to get in the first season. The first season 286 00:21:37,759 --> 00:21:42,240 was like chaotic. Every first episode was like everybody screaming at each other. 287 00:21:42,519 --> 00:21:45,799 Yes, I'm like, oh my god, I can't. I'm trying to 288 00:21:45,799 --> 00:21:48,200 go to sleep here. I watch it when I get in bed at night. 289 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:52,640 I got guys, relax a little bit. Kicks everybody. What's everybody 290 00:21:52,039 --> 00:21:56,079 up tight? Four why's everybody got yell yes, chef all the time, 291 00:21:56,599 --> 00:21:59,240 chill out, go sit down here, a cigarette or something. I'll have 292 00:21:59,279 --> 00:22:02,839 a beers, have a coke and a smile. Shut the fuck up. 293 00:22:03,319 --> 00:22:07,160 But then okay, So like this first season and then it then it got 294 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,559 good. Like towards the end, I was like, all right, I'm 295 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,359 in. Then second season, I was like, Okay, I'm gonna wait 296 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:17,279 until it's all done so i can watch it back to back, which maybe 297 00:22:17,319 --> 00:22:19,480 I should. But then I was thinking to myself, damn, after these 298 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:25,359 two episodes, I'd be pissed if I sat down on a Thursday night whenever 299 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,839 it comes out watch this episode and then okay, that was dude. And 300 00:22:27,839 --> 00:22:30,960 then next week of that episode, that was kind of a dud. I 301 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:37,319 mean, I got family in Chicago that's getting like Chicago hot beef sandwiches and 302 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:41,160 watching the Bear like appointment television, and I'm like, I can't wait to 303 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:45,279 watch this ship. Well, you have to let some episodes pile up, 304 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:49,519 all right, That's what I thought. Yeah, I mean I watched a 305 00:22:49,559 --> 00:22:55,559 lot, so you guys binged it. I did, oh okay, and 306 00:22:55,559 --> 00:22:57,839 then John and I tried not to watch, like at one point towards the 307 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,759 end, we were like, Okay, we're gonna watch two episodes and then 308 00:23:00,759 --> 00:23:03,359 we're gonna stop. And then we watched two and then we took a break 309 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:04,799 during the day, and then we were like, oh my god, we 310 00:23:04,839 --> 00:23:07,960 can't stand it. So we watched the final two episodes in a row and 311 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:11,720 it was like, oh my gosh, it's so good. Okay, I'm 312 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:15,039 sure when I come back next week, I'll be like, Wow, Hey, 313 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:18,400 have you guys heard of the TV show The Bear? He should be 314 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:23,519 watching it? Are you okay? This is okay, remind me because I 315 00:23:23,559 --> 00:23:26,880 put a pin in this, But have you guys seen the new season of 316 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,799 Winning Time? Because we watched the first episode. Is it good? Okay, 317 00:23:30,839 --> 00:23:33,559 it's the same. You know, it's like the first season was so 318 00:23:33,599 --> 00:23:36,240 good. This just picks right up right, just picks right Okay. Okay, 319 00:23:36,319 --> 00:23:37,759 So, because because John and I are about to watch that, but 320 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:41,920 yes, first I have to watch stupid mental all of The Bachelor tonight. 321 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,559 But anyway, go back to what you were talking about. Okay, So 322 00:23:45,559 --> 00:23:49,960 you're at this dinner and name Droppy, name Droppy or whatever. But you 323 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,960 know, it's like, I was like, oh God, I've been craving 324 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:56,400 Italian food. First of all, I'm watching The Bear every night, so 325 00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:00,920 I'm hungry for like good cuisine, so I'm looking forward to this dinner. 326 00:24:02,039 --> 00:24:06,960 I also watched Jersey Shore sometimes with an Italian, and they're like eating Italian 327 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:11,079 food every other episode, ordering pizza, ordering sandwiches, and blah blah blah. 328 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:15,000 So I'm like, oh, I'm looking forward sandwiches. So I'm looking 329 00:24:15,039 --> 00:24:18,200 for I honest to god, thought it was sandwich until I was like in 330 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:23,119 seventh grade. I really did, because my mom that's how she pronounced it. 331 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,839 And then the time came right to write it out, I was like, 332 00:24:26,839 --> 00:24:30,400 wait, it's spelled with a D, not a G. I thought, 333 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,519 I swear to god, I remember vividly that time in elementary school when 334 00:24:34,519 --> 00:24:38,799 I was like, it's sand sandwich. Say I thought it was sandwich. 335 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,680 We'll just call it sandwich to make you feel great, thank you, So 336 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:48,200 give you a little taste. They'll taste the home. And I'm craving like 337 00:24:48,279 --> 00:24:51,039 hot beef, chicken, like Chicago hot beef. Say, how you guys 338 00:24:51,079 --> 00:24:52,960 add any of that? I have never had that. It's it's good. 339 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:57,960 There's a deli next to me that does the best, like Chicago beef sandwich. 340 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:00,599 I had it, like was it yesterday? I was yesterday, your 341 00:25:00,759 --> 00:25:06,480 mother. I would love that. But yeah, when the first season of 342 00:25:06,519 --> 00:25:08,240 The Bear came out and even this not so much this season. When the 343 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,640 first one came out, I was going there all the time to just get 344 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,400 the Chicago beef. Yeah while watching The Bear. Yeah, like that's the 345 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,880 other thing. I'm watching it at ten o'clock at night. And then I 346 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,599 get I get the munchie. So now I gotta go downstairs and get some 347 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:26,599 salami with some crackers and some sour cream and olive oil and salt and pepper 348 00:25:26,759 --> 00:25:33,400 and mix that up, make a little dip SALAMMI some cheese fills drooling next 349 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,480 to me in bed watching The Bear. So I'm looking forward to this dinner 350 00:25:37,319 --> 00:25:42,319 and there's so many things on the menu, like chicken poccata, chicken Parmersian. 351 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,920 I'm like, oh my god, should I get the pasta? Should 352 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,839 I get Linguinian clams? Like ooh, like what should I get? And 353 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:55,240 then I was like, I'm craving something with mushrooms. So then I never 354 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:59,960 get the risotto. So I was like, mushroom zoto sounds good. Everybody 355 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,160 body else gets like the Linguinian class and Italia gets the chicken palm. This 356 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:06,920 one on the on the on the right of me is getting like, uh, 357 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:10,200 you know, some kind of like pocata something lemony, caper thing. 358 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:15,720 I'm like and then my risotto comes. I was like four bites out of 359 00:26:15,759 --> 00:26:19,079 it and I'm done. I'm full. It's all it is is rice and 360 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,599 mushrooms. Well, how'd you already had like a bunch of bread or did 361 00:26:22,599 --> 00:26:26,839 you start with the salad? I had bread? Did I have a salad? 362 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:30,759 I don't think so, because she had. Natalia got a salad and 363 00:26:30,799 --> 00:26:34,759 I shared a little bit from her, but no, And then I was 364 00:26:34,799 --> 00:26:38,000 just bummed and I took the rest home because I was so full. I 365 00:26:38,079 --> 00:26:42,319 felt jipped and I gotta hear. I had listen to the mom talk name 366 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:48,359 drop. So it was a bust of a night. Oh you didnn Italia? 367 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:51,119 How fun? She had a great time? Yeah, she had fun. 368 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:56,920 She had a good time. Yeah. So my kids had their first 369 00:26:56,000 --> 00:27:02,920 day of school, so they're only sophomores, and it was kind of cute 370 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,039 because their first day of school was we're recording on a Monday. They had 371 00:27:06,079 --> 00:27:10,279 their first day was today, and I forgot how much my kids complain. 372 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,839 Yeah, you forget school because summer they didn't have a lot to complain about 373 00:27:15,839 --> 00:27:21,960 it. I still believe me, they still found complaints. But you know, 374 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,319 I was expecting this is going to sound a little crazy, but I 375 00:27:27,039 --> 00:27:32,200 think that it's hard. My kids don't live in a like, they don't 376 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,559 go to a neighborhood school, right, so a lot of the kids don't 377 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:40,319 see each other over the summer because you really have to go out of your 378 00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:45,039 way to make plans with somebody to get together because everybody lives all over the 379 00:27:45,079 --> 00:27:48,319 city. Kind of it's like a you know, a school that you can 380 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:52,200 drive from all different neighborhoods to go to. So I thought it would be 381 00:27:52,319 --> 00:27:56,279 kind of nice, like, hey, you've been talking to these people, 382 00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:59,279 you face time with them, you're texting with them a lot. But now 383 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,519 you're all back at school. How fun. You know, y'all get to 384 00:28:03,519 --> 00:28:07,359 sit together at lunch and you, you know whatever. But like, and 385 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,000 it was, I think it was. I barely got to talk to them 386 00:28:11,039 --> 00:28:15,079 because they came home and I was leaving. But Xander looked totally distraught, 387 00:28:15,799 --> 00:28:19,920 like and he was like, I mean yeah, a lot of my classes 388 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:23,480 were good, but then this one class really made me sad, and it's 389 00:28:23,519 --> 00:28:26,319 just focused on the negative, you know, and there's nothing you can do. 390 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:32,000 It's like, all right, like they're past the age where I could 391 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:33,640 be like, well, let me write a strongly word of email to that 392 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:37,240 teacher and tell her that you're not going to enjoy your time in their class 393 00:28:37,319 --> 00:28:40,720 unless you get to be you know, it's like yeah, to just go, 394 00:28:40,839 --> 00:28:44,640 well, I don't know what to talk to your teacher, right right, 395 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,160 It's like and then you just I get like, okay, well, 396 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,079 did anything good happen? And he's like, well, yeah, like my 397 00:28:49,119 --> 00:28:53,039 other classes were really good. I think they're gonna be fun, but this 398 00:28:53,119 --> 00:28:57,079 one really bummed me out. And then it's like Sadie. Immediately okay, 399 00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:03,039 well, Sadie, did you did you enjoy it? Well? I like 400 00:29:03,279 --> 00:29:07,319 one class, but and this just complaints. And then I gotta go, 401 00:29:07,519 --> 00:29:10,759 hey, guys, I'm glad you both loved your first day school. I 402 00:29:10,799 --> 00:29:15,119 gotta go, I gotta go to work. Sorry, I'm out. And 403 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,079 I'm just like, oh God, because here comes, here comes the school 404 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:22,759 year. Right, We're gonna do this every day every day. They're gonna 405 00:29:22,799 --> 00:29:27,079 come home and be like, hang on, I know this person said this 406 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:33,559 to me and this teacher I know, I know, I already got the 407 00:29:33,119 --> 00:29:37,720 Italian gets her schedule and she wants to be in a class with her best 408 00:29:37,759 --> 00:29:42,119 friend. Can you email missus so and so and ask her if I can 409 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:47,200 switch my English to government and then I could have AP psych. She wants 410 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:51,119 to do ap psych now, which is great. Oh she wants to drop 411 00:29:51,799 --> 00:29:53,799 so because she's an She wasn't an i EP. I don't know if she's 412 00:29:53,799 --> 00:29:57,039 still gonna be an IP. But they had directive studies, which is home 413 00:29:57,119 --> 00:30:00,359 room basically where they sit and there she's like, I don't need that anymore. 414 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,559 I want to take AP psych, So can I can I? So 415 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:07,480 now I'm like eat, I'm like, can you email her? Well? 416 00:30:07,519 --> 00:30:11,279 I did, but they're not getting she's not getting back to me. So 417 00:30:11,519 --> 00:30:15,680 I gotta sit there and email, you know, and then she emails me 418 00:30:15,799 --> 00:30:19,480 back. She has an email in Italia. Anyway, She's gonna work something 419 00:30:19,519 --> 00:30:22,960 out about the AP psych thing, but as far as her getting into the 420 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,079 other classes that she wants to just because her friends in it, and that 421 00:30:26,119 --> 00:30:30,839 ain't happening, like her schedule's pretty set. Sonny has no complaints because he's 422 00:30:30,839 --> 00:30:34,680 starting school an hour late, which is he's fine. He's like, don't 423 00:30:34,799 --> 00:30:37,799 rock the boat, don't tell anybody. I don't want anybody onto me or 424 00:30:37,799 --> 00:30:41,079 anything. I don't want to fuck this shit up. I get to go 425 00:30:41,319 --> 00:30:45,160 because you know, he's still with the sleeping issues and blah blah blah. 426 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,480 Which by the way, I'm taking them both to physicals. They're getting their 427 00:30:48,519 --> 00:30:56,319 physicals coming up, and I'm gonna talk to the doctor about something for Sonny 428 00:30:56,480 --> 00:31:00,279 for his sleep. And I've seen a lot of people on our Facebook books 429 00:31:00,279 --> 00:31:04,000 say that they have teenage kids that have taken some kind of sleep medication that 430 00:31:04,039 --> 00:31:08,720 gets prescribed to them, you know. And so I think we're gonna go 431 00:31:08,759 --> 00:31:12,839 down because we did the stupid you know, the sleep study sleep study, 432 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:18,759 which got us nowhere, just wasted a whole night, got like he got 433 00:31:18,759 --> 00:31:22,519 like an hour and a half sleep and came back inconclusive. So like, 434 00:31:22,759 --> 00:31:27,400 well, it's just, you know, it's so hard. Some of these 435 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:32,319 things are just so hard to explain or figure out. But yeah, hopefully 436 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:36,559 maybe they could put him on something that just like sort of gets him back 437 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:40,200 onto a schedule. Onto a sleep schedule and the like, and then he 438 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:44,319 can wean off of whatever it is. Yes, yes, but they need 439 00:31:44,359 --> 00:31:48,599 to sleep, these kids. Yes, he definitely because you know, I 440 00:31:48,599 --> 00:31:52,400 mean, he was, he's he's it's hard for him to focus. Although 441 00:31:52,039 --> 00:31:56,079 both of them got really good grades last year, so I'm hoping that continues 442 00:31:56,279 --> 00:32:00,039 into this year. And they're both working with their colge counselors, which is 443 00:32:00,079 --> 00:32:06,759 great. 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And he's always told her, you know, 472 00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:29,599 not necessarily collegism for everybody. Maybe you want to go straight to work 473 00:34:29,639 --> 00:34:31,960 after maybe you want to go to a trade school. It's not for everybody. 474 00:34:32,159 --> 00:34:37,800 And she had a lot of she thought about it, and now she's 475 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,400 she wants she's she's convinced that college it's going to be for her. She 476 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:45,519 wants to go to college. She wants a degree. She wants to study 477 00:34:45,679 --> 00:34:49,840 journalism. That's what she's saying. That's so cool. Yeah, I'm excited 478 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,920 about that. You know, maybe it'll change. I don't know, but 479 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:57,159 that's what she's saying. And then so yeah, and then she's writing, 480 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,760 she's writing her essay and she's tweaking it and changing it, and then I 481 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:06,039 get to read it pretty soon, all right, And then she tells everybody 482 00:35:06,039 --> 00:35:09,519 at the dinner, She's like, I think I want to I want to 483 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:15,320 follow my mother's footsteps and do podcasts. Wow, I'm you know, going 484 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,559 to school and taking classes. I was like, but she says, you're 485 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:22,960 her mother's footsteps, Like she doesn't even say that about her dad, Like 486 00:35:22,039 --> 00:35:25,480 that dad, I know, isn't that Well at dinner, yeah, she 487 00:35:25,599 --> 00:35:30,039 mentioned me instead of her dad. We weren't talking about her essay at the 488 00:35:30,039 --> 00:35:32,239 time, so she was just saying she's talking about journalism, and she's like, 489 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:36,840 maybe I you know, maybe I'll do a start a podcast or her 490 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:38,400 and her friend, I don't know. I was like, well, if 491 00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:44,800 you want to, I can help you. I know some people. I 492 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:46,519 tried to talk at Elbi into doing a podcast, but she was just like 493 00:35:46,599 --> 00:35:51,280 never I know. No. Telli was the same way. I'm like that 494 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,559 shit would have looked good on your college application, but I couldn't get her 495 00:35:54,559 --> 00:35:59,559 to do it. Yeah. Elbie was just not much of a joiner for 496 00:35:59,599 --> 00:36:01,760 anything, right. I mean she was in a couple of clubs at school, 497 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:05,280 but I'm like, there's so many things that you could be doing. 498 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,639 I mean, listen, the volleyball is gonna look really good for the time. 499 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,320 And though she's stopped, Yeah, she definitely doesn't want to do it 500 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:15,960 this year. Well we'll see when school starts. I'm trying to get her 501 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:22,079 to do you know, but I don't know. She's done the same coaches 502 00:36:22,079 --> 00:36:25,000 there, yes, yeah, yeah, which is a shame. Yeah, 503 00:36:25,039 --> 00:36:32,039 but it's so interesting that to have you when you're behind. So you saw 504 00:36:32,079 --> 00:36:37,440 what happened with Elbe, right, but right now I am in the situation 505 00:36:37,559 --> 00:36:40,920 that you will be in next year, where like my friends are all my 506 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:45,679 friends are dropping their kids off at college. Like I've got all these heartbroken 507 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:51,159 all my whole little mom group. One of my mom my friend Laura, 508 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,960 whose daughter Lily is one I Elbe like, she's she I always repeat this, 509 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,880 Stu. But she was like my first mom friend. I met her 510 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,599 and mommy and me the girls were six months old. Still friends to this 511 00:37:01,679 --> 00:37:07,159 day. I talked to her almost every single day. Literally tomorrow she's they're 512 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:12,119 driving her daughter got into Berkeley and they're driving to Berkeley, and she's like 513 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:19,079 on the edge of like a nervous breakdown, just because like she's total Jewish 514 00:37:19,079 --> 00:37:22,519 mom, super overinvolved in her daughter's life. Like you know, like you 515 00:37:22,559 --> 00:37:27,760 think you people think we're bad, like making the lunches. She's she's like, 516 00:37:28,639 --> 00:37:31,679 I mean, she'll We've had things where if you think I'm bad, 517 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:36,960 I'm always like Laura stop, like you have to stop doing everything for her, 518 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:38,320 and she's like, I know, I know, I can't help myself. 519 00:37:38,639 --> 00:37:40,559 And then she'll be like, oh, I'm doing so much better. 520 00:37:40,639 --> 00:37:45,000 I'm really not doing stuff. But then she'll be like, Lily, Lily, 521 00:37:45,039 --> 00:37:46,559 you're leaving right now. Do you have your medication? Do you have 522 00:37:46,639 --> 00:37:49,400 this? Do you have that? I'm like, oh, dear lord. 523 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,599 She's like almost nineteen years old, like right, but she's but she's like, 524 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,760 I just don't know what I'm gonna do, like I mean. And 525 00:37:55,800 --> 00:38:01,960 then my other friend, Cecily, she her daughter is going to Kansas and 526 00:38:02,039 --> 00:38:07,400 she's there. She's just flying home. They got her there, settled her 527 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,280 in dorm. She's flying home. That's her only kid. Oh my god, 528 00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:15,800 she's like already empty nester. It seems very weird to me. And 529 00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:21,880 I know that I'm old actually for this, but like it seems very strange 530 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:27,280 to have friends that are like legit empty too, because I raised my kids 531 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:30,280 with these people, right, so like, yes, Elbe's my oldest, 532 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,000 and yeah, I still have sophomores. And it's weird that I'm like, 533 00:38:32,199 --> 00:38:37,320 you know, eligible for AARP, but I still have sophomores in high school. 534 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:43,519 But it's just bizarre. It's a bizarre feeling to have really close friends 535 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:46,840 that are crying about like leaving their kids at college. Oh my god. 536 00:38:47,039 --> 00:38:52,480 And it is wild that like, because I thought it was wild when Elbe 537 00:38:52,559 --> 00:38:54,400 went to camp for I thought it was wild when she went to camp for 538 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:58,920 eleven days. I was like, wait, what, Like I'm not gonna 539 00:38:59,039 --> 00:39:01,559 I'm just not gonna see year for eleven days, Like I could only look 540 00:39:01,599 --> 00:39:06,320 at pictures, like I can't just call her, like that makes some sense, 541 00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,840 it's so long. Then I got used to that because that was like 542 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:13,480 every year. But then like last year, when she was gone the whole 543 00:39:13,519 --> 00:39:16,920 summer, not this summer, but last summer, I was like, this 544 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:22,760 is crazy. It's just like she's just not doesn't live here anymore. And 545 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:28,039 so I feel I feel so sad for Elbie that she doesn't get to have 546 00:39:28,119 --> 00:39:30,360 that experience. But at the same time, like selfishly, I'm like, 547 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:34,760 Okay, I don't mind having one more year where she's in and out of 548 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,840 the house. Yeah, yeah, it's I don't see. I mean, 549 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:44,320 i'd have been seeing her lately, but normally now she has a car, 550 00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,440 you know, right, and she goes to work, and she's going to 551 00:39:46,559 --> 00:39:49,800 be going to school and I'm not going to see that much of her. 552 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:53,119 But still at least she's home. At least she's you know, my friends 553 00:39:53,119 --> 00:39:59,159 are jealous in some ways. I would be too. Yeah. Well, 554 00:39:59,199 --> 00:40:00,880 you know, my two are are not big scholars, so hopefully they'll be 555 00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:06,159 going to junior college next year. I want to jink. So, oh 556 00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:07,800 my god, Kaylin, do you have any stories the Winning Times? So 557 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,960 you're saying it's good, yeah, okay, yeah, something feels the same 558 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:15,679 as it did the last season. We took the girls to Sea World for 559 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:22,800 Blake's birthday and she just turned three. Yeah, okay, just turned three, 560 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,000 and yeah, not as fun as Lego Land. Kind of sad, 561 00:40:25,599 --> 00:40:31,400 really, yeah, I mean, you know, especially after that movie Blackfish. 562 00:40:31,519 --> 00:40:35,639 Yeah yeah yeah yeah, And so you see the Orcas and they have 563 00:40:35,679 --> 00:40:39,480 their like their fin is like hunched over. Really yeah, so it's kind 564 00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:44,199 of sad. And the kids didn't really care. They didn't they wanted to 565 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,239 go on rides. They didn't. They didn't. Okay, they were okay 566 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:50,920 dolphins, fine, Okay, there's no rides there. There is. Yeah, 567 00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:52,039 there's a lot of rids, but a lot of them are like they're 568 00:40:52,079 --> 00:40:55,280 kind of like roller coasters, like they're too they're too big for really. 569 00:40:55,760 --> 00:41:00,039 They have a couple like little kid rides, like the three of them, 570 00:41:00,079 --> 00:41:02,840 and that's kind of all they wanted to do was just play on the playground 571 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:07,360 and go on these little rides, and a lot of them. I would 572 00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:10,280 totally get along with your kids, I know, because I'd be like, 573 00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:15,280 I don't want to just sit on bleachers and look at the fish show. 574 00:41:15,079 --> 00:41:22,000 The Orca show was so I mean, it was hot and uncomfortable and sad, 575 00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:24,519 and they didn't care. At one point, Blake sneezed on the back 576 00:41:24,519 --> 00:41:30,079 of someone's head. I was like, let's get out of here. We 577 00:41:30,199 --> 00:41:34,039 left that show in the middle. Yeah, that is sad. I didn't 578 00:41:34,079 --> 00:41:37,239 know they still had the Orcas like that. I thought after Blackfish that ship, 579 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,239 I know, I had to change. I'm shocked that they stayed them. 580 00:41:40,639 --> 00:41:45,079 That's so sad. And when you do stuff like that because you have 581 00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:49,480 young young kids, do you like, are you and Amy on the same 582 00:41:49,519 --> 00:41:54,480 page with stuff? Yeah? Yeah, she doesn't go like, no, 583 00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:58,760 the girls are we have to stay for the show? Like are you by 584 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,079 do you have that kind of frustrated that they're not as into it as we 585 00:42:02,119 --> 00:42:07,480 want them to be because we just hauled our asses all the way down here 586 00:42:07,519 --> 00:42:09,000 for this, and it's like, Okay, you don't really seem to care 587 00:42:09,039 --> 00:42:13,320 that much. But you know when we talk them to Disneyland like a year 588 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,239 ago, they didn't really seem to care that much then, but then they 589 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:21,119 wouldn't stop talking about it afterwards. Yeah, that's interesting. This time, 590 00:42:21,159 --> 00:42:23,880 they Yeah, they haven't really been talking about it. Yeah, but again, 591 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:28,000 I guess I was just seeing them, you know, all the all 592 00:42:28,079 --> 00:42:30,239 the animals in the tanks. They just didn't really care for it. So 593 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:37,880 have you brought them to the Museum of Science No? Oh yeah, gosh. 594 00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:43,519 I've remember being a little kid because I was in LA as a kid. 595 00:42:44,119 --> 00:42:47,639 That museum is so freaking fun. It's a very interactive museum. Interest 596 00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:52,639 ye, Like it's not just it's it's the most interactive museum I think in 597 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:57,320 Los Angeles's favorite place to go on Earth. It's all like cool stuff that 598 00:42:57,519 --> 00:43:00,599 is going to wow. That is they're going to be like wait, what, 599 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,960 Like there's there's like I can't even explain it, but there's very cool. 600 00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:08,239 So everything is like pushing buttons and seeing how things work and like yeah, 601 00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:14,440 going into things and huge animals that are stuffed behind the glass. Like, 602 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:19,519 well, that's the Museum of History, Natural History, the museum. 603 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,679 They're they're both together, like you can do rom in the same day. 604 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:27,559 Science part science. Museum is science, the Museum of Science and Industry, 605 00:43:27,679 --> 00:43:30,159 right, it's called it's all interactive stuff. Yeah. But then, like 606 00:43:30,199 --> 00:43:32,960 I said, you just go down there. They will love it and you 607 00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:36,159 don't need to stay as long as you want, and you can go sit 608 00:43:36,199 --> 00:43:38,719 outside, need a sandwich, and then it sounds good. Yeah, So 609 00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:42,679 it was okay. It wasn't like it wasn't totally miserable, but it was. 610 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,679 It was. It was still nice. It's still fun. Yeah. 611 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:49,519 They sell a lot of alcohol at Sea World. It's like every like five 612 00:43:49,559 --> 00:43:52,880 feet there's like a margarita stand and a mimosa stand and a craft beer stand 613 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:58,599 and it's like, wow, Jesus get plowed and roll. I asked back 614 00:43:58,639 --> 00:44:04,119 to the motel. Wow, it was fun. And any any updates on 615 00:44:04,159 --> 00:44:07,880 the swim lessons? Uh? Yeah, they had one today. They did 616 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:13,119 They did fine. Good, they did fine. They're Blake is reluctant, 617 00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:15,440 but she gets in there and she did it, so all right, So 618 00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:20,159 they're learning to swim. Yeah, it doesn't really take that long. I 619 00:44:20,199 --> 00:44:22,760 mean for them to be good swimmers, but for them to be safe in 620 00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:27,440 the water. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. I just remember too, like 621 00:44:28,559 --> 00:44:32,320 they had the swimming well, they didn't go to swim lessons because Auntie Wendy 622 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:37,039 todt him in like a weekend. But then there was like a time where 623 00:44:37,039 --> 00:44:40,079 they got a little older and everybody in our neighborhood was signing there's kids up 624 00:44:40,119 --> 00:44:49,679 to go to the Malibu Lifeguard you know for kids or whatever. And Archie 625 00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,360 Melissa's son, he like graduated as a lifeguard. He went the whole like 626 00:44:53,639 --> 00:44:59,920 every summer from like age I don't know, seven to sixteen. Wow, 627 00:45:00,119 --> 00:45:02,760 he's like a lifeguard. Yeah, now he's going off. She's just dropped 628 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:07,400 him off at college. The thing about anything that has to do at the 629 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:12,599 beach, like when Xander a couple of years ago did the surf camp right 630 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,480 driving to Malibu, fuck that. I mean, it's that's why my kids 631 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:21,679 didn't do the same drive. Like, and you have to be there at 632 00:45:21,679 --> 00:45:23,559 like eight thirty in the more like nine o'clock in the morning. I think 633 00:45:23,599 --> 00:45:27,320 one of them nine or nine thirty, so you have to really leave by 634 00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:31,920 like eight fifteen at the latest if you don't want to be late. Uh 635 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:36,840 and like who it's like school it is, I know, and then you 636 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,199 gotta go back and get them and you gotta and then yeah, and then 637 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:45,239 that drive at three o'clock back brutal, brutal. Yeah. So I like 638 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:49,840 just the same way I like my murder shows. Yes, I like my 639 00:45:50,039 --> 00:45:53,199 activities to be really close. I agree. Like, if ever my kids 640 00:45:53,199 --> 00:45:58,159 are interested in something, I google that whatever it is, and you know, 641 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,960 right, I'm so glad. It's nice to live in a place where 642 00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:07,679 there usually is stuffuff. Yeah, but even if it's like and I know 643 00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:12,239 not everybody lives in LA but if something's like Woodland Hills, which is like 644 00:46:12,639 --> 00:46:16,920 ten fifteen minutes, but I'm still like right, right, because the one 645 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:22,400 on one is awful every day. Yeah, and it's just the whole going 646 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,760 back for like the groundlings was a pain in the ass, yes, because 647 00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:30,039 either you stay down there, but then with with my foot being fractured, 648 00:46:30,079 --> 00:46:34,079 it was like such a pain in the ass because uh, you know, 649 00:46:34,199 --> 00:46:36,840 like I couldn't go because what am I going to do? For two hours. 650 00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,000 I didn't even walk around, right, you know, so John had 651 00:46:39,039 --> 00:46:43,159 to do it and then eventually I was able to drive. But it's like, 652 00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,960 so I would drive, I'd be like, I'll drive one way, 653 00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,719 drop them off, and then John would go get them. But it's like 654 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:52,519 that's your whole day. It is. It is, oh yeah, all 655 00:46:52,559 --> 00:46:57,840 right, let's go eat dinner. All right, hey Darving. Before we 656 00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:01,239 go, I honestly want to tell you guys, because today's Tuesday, Thursday. 657 00:47:01,519 --> 00:47:07,400 Our guest is Laura House as I we endore her so great, I 658 00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:10,679 fell in love. Yeah. She has a podcast called Tiny Victories. If 659 00:47:10,679 --> 00:47:15,360 you want to introduce yourself to her before you listen to our Thursday show. 660 00:47:15,039 --> 00:47:21,440 It's a podcast. It's fifteen minutes once a week where they celebrate people's tiny 661 00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:25,239 victories like mailing a letter. Right, they're they're no getters. They are. 662 00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:29,800 I love it, like they're so up our alley. Yeah, it's 663 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:34,800 Laura House and Annabelle Gerwich, who is an author and they do this podcast 664 00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:38,400 together. But she's also a stand up comedian and once a month she does 665 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:44,840 a sober comedy show in Santa Monica called Party On, which is really cool 666 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,440 and she had so many great stories that you guys, oh my god, 667 00:47:47,599 --> 00:47:52,760 please, you gotta listen to Thursday show and leads into Friday show. She 668 00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:58,239 was a cast member on the MTV show Austin Stories that right years ago from 669 00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:01,280 the nineties. If some of you guys remember that. Yeah, But before 670 00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:06,480 we go completely, let me give a couple of shout outs for one. 671 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:10,679 Christine Black is with Storybook World Travel. You can find her on Facebook or 672 00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:16,920 Instagram Storybook World Travel, or email her. Christine with the c HRI S 673 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:22,000 T I n e. B at Storybook World Travel. And she is not 674 00:48:22,199 --> 00:48:25,199 just like theme parks. She does any kind of travel you want. She 675 00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:30,159 can help you and find you like discounted rates and all that stuff. I 676 00:48:30,199 --> 00:48:36,400 mean, old school travel agent. It's really cool. Yeah, no cost 677 00:48:36,519 --> 00:48:39,559 to use her services. It is free. Also, Kelly will oh No, 678 00:48:39,639 --> 00:48:45,880 I already talked about that last time. The Family Skeptical is a podcast 679 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:50,039 about raising kids with no religion. So if you're any kind of non believer, 680 00:48:50,159 --> 00:48:52,599 you're welcome. You're their people, and they do an episode every three 681 00:48:52,639 --> 00:48:58,800 weeks so it won't cut into your fcol times. So check them out. 682 00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,480 And yeah, I can't, I can't only say her name because she doesn't 683 00:49:01,519 --> 00:49:06,880 want to like get any fine for being non religious, which I get it. 684 00:49:07,159 --> 00:49:09,159 Yeah that's fine, but I don't care. I'll say I'm not religious. 685 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:16,079 Yeah. Also Basic Becky, she'll get you t shirts, mugs, 686 00:49:16,679 --> 00:49:22,280 mouse pads, anything you want on it. She like remember Lynnette was talking 687 00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,519 about how she loved the poster from Goodfellas, the picture, Yeah, the 688 00:49:25,559 --> 00:49:29,920 guy on the boat. It's like, Ulysses got it for me. You're 689 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:31,440 looking this way, you're looking that way. Oh yeah, and then she 690 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:34,840 put it on a mug. I have it at my condo. Yeah, 691 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,000 thank you very So. She can do anything. She's awesome like that. 692 00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:42,519 Yeah. So go to just basic Becky dot com or go to find her 693 00:49:43,079 --> 00:49:49,320 on Facebook at basic Becky. And then every week every show Adam Learner. 694 00:49:49,519 --> 00:49:53,159 He's a car broker. He's so awesome. Nobody wants to shop for a 695 00:49:53,199 --> 00:49:57,280 car, but he will get you the lowest price you can find. And 696 00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:00,320 there's not a charge if you live in the state Accountlifornia. If you live 697 00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:04,159 other places, there is a fee, but it will he will make up 698 00:50:04,199 --> 00:50:08,920 for it by getting you an incredible deal. Lease, buy used whatever. 699 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:15,639 His number is three one zero nine nine eight seven zero four eight or go 700 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:22,000 to Adams got acar dot com. Awesome. Thanks, thanks everybody. Thanks 701 00:50:22,079 --> 00:50:29,599 Cannons. You're a parrot now. Don't have it up, letting go.