1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:14,679 Made a decision face sunny sound, I had a vision, right, So 2 00:00:15,599 --> 00:00:20,320 what's up everybody? Hey, Hey, what's up? Hey, Hey, 3 00:00:20,359 --> 00:00:24,559 hey, hey hey. Let's say hi to our beautiful Patreon subscribers. And 4 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:28,039 by the way, you too can be judge if they're beautiful. Okay, 5 00:00:28,519 --> 00:00:33,119 that's fine. You can have your name shouted out at the beginning of every 6 00:00:33,119 --> 00:00:38,000 show if you if you sign up on the Patreon twenty five dollars level, 7 00:00:38,359 --> 00:00:43,439 yes, why not? Yeah, business show fun Yeah, fifty dollars is 8 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,719 the business shout up For twenty five dollars, you can hear your name like 9 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:53,240 Jennifer Falls who needs to get on a Get on up? Zarah Stefano, 10 00:00:53,600 --> 00:01:03,560 get on a Leslie? Whyekoff? Alicia? I've changed it to excellent Aaron 11 00:01:04,359 --> 00:01:11,719 who do this? Amy Hunt? Lovely person. Kelly Brand She'll take you 12 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:18,519 to planned parenthood. Rebecca, No, but you don't coot e shabe, 13 00:01:21,159 --> 00:01:26,640 Dad asked. Missy and Gabby are a couple of scoundrels. They're ropscallions, 14 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:32,359 They're up to no good always. Katerina should get that, moll trust trust 15 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:34,799 me on this. Valerie hits out of the park. Polly, we love 16 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,120 your pancakes. At the You know, we love your dancing, Elizabeth Williamson. 17 00:01:38,159 --> 00:01:42,959 We love all of your kids except for one. Hero. Everybody loves 18 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:47,640 you. All of Elizabeth's kids love you, except one. Rita rocks that 19 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:52,280 bassinet. Jacob is so growley, but we love him. Yes, we 20 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:57,040 do, Jacob. Whatever happened with those NonStop fevers you were getting? Did 21 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:01,560 they get cleared up? Inquiring minds as you're so chic Ulyssi's exclamation point, 22 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:08,599 Stephanie Stinker Wrinker and Krista get the strap on? Oh my god? Last 23 00:02:08,719 --> 00:02:15,479 night, okay, embarrass embarrassing. I was doing laundry. I took my 24 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:21,919 lot. I had unpacked since like since my trip to see Bruce and March. 25 00:02:22,199 --> 00:02:27,360 Okay, pretty much right socks time time, yes, time to do 26 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:31,439 some laundry. So I'm down. Okay, made the kids a nice dinner. 27 00:02:31,479 --> 00:02:35,439 We had Sunday dinner, the three of us. I made teryak chicken. 28 00:02:35,479 --> 00:02:38,560 It was really good. Oh yeah, like weight, like a whole 29 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:45,360 chicken. It was the thighs and the and the drumsticks with the bone and 30 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,639 the skin on. Okay, yeah, I just went and got some like 31 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:55,960 a pineapple teryoke sauce was about and yes, yes, girl, and uh 32 00:02:57,199 --> 00:03:00,280 drenched it, baked, it got some cream, spin and some mashed potatoes 33 00:03:00,879 --> 00:03:07,000 at the deli counter. Done nice Sunday meal, had a nice Sunday meal. 34 00:03:07,319 --> 00:03:10,520 Italia is like all stuck up. I'm gonna sit and watch Modern Family 35 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,840 while we eat. And I'm like, all right, so sunny and I 36 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:15,479 said at the table, and she got up and she ate with us. 37 00:03:15,599 --> 00:03:21,360 Anyway. So Sunday night, it's ten o'clock. They're going to bed. 38 00:03:22,159 --> 00:03:23,560 They're good. They go to their room. I going, all right, 39 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:28,960 I'm gonna do some laundry. I go down to the laundry room and I 40 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:30,960 took Phil for a jog. So I was like sweaty, and I was 41 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:35,639 like, I'm gonna wash these pants. I'm gonna take this shirt off. 42 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,800 Oh, I'm gonna take this jacket off. I'll take this bra off. 43 00:03:38,199 --> 00:03:44,639 I just stripped down to my underwear and her pants, and you're undy's yes. 44 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:47,080 Because I'm in the laundry room, I'm thinking your own house, my 45 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:51,759 own damn home. And I'm thinking everybody else is mining their own business like 46 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,520 they should be going to sleep. Yeah, nobody else is doing laundry. 47 00:03:54,719 --> 00:03:59,360 No, Well, who's coming to the laundry room at eleven o'clock on a 48 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,599 Sunday night, right, so, I thought. So then I look. 49 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:08,560 I look up and there's Sonny who's barefoot. So he's walking quietly. Oh 50 00:04:08,639 --> 00:04:11,639 no, it turns the corner and he's like, oh god, oh oh, 51 00:04:13,919 --> 00:04:18,079 I know. It's like, oh sorry, sorry, I get a 52 00:04:18,079 --> 00:04:21,240 towel. I wrapped myself in a towel. Even though I'm standing there with 53 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:24,959 a towel. Now I have a towel wrapped around me. He's standing like 54 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:29,160 he's a blind man. He's looking off to the side and talking. He's 55 00:04:29,199 --> 00:04:32,360 not looking at me, he's just looking to the side and he's talking to 56 00:04:32,399 --> 00:04:35,959 the wall. I go, Sonny, it's okay I and he goes, 57 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:40,040 no, no, it's okay. I'm fine. He's like no, I've 58 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:44,680 been blinded. So and he's like, I go, what do you what 59 00:04:44,759 --> 00:04:46,600 what? And he goes, well, I was just gonna do a load 60 00:04:46,639 --> 00:04:50,160 of laundry because I don't have clothes for tomorrow. I was like, okay, 61 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:53,839 well, and he's like, well, he's now. He's now he's 62 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,600 trying to bargain. He goes, can you take your clothes out? And 63 00:04:56,639 --> 00:05:01,560 I'm like, no, I already started the thing. Your clothes mine is 64 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,839 already full. And he's like, he's he does a quick wash, that's 65 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:10,040 his thing. He's only got like six shirts and like three shorts. And 66 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,879 I'm like, and I said, I can put it in. He goes, 67 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:15,160 well, he goes, can you stop yours and put mine in? 68 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,959 I go, No, the water already came anyway. He's just standing there. 69 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:23,160 I can just leave your clothes anyway. That happened last night. Yeah, 70 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:27,000 it's embarrassing. It's so weird because if you think about it, like 71 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,839 it's just your body. I know, like we were born with these bodies, 72 00:05:30,879 --> 00:05:33,639 but we've had to be like our culture is so like, oh my 73 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:38,519 god, God forbid somebody should see without clothes on right, Like, which 74 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:43,759 is I mean, what are clothes really? And I'm standing there. I 75 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:46,959 know, I was just trying to make you feel better, taking a deeper 76 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:51,319 philosophical look at it, like what are boobs exactly? You know, I 77 00:05:51,399 --> 00:05:59,199 breastfed you cared tits. I make it really sexual? Yeah, what are 78 00:05:59,319 --> 00:06:04,680 bodacious hotas? Anyway? Really they're just milk giving And aren't you the vessels 79 00:06:08,399 --> 00:06:14,279 exactly? Maybe he doesn't know because he listens to the porn. He's like, 80 00:06:14,319 --> 00:06:17,600 oh god, now I got a visual to no. Oh now, 81 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:25,639 my ears. Now I'm deaf as standing there like a blind guy having a 82 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,600 conversation. Well, can you put my clothes in the dry or you're like 83 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,519 can you leave? Please? Know you're like trapped there. I think I 84 00:06:32,639 --> 00:06:35,199 knew how to towel, but if you were just still naked, and he 85 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:41,639 was like just looking to the side and you're like, I'm trapped, You're 86 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:46,879 like stuck in a mine chop. Basically you're like, sunny please just shining 87 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:53,120 his phone lighting here, You're like, oh my god, stop. I 88 00:06:53,319 --> 00:06:55,800 know. I was like, just leave your clothes. I'll take care of 89 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,639 it. I'll put it in the thing after I'm He's like, okay, 90 00:06:58,639 --> 00:07:00,879 but I need it for tomorrow. I need to be dry. I'm like, 91 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:02,160 don't worry, I got you. I got it. So then you 92 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,680 had to stay up to like I did, stay up like twelve thirty to 93 00:07:05,759 --> 00:07:09,759 make sure he put in a little bit my timer like a good mom, 94 00:07:10,079 --> 00:07:13,759 put in his clothes. He had his clothes. Everything worked out just fine, 95 00:07:13,839 --> 00:07:17,079 and he can see just fine. Oh my god. That story was 96 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:21,879 good on multiple levels because just the yes, the nude today, part but 97 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:27,040 being caught nude, but also just like I feel less alone that I will 98 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:32,399 stay up until midnight washing people's clothes because I'm also Oh, yesterday Xander packed 99 00:07:32,399 --> 00:07:36,040 his own lunch and he was like, mom, I packed myself lunch for 100 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:40,600 tomorrow. And I was like, DoD is fucking genius. And now if 101 00:07:40,639 --> 00:07:43,519 you could just get Sadie to do it, I'd be a business because like, 102 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,240 with one kid packing their lunch doesn't actually save you that much time, 103 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:50,839 right right, Like I'm proud of him, proud of you, Like yeah, 104 00:07:50,879 --> 00:07:53,879 and I know people are saying, well, you could just make the 105 00:07:53,959 --> 00:07:57,319 kids pack their own lunch. I could, but I won't. Well, 106 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:01,360 I don't feel bad Stephanie because I made her lunch. I make her lunch. 107 00:08:01,399 --> 00:08:05,040 She comes home for lunch now, so I make her her lunch. 108 00:08:05,279 --> 00:08:09,399 Oh yeah, so that it's ready for her. Yeah, she walks home 109 00:08:09,439 --> 00:08:11,560 for lunch. Now, she her and her friend drive home. They come 110 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:16,319 home for lunch. Oh my gosh, they eat lunch. They only have 111 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:20,879 like twenty minutes and then they're out right, but at least they come home. 112 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:26,800 They eat lunch. It's fine, but so better than door dashing. 113 00:08:26,879 --> 00:08:31,600 It yeah, yeah to school. Yes, LB door Dash's stuff all the 114 00:08:31,639 --> 00:08:35,279 time. I'm just like with her own money, thank god. Yeah, 115 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:41,720 because like that seems crazy, it adds up. Yeah. No, is 116 00:08:41,759 --> 00:08:45,919 there a difference between door dash and like uber eats now all the same thing? 117 00:08:46,279 --> 00:08:48,840 Okay, all right, just different companies. Yeah, is one cheaper 118 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:54,360 than the other? I think I don't know. I guess there's one. 119 00:08:54,399 --> 00:08:58,080 If you have like a door dash pass or something, you get a discount 120 00:08:58,799 --> 00:09:01,600 or if it depends. I guess whoever you're with. I'm just old school, 121 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,960 Like if I want a bagel, I'll just get in the car and 122 00:09:05,039 --> 00:09:07,360 drive four blocks to the bagel place and order a bagel. A'll be's like 123 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:11,720 why would you do that? It's like when you could just put it on 124 00:09:11,799 --> 00:09:15,960 your phone and somebody just brings a bagel to your door. I'm like, 125 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,679 I guess you're right. I guess I'm just stupid. Well, I mean 126 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:22,320 it's extra, No, That's what I'm saying. I guess in her mind, 127 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:26,399 well, what is she spending her money on? Besides, like she 128 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,879 can spend her money. She in her mind, she's like, buy work 129 00:09:28,919 --> 00:09:33,080 hard for my money. I want to use it to like have a Bagel 130 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,720 come to my door, and I'm like, well, I work hard for 131 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:39,080 my money too, but I'm gonna use it to like buy groceries for our 132 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:43,480 house, buy you clothes and things you need, right send you to freaking 133 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:52,240 college. Yes, So a little update, although people are listening to this 134 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:56,440 on Friday, so I don't know what the date is on Friday. Monday's 135 00:09:56,440 --> 00:10:01,440 a twenty four, So we're getting close to the deadline for kids to have 136 00:10:01,519 --> 00:10:07,240 to determine what if they're committing to college. Deadline May first. Oh gosh, 137 00:10:07,399 --> 00:10:11,080 everyone has to have chosen a college by then. Right. Yeah, 138 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:15,480 So, as you all know, Elby is between like community college and you 139 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:20,840 see Santa Cruz. So right now, as we speak, this is today's 140 00:10:20,879 --> 00:10:24,320 Monday. It's Monday evening. Elbi is in Santa Cruz. She got to 141 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:28,440 Santa Cruz. They drove all day, she and John went and tomorrow morning 142 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:33,960 she'll be doing a tour and hopefully liking it. Oh, I hope she 143 00:10:35,039 --> 00:10:41,360 likes it. So here's a positive thing. And I hate I know you're 144 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:43,840 going to understand. I hate to talk about Elbi because you know, she's 145 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:48,200 a private person and she has her life and her friends. Sometimes listen to 146 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:52,559 this podcast. But what I can tell you is that this is a tough 147 00:10:52,639 --> 00:10:54,480 time in a lot, like not just for Elbi, but I think for 148 00:10:54,519 --> 00:10:58,679 a lot of kids, and a lot of kids are disappointed by what schools 149 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:03,240 they got into. A lot of kids, most I would say a high 150 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:07,840 percentage of kids, especially this year, because it's just was very competitive this 151 00:11:07,919 --> 00:11:11,679 year, are probably not going to their first choice. And I would say 152 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:16,159 probably a lot of kids can't even afford to go to their first choice. 153 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:20,600 You know, college has gotten hella expensive going to you want to go to 154 00:11:20,639 --> 00:11:26,279 an out of state college, it's really pricey, and you know they a 155 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:30,600 lot of them don't give money much money. So anyway, I've already talked 156 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,159 about that before. So as you know, she was down to Santa Cruz, 157 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:37,440 which she was not that excited about. But she does have her BF 158 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:43,720 from camp from like Sleepaway Camp. This girl that she went to that she 159 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:46,919 was a camp counselor with last year and they were co counselors and they roomed 160 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:52,159 together at camp, and she's known her for years and years because they've always 161 00:11:52,159 --> 00:11:56,240 gone to camp together since she was like eleven. Is also probably going to 162 00:11:56,320 --> 00:12:01,759 go to Santa Cruz. So she was. And it's it helped because that 163 00:12:01,799 --> 00:12:07,799 girl went and saw the school a couple of weeks ago. And then Elbie, 164 00:12:07,799 --> 00:12:11,320 who was just really down about it, even though this she was like, 165 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:16,000 well, you know, it's just so nature e and I don't like 166 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:18,759 trees and all that. I told you that already. But she was like 167 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:22,840 in this girl, let's call her Susie. She's like, and Susie likes 168 00:12:22,919 --> 00:12:26,919 nature anyway, so like she loves that shit, you know, and I 169 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:31,240 don't. So it's like she's happy about that. But it turns out I 170 00:12:31,279 --> 00:12:33,799 found this out this morning. She was like, oh, well, this 171 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:37,759 is kind of good news. She goes, Actually, Susie told me that 172 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:41,960 the camp isn't quite as earthy crunchy. It's it's there is a lot of 173 00:12:41,039 --> 00:12:46,080 nature there. But she said apparently Susie says that she's not that into nature 174 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:48,679 either. She just she likes camp, but she does not want to go 175 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:52,879 to college at summer camp, right, like she was also wanting like a 176 00:12:52,919 --> 00:12:58,000 real school. But she said that Susie liked it and said that she was 177 00:12:58,039 --> 00:13:03,039 impressed, and she thought Elbie like it good, a little more open to 178 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:05,159 it, and that she was like, and they talked about like, hey, 179 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:09,039 if we room together, we already know we get along because we lived 180 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,720 together all summer, right, so that's perfect. I was like, oh, 181 00:13:11,919 --> 00:13:15,799 that would be great, that's usome. And I said, so are 182 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:20,879 you are you thinking no uncommunity? Are you? Are you leaning more towards 183 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:24,200 And she's like, well, I really do think I want to go away 184 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:30,840 to college, like I want the college experience. And although I've gotten more 185 00:13:30,879 --> 00:13:35,720 and more excited about the prospect of her going to community college, I'm like, 186 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:39,960 oh, like, get to live at home. Here's the thing that 187 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:41,679 goes on in my head. I know I've talked this to death, but 188 00:13:43,159 --> 00:13:46,360 forgive me, because this is what I'm going through right now. I go 189 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:48,360 back and forth in my brain. I'm like, there's a lot to be 190 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:54,720 said about community college, as I mean, great people like myself have dropped 191 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:58,720 out of community college. Yours truly? You? Yeah, there's a lot 192 00:13:58,799 --> 00:14:03,039 of great people have dropped out of community college or gone to community college. 193 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:07,159 Right, do people have finished community college? Jusand she went to community college 194 00:14:07,159 --> 00:14:11,559 and then went to season Oh she did. Okay, Yeah, So I 195 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:16,919 mean, listen, it's a viable option and it's free, which is like, 196 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:20,879 oh my god, holy shit, I could not pay for college for 197 00:14:20,919 --> 00:14:26,840 two years, and you could go and experience all different types of classes and 198 00:14:26,919 --> 00:14:28,960 really get to know like who you are and what you want to do, 199 00:14:30,679 --> 00:14:33,720 and then in two years you could go to a college that you're actually excited 200 00:14:33,759 --> 00:14:37,480 about and that you know what you want a major in for sure, and 201 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:41,600 you're guaranteed admission because you'll do this special program. All sounds good to me, 202 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:46,720 not so much to her, right, you know, yeah, because 203 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:52,039 she's not me, like she's she's a kid who's grown up around a lot 204 00:14:52,039 --> 00:14:56,639 of other kids who have been very focused on going away to college. I 205 00:14:56,679 --> 00:15:01,840 think it's too big a shift in her brain to go from I'm going to 206 00:15:01,039 --> 00:15:07,679 college, whatever that experience is away from home, to oh, I'm going 207 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:11,840 to continue to live at home, work at my same job, right, 208 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:18,399 and take classes while all of my friends are having this like great experience and 209 00:15:18,519 --> 00:15:22,399 I watched social media and they're all partying. Right, right, let's take 210 00:15:22,399 --> 00:15:28,759 a quick break, okay, and we're back. Yeah. So I think 211 00:15:30,279 --> 00:15:33,679 I think she's gonna go. Yeah, I think she'll end up going to 212 00:15:33,919 --> 00:15:37,120 UC Santa Cruz. I think she will. I mean, unless it sucks, 213 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:41,080 which everybody said, it's a nice school, I mean, and she 214 00:15:41,159 --> 00:15:48,519 hasn't toured it yet at all. Nothing. Okay, so I will say 215 00:15:48,519 --> 00:15:52,639 this about her. She went she did a virtual tour, you know, 216 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:56,360 so she did it online and she was like, yeah, it sucks. 217 00:15:56,840 --> 00:16:00,960 She saw the trees. Yeah, I told tree. I told you when 218 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,879 she got it. When she when it came down to like that was one 219 00:16:03,919 --> 00:16:08,879 of her main things. She was like, I hate trees. It's like, 220 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:12,799 you can't hate trees. I mean, you don't have to be like 221 00:16:12,879 --> 00:16:17,759 a tree hugger, but you don't know what. He hates trees, Like 222 00:16:17,799 --> 00:16:22,960 what do you? I only like fields. Elbie, come on, open 223 00:16:22,039 --> 00:16:26,559 her mind a little bit. She's like, it's all trees, like in 224 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:30,159 the middle of the freaking redwood forest. Like it's it's not it's not like 225 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:33,879 the classrooms are in a treehouse, right, Like there are buildings right. 226 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:38,279 So she is there right now with John. So they drove they left today 227 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:42,080 at eleven thirty. Yeah, and they're there. I showed but right before 228 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:45,919 you got here, I was showing Kaylin. So I'm showing Kaylin a map 229 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:49,360 where they are and they're like right by Santa Cruz and I'm like, look, 230 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:52,919 look where Elbie is and he's like, uh, San Francisco. I'm 231 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:56,639 like, no, look what have we been talking about? And he's like, 232 00:16:56,840 --> 00:17:00,200 uh, Golida or whatever. I'm like, no, Kaitlin, look, 233 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:03,399 I had to show him. And he's like, oh, Santa Cruz. 234 00:17:03,559 --> 00:17:04,759 You mean right there in the middle of all the trees. Yeah, 235 00:17:04,759 --> 00:17:11,839 you had all of northern California up there. So yeah, they're in Santa 236 00:17:11,839 --> 00:17:15,000 Cruz. How long is the drive? It's like five hours, jeez, 237 00:17:15,079 --> 00:17:19,519 Luise. Yeah, but it's you could fly, she could you could fly 238 00:17:19,599 --> 00:17:23,039 to San Jose and then it's I think, like a forty five minute drive. 239 00:17:23,559 --> 00:17:27,039 Oh that's nice. Yeah, so that's not bad. Yeah, you're 240 00:17:27,079 --> 00:17:30,960 gonna be up there all the time, aren't you. You know it? 241 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:34,440 Hell yeah, like Vicky gun Wilson going to visit her son at college. 242 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,920 But I think, I mean, to me, that's a lot more reasonable. 243 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:42,759 That's like okay flying Like it's like flying from LA to San Francisco, 244 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:48,039 right, it's like a a quick flight. It's like out probably like an 245 00:17:48,039 --> 00:17:49,960 hour flight. It's like a forty five minute flight. Yeah, forty five 246 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:55,359 minute flight. It's like it's better than if she was even if I was 247 00:17:55,519 --> 00:17:57,200 rich and could send her to University of Oregon, where she wants to go. 248 00:17:57,839 --> 00:18:02,759 I mean, I'll the flights back and forth, and you can't. 249 00:18:02,799 --> 00:18:06,279 I mean to drive there. That's like that's too much. It's like driving 250 00:18:06,319 --> 00:18:08,759 cross country to me. Yea like too far. But I think this is 251 00:18:08,799 --> 00:18:14,000 reasonable. She we could drive up there sometimes and sometimes we could fly. 252 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:17,160 Yeah, it's perfect. Yeah, fly her home, she could. How 253 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:22,440 do you think the twins are gonna feel with her gone? I think they'll 254 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:26,599 miss her. Yeah, yeah, I think they'll be sad. Yeah, 255 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:33,240 they're attached to her. Yeah, they'll probably get more attention, right, 256 00:18:33,319 --> 00:18:37,759 Yeah, it's gonna be weird. I'm gonna miss her so much. If 257 00:18:37,759 --> 00:18:41,720 she I was already like when she said I think I want to go to 258 00:18:41,759 --> 00:18:45,440 college, I got this like feeling in my chest, like a little you 259 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:48,720 know, But I couldn't. I kept my faith, you know, because 260 00:18:48,759 --> 00:18:52,880 I was getting I was getting a little bit excited at the idea of like 261 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:56,240 her living at home. But truth be told, because it is it's still 262 00:18:56,279 --> 00:19:00,880 expensive. Even though it's a state school. You sees our expensive, it's 263 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,880 not. It should ain't cheap, and you got to pay for the housing 264 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:07,440 all of that stuff. It's gonna be like forty thousand dollars a year, 265 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:11,400 which is not nothing, right, And then are you going to go up 266 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,599 there and help or like decorate a room and do all that stuff? I 267 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:18,759 guess you whatever parents do. Yeah, cat, do you know what to 268 00:19:18,839 --> 00:19:22,400 do? I don't know. I'll figure it out. Yeah, but I 269 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:26,000 but the thing is, as I said to Elby, I was like, 270 00:19:26,039 --> 00:19:30,640 you know, as much as you know, you know, I think community 271 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:36,240 college is a very very reasonable, could be a great option. But if 272 00:19:36,279 --> 00:19:37,480 that's not what you want to do, I was like, you know, 273 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:42,480 you've always been the kid who's like you're ready, like you're ready for things. 274 00:19:42,759 --> 00:19:47,400 Like I retold her the story I said, when you were you know, 275 00:19:47,599 --> 00:19:51,079 two years and ten months is when she started preschool. I said, 276 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:55,599 you never had a day of like um attachment, Like what do you call 277 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:59,200 it when they're when they don't want to you to leave them? You call 278 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,200 that separate anxiety? Yeah, I said, you never had a day of 279 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:06,039 it. I brought you in there. They had all these toys and you 280 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,279 I remember what she was wearing, like, I remember she was wearing this 281 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:14,920 little like cammy camasol type of she was a little chunky, and she had 282 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:19,119 these little like green sweatshirts shorts on, and this little cute camasol and she 283 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:23,640 with their little curls. Whole chubby. She was like a little fat baby. 284 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,839 So even when she was like, you know, two and almost three, 285 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:32,160 she had to wear those little suspenders that hooked their hands to their t 286 00:20:32,319 --> 00:20:37,799 shirt or a Crackwood show. Yeah. I remember bringing her to the preschool 287 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:41,920 and she walked into the room. It was what they had this first day 288 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,559 of preschool thing where the kids went in first, went into it with the 289 00:20:45,599 --> 00:20:48,960 teacher, and then the parents all had to go into like this office area 290 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:52,799 and like eat a muffin and cry, and a lot of the kids were 291 00:20:52,799 --> 00:20:56,480 like one of their moms still not Elbie. Elbie was like, they had 292 00:20:56,519 --> 00:21:03,720 one of these Fisher Price toys. It was like a plastic toy where the 293 00:21:03,799 --> 00:21:07,720 car it's like a like a plate parking garage and there's like a little elevator 294 00:21:07,759 --> 00:21:11,400 for the car to go up and down. And Elbie was like, holy 295 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:15,119 shit, this is the coolest toy I've ever seen. You know. She 296 00:21:15,319 --> 00:21:17,839 was like, oh my god, I love that toy. Went right over 297 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:19,440 that toy. I was like, okay, bye, Elbie, I'm gonna 298 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:25,119 be in the other room. By I'm not gonna be here. She was 299 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:33,200 like audio the way out. So I left, and then when I went 300 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:36,079 back in, she did not want to leave. The other kids were like 301 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,759 grabbing their moms and dads and like, you know, we were kidding their 302 00:21:38,799 --> 00:21:48,599 moms. Yeah, park And I was like, Elbie, it's time to 303 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:53,200 tell and she's like no, and I'm like, yeah, we're not. 304 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,200 This is right, And she was like, are we gonna come back? 305 00:21:56,319 --> 00:22:00,359 And I was like yes. And then every day she'd be like, there 306 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:04,400 school today in a good way though, ye like not like unlike Sadie who's 307 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:10,039 now like, oh there every day she's hated school. Albie every day was 308 00:22:10,079 --> 00:22:12,960 just like is there school today? Yeah? Because so right away I had 309 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,079 to sign her up for five days a week. She was like, couldn't 310 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:18,799 get enough of it. Then I think I've told you the story. Then 311 00:22:18,839 --> 00:22:22,880 she wanted to sleep there. I was like I signed her up just for 312 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,400 the morning into like, yeah, one you could, and then they all 313 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:30,319 the kids napped at once, so I would pick her up at one and 314 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:33,920 she was like, why don't I get to stay and sleep and I was 315 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,759 like, it's kind of genius, Like, if that's what you want to 316 00:22:36,799 --> 00:22:38,799 do, yeah, Because I was writing a book at that time. So 317 00:22:38,839 --> 00:22:41,960 I was like, Okay, well, I guess I'll just pay. But 318 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:45,519 if you paid for the nap, you basically had to pay for a full 319 00:22:45,599 --> 00:22:51,480 day, right, So I ditched the babysitter and I paid for a full 320 00:22:51,599 --> 00:22:56,119 days of nursery school, preschool and then but then I would pick her up 321 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,880 by like you could stay till six, But I was like that felt like 322 00:23:00,079 --> 00:23:02,359 child abuse to me. I know. I was like, I gotta pick 323 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,720 her up. So I would come at like three, right after the nap, 324 00:23:06,039 --> 00:23:08,240 but she would be like, oh hell though, she'd be we're just 325 00:23:08,319 --> 00:23:15,039 having our after xs that like are you high? Go away? It's so 326 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:18,720 funny. I mean she was not even three and she's like, mom, 327 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:23,480 stop Like so I'd be like okay. So I would start coming later and 328 00:23:23,559 --> 00:23:26,680 later, and then i'd be like coming at four and she'd be like, 329 00:23:26,759 --> 00:23:30,839 oh my god, it's tricycle time. Are you kidding me? Like, 330 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:34,079 Mom, I'm going through the sand, I'm looking for gems and he just 331 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:40,559 started this activity. So pretty soon I would I wouldn't come at six I 332 00:23:40,599 --> 00:23:42,319 was like, I gotta draw the line four thirty. That's as long as 333 00:23:42,319 --> 00:23:45,440 you're staying. And then I'd be like, no, we have to go. 334 00:23:45,599 --> 00:23:48,200 She would cry, not wanting to leave, and then I'd have to 335 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,240 be like, I'll take you to McDonald's. And then the teachers would be 336 00:23:51,279 --> 00:23:55,480 like what like, looking at me. I'm like, I'm sorry, it's 337 00:23:55,519 --> 00:24:00,119 the happy meal. Yeah, wow, the briber to leave, she's any. 338 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:03,000 I told her that I reminded her of that story of how she was 339 00:24:03,039 --> 00:24:06,839 like always when she's ready for the next thing. Yeah, Like how she 340 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,920 went to a small elementary school and a small middle school and she said, 341 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:12,920 I want to go to a big high school. And when she started at 342 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,759 her big high school, she was like all about it. Yeah. She 343 00:24:15,799 --> 00:24:21,119 went from a very small school to a huge school and never never looked back. 344 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,799 I loved it. And that's what she's gonna do with Santa Cruz. 345 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,039 If she decides she if she wants to go away to college, then she's 346 00:24:26,039 --> 00:24:30,799 gonna have to make Santa Cruz work and she's gonna have to like go in 347 00:24:30,839 --> 00:24:33,720 there hoping to like it. She's probably gonna like it. She's probably gonna 348 00:24:33,759 --> 00:24:41,480 like it. We'll see I'm excited. That's exciting. Wow, I know 349 00:24:41,559 --> 00:24:45,279 I believe I'm going to go through that first. I know, I know 350 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,200 I'm only a year and a half ahead of you. I know. I 351 00:24:48,559 --> 00:24:52,160 don't want to think about it. It's not crazy. Yeah. Yeah, 352 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,880 it felt like a long time when our kids were little, Like when my 353 00:24:56,039 --> 00:25:00,319 kids were you know, two and a half and years were five. That 354 00:25:00,519 --> 00:25:03,319 distance was just like, oh my god, how when are my kids gonna 355 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:07,799 be? No? Four? Your kids were so my twins were like three 356 00:25:07,799 --> 00:25:11,000 and a half maybe and your kids were five, right, and it felt 357 00:25:11,039 --> 00:25:14,759 like nightmare ever. Yeah, like it was like, oh, my kids 358 00:25:14,759 --> 00:25:18,359 will never be like yours. Yeah, my twins. Yeah, and you're 359 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:22,480 like they'll get there. Yeah, it's gonna get that's right, that's right. 360 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,799 Yeah. Now we got a lot of our listeners in the mail room. 361 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:30,079 I know. Now he got Klin. What else do you have going 362 00:25:30,079 --> 00:25:33,119 on? What's happening with your kidlets? My kids are fine, except for 363 00:25:33,599 --> 00:25:38,440 you know, walking in on me undressing, right, ITALI is good. 364 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:45,480 They're going to stagecoach this weekend. What Yeah, their dad's taking them. 365 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:51,640 Oh really yeah, because he's going to Yeah I guess. So he took 366 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:55,079 her to see I don't know, who's some country guy that was on Kimmel 367 00:25:55,160 --> 00:26:00,319 the other night. He took her and he's playing there, mum. So 368 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,119 yeah, they're going. They're gonna be gone this weekend, just gonna be 369 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:11,319 me and fell Yeah wow yes, so uh yeah. So they're driving up 370 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:17,200 there. Sonny's not really like he got invited along, So he's Italia's going 371 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:21,279 with like four of her girlfriends. Sonny's bringing one friend. He's taking all 372 00:26:21,319 --> 00:26:23,440 of those. They all bought their own tickets. Oh okay, yeah, 373 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,079 they all got their own tickets. Are they all staying together. They're all 374 00:26:26,079 --> 00:26:30,279 staying together with Yeah, they got a house. Oh they got a house 375 00:26:30,279 --> 00:26:36,079 and Adams staying at the house too. Yeah okay. And Sonny was invited 376 00:26:36,319 --> 00:26:40,559 and so he's bringing a friend and he was like, I don't I'm not 377 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,279 interested in any of the music. Natalia loves that music. She likes country 378 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:48,839 music, but Sonny not so much. But he's like, I'm not gonna 379 00:26:48,839 --> 00:26:52,519 pass up a weekend, you know, go on a trip. So him 380 00:26:52,519 --> 00:26:56,119 and his friend, they're driving up together. Sonny's friends driving. Oh, 381 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,920 they're driving. Where is it. It's it's the same place as right, 382 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:04,640 don't they just turn it into stage Yeah Indio or India Indio. Oh, 383 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,759 that's not that far. It's like Palm Springs area. Yeah, hello, 384 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:11,079 outside of Palm Springs. Yeah, I don't know how long that drive is. 385 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:15,240 Why didn't I think it was in Texas? Oh? No, no, 386 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,559 where have I been? Yeah? Where have you been? All these 387 00:27:17,559 --> 00:27:21,119 Bachelor contestants are always going to stage coach. Oh, really cooking up with 388 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:27,319 each other pre Bachelor in Paradise. But is stagecoach travel around the country. 389 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,559 I don't know. No, I think I think it's in California. I 390 00:27:30,559 --> 00:27:33,519 think I just had some I don't know. Yeah, I was just wrong. 391 00:27:33,759 --> 00:27:40,839 Yeah. So they're driving Sonny's friends driving in Italian and her best friend 392 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,039 and then a couple of our other friends are driving up. So yeah, 393 00:27:42,079 --> 00:27:45,279 anyway, they're gonna be gone this weekend. So okay, Yeah, it's 394 00:27:45,319 --> 00:27:51,759 just gonna be me in phil It's weird when they're and pretty soon wait till 395 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:56,359 your kids get old enough to go to do a weekend by themselves. Yeah, 396 00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:00,000 that's gonna be weird. Yeah, it's the creasy just thinking like all 397 00:28:00,079 --> 00:28:03,680 of a sudden, they're just old, I know, and all of a 398 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:07,640 sudden, like Elbody's just making like she's just over eighteen. She can old 399 00:28:07,759 --> 00:28:11,960 enough to rented Airbnb on her own, with her own with her credit card, 400 00:28:12,519 --> 00:28:15,279 like putting it on her card. All her friends are the ones that 401 00:28:15,319 --> 00:28:19,720 are still seventeen chipping in. They're all going away for the weekend. Now, 402 00:28:19,759 --> 00:28:23,000 it's odd when parents aren't cool with it. Like it's always like the 403 00:28:23,039 --> 00:28:26,519 one parent who's like, no, I'm not cool with it, and they're 404 00:28:26,559 --> 00:28:30,400 all like okay, they're like they all think they're adults. Yeah, they 405 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,440 literally. Elbody's gone away twice now by herself. She went to Big Bear 406 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:38,039 with her friends, remember that, And then she went to Palm Springs with 407 00:28:38,079 --> 00:28:44,160 a whole group. They got a big house and it's like they're like grocery 408 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,839 shopping, Like I'm like, weird, I don't know, I don't I 409 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:52,279 don't like that. No adult, Like no, nobody's gonna be around. 410 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:56,319 Nope, I don't like that. Not looking forward to that. You know, 411 00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:02,480 it's not bad though, yeah, once it is weird when it first 412 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,640 happens and you're like, oh my god, I don't know what to do, 413 00:29:06,119 --> 00:29:11,079 Like you feel a little bit like I don't know how to navigate this 414 00:29:11,279 --> 00:29:14,319 I'm not sure if what I'm doing. It's like you see yourself from above 415 00:29:14,359 --> 00:29:18,119 and go, am I handling this correctly? Like should I be allowing this? 416 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:22,200 And then you quickly go back and forth with like how was I parented? 417 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:26,039 But how did that turn out? Right? Like maybe how should I 418 00:29:26,039 --> 00:29:27,640 have been parented? But then how would that have turned out? But then 419 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,279 like who's my kid? Are they responsible? Like exactly? You know? 420 00:29:32,359 --> 00:29:34,519 And then you weigh all of those things in a matter of like a minute, 421 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:38,640 you know, and then you go all right, yeah, like you 422 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:45,319 know, it's it's like, now she's got her boyfriend and then her best 423 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,160 friend's boyfriend. That's the four of them are a foursome, right, and 424 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:53,359 then the one other boy's parents, who I've known for a long time since 425 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:59,960 second grade, right invited them for a weekend. And I'm like, okay, 426 00:30:00,119 --> 00:30:02,720 but the parents are going to be there for the weekend. But it's 427 00:30:02,759 --> 00:30:07,640 still weird that she's going. But but they the boys slept in the guesthouse 428 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:12,519 and from what I was told, and the mom set the alarm for the 429 00:30:12,559 --> 00:30:17,559 house at night to make sure. And I love her these parents, so 430 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:21,440 I trust, I trust the parents. But still that's that's weird too, 431 00:30:21,559 --> 00:30:27,079 like my daughter going up with her boyfriend for like I don't know. See, 432 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:34,839 here's what it comes down to once they're and I mean Elbie was behind 433 00:30:36,039 --> 00:30:41,319 in this scenario because you know, she didn't even she didn't have a boyfriend 434 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:45,400 until this year. So this is she didn't have a boyfriend when she was 435 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,279 sixteen. So I don't know how I would have handled that, you know. 436 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,839 But now she has a pretty serious boyfriend, Like they've been together like 437 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:56,279 six months, so they're doing what they're doing, Like it's kind of none 438 00:30:56,319 --> 00:31:00,400 of my business at this point. And I mean, you know what I'm 439 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:06,359 saying. And it's like, so I know what's happening, So like as 440 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:10,119 long as she's and when I say being safe, I don't even mean like 441 00:31:10,359 --> 00:31:12,720 birth control, but I mean as long as she's she understands how to take. 442 00:31:12,839 --> 00:31:17,720 You know, she's a responsible kid. So it's like I want to 443 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,960 make sure that my kids would know what to do, like if one of 444 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:26,000 their friends over drank or if but they do, Like she's been in enough. 445 00:31:26,079 --> 00:31:30,160 I feel like at this age, my daughter's been in enough situations that 446 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,519 I think she is can handle herself, right, you know, And I 447 00:31:33,559 --> 00:31:37,880 think your kids earn that, like they go through enough stuff, they make 448 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:41,880 enough correct decisions and we and then you just go, oh shit, like 449 00:31:42,079 --> 00:31:48,359 this is right, shit just got real right, Like my kid is they're 450 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:52,440 getting off with her friends a couple of hours away. There are no parents 451 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,240 there. But then you go, but what when are we what would a 452 00:31:55,279 --> 00:31:59,720 parent stop them from? Like Elbody's like over eighteen, I know, like 453 00:31:59,759 --> 00:32:02,079 she literally almost eighteen and a half, Like she'll be nineteen this year. 454 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:07,599 Yeah yeah, yeah, but it's it's weird because it does come up on 455 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,200 you fast, and these things like that we thought were kind of unthinkable. 456 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:16,519 I remember her being at a party ninth grade, you know, fourteen at 457 00:32:16,519 --> 00:32:21,240 her friend's house, and all these kids had alcohol. I told the story 458 00:32:21,279 --> 00:32:24,200 of the Patriot, and I was scandalized. I was horrid. I was 459 00:32:24,279 --> 00:32:30,319 like, what kind of parent would allow kids to be bringing alcohol into their 460 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:35,799 house? It's like and Elbe was like, I'm so uncomfortable. Remember she 461 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:37,599 was like I need to be picked up. This is horrible, Like these 462 00:32:37,599 --> 00:32:43,519 people are drunk, right, you know, but like yeah, yeah right, 463 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,559 like get like oh yes yeah, and then you can't help. But 464 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:52,839 compare it to like I always I think everything with my kids is better than 465 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:57,599 when I was their age. So I don't know what. I don't know 466 00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:00,359 if that's like you can't compare. I know, I know, but you 467 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:05,480 can't compare. But I can. I can say like my kids are a 468 00:33:05,599 --> 00:33:08,279 hundred times safer like my kids are not. I know for a fact, 469 00:33:08,319 --> 00:33:13,599 Sadie and Xander aren't drinking every weekend. Yeah. I was drunk every weekend 470 00:33:13,599 --> 00:33:16,599 at fifteen and a half. Yeah, it's totally drinking of fourteen. Yeah, 471 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:21,119 I was constant. I was throwing up every weekend drinking too much. 472 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,640 Yeah. They're not even going to the rarely go anywhere, right right, 473 00:33:24,559 --> 00:33:30,920 Yeah, So it's it is interesting sunnies with his friends. They they do 474 00:33:30,039 --> 00:33:34,279 that. They drive around, there's like nothing for them to do. They 475 00:33:34,279 --> 00:33:37,240 saved a dog the other night, really, yeah, what happened. They 476 00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:44,039 went they were going golfing and they were going down this long, windy road. 477 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,319 It was like seven o'clock at night. There was a dog, like 478 00:33:46,359 --> 00:33:50,079 a German shepherd, on the side of the road, just laying there, 479 00:33:50,599 --> 00:33:54,960 and they pulled over and it was clearly injured and they didn't know what to 480 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:59,119 do, so they called nine one one nine one one they said to call 481 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,319 the Humane Society. The Humane Society, they stayed with the dog. Eventually 482 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:07,480 the owner of the dog came driving up and his girlfriend took the dog for 483 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:12,039 a walk. She couldn't control the dog because he took off, and so 484 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:14,920 she let go of the leash and he ran and he got hit by a 485 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,559 car and hurt his back. He broke his back, I think, and 486 00:34:17,639 --> 00:34:21,760 they had to like load him into the to the back of the car. 487 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:27,679 They helped him and they wished him luck. Yeah, I know, so 488 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,679 sad, but but yeah, and then they go they go golfing, and 489 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:34,159 then it's like, so, what'd you do Saturday night? Whoa, We 490 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:37,719 just drove around listening to music, you know. And I love his friend 491 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,320 that drives. He's a good he's a good kid. He's been driving for 492 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:44,960 a long time. He's a safe driver. But you know, but yeah, 493 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,239 I mean they got good heads on their shoulder. You know. Natalia's 494 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:53,519 like she's matured so much in the last six months. She's getting great grades. 495 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:59,880 She doesn't miss school, she's never late, she's always early. She's 496 00:35:00,039 --> 00:35:05,000 and she's kicking ass like she's and she's working out like every day, Like 497 00:35:05,039 --> 00:35:07,599 I went with to Barry's boot Camp again with her the other you did yes, 498 00:35:08,039 --> 00:35:13,440 yeah, yeah, yeah, let's let's take a break and then we're 499 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,320 back. So yeah, Berry's boot Camps again. Yeah, because do you 500 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:22,280 have a death wish? I know because I was out with her. We 501 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:25,079 were we were running errands and she was like, I don't know, it 502 00:35:25,119 --> 00:35:28,880 was like a Wednesday, No, it was Thursday night, and she goes, 503 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:32,320 so, so we're on our way home and I was like hungry and 504 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:36,880 looking forward to getting home. And then she goes, oh, h can 505 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,519 you can you drop me off at Berries? Because she's looking at her app 506 00:35:39,519 --> 00:35:43,920 and she's like, I want to take the six twenty class. And I'm 507 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,400 like okay and she and she goes, my friends are gonna meet me there, 508 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:50,440 so they'll drive they'll drive me home, but can you just drop me 509 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:53,360 off at Berries? I'm like okay, And then I pull in and then 510 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:57,280 she's like, oh, they're not coming, and I'm like they're not and 511 00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,760 she's like no, they can't make it, and I go, well, 512 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:05,320 then you're gonna need a ride home? Do you want me to? Do 513 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,159 you want me to? And I was dressed for the class. I could 514 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,199 take the class. You were in yoga pants. I was wearing yoga pants 515 00:36:10,199 --> 00:36:14,039 and a T shirt. And I was like, should I take the class 516 00:36:14,079 --> 00:36:15,840 with you? And she's like, yeah, if you want to. She's 517 00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:17,519 like, you don't have to, and I was like, nah, I 518 00:36:17,599 --> 00:36:22,320 want to. So I took the class. You know. Yeah, it's 519 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:28,800 just it's so like so hard, especially when you're not used to working out 520 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,599 at that intensity. Right, It's just but I go at my old pace 521 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:36,800 like screw that, I'm not going on the incline nine. She does. 522 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:40,360 She listened to everything that the instructor says she does. I can't believe that. 523 00:36:40,639 --> 00:36:45,000 Yeah, she's crazy. But but yeah, did the Berries boot camp. 524 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:49,639 Yeah it was fun. But I think I'm gonna take a pilates class. 525 00:36:49,679 --> 00:36:53,800 I miss I missed working out like I missed that regular I know, 526 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:58,239 I know, I gotta get back into it. And now thought I'm not 527 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:02,159 writing every day, Like I had an excuse for six months to just eat 528 00:37:02,159 --> 00:37:06,079 cookies and sit on my ass because I was writing a book. Yeah, 529 00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:10,119 I'd be like, I'm writing a book. Yeah, Like sorry, can't 530 00:37:10,119 --> 00:37:15,400 work out right now? I'm not. Yeah, So now every day I'm 531 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,599 like, I'm not writing a book right now right, I need to work 532 00:37:17,639 --> 00:37:22,400 out. But so I went. I looked on Club Pillates app in my 533 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,760 neighborhood, and I'm like, okay, I'll take a class. All of 534 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:30,559 them waitlist wait list, wait list, wait list, like real, fuck, 535 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,599 I okay, tomorrow, I'll take a last next day Nope, next 536 00:37:32,639 --> 00:37:36,599 day, nope No. So I so I registered for a class for this 537 00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:42,239 Thursday last week on Thursday because they're all their classes were wait listed. I 538 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,679 don't get it. I guess it's reformers are only like six of them or 539 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:50,559 something in the class. But yeah, I missed Pilllates. I used to 540 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,199 do it really religiously all the time, and I loved it. It's a 541 00:37:54,239 --> 00:38:00,559 good workout. Julie casem Our friend. Julie used to tea like got trained 542 00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:06,000 to teach ladies. Yeah. I remember she was in a class with Dane 543 00:38:06,039 --> 00:38:10,079 Cook's girlfriend. Oh really, are they married now? Yeah? I think 544 00:38:10,079 --> 00:38:14,880 they're just girlfriend, Like, yeah, that's that. She was like super 545 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,039 sweet. They did a whole training things together. I think, I don't 546 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:21,519 I forgot where it was. They had to go away for it. Yeah, 547 00:38:21,559 --> 00:38:23,920 but it was like an intense training thing. She got trained. She 548 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:28,599 had a reformer at her house, and then she stopped doing that, and 549 00:38:28,639 --> 00:38:30,400 then she went back to work, didn't she. Yeah, she went to 550 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,719 work. She's a she works. Yeah, she works at a school. 551 00:38:34,119 --> 00:38:37,519 Oh, she's like a teaching assistant. N she's been doing that for you 552 00:38:37,519 --> 00:38:40,239 a few years now. Yeah, she loves it. That's nice. Yeah. 553 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:44,320 And meanwhile, I got Mike Gerstein coming and do laundry at my house 554 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:50,559 tonight. Oh no, he's Bawn. Yes, he's coming to your condo 555 00:38:50,639 --> 00:38:52,800 or your house, Mike condo. He's like, I'm gonna go to the 556 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,800 laundry, man, I need to do And I was like, you can 557 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,519 come do your laundry at my house. He's like, really, I can't 558 00:38:59,599 --> 00:39:01,119 go. Yeah, but you gotta wait until after I'm done with my podcast. 559 00:39:01,679 --> 00:39:06,440 So, oh, that's so funny. Where's he staying somewhere else? 560 00:39:06,639 --> 00:39:09,960 He's got like an Airbnb for like sixty bucks? Oh right, right, 561 00:39:10,079 --> 00:39:15,960 right right, yeah, like right here, like in Burbank somewhere that's not 562 00:39:15,079 --> 00:39:20,800 sixty maybe it's like seventy five, but it's where somebody's living there, right, 563 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:22,599 Yeah, that's in a room with somebody else. Yeah, we talked 564 00:39:22,639 --> 00:39:25,320 about that. Yeah, did we talk about that off the air though, 565 00:39:25,679 --> 00:39:29,760 no. I think we talked about it on the show about people sharing and 566 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,320 breakfast. Yes, okay, yeah, yeah, yest week. Yeah yeah, 567 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:36,840 that's that's like, yeah, I wouldn't want I wouldn't want to do 568 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:38,519 that. But good for him, Yeah, good for him. Are you 569 00:39:38,559 --> 00:39:43,280 watching? What are you watching? Oh? Well, first of all, 570 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:45,440 Succession is so freaking good. I know you guys didn't watch it, but 571 00:39:45,599 --> 00:39:49,719 last night was really good. But I have a new podcast for you. 572 00:39:50,039 --> 00:39:54,039 Okay, okay, it's really good. And you know I don't often I 573 00:39:54,079 --> 00:39:59,639 haven't lately had podcasts for you. So I'll listen to like a new podcast 574 00:39:59,639 --> 00:40:02,480 and then I get sick of it right away. Yeah. But this is 575 00:40:02,599 --> 00:40:06,199 called hold On. I have to get the exact title for you. It's 576 00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:12,719 called I'm Gonna Go Oh, It's called why Can't We talk about Amanda's Mom? 577 00:40:13,559 --> 00:40:16,639 And it's a on ID. It's like ID Network. It's so it's 578 00:40:16,639 --> 00:40:22,400 a crime thing. Okay, it's really good. It's very well produced. 579 00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:28,159 It's a story. It's like a I normally don't like these kind of unsolved 580 00:40:28,199 --> 00:40:31,039 like they're trying to solve it as they do the podcast, but it's super 581 00:40:31,159 --> 00:40:35,199 interesting. Is it? Is it a TV show too, or is it 582 00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,920 just a podcast? No, it's a podcast, okay, because you know 583 00:40:38,119 --> 00:40:43,280 dateline, dateline, Yes, this is a podcast. What's it about. 584 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:51,960 It's about this woman who was this they found this body, decapitated body, 585 00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:57,840 okay, and she was a sex worker. But and a lot of people 586 00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,400 kind of wrote it off as like it be it went unsolved and got cold 587 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,880 because it was like, well, she's just a you know, people were 588 00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:06,360 like, ash, she's a prostitute, you know, but she has a 589 00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,039 daughter. She had a daughter and like a mom who loved her and you 590 00:41:09,039 --> 00:41:15,000 know. And so this woman takes on this cold case with this other guy 591 00:41:15,039 --> 00:41:20,760 who's like a X cop and they start going down leads and like looking at 592 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,920 different people, and they play a lot of interviews with people, and it's 593 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,199 a lot of like, oh shit, I like this guy for it. 594 00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:29,280 Well wait a minute, I like this guy for it. And there's a 595 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,679 lot of like background stuff, like they talk about a serial killer who had 596 00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:36,079 a similar motivate. You know, I don't love serial killer stuff, but 597 00:41:36,119 --> 00:41:37,920 it was very interesting because it was like, well, could it be this 598 00:41:38,119 --> 00:41:44,519 serial killer who has a very similar m O? But what about this guy 599 00:41:44,639 --> 00:41:49,440 who's like telling some Wies and it's very very good. I've listened to it's 600 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:57,400 so I've there were six episodes. I it might be over for now, 601 00:41:58,119 --> 00:42:01,800 but there there will problem. We'd be more. Okay, did what's her 602 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:06,840 face ever? Gets sentenced? The one that podcast that we listened to? 603 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:13,159 Oh about that lady who fake cancer? Oh yeah remember that one? Remember 604 00:42:13,199 --> 00:42:15,320 them? That podcast? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, no, I was 605 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:22,559 thinking of the one with the blood she wanted to do the testing of the 606 00:42:22,639 --> 00:42:25,199 blood. Oh Elizabeth Holmes. Yeah, yeah, she did get sentenced. 607 00:42:25,199 --> 00:42:29,960 I think. Yeah, she's in jail. She's in prison. She okay, 608 00:42:30,199 --> 00:42:31,400 yeah, and then she was trying to get out because she's saying she 609 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:37,159 wants to a new trial. Yeah she got sentenced. Okay, I'm pretty 610 00:42:37,199 --> 00:42:42,039 sure. Kaylin right years? Yeah yeah, yeah, she had eleven years, 611 00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:47,280 right, yeah? Yeah what he said? Yeah all right? Oh 612 00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:52,360 my gosh. Oh. Also, I played, um poker, you did? 613 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,880 Huh? What'd you do? How sad you do? I lost? 614 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,840 But I was so fun. You didn't have hosted at your house. I 615 00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:04,440 didn't host it at my house. It was at my friend Ross's house, 616 00:43:04,559 --> 00:43:07,079 and um, but it was all the you know, it's just like me 617 00:43:07,119 --> 00:43:10,599 and a bunch of guys. It really is just so fun too. I 618 00:43:10,639 --> 00:43:14,960 just love it. I really want to. I'm so excited to have like 619 00:43:15,039 --> 00:43:17,800 something to do. I did like two things in a row this weekend. 620 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:23,039 Saturday night, I played poker and like till late. Even though I get 621 00:43:23,119 --> 00:43:27,039 up so early that, like by twelve I used to be able to like 622 00:43:27,079 --> 00:43:30,159 stay out really late. By twelve thirty, I was dying. I was 623 00:43:30,199 --> 00:43:31,840 like, oh my god, I can't, like I have to go, 624 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:36,440 I have to lose. I was like, all in right, I gotta 625 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,000 go home. Yeah. And then last night I went to for my friend's 626 00:43:39,079 --> 00:43:43,320 birthday. We went out like a bunch of girls, went out for dinner. 627 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,360 Where you go It's like, I'm crazy. Yeah, this place called 628 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:51,760 white Heart. It was like an English pub. Oh I ate some like 629 00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:55,039 fish and chips and fries. Yeah, I've been there. Yeah, yeah 630 00:43:57,039 --> 00:44:00,119 nice. Yeah you went out last weekend too, both both I think I 631 00:44:00,199 --> 00:44:04,199 did. I did the Give a Mouse a Cookie. And then Sunday we 632 00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,760 went to The Love Is Blind Blind And then, as you know, so 633 00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:15,480 much backlash against you and Nick and Jessica, I mean Nick, and she 634 00:44:15,599 --> 00:44:19,960 apologized or something, but she was we thought she was good. She was 635 00:44:20,079 --> 00:44:24,000 great. She was fine. I mean, I'm sure it wasn't appreciated when 636 00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:27,719 she was like harping on like when are you gonna have a baby? I 637 00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:30,840 get that people get sensitive about that and they find it to be very um. 638 00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:36,440 But here's the problem. It was live, you know, it wasn't 639 00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,039 really it was live to tape in one hour, so she had to ask 640 00:44:39,119 --> 00:44:42,719 them. They're like huh. She was so aggressive with asking the questions. 641 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,760 What do you want from her? And you if she wasn't, you'd be 642 00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,679 like wow, you just let them all slide like on, like giving you 643 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:52,639 these PC answers. You know, it's like she had to push them and 644 00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,400 question them and make them cough up some dirt or they're not going to right 645 00:44:57,199 --> 00:45:00,760 right. It's they don't get six hours like the freaking Housewives where Andy can 646 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:06,480 wear them down. I mean, it's just it's fast and furious and like, 647 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,440 get off her button, I know, get off of her. She 648 00:45:08,599 --> 00:45:13,639 was great, she was great. Yeah, all right, all right. 649 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:16,960 We did all of our shout outs on the other show. Oh yeah, 650 00:45:17,079 --> 00:45:21,199 so I was just wrapping it up. Okay, all right, thanks Kaylin, 651 00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:24,400 any last words, Kaylin, thank you, thank you? All right, 652 00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:29,800 fuck off? I love that. Don't you. You're a parent now, 653 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:36,519 don't have it up. Letting good