1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,839 Alone. In fifty- four he asks him artificial intelligence, as I was 2 00:00:02,919 --> 00:00:08,439 giving me lazy googlear it' s easier for me. Not me. I 3 00:00:08,519 --> 00:00:13,000 don' t trust 100% of what you say and I asked him to 4 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:15,839 fall in love alone and how to overcome it. All right, you' 5 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:20,239 ll also see the word truth question. Falling in love with someone who doesn 6 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:23,280 ' t share those feelings. It may be an emotional challenge, difficult, 7 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:28,480 artificial intelligence says, but there are ways to handle it and move on. 8 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:34,960 Here are some tips to overcome unrequited falling in love. First, the first 9 00:00:35,079 --> 00:00:38,719 thing is like, uh, how to use drugs. The first thing is 10 00:00:38,799 --> 00:00:44,079 to accept your feelings. He says he wants to get over your addiction. 11 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:48,520 I have a problem and it' s drugs. Okay, I have a 12 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:52,159 problem that I' m in love. It is only important to recognize and 13 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:57,640 accept that your feeling is of falling in love, but also to be realistic 14 00:00:57,719 --> 00:01:00,000 about the situation, to accept that the other person does not share your feelings. 15 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:04,239 It may be painful, but the first step to that and to overcome 16 00:01:04,359 --> 00:01:08,680 it is to give time. Time is a great senator. It allows you 17 00:01:08,799 --> 00:01:14,799 to feel the initial pain and sadness, but also give yourself time to heal. 18 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:21,680 In time it says your feelings will begin to diminish and you will be 19 00:01:21,719 --> 00:01:26,239 able to see things more clearly. Take care of yourself or yourself. During 20 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,640 this process it is crucial to take care of your emotional and physical well- 21 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:33,239 being. Do something that makes you happy and has positive energy, like spending 22 00:01:33,599 --> 00:01:37,359 time with friends. Oya, you' re done, you' re gonna 23 00:01:37,359 --> 00:01:40,040 get your whole friend out of command. This is what the dead end would 24 00:01:40,079 --> 00:01:47,959 look like, spending time with friends and family and practicing activities that you enjoy 25 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:53,640 and care for your health. Avoid idealizing the other person. Sometimes, when 26 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:59,079 we fall in love with someone who doesn’ t belong to us, we 27 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:02,280 tend to idealize them and see only their positive qualities. Try to be objective 28 00:02:02,439 --> 00:02:07,159 and recognize that no one is perfect, including the person you' re in 29 00:02:07,159 --> 00:02:12,039 love with. Keep the distance if necessary, If being close to the person 30 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:16,360 you like makes your feelings worse or prevents you from moving forward, consider taking 31 00:02:16,479 --> 00:02:21,479 a certain distance. This can be difficult at first, but it can be 32 00:02:21,479 --> 00:02:27,280 beneficial for your healing teacher says the pussy boz find support talk to close friends 33 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:30,759 or trusted family about everything they are, what you' re going through. 34 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:37,599 Sometimes just talking about your feelings can help you process them and feel better. 35 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:42,919 Look for new opportunities. It also points out in point number seven. Take 36 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:47,879 advantage of this moment to explore new activities, meet new people and open up 37 00:02:47,879 --> 00:02:53,879 new experiences. This can help you change the focus of your attention and open 38 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:59,439 up new possibilities in your life. Remember to overcome the unrequited crush. It 39 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:04,879 takes time and patience to be kind to yourself and give yourself the time you 40 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:08,360 need to heal and move on. And on this particular point, it says 41 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:17,840 something about the pods to take advantage of time. There are people you have 42 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,319 look at. I think if there' s something they have to do, 43 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:29,919 if the psychologists certainly were, they weren' t so expensive and the society 44 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:34,680 of psychologists was more proactive, set up some campaign for five years, publicizing 45 00:03:35,319 --> 00:03:38,520 inviting people to look for therapy, because the big problem that many people think 46 00:03:38,599 --> 00:03:46,000 therapy is just for how crazy they have problems. Sometimes you need to sit 47 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:49,199 down and talk to someone who is not judging you, who is accompanying you 48 00:03:49,199 --> 00:03:53,560 in a process of freeing you from traumas, problems, etcetera, who is 49 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:58,759 trained. For that there are therapy and therapists online and there are pages that 50 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,039 give the service for a couple of dollars, twenty- five or thirty dollars 51 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:08,240 a month and you can sit down to walk and have walked to the South 52 00:04:08,319 --> 00:04:11,879 Mirador Park or the North Mirador, while talking to your therapist about things you 53 00:04:11,879 --> 00:04:15,879 need to talk about, and that may help you overcome and release a lot 54 00:04:15,879 --> 00:04:17,959 of negative energy. But don' t stop looking for therapies if you need 55 00:04:18,199 --> 00:04:23,319 it, of course because I think the big problem is to remove the stigma 56 00:04:23,399 --> 00:04:27,800 that only crazy people or people who have serious problems, because we all have 57 00:04:27,879 --> 00:04:32,480 problems and sometimes we all need a space to be able to express the frustrations 58 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:40,000 and feelings that occupy our minds and cloud our feelings in some way and get 59 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,439 rid of that. If I don' t look bad, I don' 60 00:04:42,519 --> 00:04:44,160 t have to look bad either. I' ve seen a lot of people 61 00:04:44,199 --> 00:04:46,800 who are in therapy, I' ve seen how they' ve improved and 62 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,839 even with the pastor of your church, who you talk about, you can 63 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:53,560 help him a lot. Talking to someone is very important, no matter how 64 00:04:53,639 --> 00:04:56,199 important that someone you talk to is a person who is the right person, 65 00:04:57,399 --> 00:05:00,560 I say right, the right thing is a tea professional. But if you 66 00:05:00,639 --> 00:05:03,680 don' t have it for that, you can look to talk to someone 67 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:10,040 who doesn' t become a damn judge of you and a hammer came in 68 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,120 your head. Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 69 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:14,519 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 70 00:05:14,519 --> 00:05:14,519 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 71 00:05:14,519 --> 00:05:15,800 hey, hey, hey, hey. I want to talk to a friend 72 00:05:15,879 --> 00:05:17,240 that you start with so much, but Miguel starts telling you and deep down, 73 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,360 he' s worried, but I have more trouble than you. I 74 00:05:19,399 --> 00:05:23,279 ' m happy. That' s not what I want to hear and I 75 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:28,240 played the donkey and I talk about the light Sometimes you' re what you 76 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:32,000 want to have a conversation with someone who just keeps quiet who' s judging 77 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,720 you terribly me and I noticed it from work. I' d tell you, 78 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:40,120 don' t do the same as I did, although the pregnant man 79 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:46,279 went to seek therapy with Edgar Ledesma, a financial therapy with the carma tells 80 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:47,759 me depressed. No, he told me he does it himself, not just 81 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,360 about anything. I' ve run out of weight. He also tells me 82 00:05:50,519 --> 00:05:55,199 and you know there' s someone in front because I started investing and I 83 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,560 don' t have a weight. Look at that. I' m not 84 00:05:57,639 --> 00:06:00,720 going to say anything, but here' s one writing that the various freedoms 85 00:06:00,759 --> 00:06:05,000 the lost, that there' s a court that they' re going to 86 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:06,319 leave that so, boy it was not to put wood on the fire to 87 00:06:06,319 --> 00:06:10,000 people. Leave the people on that stick alone that I live there. Look. 88 00:06:11,079 --> 00:06:15,279 Certainly, we have heard many stories today, but I say all this 89 00:06:15,319 --> 00:06:18,920 because sometimes you hear people' s stories and sometimes there are times when people 90 00:06:18,959 --> 00:06:24,800 happen to things that don' t have the tools to deal with them. 91 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:30,399 And that creates a terrible trauma in the individual. And one, well, 92 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:35,120 I don' t think there' s anything in any experience that you have 93 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:40,720 until when you go to mine and grab the pen' s ciper, leave 94 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:44,519 you with post- traumatic stress. You from then on have not bought pants 95 00:06:44,519 --> 00:06:48,519 with zippers, but with buttons. Then don' t run away from danger. 96 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:54,000 Face it to me happens because the button pants really will take your zipper 97 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:58,319 out of the way, but another one can happen to face it to me 98 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:01,720 happened to me. You have to face my house. One quiet morning before 99 00:07:01,759 --> 00:07:04,759 I left here, I went to throw something in the basurea a cat inside. 100 00:07:05,079 --> 00:07:08,439 I didn' t know, brother, and I' m gonna throw 101 00:07:08,439 --> 00:07:11,360 this meltdown. This cat' s gonna come out jue te. I' 102 00:07:11,399 --> 00:07:14,319 ve spoken two six in the morning A man coming Don' t worry, 103 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:15,959 brother, now I have to throw away the trash. As an obvious you 104 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:24,000 really fear everything traumatizes, well, very not, but a jump that hit 105 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:28,480 was already tuber devils, Calm down, there was no one without bullan much 106 00:07:28,519 --> 00:07:30,959 and that cat stuck this brig, sister, out of my heart. I 107 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:39,360 hate cats. I hate cats I' ve already failed. But it is 108 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:46,800 to pass through life full of traumas and in solitude. It' s not 109 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,399 easy. So look for help for those who are in love alone or those 110 00:07:49,439 --> 00:07:54,279 who have fallen in love. I said traumatize, but neither do they reciprocate 111 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:58,439 with anyone because they have not reciprocated or because they do not correspond to him 112 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,360 or because he has not wanted to reciprocate. No, no, no, 113 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:05,360 we have to. Most importantly, perhaps the hardest process of not accepting the 114 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:11,519 issues as they are. You think it' s easy for people to be 115 00:08:11,519 --> 00:08:16,160 happy again after they lose a limb, that is, to accept that they 116 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:20,240 lack a limb. Or I' ve seen video cases that hit me. 117 00:08:20,279 --> 00:08:26,199 For example, the other day I asked a person, a child who has 118 00:08:26,279 --> 00:08:30,439 cancer. I was asking someone if I was upset with God about what was 119 00:08:30,439 --> 00:08:33,440 happening to him and the child they are one of the lessons that you fall 120 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:37,320 into life like the moment you need them. And the boy says no, 121 00:08:37,519 --> 00:08:41,799 that he felt blessed by what was happening to him and was grateful to God 122 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:43,240 that he could have passed it on to his sister or his mom, his 123 00:08:43,279 --> 00:08:48,840 dad wow, a nine- year- old boy. So, if the 124 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:52,639 child certainly sees life that way, a nine- year- old has the 125 00:08:52,639 --> 00:08:56,080 ability to give such an answer and is facing a disease that risks his or 126 00:08:56,120 --> 00:09:01,440 her life, his or her own life, but that his or her love 127 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:07,000 for his or her family is greater than perhaps the need to continue living. 128 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:15,200 Talk about love being a very powerful instrument and sometimes feeling so much love for 129 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,240 the people around you allows you to accept even the worst of diseases and thanks 130 00:09:18,279 --> 00:09:22,240 because it is not your family that you love, but you because you feel 131 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:26,759 that you have the ability or are the repository to have to protect them from 132 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:35,200 many things. So, that' s how it goes with love It' 133 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:39,559 s like a peep, pleasant man. At first it bothers in one part, 134 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:43,879 but it vanishes and potechía. That' s right, it bothers with 135 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:46,639 the process and you smoke. And if you want that person' s house 136 00:09:46,759 --> 00:09:48,679 at its root, you don' t have to turn that much and you 137 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:52,000 get a bone and you imagine it doing pop and people go all they want. 138 00:09:52,120 --> 00:10:03,159 It is a language itself. I was plowing my gold water. You 139 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:11,960 don' t like to flatten anymore. Oh, I see it, boy, 140 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,000 it' s coming to us bye.