1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,679 Adriana Nome I have a dear rhythm. I was just reading it now. 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:09,560 That' s what it says. I would like you to deal with a 3 00:00:09,599 --> 00:00:14,839 topic because I am involved in that and I have many doubts to hear opinions 4 00:00:14,839 --> 00:00:17,519 and different views. My partner tells me you want to be with someone if 5 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:21,160 I want to bite something out of the relationship, because he says that I 6 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:25,800 feel weird, that I' m raising his voice a lot, and that 7 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,800 I' m answering something like that from time to time. He asks me 8 00:00:27,879 --> 00:00:32,399 the question because he says that when a woman does that it' s because 9 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:35,479 she' s with someone else. Instead, it bothers me because I don 10 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:39,679 ' t even talk to someone for some kind of interest and that, for 11 00:00:39,759 --> 00:00:44,560 whatever reason, whether it' s that I' m just a little down 12 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:48,000 or work issues or the day to day that you think the worst bothers me. 13 00:00:48,359 --> 00:00:51,039 The one who wants her to do something by having a license is him. 14 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:53,840 I agree with him. He' s interested in someone else. He 15 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:56,320 finds that the woman really bothers him she doesn' t bother him. And 16 00:00:56,399 --> 00:00:59,439 so if always what happens is that he' s starting to notice the things 17 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,600 that bother him about her, because on the other side he doesn' t 18 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:06,280 have that situation. In love he likes the other geva, he starts to 19 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,959 contract defects. Look. I' m black tape on that sheath. I 20 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,159 agree with you, I, I' m black tape on that sheath. 21 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:19,120 And really, when you start to say attention man and woman, when you 22 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,519 start to see that pressure is loosened in the house because in the street the 23 00:01:22,599 --> 00:01:26,959 thing is entertaining. That doesn' t fail, it never fails. That 24 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:30,480 ' s pure, hard psychology. This doesn' t tell the woman he 25 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:33,920 says no, no, no, she talks bad. So the guy' 26 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,280 s telling him. She says to the jeva and she doesn' t care 27 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:38,640 to be with half, talk to anyone, but the guy is telling her 28 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:42,359 pussy and you' re with someone puts a hand in that license The guy 29 00:01:42,439 --> 00:01:45,480 who wants to have that license is him so she can say pussy, you 30 00:01:45,599 --> 00:01:49,599 also look for someone and see how it doesn' t go, because he 31 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:55,480 ' s got someone victo talking to someone, he' s interested in someone 32 00:01:55,519 --> 00:01:59,239 and he wants to have someone in the house license if he wants to push 33 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,200 her to then have the excuse to say I' m also with someone else 34 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:05,319 or I' m going to suck someone Mao or you think so, like 35 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:05,959 when the broad tie you with a tiger or shove hands with some kind of 36 00:02:05,959 --> 00:02:07,840 a fonder. He' s gonna have his excuse. No, what happens 37 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:12,360 is we' re experiencing, because he wants to keep one foot in this 38 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,439 boat and the other foot in the other just in case, just in case 39 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:19,400 to what tiger. Yeah, yeah, I mean that story. That attitude 40 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:24,159 gives me completely what you say Alberto, because since if you, if you 41 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:29,080 are married, didn' t meet yesterday, it' s already that you 42 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,240 raise your voice one day whatever it is he knew about before you get married 43 00:02:31,879 --> 00:02:37,919 then you kind of suddenly say and that the solution to that is that you 44 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,120 ' re looking for other people, don' t be the one who' 45 00:02:40,159 --> 00:02:45,800 s bitten. That' s where he might be wrong. He man in 46 00:02:45,879 --> 00:02:50,000 it now the pothole and other people that I don' t care about or 47 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,560 I, what is heavy I don' t know maybe the less average, 48 00:02:53,159 --> 00:03:00,759 pausomic woman and wants mood swings, which can be so well product of that 49 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:05,280 change. The one you mean exactly, and that' s knowing. Maybe 50 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,199 I mean, we' ll have to see, see, see to rum 51 00:03:07,199 --> 00:03:13,159 the excuse, the thing is good. You' ve given me a pretty 52 00:03:13,199 --> 00:03:15,680 interesting idea. You start looking like a photo of the pod for one. 53 00:03:15,719 --> 00:03:19,000 Then let' s go to the line. I already want opinions truth, 54 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:25,520 yes, already of us. Yeah, good morning. When the boy looks, 55 00:03:25,719 --> 00:03:30,479 when in the house you' re missing something because in the street he 56 00:03:30,599 --> 00:03:35,120 ' s smoking or look at him there poet. I' m going to 57 00:03:35,159 --> 00:03:38,000 put you in my state of whatsapp. Don' t put it on, 58 00:03:38,719 --> 00:03:39,599 man, I' ll take a listener' s phrase. You complained, 59 00:03:39,599 --> 00:03:45,680 with the reason that I' m completely left with peace. Five, three, 60 00:03:45,719 --> 00:03:47,280 one, ninety- six, fifty beats in the morning rhythm ninety- 61 00:03:47,719 --> 00:03:53,039 six five. The best excuse to get up early doesn' t chew at 62 00:03:53,080 --> 00:04:00,479 ten in the morning and the best way if he wants ciels, if what 63 00:04:00,479 --> 00:04:03,560 he wants adventurer, if he gives him the one in the house, look 64 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:08,080 at this exercise. So that you don' t lose your marriage and if 65 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,639 you continue to put up with all the sheath to your wife, your questions, 66 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:13,560 because that' s a step that you or get out, for example, 67 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:15,879 already of what you know to get into another sheath. With that excuse. 68 00:04:15,319 --> 00:04:18,959 It' s a problem. What is a proof that the man, 69 00:04:19,319 --> 00:04:26,040 the experienced man does when he wants to have a relationship outside of marriage, 70 00:04:26,199 --> 00:04:30,480 and that, for example, if that woman you see her and carnally attracts 71 00:04:30,519 --> 00:04:33,839 your attention and you imitate you there is not the woman I need. My 72 00:04:33,879 --> 00:04:35,600 wife is very cold. That' s it It' s the one that 73 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:41,439 turns me on. The best advice that can give you experience is masturbating you 74 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:49,160 in the name of that woman. Well, if the fire is still after 75 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:54,560 masturbation, then you have the right to be with that woman. Then you 76 00:04:54,639 --> 00:04:57,639 know it' s the right decision. If the flames go down, you 77 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:02,040 say pussy. You' re going good morning, Alberto, what I can 78 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:05,279 ' t understand. Why people are not adults and assume their responsibility to tell 79 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:09,560 you look at my love. I don' t want to be with you 80 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,519 anymore, or look, I' m interested in another couple. Why leeches. 81 00:05:11,959 --> 00:05:15,079 That way, you have no courage to give the other person as an 82 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:19,720 adult. Oh, Vladimil' s corlant of hotel and legal. Women don 83 00:05:19,759 --> 00:05:25,439 ' t throw themselves away, yes, they hesitate and so do my life 84 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:26,920 the fear that I' m going to make you a mess. I' 85 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,199 m gonna tell you a mess. If you do that good morning, go 86 00:05:29,439 --> 00:05:33,560 trias or good day hello, good day. And what happens, as I 87 00:05:33,639 --> 00:05:38,480 said earlier, they can' t be adults because they want the beneficent ones. 88 00:05:38,519 --> 00:05:44,639 Be on the street and in the house totally according to the steps, 89 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:48,720 well and taking every day good day, all the good day. This man 90 00:05:48,759 --> 00:05:53,160 is what he' s missing. That woman who had so much, I 91 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,680 told her that she doesn' t want to, that they love her, 92 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:56,800 that she' s going to get a lot higher. It' s true. 93 00:05:56,959 --> 00:05:59,199 I' m that, it' s a lie, I agree with 94 00:05:59,199 --> 00:06:00,040 her. It' s true. We generate the street. No. No, 95 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,040 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 96 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:06,560 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 97 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:06,560 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 98 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:06,560 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 99 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:10,839 no, no, no, no. It' s because on the 100 00:06:11,519 --> 00:06:13,600 street he' s sending something else. No. No, no, no, 101 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:15,439 don' t take you on the street there' s nothing. Well, 102 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:19,720 good morning, problem and rafe. Good morning to definitely catch the same 103 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:24,199 thing from the house. Now I think that, as a society, we 104 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:30,639 have to start to become a syncer and rethink the way in which they want 105 00:06:30,639 --> 00:06:33,319 to get into relationships, because, like, over the years and social agreements, 106 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:38,439 monogamy really doesn' t make me feel like it' s the natural 107 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:42,800 state, like we have to start rethinking ourselves. That to avoid us so 108 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:48,160 much sheath vainly the listener President Mira I will sum you up in a simple 109 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:53,160 way what is happening with contemporary society. He brought in a partner, the 110 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,240 concept of what a family was, of what marriage was, of what a 111 00:06:56,240 --> 00:07:00,879 relationship was, began to mutate in the collective mind from the last decade of 112 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:08,319 the nineteenth century, that when they began to become popular in the world, 113 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:14,399 the great novels, these great romantic stories and all these fantasies that were laughing 114 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:19,319 and clear and with the arrival of new means, because, an idea of 115 00:07:19,399 --> 00:07:24,959 what relationships are like and in a collective way, people have been conditioned to 116 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,360 think that a couple, that a relationship, that a couple relationship has to 117 00:07:28,399 --> 00:07:32,120 look like or be like in the imaginary has been created through these fantasies as 118 00:07:32,199 --> 00:07:40,759 society. I mean, this romantic love exacerbated through stories, it has to 119 00:07:40,759 --> 00:07:45,959 be that way. And the problem is that people come up with an illusion 120 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,800 in their heads. The relationship and they don' t have the ability to 121 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:55,399 face what a relationship is. Those who truly have the conditions to face that 122 00:07:55,439 --> 00:08:03,000 also have the skills to overcome conflicts, understand infallible humans and manage their conflicts 123 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:11,000 and manage insecurities the problems that occur in an objective and assertive way. And, 124 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:15,439 unfortunately, you think that all that shit, that you see in movies, 125 00:08:15,839 --> 00:08:22,120 that novels come, that you see in being romantic sitcong, it' 126 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:28,199 s a relationship and you' re already left over And there' s too 127 00:08:28,199 --> 00:08:33,600 much evidence through the studies, analyzing individuals and couples that to a higher position 128 00:08:33,639 --> 00:08:39,279 to this type of stories contained, etcetera. Much more problematic are the relationships 129 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:45,200 of those who are very exposed to that and in a reality like the one 130 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:48,600 we live today, where we have already reached a point where we are not. 131 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,320 The problem is not monogamy, because that' s a decision. He 132 00:08:52,399 --> 00:08:58,080 ' s obviously right. Naturally, we are animals and our instinct is to 133 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:01,159 be with many couples, because the end of sex is not pleasure. The 134 00:09:01,159 --> 00:09:05,120 end of sex is the multiplication of the pleasure species. We found it on 135 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:09,840 the way and that' s why we have playful sex. Then when you 136 00:09:11,519 --> 00:09:16,120 have the animal impulse. But and here we have said it, because the 137 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:20,399 same tiger of the method explains it says how you get to monogamy the women 138 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:28,720 who carry that which the woman becomes monogamous to protect her offspring There you get 139 00:09:28,799 --> 00:09:35,240 that way. Then, like you, men are dogs and the woman, 140 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:41,799 in order to protect her offspring decides to sacrifice herself with a single male or 141 00:09:41,919 --> 00:09:46,279 decided at some point of evolution. That' s why it' s easier 142 00:09:46,279 --> 00:09:54,200 for women to be monogamous than paustes who are still wild dogs with all the 143 00:09:54,279 --> 00:09:56,919 license and all the social pods that have been in the world, but with 144 00:09:58,039 --> 00:10:00,279 a bad concept, as the bread said right now that I think I' 145 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:01,960 m going I can' t have stayed. You want to have the benefits 146 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:05,720 of a home, but also the benefits of the street and nobody tell you 147 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:11,600 anything. But that love is waiting for you to dedicate to her the exclusivity 148 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:16,480 that she' s possibly dedicating to you, and you to be relieved at 149 00:10:16,519 --> 00:10:20,200 the guilt tells her but you shake hands with a daddy tiger is Mommy, 150 00:10:22,159 --> 00:10:24,720 that' s nothing to fear more expensive and then you' re going to 151 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:28,159 come with your Sunday seven. Look what I got here. Look, look 152 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:33,200 at this, yeah, but society with the listener, society, it' 153 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:41,240 s important that one thing looks monogamy. Monogamy comes from monotony. It says 154 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:46,720 exactly. I like your theory. It goes well if at the level of 155 00:10:46,799 --> 00:10:52,240 monogamy theory it is derived from monotony. What it means is a friend here 156 00:10:52,399 --> 00:11:01,399 says that the problem is that this is the guy from the comment. There 157 00:11:01,759 --> 00:11:05,679 you are right,' cause the one at home is so hairy. But 158 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:07,879 in the case of man, the man does not want to leave the house 159 00:11:07,919 --> 00:11:11,240 and that was the house has become a problem and that is why you seek 160 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:16,639 refuge that in the street. But I don' t want to get her 161 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:18,919 off the street of the house, because she' s going to become a 162 00:11:18,919 --> 00:11:22,399 movie too. But peter, but the solution is that someone is fighting too 163 00:11:22,399 --> 00:11:26,039 much. It can' t be room to blow my ass, I mean, 164 00:11:26,039 --> 00:11:28,000 there must be. I don' t know. There' s a 165 00:11:28,039 --> 00:11:33,120 lot of psychologist or couple' s therapy going on, but room we horned 166 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:33,000 because you' re fighting too much. I don' t know. Then 167 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:37,840 I' m not a couple. Of course I do. That' s 168 00:11:37,919 --> 00:11:45,960 the mature solution. The problem matures, of course, of course, keep 169 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,799 enjoying your little thing on the street. Whatever you want, she' s 170 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:50,320 gonna keep fighting you. If you find her, you' re used to 171 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:54,799 your playto. That' s not gonna cause you any trouble. Forget if 172 00:11:54,919 --> 00:11:58,960 I think you' re getting ready. She' s what' s preparing 173 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:01,720 you for the runaway that' s coming. And you, psychologically, you 174 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:05,639 ' ve imposed those lawsuits, those issues, and you' re going to 175 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:07,320 do the same. When she finds out what she has to find out