WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.080 --> 00:00:11.000 Hey, Hey, I'm back with something for you to think about when you're 2 00:00:11.039 --> 00:00:22.640 in a relationship and you choose to do wrong, knowing is wrong. Let's 3 00:00:22.679 --> 00:00:29.559 be honest as adults, we all know right from wrong. We all know. 4 00:00:31.640 --> 00:00:39.960 The problem is so many people have not matured past what their eyes see, 5 00:00:41.320 --> 00:00:45.759 their hearts and minds, their feelings, their emotions, their wants, 6 00:00:45.799 --> 00:00:52.960 their desires. Let's just be honest about it, so much so that although 7 00:00:53.000 --> 00:01:00.000 you're in a relationship, you still choose to do wrong. I just wish 8 00:01:00.119 --> 00:01:11.400 for a second that people would stop and think about what they're about to do 9 00:01:11.799 --> 00:01:18.200 or what they're thinking about doing. How would they feel if they knew that 10 00:01:18.319 --> 00:01:23.760 their significant other was going to do the same thing, or has done the 11 00:01:23.799 --> 00:01:26.959 same thing, or it's just thinking about doing the same thing. How would 12 00:01:27.040 --> 00:01:33.840 you feel. I know there's a few people out there who would say I 13 00:01:34.319 --> 00:01:40.840 don't care, I wouldn't mind. You're lying. And if you don't care, 14 00:01:41.040 --> 00:01:47.400 it's because you have an agenda. You're doing something, so you want 15 00:01:47.400 --> 00:01:56.680 to make an excuse for when you get caught. This episode is for individuals 16 00:01:56.959 --> 00:02:02.920 who supposedly love who they are with, because if you don't love who you're 17 00:02:04.000 --> 00:02:08.280 with, what's the point of being with that person. I told you all 18 00:02:08.439 --> 00:02:14.960 a few weeks ago about a YouTube video that I saw where the ladies says 19 00:02:15.000 --> 00:02:22.599 safety and respect over love. That's the dumbest thing I ever heard of, 20 00:02:23.199 --> 00:02:30.039 the dumbest thing. But if you believe that, so be it. You 21 00:02:30.159 --> 00:02:37.479 get to believe what you choose. But I'm here to tell you it's bullcrap. 22 00:02:37.960 --> 00:02:42.280 Because love is very important. If you don't love who you're with, 23 00:02:42.360 --> 00:02:46.919 you're not in love with who you're with, look for trouble because it's right 24 00:02:46.960 --> 00:02:53.159 around in the corner. You're gonna go through all types of unnecessary foolishness because 25 00:02:53.199 --> 00:03:00.159 your relationship is not built on a healthy foundation. Those of you who are 26 00:03:00.159 --> 00:03:05.520 in relationships and you know you're doing wrong, oh baby, it's gonna catch 27 00:03:05.560 --> 00:03:13.240 up with you, and is going to catch up with you. I promise 28 00:03:13.280 --> 00:03:21.439 you. People want to make all kinds of excuses, but the bottom line 29 00:03:21.520 --> 00:03:29.599 is you know that you know that you know when you're doing wrong. You 30 00:03:29.680 --> 00:03:35.400 know you're doing wrong. It's no excuse for it. When you're thinking about 31 00:03:35.400 --> 00:03:39.240 that other woman or that other man, you know you're wrong. You're wrong 32 00:03:39.639 --> 00:03:46.439 because you give power to your thoughts and Eventually, if you keep thinking about 33 00:03:46.520 --> 00:03:51.719 the same thing and you know what's wrong, you're gonna act on it in 34 00:03:51.759 --> 00:04:00.800 some way or another. It always happens. So even when your thoughts, 35 00:04:00.840 --> 00:04:06.039 the Bible tells us about if you think it, you might as well have 36 00:04:06.120 --> 00:04:16.079 done it, because it's as wrong. You're just as guilty sitting around thinking 37 00:04:16.120 --> 00:04:21.079 about being with someone when you're already with someone. You're just as guilty. 38 00:04:21.120 --> 00:04:26.439 And you know what's wrong, and you know you wouldn't want it to happen 39 00:04:26.439 --> 00:04:29.399 to you. Some of you, Oh, you'll say, I don't care 40 00:04:29.480 --> 00:04:32.360 in all of this, but if it happened, you can't even hardly make 41 00:04:32.399 --> 00:04:38.959 it. You're so distraught. And I hate to say it, but men 42 00:04:39.040 --> 00:04:43.920 are really this way. And I'm not saying all, but there are some 43 00:04:44.000 --> 00:04:49.560 men they cannot fantom the thought of their woman with another man. They think 44 00:04:49.600 --> 00:04:58.160 it's okay to put their private parts everywhere, but they cannot phantom the thought 45 00:04:58.199 --> 00:05:04.680 of another man doing it to their woman, which is just ignorant and immaturity, 46 00:05:04.839 --> 00:05:15.759 because why wouldn't you think any other way if you're doing it. You 47 00:05:15.920 --> 00:05:24.480 know that everything that I do, everything is based on God. So I'm 48 00:05:24.519 --> 00:05:31.120 not talking about people who are foreign cating in committing adultery even though you know 49 00:05:31.199 --> 00:05:41.560 it's wrong. Even though you know it's wrong. I'm basically talking about any 50 00:05:41.839 --> 00:05:48.399 person who's in a relationship who's wilfully doing wrong. It's gonna come back to 51 00:05:48.480 --> 00:05:54.120 you in some way or another. You got to get to a point as 52 00:05:54.120 --> 00:06:01.279 an adult where you are not continuously falling for the same things. You have 53 00:06:01.360 --> 00:06:06.519 to get to a point as an adult where you have matured. You have 54 00:06:06.759 --> 00:06:15.079 matured, and you're no longer chasing your flesh. At some point, you 55 00:06:15.079 --> 00:06:20.160 should get to that stage in your life. Unfortunately, so many people just 56 00:06:20.399 --> 00:06:28.920 do not because all they think about is their flesh, satisfying their flesh, 57 00:06:29.560 --> 00:06:34.639 doing things that they know they shouldn't do because they're in a relationship with someone. 58 00:06:35.600 --> 00:06:39.759 You know you shouldn't be doing what you're doing, but you still do 59 00:06:39.839 --> 00:06:46.519 it. You still a risk your relationship, You still will risk your significant 60 00:06:46.560 --> 00:06:51.079 other's life because you don't know the individual that you're getting involved with. You 61 00:06:51.120 --> 00:06:59.360 don't know their mindset. They could be crazy as ever, they can act 62 00:06:59.480 --> 00:07:03.639 one way and be another, which nine out of ten that's what happens. 63 00:07:03.680 --> 00:07:08.800 They act so nice and sweet, and then the next thing you know they're 64 00:07:08.839 --> 00:07:15.560 acting like crazy people because you hurt them, or because they want more of 65 00:07:15.600 --> 00:07:19.639 your attention. They want more of your time, so now they act like 66 00:07:19.759 --> 00:07:25.720 crazy people, like who they really are. But you were so caught up 67 00:07:26.079 --> 00:07:30.560 that you missed all of the signs showing you who they really are. And 68 00:07:30.600 --> 00:07:34.199 now you in a bad situation. You got your significant other in a bad 69 00:07:34.240 --> 00:07:42.160 situation because you couldn't control yourself. You could not see beyond what you wanted, 70 00:07:42.319 --> 00:07:46.920 what you desired self gratification. You still chose to do wrong when you 71 00:07:47.000 --> 00:07:54.800 knew it was wrong. Now you got yourself and your significant other in bad 72 00:07:54.920 --> 00:08:03.360 situations. It happens all of the time. People just need to mature. 73 00:08:03.759 --> 00:08:09.360 You need to grow up, you really really do, because no one shouldn't 74 00:08:09.720 --> 00:08:15.439 should be going through No one should be going through these types of things in 75 00:08:15.480 --> 00:08:18.639 their relationships. If you're not ready to be in a relationship, the simple 76 00:08:18.680 --> 00:08:24.759 thing to do is not to get into one. If you know you're still 77 00:08:24.800 --> 00:08:35.159 trying to do you you should have never gotten into a relationship because once you 78 00:08:35.200 --> 00:08:39.039 make that decision to get into a relationship, you should act like someone that's 79 00:08:39.039 --> 00:08:45.480 in a relationship. You should always act like someone who's in a relationship. 80 00:08:46.720 --> 00:08:52.519 But some of you make all kind of excuses because your agenda is different from 81 00:08:52.559 --> 00:09:01.559 that of your significant others. And also that's why it's important to know who 82 00:09:01.600 --> 00:09:07.000 you get involved with. Know yourself first, but get to know who you're 83 00:09:07.080 --> 00:09:13.960 getting involved with. People gonna tell on themselves. They gonna show who they 84 00:09:13.000 --> 00:09:18.759 really are sooner or later, and all you have to do is to be 85 00:09:18.879 --> 00:09:24.799 able to recognize the truth when it's presented. Some of you are so blind 86 00:09:26.399 --> 00:09:31.080 you cannot see, you're not willing to see, and then you find yourself 87 00:09:31.120 --> 00:09:37.120 in a terrible situation with a terrible person, with someone who don't care anything 88 00:09:37.159 --> 00:09:41.279 about you. All they care about is self, self gratification, satisfying the 89 00:09:41.320 --> 00:09:48.039 flesh, or some type of agenda. Sometimes it's not even all about sex. 90 00:09:48.440 --> 00:09:56.360 It's about gaining something, money, material things, because all of that 91 00:09:56.519 --> 00:10:01.399 is a part of satisfying the flesh. I want you to understand that satisfying 92 00:10:01.399 --> 00:10:09.840 the flesh goes beyond sexual gratification. It's a lot of things. Lust involves 93 00:10:09.879 --> 00:10:16.960 a lot of things way beyond sex. And the bottom line is, when 94 00:10:16.960 --> 00:10:22.080 you're in a relationship, the person you need to be concentrating on and thinking 95 00:10:22.159 --> 00:10:28.960 about it is the one that you chose to get in a relationship with anyone 96 00:10:28.000 --> 00:10:37.080 who's doing anything else. You're wrong and you need to check yourself. You 97 00:10:37.240 --> 00:10:41.039 need to figure out what's going on inside of you for you to have the 98 00:10:41.120 --> 00:10:46.399 mindset that you have and those of you who deal with these types of people, 99 00:10:46.759 --> 00:10:50.240 you need to look within yourself and figure out what's going on within you 100 00:10:50.639 --> 00:10:56.000 to make you stay in a relationship with someone who's doing those things to you 101 00:10:56.679 --> 00:11:03.159 because you deserve better. People who are seeking self gratification they don't care because 102 00:11:03.200 --> 00:11:13.639 guess what, that's what they're after, self gratification. So they're not being 103 00:11:13.679 --> 00:11:18.399 honest with you. They are masters of manipulation. They want what they want 104 00:11:18.440 --> 00:11:24.159 and they will get it no matter what. They will get it no matter 105 00:11:24.240 --> 00:11:28.960 who. Unfortunately, some of you find yourself in relationships with these types of 106 00:11:28.960 --> 00:11:41.840 people who don't care. They only concern with Uno numeral self number one self. 107 00:11:43.279 --> 00:11:48.320 They don't care in the essence of being a better person. They care 108 00:11:48.399 --> 00:11:56.279 in the essence of taking care and satisfying that self gratification, satisfying that flesh. 109 00:11:56.600 --> 00:12:03.720 That's how they make themselves UNO because they are looking out for self, 110 00:12:03.919 --> 00:12:16.720 not you, not you self uno numeral and that is their focus because they're 111 00:12:16.759 --> 00:12:22.840 still chasing after the flesh. And like I said, that could be sex, 112 00:12:22.559 --> 00:12:30.799 money. All types of things could fall under that category, but most 113 00:12:30.879 --> 00:12:41.440 times sex is involved. And it's clear when people say, oh, I 114 00:12:41.519 --> 00:12:46.600 love the Lord and I'm a child of God and this and that lies. 115 00:12:48.720 --> 00:12:54.159 I mean, because serving the Lord shouldn't be hard, It shouldn't be a 116 00:12:54.240 --> 00:13:01.080 battle. It really shouldn't. To do the right thing, especially when you're 117 00:13:01.120 --> 00:13:09.159 in relationships. You shouldn't get into relationships and y the first thing you wanna 118 00:13:09.200 --> 00:13:16.120 do is satisfy your flesh with someone that you're not in a relationship with, 119 00:13:18.080 --> 00:13:22.919 that you're not dedicated to or committed to. A lot of you are in 120 00:13:24.000 --> 00:13:28.679 relationships, and dedication and commitment is not anywhere in the factor. You know 121 00:13:28.799 --> 00:13:37.360 what, Yet you choose to get in a relationship with someone just causing havoc 122 00:13:37.440 --> 00:13:41.519 in people's lives for no reason. If you're not ready, don't do it. 123 00:13:43.519 --> 00:13:46.279 Then you can go and do whatever it is you want to do. 124 00:13:46.039 --> 00:13:50.639 It may still be wrong, but you can do whatever it is you want 125 00:13:50.720 --> 00:13:58.240 to do. But stop hurting people that don't deserve it. Grow up, 126 00:14:00.919 --> 00:14:05.600 grow up, start thinking with your brain. What if they did it to 127 00:14:05.720 --> 00:14:09.000 you? How would you feel? What if they were acting the way you're 128 00:14:09.080 --> 00:14:16.159 acting? How would you feel if you don't care, you don't need to 129 00:14:16.159 --> 00:14:24.360 be in a relationship. That's the bottom line. So many of you settle 130 00:14:26.080 --> 00:14:31.759 completely. You just settle for anyone based on how they look, what they 131 00:14:31.879 --> 00:14:35.879 have, who they are. You just settle, and then you find yourself 132 00:14:35.080 --> 00:14:43.080 so miserable because you failed to look at the signs of red flags that were 133 00:14:43.080 --> 00:14:50.639 in your face. Some of you are in terrible relationships, toxic, volatile, 134 00:14:50.200 --> 00:14:58.720 explosive, super abusive because you chose to get into a relationship with someone 135 00:15:00.080 --> 00:15:03.840 and you did not adhere to the signs all of those warnings and red flags. 136 00:15:05.080 --> 00:15:09.360 You ignored them because you thought you could change him or her. You 137 00:15:09.559 --> 00:15:13.279 thought they were gonna fall so in love with you, or they were so 138 00:15:13.440 --> 00:15:18.919 in love with you that they would never do you wrong, when they've never 139 00:15:20.000 --> 00:15:24.960 really done you right. You just chose to not see it. You chose 140 00:15:24.039 --> 00:15:31.720 to not accept it. Who you chose, that's exactly what you're gonna get. 141 00:15:35.399 --> 00:15:41.600 So many are great at manipulating and deceiving, but they can't fool you 142 00:15:41.799 --> 00:15:46.039 if you have your eyes wide open, but most people have their eyes wide 143 00:15:46.159 --> 00:15:52.480 shut. You have them open, but you can't see anything because you're blind. 144 00:15:52.799 --> 00:15:58.480 You're blind to what you perceive as love when ninety nine percent of the 145 00:15:58.559 --> 00:16:03.080 time it has nothing to do with love. I've told you so many times 146 00:16:03.360 --> 00:16:11.720 what people accept for love, it has nothing to do with love, love, 147 00:16:11.799 --> 00:16:15.399 or none of those terrible things. But so many people accept those things 148 00:16:15.399 --> 00:16:21.679 for love because they don't know what love is, and they don't love self. 149 00:16:21.919 --> 00:16:25.879 Most people think they love themselves, but they don't. And I've always 150 00:16:26.039 --> 00:16:33.679 challenged you to look at yourself. If you think you love yourself, look 151 00:16:33.720 --> 00:16:37.159 at what you're allowing and accepting in your life. That's gonna tell you the 152 00:16:37.279 --> 00:16:42.559 truth. If you're going through foolishness, that's telling you. You need to 153 00:16:42.639 --> 00:16:48.639 learn to love yourself. You need to make you a priority in your life. 154 00:16:48.879 --> 00:16:52.559 You need to figure out who you are. When you figure out who 155 00:16:52.600 --> 00:17:00.320 you are, it will show you those individuals that you shouldn't be with. 156 00:17:02.159 --> 00:17:07.240 When you want better for you, you're not gonna accept less. Then people 157 00:17:07.279 --> 00:17:11.640 should come into your life be in assets. They should add value, not 158 00:17:12.640 --> 00:17:18.799 cause your life to become less than you know what I mean by that is 159 00:17:19.119 --> 00:17:27.319 devalue. Instead of adding value, devalue bringing you down, introducing, introducing 160 00:17:27.359 --> 00:17:33.599 you to things that you should never ever, ever, ever allow yourself to 161 00:17:33.640 --> 00:17:36.960 get into, but you do it because you think you love that person. 162 00:17:37.279 --> 00:17:40.839 A person who loved you is not gonna put you in harms wing, they're 163 00:17:40.880 --> 00:17:45.039 not gonna introduce you to drugs and alcohol. They're not gonna put you in 164 00:17:45.079 --> 00:17:51.559 a position of being unsafe. But so many of you accept all of these 165 00:17:51.599 --> 00:17:56.160 things because you think it's love when love has nothing to do with it. 166 00:17:57.680 --> 00:18:03.400 That's why you accept people who are in relationships with you that are doing you 167 00:18:03.559 --> 00:18:08.440 wrong. You accept it because you think you love that person so much. 168 00:18:08.559 --> 00:18:15.720 But what about what that person thinks of you? That should matter? And 169 00:18:15.839 --> 00:18:22.160 they show you what they think of you by how they treat you. They 170 00:18:22.240 --> 00:18:27.319 treat you the way they do because you allow it, simple as that, 171 00:18:29.880 --> 00:18:37.119 you will always always get exactly what you've allowed from someone. The people that 172 00:18:37.279 --> 00:18:44.240 supposedly love you the most are normally the ones who will hurt you the worst 173 00:18:45.599 --> 00:18:49.720 because people agendas are different from yours. But once you get to know who 174 00:18:49.759 --> 00:18:53.799 you are and learn to love yourself as a person, you're not falling further 175 00:18:53.920 --> 00:19:00.799 okido. You're just not. People can't convince you that a lie is the 176 00:19:00.960 --> 00:19:07.759 truth, there's no way. But when you're blind, it is so easily 177 00:19:08.119 --> 00:19:15.440 to convince you of a lie, so easy because people work on your feelings 178 00:19:15.480 --> 00:19:21.880 and your emotions. That's how people get other individuals. They work on their 179 00:19:22.000 --> 00:19:26.720 feelings and emotions. They say the right things, they do the right things. 180 00:19:26.079 --> 00:19:30.160 And now you think you're in love. Oh he loves me, Oh 181 00:19:30.400 --> 00:19:34.160 she loves me. They don't love you. They love no one, not 182 00:19:34.440 --> 00:19:40.079 even themselves, because if they did, they would do better as well. 183 00:19:40.920 --> 00:19:45.079 They wouldn't put you through the things that they put you through. They don't 184 00:19:45.119 --> 00:19:52.519 love themselves either. So it is detrimental that you get to know who you're 185 00:19:52.599 --> 00:19:59.319 with to some degree. I'm not saying you're gonna know everything about the person 186 00:19:59.400 --> 00:20:03.559 you're with, but you need to know the important things. Are they good 187 00:20:03.640 --> 00:20:08.359 for you? You all know if you listen to me before, what I'm 188 00:20:08.400 --> 00:20:11.200 gonna say, and if you have it and this is your first time, 189 00:20:11.480 --> 00:20:15.359 well this is what I have to say. First of all, do they 190 00:20:15.480 --> 00:20:18.359 love the Lord? And are they living for the Lord? Cause you could 191 00:20:18.359 --> 00:20:22.119 say you love the Lord all day? To live for him is something totally 192 00:20:22.160 --> 00:20:32.440 different. I believe that every relationship should be built on that Jesus is the 193 00:20:32.880 --> 00:20:37.359 beginning, the middle, and the end. And if both are focused on 194 00:20:37.960 --> 00:20:44.920 Christ, oh you gonna have a good relationship. I'm not saying that people 195 00:20:45.000 --> 00:20:51.079 won't have issues. You gonna have something because you're two different individuals. But 196 00:20:51.240 --> 00:20:56.079 you can make it through. Adult mature people can make it through. They 197 00:20:56.240 --> 00:21:02.759 know how to work through issues. And I know many people profess Christ, 198 00:21:02.839 --> 00:21:07.279 but their hearts are far from him. I know many people don't truly truly 199 00:21:07.400 --> 00:21:15.759 believe, and that's your right. You don't have to. But I'm telling 200 00:21:15.839 --> 00:21:19.160 you, if you're in a relationship with anyone, get to know him or 201 00:21:19.200 --> 00:21:26.519 her, but know yourself first. I've always told you, when you know 202 00:21:26.640 --> 00:21:30.480 who you are as a person, it changes your life. It changes your 203 00:21:30.640 --> 00:21:37.279 views on everything. You see people differently because you begin to see them for 204 00:21:37.440 --> 00:21:41.240 who they really are and not just who they pretend to be. Because ninety 205 00:21:41.319 --> 00:21:45.200 nine percent of the people you see every day of your life are faking and 206 00:21:45.319 --> 00:21:52.920 pretending. It's a sad, sad, sad situation. It's a sad state 207 00:21:52.640 --> 00:22:00.279 that most people are pretending. It's sad, But that's because people give more 208 00:22:00.400 --> 00:22:07.720 time and energy into faking and pretending than they do to healing themselves, allowing 209 00:22:07.799 --> 00:22:14.960 themselves to become better individuals. They would rather spend their lives faking and pretending. 210 00:22:17.240 --> 00:22:22.519 And that's so sad, that's a travesty. But that's what's going on 211 00:22:23.160 --> 00:22:30.200 all around the world, and that's why so many of you right now listening 212 00:22:30.279 --> 00:22:38.240 to me, all around the world are in unhappy relationships. Many of you 213 00:22:38.799 --> 00:22:45.279 go to work to not be around your significant other for a period of time, 214 00:22:47.119 --> 00:22:51.000 but it don't do you any good because you're always going back. You 215 00:22:51.119 --> 00:22:56.200 gotta go home. You know, you're miserable with who you chose because they 216 00:22:56.319 --> 00:23:03.400 wasn't the right one for you when you chose who you chose because you haven't 217 00:23:03.480 --> 00:23:08.720 yet figured out who you are. You haven't yet learned to truly love yourself. 218 00:23:10.400 --> 00:23:15.960 So many of you are so worried about what society says about how you 219 00:23:15.079 --> 00:23:18.759 should be, how you should look, what you should do, what you 220 00:23:18.880 --> 00:23:23.880 should have. When you love yourself, you're not thinking about what society say, 221 00:23:25.039 --> 00:23:30.759 because you realize societies around the world are filled with broken, unhealed hearts 222 00:23:30.839 --> 00:23:38.400 and minds. When a person does not love his or herself when they are 223 00:23:38.519 --> 00:23:45.839 broken and they are unhealed. How they gonna tell you something, How they 224 00:23:45.920 --> 00:23:48.680 gonna tell you the right thing when they're not even doing the right thing for 225 00:23:48.839 --> 00:23:55.440 their own lives. That's the way most people are. You have people doing 226 00:23:55.480 --> 00:24:03.559 all kinds of things because they're listening to unhealed hearts and mind people or people 227 00:24:03.759 --> 00:24:08.599 with unhealed hearts and minds, I should say, And that's the very reason 228 00:24:08.680 --> 00:24:18.079 why so many are in unhealthy relationships doing all the wrong things, because you're 229 00:24:18.119 --> 00:24:22.519 still chasing after something, you're still trying to feel the voids in your life, 230 00:24:25.640 --> 00:24:29.440 and you're doing all the wrong things to the people that you supposedly love. 231 00:24:30.000 --> 00:24:33.880 And those of you who are in relationships are taking it because of the 232 00:24:33.960 --> 00:24:41.960 same reason unhealed hearts and minds. So I just wanted to stop by and 233 00:24:41.039 --> 00:24:48.640 talk about this because so many of you, so many people are in relationships 234 00:24:48.680 --> 00:24:55.720 that shouldn't be in relationships. So many people are in relationships doing the wrong 235 00:24:56.039 --> 00:25:00.559 things, treating your significance of the wrong. You know you're treating them wrong, 236 00:25:03.160 --> 00:25:07.519 sneaking out, being abusive, being disrespectful, taking them for granted, 237 00:25:07.759 --> 00:25:12.519 and the list goes on. You're doing it, and many are taking it. 238 00:25:14.440 --> 00:25:21.920 You're in that same state of mind that he or she is in because 239 00:25:21.960 --> 00:25:26.960 of unhealed hearts and unhealed minds. You don't know who you are, you 240 00:25:26.039 --> 00:25:32.480 don't really understand yourself, but you're trying to figure out this person that's causing 241 00:25:32.559 --> 00:25:40.400 you stress and misery, just making your life even worse. Because when you're 242 00:25:40.519 --> 00:25:45.359 not healed and you take on all of this other crap that other people bring 243 00:25:45.440 --> 00:25:52.799 into your life, it just makes you more in that negative state of mind. 244 00:25:53.920 --> 00:26:02.480 It increases, it intensifies. So you have to get to a point 245 00:26:02.519 --> 00:26:07.160 in life. Come on, enough, it's enough. If you're still going 246 00:26:07.279 --> 00:26:12.559 through the same types of mess, it's time for a change. You must 247 00:26:12.680 --> 00:26:22.440 get to a place of growth. Mentally. Some of you are just spinning 248 00:26:22.519 --> 00:26:25.880 your wheels. You're like that hamster on the wheel, just going around, 249 00:26:26.000 --> 00:26:33.480 going nowhere, going nowhere, real fast. Because you choose to remain the 250 00:26:33.599 --> 00:26:40.599 same, You choose not to deal with what ails you. Some of you 251 00:26:40.680 --> 00:26:44.240 are holding on to things that you should have let go years and years and 252 00:26:44.400 --> 00:26:49.799 years ago, sabotaging your life, putting you in the mindset of fear and 253 00:26:49.960 --> 00:27:00.279 insecurities, lack of self confidence. Many of you are doing all types of 254 00:27:00.359 --> 00:27:07.400 things to feel those voice in your life when you have the voids because of 255 00:27:10.319 --> 00:27:15.279 not allowing yourself to heal from whatever it is. That's why you have voids. 256 00:27:15.519 --> 00:27:19.599 That's why you have insecurities and lack of confidence, lack of self esteeming, 257 00:27:21.000 --> 00:27:25.200 inability to trust, trusting too much, I mean all kinds of stuff 258 00:27:25.440 --> 00:27:33.039 because you are that individual who have not allowed yourself to heal. And that's 259 00:27:33.119 --> 00:27:37.880 just the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. So 260 00:27:38.680 --> 00:27:49.480 please do better, do better for yourself. Do better for yourself. You 261 00:27:49.640 --> 00:27:59.880 deserve it. I'm leaving it right there. Thank you for listening. Please 262 00:28:00.079 --> 00:28:04.799 share this episode. People need to hear. I just pray that people get 263 00:28:04.880 --> 00:28:12.759 some understanding. Get some understanding. Your life should not remain the same. 264 00:28:12.880 --> 00:28:21.440 You should be better. Please share this episode. Go to my other podcast. 265 00:28:21.640 --> 00:28:26.880 Check it out. It's called Relatable Life Chronicles. Check it out and 266 00:28:26.039 --> 00:28:30.960 share. Thank you so much much, love to each and every one of 267 00:28:30.000 --> 00:28:34.359 you. You know, I always invite you to reach out to me. 268 00:28:34.480 --> 00:28:38.640 Go to my podcast page to tell you how to contact me. If you 269 00:28:38.839 --> 00:28:45.000 ever want to be on my podcast, please reach out to me. We 270 00:28:45.119 --> 00:28:48.599 can talk about it. I will be glad to have you on. We 271 00:28:48.720 --> 00:28:52.440 can do zoom, we can do whatever we need to do, we can 272 00:28:52.519 --> 00:28:57.039 do face to face, whatever you want. We can make it happen. 273 00:28:57.519 --> 00:29:03.759 Thank you so much much, love to you. Thank you again. I 274 00:29:03.000 --> 00:29:08.480 in every episode the same, and I hope, my God, I hope 275 00:29:10.680 --> 00:29:12.839 you do it, think on it.