1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:14,720 Made a decision. I'll face sunny sad on I had a vision. So 2 00:00:15,679 --> 00:00:21,320 what's up, everybody, It's for crying all out fcll mother. Is we 3 00:00:21,399 --> 00:00:25,480 already did Patreon? Yes, we did. That's done a very good Patreon 4 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:31,399 surprising. Yeah, And we have a special guest episode this week with Kate 5 00:00:31,519 --> 00:00:36,560 Casey from This Reality Life a lot of reality show time. We'll gossip with 6 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:40,320 her, yeah, I can't for sure. But before we even do any 7 00:00:40,359 --> 00:00:45,079 of that, let's say hi to our people like Polly Pancakes and Valerie, 8 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:52,719 Bubba Fenwick and Athena Ginchard g Chard and Katerina get your moller checked and Hero 9 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:57,320 your kids love you as they should. Yeah, and Rita rocks the bassinet 10 00:00:57,479 --> 00:01:00,439 with a lot all of everybody else, every single last one of them, 11 00:01:00,439 --> 00:01:07,719 but especially Elizabeth Williams kids yea and Jacob Crowley is very growley and Aaron who 12 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:14,840 does And Rachel is still a newcomer yeah in her own way. And Randy 13 00:01:14,879 --> 00:01:19,239 may aimes she may have one or two many names. Yeah, does not 14 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:23,920 have blue hair anymore, though that's because she does care now and Nikki call 15 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:30,799 you girls, and Ashley so chic and Leslie is oh gosh, still accosting 16 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,920 people and coughing. There's two less two. One can't stop coughing and one 17 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:44,040 can't stop accosting. Also, speaking of accosting, Gabby and Missy they're out 18 00:01:44,079 --> 00:01:51,400 there, who they're out there? And I Shaan Vajpai still so cute. 19 00:01:51,519 --> 00:01:57,239 Look at her, look out her. And Kelly Bryant is going to take 20 00:01:57,239 --> 00:02:00,840 your kids to hip hop class whether you like it or not, so look 21 00:02:00,879 --> 00:02:06,400 out. Lock your kids down, and Alicia from the City of al Monte 22 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,159 and uh and Sarah's the fun. Oh and Jennifer get up and Sandra it's 23 00:02:10,159 --> 00:02:16,879 not easy being green and Krista get the strap and Stufe. Do you ever 24 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:21,960 do that thing with your kids whenever they talk, you talk over them, 25 00:02:22,159 --> 00:02:24,319 you know, like you would you would do like what they're saying, like 26 00:02:24,479 --> 00:02:29,280 mommy, I'm hung or on top of them saying and then they go, 27 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:34,520 stop you ever a torture your kids? Caleb, it's the best. Ye, 28 00:02:35,719 --> 00:02:38,080 it's so fun. I love doing all the old classics. And we've 29 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:43,439 talked about this, like where you're listen they're singing along to the radio and 30 00:02:43,479 --> 00:02:46,280 then you go like, oh, who who is this and they go, 31 00:02:46,319 --> 00:02:47,719 it's Taylor swift and you go, yeah, let's keep it that way. 32 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:53,360 That one and then the one where you go where they're where they're trying to 33 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:54,879 tell you something but the music sloud, so you look like you're about to 34 00:02:54,879 --> 00:02:59,840 turn down the music, but then you turn away up all right. I 35 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,520 would do the thing where inn Italia would be in her CARSI crying, crying, 36 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:07,560 crying, and then I would just push the window down and then blast 37 00:03:07,759 --> 00:03:10,800 with air and stop her from crying for a second, and then roll it 38 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:15,719 back up and start crying again. Window goes down, blaster with the air. 39 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:20,039 She doesn't know what the deal, stop crying. That was fun. 40 00:03:20,439 --> 00:03:25,240 Those are some good tips klaas yah. Yeah, learn from us how to 41 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:29,960 funk with your kids. I used to. I remember the one where I 42 00:03:30,039 --> 00:03:32,879 go, I'll study in Italia. Your birthday's coming up this year. We 43 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:37,319 can't afford to birthday party, so we're just gonna flip a coin and have 44 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:42,960 one birthday party. That's a good one for twin. That was fun. 45 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:46,879 I canna compete, yes, Like I'm gonna give you guys a week and 46 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:50,520 like whoever's like the best kid does the most chores, Like that's who gets 47 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,520 a birthday party right, and the other one so sorry, see you next 48 00:03:53,599 --> 00:03:57,719 year. Let's see you next year. But don't worry. Next year it'll 49 00:03:57,759 --> 00:04:00,479 be fun it we'll have a great time, will do it up even better 50 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:06,439 than this year. But no, like what you know, my kids and 51 00:04:06,479 --> 00:04:14,199 I I feel like people would be legitimately just horrified at the way my kids 52 00:04:14,199 --> 00:04:16,399 and I talked to each other because years ago I would tell you that John 53 00:04:16,439 --> 00:04:19,360 and I would just swear at each other constantly and you know, what's up, 54 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:24,040 asshole, like constantly, but you know, somewhere along the line, 55 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:28,279 and sadly it was not this year, it was. It's been a while. 56 00:04:28,879 --> 00:04:30,920 But I just do that to my kids and they do it to me 57 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:34,920 all the time. And like my kids will like Sadie'll just be like, 58 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:39,319 Mom, why are you such a whore? Like that? And we laugh 59 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,639 like I don't. I think it's really funny. And the thing is like, 60 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:46,000 obviously they know better. They would never talk that way at school. 61 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:50,839 Like the thing that's interesting is they're really good kids and they're very respectful and 62 00:04:50,879 --> 00:04:57,920 if it came to something that was like like they're not okay with any kind 63 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:02,759 of how do I put this, Like if you said something that wasn't politically 64 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,920 correct. They would call it like they would not think that's funny. But 65 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:11,120 somehow if you're saying, you know, calling it them, who's right or 66 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:14,920 like assholes or whatever, that's hilarious. Like they're totally down with that, 67 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,560 right, Yeah, I love it. And they do it all the time. 68 00:05:18,199 --> 00:05:21,759 And Elbi is so funny with it too, like, and they we 69 00:05:21,879 --> 00:05:25,800 love to deadpan it to each other, like Elbie'll be like, Mom, 70 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:31,120 I have a question for you. Why all the whorring? And we try 71 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:34,360 to like get each other with that, like like Sadie'll do it to like 72 00:05:34,439 --> 00:05:40,759 Mom, it just seems like lately you've been such a whore. Like and 73 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,040 if they get like if I don't see it coming, it really makes me 74 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:47,480 laugh right right, if I see it coming, I'm like to slow. 75 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:51,600 It's called sense of humor, and that's good thing. But I just feel 76 00:05:51,639 --> 00:05:57,120 like if somebody was listening in, they'd be like, wow, that's horrible 77 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:01,680 fishing your kids, you know. But then here I am on a pretty 78 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:08,040 big podcast letting you know that that my young children. My tween year old 79 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:11,079 called me a horror and I called them hors We love it, right, 80 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:24,959 Speaking of Horse Italia. She she had her wisdom teeth out, Oh yeah, 81 00:06:25,439 --> 00:06:29,639 on Friday. And I guess, you know, everybody like Elbie had 82 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:33,839 hers out, Italia's got hers out, Gracie Suzanne's daughters getting hers out next 83 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:41,079 week. But so Sunny not so much. I don't know what the deal 84 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:45,839 is. But hers, she had all four had come out on Friday. 85 00:06:46,399 --> 00:06:50,240 And the last time she's had surgery was when she was six five or six 86 00:06:50,319 --> 00:06:58,519 and she had her adnoid and her tonsils taking out. And I just remember 87 00:06:59,439 --> 00:07:02,439 she was at the children's hospital. She came out of it and at a 88 00:07:02,519 --> 00:07:08,240 surgery, and she was really agitated and blah blah blah. But she was 89 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,639 so young back then, so I didn't even you know, I didn't really 90 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:15,839 think about back then. So you know, I take her on Friday. 91 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:19,560 We go to the dentist's office. He says, I really like the dentist. 92 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:23,839 He's like, you know, it'll will be done in thirty minutes. 93 00:07:24,079 --> 00:07:26,240 And I was like, really, it's gonna be that fast and he's like 94 00:07:26,279 --> 00:07:29,040 oh yeah. I said, all right, okay, so I'll wait go 95 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:38,920 oh yeah, Nassy. She'd be like, you're covered by insurance, right, 96 00:07:39,439 --> 00:07:44,680 right, No, they never are going right now. So then so 97 00:07:44,879 --> 00:07:47,800 I left my phone at home, so I was about to drop her and 98 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,279 and the dentist place was like right up the street, so I was gonna 99 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:55,279 drop her off, and then once she goes in, go back and get 100 00:07:55,319 --> 00:07:57,959 my phone. But then they're like, He's like, I wouldn't go too 101 00:07:57,959 --> 00:08:00,600 far. She's gonna be done in thirty minutes. I was reading a really 102 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:05,000 good article in the magazine, really sad about I'll tell you later. But 103 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:11,079 anyway, so okay, so i'm I'm I wait there for her. The 104 00:08:11,199 --> 00:08:15,480 lady comes out, she's like, oh, while we were waiting to go 105 00:08:15,639 --> 00:08:20,839 in for her surgery, two twin boys come walking out and they look like 106 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,800 you know with you know, the old school with the thing tied around their 107 00:08:24,839 --> 00:08:28,959 head, the ice pack. Yeah, yeah, yeah, like I always 108 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:35,519 picture, Yes, I always picture the night stalker because because now hear me 109 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:43,000 Richard Ramirez, because when he was out night stalking and there was a sketch 110 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,480 of him on the news and he was in East LA and those gang bangers 111 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:50,480 found him and chased him down and beat the fuck out of him until police 112 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:54,240 showed up. He was in the back. There was a on the cover 113 00:08:54,399 --> 00:08:58,759 of La Times Nightstalker caught and he's in the back of the police car with 114 00:09:00,159 --> 00:09:05,600 thing around his head because he got beat looking so pathetic. Seventies cartoon. 115 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:09,200 Now go google it. If you don't believe me, go look it up. 116 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,519 That wasn't that's Natalia. Okay. So yeah, so they have the 117 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:15,639 ice pack that goes around the head all the way around that like ties up 118 00:09:15,639 --> 00:09:18,320 the top velcros at the top. Of course, hair gets stuck. And 119 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:22,200 then anyway, so these two boys are walking out. They're like seventeen year 120 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:26,240 old boys, and their mom's with them, and she's walking with both of 121 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:31,080 them. You know, they just were put under and she good twins. 122 00:09:31,159 --> 00:09:33,840 Mom knows how to get get her back. Get her to two for one, 123 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:37,440 right, that's what I was thinking over with, get it over with. 124 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:39,960 So I'm looking at the boys and they look and I go to Italia, 125 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:43,759 that's gonna be you. And they looked fine, like they were like 126 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:46,720 kind of like, you know, smiling a little whatever, like kind of 127 00:09:46,759 --> 00:09:52,159 loopy out of it, sleepy, but fine. Okay, So they walk 128 00:09:52,159 --> 00:09:54,559 out. So Natalia is not nervous. The only thing she's nervous is is 129 00:09:54,639 --> 00:10:01,200 for the ivy. The ivy. She doesn't like that a part. Yeah, 130 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,200 So I said, okay, that's that'll be done in a second, 131 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:07,320 and then you'll be you'll be put out. You're they're gonna put you out, 132 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:11,440 Okay. So I'm waiting in the back. So I'm waiting for her 133 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:16,279 now not so much with Natalia. So the lady comes out and she goes, 134 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:20,559 your daughter's done. She did fine, she's in the little recovery room, 135 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:24,679 like you can come back and get her. She's crying, and I 136 00:10:24,759 --> 00:10:26,919 was like, oh, I didn't even like. I was like, you 137 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:31,000 know, I didn't think like you're gonna get your teeth pulled, You're gonna 138 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,960 go home. I'm gonna wait on you. You'll be fine, you'll be 139 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:39,960 back at school on Monday. Have a good day. So she's crying, 140 00:10:39,159 --> 00:10:43,960 I was like, huh oh, oh, all right, So she is 141 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:48,159 not even crying, she's pissed. She was like, there's supposed to. 142 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:50,240 First of all, she wanted to keep spitting, and the nurse was like, 143 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:54,759 no, you can't spit. No spitting, no sucking, no you 144 00:10:54,799 --> 00:10:58,240 know, no straws, no spitting. She kept saying like I want to, 145 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:01,960 you know, I'm trying. I don't I want to spit, and 146 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:05,519 the lady was like, you can just dab, dab your lip, don't 147 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:09,120 spit, just dab, and she's like, slip. She's not listening to 148 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:11,600 the lady. She's just spitting all over herself, all over the lady, 149 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:16,240 all over me. She's got gauze in her mouth, she's crying, she's 150 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:20,919 upset. And I was like, and then she's giving me. The lady's 151 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:24,720 giving me instructions, you know, go ignoring it, just ignoring n italiat 152 00:11:24,879 --> 00:11:30,840 like telling me what you know what to do. Then the medication is called 153 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:35,279 in at the by the way, call the medication in like the night before, 154 00:11:35,799 --> 00:11:39,440 because then I get in Italia situated and I call the right a pharmacy 155 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,639 and they're like, yeah, I'm not ready yet. It'll be ready in 156 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:45,559 forty five minutes. And they're like, she can take a she can you 157 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,559 know, she can take a pain medicine as soon as she gets home if 158 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,639 if you want her, you know, because once the stuff starts wearing off, 159 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,639 you're gonna want to be on top of it, right the you know, 160 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:58,159 the high ibuprofen whatever. So I was like, okay, So so 161 00:11:58,279 --> 00:12:01,840 I'm now Natali is upset. So as soon as we walk out, she's 162 00:12:01,879 --> 00:12:05,120 like, they didn't even put me under. They didn't put me out. 163 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:09,080 They didn't put me out. I was awake the whole time, and I 164 00:12:09,159 --> 00:12:11,320 go, I don't think so, Natalia, I think you were put out. 165 00:12:11,399 --> 00:12:15,440 I told you it was gonna be so fast you're gonna think. And 166 00:12:15,519 --> 00:12:16,759 she's like, no, I'm telling you, they didn't put me out. 167 00:12:16,759 --> 00:12:20,440 They didn't put me out. Okay. The doctor calls later on the check 168 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:22,399 and I said, she's saying that you didn't put her out, and he 169 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:24,919 goes, oh, no, we put her out. She was out, 170 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:30,039 That's what I thought. So she's screaming, cry, give me this, 171 00:12:30,279 --> 00:12:33,120 give me that. I can't. You know, she's irritated. She can't 172 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,399 get comfortable. I get her at home. She already makes a bed for 173 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:39,519 her on the couch, puts all her blankets down there. But yet she's 174 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:45,080 putting gauze in, then taking the gauze out, spitting gauze in, gauze 175 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:46,720 out. She can't get comfortable. I'm like, just go to sleep, 176 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:50,600 Go to sleep, just like I'm like Bethany, like you know, on 177 00:12:50,799 --> 00:12:56,600 a scary island, like just go to sleep. Yelling at her, trying 178 00:12:56,639 --> 00:13:00,200 to have patient like, I know, I know, you just cry and 179 00:13:00,399 --> 00:13:05,519 I can't understand her because she's an I'm my mouth, I'm all swollen. 180 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:07,679 I go, you're not that swollen. You're not. So I give her 181 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:11,799 a mirror so she can see, especially when she's drinking water. She can't 182 00:13:11,879 --> 00:13:15,519 drink out of a straw, drinking water, she's dribbling. I get her 183 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,240 a mirror so she can see. It's just a blood bath and a shit 184 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:22,960 show. And I'm trying to get her settled. And finally I'm like, 185 00:13:24,279 --> 00:13:28,320 oh my god, and I'm making stew soup so the night before in a 186 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:33,519 crackpot so that she can have that for you know, when she's hungry. 187 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:37,039 Okay, she's not hungry yet, even though she can't eat or drink from 188 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:39,399 the night before. Blah blah blah. She's just all she can think about 189 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:43,639 is the gauze going in. The gauze is coming out, the gauzes, 190 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,080 and she's ripping it out of her mouth, and I'm like, you have 191 00:13:46,279 --> 00:13:50,840 stitches back there, bitch, be gentle, don't just rip it. She's 192 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:56,679 hysterical and Natae is not really a crier. This must have been a reaction 193 00:13:56,759 --> 00:14:03,200 to the anesthesia. Yes, So I'm thinking, okay, So I tell 194 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:05,120 Sonny keep an eye on her. I'm going to the I'm gonna go to 195 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:11,120 the Rite Aid to go get you know, because Elbie had her and she 196 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:13,600 was like, I think she's a universal the next day, right see, 197 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:18,120 so okay, so she was like ready to drive later. I was like, 198 00:14:18,519 --> 00:14:20,000 you can't drive for the rest of the day. She was like, 199 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,679 I feel fine, right. She never took a pain poll. Yeah, 200 00:14:22,759 --> 00:14:26,120 see, every and the doctor says everybody's different. Like, I'm like, 201 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:30,759 I saw those twins walk out. They were fine, and he's like every 202 00:14:30,919 --> 00:14:35,440 the anesthesia, like everybody can fuck you up. Yes. So I go 203 00:14:35,559 --> 00:14:39,840 to write aid. I come back, She's out, sound asleep. I'm 204 00:14:39,879 --> 00:14:43,120 like, thank God. But then I'm like, okay, she didn't that 205 00:14:43,279 --> 00:14:48,080 They said she should take the pain med when when you get it, because 206 00:14:48,759 --> 00:14:52,440 once this thing starts to wear off, it's gonna hurt. So I'm like, 207 00:14:52,799 --> 00:14:54,960 I don't. I don't know what to do. So so I call 208 00:14:54,039 --> 00:14:56,799 Olgad. I'm like, she sound asleep. Do I just let her sleep? 209 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,759 She goes no, I would wake her up and make her take it. 210 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:01,639 And I was like I kind of don't want to make her up like 211 00:15:01,799 --> 00:15:07,159 she was a screen. I know, because she has a lot of she's 212 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:11,440 she's numb, right, so probably when she would wake up, I don't 213 00:15:11,519 --> 00:15:16,720 know that she would necessarily be in that much pain. Yeah, see I 214 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:20,759 didn't know, so I was so I was afraid. So I wake her 215 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:26,519 up. She was. I was ready for battle, another blood bath. 216 00:15:26,879 --> 00:15:28,879 She just woke up, no problem. I give her the pill. I 217 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:31,559 said, take this. She takes it, she swallows it, she puts 218 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:37,799 the thing gently back in her mouth out again. Then she wakes up. 219 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:39,759 Then I see her and I like, I'm in the kitchen, I'm watching 220 00:15:39,799 --> 00:15:43,399 her, and she wakes up, like a few hours later, and right, 221 00:15:43,519 --> 00:15:45,919 oh boy, here we go. I'm like, how are you doing? 222 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:50,120 How you doing? Totally fine? She didn't even remember. She was 223 00:15:50,159 --> 00:15:52,720 like, I don't even remember coming home. And I was like, anesthesia, 224 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:58,240 Yes, it really affects her. Good to know though, right for 225 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:02,840 like later, right and now. I was thinking when she had her surgery, 226 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,600 she was a nightmare. When she came out of anesthesia. Same thing. 227 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:07,840 She wanted the thing off her finger. You know, when you're in 228 00:16:07,879 --> 00:16:12,320 the hospital they put the thing blood pressure thing she was a nightmare, and 229 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:17,240 then when she fell asleep and woke up later, she was fine and doesn't 230 00:16:17,279 --> 00:16:21,799 even remember, so she doesn't remember anything. But I was like, holy 231 00:16:22,039 --> 00:16:26,320 fuck, like Jesus, like, is it a girl thing? Like I 232 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,320 see the boys. The boys that I'm thinking to myself, Sonny would probably 233 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:33,279 be fine. I don't know, but Natalia she just was a nightmare. 234 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:36,759 But when she woke up, she was totally fine. She's been fine after 235 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:41,919 that and she's just been resting. She still has pain. Really. I 236 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:45,279 think it's because in the beginning she kept taking the things, the gauze in 237 00:16:45,399 --> 00:16:49,240 and out, and she was She still was bleeding a lot the next day. 238 00:16:51,879 --> 00:16:56,159 So still here she is on a Monday. She's home not feeling good. 239 00:16:56,279 --> 00:17:00,559 Last night she was in pain. When did she have it on Friday? 240 00:17:00,679 --> 00:17:06,480 Friday? M hm, afternoon. Yeah. She should be good in 241 00:17:06,519 --> 00:17:11,400 another day, I hope. So I think she'll have a follow up, 242 00:17:11,799 --> 00:17:15,119 probably in a week. Yeah, No, they didn't have I don't they 243 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:19,279 said that. The Oh yeah, I guess it was such a blur for 244 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:23,839 me too. They're giving me all this instructions and she's just screaming and crying, 245 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:29,839 blood coming out, spitting trying to spit, trying not keep her from 246 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:34,319 spitting. Don't spit. Yeah, that sounds really hard. Yeah, it 247 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:41,400 was is the polar opposite. Although when she was younger, she had to 248 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:47,359 have like four teeth pulled. I'm trying to remember if the first no, 249 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:52,000 she's she's had teeth pulled where she had to be put out because she had 250 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:56,839 to have adult teeth pulled, and then she and that was a couple years 251 00:17:56,920 --> 00:18:00,920 before the Wisdom teeth. But yeah, she woke up a sheet. Well 252 00:18:00,039 --> 00:18:04,880 John took her right. I can't remember why, but I think I think 253 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:10,400 it was like suit right after I broke my foot so I couldn't do anything. 254 00:18:10,599 --> 00:18:12,039 So anyway, John took her. And then when she came in the 255 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:19,279 house, she was just being funny and she was like her raw like laughing, 256 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:22,480 and John Kavidio she was going to be a good day. Then she 257 00:18:22,519 --> 00:18:26,039 went to sleep. Then she woke up a few hours later. Never was 258 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:30,319 like hurting enough to take a pain pill. And then literally by like the 259 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:34,519 next day, maybe not the very next day. The next day she was 260 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:37,400 up and around and doing stuff. And then the day after that she was 261 00:18:37,599 --> 00:18:44,160 literally universal all day. I'm fine, so I know I guess everybody's different, 262 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:49,519 but I respond to anesthesia. I I've had some really bad reactions. 263 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:55,519 I've had a bad reaction going under to the point where I thought this was 264 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:57,480 many years ago. I was like twenty It was when I had a brust 265 00:18:57,519 --> 00:19:06,599 reduction surgery. I remember I'm feeling anxious even thinking about it when they gave 266 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:10,440 me the first medication. So you know how they'll give you a medication when 267 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:12,119 you go under, and they say this is going to relax you, and 268 00:19:12,319 --> 00:19:15,279 then then they give you the next one to put you to sleep and go 269 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:19,400 count from a hundred. Well, somehow they gave me something. It's the 270 00:19:19,519 --> 00:19:26,000 paralytic drug that makes it so that you don't move during surgery. Well, 271 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:30,559 I was a hundred percent sure that I couldn't breathe and that I was dying 272 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,680 like I could. I thought I couldn't breathe, and I was trying to 273 00:19:33,799 --> 00:19:37,319 tell them ill. I mean, I swear to god, I remember this 274 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:41,319 like it was yesterday, and it was like thirty something years ago. And 275 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:45,880 I remember trying to tell them like in it like you're in a nightmare and 276 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:48,039 you can't scream like that, And I was like, oh my god, 277 00:19:48,079 --> 00:19:52,000 I can't breathe that I'm going to die, and they don't know because I 278 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:53,640 in my mind, I'm like, well, I must not be hooked up 279 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:59,160 to a monitor yet, so they don't know because I'm clearly I'm not breathing. 280 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:03,160 I can't breathe, so I think I eked out like I can't read, 281 00:20:03,519 --> 00:20:07,359 you know, and they're like, no, you're breathing. And then 282 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:11,640 I was like like nodding my head like I'm not and I started to panic 283 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,759 and they're like, okay, we're putting you out right now, and then 284 00:20:14,799 --> 00:20:18,680 they put me out. I've had quite a few surgeries since then, more 285 00:20:18,759 --> 00:20:22,359 minor surgeries like for five woods and stuff, and I've always been like, 286 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:27,200 listen, I get I don't know what it is, but I don't have 287 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:32,400 always have a good reaction to anesthesia, so like put me out fast, 288 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:37,359 and they do, like they're like, okay, now when I get put 289 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,119 out, I always tell them I go, I had a really bad reaction 290 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:44,839 once and I'm scared of it, so just put me out and they're like 291 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:48,160 okay, gonn, I wow, we can do that. Yeah. You 292 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:52,200 know. You hear all these nightmares of people like oh I woke up during 293 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:56,359 surgery and jazz Like I'm like, fuck that shit. Oh yeah, all 294 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:57,960 right, we have to take a quick break to talk. 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She's got like a you know, revolving door of 341 00:24:38,519 --> 00:24:41,200 first her boyfriend's coming over, then her friends are coming over, then her 342 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:45,519 boyfriend's coming back, then her friends or other friends are coming like cat. 343 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:49,200 But then so I made plans to go out on Saturday night. I haven't. 344 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,519 I haven't gone out a while, So I made plans to go with 345 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:57,559 my girlfriends, and uh, Natalie was like, what are you doing? 346 00:24:57,759 --> 00:25:02,680 Are you you gonna? Can you watch movies with me tonight? And I 347 00:25:02,799 --> 00:25:07,759 was like, oh, I thought that you had friends coming over right now. 348 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,759 Everybody's busy, So and so's working. Her boyfriend can't come over, 349 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,640 he's got this to do. So I was like, oh, yeah, 350 00:25:15,759 --> 00:25:18,519 of course, yes, Like I've been wanting to watch a movie with her. 351 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,440 So we were like, okay, well, movie to watch, blah 352 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:26,799 blah blah. So then she was in the She saw this scary movie in 353 00:25:26,839 --> 00:25:30,759 the movie theater called talk to Me. Have you heard of this? Oh? 354 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,759 Yeah, have you seen it? I have not. I've heard very 355 00:25:33,839 --> 00:25:37,480 very good things about it, though. Well, Natalia saw it in the 356 00:25:37,519 --> 00:25:41,359 movie theater, and I remember her calling me and saying, I saw the 357 00:25:41,519 --> 00:25:47,799 scariest movie. And she loves scary movies and she was terrified. She was 358 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:49,599 like, I could not sleep alone. I had to go to her friend 359 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,559 Devin's house to spend the night. She did not want to be alone. 360 00:25:52,839 --> 00:25:56,960 She was freaked out in the dark. She said her friend had to leave 361 00:25:57,039 --> 00:26:00,759 in the middle of the movie. She was like, it was the scariest 362 00:26:00,799 --> 00:26:03,559 Like a Facebook ad for this movie. How they're like people are saying they 363 00:26:03,599 --> 00:26:08,079 can't get through the first two minutes. I remember the back in the day 364 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,519 when they were like when The Exorcist came out and they were like, people 365 00:26:11,599 --> 00:26:17,960 are throwing up right and the out the the Witch Blair Witch Project. Yeah 366 00:26:18,039 --> 00:26:21,200 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. People are having heart attacks. Remember 367 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,559 how scary they that scared was, yeah, and that was supposed to be 368 00:26:23,599 --> 00:26:27,960 a good thing. People are happy to be hospitalized. This movie. You're 369 00:26:29,039 --> 00:26:30,599 like, oh my god, I must see it immediately. People are in 370 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:36,759 comas, you know. So she's so, she's so. So we're looking 371 00:26:36,799 --> 00:26:38,759 on iTunes for like a movie to watch, and that comes up and she 372 00:26:38,839 --> 00:26:42,240 goes, Mom, that movie is so scary, and I go, can 373 00:26:42,279 --> 00:26:45,519 we watch it, and she's like really, like do you really like you're 374 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,279 you're gonna sleep with me tonight? Then? And I'm like, okay, 375 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:55,240 so we watched time I'll sleep with my daughter? Hell yes, oh yeah, 376 00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:00,920 so we watch it. It was good, but it wasn't like I 377 00:27:00,079 --> 00:27:03,759 wasn't. You know. Do you feel like if you were at the theater 378 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,920 you would have been more scared or do you feel like this was like a 379 00:27:07,079 --> 00:27:11,039 peer pressure, like oh my gosh, I'm with my friends and let's let's 380 00:27:11,079 --> 00:27:15,839 all get hysterical about it. I mean, I think absolutely being in a 381 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,039 theater it would have been a different than sitting in the living room and watching 382 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:23,000 it. Like what's it about? It's about this, Okay, this girl 383 00:27:23,279 --> 00:27:29,319 and her teenage friends. There's this hand that's like a like it looks like 384 00:27:29,519 --> 00:27:33,720 as if somebody took a cast of a hand, you know, like plaster 385 00:27:33,839 --> 00:27:37,200 of Paris, and it's just sitting like as if the hand is reaching out 386 00:27:37,319 --> 00:27:41,279 and it's from the elbow all the way. Okay, So they take the 387 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:45,519 hand, they sit it down on the table, They light a candle, 388 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,279 they say, talk to me. You grab the hand, and you see 389 00:27:49,319 --> 00:27:53,119 a spirit immediately. Whoever's in the chair. But you can only do it 390 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:57,960 for sick for ninety seconds. Otherwise the spirit will stay with you if you 391 00:27:59,039 --> 00:28:00,880 go longer than ninety second. So you see the dead, And how did 392 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:04,640 they find out that that's a thing. They're just they're men dangers. Yeah, 393 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:10,039 they're like, after ninety seconds, it's all over. Tis got right? 394 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:11,519 Okay, Yeah, it's a whole felt possessed by a spirit, so 395 00:28:11,559 --> 00:28:15,759 you don't so cut it off at eighty nine seconds, right, okay. 396 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,200 So and they make it a you know, it's a it's a thing. 397 00:28:18,279 --> 00:28:21,000 They get parties together and people do it and they're like, I want to 398 00:28:21,039 --> 00:28:22,920 do it, and I want to do it, okay. And also they 399 00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:27,960 learned about a special teeth whitening thing the spirit with the hand. And also, 400 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:30,000 oh, this is a great way to get your teeth white, right 401 00:28:33,519 --> 00:28:38,960 TikTok is? So yes, So you say that and then the spirit shows 402 00:28:40,039 --> 00:28:45,519 up and then you gotta cut it off anyway. Suffice to say, obviously 403 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,319 somebody doesn't cut it off at ninety seconds, and then the spirit is around. 404 00:28:48,839 --> 00:28:53,279 So and the girl, the main girl, her mom passed away and 405 00:28:53,519 --> 00:28:56,200 she, you know, kind of wanted to talk to her mom. So 406 00:28:59,279 --> 00:29:03,920 you know, hilarity ensues, right anyway, it's it's that's kind of what 407 00:29:03,039 --> 00:29:07,960 it's about. And you know, of course there's jump scares and shit like 408 00:29:07,079 --> 00:29:11,599 that, and of course it's gross, like you're looking at dead people and 409 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:18,400 you know that guys are off, you know. And then there's like graphic 410 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,079 scenes where the kid like as they like bang his head against the wall and 411 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,519 like one guy stabs him. He can't take it, so he stabs himself 412 00:29:25,599 --> 00:29:29,119 in the eye. Oh yeah, it's graphic like that kind of stuff. 413 00:29:29,279 --> 00:29:33,119 I know it doesn't bother me because I know it's not real, right, 414 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:40,759 But I like psychological throwing me too much more than just gore for the sake 415 00:29:40,799 --> 00:29:45,160 of Like, I will never watch there's some movie like like a Saw movie 416 00:29:45,319 --> 00:29:52,279 or anything where they're like taking hostages from like in a hotel and killing it. 417 00:29:52,359 --> 00:29:53,759 I don't know, I'm sure there's a movie like that. I don't 418 00:29:53,799 --> 00:29:59,839 want to see that. What I don't understand wanting to watch people be gruc 419 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:06,200 tortured and killed. Yeah. Now, Like I loved the sixth Sense because 420 00:30:06,759 --> 00:30:08,799 I was like, oh, it's like it's like I like movies that are 421 00:30:08,799 --> 00:30:15,759 about real people like that have combined slice of life with something that you know, 422 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:19,400 like a ghost story or something where and even the twist at the end, 423 00:30:19,559 --> 00:30:22,960 it's just yes, yeah, it's as good. She's seen the sixth 424 00:30:23,039 --> 00:30:30,759 Sense. So so I always loved the others with Nicole Kidman huh and that 425 00:30:30,039 --> 00:30:33,079 kind of hat Did you ever see that show? Yeah? Okay, So 426 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:37,400 I was so after we watched her dumb scary movie that didn't really do much 427 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,599 for me, but I I was like, oh yeah, oh god, 428 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:45,759 Mom, isn't it really scary? I was like yeah, huh, it's 429 00:30:45,839 --> 00:30:48,680 like okay, So like I'm so scared. Please, let's can we watch 430 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,559 one that I want you to watch? And then we're flipping through and then 431 00:30:52,599 --> 00:30:56,680 we see the Texas chainsaw masker. This is exactly what I don't want to 432 00:30:56,680 --> 00:31:00,519 see, right, And then I was like I've never seen it and she 433 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,799 was like, yeah, it's supposed to be scared. So I'm like, 434 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,839 all right, let's just let's fast forward through some of it. Let's just 435 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:11,880 get to it like obviously, like right, so we see it is so 436 00:31:11,039 --> 00:31:15,799 I read to see the mailman coming over the whole like, oh, I've 437 00:31:15,839 --> 00:31:18,319 got a letter for you. Hey, do you want to invite me inside 438 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:22,480 for some iced tea. Like, let's skip through that, right. So 439 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:27,640 we're watched and we read we read the synopsis what it's about. So we 440 00:31:27,759 --> 00:31:30,759 get the gist. Okay, they're in you know, a van traveling or 441 00:31:30,799 --> 00:31:36,440 whatever. They passed the meat factory, the butcher and so we fast forward 442 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,799 and we get to like the real stuff, right, and it tells like 443 00:31:40,599 --> 00:31:42,440 this is dumb, And I'm thinking, you think this is dumb? What 444 00:31:42,519 --> 00:31:48,000 about your dumb movie? But okay, so we get through that anyway, 445 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:52,319 I'm like, can we watch the others now? Please? So we put 446 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:57,319 on the others. We get half hour into it, this bitch falls asleep. 447 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:01,240 Of course she does, How dare you, Natalia? No? I 448 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:05,440 know? So then I was like, okay, I'm going to bed. 449 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,559 So I turned the TV off. We went to sleep, and that was 450 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:13,759 that. But she says that today after when I come home, she said, 451 00:32:13,799 --> 00:32:16,039 we can watch it. So I'll let you know. Oh, thank 452 00:32:16,079 --> 00:32:22,440 you, Natalia. Ya, it's gonna stay away. What's the scariest movie 453 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:28,559 you've seen? Klin? Probably one of my favorite horror movies. It came 454 00:32:28,559 --> 00:32:31,519 out a few years ago. It's called Hereditary. I just watched it. 455 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:37,039 Yeah, that one, was it really scary? I would say it was 456 00:32:37,119 --> 00:32:40,880 pretty scary. Yeah, that's a good one. Here's the problem with scary 457 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:45,279 movies. They're not real, Like, no matter what's happening, you know 458 00:32:45,319 --> 00:32:47,640 what I mean, Like, here's how you can scare the funk out of 459 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:52,680 me. A documentary, Yeah, like a scary documentary, Like if it 460 00:32:52,839 --> 00:32:55,559 really happened, then I'm in like, oh god, that could happened to 461 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:59,160 somebody. But like as soon as you're like, oh, this is a 462 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,880 horror movie that it's meant to scare you, don't Isn't it hard to suspend 463 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:07,079 your disbelief, aren't you? Just like? No, I love horror movies 464 00:33:07,319 --> 00:33:09,359 and yeah, and all the bloody ones and that. Yeah, they'll scare 465 00:33:09,359 --> 00:33:12,559 the crap out of me, and I love it. There was one that 466 00:33:12,599 --> 00:33:15,440 came out last year that's very violent and very scary and very good. It's 467 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:20,319 called Smile. Very creepy too. Oh I've seen it. I kept looking 468 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,160 at it because we're looking for scary movies. I kept seeing this Smile thing. 469 00:33:23,319 --> 00:33:28,000 You watch it? No, Well, it's it's like, you know, 470 00:33:28,079 --> 00:33:30,319 it's like the other one. It's very violent, but it's very creepy 471 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:35,519 and it's a good that was a good one from I like creepy, but 472 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:40,279 documentaries that's basically. I just watched ones called The Long Island, you know, 473 00:33:42,359 --> 00:33:46,240 right, serial Killer. I watched that about the guy. Yeah, 474 00:33:46,319 --> 00:33:50,279 they just caught that, They just caught. Yeah, that was interesting. 475 00:33:51,359 --> 00:33:57,319 I just watched a documentary that was so good because because our guest Kate Casey. 476 00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,440 It's called Never Let Him Go. It was one of the ones on 477 00:34:00,519 --> 00:34:06,720 her list. It's a four part documentary. It's one of the best documentaries 478 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,599 I've seen in a long time. Really, Never let Him Go. Never 479 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:17,920 Let Him Go. Okay, So it's about it's about a guy who either 480 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:24,199 who they thought committed suicide, we don't say committed suicide, died by suicide 481 00:34:24,599 --> 00:34:29,320 in Australia. And he was gay, and he was in his twenties, 482 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:37,519 and there was a rash of LGBTQ hate crimes happening around the same time. 483 00:34:37,599 --> 00:34:43,599 But the Australian police they trapped it up to a suicide because they found his 484 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,719 clothes and like his ID, so he could easily be identified in any way. 485 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:53,559 His brother fought for like over thirty years to try to find out what 486 00:34:53,639 --> 00:35:00,719 actually happened to him. There's so many good kind of wists. It's like 487 00:35:00,519 --> 00:35:07,400 there's a there's a female police officer who you think you're gonna love at the 488 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,320 beginning. Well, and we'll talk about this with Kate, but in case 489 00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:15,000 anybody doesn't listen to our interview episodes, you think it's one of those ones 490 00:35:15,039 --> 00:35:19,039 where you're like where you're at. First in the first episode, you're like, 491 00:35:19,119 --> 00:35:22,039 Okay, does this need to be four episodes? Like what are we 492 00:35:22,079 --> 00:35:23,960 going to do for four whole episodes? Right? But then like the second 493 00:35:24,039 --> 00:35:27,480 episode, you're like, okay, yeah, and you could have concluded it 494 00:35:27,599 --> 00:35:30,440 here. But then the third episode like kind of takes a turn and you're 495 00:35:30,519 --> 00:35:37,880 hearing all about this officer who was like the only woman on this all male 496 00:35:38,519 --> 00:35:45,000 like team investigative team investigating homicides. And at first you're like, oh my 497 00:35:45,119 --> 00:35:50,079 gosh, like how cool, Like she's like feminist power, like oh, 498 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,639 but then by the end of that episode, you're like this woman is a 499 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:58,880 full on bitch, like fuck her. And it's like and then anyway, 500 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:02,360 and it's it's got a good a good ending. It's got a lot of 501 00:36:02,519 --> 00:36:06,320 like where you're like, well, but but is it or isn't it or 502 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:07,760 is it or are they? Are we ever gonna find out? Is this 503 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:12,480 gonna be thinking? And it's really really really good. I like stuff like 504 00:36:12,599 --> 00:36:15,719 that where you're like sad because you're like I can't believe this happened, but 505 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:20,559 you're also like really invested in it. I don't know. That's the kind 506 00:36:20,599 --> 00:36:23,320 of thing that Yeah, I like that. I love it. Like like 507 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:29,400 remember when we years ago when we watched Dear Zachary, Yes, and it's 508 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,760 like that I was crying. I felt like I'm not kicked in the stomach, 509 00:36:34,039 --> 00:36:37,199 Like there's if you don't know what happens in that documentary. You start 510 00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:38,679 off all innocent, just like, oh, this is kind of sad, 511 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:42,719 and then you're like, oh my god, Like that is one of the 512 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,920 best documentaries. Like I don't like to be scared, but I like to 513 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:49,079 be I like to be made sad. Yeah, me too? Is that 514 00:36:49,159 --> 00:36:52,440 weird? Now? I like it too. I think Dear Zachary is one 515 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:57,360 of the best documents. And it kind of had some sense of humor here 516 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,920 and there. Do you remember that? Yeah, because it's the friend who's 517 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:05,039 making the documentary, so you're like, he's friend a friend, right, 518 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,039 he has some humor about his friend. It's not like the mom made the 519 00:37:08,119 --> 00:37:13,320 documentary and is right, it's all sad, right, right, Yeah, 520 00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:16,639 but that knocked me out, like I couldn't function for like a day, 521 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:20,880 I know, after I saw that. Yeah, and then I'll get like 522 00:37:21,039 --> 00:37:22,599 John will just be like, why do you do that to yourself? Because 523 00:37:22,599 --> 00:37:28,119 I love something crying. He's like, why would you watch that? And 524 00:37:28,159 --> 00:37:30,920 I'm like, well, why do people watch I guess scary movies like right, 525 00:37:31,519 --> 00:37:34,920 Like I don't like that feeling, right, I don't want to feel 526 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:39,239 anxious. I should feel morbidly depressed, like like a normal person, right, 527 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:45,039 who doesn't want to just be crying their eyes out and not able to 528 00:37:45,119 --> 00:37:49,639 like have to go to sleep, right, I know. Yeah, I 529 00:37:49,679 --> 00:37:52,840 haven't seen a good documentary in a long time. So what's it called. 530 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,400 It's called Never Let Him Go, Never Let Him Go? Yeah, it's 531 00:37:55,639 --> 00:38:00,920 I believe it's Ulu. Yeah, I'm almost sure was on Hulu. Okay, 532 00:38:00,199 --> 00:38:04,599 Oh my god, I watched Also Winning Time. Did you watch the 533 00:38:04,679 --> 00:38:07,840 last episode? Assholes are going to talk about it? The last one yet? 534 00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:12,599 Oh my god, it's so good. I don't It's like the best. 535 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,400 I look forward to it. The only thing that really really really sucked 536 00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:21,320 was I thought it was gonna be like ten episodes. It's not. It's 537 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,039 over only seven. So last night was the last one. But we didn't 538 00:38:24,079 --> 00:38:27,559 know. John and I both didn't know, so we were all excited. 539 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,440 You know. We turn it on and it like gets to the end and 540 00:38:30,519 --> 00:38:31,599 it fucking wraps up, and you're like, wait, wait, wait, 541 00:38:31,679 --> 00:38:35,440 wait, wait, slow down, Like there's so much more. You could 542 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:39,000 have done three more episodes, but it's all in the like they tell you 543 00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:43,800 basically what happens. They chirron, you know, they tell you, and 544 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:47,559 you're like, what you lazy assholes, like make the make more episodes? 545 00:38:47,679 --> 00:38:52,079 How right? So mad, it's so good. I have not watched one 546 00:38:52,119 --> 00:38:58,119 episode yet, so I'm gonna love it. I know, I can't wait 547 00:38:59,039 --> 00:39:05,199 yesterday or no on Saturday. So years ago, when I was first dating 548 00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:09,960 John, I really tried to like football because he was really into football, 549 00:39:10,559 --> 00:39:15,559 and so I would you know, and I like, I like a story 550 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:17,960 behind, you know, should we do should we do another ad? Real 551 00:39:19,039 --> 00:39:22,440 quick? And then we will rap with this. This episode is sponsored by 552 00:39:22,519 --> 00:39:28,360 Little Spoon. 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Put up her 579 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,559 coach coach of the Giants. Oh my god, you guys are gonna know 580 00:41:40,599 --> 00:41:45,639 who I'm talking about. People are gonna be yelling coach before Tom Coughlin. 581 00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:52,960 He's still a coach anyway. He told me. Jim Fossil. Okay, 582 00:41:52,039 --> 00:41:55,960 Jim Fossil. So, Jim Fossil. He told me was this code was 583 00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:01,639 not? Hadn't been like anyway. He basically promised the team that he was 584 00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,840 going to get him to the playoffs, to the super Bowl or to the 585 00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,559 playoffs whatever, you know, I don't know, I don't know that much 586 00:42:07,599 --> 00:42:13,719 about it. Whatever. And then he did and he was like supposed to 587 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,400 be one of the nicest coaches. Like he did it by not screaming and 588 00:42:16,599 --> 00:42:21,559 yelling at his players, but by being nice. So he John gave me 589 00:42:21,679 --> 00:42:23,320 like somebody to root for, Like we got to root for this coach. 590 00:42:23,519 --> 00:42:28,360 It's a really nice guy. So then I became like really into the Giants 591 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,480 and Tiki Barber and like I had Michael Strahan and I had the players that 592 00:42:31,519 --> 00:42:37,920 I liked well. And then and then I could like really get girlfriend points. 593 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,760 I like, oh, I really like football. You know, I 594 00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:43,960 didn't know that much about it, but then then you get interested because you're 595 00:42:44,039 --> 00:42:47,320 kind of invested. And then I would ask questions and like learn about plays 596 00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:51,920 and like, you know, I'm off for like yelling for my team and 597 00:42:52,119 --> 00:42:54,519 you know whatever. Betting, you know, I like to gamble a little 598 00:42:54,519 --> 00:42:59,719 bit. But then I had LB and it was like, well, that 599 00:43:00,159 --> 00:43:04,400 out the window, because when you have a kid, I don't I mean, 600 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:07,159 I'm sure there are many women who are actual football fans who like, 601 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:12,199 don't let having a baby stop them from enjoying football. But remember I was 602 00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,039 kind of playing at liking football in the first place, so I was still 603 00:43:15,119 --> 00:43:19,639 holding on by a thread to my love of football. I didn't really have 604 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:23,599 a true deep love of football, yea, So it was very easy to 605 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:28,519 just be like, I can't like I have a baby. Then only a 606 00:43:28,559 --> 00:43:31,000 couple of years later, I had twins. So John would complain like, 607 00:43:31,159 --> 00:43:34,920 oh, you never want to watch football anymore, and I was like, 608 00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,960 bitch, I got babies, you know, but I have to tell you 609 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:43,239 that I sat down. He was he's been. And then John went through 610 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:49,239 a really long period where he because of the concussions, and he didn't like 611 00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,159 the way the NFL was dealing with, you know, not being straight with 612 00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:57,440 the players about CTE and all that stuff. He was like kind of boycotting 613 00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,400 it for a while, which was fine with me. I was like, 614 00:44:00,559 --> 00:44:02,840 yeah, that's what I'm doing. I'm boycotting it. Not that I'm too 615 00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:07,000 busier and interested. I'm just like morally opposed to football, like you, 616 00:44:07,199 --> 00:44:12,719 honey, you know. But then now John's feels like enough has been, 617 00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,519 like the players know what they're getting into and blah, blah blah. So 618 00:44:15,639 --> 00:44:20,800 now he's kind of kind of watching it again. Saturday, he was watching 619 00:44:21,039 --> 00:44:24,840 the Colorado Colorado State, which is Colorado game, and I was like, 620 00:44:25,599 --> 00:44:31,199 you know what I'm gonna I'm gonna get back to girlfriend points, right almost 621 00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:35,360 nineteen years later. Yeah, when you talk about getting into it for a 622 00:44:35,519 --> 00:44:42,679 story too, the story behind Colorado is great, right, yea with Sanders 623 00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:45,440 and like, so johnn is the quarterback, he's another son that plays on 624 00:44:45,519 --> 00:44:51,159 defense, and he's like he took this team that was horrible and now they're 625 00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,480 they're incredible. They were like one in ten, they were right eleven last 626 00:44:53,559 --> 00:44:58,880 year and now they're three and now. But Sanders, yeah, before that, 627 00:44:59,159 --> 00:45:02,239 they coach the opposing team was talking shit about Deon Sanders too, so 628 00:45:02,559 --> 00:45:05,199 leading up to the game, they were all like, oh, this is 629 00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:08,320 personal cult of the opposing team of Colorado State is a dick. Yeah, 630 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:14,400 oh so and yes, so all I needed, like I sat down to 631 00:45:14,519 --> 00:45:16,480 just earn some girlfriend points and be like, I'll watch football with you. 632 00:45:16,679 --> 00:45:21,400 And of course that's an invitation to John to like, you know, he's 633 00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,760 an encyclopedia about everything. He's like, oh, you're gonna sit down with 634 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:27,199 me? Puts his arm around me. He's like, okay, so here's 635 00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,199 what. So he tells me all the stuff, which so he's like, 636 00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:31,880 well, I said, who are we rooting for? And he's like, 637 00:45:32,039 --> 00:45:38,800 well, it's kind of complicated because Colorado State is the underdog. But Colorado 638 00:45:39,679 --> 00:45:44,400 Deon Sanders and Dion Sanders came in and basically was like, I'm gonna turn 639 00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,559 this team around. I'm going to send you all packing. What did he 640 00:45:46,599 --> 00:45:51,159 say about his Louis Vatan? He was like, uh, yeah, he 641 00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:57,280 was being very kind of braggy and brash and like he fired he made a 642 00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:01,679 bunch of the players from the team transfer and then he brought in Yes. 643 00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:07,239 He was like fuck this you you all are not hard workers and like you're 644 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,239 not here to win, and like because they were a losing team, right, 645 00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:12,840 so he was like bye this. Of course, I was like, 646 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,599 well where did they? Did they transfer to good schools? They definitely not 647 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:21,840 not with that record. They weren't like getting scholarships for you know, maybe 648 00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:23,880 a few of them. And so now I'm feeling bad as mom of a 649 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:28,480 college kid. I'm like, well, I can't finish their education like that 650 00:46:28,639 --> 00:46:34,679 anyways. Yeah, but so Colorado State though, were a bunch of fucking 651 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:38,519 bitches in this game, so many personal fellows, Like I'd never seen anything 652 00:46:38,639 --> 00:46:42,519 like it. They sent one kid to the hospital. Oh my god. 653 00:46:42,599 --> 00:46:45,440 And that kid they sent to the hospital is a star. He's like, 654 00:46:45,639 --> 00:46:50,119 he's amazingly. He plays two positions. He plays receiver and cornerback right, 655 00:46:50,199 --> 00:46:53,719 and they injured him, yeah, on purpose, a dirty hit black for 656 00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:58,679 the play. Hospital. Yeah. After the play, the guy, uh 657 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,639 personal, they call it targeting, so it was even worse than a regular 658 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,599 personal thought, like they were trying to get him out of the game. 659 00:47:05,599 --> 00:47:07,840 Couldn't see what was happening. So he's a receiver, so they threw the 660 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,400 ball and he's looking up to get the ball. It goes over his head, 661 00:47:09,519 --> 00:47:13,960 but another kid flew across the field from the other side and just laid 662 00:47:14,039 --> 00:47:17,599 him out after the ball had already passed yep. Yeah, And he ended 663 00:47:17,639 --> 00:47:21,599 up having to go to the hospital and he was out for the rest of 664 00:47:21,639 --> 00:47:25,239 the game. So I got I like I might be back in and I 665 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:29,280 was like, this is not even NFL, this is just college football. 666 00:47:29,599 --> 00:47:34,840 And I was like, this was actually like I was genuinely as excited as 667 00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,280 if I was kind of watching a movie, Like I watched the whole and 668 00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:42,400 they went into it went into double overtime. Wow. Yes, I'm not 669 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:51,280 going to spoil it for you, but what University of Colorado Dion sanders team 670 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:59,119 one. But they were behind almost the whole time and then like it was 671 00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:01,239 kind of like a Mayor racle at the end. It was like super exciting 672 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,920 all the way through. At one point, I was like, why did 673 00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,000 you drag me into this? Only for like the team that I'm now rooting 674 00:48:07,039 --> 00:48:10,400 for, but I hadn't even heard of before I sat down, And now 675 00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:14,199 I'm invested, and they're going to freaking lose, right, And then they 676 00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:17,800 came There was two minutes left and Dion sanders Son the quarterback, led a 677 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:23,639 ninety eight yard drive the game and then they had to do the extra Yeah, 678 00:48:23,679 --> 00:48:25,920 they had to do a two point conversion. It was amazing. What 679 00:48:27,039 --> 00:48:30,280 time did the game end? Oh? Late? It was playing until like 680 00:48:30,559 --> 00:48:34,639 late at night like it started. It didn't start untill seven, so I 681 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,119 think I was still watching it like eleven, okay, eleven, Yeah it 682 00:48:37,199 --> 00:48:42,760 was. It was a nighttime game. Yeah yeah, wow, but that 683 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,559 was so that was fun. That's fun. Oh, I know, And 684 00:48:45,679 --> 00:48:51,400 I felt like I didn't want John to be like, oh, so you 685 00:48:51,559 --> 00:48:53,480 like football now, because I wanted it to feel like a special treat. 686 00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:58,079 Yeah like that, I damned to sit down with him to watch football. 687 00:48:58,519 --> 00:49:02,000 But now I just might kind of be into it. Yeah, college football's 688 00:49:02,039 --> 00:49:08,639 fun, yeah, especially now that we have college kidsge you know. But 689 00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:13,159 I think I was the reason I thought of that too, is because of 690 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:15,360 the watching winning time. I was like, god, I'm kind of starting 691 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:21,760 to see why people love sports and love their team and hate certain teams. 692 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:25,119 And like the Celtics, man, they were assholes. Yeah yeah, Boston 693 00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:31,320 is like they played dirty and like the fan the Boston fans are insane, 694 00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:36,679 insane. I know, they were, you know, surrounding like the Lakers 695 00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:40,159 store of bus and like trying to attack them and throw it like calm down. 696 00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:45,639 Yeah. Now the East Coast teams are hardcore. Yeah. We're here 697 00:49:45,679 --> 00:49:49,800 out in La la La Land. You know, everybody comes here from someplace 698 00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:53,159 else, right, everybody's a New England Patriot fan out here because they're from 699 00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:59,400 you know, there's just like but like yesterday, like Natalia's boyfriend was watching 700 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,440 One Day football, like she was watching she was doing the girl thing girlfriend 701 00:50:02,519 --> 00:50:07,639 thing with him. She was watching football with him and it was Rams versus 702 00:50:07,039 --> 00:50:10,639 the forty nine ers, and I'm thinking the whole time, Oh, he 703 00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:14,039 must he's got to be this kid grew up here, he's got to be 704 00:50:14,079 --> 00:50:16,480 a Rams fan or whatever. No, he's rooting for the San Francisco forty 705 00:50:16,559 --> 00:50:22,239 nine ers. I was like, are you why. He's like, I 706 00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,239 don't know. It's my dad's team, so I just's always been my team. 707 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:28,960 And I was like, oh, all right, but how dare you? 708 00:50:29,599 --> 00:50:31,800 Exactly so rude? Yeah, you're the good things. Sonny's not here. 709 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:36,000 He's watching football with his dad, rooting for the Rams like he should 710 00:50:36,039 --> 00:50:39,719 be. It's so funny, though, because I see the addict in me 711 00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:43,719 that comes out that's like, oh, well now I want to go, 712 00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:46,119 like go see a game. And I'm like, well, oh how much 713 00:50:46,159 --> 00:50:52,079 our Lakers season tickets? They're very expensive? But you know what I mean, 714 00:50:52,199 --> 00:50:53,960 Like my brain just starts to go, oh, I guess I'm into 715 00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:59,320 basketball now all the things. Let's go to watch a game. We should 716 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:01,000 yeah, yeah, because I'm like, oh, Saturday, now I'm watching 717 00:51:01,039 --> 00:51:05,119 college football. Let me figure out, like, how could I go to 718 00:51:05,199 --> 00:51:09,199 a college football game? Like, I know, a bookie for you start 719 00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:15,039 gambling. Yeah, but you know, like you can go to UCLA games. 720 00:51:15,199 --> 00:51:16,920 Yeah. Yeah, we used to go to UCLA when my kids were 721 00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:22,880 into basketball, all of them. We would go see UCLA women's team, 722 00:51:22,159 --> 00:51:27,519 yeah play and it was really fun and exciting. But I just wasn't that 723 00:51:27,639 --> 00:51:31,480 invested. We used to go to the UCLA football games because Drew and Susan 724 00:51:31,519 --> 00:51:35,719 would always have tickets, so we just go to their house. But the 725 00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:37,840 kids, the kids were you know, I don't know, in fifth grade 726 00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:43,000 whatever, take them and their friends to the game and we would sit by 727 00:51:43,039 --> 00:51:45,880 the students section. All the students were right next to us, and it 728 00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:52,079 was so fun. They would do their whole U se la you know whatever 729 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:58,400 chant they did. Yeah, it was fun. Well, Robin, oh, 730 00:51:58,639 --> 00:52:00,119 Rob, she goes to all the UC games because she went to use 731 00:52:00,159 --> 00:52:05,719 CLA, right, and if LB ends up going to use CLA, that 732 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:08,079 would be super excited for me. Now there you go. Yeah, that 733 00:52:08,119 --> 00:52:13,199 would be fun. So I mean she's applying that's awesome. We'll see, 734 00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:17,039 we'll see. Yeah, all right, let's been Okay. Tune into our 735 00:52:17,079 --> 00:52:22,559 Thursday episode with Kate Casey. I won't say it's been it's been a great 736 00:52:22,639 --> 00:52:24,760 show even though it has Yeah, it's been a really good show. But 737 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:28,920 you know, I won't say that. I'll let you guys decide. But 738 00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,880 it's been a fun show for us. But before we go, let us 739 00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:37,360 give a little shout out to our Patreon subscribers. 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