1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:15,800 Made a decision O pay Sunny Sue on idasion NUF. Yeah, I'll tell 2 00:00:15,839 --> 00:00:22,640 you a little bit about Dame. Yeah, what's up? Everybody? Welcome 3 00:00:22,679 --> 00:00:27,879 to for crying out loud. It's our Friday show, bitches. That's right, 4 00:00:28,359 --> 00:00:36,039 Hi Caitlin, Hello, everything going? Okay? Everything's good. How 5 00:00:36,039 --> 00:00:39,679 are you doing? We're good? Pretty good? Pretty good, pretty good. 6 00:00:40,359 --> 00:00:43,439 I was watching a new Netflix show that I knew for a fact you 7 00:00:43,439 --> 00:00:48,159 two would absolutely hate. Is it the Is it the? No? It's 8 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,240 called Three Body Problem. Oh, I want to see that. It's a 9 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,119 sci fi show where it time jumps back and forth everything you hate in a 10 00:00:55,119 --> 00:00:57,960 TV show. No, but I agree but with you. But also I'm 11 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:03,680 going to disagree. Isn't it Liker a little bit? Not? No? 12 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:08,200 No? Than never mind? Really Okay, I gotta say the latest season 13 00:01:08,239 --> 00:01:14,200 of Black Mirror was so disappointing. I don't even remember any of them, 14 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:18,959 but I was like, none of the God, yeah it wasn't I know, 15 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,799 it's not as good as like the very first few seasons were insane. 16 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:27,239 But Ripley though, I just found out on Facebook yesterday. Actually I do 17 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:34,959 want to see that because that I like that actor. But my cousin Italian. 18 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,599 One of my other cousins that I don't see that much. My Auntie 19 00:01:38,719 --> 00:01:44,480 Leonarda, who I did grow up with. She's doing if you very watch 20 00:01:44,519 --> 00:01:48,799 the very first scene in Ripley in the first episode. I did. There's 21 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:52,680 a woman. You hear her going like, who's there? An Italian? 22 00:01:52,879 --> 00:01:57,799 That's my aunt really, because my cousin does the sound editing, I guess 23 00:01:59,239 --> 00:02:04,040 they needed an Italian woman to speak in Italian and that's her. Yeah, 24 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,799 I know. It's like so funny, it's so cool. So then I 25 00:02:06,799 --> 00:02:10,039 started watching it. Did you watch? Did you like it? I watched 26 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:15,520 the first episode. It's okay, and it was really like, not much 27 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:22,000 going on in the first episode, right, it's a it's it's a little 28 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,560 bit slow, and it's in black and white. I like that. It's 29 00:02:24,599 --> 00:02:28,960 what what I always say is like I don't like stuff where people are just 30 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:30,840 like, oh my god, the cinematography, right, that's I just know 31 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:34,960 that's not going to be for me. And this is a if you look 32 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,280 at the reviews, people are just like, ah, the cinematography is incredible, 33 00:02:38,319 --> 00:02:42,680 and it's like, if that's the thing that's standing out, I need 34 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:46,319 story. Yes, I know, I think people are really really liking it. 35 00:02:46,319 --> 00:02:49,840 It's it feels very like, oh, tour, you know, it's 36 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,280 good. I mean it was good at how I watched the whole thing. 37 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:55,280 I got tired I watch I think I watched like two episodes. Okay, 38 00:02:55,840 --> 00:03:00,000 all right, then I started getting tired. Yeah you you haven't seen it 39 00:03:00,039 --> 00:03:04,639 yet. I haven't seen it. Yeah, it's fine, it's good. 40 00:03:04,719 --> 00:03:07,240 I don't I mean, people are just like, oh my god, I 41 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,439 binge the whole thing. I don't, m M. But I'm a I'm 42 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:15,280 tough. I'm a tough customer. Yeah, I mean, they not that 43 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,199 my taste is so good. I'm just like, it takes a lot for 44 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:22,080 me to be like, I really like this show, right right. I 45 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,599 was. I downloaded Savages to watch, which I thought would be right up 46 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:32,400 my alley with because it's got Benicio del Toro and it's got uh Blake Lively 47 00:03:32,759 --> 00:03:37,960 and oh and uh, what's the other actress, the big actress, this 48 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:45,080 Latina. There you go, and it's about like, you know, drug 49 00:03:45,159 --> 00:03:47,039 cartel, and it takes place in l A and like at the you know, 50 00:03:47,039 --> 00:03:51,719 by the beach and stuff. Eh, did you see it? Not? 51 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:57,080 For many years I don't remember being very Yeah, it wasn't. It 52 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:01,120 was like not that good for the like the star power and like the story, 53 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:05,120 Like I don't know, it's just kind of not good. Oh and 54 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:11,080 Oliver Stone, have you seen it? I've not seen it. No, 55 00:04:11,719 --> 00:04:15,319 I've never even heard of it. I kept falling asleep and I don't know. 56 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,319 It just was okay. Yeah, I don't feel like I have anything 57 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:24,680 right now that I'm like excited. Yeah, there's one movie coming out this 58 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:29,800 weekend that I'm really excited about called Civil War Civil War? Have you with 59 00:04:29,879 --> 00:04:33,600 Kirsen Dunst. She's in it? Oh? No? Is it literally about 60 00:04:33,639 --> 00:04:36,800 the Civil War? No, it's about like if a civil war broke out 61 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:41,279 in America today. Oh, like a modern day civil war. And the 62 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:45,199 director of it is amazing. His name's Alex Carlin. He did like ex 63 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:48,160 Machina and Annihilation, and I've been looking forward to her for a long. 64 00:04:48,199 --> 00:04:53,319 Is it coming out in the theaters? Yeah? Oh wow, that's good. 65 00:04:54,079 --> 00:04:56,959 Yeah, because I feel like it's not a lot going not a lot 66 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,480 of TV happening right now. Yeah. I love that. Your first reaction 67 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,439 to is It coming out in theaters was like, oh, like for a 68 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:05,360 second, because I do. I'm with you. It's like, where am 69 00:05:05,399 --> 00:05:10,720 I going? Yeah, Oh, I can't just watch it from my right. 70 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,680 I guess I'll have to give it like a month and then I can 71 00:05:13,759 --> 00:05:17,240 watch it when it comes out. Idea of going to the theater now is 72 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:20,000 so foreign. It's just like, well, I'm not doing that. That's 73 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:25,160 not for me to drive to a place and park. You gotta find parking. 74 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,759 Yeah, no thanks, no thanks. I like, there's a movie 75 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:35,120 theater that's in my neighborhood, and sometimes they have major releases and sometimes they 76 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:39,439 just have only like foreign films and stuff. But I'm always like, if 77 00:05:39,439 --> 00:05:43,399 it's not playing there, because I could just find parking walk down there. 78 00:05:43,399 --> 00:05:46,079 It's like two seconds from my house. I could walk there. I'm like, 79 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:51,439 if it's not there, that seems like a kashaw a bigksha. Yeah, 80 00:05:51,639 --> 00:05:55,560 I don't, like, I haven't gotten in the movies in a long 81 00:05:55,680 --> 00:06:00,680 time now. It just yes, the parking got a out of that right 82 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:04,120 right when you can just watch eventually it comes out expensive to go to the 83 00:06:04,199 --> 00:06:08,639 movies. It's like, well, so wait, I could rent it off 84 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:14,240 Amazon Prime a new release for like two ninety nine or even five ninety nine, 85 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:18,600 or I could pay twenty dollars a ticket, yeah, plus park l's 86 00:06:18,639 --> 00:06:23,319 parking. No, dude, you know how much parking is at the Forum. 87 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:28,480 It was at Suzanne when she went, she bought a parking pass for 88 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:32,079 us to go for you had it was fifty bucks for a parking past. 89 00:06:32,199 --> 00:06:36,160 But when they just went they had to park at the Sofi place, it 90 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:42,079 was like sixty eight bucks to park for parking. I know that it's crazy, 91 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:45,199 almost as much as a fucking concert ticket. Yeah, at this point, 92 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:49,199 this is ridiculous. Yeah, and yeah, why like, what the 93 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:54,519 fuck? It's crazy? Uh. So, Robin and I went to so 94 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:58,360 I went to San Diego for the weekend as I brought up on Tuesday and 95 00:06:58,759 --> 00:07:01,759 just getting a room and it wasn't like a super fancy room or anything, 96 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:05,240 but the rooms were like three hundred dollars. That's what I paid. Three 97 00:07:05,319 --> 00:07:11,519 hundred dollars plus well it's three hundred dollars and then a destination fee. There's 98 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:15,920 all these fees and about also its three hundred and thirty three dollars and then 99 00:07:15,079 --> 00:07:18,199 plus when we got there, if you wanted to park, which you have 100 00:07:18,279 --> 00:07:24,519 to park sixty for one night. So sixty dollars for that, so you 101 00:07:24,519 --> 00:07:28,800 know you're at like four hundred bucks just for literally one night, right, 102 00:07:29,399 --> 00:07:32,199 right, So I want to hear about should we say hi to our peeps? 103 00:07:32,199 --> 00:07:35,959 And then yeah, let's say hi to our our gorgeous people. Where's 104 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:42,920 my and let's say that we're doing a Patreon zoom. Sorry I'm being doctor 105 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:47,399 Bruce and to pay for Patreon zoom. So today's Friday, So it's a 106 00:07:47,439 --> 00:07:51,120 week from this Sunday. Yeah, so not this Sunday, but the next 107 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:56,800 Sunday is Patreon Zoom at six pm Pacific time, and we want you guys 108 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:00,560 all to be there. Anybody ten dollars level and up you will get the 109 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:03,240 zoom link and join us and like, we haven't seen you guys in a 110 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:07,120 while. Yes, wait for that. So but let's say hi to our 111 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:13,160 people. We got the leslies. Oh, one's coughing and one's accosting. 112 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,399 Saw one outside of seven eleven and I was just like, what are you 113 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:20,199 doing? You know you're gonna get arrested for this. They don't listen, 114 00:08:20,319 --> 00:08:24,240 then you still know they don't. You know who else doesn't listen is Gabby 115 00:08:24,279 --> 00:08:30,279 and Missy those still only Yeah, they're scalping outside. There's still scalping, 116 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:33,279 Bruce, Bruce. Guys, it was week days ago, it was over. 117 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:39,440 And then we got Polly whose pancakes we love, and Valerie Bubba Fenwick 118 00:08:39,919 --> 00:08:46,320 and Alicia ask Alante and Rachel no longer a newcomer, old timer, Let's 119 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:52,440 Ashley so chic and Kelly Lattie Dah and Katie's rolling on e Amy's a cunt, 120 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:58,799 not Anna Faris, Rita's rocking, Rita Bassinette's rocking, Elizabeth Williamson's kids, 121 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:07,559 She's just rocking. Rita's rocking, and Athena's dancing and uh, Katerina 122 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:11,039 just got out at oral surgery. Yeah, she's doing okay. She's doing 123 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:20,279 okaye. Oh, speaking about doing okay. Rebecca Yoke and Kelly Brandt. 124 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:26,240 She will definitely take you to hip hop. M Jacob is very growley, 125 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:30,120 but we love him. Nikki call you girl. Aaron who is not Anna 126 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,399 Faris? Did I already say that? We already say Katie's rolling on the 127 00:09:33,519 --> 00:09:37,120 su Did Jennifer get up? Sandra's night? He's being green, Christy get 128 00:09:37,159 --> 00:09:41,919 the strap. Stephanie's a stinker wrinker, Aaron is a dirty Sanchez and Sarah 129 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:50,440 Stefano is our pie Zano. Well, you know, I had this little 130 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:56,480 thing to say, this irritating thing that happened, but then I realized somehow 131 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:01,679 that it's apparently it's also an adam oh no, But I still I still 132 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:07,279 need to say this because because it happened. Okay, Xander and I were 133 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:13,039 at TJ Max, like you do, right. This is right before John's 134 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:16,879 birthday. We were getting him a red herring present. We got in some 135 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:20,200 underwear and some socks because then we were going to give him the John Mlaney 136 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:24,240 tickets. But anyway, so there was a lady with this cute like white 137 00:10:24,919 --> 00:10:31,919 white and brownish, like a fluffy like a poodly muddy kind of dog that 138 00:10:33,159 --> 00:10:37,639 was very cute and it was kept and she kept like being like stop it 139 00:10:37,759 --> 00:10:39,679 like to the dog, and then it would like roll. It was like 140 00:10:39,799 --> 00:10:43,360 rolling on the ground and stuff. And she had a poodle inside TJ Max. 141 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:46,600 You know, people bring their freaking dogs right everywhere. I know, 142 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:50,159 how many times do you see dogs in the grocery store? Dogs and restaurants? 143 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:54,440 I know? Well, you know I had Phil over the weekend with 144 00:10:54,519 --> 00:10:56,960 me. We had a sleepover. He doesn't say much though it's not that 145 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:03,360 fun. But anyway, so you know, I don't want to leave him 146 00:11:03,399 --> 00:11:05,840 alone for long period. And I just didn't want to leave him alone period. 147 00:11:05,879 --> 00:11:09,000 First of all, I don't want him getting into anything, but I 148 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:13,919 can lock the place down. But you know, he's not not used to 149 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,279 my condo, and he stands right by the if I have to go out 150 00:11:16,279 --> 00:11:20,759 to my cars, and he's like right there, and he gets anxious if 151 00:11:20,759 --> 00:11:24,879 I leave him for a few minutes. So I was going to Bruce and 152 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:28,159 like, I haven't washed my hair in a few days, so I wanted 153 00:11:28,159 --> 00:11:31,919 to go to dry bar and get a fresh blow dry yesterday. But I 154 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,799 was like, I would be great if I could bring Phil, you know, 155 00:11:35,039 --> 00:11:39,600 but like you can't like to me, I would never bring Phil to 156 00:11:39,639 --> 00:11:43,960 TJ Max, Like I wouldn't you know what I mean? Right, there's 157 00:11:43,039 --> 00:11:46,360 yet a lady brought her dog, I think I told you this before, 158 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:52,159 brought her her dog to the gym the other day. What la fitness man, 159 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,639 These people have no shame. Yeah, she just has like a Pekinese 160 00:11:56,000 --> 00:12:01,039 at the gym. You know, listen, no shade because it's just sleeping 161 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:03,320 by her pre core. But my brain was like, well, then can 162 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:07,679 I bring people? Yeah? Exactly. People doesn't like to be home alone 163 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:11,720 either, right, Like I don't feel like I would be comfortable bringing my 164 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:16,240 sixty five pound dog to the gym, right right, right, But then 165 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:18,879 I almost you almost want to be a Karen and go to the front desk 166 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:22,039 and go like, so people can bring their dogs now to the gym? 167 00:12:22,759 --> 00:12:26,440 Is there a weight limit? Like how do you determine that? Is that 168 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,720 somewhere in the rules Exactly. It's like, if people can bring their little 169 00:12:28,759 --> 00:12:31,919 dogs everywhere, how come I can't bring my one hundred pound dog everywhere? 170 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,720 Right? And also what about people that are allergic to dogs? There's people 171 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:39,639 that are you know, the dander and stuff, especially at a gym, 172 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:43,600 you know, I don't know, like where you're laying down on equipment, 173 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:50,159 there's dog hair floating around right the fuck? So this so she has her 174 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,679 dog there and we're in line, and the line at TJ Max is always 175 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:56,879 so long, so you know, you're like looking at stuff. But like 176 00:12:56,919 --> 00:12:58,279 her dog was so cute and it was like laying on the floor. So 177 00:12:58,519 --> 00:13:03,480 I was like, oh can I I'm always really careful with people, like 178 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:05,679 I would never just like start petting, start petting dog. But I was 179 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:09,360 like, oh, can I can I pet your dog? And she goes, 180 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:13,480 no, it's a service dog. Wow. And Xander and I look 181 00:13:13,519 --> 00:13:16,919 at each other. This dog was not a fucking service dog. First of 182 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:22,639 all, it's not wearing any special not even a bandanna. It's just on 183 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:26,080 a leak. It's just on a normal leash. It doesn't so in my 184 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:33,240 mind immediately I was like, maybe it's an emotional support animal. But even 185 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:35,720 that, I was like, that would even be a stretch. This dog 186 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:41,240 was like not behaved exactly right. So then I'm thinking so but Xander and 187 00:13:41,279 --> 00:13:45,399 I and we're trying so hard not to laugh because it was it was so 188 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,519 obvious that it's not a fucking service dog. Yeah. This woman's just a 189 00:13:48,519 --> 00:13:52,120 bitch, you know. It's like that's fine. Maybe you're anxious and you 190 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:56,879 don't want people approaching your dog, but like, I'm not stupid. It's 191 00:13:56,919 --> 00:14:00,960 not a service animal, right, So right, Xander and I are standing 192 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,600 there next to each other and we both like kind of do that, like 193 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:07,799 start to make eye contact, and then I'm like, oh my god, 194 00:14:07,799 --> 00:14:09,919 I'm just trying so hard not to laugh. And then we walk out of 195 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:13,519 the store and Xander's like, Mom, it was not a service dog. 196 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:16,919 I was like, I know, that was ridiculous, and he goes, 197 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:20,879 yeah, I mean emotional support animal maybe, But I was like, no, 198 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,720 she was just rude. She was just rude. She just didn't want 199 00:14:24,799 --> 00:14:26,759 us to pet her dog. There's no reason, or why don't you just 200 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:31,240 say my dog's kind of an asshole and might nip at you, and I 201 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:35,159 shouldn't probably have it at TJ Max because it's not that friendly. There's a 202 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:39,320 lot of things you could have said besides a complete why yeah, right, 203 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:43,000 just say no. But I was like, that's a lie. And even 204 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:46,679 then I was like my brain was trying so hard to make it not a 205 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:50,799 lie. So I was like, maybe she trains surface animals and it's like 206 00:14:50,799 --> 00:14:54,399 a service animal and training, but you know what, I've seen those dogs 207 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:58,159 and they usually, yeah, they have a thing. I was like, 208 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:05,720 these friends parents have these dogs that they train, and they always have the 209 00:15:05,759 --> 00:15:07,639 thing on them when they take them out. Yeah. And also, this 210 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:11,039 was just not a dog that would be a service dog, right, you 211 00:15:11,039 --> 00:15:13,919 could just tell yeah, it was a mutt. It was like, not 212 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:18,559 this type of dog that would be a service dog. So anyway, I 213 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:22,559 just got like really irrationally angry about the whole thing, and I was like, 214 00:15:22,919 --> 00:15:26,679 that sucks. They suck, I know, I know, And why 215 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:33,879 do Why can't you pet a service animal like I guess you can't. Yeah, 216 00:15:33,879 --> 00:15:37,399 they distract them, I guess I don't know. Yeah, but yeah, 217 00:15:37,399 --> 00:15:39,679 if you're going to have a service dog, train them to be like 218 00:15:39,919 --> 00:15:46,519 let people like, don't they want to be petted? You know? Yeah? 219 00:15:46,559 --> 00:15:48,799 How they get hurt? All right? Why do they have to get 220 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:52,039 they're working on the job. I know they can't. Like even people that 221 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:56,639 have jobs get a break, right right. That would be like telling me 222 00:15:56,759 --> 00:15:58,519 if I had an office job, like no snacking, think it could be 223 00:15:58,559 --> 00:16:03,360 distract be like, well I can't have a snack where or don't talk to 224 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:08,440 anybody? Yes, I mean, my god, that would be the worst 225 00:16:08,519 --> 00:16:12,279 job if they're like, no, no socializing at all with anybody at your 226 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:15,279 job because you don't want to get distracted, Like you might not notice the 227 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:18,240 phone ring. I'd be like, I'd still notice the phone ring and multi 228 00:16:18,279 --> 00:16:22,639 to ask, Yeah, like you can't sniff out of diabetes attack, will 229 00:16:22,759 --> 00:16:30,039 somebody's just giving you a little pat on the head. It's ridiculous belly rum. 230 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:33,320 Yeah, yeah, we need to who do we talk to? I 231 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:40,240 don't know. Maybe we should start our own Oh god, here we go, 232 00:16:41,639 --> 00:16:48,320 academy for dogs. Yes, yes, I will be the ones training 233 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:52,919 them. Yes, I've never done dog training before, but I have some 234 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:56,759 really good ideas. Like I think I know more than people that I've seen 235 00:16:56,799 --> 00:17:00,399 training their dogs that I'm like. That doesn't seem like a good right, 236 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:06,599 And listen, don't base it off of my dog not being trained. Let's 237 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:10,519 not go there. Listen, if I was, if Phil was getting paid, 238 00:17:10,599 --> 00:17:12,759 then I would train him. But what's he doing. He's not doing 239 00:17:12,799 --> 00:17:18,920 anything but sucking in cold air from the vent and blown out out from his 240 00:17:18,039 --> 00:17:23,279 ass sitting in the air conditioning house. He's not doing anything. Yeah, 241 00:17:23,319 --> 00:17:27,599 and I'm with you because I've never formally trained Penelope. But she's a good 242 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,680 girl. Okay, there you go, there go, I'm doing something right 243 00:17:32,279 --> 00:17:36,319 or she was trained before me. The point is we can sniff out good 244 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:40,119 or bad training in other people's dogs. I'm good at judging that, and 245 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:41,880 I think we could do it. We could. We should start our own 246 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:47,519 dog training. So when you get a service dog from our from Lynette in 247 00:17:47,559 --> 00:17:52,160 the LSU our university. Why stop at our own university. We have to 248 00:17:52,160 --> 00:18:00,759 have academy, our dog training academy. When they graduate from our dog training 249 00:18:00,799 --> 00:18:03,960 academy, the one thing that you have to do is give them frequent breaks. 250 00:18:03,079 --> 00:18:08,960 Yes, but and and pat them on the head and scratch their belly 251 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:14,200 and let people give them a little treat. Yea, let people say ahead 252 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:18,039 to them. But maybe the cop shouldn't have their dogs trained by ours. 253 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:25,039 We're not that good. We're not training dogs sniffing. It's not that kind 254 00:18:25,039 --> 00:18:29,640 of training. It's like for for blind people, yeah, or people almost 255 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:34,240 need emotional support, yes, yes, or people that you know don't have 256 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:37,920 something high level like it's not like life or dust right, Like it's like 257 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:41,599 you need a service dog, but it's like it's not going to totally go 258 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:47,359 sideways if they're not Johnny on the spot. Yes, Like our dogs aren't 259 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:52,359 pulling out needles like in case somebody goes into amflecting ship right right y, 260 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:56,240 not getting crazy, No, No, we just we're compating their companion dogs 261 00:18:56,759 --> 00:19:02,119 that are that are called senior citizen. You don't need a dog to do 262 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:06,559 much but like lay their nap, right, we train your dog to go 263 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:10,880 into hospitals and be like, we'll train the dogs not to bite, but 264 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:14,400 they should get trained. They should be used to being petted. Yes, 265 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:18,000 for any situation where people are gonna want to pet your dog, Yeah, 266 00:19:18,039 --> 00:19:19,519 we're going to train them for that. Yes, there you go. And 267 00:19:19,559 --> 00:19:22,480 so like, if you want to take a nap, we'll train your dog 268 00:19:22,759 --> 00:19:33,640 to be a nap scot. Nap Scott, lay next to you, chill 269 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:36,400 out, that's what that's what we do. Wait, if you want to 270 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:38,359 watch Dateline, but you need a dog that could be good for that, 271 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,759 will sit still for that? Right you know? Yes, it doesn't try 272 00:19:41,799 --> 00:19:45,519 to like poke you and need to go out like during the intense part of 273 00:19:45,599 --> 00:19:52,079 date Line. Yes, that's your dog. That's our academy. It's pretty 274 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:56,839 specialized. You know what. We I think we could kind of charge a 275 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:03,519 law for that. I think we should. It's a Patreon level. That's 276 00:20:03,559 --> 00:20:07,480 like a fifty dollars level. Yeah, like a business shout out. Plus 277 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:11,599 you get your dog trained right there you go. Yeah, all right, 278 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:15,880 let's take a quick break. Okay, let's talk Oh yeah, yeah, 279 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:22,559 let's talk about neutrifol. Oh yeah, we love neutrifle. We love it. 280 00:20:22,839 --> 00:20:26,240 I have been on it. You guys hear me talk about how much 281 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:30,920 hair I have my hair, it's less shedding, it's thicker. 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So 299 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:07,039 okay, So, as you heard on Tuesday's episode, I went to this 300 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:11,319 writer's festival. By the way, shout out to Jessica Crawford. She's one 301 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:15,119 of our listeners. She came in and found us at the festival. Oh 302 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,960 nice. Yeah, but so Robin came with me. She was so sweet. 303 00:22:19,079 --> 00:22:22,240 I messaged her and I was like, I have to go to San 304 00:22:22,279 --> 00:22:26,640 Diego for this writer's festival. I go. You wouldn't happen to want to 305 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,880 go with me. She's like really perfect to ask to do shit because she 306 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:36,240 has one kid and he's graduating college this year, right, so she you 307 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:37,759 know, I mean, she has a husband who's you know, likes to 308 00:22:37,759 --> 00:22:42,359 spend time with her, but whatever. So yeah, so sometimes she's just 309 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,799 very spontaneous that way. So she was like, yeah, I'm in, 310 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:49,039 let's go. That's the best. Great. So she drove, which was 311 00:22:49,039 --> 00:22:53,160 so sweet of her because you know about my driving anxiety. But anyway, 312 00:22:55,119 --> 00:23:03,559 so we get to San Diego and we stayed at this hotel and so what 313 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:07,680 was it. It was a writing It was a writing festival. It was 314 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:11,960 a writer's festival. So I was on a panel for Memoir and I was 315 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:19,359 also on a panel for Quitlet for Drunkish Okay. So my first panel was 316 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,720 the one of the first ones of the day. It was like at nine 317 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:26,240 thirty, so I couldn't. I would have driven up maybe that morning. 318 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,839 Some people had panels that were like at twelve forty five, but mine was 319 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:32,799 the first thing in the morning. So I was like, I got to 320 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,000 I don't want to. I don't want to get up at six am and 321 00:23:36,079 --> 00:23:38,119 drive to San Diego and be sweating it. I'd rather go the night before. 322 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:41,160 I don't blame you. Yeah, So we get in and we check 323 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:45,160 into our hotel and then we're such We were like, well, we were 324 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,400 at the gas Lamp District, which is have you been to San Diego a 325 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:52,880 long time ago? Well, there's this area where it's downtown where all like 326 00:23:53,079 --> 00:23:57,240 the restaurants are, and we were staying right there, like right across the 327 00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,599 street. So it's kind of perfect. So we go street. It's very 328 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:07,160 much reminded me of the Third Street Promenade like in La yea restaurants and like 329 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:12,400 stores on both sides. And anyway, we're walking along and you remember my 330 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:18,000 story about being in New York with LB when we got accosted by the picture 331 00:24:18,079 --> 00:24:22,279 by the people dressed up in costumes and they want you to take a picture. 332 00:24:22,519 --> 00:24:25,559 Right. I don't know if this has ever happened to you in LA, 333 00:24:26,039 --> 00:24:29,680 but this is a big thing with like I do want to say, 334 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:34,839 like aspiring rappers and they give you their cd're talking about Yes, it happened 335 00:24:34,839 --> 00:24:38,119 to me in New York. Yeah, with the CDs. Yes. Yeah. 336 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,160 So Robin and I are walking along, minding your own business, and 337 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:45,000 basically this guy comes up and he's like he gives me a CD. He's 338 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,279 like, hey, you know, struggling rapper. We're trying to start a 339 00:24:48,279 --> 00:24:51,759 thing and blah blah blah. It's like a whole hustle. I'm holding the 340 00:24:51,799 --> 00:24:56,759 CD in my hand and I'm like because he literally put the CD in my 341 00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:00,079 hand and also gave one to Robert two, and I was like, oh, 342 00:25:00,319 --> 00:25:04,519 you know, good for you. I'm I'm such a sucker for I'm 343 00:25:04,519 --> 00:25:07,119 like, okay, cool, cool, cool, like and he's like, 344 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:11,720 yeah, so you know if you could, Like I don't know what he's 345 00:25:11,759 --> 00:25:15,240 asking me to do, but in my brain already I'm thinking literally about this, 346 00:25:15,319 --> 00:25:19,440 and I'm like, I don't have a CD player even I even play 347 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:23,000 a CD in my mind. And I was like, well I don't. 348 00:25:23,519 --> 00:25:26,799 I'm so sorry. I was like, here, look, I don't want 349 00:25:26,799 --> 00:25:29,839 to wait back to and he's like okay, well, like but you know, 350 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:34,480 but can you give us a donation for they want a donation? And 351 00:25:34,519 --> 00:25:37,519 I was like, well, I don't really have any cash on me, 352 00:25:37,559 --> 00:25:42,799 and he's like, oh, well, we take them back so now. 353 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:47,400 And then you're just like, oh my god, it's such gonna be such 354 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:52,200 a bigger ordeal to go. No, I don't want the CD like now 355 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:56,640 I'm in I don't want a confrontation vacation like now I'm going to be having 356 00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:00,599 a fight with a street performer. But by the way, they're not even 357 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:06,359 performing anything, like it's not even like listen. It'd be one thing if 358 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,680 it was like a busker and they're playing a song and then they're like, 359 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,079 hey, do you want to purchase our CD? No? Well, do 360 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:15,000 you want to give us a donation? I understand that these guys weren't doing 361 00:26:15,039 --> 00:26:18,880 anything. They're just like, hey, there's and I don't even think there 362 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,759 was music. I was just gonna say, how did we even know there's 363 00:26:21,839 --> 00:26:25,240 music? I don't think there is. I think it was like, because 364 00:26:25,279 --> 00:26:29,039 why are they pressing? Like, who's listening? Who's got a CD player? 365 00:26:29,079 --> 00:26:33,240 Anymore? Right? Nobody? And by the way, do you look 366 00:26:33,319 --> 00:26:38,599 like they're demographic? No? You no, like middle aged mom. But 367 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,799 they're like, but it's like, we're trying to do good in the world, 368 00:26:41,839 --> 00:26:47,079 and this is a that we made this music that's about like we're trying 369 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,680 to help other people. I don't know how they're helping other people. They 370 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:53,839 don't have a foundation, but you know, it's happening so fast, and 371 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,680 now at this point, I'm just like now I want out of the situation. 372 00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,160 So I'm like, what is wrong with me? And of course I'm 373 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,920 flashing back to New York. I'm like, how what I'm just the easiest 374 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,240 fucking mark. Meanwhile, other people are walking by like no, thank you, 375 00:27:07,599 --> 00:27:11,759 I know, and they're like that's fine because we got these fish on 376 00:27:11,839 --> 00:27:17,200 the line right now the only way I got. Then they're like okay. 377 00:27:17,279 --> 00:27:21,240 So I'm like, okay, all right, uh well, what's your venmo? 378 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:22,640 I'm like, what's your venmo? Right down your venmo? He's like, 379 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:26,400 no, no, no, I'm gonna you can scan my gun. 380 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:30,559 So now I have to scan his motherfucking venmo. Well, like, I 381 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,640 can't be afraid that they could take your information or something. I don't know, 382 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,000 you never know, like hackers. I don't know, like they could 383 00:27:37,039 --> 00:27:42,559 take your who knows. I don't know why. I wasn't gonna be accusing 384 00:27:42,599 --> 00:27:45,759 them of possibly hacking my venmoe, I know. But I was like, 385 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:52,200 okay, So I scanned his code and then he stood there over me while 386 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,200 I like okay. So I was like, how much am I going to 387 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,720 give this fucking guy? So I gave him ten bucks because wow, and 388 00:27:57,759 --> 00:28:02,920 then I was thinking yeah, and then and then Robin did too, even 389 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,200 though Robin was kind of pissed. Yeah, seriously, Robin was like, 390 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,599 how did I get? Now? How did I get? I would have 391 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:11,319 just walked by, except for this bitch is like takes the CDs. Now. 392 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:15,359 I got to take a CD because I'm with her. And so later 393 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,359 she was like, oh, we should have just walked by, and I 394 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,079 was like, I know, but how much did you give? And she 395 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:26,279 goes ten dollars and anyway, I was thinking, like, what a racket, 396 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:30,240 because I would I like to give money to the homeless unhouse people, 397 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,279 but like they're not getting ten bucks a pop, right, like you know, 398 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,599 yeah, they're getting whatever you got. And your people are like, 399 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:41,400 yeah, maybe I should just have a blank CD. I walk around with 400 00:28:41,519 --> 00:28:44,759 CDs, go buy some CDs for the store and ask people to be like 401 00:28:45,039 --> 00:28:48,559 it was such a hustle. Yeah. I got really annoyed afterwards, and 402 00:28:48,599 --> 00:28:51,160 I was like, I have to be more of a bitch. I have 403 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,519 to like have blinders on, don't talk to people on the street, just 404 00:28:53,599 --> 00:28:57,440 keep walking by, right like everybody else that zoom passed you, going no 405 00:28:57,559 --> 00:29:02,119 thanks, no thanks, I know. Then we walked by these other people 406 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,880 that had like proper like vests on and they were trying to raise money for 407 00:29:06,039 --> 00:29:08,880 like an actual organization that like helps people, and I was like, no, 408 00:29:10,079 --> 00:29:12,680 thank you, and they and they said, oh, the rappers got 409 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:17,119 you. Huh, you got a CD. They knew because they were probably 410 00:29:17,119 --> 00:29:22,160 getting screwed because the rappers had like no shame, they were just stopped. 411 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,200 They were just like giving you a CD. You don't get a choice, 412 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,880 right, which reminds me of those New York picture takers. They were just 413 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:32,119 like you before you know what. They got their arm around you and they're 414 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:33,640 like, get the picture. And then they don't even wait for you to 415 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:37,039 take the picture because that's too much of a risk of you saying like no, 416 00:29:37,039 --> 00:29:40,480 no, no, got it. They take the picture and then they're 417 00:29:40,519 --> 00:29:44,319 like, here's the picture. You gotta pay them for it. That is 418 00:29:44,359 --> 00:29:47,640 such a racket, I know, really is you gotta be you gotta like 419 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,759 get ready to be a bitch whenever you're in another city. Are your own 420 00:29:51,799 --> 00:29:55,640 city, your own city where there's because that would happen on the Third Street 421 00:29:55,680 --> 00:30:00,000 promenade. Yes, yeah, I feel like in my own city, I'd 422 00:30:00,119 --> 00:30:03,240 have more of like a like what I yeah, no nothing, no thanks 423 00:30:03,559 --> 00:30:07,119 right? Yeah? I mean you could see like New Yorkers walk, I 424 00:30:07,119 --> 00:30:10,440 mean probably have to pass it a million times a day on their way to 425 00:30:10,839 --> 00:30:15,279 home or own to work, whatever. So then we were kind of hungry 426 00:30:15,519 --> 00:30:22,799 and we'd eaten lunch way earlier, so we were such old people were like, 427 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,839 well, let's just eat an early dinner. Yeah. So we went 428 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:30,759 to this place that had a happy hour like menu, a happy hour menu. 429 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:33,880 It was so good. It was this seafood place. So we went 430 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,400 there at five point thirty and we had I had oysters, I had some 431 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:41,960 lobster bass love it, and we had some salad and it was like really 432 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:48,359 really good. But now it's six thirty and we're like, well we had 433 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:52,559 dinner every night, and so we were both, did you guys share a 434 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:57,039 room? We share? Yeah? Of course yeah. So uh so we're 435 00:30:57,039 --> 00:31:02,519 both looking at each other and there's some that have like live music, you 436 00:31:02,559 --> 00:31:04,799 know, and we look at each other and she was like, should just 437 00:31:04,799 --> 00:31:10,440 go back to the hotel? I was like yes, because we'd already walked 438 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:14,279 around, walked up and down. I was like, what are we going 439 00:31:14,319 --> 00:31:19,319 to go explore downtown San Diego. We're in our fifties now, No? 440 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:25,000 Thanks? Yeah? Like yeah, the city, right, it's very similar 441 00:31:25,039 --> 00:31:27,240 to other cities, Like what are we gonna do? We're not we're not 442 00:31:27,319 --> 00:31:30,519 here for a concert, like we're here for something the next morning. Yeah, 443 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,319 right, So we're like, you know what, Yes, let's just 444 00:31:33,359 --> 00:31:37,880 go back to the room. So we're literally in the room by like seven 445 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:42,519 o'clock. We Binge watched Love on the Spectrum. Oh I love it. 446 00:31:44,359 --> 00:31:47,400 Oh, I can't wait to ask you about I freaking love that show. 447 00:31:47,839 --> 00:31:52,160 We watched like five episodes of Love on the Spectrum and then like went to 448 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,000 bed. Ah I love it, except that and this hearkens back to our 449 00:31:56,039 --> 00:32:01,599 Tuesday episode, except that then I was in deep anxiety mode because I was 450 00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:05,559 like, olb, we didn't get in Ebe didn't get into Irvine, and 451 00:32:05,599 --> 00:32:07,640 now she's not gonna get this is a bad omen. And now she's not 452 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,599 going to get into any UC's and then what are we gonna do? She's 453 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,640 gonna be have one school. So my brain is doing that, so I 454 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,200 can't sleep. Robin's like, fall asleep, huh, And I'm like, 455 00:32:17,359 --> 00:32:22,119 now I'm just awake with my thoughts. But eventually I fall asleep. Do 456 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:27,519 you guys snore? Anybody snore? No? No, I don't think so. 457 00:32:27,799 --> 00:32:30,000 Because I had to share a room one night on vacation with Natalia, 458 00:32:31,359 --> 00:32:37,960 and in the room is like two twin beds. So she's like, I 459 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,559 know you're gonna snore. I go, I don't snore, and she goes, 460 00:32:39,599 --> 00:32:44,440 I've heard you fall asleep because I have like a light snore or whatever. 461 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,480 So I'm minding my own business falling asleep. First of all, she 462 00:32:47,559 --> 00:32:51,279 goes to bed earlier than me, so I'm like, yeah, go to 463 00:32:51,319 --> 00:32:53,000 bed, so you get a head start and I won't bother you know, 464 00:32:53,039 --> 00:32:57,480 I won't wake you up. I get in bed, I fall asleep within 465 00:32:57,559 --> 00:33:00,640 five minutes, and I get this. I get a bunny rabbit thrown right 466 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:05,039 at my face. She hits me right in the face, wakes me up, 467 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,720 and she's like, you're snoring. I told you you'd snore, and 468 00:33:07,799 --> 00:33:10,359 pick up the bunny rabbit threw it back at her as she was drinking water, 469 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:16,599 spilled the water all over her. She's like, mom, so that's 470 00:33:16,599 --> 00:33:20,000 what happened when I had to share a room. Oh yeah, So there 471 00:33:20,039 --> 00:33:22,640 was none of that going on, no bunny rabbits being done. Nobody was 472 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:28,319 really snoring. So so we wake up in the morning really early because we 473 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,759 both are just early risers because it's the dog, and you know her, 474 00:33:31,079 --> 00:33:35,039 she she gets up super early. To teach. She gets up at like 475 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,160 four forty five in the morning. Wow, yeah, it's crazy. Yeah, 476 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:43,680 I would have quit so many years before. So so anyway, we're 477 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,079 like, okay, we were thinking about having breakfast in the hotel. Now 478 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:51,920 my, I'm supposed to be there an hour early. My, my, 479 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:58,880 I'm supposed to get there at let's say eight thirty, and then there's gonna 480 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:02,240 be there's all these instructions about parking and where there's parking. So I'm starting 481 00:34:02,279 --> 00:34:05,599 to get a little bit like, okay, I want to make sure. 482 00:34:06,079 --> 00:34:08,079 So we're gonna have lunch in the hotel. But I'm like, okay, 483 00:34:08,119 --> 00:34:12,599 Also, we have to get our car out of the sixty dollars parking lot. 484 00:34:12,639 --> 00:34:15,079 I got to check out of the hotel. Like my brain is just 485 00:34:15,119 --> 00:34:17,400 going, okay, got to do these things. Got to make sure we're 486 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:22,039 checked out, pack up all of our stuff. So we're finally Robin's like, 487 00:34:22,039 --> 00:34:27,840 you know what, let's just go to Coronado because the it was at 488 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,679 Coronado. We're in downtown San Francisco. We drive over to the Coronado Bridge. 489 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:36,000 It's not far. It's like it's like a ten minute trip. That's 490 00:34:36,039 --> 00:34:39,320 it, right, But you have to go over this bridge and then find 491 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:43,199 and she's like, you know what, let's just relax, let's just get 492 00:34:43,199 --> 00:34:46,079 there early. We'll go we'll go to Coronado, we'll find the parking, 493 00:34:46,159 --> 00:34:50,519 we'll go eat it, we'll grab something at Starbucks. I'm like, okay, 494 00:34:50,519 --> 00:34:53,559 great. So we get there, we order, we order something from 495 00:34:53,599 --> 00:34:58,559 Starbucks, we find our parking, we walk, we get into the festival 496 00:34:59,039 --> 00:35:01,280 and they're like, the festival has been pushed Oh. And then we meet 497 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:06,960 up with Jessica Crawford, who's one of our listeners who came and found us. 498 00:35:07,119 --> 00:35:09,480 That's awesome. She was like, Stephanie, so she came for you 499 00:35:09,559 --> 00:35:13,639 to see you. Yeah, that's nice. Yes, yes, And she 500 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:15,920 hung out with us and she's super super sweet, and she's got really cute 501 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:20,239 kids. Yeah, a really cute kid with her. Her other kid was 502 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:24,199 back east. Anyway, should we take a quick break and then I'll tell 503 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:30,480 you what happens? Okay, yeah, okay, okay. So we're hanging 504 00:35:30,519 --> 00:35:35,400 out with Jessica, we get the news that hey, the whole festival has 505 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:39,960 been pushed back an hour because there's a jumper on the bridge. Holy shit. 506 00:35:42,599 --> 00:35:46,280 Yeah, and we were like, so they closed the bridge. They 507 00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:51,360 closed spoiler alert. The person's fine, they didn't jump, Okay, so 508 00:35:51,599 --> 00:35:55,239 I should tell you I'm not trying to build tension on the pain of somebody's 509 00:35:55,360 --> 00:36:01,159 else. That person has gotten help. They're not on the bridge and they're 510 00:36:01,199 --> 00:36:07,679 not jump. But they closed the bridge, so some people were beyond. 511 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:12,760 Like some people were stuck the whole time. They basically closed it down. 512 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,440 They were diverting. There's another way to get there, but it takes like 513 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:21,920 forty five minutes to go all the way around this other back way to get 514 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:27,039 into Coronado, but it's far, so all these people that were waiting to 515 00:36:27,039 --> 00:36:30,719 get on the bridge were the police stopped. But there were some people that 516 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:35,920 were too close, so they closed it behind them. So some people, 517 00:36:36,039 --> 00:36:38,760 and one of them was a panelist on my first panel, was stuck on 518 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:45,360 the bridge for three hours. Oh my god. Yeah. She said that 519 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:49,039 it was crazy, like there were I mean, there were a certain amount 520 00:36:49,039 --> 00:36:51,960 of cars that, like I said, were beyond where they could close the 521 00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,320 bridge down, so they just had to wait. They were like behind the 522 00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:59,480 police activity Jesus. And she said that people were out of their cars and 523 00:36:59,519 --> 00:37:01,519 like talking to each other, and she was like trying to selling her book 524 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:07,719 to people. Wow. But she was super so god. Yeah. So 525 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:13,559 she came like in the middle of anyway, and this woman was like, 526 00:37:14,119 --> 00:37:17,559 she has anxiety and she has bridge anxiety. This person was on my panel. 527 00:37:17,679 --> 00:37:22,159 Wow. Yeah, I felt so bad. This author named Jessica Keith, 528 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:28,280 that's her name. Anyways, like being on a bridge. She has 529 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,440 something weird with bridges. Yeah yeah, and and just has anxiety. So 530 00:37:34,559 --> 00:37:39,159 yeah. Wow. Anyway, eventually they opened up the bridge and then people 531 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:45,639 but I think that the festival was a little sparse because I think a lot 532 00:37:45,639 --> 00:37:49,400 of people were like, oh, the bridge is closed, we'll forget it. 533 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,079 And when yeah, you know, wow, so what you were supposed 534 00:37:52,119 --> 00:37:55,519 to be there at what time? And and that bridge was shut So I 535 00:37:55,599 --> 00:38:00,159 weren't supposed to get there an hour before my panel was it? And I'm 536 00:38:00,199 --> 00:38:04,199 thirty. I was supposed to be there by like eight forty five, parked 537 00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:08,719 and like ready to go checking in. So I got there so but but 538 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:13,400 by the time I was like on the grounds of the Writers' Festival, I 539 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,519 was still there early. I was there very early, but we got there 540 00:38:15,559 --> 00:38:22,880 like another forty five minutes before that. Well, thank god. And to 541 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,360 bed early. I know, otherwise you would have been stuck in that house. 542 00:38:25,519 --> 00:38:29,320 So we were we had no idea, like what we got there? 543 00:38:29,519 --> 00:38:32,280 No problem, it's no problem, as you would say, great, and 544 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:36,440 then we find that out, it's like, what are the chances that this 545 00:38:36,599 --> 00:38:43,039 bridge that we just crossed over completely closed down? Police everywhere talking a jumper 546 00:38:43,119 --> 00:38:47,159 off the bridge. Wow, that's crazy. I know. I thought bridges 547 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:52,360 like that have something now or maybe not. It's nice golden gate, A 548 00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:58,400 golden Gate's like, yeah, possible, Like there's like fencing, right, 549 00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,360 and now I think a lot of bridges have nets they put and I think 550 00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:06,679 they're going to be putting a net under that bridge really, but yeah, 551 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,840 what are the odds of that happening? Like while you're there? I know? 552 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:15,920 That's crazy, right, yeah, super weird. Okay, so so 553 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:20,119 you're so yeah, then I had too. So I had my that panel, 554 00:39:20,199 --> 00:39:22,280 and then I had another panel, and then and then we drove home. 555 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:27,480 That's nice. That sounds that sounds good. I love a friend like 556 00:39:27,599 --> 00:39:30,960 Robin, you know, like that you can just call up and bring with 557 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:35,519 you. It's great. Yeah, she's such good company. Is she's such 558 00:39:35,559 --> 00:39:39,599 an easy like she doesn't I'm sure she has some anxieties about things, but 559 00:39:39,599 --> 00:39:44,440 they're not the same anxieties I have, which there comes in handy, yes, 560 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,559 like she can drive and I have to worry. Yeah. Yeah, 561 00:39:47,599 --> 00:39:51,639 But it was really sweet too, because, like I said, like I'll 562 00:39:51,679 --> 00:39:54,519 just reiterate from last from on Tuesday, But you know, I was, 563 00:39:55,000 --> 00:40:00,960 I was. I was really upset about the LB. I just in my 564 00:40:00,119 --> 00:40:06,360 mind, the the not getting into Irvine, not getting into cal Poly slow. 565 00:40:06,519 --> 00:40:10,000 I was like, in my mind agreeing with LB, like this is 566 00:40:10,119 --> 00:40:14,840 not a good sign. This is like I still have hope, of course 567 00:40:15,039 --> 00:40:19,920 for the other schools, but like I just ugh, if this goes the 568 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:24,079 same way as before, Like I now have a bit like in my mind, 569 00:40:24,119 --> 00:40:28,039 I'm just like she doesn't deserve that. She has worked so hard. 570 00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:30,800 Yeah. But then when I found out that she got into Irvine, it 571 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:35,400 was like it was like the heavens open. I was like, oh my 572 00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:38,880 god. And just to see Robin like emotional and she started crying. She's 573 00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:43,719 so relieved and happy for me. Oh I know that. I know, 574 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,440 like you know, when our kids are going through something like that, it's 575 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:51,280 it's it's it's your problem too. It's not just their problem. I know, 576 00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:52,920 it's something that you worry about and you think about. I know, 577 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:57,920 it sucks. You know, like there's that say, you're only as happy 578 00:40:58,119 --> 00:41:00,000 as your happiest kid, you know, so if you got a kid who's 579 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:04,599 suffering, it's hard, even if the other ones are doing great, Like 580 00:41:04,679 --> 00:41:08,000 you just feel unsettled, right incredibly. Yeah. I mean, like when 581 00:41:08,079 --> 00:41:15,320 we were in Florida, we found like Sonny did the the enrollment, the 582 00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:22,480 late enrollment for the medical stuff, and now they replied and said they'll they'll 583 00:41:22,559 --> 00:41:25,920 do a zoom, but they need to have like all these things. You 584 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:30,800 know, they want letters of recommendation, which is he's working on. But 585 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:35,480 like, you know, he was just so disappointed that that he was steered 586 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:39,440 in the wrong direction from this counselor that told him to wait and that would 587 00:41:39,519 --> 00:41:44,480 be easy, it would be better if he did the medical reason whatever. 588 00:41:45,199 --> 00:41:47,880 And it's like, you know, I I his chances. I don't know 589 00:41:49,039 --> 00:41:52,119 how they're going to be at this point. I don't know. We'll see. 590 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:57,840 I'll hopefully have more information next week. But it's he completely off of 591 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,440 the idea of doing Wazoo because I I thought he was excited about Washington State. 592 00:42:02,559 --> 00:42:06,760 He was what I thought he was, but no, I think I 593 00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,960 think after talking to some of his friends. He has one friend that's already 594 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:15,199 there, and I think another friend is going there. But after talking to 595 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:19,719 that one friend that's already there, I think, really he was like, 596 00:42:20,079 --> 00:42:22,760 that's the school for me. I guess because they had a long talk about 597 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,840 it and he asked him like, how does he like it, and blah 598 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:29,920 blah blah, asked him about all these questions, and he's like, after 599 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,760 talking to him, he's like that that's I think where I want to go. 600 00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,679 So, you know, I mean, I guess he does have backup, 601 00:42:38,079 --> 00:42:43,159 you know, unlv I didn't. He didn't even tell me about he 602 00:42:43,199 --> 00:42:46,599 got into that one either until recently. But he was like, yeah, 603 00:42:46,639 --> 00:42:50,440 he goes. I don't know. I just applied because you know, maybe 604 00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:53,159 if Dad moves there or something, then I'll be near Dad. But now 605 00:42:53,199 --> 00:42:59,239 he's more excited about it too, because he's got another friend's older brother is 606 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,559 there and talk to him about it, so he's you know, he's really 607 00:43:02,119 --> 00:43:06,039 trying. You know, he really wants to go, but he wants to 608 00:43:06,039 --> 00:43:08,440 be at the place he really wants to be at. So but how does 609 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:12,239 he know he wants to be at University of Oregon. Has he toured it? 610 00:43:13,199 --> 00:43:15,000 No, But because he's talked to these people, he's talked to, 611 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:20,000 you know, friends that a friend that's there, that's been there for this 612 00:43:20,079 --> 00:43:23,239 first year. And but there are a lot different. Everybody's different, but 613 00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:27,000 they're a lot. They are a lot alike. They grew up together. 614 00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:30,840 So I don't know, you know, I mean, how do you I 615 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:37,559 I wanted to take him to go to Washington because Suzanne just went, and 616 00:43:37,599 --> 00:43:43,280 he was like, no, you know, he wants to go this University 617 00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:47,679 of Oregon route. So I don't know. We'll see, but yeah, 618 00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:52,239 I'll be happy when everybody's like settled, we know where they're going. Once 619 00:43:52,320 --> 00:44:00,400 that happens, you know, just just the unknown. Then you know their 620 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:06,559 graduation is coming up and their birthdays are coming up. It's like two things 621 00:44:06,599 --> 00:44:09,199 in the one week, you know, in June. Yeah. Yeah, 622 00:44:09,599 --> 00:44:13,840 so yeah, a lot of big things. The end of an era. 623 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:19,960 I know, it's so sad. 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