Sure, whats up, beautiful people. It is your baby Mama, Favorite
Baby Mama Sturmer Pea and this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip Line
from Philadelphia. I ain't gonna lie, y'all. We've been having a whole
bunch of fun and I ain't even get lit yet. So I'm very,
very very surprised to see how the rest of the show starts. Now,
if you didn't all really know, we're recording this on February seventeenth, which
means we are fresh off Valentine's Day. And how was you, guys?
Valentine's Day? Yeah? Your name? Okay, Well, I'm gonna hold
y'all my Valentine's Favor was lit real bad, real bad, real bad.
Okay. So, because we're friends and we cousins don't want that, I
can tell y'all. Right. So I've been talking to this guy and he's
like, hey, I got some things planned for us on Valentine's Day,
right, I'm like, okay, cool. So first we went to a
pottery class and I made a bowl cause you know, I'm creative and shit
right, And then y'all, he took me for a helicopter ride. I
know, I was like, shit, I should have shamed my coucie first
Dyo. I wasn't prepared. So then we went to like Other World Museum,
which is like a whole bunch of cool ass, like weird shit,
right, It's kind of like Wonder Spaces but times ten, okay. And
then we went to dinner and I said, wow, I should have got
this nigga a better Valentine's Day gift. I wasn't prepared. I wasn't bad.
I didn't know that we were so locked in, but in my mind,
I was just gonna get him thoughtful gifts, you know, because I'm
a thoughtful person. Right. So I got him some cool shit, you
know. First I got him some cologne, right, some violence Tino,
little fancy colon, I said, I spent. I spent a smooth out
of dollars, and shit, you know what, I'm doing something right.
Then when he was sick, he didn't have a teapot, so I brought
him a teapot. Right. Then I bought him a phone clip for his
car, because you know, he was talking about he didn't have a phone
killed for his car. And then I brought him some lactae cause he'd be
gassy, like every time we go out and here a little bit older.
So like every time we go out and we like eat cheese because I'm lactose
intolerant, but my mama ain't raised no bitch, So you know, I
just fuck it. I'm fucking stomach gonna hurt later. That's it. That's
it, right, Its exactly right. So but whenever we be out and
we'd be like eating cheese, he always pulled that shit out like a condom,
like, Yo, you're cool baby. I don't want no lact tape.
I don't never want no fucking lactaede. I'm gonna sit here and my
stomach going hurt like the real nigga that I am, right, but yeah,
so I gave him all that and then I forgot to bring it on
Valentine's Day. So actually he got his gifts on the fifteenth, right,
I know, I know, And it wasn't It was only bad because you
know, I know, no not side nigga. No, No, who's
ever saying side nigga go to hell, cause I don't have a first nigga
to have a side nigga. Okay, we have just you know, been
hanging out, so you know whatever. And I wouldn't even say hanging out.
You know, He's just yo, you got something to do? And
I'm like, noil, but I ain't know he's gonna have all this shit
to do, right, So I'm like, all right, fuck it right.
But it got me to thinking, you know, let's get into Valentine's
Day gifts. I know you guys were talking a little bit earlier with you
know TGIP podcast about like, Yo, what's the worst Valentine's Day you've gotten?
Gift you've gotten? And me myself, I've never gotten a bad Valentine's
Day gift, but I for sure have given one right now. This is
before I went to go talk to the lady. This is before I went
to go talk to the lady. This is before I went to go talk
to the lady. Okay, so old boy pops up? What is Valentine's
NI give? I don't have one for him because he wasn't even on my
roster. I'm like, damn, baby, we ain't have no conversation or
nothing. Now I'm surprised, So what do I do? I gave him
a Teddy Bear, one of these niggas gave me. This was before I
went to go talk to the lady. Didn't I tell y'all that? Okay,
Now, that wasn't the bad part though. The bad part was I
forgot to take the name tag off. I feel like there's some judgment.
I thought we were family. I thought we were family, and I feel
like there's some judgment. Okay, I forgot to take the name tag off
that said to Stormy from this nigga. So I gave this bear to another
that said two Stormy from this other nigga, and he said, girl,
go to hell man. He wore me out for about two weeks straight and
once again this before I'm gonna go talk to the lady. So what did
I do? I fucking lied? Okay, I lied. I said no,
actually I had my homegirl fill it out and she didn't know, like
which name. She just mixed it up. It's cool, it's cool.
He came to my last show though, So no, I'm not no no
complaints, no love loss, no love loss. Now, before we switch
over to the second segment, the last thing that I want to say about
Valentine's Day is shout out to all the ladies and all the good men who
put that towel down for Valentine's Day. These are the real heroes. Then
come out, somebody, come out. These are the real heroes. So
this is a story that we don't talk about freely, and we fucking need
to. Okay, because some of you that chiwe was the only gift you
gave. And that's okay, that's okay, because you know what, maybe
you need to go talk to the lady. All right, but I just
wanted to say that before we get out of here, shout out to all
the real heroes. And that's the end of segment one. Everybody, clap
it up, Clap it up, clap it up. We are going to
introduce someone who has become the bane of my fucking existence. Okay, So
I want show all to clap it up for a real woman. Okay,
I wanta try to clap it up for sir ma'am. I'm gonna try to
clap it up, sir ma'am. Okay, I'm gonna try to clap it
up for my girl Disney Christmas. Come on, y'all. See, that's
why them studs do. I'm like you, now, you be doing shit
like that. Oh wait, why you get a good a mic? Get
a mic? Listen. Let me tell you, I'm so sick of her
asked me to come here tonight. I like y'all do. The reason I
say I'm sick of Dizzy is because y'all heard me say these aren't the right
cards. Guess who had the fucking cards? And you see how they've been
thrown because it was in my ass crack and I heard that on them holes.
First of all, these cards are moist. Yeah, I like that.
I don't. Okay, uh, thank you so much for joining us,
Dizzy us, miss lady, sir man, sir, ma'am, sir
man, hold on before she gets to talking. Anybody got pcos on you
pc os? You a lady? You got y'all don't know if you grown
hair on your chin, bitch, you probably got that shit. Y'all holds
acting like y'all ain't got it, bitch. I just shaved before I came
to the show tonight. You got that ship, bitch? You relax.
I shaved my ship tonight. You okay, girl, we come on now?
Why she like this and listen? Please? Okay, I like you
too, Huh. I'm done. Okay, So, Dizzy, I wanted
to talk to you about a few things here. Uh. First, I
want to talk about ghosting. Ghosting. What's the last time you've been ghosted?
She before when I got the Philly What, Yeah, did you go
somebody or somebody ghosted you? I was ghosted by Stormy. You go to
hell. Suck a dick, suck a big MENO gonna talk about it.
Go ahead, go ahead, and Toddie's lives, go ahead. Stormy told
me she was taking me to the museum. I ain't heard from Stormy,
sins, bitch. What that sounded like? Ghosting? That's Casper right here.
Now. What she didn't tell you is that it fucking snowed. That
was Tuesday, bitch, Sunday. Then I hit her up on the day
we agree to go out to the mos Museum, and I'm like, Yo,
what's up? Like you're still down? What they was that? I
lied? It was the other way around. She get me up and said,
Yo, what's up? We're still going to the mu Damn no no,
And then I said, Yo, ain't gonna lie dog, I'm a
little hungover. She said, bitch me too, me too, And I
ain't heard from a sense ghosts. First of all, I had to replenish
my lecture like, okay, me too. You're not even being kid.
I'm old too. What you mean? Oh my god, I'm serious though.
What's the last time you've been in ghosted? I was serious too.
I just got here, so I just got here. You know what my
problem with ghosting is. Ghosting is so preventable, right, because all you
gotta do is tell me, hey, bitch, you doing too much,
don't fucking ghost me, and just stop talking to me and then make it
seem like I'm crazy when I hit you up. Baby, we've been tapped
in. I'm trying to make sure you wasn't in a car accident. I'm
sure to make sure they repoll your car, trying to make sure you're still
good and your baby, my man, come make good on them threats and
fuck you? What? Want you out? But now you're like, oh,
you're doing too much. Don't pop up at my job? Who bitch?
How AWESO? Am I gonna find out? Are you okay? Like?
Am I tripping? No? You're not. I pop up in a
jobs too. You pop up. I pop up at jobs too, and
act like I'm their sister. M hm is my sister? Okay? I
haven't talked to you in a while. I'm with you, bitch, I
ain't gonna lie. You need to be arrested. I'm your sister. I
just look like this and I pull up. They may I thought I was
your brother, but bitch, I'm your sister. Where you at? Oh
my gud. And another thing is like people always try to act like you
know, oh well, I wasn't ghosting you. But baby, we've had
a pattern. You've texted me good morning every day for the past three weeks.
Now it's been three days. I ain't heard from your black ass,
right, and now we crazy because we didn't popped up. Now I'm tripping.
I'm not crazy. I'm John say if you okay? Now I do
do you need something? Stink exactly? I'm finna call your mama. That's
what you want me to do. That's what you want me to do.
You want me to call your mama. Okay. You want me to go
to your son's daycare and make sure he made it on you? So feel
me. What's he called love children for everybody? What's that day? No?
No, no, maybe he had little Einstein's now he had little Emeshine.
But I'm gonna pull up. I'm gonna be there. Don't worry.
I make it. I make it. I think it's important though, and
I hope everyone in here here's this, men and women whoever? Right?
If somebody ghost you, respect to dad and don't let them niggas come back.
Ain't no take back seats, right because let me tell you what some
people like to do. Ghost you let it, let it, let die
out, die all the way out, and then pop back up like two
months later. Hay stink, Hey, big header, not that mature?
Okay, okay, what is it? I need you about three days?
If I ain't talking you three days, bitch, I'm popping up. Hold
on, now, you've got a problem, and I'm not probably going to
your job, your home. I'm going to your mama house now, okay?
Ms Gladys Is she all right? I go to your daddy house now?
Not mister Ralph? Is she all right? You be letting people spend
the block on you? Hell yeah, I'll spend the block. No,
no, no, do you let them spend the block on you? They
got you, and you be letting them come back. It just depends if
it was good. I don't want to add no extra bodies. I actually
respect that. I respect that. I respect that. I got too many
bodies as it is. At this point, I'm considered a whole. I'm
trying to you're a you're a philanthropist. Is that what it's called? Yeah,
that's okay, okay, Yeah, I like that. I think that's
a good point though, because you're an entrepreneurist. Is entrepreneur? Bitch sucked
that nigga game? Bitch, that's the entrepreneurs I hate it. I hate
it. I fucking I'm here for it now. I'm your lawyer and you
going to jail. We played the fifth bitch. You heard me? Who
said that? That's my girl right there? I don't even know how.
I am fucking crying dizzy. I can't believe you'd be laying people spending block
on you. I do not everybody. So you have your favorites will qualify
somebody spend a block on you. If the head good, I like the
I ain't gonna like you. I like the I like the bump pocketbooks.
Uh how you bum my pocketbook? Good? Bitch? I'm coming back.
Hey, you remember me? It's it's the bumping of pocketbooks for me.
You're such a figurative woman. I love that. I love this for you.
You know what. I also decided going into the new year, like
you know, aside from all the new me new bullshit, I decided I
need to find me some more like friends that's in relationships or friends that want
relationships, because I want to do corny shit like You're not gonna find that.
I am you talking about straight friends period? Like I want to do
corny shit like go on vacations and have our boyfriends all show up with the
same shirt. If you talk about straight people, you talking about straight people.
You ain't gonna find that. Wow, because y'all don't like each other.
Yeah we do. You be on social media. The niggas and the
pitches do not like each other. Social media is not fifty fifty. I'm
still stuck on the fifty to fifty. I feel like that's your stud kicking
in at some studs. I'm not doing fifty to fifty with you, nigga.
Oh my god, no, no quick question. You be doing like
the stud stepdaddy ship. Hell now, bitch, once I break out with
you, I break up with your child too. Bars the fuck out my
face. Now when I don't give a dad who feeling about it. Why
you knew she had kids? I did, but bitch, Iang, I
didn't. I When I leave, I'm gone. Now what little kirn do
to you? He loved you, You just was you you, You was
the child of your mother. He ain't doing nothing, That's all it was.
I was fucking with a bitch one time and I went to the grocery
store and I seen the little girl in the store, and she was like
dazzy. I started riding the back of that fucking basket real quick, down,
motherfucker all three. I said, let me get the fuck up out
of here. Not you fucking hitting the back of old lady's legs. Get
away from us, bitch, Fuck you and your mama too, bars,
dizzey, you're going to hell. And we all gasoline draws, and we
all gastling draws. Oh no, no, no, let's not act like
you ain't dead. Shit. See I don't like that. Y'all might not
have deal what I said, but you motherfucker's done some shit. Oh my
god, Disney, is this something one or two things that you feel like
just needs to be out to the masses that you have never gotten a chance
to say, or you have and you feel like more people need to hear.
I say it all the time. I'm not a real stud. You're
not a real stub. What y'all know what that means? That's what they
be telling me. Well, they said, like, what did what they
mean? Oh? Let me ask you us who ain't here gay? Damn?
Where the gay people? Let nowhere in this motherfucker y'all. Bit just
ain't no pussy in these one time shit less he waving a hand, girl,
you're the only one the fuck one? Two three? You didn't say
who he puts on? Five? He got two hands up. That's about
five. That's iti five. That was a lady. That was a lady.
I was, Oh shit, ma'am. I'm so sorry. God damn,
I don't even know how identify my own stuffs. Bitch got glasses on.
That's why they don't let her in the stud close. I ain't even
know that was a lady. You don't even know how to recognize your own
people. You don't know the handshake. You ain't see a thrown up nah
befreudo. If you if you ever watched like my content, I speak a
lot about me because I used to fuck me in for real, so I
compliment that, I compliment them. If I say a fine nigga, I'm
like, oh he fine, and I talk a lot about me and when
I've been drinking, bitch, I got some drinking my cups. So if
you got your man tonight, bit you at a halt them tight. I'm
being in this fight talking about some rad what's I'm not gonna hold you.
If you lose your man to dizzy tonight, you're doing tonight, we got
bigger fish to front you, wil me. But see. But okay,
but let let's listen. They say that the stud's not supposed to say no
shit like that. I can't compliment me, you know what I'm saying.
I guess I'm just supposed to talk about the bitches. I don't like the
degrade women because women have been been degraded for years. I like the degrade
niggas. Okay, So if you got a big print, if yo,
if y'all, if you stand up right now, your print is big,
nigga, I'm gonna tell everybody. Oh God, damn, mister meat meat
to meat. That's Arvey's. Arvey's gotta around this fit. Y'all make some
noise for Jenzy. I like that. Thank you so much, Dizzy,
thank you so much. I love y'all. Thank y'all for having y'all warmer
time for Jessy, y'all, war more time. What do I do with
this? Put it back where I got it from. No, you can
put the mic right here. Put it just on the seat. Yeah,
oh okay, because I take it with me to the bathroom. Oh god,
they didn't start hearing fart noise. The bitch I had the ship the
whole time while I was on the It's nothing like a motherfucker who can get
right with you, but do it in an emotionally intelligent way. Okay.
It's nothing like a nigga who'll be talking but actually knows what the fuck he
be talking about, because he got like papers and shit. He got the
grease and shit right. So you'll probably seen him on TikTok, Instagram,
some type of social media talking that motherfucking shit. I want y'all to make
some noise, but Professor Odie, all right, y'all, I'm not gonna
hold you before we get started. Uh. I don't care what happens today,
tomorrow, the day after. Nobody is ever going to be able to
say anything bad about Professor Odie to me because he let me hold his scarf
backstage. All right, this is a real man and I appreciate him.
Your Mike is back there, King, I'm sorry I follow that your mike
is. I want to see. Don't need? How you doing, Professor
Odie? No you're not. He got he got the best I can for
the sake of man. How y'all doing? Mm hmmmm uh So happy that
you could join us today. Lem Me moving a social away, big dog.
So now it's time for one of my favorite segments of the show,
the edible portion of the show. So the edible portion is when we just
read questions that you guys say in or you guys might want to ask lives.
So before I read some of the sent in questions, I wanted to
give the opportunity. Did anybody have any live questions that they wanted to ask?
I see you one right here? A shot? Where is the spot
you wanted them to stand? A shot? Up against the wall over here?
Up against the wall? Wear which wall over here? Ain't nobody got
no questions? All right? Just staying right there, you guys interrupt,
real quick man interrupt, real quick, hey, so real quick. I'm
gonna wait for y'all because y'all real like chattery, all right. Bet So
when she when she says, do you want to ask a question? So
I'm a therapist. Not only am I therapist, I'm a mental health and
wellness consultant. And on top of that, I talk to people all the
time about not only just mental health and well but also emotional intelligence, relationships,
being themselves, things of that nature. Right, So when we talk
about questions, I need y'all to really come up here and ask questions that
relate either to you or the people around you. Don't come up here and
ask them. Don't don't come up here and ask bullshit questions. I need
for you to ask questions that are real. Right. So, anything that
you feel is an appropriate question, or anything that you feel is a real
question, I need you to ask it because I'll be able to answer it
for you. Right. So ultimately, like, don't ask them oh well
what no, no, no no no, ask a question that makes sense
or ask the questions. I just wantn't bully question. I just want to
It's very I told y'all he nigga with papers, right, So like,
come up here and ask questions and get answers from a nigga with papers,
but who also got gold friends. So you want that rail shit? Y'all
want that rail shit? Come on up here, ask your questions and get
it done. So when she says papers, I have a bachelor's in rehabilitation
services with the concentration and addictions and the minoring psychology, and I have a
master's in community psychology with a focus is afrocentric theory. I've been in the
seventeen and yeah, so I got that sit So ask your question. You
feel what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah, ask real questions. Stick,
Oh to answer the question I was just asked? No, I'm not single.
No sounds like Rick Ross. All right, y'all, now let's let's
remember who got the fucking magic stick. Okay you already, We're goinna keep
it going. Fifty cent that's the correct answer. Five points for you.
Thank you. You ain't never lied you already? All right? You ready,
baby girl? Come on and talk to me what we got When you
speak of emotional on what are some tips to get people to speak about their
emotions? Tip number one is discernment. You can't be open to everybody,
right, because everybody is not able to So let's think about it in terms
of like cups, right, everybody's not able to take what it is that
you pour into their cup. You think know what I'm saying. Everybody does
not have the ability to take what it is that you're pouring into them.
You didn't know what I'm saying. So if somebody says to you like,
yo, I have the you know I'm saying this to you, or I'm
communicating to this to you. I'm communicating this to you and like, oh,
well X Y and Z and naby, no no, no, no
no. If I'm communicating straightforwardly to you and you don't have the ability to
communicate straightforward to me, in return, that person does not have the capacity
to communicate the way that you need them to communicate. Everybody does not have
the capacity to hear you where you are, right. So if you're saying
to this person like, yo, I have this need, it needs to
be met in this way, and I would prefer to be I would prefer
for it to be met in this way, and that person makes a problem
out of you expressing it in this way, that person does not have the
ability or the capacity to see you where you are. Stop engaging with that
person. That person doesn't have it, Let them be where they are.
Emotional intelligence is your ability to not only see, identify, but also explain
what it is that you're feeling, but also be able to identify what other
people are communicating to you. Can I piggyback on that real fat? Oh
I'm listening. Sometimes people just need affirmation or confirmation that this is a safe
space. So it might not be that they're not able to they just aren't
sure if you are. So, if you are and you feel like you
know there's trying or hinting or have the capacity to be safe of you,
how do you let someone know this is a safe space and we could be
emotionally intelligent with each other. I got you. So a lot of people
communicate with criticism first instead of understanding, right, So they'll say, oh,
well, the way that you said this, or the or the words
that you use don't make sense to me, or the way that it is
that you are saying this or you know what I'm saying like reassurance, and
if they don't give it, start swinging exactly okay, no no no,
no, no, no no, no, no, So if you don't
get it, start swinging no no, no no. So it's more so
along a lot. I want to understand what it is that you're saying.
Let me ask you more questions instead of making statements like no, that don't
make sense to me. No, no, no, what do you mean?
Because I'm gonna take it at disrespect and start swinging No no, what
do you mean by that? Like? Can you clarify that? Can you?
Can you? Can you help me to understand what it is that you're
saying. Okay, does that make sense? No, that makes sense to
answer your question? All right, next question, let's go, let's get
it another question. Come on, so quick backstory. I was married in
a full time relationship for about thirteen Wait wait wait, hold on on on
and need you speak up a little bit love because I can't hear you.
Okay, sorry, quick backstory. I was in a relationship for about thirteen
years, married and separated from a serial cheater back in twenty seventeen. He
started messing up my pH balance. So my god, it was time for
me to be selfish. You know. I stayed for the children and then
when you know, the metro jail had to be on constant, you know,
refill. It was time to rule, right. So once we split,
I went into a state of fuck these niggas. I went into that
state, fuck these niggas, and I really didn't care about them. It
was all about me. And now in twenty twenty four, I am in
a place of I need exclusivity, like I want it now. So how
do you move from being in a place of I don't want to be a
player no more, you know, from I was fuck these niggas and now
I want exclusivity? So how would you suggest someone rolling from one place to
the other? All right, So if you want me to give you the
short answer, the reason why you're asking for exclusivity is because you're not used
to security. You did you know what I'm saying? You stayed thirteen years
with a serial cheater. Why you feel what I'm saying. That's one,
but also two, you're asking for exclusivity because it feels like it's more secure
than somebody being a serial cheater. But somebody can show you exclusivity while at
the same time still being a cheater. You did you know what I'm saying?
So what are you? What are your expectations of this person. Right,
do you know your standards? Do you understand what you need in order
to feel secure? If you do not, my suggestion is to not engage
with somebody right, My suggestion is to be internally. How can I say
you need to understand how it is that you understand yourself? That's one,
but also two, do you recognize what it is that you need as a
person sincerely? Like you stay thirteen years with a serial cheater. That's significant,
that's one, But also two, you're asking for somebody to be exclusive
with you. That's also significant as it relates to this idea that if somebody's
significant or somebody's exclusive with me, that represents security. But somebody can lie
to you and say that I'm secure with you or I'm exclusive with you,
while at the same time doing the same thing that they're doing. And I
also want to say, the one thing they don't tell you about knowing your
worth and picking the right person is it's boring as fuck? Yes it is.
Not only is it boring as fuck that cuci be hard as fuck?
Yes? Okay, so girl, you as not by yourself. What you're
saying is fucked amongst a lot of women in this audience. But I feel
like, for whatever reason, the message is always do better, pick better,
know you're worth, But it's not hey. When you are, you
have to have the strength to be strong in it and say, yo,
I'm gonna have to be by myself for a second until I find that person
who's worth what I'm able to give. So be strong, sister. I'm
gonna start a group chat for all the hard coochie bitches in the audience.
We out here. We're gonna band together. Thank you, thank you.
I definitely will piggyback on off of what Stormy said. Exclusivity is boring.
It is. It's very boring, right woo hold on when when I say
exclusivity is boring, what I mean is is that exclusivity does not have the
same the toxic niggas ain't over there. There we go, all right,
next questions, last question, last question? All right, what's up?
Y'all? Good? Bro? So my question to you is it's more or
less like I talk about this on my own stuff and I'm not plugging enough.
Brother. I need you to speak up to what's going on with the
microphones, but I can't hear you. I got you all right, So
what advice do you have to men about creating safe spaces for their self?
He came and dropped it like it's hot. He was glad to be honest.
You want me to be honest? Hey, straight up? Stop listening
to black women who expect you to perform masculinity the way that they believe masculinity
should be performed. Straight up up right, there are a number. One.
That's one, stop stop listening or stop stop stop expecting to Okay,
I'm finna mix up two things because I get excited when motherfuckers asked me this
question. So that's one. Stop listening to black women who expect you to
perform masculinity in the way that they want you to perform it. That's one.
But also two, stop listening to black men who have never had a
healthy masculine. Tell you what masculinity is real quick? How many black men
in here? Who? How many black men here were raised with the father?
Raise your hand? How many black men in here? Story? How
many black men here were raised without a father? Raise your hand? How
many black women in here were raised with a father? Raise your hand.
He came around on the how many black women in here were raised without a
father, raise your hand. If you were raised without a father, nine
times out of ten, that means that your idea of black masculinity is performative,
It is marketed. It means that whatever it is that your idea of
black masculinity is is based upon what people are telling you black masculinity is.
And whoa excuse me, I'll wait for y'all. I got my degree.
I don't need this shit. Y'all can fucking like all wait for y'all because
what the brother's asking is a fair question. So, brother, if you
are talking about safe spaces for black men, because I run a space by
I run a space twice a month for express yourself black men, and we
talk about this all the time. The reality of the situation is is that
you as a black man, you as a black man, our masculinity is
always intercepted by what it is that we believe masculinity should be, and not
what it is that we present masculinity as you dig what I'm saying. And
the only thing, oh sorry, I'm sorry, The only thing I gotta
say about this is the same way we be telling these women know you're worth
to black men, because there are women who will see you and appreciate you
for being a strong black man, without one who is willing to spend fifty
million dollars on a first day, Without one who is willing to be overly
simpative on the first date, who acknowledges you might like things like anime or
whatever the case may be. There is women, and specifically there are black
women who appreciates you for just being You have your boundaries and stand on that
bottom line for black men. If you run into a black woman who is
expecting you to perform the masculinity that they feel is appropriate for black men,
that's not the wave. Who you are as an individual is enough. Don't
believe the internet. Who you are as the individual is enough. Who you
are as an individual is enough. That's one. Two. There are a
number of women who feel as if though they are emotionally intelligent simply because they
are women, that statistics do not support that. They don't write you as
a black man. If you are able to say, yo, I do
not agree with this. This hurts me, This harms me, and I
feel like this you are attempting to project a patriarchy on me. You have
the opportunity to say that if this woman balks at that, or if this
woman feels as if though this is not something that YO leave her ass what
she is expeditiously, expeditiously. If this woman does not allow you to be
who you are, fuck who she is? Do you so loise for Professor
Odie, Thank you so much, usually pull up and drop all these bombs
like that, My nigga, thank you, thank you. Thank you to
each and every one of you who came out today. You are love.
Thank you for supporting, Thank you for hanging out. And if y'all want
to get some drinks, y'all want to, you know, vibe a little
bit. We are going to stand. Where are we going? Oh we're
going to frame tonight. We are unfriends. Sound like the nigga at the
drive through at Burger King. I don't real what Hey, come on man,
we have framed all right. If you want to know where it's at
saying, you're gonna be in a lovey Thank you so much. My message
is always going to be the same. Follow me on the gram at Stormy
p p e A at Chocolate Chip and set And if you don't remember anything
else, knowing your worth is boring. I love you guys. I'll see
next week please,