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Sure, whats up, beautiful people. It is your baby Mama, Favorite

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Baby Mama Sturmer Pea and this is
another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip Line

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from Philadelphia. I ain't gonna lie, y'all. We've been having a whole

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bunch of fun and I ain't even
get lit yet. So I'm very,

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very very surprised to see how the
rest of the show starts. Now,

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if you didn't all really know,
we're recording this on February seventeenth, which

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means we are fresh off Valentine's Day. And how was you, guys?

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Valentine's Day? Yeah? Your name? Okay, Well, I'm gonna hold

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y'all my Valentine's Favor was lit real
bad, real bad, real bad.

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Okay. So, because we're friends
and we cousins don't want that, I

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can tell y'all. Right. So
I've been talking to this guy and he's

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like, hey, I got some
things planned for us on Valentine's Day,

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right, I'm like, okay,
cool. So first we went to a

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pottery class and I made a bowl
cause you know, I'm creative and shit

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right, And then y'all, he
took me for a helicopter ride. I

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know, I was like, shit, I should have shamed my coucie first

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Dyo. I wasn't prepared. So
then we went to like Other World Museum,

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which is like a whole bunch of
cool ass, like weird shit,

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right, It's kind of like Wonder
Spaces but times ten, okay. And

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then we went to dinner and I
said, wow, I should have got

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this nigga a better Valentine's Day gift. I wasn't prepared. I wasn't bad.

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I didn't know that we were so
locked in, but in my mind,

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I was just gonna get him thoughtful
gifts, you know, because I'm

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a thoughtful person. Right. So
I got him some cool shit, you

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know. First I got him some
cologne, right, some violence Tino,

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little fancy colon, I said,
I spent. I spent a smooth out

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of dollars, and shit, you
know what, I'm doing something right.

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Then when he was sick, he
didn't have a teapot, so I brought

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him a teapot. Right. Then
I bought him a phone clip for his

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car, because you know, he
was talking about he didn't have a phone

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killed for his car. And then
I brought him some lactae cause he'd be

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gassy, like every time we go
out and here a little bit older.

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So like every time we go out
and we like eat cheese because I'm lactose

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intolerant, but my mama ain't raised
no bitch, So you know, I

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just fuck it. I'm fucking stomach
gonna hurt later. That's it. That's

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it, right, Its exactly right. So but whenever we be out and

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we'd be like eating cheese, he
always pulled that shit out like a condom,

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like, Yo, you're cool baby. I don't want no lact tape.

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I don't never want no fucking lactaede. I'm gonna sit here and my

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stomach going hurt like the real nigga
that I am, right, but yeah,

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so I gave him all that and
then I forgot to bring it on

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Valentine's Day. So actually he got
his gifts on the fifteenth, right,

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I know, I know, And
it wasn't It was only bad because you

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know, I know, no not
side nigga. No, No, who's

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ever saying side nigga go to hell, cause I don't have a first nigga

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to have a side nigga. Okay, we have just you know, been

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hanging out, so you know whatever. And I wouldn't even say hanging out.

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You know, He's just yo,
you got something to do? And

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I'm like, noil, but I
ain't know he's gonna have all this shit

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to do, right, So I'm
like, all right, fuck it right.

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But it got me to thinking,
you know, let's get into Valentine's

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Day gifts. I know you guys
were talking a little bit earlier with you

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know TGIP podcast about like, Yo, what's the worst Valentine's Day you've gotten?

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Gift you've gotten? And me myself, I've never gotten a bad Valentine's

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Day gift, but I for sure
have given one right now. This is

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before I went to go talk to
the lady. This is before I went

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to go talk to the lady.
This is before I went to go talk

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to the lady. Okay, so
old boy pops up? What is Valentine's

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NI give? I don't have one
for him because he wasn't even on my

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roster. I'm like, damn,
baby, we ain't have no conversation or

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nothing. Now I'm surprised, So
what do I do? I gave him

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a Teddy Bear, one of these
niggas gave me. This was before I

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went to go talk to the lady. Didn't I tell y'all that? Okay,

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Now, that wasn't the bad part
though. The bad part was I

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forgot to take the name tag off. I feel like there's some judgment.

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I thought we were family. I
thought we were family, and I feel

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like there's some judgment. Okay,
I forgot to take the name tag off

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that said to Stormy from this nigga. So I gave this bear to another

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that said two Stormy from this other
nigga, and he said, girl,

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go to hell man. He wore
me out for about two weeks straight and

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once again this before I'm gonna go
talk to the lady. So what did

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I do? I fucking lied?
Okay, I lied. I said no,

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actually I had my homegirl fill it
out and she didn't know, like

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which name. She just mixed it
up. It's cool, it's cool.

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He came to my last show though, So no, I'm not no no

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complaints, no love loss, no
love loss. Now, before we switch

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over to the second segment, the
last thing that I want to say about

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Valentine's Day is shout out to all
the ladies and all the good men who

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put that towel down for Valentine's Day. These are the real heroes. Then

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come out, somebody, come out. These are the real heroes. So

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this is a story that we don't
talk about freely, and we fucking need

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to. Okay, because some of
you that chiwe was the only gift you

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gave. And that's okay, that's
okay, because you know what, maybe

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you need to go talk to the
lady. All right, but I just

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wanted to say that before we get
out of here, shout out to all

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the real heroes. And that's the
end of segment one. Everybody, clap

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it up, Clap it up,
clap it up. We are going to

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introduce someone who has become the bane
of my fucking existence. Okay, So

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I want show all to clap it
up for a real woman. Okay,

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I wanta try to clap it up
for sir ma'am. I'm gonna try to

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clap it up, sir ma'am.
Okay, I'm gonna try to clap it

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up for my girl Disney Christmas.
Come on, y'all. See, that's

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why them studs do. I'm like
you, now, you be doing shit

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like that. Oh wait, why
you get a good a mic? Get

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a mic? Listen. Let me
tell you, I'm so sick of her

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asked me to come here tonight.
I like y'all do. The reason I

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say I'm sick of Dizzy is because
y'all heard me say these aren't the right

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cards. Guess who had the fucking
cards? And you see how they've been

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thrown because it was in my ass
crack and I heard that on them holes.

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First of all, these cards are
moist. Yeah, I like that.

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I don't. Okay, uh,
thank you so much for joining us,

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Dizzy us, miss lady, sir
man, sir, ma'am, sir

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man, hold on before she gets
to talking. Anybody got pcos on you

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pc os? You a lady?
You got y'all don't know if you grown

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hair on your chin, bitch,
you probably got that shit. Y'all holds

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acting like y'all ain't got it,
bitch. I just shaved before I came

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to the show tonight. You got
that ship, bitch? You relax.

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I shaved my ship tonight. You
okay, girl, we come on now?

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Why she like this and listen?
Please? Okay, I like you

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too, Huh. I'm done.
Okay, So, Dizzy, I wanted

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to talk to you about a few
things here. Uh. First, I

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want to talk about ghosting. Ghosting. What's the last time you've been ghosted?

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She before when I got the Philly
What, Yeah, did you go

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somebody or somebody ghosted you? I
was ghosted by Stormy. You go to

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hell. Suck a dick, suck
a big MENO gonna talk about it.

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Go ahead, go ahead, and
Toddie's lives, go ahead. Stormy told

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me she was taking me to the
museum. I ain't heard from Stormy,

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sins, bitch. What that sounded
like? Ghosting? That's Casper right here.

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Now. What she didn't tell you
is that it fucking snowed. That

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was Tuesday, bitch, Sunday.
Then I hit her up on the day

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we agree to go out to the
mos Museum, and I'm like, Yo,

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what's up? Like you're still down? What they was that? I

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lied? It was the other way
around. She get me up and said,

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Yo, what's up? We're still
going to the mu Damn no no,

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And then I said, Yo,
ain't gonna lie dog, I'm a

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little hungover. She said, bitch
me too, me too, And I

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ain't heard from a sense ghosts.
First of all, I had to replenish

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my lecture like, okay, me
too. You're not even being kid.

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I'm old too. What you mean? Oh my god, I'm serious though.

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What's the last time you've been in
ghosted? I was serious too.

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I just got here, so I
just got here. You know what my

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problem with ghosting is. Ghosting is
so preventable, right, because all you

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gotta do is tell me, hey, bitch, you doing too much,

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don't fucking ghost me, and just
stop talking to me and then make it

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seem like I'm crazy when I hit
you up. Baby, we've been tapped

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in. I'm trying to make sure
you wasn't in a car accident. I'm

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sure to make sure they repoll your
car, trying to make sure you're still

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good and your baby, my man, come make good on them threats and

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fuck you? What? Want you
out? But now you're like, oh,

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you're doing too much. Don't pop
up at my job? Who bitch?

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How AWESO? Am I gonna find
out? Are you okay? Like?

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Am I tripping? No? You're
not. I pop up in a

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jobs too. You pop up.
I pop up at jobs too, and

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act like I'm their sister. M
hm is my sister? Okay? I

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haven't talked to you in a while. I'm with you, bitch, I

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ain't gonna lie. You need to
be arrested. I'm your sister. I

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just look like this and I pull
up. They may I thought I was

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your brother, but bitch, I'm
your sister. Where you at? Oh

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my gud. And another thing is
like people always try to act like you

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know, oh well, I wasn't
ghosting you. But baby, we've had

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a pattern. You've texted me good
morning every day for the past three weeks.

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Now it's been three days. I
ain't heard from your black ass,

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right, and now we crazy because
we didn't popped up. Now I'm tripping.

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I'm not crazy. I'm John say
if you okay? Now I do

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do you need something? Stink exactly? I'm finna call your mama. That's

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what you want me to do.
That's what you want me to do.

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You want me to call your mama. Okay. You want me to go

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to your son's daycare and make sure
he made it on you? So feel

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me. What's he called love children
for everybody? What's that day? No?

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No, no, maybe he had
little Einstein's now he had little Emeshine.

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But I'm gonna pull up. I'm
gonna be there. Don't worry.

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I make it. I make it. I think it's important though, and

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I hope everyone in here here's this, men and women whoever? Right?

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If somebody ghost you, respect to
dad and don't let them niggas come back.

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Ain't no take back seats, right
because let me tell you what some

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people like to do. Ghost you
let it, let it, let die

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out, die all the way out, and then pop back up like two

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months later. Hay stink, Hey, big header, not that mature?

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Okay, okay, what is it? I need you about three days?

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If I ain't talking you three days, bitch, I'm popping up. Hold

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on, now, you've got a
problem, and I'm not probably going to

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your job, your home. I'm
going to your mama house now, okay?

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Ms Gladys Is she all right?
I go to your daddy house now?

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Not mister Ralph? Is she all
right? You be letting people spend

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the block on you? Hell yeah, I'll spend the block. No,

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no, no, do you let
them spend the block on you? They

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got you, and you be letting
them come back. It just depends if

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it was good. I don't want
to add no extra bodies. I actually

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respect that. I respect that.
I respect that. I got too many

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bodies as it is. At this
point, I'm considered a whole. I'm

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trying to you're a you're a philanthropist. Is that what it's called? Yeah,

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that's okay, okay, Yeah,
I like that. I think that's

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a good point though, because you're
an entrepreneurist. Is entrepreneur? Bitch sucked

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that nigga game? Bitch, that's
the entrepreneurs I hate it. I hate

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it. I fucking I'm here for
it now. I'm your lawyer and you

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going to jail. We played the
fifth bitch. You heard me? Who

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said that? That's my girl right
there? I don't even know how.

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I am fucking crying dizzy. I
can't believe you'd be laying people spending block

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on you. I do not everybody. So you have your favorites will qualify

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somebody spend a block on you.
If the head good, I like the

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I ain't gonna like you. I
like the I like the bump pocketbooks.

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Uh how you bum my pocketbook?
Good? Bitch? I'm coming back.

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Hey, you remember me? It's
it's the bumping of pocketbooks for me.

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You're such a figurative woman. I
love that. I love this for you.

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You know what. I also decided
going into the new year, like

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you know, aside from all the
new me new bullshit, I decided I

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need to find me some more like
friends that's in relationships or friends that want

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relationships, because I want to do
corny shit like You're not gonna find that.

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I am you talking about straight friends
period? Like I want to do

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corny shit like go on vacations and
have our boyfriends all show up with the

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same shirt. If you talk about
straight people, you talking about straight people.

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You ain't gonna find that. Wow, because y'all don't like each other.

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Yeah we do. You be on
social media. The niggas and the

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pitches do not like each other.
Social media is not fifty fifty. I'm

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still stuck on the fifty to fifty. I feel like that's your stud kicking

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in at some studs. I'm not
doing fifty to fifty with you, nigga.

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Oh my god, no, no
quick question. You be doing like

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the stud stepdaddy ship. Hell now, bitch, once I break out with

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you, I break up with your
child too. Bars the fuck out my

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face. Now when I don't give
a dad who feeling about it. Why

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you knew she had kids? I
did, but bitch, Iang, I

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didn't. I When I leave,
I'm gone. Now what little kirn do

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to you? He loved you,
You just was you you, You was

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the child of your mother. He
ain't doing nothing, That's all it was.

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I was fucking with a bitch one
time and I went to the grocery

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store and I seen the little girl
in the store, and she was like

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dazzy. I started riding the back
of that fucking basket real quick, down,

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motherfucker all three. I said,
let me get the fuck up out

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of here. Not you fucking hitting
the back of old lady's legs. Get

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away from us, bitch, Fuck
you and your mama too, bars,

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dizzey, you're going to hell.
And we all gasoline draws, and we

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all gastling draws. Oh no,
no, no, let's not act like

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you ain't dead. Shit. See
I don't like that. Y'all might not

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have deal what I said, but
you motherfucker's done some shit. Oh my

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god, Disney, is this something
one or two things that you feel like

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just needs to be out to the
masses that you have never gotten a chance

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to say, or you have and
you feel like more people need to hear.

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I say it all the time.
I'm not a real stud. You're

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not a real stub. What y'all
know what that means? That's what they

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be telling me. Well, they
said, like, what did what they

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mean? Oh? Let me ask
you us who ain't here gay? Damn?

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Where the gay people? Let nowhere
in this motherfucker y'all. Bit just

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ain't no pussy in these one time
shit less he waving a hand, girl,

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you're the only one the fuck one? Two three? You didn't say

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who he puts on? Five?
He got two hands up. That's about

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five. That's iti five. That
was a lady. That was a lady.

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I was, Oh shit, ma'am. I'm so sorry. God damn,

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I don't even know how identify my
own stuffs. Bitch got glasses on.

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That's why they don't let her in
the stud close. I ain't even

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know that was a lady. You
don't even know how to recognize your own

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people. You don't know the handshake. You ain't see a thrown up nah

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befreudo. If you if you ever
watched like my content, I speak a

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lot about me because I used to
fuck me in for real, so I

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compliment that, I compliment them.
If I say a fine nigga, I'm

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like, oh he fine, and
I talk a lot about me and when

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I've been drinking, bitch, I
got some drinking my cups. So if

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you got your man tonight, bit
you at a halt them tight. I'm

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being in this fight talking about some
rad what's I'm not gonna hold you.

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If you lose your man to dizzy
tonight, you're doing tonight, we got

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bigger fish to front you, wil
me. But see. But okay,

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but let let's listen. They say
that the stud's not supposed to say no

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shit like that. I can't compliment
me, you know what I'm saying.

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I guess I'm just supposed to talk
about the bitches. I don't like the

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degrade women because women have been been
degraded for years. I like the degrade

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niggas. Okay, So if you
got a big print, if yo,

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if y'all, if you stand up
right now, your print is big,

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nigga, I'm gonna tell everybody.
Oh God, damn, mister meat meat

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to meat. That's Arvey's. Arvey's
gotta around this fit. Y'all make some

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noise for Jenzy. I like that. Thank you so much, Dizzy,

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thank you so much. I love
y'all. Thank y'all for having y'all warmer

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time for Jessy, y'all, war
more time. What do I do with

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this? Put it back where I
got it from. No, you can

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put the mic right here. Put
it just on the seat. Yeah,

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oh okay, because I take it
with me to the bathroom. Oh god,

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they didn't start hearing fart noise.
The bitch I had the ship the

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whole time while I was on the
It's nothing like a motherfucker who can get

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right with you, but do it
in an emotionally intelligent way. Okay.

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It's nothing like a nigga who'll be
talking but actually knows what the fuck he

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be talking about, because he got
like papers and shit. He got the

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grease and shit right. So you'll
probably seen him on TikTok, Instagram,

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some type of social media talking that
motherfucking shit. I want y'all to make

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some noise, but Professor Odie,
all right, y'all, I'm not gonna

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hold you before we get started.
Uh. I don't care what happens today,

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tomorrow, the day after. Nobody
is ever going to be able to

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say anything bad about Professor Odie to
me because he let me hold his scarf

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backstage. All right, this is
a real man and I appreciate him.

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Your Mike is back there, King, I'm sorry I follow that your mike

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is. I want to see.
Don't need? How you doing, Professor

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Odie? No you're not. He
got he got the best I can for

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the sake of man. How y'all
doing? Mm hmmmm uh So happy that

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you could join us today. Lem
Me moving a social away, big dog.

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So now it's time for one of
my favorite segments of the show,

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the edible portion of the show.
So the edible portion is when we just

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read questions that you guys say in
or you guys might want to ask lives.

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So before I read some of the
sent in questions, I wanted to

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give the opportunity. Did anybody have
any live questions that they wanted to ask?

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I see you one right here?
A shot? Where is the spot

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you wanted them to stand? A
shot? Up against the wall over here?

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Up against the wall? Wear which
wall over here? Ain't nobody got

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no questions? All right? Just
staying right there, you guys interrupt,

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real quick man interrupt, real quick, hey, so real quick. I'm

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gonna wait for y'all because y'all real
like chattery, all right. Bet So

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when she when she says, do
you want to ask a question? So

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I'm a therapist. Not only am
I therapist, I'm a mental health and

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wellness consultant. And on top of
that, I talk to people all the

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time about not only just mental health
and well but also emotional intelligence, relationships,

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being themselves, things of that nature. Right, So when we talk

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about questions, I need y'all to
really come up here and ask questions that

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relate either to you or the people
around you. Don't come up here and

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ask them. Don't don't come up
here and ask bullshit questions. I need

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for you to ask questions that are
real. Right. So, anything that

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you feel is an appropriate question,
or anything that you feel is a real

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question, I need you to ask
it because I'll be able to answer it

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for you. Right. So ultimately, like, don't ask them oh well

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what no, no, no no
no, ask a question that makes sense

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or ask the questions. I just
wantn't bully question. I just want to

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It's very I told y'all he nigga
with papers, right, So like,

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come up here and ask questions and
get answers from a nigga with papers,

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but who also got gold friends.
So you want that rail shit? Y'all

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want that rail shit? Come on
up here, ask your questions and get

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it done. So when she says
papers, I have a bachelor's in rehabilitation

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services with the concentration and addictions and
the minoring psychology, and I have a

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master's in community psychology with a focus
is afrocentric theory. I've been in the

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seventeen and yeah, so I got
that sit So ask your question. You

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feel what I'm saying? Yeah,
yeah, ask real questions. Stick,

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Oh to answer the question I was
just asked? No, I'm not single.

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No sounds like Rick Ross. All
right, y'all, now let's let's

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remember who got the fucking magic stick. Okay you already, We're goinna keep

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it going. Fifty cent that's the
correct answer. Five points for you.

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Thank you. You ain't never lied
you already? All right? You ready,

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baby girl? Come on and talk
to me what we got When you

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speak of emotional on what are some
tips to get people to speak about their

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emotions? Tip number one is discernment. You can't be open to everybody,

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right, because everybody is not able
to So let's think about it in terms

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of like cups, right, everybody's
not able to take what it is that

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you pour into their cup. You
think know what I'm saying. Everybody does

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not have the ability to take what
it is that you're pouring into them.

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You didn't know what I'm saying.
So if somebody says to you like,

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yo, I have the you know
I'm saying this to you, or I'm

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communicating to this to you. I'm
communicating this to you and like, oh,

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well X Y and Z and naby, no no, no, no

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no. If I'm communicating straightforwardly to
you and you don't have the ability to

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communicate straightforward to me, in return, that person does not have the capacity

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to communicate the way that you need
them to communicate. Everybody does not have

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the capacity to hear you where you
are, right. So if you're saying

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to this person like, yo,
I have this need, it needs to

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be met in this way, and
I would prefer to be I would prefer

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for it to be met in this
way, and that person makes a problem

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out of you expressing it in this
way, that person does not have the

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ability or the capacity to see you
where you are. Stop engaging with that

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person. That person doesn't have it, Let them be where they are.

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Emotional intelligence is your ability to not
only see, identify, but also explain

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what it is that you're feeling,
but also be able to identify what other

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people are communicating to you. Can
I piggyback on that real fat? Oh

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I'm listening. Sometimes people just need
affirmation or confirmation that this is a safe

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space. So it might not be
that they're not able to they just aren't

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sure if you are. So,
if you are and you feel like you

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know there's trying or hinting or have
the capacity to be safe of you,

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how do you let someone know this
is a safe space and we could be

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emotionally intelligent with each other. I
got you. So a lot of people

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communicate with criticism first instead of understanding, right, So they'll say, oh,

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well, the way that you said
this, or the or the words

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that you use don't make sense to
me, or the way that it is

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that you are saying this or you
know what I'm saying like reassurance, and

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if they don't give it, start
swinging exactly okay, no no no,

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no, no, no no,
no, no, So if you don't

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get it, start swinging no no, no no. So it's more so

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along a lot. I want to
understand what it is that you're saying.

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Let me ask you more questions instead
of making statements like no, that don't

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make sense to me. No,
no, no, what do you mean?

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Because I'm gonna take it at disrespect
and start swinging No no, what

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do you mean by that? Like? Can you clarify that? Can you?

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Can you? Can you help me
to understand what it is that you're

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saying. Okay, does that make
sense? No, that makes sense to

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answer your question? All right,
next question, let's go, let's get

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it another question. Come on,
so quick backstory. I was married in

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a full time relationship for about thirteen
Wait wait wait, hold on on on

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and need you speak up a little
bit love because I can't hear you.

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Okay, sorry, quick backstory.
I was in a relationship for about thirteen

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years, married and separated from a
serial cheater back in twenty seventeen. He

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started messing up my pH balance.
So my god, it was time for

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me to be selfish. You know. I stayed for the children and then

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when you know, the metro jail
had to be on constant, you know,

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refill. It was time to rule, right. So once we split,

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I went into a state of fuck
these niggas. I went into that

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state, fuck these niggas, and
I really didn't care about them. It

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was all about me. And now
in twenty twenty four, I am in

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a place of I need exclusivity,
like I want it now. So how

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do you move from being in a
place of I don't want to be a

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player no more, you know,
from I was fuck these niggas and now

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I want exclusivity? So how would
you suggest someone rolling from one place to

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the other? All right, So
if you want me to give you the

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short answer, the reason why you're
asking for exclusivity is because you're not used

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to security. You did you know
what I'm saying? You stayed thirteen years

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with a serial cheater. Why you
feel what I'm saying. That's one,

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but also two, you're asking for
exclusivity because it feels like it's more secure

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than somebody being a serial cheater.
But somebody can show you exclusivity while at

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the same time still being a cheater. You did you know what I'm saying?

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So what are you? What are
your expectations of this person. Right,

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do you know your standards? Do
you understand what you need in order

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to feel secure? If you do
not, my suggestion is to not engage

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with somebody right, My suggestion is
to be internally. How can I say

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you need to understand how it is
that you understand yourself? That's one,

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but also two, do you recognize
what it is that you need as a

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person sincerely? Like you stay thirteen
years with a serial cheater. That's significant,

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that's one, But also two,
you're asking for somebody to be exclusive

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with you. That's also significant as
it relates to this idea that if somebody's

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significant or somebody's exclusive with me,
that represents security. But somebody can lie

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to you and say that I'm secure
with you or I'm exclusive with you,

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while at the same time doing the
same thing that they're doing. And I

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also want to say, the one
thing they don't tell you about knowing your

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worth and picking the right person is
it's boring as fuck? Yes it is.

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Not only is it boring as fuck
that cuci be hard as fuck?

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Yes? Okay, so girl,
you as not by yourself. What you're

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saying is fucked amongst a lot of
women in this audience. But I feel

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like, for whatever reason, the
message is always do better, pick better,

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know you're worth, But it's not
hey. When you are, you

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have to have the strength to be
strong in it and say, yo,

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I'm gonna have to be by myself
for a second until I find that person

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who's worth what I'm able to give. So be strong, sister. I'm

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gonna start a group chat for all
the hard coochie bitches in the audience.

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We out here. We're gonna band
together. Thank you, thank you.

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I definitely will piggyback on off of
what Stormy said. Exclusivity is boring.

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It is. It's very boring,
right woo hold on when when I say

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exclusivity is boring, what I mean
is is that exclusivity does not have the

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same the toxic niggas ain't over there. There we go, all right,

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next questions, last question, last
question? All right, what's up?

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Y'all? Good? Bro? So
my question to you is it's more or

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less like I talk about this on
my own stuff and I'm not plugging enough.

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Brother. I need you to speak
up to what's going on with the

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microphones, but I can't hear you. I got you all right, So

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what advice do you have to men
about creating safe spaces for their self?

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He came and dropped it like it's
hot. He was glad to be honest.

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You want me to be honest?
Hey, straight up? Stop listening

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to black women who expect you to
perform masculinity the way that they believe masculinity

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should be performed. Straight up up
right, there are a number. One.

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That's one, stop stop listening or
stop stop stop expecting to Okay,

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I'm finna mix up two things because
I get excited when motherfuckers asked me this

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question. So that's one. Stop
listening to black women who expect you to

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perform masculinity in the way that they
want you to perform it. That's one.

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But also two, stop listening to
black men who have never had a

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healthy masculine. Tell you what masculinity
is real quick? How many black men

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in here? Who? How many
black men here were raised with the father?

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Raise your hand? How many black
men in here? Story? How

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many black men here were raised without
a father? Raise your hand? How

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many black women in here were raised
with a father? Raise your hand.

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He came around on the how many
black women in here were raised without a

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father, raise your hand. If
you were raised without a father, nine

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times out of ten, that means
that your idea of black masculinity is performative,

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It is marketed. It means that
whatever it is that your idea of

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black masculinity is is based upon what
people are telling you black masculinity is.

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And whoa excuse me, I'll wait
for y'all. I got my degree.

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I don't need this shit. Y'all
can fucking like all wait for y'all because

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what the brother's asking is a fair
question. So, brother, if you

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are talking about safe spaces for black
men, because I run a space by

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I run a space twice a month
for express yourself black men, and we

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talk about this all the time.
The reality of the situation is is that

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you as a black man, you
as a black man, our masculinity is

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always intercepted by what it is that
we believe masculinity should be, and not

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what it is that we present masculinity
as you dig what I'm saying. And

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the only thing, oh sorry,
I'm sorry, The only thing I gotta

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say about this is the same way
we be telling these women know you're worth

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to black men, because there are
women who will see you and appreciate you

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for being a strong black man,
without one who is willing to spend fifty

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million dollars on a first day,
Without one who is willing to be overly

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simpative on the first date, who
acknowledges you might like things like anime or

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whatever the case may be. There
is women, and specifically there are black

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women who appreciates you for just being
You have your boundaries and stand on that

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bottom line for black men. If
you run into a black woman who is

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expecting you to perform the masculinity that
they feel is appropriate for black men,

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that's not the wave. Who you
are as an individual is enough. Don't

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believe the internet. Who you are
as the individual is enough. Who you

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are as an individual is enough.
That's one. Two. There are a

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number of women who feel as if
though they are emotionally intelligent simply because they

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are women, that statistics do not
support that. They don't write you as

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a black man. If you are
able to say, yo, I do

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not agree with this. This hurts
me, This harms me, and I

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00:34:29.480 --> 00:34:32.960
feel like this you are attempting to
project a patriarchy on me. You have

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the opportunity to say that if this
woman balks at that, or if this

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woman feels as if though this is
not something that YO leave her ass what

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she is expeditiously, expeditiously. If
this woman does not allow you to be

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who you are, fuck who she
is? Do you so loise for Professor

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Odie, Thank you so much,
usually pull up and drop all these bombs

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like that, My nigga, thank
you, thank you. Thank you to

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each and every one of you who
came out today. You are love.

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00:35:07.800 --> 00:35:10.880
Thank you for supporting, Thank you
for hanging out. And if y'all want

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to get some drinks, y'all want
to, you know, vibe a little

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00:35:14.320 --> 00:35:17.440
bit. We are going to stand. Where are we going? Oh we're

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00:35:17.480 --> 00:35:21.519
going to frame tonight. We are
unfriends. Sound like the nigga at the

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drive through at Burger King. I
don't real what Hey, come on man,

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we have framed all right. If
you want to know where it's at

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00:35:30.760 --> 00:35:35.039
saying, you're gonna be in a
lovey Thank you so much. My message

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00:35:35.079 --> 00:35:37.719
is always going to be the same. Follow me on the gram at Stormy

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00:35:37.760 --> 00:35:40.880
p p e A at Chocolate Chip
and set And if you don't remember anything

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else, knowing your worth is boring. I love you guys. I'll see

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next week please,