1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,759 You know, Hispanic men walking through the neighborhood. I would have always just 2 00:00:02,839 --> 00:00:05,919 assumed, Oh, they're just doing work, or they're they've got friends here, 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:09,320 or what. I wouldn't have even thought twice about it. Biden's policies 4 00:00:09,359 --> 00:00:18,800 have literally changed the psyche of the country. Fasting bed, I have been 5 00:00:18,879 --> 00:00:24,280 really tired this week. Yeah, you know you have bouts of insamio when 6 00:00:24,359 --> 00:00:27,679 you are a menopausal. It's been one of those one of the joys. 7 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:32,600 It's been such a joy to me and the only thing that I want to 8 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,880 do is crawl into my bed with all my my pillow sheets and my pillow 9 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,159 pills. 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And I was in a rage when I went 35 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,080 on the walk, and I was thinking, I'm going to go on this 36 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:38,960 walk to alleviate the rage and the rage I was feeling. Yeah, yeah, 37 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:42,080 So did you see that story about the mother and daughter who were leaving 38 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:46,599 a Drake concert and this guy ran them over because he sped through a light 39 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:53,240 going eighty miles an hour. Did not see that? There's video And when 40 00:02:53,319 --> 00:02:55,960 I happened, are they okay? What? No? They died. They 41 00:02:57,199 --> 00:03:02,159 literally exploded, like there. It was so horrific, and I was so 42 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:06,560 mad about it that I just needed to go on a walk, and so 43 00:03:06,759 --> 00:03:08,560 like I was already raging, and I'm thinking, I'm going on a walk 44 00:03:08,599 --> 00:03:14,039 to alleviate the rage. Okay, that did not happen. So and I 45 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,879 had my little audiobook, I'm like listening to a new Colleen Hoover novel. 46 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,960 I was like really really enjoying myself, and I'm getting to the tail end 47 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,800 of my walk, and I'm happy. It's a beautiful day, which is 48 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,280 rare for Indiana in February, right, it is rare, very rare. 49 00:03:27,479 --> 00:03:32,840 Usually there's a blizzard right right, and you're like, I'm gonna do a 50 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:37,159 rage walk because it's not blizzarding right now, and it really, I really 51 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,560 was feeling much much better. I was like my rage was calmed down. 52 00:03:39,599 --> 00:03:42,680 I was enjoying the book. It was great, the sun was shining, 53 00:03:42,759 --> 00:03:46,520 was awesome. And then I walk up to like this intersection in my neighborhood, 54 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:51,280 which is kind of like the back entrance, so it's a it's a 55 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:55,400 street. And then that street intersects with my actual street, okay, and 56 00:03:55,520 --> 00:04:00,400 someone pulls up to the stop sign. It's a car, and two thighs 57 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,919 get out like as I'm approaching. Okay. So I'm like, I'm immediately 58 00:04:03,919 --> 00:04:08,039 on guard because I'm like, I've this is weird. Why are these getting 59 00:04:08,039 --> 00:04:11,319 out of a car? Right, guys at a stop sign, not like 60 00:04:11,439 --> 00:04:14,120 at a house or at a parking you know what I mean. It's at 61 00:04:14,159 --> 00:04:16,959 a stop sign. These two guys jump out of the car. The driver 62 00:04:17,079 --> 00:04:20,319 is still in the driver's seat. You guys jump out of the car and 63 00:04:20,439 --> 00:04:26,399 go to the trunk and take out these giant tote bags. Oh my god. 64 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:30,120 Yeah, And so I'm like, I immediately just got on my phone 65 00:04:30,399 --> 00:04:33,959 to pretend I was on the phone with my husband, which is how that's 66 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:38,439 smart. It's very smooth. I actually would have gotten on the phone with 67 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,759 my husband. I wouldn't have pretended I would have gotten on the phone with 68 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:43,920 my husband. I would have been like, there are guys right here, 69 00:04:44,079 --> 00:04:48,959 like with tote bags and seriously, and either that or I would have been 70 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,560 on the walk with a firearm, you know what I mean. I would 71 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,920 have been yeah, but without a firearm. Yes, I would have been 72 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:56,680 on the phone with my husband. I would have been like, get your 73 00:04:56,800 --> 00:05:00,000 firearm and bring it to where I am. Right. I didn't want to 74 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,519 have a conversation that was about them, right, because I wanted to just 75 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,759 make it sound like, oh, somebody just happened to call me, and 76 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:09,680 I'm like talking about how they're coming home soon and all that kind of stuff, 77 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:11,959 which is really smart because you want to make sure that, like, 78 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:15,480 if you are in a situation where you feel like you can be abducted or 79 00:05:15,519 --> 00:05:20,720 something, or that if you feel like that could happen that that person understands 80 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:24,800 that you're on the phone with somebody, or that that that you're missed in 81 00:05:24,879 --> 00:05:28,639 some way, or they know where you are exactly, that there somebody's expecting 82 00:05:28,639 --> 00:05:30,480 you to come home exactly. Yeah, and then and they know And I 83 00:05:30,519 --> 00:05:32,879 said, I'm on a walk right now. It's so gorgeous out, like 84 00:05:32,879 --> 00:05:36,759 these are all the things I'm saying, so and now watching So one of 85 00:05:36,759 --> 00:05:42,560 the guys that had gotten out of the car walks in the same direction that 86 00:05:42,639 --> 00:05:46,279 I'm going in, So like, ultimately we're going to be walking together. 87 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,839 We're going to be essentially walking together. The other guy is heading towards me, 88 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:54,519 okay, And so I'm just super on guard. I'm like not making 89 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:58,800 eye contact, just having my little conversation, but really really freaked out. 90 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:04,279 The car turns onto my street and just keeps driving. And so I'm watching 91 00:06:04,399 --> 00:06:11,920 these guys and what they're doing is they're putting flyers in everybody's mailbox. So 92 00:06:12,079 --> 00:06:15,199 I calmed down a little bit. I calmed down, and I'm like, 93 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:20,480 Okay, are these are clearly Hispanic guys probably looking to do some lawn care 94 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:27,199 because they're putting flyers and all the mailboxes. So I'm like calming down but 95 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:32,439 still super on high alert. And I don't like essentially that they're going to 96 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:35,519 be seeing where I live too, like if I start at home, so 97 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:41,839 I'm kind of like taking my time anyway. I got so angry about my 98 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:48,079 reaction to those guys because at no time before the Joe Biden presidency have I 99 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:54,879 ever been afraid of Hispanic people, right ever, or afraid really to be 100 00:06:54,959 --> 00:06:59,399 in your neighborhood. Yes, exactly, And so I got into a whole 101 00:06:59,439 --> 00:07:01,360 new race. Even though the walk was supposed to cure my rage, I 102 00:07:01,399 --> 00:07:06,160 got into a whole new rage about Joe Biden making me so freaking scared and 103 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:10,480 also kind of racist, right, I know. And then you wrote me 104 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,600 yesterday because you were like this, I'd hate this. I mean, I 105 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,160 absolutely hate this, and that you have to listen. There's one thing I 106 00:07:16,759 --> 00:07:20,399 have raised our daughters especially. I mean our son is this way too, 107 00:07:20,519 --> 00:07:26,079 but we have raised our daughters. I have raised our daughters especially to have 108 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:30,360 their head on a swivel, so like even our fourteen year old. Sometimes 109 00:07:30,399 --> 00:07:32,560 I notice that she's doing it more than I am, like at a store 110 00:07:33,279 --> 00:07:38,040 that she's constantly looking around, making sure, Like if there's some weird dude 111 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:41,639 that's you know, walking by, and I gotta tell you, Like, 112 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:46,000 if she sees something that is odd in an individual that's you know, maybe 113 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,920 like that puts her on alert. I feel bad about that. It's kind 114 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:53,680 of like the same thing, like I hate that I have to make her 115 00:07:54,279 --> 00:07:58,079 on high alert, Like I hate that the world is that way, But 116 00:07:58,839 --> 00:08:01,120 it's also like a good thing, right because you want them to be You 117 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:05,360 don't want them to be a sitting duck for a crime to happen to them. 118 00:08:05,399 --> 00:08:09,000 You want them to make sure that they are aware of their surroundings. 119 00:08:07,399 --> 00:08:13,680 But simultaneously you hate it, like you feel bad about you hate that they're 120 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,759 that way, and you hate that there is more crime now than there was. 121 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:20,000 I feel like when we were growing up, because remember when we would 122 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,439 just be able to I got our parents would kick us out of the house 123 00:08:22,439 --> 00:08:26,399 and be like, go run and play and I'll see you when it's dark. 124 00:08:26,759 --> 00:08:28,920 Yeah, see in twelve hours. Go drink out of the hose. 125 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:33,120 Bye. I mean that was like our life. I would never do that 126 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:35,879 with my kid now, Like I don't even let her out of my sight 127 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:41,000 at a target. I'm so hyper aware of I got to make sure because 128 00:08:41,039 --> 00:08:45,879 I don't let her go into public restrooms alone. Like She's just now at 129 00:08:45,879 --> 00:08:50,600 the point at fourteen where I'm so weird about that. When we do road 130 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,480 trips, I remember telling my husband, do not like if he went with 131 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:56,240 her by himself across the country on a trip, I'd be like, do 132 00:08:56,360 --> 00:09:01,919 not let her go into a publicom by herself, Like, make sure you 133 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,559 are standing right outside that door, and that you make sure that there's nobody 134 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,360 in there. I mean, I was so weird about that. I've always 135 00:09:07,399 --> 00:09:11,440 been so bizarre about that. So yeah, I get pissed off that I 136 00:09:11,519 --> 00:09:15,559 am that way, but I'm also, I guess a little glad that I 137 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,440 am that way. It's a strange dichotomy. So I know, I can 138 00:09:18,519 --> 00:09:20,759 understand your rage, but at the same time, it's like, would you 139 00:09:20,879 --> 00:09:28,840 rather be clueless about it and and then be I don't know, perhaps a 140 00:09:28,919 --> 00:09:33,159 victim of the crime, which is listen, it's that's just part of our 141 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:37,879 society now. Unfortunately, there's a little bit more crime now because of the 142 00:09:37,639 --> 00:09:43,799 shitty policies that are in place because of Democrats. Well that's the thing is, 143 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:46,039 like, you know, there's no question that the crime is worse, 144 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:50,039 and that it's there's a lot of illegals who are committing a lot of crimes. 145 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:52,720 I mean, we just saw that nursing student at Georgia. I mean 146 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:56,200 that's you know, you always have these stories in the back of your head. 147 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:01,519 And I guess the reason that I got so ragy about it is in 148 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:05,120 addition to the fact that it's happening, which is unacceptable, but that, 149 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:13,200 like he, Biden's policies have literally changed the psyche of the country so that 150 00:10:13,399 --> 00:10:16,679 now people like me who never had to think about this stuff, who never 151 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,960 I would have never looked at, you know, Hispanic men walking through the 152 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:24,000 neighborhood. I would have always just assumed, oh, they're just whatever, 153 00:10:24,039 --> 00:10:26,480 they're doing work, or they're they've got friends here or what. I wouldn't 154 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:31,519 have even thought twice about it. And now my first instinct is to be 155 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,799 afraid. And that is on Joe Biden. That is why I raged, 156 00:10:33,879 --> 00:10:37,639 because I was like, you suck so hard that not only are you bringing 157 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:43,360 more crime, right, they're actually causing people like me and me specifically, 158 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,120 because I that's my experience and I relate to it. Now, I don't 159 00:10:46,159 --> 00:10:50,600 want to go anywhere ever. I'm afraid of people. I'm afraid of crowds, 160 00:10:50,639 --> 00:10:54,159 I'm afraid of public places. You're afraid of flying, afraid I'm afraid 161 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:58,320 of flying, right, you're afraid of all sorts of things. Yeah, 162 00:10:58,399 --> 00:11:01,480 I'm a little bit on the other spectrum of you. So I probably represent 163 00:11:01,519 --> 00:11:05,480 a different part of the population where I mean, I don't I'm not a 164 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:09,039 big fan of crowds. I don't like being in big crowds. I'll avoid 165 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:11,320 those, But I still go do all the things. I mean, I'm 166 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:13,840 gonna leave the how, I'm gonna do all the stuff. I'm gonna fly, 167 00:11:13,919 --> 00:11:16,279 I'm gonna do all this because I'm like whatever. It's kind of like 168 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:22,799 COVID. I remember during COVID, people were really afraid of the virus is 169 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:26,480 gonna get you. You got to wear the mask, you gotta do it. 170 00:11:26,879 --> 00:11:30,799 I didn't do any of the things. I didn't do any of the 171 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,960 things they told me to do, and I was fine, you know, 172 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:37,720 I was okay, And so I just kind of gave my middle finger to 173 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:39,759 all those people that were like, you need to be doing this, you 174 00:11:39,759 --> 00:11:41,600 need to be doing that, you need to be afraid, you need to 175 00:11:41,639 --> 00:11:43,799 live your life in fear. Screw you. I'm not gonna live my life 176 00:11:43,799 --> 00:11:46,279 in fear. If it's my time, it's my time. Yeah, you 177 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:48,120 know, I sort of that's the way I looked at it, But so 178 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:52,120 much that was a lie, and this this is not. That's a very 179 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:56,799 good point. It's a very very good point. I still I hear you. 180 00:11:56,919 --> 00:12:00,360 And it's like I still have like a little I have that trepidation going 181 00:12:00,399 --> 00:12:03,720 out, but I still go out. I still do the things. How 182 00:12:03,759 --> 00:12:05,840 long I'm going to continue to do that, I don't know, because the 183 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:09,679 world's getting crazier and crazier and crazy. Can I live in Texas? I 184 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:13,200 know it makes me afraid for you, Like I would be even more afraid 185 00:12:13,279 --> 00:12:16,639 being in an actual although every state is a border state now I know this, 186 00:12:16,879 --> 00:12:20,399 but like being in one of the key border states, I would also 187 00:12:20,399 --> 00:12:24,600 be. But then again, you see Hispanics in your neighborhood all the time, 188 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:28,120 right, I live amongst Yeah, It's like I looked at it like 189 00:12:28,159 --> 00:12:31,720 my daughter, you know, I look at her school and it's like thirty 190 00:12:31,799 --> 00:12:37,639 thirty thirty when it comes to white Hispanics and blacks, and so she it's 191 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:39,799 you know, it's and it's like that around here. Like I am a 192 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:43,600 white person living in an area where I'm probably the minority because most of the 193 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:48,399 people that surround us are Hispanics. Just because I live out in the country, 194 00:12:48,399 --> 00:12:50,480 there's a lot of Hispanics and black people. It's just so it's I 195 00:12:50,639 --> 00:12:56,000 just I don't really pay much attention to the color of people's skin as long 196 00:12:56,039 --> 00:12:58,240 as they're not being assholes. Yeah, I didn't, you know, to 197 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:03,080 until freaking Biden made me. And that's why I'm so mad at him. 198 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:07,960 Because of all the Democrats talking points about how racism this race. You know, 199 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:11,279 they care so much about it. They have created so much of it, 200 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:16,360 starting with Obama all the way until Yeah, they have they created it. 201 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:20,080 I totally agree that. I absolutely agree that Democrats have done that because 202 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:24,600 they've placed such an emphasis on it. And then now there's the whole crime 203 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:26,720 part of it. Well, listen, you were saying yesterday, I think 204 00:13:26,759 --> 00:13:31,919 that it was in our in our regular daily show. You said something about 205 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:39,080 Maduro not wanting Maduro of Venezuelan president. You know, these a lot of 206 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:43,360 these criminals from Venezuela are coming to our country, and it's like we can't 207 00:13:43,399 --> 00:13:46,759 even send them back because Maduro is like, nah, I don't want to 208 00:13:46,799 --> 00:13:52,240 act. We're gonna we're going to send you our worst, like the worst 209 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:56,480 of the worst we're going to send to America and don't don't even try to 210 00:13:56,519 --> 00:13:58,159 send them back. And it's like, what do you even do with that? 211 00:13:58,399 --> 00:14:03,159 So when this administration tells us, you know, it's oh, it's 212 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:05,000 just the best and the brightest. These people are just dreamers and they're coming 213 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:09,600 over and they're trying to get a better life. It's just crap because granted, 214 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:13,039 I'm sure there are you know, some people that do want a better 215 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:16,639 life, but at the end of the day, they're breaking the law when 216 00:14:16,639 --> 00:14:22,000 they come over here initially, then when they're busting over the border, the 217 00:14:22,039 --> 00:14:26,679 first thing they're doing is breaking the law. So I'm sorry, but that's 218 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:30,919 crappy. You're breaking that's the first thing that you're doing. Your parents didn't 219 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,879 do that. Your parents didn't break the law to get in here. They 220 00:14:33,919 --> 00:14:35,879 followed all the right paths, and they took many years, and they paid 221 00:14:35,919 --> 00:14:39,320 money and they did they jumped through hoops, and they did all the right 222 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:43,080 things, and they waited in line and they I mean I'm sure that that 223 00:14:43,159 --> 00:14:46,679 pisces them off when they see what's going on. So these people, the 224 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:50,039 first thing they do is they bust over the border and they're breaking the law. 225 00:14:50,039 --> 00:14:52,919 That's the first thing they do. If that's the first thing that you're 226 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:56,000 doing to get over here and you're not escaping, you know, some horrible 227 00:14:56,200 --> 00:15:00,320 situation other than the fact that you just want to come over here and get 228 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:05,080 a free handout, it's what else are you capable of doing? Yeah, 229 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:09,600 and we're finding out, unfortunately exactly well. And further about Venezuela, it's 230 00:15:09,639 --> 00:15:13,559 not even just that Maduro is saying, no, you can't deport anybody because 231 00:15:13,559 --> 00:15:16,919 we don't want them. They are horrible people, so you can you can 232 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:22,919 keep them, keep them. The rumor is that he's actually emptying out their 233 00:15:22,039 --> 00:15:28,519 mental institutions and jails to get rid of all of their bad people, just 234 00:15:28,559 --> 00:15:31,480 sending them right on over to me. And I read that their crime has 235 00:15:31,519 --> 00:15:35,720 gone down, the violent their violent crime has gone down. Isn't that interesting? 236 00:15:35,799 --> 00:15:41,879 Would have thought that? It's really interesting? And people are just clamoring 237 00:15:41,919 --> 00:15:46,039 to get in here because we give them all sorts of free shit. 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It's so horrific what happened 266 00:17:45,799 --> 00:17:49,240 to Lake and Riley. It's horrific and I cannot even imagine what her family's 267 00:17:49,279 --> 00:17:55,799 going through. But she's not She's not a solo case. Like, this 268 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:59,920 is not an isolated case. This is this is happening in other places too. 269 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,680 I mean, I think I'm glad that this is there's a spotlight on 270 00:18:03,799 --> 00:18:07,400 this case. I'm glad that people are paying attention. Of course, the 271 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:11,279 CNN's and the msnbcs and the cbs is of the world want to pretend that 272 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:15,480 this is just a one off. It's not. I mean, no, 273 00:18:15,319 --> 00:18:21,400 this has been going on for years, and this shouldn't have happened. I 274 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:25,720 think that's what's so maddening for me, is that she should not have been 275 00:18:25,799 --> 00:18:29,200 killed. If the channel, if we would have done the right things and 276 00:18:29,319 --> 00:18:34,680 this administration actually gave a crap about us as American citizens, her life would 277 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:38,279 still be she would still be living. And then we talked about this in 278 00:18:38,279 --> 00:18:41,880 our morning show too, about how the AP and other news outlets tried to 279 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:47,720 spin this as if it was a story about running or jogging alone, and 280 00:18:47,759 --> 00:18:51,599 how girls should be more careful about running or jogging alone, instead of the 281 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:55,519 focus being on the fact that this creep was in here in this country to 282 00:18:55,559 --> 00:18:59,720 begin with. That's the story has nothing to do. I should be able 283 00:18:59,759 --> 00:19:03,559 to walk outside in my African neighborhood without being afraid, and there's you should 284 00:19:03,559 --> 00:19:07,400 be able to run. Yeah, And that's that's your rage spiral. It's 285 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,640 like you have to be put you have to be on guard thinking about oh 286 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:15,079 my god, and it's it goes back to that hole your screwt is too 287 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:18,960 short thing like it's it's it's you. It's you. It's not this illegal 288 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:25,240 who is on you know, on a path of violence. It's you, 289 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,359 Like you're it's your fault. You shouldn't be running at this certain time. 290 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:30,359 You shouldn't be doing this alone. It's like, that is such crap. 291 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,200 If somebody, if a girl wants to go out and take a run, 292 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:36,400 she should be able to take a run. Now, granted, there are 293 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:40,720 certain things that will probably we should probably give certain tips of what to do, 294 00:19:40,799 --> 00:19:42,079 and you should have your head on a swivel. But at the same 295 00:19:42,079 --> 00:19:45,960 time, it's like the fact that we have to do that is macis It's 296 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,880 infuriating. That's our world, absolutely infuriating, right. But yeah, to 297 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:53,880 that point, there is a there was an excellent, excellent TikTok that got 298 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:57,599 some publicity from the Daily Mail because this gal apparently has a lot of she 299 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:03,599 does a whole thing of safety tips for girls and some of the you know, 300 00:20:03,279 --> 00:20:06,319 I always am like I see those headlines and I'm like, oh, 301 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,599 I know all those things already, Like I'm already I've already got my head, 302 00:20:08,599 --> 00:20:11,079 honest, wivel. I already know some of the safety precautions or whatever, 303 00:20:11,279 --> 00:20:17,880 but some of these were like really really new and interesting little helpful hints 304 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:22,400 I guess about how to keep yourself safe when you're being asked about your background, 305 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,079 your whereabouts, your plans on where you're going, all that kind of 306 00:20:25,079 --> 00:20:29,759 stuff. So in case other people find this helpful too, here is this 307 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:33,960 TikTok I think her name is Dana. Specific situations where lying is the smart 308 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:37,839 thing to do for your safety, and as you guys know by now, 309 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,759 I call this lie to survive. This is something that both of my parents 310 00:20:41,799 --> 00:20:45,200 instilled in me at a very young age and something that I've been practicing my 311 00:20:45,599 --> 00:20:49,279 entire life. Let's say you're in college and you're in the library studying for 312 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:53,240 finals, and somebody that you don't recognize and get a bad vibeb comes over 313 00:20:53,279 --> 00:20:56,200 to you and asks the you to school. Here now, just in town 314 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,960 visiting my brothers and killing some time. They should be here any minute. 315 00:21:00,559 --> 00:21:03,200 No, I don't go here. I'm just in town visiting my boyfriend. 316 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:06,319 He should be arriving any minute. So my dad works here I'm just waiting 317 00:21:06,319 --> 00:21:08,160 for him. We're going to go grab lunch. You're always waiting on a 318 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:14,160 mail figure, and you're never alone. Somebody with the various intentions is looking 319 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:18,039 for an easy target, So do not be one. Expecting a mail figure 320 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:22,720 will be intimidating to that individual. Unfortunate reality of the world that we live 321 00:21:22,759 --> 00:21:26,119 in. Now, Let's say that you recently graduated college and you're off in 322 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:30,000 a brand new city by yourself. You're sitting alone at a coffee shop or 323 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:33,519 a bar, and somebody that you get bad vibes from will not leave you 324 00:21:33,599 --> 00:21:37,640 alone, and I asked if they could buy you a coffee or a drink. 325 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,119 You're flattered, but no, thank you. I have a boyfriend. 326 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,599 He'll be arriving any minute. That's nicely to offer, but I actually have 327 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,559 to get going. My two brothers are picking me up any second. You're 328 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:51,960 nice initially to de escalate a situation or prevent a situation from escalating altogether, 329 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:56,279 but if it continues to escalate, you need to seek help and find a 330 00:21:56,319 --> 00:22:02,000 way to safely leave. Never leave alone to a bartender, ask somebody that 331 00:22:02,079 --> 00:22:03,920 works there to walk you to your car, Call a guy friend, call 332 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:07,079 your dad, call your brother, call your actual boyfriend. You have one. 333 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:10,920 A code way to ask for help if you're at the bar is to 334 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,680 go up to the bartender and order an angel shot. I teach you these 335 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:19,000 tips because there's psychology behind line for your safety and it's the smartest first line 336 00:22:19,039 --> 00:22:23,759 of defense. Being nice doesn't mean that you're not being confident or assertive. 337 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:29,880 You can do both. Key lives to remember One you're never alone. Two 338 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:33,519 you're always expecting somebody, and three you don't live alone even if you do. 339 00:22:34,039 --> 00:22:38,119 Why to survive can apply to so many different situations in life. I 340 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:41,839 have a degree in criminology and psychology, and I share daily safety tips. 341 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:45,200 It's totally handy. And I lived alone when I lived in Chicago. Well, 342 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,279 I didn't little known and I actually lived with a roommate, but she 343 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,400 was gone all the time, and so I would be alone a lot with 344 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:55,920 her dog. That's what I happened, and I there were times where if 345 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:59,359 I felt like I would go, then we had like a little bar and 346 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,839 grill that would up the road from us, and you know, we'd walk 347 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:07,079 everywhere. And that's what's when you could walk a little bit more without being 348 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:11,079 shot. All the time in Chicago, downtown Chicago, but I would walk, 349 00:23:11,319 --> 00:23:12,880 you know, all over the place, shopping, you know, grocery 350 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,759 shopping, to do whatever. But after work, I would get off the 351 00:23:15,799 --> 00:23:18,599 subway and I would go I'd stop in have a meal and have a drink 352 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:22,480 or whatever, and then i'd you know, go home. I'd be by 353 00:23:22,559 --> 00:23:26,400 myself, and if I didn't feel comfortable doing that, I would find somebody 354 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,200 like in there to walk with me and walk me home. Same thing with 355 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,680 like you know, if I was if I have ever been into public I 356 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:38,720 know I've been in public places before where or like at work, where I've 357 00:23:38,759 --> 00:23:41,119 been like, Okay, I don't feel comfortable walking out to my car, 358 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:45,079 I'll find a coworker, a mail kay worker to walk me to my car. 359 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:49,039 There's no shame in that. I think women should totally take advantage of 360 00:23:49,079 --> 00:23:52,920 situations like that. I don't even know if take advantage of the right word. 361 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:57,319 But you should do that and list men to help you do things like 362 00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:02,720 that. It's not half the patriarchy. Help you, you know, and 363 00:24:02,759 --> 00:24:06,519 trust your gut is another one, because like sometimes it's so easy. I 364 00:24:06,519 --> 00:24:08,640 mean I did it even yesterday when I was when I was you know, 365 00:24:08,759 --> 00:24:12,839 looking at the Hispanics, and I probably overreacted, but I would much rather 366 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:18,079 overreact than underreact. And so that's a good lesson. If you feel like 367 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,440 something's amiss, even if it's not, wouldn't you rather believe as though there 368 00:24:21,559 --> 00:24:23,880 is something wrong? Yes, And so you're you're on guard and you're protecting 369 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,799 yourself and just to your point, like asking for help even if you're worried 370 00:24:27,799 --> 00:24:32,079 that you might be overreacting. 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I mean, when it comes to 399 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:41,240 crime, it's it's not people on the left always talk about, oh my 400 00:26:41,279 --> 00:26:44,160 god, freedoms are being taken away from it. Your freedoms aren't being taken 401 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:48,880 away from you. It's it's we're seeing a rash of crime in this country, 402 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,799 and it's like, we're just not freaking safe. Men. Women really 403 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,160 are not safe. So if you want that to change, you got to 404 00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,519 get up off your butt and you get to go vote ay men into that. 405 00:27:00,079 --> 00:27:03,759 Yep, yep, you guys. Until next week, have a good 406 00:27:03,759 --> 00:27:07,480 one. Mm hm.