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God, I've got Tom Rooney joining
me and Tom is with Directline a

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Christian prayer center. Mister Rooney,
how are you, sir? Very good,

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Thank you well, Thank you for
doing what you guys do. I

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think this is just a really neat
thing. And we've been chatting a little

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bit ahead of time. He said, you guys started in two thousand and

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eighth, Is that right correct?
Yes, it was really an idea where

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the business right next door Shipley's Laundry, they were looking for some office space

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and so they bought this building thinking
that that's what it would become. And

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once they gained ownership of it.
They felt like the Lord was directing them

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to start a prayer center. Instead, got about forty volunteers and we typically

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on an average day we'll have you
know, about twenty to thirty different contacts

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from people via email or telephone,
or sometimes people will actually come in off

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the streets for prayer face to face. That's really cool. At times,

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it's been a little bit challenging to
make sure that we have people here.

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And like I say, a lot
of people will email requests. We get

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them from around the world. John, We've had requests this year from Norway,

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from Israel, all kinds of different
places. And some people will call

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in, you know, we pray
with people over the phone that and then

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occasionally, like I say, we'll
have somebody come in from the street,

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sometimes by accident. They're walking by
and they see prayer center on the window

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and they think, I'm gonna go
in and see what's happening there. So

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it's really been interesting. And again
ten am to six pm is the time

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that people can call, but the
emails can kind of come anytime, right,

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correct, yes, yes, And
the phone number is it two seven

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four nine two seven four, Right, that's the soouit falls number and if

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people would like to stop in and
see you, you're right kind of across

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from City Hall downtown, right right, if they know where Shipley's Laundry is,

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we're just one door west of Shipley's
Laundry, like you say, across

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ninth Street from City Hall. Very
nice, mister Rooney. I appreciate you

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taking some time to chat with us
here. And are there things that you

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guys need at the Direct Line Prayer
Center. Are there things that you're saying

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we could sure use more volunteers or
we need you know, a list of

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these kind of things. What kind
of things do you need help with?

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Well, mainly the volunteer thing is
is you know an area of need and

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you know it is a nonprofit organization, and so we receive donations for support

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if somebody feels so inclined, and
that's always greatly appreciated. But that's the

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main area, like I say,
in terms of the physical operation, is

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to make sure that we have volunteers. It's a Christian prayer center and so

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we've ministered to a lot of people
that is fantastic. And I see the

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website directlinesd dot org. So folks
would like to go there and get some

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more information. Is that also a
place they could go if they say,

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Hey, I want to volunteer or
I would like to contribute? Can they

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do all of that right through that
website? Absolutely? And for volunteers that

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are interested, there's a volunteer tab
on that website where you can actually fail

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an application out to do that online. And I see also a place where

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you can request a prayer right through
the page. That's also very simpactly Yes

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again directlinesd dot org. Tom,
thank you again for your time and thanks

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for doing what you guys doing.
I think this is wonderful. Thank you

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so much, John, God bless
you absolutely again Tom Rooney, and he

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is with Direct Line Prayer Center.
It's a Christian prayer center in downtown Sioux

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Falls, but they take prayers from
people all over the world, which is

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amazing. If you would like to
reach out, you can do that either

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call six oh five two seven four
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the day after Christmas, and I
have doctor Jan joining me right now from

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Siuo Falls Knows. Is how you
doing, doctor Dan? I'm very good,

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wonderful day. And this is a
time where people are starting to think,

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you know, we're like a week
away from New Year's and are going

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to make resolutions next week. Oh
it's starting, isn't it. And I

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don't know if other people are as
good at this as I am. As

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I make this resolution and like four
days later, I'm like, oh,

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hey, I thought I forgot about
that already. Yeah. That's the thing

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about resolutions is the resolution itself is
good and wonderful and useful. But the

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thing that's important is when you make
the resolution and then you feel the rationalization's

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happening. Yeah, where you start
to oh, I'm busy, I have

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this going on, I have that
going on. Excuses. Well, yeah,

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we'll go ahead and say that.
I'll say rationalizations, you say excuses.

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But that's really what it is.
And the thing about a resolution that

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they're wonderful in and of themselves for
whatever they are. But the thing to

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really learn in there is it's the
pull away from them. It is the

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rationalizations. It is the excuses and
how we handle them that matters. That's

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the thing that resolution's supposed to teach
us. Yeah, absolutely is the thing

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we're supposed to be come aware of, is okay. There's something inside me

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that really doesn't want to do this
for some reason or isn't okay with it,

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And generally speaking, is just a
part of us that's trying to protect

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us from a from the possibility of
failure. It's trying to protect us from

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there's a part of us inside that's
going, who wha, We'll wait a

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minute, man. We've committed now, and now there's a real chance that

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if we don't come through on this, we're going to experience We're going to

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experience failure, We're going to experience
a lot of negative feelings and it's going

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to have an impact on our sense
of ourself. And that part of you

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is like, okay, well maybe
we need to kind of talk our way

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out of this or part of this, or soften this up. And it's

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a negotiation. It's like there's a
little lawyer inside you. And don't get

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me wrong, I like lawyers,
but there's a lawyer inside you who's trying

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to make this okay in some way
or make it more usable or less stressful

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to us. Because that's really the
thing is what we've We've now placed ourselves

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in a situation that has become stressful, and we're trying to bargain our way

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out of it or part of it
so that it is less stressful and more

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user friendly. And what happens is
is for many people they bargain their way

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out of the majority of it,
or they bargain their way out of it

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entirely. Change is hard. So
when it's this, you know, all

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of a sudden, I'm going to
change this habit, it's a lot easier

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to not change the habit. Yes, it's a lot easier because that making

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of that decision to change. People
don't stop and think about it because it

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always sounds wonderful at the time,
but it's incredibly stressful when we have to

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face it. And really that's the
amazing learning experience that a resolution has in

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it is having to make you make
that decision, but then having to face

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it and what do you do now? Do you bargain your way out of

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it, or do you go ahead
and face it and do your best and

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work through all of that. And
as you said earlier, it's a lot

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easier to back out of all of
it or part of it. And that's

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really the thing about resolutions to pay
attention to, is this what happens next?

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Yeah, that's where your opportunity to
grow and change and become is.

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And some of the biggies when people
are looking at what resolutions, losing weight

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is huge. If you don't believe
me, drive by any gym in the

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next couple of weeks, you're going
to see the emails common their membership goes

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through the roof for a few weeks. Another one is trying to quit smoking.

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I'm going to do that. I'm
going to quit smoking. And another

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one would probably be, you know, doing less work and maybe trying to

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put my family first and a little
less stress in my life. And those

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three things are things that I know
at Suo Fall Hypnosis you help people with.

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So I think that's why it's perfect
for us to talk right now.

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Yeah, and we do. We
specialize in weight loss, stop smoking,

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stress reduction, all the things that
you just mentioned. And it all comes

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down to this idea that you need
to make a decision and then you need

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to commit to it. Yeah,
and it is it's there that the learning

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happens. And that's really kind of
if someone were to ask me what I

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do, well, you know,
I do hypnosis, but really I help

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people to be able to make a
decision and keep it. That's good,

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that's my job. And it's easy
to make the decision, it's hard to

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keep the decision. And but that
is your opportunity to grow learn. You

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know what he's talking about. You
can take the reservations and yes, exactly,

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anybody can take a reservation, keeping
it. Anybody can make a resolution

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is keeping that resolution. And when
you make a resolution, for everybody out

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there listening right now, when you
make a resolution, just know that there's

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a part of you that is going
to try to protect you from this in

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some way, protect you from the
feelings, the possibility of failure, the

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negative sense of self that might come
when you struggle with that. And that

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is the point where we step away
from what we've set ourselves to. And

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what I would tell people is is, don't step away if you need help

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with that. If there's some learning
you need to have, if there's some

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discovery you need to have in there, then don't step away. Get help.

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Find somebody who can walk you through
it. I know somebody they can

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help, doctor Dan, Doctor Dan, Sue Falls Hypnosis. How do they

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get in touch with you? Sir? You can give me a call at

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six oh five seven zero two six
six nine one, or you can certainly

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find me on the net at Sue
Falls hypnosis dot com. Very nice,

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Thank you very much for taking the
time to chat. I'm excited to do

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more visits like this. I think
it's gonna be fun. Sounds wonderful.

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Thanks and again, happy holidays to
everybody. We've got New Year's coming right

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up, and we're gonna be chating
with him again right after New Year's to

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talk a little more about resolutions.
If you'd I like to learn more,

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I've got a link to his page
as well at Facebook dot com Slash Sunny

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on this day, December twenty sixth, nineteen seventy two, construction wraps up

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the brand new downtown Sue Falls Library. The library went through a series of

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renovations back in two thousand and nine
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seventy two, the original structure was
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more than half a century old Carnegie
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libraries and reading rooms have been a
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before the turn of the century,
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other professionals in town made their private
libraries available to city residents, and in

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the eighteen nineties, the Women's History
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second story of a building downtown.
In the late eighteen nineties, wh Lion

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and his wife, Wenona Axtel Lion
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the city for use as a library. But when word reached town that Andrew

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Carnegie was giving communities gifts of twenty
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wh Lyon led the charge to secure
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Carnegie Library served our city for sixty
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