WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.040 --> 00:00:03.799 All right, here we go. I'm still fun with Fallon and Jenny. 2 00:00:04.919 --> 00:00:10.560 I got this email on October eleventh, okay, and I haven't responded to 3 00:00:10.599 --> 00:00:13.880 her because she said that there was no need to read it on the podcast. 4 00:00:14.400 --> 00:00:16.280 But I thought it was so nice, and I'm like, oh, 5 00:00:16.320 --> 00:00:19.000 I need to like respond to her. So I won't say your name just 6 00:00:19.000 --> 00:00:22.440 in case you want to stay anonymous, but it says I wanted to let 7 00:00:22.480 --> 00:00:25.559 you know how much I appreciate you and Jenny for doing your podcast. I 8 00:00:25.559 --> 00:00:28.920 feel like I have no fun in my life right now, so this lifts 9 00:00:28.960 --> 00:00:31.559 me. I miss you too being together on the morning show, so this 10 00:00:31.600 --> 00:00:34.039 is a great substitute, and I definitely miss you on the morning show. 11 00:00:34.079 --> 00:00:36.880 So I listened to your and Zach's podcast, So thanks for doing that too. 12 00:00:37.079 --> 00:00:39.640 Thanks for listening to that. I appreciate it. So she listens to 13 00:00:39.679 --> 00:00:43.640 all the podcasts. That sounds like you're kind of my virtual bff right now. 14 00:00:43.679 --> 00:00:46.840 Haha. I'm going through a lot of changes with younger kids, and 15 00:00:46.880 --> 00:00:50.759 after years of contemplating divorce, I'm moving forward with it with little support. 16 00:00:51.159 --> 00:00:55.759 So having consistency with positive things in my life like your podcast helps so much. 17 00:00:56.000 --> 00:00:58.399 I'm sure sometimes it's a burden to do it, but I just want 18 00:00:58.479 --> 00:01:00.840 to let you know it's appreciated. Also on your podcast this week, you 19 00:01:00.920 --> 00:01:04.719 asked for suggestions on a couple of things with Olive. I'm still trying to 20 00:01:04.719 --> 00:01:08.480 figure out parenting and juggling the guilt of not spending enough time with my kids. 21 00:01:08.719 --> 00:01:11.000 Here are some suggestions, though, so if you missed it, I 22 00:01:11.120 --> 00:01:14.959 kind of last week was talking about how I feel like Jake and I don't 23 00:01:15.000 --> 00:01:19.760 have any time to talk as adults to each other anymore because Olive's up. 24 00:01:19.840 --> 00:01:21.719 She feels like she's left out, so she'll be like, excuse me, 25 00:01:21.760 --> 00:01:23.799 I have something to say. Excuse me, you know, kind of interrupt. 26 00:01:23.439 --> 00:01:26.439 She said, I have a son with autism. And when you were 27 00:01:26.439 --> 00:01:30.680 talking about all of interrupting yours in Jake's conversation, I thought of some suggestions 28 00:01:30.719 --> 00:01:33.640 that we implemented a while back, and it took a while for it to 29 00:01:33.719 --> 00:01:38.079 kick in, but it was helpful. We explained, this is mommy daddy 30 00:01:38.159 --> 00:01:42.079 time for fifteen minutes, so go play X y Z and then it's family 31 00:01:42.159 --> 00:01:46.000 time. And when she feels the need to interrupt your conversation, tell her 32 00:01:46.040 --> 00:01:48.640 to put a hand on yours and you put a hand on top of hers 33 00:01:48.680 --> 00:01:52.400 to understand that she needs your attention and you know that she needs your attention, 34 00:01:52.719 --> 00:01:56.079 but she needs to wait a minute. Having that physical grasp helps her 35 00:01:56.120 --> 00:01:59.799 realize you're aware she needs you you, but she uh needs to wait a 36 00:01:59.799 --> 00:02:02.120 minut I would role play it and see if you have any luck. Also, 37 00:02:02.239 --> 00:02:06.519 in dealing with mom guilt, having little gestures between me and my kids 38 00:02:06.599 --> 00:02:08.400 is one thing that helps bring me back to feeling like a better mom. 39 00:02:08.800 --> 00:02:14.240 I do this little thing where three hand squeezes to my kids means I love 40 00:02:14.280 --> 00:02:16.400 you, and they do it back to me usually four hand squeezes, saying 41 00:02:16.520 --> 00:02:20.879 I love you too, but without saying it. On our way to school 42 00:02:20.960 --> 00:02:23.719 or when we're just busy or out and about, or I feel like they're 43 00:02:23.719 --> 00:02:25.319 not getting the attention they need. I do that, and it's just a 44 00:02:25.360 --> 00:02:29.280 fun, easy way to help them know that you're thinking of them. I 45 00:02:29.319 --> 00:02:31.159 appreciate you being a light in my life right now. Your positivity is so 46 00:02:31.199 --> 00:02:36.360 contagious, and I appreciate your authenticity too when it's needed. Keep up the 47 00:02:36.400 --> 00:02:38.039 great work. Wish you all the best with these new adventures you're on. 48 00:02:38.080 --> 00:02:42.080 And try not to let the mom guilt overwhelm. You do your best each 49 00:02:42.159 --> 00:02:46.159 day and that will look different every day and that's okay, thank you so 50 00:02:46.280 --> 00:02:47.319 much for that. I feel like there are really good tips in there. 51 00:02:47.479 --> 00:02:51.800 Yeah, the one with like putting the hand on the leg. Yeah, 52 00:02:52.039 --> 00:02:55.000 I wonder if you person who emailed in saw that on like one of those 53 00:02:55.120 --> 00:03:00.319 Instagram things. And here's why. Jake actually brought that up, like a 54 00:03:00.319 --> 00:03:02.080 week or two ago. He said, he's on mom Instagram, okay, 55 00:03:02.439 --> 00:03:06.719 all the like mom mom algoritha. Yes, literally, and he said he 56 00:03:06.719 --> 00:03:08.560 gets like tips all the time that are really helpful and implements them and that 57 00:03:08.680 --> 00:03:12.479 was when he had tried. But we only did it one time. So 58 00:03:12.560 --> 00:03:15.280 yeah, it's kind of like training a dog. You really got to be 59 00:03:15.319 --> 00:03:17.360 consistent with it. But I really like those. And I'm really sorry you're 60 00:03:17.400 --> 00:03:23.400 going through so much right now. Divorce, even if it's amicable, is 61 00:03:23.599 --> 00:03:27.560 just hard splitting up, and especially we have kids involved. I'm so sorry 62 00:03:27.599 --> 00:03:29.479 you're going through it. I'm glad that we could be like a little bit 63 00:03:29.520 --> 00:03:32.520 of consistency in your day or your week, I guess for sure. So 64 00:03:34.439 --> 00:03:38.759 Jenny, yeah, you said you through email got some suggestions as well. 65 00:03:38.879 --> 00:03:42.159 I did so last week I was talking about how I am trying not to 66 00:03:42.199 --> 00:03:44.919 steal foulins a little bit, but when she texts me, are you sucking 67 00:03:44.960 --> 00:03:46.280 or your fucking? Yeah, I was trying to come up with something that 68 00:03:46.319 --> 00:03:50.759 I can text her and I the best I came up with was fish. 69 00:03:50.759 --> 00:03:53.120 In addition, because fun likes to say two starfish is in the life. 70 00:03:53.479 --> 00:03:58.120 And so I got a couple of dms from people who gave me suggestions, 71 00:03:58.280 --> 00:04:01.840 and I do like this one and says are you pumping or Humpin'? So 72 00:04:01.960 --> 00:04:06.479 I like that one a lot. And then the other one, which I 73 00:04:06.520 --> 00:04:11.520 feel like is in reference to the story I think probably from your Anniversary weekend 74 00:04:11.560 --> 00:04:15.240 where Jake was super gassy, and so it says are you acd or gassin? 75 00:04:16.199 --> 00:04:19.759 So that was that one. And then that person also sent me a 76 00:04:19.839 --> 00:04:24.000 reel of some guy who was like, I'm too old for Netflix and chill. 77 00:04:24.480 --> 00:04:27.920 He's like, instead, I got canes or something like that. So 78 00:04:28.000 --> 00:04:31.079 we're chicken or dicking is what he came up with. And I feel like 79 00:04:31.120 --> 00:04:34.759 that one's a little too specific. It's funny though, but I really like 80 00:04:35.120 --> 00:04:41.480 pumping or humping' and acid or gassin. I like, as it would work 81 00:04:41.519 --> 00:04:46.839 for you too, absolutely, And speaking of I made this chili last time, 82 00:04:47.319 --> 00:04:53.439 why do you even bother beans? Jenny, God yourself many beans. 83 00:04:53.480 --> 00:04:56.720 And honestly, this story is more so about Andrew than it is about me. 84 00:04:57.079 --> 00:05:00.800 I definitely woke up this morning with my tummy not I feel the greatest, 85 00:05:00.839 --> 00:05:06.480 And thank god Dave was in Colorado today because I had the studio and 86 00:05:06.600 --> 00:05:12.399 I was lucky for that because my stomach was turning. But so I texted 87 00:05:12.480 --> 00:05:15.279 Andrew this morning and I go, thank god Dave was gone today, Like, 88 00:05:15.480 --> 00:05:17.720 yeah, I could let a little too out here and there if I 89 00:05:17.759 --> 00:05:20.160 needed to. And there was a point where I was like, do I 90 00:05:20.199 --> 00:05:24.839 need to warn Drake to not come into the studio, you know? But 91 00:05:24.920 --> 00:05:30.279 anyway, so I texted Andrew about that and he goes, we just installed 92 00:05:30.279 --> 00:05:32.519 the bidet. Finally, shout out Cookie if you're listening, because Cookie sent 93 00:05:32.560 --> 00:05:38.399 me this bidet. And Andrews said that he literally went and sat on the 94 00:05:38.399 --> 00:05:42.519 bidet this morning just because of toots he's been having, Oh my god, 95 00:05:42.639 --> 00:05:46.279 not to even like use it because he was like taking a shit. He 96 00:05:46.480 --> 00:05:48.759 just like he needed to clean the Vicinity. It was so gross, and 97 00:05:48.879 --> 00:05:54.399 there's Guessie and so yeah, this chili really ruined both of us. But 98 00:05:54.480 --> 00:05:59.279 it was so good. It's just that beans. I don't eat beans pretty 99 00:05:59.319 --> 00:06:01.800 much ever. I'll never liked beans growing up, so yeah, it was 100 00:06:01.920 --> 00:06:03.680 I should come now, but yeah growing up. I was like, uh 101 00:06:03.879 --> 00:06:06.800 yeah, And I just I found a very simple recipe that I've made once 102 00:06:06.879 --> 00:06:11.040 or twice before that I have saved on Pinterest. And when I was getting 103 00:06:11.040 --> 00:06:14.920 the ingredients and saw like two full cans of beans, which totally makes sense 104 00:06:14.959 --> 00:06:16.600 about what you probably get. But I'm like, man, I got to 105 00:06:16.600 --> 00:06:23.720 look for recipes that are either beanless or much lower. It's just too heavy 106 00:06:21.720 --> 00:06:28.920 on macaroni with meat. Yeah that's true, and do all the sauce and 107 00:06:28.920 --> 00:06:30.199 stuff, and that it would still be kind of kind of like chili. 108 00:06:30.519 --> 00:06:34.399 Yeah. I talked to people because I said that nobody in Minnesota. Everyone 109 00:06:34.399 --> 00:06:38.879 thinks it's so weird to do like peanut butter and crackers with chili. It's 110 00:06:38.920 --> 00:06:42.480 like not a thing. And everyone in the Indiana was like, how is 111 00:06:42.519 --> 00:06:44.279 it not? And I was like, I don't know, and they're like, 112 00:06:44.319 --> 00:06:46.439 maybe they're the fuckd up one. Maybe they fucking don't know, but 113 00:06:46.480 --> 00:06:50.240 I don't think i've ever heard that either. That that is my upbringing. 114 00:06:50.279 --> 00:06:55.759 When you made chili, you eat crackers with peanut butter ayes kind of crackers, 115 00:06:55.839 --> 00:06:58.759 like saltine crackers. Okay, I mean, I guess you could pick 116 00:06:58.759 --> 00:07:00.680 any kind, but we were you didn't get fancy ritz crackers wherever I was 117 00:07:00.680 --> 00:07:03.759 growing up. But like, or if you don't have crackers, you do 118 00:07:03.839 --> 00:07:08.120 like a half a peanut butter sandwich or something. But when I have brought 119 00:07:08.160 --> 00:07:11.160 that up since moving away from home, everyone's like, that's not a thing. 120 00:07:11.360 --> 00:07:13.480 And I'm like, oh, it's so embarrassing. And I honestly thought 121 00:07:13.519 --> 00:07:15.199 maybe it was something just my dad did. And then I was talking about 122 00:07:15.199 --> 00:07:17.680 it because we had chili at the party we had this weekend, and I 123 00:07:17.759 --> 00:07:20.040 was saying that and I was like, asked Jake, and they're like and 124 00:07:20.120 --> 00:07:23.319 Jake's like, it's not a thing, guys, He's like, and then 125 00:07:23.399 --> 00:07:28.360 everyone turned on him and they're maybe not a thing. And Jake was like, 126 00:07:28.560 --> 00:07:30.639 listen, I love peanut butter. I would I would do it it 127 00:07:30.839 --> 00:07:33.360 is. I'm saying, it's not like something natural, and they're like, 128 00:07:33.399 --> 00:07:38.839 you're stupid. You know, yelling everyone's drunk and belligerent. And I was 129 00:07:38.839 --> 00:07:41.800 like, yeah, Jake, maybe just Minnesotans don't know what's up. And 130 00:07:41.839 --> 00:07:45.360 he was like, okay, maybe like calm down. But I put like 131 00:07:45.600 --> 00:07:47.920 a piece of corn bread in with my chili. But that's not a thing 132 00:07:48.439 --> 00:07:51.639 that's doing. You can do it. But like so where I'm from, 133 00:07:51.639 --> 00:07:57.199 like you make actual like beans, so it's like beans and cornbread and you 134 00:07:57.240 --> 00:08:00.199 pour the beans over some like. But we had made corn bread, so 135 00:08:00.920 --> 00:08:05.639 anyway it worked. And but I was like, apparently it's not a thing 136 00:08:05.680 --> 00:08:07.199 anywhere else. I've always been told that, But I was so happy to 137 00:08:07.199 --> 00:08:11.560 know it wasn't just me and my family. It was everyone in Indiana. 138 00:08:11.600 --> 00:08:13.560 Apparently. That's so interesting. I don't know if I've ever heard you talking 139 00:08:13.600 --> 00:08:16.680 about that before either, because that's I had got it. But yeah, 140 00:08:16.720 --> 00:08:18.839 maybe it wasn't like a day you were on or something. Right, I 141 00:08:18.879 --> 00:08:22.639 feel like, I'm gonna be honest, I've never heard anyone in Wisconsin do 142 00:08:22.680 --> 00:08:26.439 it either. You got a little sneeze. She was just like looking at 143 00:08:26.480 --> 00:08:30.480 me with her mouth wide open for a few seconds and see myself a little 144 00:08:30.480 --> 00:08:31.799 bit. I didn't know, Thank god, bless with you. I know, 145 00:08:31.879 --> 00:08:35.440 thank you very much. But we I did go to home to Indiana 146 00:08:35.440 --> 00:08:39.320 on this weekend. Tell me about it. So my two friends Kimberly and 147 00:08:39.360 --> 00:08:43.799 Samantha, they're like the older ones from my class, were turning forty. 148 00:08:43.840 --> 00:08:48.360 And then they mocked me that I texted apparently I didn't remember this. The 149 00:08:48.440 --> 00:08:54.720 group in December of last year and planned this party for them to host for 150 00:08:54.759 --> 00:08:58.559 their birthday that I could come into town for. How was that sounds about? 151 00:08:58.600 --> 00:09:00.360 Right? Yeah? And I was like, they're like, because you 152 00:09:00.360 --> 00:09:03.559 know, found so busy, she'd have to book a year in advance to 153 00:09:03.600 --> 00:09:05.559 be able to come see us. And I was like, okay, So 154 00:09:05.639 --> 00:09:09.679 yeah, I went to Indiana, got in late Friday night, and then 155 00:09:09.759 --> 00:09:11.480 Saturday we did like. It was a very fall party. So I had 156 00:09:11.519 --> 00:09:16.080 her dad Ron, he's like the Jake calls on the salt of the Earth. 157 00:09:16.320 --> 00:09:20.360 He put together a hay ride. He's like a very like countryman. 158 00:09:20.559 --> 00:09:22.519 Yeah, a delight. I love her parents. And then her mom made 159 00:09:22.519 --> 00:09:26.799 like pies and chilling all this stuff and then so it was just a big 160 00:09:26.799 --> 00:09:30.759 fall party. Everyone came over, ate, drank. My best high school 161 00:09:30.759 --> 00:09:33.919 friends came. So those are like Kimberly, Jessica, Samantha, and Tiffany, 162 00:09:35.200 --> 00:09:37.759 and then my two friends from college hiding Abby. I had told them 163 00:09:37.799 --> 00:09:41.799 about it, and they've been around my high school friends enough that they're comfortable, 164 00:09:41.080 --> 00:09:43.720 so I was like, I'd love to see you guys. So they 165 00:09:43.840 --> 00:09:48.200 drove in with their families and we hung out. And by the way, 166 00:09:48.440 --> 00:09:54.039 this complete side note my friend Abby, she's like, she's not that she's 167 00:09:54.080 --> 00:09:56.080 always single, like she's always going on dates and stuff, but she hasn't 168 00:09:56.120 --> 00:10:00.519 had a long term boyfriend a long time. I talked him, this one 169 00:10:00.519 --> 00:10:03.600 guy, how she was really into him and they dated for a couple of 170 00:10:03.639 --> 00:10:05.840 months and he was being weird. I was like, oh, I could 171 00:10:05.840 --> 00:10:09.440 tell he was not as into her she was into him, but I was 172 00:10:09.480 --> 00:10:11.159 like, uh. He ended up breaking up with her and then like immediately 173 00:10:11.240 --> 00:10:15.759 was with a new girl posting pictures. He never posted pictures with Abby. 174 00:10:15.879 --> 00:10:18.759 She was so upset, you know, by that, and I felt bad 175 00:10:18.799 --> 00:10:22.559 for her, and because his excuse to her was he thought it would be 176 00:10:22.559 --> 00:10:24.440 a traveling nurse and didn't want to be tied down that he immediately started sitting 177 00:10:24.440 --> 00:10:28.679 a woman with a kid who lives in town she's like, are you kidding 178 00:10:28.679 --> 00:10:33.200 me? So she says he texted her this weekend and was like, hey, 179 00:10:33.360 --> 00:10:35.799 I'm sorry I haven't checked in, Like I meant to check in to 180 00:10:35.799 --> 00:10:39.519 see how you were doing. And she was like, immediately went to look 181 00:10:39.559 --> 00:10:43.519 at his profiles to see if that picture with that girl was still ve Yeah, 182 00:10:43.840 --> 00:10:48.320 it was okay, but she wrote back, you know, I was 183 00:10:48.519 --> 00:10:52.960 sad at first, but I'm good now. I started dating someone and he 184 00:10:52.080 --> 00:10:56.799 was like, yeah, I'm just starting to think maybe I'm not made for 185 00:10:58.039 --> 00:11:01.720 this relationship kind of thing. I think I have too many like I look 186 00:11:01.919 --> 00:11:05.440 into too much of what I don't have. He's like, I just really 187 00:11:05.480 --> 00:11:09.759 missed the physicality part of our relationship. And I go, oh, So 188 00:11:09.840 --> 00:11:13.120 he basically was testing the water to hook up with you, and she was 189 00:11:13.159 --> 00:11:16.559 like, oh, absolutely. Is he still living around near Abby or day 190 00:11:16.679 --> 00:11:20.399 start traveling? He started dating a girl with the kid he is and I'm 191 00:11:20.440 --> 00:11:22.279 like, and I go, so he just wanted to hook up with you 192 00:11:22.279 --> 00:11:24.879 and was test She's like, oh, I'm sure. I was like really 193 00:11:24.879 --> 00:11:28.919 happy that Abby. Abby first would never go after someone who's still dating someone, 194 00:11:28.240 --> 00:11:31.759 but I was really happy. Abby was like saw right through that and 195 00:11:33.000 --> 00:11:35.360 she messaged him back and she said that, you know, she was like, 196 00:11:35.720 --> 00:11:39.240 yeah, I really do think you should probably start focusing on what you 197 00:11:39.279 --> 00:11:41.480 do have and stop looking for what you don't have, and it might help 198 00:11:41.519 --> 00:11:43.840 you in future relationships. I was like, ooh, good for you, 199 00:11:43.919 --> 00:11:46.399 Abby, Yeah girl, but yeah, So she was annoyed by that, 200 00:11:46.639 --> 00:11:50.360 and I was like, what was his plan if you were like, yeah, 201 00:11:50.399 --> 00:11:52.919 I missed that too, he would quickly break up with this girl, 202 00:11:52.919 --> 00:11:54.320 because I go. But either way, it's got to make you feel good 203 00:11:54.320 --> 00:11:58.720 to know things they're not going so well with them and he is the problem. 204 00:12:00.039 --> 00:12:03.720 He's like, yes, absolutely, but anyway, Indiana, I don't 205 00:12:03.720 --> 00:12:05.399 know. It was fun. I shot a flamethrower. I was wondering, 206 00:12:05.440 --> 00:12:09.840 what is the purpose of that thing? So where we live, it'd be'd 207 00:12:09.840 --> 00:12:11.759 like to get rid of like some old brush or something like clear out a 208 00:12:11.759 --> 00:12:16.399 whole area of like dead brush you might want to get rid of. Yeah, 209 00:12:16.480 --> 00:12:18.840 but Kevin had it I think mostly for fun. I think he used 210 00:12:18.840 --> 00:12:24.679 the brush excuse my friend's husband. And then a big thing a brush did 211 00:12:24.720 --> 00:12:26.320 catch on fire, not for me, and he kept was like all the 212 00:12:26.320 --> 00:12:30.200 pictures and video show you with the flamethrower. I'm like, all right, 213 00:12:30.240 --> 00:12:33.679 let's not pin this on me. Andrew saw the video of you with the 214 00:12:33.679 --> 00:12:35.320 flamethrower. He goes, oh that's so cool. Yeah, I know, 215 00:12:35.559 --> 00:12:39.000 Okay, I get settled out over there. Was like I've never seen more 216 00:12:39.080 --> 00:12:41.120 join in your eyes, you'll go fucking psychos, thank you very much. 217 00:12:43.360 --> 00:12:46.159 But yeah, I don't. I'm trying to think if there was anything else 218 00:12:46.240 --> 00:12:50.039 funny that happened, but probably not. What'd you do this weekend? So 219 00:12:50.320 --> 00:12:52.279 it was one of those weekends where I had so much going on and then 220 00:12:52.360 --> 00:12:56.120 everything got canceled. Oh was it a happy canceled? Because you know, 221 00:12:56.639 --> 00:13:00.559 yes, my part so I was was a good dinner with a group girlfriends 222 00:13:00.559 --> 00:13:03.080 that I used to work with. On Friday night, one of the girl's 223 00:13:03.120 --> 00:13:05.759 babies got sick. We really wanted her to be there, yeah, her 224 00:13:05.799 --> 00:13:09.279 to bring her baby, and so we rescheduled that dinner for a couple of 225 00:13:09.320 --> 00:13:13.879 weeks away. And then Saturday, Andrew was telling me that our group of 226 00:13:13.879 --> 00:13:16.519 friends that always does bikes and bruise where we bike around to a bunch of 227 00:13:16.559 --> 00:13:18.720 breweries. We do it usually like once a month, and I haven't been 228 00:13:18.759 --> 00:13:20.080 able to make any of them this year, and so he was like, 229 00:13:20.120 --> 00:13:22.879 Oh, they're going to do a bikes and bruise on Saturday, and I 230 00:13:22.919 --> 00:13:24.960 was like, sweet, I can actually make it. It's gonna be nice 231 00:13:24.000 --> 00:13:28.320 weather and not like super hot, gorgeous out whatever. So I text my 232 00:13:28.360 --> 00:13:30.200 friend and I'm like, Hey, you guys are doing bikes and bruise. 233 00:13:30.200 --> 00:13:33.120 But I don't see anything on Facebook because he always creates an event for it 234 00:13:33.480 --> 00:13:35.320 and he goes no, I like gauged interests, and nobody could really do 235 00:13:35.360 --> 00:13:37.600 it. It was too short of notice. And I was like, oh, 236 00:13:37.639 --> 00:13:41.879 okay, cool. So this is all like Friday, Friday afternoon that 237 00:13:41.919 --> 00:13:45.759 I'm finding out about all this, So there's nothing Saturday, and then Saturday 238 00:13:45.799 --> 00:13:48.240 evening I or Friday. I'd gotten a text last minuting from my girlfriend asking 239 00:13:48.279 --> 00:13:50.879 if I could do dinner for her birthday Saturday night, and I was like, 240 00:13:50.960 --> 00:13:54.440 yeah, I'm kind of on the fence like of what I'm doing. 241 00:13:54.480 --> 00:13:56.759 If I'm going to do this bikes and bruise, I wasn't sure yet, 242 00:13:56.960 --> 00:13:58.399 and then it got canceled anyways, so I was like, yeah, I'll 243 00:13:58.399 --> 00:14:03.840 come to dinner. Yeah. So my weekend consisted of basically getting a new 244 00:14:03.919 --> 00:14:07.320 vacuum putting that together and going hard on vacuuming, on deep cleaning. I 245 00:14:07.399 --> 00:14:13.919 like scrubbed our our cabinets in the kitchen, like just like really tedious shit 246 00:14:13.000 --> 00:14:16.039 that you never noticed and when you start noticing it, you're like, God, 247 00:14:16.120 --> 00:14:20.480 this is discussing my fridge and stuff so bad. Yeah, So I 248 00:14:20.519 --> 00:14:26.360 did a lot of cleaning, and then Saturday I did go get dinner with 249 00:14:26.600 --> 00:14:31.080 my couple friends for my friend's birthday, and so that was honestly the majority 250 00:14:31.080 --> 00:14:35.320 of the weekend. I got absolutely sucked into Target yesterday, like I feel 251 00:14:35.360 --> 00:14:37.279 pathetic. Do you want to guess how long I was there? I went 252 00:14:37.360 --> 00:14:41.639 into get engled chill. I saw your post, Oh you saw it, 253 00:14:41.679 --> 00:14:45.759 So then I basically revealed, but did you say two hours? Two hours? 254 00:14:46.120 --> 00:14:48.879 I'm not kidding you. So I went for chilly ingredients, and so 255 00:14:48.919 --> 00:14:52.559 I timed it out because I didn't know for sure, but I had gotten 256 00:14:52.720 --> 00:14:54.480 I've gone somewhere else before, and I looked at the receipt of where I 257 00:14:54.519 --> 00:14:56.919 was at before and tying out how long it probably took me to get to 258 00:14:58.000 --> 00:15:00.840 that target and when I actually left, and I looked at the time, 259 00:15:01.159 --> 00:15:03.399 and did you try on the clothes I tried them on, and it wasn't 260 00:15:03.440 --> 00:15:07.879 just for clothes. It's so he'll never he probably will never listen to it. 261 00:15:07.879 --> 00:15:11.200 It's Dave's birthday, and so I was in it like today, no 262 00:15:11.320 --> 00:15:13.240 tomorrow. I was gonna say, I have it on the calendar wrong, 263 00:15:13.279 --> 00:15:18.279 then okay. So I was looking for things for him, and I am 264 00:15:18.320 --> 00:15:22.200 a freak where I read every birthday card. I always want to pick out 265 00:15:22.200 --> 00:15:24.720 the best one. So I spent a really good majority of time doing little 266 00:15:24.759 --> 00:15:28.639 things like that. I got sucked into a little bit of the Fall decor 267 00:15:28.799 --> 00:15:31.639 sales section and putting Decide and kept going back, and I was like, 268 00:15:31.639 --> 00:15:33.600 no, I do want this, No I don't. And then eventually I 269 00:15:33.600 --> 00:15:37.159 saw the thirty percent off signs and the women's apparel and I was like, 270 00:15:37.200 --> 00:15:39.879 fuck it, let's go. Because I kind of I'm to be honest, 271 00:15:39.919 --> 00:15:43.320 I don't ever update my clothes except for when I go on a trip. 272 00:15:43.440 --> 00:15:46.120 I'm like, I need a whole new ways. How then I buy a 273 00:15:46.120 --> 00:15:50.039 bunch of shit that's specific for a trip to fucking Thailand. Yeah, and 274 00:15:50.080 --> 00:15:54.519 I'm never gonna wear most of that in Minnesota. So I really have not 275 00:15:54.679 --> 00:15:58.240 gone heavily apparel shopping in a while, and Target's always very reasonable priced, 276 00:15:58.240 --> 00:16:00.600 and when you give me another thirty percent off, I'm gonna go hard. 277 00:16:00.639 --> 00:16:03.080 So I went hard. I saw it. I went hard. I tried 278 00:16:03.120 --> 00:16:07.919 on probably like twenty five items and only left was six. So I think 279 00:16:07.960 --> 00:16:11.639 I did a pretty good job. Ye me know, things that I felt 280 00:16:11.679 --> 00:16:14.960 like were I really wanted. I didn't just want it because it was thirty 281 00:16:14.960 --> 00:16:17.720 percent off. Yeah, but yeah. Two hours later, I was leaving 282 00:16:17.759 --> 00:16:21.000 Target, and I was like, I told Andrew. He's like calling me. 283 00:16:21.000 --> 00:16:22.120 He's like, where are they. I was like, you need to 284 00:16:22.159 --> 00:16:26.200 come get me. I'm in Target right now and I can't get out. 285 00:16:26.679 --> 00:16:29.799 He's like, I'm not doing that football. No, Yeah, all right, 286 00:16:29.879 --> 00:16:33.000 fine, Well see if you are. Yeah. Oh my gosh, 287 00:16:33.279 --> 00:16:36.200 a Target is hit or missed. Sometimes they'll just have so many good things, 288 00:16:36.240 --> 00:16:37.360 and sometimes you're like, I can't find a damn thing. But usually 289 00:16:37.399 --> 00:16:41.320 it's the I can find too much, which is an issue. Yeah, 290 00:16:41.720 --> 00:16:45.919 I was gonna ask you. By the way, this, I wrote this 291 00:16:45.960 --> 00:16:48.840 in my notes, the one thing I have written down for this week. 292 00:16:48.759 --> 00:16:56.399 I have decided that I like book sexual writing better than porn. Really. 293 00:16:56.960 --> 00:17:00.320 Yeah, Okay, I think it turns me on more that actual porn does. 294 00:17:00.480 --> 00:17:03.919 Okay, now I don't. I'll be honest. I don't watch a 295 00:17:03.960 --> 00:17:08.160 ton of porn. Occasionally, I'll like check it out, but like the 296 00:17:08.279 --> 00:17:11.680 more and more I go to look at it, I am like no, 297 00:17:11.920 --> 00:17:15.799 and I just immediately I'm like, this is not it for me. But 298 00:17:15.880 --> 00:17:19.759 when I read a book and it's not even like a smut book per se, 299 00:17:19.839 --> 00:17:22.640 it's like a romance book or whatever, where you know the characters are 300 00:17:22.680 --> 00:17:26.160 going to hook up and they never do for like a few travelers. Yeah, 301 00:17:26.200 --> 00:17:30.319 so it builds you up. I think that that turns me on more, 302 00:17:30.640 --> 00:17:33.839 which is interesting because I thought I was a visual person. But I 303 00:17:33.880 --> 00:17:37.640 think I am falling into the complete female stereotype where they say women need to 304 00:17:37.720 --> 00:17:41.680 like feel emotion and blah blah blah. Whih. I don't completely agree with 305 00:17:41.680 --> 00:17:45.400 that, and guys are so visual. I don't know what it is, 306 00:17:45.440 --> 00:17:52.359 but I feel like way more overall turned on reading man watching. I would 307 00:17:52.400 --> 00:17:57.359 say reading is more romantic and porn is aggressive as shit. Yeah, I'm 308 00:17:57.400 --> 00:18:02.240 sure there's like certain things that you get turned on by, but it is 309 00:18:02.599 --> 00:18:07.160 so if you're watching straightforar and if that's what you watch, it is, 310 00:18:07.200 --> 00:18:11.960 so I feel like heavily aimed towards the pleasure of the mail a lot of 311 00:18:11.000 --> 00:18:15.720 times. Yeah, and it's it's very aggressive, and sometimes it's just like 312 00:18:15.799 --> 00:18:22.240 it's sex that I don't would never enjoy, Like that is not sex to 313 00:18:22.279 --> 00:18:26.160 me. And that's why a lot of times, so many straight men do 314 00:18:26.240 --> 00:18:29.759 not learn the proper way to please a woman until they finally get with women 315 00:18:29.759 --> 00:18:33.559 who tell them what to do because they are at their jack rabbiting. Yeah, 316 00:18:33.599 --> 00:18:36.640 so I feel like I get it that. I mean, I don't 317 00:18:36.640 --> 00:18:38.400 know. I haven't been reading much lately, but there's definitely been a handful 318 00:18:38.400 --> 00:18:42.599 of books I've read where I'm like, oh my gosh. Yeah, I 319 00:18:42.640 --> 00:18:47.799 texted Falent on Friday and I had to double check because I was about to 320 00:18:47.839 --> 00:18:48.400 text you about what I wanted to text you about, and I was like, 321 00:18:48.440 --> 00:18:52.359 oh shit, I should ask her. Spoiler. Then just started watching 322 00:18:52.519 --> 00:18:55.799 The Morning Show a few weeks ago, like season one. I'm already caught 323 00:18:55.880 --> 00:19:03.519 up to whatever season we're on, and I was so pleasantly turned on when 324 00:19:03.599 --> 00:19:07.240 Jennifer Andison and John Ham started getting it on. And I don't know, 325 00:19:07.279 --> 00:19:12.079 what it was. I don't know, like the chemistry actually and Jennifer Anison, 326 00:19:12.079 --> 00:19:15.359 I'll be honest with you, I don't know what it is about her. 327 00:19:15.559 --> 00:19:18.960 Something about her gives like that almost like the real vibe in real life 328 00:19:19.000 --> 00:19:23.799 of what her character is on that show where she's almost like almost like my 329 00:19:23.880 --> 00:19:26.079 mom or my mom is like I don't think my mom will ever have a 330 00:19:26.079 --> 00:19:30.200 boyfriend or a husband again, like she's fine being alone. And so I 331 00:19:30.279 --> 00:19:33.440 just like, don't even look at Jennifer Anison as a sexual person anymore. 332 00:19:33.799 --> 00:19:37.119 So I honestly thought it. I never even imagine her having a sex scene 333 00:19:37.160 --> 00:19:41.319 again. And then when it was very natural and good for her and John 334 00:19:41.359 --> 00:19:45.960 Hamm, it was and I don't know, like, Okay, obviously we 335 00:19:47.160 --> 00:19:51.960 love our partners, love Andrew to death, but like that initial like horny 336 00:19:52.000 --> 00:19:55.759 as fuck feeling you have for someone when you first start dating them, that's 337 00:19:55.799 --> 00:19:57.799 like what I got from these scenes, Like, oh my god, it's 338 00:19:57.839 --> 00:20:02.359 like that initial like to jump on them all the time. And I Yeah, 339 00:20:02.400 --> 00:20:03.440 I texted Found. I was like, are you caught up? I 340 00:20:03.440 --> 00:20:07.400 need to talk to you about that. Yeah. So John Hamm has been 341 00:20:07.400 --> 00:20:14.400 one of my top since Madmen he has that arrogant asshole hot thing to him, 342 00:20:14.759 --> 00:20:17.880 and I'm like, I think in real life he probably is an arrogant 343 00:20:17.920 --> 00:20:21.440 asshole who's funny so he can get away with it because he's hot. Yep, 344 00:20:21.759 --> 00:20:25.119 but maybe not. I don't know. But in Madmen, he was 345 00:20:25.119 --> 00:20:27.200 one of them. He's the lead character of that show, and he was 346 00:20:27.240 --> 00:20:30.319 such an asshole, but you liked him and you wanted him to succeed. 347 00:20:30.960 --> 00:20:34.079 It was like this weird, I don't know thing, but and then he 348 00:20:34.160 --> 00:20:37.559 was super hot and you just were into that too. So yeah, is 349 00:20:37.559 --> 00:20:41.200 that show good? Because I think very good. I was gonna say, 350 00:20:41.279 --> 00:20:44.680 I think because it came out so or started so long ago, you don't 351 00:20:44.680 --> 00:20:48.400 want to worry about that because it's set in like the fifties, so it's 352 00:20:48.400 --> 00:20:52.400 not like it's going to be outdated because it's set in an older time anyway, 353 00:20:52.480 --> 00:20:56.079 Okay, because I remember it was back when I was like freshly out 354 00:20:56.079 --> 00:20:59.440 of college and my neighbors watched that show and I would like go over there 355 00:20:59.480 --> 00:21:00.880 and watch it kind of with them, but barely pay attention. So I've 356 00:21:00.960 --> 00:21:04.359 kind of seen a couple episodes before, but I never like fully got into 357 00:21:04.359 --> 00:21:07.680 it, Jake loved it, and I was like, this is not going 358 00:21:07.759 --> 00:21:11.359 to be my kind of show. And I don't remember how quickly I got 359 00:21:11.400 --> 00:21:12.720 into it, because you know, some shows are like annoyed and then after 360 00:21:12.799 --> 00:21:15.480 like three or four episodes you get into it. I don't remember, it's 361 00:21:15.519 --> 00:21:19.599 been too long now, but I definitely got into it and really liked it. 362 00:21:19.839 --> 00:21:22.079 What were we talking about when we're talking about you were going to start 363 00:21:22.079 --> 00:21:29.160 watching the naked show on HBO, The Naked Attraction. I watched like a 364 00:21:29.240 --> 00:21:33.240 couple of episodes, and I liked that I could see everyone's body part, 365 00:21:33.400 --> 00:21:34.400 but then I was like kind of over it. I was like, eh, 366 00:21:34.599 --> 00:21:37.559 you know, but that's the one where they like literally see they don't 367 00:21:37.559 --> 00:21:41.599 see their face until the end, oka until they they get to pick based 368 00:21:41.640 --> 00:21:45.039 on the face. Okay, so the first round is like five I came 369 00:21:45.160 --> 00:21:48.599 as five or six people and the thing goes up and you can see their 370 00:21:48.680 --> 00:21:52.759 dick or vagina yep, and then they turn around and see their butt. 371 00:21:52.960 --> 00:21:55.960 Then they eliminate someone. Then it goes up and you can see like their 372 00:21:56.079 --> 00:22:00.680 chest, and then eliminate someone. Then it goes up and you can see 373 00:22:00.720 --> 00:22:04.799 their face. Then you eliminate someone. Then you could have them talk eliminate 374 00:22:04.880 --> 00:22:08.519 someone, and then now you're down to your final two and then you just 375 00:22:08.599 --> 00:22:12.839 pick. Okay, And British people are just so mature. Yeah, Like 376 00:22:12.880 --> 00:22:17.920 the people aren't butt heard or upset. They're just like honored to be a 377 00:22:17.960 --> 00:22:21.000 part of it or something. It's very different than I feel like Americans would 378 00:22:21.039 --> 00:22:23.799 be. Just like, how I hear what is it? Love Island is 379 00:22:23.839 --> 00:22:26.640 like that too? Oh okay. They say that the British version is so 380 00:22:26.720 --> 00:22:32.559 much better because there's so much more mature about things that Americans are. But 381 00:22:32.799 --> 00:22:34.079 it was okay, I don't know. I don't need to watch multiple seasons, 382 00:22:34.119 --> 00:22:37.920 I don't think. Yeah. Speaking of vagins, Yes, so I 383 00:22:37.960 --> 00:22:41.240 had a physical a few weeks ago. Yeah, they get in there. 384 00:22:41.400 --> 00:22:42.240 They got in there, they had to get in there. It was time. 385 00:22:44.519 --> 00:22:48.160 I don't know what was going on that day, but my my doctor 386 00:22:48.400 --> 00:22:52.359 told me that when she put what's it called a speculum, is that what 387 00:22:52.359 --> 00:22:55.079 it's on, I don't know whatever they put up inside of it, Yeah, 388 00:22:55.160 --> 00:22:56.880 to get the little swab when they do a bout. Yeah, she 389 00:22:57.079 --> 00:23:00.000 was like, you really don't want the in there, do you? She 390 00:23:00.039 --> 00:23:03.400 said? I was like so tense. I was like pushing it out with 391 00:23:03.440 --> 00:23:07.680 my muscles practically, and she's like, just keep pulling on, like are 392 00:23:07.680 --> 00:23:08.640 you okay? Are you okay? And I was like, I'm fine. 393 00:23:08.680 --> 00:23:11.359 I don't know what's happening down there. I'll try to control it, but 394 00:23:11.359 --> 00:23:15.759 I don't know what's happening. And so I just I just sat that. 395 00:23:15.880 --> 00:23:21.319 I was like, relax, you're not Johnny like I sat there talking to 396 00:23:21.319 --> 00:23:22.839 myself, but I didn't think I was too much. She goes, okay, 397 00:23:22.880 --> 00:23:26.200 I'm gonna pull it out now. She goes, just kidding you pretty 398 00:23:26.240 --> 00:23:32.160 much push it out. It's like, wow, strong that for you, 399 00:23:32.440 --> 00:23:34.039 I know. And one other thing I want to bring up. Okay, 400 00:23:34.160 --> 00:23:38.440 I saw this. This is a little more serious. I saw this from 401 00:23:38.480 --> 00:23:42.559 someone else that we both know that when you go in to get a physical, 402 00:23:42.920 --> 00:23:47.079 you can like ask to not be weighed. I think if you've had 403 00:23:47.119 --> 00:23:49.759 like an eating disorder pass or you just don't want that kind of trigger or 404 00:23:49.759 --> 00:23:52.880 whatever. Yeah, you can also face you can get weighed and ask them 405 00:23:52.920 --> 00:23:56.680 not to tell you and face backwards too. Okay, sometimes they need it, 406 00:23:56.759 --> 00:24:02.440 but yeah, I just don't look at a scale. So I just 407 00:24:02.480 --> 00:24:04.839 like go in and I don't want to look at that because like I used 408 00:24:04.880 --> 00:24:08.559 to hone in on a number when I was younger, and now I don't 409 00:24:08.640 --> 00:24:11.359 try to do that. I just try to be happy with my body and 410 00:24:11.400 --> 00:24:15.640 be happy with what it does. But when I see a number, it 411 00:24:15.880 --> 00:24:18.079 really fucks with my head. And so when I was in for this appointment, 412 00:24:18.359 --> 00:24:23.440 I was very deliberately looking away from where it showed the weight. And 413 00:24:23.519 --> 00:24:26.960 so I had these big boots on though, and so she was like, 414 00:24:26.359 --> 00:24:29.440 well, let's get your height. I'm gonna need you to take the boots 415 00:24:29.480 --> 00:24:32.039 off. And then she's like, well, did you want to rewigh yourself 416 00:24:32.079 --> 00:24:34.319 because those boots were pretty heavy, and they did, and so she goes 417 00:24:34.440 --> 00:24:38.000 and reweighs me, and then she tells me exactly what the difference was of 418 00:24:38.039 --> 00:24:42.079 the first weight versus the second weight. How much difference with those four pounds? 419 00:24:42.200 --> 00:24:45.720 Oh god, she goes, Wow, She's like that really was a 420 00:24:45.759 --> 00:24:49.279 lot and I and so then she tells me, and I just like felt 421 00:24:49.319 --> 00:24:53.319 so uncomfortable in that moment because I know I was reading into it because it 422 00:24:53.400 --> 00:24:57.559 was like my own triggering thoughts, but it felt almost like there was like 423 00:24:57.680 --> 00:25:03.640 judgment from her of like what my weight even was, and I don't know. 424 00:25:03.759 --> 00:25:07.240 It just like really triggered me. And I had that appointment and I 425 00:25:07.319 --> 00:25:11.079 cried to Andrew on the phone afterwards, because I know that I am in 426 00:25:11.160 --> 00:25:15.559 great shape and I know I'm healthy, but like, hearing that number literally 427 00:25:15.599 --> 00:25:19.680 sends me back to like these days when my friends were like one hundred and 428 00:25:19.720 --> 00:25:25.240 twenty pounds growing up and I was like curvy and had and so it was 429 00:25:25.279 --> 00:25:27.279 like so triggering to me. And I'm trying to tell Andrew, and of 430 00:25:27.319 --> 00:25:33.160 course, like Andrew just doesn't understand, like he like he doesn't he pays 431 00:25:33.200 --> 00:25:37.119 attention sort of to his weight here and there, but yeah, obviously he 432 00:25:37.240 --> 00:25:41.440 just like grew up differently than a female experience growing up at the age that 433 00:25:41.480 --> 00:25:45.200 we're at and stuff. But I was so annoyed because I felt like I 434 00:25:45.319 --> 00:25:49.279 was pretty obviously not looking at the scale. Yeah, so when she told 435 00:25:49.319 --> 00:25:52.599 me the weight, I was like, and she was a very tiny human 436 00:25:52.680 --> 00:25:57.160 and I'm once again I might be reading into what was really nothing on her 437 00:25:57.240 --> 00:26:00.960 side of things. But I was a frustrated, and I'm like, maybe 438 00:26:02.000 --> 00:26:04.200 I do need to start saying I don't want to know. Yeah, maybe 439 00:26:04.279 --> 00:26:08.880 not because I just felt so triggered afterwards. I always I hate I look 440 00:26:08.920 --> 00:26:15.119 at it and I'm always like yep and like disappointed. The thing that triggers 441 00:26:15.160 --> 00:26:19.319 me is, I know we say curvy now to be like it's a compliment, 442 00:26:19.799 --> 00:26:22.440 but growing up, curvy was not a compliment. That was a way 443 00:26:22.480 --> 00:26:26.279 that they described you as not being thin. Yep. And so the other 444 00:26:26.359 --> 00:26:30.680 day someone was like, you know, curvy girls like us to me, 445 00:26:30.480 --> 00:26:34.160 and I'm aware, and I am like, make jokes at my own expense, 446 00:26:34.200 --> 00:26:40.759 but when other people like will say curvy like me, it still does 447 00:26:40.799 --> 00:26:44.759 something to me. I have people DM me all the time, and please, 448 00:26:44.799 --> 00:26:47.759 if you have this is not a knock on you. I just I 449 00:26:47.799 --> 00:26:51.759 hope you know. It's completely my own insecurity. But they'll say I think 450 00:26:51.799 --> 00:26:53.920 I have a similar body type to you, what size do you wear or 451 00:26:53.920 --> 00:26:57.920 whatever? And I hate that, I really do, because that can go 452 00:26:57.960 --> 00:27:03.200 a couple of different way. But usually all that does for me is send 453 00:27:03.240 --> 00:27:07.119 me spiraling, because I like, I don't know, I don't know what 454 00:27:07.119 --> 00:27:11.480 to recommend to people. I have some people like that'll send me links for 455 00:27:11.759 --> 00:27:15.079 clothes and I'm like, I'm not in that size category. So then that 456 00:27:15.119 --> 00:27:19.640 will upset me, and so I just get and then and then it upsets 457 00:27:19.680 --> 00:27:23.319 me that I care that much that it upsets me. Yeah, so then 458 00:27:23.319 --> 00:27:27.839 it's a whole like level. But I will look at the scale because I'm 459 00:27:27.839 --> 00:27:33.440 like, you know, maybe sometimes like maybe I'll be surprised. Never am 460 00:27:33.480 --> 00:27:37.720 I surprised, Jenny, Never am I happily surprised. I know, I 461 00:27:37.880 --> 00:27:41.319 just I don't know. I know that. Like, like I said, 462 00:27:41.359 --> 00:27:45.880 I try so hard to focus on the fact that I have a body that 463 00:27:45.960 --> 00:27:51.400 is capable of working out and doing things, and I'm very happy with where 464 00:27:51.440 --> 00:27:55.640 I am physically, Like I have never been in better shape in my life 465 00:27:55.680 --> 00:27:57.880 than the last few years in my life, even then I probably played sports 466 00:27:57.920 --> 00:28:03.599 in high school on But that number just still fucking gets me. Yeah, 467 00:28:03.720 --> 00:28:07.440 still gets me. It is I think you probably should. Yeah, then 468 00:28:07.480 --> 00:28:10.400 if it caused that, you should probably just be very upfront like, hey, 469 00:28:10.400 --> 00:28:11.640 I don't want to know the weight on the scale. I'm trying to 470 00:28:11.680 --> 00:28:15.240 like and they I think they'll completely get it. But yeah, that's upsetting 471 00:28:15.240 --> 00:28:18.279 that you purposely tried to avoid it. And she's like, oh good news. 472 00:28:18.480 --> 00:28:22.000 I mean it was last four pounds with the boom. It was literally 473 00:28:22.079 --> 00:28:23.880 like the wall was right in front of me, and the thing was like 474 00:28:23.960 --> 00:28:27.000 probably up to my boob sort of where it said the number, and I 475 00:28:27.160 --> 00:28:32.160 was literally looking up towards the ceiling. Yeah, that's how obvious I was. 476 00:28:32.480 --> 00:28:34.720 Like I could have even looked straight and then it was like in my 477 00:28:34.759 --> 00:28:38.039 eyesight almost, but I was deliberately looking up towards the sailing. Well. 478 00:28:38.559 --> 00:28:44.000 Yeah, well we're about there for time. Is there anything else you wanted 479 00:28:44.000 --> 00:28:47.200 to add? Any A limerick? Maybe, but you can't, we be 480 00:28:47.200 --> 00:28:48.599 honest, all the limericks like that. I don't even know if we're going 481 00:28:48.680 --> 00:28:52.920 to come up with something good like that, but no, I think I 482 00:28:52.920 --> 00:28:56.400 think that's all I got for today, all right, Well, as always, 483 00:28:56.480 --> 00:29:02.400 email us Balan at katieweb dot com or me at KDWB dot com. 484 00:29:02.480 --> 00:29:06.759 Yeah, thank you, yeah, thanks Dennie.