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It's five month Thank you, motherfuckers. 17 00:01:26,159 --> 00:01:30,239 Why not give a little donation to the Trevor Project and feel good about yourself. 18 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:37,000 They do so much great work with the lgbt Q plus community q I 19 00:01:37,079 --> 00:01:44,040 a plus community. They have a hotline that is very helpful to youth. 20 00:01:44,519 --> 00:01:48,920 You know, this country is not great for our lgbt Q I A youth 21 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:52,920 right now, so help out the Trevor Project. Also, Sandra, it's 22 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,000 not easy being green, but she does it all the time. Yep, 23 00:01:56,079 --> 00:01:59,560 she wears it well. Jennifer, get up, Aaron, you're a dirty 24 00:01:59,599 --> 00:02:06,159 sanchet own it, Sarah Stefano my Paisan yep, les the Leslie's one is 25 00:02:06,239 --> 00:02:10,800 coughing, one is a casting, Yes, coughing and a costing. Sean 26 00:02:10,879 --> 00:02:15,400 Vashpe, he's nott a hello, Rebecca open Jo cute. Kelly Brandt, 27 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,960 she's not your amp, but she'll take you to hip hop class. Alicia 28 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:23,520 Ascalante from the city Ofville Monte. Missy and Gabby. Those two hanging out 29 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:29,080 by the International Terminal, Yes, which is not great. Hitch a ride 30 00:02:29,199 --> 00:02:34,280 yep. Katerina checking that molar right now, She's having aftercare for her oral 31 00:02:34,319 --> 00:02:36,840 surgery. Valerie hits it out of the park. Polly, We love your 32 00:02:36,879 --> 00:02:40,080 pancakes, Athena, love your dancing. Nancy. Elizabeth Williamson. We love 33 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:43,719 all of your kids except for one. You know what we're talking about. 34 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,719 A little joke. That's a little joke. That's a little having a lot 35 00:02:46,759 --> 00:02:50,800 of kids joke. Rita is rocking a Bosonette. Jacob is so growley. 36 00:02:51,159 --> 00:02:53,280 Uh, Nikki, call your girl, Aaron? Who is? Katie? 37 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:58,919 Murphy's rolling on e Lauren, You're good as gold, Kelly lad Rachel Newcom 38 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:04,680 And Dick is frolicking. Wow, yeah, he's still frolicking. He's frolicking 39 00:03:04,759 --> 00:03:12,120 like a motherfucker. Caitlin is editing our show because we had to record on 40 00:03:12,159 --> 00:03:16,000 a Tuesday, because yes, well, because Sonny had to get his wisdom 41 00:03:16,039 --> 00:03:21,879 teeth out on a happy morning, which did not happen, because he was 42 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:25,919 throwing up all night. Oh no, yes, can you hear? Lynnette 43 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:30,039 thought? Well, because can you hear? Gets away from her. Okay, 44 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:32,280 all right, he's too cool for scho Mike is like off on his 45 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:37,240 side. There we go, all right? Uh, yes, Sonny was 46 00:03:37,479 --> 00:03:43,520 throwing up. He I believe what did it is? His birthday cake was 47 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:49,879 in thefrigerator in our garage, and I think it went bad, and I 48 00:03:49,919 --> 00:03:52,759 think he had He was like, you know, I can't eat after midnight, 49 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:54,319 so I'm gonna eat. So he ate a big meal and then he 50 00:03:54,479 --> 00:03:58,479 ate the birthday cake and then he woke up at like three in the morning. 51 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,599 I wake up in the morning to take them, and I'm getting all 52 00:04:00,599 --> 00:04:05,520 these texts from three am until like six thirty of him like, mom throwing 53 00:04:05,599 --> 00:04:10,400 up. I don't know what to do, And I'm like, Okay, 54 00:04:10,439 --> 00:04:14,280 well now we're gonna have to reschedule it. Now. It's not gonna happen 55 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:18,879 till probably August or after his trip to Japan at the end of July, 56 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:24,720 so he didn't get his wisdom teeth out. But then did he feel better, 57 00:04:24,759 --> 00:04:27,600 like later in the day. Do you think it was just food poisoning. 58 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:31,160 I think he did feel better later in the day. I'm I mean, 59 00:04:31,199 --> 00:04:33,839 I don't know what else would make him throw up like that. Yeah, 60 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:36,720 Like he was, you know, in the bathroom every like half an 61 00:04:36,759 --> 00:04:41,759 hour and like a couple of times. I don't know, but he was 62 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,160 looking he wanted to get it over with you know, and I wanted to 63 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:48,439 get it over with. So now that's that, So now we have to 64 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:53,639 reschedule it. Fucking kids, man, do you know that? And Xander 65 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:58,600 don't have wisdom teeth? Oh? Really? Yeah, he looked out or 66 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,839 maybe each of them they both have one, but it's not growing in such 67 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:05,279 a way that it's even gonna have to come out. Well sometimes, yeah, 68 00:05:05,319 --> 00:05:09,199 they don't need to. They don't need to if it's not impacting the 69 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,839 rest of the teeth. Yeah, I mean, Ilbe had hers out, 70 00:05:11,879 --> 00:05:15,279 but yeah, I guess that's a little money saving right there. Yeah, 71 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:18,040 that's good. Natalia had to have hers sunny needs all four taken out. 72 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,759 I didn't have, like we've talked about this, but I didn't have a 73 00:05:21,959 --> 00:05:28,000 grown up tooth in my like my canine what not my kid the tooth next 74 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:32,399 to the canine towards next to the two front teeth, there's no grown up 75 00:05:32,439 --> 00:05:36,399 tooth there. So I always had a baby tooth until I was like, 76 00:05:38,079 --> 00:05:42,720 I don't know, twenty and then had it fixed. Oh, because the 77 00:05:42,759 --> 00:05:46,360 only way that the baby teeth come out is when the adult and tooth grows 78 00:05:46,399 --> 00:05:48,839 underneath it pushes it out. Yes, so I had a baby tooth until 79 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,680 it was like until I got health insurance pretty much to get it fixed. 80 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:58,560 Oh wow, yeah, this is a little tooth like up front. Yeah, 81 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:02,680 when I think about the stuff that like we had to handle on our 82 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:09,519 own as k as teenagers, as young adults, it's amazing to me, 83 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:13,600 Like how I don't know if I've handicapped my kids, but you know, 84 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:18,560 or I mean, you know, we're doing a parenting podcast, so you 85 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:23,639 know, our lives are out there, but I don't think that our lives 86 00:06:23,879 --> 00:06:26,720 to all the people that want to comment and go like, oh my god, 87 00:06:26,759 --> 00:06:30,519 the helicopter parenting is real, you know, yes, but so do 88 00:06:30,639 --> 00:06:34,959 all the other Like yeah, in fact, I helicopter a lot less than 89 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:38,600 a lot of my friends, right right, I mean, if you could 90 00:06:38,639 --> 00:06:43,800 hear remember the story about wanting to let LB go trigger true chick at eleven 91 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:49,000 and the other mom being completely scandalized by that and workshopping my idea of letting 92 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:55,079 them walk around my safe neighborhood to her friends and telling me that her friends 93 00:06:55,079 --> 00:06:57,959 told her that's a really bad choice, right, And I'm like, I 94 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:02,920 remember that, okay, And I remember I was Elbe and I were remembering 95 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:08,040 this the other day that I used to let her walk around the mall. 96 00:07:08,519 --> 00:07:11,639 I walk around the mall sometimes and I see these kids that look so young, 97 00:07:11,839 --> 00:07:14,360 like yeah, look like they're eleven walking around the mall, and I'm 98 00:07:14,399 --> 00:07:16,040 like, well, yeah, I used to let Lbie walk around the mall. 99 00:07:16,279 --> 00:07:18,759 And I remember the first time I did it. I sat at the 100 00:07:18,759 --> 00:07:23,120 food court and was like, you know, because I was like, well, 101 00:07:23,399 --> 00:07:26,319 don't get lost, but if you get lost, you can just ask 102 00:07:26,399 --> 00:07:29,879 somebody in a store, like where's the food court? You know you'll find 103 00:07:29,879 --> 00:07:32,800 me eventually. Yeah. And also she had an She didn't have a phone 104 00:07:32,879 --> 00:07:36,240 yet, she was too young, h huh, but she had an iPad 105 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:40,319 and I was like, here's what you're gonna do. You're going to connect 106 00:07:40,319 --> 00:07:43,240 to the why you know, it was a iPad that is not a phone, 107 00:07:43,279 --> 00:07:46,399 so it only connects if there's Wi Fi, right, But I'm like, 108 00:07:46,439 --> 00:07:48,160 there's Wi Fi in the mall. It's not great, but if you 109 00:07:48,319 --> 00:07:54,600 need to text me, text me on the iPad. So I can't tell 110 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:58,439 you how many kids parents were like, oh, hell no, my kid's 111 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,519 not walking around the mall with your kid, including Julie Kayson. I was 112 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:05,680 like, nope, Nope, I don't. I don't feel comfortable with that. 113 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:09,279 And then I remember when she was finally like, okay, Bella can 114 00:08:09,319 --> 00:08:13,160 walk around with LB and the mall. Then Bella was like, I'm really 115 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,759 uncomfortable with this. I don't feel safe. So I'm just saying like, 116 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:20,720 there's a lot of areas where I'm not I much left with a helicopter. 117 00:08:22,439 --> 00:08:26,879 But it is amazing the things that like my kids can't do or wouldn't think 118 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:31,279 of doing, that we had to take care of, right, figuring out 119 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:37,320 dentistry, my dentistry, figuring out, figuring out I got myself surgery. 120 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,919 I had my breast reduction surgery when I was twenty. My mom refused to 121 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,480 have anything to do with it. I worked at a company, had my 122 00:08:43,519 --> 00:08:50,320 own health insurance, had an HMO, made myself an appointment, went and 123 00:08:50,399 --> 00:08:56,120 had consultation, got it approved, and then freakin got some one of my 124 00:08:56,279 --> 00:09:01,080 friend's moms or one of my friends. Yeah, one of my friends basically 125 00:09:01,159 --> 00:09:03,600 was the person who took care me. I went and stayed at her house. 126 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:07,200 Mm hmmm, like I had no help. I know it was so 127 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:13,000 different back then. I know it was like well, but now like Okay, 128 00:09:13,039 --> 00:09:18,759 So Natalia had this interesting because that you bring it up. Because Natalia 129 00:09:18,759 --> 00:09:26,039 had a sinus infection that would not quit and she had it like the week 130 00:09:26,159 --> 00:09:31,080 of her graduation and birthday. And then we got her on antibiotics and then 131 00:09:31,639 --> 00:09:37,320 and we did that because she did it over the Our urgent care in our 132 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:41,679 neighborhood can do the port of you know, do the the zoo health telehealth 133 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:45,080 over the phone and if it's like something like a sinus infection, you can 134 00:09:45,159 --> 00:09:46,279 just do it over the phone. So we did it over the phone. 135 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:50,960 They called in the prescription, she went picked it up. She took eye 136 00:09:50,039 --> 00:09:54,559 drops for her eyes because her eyes were red. Everything was. She was 137 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:58,720 a mess. And then it cleared up. Well then like a couple of 138 00:09:58,759 --> 00:10:03,039 days before she leaves for her trip to Spain, it started coming back. 139 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:09,039 Her one eye was like goopy again. Her head was pounding like she had 140 00:10:09,039 --> 00:10:13,559 a pounding headache. And I was like, Natalia, you got to go 141 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:16,000 to urgent care. And I was busy that day and I'm like, you 142 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:20,279 need to go like today, and you know where it is. You're eighteen. 143 00:10:20,919 --> 00:10:26,440 Here's your information, here's your your health insurance information. This is what 144 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,399 you do. Go in there, blah blah blah. By the way, 145 00:10:28,399 --> 00:10:31,480 they already have your information there. They've been there millions of times. So 146 00:10:31,519 --> 00:10:35,279 anyway, I was like, go and so she did, and then you 147 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:39,720 know, she's calling me and she's like, I forgot that it was a 148 00:10:39,799 --> 00:10:43,200 digital form that they have to fill instead of papers that you write like the 149 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:46,879 intake form. It's on an iPad kind of things, which I by the 150 00:10:46,879 --> 00:10:52,159 way, it's so fucking annoying, right, it never works correct. I'm 151 00:10:52,159 --> 00:10:54,360 always like, I'm sorry, it's not going to the next page, right, 152 00:10:54,639 --> 00:10:58,320 Yeah, I can't admit it. Right. So she's like, she 153 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:01,159 calls me a couple times questions and she's like, what's my you know, 154 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:07,120 pediatricians doctor's name and number and address, and I give it to her and 155 00:11:07,159 --> 00:11:09,360 then she's like, they're not I and she doesn't tell me it's on the 156 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:13,200 iPad. So I'm thinking she's writing it down right, And then she goes, 157 00:11:13,279 --> 00:11:16,360 they're not it's not in here, and I go, what do you 158 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:18,960 mean it's not in here? She goes, it's not coming up. And 159 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,679 I go, oh, you didn't tell me you're on the iPad. She 160 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:22,320 goes, well, now what do I do? I go and to tell 161 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:26,679 you bring it to the lady the front desk, tell her that it's not 162 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:28,919 coming up. I don't know, I'm not there. What do you want 163 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,240 me to do? I can't. I don't magic dust, like take it 164 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:33,919 up to the front desk. We would you? Like? Why do you 165 00:11:33,919 --> 00:11:37,879 figure it out? What I mean? But that's why won't they ask another 166 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:41,679 adult for me? I know? That's can we ask us? Right? 167 00:11:41,919 --> 00:11:45,360 It's easier to call us, I guess I So I go ask you a 168 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,399 question. If you're in a store, and you'll go like, I don't 169 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:50,039 know. Let's ask somebody who works here, and they'll be like, no, 170 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:56,639 why that is their literal job? Like why if we're at Target and 171 00:11:56,639 --> 00:11:58,759 we can't find the thing we're looking for, why can't you just go like, 172 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:01,320 excuse me, do you know where the blah blah blah is? I 173 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:03,519 don't know why. That's so tortuous. I know, I don't know. 174 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:07,840 I know, I know, so like go. So she figured it all 175 00:12:07,919 --> 00:12:09,519 out, and she did it, and she got her medication. She went 176 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:13,120 and picked it up, she filled the medication, Like this is what you're 177 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,039 gonna have to do. But then they want a parade for that. So 178 00:12:16,159 --> 00:12:20,240 they're like, Hi, they're done. The rest of the day, they're 179 00:12:20,279 --> 00:12:22,480 just like, oh my god. And then mom, and then I just 180 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:26,840 went to CV and I picked up my prescription and you're like, yeah, 181 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:31,559 that's it. Yeah, like when I was nineteen years old, I moved 182 00:12:31,759 --> 00:12:37,679 across the fucking country and figured out how to pay my bills and how to 183 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:41,759 buy toilet paper and how to make sure I had soap in the house, 184 00:12:41,799 --> 00:12:43,399 and how to go to the doctor and how to find a dentist. Like 185 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,000 right, we had to, yes, you had to. Yeah, I 186 00:12:48,039 --> 00:12:54,840 know these kids, man, like you know, yeah, but yeah, 187 00:12:54,879 --> 00:12:58,279 so it worked out, and you know, now she's off, but uh, 188 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:01,720 what will we were talking to me. She did heal up, she 189 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:05,159 did get better. You know, she was only like three or four days 190 00:13:05,159 --> 00:13:07,279 still on so she's got to take it while she's there, but she's doing 191 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:13,399 much better. Yeah. Well, Xander, I had, like I think 192 00:13:13,399 --> 00:13:15,720 I told you this, yeah, last week because I brought him to urgent 193 00:13:15,759 --> 00:13:18,639 care and he had stepped throat. Oh yeah, so he had to be 194 00:13:18,639 --> 00:13:20,799 on an antibiotic. Luckily we had enough time for him to get over it 195 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:24,840 before he left for the speech and debate. Right, but yeah, it's 196 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:30,919 so it's it's funny because like I don't give my key. I don't know 197 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:35,080 if it's a I don't give my kids enough credit or responsibility. But like, 198 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:39,440 so Thursday morning, I have I'm going to do my eye surgery, 199 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:43,720 and my thought was, Okay, well, who's gonna walk Pepo? Because 200 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:48,440 she's been waking me up really early every day. I don't know if it's 201 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:52,480 the time change, I don't know what it is, but like she's been 202 00:13:52,519 --> 00:13:54,600 waking me up at like six fifteen in the morning, like wanting a walk, 203 00:13:54,679 --> 00:14:00,519 and I have to go no, and she'll, yeah, just go 204 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:03,080 back to sleep, right, I have to keep going people, no, 205 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:07,000 Like and what then John let her out into the backyard just to pee, 206 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:11,279 and then I'll like get up really early and feed her anything to stave off 207 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:16,919 the actual walk until at least like seven point thirty, like a more human 208 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,960 time in the morning. Yeah, but I'm like, well, people is 209 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,279 going to need a walk because John's like, well, I'm going to take 210 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,679 you there in the morning, like, who's gonna walk people? And he 211 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:28,240 goes one of the kids can wake up and walk the dog. But my 212 00:14:28,399 --> 00:14:33,000 thinking is, like they're so not used to it that like, I don't 213 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,360 are they going to sleep? My brain just starts going, well, are 214 00:14:35,399 --> 00:14:39,320 they going to sleep in our bed? They're not going to be responsible enough 215 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:41,159 to like set an alarm. No, people has to be walked. They're 216 00:14:41,159 --> 00:14:48,960 gonna be like, well, you know, I'm somebody like exactly, ain't 217 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,679 nobody gonna tell you that you have to walk the dog? But if you 218 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:54,320 don't walk the dog, like, I don't know, because the dogs, 219 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:58,240 well, you should train people to go get them up, go wake them 220 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,240 up when it's not I know, because I don't know what she would do 221 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:05,039 if we're both not right right, this is bad. I don't know if 222 00:15:05,279 --> 00:15:09,759 is this anxiety or is this just like me being a good planner. But 223 00:15:09,919 --> 00:15:13,480 I was like, maybe I should just take an uber to the surgery because 224 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:18,200 he can't. Okay, we did this, you know, like a year 225 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:22,600 and a half ago when John had the surgery and he took an uber because 226 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,840 I had to take the kids to school. So I took the kids to 227 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:31,000 school and then I just drove straight down to go get him. Yeah, 228 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:35,039 I remember that. But I had to wait because the way the protocols are 229 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:37,080 now, like I went up to the office and they're like yeah, you 230 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:41,360 can't wait here. They're still on like some kind of COVID protocols, so 231 00:15:41,519 --> 00:15:45,759 like, you can't stay here and wait for him. We'll call you when 232 00:15:45,759 --> 00:15:48,440 he's ready. Well, it was like hours away. I had to go 233 00:15:48,519 --> 00:15:52,000 park on a side street like this podcasts, and I was like, honey, 234 00:15:52,159 --> 00:15:56,080 it's real hot out. I was like, you're not going to be 235 00:15:56,120 --> 00:16:03,679 happy, like dropping me off right out something to do in Beverly Hills early 236 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:07,519 in the morning for hours before they get to me. I was like, 237 00:16:07,559 --> 00:16:11,039 I should just Uber, get up. When you get up, walk the 238 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:14,559 dog, feed the dog, and then I'll call you know, they'll call 239 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:18,960 you and then make your way down and come get me better. Oh. 240 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:22,919 Absolutely, So I was like, I'm not a kid like you need to 241 00:16:22,919 --> 00:16:27,559 be. Yeah, okay, buy honey, it's a surgery. I'm like, 242 00:16:27,679 --> 00:16:33,639 I'm a grown up, like I'll go in check myself in something he 243 00:16:33,679 --> 00:16:37,720 can do for me except for wait around, right, So I think that's 244 00:16:37,759 --> 00:16:44,559 better. I agree it's worth the money to Uber. Yeah, it's in 245 00:16:44,639 --> 00:16:49,440 Beverly Hills. Yeah, I avoid that like the plague. But it is 246 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:52,120 such a pain and it's going to be like first thing in the morning. 247 00:16:52,240 --> 00:17:00,200 But it's the only place. Yeah, it's better than cedars, which is 248 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:04,799 yeah, yeah, anyway, it doesn't really matter, but yeah, figuring 249 00:17:04,839 --> 00:17:08,440 it out stuff is like I don't trust my kids to figure a lot out, 250 00:17:08,759 --> 00:17:12,640 I know. And you know what happens is they get you get forced 251 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:15,960 into it, and then they do it, and then they're all proud of 252 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,200 themselves and then we're like, why didn't I do that earlier? I know, 253 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:23,200 like that was easy. Yeah, I need to teach my kids how 254 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:27,920 to do their own laundry. It's easy. I mean they eventually. I 255 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:33,759 think Natalia and Sonny do both do it. And I think Natalia did it 256 00:17:33,799 --> 00:17:36,759 because she wanted clothes clean, and she was just like I don't want to 257 00:17:36,799 --> 00:17:40,279 wait or whatever, and she she wanted to learn how to like I want 258 00:17:40,279 --> 00:17:41,440 to wear those jeans tomorrow. How do I want? You know? So 259 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:45,559 she does them. She's not good at folding them and putting them away. 260 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:49,160 That's the hard part, but like as far as like separating them and putting 261 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:52,000 them in the thing, and then she's getting better, like putting them on 262 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:57,559 the hangars and putting them away. Sonny. Sonny was pretty easy early on 263 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,519 too. He was like I can I think he kind of wanted to do 264 00:18:00,599 --> 00:18:03,799 it, like, let me see how this thing works. And he started 265 00:18:03,799 --> 00:18:08,000 doing it too again, not folding him and putting him away at all or 266 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,440 putting him on the hair and until he's getting back. She's a girl and 267 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:15,960 wants her stuff, nice, sonny, doesn't you know, Well, Elbe's 268 00:18:15,079 --> 00:18:21,559 room is like the biggest catastrophe. Meanwhile, she's gotten really good at she 269 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:26,759 figured out while she was at Disneyland. She was calling UCLA to get in 270 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:30,000 for her orientation. She told me, she was like, this is worse 271 00:18:30,039 --> 00:18:33,359 than like trying to win concert tickets. She goes trying to get my But 272 00:18:33,519 --> 00:18:37,880 she's been dealing with all the college stuff all on her own, taking care 273 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:41,759 of business. You know. She takes care of herself and her job, 274 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:45,200 and like she figures out a lot of stuff. And yet at home, 275 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,720 Yeah, a lot of kids are like that, a lot, you know. 276 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,880 Yeah, but yeah, and I think, like actually going and living 277 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:56,839 in a dorm and going off to colle it's gonna be. It's so much 278 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:00,440 better for them too, you know. Well, let's take a quick break 279 00:19:00,519 --> 00:19:06,400 and tell you about Yes, our show is brought to you by Body Smart 280 00:19:06,519 --> 00:19:10,759 one on one coaching that's right. This is a new a new sponsor for 281 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:15,359 us. I think it's really great, especially for people who listen to our 282 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:18,839 show. This is for busy women aged thirty and over who are overwhelmed and 283 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:22,720 fed up with struggling to get healthy. 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So yeah, 316 00:22:03,079 --> 00:22:06,640 remember I did a Patreon episode I don't know, a couple of weeks ago. 317 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:08,799 Oh no, you were. It was when Julie was here where I 318 00:22:08,839 --> 00:22:15,640 talked about how I almost quit my my my little job, my mom job 319 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:19,440 at the school. Ye in school. Okay. I decided that I just 320 00:22:19,519 --> 00:22:25,319 wasn't cut out for all the corporate speak and I was getting overwhelmed. But 321 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,720 then they talked me back into it. They sucked me back in, so 322 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:33,720 I'm still doing it. So anyway, I was on my neighborhood by I 323 00:22:33,799 --> 00:22:37,599 was on Facebook and I saw on our buy nothing group that somebody was giving 324 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:41,880 away a bunch of like baskets, the kind that you could you know, 325 00:22:42,039 --> 00:22:47,119 you could build a gift basket and you know, yeah. So those things 326 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,960 are usually kind of the bane of my existence where I'm like, oh, 327 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,599 if you want to do gift baskets, a lot of people they give you 328 00:22:53,799 --> 00:22:57,200 products or makeup or whatever or whatever, and you don't have a basket and 329 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:02,240 they're expensive, you know. So I put my name in for him, 330 00:23:03,599 --> 00:23:07,440 and I just said a bunch of people wanted them, and I so I 331 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:11,240 wrote like, oh, hey, I've just recently become the co chair of 332 00:23:11,319 --> 00:23:15,960 the fundraising committee, and like, oh, it's going to be these baskets 333 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:22,519 will really come in handy, Okay. So I get a message on Facebook 334 00:23:22,559 --> 00:23:26,440 Messenger and it says, hey, call me. I want to give you 335 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:32,359 the baskets. But like, like why call me? Like or text me? 336 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:37,279 Text me, okay, here's my phone number. Text me so I 337 00:23:37,279 --> 00:23:41,000 can arrange for you to get the baskets. And how does it work? 338 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,880 Usually, like if you want to get it, normally just on Facebook. 339 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:48,519 It'll usually people will say on the thing like hey, I'm going to give 340 00:23:48,519 --> 00:23:52,559 you the baskets, message me for my address, okay, and then usually 341 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:56,759 they leave stuff on the portrait. You message back and forth and you go, 342 00:23:56,799 --> 00:23:59,799 oh my gosh, thank you so much. When's a good time for 343 00:23:59,839 --> 00:24:02,759 me to come get them? What's your address? And then you go get 344 00:24:02,839 --> 00:24:06,440 it right, have a good day, right, Like there's no no more 345 00:24:06,519 --> 00:24:08,440 to it than that. You know, we're not trying to make friends. 346 00:24:08,519 --> 00:24:11,920 We're just like trying to give away our shit, right right. I give 347 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:18,720 away tons of stuff on Buy Nothing anyway. So I get the message and 348 00:24:18,759 --> 00:24:22,119 it just says text me for my address, which I'm like, well, 349 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:26,240 you already messaged me on Facebook, So like why do we have to get 350 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,720 texts involved in this? You know? Yeah, right, like yeah, 351 00:24:30,799 --> 00:24:33,920 already we've just communicated. We've just found that this is a valid place to 352 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,920 communicate, so like why not just say, like, here's my address? 353 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:42,400 Okay, yeah, I text Hi, this is Stephanie. I text the 354 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:47,519 woman's name, let's call her Margo. Like, Hi, Margo, it's 355 00:24:47,519 --> 00:24:52,119 Stephanie. What's you know? When's a good time for me to pick up 356 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:56,720 the baskets? Phone rings in my hand? Oh god, I'm like, 357 00:24:56,799 --> 00:25:02,039 oh no, and it's that and I see it's the number I just called. 358 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:10,279 And I'm like coming from inside the house, you know, feeling when 359 00:25:10,279 --> 00:25:12,960 you're like fuck, I have to answer yes, obviously, I'm holding my 360 00:25:14,079 --> 00:25:18,559 phone. I'm holding my phone right, even though I suppose I could not 361 00:25:18,799 --> 00:25:23,039 answer it because I and I could be like, oh, sorry, I'm 362 00:25:23,079 --> 00:25:26,839 doing something, but I can text like I'm going to meet it, like 363 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:30,440 I could have made up an excuse, but I was so startled by the 364 00:25:30,519 --> 00:25:34,680 violation and I was just like, it's so intrusive, so intrusive. Yeah, 365 00:25:34,839 --> 00:25:41,440 I answer the phone and I'm like hello, and she's like hello, 366 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:45,960 Hi, Stephanie, it's Margo, Like yeah, I fucking know, I'm 367 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,079 on my phone. So I'm like, hi, how are you? And 368 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:53,160 she's like, I just thought it would be easier for us to talk on 369 00:25:53,200 --> 00:26:00,480 the phone about this, talk about what it is that a job interview? 370 00:26:00,559 --> 00:26:04,000 What do we mean to talk about baskets? Do you want to give me 371 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,279 or not? Like you know? And I was like oh okay, and 372 00:26:07,319 --> 00:26:12,480 she's like, well, first of all, normally, if I give something 373 00:26:12,519 --> 00:26:18,640 away and she's talking this slow, normally, if I give something away, 374 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,359 I'll give it to the first person who responds, which, by the way, 375 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,480 is not how you're supposed to do it, because they tell you like, 376 00:26:26,799 --> 00:26:30,400 give people a chance to all respond to your thinking about giving away, 377 00:26:30,559 --> 00:26:37,039 and then like then pick right right buy nothing is so annoying in the first 378 00:26:37,039 --> 00:26:44,160 place because they try they have all these suggestions and rules and like they tell 379 00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,640 you, oh, you know you should really you shouldn't just say I'm interested. 380 00:26:47,759 --> 00:26:51,480 That's rude. You should say why you're interested or whatever. Okay, 381 00:26:51,799 --> 00:26:55,000 Anyway, she's like, she's like, usually I respond to the first person. 382 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,759 She's like, but when I read that your work, what is the 383 00:26:57,759 --> 00:27:02,559 committee that you're I was like, oh, yeah, the fundraising committee at 384 00:27:02,559 --> 00:27:04,440 my kids school. She's like, yes, I just thought, well that 385 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,680 those baskets are going to really go to good youth. You could really use 386 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:14,119 those baskets. You know, they're very like they're very expensive. And I 387 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,759 was like, I trust me, I know that's why I kind of wanted 388 00:27:17,799 --> 00:27:21,480 them. She's like, yes, so even though a lot of people wanted 389 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:25,960 the baskets, I picked you. So now I'm like, well, I 390 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,839 am so grateful of Margot, thank you so much for choosing me. So 391 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,680 then she's like, well, when would be a good time for you to 392 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:34,119 come get them? And I was like, honestly, like, you're the 393 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:37,880 one who's putting yourself out there, like whenever. So she's like, well, 394 00:27:38,759 --> 00:27:41,559 I mean there's a lot of the baskets. She's like, I mean, 395 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:45,079 I guess I could put them in a bag. I mean I have 396 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,400 to go figure out like exactly what I have. I mean some more. 397 00:27:48,839 --> 00:27:51,400 Oh my god. So she's just like talking and talking and talking, and 398 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:56,160 I said, okay, whatever works. So then she's like, well, 399 00:27:56,039 --> 00:27:59,599 I mean I could. I think I have to leave. I have to 400 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:03,839 go somewhere at one. But what does she want to go on a date? 401 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:07,519 I don't know. And she's like, but I think I could probably 402 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:11,440 round them up before then. I was like, well, Margo, listen, 403 00:28:11,559 --> 00:28:14,519 I don't have to do anything with these baskets until the school year, 404 00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,200 right, so if you want to give them to me tomorrow, there's no 405 00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:22,400 there's no rush. She's like, oh, well tomorrow would probably be better 406 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:26,440 for me. Is that okay? And I said, yeah, it's totally 407 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,839 fine. Just like text me tomorrow whenever. You know I have your address, 408 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,480 just text me and I'll come by and get them. And she's like, 409 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,839 okay, I'm going to put them in a bag for you. I 410 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:41,240 mean, it's like, oh my god, Jesus. She's like, and 411 00:28:41,519 --> 00:28:45,759 also, okay, First of all, my husband, I'm going to make 412 00:28:45,799 --> 00:28:51,319 sure that he doesn't want any of the baskets first, and also be miserable 413 00:28:52,039 --> 00:28:53,920 if I give you the baskets. You know, if there's any that you 414 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:59,000 can't use, you know, maybe you could like she's and I'm like, 415 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:03,880 ah, whatever, whatever you want, Like whatever, whatever do you think? 416 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:08,039 Like some of these people are doing it more to socialize. Yes, 417 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,839 remember, because now I told you about the one guy who's like a crazy 418 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,880 nightmare who's I was complaining about him, who gave away one time, he 419 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,160 gave away a nail that he found in the road. Oh, this guy 420 00:29:19,279 --> 00:29:23,759 just wants to give away. He's this guy who's one of the freaking moderators 421 00:29:23,799 --> 00:29:29,799 of the group, is insane and will go and get books from his neighbors 422 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,640 and then give them away like two at a time. Oh my god, 423 00:29:33,079 --> 00:29:36,759 I've got these books and he'll go to flash give like I got it. 424 00:29:36,799 --> 00:29:37,880 I don't have room for all this stuff. I need you to come over 425 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:44,680 and pick up. Really really, he's like lonely real. Yeah, but 426 00:29:44,759 --> 00:29:48,240 he's married too. Well that's what I don't understand that. Yeah, well, 427 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:52,000 what's the poor schlub of a spouse? You have to say about this, 428 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:56,680 like, I don't know, Margo on the fucking phone again with somebody 429 00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:00,319 that you're doing by nothing? Yeah, turing people. Yeah, okay. 430 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:04,839 So I finally get off the phone. I'm like, this is gonna be 431 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:11,319 the next day. Next day, I get I guess she oh, no, 432 00:30:11,759 --> 00:30:17,160 next day she freaking calls me. So now it comes up. Maybe 433 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:22,319 Margo talk to her? Right. So I'm like, oh, you're Margo, 434 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:26,960 and I'm like I gotta answer it, because you know, I'm just 435 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:33,160 putting off the inevitable, right. So I'm like, Hi, Margot and 436 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:38,000 she's like, Hi, Stephanie, So listen, I found some more baskets 437 00:30:38,519 --> 00:30:41,720 and are you gonna be able can you come at one today? I was 438 00:30:41,759 --> 00:30:45,319 like, yeah, that's totally fine. I'll swing by it one Okay, 439 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,960 do you have the address. I'm like yep, he sent me the address. 440 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,079 She's like all right, And I said, do you want to just 441 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:56,319 leave him on the porch. She's like no, no, no, when 442 00:30:56,359 --> 00:30:59,599 you get there, let me know, and I'm gonna come out and meet 443 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:03,079 you and like bring the baskets to you. That'll be the best thing. 444 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:08,000 No, that's not the best thing. It's the worst thing. It's absolute 445 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,880 worst thing. So I'm like, oh no, like no, this is 446 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:15,839 gonna this is gonna be an afternoon. Is she gonna invite me in for 447 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,720 lunch? So I can't. I can't. She's got like crumpets and tea 448 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:26,839 waiting, like sandwiches. So I almost I almost used it as an excuse 449 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:30,720 to have Sadie like use it as driving practice. They take me to lady's 450 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,400 house. But then I'm like no, because it just may go on for 451 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:37,000 too long, Like I don't know what I'm going to encounter. Okay, 452 00:31:37,039 --> 00:31:40,599 So I go over there. At one I text her. I'm like hi, 453 00:31:40,759 --> 00:31:44,480 I'm here, you know. So she's like, okay, I'll be 454 00:31:44,599 --> 00:31:48,799 right out. Oh no, I had to go up to the door. 455 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:52,079 She said, come to the door. I'm sorry. I wasn't even allowed 456 00:31:52,119 --> 00:31:53,480 to text her. She's like, please come to the door. I had 457 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,960 to go to the door, ring the doorbell. So she comes out and 458 00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:04,359 I you know, and then she's like okay, So there's baskets on the 459 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:08,759 porch. So I don't know how we had to get involved in like meeting 460 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:14,039 each other. It doesn't matter. But anyway, she's like, oh okay, 461 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:16,880 She's like do you want me to put these all in a bag And 462 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,160 I'm like, no, it's totally fine. Let me just go. I'll 463 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,279 just make a couple of trips put them in my car. She's like, 464 00:32:22,359 --> 00:32:25,799 okay, I have I think I have one more basket. I'm like, 465 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:31,039 I don't have more baskets. Also, by the way, some of these 466 00:32:31,039 --> 00:32:37,400 were really not like kind of baskets that I could use at all, So 467 00:32:37,519 --> 00:32:40,480 my brain is already going like, no, I just throw some of these 468 00:32:40,519 --> 00:32:45,000 out because they're dirty, and they're like, they're not gift baskets. They're 469 00:32:45,039 --> 00:32:49,960 like these sort of weird woven you know. And then one of them is 470 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,880 like a little like pale, it's not even a basket and it's dirty, 471 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:57,880 and I'm like, but I'm like I have to make a show of bringing 472 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,519 all this up, like I can't be picking and shoes well right right right. 473 00:33:00,559 --> 00:33:06,759 So she's like, oh, my husband said that he doesn't want any 474 00:33:06,799 --> 00:33:09,000 of these back, like if you if you can't use them, you can 475 00:33:09,079 --> 00:33:12,759 just regift them. And I was like, okay, thanks, and she's 476 00:33:12,799 --> 00:33:15,279 like, but hold on, I think I have another basket and I said 477 00:33:15,319 --> 00:33:20,160 it's okay, I don't it's not really necessary and she's like no, no, 478 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,720 no, no, no, I'm find it. She's gone for like 479 00:33:23,799 --> 00:33:29,200 ten minutes. Oh my god. I thought about just leaving. She was 480 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:34,359 already giving me. There were like fifteen baskets. Oh my god. Most 481 00:33:34,359 --> 00:33:37,880 of them kind of unusable, right. One of them was like this metal 482 00:33:37,119 --> 00:33:40,680 I can't even explain. It doesn't matter, like an easter basket from like 483 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:46,440 when you were like in the eighties. Kind of yet yes, like just 484 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:51,559 not really appropriate or usable. But I'm like, okay, in my mind, 485 00:33:51,599 --> 00:33:52,680 I'm like I'm just going to be throwing this out before it eat. 486 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,079 It's not going to even make it into my house. Yeah. But anyway, 487 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:59,240 she so I wait and wait and wait, and I'm sitting I'm like 488 00:33:59,319 --> 00:34:02,319 literally sitting on the front porch like looking at my phone. She finally comes 489 00:34:02,319 --> 00:34:07,800 out and she brings me like a shitty basket that was not worth Okay, 490 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:12,119 So then I was like these are great. I was like, oh my 491 00:34:12,119 --> 00:34:14,480 gosh, these are so great. You know. She's like, yeah, 492 00:34:14,519 --> 00:34:16,079 you're going to use them for like gift baskets. I was like, yeah, 493 00:34:16,199 --> 00:34:21,079 you know, people will donate like bath products and whatever. And she 494 00:34:21,199 --> 00:34:27,000 was like, oh no, I have something I have some bath products that 495 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:30,559 that you can use. And I'm like, no, what is this going 496 00:34:30,599 --> 00:34:34,159 to be? And I don't want to be there any longer? And it's 497 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,440 hot out right, and I was like, it's okay, it's totally fine. 498 00:34:37,679 --> 00:34:38,960 I'll get plenty of donation. She's like no, no, no, 499 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:45,320 no, no, hold on, let me go get it. She cleaning 500 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:50,519 out her house. Another ten minutes Lynette, she comes out with one prop 501 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,440 one thing and it's like a body wash. And I swear to you what 502 00:34:53,519 --> 00:34:59,000 looks used. It's like kind of you know. So I'm like, this 503 00:34:59,079 --> 00:35:02,920 is this is insane. I'm not going to use this. It's like some 504 00:35:04,199 --> 00:35:07,960 it's not even like a brand you've ever heard of, it's some like thing. 505 00:35:07,119 --> 00:35:09,719 And I go and she comes out, she goes here you go, 506 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:14,480 this will be And by the way, don't be mad at me. She 507 00:35:14,679 --> 00:35:17,119 was like some old lady. She was not that old. She was not 508 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:22,039 like she was just cuckoo. Yeah. So I was like, okay, 509 00:35:22,159 --> 00:35:24,199 thank you so much. And she was like, do you want me to 510 00:35:24,199 --> 00:35:27,880 see if I have any more? And I was like, oh my god, 511 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,280 I've taken up enough of your time. I was like, thank you, 512 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:35,000 and then I couldn't wait to get out of there. I finally drove 513 00:35:35,039 --> 00:35:38,519 away. I was like, this will teach me a lesson, Yeah, 514 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:45,400 a good lesson and not asking for things on the by nothing group. This 515 00:35:45,559 --> 00:35:50,000 is insane, I mean. And then I threw away half of the shit, 516 00:35:50,119 --> 00:35:52,360 and I threw away the body wash, which was like clearly old, 517 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:57,320 right and possibly used. 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I liked it, but I 550 00:38:24,679 --> 00:38:30,559 keep falling asleep. So like sometimes I put on like a documentary something. 551 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:37,239 Right, there's this one called The Disappearance of Mourra Murray that see I feel 552 00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,559 like I've heard about that. It's been out for a while, but I've 553 00:38:39,599 --> 00:38:44,440 never seen it. And it was on Hulu, on Oxygen, and now 554 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:50,000 I guess it's on Peacock. But it's like seven six episodes, and it's 555 00:38:50,039 --> 00:38:55,440 this whole story of what happened or what do they think happened to this college 556 00:38:55,440 --> 00:39:00,559 student. She was twenty one years old and she went for a dry and 557 00:39:00,639 --> 00:39:07,920 she's crashed her car and then she just disappeared, just disappeared. And you're 558 00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:12,280 not gonna like it because there's no ending because she's still missing. But they 559 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,840 went down all these different avenues of what could have happened because all these web 560 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:20,519 sleuths and podcasters are like, this is what we think happened, this is 561 00:39:20,519 --> 00:39:25,039 what and this one investigative woman, she went down every avenue of what everybody 562 00:39:25,079 --> 00:39:29,000 online are saying, Okay, they think that the police covered it up. 563 00:39:29,039 --> 00:39:31,880 They think that she walked off and committed suside, they think that her family 564 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:37,360 did had something to do with She went down every single avenue and it just 565 00:39:37,559 --> 00:39:44,119 it's a mystery, complete mystery that makes me so mad, though, I 566 00:39:44,199 --> 00:39:47,320 know, why can't they solve the John Benet case? I know, you 567 00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:51,559 know, I don't like to listen to stuff about the John Benet case because 568 00:39:51,599 --> 00:39:54,039 I'm like, it's still not solved. Yeah, yeah, I know, 569 00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:59,480 I know. But it was an interesting story and every episode ended with like 570 00:39:59,519 --> 00:40:01,239 a cli. I was like, what, you know, it just was 571 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:05,760 like one of those kind of things. But so I watched that and I 572 00:40:06,159 --> 00:40:09,320 started watching Clipped, which was good, and then we you saw the Sherry 573 00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:15,719 Peppini Panini Peppini, the thing that was crazy about that story. You watched 574 00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:19,400 it too, right, did you finish it? Did you watch that? 575 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:23,239 Kaitlin? No, it's called a Perfect Wife, the perfect Wife or whatever. 576 00:40:23,559 --> 00:40:29,360 It's about the woman who disappeared, and of course they thought the husband 577 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:34,920 did it, and it turned out that she was like not really a gone 578 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,400 girl kind of thing. She just sort of she she she was going to 579 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:43,559 say, it sounds like gone girl. No, she isn't crazy. She's 580 00:40:43,639 --> 00:40:46,920 crazy, like very attention seeking. Yeah, but weren't you like where were 581 00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:52,239 the signs? Like I wish they'd shown more of her childhood friends. She 582 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:54,280 had like one friend that was like, well, she is pretty dramatic, 583 00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:58,559 right. She was telling me pople that her husband was abusive. She was 584 00:40:58,599 --> 00:41:04,280 like create all this drama so that then when she disappeared, they thought the 585 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,679 husband did it and they were like, oh, well, I think she 586 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:09,480 was. She was telling her friends that like, I'm so scared of my 587 00:41:09,559 --> 00:41:14,960 husband. I think he might like right, he's out of control, he's 588 00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:19,360 got the anger issues. He's really controlling. Yeah yeah, but like why 589 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,519 and he doesn't he wasn't. He seemed like the nicest guy in the world 590 00:41:22,519 --> 00:41:27,760 to me, like very patient with her and stuff like I don't get it, 591 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:31,119 Like what is what did she need to run away and find her ex 592 00:41:31,599 --> 00:41:36,280 boyfriend? And like, well she got her ex boyfriend to help her. 593 00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:42,159 Yeah, I don't. And then she had herself branded Ratlan so she and 594 00:41:42,199 --> 00:41:45,639 she lost all this weight, Like she went through all of this because she 595 00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:51,000 wanted it to seem like she'd been kidnapped. And then she blamed like two 596 00:41:51,199 --> 00:41:55,480 Hispanic ladies on kidnapping her. Yeah, for kidnapping her. Yeah, it 597 00:41:55,519 --> 00:41:59,559 was a big, huge news story. And then she would turned out like 598 00:41:59,599 --> 00:42:01,920 in the past she was sort of kind of a racist against right right right. 599 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:07,239 Yeah, she was like, yeah, these two crazy like mean Latina 600 00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,480 lady. They were listening to ranchero music. Yeah, she goes, they 601 00:42:10,519 --> 00:42:19,079 were really annoying, like break I know, but yeah, I agree. 602 00:42:19,199 --> 00:42:22,719 I wanted them to get more interest, like like we've heard the story a 603 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:27,480 million times, like let's figure out why she did it? Why, like 604 00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:31,400 what made what made her her? You know, this is the part that 605 00:42:31,519 --> 00:42:37,400 killed me. So they they she seems like she's been kidnapped. She's getting 606 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:42,480 herself hit with the hockey puck and stuff. She's asking her boyfriend to smack 607 00:42:42,519 --> 00:42:45,039 her, like hit the hockey. But he played hockey, right, so 608 00:42:45,079 --> 00:42:47,159 she was all bruised up. So yeah, she was all bruised up. 609 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:52,239 So some of this stuff is not totally adding up. Though, and her 610 00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:58,719 husband is like, I don't know, like some of the stories seems weird. 611 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,800 But then like she has a therapist, and the therapist is like, 612 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:06,079 well, I mean you can't like not believe her. I mean, why 613 00:43:06,119 --> 00:43:08,400 would she make something like this up? And he's like, yeah, I 614 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:15,000 guess you're right. But the thing that made me the most irritated was she 615 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:20,199 she has all these things where she's like, oh my gosh, I can't 616 00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:23,480 eat pizza because pizza reminds me of like the kidnapping. Like now she's got 617 00:43:23,519 --> 00:43:28,719 all these triggers, and she's making it so everything's really dramatic. She's like, 618 00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:32,280 oh my gosh, I can't I have to all food needs to be 619 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:37,679 prepared in front of me because like I can't she has she's pretending to have 620 00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,599 all of this PTSD, all of these like triggers. Meanwhile none of it's 621 00:43:40,599 --> 00:43:45,400 fucking true. Of it's true, so she makes him he changes his whole 622 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:50,119 life. The kids are like really like, oh no, mom's upset because 623 00:43:50,159 --> 00:43:53,039 like somebody ate pizza and that's not what the thing was, but whatever it 624 00:43:53,079 --> 00:43:55,639 was like, and then she's like oh my, she starts crying, and 625 00:43:55,679 --> 00:43:59,719 then the she's like Mommy, are you okay? Yeah, yeah, I 626 00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,440 know, And then like was she horrendous? I know, and she had 627 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:06,960 to have she couldn't have anybody in the room, like she wanted her husband 628 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,599 in the room at all times, all the time, like you know, 629 00:44:10,199 --> 00:44:15,280 and like, but it was interesting seeing But I feel like I've seen we've 630 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:19,519 seen these scenes like where she's getting interviewed by the by the police when they're 631 00:44:19,519 --> 00:44:22,960 sitting at the table and she's like rubbing her nose with that snotrag over and 632 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,320 over. I don't know if you noticed it. Yeah, she kept shoving 633 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:30,840 that anyway, like yeah, like just they were asking her a million questions 634 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:35,440 and so I mean those are always kind of interesting stuff to see, like 635 00:44:35,519 --> 00:44:38,719 the you know, the interrogation and when they caught her and they brought her 636 00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:43,480 in for questioning. That was interesting, you know. But one thing that 637 00:44:43,519 --> 00:44:49,000 I hadn't realized that was kind of mind blowing was from the time that they 638 00:44:49,079 --> 00:44:53,920 figured out that she'd done it herself to them, like her getting convicted was 639 00:44:54,000 --> 00:45:00,360 eighteen months where she still lived with her husband and he knowing that, like 640 00:45:00,519 --> 00:45:06,559 suspecting that she wasn't done it. She kept denying it and being like no, 641 00:45:06,679 --> 00:45:09,320 that's ridiculous. I didn't. So he keeps getting confronted with this proof, 642 00:45:09,519 --> 00:45:15,039 right, and he's like, I don't know what to do because all 643 00:45:15,119 --> 00:45:17,719 this time, this was years after it happened, right, It's like three 644 00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:22,800 years later or six years later. It was a long time after that he'd 645 00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:28,840 been with her, even though she'd faked it, like catering to her every 646 00:45:29,039 --> 00:45:32,480 like all her PTSD. Then she finds out that she might have done this 647 00:45:32,519 --> 00:45:37,280 to herself. And it's another eighteen months of him knowing that they have evidence 648 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:44,840 and not leaving. Right. Yeah, it's a crazy story, so crazy. 649 00:45:45,079 --> 00:45:49,960 Yeah, but she's I mean, I don't know what the deal is 650 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,280 with her and why she felt the need to have to run away like to 651 00:45:53,519 --> 00:45:59,239 I guess attention. I guess just did it for attention or like I thought, 652 00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,639 maybe she liked the ex boyfriend and wanted to get back together. But 653 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:06,719 I didn't realize that they did they I can't remember if they said they had 654 00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:12,320 sex or not, but they did find DNA, his DNA and the shanels. 655 00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,599 But he claims that she that she was he was just doing what she 656 00:46:15,119 --> 00:46:19,000 wanted, she wanted, but they didn't have sex or anything, right, 657 00:46:19,079 --> 00:46:22,480 that she was just there little I don't know. Yeah, there was some 658 00:46:22,519 --> 00:46:25,599 weird like kind of Munchausen stuff too though with the kids. Yes, and 659 00:46:25,639 --> 00:46:29,960 now she has no contact really with her kids. Oh yeah, there was 660 00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,360 what was that at the end they brought up? I know, I can't 661 00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:36,519 remember. Oh, yeah, no, she he was she was trying to 662 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,039 make the kids, Yeah, like think that they were sick or like going 663 00:46:40,039 --> 00:46:44,360 to school. Oh, like the kids said, that's what mommy used to 664 00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:49,599 do. Yes, there was something that she put around their uh nack now 665 00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,760 and vaguely remembering that, but yeah, that was at the very end of 666 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,000 the dock and they just kind of slid it under there. Yeah, and 667 00:46:55,039 --> 00:46:59,519 I was like, wait, what something totally abusive that she was doing. 668 00:47:00,039 --> 00:47:02,000 It was like munch houses. Yeah, that's what mom used to do to 669 00:47:02,039 --> 00:47:06,039 make us sick or something like. Yes, that's what they said. Yes, 670 00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:09,760 yeah, that's right. I mean she won so much crazier than we 671 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:14,320 ever thought at the beginning. I'm so glad they finally made this documentary. 672 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:15,960 Yeah, but where's it been all these years? I don't know. But 673 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:20,599 then also, you know, on Lifetime. I think it's on Lifetime. 674 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,639 I just saw the ad for it that the there's a you know, they 675 00:47:23,639 --> 00:47:29,400 do the docuseries of shows like of Crime. So they're doing the one of 676 00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:34,480 the the dad that moved into the dorm of the school of the college. 677 00:47:34,559 --> 00:47:38,280 Yeah, that's that is a whole whole ass documentary. That is her crazy. 678 00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:43,000 That's two documentaries. But now they're doing like there's like the actors playing 679 00:47:43,039 --> 00:47:45,320 the dad. Oh, it's a lifetime like movie. Okay, yeah, 680 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:50,159 so that's coming out, like, oh, that's crazy. Do you know 681 00:47:50,199 --> 00:47:54,599 that show that you know that any twenty first century? Yes crime? Yes. 682 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,719 Do you know how hard it was for me to track that down? 683 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:00,679 How did you find it? Because I told friends then they were like I 684 00:48:01,119 --> 00:48:04,840 was telling my friend and they were like, I can't find it. You 685 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:06,960 have to get the app. You have to get to get an A and 686 00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,360 E app. So if you look on your like cable provider, because I 687 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:14,760 have Spectrum, I go to put it in and it says this is not 688 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:19,960 available, and I'm like, I know I'm spelling it right, you know. 689 00:48:20,519 --> 00:48:23,360 I finally found it. I found it online. I went online to 690 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:28,000 A and E and then I and then I had to connect it had to 691 00:48:28,039 --> 00:48:30,199 connect with my provider, which it did so I was able to watch it 692 00:48:30,199 --> 00:48:35,760 on my computer. The only way to watch it on my TV was to 693 00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:37,679 get the A and E app, which you know, was just like, 694 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:44,079 it's like a whole it's a whole caushah. Yeah, But I finally did 695 00:48:44,119 --> 00:48:46,599 and I did watch a couple episodes of it on my computer so far. 696 00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:50,440 Yeah. Good, it's good. Right, it's good. It's kind of 697 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,760 worth it. Yeah, it's worth it. Oh my god. It then 698 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:57,480 somebody found me, you know how I was describing the story. Yeah, 699 00:48:57,559 --> 00:49:01,280 Port Angelus, Washington. That was on American Justice, and somebody freaking found 700 00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:05,679 it for me. And this is another thing. Remember when we used to 701 00:49:05,679 --> 00:49:08,119 do ads a long time ago for Pluto TV. Yes, I had to 702 00:49:08,159 --> 00:49:13,679 download Pluto TV. But it was worth it because I got to watch that 703 00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:19,880 episode. It's called Windrous Medicine and it's from season nine of American Justice. 704 00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:23,440 And you can freaking watch American Justice on Pluto TV. You can. Yes, 705 00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:29,159 Oh it's free and it's free, So you gotta download the Pluto downloaded 706 00:49:29,199 --> 00:49:31,440 Pluto TV. It was it was another Kashaw. I had to like, 707 00:49:31,559 --> 00:49:35,280 you have to get sign in and get a password. I was like, 708 00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:37,519 is this going to be worth it, but it was It's worth it because 709 00:49:37,519 --> 00:49:40,679 I got to watch that episode and I was like every minute of it. 710 00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:44,960 I'm like, oh, yes, I remember it. It's the way I 711 00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:47,679 remember it. Oh my gosh. Well, I'm going to download Pluto TV 712 00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:52,239 now. Yeah, dangerous Medicine, Okay, crazy story. I'm going to 713 00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,880 watch it. Remember how much we loved Bill Curtis. Yes, I guess 714 00:49:54,880 --> 00:50:00,079 he's big belly and then he buttoned that always with the black leather. Yeah. 715 00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:05,119 I was like, I don't remember being this chunky. Really, he's 716 00:50:05,119 --> 00:50:08,000 a little chunky monkey. Yeah. The coats trying like fighting, the buzzers 717 00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,480 are fighting in a little bit, and I was like, but you know 718 00:50:10,559 --> 00:50:14,199 what more power Bill, like, you go for it. And the only 719 00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,559 reason I say that is because I told you John has been told me he's 720 00:50:17,639 --> 00:50:22,880 just a crazy asshole. Oh Bill Curtis, Yes, yes, he was 721 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:29,039 just an absolute monster to work with. Really. Yeah, that sucks, 722 00:50:29,159 --> 00:50:31,639 I know. But he's very talented. Yeah, it's very talented. Great 723 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:36,079 voice, yes, great voice. And some people were talking about the fact 724 00:50:36,119 --> 00:50:39,199 that they loved City Confidential, and I'm gonna tell you, yes that that 725 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:43,559 was a good show, but too much about the city. 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