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right, and that's it. So now,

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no, we got that out the
way, y'all. I gotta talk

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to you about some things because now
I feel like, whether you just started

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listening or you've been listening for a
while, you know, I'm not one

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to get embarrassed easily. What if
y'all ever heard me say, oh,

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I was embarrassed last week, you're
a lie. What I was embarrassed about,

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I don't know. I just said
you a lie? Y'all know?

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Then? Sorry, I was busy. Malvin Kevin Um, he's heard my

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voice over. I'm voicing over Dan
just I don't have a mics, camera

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camera. Yeah. No, you
say you're embarrassed every time we say something

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stupid or incredibly white, because y'all
get on my nerves and y'all, y'all,

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you're right, okay, but that's
not at my own expense, Like

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I don't get right. It's very
white of you, Dadum, But yeah,

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y'all know, I don't get embarrassed
at my own expense much, right,

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But y'all I was embarrassed last week
or the week before, I don't

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remember. But so transparency, Okay, y'all know, like I haven't really

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been like having sex like that,
right. So when I say I've been

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tearing myself up, okay, I've
been tearing myself up, Me and this

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Rosebend tag team and myself to Jesus. Okay, taking a long way home

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following the yellow brick road, not
the yellow brick road. I guess that

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would be something different. But we've
been like really going at it, becoming

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the best of friends. Right.
So my girlfriend comes over and I think

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she was coming over to help me
take out my hair. My girlfriend comes

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over to help me take out my
hair, and you know, I'm so

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comfortable in my own space. I
forgot that I had my best friends sitting

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on a dresser. Okay, the
roles are sitting up their comfy Okay,

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yes, just was rinsed off,
Like my girl is good sitting on a

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dresser chilling. Right. So she
comes in my room and we're talking,

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having a normal conversation, and I
see it like sitting out and I hurry

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up and grab it, like,
knock it off into the drawer. Right,

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She's like, what are you doing? I'm like nothing, But I

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was just embarrassed because I didn't want
her to know that I've been abusing myself,

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like right, So I wanted to
know is there something that guys hide

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when their friends come over my roads? Too? Stop talking to me,

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dead, stop talking to me.
That's the real question, Like, is

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this something that guys are embarrassed about
when their girlfriend or when their guy friends

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come hid my vibrating saddle? Please
stop talking to me, y'all. Please,

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I'm trying to think, especially like
as an adult, I feel like

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if we were like teenagers, maybe
you was going high to crunchy socks,

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okay, but is there something that
guys high when the friends come over?

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See? The only thing that I
can really think of that I hide in

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like period, it's just condoms.
Why just sticking the drawer? Why would

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you? Why would you hide condoms? I don't want people to know I'm

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having sex? Well, you don't
want to. You want them to think

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you're not having sex? Yeah,
start talking to me, Kemy, I

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mean, like I keep my condoms
in the drawer. Anyway, I don't

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know why like a dresser right,
um no, So, I mean I

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guess like I was always the friend
that would go over to people's houses.

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I've never like really had like people
over to my house, like through like

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high school and uh whatnot. Um
so I'm trying to think, like but

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in like college and since then,
like especially um you know, having the

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bringing over to like female friends,
I'm just kind of like, ah,

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this is all my stuff. Yes, those are my legos, there's many

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of them. Those are my lightsavers. They are actually so I'm looking at

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the live main washer. Levin said, not gonna lie. I had a

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homie hode his xbox, he said. He said, he said his girl

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said games was a no go.
Oh all right, right, I agree.

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Hold on one second, um,
so I saw another one white boy

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underscore Ots says, no, we
just clean our asses off before a shorty

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slide. That's ridiculous. Leg Cold
thirty six says, lotion next to the

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bed. I wouldn't think that was
strange because everybody got to put on a

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lotion. Am I tripping? All
right? Kevin, You're I leave my

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lotion in the bathroom? Ask for
guys one time? My homie X to

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use my phone and porn Hub was
on a Safari nice not mad at this,

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see I uh funny story that is
with my company. I work it

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and I had to replace our like
general manager's phone, like hats up a

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new phone for him. Yeah,
and you know the company ballmb a new

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iPhone and so, you know,
on his old one, just syncing them

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up, you know, doing the
whole pairing thing, transferring files, whatnot.

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And I accidentally opened the internet browser. This is middle of the day

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at work, and it's like some
you know, big Bongo Titty girl xxx

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dot com. I'm like, whoa
wow. See now that makes me weird

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because with what do we say the
next time we see did you just act

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like you didn't see it? Oh
yeah yeah yeah. Apparently like hearing from

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other people like stories of this guy, like they've caught him, like you

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know, with stuff before, and
he's just like, yeah, who you

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want to complain to? I'm the
gym right exactly. Like you know what,

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I'd really be fearful when people take
my phones and like search anything,

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because I do ex Google the most
random questions. I'm pretty sure, Like

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I'm pretty sure my FBI A and
be like, dog, what do you

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be doing? Like why do you
want to know if men's nipples secrete?

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Like, but why do you want
to know that? Like I really do

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be googling the most random stuff.
So like if you ever take my phone,

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I'm not a creep and I'm not
a pervert. I'm just very inquisitive.

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Um, so wait, because I
think I know the answer for this

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is telling me if I'm wrong,
but yes, and under but it's under

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certain circumstances. Yes, okay,
so men men can lack take. Yes,

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okay, that's why I thought.
Yeah, But yeah, I am

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the same way because like if you're
ever in a group and someone brings up

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like a stupid, stupid question like
oh, what's the sides of like Hitler's

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dick or something like that, I
am the one who's like, all right,

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yeah, I'll type. I am
that person to literally yesterday, yesterday

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I was out like on a date
and me and this guy got into it.

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And because he was trying to tell
me that Batman had more money than

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iron Man. So like in my
browser history, it's gonna say who's Richard

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Tony Stark or Bruce Wayne. It's
like, girl, why you can't just

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a normal person and talk about like
shoes or something like why is it something

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you even debate him with somebody about
And it's like, I don't know because

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I want to know. Um,
But yeah, Batman doesn't more money.

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I knew it. I knew it, But I thought Tony Stark had the

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money. Like it's I don't know
why I would have thought Batman it's just

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because of well I think partially it's
because like iron Man lives in like the

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normal world, whereas in Batman's world, like the difference between like, you

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know, the middle class and where
he's at is like exponential. What I

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think is, Uh, iron Man
has destroyed so much more than Batman that

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he's had to pay for everything.
So he spends a lot of his money,

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whereas Batman he doesn't, you know, he only spends his stuff on

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like tech and gadgets and stuff.
Moll underscore. B Lyon said, what

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Tony got the most money? I
googled it. No, Bruce Wayne has

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the most money. Okay, Now
this conversation started because since we're gonna go

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down a nerve rabbit hole real fast, let's just go down a rebel.

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Conversation started because I asked him,
Yeah, who do you think would win?

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Tony Stark or Bruce Wayne? Okay? And I said in and out

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the suits, and he was like, oh, you know, I think

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that Batman is gonna win. First
of all, y'all know I'm a Marvel

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girl, So I'm like, automatically, no, he's not. But okay,

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whatever. But I'm like, if
they're me personally, I feel like,

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if they're outside of the suits,
I think Bruce Wayne would give Tony

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Start that work, right, yeah, you know yeah, But I feel

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like if they're like suited up,
iron Man got Batman all day. That's

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what he said. That's what he
said. He was like, no,

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it's it's it's not giving iron Man
in anything. And I'm like, are

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you tripping? I'm trying to be
feared. I'm being an objective. I

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do know that hand in hand combat, Tony Start cannot fuck with Bruce Wayne.

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I know that. I know that. Yeah, Bruce has all that

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training, like yeah, yeah,
the skills. But I'm like, they

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got these suits on what iron Man? Like, what what what Batman gonna

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do? What iron Man? Like? I feel like iron Man's simplest suit

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is better than anything Bruce Wayne has
put together period. Oh well, you

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say simplest suit. You don't mean
like the one from I mean I'm only

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like a Marvel fan from like the
movies whatnot? Not the one that he

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put together in the middle of the
desert. You just like, I don't

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think Batman can flat Well, speaking
of Ben affleckx Bruce Wayne, he built

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the the Batman metal suit, you
know that, like robot suit. So

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he still can't that iron Man and
he still can't fly. I don't know

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about that. I mean iron Man
can actually fly. Batman doesn't need to.

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Batman can't fly. Batman can't fly
wings. Batman can glide. He

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can swing and he can glide.
He can fly. That's flying. Okay,

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let me let me check out the
uh the first of all? Y'all

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Man stay and here you go,
and shit, st blank Man is the

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best superhero ever. Why are you
like this? Why are you like this?

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This is why we don't invite you
back, because why are you like

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this? You need to be stopped. Don't don't say you miss stand.

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We don't miss stand. I miss
you. I don't miss you. Stand

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from the bottom of my heart,
I don't miss you. And I really

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wish that I had time, because
I would have stopped psh out on my

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way here and egg you offense says
Batman. Beyond is the only one who

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can touch iron Man. I still
say no. Um, I still say

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no. Tell me why it does
have an upgraded suit, upgrade fighting ability

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like I think? Um, I
think he fights better than like Bruce Wayne's

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Batman technically beat and Beyond is terry, terry, thank you, I'm trying

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to remember his name. Yeah,
Snare Jordan says, they both rich niggas

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that can afford to be heroes.
They both have no powers. Lol,

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That's why I thought it was a
good matchup. Yeah, like, no,

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it makes sense honestly. Yeah,
Um, what the fuck? This

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guy says? Iron Man suit is
a weapon of mass destruction? Thank you?

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Stan said, I miss you.
Dan. No, we don't have

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to get any gang back together.
No gang shit over here, thank you.

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Oh my god. Batman has his
utility belt though, and he does

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have his bat or his shark repellent. What is Batman's shark repellent or his

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utility belt gonna do with Jarvis Gofference
is gonna do every fucking thing? Like,

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I don't know, I don't know. It's more I guess you know,

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if he has the foresight to have
shark repellent spray in his utility,

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about who knows what else he has
in there. He could have a little

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magnan. Yeah, and that's all
you need to do to take care of

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Jarvis. I hope he has a
fucking clue in there, because there's absolutely

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no way that Batman is going to
be iron Man Batman unless unless his hand

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in hand combat. I let's also
not forget that Batman holds the title for

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greatest detective. That's true. Wait, give a fuck. Kevin Tony is

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a genius, absolute genius, and
has good problem solving skills. Alpha says

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Alfred over Jarvis. Boy, do
you smoke crack crack? Don't you?

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If it's sassy Alfred from the animated
series. Yes, what are we talking

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about him? Over what? He
doesn't have? Like an infinite amount of

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knowledge? He can't make a suit
fly through the air, he can't,

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you know, But he brings you
the right tea at the right time of

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day. He can bring me the
right type of martini, and he gives

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you Yeah, he gives you the
most inspirational quote at the perfect moment when

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you need it most. It's true. That was literally every episode of Batman,

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the animated series. You know what
I appreciate most. What's that that

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we can just sit here and nerd
out and have this kind of rum which

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because I wanted to ask you about
this being the marvel fan of your Have

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you seen Guardians yet? I have
not. I did not see it yet

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yet, can not see it yet. I'm probably gonna go see it this

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weekend. I've heard nothing but good
things. Same, nothing but good things.

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Bring your tissues. It's sad,
That's all I'm saying. That's all

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I'm saying. If you slaw Guardians
of the Galaxy, please step in because

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I'm excited here. Your man stand
go J five is better than Alfred and

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Jarvis. Stand out. About to
block you. I'm about to block you.

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Okay, this is this is this
is this is it. This is

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it. I've had it up to
here with you, all right, um,

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Dan go ahead. Actually, my
favorite superhero is freaka Zoid freaka Zoid.

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Why does it sound so? Was
it the cartoon? Yes? It

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was okay in my mind, I
see the ticks. Oh no not straight

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straight back here? Yeah? Yeah, like a lightning bold in it.

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Yeah, yeah, I do see
freakazoid, but I don't remember nothing about

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freaka zoid. Well that's your homework
for this week. Look up some stuff

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about freakings. I'm gonna watch an
episode. Aaron Nash seventy three said,

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please focus, let's get back to
the rose. Okay, I'm sorry we

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didn't go on a tangent. But
going back to that, Um, she

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didn't see it. But to wrap
it up, I was really embarrassed.

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And I don't know how we got
here, but we've been talking about dude.

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Guys get embarrassed when their friends come
over. Is there something that they

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want to hide? Um? And
the consensus was nothing, really nothing really

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Yeah, Kevin and his condoms apparently
because he just leaves them out. You

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don't. Speaking of guys lay them
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I have another question, and fellas
please step in if you want to

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live right. How do guys make
friends? And the reason I ax this

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is because a woman can literally see
someone and be like, yeah shoes,

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Oh yeah, girl, where you
get them from? Or the like?

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And not even that a woman can
literally be like yeah, shoes and the

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woman automatically it's gonna be like,
oh, Target by blah blah blah blah,

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and now they're best friends and they
talk about all the deals at Target,

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and they have all these other connections
and just like that. It's that

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simple. But I've always wondered how
do men make friends? Um, Like,

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I mean, this is probably my
experience and you can see in the

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live on the video screen. So
I prominently wear graphic T shirts. I

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feel like this is the same for
a lot of guys who wear either T

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shirts or you know, jerseys and
whatnot of things. People can just easily

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come up to me and be like, yeah, Star Wars, right,

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and then we talked about the series, and then you know, uh,

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two hours later we're exchanging numbers and
grabbing beers and whatnot. So like,

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that's that. That's honestly my way
of just wrapping people in. I'm just

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like, I wear shirts for everything
I'm interested in, and usually someone will

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be like, hey, I know
that thing. Yeah some my so on

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the laugh says oh that's easy.
The most simple shit you agree about guy

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stuff such as video games, wrestling, anime, and that's it. Bam,

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there we go. Um. Someone
on the Lives says a pick up

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game hoops, or we both see
a chick with a nice ass, what

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the fuck I've been there where Yeah
that girl passes like on the on the

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sidewalk, and like I see someone
else looking and we make icons and we're

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just like, but how does that
translate into now you're gonna go grab a

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beer? Like I feel like you
can have the connection where like the not

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from across the room, like yeah, yeah, right, but how does

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that translate into Oh, we're now
grabbing beers together, or oh, you're

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coming over for a game night,
like we're exchanging I gs, Like how

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do men like pack it in?
Like? The only thing I can really

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think of is like through work.
But then it's like, when you talk

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about friends through work, you're talking
about having ninety year old Barry as one

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of your best friends just because you
work with them all the time. So

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it's like, how do you find
men that are in your peer group to

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be friends with? Um? Yeah, I'm trying to think, Like a

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lot of it is just like meeting
people through the activities that you do.

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Yeah, the Live was saying where
it's like, you know, if you

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play video games, sometimes you meet
friends just playing video games. Or a

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pickup game or like, yeah,
I've met lots of friends like through band

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marching band, like gigs, I
do that. We still just talked to

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hang out. Like so when y'all
are saying like, oh, we meet

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people through video games, right,
just be like playing Call of Duty and

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be like yo, bro, you
like host, Like how does this?

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How does this go? Usually?
Like sometimes well it depends because usually if

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you're doing pretty good and you have
good communication with your teammates, like sometimes

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it's just like yo, you want
to play another round, and then you

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just you know, because like you
do so well, then you feel more

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inclined to play with that group of
people. So then you just get into

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a lobby with this group. And
then at the end of it's like,

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oh, what's your you know,
I say your friend request? You know,

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yo, First of all, I
really I really hate hate stand and

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Jermaine Right now, Main said you
ever seen step Brothers? Yeah, it's

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just like that quick rumble and then
we fucking shut up together. What Yeah?

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What that's not it? You know
what's crazy? I feel like that's

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how it is for women, Like
we we we link over hair stylist uh

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crilics set outfit and it's like,
did we just become best friends? Bitch,

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Yes, I'll see you next Tuesday
when we do blah blah blah blah

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blah. Like it's it's way easier
for women to bond over mimosas or like

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food or anything like that. Like
I've always wondered where do guys make friends?

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I think a big movement for guys
was also just like beer recently,

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so like you know, if you're
at the same brewery as a bunch of

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people or like you know, you're
you decide to choose you know, this

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whatever brand on tap, like you
know, like I've been I've had to

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happen to me where you know,
I'm just saying at the barn, guy

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next to me, it's like,
oh yeah, I like that one,

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or like yeah, I'm drinking the
same thing, cheers, and then you

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know, just start uh bullshitting back
and forth. Q just chilling. Voo

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said, I met my homies at
a tech in tournament and then three years

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later we still hang Where the fuck
is the tech in tournament? Oh yeah,

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what haven't I've been invited? That's
because Betty, I press all the

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buttons. Okay, I've not been
invited to the tech In tournament. That's

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what I want to know. I
hate it here ne Teching comes out this

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year. Yeah, this is a
dirty as episode. Yeah. Wait,

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Stormy, are you by chance do
you have a switch? No, my

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son has a switch. Your son
has a switch. Has he been playing

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the news Zelda game? No?
Now, okay he's been. Um he's

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not into Zelda. No, he's
still a Fortnite and roadblocks and Suspects and

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stuff like that. Okay, I
got Yeah, Um, come to Odacon,

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come to just come to an animecon. That's what you need to do.

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They there, they have Yo smash
tournaments, tech In tournaments, they

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have card game tournaments. Uh.
That's a good place for meeting people because

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you know, you just see who
what they're dressed as and you're like,

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hey, I know that random ass
character or whatnot. And Honnesley, if

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you come, you will be like
the biggest thing there because you're an attractive

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woman. I've never been to an
anime con, but I've been through like

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wizard World and Common Kinds. Okay, but I haven't been to one since

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COVID. Okay, I think this
year I'll tape back in to go to

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go. Um. I think the
last wizard World I went to was The

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Wound where I saw Jason David Frank
the Green Ranger. No shit, okay,

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yeah yeah yeah yeah. So okay, we're done being nerds and that's

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it rap and that's a rap.
We're done. Okay, all right,

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that's the end of that. No, it's not blurd Con is July seventh

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through the Knife where send me to
dts to that. I need to dates

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to that immediately. I definitely will
go to that for sure, just not

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fur Con. No, I do
kind of want to go to furn really

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well all right, no humping,
just to be in the costume. I

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was gonna say, like, so, one of my best friends from high

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school and Mills is a furry now
Liz in a furry household in um uh,

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San Francisco and goes to like cons
all over the country. So if

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you want to hook up for getting
in one, I actually do want to

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do that too, all right,
I will. I'll put the word out

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to him maybe. Uh um Okay, y'all. So let's get into our

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regularly scheduled programming. Um. So, recently I was talking to somebody and

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UM, I was talking to a
man. And you know, when you're

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getting to know people, y'all have
conversations about like, you know, your

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past, your present, thinks you're
looking for I think she's been through X,

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Y and Z, right. So
as we're talking, you know,

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he's very inquisitive and inquiring a lot
about the people that I've you know,

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previously dated, especially within the last
six months. So as we're continuing this

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conversation, he stops me. He
says, well, can I ask you

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something respectfully? I'm like, yeah, no problem, and he says,

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you're telling me that you attract all
these high value men. Why are you

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still single? Right? And I
want to repeat that. So I'm trying

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to get to know this guy,
and he's very inquisitive about my past and

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people that I'm talking to. And
after we finish, like you know,

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a little recap six months whatever,
he asks me, yo, like you

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keep saying that you attract all these
high value men, why are you still

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single? And I think that this
is something that a lot of people get

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confused. A lot of women today, especially those that have something to offer,

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are single by choice. Right.
It's not that we can't find a

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man. It's not that we can't
find a man we don't want the options

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that are out here. Okay,
and hold on, hold on, hear

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me out for a second. Hear
me out, because I know y'all gonna

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go on a tangent say, oh
you're gonna we'll hold on. Hear me

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out. Right. When we're talking
about these high value men, a lot

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of times we're just talking about money. When we're talking about these high value

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men, A lot of times we're
just talking about men with money, right,

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And I'm just at a point in
my life where you having money ain't

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enough, right, Like, Yo, can I confide in you? Like?

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Do I feel safe with you?
Like? You know, Like it's

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other things more than just having money. And I find that a lot of

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men with money that's just all they
have to offer. Like do I like

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hanging out with you? Do I
enjoy my time with you? Like?

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Are you emotionally intelligent? Like what
else is going on here? Are you

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a good person? Are you feeling
oriented? Are you interested in being monogamous?

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Like? All these things go into
talking to people, And even if

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it is a high value man,
Like just because everybody wants you, doesn't

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mean I have to lower my standards
or you know, put my morals to

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the side because you got money.
That ain't enough. I'm not point in

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my life for but I got a
little bit of money too, So what

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are we doing here? The money
ain't enough, baby, it ain't enough.

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It ain't Can you hold a good
conversation? Are we going to be

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able to nerd out to other?
Like? Do you make me laugh?

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Am I really enjoying my time with
you? And more important than anything else?

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More important than anything else? Can
you teach me something? Can you

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teach me something? Because that's what
I'm looking for? And baby, I

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really don't care what it is.
Okay, you can teach me about the

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migration pattern of penguins. Maybe I
don't care. Can you teach me something?

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Because you just having money? It's
not enough for me. It's not

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enough. Like and I realized that
these high value men that I'm gonna put

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in air quotes, I realized that
because everyone is chasing this top ten percent,

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they feel like they don't have to
develop character, they don't have to

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develop being funny, they don't have
to have anything else to offer. And

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that's cool. It's just not cool
for me, right, Like that's gonna

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be enough for eighty percent of the
United States, eighty percent of the world,

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eighty percent of the women in the
world. That's gonna be enough for

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eighty percent of the women in the
world. But unfortunately it's just not enough

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for me. I want to,
I want to learn something. I want

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to feel safe with you. I
want to. I want you to be

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able to express your feelings to me
and me be comfortable enough to express my

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feelings with you. So, at
the end of the day, having money

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ain't enough. It's really not enough. Hold on to me, tap into

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the live, y'all. Get on
my nerves already. First first, first,

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common, I said, uptown,
Underscore confidential two on five. I'm

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gonna teach you how to tow cards. I got you, and you know

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what, my dumbass is gonna be
outside whip my gloves, strapping up,

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getting ready to tow some cards.
Bay, I sure am, you can

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teach me. And I'm ana beat
there trying to learn. Yep, I

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sure am, I sure am.
Hey, Cav Jasper asks for you today,

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keV, you bought a badge.
Thank you, keV under score two

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on five for the first bash.
Thank you, baby, Jasper. Tell

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him I missed him and Um,
I got some treats for him. I

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can teach you how to code and
react, baby, yys, teach you

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all to me. Yes, Um, president is definitely important, Zach Goodrich

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says. Joe Power twelve says character
over money absolutely, Uptown Confidential two on

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five says same with us. A
lot of women not even worth a date

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for real world, to be honest, Okay, right now, hear me

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out. I feel like the same
way I say, you know, having

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money isn't enough a lot of times
from men. What I hear is when

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dealing with women, being attractive isn't
enough. Like there are a lot of

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women who are just good to look
at, but the same thing, like

406
00:27:30.119 --> 00:27:33.720
they're you don't have fun with them, or you don't enjoy conversations with them,

407
00:27:33.839 --> 00:27:37.799
or you don't look forward to spending
time with them, or they don't

408
00:27:37.839 --> 00:27:41.000
make you feel like you're safe enough
to have the conversations that you want to

409
00:27:41.039 --> 00:27:44.640
have. So I don't know,
man, moral the story is, yo,

410
00:27:44.720 --> 00:27:47.240
you you're just gotta bring a little
bit more. Y'all bring a little

411
00:27:47.240 --> 00:27:48.799
more more. Everybody gotta bring a
little bit more. We all need more.

412
00:27:51.640 --> 00:27:56.039
Q just Killing Boo says money isn't
worth everyone's happiness anymore. Your value

413
00:27:56.039 --> 00:27:57.880
and health is your wealth. Plus, I'll teach you how to play tech

414
00:27:57.960 --> 00:28:00.599
in. I don't even know how
to play tech in. I already told

415
00:28:00.599 --> 00:28:04.839
you. I pressed all the buttons. That's all I need. Okay,

416
00:28:06.240 --> 00:28:08.680
you see this, You see this? What Nigga's gonna rob pull this out?

417
00:28:08.799 --> 00:28:15.519
Huh huh exactly exactly. I got
this. Okay, me press all

418
00:28:15.519 --> 00:28:17.920
the buttons. They't let me down
this far? Why would I stop now?

419
00:28:18.279 --> 00:28:22.759
While would I stop? Okay?
Um keV underscored two on five says

420
00:28:22.759 --> 00:28:27.200
I can teach you how to Doug
you go to hell, Go to hell?

421
00:28:27.400 --> 00:28:34.720
Okay, go to hell. Nope, Nope, nope. Um DJ

422
00:28:36.079 --> 00:28:38.559
Stone says I can teach you how
to DJ and announce that an NBA game.

423
00:28:40.079 --> 00:28:41.960
Listen, baby, that ain't no
problem. Okay, I got the

424
00:28:42.039 --> 00:28:45.440
hand coordination to DJ. Look,
I'm already ready for it. Uh Uh

425
00:28:45.680 --> 00:28:51.079
Okay, that ain't look that.
That looked official. That looked official.

426
00:28:51.279 --> 00:28:56.079
Thank you. Um Joe Parrott twelve
says facts one of the most attractive women

427
00:28:56.119 --> 00:29:04.039
I know it is homeless woman.
Huh and you're just lighting her? What

428
00:29:04.200 --> 00:29:10.240
is How do we get here?
If a homeless woman is attractive, maybe

429
00:29:10.240 --> 00:29:14.400
all for her a home. How
do we get here? Oh wait,

430
00:29:14.559 --> 00:29:19.359
this ties into what you were saying
last episode, which part never let a

431
00:29:19.480 --> 00:29:26.519
broke woman. You're absolutely correct,
never never, and I actually probably say

432
00:29:26.559 --> 00:29:29.880
it never let it broke bitch,
honestly, So thank you, Kevin,

433
00:29:29.920 --> 00:29:33.799
thank you for that. Um Office
says I'll teach folks how to make the

434
00:29:33.839 --> 00:29:38.359
Pico bill low. Man' I ain't
playing with that Pico bill shit. Pico

435
00:29:38.480 --> 00:29:42.279
is the electric company in Philadelphia.
If y'all doer don't know, and so

436
00:29:42.799 --> 00:29:45.960
it'd be all these other companies like, oh, I can make you an

437
00:29:45.000 --> 00:29:48.279
electric glow, and they don't be
making an electric glow, and you end

438
00:29:48.319 --> 00:29:52.279
up switching companies like every fucking three
months. You know what. I actually

439
00:29:52.279 --> 00:29:53.680
would probably be interested in that,
because why don't keep telling me they're gonna

440
00:29:53.720 --> 00:29:57.279
make it low when they don't get
low? I'm underscore. Patrick Wright says

441
00:29:57.359 --> 00:30:06.000
she played with Eddie and techn I
do I feel triggered? Okay, you

442
00:30:06.160 --> 00:30:08.000
don't. When I pull up this
Cappa wetta Okay, you see this,

443
00:30:08.240 --> 00:30:11.839
You see this? Me and Eddie
be fucking it up. Okay, fuck

444
00:30:11.920 --> 00:30:21.279
y'alls, I am crying. Ow
Fit says, are you doing the hammer

445
00:30:21.359 --> 00:30:25.039
dance on a controller? I'll be
making Eddie do all the dances. Okay.

446
00:30:25.079 --> 00:30:29.519
We'll be getting that shit in cappe
Wetta style, okay. Zach good

447
00:30:29.559 --> 00:30:33.160
Rich Bridge says, I personally feel
that if they're demeanor or vibe doesn't bring

448
00:30:33.160 --> 00:30:37.440
you peace initially or at all,
then you need to reevaluate your surroundings and

449
00:30:37.480 --> 00:30:41.880
the people in it. I agree, one thousand per shit percent. Shout

450
00:30:41.920 --> 00:30:45.279
out to King Slim nineteen eighty six, just for a badge, Thank you,

451
00:30:45.359 --> 00:30:49.680
baby, I appreciate you. Um
Q just chilling View says not present

452
00:30:49.759 --> 00:30:52.680
buttons, Lord, baby, let
me help you. I don't need no

453
00:30:52.799 --> 00:30:56.119
help. I got this. I
keep telling y'all, I got this.

454
00:30:57.519 --> 00:31:00.920
Y'all heard her saying she's been killing
herself with the road story, been spending

455
00:31:00.920 --> 00:31:06.319
the clips heavy. All right,
fuck y'all, Alfit, says DJ Didler.

456
00:31:06.519 --> 00:31:08.359
You know what, I don't have
to take this. I don't take

457
00:31:08.359 --> 00:31:11.200
this at all. Forget you guys, thank you very much. Okay,

458
00:31:14.319 --> 00:31:19.000
all right, now listen, So
earlier we were talking about how I was

459
00:31:19.039 --> 00:31:22.720
saying that, you know, the
men that I run into, they don't

460
00:31:22.720 --> 00:31:29.839
really have much offer except for money, right, And I just want to

461
00:31:29.880 --> 00:31:33.200
say that, like, I don't
blame these men that don't have anything else

462
00:31:33.240 --> 00:31:40.000
to offer besides money, because women
don't make them have to have anything else

463
00:31:40.039 --> 00:31:45.319
besides money. Like, I don't
blame these men for not bringing personality or

464
00:31:45.519 --> 00:31:52.799
character or good conversations or you know, a good time because the women is

465
00:31:52.799 --> 00:31:55.880
the one that's allowing this stuff to
slide, so they feel like they don't

466
00:31:55.920 --> 00:32:00.240
have to develop these things, right, And I say that it's because I'm

467
00:32:00.279 --> 00:32:05.200
talking to my girlfriend and she's telling
me about how this guy she's into it's

468
00:32:05.400 --> 00:32:09.160
really really cool through texts, but
when they get in person, he doesn't

469
00:32:09.160 --> 00:32:13.119
really have much to say. And
I said, oh, wow, that's

470
00:32:13.160 --> 00:32:16.119
crazy, and how you let him
down? And I feel like it was

471
00:32:16.160 --> 00:32:20.559
like that mean, like what you
mean gott to see it through my boy?

472
00:32:20.599 --> 00:32:22.279
And I'm like, no, we
don't. We don't have to see

473
00:32:22.319 --> 00:32:27.880
it through because it's not teaching him
to be better. It's not forcing him

474
00:32:27.920 --> 00:32:30.960
to work on his social skills.
Like, if there's somebody you're dating and

475
00:32:31.039 --> 00:32:35.640
they have qualities that you feel like
need to be developed, what's the harm

476
00:32:35.680 --> 00:32:37.759
of just telling them, like,
yo, it's so crazy. I feel

477
00:32:37.759 --> 00:32:39.880
like we vibe so much on the
phone, but when we get in person,

478
00:32:39.920 --> 00:32:43.039
you seem like a little bit nervous
or you know, we don't really

479
00:32:43.039 --> 00:32:45.200
talk like that, like you cool, like this's a mom doing, like

480
00:32:45.240 --> 00:32:47.599
I want you to know it's a
safe space, blah blah blah. Like

481
00:32:50.240 --> 00:32:52.839
you also have to make them feel
comfortable, right, And sometimes that's what

482
00:32:52.960 --> 00:32:57.279
that conversation can do. Sometimes you
need to have a conversation letting them know

483
00:32:57.359 --> 00:33:00.480
that not necessarily this is a safe
space. But baby, you can relax.

484
00:33:00.519 --> 00:33:01.519
You don't act like you gotta stick
up the ass all the time.

485
00:33:01.559 --> 00:33:07.119
Okay, So I don't know,
ladies, fellas, if these people born,

486
00:33:07.200 --> 00:33:12.039
start telling them they're born, all
right, If these people are born,

487
00:33:12.160 --> 00:33:15.000
start telling them they're born, because
it's not helping them, it's hurting

488
00:33:15.039 --> 00:33:20.119
them, okay, because then they're
gonna run into somebody like me and not

489
00:33:20.319 --> 00:33:24.559
understand why I'm not on a dick
like everybody else because you're boring because I'm

490
00:33:24.599 --> 00:33:29.000
not having fun here. I don't
enjoy myself. It's not fun to me.

491
00:33:29.079 --> 00:33:31.279
I never enjoyed it, hated it, boom, like it's just not

492
00:33:31.400 --> 00:33:36.880
it. Zach Goodrich says, so
where do you meet these non wholesome men,

493
00:33:37.079 --> 00:33:38.400
because I'm here, like, what
the fuck are they out here treating

494
00:33:38.440 --> 00:33:44.480
women? That's badly? Honestly,
if you don't believe me, just sit

495
00:33:44.599 --> 00:33:47.759
down and have a conversation with a
group of women and you're gonna hear that

496
00:33:47.799 --> 00:33:55.039
these are common complaints and common experiences
that they're all like having, because for

497
00:33:55.079 --> 00:33:59.079
some reason, it feel like we're
all running into the same five niggas.

498
00:34:00.200 --> 00:34:04.079
Like, for some reason, it
feels like me and every other woman in

499
00:34:04.119 --> 00:34:06.839
the world is running into the same
five niggas. All right, now,

500
00:34:06.839 --> 00:34:09.960
I'm gonna bring him down to you, righting him. First, you got

501
00:34:09.960 --> 00:34:15.320
the guy who says he's not ready
for a relationship but wants to do all

502
00:34:15.360 --> 00:34:21.360
the relationship things boom right. Second, you got the guy who's not over

503
00:34:21.440 --> 00:34:23.320
his ex and need to go talk
to the lady because he's still got a

504
00:34:23.320 --> 00:34:28.039
lot of shit harboring inside of him. Okay, and he don't realize he

505
00:34:28.119 --> 00:34:31.039
needs to go talk to the lady. Okay. Third, you got the

506
00:34:31.079 --> 00:34:36.639
one who got a baby on the
way. Hmm, yeah, he got

507
00:34:36.639 --> 00:34:38.960
a baby on the way, and
he not really claiming it because he don't

508
00:34:38.960 --> 00:34:43.800
know if it's hiss. Yeah,
it's him. Hey out there, Hey

509
00:34:43.840 --> 00:34:46.280
out there. Then you just just
just what I'm about to tell you all

510
00:34:46.320 --> 00:34:49.639
right now, this is just the
kicker right here. Then you got the

511
00:34:49.679 --> 00:34:53.079
one who is all on your dick, giving you everything that you need,

512
00:34:53.280 --> 00:34:58.760
conversation, personality, making you feel
comfortable, making you feel safe. Right

513
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:04.800
and it just randomly decides to go
shoot for like two weeks just because because

514
00:35:05.320 --> 00:35:09.400
they're not ready and they'd be so
busy. Boy, fuck you, fuck

515
00:35:09.440 --> 00:35:14.199
you, okay. And then the
fifth one, the fifth one is a

516
00:35:14.280 --> 00:35:17.719
variable. This is the one who
you try to give a chance to who's

517
00:35:19.119 --> 00:35:22.199
not really in your league, but
you're like, yo, maybe I need

518
00:35:22.239 --> 00:35:25.239
to try some new things. Let
me just give them a chance. So

519
00:35:25.280 --> 00:35:28.920
you give them a chance, and
they keep play in your fucking face.

520
00:35:29.239 --> 00:35:32.159
And that's all the niggas that are
out here right now. If I missed

521
00:35:32.559 --> 00:35:37.000
and listen, if I missed any
of them, please let me know.

522
00:35:37.440 --> 00:35:40.440
But I think this is a good
synopsis of all the men that are available

523
00:35:40.519 --> 00:35:45.239
right now. Like I've realized that
all the good men are taken, So

524
00:35:45.280 --> 00:35:51.599
I have two options. I can
either wait maybe about three to four years

525
00:35:51.679 --> 00:35:54.400
till they all get divorced. Or
I can just continue to pick from the

526
00:35:54.440 --> 00:35:58.679
clearance rack, and I take that
back. All the good men aren't taken,

527
00:35:58.840 --> 00:36:02.320
they're just extremely hard are defined.
All the gldmen aren't taken, they're

528
00:36:02.360 --> 00:36:06.960
just extremely hard to find. So
a majority of us are left for one

529
00:36:06.960 --> 00:36:09.719
of two options. You can either
wait three or four years till all the

530
00:36:09.760 --> 00:36:14.519
married niggas get divorced, or you
can continue to pick from the clearance back

531
00:36:14.639 --> 00:36:19.639
and hope that you luck up and
find some stashed in between angers. Okay,

532
00:36:19.679 --> 00:36:22.239
it's like y'all ever been to Ross. You haven't been shopping at Ross

533
00:36:22.519 --> 00:36:28.199
rossby having some shit, but you
gotta like go through every fucking hanger and

534
00:36:28.400 --> 00:36:32.159
every fucking aisle to find that gem. And that's just what it's like dating

535
00:36:32.239 --> 00:36:37.760
right now. It's giving Ross.
It's giving Ross. Every once in a

536
00:36:37.760 --> 00:36:42.239
while, you're gonna find some fly
ship though it's just gonna take you a

537
00:36:42.239 --> 00:36:45.840
minute to get it. Just gonna
give a minute to get it. Q

538
00:36:45.039 --> 00:36:49.320
just chilling Voo says, not gonna
lie. I just recently got a relationship

539
00:36:49.360 --> 00:36:52.880
a few months ago, and I'm
and right now I'm in my healing face.

540
00:36:52.039 --> 00:36:54.400
I just want, honestly to work
on myself before I get back out

541
00:36:54.440 --> 00:37:00.079
there. Cool. Cool, Just
continue to work on yourself and don't I

542
00:37:00.119 --> 00:37:04.239
don't want to say don't waste anyone's
time, because I don't believe in wasting

543
00:37:04.239 --> 00:37:08.119
people's time. I believe in experiences. Don't allow anyone to feel like there's

544
00:37:08.159 --> 00:37:10.920
a potential move forward when you're still
in your healing face, because that's,

545
00:37:10.960 --> 00:37:16.239
like, you know, kind of
corny. Zach Goodridge says, I'm mad

546
00:37:16.360 --> 00:37:21.639
you said a clearance rack it is. Joe Paris said, I founder Ralph

547
00:37:21.719 --> 00:37:25.719
Laurence shirt for twelve ninety nine yesterday, see and be having some shit.

548
00:37:27.320 --> 00:37:30.760
You just gotta go through all like
the hangers and all the racks to find

549
00:37:30.800 --> 00:37:35.320
it. Uptown Underscore Confidential said,
Nah, we're not hard to find.

550
00:37:35.360 --> 00:37:38.400
We at work. Yes, you're
in between those hangers. Okay, because

551
00:37:38.400 --> 00:37:40.480
if you always at work, baby, how I'm gonna find you. I

552
00:37:40.480 --> 00:37:45.519
gotta search for you now because you're
always at work Like that's a thing.

553
00:37:45.559 --> 00:37:49.400
Outfit says, Damn, I must
have been all of those in life.

554
00:37:49.440 --> 00:37:53.360
The fuck she's tell me you hate
me? Listen, that's just it.

555
00:37:55.039 --> 00:37:59.880
Rika says, But good men want
good women. We gotta be blessed all

556
00:38:00.079 --> 00:38:02.360
for more than looks and food,
or we gotta be willing to offer more

557
00:38:02.400 --> 00:38:06.719
than looks and food. I agree. Now, I don't want to make

558
00:38:06.719 --> 00:38:09.880
this a gender thing because the same
way women, the same way we're looking

559
00:38:09.960 --> 00:38:15.199
through the clearance rack. Believe me, it's men out here that are unfortunately

560
00:38:15.199 --> 00:38:17.559
looking through the clearance rack for us
as well. Like it's not a gender

561
00:38:17.599 --> 00:38:21.760
specific thing. Like it's hard for
everybody out here, but there are some

562
00:38:21.880 --> 00:38:28.800
gems you just gotta be willing to
look. That's it. Um speaking of

563
00:38:28.800 --> 00:38:35.239
women willing to look and being patient, and um, I don't say I'm

564
00:38:35.239 --> 00:38:38.719
gonna say a little bit god like
okay, and something I'm not gonna like

565
00:38:38.800 --> 00:38:44.840
what I'm about to say, something
I'll not gonna like it. But I

566
00:38:44.960 --> 00:38:47.760
just I had this, this this
message blessed on my heart this week,

567
00:38:47.760 --> 00:38:52.880
and I wanted to share it.
What you are and hear me out before

568
00:38:52.920 --> 00:38:55.760
you say anything. I wish my
cutoff game was as strong as God's.

569
00:38:58.039 --> 00:39:01.159
Yeah, I wish my cut off
game was as strong as guys. And

570
00:39:01.239 --> 00:39:04.880
the reason I say that is because
he was sick of you niggas, and

571
00:39:04.920 --> 00:39:08.199
he flooded the earth and he said
I'm done with y'all real start start over

572
00:39:08.400 --> 00:39:15.159
right, start over right. And
I feel like sometimes I'd be giving people

573
00:39:15.199 --> 00:39:19.039
too many chances, Like I really
be giving people too many chances. I

574
00:39:19.119 --> 00:39:22.639
really wish my cutoff game was as
strong as God's because he was sick of

575
00:39:22.679 --> 00:39:25.880
you niggas and flooded the earth and
said, restart, read out from the

576
00:39:25.920 --> 00:39:30.920
top. Okay, that's it.
That's it. Like I don't know,

577
00:39:31.480 --> 00:39:35.639
I don't know. I don't know
what I have to work on myself to

578
00:39:35.719 --> 00:39:38.280
be able to just be like,
fuck y'all, fuck y'all, and fuck

579
00:39:38.360 --> 00:39:44.679
y'all. Okay. I feel like
if we were made in God's image,

580
00:39:44.920 --> 00:39:47.079
sometimes I don't feel like I'm living
up to it because I've been giving yall

581
00:39:47.119 --> 00:39:50.840
niga too many chances, all right, And I don't want to hear.

582
00:39:51.119 --> 00:39:53.119
Oh, but the Lord forgives us
and give this to y'all. Know that's

583
00:39:53.159 --> 00:39:55.239
not what I'm talking about, Okay. I'm talking about this right here,

584
00:39:55.360 --> 00:39:58.480
when he flooded the earth, that's
what I'm talking about. I'm talking about

585
00:39:58.480 --> 00:40:01.559
that story right there. Okay,
Dan, we're talking about Old Testament God,

586
00:40:01.599 --> 00:40:04.480
Where are you doing anything wrong?
He's just like, all right,

587
00:40:05.480 --> 00:40:13.400
y'all. I wish that I had
the determination of Old Testament God. Okay.

588
00:40:13.440 --> 00:40:16.679
I wish I had the tenacity and
the strength to cut you niggas off

589
00:40:16.880 --> 00:40:21.159
like Old Testament God. Right,
like that baby got cut in half.

590
00:40:21.239 --> 00:40:27.480
Yeah, the first born, You're
fucking done. I wish that I had

591
00:40:27.559 --> 00:40:30.840
that in me. I need that, okay, Like I want to have

592
00:40:30.840 --> 00:40:35.000
the spirit. Like it's a dumb
for y'all, ladies, nigga's cousins,

593
00:40:35.039 --> 00:40:37.800
aunties, everybody. It's a dumb
y'all. It's a rep Get somebody else

594
00:40:37.800 --> 00:40:42.719
to do it. Get somebody else
to do it, Okay. Like I

595
00:40:42.719 --> 00:40:45.320
said, I'm not talking about that
forgiveness. Shit, we're not talking about

596
00:40:45.360 --> 00:40:50.960
that. I'm talking about laying a
lawd down guy, That's what I'm wanting.

597
00:40:50.960 --> 00:40:54.920
I'm on some of that in me, Big Doug um Dan. Do

598
00:40:54.960 --> 00:41:01.559
you want to get into edibles?
Yes, I'm sorry, y'all. So

599
00:41:01.599 --> 00:41:07.320
the edible portion on the show is
when we read questions and comments and stories

600
00:41:07.320 --> 00:41:10.079
that you guys send in and if
it's a longer story that doesn't fit in

601
00:41:10.079 --> 00:41:14.119
a prompt that we put up on
Thursdays, you can always be in me

602
00:41:14.559 --> 00:41:22.360
or you can email inquiries at stormyp
dot com. So, Um, first

603
00:41:22.440 --> 00:41:29.880
question, Um, if she say
coming me douran sex, she trapped herself,

604
00:41:29.960 --> 00:41:32.960
right, And I'm gonna read that
again. I'm gonna read that again.

605
00:41:35.000 --> 00:41:39.159
If she say come in me during
sex, she trapped herself, right.

606
00:41:43.199 --> 00:41:47.599
This is this is a multi uh. This is a multi level question.

607
00:41:47.800 --> 00:41:52.440
Right. So first, I don't
care how many times she say come

608
00:41:52.480 --> 00:41:57.800
in me, don't do it.
It's a trap. Don't say And I'm

609
00:41:57.880 --> 00:42:00.360
even gonna say it's a trap because
sometimes I'll be saying that shit too.

610
00:42:00.400 --> 00:42:01.840
If I'm like, yeah, fill
me, up coming me. I don't

611
00:42:01.840 --> 00:42:07.159
want no kids. I don't want
that. We don't want that. We

612
00:42:07.239 --> 00:42:10.039
never want that. Okay, when
we say fill me, up coming me,

613
00:42:10.679 --> 00:42:15.719
we don't mean that from the bottom
of our heart. We don't mean

614
00:42:15.800 --> 00:42:22.159
that. Okay, when I say
it, we don't do it. Okay,

615
00:42:22.360 --> 00:42:25.519
don't don't do it. Don't know. That's the first thing. Second

616
00:42:25.559 --> 00:42:31.239
thing, if you are dumb enough
to do it, well, if you

617
00:42:31.360 --> 00:42:34.119
poured that on yourself, I don't
know what you want me to say.

618
00:42:34.320 --> 00:42:37.239
I don't really have a I don't
have a good takeaway from this. This

619
00:42:37.280 --> 00:42:42.320
whole situation is trash, especially if
this is someone who isn't your person,

620
00:42:43.519 --> 00:42:47.960
just don't do it like there's there's
there's no no no, like when when

621
00:42:49.000 --> 00:42:53.119
we say that. It's like when
someone it's like when someone sneezes and instinctively

622
00:42:53.199 --> 00:42:57.480
you just say bless you. You
don't mean it. You don't really want

623
00:42:57.480 --> 00:42:59.800
the Lord to bless them. Well, maybe you do it. I don't

624
00:42:59.800 --> 00:43:05.119
know. It's like, um,
it's like when you have food, right

625
00:43:05.599 --> 00:43:07.280
and you ask people like, oh, you want some. You don't really

626
00:43:07.280 --> 00:43:10.559
want these niggas that had none of
your food. You're just offering it as

627
00:43:12.000 --> 00:43:15.679
a nice gestures. It's a nice
gesture. You don't really want to give

628
00:43:15.719 --> 00:43:20.800
these people some of your food.
It's just a nice gesture. Oh that's

629
00:43:20.800 --> 00:43:24.519
just me. I'm not only fan, nick, I'm not only person who

630
00:43:24.559 --> 00:43:29.559
really don't want no no. Like
I totally agree, Like I am on

631
00:43:29.559 --> 00:43:31.519
that same boat where if I offer
my food, I'm in my mind like,

632
00:43:31.719 --> 00:43:36.519
please don't take any no, like
oh I want all my nugs,

633
00:43:36.639 --> 00:43:40.559
like come on, especially my chicken
nuggets, like for ten, I'm having

634
00:43:40.639 --> 00:43:45.519
ten. I don't know. I
don't know. Um, And I'm looking

635
00:43:45.519 --> 00:43:47.719
on a live I see a lot
of people saying like, oh, plan

636
00:43:47.800 --> 00:43:51.679
B is always an option, blah
blah blah blah blah, just don't do

637
00:43:51.880 --> 00:43:54.239
it, Like, yes, plan
B, it's an option, but another

638
00:43:54.239 --> 00:44:00.519
option is just not doing it or
just lie, just act like and let

639
00:44:00.519 --> 00:44:05.159
that be it and just let her
think you did and don't like because I'm

640
00:44:05.159 --> 00:44:08.079
gonna be rote you. We don't
mean it, we don't need it.

641
00:44:08.480 --> 00:44:10.840
I mean, you know, there's
always a plan, a option as that

642
00:44:10.920 --> 00:44:16.239
billboard off of seventy Oh god,
oh with the baby, yes, oh

643
00:44:16.280 --> 00:44:20.760
God, no, no, no, no Listen if she says coming me,

644
00:44:21.000 --> 00:44:23.039
do not shoot the club up,
Okay, she do not want to

645
00:44:23.039 --> 00:44:25.960
take that charge. She does not
need it for sure, for sure.

646
00:44:27.840 --> 00:44:35.719
Um. Next next question, Um, have you always been flawless or was

647
00:44:35.760 --> 00:44:38.239
there a build up? Baby?
I was hit, and I'm gonna be

648
00:44:38.239 --> 00:44:43.880
real with y'all. I wasn't that, Okay, I wasn't that. I

649
00:44:43.920 --> 00:44:47.280
wasn't that, and I wasn't that. I was very um. I was

650
00:44:47.400 --> 00:44:52.400
very much tomboyish and very butchered about, like tenth grade um. And then

651
00:44:52.519 --> 00:44:57.320
I started trying to develop myself.
And even then it was still like a

652
00:44:57.960 --> 00:45:05.119
sierra look like baggy cargo, short
crop top like yes, yes, like

653
00:45:05.320 --> 00:45:08.800
this here is like new for me, like I feel. And the crazy

654
00:45:08.840 --> 00:45:12.320
part is, I honestly feel like
the older I get, the finer I

655
00:45:12.360 --> 00:45:15.679
get, like because when I'll be
looking at like how I looked when I

656
00:45:15.719 --> 00:45:20.599
was in like my early early early
twenties. Who But then again it was

657
00:45:20.639 --> 00:45:22.159
other shit going on because this was
around the time where like all the girls

658
00:45:22.239 --> 00:45:30.079
was wearing very very pale pink lipstick
and everybody looked like Tyrone big hums because

659
00:45:30.079 --> 00:45:36.280
we all had white lips. Yeah
yeah, So I think now it's better

660
00:45:36.320 --> 00:45:40.159
because I understand what works for me. I also went through this period where

661
00:45:40.159 --> 00:45:45.039
I just wore like the really really
thick eyelashes. I ain't know no better.

662
00:45:45.079 --> 00:45:46.920
I just found myself, y'all.
So don't I don't know what you

663
00:45:46.960 --> 00:45:50.199
want me to say, Like I
know I to answer your question. I

664
00:45:50.239 --> 00:45:53.559
just got fine, literally like yesterday, just got fine, okay. And

665
00:45:53.800 --> 00:45:59.679
like I didn't understand how to style
and do my natural hair, so when

666
00:45:59.719 --> 00:46:01.119
I was wearing like my natural hair
out, it really would just be I

667
00:46:01.199 --> 00:46:05.239
washed my hair and I'm walking outside, and it was given very much.

668
00:46:05.280 --> 00:46:10.599
Samuel Jackson, mister Glass, I
didn't know why I had no idea like,

669
00:46:10.719 --> 00:46:14.119
now I'll style it look cute.
I can go on public like that.

670
00:46:14.159 --> 00:46:17.079
It's like, yeah, but I
just got cute. To answer your

671
00:46:17.159 --> 00:46:27.880
question, M So, next,
need guidance on making female friends? Everyone

672
00:46:27.960 --> 00:46:32.079
always hating? Where is the love? I feel like making female friends is

673
00:46:32.159 --> 00:46:39.920
easy, but I feel like a
lot of times we forget that. I'm

674
00:46:39.920 --> 00:46:43.480
gonna start over. I'm an answering
this question in two different parts. So,

675
00:46:43.519 --> 00:46:45.880
if you're looking for a good place
to meet female friends, aside from

676
00:46:45.920 --> 00:46:49.880
the usual, you see somebody with
cute shoes, yeah, spitch, Oh

677
00:46:49.880 --> 00:46:52.039
where you get those from? Oh, let's shop it up, let's meet

678
00:46:52.039 --> 00:46:53.119
friends. Blah blah blah. You
got HIGI? Yeah, I got HIGI

679
00:46:53.239 --> 00:46:57.800
Da da da da. Right aside
from that, if that isn't working for

680
00:46:57.880 --> 00:47:00.880
you, I noticed was gonna be
a stretch for something you'll But there are

681
00:47:00.880 --> 00:47:05.960
apps like meet up where you can
join groups and you can go to different

682
00:47:05.960 --> 00:47:07.679
sessions and all you gotta do is
type in things that you like. Like

683
00:47:07.760 --> 00:47:14.679
if you're into lifting, you can
go and meet up and type in girls

684
00:47:14.679 --> 00:47:16.880
who lift and type in your city
and they'll be like groups for girls who

685
00:47:16.960 --> 00:47:22.039
lift, and or if you're into
books, you're into nature walks, you're

686
00:47:22.079 --> 00:47:23.920
into X Y and ZA, whatever. Just type in like, you know,

687
00:47:27.400 --> 00:47:30.559
girls who like to coupon or couponing. If you don't want to have

688
00:47:30.639 --> 00:47:35.360
like a gender specific group, you
know cuponing. You can type in hiking,

689
00:47:35.440 --> 00:47:37.760
you can type in anything. Just
type in your city and you'll find

690
00:47:37.840 --> 00:47:42.559
groups with people who have like interest
and you also can be as very you

691
00:47:42.559 --> 00:47:45.519
can be as specific or as vague
as you want to. You can type

692
00:47:45.519 --> 00:47:47.159
in African American groups, you can
type in Latina groups, you can type

693
00:47:47.199 --> 00:47:54.519
in whatever. Right now, you
do have to try to be committed because

694
00:47:54.519 --> 00:47:59.159
I feel like a lot of times, whether it's friendships, whether it's relationships,

695
00:47:59.199 --> 00:48:02.480
whatever, we're talking about what we
want, but we're not really making

696
00:48:02.519 --> 00:48:07.639
a good effort. Okay, The
app is free. Sign up. Find

697
00:48:07.639 --> 00:48:09.719
people in an area, or maybe
people who aren't in your area, just

698
00:48:09.800 --> 00:48:14.760
people who have like minded interests and
you're guaranteed to connect with one of them.

699
00:48:14.760 --> 00:48:17.039
But you have to put forth the
effort in doing so. Right now.

700
00:48:17.159 --> 00:48:22.599
The second part I wanted to say
is ladies, when she said everyone

701
00:48:22.599 --> 00:48:27.480
always hate and where's the love?
This right here? This got to me,

702
00:48:27.719 --> 00:48:31.719
okay, because you know what hurts
my feelings so bad. I hate

703
00:48:31.800 --> 00:48:37.159
that women haven't figured out that the
more attractive women you have in your circle,

704
00:48:37.480 --> 00:48:44.559
the more free shit you get.
Okay, So like these women who

705
00:48:44.639 --> 00:48:47.760
be hating on other women simply because
they're cute, simply because they're pretty,

706
00:48:47.880 --> 00:48:52.400
simply because they have a body,
whether it's or natural, y'all are ridiculous

707
00:48:52.400 --> 00:48:57.199
to me. I don't understand it. You get way more free shit with

708
00:48:57.320 --> 00:49:00.079
the more attractive women that you have
around you. And I know all y'all

709
00:49:00.079 --> 00:49:04.679
know exactly what I'm talking about.
It's one woman who's just hell been on

710
00:49:04.800 --> 00:49:08.480
being that bitch. Well, if
you're that bitch, but you got a

711
00:49:08.480 --> 00:49:13.320
circle full of ducks around you,
babe, just you getting into the club,

712
00:49:13.440 --> 00:49:16.039
just you getting into VIP. But
if you walk up with three four

713
00:49:16.280 --> 00:49:21.679
all bad bitches, let alone different
flavors. Oh, you got the vanilla,

714
00:49:21.719 --> 00:49:22.599
you got the chocolate, you got
the caramel, you got the butter,

715
00:49:22.679 --> 00:49:27.400
peaka and puto Rican Baby, you
ain't paying for a thing. Okay,

716
00:49:28.360 --> 00:49:32.079
work smarter, ladies, use your
comment sense, Okay. Like,

717
00:49:32.679 --> 00:49:37.119
the more attractive women that you have
around you, the better. Okay.

718
00:49:37.320 --> 00:49:39.519
I hate those women who feel like
in order for them to shine, they

719
00:49:39.519 --> 00:49:44.280
have to dimp somebody else's life.
What is this? What is this?

720
00:49:45.119 --> 00:49:52.079
Na? That's not the case at
all. Okay. In reference to everyone

721
00:49:52.119 --> 00:49:54.320
always hating, I do think that's
something that we have to get better at,

722
00:49:54.840 --> 00:49:59.840
like we really do. Because the
more attractive women you have around you

723
00:49:59.880 --> 00:50:05.599
to better. Okay, Uptown Confidential
says, and all the ducks be cock

724
00:50:05.679 --> 00:50:08.119
blocking. Yeah, you know what
we gotta say. Anohing, got say

725
00:50:08.159 --> 00:50:13.480
anohing. If you choose to be
in the circles that only have one attractive

726
00:50:13.519 --> 00:50:16.280
woman, Okay, if you are
one of the ducks, do not be

727
00:50:16.400 --> 00:50:21.280
cock blocking. Okay, don't do
that. Don't do that. If you're

728
00:50:21.320 --> 00:50:25.880
not confident enough to hang around somebody
who is very attractive, go by the

729
00:50:25.960 --> 00:50:31.440
places, because it's very obvious when
you're hating simply because she's getting all the

730
00:50:31.480 --> 00:50:37.679
attention. It doesn't benefit anyone.
It doesn't benefit anyone. Okay. So

731
00:50:37.760 --> 00:50:39.199
that's another thing I want to say, stop just because all the dudes are

732
00:50:39.199 --> 00:50:43.519
talking to that girl. If you're
not confident enough to handle that, stop

733
00:50:43.559 --> 00:50:46.639
hanging around her. Okay, find
people who are within your number range.

734
00:50:47.480 --> 00:50:51.480
And when I say number range,
baby, if you are five, you

735
00:50:51.559 --> 00:50:53.199
keep hanging around this ten and getting
mad when all the dudes only one to

736
00:50:53.280 --> 00:50:57.880
ten. If you're not confident enough
to handle that, find you a group

737
00:50:57.920 --> 00:51:00.159
of between four and sixes, okay, and make it makes sense anymore.

738
00:51:00.199 --> 00:51:02.920
I don't even say four and sevens. Okay, make it make sense,

739
00:51:04.000 --> 00:51:07.320
you know what I mean? But
the seven is tricky because if she is

740
00:51:07.320 --> 00:51:12.000
a seven, technically, if she's
hanging around all fours, that's gonna make

741
00:51:12.039 --> 00:51:15.679
her look a little bit worse,
a little bit worse. I don't know.

742
00:51:15.800 --> 00:51:20.639
Just don't do it, don't I
don't know, don't do don't do

743
00:51:20.639 --> 00:51:27.079
it, don't do it? All
right? How much lifting? Like nine

744
00:51:27.079 --> 00:51:32.000
minutes? Okay? Um? Um? Actually have a quick question kind of

745
00:51:32.039 --> 00:51:37.559
based around that last one, um
because coming from like because I know you're

746
00:51:37.599 --> 00:51:40.920
talking about like you know the um
Yeah, all the girls going after like

747
00:51:40.960 --> 00:51:47.440
the dude. But do you ever
feel on your side because like I just

748
00:51:47.559 --> 00:51:51.320
thinking back to a party. It
was at a few weeks ago or there,

749
00:51:51.360 --> 00:51:55.960
there was this like you know,
cute chick um and like you you

750
00:51:57.000 --> 00:51:59.880
know, you see all like the
I don't want to say bottom line guy

751
00:52:00.119 --> 00:52:01.880
because like some of them are my
friends, but like you know, like

752
00:52:01.960 --> 00:52:05.559
they're you look at him, You're
like, yeah, you're not. You

753
00:52:05.639 --> 00:52:07.719
know, you're not You're not knocking
out of the park, like right right,

754
00:52:08.119 --> 00:52:12.440
um, and you know, like
this just chick um. You know

755
00:52:12.480 --> 00:52:16.719
they they were just like swarming her. Yeah, and like, um,

756
00:52:16.880 --> 00:52:21.119
you know, me and her hit
off nerd. We talked about gaming and

757
00:52:21.119 --> 00:52:24.400
whatnot say you know, say say
and so like you know, there there

758
00:52:24.440 --> 00:52:28.119
there came a point where you know, like we had a few good interactions

759
00:52:28.119 --> 00:52:30.920
and then I saw her like literally
like you know, three or four of

760
00:52:30.920 --> 00:52:32.840
them like gathered around her or trying
to talk at her, and she literally

761
00:52:32.920 --> 00:52:37.519
just excused herself came over to talk
to me and like, you know,

762
00:52:37.599 --> 00:52:39.599
we yeah, nothing came of it, like we're just you know whatever.

763
00:52:39.639 --> 00:52:44.880
But um, but I just do
you like so obviously I'm guessing like she

764
00:52:45.000 --> 00:52:47.639
felt it, but like do you
feel when you're on that side of things?

765
00:52:47.679 --> 00:52:52.559
Like can you tell like you know, the the sharks are swarming.

766
00:52:52.800 --> 00:52:57.800
Yeah, I'm very familiar with feeling
like chump. Very I'm very familiar with

767
00:52:57.800 --> 00:53:00.159
feeling like yo, I'm just in
a room full of vultures. I'm very

768
00:53:00.199 --> 00:53:04.760
familiar with being preyed upon, because
that is exactly what it is. Um.

769
00:53:04.960 --> 00:53:09.239
But I feel like the more confident
you are, the more you're able

770
00:53:09.280 --> 00:53:14.119
to maneuver around it, right,
because if you're not confident in yourself or

771
00:53:14.519 --> 00:53:19.760
um, you're not a strong communicator. Sometimes what happens is like if you

772
00:53:19.840 --> 00:53:23.280
get like a vulnerable chick who's like
doesn't really have like a lot of confidence

773
00:53:23.320 --> 00:53:29.320
within herself, she will get swallowed
the fuck up. She will get swallowed

774
00:53:29.360 --> 00:53:32.480
the fuck up, like given her
number two guys who are not worth her

775
00:53:32.519 --> 00:53:37.480
time. Um, And I think
that to your point, like we would

776
00:53:37.599 --> 00:53:43.760
much rather have a conversation with substance, right, So even though all these

777
00:53:43.800 --> 00:53:45.079
guys are swarming, I'm still going
to, you know, get my drink

778
00:53:45.079 --> 00:53:47.719
and go back to you, and
we're going to finish our conversation about Guardians

779
00:53:47.719 --> 00:53:52.760
of the Galaxy, you know what
I mean. Like we're appreciating that because

780
00:53:52.760 --> 00:53:59.599
it's like God, Lee, like
please, you're saying earlier, like you

781
00:53:59.639 --> 00:54:02.039
want more, more than just yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, one

782
00:54:02.039 --> 00:54:07.920
thousand percent, one thousand percent uptown
Underscore Confidential says, always play the background,

783
00:54:07.039 --> 00:54:12.639
be mysterious. You'll stand out in
a room full of hounds. I

784
00:54:12.719 --> 00:54:15.360
don't know, I don't I don't
know. You have to you have to

785
00:54:15.400 --> 00:54:17.880
make. You have to make,
you have to make a little bit,

786
00:54:19.039 --> 00:54:21.159
okay, to give them a little
something to kind of like, Yo,

787
00:54:22.480 --> 00:54:27.559
your majesty double O seven says I
am group. Please we have groups,

788
00:54:27.719 --> 00:54:31.639
all right, you know what?
And with that being said, okay,

789
00:54:31.960 --> 00:54:35.920
just how to reiterate. Guys,
If you have enjoyed yourself today, if

790
00:54:35.960 --> 00:54:38.320
you're looking for a good conversation and
you're in the Atlanta area, okay,

791
00:54:38.599 --> 00:54:43.000
please come check out Chocolate Ship and
Sip live tape in June twenty three at

792
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793
00:54:46.679 --> 00:54:51.719
greet with me Stormy Pete. Okay. If you're looking for conversations with substance,

794
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this is where they're going to be. Okay. June twenty three,

795
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796
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797
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798
00:55:07.920 --> 00:55:13.199
And if you don't remember anything else, please remember hide your rose when your

799
00:55:13.199 --> 00:55:15.440
friends come over. I love you
and I see you next week. Peace.

800
00:55:22.320 --> 00:55:22.079
I AM Group,