WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.640 --> 00:00:05.480 We have an unusual situation on the Minnesota Goodbye because usually it's me and Jenny, 2 00:00:05.639 --> 00:00:08.240 and then Bailey joined the show a couple of weeks ago, so there's 3 00:00:08.279 --> 00:00:15.480 the three of us, and then a woman came in to watch the show 4 00:00:15.839 --> 00:00:19.559 and say hi, and she's so delightful that we said, well, want 5 00:00:19.640 --> 00:00:22.199 you to hang out and be on the Minnesota Goodbye. You don't see this 6 00:00:22.280 --> 00:00:25.760 happen on Carrie Levin. You don't see Randy Shaver and Julie Nelson go. 7 00:00:25.839 --> 00:00:28.519 You know what. Somebody came by on a field trip. Let's have him 8 00:00:28.519 --> 00:00:32.000 come on up to the desk here and read the sports. Hi, Brie, 9 00:00:32.000 --> 00:00:35.920 how are you hello? Thanks for having me. You're more than welcome. 10 00:00:35.920 --> 00:00:37.920 Thanks for being a big fan of the show. I was going to 11 00:00:37.960 --> 00:00:41.840 bring this up on and you're a perfect person to ask with because I thought 12 00:00:41.880 --> 00:00:44.079 about this morning, like, well, what can we talk about on the 13 00:00:44.079 --> 00:00:47.799 Minnesota Goodbye? That is a little bit different, And I want to ask 14 00:00:47.880 --> 00:00:53.679 how people listen to the radio show. Do you listen to a radio with 15 00:00:53.799 --> 00:00:57.159 a you know, like plugs into the wall. Do you listen on iHeart? 16 00:00:57.200 --> 00:01:00.719 How do you listen bree? So it's a combination I usual listen on 17 00:01:00.799 --> 00:01:03.200 iHeart and that's because I work up in Saint Cloud, so I lose the 18 00:01:03.239 --> 00:01:07.799 station about halfway to work if I listen on the real radio. Okay, 19 00:01:07.840 --> 00:01:11.920 gotcha. I tend to listen on iHeartRadio unless there's something that I'm like, 20 00:01:11.000 --> 00:01:14.280 ooh, I don't want the delay and try to win. But I know 21 00:01:14.280 --> 00:01:18.120 you guys address that now. Yeah, more often so usually I Heart Radio. 22 00:01:18.680 --> 00:01:23.000 Okay. And you also listen to the Minnesota Goodbye absolutely my favorite part, 23 00:01:23.079 --> 00:01:26.040 and that you like that better than the actual radio show? Do? 24 00:01:26.319 --> 00:01:30.040 Yeah? Tell me why? Because it's it's it's interesting for us. It's 25 00:01:30.079 --> 00:01:30.799 kind of like if you're in a band and you go, why do you 26 00:01:30.879 --> 00:01:34.200 like our songs? We like our songs, but what do you like about 27 00:01:34.200 --> 00:01:38.840 the Minnesota Goodbye? I love the behind the scenes look that we get at 28 00:01:38.879 --> 00:01:41.239 the day of ride in the morning show, when when we get to ask 29 00:01:41.319 --> 00:01:46.159 questions about how how things work or what you do, or just questions that 30 00:01:46.159 --> 00:01:49.560 we wouldn't normally get answers to on the regular show. And then of course 31 00:01:49.640 --> 00:01:53.640 just the off the cuff you know, occasional fuck word yea my favorite. 32 00:01:53.799 --> 00:01:57.439 Yeah, we do get those in there every once in a while, book 33 00:01:57.480 --> 00:02:04.000 word, what what is there any question that you have about the morning show? 34 00:02:04.000 --> 00:02:05.680 And I don't want to put you on the spot, but we're doing 35 00:02:05.680 --> 00:02:08.439 a segment tomorrow Friday at seven twenty, Like, you know, what have 36 00:02:08.479 --> 00:02:12.520 you always wondered about the Dave Ryan Show? Like I don't know why did 37 00:02:12.520 --> 00:02:15.560 Corey Foley leave? Or is there any questions you have about the show? 38 00:02:15.960 --> 00:02:21.439 Sure? So, I feel like I've asked a lot of them in previous 39 00:02:21.479 --> 00:02:25.120 emails, but I am a staff writer, of course. Yeah, I 40 00:02:25.240 --> 00:02:29.879 like to know, like, how what do you look forward to every day? 41 00:02:29.919 --> 00:02:34.439 Considering you have done this for so long? What keeps you coming back 42 00:02:34.520 --> 00:02:38.879 to doing this every day and staying fresh and funny and all of that? 43 00:02:38.919 --> 00:02:42.240 I think because no matter how my state of mind is, like when I 44 00:02:42.280 --> 00:02:46.560 get if I'm tired or I'm worried about something, for the four hours that 45 00:02:46.599 --> 00:02:49.599 were on the show, there's nothing else that really matters. And I think 46 00:02:49.639 --> 00:02:53.080 that's a really cool thing. And I was telling Bailey I had like a 47 00:02:53.439 --> 00:03:00.000 like some serious like personal shit going on about eight no about ten or twelve 48 00:03:00.199 --> 00:03:04.400 years ago, and it bugged the shit out of me all the time. 49 00:03:04.439 --> 00:03:07.680 I couldn't sleep and but I would come on the show and I would like 50 00:03:07.800 --> 00:03:12.800 forget all about it because, you know, because it's just it's very fun. 51 00:03:12.840 --> 00:03:15.680 It's therapeutic. Yeah, so yeah, and it's it's just fun. 52 00:03:15.719 --> 00:03:19.960 I still enjoyed doing it. What I don't like, honestly, honestly, 53 00:03:20.000 --> 00:03:23.560 one hundred percent. I'm really tired of getting up at four o'clock in the 54 00:03:23.599 --> 00:03:25.960 morning. I'm just tired of it. I've done it for near I've done 55 00:03:25.960 --> 00:03:29.120 it since I was twenty one years old. Yeah, that would be hard, 56 00:03:29.240 --> 00:03:34.879 and and and getting up early except two days a week is just bullshit, 57 00:03:35.000 --> 00:03:38.560 is what it is. It's bullshit. So like a whiner to me, 58 00:03:38.639 --> 00:03:42.240 honestly, Yeah, well I do like wine. I am really good 59 00:03:42.240 --> 00:03:46.520 at whining. I know Bailey and I whined each other all the time about 60 00:03:46.560 --> 00:03:52.280 the gym. I ain't petty, I ain't nothing because Bailey and I we 61 00:03:52.319 --> 00:03:54.120 don't want to go to the gym, but we've talked ourselves into seeing it 62 00:03:54.159 --> 00:03:58.960 as I get to go to the gym. You are you athletic because you're 63 00:03:59.000 --> 00:04:01.400 six foot two. So I used to play basketball, you know, the 64 00:04:01.439 --> 00:04:06.039 typical tall girl thing. Other than that and a few other U sports, 65 00:04:06.240 --> 00:04:10.879 I am not super athletic. I am more of yours stood on the couch 66 00:04:10.919 --> 00:04:14.360 watch Netflix kind of girl. Okay, and you and I both watched the 67 00:04:14.360 --> 00:04:17.439 same show. We watched The Dance for the Devil TikTok thing. Yeah so 68 00:04:17.560 --> 00:04:20.800 good. Yeah, highly recommend It is about a couple of girls to go 69 00:04:20.839 --> 00:04:26.839 to La to become famous dancers and they get involved in a TikTok dance cult. 70 00:04:27.160 --> 00:04:30.040 Yes, there is a TikTok dance cult. Okay, do you have 71 00:04:30.079 --> 00:04:32.360 an Instagram? Because people are gonna know what you look like? What is 72 00:04:32.360 --> 00:04:36.920 your Instagram? So it's my name, Brianna Boulet b r e a n 73 00:04:38.000 --> 00:04:42.879 n a b o u l e y. B r e a n n 74 00:04:42.959 --> 00:04:46.600 a b o u l e y. That's correct. I get that. 75 00:04:46.720 --> 00:04:50.319 I got another first take. I love your last name. It's so beautiful, 76 00:04:50.639 --> 00:04:55.000 it really is. Is it like French or something is? Yeah? 77 00:04:55.079 --> 00:05:00.279 And then my middle name is Quinn. Oh what a fucking great Brianna Quinn 78 00:05:00.399 --> 00:05:05.879 Boulet. Ye. Fancy all right, couple of let's get into the emails 79 00:05:05.920 --> 00:05:10.160 here. After having Bailey on the show a couple of weeks solid, I 80 00:05:10.199 --> 00:05:14.680 am certain if Lena and Fallon somehow had a baby, it would be Bailey 81 00:05:15.560 --> 00:05:18.079 Nice. I have wanted Bailey on the show permanently since the first time she 82 00:05:18.240 --> 00:05:21.439 subbed in. I'm also excited Vonta's officially on the show. He is so 83 00:05:21.519 --> 00:05:25.959 great. I was getting worried about him being burnt out being there in the 84 00:05:25.959 --> 00:05:29.439 morning and later at night. It's good to hear Jenny's anxiety is getting better. 85 00:05:29.879 --> 00:05:33.000 Anxiety can be debilitating. Well, it's better because I helped Jenny and 86 00:05:33.000 --> 00:05:38.040 I told her to just calm the fuck down. Yeah, when somebody has 87 00:05:38.079 --> 00:05:41.399 anxiety, the best thing you can do as his supportive friend is say calm 88 00:05:41.480 --> 00:05:43.959 the fuck down. Yes, did that help you? It did? It 89 00:05:43.959 --> 00:05:46.199 helped me. It's literally what changed everything for me was when you said that 90 00:05:46.240 --> 00:05:48.560 to me. I was like, I'm also like telling people smile. You 91 00:05:48.560 --> 00:05:58.399 should smile, warm, lax, calm down. I also like to say, 92 00:05:58.560 --> 00:06:00.680 and if you're pissed at me for saying that, then you don't know 93 00:06:00.680 --> 00:06:03.160 anything about this show. You're acting crazy. That's what Dave says to me. 94 00:06:03.199 --> 00:06:06.000 Also, you're acting crazy. Oh my god, you're so right. 95 00:06:06.639 --> 00:06:11.240 Daddy Bear, Please don't retire anytime soon. This is a perfect combo of 96 00:06:11.279 --> 00:06:14.959 personalities. You guys are all different and it makes for great entertainment. Quick 97 00:06:15.000 --> 00:06:18.079 Minnesota Goodbye content. What's your favorite type of beer from a brewery? Quickly 98 00:06:18.319 --> 00:06:25.199 Red Beer, Jenny as Ours Okayders Ciders and Bailey half a Ison hef a 99 00:06:25.279 --> 00:06:30.040 Vice in Okay. We are all different, YEA love breweries. I love 100 00:06:30.079 --> 00:06:33.360 stouts the best, although I'll try anything. Two of my favorite beers I've 101 00:06:33.399 --> 00:06:41.920 had is Cinnamon Brezel from Garfish in Bethel and s'mores from Revelation Ale Works in 102 00:06:41.959 --> 00:06:45.720 Hallick, Minnesota. Thanks for being the best and making me laugh cry regularly. 103 00:06:46.360 --> 00:06:51.000 Another Brianna and a different Brianna though, but thank you. I love 104 00:06:51.000 --> 00:06:56.000 your email. Thank you very much. Appreciate that one. Okay, remember 105 00:06:56.120 --> 00:06:59.839 yesterday it was on the Minnesota Goodbye or On the show, I talked about 106 00:06:59.879 --> 00:07:04.759 how we have an infestation of snakes in the backyard. Ye and I said, 107 00:07:05.000 --> 00:07:10.560 I don't know how to get rid of them. But the people who 108 00:07:10.560 --> 00:07:14.680 do our landscaping said, you've got snakes and ants in the backyard. So 109 00:07:15.040 --> 00:07:20.920 I got an email from Jessica, who is a Minnesota park ranger. This 110 00:07:21.120 --> 00:07:25.959 is so perfect. I just love this, she says, high Day, 111 00:07:26.040 --> 00:07:29.800 Minnesota Park Ranger, Here, snakes in your backyard are nothing to worry about. 112 00:07:29.879 --> 00:07:31.879 No venomous snakes in this part of the state. It is most likely 113 00:07:31.959 --> 00:07:35.720 garter snakes, who are harmless and like to curl up together under rocks or 114 00:07:35.720 --> 00:07:40.240 in the ground. Bigger snake could be a bowl or fox snake, also 115 00:07:40.319 --> 00:07:45.240 not venomous. They eat other pests like mice, vowls, moles, and 116 00:07:45.480 --> 00:07:47.800 rats. You're actually pretty lucky to have snakes in your yard. So if 117 00:07:47.839 --> 00:07:53.160 you haven't noticed them before, I'd say you're already living in harmony with them 118 00:07:53.199 --> 00:07:57.759 and don't worry about them. Ranger Jessica, Jessica. Yeah, you saved 119 00:07:57.800 --> 00:08:01.040 us probably five hundred dollars because we called the Orcan people, and Orcan people 120 00:08:01.079 --> 00:08:05.120 has a division where they do wildlife. Okay, I have a snake division, 121 00:08:07.079 --> 00:08:11.160 yes, or broadly it's a wildlife division, and we had them to 122 00:08:11.199 --> 00:08:16.480 come out tomorrow and so we called them yesterday and canceled because of your email, 123 00:08:16.000 --> 00:08:20.480 Ranger Jessica, So thank you. Have you seeing them yourself? Not 124 00:08:20.600 --> 00:08:22.160 at all? No, I wouldn't Yeah, I wouldn't be concerned either if 125 00:08:22.160 --> 00:08:26.639 they're just like garters, which is all there is apparently, Like how She 126 00:08:26.720 --> 00:08:33.080 framed them as they like to cuddle up like they're just loving. Snakes are 127 00:08:33.120 --> 00:08:35.399 an ugly animal. Let's face it, they're ugly and frightening. They really 128 00:08:35.440 --> 00:08:41.120 are the they got the shit into the stick in the animal Kingdom because people 129 00:08:41.159 --> 00:08:43.720 want to kill them because they're ugly. Can you imagine if we looked at 130 00:08:43.799 --> 00:08:46.559 ugly people and we said, well, let's kill them because they're ugly. 131 00:08:46.759 --> 00:08:52.679 And I feel bad for snakes because they didn't ask to be ugly and frightening, 132 00:08:52.720 --> 00:08:54.360 but they got the fucked up tongue and they got the beady eyes, 133 00:08:56.120 --> 00:08:58.240 and people want to kill them and they feel triumphant. Oh I killed a 134 00:08:58.279 --> 00:09:03.759 snake out arden. Well, they're ugly. They can't help it, so 135 00:09:03.799 --> 00:09:07.279 I try to see the positive side of a snake. You are not a 136 00:09:07.320 --> 00:09:09.639 green Bailey. I just thinking, did you ask to be ugly or did 137 00:09:09.639 --> 00:09:15.240 you just kind of get that short one? I was blessed. Yeah, 138 00:09:16.679 --> 00:09:22.080 you are now my least favorite person on the show. All right. We 139 00:09:22.120 --> 00:09:28.120 taught the other day on a Naughty Tuesday about size queens, and I think 140 00:09:28.159 --> 00:09:31.559 we haven't actually called the episode size. It wasn't even Naughty Tuesday, it 141 00:09:31.600 --> 00:09:37.320 was just yesterday Yesterday, a regular Thursday Wednesday. Christy Light writes in and 142 00:09:37.399 --> 00:09:41.600 she says, size queen definitely. Unfortunately, size does matter. I guess 143 00:09:41.600 --> 00:09:45.440 I'm fortunate that most people I've been with have just pleased me. And then 144 00:09:45.480 --> 00:09:48.600 I started dating a guy for a few months, and when we hooked up, 145 00:09:48.639 --> 00:09:52.080 he was a life saver role. Okay, so that is what we 146 00:09:52.360 --> 00:09:54.399 said, was maybe smaller. After that, I had to call one of 147 00:09:54.399 --> 00:09:58.480 my guy friends because I was in such shock at how small he was, 148 00:09:58.879 --> 00:10:03.120 and he wanted to know if my guy. He wanted to know my guy 149 00:10:03.759 --> 00:10:09.759 if girls the JJ's reigned so vastly too. I also, I think girls 150 00:10:09.799 --> 00:10:13.480 go to the bathroom to go poop when the poop is ready to come out. 151 00:10:13.720 --> 00:10:18.080 I think boys weird transition. But he changes gears really quickly. She 152 00:10:18.240 --> 00:10:22.000 knows she changes gears really quickly. None at all. I think boys toot 153 00:10:22.039 --> 00:10:24.039 and think, oh I might have to poop, and then go and sit 154 00:10:24.039 --> 00:10:26.559 there for an hour. Anyway, have yourself a great day. Love the 155 00:10:26.559 --> 00:10:33.080 show for twenty plus years, all right, I can't get firm. I 156 00:10:33.200 --> 00:10:35.919 date someone who just like says on the toilet, probably because they just tooted, 157 00:10:37.120 --> 00:10:39.120 and they're like I don't know. I might have to go, so 158 00:10:39.120 --> 00:10:43.960 I'm gonna go sit down. Same. That's the funniest thing, Okay. 159 00:10:45.039 --> 00:10:48.320 Next one, Demante regular staff writer says, Dave saying dart in and out 160 00:10:48.320 --> 00:10:52.679 of the asshole in that voice made me lol. That shit was funny. 161 00:10:52.720 --> 00:10:56.600 What did I do? I don't remember. You explained how to dart? 162 00:10:56.960 --> 00:11:07.879 Oh? Yeah, because people said, what's a dart? I said on 163 00:11:07.919 --> 00:11:11.240 the topic of war the rosa being shorter. I think if you cut the 164 00:11:11.399 --> 00:11:15.799 Jonathan Fogel part to a little bit shorter, it would save some time. 165 00:11:16.080 --> 00:11:18.519 Actually, Jonathan and I had a discussion because I get carried away talking to 166 00:11:18.600 --> 00:11:22.679 Jonathan. Yeah, and the boss said, yeah, you need to shorten 167 00:11:22.720 --> 00:11:24.240 it up a little bit, Dave, because I get carried away. So 168 00:11:24.360 --> 00:11:26.919 we're going to try to keep that part a little bit shorter. Not Jonathan's 169 00:11:26.919 --> 00:11:33.960 fault, it's Dave's fault. And that's it from Demante. Thank you, 170 00:11:35.000 --> 00:11:39.440 DeVante, appreciate them. Next one, I'm not gonna skip that one for 171 00:11:39.600 --> 00:11:43.159 now, and I'm gonna go up to this one. Minnesota, goodbye, 172 00:11:43.320 --> 00:11:48.000 don't use my name. My husband and I were invited to a wedding and 173 00:11:48.039 --> 00:11:52.440 we aren't going to be attended. I'm unsure if I should send a card 174 00:11:52.120 --> 00:11:56.639 with a gift of money. Typically I always give a wedding gift when I'm 175 00:11:56.679 --> 00:12:01.320 invited. However, I'm not really sure why we were even invited. The 176 00:12:01.360 --> 00:12:03.840 groom and I went to elementary school together and have one mutual friend we see 177 00:12:03.840 --> 00:12:07.279 at birthday parties for that mutual friend, I don't want to be cheap, 178 00:12:07.279 --> 00:12:11.080 but I also feel like I was invited to fill a venue. Direction on 179 00:12:11.759 --> 00:12:16.240 if I should give a gift and that would be helpful or not. I 180 00:12:16.279 --> 00:12:20.279 feel a little bit bad for the couple that invited you, because I feel 181 00:12:20.279 --> 00:12:24.080 like maybe they don't have enough acquaintances and they're inviting people. Kind of like 182 00:12:24.120 --> 00:12:26.720 if your kid doesn't have a lot of friends and you feel bad that only 183 00:12:26.759 --> 00:12:30.879 four people are going to come to her birthday party, so you might invite 184 00:12:30.919 --> 00:12:33.039 people that she's not really good friends with, sure, and just hope that 185 00:12:33.200 --> 00:12:37.360 maybe you'll fill some seats. So I'm guessing that's probably what it is, 186 00:12:37.360 --> 00:12:39.000 because some couples they just don't have a lot of friends. I would say, 187 00:12:39.039 --> 00:12:43.440 if you can find it in your heart to go, go, you'll 188 00:12:43.440 --> 00:12:46.840 make them so happy. You really will but if you don't go, then 189 00:12:46.919 --> 00:12:50.159 don't send them a gift. What do you think, Bree, You're up? 190 00:12:50.320 --> 00:12:52.679 Yeah, I think absolutely go. And if you go, you don't 191 00:12:52.679 --> 00:12:54.840 have to give a big gift either. You can do something small so they 192 00:12:54.879 --> 00:12:58.960 know that you were there, a card, something quick. But I totally 193 00:12:58.000 --> 00:13:03.080 understand if it's not a really good friend acquaintance. Are you even going to 194 00:13:03.200 --> 00:13:05.000 know anybody else at the wedding? Well, that's the thing. And if 195 00:13:05.039 --> 00:13:07.039 you don't know anybody else at the wedding, then it's kind of like, 196 00:13:07.080 --> 00:13:11.080 Okay, well, isn't the worst thing at a wedding? What is the 197 00:13:11.120 --> 00:13:15.679 worst thing at a wedding? I will tell you. And I'm thinking you're 198 00:13:15.720 --> 00:13:20.840 going to agree the seating arrangements because you're going to sit across from their aunt 199 00:13:20.879 --> 00:13:24.679 and uncle who are hard of hearing and they don't speak great English, and 200 00:13:24.720 --> 00:13:30.360 you're gonna be like, so, how do you like Minnesota? And they're 201 00:13:30.399 --> 00:13:33.080 gonna say, like, I can't hear you in some like you know, 202 00:13:33.279 --> 00:13:37.279 German accent or something. And then you'll look over here and there's their niece 203 00:13:37.279 --> 00:13:41.360 and nephew who are very shy. So the seating arrangement, that's the worst 204 00:13:41.360 --> 00:13:46.600 parted wedding because you don't know who you're gonna get it or the painful speeches. 205 00:13:46.679 --> 00:13:50.360 The painful speeches, it's you, I'm going to be honest. It's 206 00:13:50.480 --> 00:13:54.960 usually the father of the bride. Yeah, the father of the bride who 207 00:13:56.039 --> 00:14:01.000 goes on for way too long or says some weird as stories from childhood that 208 00:14:01.039 --> 00:14:03.720 are nobody knows. Yeah, like I don't know's it's not every time, 209 00:14:03.840 --> 00:14:07.360 Like Dave did a great job at Allison's wedding, but I just my best 210 00:14:07.360 --> 00:14:11.879 friend from home. Her dad spoke for like twenty five minutes. That'diculous. 211 00:14:13.440 --> 00:14:18.399 Ridiculous. Yeah, I think that people don't realize you have to keep his 212 00:14:18.440 --> 00:14:22.639 speech short. And people don't realize and they think, well, it's my 213 00:14:22.720 --> 00:14:26.039 daughter's wedding, I'm going to keep it long. I'm sorry, I get 214 00:14:26.080 --> 00:14:28.759 it. Maybe you can talk to her, write a letter, but keep 215 00:14:28.759 --> 00:14:31.519 your speech short. If you're doing a speech this summer at a wedding. 216 00:14:31.000 --> 00:14:35.559 Number one, practice it. Don't say I'm going to add lib and speak 217 00:14:35.600 --> 00:14:37.360 from the heart and get a little liquid courage, because people do it all 218 00:14:37.399 --> 00:14:43.480 the time and then they usually say something embarrassing or inappropriate. Practice it. 219 00:14:43.080 --> 00:14:48.879 Write it down and then just do a couple of bullet points. I'd say 220 00:14:48.919 --> 00:14:56.120 three to five minutes mad for any speech. Listening to speech, Yeah, 221 00:14:56.759 --> 00:14:58.840 I was at I don't want to say because I don't embarrass anybody, But 222 00:15:00.080 --> 00:15:03.600 somebody worked on the show and their brother spoke at the wedding and he covered 223 00:15:05.200 --> 00:15:09.559 the relationship of like how his brother knows everybody who came to the wedding, 224 00:15:09.879 --> 00:15:16.000 and it was like fucking sun. Alright, next week, let's see what 225 00:15:16.039 --> 00:15:22.399 we got here. Okay, that was a different one. And that was 226 00:15:22.440 --> 00:15:24.000 a different one too. Let's go to this one. You can say my 227 00:15:24.120 --> 00:15:28.360 name. I don't recall if you've done this before, but I've been listening 228 00:15:28.559 --> 00:15:31.039 since elementary school. I'm forty one. But it might be interesting to ask 229 00:15:31.080 --> 00:15:35.840 people how they broke up with their best friend or even just a friend and 230 00:15:35.879 --> 00:15:39.679 the pressure to stay friends with them because of family, friends, et cetera. 231 00:15:39.120 --> 00:15:43.200 I recently realized that this is probably more common than we think, and 232 00:15:43.320 --> 00:15:46.679 why doesn't it seem okay if somebody just doesn't want to be your friend anymore, 233 00:15:48.120 --> 00:15:54.519 just thought love you. Brentley and I broke up because he was being 234 00:15:54.559 --> 00:15:58.320 a dick and I was just done but I miss him terribly. And then 235 00:15:58.320 --> 00:16:03.120 a friend of mine and I we've been friends. We both had sons the 236 00:16:03.159 --> 00:16:07.200 same age. We knew each other in Ohio, and I was tired of 237 00:16:07.200 --> 00:16:10.679 it being one sided. I would write to her, I would text her, 238 00:16:11.120 --> 00:16:12.799 and I'd like, She'd wait five days to text back, Oh, 239 00:16:12.840 --> 00:16:15.559 I've been busy. Sorry, And I finally said, you know what I'm 240 00:16:15.559 --> 00:16:18.879 done. If I'm that much trouble, I don't want to be your friend 241 00:16:18.879 --> 00:16:22.519 anymore. So anybody have any answers I do. I pretty much broke up 242 00:16:22.519 --> 00:16:26.480 with my best friend from home a few years back. We're fine now, 243 00:16:26.559 --> 00:16:30.480 but we're not really friends anymore. Because she would always promise that she would 244 00:16:30.519 --> 00:16:33.399 come visit me. And then the final straw, which that wasn't that big 245 00:16:33.440 --> 00:16:37.000 of a deal, but the final straw was we were supposed to do the 246 00:16:37.039 --> 00:16:38.279 half marathon I did. We were supposed to do it together, and then 247 00:16:38.320 --> 00:16:41.879 she was having some medical issues, so I totally understood she wasn't really able 248 00:16:41.879 --> 00:16:45.559 to train for it. But then it was down in Milwaukee. She lives 249 00:16:45.600 --> 00:16:48.759 near my hometown, like an hour north, or she lives in my hometown 250 00:16:48.799 --> 00:16:52.799 an hour north Milwaukee, and she told me she would still come and cheer 251 00:16:52.799 --> 00:16:56.440 me on, and she didn't fucking come. And I trained really hard for 252 00:16:56.480 --> 00:16:57.720 it. We were supposed to do it together. I didn't care that she 253 00:16:57.759 --> 00:17:00.200 wasn't doing it with me, but you were supposed to be there to support 254 00:17:00.200 --> 00:17:03.000 me at least, and you lived an hour late, an hour away. 255 00:17:03.039 --> 00:17:07.079 I drove six hours to do the marathon, and so that was like the 256 00:17:07.079 --> 00:17:10.920 final straw for me, and I just told her I was so frustrated, 257 00:17:10.960 --> 00:17:15.160 and we didn't talk for a couple of years, and she finally reached out 258 00:17:15.200 --> 00:17:18.759 and like apologized for everything. But I was like, I'm so sick of 259 00:17:18.920 --> 00:17:22.599 like being there for you and then you're making promises and falling through. So 260 00:17:22.759 --> 00:17:25.599 that was kind of what happened with us, and like we're still there for 261 00:17:25.640 --> 00:17:29.240 each other if we need it, but we really aren't tight anymore. Like 262 00:17:29.319 --> 00:17:33.279 we don't make plans anything like that. Anybody else break up with a friend. 263 00:17:34.599 --> 00:17:37.359 I mean, I have I have a thing to say about it, 264 00:17:37.400 --> 00:17:41.240 but I was going to end up talking about it on the head of vulnerability 265 00:17:41.240 --> 00:17:42.400 next week, so I don't want to give it to do that. Okay, 266 00:17:42.480 --> 00:17:47.839 let's save it another email, Courtney writes in I love the new lineup. 267 00:17:47.839 --> 00:17:51.079 It is such a good blend of ages, interests, et cetera. 268 00:17:51.279 --> 00:17:59.039 Keep kicking ass. A couple of minor critiques for the new kids. Oh 269 00:17:59.119 --> 00:18:04.880 voices, vough, stop calling yourself Tavius. He loves to call all of 270 00:18:04.960 --> 00:18:08.200 us by like bigger names. He calls you Dave, David, he calls 271 00:18:08.200 --> 00:18:11.759 me Jennifer, he called you, he called me something that was he made 272 00:18:11.839 --> 00:18:18.160 up like just the other day. It adds nothing. It's confusing, long 273 00:18:18.200 --> 00:18:21.480 and annoying. Other than that, keep being the dick. I love it 274 00:18:21.519 --> 00:18:25.759 because we said it's the dick, the dork, the deer, and then 275 00:18:25.839 --> 00:18:33.079 daddy Bear or Dave. Yeah, Bailey, I follow you on Instagram and 276 00:18:33.119 --> 00:18:34.880 I just read your updated bio. It made me a little sad that you 277 00:18:34.920 --> 00:18:41.400 call yourself the homely Onebody texted that in Fallon told me to do that. 278 00:18:41.680 --> 00:18:47.119 What do what? Put myself as the homely one? Which somebody texted in 279 00:18:47.200 --> 00:18:51.240 saying that, oh Bailey is, she's less homely than I thought she would 280 00:18:51.279 --> 00:18:56.200 be. What the fun call yourself the homely one? Well? I said 281 00:18:56.200 --> 00:19:00.279 that, like people were texting in hate comments and that somebody called me homely 282 00:19:00.319 --> 00:19:03.640 and she's like that's hilarious. Put that in your Instagram bio, and so 283 00:19:03.759 --> 00:19:07.240 I did, No, I would take that out. Fine, I'm taking 284 00:19:07.279 --> 00:19:08.039 it. I don't. I don't like that at all. I don't. 285 00:19:08.079 --> 00:19:11.079 I don't like that I got to be funny. No, I don't like 286 00:19:11.119 --> 00:19:15.000 it for so many reasons. Because you're not homely. Well, you're not 287 00:19:15.359 --> 00:19:19.079 meant like the girl next door or something that's a homie. Okay, but 288 00:19:19.160 --> 00:19:25.160 I like dishovel like look, it has unattractive and appearance, and you google 289 00:19:25.200 --> 00:19:26.559 it. So I did not know that that's what that meant. Alan usually 290 00:19:26.599 --> 00:19:30.519 gives good advice, but I don't like that advice. That is yeah, 291 00:19:30.559 --> 00:19:34.720 okay, fine out, Okay, geez, Louise, these people, I 292 00:19:34.720 --> 00:19:37.240 mean, you could work on a couple of things, like your eyebrows. 293 00:19:38.279 --> 00:19:45.200 Fine, I'm joking coming from you, mister caterpillar over there. Oh you 294 00:19:45.240 --> 00:19:48.680 are on what you Let me tell you something, Jenny, you are on 295 00:19:48.759 --> 00:19:52.599 thin ice and you are jumping up and down. You might not be here 296 00:19:52.599 --> 00:19:57.079 tomorrow, might not be here tomorrow, she gets Friday Bailey continuing, I 297 00:19:57.119 --> 00:20:00.319 get that we're allowed to make fun of ourselves. Everybody is offended by everything 298 00:20:00.359 --> 00:20:03.720 these days. But I think it's worth telling you that you're beautiful and I'm 299 00:20:03.720 --> 00:20:07.920 so happy you're part of the show. You've obviously been a huge fan forever. 300 00:20:07.839 --> 00:20:11.039 Don't take this wrong way, but I think you're kind of hot. 301 00:20:11.319 --> 00:20:14.480 That's not You're one person who thinks that. No, one no, And 302 00:20:14.559 --> 00:20:18.119 I've always thought you were kind of hot. But don't ever get I don't 303 00:20:18.119 --> 00:20:22.319 want to make that sound weird, because there's no way I will never ever 304 00:20:22.880 --> 00:20:26.799 be any appropriate inappropriate with anybody in the show. I mean, I might 305 00:20:26.839 --> 00:20:30.799 call you a douche or something like that. Yeah, but I don't never 306 00:20:30.880 --> 00:20:34.240 get. I don't cross that line on the show because I've learned that and 307 00:20:34.279 --> 00:20:37.519 I just never did it before. I've done it before. No, I've 308 00:20:37.519 --> 00:20:41.039 never hooked up with anybody that I worked with directly on the show, but 309 00:20:41.079 --> 00:20:45.960 I've hooked up with people in the building. Have you pre hooked up with 310 00:20:47.000 --> 00:20:53.839 people that you worked with before? Well, I'm married to one go on. 311 00:20:56.160 --> 00:20:59.440 My husband and I met when we worked at a restaurant ages ago, 312 00:20:59.640 --> 00:21:03.119 and I was underage and he was a little bit older than I. Scandalous. 313 00:21:03.160 --> 00:21:07.079 Well, you didn't start dating. We didn't dating until I was eighteen, 314 00:21:07.279 --> 00:21:10.400 correct, But you've been married for how many years now? Fifteen this 315 00:21:10.480 --> 00:21:12.400 December. It worked out great for you guy, you know, And it's 316 00:21:12.400 --> 00:21:15.440 so funny how we meet, you know, It's I always find it fascinating 317 00:21:15.759 --> 00:21:21.279 how there are so many people in the world that most of them, nearly 318 00:21:21.400 --> 00:21:22.960 all of them, will always be strangers, even to the people that you 319 00:21:23.000 --> 00:21:26.359 meet. Forget about people in Switzerland or Kenya. I'm talking about people that 320 00:21:26.400 --> 00:21:30.640 you meet. They're pretty much always going to be strangers. But isn't it 321 00:21:30.680 --> 00:21:36.640 interesting how we'll find one person, you know, sometimes more in our lifetime 322 00:21:37.240 --> 00:21:42.640 that we just connect with so well, and you know what they're thinking, 323 00:21:42.799 --> 00:21:47.000 and you want to talk to them, and sometimes you're mad, but you 324 00:21:47.200 --> 00:21:51.400 really, you just really connect with that one person. Ah, what's that 325 00:21:51.559 --> 00:21:53.480 like? Well, I don't know. I was gonna ask you. Oh, 326 00:21:53.480 --> 00:21:56.839 I don't know. So I'm still waiting to meet her or him or 327 00:21:56.960 --> 00:22:00.680 him. I'm open. Oh, we got to wrap up any we do. 328 00:22:00.119 --> 00:22:03.799 Oh, there's so much more. I'm now, babe. We got 329 00:22:03.799 --> 00:22:06.519 a whole podcast we can do tomorrow, though, Do it tomorrow on the 330 00:22:06.519 --> 00:22:11.039 Minnesota Goodbye. Send your emails to Ryan Show at KTIWB dot com. Thanks 331 00:22:11.119 --> 00:22:17.720 to special guest Brianna Quinn full full fill a boule. Yeah, okay, 332 00:22:17.799 --> 00:22:18.880 thank you. It was fun. Thanks for having me.