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The advent of the Internet has revolutionized
almost every aspect of our life. But

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in the case of sexuality, it
may be necessary to take this issue more

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gently because of the great changes that
this network of networks has caused throughout our

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society. And if you don'
t mind the podcasts I want to talk

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to you about today we welcome you
across the microphone, On the other side

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of the microphone, a project by
Jorge Marín Nieto in which you will find

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your daily ration of metapodcasting, casting
with news, events, tools or episodes

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of opinion in just ten minutes.
Ten minutes, ten minutes. Welcome and

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welcome to all and all of the
podcasting lovers who accompany me on this journey

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every day. On the other side
of the microphone. I am Jorge Marín

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and I want to welcome a new
series of episodes that begins today Monday,

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with a new podcast Monday And on
this occasion it is something somewhat more than

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usual, because today I do not
bring a recommended podcast, but there are

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several three in particular, and also, a literary recommendation related to the common

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theme of these three recommendations today.
I know a little bad to bring these

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recommended podcasts, because they all talk
about, let' s say, something

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negative that has caused the advent of
the Internet and also of social networks,

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especially algorithms to our sexual environment.
Go ahead that I am in favor of

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anyone enjoying sex and their relationships,
how do you feel about whomever you want,

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where you want or with whom you
want? Or that goes ahead.

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But the arrival of the Internet,
the arrival of the algorithms, has begun

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to vitiate this environment that there is
in itself is something vicious and that has

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to be taken carefully, because it
can cause serious problems for your health.

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And I' m not just talking
about sexually transmitted diseases, which is also

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about the fact that there are some
platforms, there are some websites. The

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world of pornography has also evolved a
lot thanks to the Internet and social networks,

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or well some of them, and
this has caused our society to change

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in this respect. While phonography has
existed for decades, it has not been

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until the advent of the Internet on
which it has been made. Let'

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s say with very strong claws,
they are able to catch many people and

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also very young. And just after
listening to these three podcasts. Well,

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I' m worried. I worry
because, well, I have relatives,

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I have little daughters, but I
live in a society. I speak not

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only for my daughters, but for
a society that the truth that and this

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is said by an adult man already
almost forty years old, worries me,

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worries me as far as we are
going to go, because, well,

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sexuality and the ways that many people
have to see sex, because it is

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a bit worrying and this perhaps says
already I say an adult man, well,

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because he has already lived a series
of experiences that maybe he sees with

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other eyes, the experiences that other
younger people or also of my age live

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today. But, well, I
don' t get involved anymore that I

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don' t want to sit down
either, but what I want is for

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you to listen to the following podcasts
We' re going to say the crudest,

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the most worrying, to others that
although they also deal with this same

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subject, but who are able to
teach us how to fight this sexuality of

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the 21st century or almost the 20th
century because it' s so advanced that

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it' s a little chilling.
But let me start with the three hundred

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and seventy- three episode of what
you say on Alex Fidalgo' s podcast,

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where he talks to his guests and
in this case talks to José Luis

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García about the porn generation. Two
points. We have a problem. José

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Luis García is a doctor in psychology, sexologist, lecturer and writer, who

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has worked as a psychologist, clinician
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more than thirty- six years,
for an hour and a half with Alex

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Fidalgo. It' s about this
that I saved you at first this current

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generation, that has lived pornography through
the eyes of the Internet and that let

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' s say that some behaviors have
been naturalized that perhaps have been thought not

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so much for sexual enjoyment, that
also but to get more clicks, to

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get more visits, to get more
viralization. And that has made us accustomed

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to or, that society has become
accustomed to a kind of sex scenes that

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I wouldn' t even say sex, but a kind of sex scenes that

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are then repeated in the population thanks
to that we have become accustomed, let

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' s say to watching them through
these Internet pages, Internet videos and even

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sexualization of social networks. Anyway,
I don' t want to spoil you

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much more of this chapter either.
I already say three hundred and seventy-

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three of what you say with alexa
and something we' re going to stretch

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out gum in the seventh chapter of
season six. Premiered very Poquito just a

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couple of weeks ago with also the
psychologist to be arrested let me know that

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you have happened to her with a
good that I do not want to make

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wrong, with Silvia Olmedo, who
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couple and dissemination of psychology, as
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lecturer. In this case they talk
mainly about how it is studying gum They

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also usually talk to women about these
issues and in this case, because they

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talk not only about sexuality on the
Internet, but about the trafficking of white

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women, prostitution and how it affects
young women and women in general all this

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exposure that the world of the Internet
makes through the sexualization of women themselves and

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how this affects, therefore, their
working, family, cultural life, all

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how this is nothing new. I
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anyone, but how the world in
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in the case of Silvia Meda,
because she leaves it very clear and tries.

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She herself tries to censor herself so
that YouTube doesn' t censor her

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so that they don' t say
no strikes to the video and can monetize

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it. And directly, Victoria and
Carolina tell her not to speak openly because

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they don' t care that you
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the barbarities Silvia says in this case. But Silvia herself, who is used

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to speaking in other terms in order
to spread her message, and she herself

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is forced to say words that she
normally says with other expressions, in order

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to better reach her audience and dodge
these algorithms that in this case play against

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her. While perhaps, if these
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the algorithms themselves would help their viralization. In this case, even though they

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talk about a super- important topic, they have to dodge those most sordid

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words so that the platform itself does
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' t care here. And I' m saying if they can' t

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monetize the video if they can'
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care. This is super recommended.
In the case of alles fidalgo there were

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two men. Here are three women
and in the next podcast there are two

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women and one man. And it
is no more or less than the mother

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- sphere space that was recorded last
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three in the space of the telephone
foundation by the team of mother- sphere

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sphere with the source in head and
in this case brought to the educator,

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social, divulgator and activist, author
of the book. It is Or not

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sex, another sex education is urgent
Moroccan marine and besides, psychologist and sexologist

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Alejandro Villena, author of the book
Why not? How to prevent and help

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in pornography addiction and clinical director of
the online prevention platform give it a spin

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in this case. The title of
the episode and of the film itself was

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called building healthy affective relationships in the
digital age. And while it was not

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exclusively about sexuality and the impact of
the Internet on the sexual relations of young

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people, in the end it was
the central issue, because, logically,

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healthy affective relationships are affected by all
this sexual current that is going through the

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Internet and the social networks and everything
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Here they even talked about games,
no longer talking about social networks or photos

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or ads or not the online games
themselves sexualize women, they cause eroticism to

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reach players very but very young.
And in this case it is perhaps a

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little less crude in his words,
because it was a live program recorded at

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12 o' clock in the morning
in the space of telephone foundation and because,

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moreover, this space mothersphere is intended
so that maybe children can attend,

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not good a child. It'
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- and- a- half talk, but for teenagers and audiences of all

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ages to go there and talk about
it. Or rather, listen very clearly,

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very clearly to the negative aspects that
can be found in the digital age

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for those who have to be prepared. And it' s highly recommended if

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you have minors in your charge to
teach you a little bit better. The

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case of stretching gum and alex fide
something might be good for all kinds of

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audiences. Whether or not you have
creatures, but in the case of mother

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space sphere, forgiveness is highly recommended
and precisely linked. With the mother space

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sphere, I want to bring a
book written by a good friend of both

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menica and mine, who is mamen
Jimenez, the psychomami and it is the

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book. I explain to you that
when how and where to talk about it

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referring to sex with your little mamen, Jiménez is a writer carrying the books

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as well as a psychologist and sexologist
and directly describes it as his book.

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One day you' re happily making
your offspring and suddenly, a few years

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later. It is the creature itself
that is asking you the details of the

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process. It' s too small
to tell you what things. I don

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' t think so. I won' t be giving you any ideas or

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more information than you need. What
happens if the less one touches himself,

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because Mames Jiménez, psychologist, sexologist
and couple therapist, tells us clearly and

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also a touch of humor that knows
mamen a little bit. You know he

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really likes to touch every aspect of
life with humor. It is a crack

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for us to tell our children,
to accompany them in their sexual affective development,

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with naturality, scoundrel. And if
you get sweats when they ask you

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according to what things right now on
Amazon has a price of nineteen euros was

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included. I' m going to
leave an affiliate link in the episode notes

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and directly recommend that with any thing
you go to Mame or any of the

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experts I' ve told you in
this episode. I am talking about Mamen

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because I have super confidence with her
and I know that it will gladly help

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you in any aspect and any doubts
I may have, apart from that she

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is a professional like the cup of
a pine tree, like all the podcast

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creators I have told you about today, perhaps today I have come out a

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little bit by tangent, not talking
about podcasting in particular, but about sexuality

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and the realm of the Internet concerning
sexuality. But, I think these three

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podcasts, although some of them are
a little crude in some respects, but

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they are more than recommendable and I
think they can help you put a little

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bit of your batteries in this aspect, that I think it is becoming a

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scourge and that, unfortunately, it
has ruined the lives of many people and

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that I hope it does not continue
to ruin many more. But, it

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' s in our hands to try
to get those algorithms that seek our attention,

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our clicks and that we spend hours
and hours and hours in front of

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a screen seeing things that I don' t know if we like or not,

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but that surely they upset us,
that they use those strategies to keep

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us hooked to their screens, in
this case watching pornography, because at least

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they don' t affect our sexual
life so much or at least they don

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' t corrupt it, that is
I create the main problem you. I

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' m leaving a link. I
already tell the three episodes to Alex Fidalgo

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what you say by stretching gum and
mother space sphere and also to the book.

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I' ll tell you about Mamen
Jiménez so you can have them on

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hand and don' t hesitate to
spread them. No, I don'

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t want you to share this episode, share and share these three episodes and

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this book, because I think they
can help a lot of people. Thanks

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for staying the other way. Have
red and now I say goodbye and as

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every day I return to that place
where you are right now, on the

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other side of the microphone, with