The advent of the Internet has revolutionized almost every aspect of our life. But
in the case of sexuality, it may be necessary to take this issue more
gently because of the great changes that this network of networks has caused throughout our
society. And if you don' t mind the podcasts I want to talk
to you about today we welcome you across the microphone, On the other side
of the microphone, a project by Jorge Marín Nieto in which you will find
your daily ration of metapodcasting, casting with news, events, tools or episodes
of opinion in just ten minutes. Ten minutes, ten minutes. Welcome and
welcome to all and all of the podcasting lovers who accompany me on this journey
every day. On the other side of the microphone. I am Jorge Marín
and I want to welcome a new series of episodes that begins today Monday,
with a new podcast Monday And on this occasion it is something somewhat more than
usual, because today I do not bring a recommended podcast, but there are
several three in particular, and also, a literary recommendation related to the common
theme of these three recommendations today. I know a little bad to bring these
recommended podcasts, because they all talk about, let' s say, something
negative that has caused the advent of the Internet and also of social networks,
especially algorithms to our sexual environment. Go ahead that I am in favor of
anyone enjoying sex and their relationships, how do you feel about whomever you want,
where you want or with whom you want? Or that goes ahead.
But the arrival of the Internet, the arrival of the algorithms, has begun
to vitiate this environment that there is in itself is something vicious and that has
to be taken carefully, because it can cause serious problems for your health.
And I' m not just talking about sexually transmitted diseases, which is also
about the fact that there are some platforms, there are some websites. The
world of pornography has also evolved a lot thanks to the Internet and social networks,
or well some of them, and this has caused our society to change
in this respect. While phonography has existed for decades, it has not been
until the advent of the Internet on which it has been made. Let'
s say with very strong claws, they are able to catch many people and
also very young. And just after listening to these three podcasts. Well,
I' m worried. I worry because, well, I have relatives,
I have little daughters, but I live in a society. I speak not
only for my daughters, but for a society that the truth that and this
is said by an adult man already almost forty years old, worries me,
worries me as far as we are going to go, because, well,
sexuality and the ways that many people have to see sex, because it is
a bit worrying and this perhaps says already I say an adult man, well,
because he has already lived a series of experiences that maybe he sees with
other eyes, the experiences that other younger people or also of my age live
today. But, well, I don' t get involved anymore that I
don' t want to sit down either, but what I want is for
you to listen to the following podcasts We' re going to say the crudest,
the most worrying, to others that although they also deal with this same
subject, but who are able to teach us how to fight this sexuality of
the 21st century or almost the 20th century because it' s so advanced that
it' s a little chilling. But let me start with the three hundred
and seventy- three episode of what you say on Alex Fidalgo' s podcast,
where he talks to his guests and in this case talks to José Luis
García about the porn generation. Two points. We have a problem. José
Luis García is a doctor in psychology, sexologist, lecturer and writer, who
has worked as a psychologist, clinician and sexologist for the Government of Navarra for
more than thirty- six years, for an hour and a half with Alex
Fidalgo. It' s about this that I saved you at first this current
generation, that has lived pornography through the eyes of the Internet and that let
' s say that some behaviors have been naturalized that perhaps have been thought not
so much for sexual enjoyment, that also but to get more clicks, to
get more visits, to get more viralization. And that has made us accustomed
to or, that society has become accustomed to a kind of sex scenes that
I wouldn' t even say sex, but a kind of sex scenes that
are then repeated in the population thanks to that we have become accustomed, let
' s say to watching them through these Internet pages, Internet videos and even
sexualization of social networks. Anyway, I don' t want to spoil you
much more of this chapter either. I already say three hundred and seventy-
three of what you say with alexa and something we' re going to stretch
out gum in the seventh chapter of season six. Premiered very Poquito just a
couple of weeks ago with also the psychologist to be arrested let me know that
you have happened to her with a good that I do not want to make
wrong, with Silvia Olmedo, who is a journalist, expert in relationships of
couple and dissemination of psychology, as well as a television presenter, writer and
lecturer. In this case they talk mainly about how it is studying gum They
also usually talk to women about these issues and in this case, because they
talk not only about sexuality on the Internet, but about the trafficking of white
women, prostitution and how it affects young women and women in general all this
exposure that the world of the Internet makes through the sexualization of women themselves and
how this affects, therefore, their working, family, cultural life, all
how this is nothing new. I don' t think it' ll surprise
anyone, but how the world in general treats women as an object. And
in the case of Silvia Meda, because she leaves it very clear and tries.
She herself tries to censor herself so that YouTube doesn' t censor her
so that they don' t say no strikes to the video and can monetize
it. And directly, Victoria and Carolina tell her not to speak openly because
they don' t care that you can' t monetize that video because of
the barbarities Silvia says in this case. But Silvia herself, who is used
to speaking in other terms in order to spread her message, and she herself
is forced to say words that she normally says with other expressions, in order
to better reach her audience and dodge these algorithms that in this case play against
her. While perhaps, if these three women went out with less clothes,
the algorithms themselves would help their viralization. In this case, even though they
talk about a super- important topic, they have to dodge those most sordid
words so that the platform itself does not censor them, even though they don
' t care here. And I' m saying if they can' t
monetize the video if they can' t viralize it, they don' t
care. This is super recommended. In the case of alles fidalgo there were
two men. Here are three women and in the next podcast there are two
women and one man. And it is no more or less than the mother
- sphere space that was recorded last September 9 of the two thousand twenty-
three in the space of the telephone foundation by the team of mother- sphere
sphere with the source in head and in this case brought to the educator,
social, divulgator and activist, author of the book. It is Or not
sex, another sex education is urgent Moroccan marine and besides, psychologist and sexologist
Alejandro Villena, author of the book Why not? How to prevent and help
in pornography addiction and clinical director of the online prevention platform give it a spin
in this case. The title of the episode and of the film itself was
called building healthy affective relationships in the digital age. And while it was not
exclusively about sexuality and the impact of the Internet on the sexual relations of young
people, in the end it was the central issue, because, logically,
healthy affective relationships are affected by all this sexual current that is going through the
Internet and the social networks and everything that is not pushed to it Independently.
Here they even talked about games, no longer talking about social networks or photos
or ads or not the online games themselves sexualize women, they cause eroticism to
reach players very but very young. And in this case it is perhaps a
little less crude in his words, because it was a live program recorded at
12 o' clock in the morning in the space of telephone foundation and because,
moreover, this space mothersphere is intended so that maybe children can attend,
not good a child. It' s rare for me to hold an hour
- and- a- half talk, but for teenagers and audiences of all
ages to go there and talk about it. Or rather, listen very clearly,
very clearly to the negative aspects that can be found in the digital age
for those who have to be prepared. And it' s highly recommended if
you have minors in your charge to teach you a little bit better. The
case of stretching gum and alex fide something might be good for all kinds of
audiences. Whether or not you have creatures, but in the case of mother
space sphere, forgiveness is highly recommended and precisely linked. With the mother space
sphere, I want to bring a book written by a good friend of both
menica and mine, who is mamen Jimenez, the psychomami and it is the
book. I explain to you that when how and where to talk about it
referring to sex with your little mamen, Jiménez is a writer carrying the books
as well as a psychologist and sexologist and directly describes it as his book.
One day you' re happily making your offspring and suddenly, a few years
later. It is the creature itself that is asking you the details of the
process. It' s too small to tell you what things. I don
' t think so. I won' t be giving you any ideas or
more information than you need. What happens if the less one touches himself,
because Mames Jiménez, psychologist, sexologist and couple therapist, tells us clearly and
also a touch of humor that knows mamen a little bit. You know he
really likes to touch every aspect of life with humor. It is a crack
for us to tell our children, to accompany them in their sexual affective development,
with naturality, scoundrel. And if you get sweats when they ask you
according to what things right now on Amazon has a price of nineteen euros was
included. I' m going to leave an affiliate link in the episode notes
and directly recommend that with any thing you go to Mame or any of the
experts I' ve told you in this episode. I am talking about Mamen
because I have super confidence with her and I know that it will gladly help
you in any aspect and any doubts I may have, apart from that she
is a professional like the cup of a pine tree, like all the podcast
creators I have told you about today, perhaps today I have come out a
little bit by tangent, not talking about podcasting in particular, but about sexuality
and the realm of the Internet concerning sexuality. But, I think these three
podcasts, although some of them are a little crude in some respects, but
they are more than recommendable and I think they can help you put a little
bit of your batteries in this aspect, that I think it is becoming a
scourge and that, unfortunately, it has ruined the lives of many people and
that I hope it does not continue to ruin many more. But, it
' s in our hands to try to get those algorithms that seek our attention,
our clicks and that we spend hours and hours and hours in front of
a screen seeing things that I don' t know if we like or not,
but that surely they upset us, that they use those strategies to keep
us hooked to their screens, in this case watching pornography, because at least
they don' t affect our sexual life so much or at least they don
' t corrupt it, that is I create the main problem you. I
' m leaving a link. I already tell the three episodes to Alex Fidalgo
what you say by stretching gum and mother space sphere and also to the book.
I' ll tell you about Mamen Jiménez so you can have them on
hand and don' t hesitate to spread them. No, I don'
t want you to share this episode, share and share these three episodes and
this book, because I think they can help a lot of people. Thanks
for staying the other way. Have red and now I say goodbye and as
every day I return to that place where you are right now, on the
other side of the microphone, with