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Good morning, good morning, good
morning, and welcome, welcome, welcome.

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It's time now for our community connection
right here on Kate one, the

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one you trust in. Today it's
the good, the Bad, the Barbecue

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do a benefit, Elder Karon.
We've got the chairperson with us, Julian

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Mercy. How are you doing yet, ladies? Do you? And Gray?

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We have an exciting event coming up
and so I'm happy to share about

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that this morning and kind of put
the save the date on people's calendars and

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and fight everybody out for the good
of bad and barbecue this year. And

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I got to tell you, this
is an annual event and it is one

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of the darn best you'll ever find
yourself involved with. It is so fun.

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We expect you to show up in
your best Western attire and it's rain

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or shine, so just like if
you're working the ranch, you might have

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to switch to your muck boots instead
of your best cowboy boots. But we'll

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be out there on May eleventh.
It's always on Mother's Day weekend. It's

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rain or shine. We'll be at
Hughes Ranch this year again, and that

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the family is expecting us and inviting
us to have a great time. I

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was out there last year and I
had a blast. It was it was

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wonderful. It started writing towards the
very very very end, but up until

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that time, people were just they
were bidding on things. They were having

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a fun time, dancing and having
a good time. We're going to it

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is so so fun, and we're
going to add a few things. The

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iconic Clydesdalees are going to join us
this year. Yeah, it's going to

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be so fun. They're going to
be out there. We're excited to host

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them and Express has been so gracious
to get them there for us. And

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then we're going to add a couple
of things. We're going to have a

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great bourbon bar up on the hill. We're going to do a horseshoe toss

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for some wine and some bourbon.
We're going to have a great barbecue.

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Of course, that's that's it.
And you're going to have to decide this

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year you're going to be part of
the good? Are you going to be

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part of the bad. I'll be
a part of the barbecue. That's perfectly

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fine too. But this is going
to be an outstanding thing. And this

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helps to benefit Eldercare and my technistas. What a great resource elder care is

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in our community. Is they help
seniors live independently. They do agent places,

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they they do even more than that. They have a great physical therapy,

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occupational therapy, speech therapy group there
led you know by some of the

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best I think in town. I
have some personal experience with that. They've

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got a community health clinic now that
they're expanding and organizing, and so if

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you're looking for primary care, they're
doing that. So it's not just elderly

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anymore. Tom. I don't consider
myself elderly, but I have had to

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use some of their services there,
and it's important organization for our entire community.

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No, you're far from elderly,
but you did. I am in

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that, in that group, and
I probably will be using their services very

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very soon you And in fact,
I'm going to be out there in May

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thirty. I'm gonna be performing out
there. Anyway, that's another story for

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another day, but let's get back
to how they help everybody. You know,

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with the Foundation Therapy, they opened
a whole new door for you.

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Really, they really did. And
I have some personal experience. They're working

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with the speech therapists and physical therapists. When I had a brain injury in

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twenty nineteen, and so there really
weren't the neurological rehab resources outside of Tulsa

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until I found the elder Care does
do that. So excited about their expansion.

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You know, they do daybreak services, they feed, they do a

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meal service, and they do a
lot of things to find in home care

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and as well as care for the
caregivers because we know as a caregiver of

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someone, it's a stressful time and
we're never prepared to take care of our

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parents or you know, an elderly
friend or neighbors sometimes and they assist in

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that. So anything that a community
member might need in terms of support and

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services, we want them calling Eldercare
well. And that's what Eldercare does,

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and they do it so well.
Been around now for forty years, they

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have going through They just had the
birthday party just a few months ago.

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They sure did a Tray County Tech
And now here's your chance to make sure

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that elder Care stays around well on
its way to another forty Yeah. And

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Christina, the executive director, Christina
Bishop, she has a big goal.

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I asked her when I sat down, I said, if you could dream

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big, what would it be,
and she really hopes to bring in two

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hundred thousand dollars. I think she
can do now. That is that's a

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huge responsibility for our entire community to
step up and help with that. But

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I can tell you the dollars are
well spent. This is a facility and

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a place that is very unique.
Most communities don't have anything like elder Care.

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It was unique in its inception,
it's unique in the services it provides

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now and we need to support it. So whether you come to barbecue or

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not, we want your financial support
too. Now. The tickets are one

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hundred dollars per person for the dinner
in the evening activities and if five hundred

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dollars for the VIP experience, and
that includes the patron party yeah, bet

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t shirt, tak nature mug as
well as the evening activities. And you

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can get a table of eight if
you'd like to. And of course there's

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everything that you want to know about
that you can find it the website.

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Yeah, absolutely, the website.
I want to make sure I say about

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Eldercare dot org, forward Slash,
bbq that is their website, to make

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sure and you can you can order
those tickets online but I want to tell

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you we're setting up the big white
tent and each table is going to be

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filled with some really fun people.
Will have live music and so a ticket

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is one hundred dollars for dinner.
And then the Hughes family home is beautiful.

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They have artwork in there that's just
really spectacular. So we aren't going

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to offer a VIP experience to get
a tour into the home. That will

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include heavywer dirves, catered in drinks
for the evening, and some merchandise that

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we're going to provide while we're there. So it should be that's an experience

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that some people really want to be
part of. And as well as our

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big patrons are big donors, they'll
be there as well as well as the

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board members and some of the directors
at Eldercare. It'll be a great time

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to mingle and just have a really
good experience to get to the heart of

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Eldercare. You know, I did
the patron thing last year, Yeah,

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and that was out of this world
because you got to meet, like you

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say, a lot of the folks
who make the decisions out of elder Care

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and the folks who work out there. Diligently being in and day out,

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and you know, if you had
a question, it's a nice open place

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to ask one. It is becaurse. You can always get them by the

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phone or make or an appointment any
other day. But in that kind of

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an atmosphere, it was laid back. There was no tension or anything,

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and it was just it was just
a great way to learn more about the

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services at the offer and just really
what a great, great entity we have

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here. It's really awesome. And
I think they had the patron party in

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the party barn last year, so
we're going to move it into the home

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this year. It's been I've done
some renovations. We're going to have the

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porches open, we'll sit outside.
There'll be some music, of course,

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you got to have a little bit
of that, and just like you said,

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a really casual time and kind of
relational time to get to know the

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people that are there. Now,
this is pretty easy to find. It's

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right out there, right off Highway
one. It is. It's on your

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way to Warrock. We all kind
of know it's gonna be on the right

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hand side. We're gonna have a
great banner. I don't think you can

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miss it, but we're across the
bridge looking for then it's gonna be on

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your right hand side as you're headed
towards wool Rock, and we will include

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directions out to the ranch with every
ticket that's purchased, and we'll get those

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to you and we'll also post those
online. Now, Julia, you're the

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event chairman. This is really a
big thing for you, and I know

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that this is very personal and you
know you're putting your heart and soul into

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it. So folks, I want
you to show up and really appreciate all

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the effort that everybody is putting into
this, and of course support our good

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friends at elder Care. That's right, and you know it's I'm just I'm

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just connecting the pieces. There's a
fabulous committee of about twenty of us.

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Claudia Dillbeck is our vice chair and
she's amazing. She's worked with the population.

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It has great connections in the community
and you're going to see some other

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big community leaders as well on that
and we all have a heart to really

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dig in, kind of freshen up, update, kind of look forward and

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what Eldercare looks like over the next
you know, maybe decade or so and

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continue to help bring those funds in. In the meanwhile, have some fun.

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Absolutely, put your boots on.
We're gonna have We're gonna have a

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live band there and it's always fun
after you're done bidding. Our auctions are

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incredible. We'll have a live auction
of about ten items Roger Skelley. Of

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course, we'll work the crowd a
little bit and have you open up your

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pocketbooks and the silent auction. So
that's right, and then we're gonna we're

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gonna turn up the music and dance
and really celebrate what Eldercare does and what

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what evening looks like. Wow.
Once again, the website is about Eldercare

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dot org, forward slash BBQ.
That's it. And make sure you get

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your tickets early. You don't want
to get left out because sometimes sometimes we

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get down to the point where it's
like this, Yeah, I don't think.

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I don't think you want to wait
too long. You know, get

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your friends, get a table at
eight and just come have a great evening

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and you know, just celebrate.
If it's Mother's it is Mother's Day weekend,

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so hey, take that's a great
Mother's Day gift, right, take

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it, wife out right right across
from us. Last year, we had

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a nice business woman brought her mom, Oh that's sweet, and brought her

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out there, and both of them
just had a great I think mom might

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have had a better time. She
might have, but it was It was

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a lot of fun. We had
great conversation and of course great fellowship is

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we were bidding on things, Oh
yes, please, yes, and then

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the bid went on and of course, you know, some folks like walk

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home with something nice and maybe you
could be that lucky. I love it,

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so mark your calendar's May eleventh,
Julie, thank you for being with

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Thank you, Tom, thanks so
much.

