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Hey, Hey, I'm back with
something for you to think about. Is

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it real or is it made up? Is it real or is it made

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up? The reason I'm talking on
this topic is many people live their lives

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going through struggles because of things they
made up. People have led themselves to

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destruction based on the things they made
up, the things they perceived as real

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though they were not. Some of
you live life not liking people because of

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what someone else said. You don't
know what the situation is. If a

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person then do whatever to you?
Why are you angry? Why do you

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dislike that person? Why haven't you
given that person a chance? You don't

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do it because you're moving off of
what somebody else said, and you've formed

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your own views and opinion of a
person without really knowing that person. So

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many people miss out this way.
So many you miss out on what could

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be good friendships because you have believed
what someone else hath told you about that

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person. People doing all the time, especially on jobs. I can't tell

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you the many people who have come
to me because of it. They're treated

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a certain way because what somebody else
said about them. Most times the case

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is that other person have their own
issues and they they don't like the individual

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because of their own insecurities. And
if you get on the bandwagon, then

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you just one hundred miles ahead,
not even knowing the situation. Some of

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you are like that in your life. You are doing nothing but causing yourself

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having You're reaping havoc in your own
life because you believe something that is not

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true. Some of you are you
know, you're like guerrilla glue wants something

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to stick to you. That's it, that's it. Once it's stick in

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your brain, there's no getting away
from it. You believe it, holdheartedly

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and your wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong as can be. But nobody

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could tell you you're wrong. Nobody
could tell you because now you have formulated

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this thought, and you have fed
this thought, and you have filled this

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fire inside of yourself to believe something
that is not real. Some of you

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see the truth, you see the
signs, you see the reality of it

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all, but because you have formulated
a lie in your mind, you believe

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it's true. Nobody can convince you
otherwise. Some of you hate your parents

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and your siblings and relatives and so
called friends and this person and that person

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because of what you formulated in your
mind. That's not even true, or

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because of what someone else said that
wasn't true, but you fed into it.

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You believe it as if it's true, and it's not even true.

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And what's really sad about this is
people go years in years and years with

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that mindset, with all of that
bitterness, all of that anger inside over

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something that's not even true, and
because you're so far gone mentally, no

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one can tell you otherwise. And
some of you lead to your own demise

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because you got all of this pent
up stuff inside of you and you're just

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overflowing with anger and different things because
you believe something for years that's not even

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true. The Bible tells us that
you will deceive yourself. You alive for

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so long until you believe it,
you deceive yourself. Many people are like

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this in the world. Many it's
unfortunate, but it's the truth. Many

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people are this way in the world, have totally deceived themselves totally, and

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as I said, for some,
it has led to destruction in your relationships

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with your family, with your significant
other. Some of you think your significant

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other is doing this and that because
you have done this and that, so

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you can't trust them, and you
got in your mind that they're doing something

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that they have not done, and
you are causing so much friction in your

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relationship because you believe something is true
that's not even true. You believe something

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so hard because someone who's jealous of
your relationship told you, you believe it,

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or because you know the type of
person you are, you know what

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you're doing now because of it.
You believe that your significant other is doing

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the same thing that you know you've
been doing. But they're not. But

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you're giving them pure hell in the
relationship based on your feelings, your thoughts.

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But they're not real, they're not
true, and all you're doing is

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causing drama in the relationship, putting
a wedge in between you and your significant

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other because you believe something that's not
even true. Some of you believe anything

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someone tells you, don't you know, people come to you and say things

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out of jealousy from a bad place, not from a good place, but

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from a bad place because they're full
of jealousy and envy. So they'll tell

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you things to set you off because
they know that it'll set you off.

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They know it will it will set
you off, so they'll tell you things.

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No, it is not true,
but they don't want to see you

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happy because they're miserable, or they
want what you have, so they'll tell

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you something to cause friction in your
home, and you foolishly will believe it.

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And then you have this attitude for
no reason. You're doing things in

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your relationship causing drama for no reason
because you believe something to be true that's

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not even true. Somebody told you
and oh the person is not credible.

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You know, they embellish things,
but you allow it to cause have it

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in your relationship. I mean,
people every day are living their lives this

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way, going through life, reaking
have it in their own lives, causing

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destruction in their own lives, causing
drama in their own lives because they believe

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in a lie. They believe in
something that's not true, and they have

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cultivated and watered and nourished that life, that negativity until they have grown into

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something major in their lives, something
that have consumed them of what you say,

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what you do. They don't believe
you, they don't believe you.

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And it's a horrible thing because,
like I said, a lot of people

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are put through the wringer. They
go through a lot of difficulty because of

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what other people have said about them
that's not even true, completely untrue,

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and a lot of people have really
gone down a bad road because they're treated

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so terribly because of what someone else
up said. That's one thing I hate

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working for the federal government. I've
seen and not only as a civilian,

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but during my military time as well. I've seen many occasions where a person

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is almost ostracized because someone said something
about that individual that was not true,

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and everybody around them got on the
bandwagon, treating that person as an outcast

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when the original initiator lied. But
people didn't take the time to know the

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person for themselves. They saw them
through the eyes of someone else. So

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people formulate things in their mind that
causes them to feel a certain way,

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to think and act a certain way
about someone or a situation when it's totally

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totally not what they think it is. But that mind is a powerful thing,

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good or bad, positive or negative. You can believe something for so

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long that you make it real in
your mind. You make it real in

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your mind, and I have seen
people who have destroyed their own lives because

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of that. They have fed into
the wrong things, They have believed the

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wrong things, knowing the people around
them, knowing how they truly are,

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knowing that they would never be the
person that they accuse them to be,

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but they can't see it because their
mindsets are very unhealthy. And so many

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people cause unnecessary drama in their own
lives, and as I said, some

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have led to self destruction. I've
told you plenty of times the mind can

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be your worst enemy, and it
is the worst enemy for most people.

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Oh yes, I will say for
most people, the mind is their worst

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enemy. People go through life trying
their hardest to be this and that for

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other people, but the whole time
you're feeling yourself because you're not even trying

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to be better for you. You
worried about trying to be this and that

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for someone else. When that person, that someone is jacked up, that

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someone has their own issues that they
have not faced, they have not resolved,

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But you're trying so hard to please
and appease that person that you fall

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deeper and deeper into the pit.
That's the way most people are. You

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spend all the time and energy on
someone else or something, but not on

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yourself, not trying to become the
best that you can be, not on

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resolving your issues, your internal issues, because what's going on inside of you

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is also what's causing you to be
who you are showing the world. And

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most people let the truth be told. It is what it is. Most

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people are living a lot. They
fay can pretend this and that for about

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themselves. It's a lot. People
spend more time covering up who they really

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are than they do trying to become
better. And it's really self neglect.

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It's failure, complete failure, but
failure that you have cost in your own

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life because you choose to remain the
same instead of changing and become a better

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person. That's why right now the
world we live in is a dark,

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cold place. It's a dark,
cold, evil, wicked place because of

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the people in it, hard to
have wax cold. People are seeking in

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certain things that they shouldn't hearts and
minds are on things that they shouldn't be

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on. People seeking everything but God, Jesus, the Son, God,

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the Father, everything other than that. And the world is in disarray.

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The world not just welly, but
the world. People around the world brokenness,

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brokenness, brokenness. And what's really
really unbelievable is people don't try to

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be better, they are becoming worse. They are becoming worse because they have

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all of this negativity and they're not
trying to change. Some people have been

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this way so long they are are
totally blind. They're totally blind to it.

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They don't even see what they do. They think everyone else around them

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is the bad guy, are wrong. They can see the flaws and everyone,

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but not in self. Blind,
blind, totally blind because they have

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believed a certain way for so long. It has consumed them and they don't

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even realize it. When I tell
you, it's a sad thing. Oh

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it's a sad thing, y'all.
It's a sad, sad thing when you

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can't see destruction in your right,
in your face, on your path,

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because you've made that type of path
for yourself, you can even see it.

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That's the real terrible part. You
can't even see it that you're heading

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down that road. Some of you
preach heaven. Oh you're going to heaven.

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Oh you you know you want to
see Jesus. You're doing this and

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you're doing that, but you don't
see you're heading straight for hell. You're

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so blind to it. You hadding
straight to hell because the things that you

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do and the things you say is
not of God. But you fooled yourself.

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You believed it so long that you
fooled yourself into thinking something that's not

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real as if it is real.
And so many people are living in the

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world like this today, so many. I mean, a person could tell

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you, I will give you a
million dollars right here, right now if

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you tell me what's going on with
you. You can't because you don't even

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realize it. And that's when it's
bad. That's when people can really go

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down that road of destruction. That's
when people can miss the gates of heaven

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and slide right into hell because they
don't see that. They're so consumed with

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what they believe that's not real.
They don't see reality. And that's a

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heartbreaking thought. That's a heartbreaking truth. It really is, It really is.

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And I know I can say it
because of something that has happened in

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my life, not to me,
but it may as well been to me.

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I know what I'm saying is true. And all the things that you

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seek and desire. The first that
I would pray that people grab hold or

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hold to is Jesus, because he
can change everything. He can give you

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a peace of mind, he can
give you a clear mind. He can

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make those bad thoughts good thoughts.
He could take all the cdliness out of

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your brain. He can make you
a new creature if you want it.

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But so many people are comfortable and
negative, and it's gonna be their demise.

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It's gonna be their demise. I've
seen it firsthand. I've seen it

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firsthand. That's why you should always
pray. Lord, show me, show

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me what I'm doing wrong, Lord, that I may get it right.

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Anything that I'm doing that's not of
you, Lord, show it to me,

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because I want to be pleasant in
your sight. Show me the ways

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of my era. That's what we
all should be praying, that we may

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be right in the eyesight of God. All of us should be praying that

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Jesus your will, God, your
will in my life, not my own.

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Your will. That's what we should
be praying. So we're not distracted,

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so we're not caught up in the
We're not caught up in what's not

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real, so we're not caught up
in all of the things that is causing

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us to stay on the path,
that is causing us to be blocked,

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that's causing us to miss our blessings, that's causing us all kind of different

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elements in our bodies, our minds, our souls. We have to we

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have to stay prayed up because we
on our own we will mess it up.

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But we gotta ask God to show
us. Give me a clean heart

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so that I may serve you with
understanding truth. Let me see Lord,

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anything that I'm doing that's not pleasing
in your sight. Anything that I'm doing,

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Father, God that's gonna keep me
from you, show it to me.

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Take away anything and everything that's not
of you, God, take it

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away. I don't want it.
Let me have a clean mind or clean

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heart, because at the end of
it all, nothing else matters. Nothing.

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You can't take anything with you.
You can't take anyone with you.

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I don't care if you die together, you going wherever you chose to go

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in that after life. You you're
gonna choose it while you're living, and

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when you depart from here, five
of you can go together in the same

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situation, but you're going to wherever
you chose while you were in your natural

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body. You five may go to
the same place. But wherever you go,

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it's according to what you chose when
you were living. Because every day

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we live it's a chance to get
it right. It's a chance to change,

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but people still are not changing.
People are becoming worse and worse no

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matter. We all see all of
the mess going on in the world,

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all of the destruction, but people
still choose the world. So we have

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to we have to want to be
And if you don't have a peace of

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mind, if you don't have that
peace within you, oh, it's gonna

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affect you completely. Holy mind,
body, and soul, it's going to

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affect you. And if that mind
is not right, that spirit man is

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not gonna be either, because that
spirit man is gonna go according to what

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you chose why you were living.
So we have to get it together.

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Stop living your life according to what
you believe is true. When it's not,

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ask the Lord for discernment, ask
for clarity, because I'm telling you,

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I'm telling you. I'm telling you
it can lead you to total destruction,

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total destruction. And I'm telling you
from personal experience, not nothing I

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did, but like I said,
it is almost like it was me.

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And it's devastating, devastating. So
you have to be strong in your faith,

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strong because some storms are gonna come. The wind's gonna blow so hard

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you don't know which way to go. But if you stay strong in your

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faith, if you stand on the
word of God, you can make it

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through any storm, any storm.
That's a promise, that's a guarantee.

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But that mind has to be right. Get your mind right, get your

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minds right, get your mind and
your heart right. Get your mind and

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heart on Jesus before it's too late. I'm leaving it right there. Thank

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you for listening. Much much much
much love, and to each and every

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one of you, please share this
episode. I end all episodes the same,

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and I pray in the name of
Jesus that you do it. Thank on it