1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:05,519 It's just like the old radio show with the additibility to swear a lot from 2 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:11,080 the mac of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dodge Jeep 3 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:28,760 Bram. It's bilified the Bill Moran Podcast. Well, hello and welcome. 4 00:00:28,879 --> 00:00:31,839 Thanks for getting your pawn on. Thanks for telling a friend. That's how 5 00:00:31,839 --> 00:00:38,679 we spread the word about the pirate ship. Kevin's here. Kevin said to 6 00:00:38,759 --> 00:00:41,600 me better day to day, and I said, yes, it actually was 7 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:46,039 a better day to day. But I was gonna start out talking about something 8 00:00:46,079 --> 00:00:50,000 that scared me. And then I remember shauns from the Rochester King Society is 9 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:51,640 going to be here, and I go, well, what I was gonna 10 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:55,359 say was kind of gross. Must have been that magical hug from Danny last 11 00:00:55,399 --> 00:00:58,280 night. They ended a better day today? Did Danny give me a hug? 12 00:00:58,679 --> 00:01:03,519 I don't know. I left eid no. What I was gonna say 13 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:08,640 is I learned today? Did you mind if I get a little disgusting shots. 14 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:14,200 I don't mean to be okay, So I've been trying to shed a 15 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:18,920 few pounds and one of the things, one of the things that's pretty good 16 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:22,560 for that is cocon on oil, and I used to use coconut oil and 17 00:01:22,599 --> 00:01:25,359 my coffee and stuff all the time, and I had to loop stuff up 18 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:29,159 for you. Oh yeah, it makes it a greasy highway. And so 19 00:01:29,239 --> 00:01:30,920 I had cocon on oil things, and all of a sudden, like the 20 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:36,799 past couple of days, to put it mildly, the flora and fauna have 21 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,480 changed a little bit. You didn't hang your asshole through the fence, did 22 00:01:38,719 --> 00:01:44,040 I did not? So Doug wanted to know. Yeah. So I went 23 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:48,920 home and I was going to the bathroom. Going to the bathroom, as 24 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,519 a friend of mine would say, and uh, I go, wow, 25 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,599 it's really dark, and it doesn't smell like doo doo. It smells like 26 00:01:56,000 --> 00:02:00,359 a like a pond. It smells like like like standing water. You ever 27 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:06,920 walked by it, like a stand it. You're getting the food? What 28 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:08,759 is going on? So then I'm talking to if I go in, it's 29 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:12,159 been very dark, and they go that that's a sign of a lot of 30 00:02:12,199 --> 00:02:15,280 iron, and I go, oh, I've been taking iron supplements. I 31 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:20,400 meant to buy zinc because zinc always helped me when I have cold and stuff, 32 00:02:20,439 --> 00:02:23,680 and I've been taking zinc and I picked up iron and I didn't realize 33 00:02:23,759 --> 00:02:25,280 like, oh, I go, I'll take iron, and it's been changing 34 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,840 everything. It's like you ate a lot of spinach. I thought the the 35 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:37,319 iron was supposed to make it like rock cards potentially, except that I mixed 36 00:02:37,319 --> 00:02:40,080 in the coconut oil. And I've been running and I drink a ton of 37 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:45,479 water, like one hundred and thirty ounces a day, so you know, 38 00:02:45,599 --> 00:02:47,599 I think that that's all there. So that's that's fantastic. And then I 39 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:52,039 noticed, since I'm going boy, because I even like god damned by the 40 00:02:52,039 --> 00:02:53,840 ball and go, this does not smell like dude, how deep did you 41 00:02:53,879 --> 00:02:58,199 get into this? The deep? I was concerned it was something wrong. 42 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,560 I was afraid there was something wrong with me. There is, because you're 43 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:07,199 getting no that it didn't smell like shit, I go, what is? 44 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:10,319 It almost smelled like a combination of something. No, no, no, 45 00:03:10,319 --> 00:03:15,199 no, it smelled like something was burning. And then like pond scum, 46 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:21,520 like standing ponts leave sometimes sorry, it's it's a lovely woman sitting here apparently 47 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:25,639 I don't know what. So and then I'm going, boy, I noticed 48 00:03:25,719 --> 00:03:30,919 smells like I go, I notice smells a lot like I've noticed a lot 49 00:03:30,039 --> 00:03:35,000 lately that men have been wearing too much goddamn cologne, some of these guys. 50 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,680 But today I'm on a run and I passed this this older, older 51 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:42,960 guy, and he kind of looks like Santa Claus and he's got a beard 52 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:46,080 and he's got a bill shirt on and he's huffing and walking. And as 53 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:47,560 I passed him, I went, I mean, like, that dude had 54 00:03:47,599 --> 00:03:53,159 on so much sunscreen he was gonna stay vampire white for the rest of his 55 00:03:53,199 --> 00:03:54,960 life. And you could smell the sunscreen as soon as I passed him. 56 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,840 I have no idea what it was, but I'm like, I'm very sensitive 57 00:03:59,879 --> 00:04:02,319 to smells and things, that's all. And I just noticed that. That 58 00:04:02,439 --> 00:04:05,240 was another conclusion I came to today. I go, boy, I got 59 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:09,800 a sense of the Floren Faught has changed a little. And then and then 60 00:04:10,639 --> 00:04:13,800 if you're in a studio time, it's gonna smell at the canal. Yeah, 61 00:04:13,919 --> 00:04:15,519 Jesus, it did. It's what it was like. There are parts 62 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,079 of the canal I've gone to in the kayak and I go, ohh man, 63 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:26,639 let head. Sean's very sorry. So Sean's is from the Rochester King 64 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:30,319 Society, and she came in here because we're gonna talk about their auction that's 65 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:33,800 coming up. But Sean said to me, I have a date after this. 66 00:04:33,879 --> 00:04:35,800 Am I allowed to say that? By the way, I didn't know. 67 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,680 And she said, uh, And she doesn't want to be on on 68 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:44,319 camera, so we don't have her on you can't see her face. And 69 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,439 she said I have a date tonight and I said oh, and she said, 70 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:51,319 yeah, a friend had moved away, right, And then I forgot 71 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:59,639 you're polyamorous. She got married on Saturday and has a date today. Yeah, 72 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:04,079 that just seems so weird. Now, when you got married, was 73 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:09,959 this a traditional wedding where someone walked you down the aisle? I walked myself 74 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:14,120 down the aisle. Okay, that's a traditional wedding. Traditional wedding and family? 75 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:20,279 Your parents and and do they know about the other stuff? My parents 76 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:24,560 do? His parents don't? Whoa your parents do? What do your parents 77 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:28,560 say about that? I'm just curious if you don't mind? My parents are 78 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,439 They're confused? They're confused? Okay, Yeah, I think most people would 79 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:36,079 may be full about it. But that's cool. Yeah, his parents don't 80 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:42,279 know. Would his parents how do you think his parents would react? They 81 00:05:42,319 --> 00:05:47,000 would not be happy, They would not be happy. Yeah, does he 82 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:53,000 do the same thing. Yeah, yeah, there you go. It's just 83 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:56,360 a difference. So how many people are you allowed to date? Like, 84 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,319 what are the rules? I would assume there's some sort of I forgotten. 85 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:00,800 I think you talked about this, forgive me. So it depends on the 86 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:03,879 couple, yes, or the person who's engaging in Polly, because it can 87 00:06:03,879 --> 00:06:06,240 be solo Polly as well. You don't have to be part of a established 88 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:10,319 couple to be Polly. You don't have to be part of a what established 89 00:06:10,639 --> 00:06:13,439 established couple? Yeah, you can just be like a single. Well that's 90 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:16,480 called dating, isn't it. Well, it's more like having relationships with multiple 91 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:20,519 people at the same time, where none of them is necessarily your primary partner. 92 00:06:21,079 --> 00:06:27,040 Yeah. Everybody's like a little section of the plate. Yeah. Food 93 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,800 yeah yeah. Yeah, it's like going to a buffan and going I got 94 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:31,199 like a little you and a little you and a little you. Think the 95 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:34,519 cars just walked past the window? Did you see those guys? Web? 96 00:06:34,879 --> 00:06:40,079 Yeah? I think it is. Oh, I think some some members of 97 00:06:40,079 --> 00:06:42,680 the cars are in town. Oh I didn't. I was just making it 98 00:06:42,759 --> 00:06:48,839 no good at me. I think I think it might be only because don't 99 00:06:48,879 --> 00:06:55,079 forget yeah, our upstairs. The guy who runs a fab gear has a 100 00:06:55,079 --> 00:06:57,839 band called Empty Hearts and it has members of the Cars. I just thought 101 00:06:57,879 --> 00:07:00,040 it was Tommy for a second burnette with this because Alb was wearing that hat. 102 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,800 Yeah, it wasn't too short. The other guy had the Ronnie Wood 103 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,720 mullet. Yeah, no, I'm pretty sure you're right. Yeah, I 104 00:07:06,759 --> 00:07:11,079 should have gone and grabbed him. If they walked by again, they're in 105 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:14,720 they're in a band. One of them looked familiar, like I've seen him 106 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,040 perform over at Iron Smoke, So I didn't know if they were local, 107 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,199 but there, I don't know who you saw walk by because there Maybe it's 108 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:25,759 possible that the members of the cars or down. Sorry do you even known? 109 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:30,000 How old are you? Twenty nine and you have no idea who the 110 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:34,279 cars are? Okay, So one of the first videos on MTV were Now 111 00:07:34,319 --> 00:07:41,519 When you were younger? Did MTV play videos or was it mostly surreal life 112 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:45,439 or what was it? It was mostly like the real old Real Real World 113 00:07:45,519 --> 00:07:48,279 relayed some videos. Surreal Life was VH one, Yeah, okay, it 114 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:51,560 played some videos. It was mostly getting into some of the reality TV stuff 115 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,639 stuff like that. Yeah, it could be the very very end of videos. 116 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,279 Yeah, that's right around. Yeah, so you don't you don't, 117 00:08:00,439 --> 00:08:03,600 so you have no idea who the cars are and your parents didn't play the 118 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:05,920 cars. I don't think so. No, So your parents have got to 119 00:08:05,959 --> 00:08:11,720 be somewhere between forty five and sixty Yeah, yeah, pretty good. Guess 120 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:16,000 there, thank you at least fifteen year rains and I've opened it up. 121 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,920 Well, I don't know. They could have had her very young. I 122 00:08:20,079 --> 00:08:22,319 was thirty when she had me. Okay, so that would put her a 123 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:26,120 little bit older. Yeah, uh, late fifties. Yeah, so she 124 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:28,519 would know the cars. Your mom would know the cars. Well, no, 125 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:33,519 I think you probably wouldn't know the car. We'll play some cars when 126 00:08:33,519 --> 00:08:35,559 we come back and see if you can actually know that. But back to 127 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:41,120 your So you had a wedding and the whole. I mean normally, if 128 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,720 you got married Saturday, you'd still be on your honeymoon. Well, we 129 00:08:43,759 --> 00:08:46,679 just bought a house, so we're not going congratulations on that. It's a 130 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:50,399 big deal. It's a last investment. And are you going to go on 131 00:08:50,399 --> 00:08:54,559 a honeymoon? Probably not. No, we're going camping with some friends next 132 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:58,120 weekend. But what isn't that the Rochester king thing or is this your Is 133 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:03,399 that part of the Rochester Kink? Yeah, camping. Yeah, and when 134 00:09:03,399 --> 00:09:09,799 you go to the Rochester Kink camping, is that would you be like polling 135 00:09:09,919 --> 00:09:11,559 there? I don't know how to say it. Well, none of my 136 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:16,519 partners would be there, but I might, uh just hang out with my 137 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:22,840 friends. What does that mean we sunbathe like me? Some bathe? They 138 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:24,559 can't do it walking No, no, no, no, I hang on 139 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:28,480 a second. But see, I'm wondering if you were so, you wouldn't 140 00:09:28,519 --> 00:09:31,919 hook up on anybody. Probably not some people like last year. There was 141 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:39,120 not last year. The last time, like in June there was some people 142 00:09:39,159 --> 00:09:43,639 had a like mud wrestling and then had an orgy. But what they had 143 00:09:43,639 --> 00:09:46,919 a mud wrestling and then an orgy. They got cleaned up first and then 144 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:50,879 it makes it no fun last use infections. Yes, I go, well, 145 00:09:50,919 --> 00:09:54,840 I'm sure. So they had mud wrestling, like legitimate mud in the 146 00:09:54,919 --> 00:09:56,279 mud. It just kind of broke out sort of thing. We had a 147 00:09:56,360 --> 00:10:00,919 swimming pool like a kiddie pool flow, so this was set up. Yeah, 148 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:05,480 and who is wrestling in it? Just a bunch of people like they 149 00:10:05,519 --> 00:10:09,759 were You would just call somebody out and the two of you get in there. 150 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,879 Did it get really rough, not really rough, but really like silly 151 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:18,080 okay, yeah, very casual. Yeah, mostly lots of touching. Oh, 152 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,320 I got it. Yeah. So was it a lot of like, 153 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:24,039 well, male, it could be either way, It could be anything like 154 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,559 male female female female male male. Yeah, it was a little bit of 155 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:31,480 everything. Yeah. And then after that an orgy broke out. Yes, 156 00:10:33,519 --> 00:10:37,039 at the campsites. Yeah. Did anybody get back in the mud? I 157 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:41,120 think they were done at the mud at their twin mud whistled. It was 158 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:46,679 a little dark, got a little dark for the mind. What do you 159 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:50,919 mean? It was right there, I sitting right there, So I'm I 160 00:10:52,039 --> 00:10:54,480 can't I have a hard time like your parents a little bit. I certainly 161 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:58,440 if that's what's gonna make you as long as you see here would be the 162 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:03,799 thing if you were in any relation to me, whether a child, sibling, 163 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:07,039 whatever. I just wanted you to be happy. As long as you're 164 00:11:07,039 --> 00:11:11,679 happy and healthy. Whatever you want is your business. But it I think 165 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:18,519 in like for vanilla folk like me, it's hard to wrap my head around 166 00:11:18,519 --> 00:11:20,840 the fact that I would get married Saturday and I have a date with somebody 167 00:11:20,879 --> 00:11:22,519 else. Although there's a lot of people who go, hey, you know 168 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:26,639 what, that sounds pretty dark good to me, right, But how long 169 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:31,399 have you been with the person you married? Well, so we started I 170 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:37,120 knew. I've known him since twenty thirteen and okay, so that's almost ten 171 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:43,240 years. Yeah, and we started dating around twenty eighteen. M But there's 172 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:46,639 no such thing as exclusivity. If he came to you and said, at 173 00:11:46,639 --> 00:11:52,720 any point I really prefer to just be exclusive just you and me, you 174 00:11:52,759 --> 00:11:56,919 would be Yeah. So who's who brought the polly into the relationship? Both 175 00:11:56,919 --> 00:12:01,840 of us? It was kind of well, we started and buy like partner 176 00:12:01,879 --> 00:12:05,960 swapping, and then we lost our other partners. You start, so you 177 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,559 guys were dating and then you found other partners and you would swing with them, 178 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:13,879 so to speak. Would that be traditional swinging? So what she's saying 179 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,600 is that they started out with other people you too, me and the other 180 00:12:16,639 --> 00:12:20,440 person, and then they got rid of you and me and made them and 181 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:24,320 they okay, yeah, I got you. Okay, so you were you 182 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:28,399 went in as a single person to this group of four. No, I 183 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:33,159 have no idea what's happening. I had a boyfriend, yes all, and 184 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:35,919 he had a girlfriend he had a girlfriend, and he and the girlfriend went 185 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:43,440 off and left you alone, no shooting. He broke up with his girlfriend, 186 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:45,840 and I broke up with my boyfriend. Oh, and then we were 187 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,519 together and together? Yeah? And were you exclusive at all at any point? 188 00:12:50,039 --> 00:12:52,399 I don't think we've ever been exclusive? Okay? But and so what 189 00:12:52,399 --> 00:12:56,600 what do you do? Like tonight you go out on this day? And 190 00:12:56,919 --> 00:13:01,039 will you go home? Yeah? Okay? And and when you go home, 191 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:05,399 like, what do you say to him? Who? Man, my 192 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:09,360 tire? That gotta really warm me up? No, I mean with what 193 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:11,799 great conversation? Yet? I mean, do you talk about the date you 194 00:13:11,799 --> 00:13:15,799 went on a little bit? You do? Yeah? Okay? Not every 195 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,679 couple, like, not every Polly couple will do that. There's different types 196 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,799 of Polly. Yeah, who cares about other Polly couples? I want to 197 00:13:20,799 --> 00:13:26,960 know what shots does? I just I'm fascinated by this. Yeah, we'll 198 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:33,000 talk about how it went when we did, like I moved super slow. 199 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:37,039 Okay, So like I haven't even met like kissed the next like this guy 200 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:39,600 yet? Okay, all right, so we're still getting to know each other. 201 00:13:39,919 --> 00:13:45,279 Yeah, but like, does this guy who you're going out on the 202 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:46,919 date with, does he know you're married. Yeah, he came to the 203 00:13:46,919 --> 00:13:52,720 wedding. Oh shit, what did he bring you? And what was the 204 00:13:52,799 --> 00:13:56,320 gift? Just danced? No, No, he didn't bring me a gift. 205 00:13:56,639 --> 00:14:00,240 He didn't bring a wedding gift. We didn't ask for gifts. You 206 00:14:00,279 --> 00:14:03,000 gotta get gifts. Some people gave us gifts, but we didn't know. 207 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:05,480 It's usually just money, is what you bring. I would think, Ye, 208 00:14:05,639 --> 00:14:07,879 all right, so this guy was at your wedding and now you're gonna 209 00:14:07,919 --> 00:14:09,799 go out on a date. And he's not weird about it at all, 210 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:15,080 Like I've been married too, and she knows. Yeah that see, that 211 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:18,080 would be weird to me, Like I would. I'd be like, came 212 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,000 home, I'm like, I don't even talk to me. I don't even 213 00:14:20,039 --> 00:14:22,799 want to know. I don't even want to know. Did you burp? 214 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:24,080 I smell penis? I don't want to know. I mean, that's that's 215 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:28,039 what I would think in my head. It would be it would be horrible. 216 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:33,240 Well not everyone's polyamorous or not. Okay, yeah, but there's been 217 00:14:33,279 --> 00:14:37,320 no So you go on the date tonight, you go home, like would 218 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:41,159 you kiss your husband good night? Yeah? It would be weird, just 219 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:45,039 be weird for me that I'd have a hard time. It'd be super jealous. 220 00:14:45,399 --> 00:14:48,639 I would be super jealous. You don't get any jealous jealousy at all. 221 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:52,559 Sometimes there's a little bit of jealousy, but you deal with it, 222 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:56,159 you talk about it. Does that ever, does it turn you on at 223 00:14:56,200 --> 00:15:01,399 the idea of him going on a date with somebody not really no, no, 224 00:15:01,639 --> 00:15:05,159 okay, and even seeing him in any way, like I like it 225 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:09,519 turns the on. Whant to see him happy? Yeah? You know, 226 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:16,240 like, yeah, okay, So tonight's the date. And then I saw 227 00:15:16,799 --> 00:15:20,159 there's a couple of events this weekend that the Rochester king Society has on. 228 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:22,679 Yeah, Friday, we have a play party. So you have to be 229 00:15:22,799 --> 00:15:26,679 vetted to attend that, right, And how do you get vetted? Again? 230 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:30,919 So you, uh, there's a form online you fill out and we'll 231 00:15:30,919 --> 00:15:33,480 contact you. But the easier way is to go on our discord and open 232 00:15:33,519 --> 00:15:37,360 a ticket. Yeah, and say I want to be vetted and someone will 233 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:41,440 vte you on discord And is that faster? It is faster? Okay? 234 00:15:41,519 --> 00:15:46,720 So someone could someone go who's hearing this? Like, it's tomorrow, It's 235 00:15:46,759 --> 00:15:50,000 tomorrow night, so today I vetting. But if they want to come to 236 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:54,320 another we had Sunday, we have our picnic where we do vettings in person, 237 00:15:54,519 --> 00:15:58,679 in person. Yeah, okay, but the the but the Friday night 238 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:03,120 event is what is it called a play party? A play party? And 239 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:08,360 refresh our memory on what happens at a play party? So little different BDSM 240 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:11,720 events. So our play parties are a little different where we don't allow a 241 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:17,799 penetration. Right, but you'll see some many people getting beat maybe lap dances, 242 00:16:18,639 --> 00:16:25,080 people doing rope, people doing pet play, maybe some age play. 243 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:30,039 See that sounds like almost impossible. Did you get all like this stuff turns 244 00:16:30,039 --> 00:16:32,320 you on? Kevin for example? Right, you get it all turned on, 245 00:16:32,399 --> 00:16:37,320 You're all roped up and nothing else can happen. There can be no 246 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:44,240 penetration, no penetration. Let's the after party. Maybe you get an invite. 247 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:47,200 You hope to get the invite. Yeah yeah, maybe you don't get 248 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:53,039 the invite though, maybe something to shoot no thank you, like to kid 249 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:59,200 now, who farted? It's terrible, that's awful. Well, it's it's 250 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:03,480 so it's it's so strange to me. But I think that the fact that 251 00:17:03,519 --> 00:17:07,119 you're open and willing to talk about it, I think it just shows you 252 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:12,799 like. I think that's what makes the world great is all different people. 253 00:17:14,079 --> 00:17:17,000 Not everybody should be the same. We shouldn't all like the same stuff, 254 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,799 we shouldn't all be the same. But at the same time, just because 255 00:17:19,799 --> 00:17:26,559 we're not the same doesn't mean we should judge, or we all judge. 256 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:29,640 Let me take that back, because you can't help it, you're gonna judge, 257 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,079 but we shouldn't. We don't need to be mean about it. We 258 00:17:32,079 --> 00:17:36,680 don't need to be negative about it. And I find the whole thing curious 259 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:40,960 because I go, I just cannot from a psychological standpoint. People may say 260 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:44,559 to me, you get a secret thing, you really want to do this. 261 00:17:45,079 --> 00:17:48,880 No, I don't. I just I can't wrap my head around how 262 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:56,440 people how it works without jealousy and some people getting really angry and that kind 263 00:17:56,440 --> 00:18:00,640 of stuff. Well, if you're not, if you're if you're not monogamous, 264 00:18:02,079 --> 00:18:04,480 you still might have those feelings. Yes, but you just talk about 265 00:18:04,519 --> 00:18:08,000 him. Maybe you guys are probably No, I think you're like on a 266 00:18:08,039 --> 00:18:14,559 different plane in terms of probably communication. You're able to really talk about your 267 00:18:14,599 --> 00:18:19,599 wants and needs and likes and dislikes and have calm conversations. Yeah, you 268 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:23,759 negotiate for what you want. You negotiate for what you want. Yeah, 269 00:18:23,799 --> 00:18:27,079 okay, Like give me an example of what you've had to negotiate for. 270 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,400 Have you ever seen a guy and God, I really want to get with 271 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,680 that guy? How am I going to negotiate with my husband to get over 272 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:38,880 there? Generally we haven't had to negotiate that in a very long time. 273 00:18:40,599 --> 00:18:45,119 But like it would be like, hey, I think this person's cute. 274 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:52,400 What do you think about him? I've I'm going to do this, and 275 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:56,279 you might be like, actually he's a serial killer, stay away, Like 276 00:18:56,480 --> 00:19:02,079 whoa, Okay, I didn't know that. I'll you know, I'll take 277 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:07,000 your opinion into account or he'll say I don't really like him, but like 278 00:19:07,519 --> 00:19:10,720 you do you? Okay, and I'll be like maybe I'll set come to 279 00:19:10,759 --> 00:19:14,720 guess what I want. Yeah, okay. So it's almost like somebody to 280 00:19:14,839 --> 00:19:18,680 sort of vet someone thrown away? Yeah for yourself? Sure? Yeah? 281 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:22,400 And how many partners do you have currently? Just my husband and I'm dating 282 00:19:22,599 --> 00:19:26,920 your husband and you're dating this one person. Yeah, it's very new, 283 00:19:26,279 --> 00:19:30,240 very new. Yeah, like not even like I wouldn't call my boyfriend or 284 00:19:30,279 --> 00:19:36,160 anything prior to that. What was I once was seeing like a guy for 285 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,839 every day of the week when I first started, probably, but none of 286 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,519 them were super serious. I had maybe like two or three serious people. 287 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:47,079 After two to three, you kind of like, you know, lose weekends 288 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,079 in the month and you don't really have time for everyone, right, So 289 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:53,000 people generally max out on two or three. I know people with four or 290 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:59,200 five. Whoa and do they do these dates that they're doing them one on 291 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:07,960 one? Sometimes? Sometimes they Sometimes people date as a couple or date as 292 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:12,319 a group. Okay, but I haven't done that. Yeah, this this 293 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:17,119 is this is my brain is melting. You see them open to a lot 294 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:19,759 of different things. Is there anything in that you've heard or you're just like, 295 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:26,880 the hell is wrong with you? I tried to think shame. I 296 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:30,319 just I you know, I just say there might be something somewhere, yes, 297 00:20:30,599 --> 00:20:32,640 where you go. I couldn't do that. Is there anything that you 298 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:37,319 would say that's something I couldn't do? It's not necessarily shaming anyone up nose 299 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:40,480 and shoot whipped cream into it. What's wrong with you? I think sometimes 300 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:45,680 when people have like multiple children with multiple people all at the same time, 301 00:20:45,079 --> 00:20:49,160 Yes, it gets a little untenable. Yes, I wouldn't say it's wrong, 302 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:55,480 but when you have like fifty sixty children, it's like five six wives 303 00:20:55,759 --> 00:21:00,599 who had fifty or sixty children's five you know, Somerman's like sister wives kind 304 00:21:00,599 --> 00:21:03,880 of deal. But is there does that stuff go on? I haven't seen 305 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:08,160 or heard much of it. Okay, in that's mostly out West. Yeah, 306 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,640 I know, I know, but had that show. I know, 307 00:21:11,759 --> 00:21:15,039 but I always they had a whole cult to sack. It was weird, 308 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,000 and I think it's okay, it's a little untenable. So well, now 309 00:21:18,079 --> 00:21:22,440 here's a question. You're dating, and I know you said you move slow, 310 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,079 but there's a potential that you and this guy would become intimate physically. 311 00:21:26,279 --> 00:21:30,960 Yes, okay, if you at some point you and your husband want to 312 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:37,880 have children, how would you make sure it's his? You are condoms, 313 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:41,000 Oh, I could answer that one. Yeah, but they're not always effective. 314 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:44,559 It's what I'm saying, you pull out. You don't have vaginal sacks. 315 00:21:44,599 --> 00:21:47,319 There's other types of sacks. Okay, Yeah, she say, hey, 316 00:21:47,319 --> 00:21:49,640 I'm trying to get pregnant. That would see that would be again weird. 317 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,559 And I apologize for for giggling. And I hope that's not an insulting, 318 00:21:53,559 --> 00:21:56,799 but it's just it's like it's laughing the way she answered you stupid. 319 00:21:57,039 --> 00:22:00,960 Well, no, I understand the condom thing. But I'm going that is 320 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:04,319 not how many people have gone, well I had a condom on? How 321 00:22:04,319 --> 00:22:10,119 did this happen? Well, you know, shit happens. There's ways of 322 00:22:10,279 --> 00:22:12,720 using condoms, to use it the entire time. Yeah, you don't just 323 00:22:12,759 --> 00:22:15,160 put on at the end, you know, like, yeah, no, 324 00:22:15,279 --> 00:22:18,960 I know what the entire time. Sometimes people have had mistakes. That's all 325 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:25,079 I'm saying. Yeah, I mean it's rare. Yes, yes, I 326 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:26,400 know. But if you're oh, I got you that you would know. 327 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,839 Yeah, all right, never mind, this is all gone weight beyond my 328 00:22:30,039 --> 00:22:32,880 thing. I don't teach sex in the States. It's okay, you don't 329 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:37,799 teach sex aids in the States. Not not this way, not the way 330 00:22:37,839 --> 00:22:41,640 I'm trying to figure it out. All right, we'll take a moment when 331 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,920 we come back. Little cars. I think you're you'll know the cars, 332 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:49,240 Okay, I think you will. And I have been saying since this person 333 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:53,599 kind of popped back into the news, we gotta be careful. I think 334 00:22:53,640 --> 00:23:00,640 everybody's making a mistake. I think everybody's making a mistake and I must be 335 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:04,000 proven right. This is just one more step in that direction. 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Now that's really 383 00:27:03,039 --> 00:27:10,720 cute. Yeah, that's it. Yes, Yeah, these are the cars 384 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:17,759 and uh some members of the cars are in Empty Hearts, which is Andy 385 00:27:17,759 --> 00:27:22,960 Bobby u Span and Andy has a studio, a separate studio other than the 386 00:27:22,079 --> 00:27:30,359 fab gear store down along in the canal that three heads. Uh yeah, 387 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,079 I think practices that. Yes, I think it does. I think there's 388 00:27:33,079 --> 00:27:34,720 a practice. Jeff Dale. Jeff yes, Jeff Dale. I think. 389 00:27:37,079 --> 00:27:40,799 No, that's what's going on. Why am I hearing something? Because I 390 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:44,279 suck? All right, that's fine. I just want to make sure we're 391 00:27:44,319 --> 00:27:48,359 not hearing anything. Uh So I have been saying for a while, well, 392 00:27:48,519 --> 00:27:51,240 you're probably of the age. At any point in your life, Shans, 393 00:27:51,279 --> 00:27:53,920 were you a fan of Britney Spears. Yeah, yeah, I mean 394 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,160 her music right, it was kind of fun, poppy. She was a 395 00:27:57,279 --> 00:28:02,559 huge star for a long time time. Then did you watch any of the 396 00:28:02,599 --> 00:28:07,359 documentaries that came out? No? So I started to get concerned a little 397 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:12,119 bit, only because as a parent, I go, something's not adding up 398 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:17,599 to me with all this free Brittany stuff. I'm not saying that it shouldn't 399 00:28:17,599 --> 00:28:22,960 be looked into. Probably there's a conservatorship, and I think that certainly it 400 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:26,920 gave conservatorship an ugly name. And now when we hear it with Michael or 401 00:28:26,319 --> 00:28:30,240 you kind of go, oh, but her dad was in control of her 402 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:34,359 money and stuff. And I'm watching this and I go, I think he 403 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:41,240 would do that for an adult, to try to protect them from themselves. 404 00:28:41,799 --> 00:28:45,559 In other words, like you may just be manic and spend all your money 405 00:28:45,559 --> 00:28:49,359 on something ridiculous. So Michael Jackson, I think at times I thought he 406 00:28:49,519 --> 00:28:53,680 was pretty close to broke, but he would go and buy things like giraffes, 407 00:28:53,799 --> 00:28:57,319 you know what I mean. He had enough money to live a wonderful 408 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:02,559 life, but he took a little too far. And I don't I'm not 409 00:29:02,599 --> 00:29:07,240 saying I'm not trying to besmirched the dead in anyway. I'm just I'm just 410 00:29:07,279 --> 00:29:07,960 trying to say, no, I don't think something. I don't. I 411 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,039 don't think so, I'm not sure it's sure. They just removed a tumor 412 00:29:11,079 --> 00:29:15,799 from one of the Seneca Park Zoo. So, but so, I didn't 413 00:29:15,839 --> 00:29:18,440 know what was happening with Brittany, And not that I'm a big Brittany fan, 414 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:22,039 but I bring this up only because I think a lot of times their 415 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:26,640 snap judgment with stuff. How could they possibly her Dad's gonna control all her 416 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,640 money. Dad put her out back to Vegas to make her make money. 417 00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,000 I don't know. Maybe there is some truth to that, but I would 418 00:29:33,039 --> 00:29:37,400 think that the main purpose, at least in the beginning, was to sort 419 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:45,839 of protect her from herself, and then she winds up having the conservatorship dissolved. 420 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,920 And it really came about because of these documentaries. I think there were 421 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:52,279 two or three of them on different streaming platforms that were all over I think 422 00:29:52,279 --> 00:29:56,079 there was. I think the one that a lot of people saw was on 423 00:29:56,200 --> 00:30:00,440 Hulu, and I only know that because it was the one you didn't It's 424 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,039 the one streaming service I refute. I just go I can't I'm not buying 425 00:30:03,079 --> 00:30:07,039 any more ship and yet I buy every other thing. But I just want 426 00:30:07,039 --> 00:30:11,680 to think we're gonna get you that. Okay. So then I see today 427 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:18,920 or yesterday Britney Spears. It comes across from TMZ because I follow TMZ because 428 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,680 I'm a fourteen year old girl, and it says, uh, Britney Spears 429 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,359 seen without her wedding ring, out without her wedding ring. And then later 430 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:32,640 in the day her husband sam Asgari I think is his name. Uh, 431 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:37,039 they're going he filed for divorce and I'm watching this. Didn't they just get 432 00:30:37,039 --> 00:30:41,160 married recently? Yeah? He was the one in all the pictures when she 433 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:45,519 was dancing around on the beach topless and whatever back in the spring, right, 434 00:30:45,599 --> 00:30:49,000 yes, Okay, So like she's done all these sort of strange things 435 00:30:49,119 --> 00:30:56,880 on I'm gonna say typical social media. It's not like an only fans where 436 00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,640 he would maybe see that sort of thing. But I mean, I would 437 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,960 think, for the most part, you're gonna, you know, even though 438 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:07,680 you're polyamorous, you're not gonna put any photos on Instagram or Facebook that would 439 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,640 kind of make your future your in laws call up and go, whoa, 440 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:15,000 what the hell's going on. I'm pretty private on my social media. Yeah, 441 00:31:15,079 --> 00:31:18,759 that's okay. Well, so Brittany would like be dancing in her underwear 442 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:22,200 in the middle of her I mean, just spinning and spinning. I mean 443 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,799 she started to look like to me, and I don't even know if you'll 444 00:31:25,839 --> 00:31:29,119 get this reference, but she started to look like the stripper you would see 445 00:31:29,119 --> 00:31:32,000 at three o'clock in the afternoon at the Classy Cat when it was you know 446 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:37,039 what I mean, that was not your peak timed for a stripper. And 447 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,720 I'm watching this and I see this deterioration and now I go, she's getting 448 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:44,279 divorced, and I'm I'm thinking this guy is probably like I can't handle this. 449 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,400 I don't know. Sources say they got no huge fight because he accused 450 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:52,240 her of cheating, and he moved out and got his own place. There 451 00:31:52,319 --> 00:31:56,319 was a prenup in place, and I don't even know how long they were 452 00:31:56,359 --> 00:31:59,559 married. That was the question I was gonna ask, was there involved? 453 00:31:59,599 --> 00:32:02,480 There was a up, but at least he's trying to get more than he 454 00:32:02,559 --> 00:32:08,480 agreed to by the threatening to release quote extraordinarily embarrassing information about Brittany, which 455 00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:12,880 I'm like, that's shitty. That's a shitty. You can't do that. 456 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,960 You can't do that if you want to, I know. But Brittany and 457 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:21,720 Salmon reportedly have had his shoes from on, sometimes leading to blow out fights 458 00:32:21,759 --> 00:32:24,039 where Brittany would get physical with Sam. And he hasn't been staying at the 459 00:32:24,039 --> 00:32:28,400 house much during that time. I probably believe all this. I think they 460 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,319 by I think she needs some help. I know that sounds. I don't 461 00:32:32,319 --> 00:32:36,640 mean that to be mean. I mean that honestly from like, I don't 462 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,880 know how to say this other than from a place of love. I'm watching 463 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:40,960 this and I said in the beginning, and go, man, don't be 464 00:32:42,039 --> 00:32:45,400 jumping to these conclusions about the conservatorship. I think it was a way for 465 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:50,079 her parents to try to keep a lid on an adult child who could really 466 00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:54,200 really self destruct. And I think we're witnessing this self destruction. And I 467 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:59,039 blame you, America, Seriously, I blame you. I mean, if 468 00:32:59,039 --> 00:33:02,359 something goes bad, whose fault is it? Really? Everybody who is rallying 469 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:07,519 and screaming free Brittany and all this pushback, pushback, and maybe there should 470 00:33:07,519 --> 00:33:13,440 have been somebody who explored the conservatorship further to find out what you know, 471 00:33:13,599 --> 00:33:16,359 was the money really being misused? And what's she being forced to work? 472 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:20,039 And because that's not right, I'm not saying that's right. And it may 473 00:33:20,079 --> 00:33:22,160 have been a situation where they sent her to Vegas to do those shows because 474 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:27,599 she's accustomed to this lifestyle and this conservatorship is paying this. She's not bringing 475 00:33:27,599 --> 00:33:30,839 in the money she used to. This is refilling her bank so she can 476 00:33:30,839 --> 00:33:32,839 continue to live that. Okay, that would be a pretty logical thing. 477 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:36,680 And that's what I thought as well. And it was a residency, so 478 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,480 she wasn't on the road. It was, you know, right there all 479 00:33:38,519 --> 00:33:43,000 the time. And I'm not trying to pick on anybody. I'm just saying 480 00:33:43,079 --> 00:33:46,599 I think we are watching someone who's going to self destruct. And I don't 481 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:51,200 I don't know if she'll make it the fifty what is she forty something? 482 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:52,880 Now? What's doctor Drew said. I'm sure he's had comments. He's always 483 00:33:53,119 --> 00:33:58,599 always in there telling everybody what she needs to do. She should try to 484 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,759 call doctor Drew and see I can get him. I used to have some 485 00:34:00,839 --> 00:34:06,119 context with doctor or two years ago, but I don't. I don't know. 486 00:34:06,519 --> 00:34:08,800 I haven't seen anybody I have seen nobody saying what I'm saying. So 487 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:13,440 I'm not not that I've been looking. It's just been my gut feeling on 488 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,159 this is like, oh boy, this girl is going to self destruct and 489 00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:19,840 everybody's going to stand by and go, how did that happen? You know? 490 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,480 How to fuck do you think it happened? They had a conservator ship 491 00:34:22,519 --> 00:34:24,440 to try to keep a lid on this, and we're watching her and we're 492 00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:29,639 all and I think you're either laughing at her or scrolling past as she's spinning 493 00:34:29,679 --> 00:34:31,760 around like that stripper at three o'clock in the afternoon. This is this is 494 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:37,320 sad and nobody cares. You know, It's America, I know, and 495 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,280 I don't. It's like, who's going Why should I care about breakers? 496 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:44,800 I'm just saying, like, there there, there was all this rally to 497 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:46,599 get her free, and now that she looks like she needs help, where 498 00:34:46,639 --> 00:34:50,800 are you? If the ship shows down to the channel you're watching, change 499 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:54,079 the channel. There'll be another ship show. Absolutely there will get that TVs 500 00:34:54,159 --> 00:35:00,320 time starts, yes, yes, do you ever is there ever speaking of 501 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:06,440 like I don't know that mental health necessarily, but has there ever been anybody 502 00:35:06,559 --> 00:35:10,239 in one of these situations where let's say at a Rochester kink something where someone 503 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:15,920 kind of breaks down emotionally because it was a little more than they expected emotionally. 504 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,679 There is really it happens once in a while. Yeah, and how 505 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,800 how do you guys try to help that person? Because you seem like a 506 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:28,000 very just kind, authentically kind person that you would be. When we do 507 00:35:28,039 --> 00:35:30,519 our vettings, we ask if there's anything that triggers you that you know of, 508 00:35:31,599 --> 00:35:35,679 Oh what is that? I don't even know what the fuck trigger is? 509 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,039 So something that causes you to be going to a fight flight, freeze 510 00:35:38,079 --> 00:35:42,519 or fawn situation, oh feeling? And give you three off the air? 511 00:35:43,039 --> 00:35:51,000 Three for me? Did you give me three right now? It's a dick 512 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:55,440 okay, But I'm I'm thinking like there are times I've gotten I've gotten angry. 513 00:35:55,519 --> 00:35:59,039 It just it comes on like I mean, you ever see one of 514 00:35:59,079 --> 00:36:01,559 these pop up thunderstorm in Florida? But I seem to come out of nowhere. 515 00:36:01,639 --> 00:36:06,599 That's how Sometimes my anger is like boom and then it's gone. So 516 00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,679 that's part of the vetting process. Yes, okay, And if it's too 517 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:14,679 much for you, we asked that you remove yourself in the situation, maybe 518 00:36:14,679 --> 00:36:19,440 go out into the hallway. It's a lot of personal responsibility to handle your 519 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,599 own emotions like an adult. Yeah, it is a lot of personal response, 520 00:36:22,679 --> 00:36:24,239 but it would be hard if, like I agree to it. Let's 521 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:30,880 say husband and wife been together for a couple of years and he said, 522 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:32,679 hey, why don't we spice it up? I was thinking, we go 523 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:37,039 to the Rochester King Society, they both get vetted, they both get in 524 00:36:37,079 --> 00:36:40,320 there, they're at an event and he starts, let's just say, flirting, 525 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:44,880 not even really do anything, and she's getting really uncomfortable, and no 526 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,840 one's really flirting with her, and she's putting off a vibe of just discomfort. 527 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:52,880 Someone will generally walk over and see if she's okay. Really, yeah, 528 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,079 you can see that, yeah, yeah, And then what happens from 529 00:36:55,079 --> 00:36:59,320 there. If she says she's not okay, we sometimes say can we help, 530 00:37:00,159 --> 00:37:01,840 And if she says grabbed my husband. I want to talk to him, 531 00:37:02,039 --> 00:37:06,559 we'll go intervene and say, hey, your wife wants to talk to 532 00:37:06,599 --> 00:37:09,400 you, and then we leave it up to them. Yeah, do you 533 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:13,320 ever have like big bouncers or anything. They're just in case sh goes down? 534 00:37:14,639 --> 00:37:20,599 No, Well, I bring that up because there was a furry party. 535 00:37:20,639 --> 00:37:22,159 Have you ever been to a furry party? No, that looks a 536 00:37:22,159 --> 00:37:25,199 little weird to me. It seems a warm and itchy. Yeah, okay, 537 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:29,559 good see, I'm so glad there's something that just you would. So 538 00:37:29,599 --> 00:37:36,719 this was at a beach near La and there was yeah yeah, So a 539 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:38,719 bunch of furries had this big beach party. It's an annual thing called the 540 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:45,039 Sunset Beats Bonfire fur Meat where it's like a meat up for meat where people 541 00:37:45,079 --> 00:37:52,280 show up dressed as animals. Some guy refused to stop filming them, so 542 00:37:52,679 --> 00:37:55,159 one of the head furries, the guy who was dressed like a wolf pirate, 543 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:59,400 he had like a patch over his eye, and all started beating the 544 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:12,039 guy with a bullhorn and it sounded like this, d you beat them up, 545 00:38:24,639 --> 00:38:40,400 you ass kicked the start. And then but here's the weird part. 546 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:45,079 You watch the footage of this and there's people with just like just a mask 547 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:49,360 on, just a head like the mask singer and kind of head, and 548 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:52,360 they're bend over trying to help this guy, but they have like no shirt 549 00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,679 on because it's the beach. Some other people just have tails sticking out of 550 00:38:55,719 --> 00:39:00,000 their pants and I get it looks it just looks ridiculous. I held a 551 00:39:00,039 --> 00:39:04,960 tan line from the neck up. I don't understand. Nothing like that has 552 00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:08,440 ever happened Rochester King Society. No, everything's pretty chill. It seems like 553 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:12,519 everything is probably pretty chill. Yeah. Yeah, if like we had an 554 00:39:12,559 --> 00:39:15,960 issue, someone wouldn't stop filming or wouldn't you know. Yeah, that's an 555 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:19,880 outsider though. So this was like in a public space. No one's filming 556 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,880 at one of your events? Public space? Yeah. Yeah, if we 557 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:28,760 had an event in a public space and someone wasn't stopping filming, or we 558 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:32,519 would just call the cops, okay, yeah, or just leave or just 559 00:39:32,639 --> 00:39:37,079 leave yeah, or just leave take your party somewhere else. Because if it 560 00:39:37,119 --> 00:39:39,360 was like a private event, like if we were at so when you go 561 00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:44,400 camping that there's nobody at private there's nobody else that they camp So you ran 562 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:50,320 out the entire campground for the weekend. Wow, it's not a huge campground. 563 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:55,000 No, I'm just thinking like wolves and coyotes howling and then hearing you 564 00:39:55,039 --> 00:39:59,559 guys howl. Well, in order she broke out, she said. The 565 00:39:59,599 --> 00:40:01,519 last when you say like an orgy broke out, was it wasn't planned? 566 00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:07,679 No, how does it like, did you mac go to college? I 567 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:10,760 never had an orgy never. I've never been either. No, I've never 568 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:17,079 even No, there's just been one on one man. Why I'm gonna play 569 00:40:17,079 --> 00:40:21,480 that next? Uh? Do you know? Hall notes? Yeah? Okay, 570 00:40:21,599 --> 00:40:25,159 So but when when it's not planned, like all of a sudden, 571 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:30,559 somebody starts fooling around with somebody and somebody else jumps in or other people start 572 00:40:30,639 --> 00:40:34,039 fooling around two, it's pheromones are in the air. I think it was 573 00:40:34,119 --> 00:40:38,480 like negotiate, it's still okay. They were like just like casually negotiated, 574 00:40:38,599 --> 00:40:42,800 being like, hey, we've been having a lot of fun together, let's 575 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:47,679 all go into our tent and fuck around. And they're like, I'm done 576 00:40:47,679 --> 00:40:50,840 with that. This is my like, this is my limits. These are 577 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,519 what I don't want to do, okay, And they're like I respect that. 578 00:40:53,599 --> 00:40:58,440 And so if if you were going into that tent, what do you 579 00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,280 say, will you tell us what your limbs would be? Is there limits 580 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:05,159 for you? Yeah? Like I don't put anything in my butt, okay, 581 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:13,280 I don't kiss other women. I don't have sex with the other woman, 582 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:15,960 just not my jam. So if that stuff is to start, like 583 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:22,440 what I would think in the moment sometimes people forget who said what then you 584 00:41:22,519 --> 00:41:28,239 just just yeah, right, no, thank you, yeah, get your 585 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,559 head out of there. Do you look for the smallest ten of the bigger 586 00:41:30,599 --> 00:41:37,719 tent, the one that's rocking? So bizarre? All right? So the 587 00:41:38,039 --> 00:41:44,840 Rochester king Society is having a auction. Yes, okay, I was gonna 588 00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,199 say fundraiser, but it is a fundraiser of the year, okay. And 589 00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:52,199 so what does the fundraising go toward? Like reducing the entry, let's say, 590 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:57,320 to the camping or something. Helps keep camping aute available, keeps us 591 00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:02,119 paying rent, helps us bring in speakers for classes, okay, helps us 592 00:42:02,119 --> 00:42:06,840 with things like we bought Happa air filters for the space no, thank god, 593 00:42:07,199 --> 00:42:14,119 yeah about time, sorry, helps us get a better space, helps 594 00:42:14,159 --> 00:42:19,000 us buy better equipment. So what is for auction? So we have a 595 00:42:19,039 --> 00:42:22,039 ton of stuff for auction this year? Okay? We have everything from because 596 00:42:22,039 --> 00:42:27,800 I saw because I think on the Bilified Underscore Pod, which is our Instagram 597 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,760 for the show, I think you guys started following us, so we followed 598 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,280 you back, and that's where I saw like, if hey, if you're 599 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:38,760 looking for adult diapers, and that would be for people who are into infant 600 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:50,119 play or play or just like age play humiliation? What else? Well, 601 00:42:50,159 --> 00:42:52,519 how do you humilize some of you fucking baby dare to go in your diaper? 602 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,400 I could be good at that. Or extreme bondage if you want to 603 00:42:55,519 --> 00:43:00,639 bondage for multiple hours? All really? Yeah, if you want to, 604 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,719 you know, be locked in a closet or something like that. Do you 605 00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,159 guys have an auction? Are? Because if not, we know Doug Phelps 606 00:43:07,199 --> 00:43:12,400 would be great guys. So is this a live in person thing. It's 607 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:15,480 a live in person auction? Okay? Is it open to anybody? Open 608 00:43:15,519 --> 00:43:17,280 to everyone? Eighteen up? So you don't have to be vetted to go 609 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:21,320 in? Correct? Okay, we gotta get dug their auction. Do you 610 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:25,199 ever do you ever recruit while at these events? Like I stay recruit? 611 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:29,840 Like have a sign up table for people who may be interested but are not 612 00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,440 more information? We have more information there yet? Yeah? Okay, all 613 00:43:32,519 --> 00:43:37,280 right? So what are some of the the items we give? Give me 614 00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,760 four of them right now, we'll do We'll do four more later or four 615 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:44,599 more later. We have tons of paddles, We have some rope. We 616 00:43:44,679 --> 00:43:46,920 have a gag. A gag so like a ball gag. It's actually an 617 00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:51,719 inflatable gag. An inflatable gag? What is that? So it goes inside 618 00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,039 your mouth and you as a pump and you can inflate it. So it 619 00:43:53,079 --> 00:43:58,320 makes you really not be able to move your mouth much. Okay have you 620 00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,400 ever used anything like that, like a gag. I've used a gag before. 621 00:44:01,599 --> 00:44:06,079 Yeah, yes, it's really truly, it's very drilly, truly, 622 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,079 oh druly. Yeah, because you can't swallow or anything, right, it's 623 00:44:08,119 --> 00:44:14,800 harder to swallow. Yeah, we have some canes, canes. What would 624 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,400 the cane be? You used for hitting somebody? We have some beautiful jewelry 625 00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:23,440 actually with some Morse code that things says things like baby girl or daddy or 626 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:29,760 like mine on all in Morse code. When is this against September eighteenth, 627 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:34,320 September twenty three, Yeah, it's a Saturday. It's a Saturday. And 628 00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,880 where's it going to be at? Photo City Music Hall? Oh? I 629 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,920 know? Okay, so down in the city off Atlantic, yes, yeah, 630 00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:42,519 right off culver An Atlantic, Yes, all right, not far from 631 00:44:42,599 --> 00:44:45,400 rock boxing? Ye eleven am to four pm. Wow, let me have 632 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:51,039 a party after and the party there no at the dungeon. Oh so you 633 00:44:51,079 --> 00:44:52,599 go back to the dungeon, but you can't go unless you're vetted. Yes, 634 00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:54,679 so what if you were like a new person, could you do any 635 00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:59,039 vetting on the spot. Yes, Oh you're gonna do vetting there? Yes, 636 00:44:59,159 --> 00:45:01,119 Oh, look at that. It's generally very busy, so we don't 637 00:45:01,119 --> 00:45:05,320 do a lot of them. But if you get there early enough, we 638 00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,599 can squeeze in a vetting. Get in line at ten forty five, right 639 00:45:07,639 --> 00:45:12,920 there, get right in. Hi, I'm here to vet. If you 640 00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,199 spend more than one thousand dollars on auction, that's in front of the betting 641 00:45:15,199 --> 00:45:22,480 line, could you probably not that? How much do the paddles go for? 642 00:45:22,639 --> 00:45:29,000 Do you know? Anywhere from twenty to fifty dollars depending on the wood. 643 00:45:29,639 --> 00:45:34,079 Okay, Balsom would be a nice light one that wouldn't hurt so much. 644 00:45:34,159 --> 00:45:38,119 That actually pretty stingy. Baltom is yeah. Oh well the fast you 645 00:45:38,159 --> 00:45:42,280 can go, yeah, you can't because it's light. It's almost like styrofoam 646 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,000 balsom. Yeah, and also might break. That's true, depending on how 647 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:50,800 you buy a bunch of them. Yeah, so careful splinters. Oh, 648 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,079 there's too much work in this. There's like too much work for this stuff 649 00:45:55,840 --> 00:46:00,519 like yeah, yeah, all right, we'll take a moment. But first, 650 00:46:00,519 --> 00:46:02,920 bTB wood Fire Pizza and grill in the mall like Grease Ridge. Man, 651 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:06,639 they got it all over there. 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It's like, 703 00:49:44,119 --> 00:49:45,440 you know what I want, daddy, this is what I want? 704 00:49:45,559 --> 00:49:52,639 And oh my god. So join us every Monday for the new podcast Game 705 00:49:52,760 --> 00:50:19,559 Night. I'm tired of playing on the team. It seems I don't get 706 00:50:19,559 --> 00:50:24,199 time about at anymore. Canful if you left me at half of this concert? 707 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:30,280 Give we say pace, pase do face. No, I even try 708 00:50:30,559 --> 00:50:38,920 to score who I can't feel the my jacob, your touch and when you're 709 00:50:39,079 --> 00:50:46,920 moving closer a little didn't mean so much. Yeah, you got to understand 710 00:50:47,159 --> 00:50:59,000 me. Time about is what I'm here for to play? See, this 711 00:50:59,079 --> 00:51:01,519 is all I can play. Feel like I'm thinking that, Yeah, wow, 712 00:51:01,679 --> 00:51:07,199 stop ruin this for me. I'd like whole notes and I but that's 713 00:51:07,199 --> 00:51:09,320 the only way I can play one on one. And I'm thinking all these 714 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:15,159 things in my head because Shantz is here from the Rochester Kink Society and they're 715 00:51:15,199 --> 00:51:19,440 having an auction September twenty third. It's a Saturday. It'll be at the 716 00:51:19,519 --> 00:51:23,079 Photo City Music Hall on Atlantic from eleven to four, right, and there's 717 00:51:23,159 --> 00:51:28,159 she gave us some of the items from jewelry to paddles, adult diapers, 718 00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,039 canes. Is this like a silent auction or is there an auctioneer and a 719 00:51:32,079 --> 00:51:37,760 silent auction? Okay, but I'm thinking like the one on one? Is 720 00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:42,159 there ever a chance? Has this ever happened? And I know I'm getting 721 00:51:42,159 --> 00:51:45,320 personal, but no one can see you. But like you go out with 722 00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:49,880 your I don't know your bang buddy, and then you come home and you 723 00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:57,360 have sex with your husband or your your main person sometimes wow, okay, 724 00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,920 well, I mean that would happen in a orgin or something, right, 725 00:52:00,639 --> 00:52:04,800 maybe I've learned an orgy when I was worth the camping camp, I wasn't 726 00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:08,920 at oh at that at the ten. Yeah, she's a Bible study let's 727 00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:16,320 the DA some stance for a Bible study discussion group meeting. Probably that was 728 00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:22,760 pretty good. Yeah, that was very good as going to a Bible discussion 729 00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:25,719 study meeting. Is that what you say? Are you into b DS or 730 00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:30,920 wherever it is? What? What? Okay? Like what what is that? 731 00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:35,719 So? Bondage? Yeah? Discipline? Okay? Was a masochism? 732 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:40,000 Dominance and submission? Okay, So are you the the dominatrix or do you 733 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:44,920 like to be submissive? You're submissive? Yeah? So you like to get 734 00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:49,440 tied up? Yeah? Spoken down to? Yeah? Really? Yeah? 735 00:52:49,519 --> 00:52:52,320 Give me an example of what someone says? Can you do that? And 736 00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,679 I don't care. You can be as raw as you want. But like, 737 00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:58,480 what is something someone says, like down on you? Do they pick 738 00:52:58,519 --> 00:53:00,440 on your the way you look? The way they can pick on the way 739 00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:04,119 I look? Oh yeah yeah, and that's supposed to turn you on? 740 00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:08,840 Yeah? Now, so I joked I like misogyny in the bedroom. You're 741 00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:14,280 like misogyny. You're like a man to take charge in the bedroom. Yeah 742 00:53:12,599 --> 00:53:17,440 yeah, but that's not being told like I'm worthless or like it just an 743 00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:21,960 object. We can do this to you real quick. You're irish, your 744 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:24,920 penis is small. Okay, great, but that doesn't make me feel good, 745 00:53:25,559 --> 00:53:29,840 doesn't turn me on. I might even make my penis disappear. Don't 746 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,519 talk. Nobody gave you permition a leprechun. Yeah, but see that doesn't 747 00:53:32,519 --> 00:53:36,960 sound. That doesn't sound and that turns you on. Yeah, how the 748 00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,800 fund does that do? I don't get that. Well, like it's kind 749 00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:45,079 of fun. I don't know, to be talked down to. Yeah, 750 00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:46,440 give me something else. They say, that's would be kind of mean. 751 00:53:50,199 --> 00:53:53,159 Like people can get really mean. And like sometimes I feel like back had 752 00:53:53,159 --> 00:54:00,320 of compliments like you're a great come dump All right, so bad. I'm 753 00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,239 just thinking, like, let's say, you know you do this on a 754 00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:07,599 Saturday night. Sure, right, Andy, But there was one thing that 755 00:54:07,679 --> 00:54:12,199 said that really kind of stung. It went it was not really kind of 756 00:54:12,199 --> 00:54:15,559 stun sure, and you just moved on. And then you're sitting at work 757 00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:20,239 Monday, it's around ten o'clock in the morning and you go, oh God 758 00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,920 for that guy. Yeah, so that's called drop. What's called drop when 759 00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:29,199 you start feeling feelings afterward that are not good. Yeah, And it's kind 760 00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:31,760 of like the feelings after a great weekend or something like that. After like 761 00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:35,239 something feels not good, you just go and talk to that person about it. 762 00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:38,159 You're like, hey, those words maybe hot in the moment, but 763 00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:42,719 they don't feel so good to me right now, and they're like sorry, 764 00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:45,840 and you talk about it and you work out, and maybe it's a limit. 765 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:51,000 Like really, Yeah, one time I was talking to just like online 766 00:54:51,159 --> 00:54:57,800 texting this guy and he was like, I just said, I'm getting out 767 00:54:57,800 --> 00:54:59,840 of the shower and he's like, oh, you'll be a dirty girl forever. 768 00:55:00,119 --> 00:55:04,760 And I was like the word forever really stung. Oh oh yeah, 769 00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:09,000 And I was like, what do you mean forever? Like you know, 770 00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:13,840 and then we just talked about it. I kind of dropped and started crying 771 00:55:14,639 --> 00:55:16,920 and so you got it. So this really kind of stung and that hurt. 772 00:55:17,199 --> 00:55:21,679 Yeah, emotionally, Yeah, it got it got to you. So 773 00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:28,960 everything like you because yeah, but saying you're a dirty he said, you're 774 00:55:29,039 --> 00:55:30,440 going to be a dirty girl forever? Yeah, does he what did what 775 00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:34,239 did he? What do you think he meant by that? Probably nothing much 776 00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:36,519 like I mean, what did you? How did you take it? Like 777 00:55:36,559 --> 00:55:40,519 you're that like I was your redeemable, You're redeemable. Yeah. See, 778 00:55:40,519 --> 00:55:44,119 when somebody says you're going to be a dirty girl forever, I would think 779 00:55:44,119 --> 00:55:46,840 like you're almost saying I'll be a slot forever. Yeah, okay, was 780 00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:50,079 that how you took it? Yeah? Yeah, and you're going, well, 781 00:55:50,079 --> 00:55:52,079 no, I probably won't be or I'm not or I don't know. 782 00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:55,519 Yeah, in like, would you describe would you? I mean, if 783 00:55:55,519 --> 00:55:59,920 somebody said to you what you do is slutty, wouldn't that be insulting? 784 00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:04,559 So the word slut has been reclaimed by whom by sluts, just like the 785 00:56:04,599 --> 00:56:09,760 word bimbo. Okay, sluts said I am a slut? Yeah yeah, 786 00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:13,000 I kind of if if some chick said to me, I am a slut, 787 00:56:13,039 --> 00:56:15,800 I'd go, yeah, I kind of like you that's awesome. Yeah, 788 00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:24,199 the world needs sluts. Yeah, yeah, you know the world caddy 789 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:29,559 check reference. But I yeah, and I could see that. I almost 790 00:56:29,639 --> 00:56:31,880 think that that's sort of it's been a very you know, you say, 791 00:56:32,119 --> 00:56:38,840 you're like misogyny in the bedroom. Uh, I have had not a problem. 792 00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:44,360 But I just think that it's it's not this is gonna sound that people 793 00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:47,679 are gonna get very upset with me by that's called another day that ends. 794 00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:54,480 And why I suppose I think that that's almost empowering for women. And I 795 00:56:54,519 --> 00:56:59,320 know that that may sound very strange, but by you're saying reclaiming the word, 796 00:56:59,639 --> 00:57:01,760 you know what I mean, it's their power to take it back and 797 00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:07,199 say yes I am. Because guys have been sluts, but no one called 798 00:57:07,199 --> 00:57:12,719 them that for since they popped on the planet, right I think, and 799 00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:20,039 right now there's been a big problem with music. Okay, okay, And 800 00:57:20,079 --> 00:57:24,480 there's a country song called small Town, and to me, I would say, 801 00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:28,840 people are like, oh, there's nothing. Somebody said it's racist, 802 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:34,199 and it would be it sounded vigilante to me, like if you came to 803 00:57:34,239 --> 00:57:37,440 our town and he acted like they do in the cities at these protests and 804 00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:40,599 different things, or you carjacked an old woman, or you stole somebody kid, 805 00:57:40,639 --> 00:57:43,960 we're coming after you. We're coming after you. And I would go, 806 00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:46,840 yeah, probably not the greatest plan to do that. And then other 807 00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:51,000 people go, well, how come that song, it's getting such crapping. 808 00:57:51,039 --> 00:57:54,000 They don't say bad things, but over here we have wet ass pussy, 809 00:57:55,000 --> 00:58:00,199 right, and that uses filthy words. Some you can't even play on traditional 810 00:58:00,719 --> 00:58:05,760 radio because there's the government in the FCC because the language is so bad. 811 00:58:06,239 --> 00:58:08,639 And that's okay. No one has a problem with that, but everybody has 812 00:58:08,679 --> 00:58:14,480 a problem here. Or the big comparison would be the Christmas song Baby Gets 813 00:58:14,519 --> 00:58:17,559 Cold Outside, and some people have said that's sort of like a date rape 814 00:58:17,639 --> 00:58:21,519 song. He's trying to get you drunk, take advance, don't go home. 815 00:58:21,639 --> 00:58:22,880 My brother would be where they do that, and people are going, 816 00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:28,880 there's nothing bad language wise in that, But you got wet ass pussy over 817 00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:32,000 here. And I think you have to almost you have to step back and 818 00:58:32,079 --> 00:58:38,159 look at these things with a clearer mind. I think in one while, 819 00:58:38,199 --> 00:58:43,880 you may not like the language that they're using in wet ass Pussy. It's 820 00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:46,840 a woman empowerment song. Yeah, it's a woman empowerment song. It's all 821 00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:50,480 about I get to do this, and I like them big and I like 822 00:58:50,599 --> 00:58:53,239 this and they're saying what they like and they don't give a shit what you 823 00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:58,400 think. Over here, it is a guy trying to get in a girl's 824 00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:01,119 past. You can't argue it. I'm sorry, and she's saying no multiple 825 00:59:01,159 --> 00:59:07,559 times yes, And so I go, you can't to me when people say 826 00:59:07,599 --> 00:59:10,840 I look me play anything you want. I don't care. But if if 827 00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:14,440 you're going to actually look at these things, I think you have to go 828 00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:17,199 with a clearer head. And I think that we don't. We are not 829 00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:22,800 critical thinkers enough. I don't believe. And I think people will claim to 830 00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:27,159 be and they'll go. But on the surface one uses harsh language. One 831 00:59:27,199 --> 00:59:30,159 does not. Therefore, on the surface, this one's okay, and that 832 00:59:30,159 --> 00:59:32,400 one shouldn't be. And I go, go deeper, go deeper. And 833 00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:37,280 the deeper is this one's a woman in power and song, thus taking back 834 00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:39,960 and reclaiming the word slot and the other one, you know. I mean, 835 00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:43,519 look, I've been that guy. Hey, baby, don't go home, 836 00:59:43,639 --> 00:59:45,039 even drinks, stay with me. I think, you know, I 837 00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:52,320 think, and that is it bad? We never played again? I don't 838 00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,199 think. So it's not that bad. I think that every person's been there, 839 00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:58,760 and I think at the end, I think she leaves she or does 840 00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:05,480 she not? I don't remember, would you? I mean? Is what 841 01:00:05,639 --> 01:00:09,199 I'm saying completely off base or like an outer space. I don't think so. 842 01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:13,079 Yeah, I don't think so either, But that's I'm the one saying. 843 01:00:13,079 --> 01:00:15,480 And so I don't think it's an outer space. But I think a 844 01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:21,440 lot of times we're looking at things too simplistically and not take things for what 845 01:00:21,480 --> 01:00:24,440 they are because all of a sudden we don't like something. Well that's called 846 01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:29,400 freedom. And well even if you don't like it, it doesn't mean it 847 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,400 shouldn't be allowed. Because there's things that somebody else may not like that you 848 01:00:32,519 --> 01:00:37,400 like and you should be allowed to do your thing and that and that's where 849 01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:39,360 I think the problem comes in. And I think there's a confusion on what 850 01:00:39,519 --> 01:00:43,360 is actually freedom of speech and all kinds of stuff. And I shouldn't go 851 01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:45,960 down this road right now, but that's sort of where that is. But 852 01:00:45,039 --> 01:00:49,840 I love that that that's reclaiming the word slut. Good. Yeah, that's 853 01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:54,440 awesome, fantastic. I'm sorry somebody heard your feelings like that. I could 854 01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:59,159 totally see like if like, let's say I wanted to be you know what, 855 01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:02,039 somebody could say to me, you molly bastard, No one would want 856 01:01:02,039 --> 01:01:05,920 to touch you. You got moles. I can play dot to dot on 857 01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:08,559 your back and you got a furry ass. You could be a furry without 858 01:01:08,559 --> 01:01:12,320 a costume. You small dick. I would be like, all right, 859 01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:15,639 I'm going home. But some people would really get turned on by that. 860 01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:21,239 Who who are these people? And what happened to them? Where are the 861 01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:24,480 Were they not loved enough? What happened? Generally, it's just like this 862 01:01:24,599 --> 01:01:29,559 deep down and thinks like that you want to be humiliated because it feels good. 863 01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:34,440 No, it doesn't. That's how some people show love. So it's 864 01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:40,000 like emotional it's like emotional masochism. What did you you went to college? 865 01:01:40,199 --> 01:01:45,559 What did you study? I'm not gonna say it's very specific. I feel 866 01:01:45,559 --> 01:01:49,280 like okay, okay, oh, okay, okay, all right, because 867 01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:52,920 I was gonna say, for some reason, I got a psychology vibe from 868 01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:55,519 you, and like, did you mind her in that? I did a 869 01:01:55,519 --> 01:02:00,239 couple classes a couple classes. And the only reason I say that is like, 870 01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:04,239 I would love to know the psychology the person so probably came from. 871 01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:06,719 Let's say you came from a well balanced home. Your parents loved you, 872 01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:12,400 they supported you. They weren't overly uh, I don't know, they weren't 873 01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:15,440 too soft. They certainly weren't hard, but they were always there. They 874 01:02:15,519 --> 01:02:16,840 let you kind of fall on your own, you know what I mean. 875 01:02:19,119 --> 01:02:22,039 Like, I'll give you this as an example. I always thought, when 876 01:02:22,039 --> 01:02:24,039 the kids are learning to walk, you don't need to scoop them up all 877 01:02:24,039 --> 01:02:27,760 the time and help them, help them, because how are they gonna learn? 878 01:02:28,199 --> 01:02:30,159 All right? So just let them go. Let them walk. They're 879 01:02:30,159 --> 01:02:31,639 gonna eventually walk. They want to do what you're doing. They're seeing you, 880 01:02:31,679 --> 01:02:40,960 they're learning. I tripped him, no, But I'm just saying, 881 01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:45,119 like, so, I think kind of so if you had that kind of 882 01:02:45,119 --> 01:02:46,679 a parent who loved you enough to goes, hey, I know that you 883 01:02:46,719 --> 01:02:51,559 need to be independent enough and do your own I'll tell you what, if 884 01:02:51,559 --> 01:02:52,960 my kid came back to me and goes, I'd be like, where did 885 01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:57,199 I fuck up? You like to be told what? Do you like to 886 01:02:57,199 --> 01:03:00,119 have people do what? But if that's like I guess, as you know, 887 01:03:01,159 --> 01:03:05,000 your parents are like like that part of your all right? Good? 888 01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:07,280 Because they wouldn't like that. I'm telling you right now, they would not 889 01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:10,519 like someone talking to their a little bit kinky. What I'm afraid that they're 890 01:03:10,559 --> 01:03:14,440 kinky? You're afraid your parents are kinky? Yeah, that's probably genetic. 891 01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:19,559 Maybe how weird would it be if you went to like, can you say, 892 01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,840 are you did you grow up in this city? No? Okay? 893 01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:27,639 Did you grow up in a city nearby? Okay? So if you went 894 01:03:27,679 --> 01:03:30,719 to another city for a kink thing, like they had a kink meet up 895 01:03:31,199 --> 01:03:35,639 Rochester and stuff, and all of a sudden you went in and people have 896 01:03:35,719 --> 01:03:39,079 masks on you go, I smell my dad's cologne. I fucking knew it. 897 01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:44,880 I would just leave. Yeah, I would leave. No, But 898 01:03:45,039 --> 01:03:50,559 how weird? Would that be? Incredibly uncomfortable? Yeah? Now, what 899 01:03:50,679 --> 01:03:52,599 if mad be weird? If I saw just like a coworker? Even what 900 01:03:52,719 --> 01:03:55,800 if hang on a second, then give me another What if I know we're 901 01:03:55,840 --> 01:04:02,199 supposed to call Doug I apologize. What if you went and it was like 902 01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:05,599 you go right, and it's in your home city, but no one really 903 01:04:05,639 --> 01:04:10,239 knows, right, and all of a sudden there's an old high school teacher 904 01:04:10,280 --> 01:04:14,840 of yours. Would that be weird? That would be less weird, less 905 01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:20,800 weird. Yeah? What if it was like your best friend's dad grown up? 906 01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:25,679 That would be weird. That would be weird right now, some people 907 01:04:25,719 --> 01:04:29,599 may find that to be a kink yes, yeah, so totally yeah, 908 01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:32,880 like the older dad kink, the older guy kink. Yeah, age gap 909 01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:35,239 kinks? Is there a is? That's what it's called. There's an actual 910 01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:40,480 name for this age gap. Age gap yeah, wow, you can work 911 01:04:40,519 --> 01:04:45,760 on whatever genders. So you could have like, how many are like a 912 01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:49,960 twenty five year old guy with a woman in her sixties? Well ever see 913 01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:55,800 that, yes you have, but the average aged archaoses are on thirty five. 914 01:04:56,079 --> 01:04:59,440 Okay, so thirty five, but that's average, so don't forget, 915 01:04:59,559 --> 01:05:01,960 like, yeah, love and below we have a couple of people in their 916 01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:08,159 sixties most people, so it's really around average age to thirty, average age 917 01:05:08,159 --> 01:05:10,880 of thirty. But if you got like a six but I see, here's 918 01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:14,480 the thing. I guarantee there's a six year old guy who has probably been 919 01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:17,679 with someone in their late twenties. Sure, right, But I don't know 920 01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:19,559 that there would be a six year old woman with a guy and his late 921 01:05:19,599 --> 01:05:24,639 twenties because because the guy may not find her as attractive. There's definitely guys 922 01:05:24,679 --> 01:05:28,880 who find older women very attractive. That old, yes, man, it's 923 01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:32,960 like fruit that's starting to go bad in your fridge. Old, I think 924 01:05:33,039 --> 01:05:40,119 totally kidding. I am kidding. It's a joke. Women should our age 925 01:05:40,119 --> 01:05:44,960 gracefully. Yeah, And there's a huge stigma for women about anti aging. 926 01:05:45,079 --> 01:05:49,639 There's a huge I agree again, like all joking and bullshit aside. I 927 01:05:49,679 --> 01:05:55,480 think that it is got to be nearly I don't I don't know how women 928 01:05:55,760 --> 01:06:01,159 do it in society. And I mean that by like, there's another podcast 929 01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:06,559 that I produce in here called Unfiltered Average, and it's two women and they're 930 01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:11,039 more typical, they wouldn't be you know, kink and all that stuff. 931 01:06:11,079 --> 01:06:16,199 But they were just talking today about going to the gym and how sometimes they'll 932 01:06:16,199 --> 01:06:19,360 see a woman at the gym all made up and they know that she really 933 01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:23,440 wants to be there, like most women at the gym are going there to 934 01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:27,159 actually work out and sweat and not have their hair curl. But how guys 935 01:06:27,199 --> 01:06:31,039 don't notice you and how invisible they are, And I went, man, 936 01:06:31,079 --> 01:06:35,440 it's so hard to be a woman, Like all the work that goes into 937 01:06:36,079 --> 01:06:40,719 trying to feel I think, and it must be society. But to feel 938 01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:44,559 confident yourself, yeah, right to feel confident yourself when you go out one 939 01:06:44,599 --> 01:06:46,119 way to do it. If you're either too much of a slot too much 940 01:06:46,119 --> 01:06:50,159 of a prude. You're either too old too young. Yeah, you are 941 01:06:50,199 --> 01:06:56,239 too curly, too masculine to walk that very fine line of being fuckable. 942 01:06:56,559 --> 01:07:00,480 Yeah, you know, you're too crazy, you're too normal, you're two 943 01:07:00,519 --> 01:07:03,480 boring. These all the things they yell at you when they have you tied 944 01:07:03,519 --> 01:07:10,119 up and they're saying shitty things to you. He rattled that off too well, 945 01:07:10,199 --> 01:07:14,079 Like it makes someone like this, that's uh, yeah, because I 946 01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:19,719 would think it like for a women and especially getting older too. It's almost 947 01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:25,760 as though, and I like kind of seeing it in Hollywood and things more 948 01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:29,760 today, but it's not a lot, but you see older women starring in 949 01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:33,360 movies. You see women in their fifties getting leading roles. Not many, 950 01:07:33,519 --> 01:07:36,480 but there's It seems like there's more than there have been. It used to 951 01:07:36,519 --> 01:07:41,599 be like a guy like Tom Cruise in his fifties and the woman he's hooking 952 01:07:41,679 --> 01:07:45,280 up with is probably somewhere between twenty five and thirty, and it seems like 953 01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:49,239 that is a little less because even in Top Gun Jennifer Connley is is she 954 01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:56,039 fifty? I think she's fifty. Yeah, And and not that I'm not 955 01:07:56,039 --> 01:07:59,880 trying to say she looks I think that's kind of cool in a way because 956 01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:01,960 we discard that. And I gotta tell you, as a guy who's over 957 01:08:02,039 --> 01:08:09,000 fifty, I would rather be with someone who would be closer to my age. 958 01:08:09,119 --> 01:08:12,960 And I always thought, especially as I got older, and maybe it's 959 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:15,760 like what do they call old man eyes? That the sexiest age? Or 960 01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:20,399 a woman gets really sexy at forty? And why is that confidence? Her 961 01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:25,000 confidence? She feels more confident than who she is. There's been a little 962 01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:28,640 bit life behind you. You want to put on bright red lipstick that may 963 01:08:29,159 --> 01:08:31,840 you wouldn't have put on maybe fifteen years ago because you were just too afraid 964 01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:34,640 it was too bold, And now you pull it off and you just there's 965 01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:39,880 something that I find that confidence to me is a very sexy thing. But 966 01:08:41,399 --> 01:08:43,840 yeah, I mean, don't you And I think that for women, Yeah, 967 01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:45,680 it's probably got to be hard. And I would even think there's gotta 968 01:08:45,720 --> 01:08:48,600 be some trepidation as a woman in her sixties to go to something like the 969 01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:53,840 Rochester King Society, feeling as though maybe I won't be attractive over my body 970 01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:57,640 isn't his. You know, the elasticity goes away as you get older. 971 01:08:57,640 --> 01:09:00,800 That's why our noses get bigger and things like that, and you go and 972 01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:03,239 you see these young women and you kind of think, oh, that's not 973 01:09:03,319 --> 01:09:06,439 cool. But you know, maybe there's still of all ages of different bodies, 974 01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:15,560 hypes and body sizes, body proportions, abilities, abilities. What are 975 01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:19,800 you talking about someone using mobility aids? Really? Yeah, you got people 976 01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:26,920 like in in chairs and things sometimes. Yeah, yeah that are into kink. 977 01:09:27,119 --> 01:09:31,159 Yeah, okay, I'd be worried, like I'd be like, I 978 01:09:31,199 --> 01:09:36,199 don't know, I'll be afraid. No, well that's a little ablest, 979 01:09:36,399 --> 01:09:40,239 now I know it. It's very ablest. I'm being very ablest. But 980 01:09:40,239 --> 01:09:44,000 I'd be afraid of like someone like getting hurt or you know what I mean, 981 01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:47,399 not as much as someone else who could walk could get hurt. Yeah, 982 01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:51,159 very true. You're speaking one hundred percent. I'm just giving you like 983 01:09:51,239 --> 01:09:54,600 I would be like I would. I would be like, this is a 984 01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:57,560 fine China dollar. I don't want to hurt this person or you know, 985 01:09:57,600 --> 01:10:00,479 and if they said to me I really want to be like spanked or paddles 986 01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:04,479 or something, I can't do that. And see this is just a limit 987 01:10:04,720 --> 01:10:09,159 that well yeah that would be my limit. Yeah, yeah, I think 988 01:10:09,199 --> 01:10:13,800 so, all right, we'll take a moment Danny actually walked in and yeah, 989 01:10:13,840 --> 01:10:18,039 don't turn no, don't because they Danny walked in. And then we 990 01:10:18,079 --> 01:10:21,159 want to call Doug Phelps, who may be able to help you out as 991 01:10:21,159 --> 01:10:24,880 an auctioneer. He said he would be willing to go and do it if 992 01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:28,720 you're if you needed somebody. And again it will be September twenty three. 993 01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:32,159 It's a Saturday Photo City Music Hall. I want to say Grill. I 994 01:10:32,159 --> 01:10:36,439 don't know why, but it's right now on Atlantic Avenue, so we will 995 01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:42,039 get to that next cobblestone on Maine. It's at one on nine West Main 996 01:10:42,079 --> 01:10:44,520 Street in the village of Webster, and you really need to check it out 997 01:10:44,560 --> 01:10:47,520 because it's a renovated cobblestone church from the eighteen hundreds. When you walk in 998 01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:51,600 there, it's got this upscale bar you can sit at, have a craft 999 01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:55,640 cocktail, have dinner right at the bar. I love doing that, but 1000 01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:59,479 maybe you want something a little more intimate. Their table setting is exactly that, 1001 01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:02,039 a nice, intimate, quiet table, live music in the front window. 1002 01:11:02,239 --> 01:11:05,399 Always a good time. And the food is locally sourced, which I 1003 01:11:05,439 --> 01:11:11,039 love, right supporting local, that supports local. And not only is it 1004 01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:16,399 locally sourced. It's absolutely delicious, I mean so good. You gotta try 1005 01:11:16,399 --> 01:11:19,239 the New York pork Chop, or maybe you gotta go out and try the 1006 01:11:19,239 --> 01:11:23,359 steak Burger or I don't know, you decide, and all kinds of great 1007 01:11:23,359 --> 01:11:27,159 sharables. I mean, maybe the best nachos I've ever had, because finally 1008 01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:32,079 a chef is figured out how to not serve soggy nachos. Yeah, nachos, 1009 01:11:32,079 --> 01:11:35,319 get saggy, not at Cobblestone on Maine. You can find them online 1010 01:11:35,359 --> 01:11:39,640 at Cobblestone on Maine dot com and at one on nine West Main Street in 1011 01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:42,439 the Village of Websites. 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So whether you're a 1019 01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:15,680 whiskey connoisseur, maybe you're just starting out your journey, Ironsmoke Distillery has something 1020 01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:18,600 special for you. You can schedule a tour by emailing Sculling on their website 1021 01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:21,359 and Ironsmoke Distillery dot com. You can get a flight when you go in 1022 01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:25,359 there. It's also an awesome place to just hang out, order up a 1023 01:12:25,399 --> 01:12:29,239 peacemaker made with the Ironsmoke spirits, and taking some great music. Tonight, 1024 01:12:29,319 --> 01:12:33,039 the Acoustic Sunset Sessons with Max Staud begins at five. At eight thirty, 1025 01:12:33,159 --> 01:12:39,479 the living Room sessions take the main stage, and Saturday the Acoustic Sunset Sessions 1026 01:12:39,520 --> 01:12:44,560 with Meyer McGuire started a little earlier three thirty and then Saturday night it's Mulitude 1027 01:12:45,039 --> 01:12:49,600 hair metal from the eighties. It's all happening at Ironsmoke Distillery, Fairport, 1028 01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:53,920 New York. Baby, Hi, It's Stephanie from Unfiltered and Average. Check 1029 01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:57,640 out our podcast. It's me and my girlfriend Katie talking all things like comedy 1030 01:12:57,680 --> 01:13:00,439 at the Karlson has the kind of medicine that's going to make you feel better 1031 01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:04,520 instantly, and that's laughter. Really authentic belly laughs and you'll get him this 1032 01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:11,960 weekend with the very funny Vishnu Vadka. Vishnu is hysterically funny. He immigrated 1033 01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:15,720 from India. He talks all about being Americanized. His stand up is fantastic. 1034 01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:19,039 He's a really good friend of Russell Peterson. It's been around Russell. 1035 01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:26,199 You gotta go catch him Vishnu Vodka tonight and tomorrow night for two shows seven 1036 01:13:26,279 --> 01:13:30,399 and nine. And he can find out more information at Carlson Comedy dot com. 1037 01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:45,039 Sundown Lifted, Downtown Cher Lipstick, Watch Silk, Jo Danson and the 1038 01:13:45,319 --> 01:13:54,640 wind watch Bush against his skin makes me on a Chu so fun, it's 1039 01:13:54,680 --> 01:14:00,159 so fun. He's good. And the blazon on the saccuse a motive on 1040 01:14:00,560 --> 01:14:08,000 even likes sou fun. It's so fun. It's so fun. Fund she 1041 01:14:08,159 --> 01:14:20,119 said, she's so so bake sukun. She would you be surprised? So 1042 01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:26,199 if I said, I've never heard that song before, So is this a 1043 01:14:26,319 --> 01:14:30,520 song? It's muna yeah, But I'm seeing like I'm watching the video and 1044 01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:33,880 it is it like people trying to teach people not to be gay, but 1045 01:14:34,000 --> 01:14:42,640 these people really are gay? Wow, it's a cop. It's uh it's 1046 01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:45,000 an interesting thing because I go, if you can't be who you are, 1047 01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:48,840 life's you know what I mean, as long as you're not hurting anybody who 1048 01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:53,600 cares, Yeah, all right, but harming anybody, that's an interesting it's 1049 01:14:53,640 --> 01:15:00,720 actually pretty voice. I've never heard of muna. Now it's muna polyamorous or 1050 01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:03,760 something or I don't know, okay, gender fluid. I don't know what, 1051 01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:06,720 never matter. No, No, I don't know. Sometimes people know 1052 01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:10,319 about the deal. All the celebrities, I don't know. I don't really 1053 01:15:10,359 --> 01:15:14,119 allow celebrities. There's only what. I don't really follow celebrities. I'm too 1054 01:15:14,159 --> 01:15:18,239 busy. There's a lot, there's a there's this is the lot going on 1055 01:15:18,399 --> 01:15:23,319 there. So, Danny, we learned what b DSM is in the in 1056 01:15:23,399 --> 01:15:29,640 the in the kink world. B DSL Yeah, well you know it would 1057 01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:33,119 be right. It's bondage yea discipline. No, the other one, Oh, 1058 01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:40,039 Bible discussion, study meeting, study meeting. That's it is. Yes, 1059 01:15:40,359 --> 01:15:44,399 Okay, Danny, let's got a revelation chapter four. That's what that 1060 01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:47,399 is. God's church has been raptured and the rest of you guys are dealing 1061 01:15:47,520 --> 01:15:50,439 with the anti Christ. They're gonna beat that God right out of here Kevin's 1062 01:15:50,479 --> 01:15:55,439 beginning. Are these like you could? Are these texts directly to your phone? 1063 01:15:56,199 --> 01:16:00,880 People, people are are are listening and they want to not wow. 1064 01:16:00,039 --> 01:16:03,000 Don't say wow. That's a good thing. I love that they listened. 1065 01:16:03,039 --> 01:16:08,560 But they have questions. Sure for for you seans. Okay, so what 1066 01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:11,239 do you got? Well one of the questions the average age you talked about 1067 01:16:11,279 --> 01:16:15,520 that it was about thirty five. You said, what's the most popular kick 1068 01:16:15,640 --> 01:16:19,399 activity? So probably impact and rope? What is impact? People? Hitting 1069 01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:26,079 people? Oh, Danny sound fun to you? Wow? No? What 1070 01:16:26,279 --> 01:16:30,840 kind of hitting I like to get? It might be with implements or hands 1071 01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:35,039 implement implement paddles, paddles, paddles, floggers, canes, nun chucks. 1072 01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:40,239 Nunchucks are a little on wheelby Yeah, okay, a little on wheelby. 1073 01:16:40,399 --> 01:16:42,880 I didn't know what that. Okay, yeah you do. They just kind 1074 01:16:42,920 --> 01:16:45,920 of too wide words come in with a nunchuck. There's a chance as I'm 1075 01:16:45,920 --> 01:16:49,600 going at shauns and I'm going to hit her like somewhere, uh hit yourself? 1076 01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:51,920 Yeah, I hit myself or hit you? Because I saw this video 1077 01:16:53,039 --> 01:16:56,119 Brusonally playing ping pong with nun chucks. I was incredibly impressed. I thought 1078 01:16:56,119 --> 01:17:02,439 maybe that was incorporated skills like dynamite. So, uh, what you said 1079 01:17:02,479 --> 01:17:06,800 addressed obviously impact play there. How are people vetted? So we have a 1080 01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:13,319 fifteen to thirty minute conversation with you. We ask questions like, how do 1081 01:17:13,399 --> 01:17:17,359 you define consent? We talked about the one. What are your triggers? 1082 01:17:18,039 --> 01:17:20,800 What are you looking for? What do you think you can bring to the 1083 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:27,279 community. What if I seen it? That would be too tough, Like 1084 01:17:28,119 --> 01:17:31,000 you don't get a sheet ahead of time. So this is on the moment, 1085 01:17:31,399 --> 01:17:34,439 so right at the moment, you say, what can you bring to 1086 01:17:34,560 --> 01:17:39,960 this? It's not milk and cooking and unless sometimes it is. Sometimes I 1087 01:17:40,279 --> 01:17:44,439 can bring snacks. Oh and people say that's cool. Yeah, I'll bring 1088 01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:47,720 gatorade to replenish everybody. Yeah, rehydrate. Yeah, so that is that? 1089 01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:50,039 Really? That would be an okay answer? Yeah, because I'm thinking 1090 01:17:50,079 --> 01:17:54,840 like the answer would be I can bring a fourteen inch cock and then that's 1091 01:17:54,880 --> 01:18:00,720 like a wrong answer. Oh that's a red flag. Okay, it makes 1092 01:18:00,720 --> 01:18:02,359 sense. Wow, can you unread flag it? If you drop and show 1093 01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:09,560 that it is no, then that would be a homosexual consult. When you 1094 01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:15,079 show somebody you don't want to see something. Yes, it's educating, but 1095 01:18:15,079 --> 01:18:17,199 if they ask you for permission first and you say and they say no, 1096 01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:21,239 you don't. If you say yes, then if you're like not in a 1097 01:18:21,279 --> 01:18:25,960 public space, we generally do vettings in public spaces. I got you. 1098 01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:30,840 Okay, so all like Starbucks, Yeah, equal grounds. But yeah, 1099 01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:34,880 yeah, okay, so wow, that's so okay. That would be a 1100 01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:38,399 tough question. I'm glad to hear that. People say I can bring snacks, 1101 01:18:38,439 --> 01:18:41,760 so I can bring yes, trail mix, Yeah, trail mix. 1102 01:18:42,960 --> 01:18:46,119 Some people say I can teach a class about something. I'm really knowledgeable about 1103 01:18:46,119 --> 01:18:54,479 it. So this is almost This is a community beyond just what I think 1104 01:18:54,520 --> 01:19:00,079 most people think. It's like supportive, it's trying to educate you. Some 1105 01:19:00,199 --> 01:19:03,119 of it's just social events. There may be people that you just socialize with 1106 01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:06,800 that you meet through there, but don't go any further than just socialization. 1107 01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:12,119 Socialization, but like hanging out kind without anything happening. Yeah, most people 1108 01:19:12,159 --> 01:19:16,840 I'm like just friends with. Yeah that's interesting because I think most people will 1109 01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:20,720 go a bunch of horny people as all it is over there, and I 1110 01:19:21,079 --> 01:19:25,279 don't know that that's it's it's a bunch of like minded. Yeah, it 1111 01:19:25,319 --> 01:19:28,960 sounds like there's a methodology to it. It's not just like getting getting off. 1112 01:19:29,039 --> 01:19:32,560 It's about more like experience. Yeah, because not all kink of sexual 1113 01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:39,000 either. I like the day said there's a methodology, Kettle, Not all 1114 01:19:39,079 --> 01:19:43,520 kink is what sexual? Yeah, now give us some of the other items 1115 01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:45,960 that it will be up for auction. So we have a fat Life Premium 1116 01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:49,279 membership, which is kind of cool, so you could see all the videos 1117 01:19:49,359 --> 01:19:54,600 and all you can like more things on fat Life. Fat Life is a 1118 01:19:54,680 --> 01:20:00,079 kinky social media. It's a kinky social media, so you use Zuckerburger like 1119 01:20:00,159 --> 01:20:03,199 Facebook. It's like Facebook, but for king stories and for kinsters. Yeah, 1120 01:20:03,880 --> 01:20:08,600 are you on there? Okay? What do they What do you see 1121 01:20:08,640 --> 01:20:12,960 on there? Like different outfits, different different outfits, different events posted, 1122 01:20:14,159 --> 01:20:18,439 different groups, discussions, different writings. Okay, people post videos, pictures, 1123 01:20:19,159 --> 01:20:26,720 status updates. We also have sheets. San Francisco gave us a set 1124 01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:29,960 of their waterproof sheets, so if you want to get wet and messy, 1125 01:20:30,239 --> 01:20:33,640 oh wow, waterproof sheets, Danny, And they're not like plastic. Yeah, 1126 01:20:33,680 --> 01:20:36,159 they're nice. They're nice, so they don't make that crinkly Yeah. 1127 01:20:36,279 --> 01:20:42,760 Yeah, wow, okay. I think mental institutions could probably benefit from those 1128 01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:46,199 two. I don't know somebody's dog, Phelps could benefit. I'm gonna call 1129 01:20:46,199 --> 01:20:50,520 it Doug Phelps right now. Hello, Hello, mister Phelps. How are 1130 01:20:50,560 --> 01:20:54,399 you, sir? I'm good, I go, I gotta go in the 1131 01:20:54,439 --> 01:20:57,880 back of the bar. All right. Do you have like two minutes I 1132 01:20:58,000 --> 01:21:00,600 got for you, buddy? I got five? All right? Fantastic Shaants 1133 01:21:00,720 --> 01:21:04,479 is here from the Rochester King Society. They're having an auction on September twenty 1134 01:21:04,520 --> 01:21:09,359 third. It's a Saturday. It'll be a Photo City Music hall. I 1135 01:21:09,439 --> 01:21:12,199 want to say, grill. I don't know why. And it's right down 1136 01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:15,960 right on Atlantic corner of Culver in Atlantic. He all right where that is? 1137 01:21:16,079 --> 01:21:20,640 Yep. So they're looking for maybe somebody to help auction some items. 1138 01:21:20,960 --> 01:21:25,159 So I'm going to ask Shaants to tell you one of the items, and 1139 01:21:25,199 --> 01:21:28,520 then I'd like you to give us a little taste as to how you would 1140 01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:31,239 auction this off. Okay, I should choose a good item. Yeah, 1141 01:21:31,319 --> 01:21:35,600 good item. Do you have a sign magic Johnson jersey for five hundred dollars 1142 01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:42,720 when it ends up being seven hundred dollars? Sorry, Okay, this will 1143 01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:45,600 be a hard one. Okay, Okay, isn't it always say I got 1144 01:21:45,680 --> 01:21:51,800 a hired one right now? Doesn't know anything about stay. I get Morning 1145 01:21:51,840 --> 01:22:00,239 one at five o'clock in the afternoon. So just a generic paddle, A 1146 01:22:00,359 --> 01:22:03,720 generic paddle. Yeah, they put your hands together. But we're gonna put 1147 01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:08,119 something. We're gonna be slap happy with this thing. It's woldn't it's long? 1148 01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:15,279 It fift in your glove compartment. Yeah, if you like to get 1149 01:22:15,279 --> 01:22:16,680 a little rough. If you've been a bad girl or a boy during the 1150 01:22:16,760 --> 01:22:19,399 day, you didn't do the dishes, you didn't clean the bathroom, you 1151 01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:23,319 didn't take out the garbage, we have the item for you. We're gonna 1152 01:22:23,319 --> 01:22:26,000 start at fifty dollars thanks. So I'm gonna start at twenty five because I'm 1153 01:22:26,000 --> 01:22:28,920 gonna make the first bit because my girlfriend made me their day and she's gonna 1154 01:22:28,960 --> 01:22:31,119 get when I get home. So we're gonna going twenty five. Do I 1155 01:22:31,199 --> 01:22:38,039 hear twenty five? Do I hear twenty five? There? Twenty five five, 1156 01:22:38,600 --> 01:22:45,800 thirty thirty. Who doesn't like a nice piece of oak in their hand? 1157 01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:51,039 I know my girlfriend does. Doug Phelps, I think it would be 1158 01:22:51,079 --> 01:22:56,600 a great addition to the Rochester Kick Society. I got my zipper mask with 1159 01:22:56,720 --> 01:23:00,600 a unicorn on it already ordered from Amazone. Okay, it's not all right, 1160 01:23:00,960 --> 01:23:03,399 but I think I think, Doug, you would you would go there. 1161 01:23:03,920 --> 01:23:09,239 It seems like just cool people that you would have. Right, I'm 1162 01:23:09,279 --> 01:23:12,399 running Dan Wegmans. I ain't familiar Rochester King Society member. I have no 1163 01:23:12,479 --> 01:23:17,479 idea. Yeah, we gave her a copy of DVD two. Doug fantastic. 1164 01:23:17,560 --> 01:23:20,680 I gotta get that digital tized. I really do. No. I 1165 01:23:20,760 --> 01:23:25,359 get along with everybody. And she thinks I have met a couple of people 1166 01:23:25,439 --> 01:23:28,880 from the King Society years and years ago. And I actually knew somebody that 1167 01:23:28,920 --> 01:23:31,960 wanted to get into it, and it actually went to one of the meetings 1168 01:23:32,119 --> 01:23:38,880 and he I don't think he was accepted. So this is like twenty years 1169 01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:42,119 ago. Yeah, it was an older gentleman that heard about it, and 1170 01:23:42,359 --> 01:23:45,000 uh, it was a bar in Rochester where they had their meetings and uh, 1171 01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:48,840 but I've never heard anything bad about it. But I've heard, you 1172 01:23:48,880 --> 01:23:53,319 know, just you know, people try and stuff fund it's you know, 1173 01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:58,199 that's their gig, that's what they like. Spice Spice Alife Variety is a 1174 01:23:58,239 --> 01:24:00,680 spice alife. Trust me, I've tried some crazy shit in my life. 1175 01:24:00,760 --> 01:24:06,880 Nothing I'm going to tell him real quick. I know you had a meeting 1176 01:24:06,920 --> 01:24:10,000 today. You don't need to say any more than that. But did it 1177 01:24:10,119 --> 01:24:13,680 go well? It did go very well. Yeah, excellent. I'm glad 1178 01:24:13,720 --> 01:24:18,039 to hear that. Yeah, me too. Well, Well, we'll catch 1179 01:24:18,119 --> 01:24:20,920 up about that. I would love to and I and I don't want to 1180 01:24:20,960 --> 01:24:24,199 hold you back. I know you're at work. I didn't. We'll give 1181 01:24:24,199 --> 01:24:26,840 your number to Shaun's here and she can reach out if she still likes to 1182 01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:30,159 have you as an auctioneer. Actually, I've got a buddy of mine that 1183 01:24:30,239 --> 01:24:35,520 goes down snack gast Perilla. But there's a fun there's a whole sex weekend. 1184 01:24:35,640 --> 01:24:43,399 What do you go to the fantasy fest down in Florida where people come 1185 01:24:43,439 --> 01:24:45,800 all over the world. Uh, and it's it's a good time. I 1186 01:24:45,840 --> 01:24:51,399 don't know if who am I talking to from King Rochester, shawns sans Sean 1187 01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:57,960 or SHAWNA shawns Sean. Have you ever heard of fantasy fests down in Florida? 1188 01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:02,520 Of it? Okay, there might be something to look up. Yeah, 1189 01:25:02,680 --> 01:25:08,199 sounds just another just another chocolate chips in the cookie of life. That's 1190 01:25:08,279 --> 01:25:15,039 right. That lets me out on my cage, s Doug. I know 1191 01:25:15,399 --> 01:25:18,000 I don't want to hold you up from work, but I would love to 1192 01:25:18,079 --> 01:25:24,039 see see up there. I'd love to hear the stories about Doug auctioning at 1193 01:25:24,079 --> 01:25:27,479 the Rochester King Society. I think that'd be fun. Yeah, I think 1194 01:25:28,119 --> 01:25:31,319 give my info, Sean, see if we can have that happen. I 1195 01:25:31,399 --> 01:25:35,279 think that would be a blast. I love that stage and kind of improving 1196 01:25:35,359 --> 01:25:39,079 it and uh, you know, throw some jokes up and just have a 1197 01:25:39,159 --> 01:25:42,560 fun time for everybody. All right, I love it sounds all right, 1198 01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:47,199 bel all right, all right, all right, he kept saying, Sean, 1199 01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:50,439 he's got a little bit hearing issue from a college flowerer from his wrestling. 1200 01:25:53,479 --> 01:25:57,399 I think he'd be great. He's really nice and he's very open minded, 1201 01:25:57,520 --> 01:26:00,800 and he'd be very very cool. He'd be very coolun Now, would 1202 01:26:00,840 --> 01:26:03,680 you play a game with us? Now? This is if we we would. 1203 01:26:04,079 --> 01:26:06,439 We'll take a moment, but when we come back, we'll play, 1204 01:26:08,399 --> 01:26:13,560 uh, sex toy prices. Right, So he'll describe a sex toy and 1205 01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:16,640 then you we have to get. We'll each meet you and Danny'll guess the 1206 01:26:16,800 --> 01:26:21,640 price of this sex toy and whoever's closest without going over would score a point, 1207 01:26:23,520 --> 01:26:26,159 right, just like the regular prices. Right sounds good? Yeah, 1208 01:26:26,239 --> 01:26:30,239 I think they should play this as Roger. They should play this at the 1209 01:26:30,399 --> 01:26:34,079 auction for some items. You should have people like have to say how much 1210 01:26:34,199 --> 01:26:36,920 this would go for retail and then you would win it. Yeah, Or 1211 01:26:38,279 --> 01:26:43,119 maybe the idea is to pay. Maybe you have to pay to get into 1212 01:26:43,159 --> 01:26:45,640 the into the game and if you get within one hundred dollars raising for you, 1213 01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:50,359 you win both showcases. Or when you could win both showcas thousand? 1214 01:26:51,079 --> 01:26:55,439 Uh yeah, I think it was a thousand. You win both showcas. 1215 01:26:55,600 --> 01:26:58,039 Yes, Bob Parker is still alive? Could you believe that? Yes? 1216 01:26:58,119 --> 01:27:01,920 It is? He available for that. We'll take a moment and we'll be 1217 01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:08,000 back with sex toy prices. Right, but first, Red White and Brew 1218 01:27:08,359 --> 01:27:12,119 find them online at Red White and brew rock dot com. Maybe you're saying 1219 01:27:12,239 --> 01:27:15,680 Red White and Brew that sounds very familiar. What is that? It's a 1220 01:27:15,720 --> 01:27:19,319 place where you can go and taste the wines of New York State, get 1221 01:27:19,359 --> 01:27:24,600 a flight, get a charcoonery board, sit talk, stay for a while. 1222 01:27:24,920 --> 01:27:27,560 It's a great place. One forty seven State Street, in Rochester. 1223 01:27:27,680 --> 01:27:30,359 They do the same thing with beers from around New York State, and there's 1224 01:27:30,399 --> 01:27:35,840 no TVs, and you talk and you actually get to know somebody and walk 1225 01:27:35,880 --> 01:27:41,600 away with some knowledge about wine, which could really help you in some situations. 1226 01:27:41,720 --> 01:27:45,359 I'm just saying, Red White and Brew it's for you, Red White 1227 01:27:45,399 --> 01:27:49,000 and Brew Rock dot com. Well, Conrey's Irish Pub the happiest place in 1228 01:27:49,159 --> 01:27:53,640 Fairport, or maybe on Myer's RVs. I was just talking to a friend 1229 01:27:53,680 --> 01:27:56,560 who said, my kid is going to be playing travel hockey. I'm thinking 1230 01:27:56,600 --> 01:28:00,359 about investing in an RV. Sure, why not. 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They're rocking Brockport right 1247 01:29:05,680 --> 01:29:10,439 there on Main Street, but they can rock it in your backyard with the 1248 01:29:10,479 --> 01:29:13,680 food truck that's right, or maybe your block party or your corporate picnic, 1249 01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:16,600 or your end of summer banger. They even have cantering pick up or drop 1250 01:29:16,720 --> 01:29:19,520 off. How do you find the information about the food truck? How do 1251 01:29:19,600 --> 01:29:23,840 you find the information about the cantering? What can you order? How do 1252 01:29:23,880 --> 01:29:26,359 you pick it up? How does it all work? Go to plates and 1253 01:29:26,479 --> 01:29:30,880 Shakes dot Com. That's plates and Shakes dot com for Jimmy's e's plates and 1254 01:29:30,920 --> 01:30:19,119 shakes, little things, little things. You know this is cue. You 1255 01:30:19,199 --> 01:30:24,279 seriously don't know this. So wait, how are you? How young your 1256 01:30:24,319 --> 01:30:32,680 twenties are you? She's in relate twenties? Wow? Okay, you've never 1257 01:30:32,800 --> 01:30:36,279 heard this, George Michael, I want your sex? Never heard of wow, 1258 01:30:38,199 --> 01:30:41,000 So we'll give her a pass. That is true, But I want 1259 01:30:41,039 --> 01:30:44,000 your sex. It's the kid, it'd be it'd be a perfect song for 1260 01:30:44,239 --> 01:30:50,239 I guess right. M m Sean is from the Rochester King Society. She 1261 01:30:50,319 --> 01:30:55,159 got married Saturday and she's going to ratulations just going out on a date once 1262 01:30:55,199 --> 01:31:01,960 she leaves here. Yeah, what do you say to that? Wowsy? 1263 01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:08,479 I think it's funny. Danny did ask a question off Mike about STDs, 1264 01:31:09,079 --> 01:31:12,239 which I thought we didn't bring that up last time. We might have, 1265 01:31:12,479 --> 01:31:15,279 I don't remember. I don't remember either. I don't remember. But in 1266 01:31:15,359 --> 01:31:20,560 the vetting process, is there the official our cast vetting process, we don't 1267 01:31:20,560 --> 01:31:24,760 ask about STDs oind of our business, right, okay, okay, but 1268 01:31:25,279 --> 01:31:28,800 is there testing that has to be done or not to join the society? 1269 01:31:29,079 --> 01:31:32,239 No? Is there testing sometimes at events and things if you wanted to have 1270 01:31:32,359 --> 01:31:35,199 You've been trying to work with Trillium to set up something, but we haven't 1271 01:31:35,319 --> 01:31:39,079 gotten to rate. Well that's kind of cool. Yeah, we haven't gotten 1272 01:31:39,079 --> 01:31:41,800 around to reaching out to them yet. Yeah, it just has been busy. 1273 01:31:42,039 --> 01:31:45,319 Well because like if somebody like had something right, it would probably work 1274 01:31:45,359 --> 01:31:48,960 its way around the kin society. I feel like touching genitals, yeah right, 1275 01:31:49,039 --> 01:31:53,079 but that might be part of it though in some cases not all. 1276 01:31:53,359 --> 01:31:56,119 Yeah, in some cases you don't allow for penetration. Oh that's true, 1277 01:31:56,239 --> 01:31:58,960 okay, okay, yeah, and a lot of people just are going there 1278 01:31:59,000 --> 01:32:01,840 to get paddled or tied up, tight up, okay, yeah, so 1279 01:32:01,960 --> 01:32:04,960 there's not that stuff. Yeah, humiliated, there's something then, oh damned. 1280 01:32:05,119 --> 01:32:10,199 Yeah. And we have cavaside wipes to wipe down all the equipment, 1281 01:32:10,279 --> 01:32:12,800 so if you're naked on something, you wipe it down, like you're at 1282 01:32:12,800 --> 01:32:17,000 the gym. You know, some people don't wipe things down at the gym, 1283 01:32:17,000 --> 01:32:20,359 and disgusting it is. You're right, My wife gets mad if I 1284 01:32:20,399 --> 01:32:25,479 don't wipe out the wipe down the equipment at home, right, what kind 1285 01:32:25,520 --> 01:32:29,239 of equipment at home? What are you talking about the bench. Oh, 1286 01:32:30,279 --> 01:32:35,239 I got it. Yeah, the spanking bench. Do you have like a 1287 01:32:35,319 --> 01:32:43,359 spanking brench not at home travel size in the world, at the at the 1288 01:32:43,439 --> 01:32:45,039 dungeon, we have a couple speaking bench. And what does it spend? 1289 01:32:45,079 --> 01:32:47,960 What do you do like bend over the spanking bench like we kneel on it, 1290 01:32:48,279 --> 01:32:51,000 you kneel on it, bend over this hop you do what you're told 1291 01:32:51,439 --> 01:32:57,760 and then he gets spanked or other things, yeah yeah, or other things 1292 01:32:58,039 --> 01:33:03,560 like what did you wax play wax? So yeah, well wax play. 1293 01:33:03,880 --> 01:33:08,439 We brought this up massage candles, right, aren't the wax? I think 1294 01:33:08,479 --> 01:33:11,920 it first stings, but it doesn't. It doesn't. You can get you 1295 01:33:11,960 --> 01:33:15,319 can get pretty hot wax. You can get pretty hot wax. But that 1296 01:33:15,359 --> 01:33:17,680 would hurt though, right, Yeah, you're that's hospital the point. That 1297 01:33:17,720 --> 01:33:20,880 would be the point. Yeah. No, they don't send anybody that well 1298 01:33:21,000 --> 01:33:24,720 I hope not right. Well, I don't told you a question, Bill, 1299 01:33:24,840 --> 01:33:27,680 I know that's why we vet. We vet the vetter, well, 1300 01:33:27,720 --> 01:33:34,119 the vet, the vet the hospitals vetting process. You wouldn't get in, 1301 01:33:34,279 --> 01:33:36,920 and neither would I. No, have you ever had people you've had to 1302 01:33:38,000 --> 01:33:42,199 say like what would be a reason why somebody doesn't get in. If we 1303 01:33:42,279 --> 01:33:45,079 don't think we're a good fit for them, they're going be like, yeah, 1304 01:33:45,119 --> 01:33:48,760 I want to get there. You got my dick wet and that's all 1305 01:33:48,800 --> 01:33:56,000 I want. Or they're actually not over the eight of eighteen, or what's 1306 01:33:56,039 --> 01:34:01,000 happened? We we have college kids who are you know, dragged by their 1307 01:34:01,000 --> 01:34:06,800 friends. You have to check everyone's idea at the door. We've had issues 1308 01:34:06,960 --> 01:34:14,439 where people are either just like misogynistic outside of the bedroom. Yeah, they're 1309 01:34:14,439 --> 01:34:20,720 homophobic, transphobic, racist, Okay, that doesn't fly with us, right, 1310 01:34:21,119 --> 01:34:24,199 Well, it seems like it would be open minded to that'd be a 1311 01:34:24,199 --> 01:34:28,000 little But how do you find out if someone's homophobic? Racist? Did you 1312 01:34:28,079 --> 01:34:30,840 have certain questions? You could ask them They're like, you know, who 1313 01:34:30,920 --> 01:34:33,880 did you vote for in the last election? Did you vote for in the 1314 01:34:33,960 --> 01:34:42,239 last election? I am not a racist? All right? Well that, 1315 01:34:42,520 --> 01:34:45,680 yeah, I'm sure there's a whole It's got to be one of these things 1316 01:34:45,720 --> 01:34:47,119 that when you have to tell somebody no, it's gotta be a little weird. 1317 01:34:47,239 --> 01:34:50,439 No, it's a little uncomfortable. Yeah, I think so, probably 1318 01:34:50,479 --> 01:34:54,239 worse if they've gotten in somehow and than that, like, yeah, like 1319 01:34:54,439 --> 01:35:00,279 and then, and you've to kick people out before yeah, during an event, 1320 01:35:00,760 --> 01:35:02,199 not during event. We didn't wait till after the event unless it's really 1321 01:35:02,319 --> 01:35:06,439 really bad. Yeah. Do you have bouncers like bouncers like I'm the bouncer. 1322 01:35:06,760 --> 01:35:10,520 Oh wow, some people might like that. Well, don't forget. 1323 01:35:10,840 --> 01:35:14,039 There's there's there's paddles, there's all kinds of the he'll get you out, 1324 01:35:15,119 --> 01:35:16,840 handcuffs, they'll play ball, get you right out of there. No, 1325 01:35:17,119 --> 01:35:20,720 she plays pick a ball? Oh yeah, with your balls. That would 1326 01:35:20,760 --> 01:35:25,520 hurt. All right, we're gonna play. I should have gotten the prices 1327 01:35:25,640 --> 01:35:29,319 right. Theme, Uh it is. Kevin put this together, and he 1328 01:35:29,399 --> 01:35:33,760 said he felt dirty after putting this togetherno tabs. Do you use incognito? 1329 01:35:36,159 --> 01:35:42,079 Well, that'll mess if your algorithms. Yeah, you should use incognito tabs. 1330 01:35:42,159 --> 01:35:44,319 Is that how you're supposed to do these things? I figured phone better 1331 01:35:44,319 --> 01:35:48,560 than work computer. Yeah. Yeah, I wouldn't do it at the work 1332 01:35:48,560 --> 01:35:54,800 computer. So Kevin looked up items, uh, sex toys, and we 1333 01:35:54,960 --> 01:35:58,920 have to guess the price. He'll describe the game in the description. You 1334 01:35:59,000 --> 01:36:01,279 give me the price, okay, all right, so let me see I 1335 01:36:01,319 --> 01:36:04,000 get the prices right, theme. I think, right here, are we 1336 01:36:04,119 --> 01:36:08,439 writing down numbers? Or we we We'll write them all down and then we'll 1337 01:36:08,479 --> 01:36:10,760 go around and say what they are. Give Danny a piece of paper. 1338 01:36:11,039 --> 01:36:16,119 Danny needs piece of papers just right on my arm. Okay, okay, 1339 01:36:16,479 --> 01:36:23,960 first one we got is the Banging Betty Stroker Kit with her firm spankable butt 1340 01:36:24,319 --> 01:36:29,000 dual entries. Betty is made for fun. This mega masturbader comes with both 1341 01:36:29,119 --> 01:36:32,479 veginal and animal openings. It features a realistic look and field, complete with 1342 01:36:32,560 --> 01:36:38,199 sexy details like soft lips and a small clip. So it's the oh oh 1343 01:36:38,279 --> 01:36:42,319 it's is it just the vagina and the and the butt just so it's not 1344 01:36:42,439 --> 01:36:45,960 the full got you the open ended design let you flush her out for easy 1345 01:36:46,039 --> 01:36:51,279 cleaning. How much for the Banging Betty Stroker Kit? Got no? You 1346 01:36:51,359 --> 01:36:56,239 gotta say, like Rod Roddy would be like this? Kis price is right? 1347 01:36:57,479 --> 01:37:00,319 Okay, all right, I'm gonna say I feel like this might be 1348 01:37:00,359 --> 01:37:05,039 a little low. I'm gonna say seventy five dollars. These are all from 1349 01:37:05,079 --> 01:37:09,600 Adam and Eve. Okay, the fact checkers out there that Mark Hillman has 1350 01:37:09,680 --> 01:37:14,640 can go check That changes it for you a little bit I wrote eight a 1351 01:37:14,680 --> 01:37:18,640 little more using the coupon codes either, so suck it a good one? 1352 01:37:18,680 --> 01:37:24,720 Could you own up on of these six hundred dollars? WHOA okay on Adam 1353 01:37:24,720 --> 01:37:27,279 and Eve. I don't know on Tom and Eve. But a good one, 1354 01:37:27,520 --> 01:37:30,399 A good one, even one of these. I don't own one of 1355 01:37:30,399 --> 01:37:30,880 these. No, no, no, I said, a good one of 1356 01:37:30,920 --> 01:37:34,279 these? Yeah, you didn't want to recalibrate your bid then again, Oh 1357 01:37:34,319 --> 01:37:39,319 I'm stuck at seventy five. I wrote eighty five. Okay, what'd you 1358 01:37:39,399 --> 01:37:42,119 say, Seans? I would say six hundred if it was a good one. 1359 01:37:42,399 --> 01:37:45,079 Okay, it's not a good one I wanted. Okay, you're all 1360 01:37:45,119 --> 01:37:50,920 over sixty nine, sixty nine, ninety nine? All right, Kevin, 1361 01:37:50,960 --> 01:37:56,920 what's the next one about the Adams colossal twelve inch? So'll fill your largest, 1362 01:37:57,000 --> 01:38:00,399 most spectacular, huge ballic fantasies with the big guy. This colossal builder 1363 01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:04,680 goes extra deep to find sweet spots you didn't know you had. It's extra 1364 01:38:04,760 --> 01:38:08,520 thick chef fills you up and stretches you out in all the right places you 1365 01:38:08,600 --> 01:38:11,880 wrote down on answer so fast, Shawan, see have you even finished describing 1366 01:38:11,920 --> 01:38:15,199 it? You? Because this is the big detail right here. Suction cup 1367 01:38:15,239 --> 01:38:17,479 based sticks to most smooth services for hands free play. It's like Bluetooth. 1368 01:38:25,920 --> 01:38:29,279 It's really like, it's really about funny. If it like slips and you 1369 01:38:29,399 --> 01:38:31,920 fall, you have to be careful. You've used this. I haven't used 1370 01:38:31,960 --> 01:38:34,920 this one though, but you've used one that would stick to the wall. 1371 01:38:35,039 --> 01:38:42,039 I've seen friends do it. Yeah, okay, yep, uh, I'm 1372 01:38:42,039 --> 01:38:47,520 gonna okay. I got a number ladies. First one, I said ninety 1373 01:38:47,640 --> 01:38:53,119 five. I said thirty nine ninety five. The magic price fifty nine ninety 1374 01:38:53,199 --> 01:38:57,119 nine. Danny gets the point. Seawans we're going too high. I know. 1375 01:38:58,479 --> 01:39:00,720 I guess it's from Adam and Eve. Yeah. As a where do 1376 01:39:01,119 --> 01:39:04,119 like, if you were gonna buy toys, do you have a preferred place? 1377 01:39:05,000 --> 01:39:11,520 So mm hmm. It depends on the toy, okay, But I 1378 01:39:11,560 --> 01:39:16,479 don't know what would be a toy that you would be seeking. Rope okay, 1379 01:39:16,960 --> 01:39:19,239 but you would want what like a nylon, something that's not going to 1380 01:39:19,319 --> 01:39:24,079 cut into you right? Well, sometimes a bamboo, uh would be fun 1381 01:39:24,720 --> 01:39:28,880 to do a little bit of cutting in you can put underneath the rope. 1382 01:39:29,119 --> 01:39:32,720 Yeah, but bamboo, there's bamboo husk and there's bamboo silk. Bamboo silk 1383 01:39:32,840 --> 01:39:38,079 is really clippery, bamboo husk is not. And and there's ropes maybe miss 1384 01:39:38,199 --> 01:39:46,279 yes, home depot, I'll seventeen ki kids. Someone please, someone please 1385 01:39:47,079 --> 01:39:53,039 go to home depot and ask for bamboo. What is the rough one bamboo 1386 01:39:53,079 --> 01:39:57,600 husk rope? I'm looking for about six yards of bamboo husk. Up. 1387 01:39:57,840 --> 01:40:03,439 You actually find it at Joanne's shut my wife, my wife used to work 1388 01:40:03,479 --> 01:40:10,439 on our coupons to my wife used to work basket. Oh okay. But 1389 01:40:10,600 --> 01:40:13,600 and the same thing with the silk rope. The silk rope, you'd probably 1390 01:40:13,600 --> 01:40:15,640 to find an adult store. An adult store. Yeah, so that would 1391 01:40:15,640 --> 01:40:18,640 be so it would be funny to go in, Like if we could film 1392 01:40:18,760 --> 01:40:23,359 secretly film somebody going into a big box store and going, I'm looking for 1393 01:40:23,439 --> 01:40:27,319 bamboo silk rope. And then if they go for what I'm looking to tie 1394 01:40:27,359 --> 01:40:30,159 off? What are you looking to tie off? My wife? Trying to 1395 01:40:30,159 --> 01:40:33,520 get her in the hot time? Poor a person working there did not consent 1396 01:40:33,640 --> 01:40:38,359 to that. So all right, but it is a joke, you're right, 1397 01:40:38,680 --> 01:40:41,520 Yeah, so you're too kind you think about like all this, all 1398 01:40:41,560 --> 01:40:44,199 right, give us another one, Kevin, How about the Natty couples door 1399 01:40:44,279 --> 01:40:47,199 swing. Who is that banging on the bedroom door? It's you and your 1400 01:40:47,239 --> 01:40:50,560 lover. Do you ever use a swing? No? No, you're afraid 1401 01:40:50,600 --> 01:40:54,479 of them. Not I don't mean afraid, but like you. Sometimes it 1402 01:40:54,560 --> 01:40:56,880 look competated, like you would get stuck in them. I don't think I 1403 01:40:56,960 --> 01:40:59,640 get stuck. It still looks uncomfortable. There's better ways to do it, 1404 01:40:59,760 --> 01:41:03,039 Yeah, yeah, I got You can hang over. You can hang it 1405 01:41:03,079 --> 01:41:05,359 over the back of a door for instant fun. You can adjust it to 1406 01:41:05,439 --> 01:41:11,079 a desired height and effortly indulge in all sorts of standing positions. Stirrups handles 1407 01:41:11,119 --> 01:41:14,399 make it easy for you to climb aboard, spread wide for all sorts of 1408 01:41:14,520 --> 01:41:17,039 naughty games. Yeah. It's extremely portable, so you can take it anywhere. 1409 01:41:17,159 --> 01:41:20,680 Made a durable metal, nylon and acrylic. Okay, it could be 1410 01:41:20,760 --> 01:41:24,600 yours, Danny. If the price is right, I got a price. 1411 01:41:24,840 --> 01:41:28,119 I got a price right down. The price all right, Johns. What 1412 01:41:28,159 --> 01:41:32,199 do you say forty bucks? God? Dan? I said one hundred and 1413 01:41:32,239 --> 01:41:40,680 twenty five. I said one ninety nine ninety nine. It's on back order 1414 01:41:40,760 --> 01:41:45,039 until September twenty three. Yeah, because the shipping Biden's America. So do 1415 01:41:45,119 --> 01:41:48,600 you think because Adam and Eve buys in such bulk or does such a business, 1416 01:41:48,880 --> 01:41:54,119 that they have lower prices? Yeah? Probably? Yeah? All right, 1417 01:41:54,199 --> 01:41:56,159 Kevin, you got one more? One more, one more? How 1418 01:41:56,199 --> 01:42:01,079 about a rechargeable vibrating panty? Keep amazing vibrations your little secret or share the 1419 01:42:01,159 --> 01:42:08,039 fun with the remote partner. Rechargeable vibrating panty is a lace panty with adjustable 1420 01:42:08,119 --> 01:42:13,840 side ties that hides a wild surprise of twelve function rechargeable vibe, the contourd 1421 01:42:13,920 --> 01:42:17,039 fit vibes. Is this like a remote but there's a thing in the like 1422 01:42:17,119 --> 01:42:20,600 Shauns would wear it and her date could have the remote, and Shawns would 1423 01:42:20,720 --> 01:42:25,479 know and all of a sudden She's like like that. Yep, that's how 1424 01:42:25,520 --> 01:42:28,039 it would work. I think that's how it works. The vibe is waterproof, 1425 01:42:28,079 --> 01:42:30,319 the remote is not, and the panty fits up the size waste forty 1426 01:42:30,359 --> 01:42:36,439 eight? Okay, how much for that panty? For the rechargeable vibrating panties? 1427 01:42:38,359 --> 01:42:43,039 Rechargeable too? Yeah? Yeah? Uh? What are you bring it 1428 01:42:43,079 --> 01:42:47,439 down to Pittsford Mall and then just charge it next to the testas just right 1429 01:42:47,600 --> 01:42:55,800 in there, all right? I got it seas, I said forty eight, 1430 01:42:56,119 --> 01:43:02,159 I said thirty five sixty nine, going over finally, all right, 1431 01:43:02,199 --> 01:43:06,439 there you go. I think Seance is our winner. Though she's she's smart. 1432 01:43:06,720 --> 01:43:11,600 What are some of the other items that people could auction or been on? 1433 01:43:11,720 --> 01:43:15,600 Excuse me if non kinky items, non kinky items that could be used 1434 01:43:15,640 --> 01:43:20,520 for kinky things like a fruit basket, throw pillows. So we have so 1435 01:43:20,680 --> 01:43:26,359 Polydosia gave us a cooking class for up to four people. Oh that's kind 1436 01:43:26,399 --> 01:43:30,079 of cool. That's nice. So for Mexican cuisine. Yeah, so if 1437 01:43:30,079 --> 01:43:31,640 you want to like make a date, like make a date of it. 1438 01:43:32,119 --> 01:43:35,680 Yeah, Like if you want to learn how to be a better service submissive. 1439 01:43:36,920 --> 01:43:43,000 Oh and you can make certain foods. Yeah. Wow, we also 1440 01:43:43,239 --> 01:43:46,880 have I need the service just making me dinner at night. Do the dishes 1441 01:43:47,039 --> 01:43:49,720 pretty handy. I'm okay with do the dishes. Just feed me. I'll 1442 01:43:49,760 --> 01:43:53,800 do the dishes. It's like that episode of the Office where Dwight hires a 1443 01:43:53,840 --> 01:43:56,399 hooker. We're gonna get an hour's worth the workout of you, and she's 1444 01:43:56,399 --> 01:44:02,039 like filing paperwork exactly. And I'm from Rainbow Cameo, which is a local 1445 01:44:02,640 --> 01:44:06,319 place they gave us some beard oil. Oh, yeah, for Yeah, 1446 01:44:06,399 --> 01:44:10,840 that's a great thing. Yeah, that's nice if you have a beard. 1447 01:44:10,880 --> 01:44:13,399 There's a lot of people who oil their beer. Care of their beer. 1448 01:44:13,439 --> 01:44:15,760 You got to take care of your beard. Jeff Dale's got a great beard, 1449 01:44:15,920 --> 01:44:18,960 Yes he does. We also have just restraints and a couple different colors, 1450 01:44:21,119 --> 01:44:27,359 and we have oh, this one's a hold of her last year because 1451 01:44:27,359 --> 01:44:30,199 we didn't put it out, but we have a friend of our cast donated 1452 01:44:30,319 --> 01:44:34,199 a cast making kit. Oh so like a plaster cast. Yeah, so 1453 01:44:34,279 --> 01:44:40,760 you can make a penis or vagina cast or or your legs together so you 1454 01:44:40,840 --> 01:44:46,039 can't move. Oh she would use this and then as a bondage. Wow. 1455 01:44:47,079 --> 01:44:53,319 I didn't even think of that. You wouldn't find, would I see? 1456 01:44:53,640 --> 01:44:56,439 You would actually make a cast and then you couldn't move. Yeah, 1457 01:44:57,119 --> 01:45:00,279 wow, when that would that be fun? It could be Yeah, I 1458 01:45:00,279 --> 01:45:01,479 guess. So you get to be with the right person, right person? 1459 01:45:01,600 --> 01:45:04,319 Yes, they don't fall over. I always find this like when you're here, 1460 01:45:05,079 --> 01:45:11,960 just you realize how vanilla I am every time I open my mouth because 1461 01:45:12,000 --> 01:45:14,680 it is. It's weird. I can't wrap my head around it. I 1462 01:45:14,720 --> 01:45:19,079 wouldn't think of these things but yeah, that's why you do inclusive negotiations. 1463 01:45:19,359 --> 01:45:24,479 Yes, or exclusive negotiations you do. I want to do X, Y 1464 01:45:24,520 --> 01:45:28,399 and Z instead of I will do this, this and this or I will 1465 01:45:28,439 --> 01:45:31,119 do X Y and Z versus I won't do X, Y and Z or 1466 01:45:31,199 --> 01:45:34,119 A, B and C. You don't know how creative people can get. 1467 01:45:34,840 --> 01:45:41,560 Oh, yeah, because there was I think it was a reef the Rochester 1468 01:45:41,680 --> 01:45:46,560 Erotic Arts Festival. There was a class called Sadism from the head up or 1469 01:45:46,600 --> 01:45:50,319 the shoulders up or something like that, and they took a syringe full of 1470 01:45:50,880 --> 01:45:57,880 may naise right to the back of somebody's throat and then with sabbie up the 1471 01:45:57,920 --> 01:46:03,680 nose. Whoa, this is what they do at Guantanamo, Well waterboarding. 1472 01:46:04,399 --> 01:46:10,920 Waterboarding is a thing people do for fun too. Yeah, okay, not 1473 01:46:11,039 --> 01:46:13,479 stuff you would God bless her? Did you try. You wouldn't do any 1474 01:46:13,520 --> 01:46:16,239 of that, not the wasabi up the nose. Come on, it probably 1475 01:46:16,279 --> 01:46:19,319 doesn't hurt as bad as some of the things I've done. So what is 1476 01:46:19,359 --> 01:46:29,960 the most painful thing you did? Oh? Gosh, the show. I 1477 01:46:30,079 --> 01:46:35,119 think the first time I was doubly penetrated with a toy and a penis probably 1478 01:46:35,159 --> 01:46:41,560 the most painful thing I've ever done, doubly penetrated in different two and the 1479 01:46:41,640 --> 01:46:45,119 same thing. Yeah, that doesn't sound like a lot of fun. It 1480 01:46:45,279 --> 01:46:48,159 was intense. It was intense. Yeah. Yeah. Did you enjoy it 1481 01:46:48,239 --> 01:46:50,640 though a little bit? Was there a pleasure about it? Would you do 1482 01:46:50,680 --> 01:46:54,319 it again? I've done it again? You've done it again? Yeah? 1483 01:46:54,399 --> 01:47:00,119 Okay? And and like is there a certain size on the wold? Was 1484 01:47:00,159 --> 01:47:05,319 a dildo? Yeah? So does that? Are there? Are there specific 1485 01:47:05,319 --> 01:47:09,680 occasions? It was the one we had. I don't know, we use, 1486 01:47:09,800 --> 01:47:14,159 uh, like Tracy's dog. It's called Tracy Dog. It's so it's 1487 01:47:14,560 --> 01:47:16,520 has a penetrative heart and then has a clip sucker on it. Okay, 1488 01:47:16,640 --> 01:47:21,479 so it kind of goes in kind of like a you yeah, gotcha cut 1489 01:47:21,520 --> 01:47:30,760 one of those in the lake one day. They're an invasive species. Sometimes 1490 01:47:30,800 --> 01:47:33,880 it came over from Asia. I don't know what that is. Well, 1491 01:47:33,960 --> 01:47:39,760 seans It'll be September twenty third for the r K as the Rochester King Society 1492 01:47:39,840 --> 01:47:43,880 auction. It goes from eleven to four right there on Atlantic Avenue at Photo 1493 01:47:44,000 --> 01:47:45,800 City US A call, I keep why do I want to say? Grill? 1494 01:47:45,960 --> 01:47:50,560 Was there photos behind the old sticky lips. Yes, and it's right 1495 01:47:50,640 --> 01:47:54,800 down from rock boxing, is how I knew it. And you can go 1496 01:47:54,880 --> 01:47:57,439 over there. And I think our friend Doug Phelps maybe helping out. And 1497 01:47:57,520 --> 01:48:01,159 we'll give you Doug's number when we wrap up here. For Dan Barrello, 1498 01:48:01,319 --> 01:48:05,800 who joined us after having a few cocktails tonight. Wow, that was great. 1499 01:48:06,239 --> 01:48:10,760 For Kevin Muir, who feels a little dirty after putting the game together 1500 01:48:10,960 --> 01:48:17,079 a little, I'm mister vanilla vanilla nice, vanilla nice. We'll see him. 1501 01:48:17,239 --> 01:48:23,399 We'll see him monday. Oh Dad, we'll see him monday. To you mis