WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.439 --> 00:00:11.679 Hey, hey, bye, with something for you to think about. Don't 2 00:00:12.240 --> 00:00:20.719 go to bed being someone's last straw. Let me say it again, Let 3 00:00:20.760 --> 00:00:28.679 it soak in. Okay, don't go to bed being someone's last straw. 4 00:00:31.199 --> 00:00:38.439 Don't wake up being someone's last straw. What do you mean, cherry? 5 00:00:38.799 --> 00:00:46.560 Let me tell you what I mean. Some of you have something negative to 6 00:00:46.640 --> 00:00:53.640 say about everybody everyone. You know why? You know why you always have 7 00:00:53.719 --> 00:01:00.159 something negative to say about people, because you're a negative person. When you 8 00:01:00.640 --> 00:01:04.879 always talking about people, when you say mean things about people, it's because 9 00:01:06.319 --> 00:01:10.239 it's a reflection of what you think of yourself. Believe it or not, 10 00:01:11.959 --> 00:01:19.159 you have unresolved issues inside of you that make you be that type of person. 11 00:01:21.680 --> 00:01:27.760 Sometimes I get YouTube video sent to me. I come in on some 12 00:01:29.400 --> 00:01:36.680 but I never ever, you will never find that I've said negative things about 13 00:01:36.719 --> 00:01:42.640 people. I don't do that. I don't talk about people's business. I 14 00:01:42.439 --> 00:01:55.480 just don't do that. For me. That's I don't want to be that 15 00:01:55.680 --> 00:02:02.079 individual. I don't want God to see me being that negative person talking about 16 00:02:02.159 --> 00:02:08.680 people, being mean. You don't know what people are going through. You 17 00:02:09.360 --> 00:02:14.840 just don't know. It's like me, nobody have a clue what I'm going 18 00:02:14.879 --> 00:02:23.080 through. But my family, you have no clue because most people will not 19 00:02:23.159 --> 00:02:28.639 be able to function the way I'm functioning. But I give all power and 20 00:02:28.719 --> 00:02:34.439 glority to God, to Jesus Christ. It's not me, it's the Jesus 21 00:02:34.479 --> 00:02:40.120 in me. It's the God in me. Because I can't fix nothing, 22 00:02:40.759 --> 00:02:46.560 so I lay it at his feet. And I will never, ever, 23 00:02:46.919 --> 00:02:53.599 ever be one of those people who's talking about people because you don't know what 24 00:02:53.639 --> 00:02:59.400 people are going through. You just don't know. And when I say don't 25 00:02:59.439 --> 00:03:04.800 be there left straw, you may be the very person that pushed them over 26 00:03:04.840 --> 00:03:09.439 the edge to hurt someone or to kill themselves. And I know some of 27 00:03:09.479 --> 00:03:13.560 you will say, well, I didn't kill them, or I didn't kill 28 00:03:13.599 --> 00:03:16.759 her, or I didn't make them do it. No, technically you didn't. 29 00:03:17.879 --> 00:03:23.599 But you don't know how full a person's plate is. You don't know 30 00:03:24.039 --> 00:03:29.879 if they're on the verge of their cup running over. That's why it's so 31 00:03:30.080 --> 00:03:34.560 important to be careful what you say to people. Be nice to people. 32 00:03:35.680 --> 00:03:38.400 You don't have to be mean and ungry because you're mean and unry. You 33 00:03:38.439 --> 00:03:45.840 don't have to treat people that way. If you couldnot be nice, keep 34 00:03:45.919 --> 00:03:52.680 to yourself. If you cannot say nice things, don't say nothing at all, 35 00:03:53.000 --> 00:03:59.439 because you never know. You may be the last straw for someone. 36 00:04:00.639 --> 00:04:09.400 You just may be. And I'm not sitting here saying that it's your fault. 37 00:04:10.280 --> 00:04:15.680 What I'm saying is, bottom line, you don't know what people are 38 00:04:15.719 --> 00:04:19.639 going through, and what you say, your words may be what it took 39 00:04:20.240 --> 00:04:26.079 for them to just want to give up or life, or your words may 40 00:04:26.120 --> 00:04:31.680 be what it took for them to just go off on the deep end because 41 00:04:31.720 --> 00:04:36.439 they're full. They have so much going on inside of them that they have 42 00:04:36.680 --> 00:04:43.600 not worked out, and they're full, and they're struggling already, and here 43 00:04:43.639 --> 00:04:48.279 you come with your mouth saying negative things about them, and they're like, 44 00:04:48.519 --> 00:04:50.920 you know, it's not even worth it life, it's not worth living, 45 00:04:51.439 --> 00:04:57.560 or I'm gonna take myself out and some people along with me. You just 46 00:04:57.680 --> 00:05:03.240 don't know. You could be a person's lash draw. It does not cost 47 00:05:03.319 --> 00:05:13.720 you a thing to be nice to anyone. It is not anything at all 48 00:05:15.600 --> 00:05:25.920 at all. It is not anything that's going to cost you something. It's 49 00:05:25.959 --> 00:05:31.600 not gonna cost you a penny to be nice. Just be nice to people 50 00:05:31.920 --> 00:05:39.720 because you don't know what they're going through. Too many people in this world 51 00:05:40.600 --> 00:05:46.920 are hell bent on breaking people down, beating people down, hell bent on 52 00:05:46.040 --> 00:05:51.040 it because they're mean and honoring and they live in a world of darkness and 53 00:05:51.079 --> 00:05:58.560 they want to project all of that onto someone else. And a lot of 54 00:05:58.639 --> 00:06:05.839 times the people that that you're projecting it onto they are struggling. They never 55 00:06:05.959 --> 00:06:11.199 learned to cope. They are struggling. And then here you come alone, 56 00:06:12.319 --> 00:06:17.439 the last straw. Don't be the last straw, because I'm telling you you're 57 00:06:17.439 --> 00:06:23.199 gonna reap what you saw. It may not happen to you, but you're 58 00:06:23.240 --> 00:06:27.399 gonna reap it. One way or the other. You're going to reap it. 59 00:06:30.439 --> 00:06:38.160 You're going to reap it. Talking about people trying to put people down, 60 00:06:38.879 --> 00:06:47.680 that's not right. People are so terrible on social media. Oh my 61 00:06:47.839 --> 00:06:54.879 goodness, they talk about babies, infant babies. Now, how low can 62 00:06:54.920 --> 00:07:02.079 you go to talk about an infant baby? But I've seen people talking about 63 00:07:02.199 --> 00:07:12.160 babies on the internet. There are people who are sick, and individuals are 64 00:07:12.199 --> 00:07:18.439 talking about these sick people, I mean physically sick, and people are ripping 65 00:07:18.480 --> 00:07:28.079 them apart just being mean and ugly. But oh, one day it's coming 66 00:07:28.120 --> 00:07:32.000 back to you because reaping what you sow has no time limit. It does 67 00:07:32.079 --> 00:07:38.639 not expire. It's coming back to you one way or another. That's why 68 00:07:38.639 --> 00:07:45.199 I tell people all the time, get your life together, figure you out, 69 00:07:45.639 --> 00:07:51.079 work on self. The only people that talk about other people are individuals 70 00:07:51.360 --> 00:07:58.720 who have their own inner issues that they have not resolved. Mature adults are 71 00:07:58.759 --> 00:08:07.560 not walking around talking about other people. And I don't want any parts of 72 00:08:07.600 --> 00:08:13.480 that. I don't want any parts of that type of negativity. That's why 73 00:08:13.240 --> 00:08:20.279 if I never grow beyond where I am now with this podcasting, it's fine. 74 00:08:20.800 --> 00:08:26.360 It is fine. Now there's an opportunity to subscribe to me. If 75 00:08:26.399 --> 00:08:33.279 people never subscribe, that's okay. It's not making me or breaking me because 76 00:08:33.320 --> 00:08:39.000 what I do I do with my heart and God gives me this to minister 77 00:08:39.159 --> 00:08:45.080 to people. I'm not a preacher, pastor of none of that, not 78 00:08:45.200 --> 00:08:52.080 trying to be that. We're all supposed to be messengers and this is a 79 00:08:52.120 --> 00:09:01.240 part of my ministry and there is nothing greater than the try to help people 80 00:09:01.559 --> 00:09:09.600 by telling people that their lives could be better, because every last one of 81 00:09:09.600 --> 00:09:13.960 our lives could be better. So if you know you that negative person, 82 00:09:15.840 --> 00:09:24.679 the hardest person to face the truth about itself. If you know you're that 83 00:09:24.919 --> 00:09:35.399 negative person who's always saying ugly things about other people, check yourself because that 84 00:09:35.559 --> 00:09:41.519 makes you uglier than anything. To sit and talk about people, especially people 85 00:09:41.600 --> 00:09:52.320 who are in situations, people who are hurting, people who are struggling mentally, 86 00:09:52.559 --> 00:09:56.879 and then you beat them down while they're already down. People love doing 87 00:09:56.919 --> 00:10:05.440 that, kicking people while they're already down. That's because of that mindset that 88 00:10:05.600 --> 00:10:16.320 individuals have and those hardened hearts, those hearts that have waxed cold. But 89 00:10:16.159 --> 00:10:22.679 God is not pleased. And trust me, you're gonna reap with yourself one 90 00:10:22.720 --> 00:10:26.320 way or another. You're gonna reap it. So I'm just saying to you, 91 00:10:26.639 --> 00:10:31.240 if you know you that negative person, do something about it. Work 92 00:10:31.320 --> 00:10:37.519 on yourself. You wouldn't want anyone talking about you, especially when you're in 93 00:10:37.600 --> 00:10:43.399 a bad mental state. You wouldn't want people talking about you, and you 94 00:10:43.600 --> 00:10:48.639 know you wouldn't. But you think it's okay to talk about people. You 95 00:10:48.720 --> 00:10:56.080 think it's okay to kick people when they're down. It's not okay. In 96 00:10:56.159 --> 00:11:03.279 no shape, form or fashion, it is not okay. So don't be 97 00:11:03.480 --> 00:11:11.200 the last straw for someone. Don't and you just don't know. You don't 98 00:11:11.240 --> 00:11:18.120 know what a person is going through when you acting mean. I mean, 99 00:11:18.399 --> 00:11:24.159 there are people on jobs. They should not, under any circumstances, have 100 00:11:24.480 --> 00:11:33.399 jobs working with customer service because they have the worst attitudes, just mean, 101 00:11:33.799 --> 00:11:37.840 mean, mean, mean faces tore up. You could pour a river in 102 00:11:37.879 --> 00:11:43.039 their face and the water wouldn't drained anywhere because they frowning all day long, 103 00:11:45.639 --> 00:11:54.799 got attitudes snappy, snippy, just mad for no reason and you don't even 104 00:11:54.840 --> 00:12:03.080 do anything. Those types of people need to stay home, But yet we 105 00:12:03.240 --> 00:12:11.080 all know they don't. They come to the workplaces or they different facilities, 106 00:12:11.679 --> 00:12:22.919 just projecting all of their mess, talking about people creating habit and it's not 107 00:12:24.080 --> 00:12:33.399 right because, like I said, you have no idea where people are mentally, 108 00:12:33.679 --> 00:12:39.360 You have no idea if they're on their very last leg. And here 109 00:12:39.399 --> 00:12:48.600 you come along with your mess, projecting your pains, your foolishness, your 110 00:12:48.720 --> 00:12:54.840 nonsense, your shenanigans onto these people who are already on their last leg, 111 00:12:56.320 --> 00:13:03.639 and you end up being the straw, the last straw, you know, 112 00:13:03.720 --> 00:13:09.600 the old saying, the last straw that broke the camel's back. You'd be 113 00:13:09.720 --> 00:13:16.559 the one who tipped the boat over the boat was already rocking. And most 114 00:13:16.559 --> 00:13:30.600 times people know when somebody is going through something, they'll steal, attempt to 115 00:13:30.639 --> 00:13:37.720 tip the boat over. Some people know, they know that a person is 116 00:13:37.759 --> 00:13:41.480 going through something. Not everyone, but a lot of people know, and 117 00:13:41.559 --> 00:13:48.879 they still poke, poke, poke, tip the boat right on over. 118 00:13:50.960 --> 00:13:58.200 Stop it, get yourselves together, become better, because you always have an 119 00:13:58.240 --> 00:14:05.919 option to become better. Stop being mean for no reason. Stop doing people 120 00:14:05.960 --> 00:14:09.840 wrong for no reason. Stop stabbing people in the back for no reason, 121 00:14:09.200 --> 00:14:15.720 all because you don't have yourself together, All because you have unresolved issues that 122 00:14:15.879 --> 00:14:22.240 you have not chosen to deal with, but instead you've chosen to project into 123 00:14:22.279 --> 00:14:30.960 the lives of other people. Shame on you. And I mean it is 124 00:14:31.600 --> 00:14:41.000 really, really, really treacherous on social media. It's really bad. People 125 00:14:41.039 --> 00:14:46.960 don't care, they don't care. They talk about anyone and everyone, and 126 00:14:46.039 --> 00:14:50.480 I mean, when one person starts, oh, it's a whole chain of 127 00:14:50.559 --> 00:14:58.080 people behind them, and that's terrible, it's awful. So please, I'm 128 00:14:58.080 --> 00:15:05.000 gonna say it again, Please don't be someone's last straw because you will weep 129 00:15:05.080 --> 00:15:13.759 with you. So and that's fact, and really that's all I have to 130 00:15:13.759 --> 00:15:18.120 say about that. Just be careful because you don't know what people going through. 131 00:15:20.320 --> 00:15:24.200 You know, sometimes you say things and you set people off for the 132 00:15:24.240 --> 00:15:31.200 next thing. You know, bullets are flying because they was at their last 133 00:15:31.320 --> 00:15:39.159 and you you you tipped over the rocking boat, or they lash out at 134 00:15:39.200 --> 00:15:48.559 you or something because you tipped over that rocking boat. Don't be someone's last 135 00:15:48.600 --> 00:15:54.879 straw. And as I said, if you cannot be nice to people, 136 00:15:54.360 --> 00:16:00.360 if you cannot say nice things, don't say nothing at all because you will 137 00:16:00.440 --> 00:16:06.639 be charged. Meaning God is watching you and you will reap with you. 138 00:16:06.759 --> 00:16:15.399 So don't be someone's last straw. That's all I'm gonna say on it. 139 00:16:15.919 --> 00:16:22.120 I'm leaving it right there. Thank you for listening. Please share. Also, 140 00:16:22.600 --> 00:16:29.000 go to Relationship Chronicles check it out. I guarantee you something there that 141 00:16:29.039 --> 00:16:33.200 you will be interested in. Much love to each one of you. Listen. 142 00:16:33.320 --> 00:16:37.879 I'm just trying to tell you do the right thing, do the right 143 00:16:37.960 --> 00:16:48.279 thing, because it's coming back to you if you don't in every episode the 144 00:16:48.360 --> 00:16:56.159 same and I hope you do it. Please please, my brother, my 145 00:16:56.279 --> 00:17:00.279 sister, please think on it.