Hey, hey, bye, with something for you to think about. Don't
go to bed being someone's last straw. Let me say it again, Let
it soak in. Okay, don't go to bed being someone's last straw.
Don't wake up being someone's last straw. What do you mean, cherry?
Let me tell you what I mean. Some of you have something negative to
say about everybody everyone. You know why? You know why you always have
something negative to say about people, because you're a negative person. When you
always talking about people, when you say mean things about people, it's because
it's a reflection of what you think of yourself. Believe it or not,
you have unresolved issues inside of you that make you be that type of person.
Sometimes I get YouTube video sent to me. I come in on some
but I never ever, you will never find that I've said negative things about
people. I don't do that. I don't talk about people's business. I
just don't do that. For me. That's I don't want to be that
individual. I don't want God to see me being that negative person talking about
people, being mean. You don't know what people are going through. You
just don't know. It's like me, nobody have a clue what I'm going
through. But my family, you have no clue because most people will not
be able to function the way I'm functioning. But I give all power and
glority to God, to Jesus Christ. It's not me, it's the Jesus
in me. It's the God in me. Because I can't fix nothing,
so I lay it at his feet. And I will never, ever,
ever be one of those people who's talking about people because you don't know what
people are going through. You just don't know. And when I say don't
be there left straw, you may be the very person that pushed them over
the edge to hurt someone or to kill themselves. And I know some of
you will say, well, I didn't kill them, or I didn't kill
her, or I didn't make them do it. No, technically you didn't.
But you don't know how full a person's plate is. You don't know
if they're on the verge of their cup running over. That's why it's so
important to be careful what you say to people. Be nice to people.
You don't have to be mean and ungry because you're mean and unry. You
don't have to treat people that way. If you couldnot be nice, keep
to yourself. If you cannot say nice things, don't say nothing at all,
because you never know. You may be the last straw for someone.
You just may be. And I'm not sitting here saying that it's your fault.
What I'm saying is, bottom line, you don't know what people are
going through, and what you say, your words may be what it took
for them to just want to give up or life, or your words may
be what it took for them to just go off on the deep end because
they're full. They have so much going on inside of them that they have
not worked out, and they're full, and they're struggling already, and here
you come with your mouth saying negative things about them, and they're like,
you know, it's not even worth it life, it's not worth living,
or I'm gonna take myself out and some people along with me. You just
don't know. You could be a person's lash draw. It does not cost
you a thing to be nice to anyone. It is not anything at all
at all. It is not anything that's going to cost you something. It's
not gonna cost you a penny to be nice. Just be nice to people
because you don't know what they're going through. Too many people in this world
are hell bent on breaking people down, beating people down, hell bent on
it because they're mean and honoring and they live in a world of darkness and
they want to project all of that onto someone else. And a lot of
times the people that that you're projecting it onto they are struggling. They never
learned to cope. They are struggling. And then here you come alone,
the last straw. Don't be the last straw, because I'm telling you you're
gonna reap what you saw. It may not happen to you, but you're
gonna reap it. One way or the other. You're going to reap it.
You're going to reap it. Talking about people trying to put people down,
that's not right. People are so terrible on social media. Oh my
goodness, they talk about babies, infant babies. Now, how low can
you go to talk about an infant baby? But I've seen people talking about
babies on the internet. There are people who are sick, and individuals are
talking about these sick people, I mean physically sick, and people are ripping
them apart just being mean and ugly. But oh, one day it's coming
back to you because reaping what you sow has no time limit. It does
not expire. It's coming back to you one way or another. That's why
I tell people all the time, get your life together, figure you out,
work on self. The only people that talk about other people are individuals
who have their own inner issues that they have not resolved. Mature adults are
not walking around talking about other people. And I don't want any parts of
that. I don't want any parts of that type of negativity. That's why
if I never grow beyond where I am now with this podcasting, it's fine.
It is fine. Now there's an opportunity to subscribe to me. If
people never subscribe, that's okay. It's not making me or breaking me because
what I do I do with my heart and God gives me this to minister
to people. I'm not a preacher, pastor of none of that, not
trying to be that. We're all supposed to be messengers and this is a
part of my ministry and there is nothing greater than the try to help people
by telling people that their lives could be better, because every last one of
our lives could be better. So if you know you that negative person,
the hardest person to face the truth about itself. If you know you're that
negative person who's always saying ugly things about other people, check yourself because that
makes you uglier than anything. To sit and talk about people, especially people
who are in situations, people who are hurting, people who are struggling mentally,
and then you beat them down while they're already down. People love doing
that, kicking people while they're already down. That's because of that mindset that
individuals have and those hardened hearts, those hearts that have waxed cold. But
God is not pleased. And trust me, you're gonna reap with yourself one
way or another. You're gonna reap it. So I'm just saying to you,
if you know you that negative person, do something about it. Work
on yourself. You wouldn't want anyone talking about you, especially when you're in
a bad mental state. You wouldn't want people talking about you, and you
know you wouldn't. But you think it's okay to talk about people. You
think it's okay to kick people when they're down. It's not okay. In
no shape, form or fashion, it is not okay. So don't be
the last straw for someone. Don't and you just don't know. You don't
know what a person is going through when you acting mean. I mean,
there are people on jobs. They should not, under any circumstances, have
jobs working with customer service because they have the worst attitudes, just mean,
mean, mean, mean faces tore up. You could pour a river in
their face and the water wouldn't drained anywhere because they frowning all day long,
got attitudes snappy, snippy, just mad for no reason and you don't even
do anything. Those types of people need to stay home, But yet we
all know they don't. They come to the workplaces or they different facilities,
just projecting all of their mess, talking about people creating habit and it's not
right because, like I said, you have no idea where people are mentally,
You have no idea if they're on their very last leg. And here
you come along with your mess, projecting your pains, your foolishness, your
nonsense, your shenanigans onto these people who are already on their last leg,
and you end up being the straw, the last straw, you know,
the old saying, the last straw that broke the camel's back. You'd be
the one who tipped the boat over the boat was already rocking. And most
times people know when somebody is going through something, they'll steal, attempt to
tip the boat over. Some people know, they know that a person is
going through something. Not everyone, but a lot of people know, and
they still poke, poke, poke, tip the boat right on over.
Stop it, get yourselves together, become better, because you always have an
option to become better. Stop being mean for no reason. Stop doing people
wrong for no reason. Stop stabbing people in the back for no reason,
all because you don't have yourself together, All because you have unresolved issues that
you have not chosen to deal with, but instead you've chosen to project into
the lives of other people. Shame on you. And I mean it is
really, really, really treacherous on social media. It's really bad. People
don't care, they don't care. They talk about anyone and everyone, and
I mean, when one person starts, oh, it's a whole chain of
people behind them, and that's terrible, it's awful. So please, I'm
gonna say it again, Please don't be someone's last straw because you will weep
with you. So and that's fact, and really that's all I have to
say about that. Just be careful because you don't know what people going through.
You know, sometimes you say things and you set people off for the
next thing. You know, bullets are flying because they was at their last
and you you you tipped over the rocking boat, or they lash out at
you or something because you tipped over that rocking boat. Don't be someone's last
straw. And as I said, if you cannot be nice to people,
if you cannot say nice things, don't say nothing at all because you will
be charged. Meaning God is watching you and you will reap with you.
So don't be someone's last straw. That's all I'm gonna say on it.
I'm leaving it right there. Thank you for listening. Please share. Also,
go to Relationship Chronicles check it out. I guarantee you something there that
you will be interested in. Much love to each one of you. Listen.
I'm just trying to tell you do the right thing, do the right
thing, because it's coming back to you if you don't in every episode the
same and I hope you do it. Please please, my brother, my
sister, please think on it.