WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.400 --> 00:00:04.879 Yeah, John Clark, what was your bachelor party? I didn't have one. 2 00:00:07.440 --> 00:00:11.919 He didn't, not one bit atish. But there was a shotgun at 3 00:00:11.919 --> 00:00:21.160 the wedding. Yeah it was. There was. Yeah. Well, uh 4 00:00:21.440 --> 00:00:25.120 no, dude, I didn't. I didn't have one. I had We 5 00:00:25.160 --> 00:00:29.079 went to a JP initially and then we had a ceremony later. No bachelor 6 00:00:29.120 --> 00:00:34.439 party. I my first bachelor party when I got married. We did cigars 7 00:00:34.439 --> 00:00:38.119 on the back deck, very chill, no alcohol, definitely no strippers or 8 00:00:38.119 --> 00:00:41.920 anything stupid like that. I do think if I get remarried this time, 9 00:00:41.920 --> 00:00:47.039 I'm gonna be so like whatever, that's like, what did you do for 10 00:00:47.079 --> 00:00:50.039 your bachelor party? Like? Man, I worked the night before the wedding, 11 00:00:50.079 --> 00:00:51.880 like I was, you know, I just had to record and went 12 00:00:51.920 --> 00:00:56.759 to the gym, went to the gas station. Like that's whatever. I 13 00:00:56.759 --> 00:01:00.840 mean. If I'm in charge of doing your bachelor party, then uh, 14 00:01:00.840 --> 00:01:07.480 I'll bring cupcakes to your house. Come, yep, come come at eleven 15 00:01:07.519 --> 00:01:12.920 o'clock with cupcakes and sit on my back deck. But for those who are 16 00:01:14.120 --> 00:01:19.840 getting married this summer, congratulations. If it's your first marriage, try to 17 00:01:19.840 --> 00:01:23.920 make it to year eleven. If it's your second marriage, well the odds 18 00:01:23.920 --> 00:01:32.120 are not in your favor. But anyways, I digress. If you're well 19 00:01:32.280 --> 00:01:37.959 considering like ninety six percent of our audience as men. So if you're a 20 00:01:37.959 --> 00:01:45.599 woman plans on having a bachelorette party, just know something. More than seventy 21 00:01:45.599 --> 00:01:51.560 percent of Americans have cheated on their partners while attending a bachelor or bachelorette party. 22 00:01:53.280 --> 00:02:00.519 Seventy percent. So crazy, dude. How many bachelor parties do you 23 00:02:00.519 --> 00:02:04.519 think we get a day in Nashville? Oh my gosh, like this coming 24 00:02:04.560 --> 00:02:07.959 weekend. Yeah, yeah, I can't. I can't imagine how much is 25 00:02:07.000 --> 00:02:12.719 gonna be. There gotta be hundreds rights. And they all think they're special 26 00:02:12.800 --> 00:02:15.280 because they all have those special little shirts with it, and every single one 27 00:02:15.280 --> 00:02:21.000 of them. It's like the fun one or the Flirty one or you know 28 00:02:21.120 --> 00:02:23.840 the brides, you know, the best not best man, what is it? 29 00:02:23.879 --> 00:02:29.199 The maid of honor and all the stuff they've they've all got the they've 30 00:02:29.199 --> 00:02:32.759 all got the different shirts that have like this this this unique thing that I'm 31 00:02:32.800 --> 00:02:38.199 sure they thought that they thought of by themselves. And they're all loud. 32 00:02:38.639 --> 00:02:43.560 They all end up on a party bus at some point, and I just 33 00:02:43.759 --> 00:02:49.319 knowing that, you know, the hundreds of bachelorette parties because it's bachelortt party. 34 00:02:49.360 --> 00:02:52.680 I never see bachelor parties in Nashville. Or maybe they're just more low 35 00:02:52.759 --> 00:02:55.439 key. I don't know. They're going to those certain type of clubs, 36 00:02:59.120 --> 00:03:04.759 and we know that we know that seventy percent of them are going to be 37 00:03:04.960 --> 00:03:14.879 unfaithful to their husbands or to their wives. Yeah. Bonusfinder dot com surveyed 38 00:03:14.960 --> 00:03:21.400 six thousand people, including the soon to be bride and groom and their guest, 39 00:03:21.520 --> 00:03:25.879 about any frisky business at these events, and define cheating as ranging from 40 00:03:25.879 --> 00:03:31.319 flirting or downloading a dating app during the party. Hey, hey, i'm 41 00:03:31.360 --> 00:03:35.400 getting I'm getting married at twelve hours. Let me see what's on tender real 42 00:03:35.479 --> 00:03:38.479 quick. Yeah yeah, last raw, got to get this out of the 43 00:03:38.479 --> 00:03:42.960 way and out of my system. So let's say, wait, wait, 44 00:03:43.439 --> 00:03:46.240 we're not done yet, to downloading a dating app during the parties, to 45 00:03:47.080 --> 00:03:55.479 texting provocatively or cheet clapping with someone other than their partner. So you're like, 46 00:03:55.520 --> 00:03:59.919 I get married in twelve hours, I'm gonna go flirt with this dude, 47 00:04:00.000 --> 00:04:02.199 which I mean I did. I get accused of flirting with everybody, 48 00:04:02.199 --> 00:04:06.599 So I don't know, like that one. It's like, well, you're 49 00:04:06.919 --> 00:04:11.159 they're self defining it though, right, Like so you would have to define 50 00:04:11.159 --> 00:04:13.759 it as flirting. Oh oh yeah, like hey I went over to the 51 00:04:13.919 --> 00:04:15.879 Yeah, I went over to the girl. I started to flirt with her, 52 00:04:15.960 --> 00:04:19.360 like right, right? How how how thrilled do you think these women 53 00:04:19.360 --> 00:04:21.959 are? When the guy comes up, he's all, you know, drunk 54 00:04:23.000 --> 00:04:28.160 off of like bud light, and he's like, hey, hey, I'm 55 00:04:28.199 --> 00:04:30.839 getting married in the morning. You want to make out? Like the one's 56 00:04:30.839 --> 00:04:34.759 like, oh my gosh, right, of course I do. Right, 57 00:04:35.439 --> 00:04:41.439 but yeah, downloading a dating app the night before their wedding doesn't make sense. 58 00:04:41.759 --> 00:04:48.399 So let me ask you this. You get married Nashville, your wife 59 00:04:48.399 --> 00:04:51.360 has a bachelire party, but you think she's the three out of the ten 60 00:04:51.439 --> 00:04:57.959 that doesn't cheat, right, You're open, and you find out five years 61 00:04:58.079 --> 00:05:05.519 later, five years later, that she cheated on somebody or cheated with somebody 62 00:05:05.519 --> 00:05:13.000 else the night before you got married. You walking, Oh I'm bouncing. 63 00:05:14.759 --> 00:05:20.040 That's for five years. I'm out. Okay, is there anything that keeps 64 00:05:20.079 --> 00:05:24.439 you from walking? Like? Is there any circumstance where you stick it out? 65 00:05:24.920 --> 00:05:28.879 Nope? All right, I mean I already have a retainer with um 66 00:05:29.439 --> 00:05:32.639 my divorce layer, so I can just use that. No, there's no 67 00:05:32.720 --> 00:05:36.040 way because listen, once a cheater are always a cheater. If you cheated 68 00:05:36.120 --> 00:05:41.120 once, if you cheat it once the night before the wedding, you're gonna 69 00:05:41.199 --> 00:05:44.680 cheat again. You're gonna cheat before your fiftieth birthday. You're gonna cheat between 70 00:05:45.079 --> 00:05:48.800 before your fortieth birthday. You're gonna cheat before your kids graduation. Like you're 71 00:05:48.839 --> 00:05:54.279 gonna fly to Thailand on Wednesdays. You're gonna fly to Thailand on Wednesdays. 72 00:05:56.079 --> 00:05:59.519 You're gonna cheat because you got bored. You're gonna cheat because you are lonely, 73 00:05:59.519 --> 00:06:02.720 You're gonna because it's Wednesday. I mean, like, cheaters are cheaters. 74 00:06:02.800 --> 00:06:13.360 And I don't understand why anybody the night before your wedding that's what you 75 00:06:13.399 --> 00:06:16.240 want to do. It doesn't make sense. It doesn't make sense. Like 76 00:06:17.680 --> 00:06:23.839 if if you were never, like you were never, you never wanted to 77 00:06:23.839 --> 00:06:26.319 get married in the first place. If that's what you're doing, you know, 78 00:06:26.600 --> 00:06:31.160 like you just you can't. I don't. I don't understand people like 79 00:06:31.240 --> 00:06:34.680 that. You know, are you downloading a dating app the night before you 80 00:06:34.680 --> 00:06:39.720 get married to see if you still got it right? Right right, Because 81 00:06:39.920 --> 00:06:44.879 that's gonna be a woman posting thirst traps on Instagram then your entire marriage, 82 00:06:44.879 --> 00:06:50.560 because she's gonna constantly need the validation from a bunch of soy boys that she's 83 00:06:50.600 --> 00:07:00.399 still hot. Yeah, that woman belongs to the streets. So if I 84 00:07:00.439 --> 00:07:03.519 ever do get remarried, John Clark, what your job is the night before 85 00:07:03.600 --> 00:07:09.920 my wedding is download all the dating apps and spy and just be looking. 86 00:07:10.040 --> 00:07:12.279 Don't worry. Your wife will be cool with it, will explain it to 87 00:07:12.279 --> 00:07:17.040 her beforehand. But yeah, sure, sure, yeah, So no bachelor 88 00:07:17.120 --> 00:07:21.759 party, just download dating apps and spy. That will be my bachelor party. 89 00:07:21.800 --> 00:07:27.759 Will each have a different app on her phone doing catfishing, looking for 90 00:07:27.959 --> 00:07:32.839 my wife. Seemed to be wife, bachelor, and bachelor atte parties, 91 00:07:32.879 --> 00:07:38.040 it's the last to Rob Bella Gandhi, founder of Smart Dating Academy, told 92 00:07:38.040 --> 00:07:46.160 The Post these events are often fueled by alcohol, the dog, controlled substances, 93 00:07:46.240 --> 00:07:50.839 peer pressure, and lack of communication between partners. If you have a 94 00:07:50.920 --> 00:07:56.079 lack of communication with your partner the night before you get married, here's an 95 00:07:56.079 --> 00:08:00.399 idea. Let's not get married, right right, Let's just do it. 96 00:08:00.560 --> 00:08:03.240 Let's just not do it. Yeah, it's kind of a mess. No, 97 00:08:03.399 --> 00:08:09.360 I uh, I don't understand. Again, I think so I went. 98 00:08:09.480 --> 00:08:13.800 I went on one bachelor party when I was uh, and I was 99 00:08:13.839 --> 00:08:18.279 the best man. Well I wasn't the best man in the wedding, but 100 00:08:18.399 --> 00:08:22.639 I did the bachelor party and we went to uh we went to a an 101 00:08:22.639 --> 00:08:26.120 amusement park and then saw a concert after. Like that was what I was 102 00:08:26.160 --> 00:08:28.519 going to do as a bachelor party. And luckily none of the guys that 103 00:08:28.560 --> 00:08:33.039 I was with complained about it. But like, I wasn't gonna do that, 104 00:08:33.240 --> 00:08:35.639 Like I wasn't gonna take him do a strip club or whatever. Did 105 00:08:35.679 --> 00:08:37.960 make sense to me, You're about to get married, dude, what am 106 00:08:37.960 --> 00:08:41.240 I gonna do? Why are we gonna go to a strip club? And 107 00:08:41.440 --> 00:08:45.720 um, yeah, I mean it didn't. Uh, it didn't. I 108 00:08:45.759 --> 00:08:50.519 mean, like I said, you know, luckily didn't matter to him or 109 00:08:50.519 --> 00:08:56.639 whatever, but um that I ended up divorced. Anyways, The most common 110 00:08:56.679 --> 00:09:01.759 instance of infidelity before that, but you know, before you get married is 111 00:09:03.200 --> 00:09:07.879 receiving a dance on the lap at thirty three point one percent, okay, 112 00:09:07.080 --> 00:09:15.799 and kissing somebody else at twenty one point three percent, and then yet eleven 113 00:09:15.879 --> 00:09:20.919 point two percent admitutes of sleeping with someone else, and I feel like I 114 00:09:20.960 --> 00:09:24.200 feel like the other the other Let's see, what was it, thirty three 115 00:09:24.240 --> 00:09:28.399 plus twenty one percent. That's fifty four percent. The other fifty four percent 116 00:09:28.480 --> 00:09:31.000 we're lying. You go that far, you might as well close the deal. 117 00:09:31.879 --> 00:09:39.879 Nine percent said that they got hot and heavy with a with a with 118 00:09:39.919 --> 00:09:43.440 a couple. You can you can do the calculation there, two plus one 119 00:09:43.480 --> 00:09:50.000 equals one. Um, yeah, okay, so let's go down this road 120 00:09:50.039 --> 00:09:54.399 here. Um, well, I don't. I mean, hey, look, 121 00:09:54.440 --> 00:10:01.159 if i'm if I'm marrying a woman who it's part of the thirty three 122 00:10:01.240 --> 00:10:07.080 percent who likes lap dances, we got other problems on our hands. Probably 123 00:10:07.399 --> 00:10:16.639 probably kissing kissing, John Clark, you found out five years after the fact. 124 00:10:16.639 --> 00:10:22.240 What are you doing? Probably also I'm bouncing. Yeah, I'm bouncing 125 00:10:22.279 --> 00:10:24.720 from kissing. Do you want to kiss somebody else? You can kiss mine 126 00:10:24.720 --> 00:10:33.399 and leave And then think about eleven percent admit to cheek clapping with someone else, 127 00:10:33.480 --> 00:10:37.159 and then nine percent had two other people with them. That's crazy, 128 00:10:37.200 --> 00:10:41.600 man, that's crazy again. Now I'm about are you getting married? I 129 00:10:41.679 --> 00:10:48.960 think the nine percent that add to two people, Um, that's that's probably 130 00:10:48.000 --> 00:10:52.759 like eight point five percent male and then there's like a half percent that's female. 131 00:10:54.039 --> 00:10:56.600 That sounds like something like stupid guys would do like the night before they 132 00:10:56.639 --> 00:11:01.279 get married. Yeah, how do you how? How do you go? 133 00:11:03.440 --> 00:11:07.879 How do you go the like the weekend? The Okay, it's probably worse 134 00:11:07.919 --> 00:11:11.279 if it's the week before, because then you have all week to look at 135 00:11:11.320 --> 00:11:13.440 the person you're gonna marry, make these vows with that you don't even mean 136 00:11:15.600 --> 00:11:18.240 knowing what you get. But how are you going to do this the night 137 00:11:18.320 --> 00:11:24.399 before? And it would be cool? With it? Well? I think 138 00:11:24.399 --> 00:11:28.080 it's you probably just hope to hang over carry you through the wedding or whatever, 139 00:11:28.120 --> 00:11:31.480 because there's no way you're doing this without getting absolutely hammered, right, 140 00:11:33.279 --> 00:11:37.120 no way, Like you do you think do you think a sober person does 141 00:11:37.159 --> 00:11:41.559 something like that or do you think that that's just oh no, this is 142 00:11:41.600 --> 00:11:43.759 this is from liquor. I don't think there's I don't think there's a lot 143 00:11:43.799 --> 00:11:52.759 of sober people, um making that choice. Yeah, because I mean, 144 00:11:52.840 --> 00:11:56.840 dude, like I'd be worried about getting caught. I'd be worried about one 145 00:11:56.879 --> 00:11:58.279 of my drunk idiot friends, not you. John Clark, one of my 146 00:11:58.320 --> 00:12:05.120 ouse drunk friends would be like you and mad dude. Well, I just 147 00:12:05.399 --> 00:12:09.159 I just don't understand. Like again, you know, to me, you 148 00:12:09.159 --> 00:12:11.559 could put in a situation like that. This is a whole lot more about 149 00:12:11.600 --> 00:12:15.759 your friends and the people that you hang around with than it does anything else, 150 00:12:16.080 --> 00:12:18.639 because like, bro, I'm not even I'm not even the people that 151 00:12:18.679 --> 00:12:22.600 I'm the people that I've been in wedding parties for, I'm not even putting 152 00:12:22.600 --> 00:12:24.919 them in that situation, you know. And if they want to go, 153 00:12:24.960 --> 00:12:28.159 do it, cool, But I'm not going right, I'm not participating in 154 00:12:28.200 --> 00:12:33.039 that. You're not gonna blame me later. I mean, you find out 155 00:12:33.360 --> 00:12:43.440 this happened, um after you got married. Oh yeah, by the way, 156 00:12:43.480 --> 00:12:46.360 I had two people joined me in bad the night before we got married. 157 00:12:46.960 --> 00:12:54.279 Huh. That explains the itchy feeling for the last five years. Yes, 158 00:12:54.639 --> 00:12:56.679 hey, thanks for the Hey. You know you gave me the kid 159 00:12:56.759 --> 00:13:01.320 and also thanks for the gift that keeps on giving as well. Now I 160 00:13:01.440 --> 00:13:05.039 know right my dog is upset with this one. No, no one will 161 00:13:05.080 --> 00:13:09.159 ever cheat on you let me all right. So for those in the US, 162 00:13:09.320 --> 00:13:13.240 you want to know what state is my state full of people that belong 163 00:13:13.320 --> 00:13:18.360 to the streets. Delaware topped the list as the most unfaithful state Delaware. 164 00:13:20.879 --> 00:13:24.919 Biden, did you I heard? I heard today when I was watching the 165 00:13:26.120 --> 00:13:31.200 highlight reel from Marjorie Taylor Green going for the um um. She's gonna impeach 166 00:13:31.399 --> 00:13:37.600 Joseph Biden because he's like breathing. Yeah. Yeah, his middle name is 167 00:13:37.679 --> 00:13:46.000 Robinette bro Robinette Joseph Robinette Biden. Like I know his middle name was are 168 00:13:46.559 --> 00:13:50.080 Like, come on, dude, don't don't. Doesn't the macacrad make fun 169 00:13:50.080 --> 00:13:54.080 of you enough? Anyways? Delaware topped the list of the most unfaithful state, 170 00:13:54.840 --> 00:13:58.720 with nearly eighty nine percent of its residents admitting to cheating on their partner 171 00:13:58.759 --> 00:14:09.480 while attending bachelor or bachelorette parties eighty nine percent in Delaware, Lee eighty nine 172 00:14:09.559 --> 00:14:18.639 percent, eighty nine percent in Delaware. Y'all need to get a sports team, 173 00:14:18.679 --> 00:14:22.440 and not a minor league team either. You need to get something you 174 00:14:22.480 --> 00:14:26.519 can really get excited about. Yeah, because because y'all are, y'all are 175 00:14:26.679 --> 00:14:31.360 just cheating way too much up there, all right, everybody's cheating, followed 176 00:14:31.399 --> 00:14:37.840 by North Dakota with eighty five point seven percent. Now it doesn't surprise me. 177 00:14:37.360 --> 00:14:43.559 And Idaho eighty four point eight percent. That's a bee on a test, 178 00:14:43.679 --> 00:14:46.679 dude. I mean, if you're if you've got a cheating exam sitting 179 00:14:46.679 --> 00:14:50.080 in front of you, they made a bee. Alright, So to our 180 00:14:50.080 --> 00:14:56.799 listeners in Delaware, Delaware, our viewers in Delaware, But woman you are 181 00:14:56.879 --> 00:15:00.519 dating or the man that you are dating and you're gonna get married to, 182 00:15:03.080 --> 00:15:07.240 there's a one in ten shot that he won't cheat on your butt or sheet 183 00:15:07.279 --> 00:15:16.120 won't cheat on your butt before the wedding. What's crazy is the chances of 184 00:15:16.240 --> 00:15:20.440 both the bride and the groom cheating on each other the night before the wedding 185 00:15:22.799 --> 00:15:31.279 are oh yeah, solid at eighty nine percent. Yeah, they're all cheating 186 00:15:31.320 --> 00:15:33.440 on each other at this point. And then the probably eleven percent of the 187 00:15:33.519 --> 00:15:37.840 virgins who wait to get married wait until marriage right. The most committed state, 188 00:15:37.919 --> 00:15:43.840 on the other hand, was Nebraska, with only fifty seven point one 189 00:15:43.919 --> 00:15:50.840 percent admitted to cheating. Only fifty seven percent, that's the most committed state, 190 00:15:52.039 --> 00:15:58.120 and then Vermont as Vermont was in second place with sixty three point six 191 00:15:58.200 --> 00:16:06.279 percent admitted that they were cheaters. Cheater, cheater, pumpkin eaters of people 192 00:16:06.279 --> 00:16:11.480 in Nebraska were faithful before they got married, and they're the most they're the 193 00:16:11.519 --> 00:16:15.279 most faithful. That is just wild, dude. So hey, if you 194 00:16:15.399 --> 00:16:19.480 want to find a well, they're not even fine. If you want better 195 00:16:19.519 --> 00:16:26.120 odds of finding a faithful person to marry, Nebraska, Vermont and Maine is 196 00:16:26.200 --> 00:16:34.799 number three with sixty four percent admitted to cheating. Third most faithful, third 197 00:16:36.200 --> 00:16:45.240 most faithful state in America has a thirty six percent rate of not cheating of 198 00:16:45.440 --> 00:16:55.559 fidelity. Yeah, well, it's a good time to be single. Yeah, 199 00:16:55.600 --> 00:17:00.039 apparently apparently you're eleven, baby, let's uh yeah, hey through the 200 00:17:00.360 --> 00:17:03.599 Hey, yeah you can, John, You got about fifty one more weeks 201 00:17:03.599 --> 00:17:07.680 to make it through the dread of eleven years, Okay, and then year 202 00:17:07.759 --> 00:17:07.839 eleven and then you'll be good.