WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.640 --> 00:00:06.280 Well, hello and welcome to the Minnesota Goodbye, the after the show podcast 2 00:00:06.320 --> 00:00:11.519 that we do every single day that is mostly made up of emails from you, 3 00:00:12.199 --> 00:00:14.599 Jenny. Have a question for you. Where do you store your ideas? 4 00:00:14.599 --> 00:00:17.359 When you have an idea for the show, or an idea for a 5 00:00:17.359 --> 00:00:20.519 trip, or an idea for a song you want to download, where do 6 00:00:20.559 --> 00:00:23.480 you store it? I put mine in my Apple Watch because it's got a 7 00:00:23.480 --> 00:00:28.480 little recording voice memo section, and I put it right in there, and 8 00:00:28.519 --> 00:00:33.039 then once a week I'll listen back to see what I recorded. Yeah, 9 00:00:33.079 --> 00:00:35.960 I do my notes app in my phone, so everything goes in there. 10 00:00:36.000 --> 00:00:39.200 Whenever I have a random idea, I put it in there, or if 11 00:00:39.240 --> 00:00:43.399 I'm near my computer for show stuff. Then we use a Google calendar. 12 00:00:43.439 --> 00:00:46.359 Well by we, I mean I use a Google calendar, but everyone has 13 00:00:46.399 --> 00:00:48.880 access to it. Okay, yeah, I never go on there, but 14 00:00:49.119 --> 00:00:52.399 I know that you do. So all right, let's get started with the 15 00:00:52.399 --> 00:00:55.679 emails on the Minnesota Goodbye. We got a bunch and I love this one. 16 00:00:56.520 --> 00:00:59.600 Shy Len writes. In Saturday night, we had a girl's night and 17 00:00:59.640 --> 00:01:02.280 still water there. I was drinking my beer, eating my food. My 18 00:01:02.359 --> 00:01:07.400 sister yells, there's Jonathan Foegel. We bolt out of our chairs and run 19 00:01:07.439 --> 00:01:10.760 over to him. You would have thought we'd seen Taylor Swift. His fiance 20 00:01:11.000 --> 00:01:12.760 was so nice and thought it was so funny that we wanted a photo with 21 00:01:12.879 --> 00:01:15.959 him. Hi, Bailey, where are you been? I was talking to 22 00:01:15.040 --> 00:01:18.200 Vont the other room. Oh that's fine, I don't care here, here's 23 00:01:18.239 --> 00:01:21.120 totally yeah. I just wondered if you were anywhere interesting. Oh, just 24 00:01:21.159 --> 00:01:23.000 talking to Vance. Okay, what are you guys talking about? We were 25 00:01:23.000 --> 00:01:27.640 talking about that pencil around the Lake of the Isle. Oh funny. You 26 00:01:27.640 --> 00:01:30.280 want to see the pencil they're talking about it. It's in Vaunt's Weekend in 27 00:01:30.359 --> 00:01:34.480 five photos, and it's just called the pencil, called the low T Pencil 28 00:01:34.560 --> 00:01:38.319 and Loti for Lake of the Asles. If you walk around Lake of the 29 00:01:38.319 --> 00:01:42.359 Asles, you'll see it. It's one of the houses right off of the 30 00:01:42.359 --> 00:01:48.680 the parkway. Okay, I used to go for walks down that way once 31 00:01:48.719 --> 00:01:51.480 in a while, but I have not in a long time. My Comfort 32 00:01:51.560 --> 00:01:53.680 Lake, I'm always around that one. She goes on to say, I 33 00:01:53.719 --> 00:01:57.879 attached a photo. She'd probably explain our shirts a group of his head to 34 00:01:57.879 --> 00:02:00.519 buy each other a nasty sh shirt. We don't normally dress like this, 35 00:02:00.599 --> 00:02:05.280 and our friends definitely thought we were crazy for getting a picture with a lawyer. 36 00:02:05.879 --> 00:02:08.159 And for the record, I'm not a squirter. Now. The reason 37 00:02:08.240 --> 00:02:14.039 she brings this up it was a bachelorette or girls night out party, so 38 00:02:14.080 --> 00:02:20.599 they all had to buy each other girl tacky vulgar shirts. So I'm going 39 00:02:20.680 --> 00:02:24.759 to read some of these shirts that are in the photo. Now, they're 40 00:02:24.759 --> 00:02:29.240 a little bit dicey, but this one says squirter for daddy. Wow. 41 00:02:29.319 --> 00:02:32.919 Okay. Another one says I love sucking Dix with my butthole. These that 42 00:02:34.039 --> 00:02:38.120 printed on the front of shirts, Yes, this is a trend right now. 43 00:02:38.199 --> 00:02:39.960 You get like a cringy shirt that you have to wear. Well yeah, 44 00:02:40.000 --> 00:02:44.840 cringey shirts, yeah, but not vulgar to that extent. Sorry, 45 00:02:44.879 --> 00:02:47.319 keep going, I want to hear more. This was the only shirt I 46 00:02:47.439 --> 00:02:53.680 had with com on it, Okay, with or with without? Come on 47 00:02:53.719 --> 00:03:01.439 it? Yeah, you're right, my yeast infection itches throat, goat. 48 00:03:02.520 --> 00:03:07.599 I want to tongue punch your fart box. And then this one I can't. 49 00:03:07.840 --> 00:03:10.599 There's a couple I can't read because not because they're too vulgar. But 50 00:03:10.639 --> 00:03:15.319 because they're I can't see them. But it's a group of normal, average 51 00:03:15.319 --> 00:03:21.240 looking twenty five thirty two year old women who are all wearing these obscene shirts. 52 00:03:21.240 --> 00:03:23.479 And I think that's a funny idea. I love that. I love 53 00:03:23.520 --> 00:03:27.639 that. Oh man, maybe I'm getting too old, but that's a little 54 00:03:27.680 --> 00:03:31.039 too much for me to wear. Something about squirting or fart boxes. If 55 00:03:31.080 --> 00:03:35.319 you wear a shirt, which one would you wear? This was the only 56 00:03:35.360 --> 00:03:38.479 shirt I had without com on it. No, my yeast infection itches that 57 00:03:38.599 --> 00:03:42.960 one squirter for daddy, throat goat. I want to tongue punch your fart 58 00:03:43.000 --> 00:03:46.560 box. I love sucking dicks with my butthole. And then I can't read 59 00:03:46.599 --> 00:03:50.120 the rest of them. I probably do throat goat, throat, goat, 60 00:03:50.400 --> 00:03:57.080 east infection one, oh state fair t shirts. Which one of those should 61 00:03:57.080 --> 00:04:01.599 I name the podcast for Daddy? Like him? Not doing that one? 62 00:04:01.599 --> 00:04:05.039 That is too much? Okay, throat goat? Okay, throat goat, 63 00:04:05.199 --> 00:04:09.680 Okay, perfect, All right, Let's go on to the next one. 64 00:04:11.879 --> 00:04:16.399 No, that's not a Minnesota Goodbye one. Let's try this one. And 65 00:04:16.879 --> 00:04:20.600 no, that's not a I'm trying to find one that's for Minnesota, Goodbye. 66 00:04:20.680 --> 00:04:24.040 That's not a press release. That's not a press release, and it's 67 00:04:24.079 --> 00:04:27.879 not one for the regular show. Okay, So we talked about whether the 68 00:04:27.959 --> 00:04:30.360 kids die at the end of Willy Wonka. Oh yeah, this came as 69 00:04:30.360 --> 00:04:33.120 a big shock to me. I've seen this movie a couple of times, 70 00:04:33.160 --> 00:04:35.600 and I saw it, you know, when I was a kid, and 71 00:04:35.680 --> 00:04:40.600 I've always just assumed that Willy Wonka brings the dead kids back to life or 72 00:04:40.600 --> 00:04:43.800 they're not really hurt. But then Bailey said, no, they do die 73 00:04:43.920 --> 00:04:47.399 in the book and the musical. Yeah, they're dead. Andrew, a 74 00:04:47.480 --> 00:04:51.079 staff writer from Ohio, says in the Johnny Depp Willy Wonka movie, at 75 00:04:51.120 --> 00:04:55.079 the end, as they're in the elevator, they show the kids leaving, 76 00:04:55.160 --> 00:04:59.680 except the Blueberry Girl is extra flexible, Mike TV is super tall from being 77 00:04:59.720 --> 00:05:03.040 stre and Veruka and her dad are covered in garbage. I forget about Augustus 78 00:05:03.079 --> 00:05:06.519 Gloop. But the other kids are all seen leaving the factory in the Johnny 79 00:05:06.519 --> 00:05:10.680 dept version. So they survive in the Johnny Depp version. I mean that 80 00:05:11.040 --> 00:05:14.240 is that the main version. No, it's the one with Wilder. It's 81 00:05:14.279 --> 00:05:19.079 an adapt adaptation. Yeah, and they adapted it wrong. Okay, I 82 00:05:19.199 --> 00:05:21.879 like that be He's like, no, the kids should die what they're meant 83 00:05:21.920 --> 00:05:28.839 to die in it. That's cannon. Let's see, Virginny. I heard 84 00:05:28.879 --> 00:05:33.439 you mention you're bleeding gums a few times now. I thought i'd tell you 85 00:05:33.480 --> 00:05:36.439 what I did to stop my bleeding gums. My gums would bleed every day 86 00:05:36.439 --> 00:05:40.560 when I flossed. My gums would always bleed when the dental hygienis would floss 87 00:05:40.600 --> 00:05:44.360 my teeth. I did some research and I found out about rinsing with peroxide. 88 00:05:44.560 --> 00:05:46.040 Okay, you little backstory on this. Your gums bleed when you please? 89 00:05:46.160 --> 00:05:48.480 Just we're talking about flossing it, and I said that mine bleed. 90 00:05:48.519 --> 00:05:51.240 It looks like a scene from Jaws in my mouth when I fly, Yeah, 91 00:05:51.480 --> 00:05:55.920 right right right. When I brush before bed, I always follow with 92 00:05:55.920 --> 00:05:59.079 a prodoxide rinse, swish it around as long as you can spit it out 93 00:05:59.079 --> 00:06:00.560 of rinse with water. This for two years, once a day, there 94 00:06:00.600 --> 00:06:03.639 is no plaque on my teeth or gums. My gums no longer bleed. 95 00:06:03.680 --> 00:06:06.439 My teeth feel smooth and clean like they do when I get them cleaned. 96 00:06:06.560 --> 00:06:10.920 The dentist give it a shot. It works. That is from renee. 97 00:06:11.000 --> 00:06:13.759 Good to know. So rinse out with peroxide rints. I don't know if 98 00:06:13.759 --> 00:06:17.800 it's peroxide like a bottle of peroxide, or if there is a rinse with 99 00:06:17.879 --> 00:06:23.240 them. I think you dilute the peroxide and just use that as a mouthwash. 100 00:06:23.399 --> 00:06:25.879 Just mix some water in with it. Okay. When I was a 101 00:06:25.959 --> 00:06:30.879 kid, I discovered that if you put peroxide on any wound, it would 102 00:06:30.959 --> 00:06:33.879 foam. And I was fascinated by that, Like if you had a scratch, 103 00:06:34.000 --> 00:06:36.839 like I remember I crawled through a barbed wire fence one time and I 104 00:06:36.879 --> 00:06:41.319 got a scratch and somebody said, we'll put peroxide on it. I'm like, 105 00:06:41.319 --> 00:06:44.120 oh, what's peroxide? We'll just put it on there and it would 106 00:06:44.160 --> 00:06:47.360 foam, and I was fascinated by that. Does anybody else have any idea 107 00:06:47.360 --> 00:06:51.199 what I'm talking about? No, I don't. I just picked my scabs. 108 00:06:51.240 --> 00:06:55.000 I was like one of those kids who just was always picking our scabs. 109 00:06:55.040 --> 00:06:57.040 Okay, naturally, but yeah you can, like, yeah, you 110 00:06:57.040 --> 00:06:59.680 put it on a wound of any kind of bubbles a little bit bit. 111 00:06:59.800 --> 00:07:01.240 Yeah, yeah, kind of like when you put it in your ears to 112 00:07:01.279 --> 00:07:04.199 clean your ears out? Is that a thing? Everybody did, or just 113 00:07:04.319 --> 00:07:09.279 me what you like, pour peroxide into your ear and you like lay down 114 00:07:09.319 --> 00:07:11.680 in your couch and then it bubbles up and then you clean out your ear. 115 00:07:11.800 --> 00:07:13.759 No. Never, No, is that a thing? Seriously, we 116 00:07:13.759 --> 00:07:15.279 would do that. I mean not all the time, but we would do 117 00:07:15.319 --> 00:07:18.120 that throughout my childhood to clean out your ears. So, like, if 118 00:07:18.160 --> 00:07:21.319 you are like, oh, my ears feel like they're full of ear wax 119 00:07:21.399 --> 00:07:25.480 or something, just lay down on the couch or on your bed or something, 120 00:07:25.639 --> 00:07:29.040 pour peroxide into it and let it sit for like five minutes really, 121 00:07:29.079 --> 00:07:30.480 and then you put a cotton ball on it, turn your head back over 122 00:07:31.000 --> 00:07:33.600 and then it'll like leak out on the cotton ball. Throw away the cotton 123 00:07:33.600 --> 00:07:35.680 ball, and then do the next ear. Is it effective? Does a 124 00:07:35.680 --> 00:07:39.639 big ball of wax come out with it? I mean sometimes the cotton ball 125 00:07:39.720 --> 00:07:42.399 is like kind of orangey brown and gross, and then I just kind of 126 00:07:42.399 --> 00:07:45.240 like use a Q tip to get the rest of it. But I mean 127 00:07:45.279 --> 00:07:47.439 it feels kind of nice. It's cool to have like a weird bubble sensation 128 00:07:47.519 --> 00:07:50.759 in your ear. I had a nurse clean out my ears when I was 129 00:07:50.759 --> 00:07:54.600 probably in high school or college one time because I was at the at the 130 00:07:54.680 --> 00:07:57.560 doctor, and I don't know how it came up. I really don't know 131 00:07:57.639 --> 00:07:59.879 if the doctor said, yeah, you need to clean his ears or what. 132 00:08:00.399 --> 00:08:03.839 But I could not believe as a high school not like an old fart, 133 00:08:05.160 --> 00:08:09.879 but as a high school kid, like the huge amount of old dark 134 00:08:09.959 --> 00:08:13.360 wax that builds up in our ears and they like shoot water out at your 135 00:08:13.399 --> 00:08:16.120 ear when you set about. The doctor yeah, it's kind of fun. 136 00:08:16.879 --> 00:08:20.240 Yeah, And she rinsed it out and I couldn't believe what was coming out 137 00:08:20.279 --> 00:08:22.600 of there. I was like, WHOA, that's embarrassing. She's like, 138 00:08:22.720 --> 00:08:31.360 nah, this is nothing, this is Becky writes in again, these are 139 00:08:31.360 --> 00:08:33.200 people that are asking for shine, doown cruise tickets and some other things. 140 00:08:33.200 --> 00:08:37.200 So I got to kind of scoop through here a little bit. I don't 141 00:08:37.240 --> 00:08:41.679 know why I use the word scoop. Scoop Andop love the Morning Show with 142 00:08:41.759 --> 00:08:45.200 everyone in the podcast. I recently started listening to I cannot stand the music 143 00:08:45.200 --> 00:08:48.919 on KATWB but I understand that's not your fault. But what's with all what 144 00:08:50.120 --> 00:08:54.000 is all of you guys's favorite musical genres? Mine is old rap, old 145 00:08:54.000 --> 00:08:58.679 country, old rock, but pretty much anything after I was born two thousand 146 00:08:58.679 --> 00:09:01.679 and one I don't listen to, so hopefully this makes the podcast into the 147 00:09:01.720 --> 00:09:05.919 podcast. So they have a really cool name. Their name is Maverick, 148 00:09:05.080 --> 00:09:07.840 So Maverick. They were born in two thousand and one, which would make 149 00:09:07.879 --> 00:09:13.559 them about twenty three or so, twenty two or twenty three, and they 150 00:09:13.559 --> 00:09:16.639 don't listen to anything after they were born. So let's go around the room. 151 00:09:16.679 --> 00:09:18.120 I would say that, you know, I think a lot of the 152 00:09:18.120 --> 00:09:22.519 time, the stuff that we most love to listen to is stuff that we 153 00:09:22.679 --> 00:09:26.399 listen to when we were younger. So my stuff is probably like a lot 154 00:09:26.440 --> 00:09:31.279 of eighty stuff, some ninety stuff, but I also like some newer stuff. 155 00:09:31.279 --> 00:09:33.720 But I'm gonna if I'm gonna go back to it's probably gonna be stuff 156 00:09:33.720 --> 00:09:37.039 I'd listened to in high school or college, you know, from back then. 157 00:09:37.080 --> 00:09:39.399 What about you, Bailey, Well, I mostly listen to musical theater, 158 00:09:39.519 --> 00:09:43.399 let's be honest, like Broadway soundtracks, and then also like classic rock 159 00:09:43.480 --> 00:09:46.879 from late seventies early eighties. Really yeah, what band off the top of 160 00:09:46.879 --> 00:09:50.360 your head? Like classic rock? Yeah? Like the Eagles? Oh really? 161 00:09:50.399 --> 00:09:52.559 Oh yeah, We're like Leonard skinnerd Freebird truly, Freebird is my famite. 162 00:09:52.600 --> 00:09:56.840 Oh, it's so good. I love Freebird so much, but that 163 00:09:56.080 --> 00:10:00.600 really there's just so much. I mean, if like we're driving to Ohio 164 00:10:00.679 --> 00:10:03.679 to visit my grandma, we just go to different classic rock stations along the 165 00:10:03.720 --> 00:10:07.320 way. I have them all written down for the entire road trip, so 166 00:10:07.360 --> 00:10:09.399 we can just listen to classic rock the whole time. What about you, 167 00:10:09.519 --> 00:10:11.720 Jenny, I am so all over the place because it depends on what I'm 168 00:10:11.720 --> 00:10:16.240 doing. I listened to em music a ton, especially when I'm working out. 169 00:10:16.639 --> 00:10:18.960 I'm like illuminears Noah kN kind of gal. When I'm in like more 170 00:10:18.960 --> 00:10:22.039 of a peaceful maybe I'm getting ready for the morning show kind of vibe. 171 00:10:22.960 --> 00:10:28.039 If I'm out for a walk, it could be just like Taylor Swift Radio 172 00:10:28.200 --> 00:10:31.840 that I'm listening to on iHeart. I'm really all over the place. And 173 00:10:31.879 --> 00:10:35.600 I also love classic rock too, that's my vibe. Literally, listen to 174 00:10:35.639 --> 00:10:37.480 Cool on a eight all the time. Even though Cool one a weight, 175 00:10:37.480 --> 00:10:41.720 it's starting to play like what I grew up listening to, and it's not 176 00:10:41.799 --> 00:10:45.080 even like classic rock as much anymore. So now I need to find a 177 00:10:45.080 --> 00:10:48.120 different station. It's so funny because when I first moved here, Cool one 178 00:10:48.159 --> 00:10:54.279 away played stuff from like the late fifties Elvis Yeah and Buddy Holly seventies. 179 00:10:54.519 --> 00:11:00.639 Yeah, and now I mean they're they're appealing to not a certain kind of 180 00:11:00.720 --> 00:11:05.159 music, but a certain age. So they want people in their probably their 181 00:11:05.159 --> 00:11:09.039 forties, fifties, sixties to listen to Cool one oh eight because usually those 182 00:11:09.039 --> 00:11:11.279 people have a lot of disposable income. You're a little bit older, you've 183 00:11:11.320 --> 00:11:15.240 been saving, you're established in your life, in your career, So Cool 184 00:11:15.279 --> 00:11:18.120 one o eight we'll play music not from the fifties, sixties and seventies anymore, 185 00:11:18.360 --> 00:11:22.600 but about from the maybe that mostly the eighties. When you say nineties, 186 00:11:22.639 --> 00:11:24.840 well, it's like nineties now all little? Is it? Really? 187 00:11:26.080 --> 00:11:30.639 Yes? I mean like Ace of Bass, I know that. I'm trying 188 00:11:30.639 --> 00:11:33.000 to think of other ones. When they started playing Nirvana, I was like, 189 00:11:33.039 --> 00:11:35.000 this is weird. Yeah, why is this happening? Or even they've 190 00:11:35.000 --> 00:11:41.440 played like the Santana like Rob Thomas, they put max Box twenty yeah, 191 00:11:41.480 --> 00:11:45.919 and I'm like, why am I hearing Matchbox twenty on Cool one oh eight, 192 00:11:46.120 --> 00:11:48.840 which is sixty seventies to me? Wow, that's yeah, it's still 193 00:11:48.879 --> 00:11:52.679 like it's still should be an oldies station and I get those are those are 194 00:11:52.799 --> 00:11:58.679 thirty forty year old songs. Another one from Stephanie says, my husband and 195 00:11:58.720 --> 00:12:01.440 I do a staycation once again at a nice hotel in Minneapolis. This year, 196 00:12:01.480 --> 00:12:05.159 we chose the Four Seasons and we are here now. This was written 197 00:12:05.200 --> 00:12:09.080 Friday afternoon at three twenty four. It happens to be when a big Timberwolves 198 00:12:09.080 --> 00:12:13.159 game occurred Thursday when we arrived. Bummer that they lost. We just got 199 00:12:13.159 --> 00:12:18.320 off the elevator with common Nice and the whole Mavericks NBA team is here. 200 00:12:18.480 --> 00:12:24.080 Wow. We also ran into a WNBA player and a brother of the Timberwolves 201 00:12:24.159 --> 00:12:28.559 with his kids. What are the chances our couple's staycation anniversary trip has brought 202 00:12:28.600 --> 00:12:33.200 us face to face with so many fancy people? Wow? Also, the 203 00:12:33.200 --> 00:12:35.639 Four Seasons is amazing. We've never been here before, but it is one 204 00:12:35.720 --> 00:12:39.480 hundred percent the best hotel we've stayed in so far. Anyway, had to 205 00:12:39.480 --> 00:12:43.440 share. I'm excited to see if we've run into anybody else, since we 206 00:12:43.519 --> 00:12:48.480 have two more days before checkout. What a cool little staycation trip. Net. 207 00:12:48.679 --> 00:12:50.360 I don't know anything about the four Seasons. What is so great about 208 00:12:50.360 --> 00:12:54.679 the four Seasons? Jenny very new hotel, probably the newest one downtown. 209 00:12:54.799 --> 00:13:00.000 It's extremely fancy, fancy restaurants. I think there's a rooftop. They've got 210 00:13:00.120 --> 00:13:03.960 like a nice deck area. Lots of events get held on that deck area. 211 00:13:03.120 --> 00:13:07.399 And then that's where it's rumored that all the clubs stay if they're in 212 00:13:07.440 --> 00:13:11.200 town. Cool. Okay, Okay, you gotta go start hanging out in 213 00:13:11.240 --> 00:13:18.240 the lobby at the four y. Yeah, it's Timberley. It used to 214 00:13:18.279 --> 00:13:22.720 be the Whitney because the Whitney was. It's condos now and it's over by 215 00:13:22.759 --> 00:13:26.840 the old North Star Blanket factory. Is that sign still up that says north 216 00:13:26.879 --> 00:13:30.840 Star Blankets. It's right by that, and it used to be called the 217 00:13:30.879 --> 00:13:33.240 Whitney, and that is where everybody stayed. Michael Jackson, Janet Jackson, 218 00:13:35.200 --> 00:13:39.360 led Zeppelin, and Kiss all stayed there that I know of. Everybody stayed 219 00:13:39.360 --> 00:13:41.679 there. And we got to meet Kiss in the lobby one time because they 220 00:13:41.679 --> 00:13:46.159 were staying there. It was my birthday and their manager found out it was 221 00:13:46.159 --> 00:13:48.320 my birthday and blah blah blah said, hey, they're willing to meet you 222 00:13:48.440 --> 00:13:54.000 meet him in the lobby and Kiss came down the stairs just like regular guys, 223 00:13:54.799 --> 00:13:56.799 and it was like, you know, okay who they are. You 224 00:13:56.799 --> 00:14:01.360 wouldn't know who any of the guys in kiss are really, I say, 225 00:14:01.000 --> 00:14:03.360 let the face manded. I probably wouldn't know either. Yeah, I mean 226 00:14:03.519 --> 00:14:09.320 I knew because I'm a big fan. Next one, Dave Jenny vont Bailey 227 00:14:09.399 --> 00:14:13.000 first of off, Love first off. Loved the new crew. Happy to 228 00:14:13.039 --> 00:14:16.840 hear Vonton Bailey join the Dave Ryan Show. I was listening and I heard 229 00:14:16.879 --> 00:14:20.679 you talk about losing track of your kids. I have two stories I'd like 230 00:14:20.720 --> 00:14:22.960 to share about losing track of your kids that weren't mine. I haven't lost 231 00:14:24.039 --> 00:14:26.360 mine yet lol. The first one I was in the mall about five years 232 00:14:26.360 --> 00:14:31.080 ago. I saw mom and kid talking at Dillard's and she was already fussing 233 00:14:31.120 --> 00:14:33.639 to him about staying close by. An hour later, saw the same kid 234 00:14:33.679 --> 00:14:37.120 crying by the play area. So I walked up and he was saying he 235 00:14:37.120 --> 00:14:41.440 couldn't find his mom. It turns out he couldn't speak any English, only 236 00:14:41.519 --> 00:14:46.840 Mandarin, which I spoke. Also, what are these chances? So I 237 00:14:46.960 --> 00:14:50.480 comforted him and I told him to stay close to me and I'll see what 238 00:14:50.480 --> 00:14:54.279 I can do. I didn't want to move, so I was able to 239 00:14:54.279 --> 00:14:56.879 get someone else to get security to let the mom know that I had her 240 00:14:56.960 --> 00:15:01.200 kid. She came bay five minutes later in told me thanks. Second time 241 00:15:01.679 --> 00:15:05.600 kid was lost in a small clothing store and he only spoke Spanish. I 242 00:15:05.639 --> 00:15:09.080 was able to help him with my broken Spanish. Two his mom, thankfully 243 00:15:09.159 --> 00:15:13.279 was in the dressing room. I'm hoping it's because I have a friendly face. 244 00:15:13.360 --> 00:15:16.200 That's why kids approached me. Y'all have a happy weekend from Alice. 245 00:15:16.399 --> 00:15:22.399 How cool is that that you cry lingual? Maybe multi lingual? Wow? 246 00:15:24.039 --> 00:15:28.200 Yeah? I don't speak any language well except English, and even that was 247 00:15:28.279 --> 00:15:31.600 questionable. You can speak pig Latin pretty well. How does pig Latin go? 248 00:15:31.639 --> 00:15:35.440 Again? It's like you, I don't X I don't remember either, 249 00:15:37.080 --> 00:15:41.399 on the on the ube something like that. Yeah, okay, promote, 250 00:15:41.600 --> 00:15:45.600 pey is promote? I don't know. I'm reading a pewspaper in front of 251 00:15:45.639 --> 00:15:52.919 me again, yep, okay, next one. Dave Jenny Bailey Vant don't 252 00:15:52.919 --> 00:15:54.840 say my name is my first time writing. I've been listening over twenty years, 253 00:15:56.200 --> 00:15:58.679 and I can't tell you how much you've impacted my life. My mom 254 00:15:58.720 --> 00:16:02.960 passed away eleven years ago, so I get lonely. Hearing you all gives 255 00:16:03.000 --> 00:16:06.120 me a sense of a friendship and finding situations that I can relate to. 256 00:16:06.639 --> 00:16:08.480 Dave your stories of being a dad helped me become a better parent. I 257 00:16:08.519 --> 00:16:14.200 admire you. You're such an amazing person. Thank you Jenny for opening up 258 00:16:14.200 --> 00:16:15.840 the other week. I can relate. It's nice knowing you're not alone, 259 00:16:15.960 --> 00:16:19.039 and it's okay if you need help. You inspire me. Bailey and Vaunt 260 00:16:19.039 --> 00:16:23.879 are wonderful editions. It's my daughter's last day of high school and she wrote 261 00:16:23.879 --> 00:16:29.240 this on Friday. I really could use some advice on how to deal with 262 00:16:29.279 --> 00:16:33.200 the emotions. I cry almost every day. Getting photo boards ready really brings 263 00:16:33.279 --> 00:16:37.559 up memories and knowing she really is growing up going to college a few hours 264 00:16:37.600 --> 00:16:40.879 away. I know she needs to go and I want her to be happy. 265 00:16:41.159 --> 00:16:44.080 Also, any grad gift ideas, what does your kids appreciate getting? 266 00:16:44.480 --> 00:16:48.879 Thanks so much, love you all, and do you have any staff writer? 267 00:16:48.000 --> 00:16:52.360 Stickers would love one. Oh and my kids drink out of the hose 268 00:16:52.440 --> 00:16:57.919 too, and so they are from beautiful Kenyan, Minnesota. When Carson was 269 00:16:57.960 --> 00:17:03.639 my last one left for college five years ago, I was crushed. I 270 00:17:03.720 --> 00:17:07.119 was just devastated. And then I started to turn it around because when they 271 00:17:07.200 --> 00:17:11.960 leave for college, there's still your kid. They really still are your kid. 272 00:17:11.599 --> 00:17:15.680 But because they come home, they still want you to make them a 273 00:17:15.720 --> 00:17:19.240 grilled cheese sandwich, they still want you to make chocolate chip cookies, they 274 00:17:19.279 --> 00:17:22.920 still want to watch TV with you, and they still have their bedroom. 275 00:17:22.960 --> 00:17:26.640 They still they are still your kid. So it's not as big of a 276 00:17:26.680 --> 00:17:30.559 shock as you think it's going to be. Plus one thing that really helped 277 00:17:30.640 --> 00:17:34.920 me was realizing how excited Carson was, not how sad I was. So 278 00:17:36.000 --> 00:17:38.640 once I made it more about him and less about me than I did better 279 00:17:38.960 --> 00:17:42.279 And it's not that bad. No, I mean I miss him. I 280 00:17:42.279 --> 00:17:47.680 mean right now he's on an airplane back from Soul and I'm always checking up 281 00:17:47.680 --> 00:17:51.519 on him. But like, right now, it's not the college vibe anymore, 282 00:17:51.640 --> 00:17:53.160 because so you just said, like when they go to college, they're 283 00:17:53.160 --> 00:17:56.279 still your kids. So when does it feel like it's no longer like they're 284 00:17:56.400 --> 00:18:03.559 your kid anymore and they're just another adult kind of when they don't need you 285 00:18:03.640 --> 00:18:10.519 as much to like make doctor's appointments or to find out how to get their 286 00:18:10.559 --> 00:18:14.640 insurance or whatever. Because Carson's figured out how to pretty much live life on 287 00:18:14.640 --> 00:18:18.799 his own. Yeah, but it's fine. You know, he's happy. 288 00:18:18.440 --> 00:18:22.920 Uh huh. It's kind of like when we were all around that age, 289 00:18:22.960 --> 00:18:26.640 we weren't going God, I really miss mom and dad so much. We 290 00:18:26.640 --> 00:18:30.279 were just excited about our independence on our life. Right. Yes, so 291 00:18:30.480 --> 00:18:34.920 I was so excited to get out and not have anyone like wondering where I 292 00:18:36.079 --> 00:18:37.400 was. Well, my mom was always wondering where it was. But like 293 00:18:37.960 --> 00:18:41.200 you know, I had strict curfews in high school. I was so happy 294 00:18:41.279 --> 00:18:47.519 to have the freedom I had when I left for college free bird. So 295 00:18:47.599 --> 00:18:51.039 yeah, it's not as bad as you think. And it's you keep waiting 296 00:18:51.039 --> 00:18:55.200 for that moment where you're so sad that you go lay down in their room 297 00:18:55.279 --> 00:18:59.839 on their bed and cry and hold their pillow. Fuck that. Oh it 298 00:19:00.119 --> 00:19:03.400 never really had it? Should that happen? My mom used to do that, 299 00:19:03.559 --> 00:19:04.680 really because she missed me so much. She would just sit in my 300 00:19:04.799 --> 00:19:08.240 room. Listen, I'm a catch, Okay, my mom loves me. 301 00:19:08.799 --> 00:19:12.039 Your mom does love you. I think I think is part of it to 302 00:19:12.079 --> 00:19:15.160 do with the fact was your mom single when you left? Yeah, when 303 00:19:15.240 --> 00:19:18.240 you left home. Yeah, so then she really was alone. She was 304 00:19:18.519 --> 00:19:22.599 alone. See, I still had Susan, and I had Josie and I 305 00:19:22.640 --> 00:19:26.599 had Roger, so I never really felt totally alone. Let me see if 306 00:19:26.599 --> 00:19:32.880 I got time for one more and no, that's that's going to be about 307 00:19:32.880 --> 00:19:37.200 it. We got a lot of people who were asking for tickets and that 308 00:19:37.240 --> 00:19:40.519 type of thing. So, but if you got an email and you want 309 00:19:40.519 --> 00:19:42.680 to send us to ask us anything for the Minnesota Goodbye, would love to 310 00:19:42.720 --> 00:19:48.920 hear from you. 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