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Matt recently turned fifty, took a trip. 18 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,959 I quiz him all about that and a recent post he put on Facebook that 19 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:18,400 led him to bringing in his friend Dave Lippa, a guy we should all 20 00:01:18,439 --> 00:01:23,280 know. Twenty sixteen is when actually yesterday, eight years I lost my best 21 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:29,640 friend to suicide, who was a federal agent. So I'm doing this more 22 00:01:29,719 --> 00:01:32,840 or less even though he wasn't a veteran. I'm doing a lot of this 23 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:36,560 in his memory to try to get people to start talking. I asked the 24 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:40,319 question, is the NFL too greedy and with gambling they got to get the 25 00:01:40,359 --> 00:01:45,959 calls right. I have an idea to replace the current refs with better ones. 26 00:01:46,159 --> 00:01:49,680 If the NFL wants to put their money where their mouth is and talk 27 00:01:49,799 --> 00:01:53,519 all this stuff about being supportive of the armed services, then let's take guys 28 00:01:53,519 --> 00:01:57,200 who are leaving the arm services that are young, disciplined, and in shape 29 00:01:57,359 --> 00:02:00,359 and make them fucking raffs. Social media can get you fired, but should 30 00:02:00,359 --> 00:02:06,439 this waitress have been fired for posting something on TikTok from work fall. They 31 00:02:06,519 --> 00:02:08,240 let this person in with a blow up. Ta okay, great question, 32 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:13,319 I don't have an answer to that, and a round of name that movie 33 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,879 theme. It's all coming up right after this. The Wings are home this 34 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:21,159 week to face the Yankees. 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Yeah, 52 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:53,719 is it, Conny, I'm pretty close, pretty close, don all 53 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:57,599 right? So Mark the soldiers here, and Mark says, is that Joe 54 00:03:57,719 --> 00:04:01,280 Kelly's voice? It is not, but it's somebody you know, Terry Like, 55 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,000 it's Harry Like, O Hey, We've been doing this for how long? 56 00:04:04,039 --> 00:04:08,759 And you just now are realizing that terror just just click like it just 57 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:11,719 sort of Yeah. Isn't that funny? You hear something, to hear something, 58 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,120 and then all of a sudden it just jumps out one day. Yeah, 59 00:04:14,159 --> 00:04:18,040 that's weird. That's very strange. Uh, Matt is back and uh 60 00:04:18,519 --> 00:04:21,879 he brought Dave Lippa and we're gonna get to all that stuff with Dave, 61 00:04:21,879 --> 00:04:26,120 and having Dave was the first one here like it made me nervous. He 62 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,560 came in and I was like, I don't know, because you know what 63 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:33,759 it is. It's the braided beard thing. I like that. Who I 64 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:42,639 piss off? Hat scary than Baka? He would know, you know what 65 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:46,240 he here's the thing. He's got too friendly of a face. He's got 66 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,439 too friendly. You're not a menacing looking guy. But he's got the sleeve 67 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:51,800 tattoo and the and the you know, I got it. I gotta see 68 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:56,480 this part of No, the hair is tough. I think you're tough. 69 00:04:56,519 --> 00:05:02,600 I don't until they sat the eye was really did look menacing. But Matt 70 00:05:02,639 --> 00:05:05,879 is back. And the big thing with Matt Matt turned. Can I say 71 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:10,560 yeah fifty Yeah, Okay, why couldn't you say that? Well, I 72 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:15,279 don't. I don't know. That's a really good age. Some some women 73 00:05:15,319 --> 00:05:17,279 do. I don't think that. Matt was very open. He was all 74 00:05:17,319 --> 00:05:20,720 over Facebook and everything else. I shouldn't say that. But how did did 75 00:05:20,759 --> 00:05:24,199 it feel different? No? It did? Know what, It's like a 76 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,399 celebration, not like my dad passed away at fifty. See this is why 77 00:05:27,439 --> 00:05:30,519 I was wondering if it felt different. And as my dad died when I 78 00:05:30,519 --> 00:05:32,000 was twenty four, I was in my head that I would be dead by 79 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,759 fifty, if not sooner, you know, really, and I don't know 80 00:05:34,759 --> 00:05:39,399 why did you live like you figured? Fuck it, I don't care whatever 81 00:05:39,439 --> 00:05:42,639 happens, I'll be dead by fifty in the last probably six seven Here Does 82 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,199 that make life a little more fun and adventurous? Though? I mean, 83 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:46,800 I don't mean that the negative. I mean it could hurt down the road. 84 00:05:47,079 --> 00:05:51,839 Okay, yet I understand the back Yes, no, not de Niez. 85 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,759 So it was not was it? So? It was sort of a 86 00:05:55,759 --> 00:05:59,199 big deal to you because of your dad. Yeah. Other than that, 87 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,120 it didn't feel anything different, though, I mean, no, thirty was 88 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,959 hard for me. Why. I don't know. It was like a six 89 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:08,560 month like, fuck, I'm thirty, My life is over? You're kidding? 90 00:06:08,639 --> 00:06:11,519 Yeah, I really thought. You know, there are twenty years later? 91 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:15,600 Oh, is there anything as you look back, because you know, 92 00:06:15,759 --> 00:06:19,040 fifty is a milestone? You're there? Right, Yeah, I'm there. 93 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:24,040 I'm fifty two. Dave, were you there twenty one? Okay? You 94 00:06:24,079 --> 00:06:27,120 look at it? Definitely? I would id you anytime you walked there, 95 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,519 you're fifty five? Oh, I wouldn't have put you that old, not 96 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,759 that that's any different than any one of us, really fifty year old, 97 00:06:32,879 --> 00:06:36,560 but when you I know, right, isn't that funny because I'm just sorry 98 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:40,920 being young? Yeah, I Kevin is younger than all of us. But 99 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,199 it's a weird thing because I don't even feel I feel like I got a 100 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,680 lot of shit to do. And I'll tell you what. When you look 101 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:51,160 at people who accomplish big things in life, the biggest years between forty and 102 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:56,360 sixty, that's when Einstein came up with the incandescent light, the recorder, 103 00:06:56,439 --> 00:07:00,160 all this shit. Part of it is you're not fucking around anymore and literally 104 00:07:00,319 --> 00:07:03,319 fucking right like you know, you got all that energy. He's hoping it 105 00:07:03,319 --> 00:07:08,879 happens soon for me because it hasn't happened yet. Put out the first ten 106 00:07:08,959 --> 00:07:12,160 years sucked. To tell you, forty to fifty sucked. It better get 107 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:15,399 better if you fifteen sixty, What is the uh, forty to fifty sucked? 108 00:07:15,519 --> 00:07:18,920 Yeah? Oh it's best struggle? Really? Yeah? Why is that? 109 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:23,439 I don't know, just you know, owning a business for those years, 110 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:25,680 well yeah, yeah, well we got to you had the whole COVID 111 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:29,720 thing Yeah. Yeah, that's the tough. Have you learned anything along the 112 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:30,759 way that you look back and you go, man, I was sweating the 113 00:07:30,759 --> 00:07:36,319 wrong things? And I know this is sort of that's you definitely stress, 114 00:07:36,399 --> 00:07:39,399 don't you a little bit? Like you start looking back and you go, 115 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,480 what was I sweating that for when I should have been focused over here, 116 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:46,399 you know, doing doing the right thing. Is there anything that you you 117 00:07:46,439 --> 00:07:49,000 look back and maybe regret at all? Yeah, buying a fucking restaurant. 118 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:56,199 I would never do that again. You wouldn't know. I did see a 119 00:07:56,279 --> 00:07:58,920 Dave Ramsey thing that he says, if you're sure, way to go broke 120 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:03,000 is to buy a restaurant. But everybody, but I don't know how BTV 121 00:08:03,079 --> 00:08:05,240 did. I just hear about it a lot. I've been in there. 122 00:08:05,319 --> 00:08:09,519 It's always got it seems like a lot of people other people I know who 123 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:13,600 own restaurants seem to be okay, but it looks like it's one of the 124 00:08:13,639 --> 00:08:18,519 hardest things. And mostly because of who you have working for you, which 125 00:08:18,959 --> 00:08:22,759 tough. I think you got to you probably have a great staff over there. 126 00:08:22,759 --> 00:08:24,600 I'm just saying, like, fine, getting to that point got to 127 00:08:24,639 --> 00:08:28,959 be like yeah, I mean, it's been a struggle for them to get 128 00:08:28,399 --> 00:08:31,440 a solid staff that they have now. So yeah, I mean it's been 129 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,440 three and a half years. Yeah, and you still got that core staff, 130 00:08:35,799 --> 00:08:39,240 right, You're always trying to add that piece, and you think you 131 00:08:39,279 --> 00:08:41,039 add that piece and a month later the person just no shows. You know. 132 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:48,720 It's got to hills. Yeah, piece fifty living my Dall's Cowboys life 133 00:08:48,759 --> 00:08:52,519 all over. At the end, they're disappointed. Later in the podcast, 134 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:56,360 I have to say, I I would like to get in this into this 135 00:08:56,440 --> 00:09:00,200 because you're back and this is a big one and it's is the NFL and 136 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:03,440 greedy, and I've got a whole bunch of reasons why. I think, 137 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:07,840 like to the point where could they and I don't think it will happen soon, 138 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:11,720 but could they start turning people away? I think they're going to start. 139 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:13,960 I think you're right, but we'll we'll We'll hold on onto that for 140 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,639 for just a second. Is there anything that no longer pisses you off that 141 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:20,480 used to piss you off years ago? Because I have that as I've gotten 142 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,440 older, igo that used to really bother me. And I'm like, why, 143 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:26,039 why why did I even care? I don't think my head, no, 144 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:31,639 nothing, I have a lot longer fuse now that Yeah, there not, 145 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:33,759 which is insane for me. Yeah, which is good. It takes 146 00:09:35,039 --> 00:09:37,240 takes. It takes more than more than just a snap of the finger to 147 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:41,759 get me a snap now. So well, that's pretty good. I've done 148 00:09:41,799 --> 00:09:43,840 that. You know, you've been friends with him for a long time. 149 00:09:43,879 --> 00:09:46,879 Do you ever pissed them? I haven't get it. He choked me once, 150 00:09:48,799 --> 00:09:56,120 you're kidding any donkey punches his defense. I figured it was something you 151 00:09:56,159 --> 00:10:01,519 did. It wasn't defending why he got choked. This is great. His 152 00:10:01,639 --> 00:10:05,799 cousin passed away, and we went and we all went to the wake, 153 00:10:05,919 --> 00:10:09,320 and and we were all drinking. And I don't know. I don't remember 154 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:13,440 what happened either. I don't remember what happened. You have a fat mouth 155 00:10:13,159 --> 00:10:24,440 that I didn't do a thing. He was mad at somebody else. Catch 156 00:10:26,399 --> 00:10:30,240 I was My window was open. It was it was car. We were 157 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:33,720 in the car. You were in the car. I wasn't the window through 158 00:10:33,759 --> 00:10:41,720 the window. Look see now, this is the thing. I have to 159 00:10:41,759 --> 00:10:46,080 think you said something I didn't. Was you shot some comment out that or 160 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:50,840 something? It wasn't me. It was a situation, all right, all 161 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:54,480 right, I'll believe it. But Matt, you did post something that and 162 00:10:54,519 --> 00:10:56,399 I called you to make sure you were cool to talk about it. But 163 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:01,200 depression, and I think that there's a lot of people that are dealing with 164 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:03,919 a lot of things, and I think there's a lot of residual from COVID 165 00:11:03,919 --> 00:11:07,720 stuff personally. But I have no idea that's the case. But you were 166 00:11:07,799 --> 00:11:11,440 pretty open and honest, and I read some of the comments then and it 167 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:16,679 was I don't know how to I guess refreshing would be the term that people 168 00:11:16,759 --> 00:11:22,120 felt like they had a place and a sounding board, because you said you 169 00:11:22,159 --> 00:11:24,320 don't answer your phone, but if you call me about this, I will. 170 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:28,919 And then there's somebody else who's going you may not agree with my politics 171 00:11:28,919 --> 00:11:31,919 and my other thing, which I loved, and I only loved it because 172 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:33,399 I wish we could all get back to that. I agree where we could 173 00:11:33,399 --> 00:11:37,480 stop. I won't talk to that person because I don't agree with their politics, 174 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:41,039 but yet maybe they can relate to the human experience I'm having and give 175 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,720 me some advice. And who gives a shit who you vote for? Shouldn't 176 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,399 I just whatever? Like I don't want to get into that thing, but 177 00:11:48,639 --> 00:11:52,840 I saw that, and I thought that was really very very I guess cool. 178 00:11:54,039 --> 00:11:56,440 It seems a little bit of a weak word to me to say. 179 00:11:56,480 --> 00:12:01,679 I thought it was very admirable. Admirable Am I saying that right? No, 180 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:05,440 I'm not, but yeah, something like that. You work in schools. 181 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:11,360 I figured you'd help you eight year old I'm not going too well, 182 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,879 you can relate great to this crowd. I just uh, but I did. 183 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,039 I was like, Wow, that's pretty fucking because I had no idea, 184 00:12:18,159 --> 00:12:22,759 and you said something about shirts that you order and these things that kind 185 00:12:22,759 --> 00:12:26,120 of help you. What Like, you've been dealing with this your whole life. 186 00:12:26,799 --> 00:12:30,639 Looking back, I think I have. Yeah, I didn't know it. 187 00:12:30,799 --> 00:12:33,879 Yeah, And you know I or just ignored her or pretended I wasn't. 188 00:12:35,039 --> 00:12:37,679 Yeah. Yeah, but it's probably been more prevalent over the last like, 189 00:12:37,759 --> 00:12:41,080 say ten years. Ten years. Have you gotten help? I have 190 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:43,559 you have? So because I'm going boy for somebody to talk about it, 191 00:12:43,799 --> 00:12:46,919 you got to be okay with it. And I was like, wow, 192 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,960 I didn't know that at all. Yeah, I saw a counselor for a 193 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:52,519 while. I don't did it help. It didn't really help. Yeah, 194 00:12:52,519 --> 00:12:54,200 I sometimes say the same thing. It doesn't help. I just go swing 195 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:58,759 up my meds seriously, right, because they need to talk to him. 196 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:01,240 Yeah, you have to go. You have to go and make sure you 197 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:05,840 have to go once. Yeah, once a year to talk to the psychiatrist 198 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:09,240 and then then the doctor, my doctor will will will give me in my 199 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:13,200 mats. I have to go once a year. Then I went to a 200 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:16,960 counselor and he died. So I haven't seen anybody since. It's my luck 201 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:20,399 my counselor dies. Maybe that's a good thing. You don't have to go. 202 00:13:20,519 --> 00:13:22,240 You still got your beds. Who cares. We'll give you Danny's number 203 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:26,960 after during the break. That's not that's not the number you want. But 204 00:13:26,039 --> 00:13:31,879 about Dog, with all this stuff that you're you're dealing with and the way 205 00:13:31,919 --> 00:13:35,080 you talked about it, I was like, wow, so how bad has 206 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,879 it gotten for you? There's times where it's you know, there's times where 207 00:13:37,879 --> 00:13:41,480 it's really bad. There's times where it's just you know, you just kind 208 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:45,440 of deal with it. And Dave and I talk all the time. You 209 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:48,759 know, a lot of times you're so busy doing other things and for other 210 00:13:48,799 --> 00:13:50,879 people, you just forget about yourself and you don't think about it. So 211 00:13:50,879 --> 00:13:54,440 it's a lot easier that way. Yeah, Like I'll be glad that I'll 212 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:56,720 be the first person so dave to jump up and help somebody. And I 213 00:13:56,720 --> 00:14:00,919 think that helps because then it takes my mind off the ship I'm going through. 214 00:14:00,919 --> 00:14:03,039 Somebody else is going through something worse out there, you know. Yeah, 215 00:14:03,639 --> 00:14:07,120 so that that will sometimes turn the depression and say, you know, 216 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,360 it's really not that fucking bad. Kind of didn't get over it, man, 217 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:13,399 you know. Yeah, And there's the thing sometimes, Yeah, I 218 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:18,120 always think like you got to keep it in perspective of this is what you're 219 00:14:18,159 --> 00:14:20,879 dealing with. It's nice to know I'm not alone, right, I'm not 220 00:14:20,919 --> 00:14:24,200 alone in my thoughts. Other people are feeling things, people are going through 221 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:30,159 stuff. But it's but but it doesn't make what I'm going through anything necessarily 222 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:33,519 easier. It just makes it maybe a little more tolerable, I guess. 223 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:35,480 But you also have to have somebody who's pretty strong in your life, and 224 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:39,360 it sounds like you do with Natalie. Yeah, yeah, Austin looked like 225 00:14:39,399 --> 00:14:45,759 it was pretty amazing. Yeah. Yeah, I don't take really Oh yeah, 226 00:14:45,759 --> 00:14:50,120 I forget the time. So they only get about three weeks of humidity 227 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,799 like this every year, but they just went through those storms. Yeah, 228 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:56,360 we got there. It was it was one hundred degrees every day, one 229 00:14:56,679 --> 00:15:00,240 percent humidity. Holy shit, it was like a song. It was bad. 230 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,200 I like to heat. Yeah, yeah, human, he's too much. 231 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,759 Yeah. So the last day was one hundred and four. One hundred 232 00:15:05,799 --> 00:15:07,360 and four. Yeah, what was the index? Did they give you like 233 00:15:07,399 --> 00:15:11,759 one hundred and twelve? Yeah? Yeah, so it's even just that little 234 00:15:11,759 --> 00:15:15,240 bit of degrees. A hotel, all the windows were all steam out, 235 00:15:15,399 --> 00:15:18,600 you know, and as soon as you walked outside it was like wow. 236 00:15:18,759 --> 00:15:20,720 So you know I had set it closer during the day and then changed clothes 237 00:15:20,759 --> 00:15:24,879 when you get home. Really, yeah, it was it was too close 238 00:15:24,919 --> 00:15:30,200 a day. A lot of everyone's is walking around fire. My fat ass 239 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:33,600 is sweating like a pig would right there. We stopped at one place for 240 00:15:33,679 --> 00:15:37,759 live music, you know, remember walking and my shirt was just soaked. 241 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:41,360 I mean we walked six miles that day. Me is soaked. Yeah. 242 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:43,600 You know, people are like, is this fact I canna have a heard 243 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:52,399 attack? Or what to drinking that damn beer? Well you so then what 244 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,279 is days? How do you know? Dave we met it was two thousand 245 00:15:56,279 --> 00:16:00,200 and seven. He's a friend of mine seventeen through Mark. Through Mark, 246 00:16:00,279 --> 00:16:03,720 Dave's a friend of mine. Okay, sixteen, twenty seventeen, Yeah, 247 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:07,320 because it was Mark just took over to me. It was it was it 248 00:16:07,399 --> 00:16:11,480 eighteen Mark, Yeah, I went. It was about probably seventeen. I 249 00:16:11,519 --> 00:16:14,360 took it before you came on. It might have been before you came on, 250 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:17,559 Yeah, because we were doing the outside show with Trist right, that's 251 00:16:17,559 --> 00:16:22,679 how we well, trist was afterwards, but you were on. You were 252 00:16:22,559 --> 00:16:26,759 because you brought me in when you guys are all on the meeting. Yeah, 253 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:29,039 that's right, because that's when we did the glasses at first, right, 254 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:32,879 Yeah, yes, so Dave had is this the what is the name 255 00:16:32,919 --> 00:16:37,519 of the organization? It's not even it's not it's just me. It's it's 256 00:16:37,519 --> 00:16:41,799 just you. Stop the twenty two a day, which was designed when I 257 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:48,759 first started doing this to help veterans, bring awareness to veterans that struggle from 258 00:16:48,759 --> 00:16:52,279 PTSD, mental health, depression, all that stuff. It was just to 259 00:16:52,279 --> 00:16:56,919 get people to start talking. So then yeah, or we can crank that 260 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:00,480 up towards them. You can lift that up there. What's the so what 261 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:04,599 is the your connection with that? Did? I think? I asked you 262 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:10,599 were you in the services I never served. I became. I just started 263 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:14,599 riding a motorcycle in twenty thirteen, and I wanted to do something that was 264 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:21,039 meaningful and worthwhile. So I joined the Patriogard Riders and standing flagline with a 265 00:17:21,079 --> 00:17:25,200 bunch of veterans and me not serving. I'm watching some of these veterans that 266 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:30,440 struggle from PTSD and I wanted to do something to bring awareness to them. 267 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:33,119 For me not serving, I wanted to try to give back to them. 268 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:37,960 And that's where it all started. And it started selling a patch like the 269 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:42,759 logo is on that pint glass. It was a patch and I sold I 270 00:17:42,759 --> 00:17:48,519 think in a year, over five hundred of them. And next thing, 271 00:17:48,559 --> 00:17:52,559 you know, the person that I was actually selling the patch for, who 272 00:17:52,559 --> 00:18:00,000 actually designed it, he disappeared. He just I wasn't able to order anything 273 00:18:00,039 --> 00:18:03,799 anymore. So Facebook is a wonderful thing. It took a year for me 274 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:07,240 to find them, but I asked him if I can take that logo over 275 00:18:07,759 --> 00:18:14,480 and take it to another level. And twenty sixteen is when, actually yesterday, 276 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:18,319 eight years I lost my best friend to suicide, who was a federal 277 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:23,400 agent. So I'm doing this more or less even though he wasn't a veteran. 278 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,079 I'm doing a lot of this in his memory to try to get people 279 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:33,279 to start talking. And when I met with Matt, alcohol and mental health 280 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:37,440 do not mix whatsoever, and I don't promote that at all. What I 281 00:18:37,559 --> 00:18:45,680 do do is when they sell these glasses at BTBS and back then it was 282 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:49,079 back to a Billies, it's to get people to start talking. So you 283 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:53,200 see someone drinking out of that pine glass, You're gonna say, what does 284 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:59,200 that mean? And then it brings up a conversation. So, like I 285 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:03,640 tell everybody, the conversation is always good to have to strike up whenever. 286 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:08,559 And when we started with Matt, I mean he said bring them all in 287 00:19:08,599 --> 00:19:12,279 and I forgot how many we started with him one day and we started, 288 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:18,160 I think I made that three trips to bat to Abillies with I think we 289 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:25,519 sold seventy one hundred glasses and that that that first day. I mean, 290 00:19:25,559 --> 00:19:27,480 it was unbelievable. It's like I'm I'm out, I have to get more. 291 00:19:27,519 --> 00:19:30,920 You know, my my vendor at the time was really good. I 292 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:34,359 was able to produce some really quick for me. But you know, my 293 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:40,400 biggest thing is as men were not supposed to show our feelings. You can't 294 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:44,279 show your feelings, you know. But what I tried telling people is the 295 00:19:44,319 --> 00:19:48,680 strongest person in the room is the one that can express how they're feeling and 296 00:19:48,759 --> 00:19:52,960 express their feelings when they are struggling. And you know, I had I 297 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:56,480 have talked to Matt, but I didn't know he was to that point to 298 00:19:56,559 --> 00:20:00,359 where he was struggling that bad. But we've had kind of conversations and like 299 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:04,359 I tell mad or tell Mark or anybody. My phone's on twenty four to 300 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:10,880 seven. So I'm I'm constantly talking to veterans, first responders, and just 301 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:14,759 people in the community that are struggling. So this just out of the goodness 302 00:20:14,799 --> 00:20:18,680 of your heart. You have no psychology training or anything like that. Nope, 303 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:22,319 it's my professional and since then, opinion, you've probably learned a ton. 304 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:26,799 I'm still learning. Yeah, I'm not right sure, but I bet 305 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:30,400 you have come. You know how to talk to people, let them speak 306 00:20:30,519 --> 00:20:34,359 when not you know, be a I guess a better listener than talker, 307 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:38,200 right, because a lot of times people that are struggling, they don't want 308 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:41,960 to hear you, right, they want to be able to have someone be 309 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:44,759 a sounding board. So that they can talk how they're feeling, and the 310 00:20:44,799 --> 00:20:48,720 biggest thing is to be non judgmental. And that's what people White people have 311 00:20:48,759 --> 00:20:55,839 a hard time going to counselors, therapy doctors because especially veterans before you go 312 00:20:56,000 --> 00:21:00,519 and see the VA or a lot of different places that have professional counselors that 313 00:21:00,599 --> 00:21:06,319 went to school to actually give you advice, which I highly recommend people go 314 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:11,440 to those organizations. But sometimes it's easier though to talk to a friend or 315 00:21:11,519 --> 00:21:18,880 someone I see as a friend and you can't lose anything with me. Yeah, 316 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:22,680 my opinion doesn't matter. What matters to me is that you're able to 317 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:26,480 express how you feel one hundred percent and know what you can walk away at 318 00:21:26,519 --> 00:21:33,359 any time and be able to express how you're feeling. And so you know 319 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:37,039 the term that every time I hear it, I would cringe, right, 320 00:21:37,079 --> 00:21:41,079 and then I had to look into it further. They toxic masculinity. Right, 321 00:21:41,079 --> 00:21:44,759 Well, hear about this, but it's exactly what you just said at 322 00:21:44,799 --> 00:21:48,599 the beginning. It's where guys felt like they couldn't talk about how they were 323 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:55,759 feeling and they had to be like these big tough pillars of whatever of humanity 324 00:21:55,839 --> 00:21:57,759 that you know, I can bear it all, and really you can't. 325 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:03,480 And that is now it's become like this thing where it's to overtake a culture. 326 00:22:03,519 --> 00:22:04,880 I go, okay, hold on a second, let's bring it back 327 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:08,519 a little bit here. It was really meant to help guys. That was 328 00:22:08,519 --> 00:22:11,759 the original term for exactly what you just said. Yeah, I mean we 329 00:22:11,759 --> 00:22:17,720 were brought up. That's the way my father's generation, my grandfather's generation, 330 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:21,039 and the generations before him, we were always brought up. You don't show 331 00:22:21,039 --> 00:22:23,759 your feelings, you're you have to be strong man, gotta be suck it 332 00:22:23,799 --> 00:22:26,759 up, like you said earlier, Suck it up, Suck it up. 333 00:22:26,799 --> 00:22:30,240 Well man, Yeah, it's not the time and place anymore. It's a 334 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:33,359 different day and age, and and I mean, by the way, we're 335 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:37,359 not talking about being a big weepy all. We're not having a knitting club 336 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:44,119 over here. It's just like, you know, it helps. I don't 337 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:45,920 mean it like that. It works, You're right, Dave, my bad. 338 00:22:47,039 --> 00:22:48,440 I mean he's trying, we're trying to say. He's trying to tell 339 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,839 you, you know, well, what I'm saying to say is you all 340 00:22:51,839 --> 00:22:52,880 of a sudden, you go, I don't mean it like that. And 341 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:56,799 sometimes me and Dave get together. We need and I still like it. 342 00:22:56,319 --> 00:23:07,480 We share it, girl up pretty much just ship. What I was trying 343 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:10,880 to do was say that while some people may hear this is like a saw, 344 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,799 it's not that. It's guys who are like listening to you each other 345 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,480 and supporting each other in a way that isn't going to be Or some people 346 00:23:18,559 --> 00:23:21,160 might go, ah, that's not for me, because I still think there 347 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,440 are guys who go for me. It's not for me, but this is 348 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:29,559 different. This isn't look at Dave, you know. And here's what I 349 00:23:29,559 --> 00:23:32,440 think too. I don't know you from anything, but I think you would 350 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,680 shoot somebody straight. I think you would say to somebody, hey, listen, 351 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,559 I want to call you on a little bs here, don't let don't 352 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:41,079 let these things. You know, here's somebody who you may be able to 353 00:23:41,079 --> 00:23:44,599 help you. But I'm gonna check in with you again tomorrow, right And 354 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,200 I am. He's checked it on mean before. I'll be honest, I'm 355 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:51,240 a pain in the ass, I really am, because you being here tomorrow 356 00:23:51,319 --> 00:23:56,680 is more important to me than until you know the whole thing is, until 357 00:23:56,720 --> 00:24:02,200 you actually physically lose somebody, you'll never get it. Yeah, you'll never 358 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,519 understand it. You'll never get it, and it goes for a bunch of 359 00:24:04,559 --> 00:24:10,359 different you know, types of people that pass away. You're just never gonna 360 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:11,640 get it unless you've been a part of it, right and you know, 361 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:17,319 and you know, like we were talking earlier, yesterday was my best friend's 362 00:24:17,319 --> 00:24:22,079 anniversary. I mean, he was a federal agent and it was his third 363 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:26,920 attempt. I was with him before his third attempt almost every day, every 364 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:32,720 weekend, you know, helping him around the house. But his brain was 365 00:24:32,759 --> 00:24:37,039 not working properly. I mean, he had some other issues. But you 366 00:24:37,079 --> 00:24:40,480 know, we can say it was selfish. We can say a lot of 367 00:24:40,519 --> 00:24:44,039 things, and I will put it out here. I'm pissed at him, 368 00:24:44,079 --> 00:24:47,400 I really am. But I can also say I understand it. Yeah, 369 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,759 I was gonna say. I sometimes don't always agree with the selfish part. 370 00:24:51,839 --> 00:24:56,039 I think there's so much pain that they see no way out, and no 371 00:24:56,119 --> 00:25:00,599 matter what you're doing, it's just the pain is too much until you I 372 00:25:00,759 --> 00:25:04,920 have been with someone every day and then after they're gone, and this took 373 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:11,559 me a year to get But I read his note and he was in a 374 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:15,720 very dark place and he was struggling and there was nobody that was going to 375 00:25:15,759 --> 00:25:18,960 get him out of that place. And like, like I've always said, 376 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:23,079 we don't know what's going on on the inside because we all had that big, 377 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:27,039 huge smile. You know, if you if you didn't know mad or 378 00:25:27,079 --> 00:25:30,359 you didn't know Mark, I mean half the time they're smiling all the time, 379 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,839 you don't know how much pain. Then I would have known that, 380 00:25:34,079 --> 00:25:37,960 you know, and you know we I would have known with Mark because Mark, 381 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:41,400 he's always complaining about something. Oh yeah, but you got to look 382 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:52,160 past that sometimes. So I know somebody who was institutionalized. I caught early 383 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:56,519 institutionalized, and what they would do is take away every privilege you have. 384 00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:00,119 So you started to make you appreciate taking a walk? What's the point. 385 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,000 But I don't go in. When you go in there, you're giving up 386 00:26:03,039 --> 00:26:07,839 your rights. You're going you're totally giving up everything. And you have to 387 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,200 know that a lot of times you don't know that. I don't think. 388 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:12,880 But the last time that I had a breakdown, I've refused to fucking go 389 00:26:14,039 --> 00:26:15,960 yeah, because I'm not I'm not losing my rights. I'm not gonna lose 390 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:18,880 I'm not going to have them take everything. Did you ever go before. 391 00:26:19,079 --> 00:26:23,559 I've been in a freaking looney been a couple of different times. Okay, 392 00:26:25,279 --> 00:26:27,000 yeah, it's it's not a nice place. No, it is not, 393 00:26:27,599 --> 00:26:33,559 it's not. And then you see people that are really crazy, They are 394 00:26:33,599 --> 00:26:37,400 really mentally ill, right, you know, really like, yeah, they 395 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,160 can't control any know, yeah, they can't control. Did it help you 396 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,799 at all? No, it didn't. Didn't help it all. It make 397 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:45,960 things worse. They take you and they throw you in a green they three 398 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:49,599 in a green room. It's like you feel like you're in jail. It's 399 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:53,599 that's how and that's how you're treated. Wow. Yeah, at least that's 400 00:26:53,599 --> 00:26:56,400 the way it is a general at general and I went, I don't know 401 00:26:56,400 --> 00:27:00,160 where it is anywhere else. But I'm not too privy on a lot of 402 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,480 that stuff. My thing is to try to catch people before they get to 403 00:27:03,519 --> 00:27:07,640 that point. So how do people help your organization? You know, it's 404 00:27:07,799 --> 00:27:12,920 just can we find you on Facebook? I'm on Facebook. Yeah, I'm 405 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:18,079 constantly just Dave Lippa l I p p A. Yeah, I'm just constantly 406 00:27:18,079 --> 00:27:22,799 putting stuff out there. My biggest thing is buddy checks. My biggest thing 407 00:27:22,839 --> 00:27:26,319 also is just get people to talk. I mean, I'm at events every 408 00:27:26,319 --> 00:27:30,759 weekend, sometimes two three events in one day, you know, and this 409 00:27:30,839 --> 00:27:33,640 takes out a lot of time out of my personal life. And like I 410 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,920 try telling people, if you think I want to be at these events every 411 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:41,119 weekend. I miss out with my girlfriend, I miss out stuff with my 412 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:45,960 grandson. But you know what, I did say one event that I'm not 413 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,839 at, that there's going to be someone looking. And that's already happened to 414 00:27:49,839 --> 00:27:53,759 me once before, where I had someone pull me outside at an event for 415 00:27:53,839 --> 00:27:57,640 me and start crying and tell me today was my last day. I listened 416 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:03,000 to you talk and all my letters are written, and I was wasn't going 417 00:28:03,039 --> 00:28:07,880 to be here tomorrow. And that's got to freak out a bit, it 418 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,920 does, you know, I don't. My thing is when people tell me 419 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,559 that I don't know if I should be sad or happy, because I think 420 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,079 I think my instinct would be to give the person a hug. I know 421 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:22,000 that sounds weird, but I think I would want to grab him and pull 422 00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:25,079 them in and go, You're okay, right, glad? You know I 423 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:29,000 do. I have a list of people I do check in on to make 424 00:28:29,039 --> 00:28:30,640 sure they're okay. I mean, some of them are a couple of times 425 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:34,400 a week, somewhere every other day. I got a guy from I forgot 426 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:38,319 what state he's in. His father lives here. I mean three hour conversations 427 00:28:38,359 --> 00:28:42,440 on my phone, just to make sure that he's okay. And I mean, 428 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,400 we may go over the same thing over and over and over again. 429 00:28:47,039 --> 00:28:51,799 But until he's done and he feels better, that's when the conversation's over. 430 00:28:51,839 --> 00:28:53,440 I don't say, well, I got someplace to be. The conversation has 431 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,759 to end now. I don't end the conversations. I mean the phone calls. 432 00:28:56,759 --> 00:29:00,240 I get, they're just they're unbelievable. But to do it face to 433 00:29:00,279 --> 00:29:03,640 face with someone as they're crying and telling you today was my last day. 434 00:29:04,079 --> 00:29:10,599 I mean, I think I I mean, I don't put myself up here 435 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:15,480 on a pedestal. I put the community on that pedestal because without their support, 436 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,640 I wouldn't be able to do what I do. And for people to 437 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,359 trust me enough knowing that I'm not a professional and be able to talk if 438 00:29:22,359 --> 00:29:27,119 it almost makes it better. You know, I'm sorry because you can actually 439 00:29:27,559 --> 00:29:30,680 relate to it. Yeah, and relating to a doctor. How many times 440 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,720 do you hold back a little bit because you're afraid, like Mark said, 441 00:29:33,759 --> 00:29:37,640 you lose your rights. Are they going to send me somewhere else? One 442 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,599 of my Oh man, right, you can't trust you can't trust the doctor 443 00:29:41,599 --> 00:29:44,359 when it comes to this, when it comes to something like this, because 444 00:29:44,519 --> 00:29:47,920 I'm sorry to hear, they got to protect they got to protect themselves. 445 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:52,000 Doctors, yes, they don't care about well because it's also the insurance and 446 00:29:52,039 --> 00:29:56,039 who's going to sue and what's going to happen. But you then, obviously 447 00:29:56,079 --> 00:29:59,400 you get someone like Dave that's around and that kind of makes to Dave. 448 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,960 Do you would you ever do people help you, like try to help you 449 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:08,400 grow it all? Do you have like I have a really good group of 450 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:15,200 people, whether they're elected officials, Yeah, police departments, a lot of 451 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:21,240 first few first responders that the organizations support what I do because I do bring 452 00:30:21,279 --> 00:30:23,920 awareness to our first respond I mean, here's the thing. What you said, 453 00:30:25,319 --> 00:30:26,680 a guy just talking to you for three hours, Right, you're not 454 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:30,680 going to chase my phone. But if that's at noon on a Wednesday and 455 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,680 you got to work, it's almost you almost wish you could go. Hold 456 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,240 on. I'm going to connect you with somebody who has the time, Somebody 457 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:41,880 who's working a third shift or something and it's a friend of yours. You 458 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,200 can't do that. It's just me, Yeah, I know, just me. 459 00:30:44,359 --> 00:30:47,640 I take as much time as I can. I mean it's hard when 460 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:52,200 I'm at work. People do understand. But if there's someone that's had enough 461 00:30:52,279 --> 00:30:56,359 and they really need to talk, I mean yeah, sometimes though, if 462 00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,839 you can say to someone but it might be it might be nice sometimes though, 463 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,880 to say I'm gonna I'm gonna call you right at five thirty, just 464 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:07,640 just hang tough. Can you hang till five thirty? Yes, I can, 465 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:11,599 depending on how how they are when I first originally called that. I 466 00:31:11,599 --> 00:31:15,319 mean, if I feel like we can wait till five thirty, they're not, 467 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,440 if they're not at their end, you know where If I don't talk 468 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:22,559 to you right now, I'm done, you know. But if they are 469 00:31:22,599 --> 00:31:26,960 able to talk at a later time and it's not an emergency, I'll say 470 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:30,079 then. You know, we do set up times. How can people donate? 471 00:31:30,519 --> 00:31:33,640 Because nothing runs on air? I mean you're running out of all the 472 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,440 weekends, there's gas, there's stuff. I mean, you're not gonna lie. 473 00:31:36,559 --> 00:31:41,119 I've invested a lot of money in this. I can My financial guy 474 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,680 is a little pissed. I mean, sure, I lost both my parents 475 00:31:44,759 --> 00:31:48,599 within three months, right before COVID, and I'm not gonna lie. My 476 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:53,359 inherance is gone because I invested so much into this. Yeah, and basically 477 00:31:53,839 --> 00:31:57,119 I'm in the hole. I mean, my whole thing is I'd rather be 478 00:31:57,279 --> 00:32:00,799 in a hole financially than have to dig one for somebody. I got that. 479 00:32:01,799 --> 00:32:06,039 I do set up shop. I mean, I do have merchandise. 480 00:32:06,079 --> 00:32:09,319 I do sell and a portion goes to But is there any where someone can 481 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,680 donate through like a website or something to you? No, there's not. 482 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,440 No. I mean, if people want to donate, they can hit me 483 00:32:15,519 --> 00:32:20,279 up on Facebook and how to do that? I got you or something like 484 00:32:20,359 --> 00:32:22,359 that. I try not to because it's it's it's hard, especially you don't 485 00:32:22,359 --> 00:32:24,759 want to look like you're I understand that, I get it. You don't 486 00:32:24,759 --> 00:32:28,519 want to look like you're begging in order trying to do something. But you're 487 00:32:28,559 --> 00:32:30,039 doing this work. I think I don't do it for money. I mean, 488 00:32:30,799 --> 00:32:35,079 I guess I'm in a hole. I mean, but there may be 489 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,519 somebody listening or who hears this. And the great thing about a podcast is 490 00:32:38,559 --> 00:32:42,359 it you know, right, I mean he's got legs. It'll stay around 491 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,480 for a while and if somebody's listening and here's it and goes man. I 492 00:32:45,519 --> 00:32:47,400 had an aunt, I had a you know, cousin, my best friend, 493 00:32:47,519 --> 00:32:52,519 just like Dave. They may want to donate to say hey, I 494 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:57,079 appreciate what you're doing. And you know, even if it's a twenty five 495 00:32:57,119 --> 00:32:59,759 dollars venmo, I can go a long way. Yeah, it does it, 496 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:04,039 and I mean it's it's it's tough. You never know how much you're 497 00:33:04,079 --> 00:33:08,720 reaching people with what you do. I mean a year ago, March thirty, 498 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:13,759 first, my other pickup truck caught fire in my front yard. And 499 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:17,400 what happened fa faulty tail. Faulty tail. You had an electrical fire? 500 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:21,480 Yeah, so it started in the tail light and got to wear the CAS 501 00:33:21,559 --> 00:33:25,119 tank. Nope, it just the whole back end lonstory show. We had 502 00:33:25,119 --> 00:33:30,960 a medical emergency at the house. The fire department and ambulance just left and 503 00:33:30,119 --> 00:33:34,119 the person that had the medical emergency, they were putting her in a car 504 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,119 to go home. And as you were leaving, they said, they yelled 505 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:40,279 in David, your truck's on fire. You know what tomorrow is April fools. 506 00:33:40,759 --> 00:33:43,839 So I said, you know, you guys are day day early. 507 00:33:44,599 --> 00:33:45,920 You know. They said, no, Dave, there's flames out the back 508 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:50,319 of your truck. And I went out there and there's flames out the back 509 00:33:50,319 --> 00:33:53,200 of my truck, you know. And the fire department had to come back 510 00:33:53,319 --> 00:33:57,559 put out the fire. And at first we thought it was arson. But 511 00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,359 my house is like Fort Knox. I got cameras over the place, and 512 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:07,079 it actually showed the fire start in the tail light, and like, like 513 00:34:07,079 --> 00:34:12,159 Matt was saying, there's always something worse that could have happened. I mean, 514 00:34:12,679 --> 00:34:15,840 could have been horrible, man. I think could have exploded, blown 515 00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:19,559 out a window in your house, and then that cats so find you know 516 00:34:19,599 --> 00:34:22,199 what I mean. Yeah, Well, the whole thing is I normally park 517 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,400 up against the garage on a Friday night and before ten o'clock. I'm I'm 518 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:29,960 old, I'm usually in bed and we have our grandson over. I would 519 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,599 have never known that the truck was on fire, and I would have known 520 00:34:31,679 --> 00:34:37,360 once it got to the bedroom. And so the person that parked in the 521 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:40,320 middle of a double wide driveway, I was joking around, but I'm glad 522 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:45,519 they did because they saved our life not even knowing it. So after the 523 00:34:45,559 --> 00:34:50,639 truck caught fire, I actually found out how much I mean. To a 524 00:34:50,679 --> 00:34:52,360 lot of people, it was just a truck to everybody. It should have 525 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,559 been just a truck. To me, it was more than a truck. 526 00:34:55,079 --> 00:35:00,559 But I had people wanted to run events. I had people that want to 527 00:35:00,679 --> 00:35:02,960 go fundmese and I told everybody, no, you know, the truck is 528 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,960 fully wrapped with everything in the say to twenty two and everything, so it's 529 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,400 not just a pickup truck. This thing is fully wrapped with everything. So 530 00:35:10,519 --> 00:35:14,480 the new truck is is beautiful. Yeah, and the other one was nice 531 00:35:14,519 --> 00:35:16,920 too, though, but this one here, Yeah, they went over and 532 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:23,400 about and you know, it's just two people did a GoFundMe and didn't ask 533 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:27,519 me, and we raised a little bit of money. It was. It 534 00:35:27,559 --> 00:35:31,400 was enough to get a down payment on the truck. But I mean perfect. 535 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:36,360 That's going to make you feel great and that's going to motivate you to 536 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,920 keep going. And we did a truck unveiling. We went to BTBS and 537 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:45,880 did an unveiling nice and you know, it wasn't about donations. It was 538 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:51,719 about giving back to the community that donated and tried to help me out and 539 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:57,320 BTBS is a huge support of what I do and has been since seven sixteen 540 00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:00,840 seven. It's not just us there, He's got a ton of bars and 541 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:05,559 restaurants that did sell these glasses. So basically, you buy the glass for 542 00:36:05,559 --> 00:36:07,360 fifteen dollars and your first drink is free. I don't know if everybody does 543 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,119 that, I think they do. We do it. You know, you 544 00:36:10,159 --> 00:36:13,079 can do a beer, you can do a drink, whatever you want to 545 00:36:13,119 --> 00:36:15,360 do in it. You can do pepsi if you want to do it. 546 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:17,639 Sure, but you know, you get to keep the glass and the money 547 00:36:17,679 --> 00:36:22,400 goes back to Dave obviously, and he's able to buy more glasses and donate 548 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,920 some money, so it works out well. Good stuff, man. That's 549 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:28,960 I mean, that's I try. I just, I just. What I 550 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,320 try to do is try to get people not feeling how I still feel today. 551 00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:36,199 I live June nine, twenty sixteen, between thirty and four thirty every 552 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:40,239 day, and you know, I have my own personal struggles, but living 553 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:44,920 that on what I could have done, should have done. Nothing would have 554 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:49,159 saved them. But that's my whole thing, is get people not feeling the 555 00:36:49,159 --> 00:36:52,519 way I still do. Yeah, I can't imagine I can't imagine that, 556 00:36:52,599 --> 00:36:57,960 because I would think that you'd be all the time going man, I was 557 00:36:58,039 --> 00:37:00,079 just there, you know whatever, gonna hate it, I tell you this, 558 00:37:00,159 --> 00:37:05,440 but he was just uh, just honored with the sl what is it? 559 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,400 The people, the Jefferson Award. He was one of the recipients of 560 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,880 it. He tried to give it back and say, no, give it 561 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:16,960 to somebody else, Dolly pardon. You know. The nomination was fine with 562 00:37:17,039 --> 00:37:22,719 me. I don't need an award. I'm very grateful and very happy that 563 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:27,920 I got it. I want the award to be focused on the mission and 564 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:32,159 not me good. I don't want that's right me to be the focus. 565 00:37:32,159 --> 00:37:36,159 I want well. I think getting that award also brings more awareness to what 566 00:37:36,159 --> 00:37:40,280 you're doing, which may bring more money and more eyes and help more people, 567 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:45,920 which is a great thing. And I think you gotta be rewarded for 568 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,719 what you're doing a little bit. I think it's nice to know the community 569 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,199 appreciates it. It's a lot of work. It's a lot of work, 570 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:55,760 you know, working full time and yeah, trying to be a grandfather and 571 00:37:57,119 --> 00:38:00,639 a boyfriend and all this other stuff. It's it. It takes a lot 572 00:38:00,679 --> 00:38:05,199 of time away from home. Yeah, boyfriend, then it's like too much 573 00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,920 work already right there. They should find him on Facebook and follow him on 574 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:12,800 there. And then sometime in July and Dave and I haven't talked about this 575 00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,320 yet, but we'll get together on a Saturday and do something where if you 576 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:16,920 come in for dinner and buy dinner, I'm going to donate a glass to 577 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:21,079 you. Okay, So we'll do something like that, hopefully in a Saturday. 578 00:38:21,119 --> 00:38:22,719 I know his schedule is pretty books so but he'll be able to set 579 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:27,239 up merchandise table and stuff. Nice. All right, Yeah, let me 580 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,679 know. I'd love to make sure we push that a lot. And then 581 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,440 also when the music Fest happens on August third, if you're available, obviously 582 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:37,679 you set up your your tenth there and sell your merchandise. Nice. Uh, 583 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,920 we'll take a moment and we'll get we'll change it to the NFL because 584 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:44,360 there's a whole bunch of stuff. And I think I think you're gonna be 585 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:45,239 with me on this, but I don't know. And you're going to have 586 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:51,039 a better perspective on it because you are a season ticket holder for two teams, 587 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:53,719 which I don't think I know anybody who's a season ticket holder for two 588 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:58,960 teams. I don't though out there. I don't think I know anybody. 589 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,039 We will get to that. But bTB Wood Wood Fire, Pizza and Grill 590 00:39:02,079 --> 00:39:07,360 on the mall at Grease Ridge. So the specials this month. Last week 591 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,320 we had the chicken spinach artichoke. No, that was weird. The chicken 592 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:14,000 apple, the chicken apple, that's right, the chicken apple that was so 593 00:39:14,079 --> 00:39:17,679 good with the cheddar cheese, and the now we have is it? The 594 00:39:19,519 --> 00:39:22,440 what what am I eating here? Because Philly mac and cheese. Philly mac 595 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,920 and cheese. Okay, the Philly mac and cheese is so damn good that 596 00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:31,480 I would have inhaled it already if I wasn't trying to paste myself for that 597 00:39:31,519 --> 00:39:37,840 pig out in front of day for like a animal. But they specials this 598 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:39,559 month. Salt and pepper wings are on special. Right, that's a shareble 599 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:44,639 so it's perfect. So if you go in there to watch Stanley Cup, 600 00:39:45,159 --> 00:39:49,719 NBA Finals, the NBA Finals, I'm a little disappointed. Is it? 601 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,400 It's because I'd like to see Dallas at least get a couple here. They're 602 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:53,559 gonna get it, cause I don't know what's going on with Kyrie sneakers, 603 00:39:53,559 --> 00:39:57,920 but I don't know, they look like moccasins. They'll get some in Dallas, 604 00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:01,159 do you think so? All right? Because I figured it it's until 605 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:05,920 somebody wins a road game that the series really starts. Both these teams have 606 00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,880 been pretty bad at home this year, so for both of them winning, 607 00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,360 Yeah, at least during the playoffs they haven't been that good. But we 608 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:15,480 did. We had the chicken apple panini last week that was absolutely phenomenal. 609 00:40:16,159 --> 00:40:21,519 Uh and then the strawberry pop tart blonde, which is your dessert of the 610 00:40:21,559 --> 00:40:24,360 month. I gotta think that would be a nice put that on like a 611 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:30,480 little cap there at the end. You still have the patios open, the 612 00:40:30,519 --> 00:40:34,480 bars there you can go get the bikini martini warm up this week, Yes 613 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:36,679 it is. It's gonna be in the eighties by the weekend today, but 614 00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,119 you know, yeah no, but by the weekend it'll be great. Yeah, 615 00:40:38,159 --> 00:40:43,440 Which is that's the great thing inside outside and all the games, fifty 616 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,599 TVs. It's bTB, wood Fire, pizza and grill. Make sure you 617 00:40:45,599 --> 00:40:49,800 get in there in the mall at greased rage, delicious food, tasty drinks 618 00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:53,159 and great times await right there at bTB, wood Fire, Pizza and Grill 619 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:59,519 Comedy, the Carlson Ticket and show times at Carlson Comedy dot com. 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I see him every time, 638 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,199 every time they come. He's that one fan. So when I was a 639 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:30,920 kid, they I went to like a Christian camp, summer camp, and 640 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:36,719 they told us like a CDC stood for Anti Christian devil children and Prince's uh 641 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,320 raspberry beret was this bad song and all these bad stuff, and I'm like, 642 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:44,239 oh my god. Yeah, and uh. Then there was Striper and 643 00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:47,119 I never got into Stripper, but I had no idea. Every time there's 644 00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:50,840 like, you're like an onion, dude. Every time I feel something back, 645 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,880 I get a little bit more. Me and my brother Dave, we 646 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:54,599 go, we go and see him every time they're We've gone as fire. 647 00:42:54,679 --> 00:42:58,960 We went to the Chance Some of the Chance in mckipsie I love the chance 648 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:00,920 he's still I don't know. Yeah, I think so. It was an 649 00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:05,639 old like vaudeville room and it had a balcony. I loved that place. 650 00:43:06,159 --> 00:43:08,559 I loved it because I had nostalgia there. I would go introduce bands and 651 00:43:08,599 --> 00:43:12,960 I was eighteen nineteen years old. They would pay me seventy five dollars to 652 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,599 introduce the band and I give it all back to the bar because I was 653 00:43:15,679 --> 00:43:19,239 under age and I already got in so they weren't checking. Yeah, and 654 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:22,840 I was drinking like rum and coke, which can you get a younger person, 655 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:27,559 you know, sugary sweet, like just out of Tom Collins next time. 656 00:43:27,559 --> 00:43:30,039 I don't know, He's just bad. It was just bad at the 657 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,119 at the time. But you just went to see striper. Yeah, I 658 00:43:32,159 --> 00:43:35,679 went and saw at the Tom Ballroom and Buffore. What do you think of 659 00:43:35,679 --> 00:43:37,079 that place? I loved it. Yeah, I thought the place was great. 660 00:43:37,159 --> 00:43:40,079 Yeah. Buffalo's got kind of a little bit of a researchence in entertainment 661 00:43:40,079 --> 00:43:44,079 going on. They do their their theater district is fantastic. Yeah, And 662 00:43:44,119 --> 00:43:45,679 it's like you sit there, we were sitting, we were sitting in this 663 00:43:46,119 --> 00:43:51,320 it was like a wood fire pizza place and had a small menu and we 664 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,360 were just in there having drinks, waiting for the doors to open for the 665 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:57,960 for the concert, and we're just sitting there and we're looking and it does 666 00:43:58,039 --> 00:44:00,280 it looks like a mini Toronto. Yeah, designed to look like a mini 667 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:04,039 Toronto. You said you went to Shave a couple of months ago and you 668 00:44:04,079 --> 00:44:07,679 said that was fantastic too. Yeah. SHA's what Shase does is Shas has 669 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,960 their big theater. Yeah. Then they have a couple of theaters that go 670 00:44:12,039 --> 00:44:15,679 down the street and we went to the one all that they owned down the 671 00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:20,239 cy own. So they bring all this different type of entertainment there and they 672 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,880 can fit them in in each in each room. Yeah. It's interesting because 673 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:28,239 you you've kind of got that same concept here with RBTL. They have some 674 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:32,159 really nice rooms in that building that are smaller theaters, like great rooms for 675 00:44:32,599 --> 00:44:37,639 like more intimate settings that I always thought was just kind of a waste. 676 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:39,440 You know, they're not putting much in there, and they're starting to now 677 00:44:39,559 --> 00:44:44,159 or trying to now. They've been trying for We've been doing this for thirty 678 00:44:44,159 --> 00:44:46,639 five years. I mean nothing against anybody, no, I know, but 679 00:44:46,679 --> 00:44:51,639 there's no resurgence ever going to happen in Rochester. It should have happened thirty 680 00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,840 years ago when they did, when they did high Falls, and you know, 681 00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:57,480 yeah, yeah, yeah, the buffle's got to pay down the water 682 00:44:57,559 --> 00:45:00,360 too. A lot of bars and restaurants are down the water and they're beautiful 683 00:45:00,519 --> 00:45:04,239 river brings in some big shows. That's a nice big room there too. 684 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:08,280 So we have a canal of river and a lake we can't figure any of 685 00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:13,280 not really now. Well, Fairports kind of got a nice skill going. 686 00:45:13,639 --> 00:45:16,559 Yeah, Spencer Ports got a nice little spot too. I can't I can't 687 00:45:16,639 --> 00:45:21,719 knock that does grease anything along the canal? There's nothing along there's no land. 688 00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:24,159 There's no land along the lands. The walking Trailia, Yeah, what 689 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:28,800 about Uh that would be perfect, Charlotte would be great, Charlotte. Is 690 00:45:29,079 --> 00:45:30,800 I agree? I thought for sure, man, when that fast ferry, 691 00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:34,440 I thought that was all gonna explode. After that, they should have done 692 00:45:34,559 --> 00:45:37,159 more bars, restaurants shopping down there. Yeah, they just missed the ball 693 00:45:37,159 --> 00:45:40,119 on it, and now it's just a place for people to go and fight. 694 00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:45,039 Yeah it is. So that's too bad. Uh the NFL. I 695 00:45:45,079 --> 00:45:49,480 saw this today, Matt. I don't know if you've seen this that the 696 00:45:49,599 --> 00:45:53,360 NFL PA has in front of it to begin training camps in June and do 697 00:45:53,480 --> 00:46:00,400 away with mandatory o t as or do away with voluntary OTAs, start training 698 00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:05,400 camp in June. Yeah, I didn't see that. How would they do 699 00:46:05,519 --> 00:46:09,159 that? I couldn't camp. Yeah, so they had, they would have 700 00:46:09,199 --> 00:46:13,599 like a training camp, and then I think they're talked about trying to maybe 701 00:46:13,639 --> 00:46:16,199 start the season earlier to add those games in, like to get it too. 702 00:46:16,559 --> 00:46:19,960 I thought they were going to go longer. I did too, but 703 00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:24,519 trying to get the Super Bowl to a holiday, right, So yeah, 704 00:46:24,559 --> 00:46:28,400 I couldn't figure it out, but it's it's there that they would start it 705 00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,599 maybe towards the end of June beginning of July instead of the middle or end 706 00:46:30,599 --> 00:46:34,880 of July. So you're talking like a two to three week period earlier, 707 00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,239 because a lot of them don't start to like the last couple of days of 708 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:40,039 July, right, it's usually that last week month. Yeah, yeah, 709 00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:44,559 too soon. It feels too soon to me too, but that's the NFL. 710 00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:50,960 So Roger Goodell makes sixty four million dollars a year. He's in charge 711 00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:54,480 of thirty one multi millionaire slash billionaire guys, right, who were doing these 712 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:59,480 teams and take away green Bay because they're not for profit or whatever. However 713 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:04,599 it works for them in twenty twenty two, Any guesses how much now? 714 00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,880 It used to always be? The NFL was a nine billion dollar business in 715 00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:12,400 twenty twenty two. What do you think they made twenty twenty two. So 716 00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:14,719 you're talking a couple of years ago, twenty twenty two. Yeah, because 717 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:19,440 they're not gonna give you all the financials, so whatever you guess they're saying 718 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,400 it'll be. They're projecting higher for twenty twenty three, but let's go with 719 00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,760 twenty twenty two, because they have hard data on this one. I would 720 00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,679 say thirty billion, thirty billion, Yeah, okay, Dave, what do 721 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:32,199 you got? I'd say probably about twenty five thirty twenty five thirty I don't 722 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:37,519 fucking know. Just go on twenty seven point five. It's actually eighteen point 723 00:47:37,559 --> 00:47:42,199 six billion dollars for twenty twenty three, and they want to and they expect 724 00:47:42,199 --> 00:47:45,440 it to be a billion more than that for twenty twenty three, so close 725 00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:51,679 to twenty billion dollars. Right, So, according to Goodell, his target 726 00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:57,199 revenue by twenty twenty seven, which really isn't that far away? Is twenty 727 00:47:57,199 --> 00:48:04,239 five billion dollars, so that means getting more eyes, more games, probably 728 00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:07,039 outside the United States, I would assume, because don't we have Philadelphia and 729 00:48:07,079 --> 00:48:12,280 Green Bay kicking off in Brazil? Yeah, taking armored buses to the sea 730 00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,159 games. I'm saying they both can't wear they can't wear their own colors. 731 00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:20,400 So now there's been a lot of controversy about it. I want to go 732 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,719 to Josh Jacobs, who used to be with the Raiders now with Green Bay. 733 00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:29,199 Uh. He was on the green Light podcast with Chris Long and this 734 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,079 is the discussion that happened. You're going to open the season against my Eagles 735 00:48:32,079 --> 00:48:37,719 down in Brazil. Man, what are you most excited about? You know, 736 00:48:37,159 --> 00:48:39,880 they said that the part of Brazil were going so you can't even wear 737 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:45,280 green at Okay, Now we'll go to tell you what the NFL is saying 738 00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:49,840 and what other people are saying, and people from Brazil are going on social 739 00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,480 media and saying, but do you think he's lying? I don't think. 740 00:48:52,679 --> 00:48:58,719 I don't think he's lying. I heard that really. Yeah, why they 741 00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:00,079 say, like, I guess something to do with the gangs and stuff. 742 00:49:00,079 --> 00:49:05,199 They said, dude, I'm not going. I'm not going. They said, 743 00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:07,119 we're not going to Rio. We're going, they said, they told 744 00:49:07,159 --> 00:49:10,320 us they was like, man, it's one of them places where they probably 745 00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:14,960 won't even let us leave a full team. Damn, I'm not going. 746 00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:22,159 What color? What college I was picturing. I was picturing, Man, 747 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:29,559 there's nobody that like I should be the gang should be excited because they're not 748 00:49:29,679 --> 00:49:34,119 green. They're not they're not green. Yeah, they're not gonna say like, 749 00:49:34,159 --> 00:49:37,360 they're not going to jump you in and be like you're welcome. Be 750 00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:42,280 upset. They're probably gonna have like armored vehicles following up. I said, 751 00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:46,159 bro, why are we out here? We are? I'm picturing Josh Jacob's 752 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:50,559 like hanging out on the beach ship. I'm thinking of all my friends from 753 00:49:50,559 --> 00:49:53,079 the Eagles down there, like just at the bars and real. But it 754 00:49:53,079 --> 00:49:55,719 doesn't sound like that kind of trip. I was looking forward to it. 755 00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:59,280 I'm like, man, we're about to be it's about to be a fun 756 00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:04,960 week. And they telling us all that. Okay, so they're talking to 757 00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,320 the players about what to expect. This is the same thing that goes on 758 00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:12,119 in Mexico City. They don't usually leave their hotel rooms. Because there's such 759 00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:15,360 rich guys that they're targeted. They close down the roads, they have armored 760 00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:19,119 vehicles. I heard. I don't know if it's true, but in Mexico 761 00:50:19,159 --> 00:50:22,159 City they had snipers around to protect us. The buses came through with the 762 00:50:22,159 --> 00:50:25,719 players. Did they have this kind of problem during the Olympics down there? 763 00:50:27,039 --> 00:50:30,719 Okay, so this is what this is. They did. They warned everybody, 764 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:34,679 don't leave the Olympic village, stay in your spots. Then we had 765 00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:37,440 that whole thing with locked Ee when he went out somewhere in Brazil and whatever 766 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,719 the fuck went on there. Remember when he said he broke down and at 767 00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:44,159 a gas station or something and they picked him up in a cab. There 768 00:50:44,199 --> 00:50:49,079 was some weird story that came out of there. But according to the Philadelphia 769 00:50:49,159 --> 00:50:52,519 Inquirer, the NFL has come out and said, you'll see a stadium full 770 00:50:52,519 --> 00:50:55,239 of fans wearing green of the Eagles in the green of the Packers. It's 771 00:50:55,280 --> 00:51:00,559 not gangs. It's a rival soccer team that wears green, and if they 772 00:51:00,559 --> 00:51:02,639 see green, they get very upset, so they don't want green in the 773 00:51:02,679 --> 00:51:07,559 stadium. So it sounds like a complete I don't understand and I get it, 774 00:51:07,599 --> 00:51:10,079 but I still think it's bullshit. I think that they're probably greed and 775 00:51:10,119 --> 00:51:15,039 there's something going on. I see turquoise and you know those Miami colors, 776 00:51:15,079 --> 00:51:16,639 and that fucking kisses me on. I see green, it turns me on. 777 00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:21,480 I'm on fire man. Between the Packers and Eagles, fuck them both. 778 00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:23,840 I actually couldn't pick two better teams to go there. So this is 779 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:30,199 the guy over here wearing green tay. So the NFL and others are saying 780 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:34,960 it's not a gang issue, all right, but I've heard that same thing 781 00:51:35,119 --> 00:51:38,039 with Mexico City. So you're a nineteen billion dollar industry, Why how much 782 00:51:38,079 --> 00:51:42,760 more do you need that you're putting your players at risk potentially. I'm the 783 00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,920 players. I'm not going to go because I don't find me. Do whatever 784 00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:50,440 you gotta do. I don't think Josh Jacobs is I mean I lie about 785 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:52,400 this, Well, there's no reason to lie. He's not gonna go on. 786 00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:54,559 He was asked a question on a podcast. He's telling what he's been 787 00:51:54,599 --> 00:52:00,320 told. So now he's apologizing, saying, my bad, Brazil, I 788 00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:04,519 got bad information. But someone gave him that information, and it sounds like 789 00:52:04,559 --> 00:52:08,880 someone with authority that He goes further to say he's gonna wear black and white 790 00:52:09,039 --> 00:52:14,280 because those are the colors of the team that everybody seems to accept down there. 791 00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:16,079 So that when they you know, and they don't think they can probably 792 00:52:16,119 --> 00:52:19,559 leave the hotel. They put one team in black and they're a team and 793 00:52:19,559 --> 00:52:22,159 white. I don't know, I know, actually kind of cool. Actually 794 00:52:22,679 --> 00:52:25,639 that soccer is a rough sport. Let me tell you well, the Cowboys 795 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:29,840 used to play a preseason game in Mexico City every year. Yeah he stopped, 796 00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:31,159 and I don't know why, but they stopped. It was back in 797 00:52:31,199 --> 00:52:35,000 the nineties, right, and it was a great way to expand, and 798 00:52:35,039 --> 00:52:37,719 it made sense. It's a bordering country. Why wouldn't we write one hundred 799 00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:42,239 thousand people for a preseason game. Now they're talking about Mexico City getting a 800 00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:45,000 game here in the near future, and it would probably Dallas because they have 801 00:52:45,079 --> 00:52:49,840 a huge fan base there a game as a regular a regular season game there. 802 00:52:50,039 --> 00:52:53,239 So what happens as a season ticket holder when your team goes overseas? 803 00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:58,559 Do you get anything in the tickets are a little less because used to go 804 00:52:58,599 --> 00:53:00,239 to Toronto. They yeah, take that game, okay, pay for but 805 00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:04,960 you're paying for preseason, which is ridiculous. That's the worst part. You're 806 00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:07,599 not paying for the eight regular season games you have to play pay for the 807 00:53:07,599 --> 00:53:10,679 preseason as well, which who the hell's paying for preseason ticket? Nobody? 808 00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:15,880 No, I mean they're just like, what do they charge you less for 809 00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:20,559 preseason? They don't same thing fee? Holy shit, I didn't know that. 810 00:53:21,119 --> 00:53:24,760 What all the money? It's a greedy, greedy league. Okay, 811 00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:29,679 So that's what I'm saying. Is it getting so greedy because to your point 812 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,719 there, it's becoming cost prohibitive to go to the games. Once this new 813 00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:37,880 stadium opens in Buffalo, I think, and you talk about Dallas, you 814 00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,440 your season ticket holder there, I would think a lot of the people that 815 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:44,960 are there are usually guest of a corporation, A lot of them. Yeah. 816 00:53:45,039 --> 00:53:45,800 Yeah, there's a lot of money in Texas, a lot of oil, 817 00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:49,360 Yes, there is. So you know, it used to be I 818 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,400 shouldn't say used to be. I only went to one game in the old 819 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:54,880 stadium, but it was amazing. The old stadium was loud, people screaming 820 00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:59,199 and cheering like like Buffalo. Yep. Now you go there and it's a 821 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:01,039 lot less. You can tell these people just have a lot of money. 822 00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:05,119 They're there to watch the game, but they're also doing business and stuff like 823 00:54:05,159 --> 00:54:07,360 that. I mean, I told you the first time everyone on a tour 824 00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:10,480 in two thousand and nine, they had PlayStation three's in the suites for kids 825 00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:14,440 to play in case they got bored during the game. To me, that's 826 00:54:14,519 --> 00:54:17,960 just totally wrong. So now you're gonna put this this fee for these tickets. 827 00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:21,880 And I know Greg disagrees, but you're gonna put these fee on these 828 00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:23,800 tickets in Buffalo. People aren't gonna be able ford it. Well, that's 829 00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:28,880 what I really believe that. I mean, you're talking, let's say the 830 00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:34,000 old rust belt sort of in a way, right, and this is it 831 00:54:34,119 --> 00:54:37,039 was built on the blue collar fan. Yes, so what we're making it 832 00:54:37,039 --> 00:54:42,000 cost prohibitive. Then you look at what's going on with the networks, right, 833 00:54:42,159 --> 00:54:45,719 So it used to be network television. Fox gets involved, and now 834 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:50,679 it goes to a cable. Now you've got ESPN. Now we've gone so 835 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,599 far as you've got to have Prime to see games on Thursday night. And 836 00:54:55,239 --> 00:55:01,239 I'm pretty sure Peacock is guaranteed a January playoff, and Netflix and Netflix is 837 00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:06,400 Netflix scar two games on Christmas Okay, so the two games on Christmas on 838 00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,400 Netflix. So now in addition to whatever you have, you've got to have 839 00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:12,880 those services to see it. I don't know if that helps you. You 840 00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,320 hope it does, but does it help you on Christmas Day? I don't 841 00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:17,920 think so. Okay, that's one of them. Just it. We gotta 842 00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:22,239 now, we gotta purchase it because if we're not showing it, people are 843 00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:23,199 going to say, what the hell? Right, So we're gonna have to 844 00:55:23,199 --> 00:55:27,000 purchase it. It'll be limited to how many TVs. You know, you're 845 00:55:27,079 --> 00:55:29,880 gonna put it on a few TVs, but we're gonna have to purchase it. 846 00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:31,800 I think you can do three TVs per account if I remember right, 847 00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:36,159 I know that's how it is with Peacock. So they allow you three TVs 848 00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:38,000 per account and that's it. So if you want more on three TVs, 849 00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:43,320 you got to buy another service. Holy shit, that's crazy. But is 850 00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:47,119 it great or is it just goodal making these owners money? Well, it's 851 00:55:47,199 --> 00:55:52,000 it feels his job. He's doing his job. That I mean, to 852 00:55:52,079 --> 00:55:54,559 your point much doing his job. He's doing his job. But my point 853 00:55:54,639 --> 00:55:59,599 is what happens at some point? Are people going to go, well, 854 00:55:59,599 --> 00:56:02,480 I'm not buying Peacock and now it's one less game I'm watching, and I 855 00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:07,239 don't you know what I mean, Are we starting to erode the fan Will 856 00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:09,199 that start to erode the fan base? But because it is creepy and everybody 857 00:56:09,199 --> 00:56:13,000 says, oh, well if they do this, and they've done this, 858 00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,360 this, this, that's this and this, and everybody's still there, it 859 00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:19,559 is. But it feels like they have a flippant attitude towards the fan. 860 00:56:20,039 --> 00:56:22,440 It just it does. It feels a little bit like they have a flippant 861 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,280 attitude towards the fan. Well, I mean, it's a business at the 862 00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:27,039 end of the day, it is, you know, and they're there to 863 00:56:27,079 --> 00:56:29,760 make as much money as possible, and we can. We could sit here 864 00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:31,239 and call greed all day long, but it seems like it's good business because 865 00:56:31,599 --> 00:56:35,639 people aren't not going to the games right now at the ticket prices. You 866 00:56:35,679 --> 00:56:37,639 know. I saw a meme yesterday and Facebook that said I would do anything 867 00:56:37,639 --> 00:56:40,800 I could possibly right now to watch the two worst teams in the NFL play 868 00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:45,320 today because there's nothing else to watch. That's how big the NFL is. 869 00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:46,920 Yeah, people would sit there and watch the two worst teams. They'd watch 870 00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:54,199 you know, the Philadelphia Eagles. They did. They watched that Redskins Panthers 871 00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:59,199 game on Amazon. Yeah, I would like to know. And you'll probably 872 00:56:59,199 --> 00:57:01,440 never get this as the stats from the Bills playoff game that was on Peacock, 873 00:57:01,599 --> 00:57:08,000 Like, I don't know. I just remember seeing things where one person 874 00:57:08,039 --> 00:57:13,280 wrote so far they put this on x so for the first time in more 875 00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,679 than a decade, I don't have access to a live NFL game. That's 876 00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:20,559 how disinterest starts at NFL. And that's what I do wonder. I'm not 877 00:57:20,599 --> 00:57:23,119 saying that it's gonna happen overnight. We're all big fans, We're gonna all 878 00:57:23,119 --> 00:57:29,400 be sucked back in. You know. It's like the abuse of whatever relationship 879 00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,719 you have with somebody and then there it goes. But they're making it harder 880 00:57:31,719 --> 00:57:34,880 for you to be able to watch. They're making it harder for people to 881 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,320 be able to go to the games. And then on top of that, 882 00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:42,960 this is the thing. I mean, it's a weakness. I think if 883 00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:47,199 the NFL continues, and it's sort of this myth that their officials have improved 884 00:57:47,239 --> 00:57:51,800 as the players have improved, and I don't think that's true. Okay, 885 00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:54,760 I think the players have improved tremendously, I don't. I think one of 886 00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:59,679 the most egregious things that we saw and it was with your team against the 887 00:57:59,719 --> 00:58:02,599 line last year, and you even said that was a bad call, and 888 00:58:02,639 --> 00:58:07,559 then they what they do is it was a guy who was going in as 889 00:58:07,599 --> 00:58:09,719 an eligible receiver and we saw him, he touched him right, and then 890 00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:15,119 they said they didn't see it. So then almost add insult to injury, 891 00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:19,440 the NFL puts out a video to every league as to how players need to 892 00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:22,039 say they're eligible. It's like they'll never admit their mistake. But here's the 893 00:58:22,079 --> 00:58:27,280 thing. You've got players who are working out year round, giving us a 894 00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:30,119 more entertaining product than we've ever had. So that'll probably that helps. Right, 895 00:58:30,199 --> 00:58:34,320 We've got Josh Allen, don't tell me Justin Herbert isn't going to turn 896 00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:37,960 into something. And maybe Jordan Love as well, right as they as these 897 00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:40,239 teams get better. Jordan Love seemed to I don't know what happened last year 898 00:58:40,719 --> 00:58:44,320 in the mid season on he seemed to be pretty damn good. Either he 899 00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:45,719 got it or yet lucky. We'll find out. Oh yeah, exactly. 900 00:58:46,119 --> 00:58:50,639 So you look at all that and then you go but you've got part time 901 00:58:50,719 --> 00:58:53,800 refs who are not young and in shape. Right, you got an eighteen 902 00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:58,559 billion dollar business. You can't pay your full time because of what you don't 903 00:58:58,559 --> 00:59:00,480 want to pay their benefits and everything. I don't know. Here's what I 904 00:59:00,519 --> 00:59:06,679 would say if they're going to and it's funny that you're here to hear this 905 00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,559 today only because you work with guys who are coming back from service. If 906 00:59:09,599 --> 00:59:14,360 the NFL wants to put their money where their mouth is and talk all this 907 00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:17,079 stuff about being supportive of the armed services, then let's take guys who are 908 00:59:17,119 --> 00:59:21,920 leaving the Armed services that are young, disciplined, and in shape and make 909 00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,559 them fucking refs. That's a great idea. Why not. They're young, 910 00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:30,679 in shape and disciplined guys they're coming out of probably I mean not, And 911 00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:32,880 nobody at this table is that disciplined today, right. I don't know if 912 00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:37,440 anybody served, but I just know that. You know that's so you're taking 913 00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:39,639 that, put that in there, a code of honor, all that stuff. 914 00:59:39,679 --> 00:59:43,400 You think they're going to make a bad cround, Why don't they do 915 00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:49,920 that? And doctors out there on us, they flying on Saturday, they 916 00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:52,480 go to the game and they fly home Sunday night, and they're drinking and 917 00:59:52,599 --> 00:59:59,920 partying and hanging out, and then they're going to do the game Monday. 918 01:00:00,079 --> 01:00:02,280 One guy's back on the stand, you know, in a trial, and 919 01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:06,599 Sunday he just threw a pass interference call that costs the Bills a game exactly, 920 01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:08,559 right, or Dallas or whoever. And I just I go, why 921 01:00:08,599 --> 01:00:13,079 are we doing this if you're an eighteen dollars nineteen billion? Right, let's 922 01:00:13,119 --> 01:00:15,440 say that's what it was for twenty twenty three, All right, twenty three 923 01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:19,440 million, twenty three million viewers for the Bill's playoff came on Peacock. So 924 01:00:19,480 --> 01:00:22,800 I wonder what a normal playoff game that was about that average? Really, 925 01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,920 so it didn't matter. Well, look I got Peacock, and I only 926 01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:30,639 got it for that and I forgot I have it, and it's yeah, 927 01:00:30,639 --> 01:00:34,519 it doesn't matter. Yeah, that's how they get you. Yeah, just 928 01:00:34,559 --> 01:00:37,320 automatically renews, and that's what's going to happen. So now we've got and 929 01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:39,159 I have Prime. Well, I saw the other day. I think the 930 01:00:39,199 --> 01:00:43,079 breakdown was six hundred and eighty dollars if you wanted to watch every game in 931 01:00:43,079 --> 01:00:45,719 the NFL this year, So you have to get the direct TV pat well, 932 01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:47,960 now the Amazon package for you guys at home, you have to buy 933 01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:52,480 that. Wait what who has Directivty just has a Thursday Night Yes, yeah, 934 01:00:52,559 --> 01:00:55,119 yeah, okay, No, who got y YouTube? YouTube? Got 935 01:00:55,119 --> 01:00:58,760 that? So you have that? Then you got to Peacock, you got 936 01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:02,280 Netflix, you got Hulu's getting a game. Hulu's getting a game, Whu's 937 01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:07,440 getting a game this year too, and one other one Jesus cancel. So 938 01:01:07,519 --> 01:01:10,039 yes, you wanted to get the whole you know directors, you know the 939 01:01:10,039 --> 01:01:15,000 package so you can see the Sunday games, any weekday games. It was 940 01:01:15,039 --> 01:01:16,639 like six hundred yeah. And then how about this and you'll know this. 941 01:01:17,079 --> 01:01:22,119 They can flex games. Yeah, and now, but what if you're you 942 01:01:22,159 --> 01:01:25,239 know, I'm playing my one o'clock Sunday a month in advance, and all 943 01:01:25,239 --> 01:01:29,480 of a sudden they flex it to I don't know, Sunday night Primetime eight 944 01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,320 o'clock, because it's a bigger up my whole next week exactly you're going to 945 01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:37,440 the exactly that. And now they're getting really greedy because the Christmas game this 946 01:01:37,519 --> 01:01:38,679 year, what is it? Is it a Wednesday this year? I forget 947 01:01:38,719 --> 01:01:43,679 now, but they got Wednesday games this year so now you got Wednesday night, 948 01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:45,760 Thursday night, a Friday night game. I think again, this year 949 01:01:46,119 --> 01:01:50,199 you got a couple of Saturdays, you got Sunday. These guys don't get 950 01:01:50,199 --> 01:01:52,239 the rest, and you're you know, they have to have a minimum. 951 01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:54,880 I think of six days in between games or five games? What is it 952 01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:59,440 Sunday to Thursday? What are five days? Yea, So now they're gonna 953 01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:00,800 say, okay, well get him a bye week the week before, But 954 01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:04,760 then they got to play on Wednesdays, so their bye week is really instead 955 01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:07,159 of thirteen days, is more like ten days. And I'll say you this 956 01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:10,440 taking a huge beating. Here's why I think they have to be careful with 957 01:02:10,519 --> 01:02:15,440 the ref thing. I didn't say this before. They're getting deeper and deeper 958 01:02:15,559 --> 01:02:20,000 in with the gambling. Yeah. And if you all of a sudden the 959 01:02:20,039 --> 01:02:25,079 game goes because of an errant call that cost gamblers tons of money. You 960 01:02:25,119 --> 01:02:30,039 don't think that that could fuck up your whole I think cos fuck up your 961 01:02:30,079 --> 01:02:32,000 whole sitution. Yes, and that when it was illegal now legal. I 962 01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:37,039 mean the guys in baseball just got suspended for life. He was a nobody, 963 01:02:37,039 --> 01:02:39,800 but he be He probably made more money betting on those games, and 964 01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:44,119 he didn't in the minors. Yeah, I'm sure. I'm sure that's true. 965 01:02:44,559 --> 01:02:47,000 Yeah, because I think the miners are making right. You can't tell 966 01:02:47,039 --> 01:02:52,559 me that that umpire that just retired wasn't fixing games the way he was calm 967 01:02:52,599 --> 01:02:55,119 pitches and striking. Yes, he was way out of it. I mean 968 01:02:55,199 --> 01:02:58,639 way off. He was always way off. That's the worst part. So 969 01:02:58,639 --> 01:03:01,599 he didn't look Somebody sent me today, uh agel Hernandez, miss call, 970 01:03:01,679 --> 01:03:08,400 miss call. They I just think they have to get the officiating right as 971 01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:10,559 they get deeper in with the game. I don't care what it costs you, 972 01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:14,039 because you have to get it right. Man. I never thought of 973 01:03:14,039 --> 01:03:15,000 that idea. That's a great idea. With the well, I was just 974 01:03:15,719 --> 01:03:19,679 I have too much time. I uh no, but I was really thinking 975 01:03:19,719 --> 01:03:22,039 about it. I go, how do you fix that? That wasn't the 976 01:03:22,039 --> 01:03:25,079 only reason it stood out to me because you were coming in. You're a 977 01:03:25,159 --> 01:03:29,679 Dallas fan. That was the Lions game. That was the biggest missed call 978 01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:34,440 I thought in the in the NFL last year. There was two miss calls 979 01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,880 in that game. Is the worst part. Say one against Detroit, one 980 01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:39,480 against Day They got called for tripping when he actually got a tripped by the 981 01:03:39,719 --> 01:03:44,039 guy. It wasn't him doing the tripping, right, There was two really 982 01:03:44,159 --> 01:03:46,360 blatant miss call I mean badly miscas. So if you get a series of 983 01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:52,360 questionable calls that affect the outcome of games, and it's going to challenge the 984 01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:55,039 integrity of the game, and people start saying fix, I think that really 985 01:03:55,039 --> 01:03:59,480 starts to hurt. It's on Facebook every Sunday night, Tom but the NFL's 986 01:03:59,519 --> 01:04:04,239 fixed every Sunday night. Just just go through. I'm just saying, like 987 01:04:04,519 --> 01:04:09,440 to keep it to somewhat, But I wish that someone would do that with 988 01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:12,679 the with army guys coming back, Well, you got young in shape guys 989 01:04:12,719 --> 01:04:15,360 coming back, you guarantee them a job out in the military exactly. Military 990 01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:20,000 is probably picking up their benefits. Yea. Why it's a great So it's 991 01:04:20,039 --> 01:04:24,000 almost like a win win. The biggest hero in the world come on, 992 01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:29,159 and we would get I think guys who would make better calls overall. You 993 01:04:29,199 --> 01:04:31,920 know, all right, there you go. Sorry, a lot of thought 994 01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:40,119 on that today. Somebody asked Matt when we come back. Somebody got fired 995 01:04:40,119 --> 01:04:45,280 from a restaurant for putting something out about the restaurant on TikTok that went out, 996 01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:48,519 But what was really going on is uh, well it goes back to 997 01:04:48,559 --> 01:04:54,039 the NFL and and uh fantasy football. But we will get to all that 998 01:04:54,199 --> 01:04:57,599 next. But first, Connors and first, because when life throws you a 999 01:04:57,679 --> 01:05:00,599 curveball, you need a team that could knock it out out of the park. 1000 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:02,639 At Connors and Ferris, they're more than just a law firm. They're 1001 01:05:02,679 --> 01:05:08,840 your trusted partners in navigating workers compensation, social security, disability, and personal 1002 01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:13,239 injury claims. 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My buddy and Brian in Florida was at a Stones concert and I 1031 01:07:28,159 --> 01:07:30,840 was packed, and he said it was one of the greatest concertserve And I 1032 01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:32,800 said, I tagged you and I said, Bill, just fucking do it. 1033 01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:35,519 Oh, I don't even think I saw that. Oh, I gotta 1034 01:07:35,559 --> 01:07:38,960 go back and look. I have to pull it up. I'll go back 1035 01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:45,320 and look. Yeah, the guy. But then we were talking off Mike 1036 01:07:45,440 --> 01:07:48,920 about just shit that's going on, and can you say that story? Do 1037 01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:53,159 you want to say that story? You don't have to really, Okay, 1038 01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:56,880 I got you. That's why I'm asking her. But I'm just like, 1039 01:07:57,119 --> 01:08:01,159 we we hear these things that are happening around are area, and you wonder, 1040 01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:04,679 like, you know, where does it stop? Because I always said 1041 01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:10,519 I think the suburbs go as the city goes, Right, You don't want 1042 01:08:10,559 --> 01:08:13,639 to lose the city, and I feel like, slowly we I don't know 1043 01:08:13,679 --> 01:08:15,920 what's happening. There's a lot, there's a lot, and it seems like 1044 01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:20,560 people know how to play a system and stuff. What is the bTB rule 1045 01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:27,800 for social media stuff? Do you have one for employees? We always kind 1046 01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:30,680 of we did back in the day. I don't know if Connie has put 1047 01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:34,800 one in place. I think there is one that basically you can't post anything 1048 01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:42,359 negative. Okay. So some woman works at a restaurant in North Carolina and 1049 01:08:42,399 --> 01:08:47,439 supposedly a higher end restaurant, very identifiable because there's a fountain inside the restaurant, 1050 01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:54,479 right, So she did this on social media on TikTok Okay, So 1051 01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:57,920 I'm not supposed to be making two stops at work, but this calls for 1052 01:08:57,960 --> 01:09:00,680 it. I work at a nice restaurant in Charlotte, and he asked to 1053 01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:03,840 see what just came in the door. So she clips the camera round and 1054 01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:08,840 there's a young guy that's the fountain that you can hear, sitting with a 1055 01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:15,399 blow up doll in a dress, having a meal. Okay, so they 1056 01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:17,199 fired her a bit. He's sitting at the table with a blow up he's 1057 01:09:17,199 --> 01:09:20,720 sitting at the table with a blow up doll. Blow up doll. They 1058 01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:25,000 let this person in with a blow up Okay, great question. I don't 1059 01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:30,640 have an answer. They deserve to get posted on Facebook. See now I 1060 01:09:30,680 --> 01:09:32,600 went, I don't think Matt's firing somebody for that. Way I can get 1061 01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:36,920 laugh out of it. Right. Well, then some reporter in North Carolina 1062 01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:44,399 sees on the guy post his own TikTok on a bad date and he has 1063 01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:47,640 to think he lost a fantasy football bet, he was the loser of his 1064 01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:51,439 league, and he had to go to dinner at this nice restaurant with a 1065 01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:59,319 blow That's a great, that's just funny. It's funny. bTB, you 1066 01:09:59,319 --> 01:10:00,880 could do that end restaurant. That's tough, man. Somebody did it. 1067 01:10:01,039 --> 01:10:03,680 You know somebody did a b TV we' I'll just be laughing about it, 1068 01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:06,279 and of course telling the customers you don't don't see your kids over that, 1069 01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:12,640 sit you over here. That's a great, that's a great. Oh man, 1070 01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:15,119 that's awesome. Isn't that great? Now? Have you heard of like 1071 01:10:15,239 --> 01:10:19,720 fantasy football punishments for losing a league that are along those lines? Yeah, 1072 01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:24,239 nothing like that though. That's that's good. Yeah, I lost. We 1073 01:10:24,319 --> 01:10:27,560 did when I was on radio. We did the high school fantasy football. 1074 01:10:28,000 --> 01:10:31,239 So if you had a son and a nephew or cousin whatever, you could 1075 01:10:31,239 --> 01:10:33,880 call up and we would take running backs and all this, and we put 1076 01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:38,439 our team together and then somebody smarter than me will go through and score the 1077 01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:41,960 points. And I lost. So we had to do a bud wah photo 1078 01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:45,600 and somebody came in and did me in awe full makeup. I had my 1079 01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:49,000 shirt off, I had a feather boa, I had like little hot pants 1080 01:10:49,039 --> 01:10:56,720 on, and somewhere those pictures exist, but I love that. That made 1081 01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:59,159 me laugh so hard. And the guy put his on TikTok, I go, 1082 01:10:59,199 --> 01:11:01,039 why would you fire this girl over there? And it's so stupid it 1083 01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:05,000 and by the way, she's shooting from a far distance, way over there, 1084 01:11:05,399 --> 01:11:09,399 far distance. But then, of course, Mark, because you were 1085 01:11:09,399 --> 01:11:15,399 here, I had a what that's definitely a corporate restaurant had to be Yeah, 1086 01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:16,720 I was thinking the same thing had to be. No mom of Pap 1087 01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:20,000 is firing somebody for that, I would hope. Anyways, no, even 1088 01:11:20,039 --> 01:11:24,960 corporate I could see suspended or maybe but fired her. So what happens with 1089 01:11:25,119 --> 01:11:28,560 like corporate restaurants. You're talking about things like, let's say, if it's 1090 01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:30,520 a high end one of those steakhouses, Morton's or something like that, that 1091 01:11:30,560 --> 01:11:34,119 would be corporate. Now yeah, yeah, where something more local, like 1092 01:11:34,119 --> 01:11:38,560 a chop out whatever it's going to be. Yeah, I'd rather see. 1093 01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:43,439 That's the thing is I always would say in this town, don't go to 1094 01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:45,920 the chains. It's amazing that people will go to a chain. And I 1095 01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:51,239 understand when you're on the road and you don't know and you want to go. 1096 01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:54,800 I know what I'm going to get here, and I've got my kids, 1097 01:11:54,880 --> 01:11:57,680 especially if you're traveling with your family, you know that. But if 1098 01:11:57,720 --> 01:12:00,439 you live here, there are so many fans fantastic restaurants. Jesus Christ, 1099 01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:03,800 dude, you should be like a restaurant reviewer because I see, like you 1100 01:12:03,840 --> 01:12:08,479 and Natalie go out. You talk about the service, you talk about the 1101 01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:12,399 food, you give it, But there are so many local Why Why are 1102 01:12:13,279 --> 01:12:15,439 it's you know me, good Italian restaurants are in this city and people go 1103 01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:19,199 to Olive Garden. Why yeah, I don't And I get it it's local 1104 01:12:19,199 --> 01:12:24,079 people working there, But that money's all even rosters not staying in Ruster other 1105 01:12:24,119 --> 01:12:27,199 than the people working there. All those profits are going somewhere else. The 1106 01:12:27,239 --> 01:12:30,279 tax money is going somewhere else. What, in your opinion, is the 1107 01:12:30,319 --> 01:12:40,920 best Italian in the area. Texas road host Garden, I Dave will agree 1108 01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:45,840 with man, there's a because there there's a couple on the west side. 1109 01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:50,039 Aren't there that a really good Italian restaurant? Restaurant? Is it really okay? 1110 01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:57,279 Uh So I did see this other article mark about introducing your your sex 1111 01:12:57,319 --> 01:13:00,119 style to your partner for people who have at it, and I go, 1112 01:13:00,279 --> 01:13:03,319 this can't be real, and it did. It says what happens This was 1113 01:13:03,319 --> 01:13:08,319 the title of the article, what happens when you introduce a sex doll into 1114 01:13:08,319 --> 01:13:12,359 your relationship? What the hell is that to do with me? I just 1115 01:13:12,359 --> 01:13:15,520 think anything weird that like that. I always automatically think to you, I 1116 01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:18,520 just I just do mean when you carry on the conversation for the sex doll, 1117 01:13:19,319 --> 01:13:27,399 I think you do. Yeah. I realized it, like it's weird. 1118 01:13:28,159 --> 01:13:30,640 In the first paragraph as I'm reading, I go, this is weird. 1119 01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:32,199 And I don't know anybody who would be happy with this. I don't 1120 01:13:32,199 --> 01:13:36,520 know anybody who would admit to this bringing it in. I can't imagine like 1121 01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:43,880 what how would that? But it would be like a practice threesome, practice 1122 01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:46,439 the King Club. Because that's too much for me, that's too much for 1123 01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:49,279 you. We did get more of your kink, though, the least. 1124 01:13:49,319 --> 01:13:58,199 Would you watch a girl with a sex doll? No? No, okay, 1125 01:13:58,840 --> 01:14:01,560 he's not a disappointment. He's not He's not a disappointment to his family. 1126 01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:05,359 That's what we learned last week. People were because I I, how 1127 01:14:05,399 --> 01:14:10,039 would you respond if if some if all of a sudden, let's say, 1128 01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:14,920 somebody sleeps with like a sex style or a pillow that has a face on 1129 01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:17,359 it. I told you about the sheep? What we had a badge to 1130 01:14:17,479 --> 01:14:20,920 party. Yeah, and and we had a blown up sheeting in my living 1131 01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:25,520 in my living room and we were all gone and one of one of the 1132 01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:30,000 well my buddy's brothers was there and we walked in. He was fucking the 1133 01:14:30,039 --> 01:14:33,640 sheep for real. Yeah. I was never I mean I was never more 1134 01:14:33,680 --> 01:14:38,760 devastated in my whole entire life. That says a lot too. He's seen 1135 01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:43,920 a lot, He's done a lot. There had to be every time you 1136 01:14:43,960 --> 01:14:48,920 saw that guy after that, it had to be still still, It's just 1137 01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:54,640 like, what did he just keep going. You walked in, Hey, 1138 01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:59,960 fellas done here in a minute. He stopped and pretended he had he had 1139 01:15:00,079 --> 01:15:02,680 what? He took his hands off of the ship, still moving around. 1140 01:15:05,880 --> 01:15:10,880 That's like, wow, that would be weird. Have you ever walked in 1141 01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:14,399 on anyone? I know you've been walked in on. Well, you talked 1142 01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:17,000 about people coming home and the big girl that broke the chair and things like 1143 01:15:17,039 --> 01:15:20,880 that. But have you ever walked in on somebody pleasuring themselves at all? 1144 01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:25,000 And they have to try to fake it? I mean, can you I 1145 01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:29,720 think you can you tap anything from a freaking sheep out? No? I 1146 01:15:29,720 --> 01:15:32,319 cannot. No matter what I walk into now won't even seem bad. No, 1147 01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:36,840 that is true. Man. Did you see see this person today? 1148 01:15:38,880 --> 01:15:42,439 Is there a chance that you would see him? You turn a nile? 1149 01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:45,880 I I said no, No, I saw him last summer at a party. 1150 01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:49,520 Okay, did he say anything? Well, I'm good friends with his 1151 01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:56,920 brother. What did you say, Matt, I'm good friends with his brother 1152 01:15:57,000 --> 01:16:01,399 and sister. So okay, all right, I guess that would be That's 1153 01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:04,239 a weird one. Bro. He's not embarrassed by it either. I don't 1154 01:16:04,279 --> 01:16:06,760 even think he gives a ship. No, I think at some point you 1155 01:16:06,880 --> 01:16:10,359 just kind of go, well, it was a bad moment. Chalk it 1156 01:16:10,399 --> 01:16:13,199 up to that move on. We've all had bad moments. I'm sure he's 1157 01:16:13,239 --> 01:16:16,720 done it again. I don't understand the whole doll thing. It's a whole 1158 01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:21,119 big business. Now we don't get a big business and their lifelike and they 1159 01:16:21,159 --> 01:16:25,840 talk no, no, Well I think now they're starting to be how was 1160 01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:29,359 that show on HBO? Build them for like ten thousand dollars? How the 1161 01:16:29,439 --> 01:16:30,600 fuck do you clean it out? Yes? And then you gotta go, 1162 01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:38,119 you gotta clean it out. I don't talk. Yeah, I'll pay extra 1163 01:16:38,119 --> 01:16:42,640 fight out to talk hardast say what I wanted to say exactly. Yeah, 1164 01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:45,319 but then you gotta clean this thing, don't you. I would think, 1165 01:16:45,399 --> 01:16:50,039 oh, just wash her safe, and then they say it was, oh, 1166 01:16:50,079 --> 01:16:55,119 by the way, forgot. We got a party coming up. We're 1167 01:16:55,119 --> 01:17:02,079 having a pure romance party. Pure romance is a like I guess. Yeah. 1168 01:17:02,119 --> 01:17:05,000 It used to be the old tupper party your mom would go to years 1169 01:17:05,039 --> 01:17:10,239 ago. Now it's a sexpo where I don't know what it was mom. 1170 01:17:10,239 --> 01:17:14,159 Why can't I go to the tumperware party? But now they have a sex 1171 01:17:14,239 --> 01:17:16,439 toy party. So we I don't know how it came up. Laura was 1172 01:17:16,479 --> 01:17:20,640 in here, that's why I came up and she and we started talking about 1173 01:17:20,640 --> 01:17:26,560 this and oh, it probably was, and we called this woman. She's 1174 01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:30,039 agreed to do a party. We're going to do the podcast from Laura's house 1175 01:17:30,359 --> 01:17:32,199 at the end of June. You guys should come. This is fantastic. 1176 01:17:33,159 --> 01:17:38,279 It's a buildou party. Were awesome, so you can come and buy stuff 1177 01:17:38,319 --> 01:17:41,840 from Pure Romance and we'll do the podcast there as well. I want to 1178 01:17:42,039 --> 01:17:46,079 hopefully get this woman on beforehand to let her do her pitch and stuff, 1179 01:17:46,079 --> 01:17:48,920 because I think she's going to do the party and we'll do the podcast while 1180 01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:56,640 the party is going on sort of. But they also they also sell like 1181 01:17:56,840 --> 01:17:59,840 shaving cream, and it's mostly into a bunch of stuff. Now it used 1182 01:17:59,880 --> 01:18:03,039 to be only products too. Yeah they do now, but they used to 1183 01:18:03,079 --> 01:18:06,359 only be women. They wouldn't allow guys at these parties, and I think 1184 01:18:06,399 --> 01:18:09,319 a lot of times and she brought up a good point, like, you 1185 01:18:09,319 --> 01:18:13,479 know, it could be you can get some creepy yeah, you get some 1186 01:18:13,520 --> 01:18:15,279 creepers stuff. But so then they started couples and stuff, so she I 1187 01:18:15,279 --> 01:18:18,439 think she was cool with us as far as I know. Said. One 1188 01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:23,199 of their new big things is the sleeve mark that fits over your penis, 1189 01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:25,800 so it makes it a little longer and a little wider. I should have 1190 01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:30,039 taken that job and free. I should have taken that job. It's just 1191 01:18:30,079 --> 01:18:32,239 thinking the same thing. I should show World, show World. Yeah, 1192 01:18:32,239 --> 01:18:34,359 you know what, I have a lot of time. No, don't, 1193 01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:38,399 don't be great working in show World now in a job that I have. 1194 01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:41,560 Now, No, you couldn't. You couldn't do both. But because they 1195 01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:43,840 would get upset if they found out. Oh yeah, they don't want to 1196 01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:45,359 do that. But that would have been interesting. You would have been some 1197 01:18:45,720 --> 01:18:49,119 very interesting. You'd be back on working in places like we're at the liquor 1198 01:18:49,159 --> 01:18:51,600 store. You don't deal with that one percent. I don't want to. 1199 01:18:51,920 --> 01:18:56,439 That area has gone one hundred percent. But June twenty seventh, are we 1200 01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:59,720 locked in on that date? I believe that is the date. Yeah, 1201 01:19:00,079 --> 01:19:04,000 Thursday and uh schools my first day of vacation of two week vacation. Is 1202 01:19:04,039 --> 01:19:08,439 it really okay? Well, then then we have to kick it off the 1203 01:19:08,479 --> 01:19:11,680 right way and maybe you get a gift for the loved one in your life. 1204 01:19:11,680 --> 01:19:14,399 Maybe I will you can bring her. Yeah, you can. If 1205 01:19:14,520 --> 01:19:18,720 if she's comfortable, she might be more comfortable than Mark. Something got very 1206 01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:21,720 quiet over there, suddenly got very quiet. I don't want to, so 1207 01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:27,239 I keep pushed. I feel a hot button. Okay, alright, well 1208 01:19:27,239 --> 01:19:29,439 maybe she will more than once if you get the right toy. I have 1209 01:19:30,520 --> 01:19:33,680 always possible. Maybe it's always possible. All right, we'll take a moment. 1210 01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:38,199 Mark. Since last week we played name that tune, name that TV 1211 01:19:38,279 --> 01:19:41,640 theme song, and you kick my ass, We're gonna try again. Your 1212 01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:44,680 name is your buzzer, so you just say your name once you think you 1213 01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:48,079 recognize the movie theme. Okay, more song from a movie or song from 1214 01:19:48,079 --> 01:19:51,960 a movie or song from the movie. Yeah, okay, all right. 1215 01:19:53,039 --> 01:20:05,680 We will get to all that next. But first, Leo's has your sweet 1216 01:20:05,680 --> 01:20:12,159 tooth covered. You gotta try Leo's own polish crumb loaf. It's a buttery 1217 01:20:12,279 --> 01:20:17,000 sweet bread with golden raisins and a strusal topping, perfect for breakfast, as 1218 01:20:17,039 --> 01:20:21,479 a snack or a dessert. Plus, remember, Leo's has everything for takeout, 1219 01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:25,960 dinner, or lunch every day. Stop heating up the kitchen and cooking, 1220 01:20:26,199 --> 01:20:29,920 Just head to Leo's for takeout instead. What's the best thing about Leo's 1221 01:20:30,039 --> 01:20:34,359 say it with me? Everything on deskbats Drive in East Rochester open every day, 1222 01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:58,560 please soap been the doll? Nothing is dear friend. We've been here 1223 01:20:58,680 --> 01:21:05,680 before, pacing these halls, trying to talk over the side. How the 1224 01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:10,880 hell do they get ai and like put a young Billy Joel in the video? 1225 01:21:11,359 --> 01:21:14,039 Isn't that a cool video? It's a great video. It's a great 1226 01:21:14,079 --> 01:21:16,079 video. I mean, he has really a song in thirty years and even 1227 01:21:16,359 --> 01:21:18,720 this is a fantastic song. I think it's a great Well, it's such 1228 01:21:18,720 --> 01:21:21,760 a relatable song for so many people. You know, this is that was 1229 01:21:21,760 --> 01:21:26,520 always his music though his music was always relatable. Yeah, here's another one. 1230 01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:29,560 He was he was he almost committed, He committed to tried to commit 1231 01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:32,760 suicide. Really yeah, I knew he was drinking a lot. I mean 1232 01:21:32,800 --> 01:21:35,119 when he was a kid. Oh, I didn't know that he had a 1233 01:21:35,199 --> 01:21:40,319 really you know, he had a hard time. Really Yeah, where did 1234 01:21:40,359 --> 01:21:43,960 you? I I don't know why I didn't. You're only human is about 1235 01:21:44,000 --> 01:21:47,520 that? Yeah? And you're yeah, yeah that's kind of about Oh I 1236 01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:53,119 gotta go back and listen to that. Yeah. Wow, Yeah, geez, 1237 01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:56,359 I didn't know, there's so much death. I didn't realize all the 1238 01:21:56,399 --> 01:22:00,680 ship you had lived through. Oh you know something, right, it's something 1239 01:22:00,720 --> 01:22:04,520 to talk about. Well, I mean it's very uplifting. Yeah. What 1240 01:22:04,560 --> 01:22:08,119 I'm saying is like I really didn't I didn't know that all this stuff that 1241 01:22:08,199 --> 01:22:11,880 you you lived through, it was this all. I mean, this is 1242 01:22:12,279 --> 01:22:15,159 years. Yeah, but it had to be after I knew you from Yeah 1243 01:22:15,199 --> 01:22:18,000 it was yeah, yeah, it was at the radio. Yeah. Yeah, 1244 01:22:17,840 --> 01:22:23,119 yeah, a really tough time. I had a tough time in for 1245 01:22:23,159 --> 01:22:26,640 a while. But yeah, the rooms are really nice. They're really are 1246 01:22:26,720 --> 01:22:30,760 accommodating when they put you actually in the place. In the place. Yeah 1247 01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:33,119 it's an empty room with a bed with with nothing on it. Oh that's 1248 01:22:33,199 --> 01:22:36,640 nice because you can't you know, yeah, because everything that everything could be. 1249 01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:42,399 Yeah, yeah I heard that there was I've even heard of people who 1250 01:22:43,800 --> 01:22:48,640 were learning about how they could shove a spoon up their nose and break a 1251 01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:53,640 the sinus cavity. Man. Right, So there's all kinds. I mean, 1252 01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:56,439 if you really wanted to do something, it sounds awful and painful. 1253 01:22:56,560 --> 01:23:00,279 There's nothing you can do there, there's nothing to do. No, so 1254 01:23:00,319 --> 01:23:02,079 they try to strip everything away, right, to try to make you appreciate 1255 01:23:02,159 --> 01:23:05,880 everything in life, not even take a walk, not necessarily the one everything 1256 01:23:06,359 --> 01:23:10,760 there could kill you. You used to do something to yourself. Do you 1257 01:23:10,800 --> 01:23:15,199 slowly get privileges back? You don't? Please? Sucked? I had to 1258 01:23:15,239 --> 01:23:19,039 freaking talk my way out to get the hell out of there. So was 1259 01:23:19,079 --> 01:23:24,359 there any afterwards, any therapist that helped you at all? Yeah, in 1260 01:23:24,399 --> 01:23:30,720 a good way. I had an uh you know, I had a shrink 1261 01:23:30,880 --> 01:23:34,199 and then a counselor, And like I said, the shrink always he's the 1262 01:23:34,199 --> 01:23:39,159 one that gives the money. He's the one. Yeah, it does all 1263 01:23:39,199 --> 01:23:43,119 the mess, and the counselor is the one that actually talks to Is there 1264 01:23:43,119 --> 01:23:45,840 a social worker? No? No, okay, that's a day. You 1265 01:23:45,880 --> 01:23:50,039 should be one of those. He should be. Seriously, you're doing more 1266 01:23:50,159 --> 01:23:55,079 work than probably most of them, right, I go to him, but 1267 01:23:55,600 --> 01:24:00,039 probably that's all he's got long days. Now, you want quadruple is work? 1268 01:24:00,159 --> 01:24:04,560 No, I'm just saying, like that way you could probably get something. 1269 01:24:04,840 --> 01:24:09,479 I don't know. I just feel like you would get more. I 1270 01:24:09,520 --> 01:24:11,880 would be totally on board. Yeah, I mean I really would. I 1271 01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:15,000 mean I think you like helping people. I love it. I really do. 1272 01:24:15,039 --> 01:24:16,880 I hate seeing people struggle struggle, right, but if I can do 1273 01:24:16,920 --> 01:24:21,640 something to help. I mean, Marcus had some bad times. He hasn't 1274 01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:25,920 come to me, but I've reached out to him, and Dave reached out 1275 01:24:25,960 --> 01:24:28,560 to me that. Well, I'll be honest, I just started going to 1276 01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:32,000 see somebody today. Yeah, first time in a long time. Its just 1277 01:24:32,039 --> 01:24:34,920 some ship that was going on, and like, I gotta I gotta figure 1278 01:24:34,920 --> 01:24:39,880 this out. Is it a shrink or is it a counselor? Uh uh 1279 01:24:40,039 --> 01:24:43,479 no, probably shrink. It's somebody problem. The problem I don't link with 1280 01:24:43,560 --> 01:24:46,560 shrinks is they don't give a ship. Yeah, oh no, this isn't 1281 01:24:46,560 --> 01:24:49,920 that. Then this would be more of a counselor like yeah, yeah, 1282 01:24:50,000 --> 01:24:54,720 because I I talked about just a bunch of things that, yeah, some 1283 01:24:54,800 --> 01:24:57,039 stuff that I need to I need to get to the root of it. 1284 01:24:57,960 --> 01:25:01,439 Like I'm I'm I'm seeing patterns in my life, repeating something that happened, 1285 01:25:01,439 --> 01:25:04,279 and I go, I did the same thing, different you know, same 1286 01:25:04,319 --> 01:25:08,520 story, different players. I mean, how do I prevent that from happening? 1287 01:25:08,600 --> 01:25:11,720 And now everything is now, you know, things are fixed and stuff. 1288 01:25:11,760 --> 01:25:14,279 Now I have new things coming up. Yeah, I have so you 1289 01:25:14,319 --> 01:25:17,479 know social anxiety. I don't like to go places anymore. Really, I 1290 01:25:17,520 --> 01:25:21,079 don't know. I don't I go out during mister social who was standing out 1291 01:25:21,079 --> 01:25:27,000 there with soldier sweatshirts white and Howard Stern listeners. Years ago going out Saturday 1292 01:25:27,119 --> 01:25:29,920 night was like it was like a huge deal. I don't really out to 1293 01:25:30,039 --> 01:25:31,840 night anymore. I don't do any of that stuff anymore. And you know, 1294 01:25:31,960 --> 01:25:35,399 my paranoia about you know, the job and stuff like that, stuff 1295 01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:39,560 that I put in my head that probably isn't even there. I think. 1296 01:25:39,800 --> 01:25:43,199 I think you're right. So now I have new things. You know. 1297 01:25:43,399 --> 01:25:47,119 Yeah, you don't talk to anybody. I heard Dave has a few minutes 1298 01:25:48,880 --> 01:25:56,119 because Tuesdays in the morning because it isn't a bad probably because it isn't a 1299 01:25:56,159 --> 01:26:00,000 bad thing. No, it's not a bad thing because little things that all 1300 01:26:00,119 --> 01:26:02,000 does is accumulate. You should know. But talk to somebody to just work 1301 01:26:02,000 --> 01:26:04,479 it out. Because yeah, here's why I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna 1302 01:26:04,479 --> 01:26:08,880 tell you what I saw. You said to me that you thought people were 1303 01:26:09,239 --> 01:26:12,760 at the job weren't so keen on your putting it mild, but yes, 1304 01:26:12,840 --> 01:26:15,920 And I said, I think that's in your head, that's what everybody says. 1305 01:26:15,960 --> 01:26:16,640 Yes, I think that's in your head. I think you're wrong. 1306 01:26:16,800 --> 01:26:20,279 They love you. And no, here's here's the thing we have to learn. 1307 01:26:20,960 --> 01:26:25,600 I've to learn this is that any job I've ever had or I ever 1308 01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:30,000 gone to, it always turned into drama because then you start hanging with people, 1309 01:26:30,119 --> 01:26:32,800 you start doing something that's not gonna happen here. Man, that's true. 1310 01:26:33,239 --> 01:26:38,319 That will never happen here. No, I won't. That won't happen 1311 01:26:38,880 --> 01:26:42,199 because I actually have control of that. Yeah. But instead I'm going I'm 1312 01:26:42,239 --> 01:26:44,359 going, oh my god, God, I wanted to you know, I 1313 01:26:44,399 --> 01:26:45,640 want to be social. I want to be you know, stuff like that. 1314 01:26:46,039 --> 01:26:49,239 But at the same time, this is a good thing. Just like 1315 01:26:49,239 --> 01:26:51,680 my roommates. I have two roommates. I don't even know the guys. 1316 01:26:51,760 --> 01:26:55,760 We've lived together for four years. Don't hang out with them, don't know. 1317 01:26:55,920 --> 01:26:59,760 I don't even know their last names. There's no drama at the house. 1318 01:26:59,800 --> 01:27:02,600 But we're all buddies. Then that's where ship starts going down and stuff 1319 01:27:02,640 --> 01:27:08,359 like that. You get mixed right up in it exactly, and it does 1320 01:27:08,560 --> 01:27:11,039 not. I don't mean that the bad. No, it doesn't happen anymore. 1321 01:27:11,079 --> 01:27:14,760 No, that's why you're very boring. I'm very boring. I'm very 1322 01:27:14,760 --> 01:27:16,439 boring. I'm gonna lose my mondays. No, you're not. He doesn't 1323 01:27:16,479 --> 01:27:19,039 do anything. You're not. That's not gonna happen, not at all. 1324 01:27:19,359 --> 01:27:24,119 All right, Kevin's got songs? Is it working? That just makes sure? 1325 01:27:25,239 --> 01:27:28,840 Okay, Kevin has songs from movies. Your name is your buzzer. 1326 01:27:29,039 --> 01:27:30,600 Just shout out your name and then what you think. Right? We did 1327 01:27:30,600 --> 01:27:33,880 this right last week? Right? Okay, you ready? Yes? All 1328 01:27:33,960 --> 01:27:39,800 right, here we go. Here's the first one with Kevin. It happened 1329 01:27:39,800 --> 01:27:44,960 on one of them. Zip. Now that's to come on the date bill. 1330 01:27:45,600 --> 01:27:56,199 Song of the South Mouth. Yeah, I saw the movie like fifty 1331 01:27:56,319 --> 01:28:00,840 years ago. Okay, give me an excuse because you're not happy that you 1332 01:28:00,960 --> 01:28:03,079 loved You're down one. Yeah, here we go. Anybody can yell in, 1333 01:28:03,239 --> 01:28:13,079 anybody, Dave, Mike Matt, Here we go. Oh, oh, 1334 01:28:13,119 --> 01:28:16,680 Titanic, Mark Titanic to do? I hate this fucking movie? Why 1335 01:28:17,640 --> 01:28:20,319 I hate Why? Why do you hate it? Fucking what a whrror? 1336 01:28:20,680 --> 01:28:25,600 She let him die because she wouldn't move over on the doors. All these 1337 01:28:25,640 --> 01:28:29,960 girls like this movie. The girl is a fucking horror. I love this 1338 01:28:30,199 --> 01:28:36,079 rock. I love this. I love this. Yeah. I was never 1339 01:28:36,119 --> 01:28:41,479 a big I never thought it was a great movie. Movie sucked. Yeah, 1340 01:28:41,520 --> 01:28:45,279 I mean I thought it was an interesting historical perspective, like you'd always 1341 01:28:45,279 --> 01:28:48,119 heard that the band went down with the ship. They played right as they 1342 01:28:48,239 --> 01:28:51,000 you know, right, And then we were all of that age at that 1343 01:28:51,039 --> 01:28:54,600 time where we had to spend the three hours to try to get laid to 1344 01:28:54,640 --> 01:28:58,439 get through the movie. He's right. That's how I think. I saw 1345 01:28:58,479 --> 01:29:00,039 this movie two or three times in a week. And I will admit that, 1346 01:29:00,239 --> 01:29:04,760 really, I will admit I love seeing people try to reenact the spit 1347 01:29:04,840 --> 01:29:08,960 scene on the front of a boat once in a while when they're drunk and 1348 01:29:09,479 --> 01:29:15,560 people it's always a fat ship. Yeah, it's gonna fall off. You 1349 01:29:15,640 --> 01:29:17,600 really hated this movie. Oh, I hate this movie. It's on all 1350 01:29:17,640 --> 01:29:19,680 the time. I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you it's funny. 1351 01:29:19,680 --> 01:29:24,279 When we drove to Nashville last time for the Bills game, I drove around 1352 01:29:24,319 --> 01:29:28,359 to my friends and their girls, and they love the movie. Of course 1353 01:29:28,399 --> 01:29:34,920 they're thirty eight, thirty nine years old. So we argue from for three 1354 01:29:35,039 --> 01:29:40,319 hours. We argued from Cleveland to Louisville, if I remember correctly, And 1355 01:29:40,359 --> 01:29:42,800 they almost kicked it out, but they were gonna leave me at the gas 1356 01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:46,760 station because we thought about those because they totally they saw it totally different than 1357 01:29:46,760 --> 01:29:49,920 that. How they see it a love story, a love story. But 1358 01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:55,279 what so your biggest thing is at the end when no, I mean, 1359 01:29:55,319 --> 01:29:59,279 come on, I mean, let's be honest, all right. Her fiance 1360 01:29:59,520 --> 01:30:00,760 was a jack, so I do we know that? Yes, But all 1361 01:30:00,800 --> 01:30:04,560 of a sudden, she freaking starts banging some guy that she's known for three 1362 01:30:04,600 --> 01:30:10,720 hours. Okay, yeah, Then what pisses me off is she shows up 1363 01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:14,640 when she's ninety years old, happening right now, and what and all of 1364 01:30:14,680 --> 01:30:17,119 a sudden, only think she cares more about this fucking guy she knew for 1365 01:30:17,159 --> 01:30:25,119 a day than her husband she was with for fifty sixty years, grandkids, 1366 01:30:25,199 --> 01:30:29,680 great grandkids, and all she cared about was this fucking louser. She loved 1367 01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:32,279 them. That was the love of her life. She let go one day. 1368 01:30:32,439 --> 01:30:36,920 Rethink the advertising. Next year, we're gonna lose a lot of listeners. 1369 01:30:39,960 --> 01:30:43,520 All right, he's right though, here's the next one. There we 1370 01:30:43,600 --> 01:30:58,800 go, next next movie, you yelled out, Oh, she's like a 1371 01:30:58,880 --> 01:31:06,760 family know what's on? Does come on? Mark? You disappointedly? I 1372 01:31:06,800 --> 01:31:12,000 don't twenty minute diet Tribe on Titanic and you can't car was just built? 1373 01:31:12,399 --> 01:31:15,279 Uh, Bill and Ted's excellent adventure. No. Oh, this is a 1374 01:31:15,359 --> 01:31:20,119 van Halen song for sure, I don't even know. Definitely fifty fifty one, 1375 01:31:20,199 --> 01:31:24,159 Yeah, this is a van is a van Halen song? Yeah, 1376 01:31:24,439 --> 01:31:27,840 it's definitely van Halen. He's that you can tell anything van Halen song. 1377 01:31:27,880 --> 01:31:30,680 It's the last van Helen single, the head of the samy Hagar. Yeah, 1378 01:31:31,560 --> 01:31:34,000 and that wasn't a movie. Anybody in a movie. You can say 1379 01:31:34,039 --> 01:31:39,199 a song name right, renate, renate, remaking the movie. The summer 1380 01:31:39,279 --> 01:31:45,079 is coming out the fall guy. Yeah, let's just just say that too. 1381 01:31:45,079 --> 01:31:49,760 But not Twister. Oh yes, oh and never I would have nevergotten 1382 01:31:49,800 --> 01:31:54,279 that either. That's a good one. That all right. Yeah, they 1383 01:31:54,279 --> 01:31:58,239 are doing a version of They're not called a twister Twisters, Yeah, but 1384 01:31:58,479 --> 01:32:01,479 it's the same. Yeah, because I remember when that came out. I 1385 01:32:01,520 --> 01:32:05,119 was on the radio and I did a bit called titty Twisters, and I 1386 01:32:05,239 --> 01:32:08,560 was like, you always hated the person that came by and gave you titty 1387 01:32:08,600 --> 01:32:11,039 twisters? Oh fuck? Yeah, I hate them too. I hate them, 1388 01:32:11,199 --> 01:32:15,640 put them, put them, do that anymore? You can't do those 1389 01:32:15,720 --> 01:32:19,079 anymore? In school, I would assume no, No, I swear to 1390 01:32:19,079 --> 01:32:23,039 God, you get expelled right for putting your hands on somebody. I would 1391 01:32:23,039 --> 01:32:25,640 think so, it'd be bullying, it'd be all that stuff. All right, 1392 01:32:25,640 --> 01:32:28,319 What do we got? Get another one? I do? Here we 1393 01:32:28,359 --> 01:32:51,680 go, no idea, Robin hood, men and tights, No guys are 1394 01:32:51,680 --> 01:32:58,319 disappointment. Yeah, police academy. Oh fuck, I love those movies. 1395 01:32:58,520 --> 01:33:00,159 Yea. No one paid attention to the back around music, No they didn't. 1396 01:33:00,199 --> 01:33:03,720 We always put Yeah, we were into the the comedy that it was. 1397 01:33:04,840 --> 01:33:14,159 Here we go, one more, Here we go, Mark, it's 1398 01:33:14,159 --> 01:33:17,720 gotta be Star Wars. Right, it's not Star Wars. Well, something 1399 01:33:17,720 --> 01:33:25,119 from that franchise. No, oh, men in black Bill, Yeah that's 1400 01:33:25,199 --> 01:33:29,720 the one. See me, bro, I did not know that song start 1401 01:33:29,760 --> 01:33:31,640 off like that. I didn't either. I totally forgot all the years I 1402 01:33:31,720 --> 01:33:36,039 used to DJ, though. I just have the Oh, I did not 1403 01:33:36,159 --> 01:33:40,279 know that the song started like that. I don't have the ability on Amazon 1404 01:33:40,399 --> 01:33:45,560 Music to cut the bullshit out. Oh you got a one? I got 1405 01:33:45,600 --> 01:33:48,439 more? All right? Give me one more? Anybody gonna go see Bad 1406 01:33:48,479 --> 01:33:56,159 Boys too. I four? Is it four? It only four? It 1407 01:33:56,239 --> 01:33:59,640 is four? I think it is four, and it's out on Uh, 1408 01:33:59,760 --> 01:34:02,079 it's in movie theaters, drive in. I know Road City has it. 1409 01:34:02,159 --> 01:34:04,680 Can you stream it yet? I don't know? Usually they do, but 1410 01:34:04,720 --> 01:34:11,039 they're Yeah. I just saw a trailer for The Joker too, Yeah, 1411 01:34:11,279 --> 01:34:15,560 with you know, with with the Phoenix. Yeah, Joaquin Phoenix and Lady 1412 01:34:15,640 --> 01:34:21,760 Gaga plays Harley Quinn. Really yeah, looks freaking amazing. Okay, I 1413 01:34:21,840 --> 01:34:25,319 like the I like the other one. Yeah, I didn't see it. 1414 01:34:25,319 --> 01:34:30,399 Well. Actually, the premise of that movie is is they took the Joker 1415 01:34:30,880 --> 01:34:33,960 in a different way. Basically, he was mentally ill and he was lost 1416 01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:38,560 in the system. So that's how they That's how it was, that precripretation 1417 01:34:38,640 --> 01:34:43,279 of the Joker. So that's what's gonna happen. If you don't get watch 1418 01:34:43,319 --> 01:34:54,680 Out, I can hang out with Alright. Here we go, Oh that 1419 01:34:54,720 --> 01:34:58,199 thing, the thing you do? My favorite movie of all time? Really, 1420 01:34:58,920 --> 01:35:02,039 that really great more, great fucking movie. Great movie. It's it's 1421 01:35:02,039 --> 01:35:05,520 in. It's in at least my top ten. Yeah, it's probably my 1422 01:35:05,560 --> 01:35:09,920 favorite. I will watch it anytime it's time. Yeah, Tom Hanks, 1423 01:35:10,079 --> 01:35:14,159 Tom Hanks, the band falling apart right, Yeah, yeah, soon to 1424 01:35:14,239 --> 01:35:16,720 Live Tyler and that. Yeah, yeah, Tyler's in the Yeah, so 1425 01:35:16,760 --> 01:35:21,520 it is. Who is his his girlfriend? In the beginning, it was 1426 01:35:23,000 --> 01:35:26,640 Charlie. Charlie's throwing up, Oh I love her. Oh she's so forgot, 1427 01:35:26,800 --> 01:35:29,239 I think she is. She would let Jack, she would have put 1428 01:35:29,319 --> 01:35:32,680 Jack on on on the door door. Yeah, alright, one more, 1429 01:35:33,760 --> 01:35:38,079 here we go, let's see what we got. Well, Mark, so 1430 01:35:38,159 --> 01:35:45,720 fast my hand. Don't people understand my intentions? Dave Dave, Yes, 1431 01:35:45,840 --> 01:35:51,520 weird sun. Look at that. Wow, I didn't even know I was 1432 01:35:51,560 --> 01:35:55,600 not coming up with that at all. It's a great movie. That was 1433 01:35:55,640 --> 01:35:58,560 a great movie. Hard than TV, it is harder. Yeah, on 1434 01:35:58,760 --> 01:36:01,880 go boy. You were DJ Dave? Well, you had your own club, 1435 01:36:02,000 --> 01:36:06,960 right, But did you DJ as well? DJ's weddings and nightclubs? 1436 01:36:08,319 --> 01:36:16,600 Ours he's a tougher Dougie Fresh. Wait, but you DJ'd as well? 1437 01:36:16,800 --> 01:36:23,560 Yeah? But you were centers, you were like everywhere diamonds. Yeah, 1438 01:36:23,560 --> 01:36:26,399 at the same time we were, and we never knew him. You were 1439 01:36:26,439 --> 01:36:29,079 over on the dance side. Yep, yeah, okay, all right, 1440 01:36:29,319 --> 01:36:31,920 what was your DJ name? Big Doug DJ Big dog. Yeah, okay, 1441 01:36:32,680 --> 01:36:35,399 look at that. Where else did you work? You name it? 1442 01:36:35,439 --> 01:36:40,319 Man, you had to have a nightclub. I worked all the nightclubs and 1443 01:36:41,159 --> 01:36:44,720 so much was crazy. Yeah, and I gotta think this is when I 1444 01:36:44,720 --> 01:36:48,119 worked at Tiki Bobs because that got through my divorce where I was getting soaked 1445 01:36:48,520 --> 01:36:53,560 in child sport. But we built that night up from having like fifty sixty 1446 01:36:53,600 --> 01:36:58,359 people to fifteen. Where was Cheeky Bob's the old centers, Oh yeah, 1447 01:36:58,479 --> 01:37:01,079 we built it up over fifteen hundred people on Friday and Saturday night, back 1448 01:37:01,079 --> 01:37:05,479 to back nights. Never heard of packed it. Yeah. They paid well 1449 01:37:05,720 --> 01:37:09,880 and you must have, man, you must have been like a celebrity. 1450 01:37:09,960 --> 01:37:14,920 Yeah. Those are good years. Yeah, I'm sure they were better now 1451 01:37:15,920 --> 01:37:19,640 the radio, Yeah exactly. Well, you know, you know what it 1452 01:37:19,720 --> 01:37:24,159 was. It was when you would do a gig and you got paid cash. 1453 01:37:24,279 --> 01:37:28,000 I got in just as that was happening. I know somebody who was 1454 01:37:28,039 --> 01:37:30,880 going through a divorce and moving out of their house and opened up a shoe 1455 01:37:30,920 --> 01:37:33,960 box that they forgot about and there was ten grand in there because they just 1456 01:37:34,079 --> 01:37:39,239 threw cash in there all the time. Yeah. Uh that's the way it 1457 01:37:39,319 --> 01:37:43,399 was. Wow, man, I forget so you were Heaven, which was 1458 01:37:43,880 --> 01:37:46,000 way back. Yeah, but that was a big seventeen eighteen when I started 1459 01:37:46,000 --> 01:37:49,680 there. I started there as a barback. Really yeah. And then you 1460 01:37:49,800 --> 01:37:54,760 DJed. So how old were you when you were DJing? I started DJing 1461 01:37:54,760 --> 01:37:57,439 when I was eighteen. You were djaying at eighteen, so I was in 1462 01:37:57,520 --> 01:38:01,319 security. I had twenty one year old bras. No I got married. 1463 01:38:01,880 --> 01:38:04,800 Oh then at eighteen. He didn't get married at eighteen, did he? 1464 01:38:04,960 --> 01:38:09,680 No? No? But I'm just thinking, wow, man, what a 1465 01:38:09,880 --> 01:38:15,840 run on a run as good as your run? Better, I would think, 1466 01:38:15,840 --> 01:38:19,439 I think better. Probably not. I didn't have that. I kept 1467 01:38:19,439 --> 01:38:26,520 my stuff pretty pretty low. Yeah, what do you mean? Yeah, 1468 01:38:26,880 --> 01:38:31,960 the woman I kept I kept it. Yes, I'm I kept it quiet. 1469 01:38:32,359 --> 01:38:36,560 I had Tom, but I was usually with somebody. Yeah, it's 1470 01:38:36,560 --> 01:38:40,920 to the others you don't know about. Yeah, that's all all right, 1471 01:38:43,520 --> 01:38:45,960 Dave. How do people get a hold of you? Just through Facebook? 1472 01:38:45,000 --> 01:38:48,479 Again? Right? You can reach me on Facebook and then you just send 1473 01:38:48,520 --> 01:38:53,359 me an instant message. I asked people not to just send me a friend 1474 01:38:53,359 --> 01:38:57,439 request, send me an instant message first passenger, because half the time I 1475 01:38:57,560 --> 01:39:00,600 get a lot of bots. So I just deleted the lead, but look 1476 01:39:00,640 --> 01:39:03,359 me up on Facebook, Dave Loon David. Yeah, and if you know 1477 01:39:03,439 --> 01:39:08,600 somebody who needs help and you know that, maybe you can even talk to 1478 01:39:08,640 --> 01:39:11,439 someone on how to talk to somebody exactly. Yeah, you know, I'll 1479 01:39:11,439 --> 01:39:15,800 give them my own professional opinion. Yeah, I'll always tell people go see 1480 01:39:15,800 --> 01:39:18,239 your PCP, your primary doctor. Yeah, you know, they're the professionals. 1481 01:39:18,359 --> 01:39:25,199 Or if you're in an emergency crisis, nine eight eight, which is 1482 01:39:25,239 --> 01:39:29,760 the national suicide hotline you just pushed not I didn't even know that that was 1483 01:39:29,800 --> 01:39:33,960 that way now and almost is it? Really? Never heard of that. 1484 01:39:34,039 --> 01:39:36,600 I didn't know that at all, say almost two years, two years, 1485 01:39:36,800 --> 01:39:42,479 just nine eight eight. Yeah, that's amazing. Yeah, that's fucking it 1486 01:39:42,520 --> 01:39:45,720 came out. I didn't know that. You think they would do more advertising 1487 01:39:45,760 --> 01:39:47,840 for that. Yeah, I'm the only one doing it. Yeah, I've 1488 01:39:47,920 --> 01:39:50,880 never never heard of that. I don't I've never heard of it. Yeah, 1489 01:39:51,000 --> 01:39:57,319 they My my opinion on that is the eight hundred number. I'm not 1490 01:39:57,359 --> 01:40:01,399 struggling. I couldn't tell you it's one eight hundred something talk. Yeah, 1491 01:40:01,880 --> 01:40:04,960 who's gonna remember that, especially if you're in a crisis. I do remember 1492 01:40:05,079 --> 01:40:09,319 nine eight eight, you can remember, Yeah, that's it. Wow, 1493 01:40:10,000 --> 01:40:13,920 I'm glad to hear they do that and and go out to bTB get the 1494 01:40:13,920 --> 01:40:18,920 glass fifteen dollars and it all helps what Dave's doing. It helps I donate 1495 01:40:19,000 --> 01:40:24,479 money to different charities. Yeah, you know, I help veterans that are 1496 01:40:24,520 --> 01:40:29,960 looking for you know, holidays to provide for their families. I mean, 1497 01:40:30,600 --> 01:40:33,039 Matt Manton County do a lot of that on their own, you know where 1498 01:40:33,039 --> 01:40:35,680 they're actually helping a lot of people out that people don't know. But you 1499 01:40:35,800 --> 01:40:40,239 got really two really nice two guys sitting right here. They give a lot, 1500 01:40:40,319 --> 01:40:43,399 they really do you know they Yes, no, I know, you 1501 01:40:43,399 --> 01:40:45,880 know, I do know that with Matty medmous amount a lot. Yes, 1502 01:40:46,199 --> 01:40:51,439 always has yep and I and but even like if you are friends with Matt 1503 01:40:51,479 --> 01:40:57,439 on Facebook or you see him on social media, you wouldn't know all the 1504 01:40:57,439 --> 01:41:00,560 stuff he's doing. But if you read through the things like I saw that 1505 01:41:00,640 --> 01:41:04,239 posting me, I just think that helps more than you even even realize. 1506 01:41:04,439 --> 01:41:10,399 So I think that's great. Happy fiftieth, Welcome to the club. Thanks 1507 01:41:10,399 --> 01:41:14,479 for playing along with the game again. Mark and the Sheep story, I 1508 01:41:14,479 --> 01:41:17,920 appreciate what about the Titanic story on all the Titanic stories. Yes, you 1509 01:41:17,960 --> 01:41:20,159 know that was the one that just drove us right into the wall. It 1510 01:41:20,199 --> 01:41:28,319 was pretty good. We went could Kevin Williams a little bit more entertaining, 1511 01:41:29,760 --> 01:41:38,760 No, never need that brown for for the NFL hiring veterans. I wanted 1512 01:41:38,760 --> 01:41:44,439 to my young young guys as our refs make them coming out of the Army 1513 01:41:45,680 --> 01:41:49,600 models entree models, and that's I think they hit their own league for a 1514 01:41:49,640 --> 01:41:55,760 while. Kevin Muir, who's gonna be watching the Stanley Cup. I'm Bill 1515 01:41:55,800 --> 01:41:57,039 Moran. We'll see you tomorrow.