The next Stefan Good Day download with Doug and Jay Kirshner is made possible in
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keep it off. I'm Jay Kirshner. Doug is out right now, but
he will be back with us before we know it. But I am super
excited about our guest right now because this is one of my favorite human beings
on planet Earth. Mary o'mayley's soul Scout, mind mentor life changer. How
are you doing. I'm great this morning, tea. How are you?
I'm very well. I am so happy and excited to talk to you.
I find it such a shame that you only join us once a month.
We need to make this a little bit more of a regular basis. Well,
I'm willing to discuss that, willing to see about it. Well,
Mere, you have a lot of exciting things going on. We need to
start dissecting them one by one because that's a lot of information. It's a
lot of great information, and you can always go get more information on Mary
thesoulscout dot net. That's the soul scout dot net. Mary. One of
the things you're currently working on with your class is past life a past life
class, past life experience. It's called the Past Life Echo series. Let's
dive into that because that is really exciting. Yeah, the first class,
there'll be a series different ways of looking at regression, past life regression.
You know, it doesn't always go to the past like you can go sideways,
you can go present, parallel post like you know, out to the
end of your life or way after life. In this particular, this class
coming up, it will be following a person. So we all have those
people that we met and they were instantly our best friends or we were instantly
love or we were instantly at war, Like there's no feeling one way or
the other. Yes, extremely strong feeling, and it's kind of like where
did this come from? Where did I know you before? You know,
like a day shoo feeling exactly exactly, So you know, just kind of
followed down the energy of that person to the first time we knew them,
or to the most significant soul life experience together, you know, the one
that created this very strong bond. When it comes to like current family members
or current friends people in your life, is it typically all of those souls
have been together in past lives, or is it is there a possibility of
a new soul like my sister and I have been together, or is there
a possibly where people are go sibling and this is their first time being together.
Well, yeah, all of that is possible, although I have found
that it's not unusual for I guess soul groups to stay together, work together,
function together. So your sister in this life might have been your brother
in another life, or your dad, or your your cousin Johnny or you
know whatever. So, or you could have been soldiers together. Or I
did a regression on myself and a friend and we were soldiers together and we
always had this weird relationship and it turned out we had killed each other on
the battlefield. Oh so there was some like leftover animosity. Yeah, yeah,
exactly, So you know weird things like that. So, yeah,
it can be a new soul with you. It could be typically one that
you travel with. Now have you found with any of your clients where A
lot of times I'm a big person when it comes to therapy. I think
that therapy is amazing. Everybody should should take the time to do it for
mental health. But sometimes there's something going on in our life or there's some
way of like, why am I this way? What kind of past trauma
did I have? And it might not be a past trauma from the current
life, it's from a past trauma of a past life. Have you noticed
anything like that? Yeah? Yeah, and some very weird things. There's
a woman just had this. She was convinced her uncle had molested her under
hypnosis, under hypnotherapy he had but in a different lifetime. Wow. So
that that was probably the most extreme bizarre one that I've run into. But
I'm sorry, what was the question I got lost in that one? Oh?
Oh yeah, No, the of like sometimes the why are we the
way we are? And it's trying to dissect Oh yeah, trauma. But
the past trauma is not from this life. It's from previous or like many
previous lives before. Right. And so here's here's the thing that I have
found over many years of doing this. It's not the trauma that happened that
stays with us. It's the decision we made because of the trauma that stays
with us. So so, in one of the first past lives I ever
did, ever had done for me, I was a young woman in a
village in Britain, and I'm going to call them. The Vikings were marauding
all over and they would attack villages and just kill everybody and burn down the
village and take all their goods. So they had come to my village,
but they were all sick. They were all getting very sick, and exchange
for leaving our village alone, they agreed to send a healer to their camp.
Well that was me. I was about seventeen, and so when I
come into this past life, I'm walking down the trail and there's a one
of the soldiers is with me. So we get to the camp and they're
all sick, and I realized most of them I can't help. At this
point, they're going to die anyway, right, so I try to help
the ones that aren't dying. They had some kind of dysentery. Well,
so many of them died that they decided that the villagers had, you know,
didn't send a real healer, and they literally tied me to a pole
and burned me, and then they went and killed everybody in my village.
Anyway, So the decision I made at that moment was I could not be
trusted to take care of anybody because I wasn't able to help, and they
went and killed everybody in my village. I remember I was a fairly young
girl, right sixteen seventeen, and so that that stuck with me when I
was learning to do him in the therapy. I think I told you this
I had. That's when that session was done. At that point in my
life, I single mom. I didn't have the money to start my hip
and therapy practice, you know, just but that week after this, suddenly
I had a friend showed up who made business cards and flyers for me because
she was practicing doing that. And I met another friend who had extra offices
and I was able to rent those by the hour when I needed them,
so it was easy for me to pay for So, you know, here
was this business I wanted to start and I couldn't. But and after that
I was able to. Everything just fell in my lap to start my business.
It was just crazy. So what shifted was my point of view.
I was able to heal that thought of not being able to be trusted to
help anybody, right, uh huh. This it was like past life therapy
here therapy, yeah exactly, And that's how it works. And like I
said, it's not even what happened, it's the decision we made that holds
us back, the echo of that decision in later lifetimes. That is.
Does that make sense? Interesting? It really does, And I'm excited for
this series. I'm definitely going to get in on it. It's the Past
Life Echo series. Sole Connection is the first topic you can register at thesoulscout
dot net about how much is this? Mary? The class is twenty five
dollars? Okay? And when do they go to the website? Just go
to the make appointment button and I think it'll be the first one on the
list. All right, I okay, So here's why I'm I'm interested in
this anyway. And I love the metaphysical side of things. I had this
kind of epiphany just the other day really where it was that I always felt
like I was a body with a soul. And then I realized, and
I am not confident in my body, but I accept my body. I
have for a long time. I am who I am and it's one of
those and I fully accept it. But I didn't realize that I wasn't showing
gratitude to my body. That I have health issues and there are certain things
going on where I'm just like, why is my body failing me? I
Am going to be forty at my next birthday and all of that stuff.
And I'm still relatively young, and I'm going through things that I shouldn't be
going through at my age. What's going on? And then it dawned on
me, I'm not a body with a soul. I'm a soul with a
body, and my body has been carrying me through a lot of things.
And I have to show it more gratitude and be kinder to it, feed
it better more nutritionally, and all of that stuff. But with the soul
aspect I grew up in, I'm gonna be honest. I grew up in
a really great household. I love my parents, they are my best friends.
I grew up in a really great way. I think that everybody has
some level of childhood trauma that might not necessarily come from their parents, might
come from their peers or something. But what a certain way that I am
is that I put other I feel like I have to manage other people's emotions
to feel safe, Like my emotions don't matter to me as much as other
people's emotions. I need to manage their emotions fix their emotions in order for
me to feel safe, and I don't. And after talking with you,
Mary, I don't feel like that's a situation from this current life. I
think that that's something that happened in a past life, some kind of trauma,
and I made a decision that I have to handle and care for other
people's emotions for me to feel safe. So I'm really excited for the series.
I'm definitely going to get into it because I want to fin out what
that is. Because I have done to therapy for other things and this has
always kind of come up, but we've never been able to pinpoint why I
am this way, because I've never had any significant trauma in this current life
to make me that way, you know what I mean. So talking with
you is like, oh my goodness, it's not this lifetime. Yeah,
it very well might not be this lifetime, and that would be that would
be a typical type of thing that comes up, issues of abandonment, all
kinds of different issues that come up, And I think somehow it's it's safer
to even tackle it from a past life perspective because it's not your current life,
which is always so full of emotion and trauma, and you know,
it's real close. But when we go into a past life or or even
a parallel life or something, it's it's almost like and I actually do this
if if somebody's experiencing trauma in the therapy, just throw it up on a
TV screen and watch the movie. Because because you don't have you've already experienced
it, you don't have to feel the pain or even the emotions anymore.
But you do need to know what happened and what decision you made. That's
all you need to know. So somehow it seems a lot safer from that
place that point of view. Also to examine how you're feeling, you know,
and what happened and how it's affecting other parts of your life. It's
not as anya, you know. Yeah yeah, Now when it comes to
like being a healer, I know not everybody has the same level of an
ability, but does everybody at one point in their lives? Are we born
with some kind of ability before we lose it? I know, children seem
to know things that we're always kind of like, how do you know that
you've never met this person whom they mentioned? And at what point do we
lose it? And how do we get it back? Yeah, it's different
I think for everybody, but usually I think by around five six seven when
we develop our conscious our conscious consciousness at about age seven six, right around
there is when we tend to lose things like that and then maybe get them
back when we're older. Well, Mary, thank you very much. I
highly want to encourage everybody to go check out thesoul scout dot net connect with
Mary O'Malley. You are fantastic and I just absolutely love talking to you.
Mary. Same here. Thank you. The next Stefan Good Day download with
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