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on planet Earth. Mary o'mayley's soul
Scout, mind mentor life changer. How

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are you doing. I'm great this
morning, tea. How are you?

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I'm very well. I am so
happy and excited to talk to you.

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I find it such a shame that
you only join us once a month.

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We need to make this a little
bit more of a regular basis. Well,

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I'm willing to discuss that, willing
to see about it. Well,

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Mere, you have a lot of
exciting things going on. We need to

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start dissecting them one by one because
that's a lot of information. It's a

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lot of great information, and you
can always go get more information on Mary

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thesoulscout dot net. That's the soul
scout dot net. Mary. One of

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the things you're currently working on with
your class is past life a past life

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class, past life experience. It's
called the Past Life Echo series. Let's

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dive into that because that is really
exciting. Yeah, the first class,

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there'll be a series different ways of
looking at regression, past life regression.

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You know, it doesn't always go
to the past like you can go sideways,

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you can go present, parallel post
like you know, out to the

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end of your life or way after
life. In this particular, this class

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coming up, it will be following
a person. So we all have those

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people that we met and they were
instantly our best friends or we were instantly

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love or we were instantly at war, Like there's no feeling one way or

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the other. Yes, extremely strong
feeling, and it's kind of like where

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did this come from? Where did
I know you before? You know,

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like a day shoo feeling exactly exactly, So you know, just kind of

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followed down the energy of that person
to the first time we knew them,

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or to the most significant soul life
experience together, you know, the one

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that created this very strong bond.
When it comes to like current family members

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or current friends people in your life, is it typically all of those souls

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have been together in past lives,
or is it is there a possibility of

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a new soul like my sister and
I have been together, or is there

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a possibly where people are go sibling
and this is their first time being together.

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Well, yeah, all of that
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that it's not unusual for I guess
soul groups to stay together, work together,

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function together. So your sister in
this life might have been your brother

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in another life, or your dad, or your your cousin Johnny or you

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know whatever. So, or you
could have been soldiers together. Or I

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did a regression on myself and a
friend and we were soldiers together and we

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always had this weird relationship and it
turned out we had killed each other on

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the battlefield. Oh so there was
some like leftover animosity. Yeah, yeah,

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exactly, So you know weird things
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it can be a new soul with
you. It could be typically one that

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you travel with. Now have you
found with any of your clients where A

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lot of times I'm a big person
when it comes to therapy. I think

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that therapy is amazing. Everybody should
should take the time to do it for

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mental health. But sometimes there's something
going on in our life or there's some

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way of like, why am I
this way? What kind of past trauma

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did I have? And it might
not be a past trauma from the current

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life, it's from a past trauma
of a past life. Have you noticed

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anything like that? Yeah? Yeah, and some very weird things. There's

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a woman just had this. She
was convinced her uncle had molested her under

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hypnosis, under hypnotherapy he had but
in a different lifetime. Wow. So

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that that was probably the most extreme
bizarre one that I've run into. But

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I'm sorry, what was the question
I got lost in that one? Oh?

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Oh yeah, No, the of
like sometimes the why are we the

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way we are? And it's trying
to dissect Oh yeah, trauma. But

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the past trauma is not from this
life. It's from previous or like many

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previous lives before. Right. And
so here's here's the thing that I have

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found over many years of doing this. It's not the trauma that happened that

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stays with us. It's the decision
we made because of the trauma that stays

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with us. So so, in
one of the first past lives I ever

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did, ever had done for me, I was a young woman in a

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village in Britain, and I'm going
to call them. The Vikings were marauding

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all over and they would attack villages
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village and take all their goods.
So they had come to my village,

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but they were all sick. They
were all getting very sick, and exchange

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for leaving our village alone, they
agreed to send a healer to their camp.

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Well that was me. I was
about seventeen, and so when I

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come into this past life, I'm
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of the soldiers is with me.
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all sick, and I realized most
of them I can't help. At this

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point, they're going to die anyway, right, so I try to help

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the ones that aren't dying. They
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so many of them died that they
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didn't send a real healer, and
they literally tied me to a pole

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and burned me, and then they
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Anyway, So the decision I made
at that moment was I could not be

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trusted to take care of anybody because
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went and killed everybody in my village. I remember I was a fairly young

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girl, right sixteen seventeen, and
so that that stuck with me when I

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was learning to do him in the
therapy. I think I told you this

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I had. That's when that session
was done. At that point in my

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life, I single mom. I
didn't have the money to start my hip

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and therapy practice, you know,
just but that week after this, suddenly

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I had a friend showed up who
made business cards and flyers for me because

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she was practicing doing that. And
I met another friend who had extra offices

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and I was able to rent those
by the hour when I needed them,

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so it was easy for me to
pay for So, you know, here

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was this business I wanted to start
and I couldn't. But and after that

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I was able to. Everything just
fell in my lap to start my business.

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It was just crazy. So what
shifted was my point of view.

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I was able to heal that thought
of not being able to be trusted to

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help anybody, right, uh huh. This it was like past life therapy

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here therapy, yeah exactly, And
that's how it works. And like I

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said, it's not even what happened, it's the decision we made that holds

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us back, the echo of that
decision in later lifetimes. That is.

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Does that make sense? Interesting?
It really does, And I'm excited for

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this series. I'm definitely going to
get in on it. It's the Past

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Life Echo series. Sole Connection is
the first topic you can register at thesoulscout

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dot net about how much is this? Mary? The class is twenty five

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dollars? Okay? And when do
they go to the website? Just go

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to the make appointment button and I
think it'll be the first one on the

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list. All right, I okay, So here's why I'm I'm interested in

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this anyway. And I love the
metaphysical side of things. I had this

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kind of epiphany just the other day
really where it was that I always felt

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like I was a body with a
soul. And then I realized, and

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I am not confident in my body, but I accept my body. I

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have for a long time. I
am who I am and it's one of

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those and I fully accept it.
But I didn't realize that I wasn't showing

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gratitude to my body. That I
have health issues and there are certain things

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going on where I'm just like,
why is my body failing me? I

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Am going to be forty at my
next birthday and all of that stuff.

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And I'm still relatively young, and
I'm going through things that I shouldn't be

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going through at my age. What's
going on? And then it dawned on

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me, I'm not a body with
a soul. I'm a soul with a

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body, and my body has been
carrying me through a lot of things.

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And I have to show it more
gratitude and be kinder to it, feed

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it better more nutritionally, and all
of that stuff. But with the soul

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aspect I grew up in, I'm
gonna be honest. I grew up in

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a really great household. I love
my parents, they are my best friends.

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I grew up in a really great
way. I think that everybody has

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some level of childhood trauma that might
not necessarily come from their parents, might

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come from their peers or something.
But what a certain way that I am

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is that I put other I feel
like I have to manage other people's emotions

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to feel safe, Like my emotions
don't matter to me as much as other

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people's emotions. I need to manage
their emotions fix their emotions in order for

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me to feel safe, and I
don't. And after talking with you,

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Mary, I don't feel like that's
a situation from this current life. I

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think that that's something that happened in
a past life, some kind of trauma,

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and I made a decision that I
have to handle and care for other

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people's emotions for me to feel safe. So I'm really excited for the series.

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I'm definitely going to get into it
because I want to fin out what

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that is. Because I have done
to therapy for other things and this has

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always kind of come up, but
we've never been able to pinpoint why I

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am this way, because I've never
had any significant trauma in this current life

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to make me that way, you
know what I mean. So talking with

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you is like, oh my goodness, it's not this lifetime. Yeah,

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it very well might not be this
lifetime, and that would be that would

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be a typical type of thing that
comes up, issues of abandonment, all

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kinds of different issues that come up, And I think somehow it's it's safer

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to even tackle it from a past
life perspective because it's not your current life,

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which is always so full of emotion
and trauma, and you know,

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it's real close. But when we
go into a past life or or even

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a parallel life or something, it's
it's almost like and I actually do this

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if if somebody's experiencing trauma in the
therapy, just throw it up on a

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TV screen and watch the movie.
Because because you don't have you've already experienced

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it, you don't have to feel
the pain or even the emotions anymore.

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But you do need to know what
happened and what decision you made. That's

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all you need to know. So
somehow it seems a lot safer from that

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place that point of view. Also
to examine how you're feeling, you know,

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and what happened and how it's affecting
other parts of your life. It's

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not as anya, you know.
Yeah yeah, Now when it comes to

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like being a healer, I know
not everybody has the same level of an

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ability, but does everybody at one
point in their lives? Are we born

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with some kind of ability before we
lose it? I know, children seem

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to know things that we're always kind
of like, how do you know that

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you've never met this person whom they
mentioned? And at what point do we

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lose it? And how do we
get it back? Yeah, it's different

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I think for everybody, but usually
I think by around five six seven when

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we develop our conscious our conscious consciousness
at about age seven six, right around

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there is when we tend to lose
things like that and then maybe get them

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back when we're older. Well,
Mary, thank you very much. I

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highly want to encourage everybody to go
check out thesoul scout dot net connect with

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Mary O'Malley. You are fantastic and
I just absolutely love talking to you.

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Mary. Same here. Thank you. The next Stefan Good Day download with

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