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It's just like the old radio show
with the addibility to swear a lot from

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a mac of All trade studio in
Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler dots Je

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Bram. It's bilified but Bill Moran
podcast oil, Hello and welcome. Thanks

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for getting your pot on, Thanks
for telling a friend. That's how he

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spread the word about the pirate ship. You telling your friends and they come

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aboard. It's always funny because I'll
run into people and they go, hey,

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man, I didn't know you had
a podcast. He's checked it out.

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Love it love, love what you're
doing, and I go, good,

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that's good. It's spreading like the
age cards that Danny found. Did

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you hear about that? That?
I don't know? Key? He wasn't

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here, so I got I got
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a flea market in Austin, Texas, because there's flea markets everywhere. There's

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a huge flea market, right,
and there's this dude playing this is no

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joke like thirty or forty five records. He's got two turntables and a microphone

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like like Beck. He's played forty
five s Mariachi band? Did it?

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Did It? Did it? Did
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like almost annoying, right, and
it's loud, but it's hot. And

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we're going through these different you know, vendors and everything else in different tents,

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and of course my wife and my
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going through and they're looking at the
clothes. Oh, this looks great,

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and Brad and I really got nothing
to do because there's really nothing for guys

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in there, right, And then
he finds this section where people are where

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people are selling these old pins vote
for Kennedy in sixty, right. They

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thought that was cool. So he
bought one of those. It's one of

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those reflector ones where if you look
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and at another angle it says vote
Kennedy in sixty. Wow. So he

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bought that because it's a collector's item. And then I keep looking. I

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go, oh my gosh. There's
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AIDS Awareness traded cards. I don't
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heard of it either. Basically,
it's like baseball cards. That's the thing.

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They show pictures of Sea Everett Coop, Freddie Mercury, Rock Hudson.

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She should have bought a pack people
who have died of AIDS or have led

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the charge to like Nancy Reagan,
to fight against AIDS and raise awareness one

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of those special insert cars with three
drafts HIV on it. Well, so

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it came with like a condom inside
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I should have bought a card.
I have never heard of these,

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Yeah I got. I got a
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the bubble gum from the eighties.
Well that's the thing. But like,

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I'm like, AIDS awareness cards,
are you kid me? Probably that's where

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I'm wondering eBay or if yeah,
here they are rock Hudson AIDS in Europe.

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See Everett Coop collect the Fight against
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What year did these cards get made? It looks like it would probably be

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in the eighties. Well yeah,
clearly the eighties, but holy shit,

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they it is. And there think
about the cars trading card? Who would

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be trading age card? It's just
what I mean. Age is like you

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didn't you didn't talk about it,
Rodald Reagan, Rodald Reagan and oh Tony

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Fauci wouldn't talk about it. My
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to get age. Sit in your
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Rookie car first. But who never, that's that's an odd thing because trading

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cards would be aimed at young people. Yes, like like like old parent,

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but most of the time, if
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you don't have the okay, see
every coop isn't somebody that related to kids.

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Rock Hutson at that point was on
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He went on Dynasty, nasty.
He went on Dynasty and he started looking

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really terrible. And I forget who
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So I watched the Rock Hutson documentary
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got aids Ears Ears Ear aids.
No, I'm kidding. That was a

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terrible joke. It didn't go anywhere, but no, no, no,

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no, But uh it was a
really interesting documentary in that here was this

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guy who was from the Midwest,
Uh, kind of that all American dude.

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He's like another John Wayne type.
Yep, well refined like Clark gableman.

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I would say that you're not wrong
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but you took It's like you took
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edges, you know that ruggedness,
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a little softer and uh. But
he had a thing for the guys.

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And one guy even said he was
so hung He's like, he's not sticking

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that thing. And me sas it. I first out laughing watching it,

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but he seemed to be a very
caring, uh loving guy. Married for

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a brief period, but that was
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nobody really said that. And then
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on Dynasty and they did a kiss
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aids, but he did everything he
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scene, and she she knew it
and said to him, you like,

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I forget exactly how it was,
but she so appreciated what he did.

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Was it Dinah Shore was dyast?
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thing that was really interesting was he
was in a movie Giant, and my

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dad thought, like Elizabeth Taylor back
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was, and he told me,
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watch the movie Giant. Now,
the movie Giant had rock Hudson, Elizabeth

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Taylor and James Dean and James Dean
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Rock did not like him. And
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him, and they play audio from
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the phone being interviewed by like a
radio station or something, and they bring

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up James Dean and he says,
I wasn't fond of that fella, and

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they say something else and he goes, I won't talk ill of the dead,

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and he wouldn't say another word.
He never said another Like he was

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really a gentleman to his core,
you know what I mean. Nowadays people

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go, well, I tell you
what a fucking asshole that guy was,

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you know, say so in that
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before that movie ended. Drove his
Spider Porsche nineteen fifty five Spider Porsche,

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one of the most valuable cars today. I think they sell. I believe

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Jerry Seinfeld sold a nineteen fifty five
Spider Porsche for five point three million dollars.

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If I could ever own a car, that's the car I would like

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to have with the least it's only
two point five that's the thirty six thousand

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miles you can negotiate. Get how
about how much do I have to put

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down the residual? Yeah? You
have to put one million. Yeah,

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but the residual Billy got lock in
that pot. Tell you this. I

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have a theory somebody somewhere owns the
car that James Dean drove off the cliff

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because they had to go get it. It was a suicide. Was I

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think it was a drag I think
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landing wave and the flag. I
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up. I'm pretty sure he was
drag racing, and I know that they

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had to go and clean up.
Was he drag racing Rock Hudson Billy the

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remains of the car, Well,
that's what I'm getting. Okay, they

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hadn't get the remains of the car, and somebody somewhere has to have the

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wrecked spider and I'm going that somebody. I guarantee that would go for millions.

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Someone would spend millions of dollars on
yea million. I think about James's

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James Dean's jacket that everyone was talking
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cars get self, it's gotta be
worth even more than that the wreckage.

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Look, how could you somebody look
for that? Yeah, but somebody has

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it, and I go, why
why don't we know about it? Yeah?

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Well what are you doing with it? Like you could probably sell that

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for a lot of money. Yeah, I'm sure you could even just spell

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the parts out. Okay, listen, So all a car. But it

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turns out that I guess James Dean
and all they say is like James Dean

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did some stuff that a lot of
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and things like that. So right, so there were some when they say

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selling your soul, I guess some
gay instances that James Dean did. And

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then well there are stories about Brando
doing the same thing. Yeah. Rock

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Hudson supposedly made advances at James James
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either didn't respond, and so therefore
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But they that there's something Okay,
so I don't know. But now did

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they get to the part in the
documentary where his last relationship was with a

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young guy and he didn't even tell
him that he had AIDS. He knew

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he had AIDS, but he didn't
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he didn't tell his boyfriend. Jeez. I think I don't think that that

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was in the documentary as much as
he was going to Europe and trying to

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find treers and get treatments and things
and it wasn't working, and he was

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over I thought he went to Germany. It might have been it was Germany,

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I don't remember, but somewhere over
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over there. So somewhere along the
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And then Ronnie Reagan. It was
finally Nancy who told President Reagan,

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hey, Rock has just died of
AIDS. He's our friend. You guys

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were actors together. You need to
talk about this and you need to get

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funding and research behind AIDS. And
he wouldn't do it, and Tony Fauch

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you wouldn't do it either. It's
been documented. Well, I think they

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wouldn't do anything because they didn't.
I think there was other factors. I

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think there were other people at play. And I think it was a gay

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man's disease. Well that was what
they were looking at it, and I

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think it but they're also, we
weren't going to help these right, these

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guys. He really wasn't until Magic
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people realize, Oh, it can
happen to me too. Yes, I

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would think that that's fair because I
think there was a question was was Magic

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gay? But as you see if
you watch Winning Time, which I'm always

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torn because I'm looking forward to taking
a few days here and catching up on

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some of those shows. Because Winning
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I love Hard Knocks, and I
have n't. I've only watched the first

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episode. I'm not sure if I
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not. But that has nothing to
do with this. The but in there

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that Magic says, you know,
at one point he gets a woman pregnant

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and he's still talking to Cookie,
and he does eventually, as we know,

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he marries her. Yeah, but
as a child, and he says

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to her, yeah, and I
think while he was HIV positive, the

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baby and Cookie didn't get infected.
Yeah, but he said that, you

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know, I just I like the
pussy. Basically what he says in Winning

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Time. I don't know if he
says in the book that's why I want

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to get my magic. Johnson Sally
that side. I want to get a

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sign that gets this. I like
the buzzard. Do want some more on

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these AIDS cards? Yeah, yeah, it's bay. You can get a

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whole set one hundred and ten from
nineteen ninety three that include Freddie Mercury,

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Freddie Mercy's and the Arthur Ash Arthur
Ash. Yeah, he blood transfusion.

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He announced it right, I think
after Magic did Rock Hudson's in their magic.

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Yeah, Liberaccia Liberaci have aids.
Yes, we fact we interviewed his

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ex boyfriend, this pool guy who
he had a he and the pool guy

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because Dennis Hoff, who's also passed
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brothel. I'm being technical here his
horrors told him the story about this guy.

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He was homeless now all of a
sudden, So Dennis Hoff took him

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in, gave him a wardrobe,
and he goes, We're gonna parade you

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out of radio shows and tell your
story about Liberaci and Michael Jackson everybody else

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you've been with. And Liberacci made
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look like Liberacci. Imagine bank yourself. So that was that's what he did.

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That was in the movie with Matt
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But Matt Damon it was asked to
have the operation to look like Liberaci.

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Yeah, and he he had to
go. They had to do one kiss

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single. We'll only do this once. They do a kiss scene. Well,

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and it was like they said,
like, okay, we're done,

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We're good. We're good here.
But yeah, and we interviewed that guy

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and we go, well, did
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And I was with him like about
a year before he died. So I

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don't know, like if it just
didn't happen or he he got lucky yeah,

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or whatnot. But they're all he
died too. Interesting thing, So,

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did the AIDS cards come out in
the early nineties out there? That's

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Ryan Whiten's in there, Ryan White
Yeah. Yeah, but but it gets

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AIDS is one of the cards?
Who gets AIDS? A brief history of

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AIDS? Yeah, what is AIDS
and what causes it? Okay, So

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the government must have made these or
or not for profit. It could be.

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I mean like, well, when
Magic Johnson was HIV positive, he

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and our Senio Hall did a video
for Blockbust that you could get for free

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to get awareness to learn things about
AIDS because they because the perception was out

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there once magic God, Everybody's like, Okay, well then can I get

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it too? Because I'm not gay, and I've never had a blood transfusion,

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and I don't use drugs. And
so those were the three, you

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know, the three types of people
that would typically get AIDS at that point,

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and so or can I get it
from kissing somebody or hugging somebody?

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And so he and our Sineo did
a video that would go out and if

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you went to Blockbuster, you can
get it for free. It didn't cost

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you anything, and they let you
rent it. And I think at that

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point a lot of a lot more
people started like doing more for AIDS awareness

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because at that point many celebrities had
died of this. So on the back

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of each card is the individual's biography
or information on the topic or organization to

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pick down in the front of the
card. The AGS awareness cards were distributed

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in packs of twelve along with a
condom. They were written by William Livingston

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and they give you that, but
I'm trying to find out more information.

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Baseball cards stick a bubblegum AIDS cards
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a comic book company, Eclipse.
Because they're all drawings of people, they're

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not the actual pictures, so I
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I don't ever remember hearing anything about
this, do you there's five sets.

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There's five sets on eBay and four
have been sold. How much? See?

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Because there was no price tag on
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a flea market, I don't see
a price tag on something. I'm like,

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I don't want to probably probably bargain, haggle with them a little bit.

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That's an interesting idea and kind of
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book company to do the cards,
I don't know because they sold them.

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That's the thing that was it for
like AIDS research? Wow, I'm gonna

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I'm hoping is that the money would
go or was it like when you go

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when you go to get pizza and
your weight and you see like the little

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quarters in the thing, and like
a person a royalty fee has been paid

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out, Dude, you find out
that none of the money goes would be

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the equivalent at this point COVID COVID
trading cards or here it is In nineteen

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ninety three, comic book publisher Eclipse
and a Prize Is released a set of

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one hundred and ten AIDS Awareness trading
cards courtesy of an anonymous donor. The

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Museums Archives Center acquired a full set
of the cards for it's Lesbian, gay,

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bisexual translator. This must be I
must have skipped a piece here where

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they said, somebody who's finding.
The cards feature a variety of HIV AIDS

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information and organizations, as well as
personalities who died from AIDS. We're currently

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bat or we're currently battling the disease, or we're involved in AIDS awareness.

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The cards depicted individuals like Queen's Freddie
Mercury, fashion designer, Halston lawyer,

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Roy Cohn founder, Yeah, the
founder of the Pediatric AIDS Foundation, Elizabeth.

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The back of the cards provide her
son still alive by the way too.

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More information on the individual topic and
organizations depicted on the front. And

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uh yeah, Irvin Magic Johnson.
They have they had one's a terrible drawing

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off. It's really bad. N
a C. Green. It does even

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look like at all. It doesn't
because they dis agree with the virgin until

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ninety five. That's that's interesting.
Under the guidance of so it says here

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Jan and Dean mullaney. So based
on UH. Eclipse Enterprise was founded by

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the brothers Jan Jan and Dean mulaney. Weren't they the guys who sang a

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dead Man's curve? Initially it could
be on UH, but that's why I

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was you too, Yeah, And
one of them got got hurt in UH

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and wrecked his brain in an accident
going around a curve in a car.

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Focusing on graphic novels and comic books, the company, under the guidance of

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Dean's wife, moved into producing training
cards as well, and during the eighties,

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again not Eclipse, towards two new
projects. The company released a line

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of non fiction trading cards that sports
and other stuff, and then the other

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focused and the AIDS cards. Wow, that's really very very interesting to uh.

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Yeah, to me, I had
no idea they were even around,

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And I can't imagine, Like,
what would you do with them? Right?

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Hey? Man? Put them in
the spokes you're a wheel. They

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make a gray sounds like who are
you gonna trade AIDES cards? But would

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you admit that you have AIDS cards
and trade? But they could be a

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great way for my health teacher to
talk about AIDS. It could be you

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know what I mean and go,
hey, this is and what I don't

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know. I remember the remember the
first time they explained how AIDS worked,

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how people could get AIDS in school. And it's funny because we're talking about

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this in Austin because we all remember
when it happened and we had a teacher

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explained to us, no, you
can't get AIDS by shaking hands or not

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washing your hands. And then she
went to detail. We go, well,

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how come it's always like my grandmother
says, it's gay men. I

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don't know what that means. So
the teacher, like very professionally, goes,

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well, sometimes men are attracted to
other men's We're like, okay,

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and one of the men will get
a cut when they have sex, and

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if the other man has AIDS.
I'm like, well, what, like,

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what are they using knives? Like
legitimate questions? Well, you're a

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kid, kid, you don't understand
how this freaking works. It's yeah,

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those are tough. I'm not trying
to be a jerk. I mean that

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these were legitimate like questions that we
had. He's still looking for the answer

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he doesn't help. But then when
Magic got it the year after YEA,

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all of a sudden, people,
okay, it's here's how you can get

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it through hetero sexual sex. There's
gay sex, there's all this transfusion.

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The transfusion is at that point had
been phased out. They started spreading the

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blood screening, the blood right because
of guys like Ryan White, who are

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who went out And he wasn't even
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School didn't want him. That's how
he became famous. Everybody was so

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he didn't know, worried, and
no one wanted to see other kids get

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this either. And boy, what
a fine line you gotta walk because you

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don't want to isolate this, this
young kid, but at the same time,

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you don't want to put other kids
at risk, and you sacrifice the

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view for the many, you know
what I mean? Magic terrible thing for

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he's got to be the record holder
for the length of having this. Yeah,

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I mean, is it possible he
doesn't really? Haven't he say it's

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undetectable. I think he's undetectable at
this point. Well now, so I

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don't know what that but if he
stopped taking his medication, it would probably

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come back. Yeah, it could
come back. So like you're on it,

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like when you take like Elizabeth Glazer's
son, he's been on medication all

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his life, so he's lived a
normal life, but he has to continue

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to take the medication the rest of
his life. He can't have sex with

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someone at all, Like I would
even it depends on like the prep,

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the prep kind of pills that could
take or medication, because I would even

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think, like the person, let's
say you fell in love with somebody and

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you know, it comes to that
point and like a Magic Johnson not not

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gay, he's sort of in heterosexual, but you go, could he could

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you bring yourself to that wondering if
you would get a life authoring? I

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don't know, now, I really
don't. I'm not even trying to be

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funding or dirty. You really well, there was a discussion what an interesting

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dilemma to as well in Real World
three, remember San Francisco at MTV.

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Yeah, Pedro was gay and he
was HIV pods actually had full blown AIDS

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at that point. And there was
a woman named Rachel on the show who

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was a diehard Republican and they always
put people against each other and they had

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a discussion in the room. She
goes, Look, let's say you were

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straight and I fell in love with
you. Because you have AIDS, I

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can't go any further with you,
she goes. He goes, I disagree

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with that, and I appreciate your
opinion on it. But he goes,

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I'm not going to defend your opinion
on that. It's really sad. She

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goes, I know, I feel
terrible, but at the end of the

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day, I think most people's lives
are at stakes. Well, the thing

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isn't well. I think you could
take politics right out of that. I

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think you get down to individual people's
safety, my survival. You're telling me

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that being in love and having and
being intimate physically intimate with this person could

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kill me. Yeahs where Rachel says. She goes, I'm out, dude,

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Yeah, I'm out. But I
don't think that. I think take

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political affiliation out there. Oh yeah, I bet you. I'll go four

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out of five Dannists recommend tried in. I'm going, but what's the fifth,

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guys, probble five out of five
Dannis, You're going, don't fucking

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do it right right right now?
It was just Oh, I think for

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each individual person, it would be
different and yes, somebody who was really

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in love ago, Look, I
it's they're not detecting anything in you and

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blah blah blah right right, and
the doctor. That's something where you have

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to go over with your doctor.
Could you ever yell at that person then

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you get mad and go you know, you get a huge fight and then

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you turn around and you go,
banged you even though you had EGS kind

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of loved your question, my loved
you, son of a bitch. Like

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in the early in the early nineties
or age really gained steam. And then

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one of the show Life goes on. Yes, they did an episode with

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one of the characters. I think
it was Rebecca's boyfriend. Yes, he

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had AIDS and he got it from
like a blood transfusion. Well, okay,

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we're going no, no, no, you're not. You're bringing me

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back to something because I was thinking, as you said earlier, you know,

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Ronald Reagan would not utter the word
AIDS, and I is horrible that

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that that would be that people that
could used to help in the research and

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the funding from the government and other
even like if the government does a lot

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of times, private industry then goes
hey, you know what, this is

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a great thing. We'll do it
too, that he wouldn't do it.

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And I wonder if it's a generational
thing. Yeah, because I will tell

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you my grandmother, who I loved
an adored, but I to two houses

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down there was this this kid and
I used to hang out with the kids

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on the street when I would go
down in the summertime and all, and

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there was a family, a bunch
of boys who used to play ball at

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all and there's this other kid.
He was just quiet and I used to

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go over and talk to him,
but he never played with everybody. But

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I love talking about like radio and
top forty music with the guy and all

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this stuff. And he was he
was interesting. And his dad wound up

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leaving his mom for another guy.
And my grandmother used to always say to

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me, call him fruity. There's
go I don't know why I hang out

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with that friend, little boy,
But at this point, like was he

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was he like kay two? Yeah? I think he might have been.

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I don't know. He certainly never
made any advances toward me or anything.

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I thought he was interesting and smart
and he was like, you know,

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one of these men. So we
would so when I would go down there

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like all the other kids would have
nothing to do with him, and they'd

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be off doing something as they got
older, in cars and stuff with their

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older brothers, and he'd be left
behind. I'd go hang out with him.

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I didn't live there. I was
just visiting my grandmother for a short

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period of time. So I said
to him on, I said to my

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grandmother once, hey, can Stephen
come over and swim in your pool?

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And my grandmother had what they referred
to as a bottle cap pool. It

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looked like the old soda bottle caps
above ground pool. Yeah, And I

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used to do things like, uh, you know, I was a kid,

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I'd wake up early. My grandfather
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Sometimes he worked a later shift,
So my grandmother in the summertime, that

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place was like a tomb. Man. It was nice and cool inside with

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the air conditioning. She had all
the shades down and it was silent.

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Man, you could have slept the
two in the afternoon, not fucking knowing

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it, right, But I'm a
kid, saw him up by like eight

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o'clock. I'm gonna I'm losing my
mind now I've been up to six.

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I'm losing no one's around, there's
no noise. So I used to take

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I used to get fully dressed,
and I would go out, and I

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found out if I just sat,
they had a floating device that would also

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be like it was. It had
a seat in it, right, so

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you could use it in the winter
time to go sledding, or you could

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use it to float in your pool
in the summer, right, so it

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had a seat, so you wouldn't
So I would sit fully dressed and sit

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in it and just wait and just
float in the pool. And I would

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wait, and sure enough, by
ten o'clock, the blinds in her room

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would go up, and she don't, and I'm she'd go, Eddie,

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Eddie, look at the boy.
He's flugging in the pool. You got

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your clothes on, your damn fool. You gotta get him roll and you're

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screaming. And that was like the
entertainment for me, right. I loved

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it. So then I asked her, if this kid can come over.

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This kid, I mean, the
pool was probably four and a half feet

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deep, maybe five feet, I
don't even remember. And he comes.

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He's got earplugs and one of those
no those things that come around and picks

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but it comes around your neck and
put it on. He's got all this

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stuff and he's gonna get in the
pool. And I don't know where to

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look. I don't know what to
say. I'm I'm ready to burst out

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laughing. And my grandmother looks,
think O, such a fruit, And

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I didn't know what to say.
And I think that that whole generation of

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absolute intolerance, for that absolute intolerance, if you were not a man or

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presented yourself as a man, didn't
They had no in mains mainstream society.

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There was no room for you.
I really believe that. And if you

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look, and I think many men's
lives were ruined. I think many women's

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lives were ruined as a result of
a man who couldn't be himself. So

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it was, it was terrible.
But I think that that was sort of

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the Reagan thing. And then when
Clinton came in, and then you started

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to see some changes. That's all
Bush and then Clinton. Yeah. And

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then so when Clinton came in,
I think there was magic had just announced.

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You had aged use I was in
Fisher, Yeah, so magic had

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just announced. Then three weeks later, Freddie Mercury died and then all of

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a sudden, in like ninety three, he had Pedro with the Real World,

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and so President Clinton when Pedro died, because they think that show took

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years off his life because towards the
end of the show he was pretty much

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dying. And then after the show
ended, he married. He tried to

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marry like as much as you could
back then it wasn't legal. He married

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his boyfriend and then he was gonna
go do this tour talking to different TV

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affiliates about AIDS, and he called
in sick a couple times, and he

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had no insurance. And then MTV
figured out he was dying. He's on

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his way out, and so they
did fundraisers for him to pay for all

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its medical bills and everything else.
And they did a whole like kind of

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a documentary on Pedro dying and they
got his family to come over from Cuba.

408
00:26:45,519 --> 00:26:48,720
President Clinton helped take care of that. And after it was over,

409
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,519
President Clinton did a speech. It
was pretty classy. He goes, now,

410
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:56,440
nobody in America could say they don't
know someone personally with AIDS. Yeah,

411
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,160
And he was right, and he
was targeting you know, our generation,

412
00:26:59,319 --> 00:27:00,759
younger people. Well, I mean, that's really where you want to

413
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,680
kind of strike because you're like,
some of these older folks are not going

414
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:07,880
to change their mind on things.
That That's interesting because I do remember.

415
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:15,599
So I had a girlfriend and I
remember going she had She and her roommate

416
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:19,480
went home, and her roommate's boyfriend
and I stayed out. And it was

417
00:27:19,559 --> 00:27:23,440
like wintertime or something. And I
had learned when I was over in Spain

418
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:30,319
the slang for a gay person right
like ar slang. I don't want to

419
00:27:30,319 --> 00:27:33,400
say the word it's unacceptable anymore,
be unacceptable there, but I would say

420
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:38,119
it in Spanish. So there were
two gay guys who lived downstairs in this

421
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:45,759
renovated house off Harvard Street, Oxford, I think it was. And so

422
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:51,799
I remember like being outside and yelling, saying, saying these words, and

423
00:27:51,839 --> 00:27:53,559
we're laughing, and you know,
hey, what are you guys doing in

424
00:27:53,599 --> 00:27:57,960
there? Uh? Now, this
is like ninety two, ninety one,

425
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:07,000
ninety two, and yeah, and
then I remember seeing one day one of

426
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:15,240
the guys must have had aids and
the other guy carrying him cradling I think

427
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:19,079
I told you still he was cradling
like you know you would have a child,

428
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,440
and helped him get in the seat
and all. And I remember watching

429
00:28:22,519 --> 00:28:26,359
that I was probably I had to
be older because I had already gone to

430
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:30,039
Utah, so I was twenty one
twenty two. I remember standing there and

431
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,759
going, oh my god, that
is one of the most loving things I've

432
00:28:33,799 --> 00:28:37,400
ever seen. And I go,
I will never ever ever say this shit.

433
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:41,319
I said ever again, that would
I couldn't. I was so ashamed

434
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:47,240
and embarrassed. And then it seemed
like I believe that man passed and the

435
00:28:47,359 --> 00:28:49,920
other guy moved out of that apartment
or whatever. And then I would run

436
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,319
into that guy every once in a
while and he would just sort of look

437
00:28:52,359 --> 00:28:56,000
at me, and I would always
acknowledge him or something, and it was

438
00:28:56,079 --> 00:28:59,240
never rude, never anything, but
I was like, God, damn,

439
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,519
what a horrible, horrible thing.
Like I was a I was drunk and

440
00:29:03,599 --> 00:29:07,400
thought it was funny, and I
was with other guys, and I was

441
00:29:08,279 --> 00:29:11,519
awful, fucking awful. Like if
I ever heard one of my sons do

442
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:15,759
that, don't it would be it
would take everything in me not to.

443
00:29:17,079 --> 00:29:18,319
I don't want to say, punch
them in the face, but like choke

444
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,200
them, put them into a headlock, and drag them away, you know

445
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:26,039
what I mean, not physically hurt
them, but like around their mouth and

446
00:29:26,119 --> 00:29:30,279
shut their mouth and drag them away
because for no choice of their own,

447
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:34,279
they were different. Right if you're
born that way, and for that you

448
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:38,359
got to be called names and harm
and think about that. But so you

449
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:42,039
know all the influence in society,
I would like to think. But man,

450
00:29:42,119 --> 00:29:47,319
when I saw that, that completely
changed my whole perception. And I

451
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:51,720
remember thinking, like, love is
the purest thing you can have. Right

452
00:29:52,079 --> 00:29:56,519
If if love is the purest if
all things come from as you would say,

453
00:29:56,599 --> 00:30:00,400
God and Jesus or Spirit or whatever, it all comes from pure positive

454
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,759
light, then how can this be
bad? How can two people loving each

455
00:30:03,799 --> 00:30:07,119
other no matter what gender they are, How could that possibly in any way

456
00:30:07,599 --> 00:30:11,400
ever be bad? And I remember
thinking that at twenty two, going it

457
00:30:11,519 --> 00:30:15,359
can't be so why would we tell
people and then just ostracize and just go

458
00:30:15,599 --> 00:30:21,599
after them? And I really like
it, I don't. I just remember

459
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:25,000
I can see exactly where I was
standing as I watched that, and I

460
00:30:25,039 --> 00:30:29,920
remember like it was arresting in that
I like frozen my tracks. I remember

461
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,160
going, holy shit, And that's
when I thought, why would we ever

462
00:30:33,319 --> 00:30:37,240
do this? If love is the
purest thing, and and love comes from

463
00:30:37,319 --> 00:30:41,319
God and you're gonna say all these
things or wherever you believe that, what

464
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:45,039
does it matter? So why would
we say that that's wrong? Love can't

465
00:30:45,079 --> 00:30:52,480
be wrong, You can't. Yeah, I've always treaded carefully because because as

466
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:53,720
a Christian. Yeah, because it's
like the Bible says what it says,

467
00:30:53,799 --> 00:30:56,519
yes, and I'm not but no, no, no, no, no

468
00:30:56,799 --> 00:30:59,559
no, no, I know that. But tell you that was my in

469
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,079
that. Yeah, yeah, you
know, I know what you mean.

470
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:07,079
Like, I've actually had conversations with
other like well read evangelical Christians about this,

471
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,160
and they and I brought this up. I said, Look, if

472
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,640
you could be born without a leg, or born with half a heart,

473
00:31:14,119 --> 00:31:17,519
or born with with like fewer chromosomes
or more chromosomes or something like that could

474
00:31:17,599 --> 00:31:21,799
lead to like a life book,
why couldn't you be born being attracted to

475
00:31:22,279 --> 00:31:25,440
your own sex? Right? And
at the same time, you know,

476
00:31:25,599 --> 00:31:27,240
they have a relationship with God.
They could choose to accept it or they

477
00:31:27,279 --> 00:31:30,599
could choose to deny it. But
that choice is among them. All you're

478
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:34,319
supposed to do is provide the information
that the book says, and you pray

479
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,079
for them, and you hope that
they make a decision for Christ and whatever

480
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:41,160
happens for that is between them and
God. Do you see what your stupid

481
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:42,799
AIDS cards did? Well, you
brought up the AIDS cards. I thought

482
00:31:42,799 --> 00:31:45,920
we're gonna talk about the building.
I didn't. I didn't why, I

483
00:31:47,079 --> 00:31:49,039
just all of a sudden, But
I mean, it's a fascinating discussion because

484
00:31:49,119 --> 00:31:52,440
in ninety six though, everything kind
of turned around. They had the AIDS

485
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:56,000
cocktail, and all of a sudden, people stop dying of AIDS if they

486
00:31:56,119 --> 00:32:00,200
had the right insurance. Yea,
if they had the means, if they

487
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:04,279
didn't have insurance, like in the
city of Rochester, eight is still an

488
00:32:04,319 --> 00:32:07,720
issue. It's still an issue with
poor people. It's still I mean,

489
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:12,200
like being poorn in this country is
one of the worst things you could be.

490
00:32:12,319 --> 00:32:14,839
Yeah, when it comes to medical
issues. Maybe for anything, but

491
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:19,000
certainly medical stuff. Yeah, all
right, we'll lighten it up. Sorry,

492
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,920
Kevin, jeez, Yeah, got
a little heavy there. Well you

493
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:22,799
didn't have to look up the price
of those AIDS cars. But now I

494
00:32:22,839 --> 00:32:25,839
want to actually go to eBay and
get them. No, but interesting because

495
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:29,319
I had want to click the whole
suff I've never heard of them. Yeah,

496
00:32:29,359 --> 00:32:31,279
well either, but I feel like
that's why I took the picture like

497
00:32:31,319 --> 00:32:34,640
they have eight's cards. Yeah,
I was living under a rock, not

498
00:32:34,759 --> 00:32:37,039
a cock. Damny. By the
way, After I see the AIDS cards,

499
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,599
terrible, terrible, Kevin, Why
would you say this? So here's

500
00:32:39,599 --> 00:32:43,640
the funniest part of this whole thing. After I see the AIDS cards,

501
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,039
I look at the person running the
little boat dagg, I go, do

502
00:32:45,119 --> 00:32:49,759
you have golf war cards? She
goes, what. Yeah. Back in

503
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:54,039
nineteen ninety after the golf War,
tops put out golf war cards like tanks.

504
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:58,839
Yeah, pictures who's pictures of shorts? Cop was like the Mickey Mantle.

505
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:00,480
You got the Schwartz cop card.
You were the man. Did you

506
00:33:00,519 --> 00:33:02,799
get them? Kevin? Have them
somewhere? I have something somewhere. Do

507
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:07,240
you really interesting? Last time?
That was the last war America was completely

508
00:33:07,359 --> 00:33:10,480
united for. Yeah, yeah,
we'll get Sudam. We'll get that Sadam

509
00:33:10,599 --> 00:33:15,279
who what's his name? Who's a
oho? Kay? Who's saying all right,

510
00:33:15,319 --> 00:33:20,319
we'll take a we'll take a moment
when we come back, maybe we'll

511
00:33:20,359 --> 00:33:22,720
do the You sent me a story
about an old couple. Two stories about

512
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:27,640
old couples. Opposite ends of the
spectrum. Opposite ends of the spectrum.

513
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,799
We'll get to that next, but
first, Cobblestone on Maine at one on

514
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,640
nine West Main Street in the village
of Webster. I haven't suggested for you.

515
00:33:35,359 --> 00:33:37,759
Maybe you want to start a tradition
where you'd wrap up summer with a

516
00:33:37,799 --> 00:33:43,079
big family dinner out somewhere everybody talks
about all their fun things about summer and

517
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,880
what they're looking forward to going back
to school. It's a nice way to

518
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,759
kind of wrap things up. I'm
not telling you what to do, but

519
00:33:47,839 --> 00:33:52,119
I am telling you should do something
like that at Cobblestone on Maine. Or

520
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,039
maybe you just want to have a
date night away from all the kids and

521
00:33:54,079 --> 00:34:00,839
stuff, great intimate dining area,
fantastic food, all low Glee sourced menu

522
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:04,960
items. Or they have an upscale
bar. We can get Kraft cocktails,

523
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,400
or maybe have the intimate dinner and
then retire to the upscale bar with live

524
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:15,519
music. In this eighteen hundreds Cobblestone
Church thoughtfully renovated delicious food perfect for family

525
00:34:16,119 --> 00:34:21,119
date night or just hanging out with
your upscale friends at the upscale bar.

526
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:24,519
Cobblestone on Maine, one o nine
West Main Street in the village of Webster.

527
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,800
Hey, It's Shannon. Hi,
I'm David. Hi friends, it's

528
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,119
Jake. Hey, it's Rima.
I want to personally invite you to Game

529
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:36,719
Night, a brand new podcast featuring
your favorite days Allies and fruit flies and

530
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:44,000
were Olympics. Ye are basically a
bunch of like desperate white suburban women and

531
00:34:44,159 --> 00:34:49,719
a bunch of gay men, and
sometimes they're sort of participatory slashed sad Husbands

532
00:34:52,119 --> 00:34:58,039
was not sad. My husband's rocked
the karaoke competition. Let's tell me pull

533
00:34:58,159 --> 00:35:00,800
up the video right now. No, no, you will join us every

534
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:30,679
Monday night in the neighborhood. He
takes from up from the mountain, we

535
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:37,079
take a light and from the sky
we bring a strong man to this bag

536
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:42,000
and knee. You may be young. The mom cry, you got to

537
00:35:42,159 --> 00:35:49,679
hide it high, you got the
jump bed run, you got to hide

538
00:35:50,039 --> 00:35:57,840
it. Hide it hid the old
maid. It's down the road, old

539
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,719
man, it's down the road.
You're coming around a curve. You're gonna

540
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:04,920
run into that old man. He's
coming Folkard. He got sued for plagiarizing

541
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:08,119
himself with this sliarizing himself. Yes, yeah, so like when he was

542
00:36:08,159 --> 00:36:12,119
a CCR he went to a different
record company. He had a falling out

543
00:36:12,159 --> 00:36:15,440
with his brother and the other guy
who ran the record company. They thought

544
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:19,840
he was plagiarizing up running through the
jungle, Yeah, and he won the

545
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,639
case. I love this great sar, but I mean it's really about like,

546
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:24,599
hey, you run, you jump, you're having a good time,

547
00:36:24,679 --> 00:36:28,280
but the old man's down the road. Get ready, you're coming up on

548
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,840
the old man. And in this
country, we don't really appreciate elderly,

549
00:36:32,199 --> 00:36:37,119
Like in Japanese culture, it seems
to be like, you know, matriarchal

550
00:36:37,199 --> 00:36:39,760
and patriarch very very ya. They're
the head of the family, head of

551
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:44,000
the family and all that. And
there are times where like I've often thought

552
00:36:44,039 --> 00:36:49,719
of if you could go to like
a Saint Anne's and talk to some of

553
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:53,079
these people the lives they lived,
Like how interesting would that be? I

554
00:36:54,559 --> 00:36:58,920
wanted to do something around graduation time
and no one called me back, and

555
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,400
I called it from places, and
I wanted to talk to older people and

556
00:37:01,559 --> 00:37:07,519
go give the class of twenty twenty
three advice life advice. What would you

557
00:37:07,639 --> 00:37:10,440
say in a graduation speech? I
think that would be fascinating. I'm a

558
00:37:10,559 --> 00:37:15,599
very curious person and I'm very curious
about what they would say. What they

559
00:37:15,679 --> 00:37:20,239
have lived and what they think now, because I do believe we all evolve

560
00:37:20,519 --> 00:37:22,480
as we go along. I like
to think, you know, I'm not

561
00:37:22,599 --> 00:37:24,320
the same person I was five years
ago, and I think you know what

562
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:29,519
I'm saying, and I thought that
would be interesting and h And now that

563
00:37:29,599 --> 00:37:35,679
my parents are getting older and watching
them, I almost appreciate them more and

564
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:40,679
want to you're supposed to learn.
I don't want to say others mistakes,

565
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:45,480
but like, for example, my
dad I think is lonely where he is

566
00:37:45,599 --> 00:37:50,360
and would which to have be around
more people and makes terms of choices and

567
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,519
things that you do and who you
hang out with. You know, yeah,

568
00:37:52,599 --> 00:37:57,000
I remember, like when we work
together. Your brother had this elderly

569
00:37:57,039 --> 00:38:00,480
friend named Arthur who's in his eighties. He's still alive, yes, oh

570
00:38:00,559 --> 00:38:02,440
kidding, Wow. So Arthur was
one of these I don't know if he

571
00:38:02,519 --> 00:38:05,800
had kids or a family, but
he did. Oh he did, okay,

572
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,679
But he would hang around with like
people like your brother and like if

573
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,559
he had like a young girl he'd
been did it with it. This is

574
00:38:09,599 --> 00:38:13,800
a hooker. He would tell the
waits and stuff like that, but he

575
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:15,760
was he would be funny. My
biggest fear like I don't have kids,

576
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:19,280
and what doesn't have kids? And
if you know, if we don't have

577
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,519
each other, if one of us
passes away, the other one might grow

578
00:38:21,639 --> 00:38:24,800
up and grow old alone. Yeah
you know, Yeah that's a scary thought.

579
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,199
Yeah, it's not one you should
probably dwell on take care of yourself.

580
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:32,840
Yeah, but it's something that you
know, those relationships with the nieces

581
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:36,280
and nephews and things. I think
of your dad, you know, like

582
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,199
I mean, he's got kids and
everything he does, but everybody's all scattered,

583
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:44,360
and I think that that's the thing. And then like my brother has

584
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,599
a party Labor Day weekend and he
has a band and a slipping slide and

585
00:38:47,639 --> 00:38:52,360
we had gone up there a couple
of years ago, and I'm gonna trying

586
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,880
to slide out of town and do
some stuff and then trying to make my

587
00:38:55,599 --> 00:38:58,599
way that way as well. And
he said to me, hey, here

588
00:38:58,599 --> 00:39:01,239
are you going, man? And
I'd love to go. And then we're

589
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:05,519
talking and I didn't know what to
say because I all, you know,

590
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:07,599
I don't know where he is.
He's got some health issues and things.

591
00:39:07,679 --> 00:39:10,719
And he said, uh, I
don't know if I really want to make

592
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,800
that drive, and all I goes, ah, it's not the first party

593
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,599
I'm gonna miss, and hopefully not
the last. But I figured the next

594
00:39:15,639 --> 00:39:20,239
party I'll be at is my wake. And I was going I got whoa,

595
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,320
whoa, whoa, whoa. So
picking him up, he goes,

596
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,000
whoa, Yeah, I know,
I gotta go. Like I said to

597
00:39:24,039 --> 00:39:27,119
him, whoa, whoa, whoa. Nah. I don't mean like that.

598
00:39:27,199 --> 00:39:29,880
I'm just saying, well, you
know, and I think that you

599
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,840
get older, you start to wonder
is the is the party over? You

600
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:37,639
know? You know uh, and
that we don't have that appreciation. We're

601
00:39:37,679 --> 00:39:40,679
almost you're forgotten. We put you
over here, We isolates you. The

602
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,880
old you know, the old man
is down the road. And yeah,

603
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,599
a lot of times we forget about
the until we get there. We don't

604
00:39:46,639 --> 00:39:50,199
appreciate you. Like I have an
uncle who was a little bit older than

605
00:39:50,199 --> 00:39:52,280
than my father would be. My
father would be in his seventies. He

606
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,239
died at fifty eight. It was
sixteen years ago, and this is the

607
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:58,960
next closest brother in age and he's
already a shut in. Uh yeah,

608
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,960
And I'm like, but he was
he like the cool uncle. He was

609
00:40:00,039 --> 00:40:02,159
like the fonds, you know,
he wore the leather jacket, rode the

610
00:40:02,159 --> 00:40:07,119
motorcycle. He was always laid back. I'm like, well, we can't

611
00:40:07,199 --> 00:40:13,360
let this happen. Ladies didn't get
the Silver Creeks in about ninety seven and

612
00:40:13,519 --> 00:40:19,840
they're just getting aids now. The
but you you talk about that, and

613
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,119
you sent me the story about the
old older couple. Uh, don't,

614
00:40:23,119 --> 00:40:27,239
mom, We guys we could say
old. He's seventy eight and I don't

615
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,960
know how old. The woman was
seventy something, around the same age.

616
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:31,760
They went to high school together.
He was a football player, she was

617
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:35,960
a cheerleader. He had a huge
crush on her, and uh, and

618
00:40:36,079 --> 00:40:39,280
then he had seen her about ten
years ago, but they went and got

619
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:43,639
married to different people and had kids, like together. Did you read the

620
00:40:43,679 --> 00:40:45,800
whole article. I think I read
the whole article. I think they went

621
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:50,000
and had kids and different things,
and then, uh, they saw each

622
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:53,639
other ten years ago, but he
was in his mind she was always the

623
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:58,559
love of his life, which was
odd to me because I went, well,

624
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:02,960
certainly the crush, the do you
never fully realized? So maybe that's

625
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,559
it because he said like she was
he wouldn't ask her out because she was

626
00:41:06,599 --> 00:41:09,639
almost too perfect. And I think
every every guy's had, every guy's had

627
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:14,280
that that person. Uh. And
then when you break through, sometimes it

628
00:41:14,559 --> 00:41:17,199
could be the worst thing ever,
or it could be the best. You

629
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:20,679
could really go to fight out unless
you ask. I mean, the worst

630
00:41:20,679 --> 00:41:22,880
thing they could say literally is no, yeah. But at least you know

631
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:30,360
they this is bad audio. It's
cell phone audio. But then he had

632
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:31,440
her fly to meet him, or
he was flying to meet her, but

633
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,519
they met up at the airport,
or they were going somewhere, and he

634
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,360
had gotten all their family around,
and they had only been communicating for about

635
00:41:37,519 --> 00:41:43,480
twenty days and hadn't seen each other
in ten years, but talking every night

636
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:46,239
and texting and all this, and
then he get he'd put a pillow down

637
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:53,639
and got down on the knee,
and UH proposed this is part of the

638
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:57,960
fun of this for me. Let
me see, let me just make it

639
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,599
so we can pause it. Part
of the fun of this all because of

640
00:42:00,639 --> 00:42:04,679
course I'm a dick. Is this
is happening in an airport, and you

641
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,480
hear somebody go, I don't want
that package chips like right in the middle,

642
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:14,480
you don't say, or I didn't
need that to listen. So because

643
00:42:14,519 --> 00:42:16,920
it's shut from pretty far away,
I think because they're they're trying not to

644
00:42:17,599 --> 00:42:25,320
clue her in to what he's going
to do. I saw you laughing.

645
00:42:25,519 --> 00:42:36,119
Yeah, he is funny day since
every saying likes pretty would I think every

646
00:42:36,199 --> 00:42:40,599
hour and party every night, durs
at long dis hold you if my arms

647
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,760
tell you how much you need to
me. Now here's the thing that I

648
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:50,239
start thinking. He's saying all this
stuff, But I'm pretty sure he has

649
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,000
children of his own. We have
with somebody else. So that person wasn't

650
00:42:53,039 --> 00:42:55,840
the love of your life? See
you mean he wasted that what was time

651
00:42:55,880 --> 00:43:02,440
to or wasn't a way somebody wasn't
that generation? But I mean what we

652
00:43:02,519 --> 00:43:06,000
do. But the other thing was
or wasn't a waste of time. Maybe

653
00:43:06,039 --> 00:43:08,360
it wasn't and maybe you didn't know. And as time went on, you

654
00:43:08,519 --> 00:43:12,719
realize this person is still here and
I'm still here. That's the love of

655
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:16,639
my life today, my last weekend. I've built those dreams and made them

656
00:43:16,679 --> 00:43:21,079
are reality is from me. Your
growth with your friends, you're all,

657
00:43:21,199 --> 00:43:25,119
your quick and your love. You
are the most incredible person I've been,

658
00:43:25,559 --> 00:43:30,280
most incredible person I've ever met.
That's where I go. If you had

659
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,480
a wife or some point it's gotta
be pissed. It's a compassion to those

660
00:43:32,559 --> 00:43:38,039
less fortunates like Josh and Russell remove
Wire have touched my part and gaged me

661
00:43:38,119 --> 00:43:45,119
in ways airport chatter be trying to
sense, to be amazed and laughing.

662
00:43:45,199 --> 00:43:49,679
Con stop. You are everything that
I've ever wanted in a partner, lover

663
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:54,119
and friends friend. It's got a
gross Yeah. I come to you humbly

664
00:43:54,199 --> 00:44:00,840
today. You attornieth it for pols. I want to spend the restaurant everybody.

665
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:06,119
It won't be that long, honey, I swear it. Maybe two

666
00:44:06,159 --> 00:44:10,239
good years you'll have together to make
it every day and exciting him with you.

667
00:44:12,039 --> 00:44:15,599
But the wake up in your arms
every morning to share a dream and

668
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:19,280
aspirations. What dreams and aspirations that
you hope you wake up to this?

669
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,920
But you also got to you got
to take into conscertion. He can't say,

670
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,000
you know, he has to say
the person I wanted it most of

671
00:44:25,039 --> 00:44:28,679
my life. You can't be like, well you kind of also the other

672
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:32,280
person. You're still here here,
you and another person loves with my life.

673
00:44:34,079 --> 00:44:36,519
Like John call parbably once said,
I wasn't my wife's first or second

674
00:44:36,599 --> 00:44:40,239
choice. Yeah, I mean,
look if the person died and you could

675
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:43,920
say that was the love of my
life. They've left and you've always been

676
00:44:44,119 --> 00:44:47,320
someone who was so I don't know, well, divorced, then that person

677
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:55,159
probably wasn't the love of your life
or another. I love you more than

678
00:44:55,519 --> 00:45:00,599
you get, express get more than
you would never co I wanted to spend

679
00:45:00,599 --> 00:45:04,960
the rest of my life that to
you and making you the happiest woman in

680
00:45:05,039 --> 00:45:08,880
the world. You, Nancy,
he the honor me and my soul,

681
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:19,639
me, this life, my partner, and every severe if strange, if

682
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,760
strange men are proposing to you.
Please John Smith, please report to gate

683
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:28,639
A six turning away. What doesn't
leave your engagement ring unattended? What a

684
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,639
sweet thing? Right, here's a
And look, I think there were people

685
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:36,320
that I had nothing to do with
this or just waiting for playing. We're

686
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:37,800
like, oh wow, it kind
of got sucked into it. And here's

687
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:42,000
it. I would say, I
can understand. I don't know why you

688
00:45:42,199 --> 00:45:45,159
maybe you don't want to get married, but I could see where you would

689
00:45:45,199 --> 00:45:49,800
want the companionship, lifelong engagement or
a life or something which is companionship.

690
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:52,840
I mean I could even see,
you know, my dad, there's nobody

691
00:45:52,039 --> 00:45:57,760
really and uh, you know he's
he talks to people at the gym.

692
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:00,079
I always wonder if he's always know, well, when you meet the second

693
00:46:00,119 --> 00:46:02,199
love of your life, full light
a little better, will mikeet a little

694
00:46:02,199 --> 00:46:05,519
bit better? But we'll get you
that same audio thank you. I would

695
00:46:05,559 --> 00:46:10,639
like I can steal the speech.
She never know that's it's sweet, right,

696
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:15,559
And it is something like there's something
about companionship. I know a woman

697
00:46:15,159 --> 00:46:20,320
that my mom went to college with. Her husband had died a couple of

698
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:25,039
years back, and she remarried and
they're in their mid seventies. And I

699
00:46:25,159 --> 00:46:30,840
think, I think some people I
know when why And I think on the

700
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:36,280
other side, some people just really
enjoy the companionship and they found somebody and

701
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,719
there's nothing wrong with that. Well, yeah, you know, it's nice

702
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:43,960
to have someone. It just is
Jackie o'nassa or Jackie Kennedy o'nassas, yes

703
00:46:44,559 --> 00:46:47,039
said once that the first time you
marry, you'll marry for love, second

704
00:46:47,079 --> 00:46:51,480
time you married for money. She
married er style o'nassas, who was the

705
00:46:51,519 --> 00:46:54,079
equivalent of what a billionaire would beat
today, and then the third time for

706
00:46:54,199 --> 00:46:59,159
companionship because she don't want to die
alone. I think she did she get

707
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,000
married a third time time. I
don't know. I don't know if she

708
00:47:01,079 --> 00:47:04,679
did or not, but that's what
she famously said. And you know,

709
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,440
there's there's situations where older people,
you know, they don't want to be

710
00:47:07,519 --> 00:47:09,960
alone and I don't like because they've
been with somebody their whole lives or whatever

711
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:13,480
it was. You get up and
you're just like, you feel like you's

712
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,840
no purpose unless you have somebody to
share it with. Find somebody that you

713
00:47:16,039 --> 00:47:22,719
have companionship. And I mean,
yeah, maybe, yeah, maybe that's

714
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,079
what she said. I mean,
we know somebody who got married for the

715
00:47:24,119 --> 00:47:27,920
third time, and I think the
third time was probably their best one.

716
00:47:28,079 --> 00:47:31,119
Yes, absolutely, you know right
that that's the one that seems to fit

717
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:36,079
the most. And the real love
I don't know I have. I don't

718
00:47:36,079 --> 00:47:37,960
want to say too much, but
I don't know. Now. On the

719
00:47:37,039 --> 00:47:42,639
other side of that spectrum. Also
in the news today, an eighty nine

720
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:46,360
year old man so this guy was
seventy eight and eighty nine year old man

721
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:52,920
with dementia is believed it has killed
his eighty nine year old wife in Yates

722
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:59,559
County. Yeah, strangled her,
strangled her. Now, sure had it

723
00:47:59,599 --> 00:48:04,639
coming fifty three. Of course I
couldn't stop thinking like last night with the

724
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,360
whole thing, and I started going, Oh my god, but I mean

725
00:48:07,519 --> 00:48:10,239
think about he had to. And
then I started to wondering. I go,

726
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:16,079
eighty nine, it might be the
tail end of World War two because

727
00:48:16,119 --> 00:48:20,639
most of those guys would be over
one hundred. But could it beat Korea.

728
00:48:21,639 --> 00:48:25,159
I'm wondering if this guy, like, yeah, just having a dementia

729
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:29,800
moment where he thought he was being
attacked or something, it's horrible. I

730
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:31,679
mean, could you imagine if you're
fighting World War two, you'd have to

731
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:37,039
be like in the twenties, which
means you'd be like pastor nineties. So

732
00:48:37,119 --> 00:48:38,880
he's probably like Korean War. That's
what I'm thinking. That's what I was

733
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:40,880
going. So I was going,
I was wondering in my head, I'm

734
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:45,880
trying to make excuses for this man
with dementia in my head because I'm going,

735
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:49,880
at eighty nine, you did nothing
all your life. I think normally

736
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,559
they would say, eighty nine year
old guy with Mandy Pryor's nothing right,

737
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:58,000
probably a great citizen, wonderful neighbor, raised a good family, and now

738
00:48:58,199 --> 00:49:01,639
killed your wife. Eighty nine,
They say he has demensioned. They say

739
00:49:01,679 --> 00:49:07,800
he's like can't even talk. He's
in some incapacitated state. They found him

740
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:10,480
on the bathroom before she had passed. Uh. But I was like,

741
00:49:12,159 --> 00:49:15,360
damn or has he been planning this
for years? Well, that's the other

742
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:20,239
thing, is like I just can't
take it anymore. I just can't take

743
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:28,079
its meat loaf anymore. But this
was in Kukin pen Yan in Uh at

744
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:31,039
like two thirty in the afternoon,
So I don't even know how. Oh,

745
00:49:31,079 --> 00:49:35,079
a home health aid came to check
on him as it was so they

746
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,000
so these are two older people.
If you can't talk, I mean listen.

747
00:49:38,079 --> 00:49:40,480
Well, they said, it's a
tough situation, said the chief of

748
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:44,000
police. He said, it's really
a case by case basis making sure that

749
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,119
people get the care they need.
In this particular situation, I don't think

750
00:49:46,159 --> 00:49:50,239
the family did anything wrong. I
think it was a freak incident. It

751
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:53,000
was really unfortunate. But Uh,
police believe the man killed his wife by

752
00:49:53,159 --> 00:49:58,920
strangling her with a bath towel.
The woman's body was taken to Monroe County

753
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:04,079
take into the Monroe KNY Medicals Amner's
office. Police said the man is medically

754
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:08,400
incapacitated. So it sounds like they're
giving him some kind of medication or something

755
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:13,320
and unable to communicate. Did they
say if she had any issues, would

756
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:15,440
this be like one of those?
Just that he had dementia? So I'm

757
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:19,920
wondering. I mean, that's a
lot if somebody has dementia and then all

758
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,320
of a sudden, you know,
you get freaked out, you see something

759
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,719
from the past, you have no
idea what's going on, and then unfortunately,

760
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:29,039
this is what happens. Yeah.
I remember when my father died.

761
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,760
A friend of mine had said something
to me at the funeral home. He

762
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:36,079
was trying to like he thought he
was comforting me, right, and he

763
00:50:36,159 --> 00:50:38,079
said something goes, hey, look
it could have been worse, right,

764
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,480
I go, what do you mean? My father died of cancer at fifty.

765
00:50:40,599 --> 00:50:43,880
How could be worse? Well,
my grandfather's seen out and he pushed

766
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,960
my grandmother down the stairs. He's
got all sis, you know, so

767
00:50:46,159 --> 00:50:49,039
like, once it get your brain, it gets to your brain. Man,

768
00:50:49,119 --> 00:50:52,679
it's over. So I take your
dad over my grandfather anything. And

769
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:54,199
I'm sitting there going and he means, well when he's saying this, and

770
00:50:54,239 --> 00:51:00,119
I'm like, I can understand where
you're feeling jailed for this? What do

771
00:51:00,199 --> 00:51:04,280
you do? I think you just
gotta like keep him medicated. And yeah,

772
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:07,639
I mean why you're at the trial
if you're the family, right,

773
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:12,519
it's your parents. Yeah, you
got a heart the family figure it out?

774
00:51:12,599 --> 00:51:14,719
What a heart wrench? Well,
what if in this guy's mind,

775
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:15,519
like I mean, if he got
the mention, he could have thought she

776
00:51:15,559 --> 00:51:19,000
was breaking in or he could have
thought he was mercy killing her too.

777
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:21,800
Maybe she had a health issue or
something. He thought he was doing her

778
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:24,320
a favor. I'm not saying that's
the case. There's all kinds of different

779
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:29,760
We have no idea. But the
thing that we really just true could be

780
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:31,320
any number of things. But I
would say, just like the song,

781
00:51:31,559 --> 00:51:34,920
the old Man's down the road.
So if you can be the seventy eight

782
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,400
year old guy who still has his
faculties and can move around and has some

783
00:51:37,559 --> 00:51:43,000
life and wants to be with someone, go do that because this old man

784
00:51:43,519 --> 00:51:45,239
could be just down the road.
How many more? What do you got?

785
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:49,719
Oh? Absolutely? I wonder if
our generation is gonna go a lot

786
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:52,480
of that dimension and Alzheimer's. And
I say this for for a couple of

787
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:57,039
reasons. One obesity has made it
so that our generation is not gonna outlive

788
00:51:57,079 --> 00:51:59,320
its parents. So I don't even
if we're gonna have enough people that old

789
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:01,360
to do that. But there's also
the other side of things, where people

790
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:05,920
are enjoying longer retirements because they take
better care of themselves. So if you

791
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,239
take better care of yourself, are
you going to face dementia sooner or later?

792
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:13,480
Because eventually you lose everything? I
mean, most people do. I

793
00:52:13,519 --> 00:52:17,039
don't know. It's it's it's fascinating
to me how this all unfolds, you

794
00:52:17,119 --> 00:52:20,559
know, because I mean, there's
they're not any closer to a cure for

795
00:52:20,639 --> 00:52:22,760
Alzheimer's. They can kind of slow
it down, but at that point,

796
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,599
if people are taking better care of
themselves, will Alzheimer's still be a thing

797
00:52:27,079 --> 00:52:29,880
or people living not long enough to
get it? I don't know. I

798
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:36,840
don't either. I we just saw
something today, Uh, didn't we,

799
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:43,280
Kevin? Wasn't there something that came
on the Alzheimer's to the cure up again?

800
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:45,599
Yeah? But no, But I
thought we saw something. I thought

801
00:52:45,679 --> 00:52:47,440
maybe you weren't in here. I
thought I heard something saying, hey,

802
00:52:47,599 --> 00:52:52,280
give to this, We're getting closer
to a cure. It was a commercial

803
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:55,320
and and I hope that's true,
because what a tough way to go.

804
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:59,079
But you know what, I always
think this is terrible. I know where

805
00:52:59,079 --> 00:53:00,400
you're going. Where am I going? That? This is just like,

806
00:53:00,639 --> 00:53:04,360
yeah, they're always going to say
we're getting closer donating. No, that

807
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,199
wasn't what I was gonna say that. I feel like it's the human it's

808
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:13,719
the person fighting going to the other
side. You're holding on, but slowly

809
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:17,440
you're slipping away, but you're fighting
to stay on, and slowly you start

810
00:53:17,559 --> 00:53:21,320
losing, and more and more of
you just kind of slips away, slips

811
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:23,199
away, slips away, until you're
you're gone. I don't know. I

812
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:28,679
yeah, maybe that's a way I
think of it to almost be comforting,

813
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,159
like slowly you're you're gone, but
you know, hey, just let yourself

814
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,840
go. I don't know. I
remember. I'm not gonna say, like,

815
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:37,880
who was the organization behind this,
but they were. They were pushing

816
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:40,079
this in twenty eleven, right,
they're saying, we really could end cancer

817
00:53:40,199 --> 00:53:45,639
by twenty twenty maybe maybe could we. Well it's twenty twenty three. That's

818
00:53:45,679 --> 00:53:49,320
like, and that's my point.
It's like I haven't heard anything to say

819
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,960
that we're any better, Somebody shut
them up, you know, I big

820
00:53:52,079 --> 00:53:54,800
money, big pharm up. That's
my point though. It's well, look,

821
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:59,000
I mean this guy's still alive.
I mean, I think you really

822
00:53:59,039 --> 00:54:02,559
believed it. We have this horrible
disease aids right, Yeah, and they

823
00:54:02,599 --> 00:54:06,400
were able to at least keep it
at bay. Yeah, they're going to

824
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:10,039
say, right, and they've seemed
to do it with some cancers. I

825
00:54:10,119 --> 00:54:13,599
mean, we had a guy sitting
in here, Deputy Hurley, who had

826
00:54:13,639 --> 00:54:17,280
talked about some stuff. He seems
fine, so but I don't know.

827
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:21,599
Yeah. Interesting, All right,
we'll take a moment when we come back.

828
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:23,880
Since we're on the old man theme, I got an old man rant.

829
00:54:24,599 --> 00:54:29,159
I think this can go permeate society, and I have a funny feeling

830
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:31,599
that at least one of you two
we'll be on my side. All right,

831
00:54:31,679 --> 00:54:34,800
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832
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837
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838
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839
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864
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I mean, that is freaking cool. And then we got a whole

865
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:02,239
back to school thing is happening now. If you've got kids, and you

866
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:06,199
know a lot of the college kids
already back, but the high your own

867
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:14,719
school bus can go get them special
license, no money down. But Rick

868
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:16,559
Huntley from the Plug is on the
line. Rick, are you at East

869
00:57:16,559 --> 00:57:21,119
freew Mall right now? Yes,
sir, I am in the store.

870
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:25,440
Man. It sounds like it's it's
popping. It's the end of the night.

871
00:57:25,559 --> 00:57:30,280
But we got a family in their
shopping right now. I'll come with

872
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:35,119
their two twin twin sons and they're
picking, picking away, trying to get

873
00:57:35,159 --> 00:57:37,559
the right pair of shoes for back
to school. I got see back to

874
00:57:37,599 --> 00:57:40,559
school? Is there? Tell me
about back to school and what's happening at

875
00:57:40,599 --> 00:57:45,199
the Plug in the East few Mall. So right now, obviously we got

876
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:52,079
kids going back and left in ten
days for the city I believe out in

877
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:55,800
the Pittsburgh and Brighton area as well
after the Labor Day. But yeah,

878
00:57:55,840 --> 00:58:00,440
it's right now. We're just running. Me have two promotional tables that we

879
00:58:00,599 --> 00:58:04,400
carry. One is going to be
all peers on the table, buy one,

880
00:58:04,519 --> 00:58:07,760
get one percent off. We have
another table, another table that one

881
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:12,639
hundred dollars or less. Okay,
so it's not some of like your high

882
00:58:12,679 --> 00:58:14,559
end shoes. I know a lot
of kids like the retros, don't have

883
00:58:14,559 --> 00:58:17,119
any records humble tables. But it's
still good affordable shoes. If we don't

884
00:58:17,159 --> 00:58:21,960
feel like spending the three and four
hundred dollars that we have for some of

885
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:23,880
our retros and our easies that we
carry, I wouldn't get one and a

886
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:27,159
half off. Is great for the
family with twins there in the store,

887
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:30,599
push from over there, or if
you have a wife who just loves to

888
00:58:30,679 --> 00:58:32,840
shop for shoes. Yeah, you
know, honey, what about me?

889
00:58:34,079 --> 00:58:36,920
Let me ask you. Did you
guys still have to carry the Jordan casual

890
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:40,360
shoes? I missed those. No, they don't make them like they used

891
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:45,119
to. There are a few,
but they don't have them. Because it

892
00:58:45,239 --> 00:58:47,320
based everything that we use based on
what the resall value is. So it's

893
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:51,719
not a true resll value on it, then we don't bother it because it

894
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,400
doesn't make it for us to,
you know, charge you double for a

895
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:58,840
shoe that doesn't really have that value
on it. Got you okay, Well,

896
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:05,599
if they're autographed by Magic Johnson and
you got I gotta take it for

897
00:59:05,639 --> 00:59:09,320
a ride recently, that's why.
Yeah, autographed jersey from Magic Johnson.

898
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:14,760
Oh yeah, the store for you, Danny, that's true. I could

899
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:17,239
put it up there Dad, maybe
get it on consignment. Rick, I

900
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:20,639
don't know if you have time.
If you're, you're welcome to join us

901
00:59:20,679 --> 00:59:23,159
in studio next Wednesday. If you're, if you get around, I'd love

902
00:59:23,199 --> 00:59:27,360
to see you. Okay. Yeah, I'm definitely trying to get out there.

903
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:29,559
And you know this, this is
a crunch week for us. Yeah,

904
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:32,159
because of that the last few days. Yeah, so I'll definitely try

905
00:59:32,159 --> 00:59:36,400
to see if I can get out
to come sit in with you guys again

906
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:38,199
because I enjoy you guys. It's
fine, well good, but I just

907
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:42,239
appreciate you guys for checking in.
Yeah. Well, thank you, Rick,

908
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:45,199
and get out there to the plug
in the East few mall as you

909
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:50,159
as you heard a table with under
one hundred and uh you've got to buy

910
00:59:50,239 --> 00:59:52,920
one, get one half off table
as well, sir. All right,

911
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:57,440
thank you, Rick, no problem, appreciate you guys. See you there.

912
00:59:58,679 --> 01:00:00,519
So we'll start I think two day
for a Quintas, And I think

913
01:00:00,679 --> 01:00:04,960
Greece is back Wednesday, Wednesday or
Thursday next week, so it's less than

914
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:07,440
it's a week away. Right.
It's New York the last state to go

915
01:00:07,559 --> 01:00:09,159
to back to school, because I
know in Rhode Island they're already back.

916
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:13,480
Yeah, Maine's already back. They're
already back. Yeah. My my niece

917
01:00:13,519 --> 01:00:16,119
and nephew went back, or Anny
their main So I don't know Jamison has

918
01:00:16,159 --> 01:00:21,639
been back. I think I think
his school he's going to a different school.

919
01:00:21,639 --> 01:00:25,480
They started later August, like the
twenty first, and uh but hit

920
01:00:25,599 --> 01:00:29,800
the other schools in his area had
started the week prior. Okay, yeah,

921
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:32,039
I mean these kids are also done, like may you know, yeah

922
01:00:32,159 --> 01:00:36,400
in one hundred and fourteen degrees as
he said down there. All right,

923
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:39,639
so we're talking old man, old
man down the road. I I'm starting

924
01:00:39,639 --> 01:00:44,719
to have an issue, and I
think it becomes a societal thing. We

925
01:00:45,159 --> 01:00:47,000
see a lot of bad behavior these
days, do we not. We're not

926
01:00:47,079 --> 01:00:52,480
seeing a lot of bad behaviorsh everything. Everyoney's got a phone to that behavior

927
01:00:52,559 --> 01:00:54,480
out here. Everybody's well behaved.
Just people throwing up and peeing in the

928
01:00:54,559 --> 01:01:02,119
bushes. But I think, like, yeah, you know, like the

929
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:06,320
key is and all this stuff,
and we I mean, like the city.

930
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:07,719
I don't know what's going on down
there. And we did what people

931
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:12,119
shot the day and broad daylight and
oh yeah, jeez, I mean for

932
01:01:12,239 --> 01:01:15,400
crying out loud. Yeah, all
that kind. At least wait till nighttime

933
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:22,800
please. So is it okay?
You were just in a hotel, Yeah,

934
01:01:22,039 --> 01:01:27,519
a very nice hotel. Did they
have like a breakfast that they served?

935
01:01:28,519 --> 01:01:30,880
Yeah. In fact, as a
matter of fact, somebody sent us

936
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:34,760
breakfast. I don't know who,
Okay, on the last day we were

937
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:36,800
there, I thought it was my
boss, You're welcome, And it wasn't

938
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:42,400
him. Was you? It was
you two? No? You, No,

939
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:49,639
you were somebody sent us breakfast.
Somebody called somebody sent us breakfast up

940
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:53,000
at seven o'clock in the morning Central
time to our room. It was like

941
01:01:53,079 --> 01:01:58,719
eggs and bacon, toast and jelly
and coffee and juice. And I said,

942
01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:00,079
hey, Bill, my boss,
Hey, thanks for scause I didn't

943
01:02:00,119 --> 01:02:04,199
send that. So then I text
Wesley, our old friend who lives in

944
01:02:04,239 --> 01:02:06,679
as they go, hey do you
send me breakfast? Goes No, But

945
01:02:06,719 --> 01:02:08,480
that would have been a nice touch, wouldn't it. And so then I

946
01:02:08,599 --> 01:02:12,000
text my buddy Brad Davy. He's
like, did you send us breakfast?

947
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:14,519
Because no, but you know what
I should have You know, I should

948
01:02:14,559 --> 01:02:15,480
have said. I'm like, no, you shouldn't have done anything. I'm

949
01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:19,280
like, somebody said that's breakfast.
So I go down to the front desk

950
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:22,000
and I go, hey, can
you tell us who set us breakfast?

951
01:02:22,079 --> 01:02:23,800
They go, well, it's on
your card, sir. I go,

952
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:28,599
I didn't order breakfast because I wouldn't
order ice tea with breakfast. Somebody sent

953
01:02:28,679 --> 01:02:30,599
us ice tea as well. I
go, and I would have probably asked

954
01:02:30,599 --> 01:02:34,719
for pancakes. But I was very
happy with the free eggs and bacon and

955
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:37,400
stuff. It wasn't on your card
though. No, all right, you

956
01:02:37,519 --> 01:02:39,639
got room one tens breakfast. But
here's my thing when some times if you

957
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:43,719
go and you stay at it,
like if you're doing one of those quick

958
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:45,760
in and ounce, you'll stay at
a day's in or for best Western,

959
01:02:46,119 --> 01:02:52,079
and they got the breakfast that's the
best Western? Can people please just put

960
01:02:52,159 --> 01:02:54,440
on a pair of shorts, put
on a pair of pants. I don't

961
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:58,360
want to see your faded Elmo pajamas
when you go down there. Oh yeah,

962
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:00,800
that's a thing. I don't want
to see that in Walmart. I

963
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:02,280
don't want to see an your pajamas. I don't want to I don't want

964
01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:06,719
to see it. I've seen it
in Wegmans. I've seen it. I

965
01:03:07,599 --> 01:03:09,719
feel like I see it more and
more, and to me, it's rude.

966
01:03:10,119 --> 01:03:14,960
Yeah, and it's it's rude to
yourself. And I think people treat

967
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:16,760
it differently. I do. I
know that I've said for years, people

968
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:20,519
have always made fun of me.
I used to be called fisher Boy and

969
01:03:20,559 --> 01:03:23,000
all this stuff because I would always
wear lightly starts buttoned down shirt and I

970
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:27,199
always had one on the ready.
Now I've got wrinkle free shirts that they

971
01:03:27,239 --> 01:03:29,440
just take it out of the jire. But either way, it's important.

972
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:32,320
But I'm just saying, like I
think that there's something to be said as

973
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:36,800
I sit here and I feel like
I almost wear the same thing over and

974
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:39,079
over and over. But I I
this is not a plug. But I

975
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:43,480
fell in love with these true classic
T shirts. I wear the same ones.

976
01:03:43,599 --> 01:03:46,679
I fucking love these things like they're
perfect shape, especially fat guys like

977
01:03:46,719 --> 01:03:50,880
me. Well, I mean,
I just I bought a couple of very

978
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:54,199
buttery smooth yeah man, but you
nt you get texts every day, fifty

979
01:03:54,239 --> 01:03:59,159
percent off. The entire store got
act in eight minutes. Probably I haven't,

980
01:03:59,519 --> 01:04:06,880
I haven't attention, but yes it
probably does. You're not You're not

981
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:12,440
off, but my I just go. I swear to god. It starts

982
01:04:12,519 --> 01:04:15,800
there. And I know this sounds
like an old man ranting, but when

983
01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:17,800
you look back and we used to
go, remember back, and then you

984
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:23,360
see those pictures. You would see
pictures of Yankee Stadium or any stadium,

985
01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:28,559
and people are dressed to the nine
and shoots and ties and hats, and

986
01:04:28,679 --> 01:04:31,480
it was almost a self respect thing. And I think you feel better like

987
01:04:31,519 --> 01:04:34,599
that during the depression. Yes,
and you feel better though, right,

988
01:04:34,679 --> 01:04:39,079
you feel a little bit better about
yourself. Dress for the job you want

989
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:43,039
is what we're told. Dress for
success was another thing. Dress. I'm

990
01:04:43,079 --> 01:04:45,599
not saying that we have to go
there anymore, but there is something about,

991
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:48,800
I don't know, put on a
clean T shirt, put on something

992
01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:53,719
that a pair of pants. Let's
not wear our sleep clothes to just walk

993
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:56,239
around in all that time. I
get it. Third days where you don't

994
01:04:56,239 --> 01:05:00,719
want to you know your house,
say I'm with it, going out,

995
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:03,440
put out a goddamn pat patch.
Are you encompassing this to everybody or a

996
01:05:03,559 --> 01:05:09,480
kids still allowed, I would say
everybody, Yeah, I mean I can't

997
01:05:10,199 --> 01:05:13,400
from the tree when it's young.
I come from a family where my grandfather

998
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:15,639
would probably put out a three piece
suit to go get the mail. So

999
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:19,280
maybe that's a little strange. My
dad wore a suit as a teacher every

1000
01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:23,400
day, a full suit. Yeah, not just a shirt and tie,

1001
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:26,079
but a full suit. Yeah,
usually a full suit a lot of times

1002
01:05:26,119 --> 01:05:29,039
three piece suit like and then,
uh, you know, one of the

1003
01:05:29,119 --> 01:05:32,280
boys had Grandparents' day at there at
McQuaid had it, and so my father

1004
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:36,960
came up to go and he wore
a three piece tweed suit that he had.

1005
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:42,599
Yeah, it was a psychologist day. I gotta get some more tweet

1006
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:46,039
Cleveland became a psychologist, so he
put out a three piece tweets I gotta

1007
01:05:46,079 --> 01:05:50,760
get and wallpapering the walls with tweed. But there was always like I just

1008
01:05:51,079 --> 01:05:55,480
and I know this sounds old man
and people are gonna go, but there

1009
01:05:55,599 --> 01:05:59,280
is something about having a little respect
for yourself. And I'll tell you what.

1010
01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:01,719
Like, you know, I I
looked at I've had a couple of

1011
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:05,599
people in during the day recently,
Uh, two big wigs. I'll say

1012
01:06:05,599 --> 01:06:09,880
who they are. Arnie roth Child, that's a big wig. But he's

1013
01:06:10,079 --> 01:06:14,920
yeah, but Arnie, even in
casual, is a higher end casual,

1014
01:06:15,079 --> 01:06:17,440
right yeah. And he's a three
piece suitter. He wasn't though, he

1015
01:06:17,559 --> 01:06:21,039
was in like offence golf shirt and
sometimes he's got the little like chain that

1016
01:06:21,079 --> 01:06:26,039
goes across the tie. Yeah,
he's one of those types of guy.

1017
01:06:26,199 --> 01:06:29,119
Then there was and then Greg came
in, and then Greg was in a

1018
01:06:29,239 --> 01:06:33,400
in the suit and yes, and
then there was then there's you know other

1019
01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:36,239
people. And I always go,
look, I know it's a simple thing

1020
01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:41,559
and it sounds ridiculous, but I
as I'm getting older again, we played

1021
01:06:41,599 --> 01:06:44,519
Old Man down the road right here, I'm coming up on the old man

1022
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:51,360
run and joke every time we have
a little bit now narrow all right,

1023
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:55,800
I'm willing to get that in there. But I do think, like a

1024
01:06:55,920 --> 01:07:00,360
lot of that stuff, I do
wonder could you have a better behave and

1025
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:02,519
we'd see some of the shit go
away, some of this, you know,

1026
01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:06,360
respect me, respect me? Shit
where we see people fight, you

1027
01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:10,920
know what I'm saying, Yes,
well, how you, but how don't

1028
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:14,280
we start this? You respect yourself? What happened to the terms Sunday Best,

1029
01:07:14,519 --> 01:07:16,719
you put on some you just didn't
even put Sunday Best on in church

1030
01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:23,000
anymore. Okay, I don't look. I understand that styles change and there's

1031
01:07:23,039 --> 01:07:27,480
casual. All I'm saying is,
don't wear your fucking pajamas out of the

1032
01:07:27,519 --> 01:07:30,559
house. And I think that that
says more about you and how you feel

1033
01:07:30,599 --> 01:07:34,639
about yourself than anybody else. I
think it's rude, and get dressed,

1034
01:07:34,719 --> 01:07:39,320
and I swear to God, you'll
even be treated better. I think you'll

1035
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:44,519
be treated better if you go to
the dentist and you're wearing your Elmo pajamas

1036
01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:47,519
or your big Bird whatever smurf shit. I don't know. I'm aging myself

1037
01:07:47,559 --> 01:07:53,800
here. Yeah, I think you're
gonna get treated I think people will look

1038
01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:57,559
at you. Okay, you feel
like college kids would do it all the

1039
01:07:57,639 --> 01:08:00,480
time that the girls have, especially
the girls they have their hair all bunched

1040
01:08:00,559 --> 01:08:01,840
up. Well if they have juicy
on. I was okay, and that's

1041
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:03,960
what I told. That was one
of the last things I told Sam as

1042
01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:08,159
we left first day class. Don't
go looking like a scumbag. Yeah,

1043
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:13,039
put on something you don't have to
dress up. No nice shirt, look

1044
01:08:13,199 --> 01:08:15,680
nice. At least the first day. It's like head and shoulders, check

1045
01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:19,640
your I think, yes, if
you got a free breakfast in the hotel,

1046
01:08:20,319 --> 01:08:24,640
enough with this turkey sausage and porksto
put some fucking bacon on the people.

1047
01:08:25,239 --> 01:08:27,439
Oh bro, it was great bacon. Man. Do they never have

1048
01:08:27,560 --> 01:08:31,560
bacon on the free breakfast anymore?
Every time I got they got bacon.

1049
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:34,079
Nope, I don't stay there anymore, dude. The Homewood Sweets, I

1050
01:08:34,119 --> 01:08:36,000
don't know. It wasn't the Homewood. It was like the Home too.

1051
01:08:36,319 --> 01:08:41,359
I stayed at that in Nashville.
They had like this all star breakfast.

1052
01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:45,359
Man, it was fantastic cinnamon rolls, nice hot centing rolls. Yeah,

1053
01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:48,880
I've had I haven't stayed in the
hotel in a long time. They had

1054
01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:51,439
bacon the last time I was there, but not this time. Get room

1055
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:57,920
service at moran Stock or no moran
Stock is coming up on tent tent service,

1056
01:08:58,039 --> 01:09:00,479
I don't know. I got a
text from my niece and she's very

1057
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:02,279
excited that that I may be coming. It would be cool if you've got

1058
01:09:02,359 --> 01:09:05,760
like growhub just delivered to your tent
specifically, just to show that thing.

1059
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:09,079
Now where you just put the pin
and they send the pacha right to you.

1060
01:09:09,279 --> 01:09:13,199
I'm looking for mister Moran. Heah, there's like, okay, Bill,

1061
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:17,039
I don't know. Maybe I'm with
you on the pajamas. I knew

1062
01:09:17,079 --> 01:09:20,199
I had a feeling you would be. I think you probably already any of

1063
01:09:20,279 --> 01:09:24,439
it in Connecticut at all. I
got. I got a funny story though,

1064
01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:27,520
confession. Yesterday I went out to
get the mail and I wear these

1065
01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:29,920
sleep shorts, right, and you
know, like that's getting your mail,

1066
01:09:30,079 --> 01:09:31,079
right, But I have a black
shirt on and but they're shorts. I

1067
01:09:31,119 --> 01:09:35,279
feel like regular shorts. Yeah.
Sometimes you forget that you're wearing like sleep

1068
01:09:35,399 --> 01:09:42,800
shorts instead of sama the whole.
Yeah. Yeah, right, So I'm

1069
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:45,760
going down here, so I forget
that I have these shorts all the time.

1070
01:09:46,640 --> 01:09:48,920
Well, these are so soft and
very comfortable. Well, you know,

1071
01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:51,439
I get I start working and stuff, and I forget that I'm still

1072
01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:56,640
wearing what's essence pajamas. So I
go out to get the mail around noon

1073
01:09:57,399 --> 01:09:59,720
and I get I get all the
way down to the mailbox, and halfway

1074
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:01,840
back, I realize my junk is
hanging out of my pants. Hello the

1075
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:04,520
front of the neighbors. Oh yeah, no, no, nobody came out,

1076
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:08,760
but my weirders hanging out serious,
I'm like, oh crap, So

1077
01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:10,800
I had like, you know,
you can take your pants and like turn

1078
01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:13,760
them like maybe at ten o'clock.
That's what I did. No, I'm

1079
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:27,479
serious over here, So like my
neighbors might, that's true too. I'm

1080
01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:31,800
a big believer in like, and
I've said it before that I really like

1081
01:10:32,039 --> 01:10:35,960
things like the habitat for humanity because
there's sweat equity and that's a little bit

1082
01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:39,439
of pride in that. And then
when you start, like you know,

1083
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:42,800
when they do these clean sweep things
and you clean up your neighborhood or you

1084
01:10:43,159 --> 01:10:45,640
yeah, paint the house and you
you fix things up and you do all

1085
01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:48,399
this, you start to feel better. Its ownership, yeah, and you

1086
01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:54,239
feel good and there's some satisfaction in
that. And I was even watching I

1087
01:10:54,359 --> 01:10:57,520
got sucked into some stupid videos.
I stay up way too late. I

1088
01:10:57,600 --> 01:11:00,279
get I get I think, I
get overtired. I get home when I

1089
01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:03,359
scrolled through social media and I saw
this one where these guys, this guy's

1090
01:11:03,399 --> 01:11:08,960
like see the reveal, but he
would go up to people that were like

1091
01:11:09,239 --> 01:11:11,960
one old guy in a trailer,
right, and who knows what the thing

1092
01:11:12,039 --> 01:11:15,119
is, but it's all overgrown,
like you can't even you can't even see

1093
01:11:15,199 --> 01:11:16,520
the place right, Oh, you're
stuck to the lawn. More videos too.

1094
01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:20,239
Yeah, this guy don't know why
he weed waxed through and I go,

1095
01:11:20,399 --> 01:11:24,840
God, that's so fucking satisfied.
I don't know why. I'll tell

1096
01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:28,359
you why. Yeah, man,
And you can see your progress. I

1097
01:11:28,399 --> 01:11:31,479
can see it. Men love Men
hate mowing the lawn, but they've loved

1098
01:11:31,960 --> 01:11:35,159
when it's been done. Well,
I love having mode. That's the expression.

1099
01:11:35,279 --> 01:11:38,960
But like the thing is, like
it's done. There's such a sense

1100
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:44,000
of accomplishment to that. Yes,
but you take a little pride. Ye.

1101
01:11:44,159 --> 01:11:46,800
Now take that feeling and let's apply
it to other things in life and

1102
01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:51,640
graffiti, which God, if you
did that, that's what real self esteem,

1103
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:56,399
Yes it is. We talk about
building self Esteems need self esteem.

1104
01:11:56,600 --> 01:12:00,520
They just need to win. YEA. So maybe the schools that are have

1105
01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:04,039
a uniform policy or say you get
to wear what you want as long as

1106
01:12:04,079 --> 01:12:08,640
it fits these parameters. Maybe it's
a jacket and a tie and casual pants.

1107
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:10,840
We're not going to tell you all
this stuff, but that's the way

1108
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:14,159
it's gotta be. No jeans,
no whatever, I swear to God,

1109
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:17,039
everybody seems to behave a little bit
better, everybody tries a little bit harder.

1110
01:12:17,239 --> 01:12:20,680
There's something about that that's pride and
satisfying. And I think the same

1111
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:25,439
thing like mowing the lawn, taking
care of your house, cleaning something up,

1112
01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:28,479
you feel good. Who was that
one Navy guy who said make your

1113
01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:30,479
bed every morning? The first thing
you need to do is make your bed.

1114
01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:32,840
Now you've accomplished something. Andrew Huberman's
a doctor out of Stanford. He

1115
01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:35,079
does all these YouTube videos. Got
a podcast. He goes, if you

1116
01:12:35,159 --> 01:12:39,760
want to naturally build testosteron as you
get older, you need to stack wins

1117
01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:43,520
every day. What does that mean? Anything that gives you progress, anything

1118
01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:45,880
that makes you makes you feel I'm
going to tell you something wins. Your

1119
01:12:46,199 --> 01:12:50,239
testosterone is going to go through the
roof. I've been you know, as

1120
01:12:50,279 --> 01:12:55,279
I've as I've gotten older, as
there was how do I say this to

1121
01:12:55,479 --> 01:13:00,079
for that sounding so fucking dumbarrow,
narrow, narrow? Okay, So when

1122
01:13:00,119 --> 01:13:04,680
we started this podcast, uh,
there were changes that that came about that

1123
01:13:04,800 --> 01:13:10,319
made this possible. And in the
beginning, I there were times where I

1124
01:13:10,399 --> 01:13:15,279
would question myself around every turn,
and so everybody would leave. I'd be

1125
01:13:15,359 --> 01:13:17,439
at my dining room table and it
would be like, you know, twelve

1126
01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:20,920
thirty and I'd be starting to I
could feel myself getting tired, so I'd

1127
01:13:20,960 --> 01:13:25,399
reach for some crackers and cheese and
then maybe I go accept glass of wine,

1128
01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:29,680
glass of Scotch. And I put
on some weight, so I've been

1129
01:13:30,319 --> 01:13:31,039
trying to take it off, and
I go, you know what, I

1130
01:13:31,279 --> 01:13:34,960
loved to run. I'm hurting any
disc in my back and I was told

1131
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:39,239
by doctors while I go, give
it up, don't run anymore because it's

1132
01:13:39,239 --> 01:13:44,399
just gonna the pounding. It'll just
hurt that that disc. And sometimes you

1133
01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:46,399
know so and then I have ankle
issues. Now, I mean, you

1134
01:13:46,439 --> 01:13:50,279
know, old man down the road. I'm becoming the old man I went

1135
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:56,279
today I was. I did a
one on one with Greg Connors that will

1136
01:13:56,359 --> 01:13:59,239
run next week, and it's just
it's a different side of things. It's

1137
01:13:59,279 --> 01:14:03,439
really just talking about success and when
you don't feel like doing it, what

1138
01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:06,520
do you do? And Greg's like, I do it? You know that

1139
01:14:06,680 --> 01:14:10,720
that's what you do. I have
a theory. I believe this. You

1140
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:14,600
want somebody to do something for you, find the busiest person. You know

1141
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:19,600
it'll get done. Ask somebody who's
got no job and a lot of time

1142
01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:24,399
on their hands, and it won't
fucking happen because they're accustomed to not day.

1143
01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:27,680
Yes, And that's what I'm saying. When you're the busy person gets

1144
01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:30,520
shit done. If you say to
them, will you do this for me,

1145
01:14:30,039 --> 01:14:32,680
it'll happen. My wife is like
that. Yeah, she's always like

1146
01:14:32,760 --> 01:14:35,720
occupied with something. Yes, but
I mean if you said her closet needs

1147
01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:42,119
to be rear rate done. So
it's just been a theory I've had.

1148
01:14:42,239 --> 01:14:45,199
However, uh so, I so
today I didn't feel like going for a

1149
01:14:45,279 --> 01:14:47,600
run, and I had a bunch
of other things going on. There's a

1150
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:54,319
million as you can imagine, from
family to others this, and uh,

1151
01:14:55,079 --> 01:14:56,520
you know what, I'm going to
go for a run. And it was

1152
01:14:56,600 --> 01:15:01,000
the first time that I could actually
complete the full two and a half miles

1153
01:15:01,279 --> 01:15:04,560
without walking. That's a fucking win. Yeah, And I know it sounds

1154
01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:08,880
silly, but it was a win. My ankle's hurt a little less today

1155
01:15:09,199 --> 01:15:12,239
and I stretched all the time.
And those are the types of things.

1156
01:15:12,359 --> 01:15:15,960
And I will tell you the satisfaction
that I had made me go, Yeah,

1157
01:15:16,119 --> 01:15:19,479
let's go, and I don't know
what that is to the ultimate warrior.

1158
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:24,279
I don't know what on the ropes. All I'm saying is fucking stop

1159
01:15:24,359 --> 01:15:27,560
wearing your pajamas, get your head
out of your ass, and let's go.

1160
01:15:28,079 --> 01:15:31,399
If we started implementing more dress codes
in like younger ages, I'm not

1161
01:15:31,399 --> 01:15:34,399
saying you have to wear a suit
and tie, but if you do that,

1162
01:15:34,680 --> 01:15:40,479
then there is something about a sharp
suit man like a nice shirt like

1163
01:15:40,640 --> 01:15:43,880
George Clooney always looks sharp. Yeah, Jordan Peterson's the same way he goes.

1164
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:47,680
I always wear a suit anything.
Our friend Wally would put you in

1165
01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:53,079
Wally's clothes like. See, but
I could. I could be a bit

1166
01:15:53,119 --> 01:15:58,880
of a I was gonna say a
word that I can't say on a podcast.

1167
01:16:00,239 --> 01:16:01,279
Yeah, I wouldn't. I still
wouldn't want to say this word.

1168
01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:06,680
Okay, uh but yes, uh, but I would be. I like

1169
01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:12,720
nice clothes, like I I like
nice clothes. Think of it, the

1170
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:15,079
most amount of money you've ever spent
on something for clothes? Clothes? Oh

1171
01:16:15,319 --> 01:16:17,920
well, my wife took me to
or I took her. We took each

1172
01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:20,520
other weird store this back. Yeah, but how much would it, like,

1173
01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:25,479
give me, like a top end
of what you spent on something on

1174
01:16:25,640 --> 01:16:28,680
like a suit or something. Yeah, I'd spent five hundred to one thousand

1175
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:30,920
dollars on a good suit. Okay, if it was a class have you

1176
01:16:30,520 --> 01:16:32,359
have? I no, the most
of ever spent. It's like two hundred

1177
01:16:32,359 --> 01:16:35,439
and fifty maybe three hundred dollars in
a suit men's warehouse. But I wouldn't

1178
01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:43,279
get one free. I once really
really deep, and that's where but I

1179
01:16:43,439 --> 01:16:45,720
love that. There's something about it. It looks it just looks phenomenal.

1180
01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:49,479
The clothes that while he makes look
phenomenal, and there's something about that.

1181
01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:54,800
You put that on, you feel
like a million. That's what I'm saying.

1182
01:16:55,399 --> 01:16:58,439
Put Joms off. There's a Bill's
Beat reporter named Matt Perina who works

1183
01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:01,079
for cyircuse dot com. Right,
so this past summer and the summer before

1184
01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:04,720
all the anytime a Bill's Beat reporter
gets married, all the Bills Beat reporters

1185
01:17:04,760 --> 01:17:09,800
get invited, and this dude's wife
picks out his suits for him. And

1186
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:13,199
this dude looks sharp as a mofo. He's got a green suit, looks

1187
01:17:13,199 --> 01:17:15,560
like the Notre Dame mascot because he's
got red hair and a beer. But

1188
01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:17,159
like, I mean, he looks
sharp. And then the next the next

1189
01:17:17,199 --> 01:17:20,800
wedding, he's got a blue suit
out with pitchtripes and then everybody's like inviting

1190
01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:24,079
in the wedding. He's just to
see what he's going to dress, Like,

1191
01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:27,960
well, what do you think I'd
looked quick? But because like he

1192
01:17:28,119 --> 01:17:31,199
dresses, he looks like a million
bucks. Yeah, I'm just saying that

1193
01:17:31,359 --> 01:17:35,760
you want to there is something said. You just feel better and when you

1194
01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:39,920
know you look sharp, yeah,
you feel more confident. You got a

1195
01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:43,760
night night's suit on. There is
something about that girl's cos he's got a

1196
01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:47,560
sharp dress man, or you can
be like this guy's right. This is

1197
01:17:47,600 --> 01:17:55,239
the old man telling you put some
standards in your life. Have standards for

1198
01:17:55,319 --> 01:17:59,279
yourself, seriously and have standards for
yourself. And if everybody did, I

1199
01:17:59,359 --> 01:18:00,720
think we'd have a lot less promise. Yeah we will, we would take

1200
01:18:00,720 --> 01:18:05,600
pride in So I'm just saying,
hello, pride in yourself. Come it

1201
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:11,239
up next, hemorrhoid Crean's what you
need to know. Do you know anybody

1202
01:18:11,279 --> 01:18:15,279
who had to fire a family member? Yes, okay, yes we will

1203
01:18:15,319 --> 01:18:25,279
get to that next. But first
the Wings are home this week to face

1204
01:18:25,399 --> 01:18:29,199
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1205
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season, get yourself an RV.
They have RV lots at NFL stadiums,

1211
01:18:54,359 --> 01:18:57,600
they have RV lots at college football
stadiums. You know, maybe you got

1212
01:18:57,600 --> 01:18:59,720
somebody who's going to be going to
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1213
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:00,960
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you don't believe what you you come
right now that we are always loved

1223
01:20:16,399 --> 01:20:26,319
this album which wants this black and
blue Rolling Stones missus uh cherryo baby.

1224
01:20:27,880 --> 01:20:30,680
He's got kind of that reggae feel. Do it now? Are all the

1225
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:33,000
songs not black and blue like this? Or is this just the one?

1226
01:20:33,399 --> 01:20:40,920
It's just the one. He's probably
one that many people don't know. But

1227
01:20:40,960 --> 01:20:45,479
I always loved it, always kind
of like that reggae make always dabbled a

1228
01:20:45,520 --> 01:20:49,159
little bit in the reggae and Keith
loves regah. Yeah, yeah, Keith

1229
01:20:49,239 --> 01:20:53,880
Richards. He knocked him so he
got a concussion. He loves to go

1230
01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:56,439
to the islands and he has a
place in the islands and he was climbing

1231
01:20:56,520 --> 01:21:00,359
a tree to get a coconut and
he fell out a concussion. That didn't

1232
01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:02,920
a street story, you know,
it didn't kill him, didn't even hurt

1233
01:21:02,960 --> 01:21:05,359
it was so high. But I
gotta say, like, the guy kind

1234
01:21:05,399 --> 01:21:12,239
of looks like Jim Well. It's
funny because you're sticking out and he was

1235
01:21:12,279 --> 01:21:17,720
younger, and Princess I, Princess
Diana died, Elton John wrote rero Candle

1236
01:21:17,760 --> 01:21:23,840
in the Wind, Princess died,
and Keith Richards famously said he's made a

1237
01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:30,960
living out of running songs for dead
blondes. So Elton's response was calling Keith

1238
01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:33,560
an arthritic monkey. Oh that's funny, Yeah, Oh that's funny. Yeah,

1239
01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:38,600
yeah, he's made a living at
her. Keith, Well, I

1240
01:21:38,640 --> 01:21:42,960
always thought Keith was quick and funny
in conversation and stuff. You know.

1241
01:21:43,239 --> 01:21:45,880
But I love when the Brits rip
on each other because rock and roll,

1242
01:21:45,960 --> 01:21:47,880
to me, really is British.
If you're like, yeah, it is,

1243
01:21:48,119 --> 01:21:51,239
Danny. It started off the blues
from us. How the fuck did

1244
01:21:51,880 --> 01:21:55,279
Brits took it to the next level? Dude? All right, maybe they

1245
01:21:55,359 --> 01:22:00,119
did name the ten greatest rock bands
of all time. I already even I

1246
01:22:00,159 --> 01:22:03,520
can put the yes the Eagles.
Yeah, the Eagles were great, but

1247
01:22:03,600 --> 01:22:05,840
they were more country. But I
would say I've named nine more. I

1248
01:22:05,840 --> 01:22:10,079
would put Errol Smith up there.
Oh gosh, no, yes, I

1249
01:22:10,159 --> 01:22:14,720
think Errol Smith was great early early, only seven Beatles, Zeppelin, the

1250
01:22:14,880 --> 01:22:20,039
Who. Okay, let me think
here's Stone Stone four. Yeah, I

1251
01:22:20,119 --> 01:22:23,239
mean like, like, okay,
now, like name let's name some other

1252
01:22:23,399 --> 01:22:26,560
great rock bands. Well, I
can't put Erroosmith in that category. What

1253
01:22:26,600 --> 01:22:28,720
do you mean he can't put Rosmith? I can't put I love the Doors.

1254
01:22:28,720 --> 01:22:30,279
I can't put the Doors. I
would put the Doors in that category

1255
01:22:30,319 --> 01:22:34,760
either. But I'll tell you what
I would put The Beach Boys. Okay,

1256
01:22:34,760 --> 01:22:38,399
you put the Beach Boys. Do
you think that that Pet Sounds was

1257
01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:42,560
very underrated? A great album?
Well, nobody could harmonize like them,

1258
01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:45,159
right except for Jan and Dean.
Could you call them rock and roll?

1259
01:22:45,199 --> 01:22:51,359
I don't know. Uh yeah,
sure, I'm Elvis. I'm in bands.

1260
01:22:51,399 --> 01:22:56,000
I'm not rock bands rock bands.
I mean Elvis is is Fleetwood Mac,

1261
01:22:56,439 --> 01:22:59,359
which is kind of a hybrid.
Yeah, it's like someone or almost

1262
01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:09,560
read Oh yeah, I mean like
you like, maybe metallic, you could

1263
01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:12,640
put metallic on that. Okay,
all right, but they different. But

1264
01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:15,520
the greatest of the great the cream
of the crop. Okay, but they

1265
01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:19,119
all ripped off American blues it made
it better. Okay, I'm not gonna

1266
01:23:19,119 --> 01:23:23,479
say snatch and improve. I have
referred to led Zepplin as the world's greatest

1267
01:23:23,520 --> 01:23:28,279
cover band, the world's greatest cover
but go ahead, No, it's led

1268
01:23:28,399 --> 01:23:31,680
Zeppelin. They stole ship from everybody? Howand Wolf I mean, I don't

1269
01:23:31,920 --> 01:23:36,239
I mean lyrics and everything. I
mean, god damn it. Credit Memphis

1270
01:23:36,279 --> 01:23:41,760
Mini with c but Spirit. I
think it was Spirit who wrote uh,

1271
01:23:42,039 --> 01:23:45,239
like the opening of Stairway to Heaven. I think it was the band Spirit

1272
01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:50,279
and they lost every because I believe
when these things go to court, I

1273
01:23:50,359 --> 01:23:54,199
don't think they can play the music. I think you have to read the

1274
01:23:54,319 --> 01:24:00,399
notes and if it's I don't know
what the jury is. No, because

1275
01:24:00,399 --> 01:24:02,960
we just talked about John Fogerty.
He had to play in court the riff

1276
01:24:03,079 --> 01:24:06,640
to old Man down the road and
then play, uh the other one,

1277
01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:11,840
which yeah. But sometimes if it's
like artists to artists, uh, and

1278
01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:14,439
not so much record company that I
don't know. I have no idea.

1279
01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:19,159
Look what happened with Pharrell and Marvin
Gay were they There was that whole lawsuit

1280
01:24:19,239 --> 01:24:23,920
in that I thought they did have
to give the money to for you had

1281
01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:29,439
Vanilla Ice describing how his din Yeah, it was different than David Bowie's,

1282
01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:33,520
didn't Queen? No, David Bowie
and Queen Queen, Yes, David Bowie

1283
01:24:33,560 --> 01:24:36,680
and Queen, which was John Deacon
wrote that song? How was how the

1284
01:24:36,800 --> 01:24:40,399
two were different? Yeah? I
think Vanilla Ice won too. Yeah,

1285
01:24:41,760 --> 01:24:44,399
I don't think he ever had.
I thought Queen won that bad. Now.

1286
01:24:44,439 --> 01:24:47,359
A lot of times they'll just put
your yeah. But a lot of

1287
01:24:47,399 --> 01:24:50,319
times it's a writing credit, and
I don't know that always it's played.

1288
01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:55,079
That's my point, Like maybe that
did happen with with John Fogerty. I

1289
01:24:55,119 --> 01:24:59,920
don't know. I thought I had
read somewhere that they don't because people could

1290
01:25:00,119 --> 01:25:02,479
be so persuaded. You've got to
look at this and try to take it

1291
01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:08,039
from a musical standpoint. Do these
notes look similar? Could it be that

1292
01:25:08,560 --> 01:25:11,479
I don't know the sounds? Well, I'll tell you what. If you're

1293
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:14,439
a guitar player, you could actually
play two different songs in different parts of

1294
01:25:14,479 --> 01:25:17,199
the guitar that could sound the same. So like if you're if he's demonstrating

1295
01:25:17,239 --> 01:25:19,439
in court, well, look look
his hands are down here for this,

1296
01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:23,399
yeah, and his hands are up
here for this. But he's theoretically playing

1297
01:25:23,399 --> 01:25:26,960
the same notes went down some rabbit
hole. The other damn videos and there

1298
01:25:27,079 --> 01:25:30,039
was I might have been ed.
Sheeran was like, I can play you

1299
01:25:30,159 --> 01:25:31,760
anything. You name a song,
I'll play. Just gonna say traffic and

1300
01:25:31,840 --> 01:25:34,960
Steve Winwood and I go fuck their
British because I'll play it. I'll play

1301
01:25:35,039 --> 01:25:38,800
I'll play that song in four chords. It's every song is four chords.

1302
01:25:38,880 --> 01:25:41,680
Yeah, all the band's Clapton was
in like but there was and Page,

1303
01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:44,840
the yard Birds, which became you
know, the you know eventually Derek and

1304
01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:48,560
the Dominos and all those bands.
Uh bad company, Yeah, you know.

1305
01:25:48,720 --> 01:25:53,439
I mean they were British, but
that little island came up with so

1306
01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:56,680
many great rocks. Queen, how
we hown't we forget? Queen? You

1307
01:25:56,720 --> 01:26:00,880
know why because Freddie Head aides no, wow, I just I don't know

1308
01:26:01,000 --> 01:26:04,279
what. Because they were stuck out
a little island. There was nothing to

1309
01:26:04,359 --> 01:26:10,119
do, right, I have no
idea. Uh so you said, you

1310
01:26:10,359 --> 01:26:12,880
you know somebody who had a fire
family. Wait a second, the family

1311
01:26:12,960 --> 01:26:16,680
restaurant who got fired from Come on, did your all might have to fire

1312
01:26:16,720 --> 01:26:21,439
a kid to fire his brother?
Yeah, at one point because his brother

1313
01:26:21,560 --> 01:26:25,760
wasn't. He wasn't. He wasn't
doing Anything's tough, that's tough. I

1314
01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:30,279
only bring this up because I saw
that who's the head coach of the Jacks

1315
01:26:30,319 --> 01:26:32,800
now Peterson, Hug Peterson, Doug
Peterson had to fire his kid, basically

1316
01:26:32,880 --> 01:26:35,840
cut his kid, and they released
his son. Okay, his son was

1317
01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:42,279
released on decision day. Oftentimes it's
the general manager who makes that decision.

1318
01:26:42,319 --> 01:26:46,399
I'm sure, but I mean also
the but you gotta like, yes,

1319
01:26:46,479 --> 01:26:49,600
it's gotta be a good sensus the
coaches, but it's the general management.

1320
01:26:49,760 --> 01:26:54,239
How much does that suck? Like
even the fact that you got picked by

1321
01:26:54,520 --> 01:26:57,279
you know, your dad's staff,
maybe a Scott Goes, Hey, man,

1322
01:26:57,439 --> 01:27:01,399
we got it, yeah, let's
get It's just that would stay well.

1323
01:27:01,399 --> 01:27:05,640
There's an old story about Monty Kiffin's
kid, who is Lane Kiffin,

1324
01:27:06,279 --> 01:27:11,800
and Monte Kiffin was a fantastic defensive
coordinator. He never wanted to be a

1325
01:27:11,840 --> 01:27:15,439
head coach. He's like the architect
at the Tampa two. And that's which

1326
01:27:15,479 --> 01:27:17,399
is similar to what the Cat and
the Bills kind of run. Now,

1327
01:27:17,640 --> 01:27:21,640
it's from that lineage, that Tony
Dung lineage, and so Lane would get

1328
01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:27,439
a job as a quality control coach
with different teams because of his father.

1329
01:27:28,000 --> 01:27:30,560
Well, Lane, he's finally grown
up now, but for a while he

1330
01:27:30,680 --> 01:27:32,680
was a pain in the ass.
He was the guy that we described in

1331
01:27:32,720 --> 01:27:35,760
the last segment. It's someone who
would get up late and put on pajamas

1332
01:27:35,800 --> 01:27:39,960
to go to breakfast right by the
way over Labor Day weekend. Please don't

1333
01:27:39,960 --> 01:27:42,239
do that. Yeah, if you're
going somewhere, please just have a little

1334
01:27:42,279 --> 01:27:46,000
respect. So his first job of
quality stop and see you and your fucking

1335
01:27:46,039 --> 01:27:50,239
pajamas. Well, his first his
first job of quality control coach is with

1336
01:27:50,319 --> 01:27:54,760
the Jacksonville Jaguars. That Tom Coughlin, who was like, you know,

1337
01:27:55,479 --> 01:28:01,039
says Jaguars, Jaguar, and a
British frustrac says it's Jaguar, not Jaguar.

1338
01:28:01,159 --> 01:28:05,000
There's no wa I call it jaguar. Jack you are I say Jaguar.

1339
01:28:05,119 --> 01:28:08,600
I say for the car, and
I love the fucking car. And

1340
01:28:08,680 --> 01:28:14,319
it is a British car. H
spie, he don't want to nice maserati

1341
01:28:15,039 --> 01:28:21,520
h. I love the jag though, man smooth as glass. Damn they

1342
01:28:21,760 --> 01:28:26,680
classic jazz jack. But when Lane
Kiffin was the quality control coach, which

1343
01:28:26,720 --> 01:28:30,079
is the bottom of the barrel,
you gotta you gotta be the guy who's

1344
01:28:30,119 --> 01:28:32,560
up before everybody else, right,
And he wasn't. And finally like his

1345
01:28:32,600 --> 01:28:35,800
a man fire Coughlin fire. Okay, but it was like this. He

1346
01:28:35,800 --> 01:28:39,960
would keep getting second chances because of
it. His father. Yeah, well

1347
01:28:40,119 --> 01:28:43,880
he kept getting fired, but he
kept right like failing upwards. I've always

1348
01:28:43,920 --> 01:28:48,279
said to my kids because of connections
I have had and connections they make on

1349
01:28:48,359 --> 01:28:51,720
their own. But you know,
all I can help do is make the

1350
01:28:51,800 --> 01:28:55,880
opportunity. You got to walk through
the door. You know. I do

1351
01:28:56,079 --> 01:29:00,479
think that even like McQuaid, you
know, I think that those kids get

1352
01:29:00,479 --> 01:29:02,359
a lot of opportunity because there's a
lot of connection there and there's a lot

1353
01:29:02,439 --> 01:29:05,399
of right. But you got to
walk through the door. And if you

1354
01:29:05,479 --> 01:29:10,600
don't walk through the door and hold
your own on the other side, I

1355
01:29:10,640 --> 01:29:14,159
ain't my think that's you, baby, right, that's you. So there's

1356
01:29:14,199 --> 01:29:17,560
opportunity. Since we're on the football
thing, I saw something today that concerned

1357
01:29:17,600 --> 01:29:21,079
me on Good Morning Football, and
I had the volume it was muted.

1358
01:29:21,560 --> 01:29:28,119
So the cry on or the bottom
cross says, are the bills? Why

1359
01:29:28,159 --> 01:29:31,199
are the Bills not getting a Why
are the Bills not a buzzy quote unquote

1360
01:29:31,239 --> 01:29:36,319
buzzy AFC team. Are they losing
some buzz and some momentum now? I

1361
01:29:36,399 --> 01:29:43,560
mean, clearly all the attention is
on the New York Jets and with hard

1362
01:29:43,640 --> 01:29:47,600
knocks, Aaron Rodgers, Aaron being
miked up, Aaron calling. I mean,

1363
01:29:47,640 --> 01:29:51,560
they showed this whole thing from last
night's I saw on Good Morning Football

1364
01:29:51,600 --> 01:29:55,560
for a few minutes when I had
to volume up, they were showing this

1365
01:29:55,600 --> 01:29:58,199
whole thing where he's calling the place
and going over to the coach and go,

1366
01:29:58,279 --> 01:30:00,800
hey, he's opening like that guy. If this is true, I

1367
01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:02,359
go, how the hell can he
see it? He's talking to these young

1368
01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:06,640
receivers and like a boss would,
but not in a dicksh way, just

1369
01:30:06,760 --> 01:30:11,119
going like if you just break a
little bit outside, and think he's like,

1370
01:30:11,159 --> 01:30:13,720
oh yeah, yeah, go see
if you just came that would that's

1371
01:30:13,800 --> 01:30:16,039
what's gonna happen. And sure enough
the next one and they go, whoa

1372
01:30:16,199 --> 01:30:23,000
beautiful play? And I'm thinking to
myself, and is there a chance because

1373
01:30:23,000 --> 01:30:29,279
I heard out of Kevin's mouth and
they were talking about a Patriot receiver who's

1374
01:30:29,319 --> 01:30:32,000
got a very unique name, pop
something Poppy. I think he's a rookie

1375
01:30:32,920 --> 01:30:36,760
he's been with the first team.
He's named that because his grandfather died when

1376
01:30:36,800 --> 01:30:41,199
he was won, so they just
started calling him poppy or pop. And

1377
01:30:42,039 --> 01:30:45,720
this kid is supposedly like the real
deal, and they think that they were

1378
01:30:46,479 --> 01:30:50,720
not showing you anything that he could
do and had him hardly on the field

1379
01:30:51,039 --> 01:30:58,079
during any preseason games. So is
there a chance that the Buffalo bill could

1380
01:30:58,119 --> 01:31:01,479
be at the bottom of the AFC
East? Flori'll think so. Mike Florida

1381
01:31:01,520 --> 01:31:04,159
had a whole article on Pro Football
Talk about it today. Really, I

1382
01:31:04,239 --> 01:31:06,640
think that's the best thing for the
Bills though, to be under the radar.

1383
01:31:08,239 --> 01:31:11,439
Yeah, I agree with that.
I did a whole article in the

1384
01:31:11,479 --> 01:31:14,399
Times when we County about respect.
You don't want people to respect you.

1385
01:31:15,359 --> 01:31:19,479
They don't respect you existing, all
right, Okay, so you don't want

1386
01:31:19,520 --> 01:31:24,600
what I've never complained when people don't
quote respect mine because really, the only

1387
01:31:24,760 --> 01:31:27,359
the only team that really deserves respect, it's the team holding the trophy at

1388
01:31:27,359 --> 01:31:29,920
the end of the season. I
agree, everybody else could go after themselves

1389
01:31:29,920 --> 01:31:32,199
because they screwed up somewhere along the
line, right. So respect has never

1390
01:31:32,319 --> 01:31:35,279
been something that I'll ever hear come
out of my mouth. But all these

1391
01:31:35,319 --> 01:31:39,039
Bills fans, oh, respect them
this. I'm like, hey, idiot,

1392
01:31:39,439 --> 01:31:42,000
good you don't want them to respect
you. Now, I will say

1393
01:31:42,079 --> 01:31:45,840
this, there's some merit to this
because the Buffalo Bills have made some big

1394
01:31:45,960 --> 01:31:49,199
contracts, have signed some guys for
long term context that you're like, huh,

1395
01:31:50,159 --> 01:31:56,239
was that a good idea? And
now next year Josh Allen's real contract

1396
01:31:56,359 --> 01:31:59,640
kicks in, and so there's less
money to spend. Now the CAP's gonna

1397
01:31:59,640 --> 01:32:01,640
continue to go up, and you
need a great quarterback at the helm and

1398
01:32:01,720 --> 01:32:04,520
Kansas City proved this with Mahomes that
like, you could still spend on a

1399
01:32:04,600 --> 01:32:09,399
quarterback. It's don't win a Super
Bowl. But look, the Jets have

1400
01:32:09,479 --> 01:32:12,439
a defense. They have a quarterback
now they didn't have one before. Okay.

1401
01:32:12,479 --> 01:32:14,479
And by the way, they beat
Buffalo last year and they gave them

1402
01:32:14,479 --> 01:32:16,680
a run for their money in the
other game too. Miami could have theoretically

1403
01:32:16,680 --> 01:32:20,399
beaten the Bills three times last year. And now they have Vic Fangio as

1404
01:32:20,399 --> 01:32:25,319
their defensive coordinator. Who's the best
defensive coordinator in the National Football League.

1405
01:32:25,720 --> 01:32:28,199
Yeah, this ain't gonna be a
k qualk. Oh. By the way,

1406
01:32:28,319 --> 01:32:30,960
Jacksonville Trevor Lawrence. They're gonna take
it a leap this year. Who's

1407
01:32:31,000 --> 01:32:35,720
standing in Jacksonville's Jacksonville's way in the
AMC South, not Indy, not Houston,

1408
01:32:36,399 --> 01:32:41,119
nobody, And so then you go
to the West. It's a dog

1409
01:32:41,279 --> 01:32:45,239
fight. So yeah, it's not
gonna be The Bills might not win the

1410
01:32:45,279 --> 01:32:46,960
division. And if they don't win
the division, it means they're playing on

1411
01:32:47,000 --> 01:32:50,039
the road for all their playoff games, and that gonna be. That ain't

1412
01:32:50,079 --> 01:32:53,520
gonna be easy. Holy shit,
what if they don't make the playoffs?

1413
01:32:54,920 --> 01:33:00,479
Then you know what's funny, it
might be the worst take the bridge riding.

1414
01:33:01,800 --> 01:33:03,680
You know, it's funny. Some
people might say that's not the worst

1415
01:33:03,720 --> 01:33:06,039
thing in the world, but yeah, it kind of is. Because you

1416
01:33:06,199 --> 01:33:12,720
just missed the playoffs and you just
resigned your head coach and general manager whose

1417
01:33:12,880 --> 01:33:15,840
drafts have been sloppy the last few
years, to a five year contract extension.

1418
01:33:15,880 --> 01:33:19,119
You're stuck with those mofos, and
you missed the playoffs. With one

1419
01:33:19,159 --> 01:33:24,039
of the three best quarterbacks in the
National Football Delman Barillo, going off the

1420
01:33:24,159 --> 01:33:27,520
cliff, I think no. Actually, like you watched me during the playoff

1421
01:33:27,560 --> 01:33:29,680
game last year, I was laughing
by the fourth quarter. I'm like,

1422
01:33:29,800 --> 01:33:32,239
yep, I told you, I
told you, did not I tell you?

1423
01:33:32,520 --> 01:33:35,039
What did I tell you? Greg? Put the top down? Let's

1424
01:33:35,039 --> 01:33:39,119
just score over the cliff, just
try. I love my team, but

1425
01:33:39,159 --> 01:33:42,680
I don't like cry about him.
Believe me well, I'm not looking for

1426
01:33:42,720 --> 01:33:45,479
anybody to cry. It's just something
that since we were touching on football,

1427
01:33:45,520 --> 01:33:49,399
I went, man, I do
I do wonder about it? I do

1428
01:33:49,560 --> 01:33:51,880
think. I mean, like they
like to play this game I used to

1429
01:33:51,880 --> 01:33:55,119
play when I was in Radio two
goals. Is this something or nothing?

1430
01:33:55,359 --> 01:33:58,600
And all the chatter about Stefon Diggs, all these people are going off about

1431
01:33:58,680 --> 01:34:00,640
Jason Whitlock saying that stuff on Digg
doesn't want to be in Buffalo because it's

1432
01:34:00,640 --> 01:34:04,119
not a cool as cool as city
as Dallas. We've talked about. I

1433
01:34:04,159 --> 01:34:06,840
think I don't think you were here
on a Monday night. We talked about

1434
01:34:09,159 --> 01:34:13,800
is it the worst NFL city?
But a week ago for a players?

1435
01:34:14,880 --> 01:34:16,720
Quality of life? Let's put it
that way, quality of life. And

1436
01:34:17,279 --> 01:34:20,000
look, if Jordan Williams said it
or Jordan Matthews said it, he goes

1437
01:34:20,119 --> 01:34:25,560
like the only thing to do here
is screw That's it. Wait, he's

1438
01:34:25,640 --> 01:34:28,319
kind of right. Marshaw Lynch made
a big joke about going to Applebe's and

1439
01:34:28,359 --> 01:34:31,560
Muffalo and so it willis Mcgahey.
I mean it's not it's not a big

1440
01:34:31,680 --> 01:34:35,159
city. It's like fifty eighth and
radio ranking. So think about all the

1441
01:34:35,239 --> 01:34:40,520
other team all the other cities that
could be better NFL destinations than Buffalo.

1442
01:34:40,720 --> 01:34:44,000
Yeah, I'm not saying it's nothing, but it could be a little bit

1443
01:34:44,039 --> 01:34:47,920
of something there all the time.
Now, Stefan Diggs got named the captain

1444
01:34:47,960 --> 01:34:50,640
today, Okay, because the players
respect him, they love him. Yeah,

1445
01:34:50,720 --> 01:34:54,760
he'll come out and perform and everything
else. But the moment the stuff

1446
01:34:54,840 --> 01:34:58,479
hits the fan and people start chirping
and we go back to the bick ring

1447
01:34:58,560 --> 01:35:02,000
Bills, people are gonna talk and
you have and that that is something that's

1448
01:35:02,079 --> 01:35:05,640
not nothing. Now, these Bills
fanatics will tell you nobody knows what they're

1449
01:35:05,640 --> 01:35:09,560
talking about. Well, according to
those assholes, nobody knows what they're talking

1450
01:35:09,560 --> 01:35:13,800
about ever but them. Okay,
podcasters the Bills want except for the Super

1451
01:35:13,840 --> 01:35:16,600
Bowl, national guys don't know anything. And then the local guys know a

1452
01:35:16,640 --> 01:35:18,520
little bit more them, but they
don't know anything. Do you know who

1453
01:35:18,560 --> 01:35:24,800
says that do you know who said
subscribes to the theory he's laying out him.

1454
01:35:25,359 --> 01:35:28,319
You say that all the time about
the local guys. I don't.

1455
01:35:28,439 --> 01:35:30,039
I don't say that all the time. I say, like what I said

1456
01:35:30,039 --> 01:35:32,439
about the local guys, they should
break more local news about the bills I

1457
01:35:32,439 --> 01:35:38,640
shouldn't be getting from NFL dot com. My point is the local guys,

1458
01:35:38,800 --> 01:35:42,439
the local guys say the national guys. The local guys say the national guys

1459
01:35:42,479 --> 01:35:45,479
don't know anything, and the podcasters
all say the local guys don't know anything.

1460
01:35:45,720 --> 01:35:50,239
So who knows anything? Really?
Three I know nothing nothing. We

1461
01:35:51,399 --> 01:35:55,680
don't. I'll tell you what Greg
knows like a ten times more than like

1462
01:35:55,960 --> 01:35:59,119
half the people reporting on the team. Do I agree he actually has insight?

1463
01:35:59,159 --> 01:36:00,520
They know the don't do any freaking
work. Then they go and they

1464
01:36:00,560 --> 01:36:04,000
take practice and they take notes.
Here are my seven observations. But the

1465
01:36:04,000 --> 01:36:11,439
buffaloes probably what are you doing?
She'll been on fire lately. You're like

1466
01:36:11,560 --> 01:36:15,119
an angry guy. If I got
I'm honest, if I push the right

1467
01:36:15,239 --> 01:36:17,039
button, I could get angry Danny
to come out. I probably could.

1468
01:36:17,119 --> 01:36:21,279
I can't know. I have to
get angry Mark helmet out too. Yeah,

1469
01:36:21,279 --> 01:36:26,199
but that's not fair. Let's not
go there. I do no at

1470
01:36:26,239 --> 01:36:29,520
the same thing. No, no, wow, the bills and stuff like

1471
01:36:29,600 --> 01:36:32,439
that. But I I sir,
what hell? Yeah, I really have

1472
01:36:32,520 --> 01:36:34,920
two hot button issues. The bills
are one of them. Yeah, what's

1473
01:36:34,920 --> 01:36:38,439
your other hot button issue? Now? The state of the world? No,

1474
01:36:39,119 --> 01:36:45,239
Dan, the bills. Danny is
a freaking pubic hair away from being

1475
01:36:45,279 --> 01:36:48,920
a conspiracy. Theories theories you are
you ain't want to deny it. A

1476
01:36:48,960 --> 01:36:54,560
lot of coming true though. Why
is half a milly burning? But it's

1477
01:36:54,600 --> 01:36:57,840
not the rich half, it's the
uh, the upper middle class but not

1478
01:36:58,039 --> 01:37:01,000
quite The foot was an I will
tell you. I will tell you that

1479
01:37:01,079 --> 01:37:05,479
was a Yetti and it's a store. That's true. The Yettie Storre is

1480
01:37:05,520 --> 01:37:10,479
based out of I haven't I love
Jetty by the way, keeps everything cold

1481
01:37:10,600 --> 01:37:13,560
love. I love their products.
Uh. What I was going to say

1482
01:37:13,560 --> 01:37:17,359
to you is there's a lot of
great reporters. I don't know. I

1483
01:37:17,479 --> 01:37:21,720
have not paid much attention to Mauie. I know people who love Mauie,

1484
01:37:23,039 --> 01:37:30,600
and I know uh rosy O'Donnell supposedly
did I a TikTok or a video that

1485
01:37:30,159 --> 01:37:34,760
that just asked a lot of questions
that and it was TikTok and it's rosy,

1486
01:37:35,159 --> 01:37:39,159
all right, so take that for
what it is. And I don't

1487
01:37:39,199 --> 01:37:41,840
even know what I don't even know
what it means to say, and it's

1488
01:37:41,920 --> 01:37:45,600
rosy. I think some people have
a bad taste in their mouth. Maybe

1489
01:37:46,399 --> 01:37:49,800
yeah, yeah. But she asked
questions like why would this happen, why

1490
01:37:49,840 --> 01:37:51,920
would this say? Why won't they
let people leave the island? And why

1491
01:37:54,600 --> 01:37:58,439
all this stuff? And it was
very interesting and I didn't see it was

1492
01:37:58,600 --> 01:38:01,239
I'm hearing this third party, but
it was all laid out, so I

1493
01:38:01,359 --> 01:38:05,600
don't know. I here's my thing. I don't watch a ton of news.

1494
01:38:05,720 --> 01:38:10,199
I read a lot. I look
for things that I think are interesting.

1495
01:38:10,399 --> 01:38:15,960
We talk more lifestyle stuff. I
always think that the silly news and

1496
01:38:15,039 --> 01:38:20,079
the funny news, the absurd is
entertaining. But I don't know with that

1497
01:38:20,199 --> 01:38:23,960
stuff. And a lot of times
I think that when you watch the news

1498
01:38:24,000 --> 01:38:26,960
a lot, it can make you
depressed. Oh yeah, I really do

1499
01:38:27,399 --> 01:38:34,279
have to. It's a funny thing
because on Unfiltered in average before they were

1500
01:38:34,359 --> 01:38:36,560
taping and they were talking and Stephanie
said, I used to be such a

1501
01:38:36,680 --> 01:38:42,960
news person and I used to try
to find the balance because now and I

1502
01:38:43,760 --> 01:38:47,920
think this is more perception than it
is reality. Uh, what's the truth?

1503
01:38:48,039 --> 01:38:50,520
We need to know the truth is. So you're gonna watch CNN,

1504
01:38:50,880 --> 01:38:56,039
FOX, MSNBC, your local news. Who's given it to you straight,

1505
01:38:56,079 --> 01:38:58,800
who's not, who's trying to manipulate? What are the different sides? And

1506
01:38:58,840 --> 01:39:00,800
you're trying to figure it out yourself. It used to be just put on

1507
01:39:00,880 --> 01:39:05,880
a news channel and you got you
got the information of the day. Unfortunately,

1508
01:39:05,960 --> 01:39:10,039
in the news there's always a saying
that if it bleeds, it leads,

1509
01:39:10,399 --> 01:39:15,039
which is tragedy, and that's never
an uplifting thing to hear. But

1510
01:39:15,760 --> 01:39:19,159
I'm not sure if the news is
always as manipulated as people want to think

1511
01:39:19,199 --> 01:39:21,439
it is. I don't know.
I don't I don't think that, But

1512
01:39:21,560 --> 01:39:26,199
I will say that even for your
mental health, if you find yourself where

1513
01:39:26,199 --> 01:39:28,680
you're in the news all the time
and it's just in the back of your

1514
01:39:28,720 --> 01:39:33,119
mind, everything's a worry and everything's
at this I go. But in my

1515
01:39:33,239 --> 01:39:35,680
in my line of work, though, I have to actually look at that

1516
01:39:35,760 --> 01:39:40,399
stuff because I have to forecast,
you know, where things are going in

1517
01:39:40,479 --> 01:39:44,319
business. Oh, but that's part
of it, though, a lot of

1518
01:39:44,399 --> 01:39:46,760
these people who invest in these companies
that I work with are part of that

1519
01:39:46,960 --> 01:39:50,079
other side where you're like, oh
boy, yeah this is scary. Well

1520
01:39:50,119 --> 01:39:55,079
you can yeah, you know.
Now back to the pills for a second.

1521
01:39:55,520 --> 01:39:58,399
There's a lot of local reporters who
do great work and break stonies at

1522
01:39:58,439 --> 01:40:01,159
this. No, no, there's
no no. And there's another half.

1523
01:40:02,359 --> 01:40:05,600
And there's another half who don't do
ship. Yeah. Well that's the same

1524
01:40:05,680 --> 01:40:10,359
thing with everybody. You can say
that about the world. Some people just

1525
01:40:10,520 --> 01:40:13,920
don't you know, you said it
before. Child Ted does their work not

1526
01:40:14,000 --> 01:40:16,359
so much. Ted Brown's a great
reporter, does a great job. He

1527
01:40:16,439 --> 01:40:19,520
breaks stories. Yea, he breaks
stories. I'll tell you everybody who breaks

1528
01:40:19,520 --> 01:40:23,079
a story, everybody who like does
nothing, I can tell you. I

1529
01:40:23,159 --> 01:40:28,119
can, I canna. Let's get
those two kids from Syracuse do a great

1530
01:40:28,199 --> 01:40:30,479
job. They break actual bills news. I don't want. I don't want

1531
01:40:30,520 --> 01:40:33,439
anybody get mad at me. I've
had enough they could be mad at me.

1532
01:40:33,479 --> 01:40:35,920
I don't care. I have no
f's left to give give some names.

1533
01:40:36,000 --> 01:40:40,159
Day, let's go no do not
all right, Well, take a

1534
01:40:40,239 --> 01:40:44,560
moment U something that has come in
that I would love to get everybody's perspective

1535
01:40:44,600 --> 01:40:47,479
on This was a text to five
five two or six eighty eight sixty six,

1536
01:40:47,479 --> 01:40:50,479
and they had to do with the
fact that I was supposed to go

1537
01:40:50,520 --> 01:40:54,720
to Ireland with Greg and then onto
the Bills game, and I said I

1538
01:40:55,039 --> 01:40:58,439
didn't want to do that. Now
it's for other reasons, but uh,

1539
01:40:58,600 --> 01:41:01,079
someone wrote me about a trip that
they were going to take to Ireland and

1540
01:41:03,920 --> 01:41:09,279
it's causing some problems in their family. We'll see how everybody really yeah,

1541
01:41:09,439 --> 01:41:11,800
yeah, we see how it all
falls out. We'll get to that because

1542
01:41:11,800 --> 01:41:15,840
of the Northern Ireland thing Catholics.
We'll get to that next right after this.

1543
01:41:16,159 --> 01:41:20,880
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1559
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1560
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1561
01:42:39,039 --> 01:42:42,600
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1562
01:42:42,640 --> 01:42:45,720
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1563
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1570
01:43:08,840 --> 01:43:12,359
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1573
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of All Trades dot net. Remember
when this album came out, I had

1574
01:43:40,600 --> 01:43:44,920
the cassette. It was a clear
cassette and I used to play it all

1575
01:43:45,000 --> 01:43:51,680
the time, and every Sunday my
grandfather would play like sometimes these local radio

1576
01:43:51,720 --> 01:43:58,279
stations and probably like they were outside
of New York City, and I don't

1577
01:43:58,279 --> 01:44:00,439
know if there was any there might
have been a New York City station that

1578
01:44:00,520 --> 01:44:04,840
did this, but like once in
a while you'll hear like an ethnically targeted

1579
01:44:05,000 --> 01:44:10,479
show, like they will play Polish
music and or they'll do they you know

1580
01:44:10,600 --> 01:44:15,000
whatever. So there was a station
that played Irish music. Some of them

1581
01:44:15,079 --> 01:44:19,000
was fucking awful, which is endless. Boy. So my grandfather and he

1582
01:44:19,039 --> 01:44:24,560
had a radio that had an antenna
and it wasn't like he just kind of

1583
01:44:24,600 --> 01:44:27,920
bent the antense, swished it in
and had and it sort of leaned in

1584
01:44:27,960 --> 01:44:30,840
a window in the backyard and it
had a cassette player in it. So

1585
01:44:30,039 --> 01:44:34,000
he laughed and I put you two
in and he goes, what are you

1586
01:44:34,119 --> 01:44:39,479
doing? And I'm like, it's
Irish music. It's not my Irish music,

1587
01:44:39,560 --> 01:44:43,039
not mine. Get it off.
This is the Joshua Tree off the

1588
01:44:43,119 --> 01:44:45,159
josh I love this album. This
is my favorite album that. Did you

1589
01:44:45,319 --> 01:44:48,840
see them at a rich stadium when
they did the entire album? Yes?

1590
01:44:48,960 --> 01:44:51,680
Now? Did they go in order
songs of Yes? And then they played

1591
01:44:51,680 --> 01:44:55,279
some extra ones after? Yeah?
It was great. It was very h

1592
01:44:55,279 --> 01:44:57,439
A lot of bands are doing that. They'll take one album, yeah and

1593
01:44:57,479 --> 01:45:01,119
they'll play did they So? Speaking
of Ireland, here they had that whole

1594
01:45:01,159 --> 01:45:04,680
wall thing. I'm sure that well. They used to display at the Rock

1595
01:45:04,800 --> 01:45:08,159
Roll Hall of Fame. Oh really, fifth floor, it's still there.

1596
01:45:08,279 --> 01:45:11,960
Yeah. Uh this text comes in, I have to make a decision that

1597
01:45:12,079 --> 01:45:15,920
doesn't seem to have a solution.
My wife is a big family that loves

1598
01:45:15,960 --> 01:45:19,520
to get together frequently throughout the year. Now they're planning a nine day trip

1599
01:45:19,600 --> 01:45:25,880
to Ireland next year, and I
have absolute zero interest in going. Ireland

1600
01:45:25,920 --> 01:45:30,800
doesn't excite me. This person that's
really trying to push my buttons and I

1601
01:45:30,920 --> 01:45:34,800
don't want to spend They're saying eight
thousand dollars per person seems a little high

1602
01:45:34,840 --> 01:45:38,079
to me for a nine days,
but I don't know. I've never been

1603
01:45:38,119 --> 01:45:40,560
overseas on a trip. I wouldn't
know. They said it, they said

1604
01:45:40,600 --> 01:45:44,119
it will run. But most of
all, they are heavy drinkers and are

1605
01:45:44,199 --> 01:45:49,000
basically planning an extended pub tour with
an occasional castle visit thrown in sounds delightful.

1606
01:45:49,079 --> 01:45:51,680
It does to me too. It
does to me too. I would

1607
01:45:51,680 --> 01:45:55,399
get I would get tired by like
day three. By the way, I'm

1608
01:45:55,520 --> 01:45:58,359
very I'm a very casual drinker,
and I can't stand in the thought of

1609
01:45:58,399 --> 01:46:01,760
spending a night after night and allow
pub. Here's where I would like to

1610
01:46:01,800 --> 01:46:04,520
hear what you guys think. My
wife claims. If I don't go it

1611
01:46:04,680 --> 01:46:09,359
ruins it for her. All her
siblings and their partners are going. But

1612
01:46:09,439 --> 01:46:13,039
if I do go, I will
be miserable, which will then to me,

1613
01:46:13,399 --> 01:46:15,439
you'll ruin it for every I could
sure you use any suggestions you might

1614
01:46:15,520 --> 01:46:19,279
have. Now here's the thing.
I don't know what to say, because

1615
01:46:20,279 --> 01:46:26,319
I think in every situation, if
there's someplace you don't want to go and

1616
01:46:26,439 --> 01:46:30,520
you feel like you gotta go.
Let's say there's a family reunion, this

1617
01:46:30,680 --> 01:46:33,159
is gonna sound so fucking weird.
Let's say there's a family reunion and you

1618
01:46:33,239 --> 01:46:35,880
go, I just I don't want
to be around these people. You've got

1619
01:46:36,000 --> 01:46:42,119
to find the positive attributes of the
people that will be there. So in

1620
01:46:42,279 --> 01:46:45,439
your mind, think of the positive
attributes. Somebody's funny, somebody's smart,

1621
01:46:45,479 --> 01:46:50,279
they're entertaining, whatever it is,
and then try to focus on just those

1622
01:46:50,359 --> 01:46:54,880
things. And usually everything you walk
away going, man, that was a

1623
01:46:54,920 --> 01:46:57,680
great time, and you don't have
to do it for another year or five

1624
01:46:57,760 --> 01:47:00,880
years, whatever the family reunion is. But I would say that so to

1625
01:47:00,000 --> 01:47:03,039
this guy, I think, in
this case, I feel like you almost

1626
01:47:03,079 --> 01:47:09,800
have to go. Yeah, you
gotta go, don't you think I'll probably

1627
01:47:09,960 --> 01:47:14,199
probably let the drunks, go get
there and you go see. Another thing

1628
01:47:14,279 --> 01:47:16,359
is, though, when you're the
sober guy, ultimately you have to become

1629
01:47:16,520 --> 01:47:20,039
the dad you're not. If you're
out sight seeing on your own, well

1630
01:47:20,079 --> 01:47:23,640
you could, you could, but
then don't even go on the trip.

1631
01:47:23,720 --> 01:47:26,560
Then if that's the case, because
she wants him there, which means she

1632
01:47:26,680 --> 01:47:30,000
wants him with her and her family
all the time unless they're sleeping together,

1633
01:47:30,439 --> 01:47:33,239
that's it, right, So he's
got to go along with this. And

1634
01:47:33,279 --> 01:47:38,319
when you're the sober person a group, sometimes people break off. But here's

1635
01:47:38,359 --> 01:47:41,319
the thing, like maybe you break
off, maybe you find with another couple

1636
01:47:41,399 --> 01:47:45,800
that he shot drinking today, we're
going over here. Yeah, yeah,

1637
01:47:45,840 --> 01:47:48,800
down if they're if they're. If
you're ever in a situation where you feel

1638
01:47:48,800 --> 01:47:53,119
you need to make friends, one
thing they teach you in sales is to

1639
01:47:53,279 --> 01:47:57,680
mirror people. Oh yeah, and
then they'll think you're the greatest conversationalist of

1640
01:47:57,720 --> 01:48:00,199
all time. Like Kevin, just
just say something about the Patriots, You're

1641
01:48:00,199 --> 01:48:03,319
the greatest conversation list of all time, Dad, best conversation lists of all

1642
01:48:03,359 --> 01:48:08,079
time, the greatest, the greatest, absolutely, the greatest, the greatest.

1643
01:48:08,319 --> 01:48:10,560
Well, but the point is,
just like I say something like,

1644
01:48:10,640 --> 01:48:13,640
we'll keep talking and they'll think that
you're like really interested in them, But

1645
01:48:13,680 --> 01:48:15,880
all you're doing is repeating back to
me. Right now, Danny, the

1646
01:48:15,920 --> 01:48:17,680
New York Jets are gonna win the
Super Bowl this year. They have I

1647
01:48:17,760 --> 01:48:20,439
know he's the thirty nine year old
quarterback, but the guy is maybe the

1648
01:48:20,560 --> 01:48:24,600
best that I have been blown away
with his vision of the field. The

1649
01:48:24,720 --> 01:48:29,560
Jets look incredible and unstoppable, unstoppable, unstoppable. I'm telling you they're gonna

1650
01:48:29,720 --> 01:48:31,760
not just dominate the AFC East,
but the AFC this year. Sounds like

1651
01:48:31,840 --> 01:48:35,359
the Jets are good. You heard
it first from the Times of Way count

1652
01:48:35,399 --> 01:48:41,079
that's your mirroring. Oh yeah,
like you mirror and then your mirroring like

1653
01:48:41,399 --> 01:48:44,359
that Jets sounds good. I'm trying
to show I'm trying to shorten it down.

1654
01:48:44,479 --> 01:48:47,000
I would turn it into but like
but yeah, but like I'm telling

1655
01:48:47,039 --> 01:48:51,359
you this, you know you're being
You're purposely winking. Hang on the argument.

1656
01:48:51,479 --> 01:48:55,359
So here's what I would do if
someone said, that's me, Like

1657
01:48:55,560 --> 01:48:59,720
you said exactly what I just said. I what was the thing I said?

1658
01:48:59,720 --> 01:49:03,239
They're to dominate the FCS do need
to dominate the AFCs and then you

1659
01:49:03,319 --> 01:49:08,279
go, please, I want to
say, dominate the AFCs. They go,

1660
01:49:08,399 --> 01:49:12,279
yeah, I go please. They're
the Jets, the Jets. They're

1661
01:49:12,319 --> 01:49:16,119
the Jets, the Jets, the
Jets. They sound sounds like the Jets.

1662
01:49:16,319 --> 01:49:18,960
I don't believe in the Jets,
Danny, don't believe in the Jets.

1663
01:49:19,600 --> 01:49:23,399
Don't even believe. But here's the
thing, like most people were unsuspecting.

1664
01:49:23,520 --> 01:49:26,239
We'll go off like a siren and
all you gotta do is find one

1665
01:49:26,279 --> 01:49:30,760
money in that conversation. That's true. Yeah, I know, I know

1666
01:49:30,399 --> 01:49:34,680
people people hate me by now on
this freaking show. I would tell I

1667
01:49:34,800 --> 01:49:39,840
would tell this guy you've got to
go and you've got to find your way

1668
01:49:40,159 --> 01:49:43,560
of I don't think you need to
mirror everybody, but I find someone though

1669
01:49:43,600 --> 01:49:45,600
that you find interesting. Yes,
but I'm saying, like, trying to

1670
01:49:45,640 --> 01:49:48,159
find the positive attributes and talk to
your wife. Go. Look, I

1671
01:49:48,199 --> 01:49:50,199
don't want to be drunk all the
time. I would prefer not to do

1672
01:49:50,319 --> 01:49:54,039
this. We're spending a lot of
money on this, and I don't you

1673
01:49:54,119 --> 01:49:59,560
know, sixteen grand to go for
the two of us is a tremendous right.

1674
01:49:59,640 --> 01:50:01,319
So I've like to, you know, let's let's make the most of

1675
01:50:01,359 --> 01:50:04,479
it. But and I think if
you can have that conversation in a calm,

1676
01:50:04,600 --> 01:50:09,920
reasonable way without saying, hey,
your family a bunch of Irish trucks

1677
01:50:10,039 --> 01:50:14,319
going back to their roots to fucking
losers, leave them there. You don't

1678
01:50:14,359 --> 01:50:15,800
do that, you could probably get
you could probably figure it out. And

1679
01:50:15,920 --> 01:50:18,159
that's another way. You can mirror
your wife and say, you know,

1680
01:50:18,600 --> 01:50:21,720
just have her think that it's a
great idea. Jesus Christ. You laugh,

1681
01:50:21,840 --> 01:50:25,279
man, it works. I don't
laugh. I just you make fun

1682
01:50:25,319 --> 01:50:27,800
of stuff. But I'm telling you
it's tested. It works. Maybe we'll

1683
01:50:27,800 --> 01:50:32,239
get invited the wedding. Number three. The only mirroring Dan he's gonna do

1684
01:50:32,439 --> 01:50:36,399
is hit to himself in the mirror. I don't mirror my wife. It's

1685
01:50:36,439 --> 01:50:40,960
impervious to mirror. Yes, yes, yes, because she could see it.

1686
01:50:41,199 --> 01:50:44,479
Oh, he's got a mirror Another
night, Another night, Really,

1687
01:50:45,479 --> 01:50:48,560
Dan, Danny's like, so obvious, I'm an easy mark. Well you're

1688
01:50:48,600 --> 01:50:51,279
not an easy mark. It's obvious
when you're mirroring. All right, I

1689
01:50:51,319 --> 01:50:54,479
want to play this one last thing. Well, now that we're talking about

1690
01:50:54,479 --> 01:51:00,439
it. Short Mark Cuban was talking
on a podcast and he Cuban he says

1691
01:51:00,560 --> 01:51:04,800
that he has traded people because they
smoked too much. Wheat believe that,

1692
01:51:05,000 --> 01:51:12,359
yeah, this is too much.
Wheat does that factor in how much you

1693
01:51:12,479 --> 01:51:18,520
give someone? Yes, because it's
a team, right, and so if

1694
01:51:18,560 --> 01:51:21,720
a guy smokes too much, right, I'm no lie, I've traded guys

1695
01:51:21,720 --> 01:51:26,199
because he smoke too much. Because
you know what's like, so teams get

1696
01:51:26,279 --> 01:51:30,840
their own culture, right, and
if you got some young dudes on there

1697
01:51:30,880 --> 01:51:34,680
that are just figuring out, smoke
some but don't know what it's what the

1698
01:51:34,760 --> 01:51:38,720
team culture is, right, or
the NBA culture is. And you got

1699
01:51:38,800 --> 01:51:42,279
one dude that's just you know,
you walk down the hall in the hotel

1700
01:51:42,840 --> 01:51:45,319
and you know he's on that floor, and there's no doubt about it.

1701
01:51:45,680 --> 01:51:47,520
And then all of a sudden,
these other kids start picking up on it.

1702
01:51:47,600 --> 01:51:50,000
And that's kind of that. You
see them coming out of their room,

1703
01:51:50,199 --> 01:51:56,560
mirroring the other guys coming to practice
all of a sudden down that road.

1704
01:51:56,840 --> 01:52:00,039
I mean, everybody smokes, right, it's not about that. But

1705
01:52:00,399 --> 01:52:03,840
there's smoking. There's how powerful the
shit you're doing is, and then there's

1706
01:52:03,880 --> 01:52:08,000
how much you do and if you
cross you know, if you get past

1707
01:52:08,039 --> 01:52:11,840
that level where and you and there's
a chance where you might drag somebody with

1708
01:52:11,960 --> 01:52:15,039
you. You got to look at
the bigger picture, right that that's just

1709
01:52:15,279 --> 01:52:20,520
not the culture that he wants to
have. Yeah, there's value. Oh

1710
01:52:20,600 --> 01:52:24,000
yeah, that's very valid. I'm
reading in book right now by Lonnie Wheeler

1711
01:52:24,039 --> 01:52:26,800
who passed away in twenty twenty of
COVID. I think it was a baseball

1712
01:52:26,800 --> 01:52:30,560
book. It's called in Tangible and
he taught the first chapter. He was

1713
01:52:30,600 --> 01:52:33,600
from Cincinnati, so he could.
He covered the Reds and back in like

1714
01:52:33,680 --> 01:52:36,760
the early two thousands, Ken Griffey
Junior and Adam Dunn were on the Reds

1715
01:52:38,119 --> 01:52:40,600
and they were quiet. They weren't
bad guys, but they were kind of

1716
01:52:40,640 --> 01:52:42,640
a loof right, but they were
known as the leaders, and he had

1717
01:52:42,640 --> 01:52:45,920
these young guys behind them who were
just kind of following them along, and

1718
01:52:45,960 --> 01:52:47,920
they didn't want to be followed.
So the team culture kind of suffered.

1719
01:52:48,199 --> 01:52:50,520
So they go, hey, look, we got good guys here, but

1720
01:52:50,760 --> 01:52:55,319
they're not gonna Our young players are
never gonna grow if these guys are still

1721
01:52:55,359 --> 01:52:57,399
here. So they shipped them both
out and now we're like, oh,

1722
01:52:57,439 --> 01:53:00,319
we got to cultivate new leaders,
and the team actually came to life because

1723
01:53:00,399 --> 01:53:03,560
they got rid of the two sticks
in the mud, and every team goes

1724
01:53:03,640 --> 01:53:08,600
through that type of stuff. And
with this like like he's saying cancer grows,

1725
01:53:08,920 --> 01:53:11,800
yes, right in this case smoking
weed, you know, like Lisa,

1726
01:53:11,800 --> 01:53:15,119
the other guys smoking weed, which
leads he's saying, like everybody smokes

1727
01:53:15,159 --> 01:53:16,640
and it's not a problem. And
look, we were legalizing it. Now

1728
01:53:16,760 --> 01:53:19,279
it takes this one guy to have
a problem. I'll pop up dispensary.

1729
01:53:19,840 --> 01:53:24,239
It's not even so much a problem
as like, you're smoking it a lot,

1730
01:53:25,439 --> 01:53:29,439
you're high when he come to practice, Uh, you're not showing up,

1731
01:53:29,520 --> 01:53:31,359
you're you're or everybody laughs when you
walk out there and they know you've

1732
01:53:31,399 --> 01:53:34,399
been smoking haha, funny. Yeah, and then nobody can take it seriously.

1733
01:53:34,640 --> 01:53:38,359
Right, So I think in those
situations, yeah, that's not what

1734
01:53:38,439 --> 01:53:41,920
you want. You want, you
know what you want? You want the

1735
01:53:42,319 --> 01:53:45,680
what was it the ninety two Dream
Team or no it wasn't no, no,

1736
01:53:46,199 --> 01:53:50,520
this was like Lebron James redeem Team, the Redeemed Team. You want

1737
01:53:50,600 --> 01:53:56,560
them all those guys, Lebron,
they all go out and they come back

1738
01:53:56,640 --> 01:54:00,680
in and it's like four or five
in the morning and they're there's Kobe coming

1739
01:54:00,720 --> 01:54:02,880
out of the elevator to go work
out. Ye, and they're just going

1740
01:54:02,960 --> 01:54:09,479
to bed. And that changed the
culture because from that point on they started

1741
01:54:09,560 --> 01:54:12,560
doing what Kobe did. They couldn't
look the black Mamba in the eye.

1742
01:54:12,880 --> 01:54:16,239
I'm just saying, I realized,
Oh, he's in charge, better do

1743
01:54:16,319 --> 01:54:20,079
what he does. And that's that's
all I'm saying. So that's one way

1744
01:54:20,159 --> 01:54:23,800
that culture and the other is like, ah, come on, man,

1745
01:54:23,920 --> 01:54:27,479
we get we live once. Let's
have a great time. We make a

1746
01:54:27,520 --> 01:54:29,520
lot of money. We're gonna win, don't worry about it. I think

1747
01:54:29,560 --> 01:54:30,720
Kobe even told he goes, yeah, you did the same thing last time,

1748
01:54:30,720 --> 01:54:33,520
and you end up with with a
bronze medal, yeah, instead of

1749
01:54:33,520 --> 01:54:38,119
a goal. That's because that's what
we do here. We've had on CNN

1750
01:54:38,239 --> 01:54:44,039
and the Florida and it was a
Dahlia all of all evening tonight and now

1751
01:54:44,119 --> 01:54:46,439
it's heading into South Carolina Head Island
and all that star Man. But I

1752
01:54:46,840 --> 01:54:50,000
earlier today, I don't know why. I hit the Weather Channel and I

1753
01:54:50,119 --> 01:54:55,840
hear this is this not the creepiest
most ominous music you've ever heard? Like

1754
01:54:55,920 --> 01:54:59,039
I started to go this could give
me a panic attack. I feel like

1755
01:55:00,039 --> 01:55:03,760
This is just from the weather chat
to you here at a club. I'm

1756
01:55:03,800 --> 01:55:12,960
gonna start playing this every time Danny
goes off. Get out Hurricane in all

1757
01:55:13,039 --> 01:55:18,600
right, we'll close it out.
Oh buddy, it's just fun to pick

1758
01:55:18,640 --> 01:55:23,439
on you. You say you're an
easy mark. The next couple of days,

1759
01:55:23,520 --> 01:55:28,720
I hope we're gonna give you some
highlights from past episodes. We'll give

1760
01:55:28,760 --> 01:55:31,319
you some new material as we head
into post Labor Day stuff. But I

1761
01:55:31,399 --> 01:55:34,479
hope everybody has a good and safe
Labor Day weekend. And he didn't anything

1762
01:55:34,479 --> 01:55:38,399
fun. Didn't post Labor Day get
into something with Bob Dylan. Resource he

1763
01:55:38,479 --> 01:55:43,319
did. Bob Dylan sent post Labor
Day some lyrics and then I don't know

1764
01:55:43,439 --> 01:55:47,079
what happened. I saw something come
across, Like on Rolling Stone they had

1765
01:55:47,119 --> 01:55:50,000
this thing got weird. Yeah,
it got and then it got weird.

1766
01:55:50,319 --> 01:55:53,239
You sent him lyrics and then it
got weird. So I don't know if

1767
01:55:53,279 --> 01:55:56,520
Bob didn't want him to record them, or I don't know what the post

1768
01:55:56,560 --> 01:56:00,720
blow didn't get it. Yeah,
I'm not sure Labor Day doing anything big.

1769
01:56:00,079 --> 01:56:03,119
No, I think we're gonna just
chill. I'm announcing games at uf

1770
01:56:03,279 --> 01:56:06,359
R now two Besides Fisher for football. So I'll be announcing the U of

1771
01:56:06,479 --> 01:56:11,159
r Utcha game on Sunday at Father
Down. You'll be able to hear,

1772
01:56:11,680 --> 01:56:14,359
She'll be able to hear. She'll
be able to hear. Danny and Wayne

1773
01:56:14,439 --> 01:56:19,720
County. What are you doing,
Kevin anything? Dragon? Wait? What

1774
01:56:21,079 --> 01:56:25,039
Buffalo Sunday? All right, well, good luck with all that. The

1775
01:56:25,119 --> 01:56:30,079
ice doesn't melt. Give me a
highlights and some great conversations with Greg Connors

1776
01:56:30,199 --> 01:56:35,560
and Harnie Rothschild. All coming up. I'm Bill Moran. We'll see you

1777
01:56:39,079 --> 01:56:39,920
didn't know what to do