WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.120 --> 00:00:04.879 Let's get started on the Minnesota Goodbye. Let me just let's talk for a 2 00:00:04.919 --> 00:00:06.879 little bit about you know, we won't talk about this on the radio, 3 00:00:07.240 --> 00:00:11.640 but it's so interesting. We went to Girls' night Out last night, and 4 00:00:11.839 --> 00:00:15.000 it's so funny because, you know, we went to Cowboy Jack's the Barn, 5 00:00:15.039 --> 00:00:18.519 which is a giant venue. It's bigger than a basketball court. It's 6 00:00:18.519 --> 00:00:22.719 a huge venue. And we give away a ton of tickets because we want 7 00:00:22.719 --> 00:00:26.000 to pack the place. And like any party that you have, even you 8 00:00:26.000 --> 00:00:29.320 have a party in your backyard or a grad party or whatever, you want 9 00:00:29.399 --> 00:00:33.759 a lot of people to show up. And we got there. I got 10 00:00:33.840 --> 00:00:36.520 there at six fifteen. You were there right about the same time I was, 11 00:00:36.960 --> 00:00:41.439 and the crowd was a little thin, and of course, as a 12 00:00:41.600 --> 00:00:44.920 host and you know, it's our party, we're looking around going, oh 13 00:00:44.960 --> 00:00:48.679 wow, yeah, not a lot of people in this giant, giant room. 14 00:00:49.240 --> 00:00:53.560 And then it started to fill up and by about seven thirty it was 15 00:00:53.679 --> 00:00:56.280 pretty much packed. Yeah, yeah, it was. It was a lot 16 00:00:56.280 --> 00:01:00.439 of people. And I think we were nervous too, because last year we 17 00:01:00.520 --> 00:01:03.640 had such so many snowstorms last year that girls and I out got pushed. 18 00:01:03.840 --> 00:01:06.719 And then when it got pushed to the next date. Yeah, that's right. 19 00:01:06.959 --> 00:01:08.920 Didn't end up having as many people show up because it wasn't the date 20 00:01:08.959 --> 00:01:12.200 that was originally planned. But we couldn't exactly give away too many more tickets. 21 00:01:12.239 --> 00:01:15.079 Yeah, we didn't know how many people would show up. So it's 22 00:01:15.120 --> 00:01:18.799 always like it's a little nerve wrecking to know. And also a week night, 23 00:01:18.920 --> 00:01:22.319 it's questionable who's going to like last minute and be like, I don't 24 00:01:22.319 --> 00:01:25.599 know, like I gotta work tomorrow. I really admire the people who came 25 00:01:25.599 --> 00:01:26.840 out because it's like, yeah, you know a lot of people have babies. 26 00:01:26.840 --> 00:01:30.079 They get to work tomorrow. I talked to you, But one of 27 00:01:29.879 --> 00:01:36.280 the girl who won the Twerking contest is an engineer. Really yeah, because 28 00:01:36.359 --> 00:01:38.120 you know, I was stalling an interview and everybody up on stage and what 29 00:01:38.159 --> 00:01:42.400 do you do, where do you live? Whatever? And there were I 30 00:01:42.920 --> 00:01:47.280 don't remember the other occupations. There was a pharmaceutical tech like you know, 31 00:01:47.319 --> 00:01:49.799 a pharmaceutical assistant, the one who whatever it worked at the pharmacy window whatever. 32 00:01:51.280 --> 00:01:57.079 And but the girl who won was not somebody that you would think would 33 00:01:57.079 --> 00:01:59.120 ever know how to tw work by looking at her, you know what I 34 00:01:59.159 --> 00:02:01.959 mean? Yep, but Jenny did the demonstration, and good god, Jenny's 35 00:02:02.000 --> 00:02:06.400 ass put out a couple of lights, broke some glasses at the bar, 36 00:02:06.799 --> 00:02:09.319 except for when I look back at the video, one of our shout out 37 00:02:09.360 --> 00:02:12.680 to Jess, our promotion staff, because she got this video of me, 38 00:02:13.120 --> 00:02:17.080 and I looked so ridiculous because I'm wearing this pencil like skirt dress thing and 39 00:02:17.159 --> 00:02:21.719 I can't move barely in it, so that's not exactly what you wear when 40 00:02:21.719 --> 00:02:23.840 you're trying to tork like I had to kick my shoes off because I was 41 00:02:23.840 --> 00:02:28.319 about to fall over, so I kicked those off within the first three seconds, 42 00:02:28.599 --> 00:02:30.639 and then I tried to move, and then I just looked like I 43 00:02:30.680 --> 00:02:34.039 was one of those flailing inflatable things at a car dealership. When I looked 44 00:02:34.080 --> 00:02:37.879 back at it, I looked so ridiculous, but I was trying to prove, 45 00:02:37.919 --> 00:02:39.840 like it's you gotta work pretty hard to do that contest, because the 46 00:02:39.840 --> 00:02:44.319 contest was like this Kleenex box around your waist and ping pong balls in it, 47 00:02:44.360 --> 00:02:46.680 and you had to get the ping pong balls out, and it's not 48 00:02:46.759 --> 00:02:49.120 just as simple like move your butt a little bit. It's like you gotta 49 00:02:49.319 --> 00:02:53.000 move yeah, bounce and move and yeah, you did a really good job. 50 00:02:53.520 --> 00:02:55.400 The winners were a lot of fun. It was a little behind the 51 00:02:55.400 --> 00:03:00.479 scenes thing. Lawrence was there. They're a brother sister band. Long story 52 00:03:00.479 --> 00:03:05.599 short. The girl she did not she couldn't make it, and we were 53 00:03:05.639 --> 00:03:08.479 disappointed, and so was the band and they were like, it's so apologetic, 54 00:03:08.479 --> 00:03:10.960 they said, I'm so sorry. But she had something huge that came 55 00:03:12.039 --> 00:03:15.199 up, and it was an opportunity to be in some cast of some show 56 00:03:15.719 --> 00:03:17.439 and she found out three days ago and she had to go to LA for 57 00:03:17.479 --> 00:03:20.960 this. We're like, no, we totally understand. I mean a bar 58 00:03:21.039 --> 00:03:25.879 gig in Minneapolis versus being in a big show on HBO or it's like a 59 00:03:25.919 --> 00:03:29.479 big opportunity for her. I don't know if we're allowed to talk about it. 60 00:03:29.479 --> 00:03:30.840 So I was like, I can't be mad at her for missing because 61 00:03:30.840 --> 00:03:37.039 of that, not at all. But it's it's really interesting because what we 62 00:03:37.159 --> 00:03:40.240 basically do all night is we take pictures. That's really what we do. 63 00:03:40.280 --> 00:03:44.000 We take pictures all night. Can I get a picture? Can I get 64 00:03:44.000 --> 00:03:46.199 a picture? Can I get a picture? Well, of course we're never 65 00:03:46.280 --> 00:03:52.919 ever going to say no. So the difficult part is if you're on your 66 00:03:52.960 --> 00:03:54.759 way to the stage, or you're urgently going to try to find Drake or 67 00:03:54.840 --> 00:03:59.479 urgently going to get somebody to do something. People will, you know, 68 00:03:59.479 --> 00:04:01.159 they'll stand with their phone and they'll say can I get a picture? And 69 00:04:01.199 --> 00:04:05.120 you don't want to ever say not right now. But sometimes I had to 70 00:04:05.159 --> 00:04:08.319 go to the bathroom and I was like, on my way to the bathroom, 71 00:04:08.400 --> 00:04:11.080 I had a couple of minutes and there was somebody who said, kind 72 00:04:11.080 --> 00:04:14.439 of get a picture. I said, I'll be right back. She almost 73 00:04:14.479 --> 00:04:18.120 followed me into the bathroom. Yeah. So, but whenever I meet people 74 00:04:18.439 --> 00:04:23.240 that want to get a picture, I always try to this is there's no 75 00:04:23.319 --> 00:04:26.800 reason I'm telling you this, but I always want people to walk away going 76 00:04:26.879 --> 00:04:30.839 wow, he was really nice instead of god, he barely had time for 77 00:04:30.879 --> 00:04:33.319 a picture. Yeah. So I'll talk to people like, oh, where 78 00:04:33.360 --> 00:04:36.240 are you from or whatever, and you know, did you get away from 79 00:04:36.240 --> 00:04:40.439 the family tonight or have you been out lately or whatever, because I always 80 00:04:40.439 --> 00:04:45.240 want people to walk away going wow. Those people from KTWDB are really nice. 81 00:04:45.279 --> 00:04:47.360 And you're so good, Jenny, You're so good with people. Not 82 00:04:47.560 --> 00:04:50.480 having come from a radio background and doing this, you know, you've done 83 00:04:50.519 --> 00:04:55.279 it for like six or seven years on KTWDB. But you do such a 84 00:04:55.319 --> 00:04:58.519 good job with people too, thank you. I mean usually, like for 85 00:04:58.600 --> 00:05:00.480 me, it would always be a matter of all of a sudden, I 86 00:05:00.519 --> 00:05:02.199 hear you talking on stage because we were supposed to be doing something and I'm 87 00:05:02.199 --> 00:05:04.399 in the back of the venue and I was like, guys, I'm so 88 00:05:04.519 --> 00:05:08.079 sorry, but I'm supposed to be up there. And they're always like it's 89 00:05:08.120 --> 00:05:10.759 cool, like run whatever. But I feel the same, like I don't 90 00:05:10.759 --> 00:05:13.680 want to, like like someone will grab me as I'm trying to run on 91 00:05:13.759 --> 00:05:15.879 a stage and I'm like, I'm so sorry. I just like I gotta 92 00:05:15.920 --> 00:05:17.000 to go up there quick. I'll try to come back right after there. 93 00:05:17.319 --> 00:05:20.680 Yeah, they understand, you know, I will give of all people. 94 00:05:21.480 --> 00:05:25.120 It's something I think I would have learned anyway. But I'm gonna give credit 95 00:05:25.160 --> 00:05:29.800 to an unusual celebrity that you would not expect. Brooke Shields. Okay, 96 00:05:29.920 --> 00:05:33.079 okay, So I met Brooke Shields twenty five years ago at a big NBC 97 00:05:33.240 --> 00:05:39.399 event in Burbank in California, and she came in and she was plugging a 98 00:05:39.439 --> 00:05:42.560 new show that she had on TV. It was new called Suddenly Susan I 99 00:05:42.600 --> 00:05:46.319 think. And she came in. She's very you know, polite and professional. 100 00:05:46.360 --> 00:05:49.120 She's at that time probably thirty years old or so something like that. 101 00:05:49.759 --> 00:05:53.480 And she comes in and I said, can I get an autograph? Back 102 00:05:53.480 --> 00:05:57.199 when people would ask for autographs, nobody does anymore. And she signed a 103 00:05:57.279 --> 00:06:00.560 long autograph and I said, wow, you wrote a novel on there, 104 00:06:00.639 --> 00:06:01.480 and you know, like in a joking way, she said, well, 105 00:06:02.319 --> 00:06:08.079 I always want people to think that, to know that they meant enough to 106 00:06:08.120 --> 00:06:11.319 me to not just sign my name, but to put a little message in 107 00:06:11.360 --> 00:06:15.720 there. And I thought that if Brooks Shields has time to sign something for 108 00:06:15.800 --> 00:06:18.120 a DJ, that's a good lesson. Yeah, that, you know, 109 00:06:18.199 --> 00:06:21.279 to let people know that they're important. And I tell people this all the 110 00:06:21.279 --> 00:06:24.639 time. They say, I've been listening for years. I say, thank 111 00:06:24.720 --> 00:06:29.720 you so much. We need you and we appreciate you, because we do. 112 00:06:29.759 --> 00:06:32.199 We really do need you and appreciate you, and we never take that 113 00:06:32.240 --> 00:06:35.600 for granted. So if you ever have a bad experience with me, I 114 00:06:35.639 --> 00:06:40.480 hope that's I hope you understand it's because I what probably I had to poop 115 00:06:41.720 --> 00:06:43.800 because if you like, walk up to me in quick trip and I'm like 116 00:06:43.879 --> 00:06:46.240 hustling for the bathroom, and you're like, oh my god, I listen 117 00:06:46.240 --> 00:06:47.439 to you all the time, and I'm like, I think, think by 118 00:06:47.639 --> 00:06:50.800 thanks bye, and then you go, well, what a jerk. All 119 00:06:50.879 --> 00:06:56.639 right, let's dive into the emails. This one is kind of fun. 120 00:06:56.959 --> 00:07:00.399 It's not Naughty Tuesday, but let's call it freaky Friday. Oh. I 121 00:07:00.439 --> 00:07:03.839 like that this is anonymous, but she says, I have a plethora of 122 00:07:04.439 --> 00:07:09.680 places I've got my freak nasty on. And here we go. A picnic 123 00:07:09.680 --> 00:07:13.240 table in a park in the middle of the night, two different fraternities, 124 00:07:13.360 --> 00:07:18.240 chapter rooms, hotel rooms, we split with friends very drunkenly after weddings, 125 00:07:18.839 --> 00:07:26.160 a roadie, a college classroom, et cetera. Your girl was wild back 126 00:07:26.199 --> 00:07:31.360 in the day. Anonymously, she signs off with right, which is another 127 00:07:31.360 --> 00:07:38.639 inside joke from the carving guy from the what is It They Buffet? Training 128 00:07:38.720 --> 00:07:42.920 video? So thank you. I love that you sound like you like to 129 00:07:43.040 --> 00:07:46.399 maybe have the potential of getting caught in public. Some people do, like 130 00:07:46.480 --> 00:07:50.240 she saw like she's like on the edge, and it's probably something that turns 131 00:07:50.240 --> 00:07:55.000 around a bit like ooh, there are people that I've dated that are like 132 00:07:55.199 --> 00:07:59.279 I like doing it with the possibility of somebody watching, and I'm like, 133 00:08:00.040 --> 00:08:01.959 really yeah. And you know what's funny is like, I guess if you 134 00:08:03.240 --> 00:08:09.279 are young and it turns you on and you look good naked, yeah, 135 00:08:09.319 --> 00:08:13.759 I guess maybe it would turn somebody on to get to have somebody watch. 136 00:08:15.279 --> 00:08:18.839 Julie and I back when we were both young and hot, we were at 137 00:08:18.839 --> 00:08:22.480 a hotel room one time and we did it in front of the open window 138 00:08:22.720 --> 00:08:26.160 at like a courtyard by Marriott, And so there she was in your room, 139 00:08:26.160 --> 00:08:28.439 but then you were right at the court yard, was right in front 140 00:08:28.439 --> 00:08:33.759 of you. Yep, yep, yep, And so she was facing the 141 00:08:33.799 --> 00:08:37.600 window naked with her arms like up on the window edges, and I was 142 00:08:37.639 --> 00:08:43.080 behind her, and we knew it was at night, and we knew anybody 143 00:08:43.080 --> 00:08:46.080 could see, and it wasn't my idea, but a guy looked up, 144 00:08:46.120 --> 00:08:50.279 and he looked up again and he was watching. Then I think we both 145 00:08:50.320 --> 00:08:54.080 got a little bit uncomfortable and like, you know, close the curtain or 146 00:08:54.159 --> 00:08:58.240 whatever. So all right, thank you for that one. Let's move to 147 00:08:58.279 --> 00:09:05.000 some other email we've got here. Sony writes in Dave Jenny Drake, Jenny, 148 00:09:05.039 --> 00:09:09.559 I'd love to hear Andrew's opinion on this week's Survivor episode personally, fellow 149 00:09:09.559 --> 00:09:13.559 staff writer Sarah, and I think this week's elimination was predictable. Also, 150 00:09:13.600 --> 00:09:18.519 we want him to audition again, right, Sonia? What do you got, 151 00:09:18.600 --> 00:09:22.720 Jene? I think Andrew's take was he thought it was brilliant. Well, 152 00:09:22.720 --> 00:09:26.000 he didn't think it was brilliant, but like the whole someone made oh 153 00:09:26.039 --> 00:09:28.519 my god, what are they called immunity idol, like a fake one, 154 00:09:28.799 --> 00:09:33.440 and they made this girl believe she had one. Oh, so she used 155 00:09:33.480 --> 00:09:35.559 it at God, I forget what all these things are called, but where 156 00:09:35.600 --> 00:09:39.840 you get eliminated? She used it and she thought she was safe. And 157 00:09:39.879 --> 00:09:43.200 then Jeff was like, this is not a real immunity. So someone gave 158 00:09:43.240 --> 00:09:46.320 it to her, and so I thought that was brilliant. Apparently they've done 159 00:09:46.360 --> 00:09:52.240 that before. But I think it was definitely predictable. And what was the 160 00:09:52.279 --> 00:09:54.399 other question that he should maybe audition again. Yeah, I think Andrew did 161 00:09:54.440 --> 00:09:56.360 it, But I said this, I think on the last time I talked 162 00:09:56.399 --> 00:10:01.279 about it, Andrew gets really camera shy. He's not a public speaker. 163 00:10:01.720 --> 00:10:05.960 He just like turns into someone he's not like, he turns into a very 164 00:10:05.000 --> 00:10:07.960 introverted person when a camera's put on him. I get that. Like I 165 00:10:09.000 --> 00:10:11.080 try to like record the funny shit he does, because Andrew is so funny, 166 00:10:11.279 --> 00:10:13.200 but he'll be funny in the moment, and then if I get my 167 00:10:13.240 --> 00:10:18.080 phone out, he can't perform then again. And so he just says that 168 00:10:18.120 --> 00:10:20.360 he just doesn't think he could do Survivor. He'd be too shy around the 169 00:10:20.399 --> 00:10:24.600 cameras and it would mess with his game. And that's so important in those 170 00:10:24.639 --> 00:10:30.279 reality shows because they want you to be a character. And Andrew is funny, 171 00:10:30.559 --> 00:10:31.480 but you know, when we put him on the radio, he gets 172 00:10:31.519 --> 00:10:37.559 nervous or shy or whatever and and comes across differently than he does in person. 173 00:10:37.919 --> 00:10:39.480 And I think that's you know, that doesn't really work well for a 174 00:10:39.519 --> 00:10:43.639 reality show because they want characters. I mean, think about you know, 175 00:10:43.120 --> 00:10:48.360 I mean, whether you watch Survivor or what's the other one that I used 176 00:10:48.360 --> 00:10:52.320 to watch all the time. An Amazing Race was one fear factor? Oh 177 00:10:52.399 --> 00:10:56.080 yeah, and they have like, you know, loud, obnoxious people. 178 00:10:56.120 --> 00:10:58.919 They never have somebody who's like meek and like, you know, polite. 179 00:10:58.840 --> 00:11:01.080 Yeah, it's like, yeah, bitch, I'm going to kick your ass 180 00:11:01.080 --> 00:11:05.559 type of thing next one. Hello David Jenny. Last time we wrote, 181 00:11:05.639 --> 00:11:09.399 we were. Last time we wrote you, we were driving a camp or 182 00:11:09.519 --> 00:11:16.519 van completely around Iceland. Now we are enjoying the natural beauties of New Zealand. 183 00:11:16.639 --> 00:11:18.679 Both amazing countries, but in New Zealand they drive on the other side 184 00:11:18.679 --> 00:11:22.879 of the road. Luckily, my husband Josh picked it up quickly and is 185 00:11:22.919 --> 00:11:26.679 being an amazing chauffeur. Whenever you go, we go, no matter how 186 00:11:26.720 --> 00:11:31.799 remote. We always make sure to download episodes of your show. I so 187 00:11:31.919 --> 00:11:35.440 appreciate that, even in New Zealand. Yeah, Ally and Josh are listening. 188 00:11:35.960 --> 00:11:39.679 We were listening to the episode where Dave got back from Hawaiian talked about 189 00:11:39.720 --> 00:11:43.440 what a small world it is. We had our own small world moment in 190 00:11:43.519 --> 00:11:46.879 New Zealand. We stopped at a small town in a bakery and ran into 191 00:11:46.919 --> 00:11:52.879 a girl we went to high school with. We haven't seen her since high 192 00:11:52.879 --> 00:11:54.840 school. She wasn't originally supposed to be in this small town, but ended 193 00:11:54.879 --> 00:11:58.440 up there when her flight got rerouted. Such a small world. Thanks for 194 00:11:58.480 --> 00:12:03.000 all you do, riders, Ali and Josh. PS you ever all find 195 00:12:03.039 --> 00:12:07.200 yourself in Iceland and New Zealand. I have some very detailed itineraries for you. 196 00:12:07.679 --> 00:12:11.120 Those are both countries that are on the top of my list of places 197 00:12:11.159 --> 00:12:13.200 I want to go. Yeah, those two and Norway are like the three 198 00:12:13.240 --> 00:12:18.279 main ones and pretty much anywhere in Southeast Asia. But those three also okay, 199 00:12:18.320 --> 00:12:20.159 yeah, I mean, you know what, I think. Iceland is 200 00:12:20.159 --> 00:12:22.279 a very trendy or has been for a while, a very trendy destination. 201 00:12:22.399 --> 00:12:26.639 I'd love to go there. New Zealand is one. I was talking to 202 00:12:26.679 --> 00:12:30.679 my trainer, Phil shout Out the other day and he said, so you 203 00:12:30.759 --> 00:12:33.279 got back to Hawaii. Do do you ever have any desire to go to 204 00:12:33.600 --> 00:12:35.879 Europe? And I said no, I said, I've been there, you 205 00:12:35.919 --> 00:12:41.120 know, I've been to the standard, Paris, Germany, and Italy. 206 00:12:41.919 --> 00:12:45.240 I really don't, you know, I don't have the travel bug. I 207 00:12:45.279 --> 00:12:46.960 really don't. There are places that I'd like to see. I went to 208 00:12:48.080 --> 00:12:50.360 Japan. That was the most exotic trip I'll probably ever go on. But 209 00:12:50.440 --> 00:12:52.759 I don't really have the travel bug that way, you know. I'd like 210 00:12:52.759 --> 00:12:56.240 to go to the National parks, or drive to Alaska, or ride on 211 00:12:56.240 --> 00:13:00.000 the motorcycle. I have just saw TikTok yesterday and it was a guy who's 212 00:13:00.080 --> 00:13:03.080 said, oh, Americans are so ridiculous. They're not traveled, they're not 213 00:13:03.120 --> 00:13:05.600 well traveled. This and this and that, and he was from Europe, 214 00:13:05.639 --> 00:13:07.960 and he goes, let me tell you why Americans are not well traveled. 215 00:13:09.120 --> 00:13:11.759 They don't need to travel. The United States has so much. He's like, 216 00:13:11.799 --> 00:13:16.440 I feel like Europeans don't understand how big the United States is. Basically 217 00:13:16.480 --> 00:13:20.080 going from one state to another is like going from one country to another in 218 00:13:20.279 --> 00:13:22.840 Europe. He's like, so stop saying that Americans aren't traveled. They just 219 00:13:22.960 --> 00:13:26.879 can travel within their country and get so many different things. And it's so 220 00:13:28.000 --> 00:13:30.600 true. I mean, I like to go outside of the country too, 221 00:13:30.639 --> 00:13:33.559 but I haven't gone to too many places myself, because I have gone to 222 00:13:33.639 --> 00:13:37.559 amazing places in the United States. That's a really good point. I never 223 00:13:37.559 --> 00:13:39.559 thought about that. When you want mountains, I mean, like world class 224 00:13:39.600 --> 00:13:46.000 mountains, there's Colorado, there's Montana, there's Wyoming. You want the desert 225 00:13:46.080 --> 00:13:48.120 and hot you got Arizona, you got Texas, you got New Mexico. 226 00:13:48.559 --> 00:13:54.320 You want tropical, You've got Hawaii and Florida. You want you know, 227 00:13:54.519 --> 00:13:58.240 river and hills and things like that. You've got Minnesota, You've got Tennessee, 228 00:13:58.799 --> 00:14:03.720 you want the great planes you got Texas and Kansas. That's the Grand 229 00:14:03.759 --> 00:14:07.320 Canyon is like an epic thing that people come from around the world and it's 230 00:14:07.399 --> 00:14:11.879 right here in the United States. I never thought about that one. We 231 00:14:11.919 --> 00:14:13.360 don't need to be as well traveled because we've got it all right here. 232 00:14:13.639 --> 00:14:18.639 Wow, that's really that. I'm gonna remember that. She goes on to 233 00:14:18.679 --> 00:14:20.919 say, oh, we're done, so thank you, Alli, I appreciate 234 00:14:20.960 --> 00:14:26.399 that one. Next one, guys emailing about an odd experience I had while 235 00:14:26.399 --> 00:14:30.759 I had the doctor with my husband. I'm gonna check the wave for him 236 00:14:30.759 --> 00:14:31.720 really quick, Jenny, to make sure we're still good. Okay, good, 237 00:14:33.000 --> 00:14:35.120 because we get nervous sometime, but we're not recording it and it's like, 238 00:14:35.200 --> 00:14:39.480 no, okay. My husband was sick and he said he was going 239 00:14:39.519 --> 00:14:43.039 to urgent care. I was still around after my first ultrasound with my baby 240 00:14:43.159 --> 00:14:48.720 yay that he wasn't able to get off in time for so I tagged along 241 00:14:48.720 --> 00:14:54.799 for his apartment. The appointment, the doctor touched his knee every time she 242 00:14:54.000 --> 00:14:58.039 walked by him, so four plus times, and then when she checked for 243 00:14:58.200 --> 00:15:03.919 straps, she stood up on the exam table footstool, so she was standing 244 00:15:03.080 --> 00:15:09.519 directly in between his legs. She touched him a couple of other times where 245 00:15:09.639 --> 00:15:13.440 she didn't need to. I wasn't gonna say anything because I'm not jealous of 246 00:15:13.440 --> 00:15:18.919 a middle aged doctor with my husband. But after she left, he was 247 00:15:18.039 --> 00:15:22.399 like, was that really weird? I felt like that was weird. Now 248 00:15:22.440 --> 00:15:24.639 me and my husband both have a personality where we don't like being touched by 249 00:15:24.639 --> 00:15:30.200 people except each other. Baby number four on the way, lol, So 250 00:15:30.240 --> 00:15:33.679 this was weird or was it weirder just us? I'm not going to complain 251 00:15:33.679 --> 00:15:37.320 about her, I'm just curious. I do have a take on that. 252 00:15:37.000 --> 00:15:45.799 I've had doctors reassuringly touch me when I had my recent colonoscopy and indoscopy. 253 00:15:45.879 --> 00:15:48.480 Both times when they wheeled me into the operating room just before they gave me 254 00:15:48.519 --> 00:15:52.519 anesthesia, the doctor would come in and say, Hey, I'm doctor so 255 00:15:52.600 --> 00:15:56.399 and so I'm gonna be taking care of you. You're gonna do great, 256 00:15:56.440 --> 00:15:58.240 and he would kind of like pat me on the hip or on the side 257 00:15:58.279 --> 00:16:02.320 or on the shoulder. I don't remember, but I thought that was very 258 00:16:02.399 --> 00:16:08.600 reassuring. Also, that could be her motive. Also, I used to 259 00:16:08.639 --> 00:16:14.600 work with a woman who was middle aged but used to be I'm sure a 260 00:16:14.679 --> 00:16:18.759 smoke show, and I think that, and she still was very flirty, 261 00:16:18.840 --> 00:16:22.279 even though it felt kind of weird that she was fifty or so years old, 262 00:16:22.720 --> 00:16:26.480 And it was kind of weird because she was flirty and would do the 263 00:16:26.519 --> 00:16:29.840 touchy thing and that type of thing, and I thought that probably used to 264 00:16:29.919 --> 00:16:33.639 really work for her back when she was thirty two. At fifty, it 265 00:16:33.679 --> 00:16:41.480 came off as a little weird. So maybe it's possible that this doctor has 266 00:16:41.559 --> 00:16:47.399 always been a little flirty and she still does it because it's always worked the 267 00:16:47.440 --> 00:16:51.399 same way that Once in a while you see an older woman with a hairstyle 268 00:16:51.559 --> 00:16:56.159 from nineteen ninety two and you go, why does she still have the same 269 00:16:56.200 --> 00:16:59.480 hairstyle? Well, because it has als. She thinks it still works for 270 00:16:59.639 --> 00:17:03.039 when I don't know what I'm talking about, Jenny, what do you think 271 00:17:03.399 --> 00:17:07.880 I get the reassuring like maybe taps on the knee thing, It just seems 272 00:17:07.920 --> 00:17:10.160 a little extreme to do it, like every time she walk past him. 273 00:17:10.319 --> 00:17:15.000 The strip test thing is a little bit strange. I was trying to think 274 00:17:15.039 --> 00:17:18.960 because as a female, I sit with when you sit on that exam table 275 00:17:18.000 --> 00:17:22.240 saying I sit when my legs closed as a male, usually you guys are 276 00:17:22.480 --> 00:17:25.920 more of a spread a little bit kind of when you sit, but maybe 277 00:17:25.920 --> 00:17:27.759 not. It's just like more comfortable a lot of times for guys to sit 278 00:17:27.799 --> 00:17:30.160 that way. So I was like, well, that's weird that he was 279 00:17:30.160 --> 00:17:33.359 spread open with his legs and she got in between it. But that is 280 00:17:33.400 --> 00:17:36.680 probably where she would go to do it. But the fact that she was 281 00:17:36.720 --> 00:17:41.039 standing on a stool on top, like the whole picture I'm getting from that 282 00:17:41.200 --> 00:17:44.319 was a little bit strange to me. It seemed a little extra. But 283 00:17:44.960 --> 00:17:47.400 yeah, I don't know the answer to that. I would say it is 284 00:17:47.440 --> 00:17:51.480 a little bit odd though, that she was doing it. It is a 285 00:17:51.559 --> 00:17:53.519 little bit and I can't figure that part out. And I just wonder if 286 00:17:53.519 --> 00:17:57.680 she's just one of those people that doesn't really have any boundaries. Yeah, 287 00:17:57.720 --> 00:18:02.359 like a close talker. Some people don't like to be touched, like Tina 288 00:18:02.400 --> 00:18:03.519 does not like to be touched, does not like to be hugged. I 289 00:18:03.599 --> 00:18:07.559 know, I forced hugs on her, and she's a get away And that's 290 00:18:07.759 --> 00:18:11.920 just funny because most of us really like hugs. And like last night at 291 00:18:11.160 --> 00:18:15.119 girls' night out, a few women, probably a dozen or so, would 292 00:18:15.119 --> 00:18:17.359 say, can I hug you? And I'm like, well, yeah, 293 00:18:17.519 --> 00:18:22.839 of course. And some people are just touching people and some people are really 294 00:18:22.319 --> 00:18:25.920 just not I don't know. That's interesting. I'm really glad you're not going 295 00:18:25.960 --> 00:18:30.039 to complain about her because it doesn't sound like I mean, especially because you 296 00:18:30.359 --> 00:18:37.839 were right there with him. I'm one hundred percent certain that she was not 297 00:18:37.359 --> 00:18:42.359 trying to be in any way over the line. Yeah, I will say 298 00:18:42.759 --> 00:18:47.519 that if the tables were turned and that was a male doctor with a female 299 00:18:47.640 --> 00:18:52.119 patient and she was alone, then it'd be a little concerning, like a 300 00:18:52.160 --> 00:18:56.519 little extra to But even then would Okay, let's say, Jenny, let's 301 00:18:56.519 --> 00:18:57.640 say you get a doctor, Let's say he's forty five years old, then 302 00:18:57.680 --> 00:19:00.759 he touches you like a little too many times and then stands between your legs 303 00:19:00.799 --> 00:19:04.680 while he's doing the throat culture, the strip exam or whatever. Would that 304 00:19:04.720 --> 00:19:14.960 concern you? Probably, especially if I was by myself. I only go 305 00:19:15.000 --> 00:19:18.200 and see female doctors. It just makes me much more comfortable. So I 306 00:19:18.279 --> 00:19:22.640 don't know exactly how I would feel. It's just that you're in a lot 307 00:19:22.680 --> 00:19:26.200 of times you feel like very vulnerable in a doctor's office, So I think 308 00:19:26.240 --> 00:19:30.680 I would feel uncomfortable if it was me alone with the guy in the office 309 00:19:30.759 --> 00:19:33.640 and him doing that. Yeah. I wonder if a lot of doctors won't 310 00:19:33.680 --> 00:19:37.359 even see a female patient, especially if they're a guyno doctor without a nurse 311 00:19:37.400 --> 00:19:40.599 in the room. I don't know there's a lot of guys that go into 312 00:19:40.640 --> 00:19:45.119 gynecology anymore, probably because I think women prefer this, you know, the 313 00:19:45.200 --> 00:19:51.279 upcoming generations prefer a female guynecologist. Yeah, I think so. I don't 314 00:19:51.279 --> 00:19:52.079 know if a lot of guys do. I will tell you had a weird 315 00:19:52.119 --> 00:19:57.079 experience of the doctor a few years ago. They had me put on the 316 00:19:57.119 --> 00:20:02.440 gown, you know, the little cloth gown you're naked underneath it, and 317 00:20:02.440 --> 00:20:04.079 and I put it on, and it, you know, ties in the 318 00:20:04.119 --> 00:20:08.240 back and the doctor comes in. I said, why does it? Why 319 00:20:08.240 --> 00:20:11.920 does my gown open in the back, And he said, because mine opens 320 00:20:11.960 --> 00:20:19.200 in the front. True story, Jenny, True story. Like it might 321 00:20:19.240 --> 00:20:22.720 have been a joke, but that's what your doctor's doing. I'm definitely not 322 00:20:22.759 --> 00:20:26.400 seeing him. He takes that little hammer and he taps me on the knee 323 00:20:26.400 --> 00:20:29.039 with it, and I said, how what was that for? And he 324 00:20:29.039 --> 00:20:33.799 said, that's because you never call me back. Oh, I'm doing ambiguously 325 00:20:33.920 --> 00:20:40.599 gay humor here, and that's probably very dated and inappropriate. 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