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Made a decision of peace Sunny Sue
on Ihdurdasione nice week. Hey everybody,

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what's up? All our fcol Er
is out there? I know we just

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you know what, we got warmed
up. Not literally, I'm still cold.

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I'm warming up with the heater,
but we got warmed up. Talking

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to Ruby Wren, Dylan's sister,
and Patrick. Yes, we did a

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great guest special guest show this week. We talked Love is Blind, a

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lot of Love is Blind. We
talked Vanderpunk rules, we talked a little

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bit of ninety Day, but mostly
Love is Blind. And you'll be able

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to hear the episode tomorrow. We're
gonna put it out a day early because

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on Wednesdays. Kailan's like, are
we though, really you can do it?

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Yeah? We could, just we
can. I can put out Wednesday.

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It's not problem. Yeah, because
Wednesday night is the Love is Blind.

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Basically, it's the finale, it's
the wedding. So why would you

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want to hear us talk about our
predictions on Thursday of who gets married?

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So you'll hear it tomorrow on Wednesday. Check it out. Yeah, and

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they probably thanks to Kaylin Ken,
Yeah, thank you, I can do

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it. Thank you, Carrie,
Yeah, check it out. Let's say

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hi to our peeps. Let's do
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it's not exactly the same as before, so you know, put your listening,

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okay on, But it's Stephanie's stinker
wrinker, she's still stinking. Yes,

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Christa, get this strap, still
need that stress And Sandra, it's

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not easy being green. Maybe try
a different color, I know, Jennifer,

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get up, Sarah Stefano, Aaron
Dirty Sanchez, h Ashley so chic.

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Okay, this is turning out to
be very similar to it was before.

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Leslie with the coughing all right and
the accosting then the other Leslie is

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still out there at Strells right at
Strip Malls. That there's like a nail

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place like pick another. You know
you're gonna ruin somebody's fresh coat of nail

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polish. Aaron land Ho not Ana
faris Katie's rolling on e Amy's cunt.

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Kelly Lady Ashley, so she Nikki
call your girl. Jacob is very growley.

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Rita rocks the basinet with Elizabeth Williamson's
kids and an Athena Ginshirt's makeup in

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the masinette of the girls. The
little girls are putting it on already.

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Polly. We love your pancakes and
your sister Valerie, Bubba Fenwick, Katerina.

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Don't make the mistake I did and
go too long and have an implant.

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Missy, Oh she I forgot she
does have. Yeah, I forgot.

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I've talked to her. She's so
nice. Gabby and Missy still on

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the you know, up and up
on the streets. Yeah, yeah,

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of Laredo. That's a joke for
people that are as old as me.

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Uhhaan Vosh still that ass? Well
quit, Rebecca, Kelly Brandt's not your

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aunt. Did we do, Alicia
ask? Yeah, that's it. We

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love you guys. So guess what
I did the other night? What'd you

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do? Judge a contest? Oh
close close. I am just a girl

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who can't say no everything. I
go get them, I judged. I

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chaperonned a school dance. Oh you
did, Yes, I got school dance.

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Okay, So I was. I
was in a I remember when I

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told you I had that Zoom meeting
for the people that are available to volunteer,

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And then I told you how I
accidentally got sucked into being the fundraiser.

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Yes, running the fundraising committee with
another mom. Well that same meeting,

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they were like, we really need
some moms to chaperone the dance.

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And it was like a Friday night. It was just the friday night that

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just what dance was It like a
winter school dance. It was just like

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a I don't know when your kids
go to a small school, it's just

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I don't know. That's kind of
like what the school I went to.

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Yes, Friday night dance. Friday
night dance. Yes, yeah, So

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I said I would do it because
they were like, we really need people

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because this teacher is already having to
do something the following day, so she

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can't you know. It was like
one of those like she can't. Everybody

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can't be always be. There were
really need some parents to step up.

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So I was like, all right, I'll come. You know. So

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that morning was staff breakfast. I
was double. I was doing staff breakfast.

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Oh yeah? Did people show up
with coffee and coffee cups? So

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I had to get I think my
parents are getting a little burnt out,

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so fewer of them are signing up. So nobody wanted to do the coffee.

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But you know what, the I
get it because the coffee is like

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fifty bucks. You got to get
two travelers, and it's hard to travel

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with coffee too, Like you know, I know it's all packed and everything,

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but it's like it's in those big
cart and things right right right.

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And by the way, this is
this is a little side vent. I

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tried to get it from Starbucks.
Okay, so Starbucks travelers are like twenty

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bucks. So the month before some
mom was like, I'm going to order

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it and I'm gonna have it at
the Starbucks. There's a Starbucks that's on

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my way to the kid's school,
right, So I was like, oh,

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okay, great, and it was
really convenient and I just ran in

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there picked up the coffee. So
I was like, you know what,

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I'm gonna Nobody signed up to do
it this time, so I was like,

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I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna
order the coffee to that Starbucks.

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Okay. Well Starbucks is very difficult. So you try to log onto Starbucks.

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You can't just buy something and put
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You have to well first, yeah, you frigot fourteen. Now I

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know because I used to get when
I remember this because I did the same

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thing with the kids' school. I
remember one time I was donating coffee and

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I was like, oh, Starbucks
is right there, and I think Sonny

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was like they got an app.
But then I remember it's like they won

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my social Security and I mean it
was just like really, And then then

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how how often do you use the
Starbucks map app? Right? So then

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six months later you want to use
it again. It's like I don't remember

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my pass word exactly, and I
don't remember what email account I signed.

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It was like now it's like I
gotta start over, right, And then

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you try to put in your email
and they're like, sorry, we were

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already taking us and I'm like,
I know, because it's mine. I

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hate that. Yes, So I
go on the Starbucks thing and I go

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to try to order it, and
they, by the way, they let

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you get pretty far, so they've
already wasted your time. And then they're

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like, great, okay, here's
the checkout page. What's your Starbucks reward

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number? And I'm like, well, I don't have a Starbucks reward number.

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Well you gotta get one, so
get the app. So then you're

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like okay, so you try to
sign into that, but here's the problem.

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Even when you're signed into the Starbucks
thing. Then you got to load

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your Starbucks card or whatever. You
have to load the thing with money.

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You can't. I'm like, just
take my fucking or my credit card or

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my bank account at this point like
something that other than me having to So

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now I have to figure out the
exact amount load a card like I don't

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go to Starbucks that often. Also, I have the kids are signed up,

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like, the kids already have it. And by the way, it's

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through my credit card. So now
you're probably thinking, well, then why

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don't you just have the kids order
it through which is already goes to my

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credit card anyway. The reason why
is because I was trying to do it.

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It was kind of like at night. I didn't know where the kids

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were. I didn't want to,
you know what. I didn't want to

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start texting them and going, hey, I need you to put that.

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I was like, no, fuck
it, I'm going to do it through

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Western Bagel. There you go to
Starbucks. You lost my business and guess

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what it took ten seconds, Right
I did Western Bagel. I put in

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my credit card, you know it
auto filled it. I put in the

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thing by there you go. The
coffee's right in the next morning. There

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you go. Anyway, Yeah,
that's a lot of brain power. So

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my new thing is that using the
fund from the school, because I'm like,

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I'm not spending fifty dollars a month
on the staff breakfast. Right,

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You're not supposed to though, Right, you're supposed to have everybody, right,

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but if people don't sign up.
The coffee was fifty dollars because it's

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two it's two travelers. They're each
like they come to like twenty five dollars

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each. So anyway, whatever,
I got reimbursed for that, and but

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I bought other stuff too, It
doesn't really matter. The point is I

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had that first thing in the morning, so I had to get up at

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the crack of dawn because the breakfast
for the staff has to happen before school

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starts. Yes, so I'm there
early. Then I go home, I

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do my other stuff, and then
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the kids for the dance. Here's
the thing. You think chaperoning a dance

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could be kind of fun. I
was just gonna say, like, what

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you wear? That seems like a
good time? Yeah right, yeah,

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yeah, not so much, No, because guess what I got designated?

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They said, okay, you go
watch the bathrooms. So there's like this

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hallway, so every the dance is
happening. I'm like, why can't I

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be the one that walks around and
watches the kid dance, make sure that

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nobody's biking the punch or anything,
right in a John Hughes movie, right,

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like a John freaking Hughes movie.
And then maybe I pop in maybe

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a good song, maybe I do
the curly shuffle or something, you know,

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along with the kids. You know, I'm just a part all part

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of watching them chaperoning. Yeah,
right, that's how I That's how I

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saw things. Get them dancing out
on the dance. Come on, everybody,

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girls, don't be shy, you
guys, move together, everybody mixed

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together. Yeah, hyping them up
right, do the sprinkler, your head

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back with your knee up. Yes, that's not kids, that's how I

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that's how I foresee Yeah, running
man, Yeah yeah, yeah, nay,

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nay, yeah. Teaching the grinder, I don't know's some kind of

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grinder thing, not the gay dating
app at the there's really kind of I

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don't know, different moves right right
right exactly, No, No, I

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get there and uh they're like Oh, we need somebody to go hang out

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by the bathrooms. Oh my god. So I'm like, it's all by

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myself. You know that boys do
not go to the bathroom, so it's

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just the girls bathroom. So I'm
situated. I'm outside the girls bathroom.

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I'm at a table. I was
like a bathroom attendant basically because I'm not

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inside the bathroom, but I'm sitting
outside, Which how am I supposed to

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know what's going on inside the bathroom
from outside the bathroom. It's not really

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chaperoning because nobody, Like people don't
smoke, They don't sneak and smoke cigarettes

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like they did in the old days. As you know, they vape.

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You can't smell that. I'm not
going to and even and even if they're

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vaping pot or using their wizzle sticks
or what is their stizzle whatever they're doing,

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I'm not gonna be able to smell
it, right. And also they're

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not doing it. They're not doing
it outside of the bathroom in the corridor.

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They're doing it inside. So yeah, you needed a bench to go

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sit inside the bathroom and get some
mintce and some gum. So there was

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there were rays and hairspray, and
MAXI pad. There were stuff, but

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outside of the bathroom. So I'm
outside the bathroom, sitting on a sitting

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in a chair with like it's like
with with the stuff, and I'm like

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as people are going in, I'm
like, okay, don't vape, and

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they're looking at me like kind of
laughing, yes, yes. And again

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it's the same people going back to
the bathroom. And I don't even think

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they're doing anything wrong. Nobody's getting
drunk. It's a small school, Hi,

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I can't tell they're all they're going
to gossip and whatever. So I'm

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sitting there. At some point this
girl that I do know from I feel

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like I'm speaking really slowly because I'm
trying, you know, I'm in my

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mind thinking what I can say and
what I can't say. Okay, So

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I remember this girl from an activity
that my kids did, but many years

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ago, when they were like eight, okay, okay, so I don't

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know her anymore. I haven't spoken
to her and since they were little kids.

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She comes walking up and she goes
she just stands in front of me

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and she's like, Hi, how
are you? Oh? And I said,

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I'm good, I'm so good.
How are you? And She's like,

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I'm good and like Sandie and Xander
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one of these kids. She's a
little bit like Tracy flick an election.

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She's just like she's like a right, she's ass kissing a little bit like

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or she or she just really likes
adults, you know, right, and

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then she just proceeds try to make
conversation with me for like fifteen minutes.

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But did you I'm trapped because I'm
just I'm literally in a hallway. Where

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am I going? Yes? Like
so it's like when you're playing peekaboo with

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a baby and you're like you're done
way before they're done, right, I

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feel like, okay, we did
that, and then there's still still going.

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Yeah. It was like that feeling
where you're like, well, I

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don't want to be a bit like
this is like a teenager trying to make

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conversation with me, Like I can't
be like, okay, we're good,

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we talked, but at some point
you want to be like on your way

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beat it. Yeah, right,
you have fun? What are you doing

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with me? Right? Plus the
fact that what do you think I was

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doing? I was on my phone. I was like practically going to listen

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to a podcast. Although I was
like, she's interest. I should keep

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my ears open. But I'm like
looking at Facebook. You know, I'm

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trying to make the best of a
bad situation. Now, can't they switch?

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Can't you switch out? Like I
could have? But at that point,

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I'm like, I'm going to go. Fine. I would have had

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to leave. I would have had
to go and really start asking people,

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Hey, can I do something else
for a while. And at that point,

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I'm like, do I feel like
doing something else? That's true,

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it's so stupid. It was unnecessary
for me to be there, right,

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But I just I wish you would
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little bit. I know, And
I heard. I heard how it went.

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Oh you could hear it. They
play good songs. No, that

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was an inner thing. Some kid
goes walking down the hall and he's like,

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I wish they could played some house
music or something I want to listen

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to, And I was like,
I understand. They were playing basically like

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wedding music. That's why I made
the curly shuffle reference. I mean,

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they were doing they did the they
played the wobble and they play it was

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like a you know, like you
know it was basically like a wedding really,

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so they didn't play like it takes
two to make a thing go,

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right. I think they did play
that song because yeah, yeah, it's

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like whatever would be palatable to old
people. But also it was not music

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that I feel like that generation actually
really likes and likes to dance too.

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But I heard that Xander was out
on the dance floor the whole time.

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He was the hype man. He
was. He was, Yeah, Sadie

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was like the only reason people were
dancing was because of Xander really danced like

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the whole time. I could see
that. Yeah, see that. So

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he had a great time. He
had a great time. Oh I love

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that. Yeah. And Sadie,
Yeah, she had a good time too.

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I mean it's like it was like
a couple hours, you know,

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it started at six thirty and it
was over. It was totally I think

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it was over by nine, and
like we were out the door at nine

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thirty and they and then I got
on. I got roped into like I

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had to help clean up. Oh
of course, who's gonna put the chairs

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and stuff? Oh my god,
I'm gonna stack that chair we're doing.

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I don't know why I'm yelling on
agaphone. But that's yes, we're stacking

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freaking chairs. We had to bring
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they'd been moved out in the room
where the dance was. We had to

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stack these other chairs, and I
was like, how do I get hurt

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bringing the second crew for clean But
at least you got to get home early,

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right, You got home in a
decent time. Yeah, I did,

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but I was tired because I'd been
up in the freaking morning, like

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holling Warfi. Yeah, other things
into school? You had a lot.

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Yeah, what's your next gig?
So glad you asked Friday? This Friday,

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I'm judging a speech competition. I
knew you were going to be judging

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something and then all day Saturday.
No way, but this one, I'm

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excited. I'm kind of excited.
Yeah, okay, So where what is

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it? Where? So it's the
state qualifier competition, which Xander's not going

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to qualify for the state competition,
which would be if he did, that

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would be a trip. We'd all
have to go to Fresno, which you

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know I'd be all about, Yes, but I don't think he's gonna make

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it. He's too new to it
and his Okay, he's up against really

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really good people, but he gets
to compete for two days. That's in

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the qualifying thing. So it's Friday
night, it's like from six thirty to

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like I don't know, ten okay, and then Saturday it's all day.

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It's another one of those all day. I'll come home with lots of stories.

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So didn't you the first one you
did was in an all day all

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day? Right, yeah's the same
thing, but this time it's two days.

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This time it's a Friday evening and
a Saturday all day. This is

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interesting because a lot of parents complain
about like their kids sport and like which

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sport is the one that takes up
the whole day, and it's like the

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track and field. You're there and
early in the morning, like when I

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was with Sunny all day and you
got to get their first thing in the

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morning and then you can't leave until
it's done at four o'clock. Blah blah

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blah. But nobody talks about speech
and debate like this thing seemed this kind

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of seems like an activity for kids
that's like really, I mean, yeah,

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you're there all day. Well,
first of all, you don't have

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to judge though. That's the thing. It's a total volunteer thing. It's

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not like you're and you don't get
to watch your You don't you get to

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watch your kids anyway, So it's
not so I think it would be weird

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if parents were in there and having
judged it. It would be awkward.

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It's just the kids, it's all. It's just kids, So it would

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be weird if parents were you'd have
to stay watch just your kid. I

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don't know. I mean, I'm
sure Xander would be fine with it.

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And I just picture it kind of
like the movie with Tracy Flick, Like

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I just picture like an auditorium they
come about debate. So no, so

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what happens is what happens happened.
You're all the judges are in this war

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are in like a judge's room.
So it's it's so similar to jury duty.

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If you've ever done jury duty.
You're all in like a holding room

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and there's like coffee and there were
snacks and stuff, and you wait to

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get called to an event. So
the events all in different classrooms. Okay,

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so they give you like a map, which, of course, you

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know, made me nervous because it's
like I feel like it's my first day

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at high school, Like how am
I supposed to How am I supposed to

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find? So you have a map
and then you have to go like,

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wait, let me turn it around, because wait, where are we?

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You're here, But if you're looking
at it this way then because then you're

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like, well, I don't know
where to go somebody, and there's no

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one to really ask because most of
the kids are not from that school,

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right, like it's from all surrounding
areas. So you go to another high

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school or some school something out of
school exactly. So we were at yeah,

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some school in Valencia. Oh it
sounds about right, yeah, yeah,

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So we're at whatever, this big
high school and then or middle school,

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I don't know, whatever it was. We had a map and so

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they go, okay, So your
first event that you're judging is this event.

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Here's the instructions, and then you
have to go to this classroom.

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So you go to the classroom and
basically you're like a teacher. You let

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the kid. The kids have to
wait outside. They can't go in the

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room without you. So when you
get to the room, the kids,

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all the kids competing. The second
one, I did a couple of the

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kids had friends they're watching, but
not parents, so the only parents were

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judges. And when the judges aren't
and you can't judge anything that's your own

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school. Oh so you're never going
to see kids from your kids school.

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Yeah, because it wouldn't be fair
because you're judging kids against other kids,

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so you have to be impartial.
So I'm only judging kids that I've never

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seen or heard of before, and
you are you have like basically a ballot

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almost and you have to rank them. Wow. Yeah, and it's it's

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so it's interesting because you're like,
well, a lot of people found it

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very frustrating because if they you haven't
done it before, and you're not a

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teacher and you don't really know anything
about speech and debate, it's hard to

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know what And also what's interesting is
that Xander was frustrated with his notes.

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So basically, you get to give
them comments, okay, like how they

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give them better. You get to
give them notes like individual notes, so

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like, of course mine were all
nice. Yeah, I know it's going

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to be hard, like stand up
straight next time, like you know,

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only little like so one of the
kids was not good. Most of the

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kids were amazing. One of the
kids was like just not good, and

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then you have to figure out,
like what do you say because you don't

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want to like these kids, Like
some of these kids are on the spectrum

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they have like they're they're overcoming odds
and obstacles, and in my mind,

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I'm like, it's just phenomenal that
they're doing doing it's hard. They're giving

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like an eight to ten minute speech, like you know, you can't like

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if a kid is even terrible,
I still think like a for effort,

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man, like you showed up.
That's hard. I wouldn't have done that.

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So I'm not going to sit there
and go like you were not good.

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But it's hard because you're like,
well, what can I figure out

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to say constructive constructive to this person? So basically the one they're bad,

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I was like, you know,
I think if your volume one of them,

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I did say, I found it
a little hard to follow with the

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like maybe reoutline this or you know
something, but but like I loved your

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move. I love your util how
you utilize the space, like you know,

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you want to give a positive and
you know if you're criaking right,

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But like one of them, I
was just like I don't know, dude,

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this was phenomenal. I got no
notes. That's why I give you

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one hundred. Wow. Yeah,
what are you supposed to say? Yeah,

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Well, like you are judging them
between seventy. Seventy is like the

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absolute worst and a hundred is obviously
the best. And but you don't give

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somebody like a seventy unless you know, you give them a seventy if they're

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a no show, because you have
to give them some number. But everybody

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else, like I didn't give anybody
lower than like an eighty five, because

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even the one that was terrible,
I gave an eighty five. And one

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of them just brought notes, which
you're not supposed to have any notes.

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It's when it has to be one
hundred percent memorized. You're not allowed to

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use any kind of notes. But
one girl just read off her whole thing

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like and didn't even was literally like
like reading word for word, not even

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with a lot of feelings. So
I gave her, I gave her a

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lower score. But she gets disqualified
anyway, because it's a violation. I

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see. It's so so it's speech
and debate, so I don't know what

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the debate. So there's no debating. It's mostly just they give speech.

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Debate is something else. This was
all speech and all speech. So basically,

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you get your assignment, you go
to the room. You're the only

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judge. Really yeah, so you, like I said, at first,

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I was like, Okay, this
will be fun. I'll be with other

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parents. No, you're by yourself. Oh my god. But the kids

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do three rounds with their speech,
so you're in front of three different judges,

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and then I think they average your
scores. Okay, So like,

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because what was really interesting was the
kid that I gave one hundred to.

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I gave two different kids one hundred. That kid was not even did not

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even win or even wasn't even first
or second place in his event. Wow.

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So I judged one round of it, and obviously somebody else judged him

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in around, and somebody else judged
him in around, to which I was

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like, that's crazy that. I
was like, he was absolutely by far

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the very best, and somebody else
obviously did not score. And now are

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you able to talk to some of
the afterwards, Like there was one woman

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that I was talking to, m
M, sorry, my phone is like

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buzzing. Sorry. There was one
woman that I was talking to who had

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judged that kid in a different of
like not that day but like another time,

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and was like, oh my god, yes I remember him. He

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was great like I was. You
know, you can kind of compare notes,

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but so you make your notes and
you rank them. So like if

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you have let's say you have five
people in the event, then you pick

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who's first, who's second, who's
third, who's fourth, who's fifth.

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They only do places one through four, So some of these events have like

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one event I did have like eight
kids. Oh, you only place them

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one through four. You can rank
them, but they don't know. They

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don't know they came in eighth.
They just know they weren't in your top

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four. Sometimes it was really hard
because kids are so good. Yeah,

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because like many kids were good.
And then I would I would say that

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as a note, I feel like
even though you were in fourth place,

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trust me, like it was really
close. All the places were really close.

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And this is just how it shook
out for me. And then are

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they are they are the kids watching
each other or no or just yeah yeah,

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So they come in and they watch
and then what happens after like did

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they so you winners the right?
So basically you you do your judging,

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you go back to the judges hangout
area, you make your you put in

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your comments if you want. This
is why it sucked, because I didn't

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have a computer with me and my
phone, and then somebody let me their

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kindle. So this time I'm going
to take the computer. But you do

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your stuff, you put in your
notes, and then you get a signed

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then you do it again. Some
of these people got to do three.

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Remember I had a conflict on my
first one because it was my friend's daughter.

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Oh yeah, it's I couldn't judge
hers. And then they gave me

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the same one that I'd already judged, so I couldn't do that one.

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So I ended up doing two different
things out of the whole day. This

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time I'm hoping to get to do
three or four. But anyway, then

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after everybody's gone three times, there's
an award ceremony at the end of that.

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At the end this is what take
makes it go to so late,

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And then they give out pride.
Then they've they've ranked it, tabulate all

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the results, and then the auditorium
auditorium. Then everybody's in there, all

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the judges, and then uh,
they start announcing like who and then you're

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and then you're excited because you're invested. It's almost like finding out the deliberation

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or going to the sentencing hearing if
you were on the jury, because you're

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like, oh, well, now
I get to see whether it was agreed,

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whether we all agree, and whether
that person won. And sometimes you'd

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be like, oh my god,
yes, I made that person was my

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one, and they oh good for
them. Everybody agreed. And sometimes you'd

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be like, what the fuck are
these people high? Right? That guy

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was so much better than the other
one. How did you let have that

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person the winner? Right? Yeah? And then it was fun because at

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the end I got to debrief with
Xander and I was like, okay,

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so I was doing this one category
because a lot of them do get to

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see each other. So Xander,
there was like this one kid that I

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was like, and Xander goes,
oh, that kid's like that kid's like

407
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,640
an icon. Everybody loves that kid. And I'm like, yeah, but

408
00:28:02,759 --> 00:28:06,240
I put that kid third, like
I didn't even he wasn't even my favorite,

409
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:07,880
right, And Xander would be like, really, what did you think

410
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:11,400
about this kid? You know,
so they know about kids at other schools,

411
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:15,599
they know their names at this kid
at this school is Yes, Xander

412
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,440
made like a ton of friends.
That's amazing. Yeah, that's great.

413
00:28:18,759 --> 00:28:22,319
I know it's really he should keep
going next year, he could, you

414
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,160
know? Yeah, who knows.
So well, let's take a quick break

415
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416
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424
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425
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428
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432
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439
00:30:17,559 --> 00:30:21,839
is, uh, just to summarize
this is that you don't The thing about

440
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:26,640
speech and Debate is I'm excited and
it's only it's only like once a month.

441
00:30:26,279 --> 00:30:30,359
Ohso it is, and it's only
if you can judge, so like

442
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,880
if I which is different. First
of all, I'm really excited about it

443
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:38,440
because I loved going to LB's basketball
games. But it does get to be

444
00:30:38,519 --> 00:30:42,000
a lot, like you don't want
to miss any now because you like it.

445
00:30:42,079 --> 00:30:45,079
But then you're like, do I
it's like three times a week?

446
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,480
Yes, I know, And you're
driving all over the place and you're you

447
00:30:48,519 --> 00:30:52,519
know, abandoning your other kids and
seeming like you have picked a favorite because

448
00:30:52,599 --> 00:30:56,559
you're like, Alway's got a game, you know, and Sandra's like,

449
00:30:56,640 --> 00:31:00,000
what about me? You know what? Am I chop liver? But you're

450
00:31:00,079 --> 00:31:03,960
like, this is the important thing. We got to watch Lbie. So

451
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:08,160
this is different because you know,
I get to say the Basically, the

452
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:11,000
teacher sends you the thing and says, listen, I need judges. I

453
00:31:11,079 --> 00:31:17,279
need four judges. So it's only
four parents, so four no one else

454
00:31:17,359 --> 00:31:22,039
goes. Other parents don't go,
so you don't feel like you don't.

455
00:31:22,119 --> 00:31:23,839
You wouldn't feel like if other people
were. If she had enough judges,

456
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,960
you would never feel like, oh, I should go drive out there anyway,

457
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,079
because you wouldn't. It would be
weird to go. Let me find

458
00:31:30,119 --> 00:31:33,079
out where my kid is and then
go follow them around. I think the

459
00:31:33,119 --> 00:31:36,720
other kids would think it's weird.
Yeah, I didn't know how it was

460
00:31:36,799 --> 00:31:38,240
set up. I thought, you
know, it was like in an audity

461
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,680
because you hear debate, like you
know, you think right, if you

462
00:31:41,799 --> 00:31:47,039
think there's an audience, it's weird. That was It was very I thought

463
00:31:47,079 --> 00:31:49,160
the same thing. I was expecting
to totally this and I thought I'd be

464
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:53,400
on a panel of judges. That's
how I imagined it, And I imagined

465
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,079
that some of these people are so
used to doing it, so I would

466
00:31:56,079 --> 00:31:59,759
ask them like, what do you
what kind of what do you look for?

467
00:32:00,359 --> 00:32:04,319
No, he's gonna ask you if
you've got talent, Yeah, your

468
00:32:04,359 --> 00:32:07,200
own little TV show. Yeah it's
weird. Yeah, no, that's pretty

469
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:12,720
cool though. It's really interesting.
It was so fun. I bet I

470
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,359
was going to do that day.
I was like, this was a great

471
00:32:15,519 --> 00:32:20,599
time. And I just got so
into it that as soon as I got

472
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,960
the email that we need judges,
I was like, I'm in. I'll

473
00:32:23,039 --> 00:32:27,400
do Friday and Saturday. That's great. Yeah, Oh I can't wait.

474
00:32:27,519 --> 00:32:30,039
I can't wait to other stories.
I know that's gonna be fun. So

475
00:32:30,359 --> 00:32:34,799
Alvo John was like, no,
you're not. When I said so,

476
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,160
I'm gonna do Friday and Saturday,
he was like, no, you're not.

477
00:32:37,759 --> 00:32:38,880
And I was like yeah, I
am. I was like, but

478
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:44,480
then, but then I think that's
the last thing, because then it's make

479
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,880
the state. If he doesn't make
the state event, it's yeah, it's

480
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:52,240
done. Okay, so then they'll
be working on their thing for next year.

481
00:32:52,559 --> 00:32:54,400
But like this is this is this
is it? Like it's a short,

482
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:58,960
little short season, A couple of
events. What else you got for

483
00:32:59,079 --> 00:33:01,000
Friday and Saturday? It's what I'm
saying. What am I doing? Yeah?

484
00:33:01,319 --> 00:33:06,039
Yeah, wow, I'm excited.
I can't wait. Now. You

485
00:33:06,359 --> 00:33:09,640
I feel like you must have a
bunch of stuff coming up because it's senior

486
00:33:09,759 --> 00:33:14,039
year with your kids, Like,
what do they have going on? Well?

487
00:33:14,319 --> 00:33:19,680
They have they did, you know, they're they did their Disney whatever

488
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:24,519
Disneyland. They didn't do a like
senior like yeah Senior Senior skip day.

489
00:33:25,559 --> 00:33:31,279
It was a it was a school
senior Disneyland outing for the day. Yeah,

490
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:37,279
so they did that and that was
fine. But now so okay,

491
00:33:37,359 --> 00:33:40,839
so then I don't think that they
really have anything else on. Natalia had

492
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:45,279
just been there. She had she
did just go there, right, yes,

493
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:50,559
and then she didn't know when she
originally asked for that weekend that that

494
00:33:51,119 --> 00:33:53,759
the school was doing that the same
she didn't. She didn't put you in

495
00:33:53,799 --> 00:33:58,559
two together until we until we got
closer to the date. But yeah,

496
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,519
but Sonny was excited because he was
you know, he loved going there.

497
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:06,759
But they don't really have anything coming
up. What I got going right now

498
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:13,480
with the school is this parking situation. So in the beginning of the school

499
00:34:13,559 --> 00:34:20,199
year, Natalia did not have her
license yet Sonny did but really wasn't driving,

500
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:23,519
didn't have a car. So there's
this lottery for parking. You gotta

501
00:34:23,599 --> 00:34:27,840
like the but you got to do
it in August before. Did you have

502
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:32,840
this at school? Any parking issues
with LB driving? No, LB just

503
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:37,800
had to apply for a parking space, but then they just gave her one.

504
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:42,159
See, they have a limited amount
of space for students to park.

505
00:34:42,679 --> 00:34:47,239
So every year and before the school
starts in August, you have to sign

506
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,639
up, but you have to have
your license. You have to sign up

507
00:34:50,679 --> 00:34:52,639
for the lottery and then they put
you in a lottery and then you get

508
00:34:52,679 --> 00:34:57,880
your whatever. Okay, but these
two were not driving in the beginning.

509
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:01,880
Well, now she's driving and and
he's driving, although he gets picked up

510
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:06,679
and whatever by his friends once in
a while, but or they'll drive together.

511
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,840
But her because she's got as soon
as she's done with school, she's

512
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:12,480
got to go to work, or
she's got her work. Whatever she's got,

513
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:17,159
it's on the go. So she
didn't have a pass, so she

514
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:22,320
would have to park at like a
park which was like adjacent to the school.

515
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,760
However, you can only park there
for certain amount of hours otherwise you

516
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:30,000
get a ticket. But then at
lunchtime she'd move and like kind of she's

517
00:35:30,159 --> 00:35:31,440
just kind of moving it around,
right, wouldn't you guys, only like

518
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:36,360
a couple of blocks from school though
as it is, eh, I mean,

519
00:35:36,679 --> 00:35:38,400
if you had to, like Sonny
loved to walk, but it's a

520
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:44,119
good probably twenty minutes. Oh it
is, Yeah, it's not. I

521
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,000
was picturing that it was a couple
of blocks. No, it's not that

522
00:35:46,199 --> 00:35:52,320
close. And there's a huge uphill, like there's this big incline right before

523
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,119
the school, which again, if
you liked but Natalia with her makeup and

524
00:35:55,199 --> 00:35:59,719
her hair, she ain't in her
book bag like she's you know none,

525
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,199
No, the girls are not walking. But anyway, so now she's got

526
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:07,159
the car, so she is,
you know, moving it. Then one

527
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:10,000
of her friends, one of Sonny's
friends, has a parking pass, and

528
00:36:10,079 --> 00:36:13,639
he doesn't need it anymore, which
I don't. I don't know why or

529
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,480
how that happened, but he gave
it, or maybe it was his sisters,

530
00:36:15,599 --> 00:36:20,559
I don't know, gave it to
Natalia to use, and apparently the

531
00:36:20,679 --> 00:36:22,760
kids do that all the time,
Hey can I use your whatever? Gave

532
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:29,079
it to Natalia. So Natalia parked
in a weird like so she was parking

533
00:36:29,159 --> 00:36:32,400
in the senior lot and one day
she kind of parked weird or she parked

534
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:37,599
blocking something, and they went and
called the kid Elliott, you know,

535
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:42,280
hey, your car's blocking. And
then he comes out and there's this guy

536
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:46,119
who's like, you know, a
jarhead like beefy, you know, dude

537
00:36:46,519 --> 00:36:50,800
that like runs the you know,
he's always in his golf car and keeping

538
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,360
kids in line, you know,
one of those guys right out of Central

539
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:57,920
Casting. He pulls up the parking
lot, you know, move your car,

540
00:36:58,119 --> 00:37:00,039
and the kid Elliott's like, this
thing my car and he's like,

541
00:37:00,119 --> 00:37:07,440
well whose car is this? Uh
Italia Corollas and so paging the Tali Grolea.

542
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,679
So then they get her out there
and they're like, give us that

543
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:14,519
pass that's not yours, and she's
like, dude, mister. She knows

544
00:37:14,639 --> 00:37:17,239
him, and she's like, but
everybody uses each other's you know, parking

545
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:21,639
passes, and he's like nope,
and he takes it. And she's like,

546
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:23,920
now she's all bent out of shape. So and so took my parking

547
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:29,719
pass. Blah blah blah blah blah. Now so now she is getting rides

548
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,199
to school. She got her a
boyfriend picking her up. Now, but

549
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,480
now she's got the job. So
now she's got to be able to,

550
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:37,119
you know, get out as soon
as she can. Blah blah blah.

551
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:42,679
So now she's parking in like the
church, there isn't a there is another

552
00:37:43,519 --> 00:37:45,559
church that they will let you park
there. But again everything is a certain

553
00:37:45,559 --> 00:37:49,320
amount of hours. Can't park between
this time and this time you'll get a

554
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:53,119
ticket. So she's like moving the
car. So now she switched cars with

555
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:59,559
Sonny. OK. So now she's
driving Sonny's car and just parking it and

556
00:37:59,639 --> 00:38:02,960
hoping for the best. That they
don't like look for passes because they usually

557
00:38:04,079 --> 00:38:07,239
don't. They don't go walking through
the parking lot looking to see who's got

558
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,719
the you know, senior pass hanging
from the thing. So she's now hoping

559
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:15,000
that but there was another lottery that
they just did. Okay, so she

560
00:38:15,079 --> 00:38:19,840
applied for that. So I talked
to the assistant principle and I saw him

561
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:21,920
the other day and he was like, oh you don't. Yeah, we

562
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,679
got Natalia. She's hopefully she you
know, she'll she'll win the lottery and

563
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:30,519
then she'd come back with her car. That's the same. It does suck.

564
00:38:30,679 --> 00:38:31,719
It's like, when did she get
a car? Did I already know

565
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:35,639
about this? She had the car
for a while. Yeah, yeah,

566
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:39,119
they used the used car she got, so Sonny got his own car and

567
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:45,079
got Sonny got Yeah. It's kind
of a like Adam had another lease it

568
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,639
expired something, and he gave it
to Sonny, so they sorry, so

569
00:38:47,679 --> 00:38:53,639
they both have leases okay, yeah, two used lease cars. She's had

570
00:38:53,679 --> 00:38:57,639
the first. She's had it first, so Sonny did. Yeah, he

571
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:01,440
has like what like a Mercedes,
Yes, and then he's got I don't

572
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:07,320
know some I think it's a it's
a it's like a small SUV, Cadillac

573
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,920
or something. Okay, but again
it was one of his cars that he

574
00:39:12,519 --> 00:39:16,400
gave re up the lease and gave
it to Sonny. So now they both

575
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:22,199
get now and they both need cars
because I know both now and he's going

576
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:25,199
to I'm going to do his podcasts
and stuff. So now we got to

577
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:29,440
wait to do another lottery or whatever
it is what it is, but it

578
00:39:29,599 --> 00:39:32,159
is, it does suck because these
kids they don't have they only have a

579
00:39:32,159 --> 00:39:37,559
certain amount of place and they have
to like they're constantly scrambling moving their cars

580
00:39:37,599 --> 00:39:39,400
at lunchtime. It's like a thing
to tell you. It's like she's like

581
00:39:39,519 --> 00:39:44,440
every lunchtime all the they have to
carve out an extra ten minutes in some

582
00:39:44,599 --> 00:39:46,920
places are far and they got to
walk and stuff. It's like it's a

583
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:52,000
pain in the ass. But uh, but she is enjoying her new job,

584
00:39:52,199 --> 00:39:55,320
which is fun. And then she
wanted us to come and have dinner

585
00:39:55,840 --> 00:40:00,280
at the restaurant because she's bored.
She's like standing and now they're hiring,

586
00:40:00,519 --> 00:40:04,280
so like now she's trying to get
her friend, I don't know, like

587
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,320
another. I think they're hiring for
a hostess, you know, because she

588
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:12,079
works part time. Get somebody else. So, but she is enjoying it.

589
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,159
She is enjoying it. She does
like it. Yeah, and so

590
00:40:15,039 --> 00:40:19,320
and we talked and it is like
our favorite restaurant and she's like, you

591
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,719
guys should come in. So I
took Olga and Sonny to dinner the other

592
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:27,480
night and we made the I had
her make the reservation and we come in

593
00:40:27,599 --> 00:40:30,239
and she's like, here you go, would you like your table? It

594
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,000
takes us to the table, and
then I got to watch her in action.

595
00:40:34,159 --> 00:40:36,559
Of course, she sat us at
the table right next to her stand,

596
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,079
her hostess stand. And every time
people come in, you're like,

597
00:40:39,199 --> 00:40:43,760
hi, welcome, you know how
many in your party? And like you

598
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:45,239
know, and then there's a lot
of people that are always like you know

599
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,719
when you go to a restaurant and
you're like, you know, we don't

600
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:51,719
have reservations but table for two,
and they're like, okay, sure we

601
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,079
can take you. And then they
take you right past a booth and you're

602
00:40:54,079 --> 00:40:58,079
always like, can we have the
booth? And I asked them to and

603
00:40:58,559 --> 00:41:00,800
I asked her, I go,
why don't you give the booth? And

604
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,440
she's like, that's person's station has
already has too many tables. Oh,

605
00:41:04,559 --> 00:41:06,800
you used to work in a restaurant. No, she told me. The

606
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:12,199
people made reservations and required a booth. But it's kind of hard because they

607
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,920
could get the booth, but they
got to wrap it up by like a

608
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,960
certain amount of time, you know. But it was fun because she's sayings,

609
00:41:19,039 --> 00:41:21,199
there's a lot to it. There
is a lot, just a lot

610
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,480
to it. Yeah, you got
open table where people call, you know,

611
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:29,840
going online and making their vivations.
But so we took them out.

612
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:31,119
Yeah, it was it was nice. We had a nice time. And

613
00:41:31,599 --> 00:41:35,679
I got to meet her bosses and
everybody that works there. And she's like,

614
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,199
you know, our waitresses that she's
bonded with and stuff like that.

615
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,599
Yeah, it was really nice.
We had a good time. Good.

616
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:45,440
Yeah, let's take another break.
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col And we're back. Did I
tell you? Did I tell you about

640
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:25,400
my experience doing Wife of the Party
doing that podcast? No Burt Kreischer,

641
00:43:25,639 --> 00:43:31,199
No, Burt Kreischer's wife, LeAnn
Kreischer. It's out now. It was

642
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:37,000
like two hours. It was super
fun. It was really fun. Yeah,

643
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:42,639
and it's I didn't I wasn't sure
if we had much crossover audience,

644
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,800
but a bunch of our listeners were
like, oh my gosh, are you

645
00:43:45,159 --> 00:43:47,920
I know that wife of the party
is doing your book. They did my

646
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,440
book as their book club. Oh
that's nice. So my friend Kirsten,

647
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:58,039
who was friends with Leeann Kreischer and
as a big reader, she came on

648
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,000
our show one time and we when
we did our book club, we were

649
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:06,320
almost at book club, remember,
and we read Demi Moore's book and my

650
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:12,920
friend Kirsten Blonde came in and that's
the book with us, right, So

651
00:44:13,079 --> 00:44:16,480
she does that for Leanne's podcast,
and she's known lean for a long time,

652
00:44:16,559 --> 00:44:22,719
so she suggested my book and Leanne
read the book and their other friend.

653
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:28,159
So it's Leanne, my friend Kirsten
and another friend, and then I

654
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:31,880
was invited in to talk about the
book, right, And it was so

655
00:44:32,079 --> 00:44:37,079
it was it was like a really
fun I walked in and to it's like

656
00:44:37,119 --> 00:44:42,760
a house. She does it not
that far from here. Well, it's

657
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:46,679
not her house. They rent this
house, I guess or bought this house

658
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:54,039
and they it's their offices, but
it's like this huge house and they do

659
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:59,079
the podcast in one of the rooms, but the whole bottom floor is like

660
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,280
their office. So Bert was there. I said hi to me, super

661
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:06,920
nice. He was like, uh
oh, I've heard a lot about this

662
00:45:07,119 --> 00:45:09,599
book, like it's really nice to
meet you. And they have these two

663
00:45:09,679 --> 00:45:14,559
big dogs like hanging out. Yeah, And so then we go to do

664
00:45:14,679 --> 00:45:21,199
the podcast and Leanne was talking about
her upbringing a lot of weird stuff with

665
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:25,320
her mom, like and so we
started bonding and it really became this whole

666
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:34,760
conversation about I told stories that I
maybe have told you before on our podcast,

667
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,000
but like a long time ago.
But I was spilling the beans on

668
00:45:37,159 --> 00:45:43,280
myself, like nothing that I've talked
about in other like just because she made

669
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:47,239
me feel so comfortable that we just
and also because it was so long,

670
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:51,800
I feel like I know what being
on a reality TV show would be like

671
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:54,800
because you just eventually forget there's cameras
because it was a YouTube show. But

672
00:45:54,920 --> 00:46:00,079
eventually I was like forgot, Like
I've just felt like I was in the

673
00:46:00,559 --> 00:46:02,480
I know, I know, I
know that feeling I had that when I

674
00:46:02,599 --> 00:46:09,159
did the Paulil Martin's show because you
just forget you whence you get set,

675
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:13,840
you could get going and the show
is like and by the way, it's

676
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:15,679
different when you do somebody else's show
than doing your own show. Right,

677
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:20,159
you feel like you're away from everybody
and you're like, you feel like you're

678
00:46:20,199 --> 00:46:23,880
just you and them talking. Yeah, there's exactly element feeling like it's very

679
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:28,519
intimate. And then especially if it
goes on for a while, you know,

680
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:31,239
then you know like you can get
into it. It's well, that's

681
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:36,599
I want to listen. So she
hasn't spoken to her her mother in many,

682
00:46:36,679 --> 00:46:39,119
many years, and so we started
talking about that, and we started

683
00:46:39,159 --> 00:46:44,559
talking about how that came about.
And I told this story about my mom

684
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,320
kicking me out when I was sixteen
and how I went to live at that

685
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:51,079
runaway shelter. Remember that story,
yes, yeah, And anyway, I

686
00:46:51,159 --> 00:46:53,599
was telling that whole story. Well
I didn't know it, but Bert had

687
00:46:53,639 --> 00:47:00,199
been listening, so I guess it
was being broadcast, right. You know

688
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:04,519
how when we were doing it at
Adam's studio sometimes I'd have to ask them

689
00:47:04,559 --> 00:47:07,840
to turn it off so that not
everybody was listening. Well it was like

690
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:10,360
that, I guess. So all
of a sudden, Bert pops into the

691
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:14,320
room and he was just like,
oh my god, I have questions.

692
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:19,440
Really. Yeah, so he came
in and apparently he never does that.

693
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,480
That's what my friend person's like,
that's that's not happened. That's very odd.

694
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:28,360
So he was like, I have
questions. What could you have possibly

695
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,880
done that would make your mom kick
you out of the house? And then

696
00:47:32,039 --> 00:47:37,760
he was asking me, asking me
questions and then like kind of telling little

697
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:42,599
stories and yeah, it was like
super fun and interesting and I don't know

698
00:47:42,639 --> 00:47:45,480
if if you feel like hearing me. Wife of the party and I really

699
00:47:45,559 --> 00:47:50,800
want to get her LeAnn Kreischer on
our show. Yeah. I reached out

700
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:53,880
to her to their producer and I
said, we want her on our podcast

701
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:59,760
because she's super open. Yeah.
She was just like did not care.

702
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,000
Was she was like us, She
was like, well, and this is

703
00:48:02,079 --> 00:48:05,880
what happened, and this is how
my mom is and this is you know,

704
00:48:06,039 --> 00:48:08,280
what was in my childhood, and
so her mom and your mom.

705
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:13,960
You you guys have a lot of
similarity stuff in common. Yeah, it's

706
00:48:14,639 --> 00:48:19,440
different, but I feel like the
result is a little bit the same where

707
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:25,880
we both yeah, but yeah,
yeah, shun away Shelter story and in

708
00:48:27,039 --> 00:48:31,719
great detail, because you know,
she was just asking me it would It

709
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:37,360
turned out to be a very very
deep, deep die. I love that

710
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,599
and it feels good. I know
it feels good to do. Yeah,

711
00:48:40,599 --> 00:48:45,480
And like I said, he was
really like a nice guy. Yeah,

712
00:48:45,519 --> 00:48:47,920
I've heard. Don't you you follow
him? Right? Calin Oh, I'm

713
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,079
definitely aware of him. I see
clips of him and Thompsoner's podcast a lot

714
00:48:52,159 --> 00:48:57,119
online. He came by Adam Show
when I was still working there, and

715
00:48:57,199 --> 00:48:59,840
he couldn't have been any nicer.
Yeah. Just he's that guy that you

716
00:49:00,159 --> 00:49:01,639
on all this clips, just the
ball of energy, laughing, having a

717
00:49:01,679 --> 00:49:05,880
good time. And yeah, he
just seems super nice. Oh well,

718
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,599
we got to check it out,
check out the podcast. Yeah. Absolutely,

719
00:49:09,679 --> 00:49:15,079
I feel like I had something else
to tell you before we wrap.

720
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,880
I got stuff, But we can, I can. We can talk on

721
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:22,599
Friday. Yeah. I also on
Friday. I want to talk about that

722
00:49:22,679 --> 00:49:27,440
Wendy Williams. Yeah, I do
documentary. Have you seen it, Kaitlin?

723
00:49:27,679 --> 00:49:30,000
No, but I watched that new
Adam Sander movie last night, The

724
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:35,199
bar Mitsville One, No Space Man. Okay, all right, well we'll

725
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:38,280
have some content stuff and I want
to talk about a little bit of Beverly

726
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:42,639
Hills Housewives reunion. Oh yeah,
yeah, yeah, yeah, fuck for

727
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:46,599
sure. But I just wanted to
say that because we have like a couple

728
00:49:46,599 --> 00:49:51,000
of minutes left, a couple minutes, yeah, because our timer was off

729
00:49:51,079 --> 00:49:54,199
and I did my my glasses and
I thought it said sixty minutes, but

730
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:59,079
it says oh six. Yeah,
I don't want to go short. Yeah,

731
00:49:59,159 --> 00:50:01,239
what do you got something for a
couple of minutes? Uh, just

732
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:07,480
that I think that we I have
our own mobile muffin. We have a

733
00:50:07,519 --> 00:50:12,639
mobile muffin situation. Well, you
got a broken vacuum, you better get

734
00:50:12,679 --> 00:50:15,880
that ship fixed. If you've got
a mobile walking around, you gotta walks.

735
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:21,519
Nothing bad. It's just really it's
just it's actually kind of funny because

736
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,559
and I've I've been wanting my own
mobile muffy. Ye, Like I wanted

737
00:50:24,679 --> 00:50:30,039
somebody who's like always at our house. Who I got a kid who comes

738
00:50:30,119 --> 00:50:35,280
over, Sadie's friend. She calls
me Mama's stuff. It's like the cutest

739
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,920
thing. But she's it's become a
right, She's become a regular. Like

740
00:50:38,079 --> 00:50:44,039
on Fridays, Sadie goes, hey, can we pick up mobile muffin and

741
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:47,159
bring her home and then she it's
over, yeah, so Friday, And

742
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:51,159
I'm always like, of course,
what do you what do you don't even

743
00:50:51,199 --> 00:50:53,960
have to ask at this, I'm
expecting it now. So she's usually spends

744
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,960
at least half a weekend at our
house. It's like, you know,

745
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:00,800
now you know it's for dinner?
What what's where are we going? What

746
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:05,280
are we doing? You know?
Does she demand though that she has a

747
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:07,320
vegan pizza? Well, no,
no, no, no, it's actually

748
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:12,840
all good. This was all good. She's the sweetest, she's like adorable,

749
00:51:13,519 --> 00:51:15,599
and but it's just kind of funny
because I'm like, oh, are

750
00:51:15,679 --> 00:51:20,559
we like her new parents? Like, she's just at our house right,

751
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,639
although it is a little different because
she does get picked up like usually in

752
00:51:23,679 --> 00:51:29,639
the morning. Yeah, but it
is just but it's just she hangs,

753
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:34,760
she hangs out, she hangs.
It's becoming very very regular. That like

754
00:51:35,159 --> 00:51:37,280
it. But at this age it's
a little different because as you know,

755
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:44,119
like you don't see them right like
they handle It's so funny how much I

756
00:51:44,599 --> 00:51:49,559
remember sleepovers kind of being the bane
of my existence when the kids were younger,

757
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:52,360
and you're not there yet, Kaylin, but when they get a little

758
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:57,320
older, sleepovers are so difficult because
first of all, it's just getting the

759
00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:00,400
bed ready, like you know,
if your kid doesn't have two beds in

760
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:04,880
the room or they're not sleeping at
queen size bed. And then for a

761
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:08,599
long time my kids, once they
had queen size beds, both kids could

762
00:52:08,639 --> 00:52:13,400
go in the same bed, although
the boys don't really do that so Xander.

763
00:52:13,559 --> 00:52:19,159
Usually they end up on different couches. The arrowbed, right, yeah,

764
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,360
but when they were younger, you
had to figure that shit. Yeah,

765
00:52:22,599 --> 00:52:25,119
so you're like, you always have
to have an arrowbed. And by

766
00:52:25,199 --> 00:52:29,320
the way, arowbeds suck, so
there's always a hole in it always.

767
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:32,800
So if you blow up the arrowbed
the air mattress, by the morning,

768
00:52:34,039 --> 00:52:37,559
some it's sunk all the way.
The person's sleeping on the floor basically,

769
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:39,679
and then they're like the bed's broken. That's you know, I learned my

770
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:45,079
lessons. And then what Wendy Tommy
is go just go get like foam from

771
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:47,199
I don't know, like home Deep, just that you know that memory foam.

772
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:51,800
Just have them cut a piece at
that that's the size of the arrowbed,

773
00:52:52,079 --> 00:52:53,519
and then put that on top.
So then when it floats down to

774
00:52:53,559 --> 00:52:58,800
the bottom and sinks at least the
kid has a little bit of cushion between,

775
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:00,599
right, But then where do your
that fucking thing? Right, that's

776
00:53:00,639 --> 00:53:05,800
the thing to LOLd it up,
bag it, put it in the garage

777
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:08,199
somewhere out of the way until the
next time they come. Yeah, sleepovers

778
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,599
are like a full time job.
You break your nail. You got to

779
00:53:10,599 --> 00:53:14,719
figure out what they're going to eat
for dinner, and who's got what allergies,

780
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:16,760
and like, you know, keeping
them entertained, and then somebody ends

781
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:21,800
up crying, keeping you know,
whether when you're doing the first sleepovers,

782
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:22,800
and I know some of you parents
are going to be like, well,

783
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:28,199
I don't do any sleepovers until Okay, well I did. I loved sleepovers.

784
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:31,840
I thought it was great. My
kids wouldn't sleepover. Remember LB had

785
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:36,400
her anxiety, so she was really
hard for her to do sleepovers. Then

786
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:39,320
I'd have to be if it's at
someone else's house, I got to stay

787
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:43,760
up until three o'clock because she's going
to be contacting me to for a pickup,

788
00:53:44,199 --> 00:53:45,719
you know. But when they're at
our house, you know, you're

789
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:51,199
just it's just a lot to do
and to arrange. It's so much better

790
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:55,360
when they're there. Because they're either
entertained, they go they go walk somewhere

791
00:53:55,519 --> 00:54:00,360
and get themselves dinner. You know, you don't hear from them, and

792
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:04,199
they like or they'll watch TV,
or they'll they'll make their they'll make their

793
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:07,000
own dinner, they'll pop their own
popcorn. They yeah, their kids they're

794
00:54:07,039 --> 00:54:09,920
older, right, I love it. So I'm always like, oh,

795
00:54:10,039 --> 00:54:14,480
sleepover course, yeah, your friends, yeah over. So the mobile,

796
00:54:15,039 --> 00:54:17,840
the Mobile Muffin those shows she comes
over like on a Friday, and then

797
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:22,440
she picked her up and then she
gets there until yep, and then she's

798
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:24,719
there till whenever. Wow, they're
either all the way through the next day

799
00:54:25,159 --> 00:54:30,480
or yeah, have you met her
parents? I met her mom once.

800
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:35,679
Okay, So here's the weird thing
for me with Mobile Muffin. With our

801
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:40,639
mobile. When they were younger and
into their teens, up until like last

802
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:45,119
year, pretty much she was at
my house twenty four to seven during during

803
00:54:45,199 --> 00:54:50,599
summertime, constantly taking her out to
dinner with us, taking her to breakfast

804
00:54:50,639 --> 00:54:53,079
with us, feeding her when we're
like dinner, you know, oh she

805
00:54:53,159 --> 00:54:57,599
doesn't I mean we know her diet, like, oh she Mobile Muffin doesn't

806
00:54:57,639 --> 00:55:00,599
eat. You know, she's vegan. So she can't up, so I

807
00:55:00,639 --> 00:55:02,599
mean to the point where like I'd
have to go buy vegan cheese to make

808
00:55:02,639 --> 00:55:06,800
the scrambled eggs in the morning,
Like seriously, okay, right, but

809
00:55:07,079 --> 00:55:10,159
never meeting the mom now, I
know that was insane, the weird thing.

810
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,920
Yeah, like, hey, how
about like a little venmo like,

811
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:16,559
hey, you know, thanks for
having my daughter for the whole weekend or

812
00:55:16,639 --> 00:55:20,639
the whole week right or the last
month. No, that was crazy.

813
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Yeah, that was a whole other
situation. The only way that this relates

814
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at all is just that we have
we're having a lot. She already had

815
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a like she's starting to be You're
at our house all the time. It's

816
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:34,000
great, isn't it. It is? It's so nice. I'm liking it.

817
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I'm like, you know, I
want to be that. Yeah.

818
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Anyway, all right, god kaylin
uh listen before we wrap, go follow

819
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us on social media FCOL Podcast on
our Instagram. We could really use some

820
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:51,639
more Instagram followers, yes we could. We don't really post on the other

821
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one, the old FCOL pod,
so move it over to FCOL podcast.

822
00:55:54,960 --> 00:56:00,559
Although we should have somewhere to do
like pictures sometimes. Yeah, we'll just

823
00:56:00,639 --> 00:56:05,239
incorporate that into the Instagram page like, okay, we just do we could

824
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:07,280
just it could be a mixed bagage. You just need to be clips.

825
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:09,840
I'm hooked into the one on on
Twitter by it. I don't know how

826
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that happened, but on Twitter it's
my it's not my profile anymore. It's

827
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:16,960
fco pod. But I'm never on
Twitter. I can log you into the

828
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Instagram onto. You just post postpos
whenever you want anyway Facebook. Oh and

829
00:56:22,199 --> 00:56:27,440
YouTube, we got Dylan, I
mean Patrick and Ruby wren H recapping some

830
00:56:27,519 --> 00:56:29,239
Love is Blind this week, so
that'll be on our own. Yeah,

831
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so that's on our YouTube channel,
so go check that out. But also

832
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:36,719
if you're on our Patreon at the
fifty dollars level, you get a shout

833
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:39,880
out for your business, like The
Family Skeptical, which is a podcast about

834
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:45,239
raising kids without any kind of religion. So it's nice. That's a it's

835
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:47,320
a great way, Yeah, the
great thing. And it's a fun podcast

836
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:51,079
and it's a friend of the show, so go check it out. Family

837
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Skeptical. Also, Wilma and Frida's
a restaurant in pom Springs and Palm Desert.

838
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:59,000
You learn about them, you love
them. We did we did a

839
00:56:59,079 --> 00:57:01,360
meet up there. Hi, Kelly, we miss you. Yeah, make

840
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:06,320
us some SMA. They have such
good food. I want to go there

841
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:12,639
again. And they're The desserts are
awesome. Yes, they bake their own

842
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:16,719
desserts. It's so good. Also
Basic Becky, uh just Basic Beechy dot

843
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:22,840
com or Basic Becky on Facebook.
They do mousepads and mugs and the shirt

844
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:25,440
T shirts and there they do soft
t shirts and you can design it yourself,

845
00:57:25,559 --> 00:57:30,079
put whatever you want on there.
She does all of our fans stuff.

846
00:57:30,719 --> 00:57:36,079
And last, but not least,
Adam Lerner. He's a car broker.

847
00:57:36,159 --> 00:57:40,360
He's done so many cars for f
co olp that and I constantly see

848
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:44,760
on Facebook that people are so happy
with him. He also does a lot

849
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,159
of like my personal friends, like
I just send his info to all my

850
00:57:47,239 --> 00:57:51,679
friends and he does because he can
find you a better deal than you can

851
00:57:51,719 --> 00:57:54,079
find for yourself. Yes, that
should be your first stop when you're looking

852
00:57:54,119 --> 00:57:57,599
for a car. Yeah. And
also if you want to just ask him

853
00:57:57,679 --> 00:58:00,199
questions, just just send him a
text and say like, Hey, I'm

854
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:05,079
starting to look what's out there?
Where are the deals? What should I

855
00:58:05,119 --> 00:58:07,639
be looking at? What should I
go test drive? His number is three

856
00:58:07,719 --> 00:58:10,079
one zero nine nine eight seven zero
four eight, or you can go to

857
00:58:10,159 --> 00:58:15,119
adamscott acar dot com. Yeah,
I love you guys. Thank you guys

858
00:58:15,199 --> 00:58:22,559
so much. Your parent now don't
if enough. It's good Man, Angol