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Jenny's back on the Minnesota Goodbye Yesterday. Was no fun to do the Minnesota

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Goodbye without another person here, and
I talked about how, you know what,

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we want to make it longer,
but it wasn't as much fun to

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do it by myself. So thanks
for listening to Minnesota Goodbye yesterday and we

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got Jenny back. Yay. Jenny's
byees Mac. Let's get started with some

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emails. This one starts off with
Jenny in the Morning Zoo. Now,

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I will say I have not pre
read these, so if I get into

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one that is redundant about the changes
on the show or tipping or whatever,

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I probably will just like you know, fast forward through it. Jenny in

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the Morning Zoo. I'm sure you're
sick of talking about the current changes happening

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with your show, but this is
a different perspective. My eight year old

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child listens in the mornings with me
and talks about you all often. He

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likes to ask who my favorite is. The other day he said, what

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are you going to do when Dave
leaves? Now I'm a parent, so

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I didn't react like I wanted to. I composed myself and told him how

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this show has been a routine in
my life. It's part of me,

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and I really don't know what I'll
look forward to in the morning without it.

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What I wanted to say was scream, we don't want to hear it.

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Kid, ignorance is bliss. Don't
ever leave us haha. Whitney aka

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Alicia's bestie aka staff writer, thank
you for everything. So I'm going to

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take a picture of this one.
I send out staff writer stickers the other

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day, but I might have missed
a few. So if you ever send

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in a letter, we read it
and you don't get your sticker after a

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month, let me know. Okay. Next one is from our buddy Mike.

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Good morning radio friends. Yes,
I consider you all friends, even

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though we haven't met Vaughan in person. Maybe fellow staff writers could email responses

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on this one. I'm not judging. I want to learn and grow baby

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daddy bingo. What is it about
these guys that makes a woman want to

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have sex with them? Then when
they do? How is protection not used?

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Help me learn? Thank you?
I've been listening since the beginning.

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I'm over fifty five. I qualified
for the senior discount staff writer in BFF

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MIC. I asked the same thing
to Jenny. This morning, we did

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baby Daddy bingo where women called and
said, yeah, my baby daddy wasn't

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there during delivery because he was either
drunk or on drugs with another woman,

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or incarcerated or whatever. And there
was a woman who called in she said,

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the first baby daddy was drunk,
then the same guy was incarcerated when

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she had her next baby. And
I looked at Jenny off the air afterward,

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and I said, why would somebody
have sex with choose to be with

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a guy that's such a piece of
shit? And Jenny had an answer.

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I just think that a lot of
people look for validation from others, and

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unfortunately, there's a lot of women
who look for validation in men, and

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when they're only getting it from this
one person who happens to also be a

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piece of shit, like this guy
we were just talking about, who was

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drunk then in jail. I think
that that's what keeps them going back to

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them, because for some reason they
feel listening for validation, and whether that

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comes from some kind of childhood trauma
or whatever it might be. I was

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just thinking like a similar question over
the weekend, because I was with someone

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whose sister ended up meeting up with
us, and I she drove me insane

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because she talked about this like toxic
X of hers and how she kept going

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back to him and this and this
and that, and I just sat there

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and I'm like, why what are
you doing? Just leave this douchebag?

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Like I couldn't comprehend it. And
so I was thinking the same question,

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like why do these women go back? And I think it's because and it's

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not just women. I know men
probably do it to like toxic women as

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well, or maybe you're in a
homosexual relationship, it doesn't matter. But

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I just think that sometimes you need
this validation and if you can only get

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it from a piece of shit human, you'll keep going back to them.

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Would it be fair to say that
if you have very low self esteem,

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either for something that happened in your
child childhood, or maybe you are I

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don't want to put it out there, but there might be somebody who thinks

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I'm not attractive enough to get somebody
who is a good guy. I've never

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had a date, I've never had
anybody want to have sex with me,

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So I might pick the first motherfucker
that comes along that wants to give me

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the dick, I'm trying to be
funny and gravitate towards this guy. So

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is it possible that somebody might have
such low self esteem that they will go

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out with a guy who's a convict, abuse er, drunk, gambling addict,

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whatever, and say this is the
best I can get. I better

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take it. Yes, I do
believe that is, But then why are

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they doing it. It's for some
kind of validation, I think, is

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what it comes down to. Okay, that's what But I agree that I

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think it does have to do with
low self esteem because I think when you

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are more confident in yourself, you
don't need someone else around to make you

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feel better about yourself. True,
And I think whether it's your attractive or

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you've had like parents who raised you
to think that you're pretty fucking cool,

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or whether you had parents that I
feel bad for people with bad parents.

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And I've known so many people with
bad parents, and I had such good

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parents. They were not always great, but for the most part they were

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pretty good. They were loving and
instructive and guiding and supportive and all that.

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But I think that if you had
bad parents that raise you telling you

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you're worthless, you're stupid, you're
fat, you're ugly. Then by the

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time you're eighteen, you're convinced that
you're all of those things and you go

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up with a guy who's a convict
or he's an alcoholic or whatever. So

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we're going to talk about that more
on the show because I think it's really

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interesting. Yeah, thank you,
Mike. Next one is an ad about

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entrepreneurialship because we still get spam just
like you. Is it anything worth letting

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us know about that? I already
deleted it, Jenny, I already deleted

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it. Hello Morning Show crew,
Dave, Bailey, Jenny, and Vaunt.

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She calls them Vaughn, but it's
VNT, so we'll have to clarify

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that if he gets the job on
the show. I'm a few days late,

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but I always mentally email you guys. I think forty thirty to forty

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five minutes of the Minnesota Goodbye is
wonderful. I don't want to overwork you,

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but I thoroughly enjoy the Minnesota Goodbye. I think it's really interesting why

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people enjoy the Minnesota Goodbye so much, because it's basically just you and me

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chatting and reading emails, and I
think that's I really enjoy The Minnesota Goodbye.

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Sometimes I enjoy it more than the
Morning Show because on the Morning Show,

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I know what's going to happen.
Yeah. Sometimes I mean, if

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a woman calls up and says,
you wouldn't believe what happened, I don't

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know what's going to happen. Yeah, But on the Minnesota Goodbye, it's

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such a mixed bag of emails that
are all about different stuff. Yeah.

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So it's just as fun for us
and we don't have to prepare anything.

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That's the best part that is true. Mostly it is one of my favorite

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podcasts. And she goes on to
say just what we said because it's all

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you all, and it's unedited.
You swear you're your real self and you're

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not worried about being on time.
I love the Minnesota Goodbye. Thank You.

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I really appreciate it, and that
makes sense. PS. I was

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not the radio this morning for the
first time ever voting for Jenny. Thank

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you all for doing what you do
and always making my day. They said

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I called for the first time ever
this morning and voted for me. Maybe

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on winning Song Thursday or something.
Yep, they said, I bet they

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were trying to say I was on
the radio. Oh gotcha pps no boo

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bash this year? Hashtag Bailey's birthday
bash. The girl deserves one hell of

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a party, Brittany, do you
know what I'm talking about? Bailey has

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never in her life had a birthday
party. When she was a little girl

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turned eight years old, six years
old. They didn't go to sky Zone,

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they didn't go play mini golf,
they didn't go to Moose Mountain Golf,

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they didn't go to Camp Snooping nick
Universe Valley never had a birthday party.

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On her thirtieth birthday party, it
was a little bit postpost pandemic,

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but she invited fifteen people to a
brewery. Bailey likes breweries. Four people

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showed up, including her sister and
her sister's friend who didn't even know Bailey.

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So Bailey had two friends and her
sisters show up and a stranger.

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And I kind of my heart broke
for Bailey because it's like, oh,

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we didn't have any money when I
was a kid, but we would go

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to a place called the Soda Straw
where they had hamburgers and ice cream and

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arcade games and ski ball, or
we'd go get a pizza, or I'd

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have my friends come over and my
mom would make a homemade cake. Did

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you have birthday parties? Yeah,
it was usually like a big sleepover with

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girlfriends is what we did growing up. So I'd have like six to ten

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girlfriends or something over for a sleepover. We never my mom never rented out

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of space. We didn't have money
to do stuff like that. But she'd

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have us over and she'd cook us
dinner and we'd have cake and stuff like

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that. So yeah, but I
never had like a big one. But

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I did have a couple surprise parties
planned for me in high school as well,

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which I hated with all of my
heart. I hate surprises. I

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need to be in troll at all
times days. She's kind of a control

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freak. Yeah, no, it's
not that I hate surprises. It just

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was weird. It was high school. It was a bunch of it was

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my friend inviting people I'm barely even
friends with because she wanted them there for

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herself. That was like one of
them. And the other one was I

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was dating a guy at the time
that I didn't actually really like, and

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then I was kind of for I
was in a forest, let me rephrase

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that, but he like took me
into a room to make out with me.

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And I didn't really like him anyway, so I didn't really want to

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make out with him. I get
it. You weren't forced, but he

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led you. No, it was
more my friends putting the pressure, like

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it's your birthday, you should go
make out with your boyfriend. So it

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wasn't him at all. And I
likes kissed him for half a second and

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that was the end of it,
and I was like, Okay, let's

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go back to the party. That's
funny. I Bailey said that she'd never

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had a birthday party, and I
said, when's your birthday? She like,

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September twenty third. I said,
if you are still here, we're

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still friends, We're gonna have a
fucking huge Bailey's birthday party. Yeah,

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And I think that's kind of a
funny idea. So, you know what,

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we'll see what the future holds.
I could be dead by then,

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Jenny's okay, if I were bad, Jenny, if I were to die,

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do you think the station would like, you know, like you know,

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have like a minute of silence for
me, or they'd have like a

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Dave Bryan that air is not good, That air is not good for the

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company, so I would say,
maybe not a minute of silence. I

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think that they would definitely throw you
what would be like the biggest funeral you've

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ever seen, because they would get
so many clients that sponsor it that they

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make money off of it. So
I'd say, white Bear Mitsubishi on the

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side of my coffin exactly, and
like you would think, obviously you're dead,

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so you don't understand this is happening, but you would think, like,

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oh my god, the company really
cares because they threw it together,

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this huge funeral. But really it's
because they they brought in a lot of

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money from it. So if the
station could make money off my funeral,

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they would do it. Yeah,
yeah, next email, All right,

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here we go this one. I
don't think we've read it, but let's

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see. We've gotten a lot of
emails from people sitting on airplanes lately,

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and I think because we are a
big airplane podcast target. In other words,

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you're on an airplane, you download
our podcast, and then you can

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listen to it on the airplane.
Did you know. I like, downloads

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are really kind of not even a
thing anymore because you stream. In other

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words, you get on the airplane, you buy the Wi Fi and you

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stream. Oh, I okay for
WiFi? Are you kidding? I download

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the podcast before I go on.
Yeah, I still do that, so

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does Andrew. Uh. I think
you're right about that. One airplane wi

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Fi sucks. It does balls.
It's the worst. How can they get

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away when you go I'll pick on
whatever airline, Delta Southwest, probably United

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Frontier. I don't give a shit. Every airline's Wi Fi sucks, dick.

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It just sucks, dick. Because
you get on it's like, okay.

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A lot of the time it'll say
no Wi Fi is available. It

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just doesn't work that flight. Sometimes
it'll be available but you can't quite connect

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to it. That's probably one quarter
of the time. Another quarter of the

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time. The next quarter of the
time is you connect to it, but

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it's slow as shit and you can't
get your Facebook to refresh. Yeah.

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And then or you have to like
reconnect twenty minutes later because it stopped working.

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Yeah, and it's like nine ninety
nine for the flight, and you

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don't bother to get a refund because
it's nine ninety nine. It's not worth

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the truck. Right. One quarter
of the time it works and you're like,

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oh shit, I'm streaming, I'm
playing my games, I'm looking at

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Facebook, I'm looking at Instagram,
I'm watching reels. So one quarter of

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the time it's broken, broken down, one quarter of the time you can't

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get on it, one quarter of
the time it's shit, and one quarter

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of the time it works. Yeah. I've only paid for Wi Fi one

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time, and it was because the
Game of Thrones series finale happened while I

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was on a trip and I wanted
to know what happened on that airplane ride

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back to Minneapolis, and I paid
for Wi Fi. I think it was

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twenty five bucks. Ever fucking worked. It never worked, and all I

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want sit on the plane the three
and a half hour trip back to the

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MSB watched the series finale and it
did not work. And you're right,

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you're not gonna go and deal with
like the complaint of like give me my

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twenty five dollars back, Like that's
gonna be so much more effort effort than

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the money is worse. And I
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back, you know, thirty eight
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whoever because it sucks, or at
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would lie. Okay, we're gonna
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let me open up the email again
and we'll continue. So I'm on a

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flight, figured i'd send some content
to discuss from Kirsten. Is it just

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me or has movie theater etiquette been
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the movies a lot, like six
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twenty four. Almost all my movie
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people talking loudly during the movie,
using cell phones, throwing popcorn around,

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not cleaning up after themselves, and
most egregiously, I had to get somebody

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who worked at the theater because they
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being awful. One group of teenagers
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scrolling through their tiktoks on full volume, flashing their flashlights around the theater,

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and talking like they were at home. The other two teenagers eventually started hooking

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up all the way in the theater, which is why I ended up getting

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a theater employee. The employee chastise
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the other group was mad that I
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on being annoying. This was seven
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time would be acceptable anyway. Am
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to the movies so much? Or
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Love y'all, and I'll be listening
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from kJ. I've not experienced that, but I will tell you ten years

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ago, twelve years ago, when
Chrisco worked on the show, He's like,

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Dude, I can't go to the
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they're loud, and I'm like,
what shit part of town do you go

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to? Like if you go to
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and I'm gonna just like, for
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there don't have the best home life, the best parents. Is Is it

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possible they've never learned or they talking
about somebody who goes to Eden Prairie or

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e Dinah Southdale where the kids are
so spoiled that they think they can do

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whatever they want in the movie theater. Personally, I've not had any consistent

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bad behavior ever in a movie theater. Isolated here and there, but never

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consistently. I'm not a good person
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movies. I go to like premieres
of ones that I really really want to

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see. But I just said no
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other day because I'm just not a
movie theater person. Yeah, it's just

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not my thing. But I when
I have gone, it's been nothing but

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respectful people. Maybe someone kind of
talking during a moment in the movie that

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they didn't understand and that's kind of
annoying, where they're like, hey,

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what just happened or something you overhear
that, But outside of that, nothing

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like that person described. I you
know what I want to know, Tell

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me whether you're experiencing this, because
this could be a good topic to build

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on a little bit. So thank
you, Kirsten. Let us know if

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there's something that you notice, whether
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the behavior the kid with a ring
light making a TikTok. Yeah, I'd

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be pissed too, and I would
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But if I was out numbered,
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oh, they're gonna make the movie
miserable for me, and I'm curious.

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She obviously doesn't say this. Was
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like before where they're like, let's
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still like, who carries a ring
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That's a really good point. I
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during the trailers and the previews,
if they're being, but if they shut

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up during the actual movie, I
don't care. I remember ten years ago,

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and I tell you something that I
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even though it was about ten years
ago. Carson and I would go

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to Colorado every summer. We go
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to the arcade, go hiking,
and we'd go see a movie. So

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we'd go see whatever Disney movie or
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Sitting there waiting for the movie to
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they're playing the preview, and there
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and to my left, and they
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old. And I'm talking, you
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the trailers, and I was just
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more mad. And I turned around. I said, are you two going

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to talk through the entire movie?
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no, And I said good.
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what I felt really bad about is
they weren't doing anything wrong. They were

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just talking during the trailer, and
I probably embarrassed both of them. They

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probably the rest of the movie felt
stupid, and I felt stupid, So

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I don't know. It's just always
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thought, here's a cute little couple. What if they were on their first

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date and some mean old fuck in
front of them embarrassed both of them by

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calling them out for talking during the
prayer the trailer. I bet you that

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they got married and you were brought
up in their wedding speech, like our

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first date. We were out to
the movies and this man just yell at

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us, and then they bonded over
it because they talked shit about you,

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and then they got love. So
maybe maybe look at it this way.

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You sparked a romance that maybe wouldn't
have happened had you not said something to

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that A Jenny go, I love
it all right, thank you. Let's

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try this one. Hello. I
want to send a picture of where I

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got my staff rider sticker. I
put it on my phone case with that

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back still on so I can move
it around. I just want to say,

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these stories of no one showing up
to parties literally made me cry.

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I just can't imagine. I always
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I'm forty. I don't think it'll
ever happen, right from Stacy if

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you're confused about the al right,
that comes from the old Country buffet training

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video made in the nineties where the
chef is carving meat and he's hitting.

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Then somebody's I want mine a little
bit thicker, and he goes, oh,

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right, stupid. I know it
is sad. Bailey told the story

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that you didn't hear. I don't
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she went to a girl's birthday party
and the mom and dad and the

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girl had treats and snacks and activities
and games. Bailey was the only one

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that showed up. Can you imagine
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up and they tried to have fun, but Bailey got sick and needed to

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call her mom to come pick her
up. Yeah, so the little girl

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was going to have a sleepover birthday
party with fifteen people and nobody was there.

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Oh it's fucking sad. I just
picture all the treats and the pizza

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and the doughnuts and mom bought breakfast
for the next morning, and oh,

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it's just heartbreaking. Bailey still knows
this girl and her name is Mollie.

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Oh, I want to get Molly
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note to yourself. Yeah, good
Molly on the show. That's so

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sad because I think about like when
we would plan birthday parties, usually you

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knew who was in attendance before the
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also like say they were going to
come and then they didn't show? Well,

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if they did, that's terrible,
terrible. Uh okay, let's see.

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They say, don't read this on
the podcast, just giving us some

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feedback, but I'm going to read
it anyway. Why not. The subject

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line is Bailey is great. I
know you've been getting a lot of niggat

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negativity thrown your way with all the
changes from the Morning Show, So I

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just wanted to send some positivity.
We have been getting some and I don't

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think that people realize, like some
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of it needed to happen. When
change happens, it's either out of our

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control or it needed to happen.
First off, I can absolutely understand the

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change with Drake, and they talk
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shines in this regard. She reminds
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and I also want to say I
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especially as a producer, but the
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Looking forward to seeing how y'all roll
with the changes, because you always

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do. That's our plan, roll
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stressed. And I think one of
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didn't have a good support system.
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to get Jenny more support because I'm
not going to help you. Yeah,

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I'm not going to do anything you
want me to do anything. Fuck you,

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Jenny? Oh jeez, what,
No, I'm kidding, fuck you

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Jenny, Right, Okay, it's
just fun to say it because it's so

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out of context that there's no reason
for it. Dave and the Gang.

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For the life of me, I
cannot think of something to do for my

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husband's fiftieth birthday in May. I
refuse to do a surprise party or have

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anything at our house for various reasons, and we can't travel right now.

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His dad passed away in January,
so I want this to be extra special.

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I was thinking of taking him out
to a really nice restaurant just the

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two of us. But I need
help with suggestions, plus any suggestions for

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a friend gathering as well his interest
for cars, music, food, cooking,

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and sports. Thanks for the help, Sarah, I'm not gonna be

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much help. I don't have much
for you. I mean, it's his

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fiftieth birthday and he doesn't want a
surprise or anything at the house friend gathering.

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I really have no idea. I
don't know whether he would want to

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go out to a concert or a
bar that's got a band, or take

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a cooking class. I really have
nothing. I don't have much in that

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regard. If you want some restaurant
recommendations for nicer places, A handful that

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I like. Our Macanda in Wyzetta, There's Mister Paul Supper Club in a

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Dinah, Kalita, Martina are all
in that same area as well. One

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of my favorite restaurants is San Jusan
in Minneapolis. But outside of that,

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I don't have any help with activities. I guess yeah. I was going

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to say like a little vacation in
Vegas or something. They said they can't

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travel right now and Vegas isn't for
everyone. So here's another ask. Sarah.

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I wish we could help you more, but I will say if you

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got any ideas for Sarah and her
husband turning fifty in May. No surprise

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party, nothing at their house.
They like cars, music, food,

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cooking, and sports. It is
going to be in May. So you

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know what may be very expensive tickets
to the Twins game where you go up

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in the Twins' Legends club and then
you get the free food and that's fun.

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We've done that a couple of times. So maybe that's something that you

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can do, the Twins Legends club. Because he likes sports. I've got

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nothing else. What have you got? If you've got any ideas, send

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him into Ryan Show at ca ADWB
dot com. That's the podcast let us

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know about movie theater etiquette and ideas
for the birthday. Ryan Show at KDWB dot com